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DebateSlipthe/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:49 PM
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Because generally jokes are made as actual commentary or criticism delivered with levity, or they are used to bring levity to a serious situation. If you tell jokes that disparage others at the wrong time, people might not be receptive because they think you're trying to make commentary about them or they think you are unserious in a situation or about a topic they think you should be serious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 AM
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Tbh those jokes aren't funny because they were told 20 years ago. Old news. Good comedy comes from the unexpected. Joking about women being bad drivers doesn't have the shock value it used to, lol nor is it even true given that young men have the highest car insurance rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:50 AM
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Yes because, get this, women can also have red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:13 AM
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Yeah if you started dating someone the week they got pregnant or had a one night stand, that would be reasonable cause to question if the child is yours. Many of these pregnancies occur well into a long term monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:02 PM
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Exactly. Feels good for 10 seconds and then it feels like nothing. I guess it's over stimulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:44 PM
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The only problem is if she chooses someone without a big dick. Now there's a tiny elephant in the room that she settled on something she was vocal about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:41 PM
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Love is mutual giving, an earnest desire to make your partner happy, but your condition shows that is it still transactional. someone else willing to give. They have to be worthy of it and reciprical, which requires continual assessment of them. Love over time means you can deal with uneven give and take, but everyone has a limit to where it starts to eat away at the feeling of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:36 PM
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Probably because people are getting married 10-15 years later than they used to. So as the older gen dies off, the rate has lost a 10 year spanning group to inflate it, and that's probably even more disproportionate since there are more boomers than gen-z and alpha, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:29 PM
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Depends on your kid, but I'd say kids are a 'headache' up until they are old enough to be left alone in the house while you go to the store. Anything short of that, the need for 100% supervision is a 'headache' IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:26 PM
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I would agree with that for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:03 PM
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Even though it's statistically few men, the consequences are dire if you let your guard down with the wrong stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:11 PM
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That's not gonna be popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:36 PM
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Forgiving someone multiple times for cheating is a sign of being a beta tbh. I understand why people do it, generally because they are not willing to deal with the loss and fallout, but the optics are still what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:58 PM
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Hugging a tall guy feels like getting punched in the throat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:50 PM
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Those women might also be assholes...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:47 PM
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The "just be yourself" mantra really just comes from sustainability. And it generally ties into your interests and how you express yourself. Faking too much of yourself could backfire and result in a lifestyle you don't enjoy with a partner you don't even like being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:45 PM
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Which problem for women is the same as the 'male loneliness epidemic'? From what I am thinking of, women's rights, wage gap, etc, of course men had to fix it because they were the ones in positions of power legislatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:24 PM
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Nah they aren't going to be alone, they just don't get as much, if any, casual sex. But maybe that's what you meant by screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:19 PM
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As long as their skin looks good and doesn't look leathery, yeah. I could be interested. It's highly contextual though and has to do with more than just appearance for whether I'd be attracted to an older man. In truth, they are almost always downgrades from their younger selves. It's an extreme outlier for young women to be interested in an older man who is also poor. There is always an undercurrent that dating someone older means you get access to more status, money, opportunity vs just dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:19 PM
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Yeah fair enough. Some people are plagued by things not being deeply clean. Idk if it's OCD or just anal retentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:47 PM
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Yeah refusing to be competent is a killer of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:39 PM
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Yup. A huge part of that socialization is that if people judge your cleanliness of your household, the woman is going to be judged more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:34 PM
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Lmao that's gotta be environmental. I only dust like twice a year and I have not noticed any chronic cough or sneeze. Probably depends a lot on where you live and what dust producing materials are in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:26 PM
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God I hate when managers are like "Yeah you can be really good at your job, but what else can you do?" Maybe I don't have it in me to climb the corporate ladder because I feel no compulsion to go above and beyond. I just want to do good work and have a nice time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:03 PM
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I think you’re collapsing a lot of very different behaviors into one bucket and calling all of it abuse. Lying to test your partner or setting traps like “I shouldn’t have to tell you” is absolutely unhealthy. No disagreement there. But not wanting sex because you feel hurt or disconnected isn’t 'withholding affection.' It’s just having a boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:29 PM
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It’s not punishment. If your partner feels disappointed or upset, it’s possible they don’t feel connected, and to them, sex is the last thing they want when that connection is missing. And it's vicious cycle because sex the only thing the other partner wants to feel connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:17 PM
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Get in a fight because you didn't bring your spouse the fast food they said they didn't want? Congratulations, you get a little punishment called denial of connection. Lol, I’ll bite. If your partner’s love language is gifts and you had a clear opportunity to connect with them by doing that, then a denial of connection already happened. It just wasn’t the kind you weight most heavily. Not every absence of sex after conflict is control. Sometimes two people who already feel disconnected and one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:34 PM
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Sometimes we can discuss beyond anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:28 PM
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Lol, what a raw milk drinking ass response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:26 PM
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It is not antithetical to men feeling love and care for someone. I just don't believe they are expressing love through sex. The drive is much personal than interpersonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:19 PM
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Not all brains are equal. Some are straight up chemical terrorists that fuck all your shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:16 PM
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It is interesting that some men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:11 PM
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slut encouragement is more common than slut shaming. One could argue this is an attempt at mutually assured destruction. "If everyone is a slut, then no one is, and then maybe I'll feel safe and secure about my choices." And it's also very concerted efforts to change society faster than it changes organically, which is why there's people who engage in it but possibly feel listless after their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:47 PM
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Sex is a very emotional process to men, it does have to do with self worth, but it has little to do with the person they are having sex with. It's about hierarchy and feeling worthy in the world, not a connection to that person. That person is merely a vessel for a man to try to actualize and emotionally regulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:45 PM
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A huge part of that is, despite some people's wishes for sex to be devalued in society and culture, there are still puritanical views on sex. Not everywhere all at once, but it persists. Even I feel them in my own sense of worth about sex. So external forces are a big part of the emotional feeling or regret or being used, but it could very well be cognitive dissonance that someone wants to be more... free-spirited, yet emotionally and physiologically deals has a negative reaction to the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:35 PM
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If sex were truly 'just carnal' or purely physical, it wouldn’t carry so much emotional weight. It would be something optional, enjoyable, but not something a person’s mood, self-worth, or emotional stability depends on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:19 PM
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It is interesting that some men maintain that sex is 'just pleasure' or 'just carnal' while also placing so much worth, emotional security, and sense of identity onto it. Sex is very emotional for men, but it's not actually about connecting with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:39 PM
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Maybe covid was a factor for that, but it was definitely the norm for men to be losing their virginity in the 17-20 range 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:25 PM
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Not yet, but everyone runs in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:19 PM
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To be magnetic, charismatic and attractive enough to earn a reputation for it? Pretty rare. You already need to be pretty attractive. Can't think of any fat, bald men that have that reputation. I only know tall fun-loving, low anxiety fit guys who have had such a reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:00 PM
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Those aren't friends, those are mutuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:44 PM
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When I think about how many people I'd invite to a party... the list isn't that long. Anyone I wouldn't invite to spend time with in my home is not a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:13 PM
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The way my boss emphasizes how important my choice to refer her is... it makes me think that there will be some implicit blame. So I've been trying to avoid overselling her at all. I didn't want to sabotage her, but I did not want to make it seem like she's my own pet project to take on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:23 PM
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There's something fun about the push and pull of pixel art when you work on it. I struggle with getting high contrast with mine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:04 PM
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Lmao that gal that I referred to my team and asked for the same starting pay as me apparently asked 3 separate times how big the annual bonus is. The girl has money on the mind. This girl is getting a $25k salary increase and still doesn't seem satisfied lol. Guess I don't want that reflected on me if she is fairweather and leaves the team for more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:01 PM
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That specific line is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:18 PM
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To be frank, to care enough to post anything here means you give some kind of a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:16 PM
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You could say something like "I'd like you to be you to be more than just a warm body." Maybe that's too earnest, but it's true and kind of meaningful. And if you think they need their ego stroked and not come across as dismissive you can add "I'm sure you're SUPER warm."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:28 PM
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Well uh... are you sexually interested in them in any way? Seems like quite the uphill battle if flirty banter already gives you the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:16 PM
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Tbh people still flirt and create sexual tension even if their goal is a serious relationship. Since committed relationships also involve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:14 PM
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Maybe, but those who do just treat you as an object often behave in ways that disrespectful, crosses boundaries, or is dehumanizing. You personally may have very few boundaries and wouldn't experience that friction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:32 PM
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Sometimes people want to be loved and appreciated in their entirety, and if you are consistently objectified, you may not experience people caring about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:03 PM
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Do I think traits that someone considers sexually attractive increases the odds that person will have sex with you? Yeah. I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:01 PM
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Someone absolutely slamdunked on my conservative conspiratorial NEET brother on Facebook, and it's taken everything in me to not give a thumbs up reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:04 PM
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It's a feature, not a bug, because they are legitimately okay with non-conservatives being killed. No one buys this kind of rhetoic from the left since Charlie Kirk. Yes, eye for an eye. It's only fair. Except now it's secret police sanctioned by the administration doing the murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:50 AM
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Women are attractive to me the way nature or architecture is attractive to me. I don't know if you can call that physical attraction. But in the same way I'd want to be in a beautiful space, I'd want to bask in beautiful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:28 AM
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Nah. Their constituents vote them in because of this immigration policy. There’s no incentive for them to stop it. The conservative tradeoff has always been collective punishment. If harming 100 innocent people means 1 “bad” person gets caught, that’s considered acceptable to them. That's their entire MO of taking away social programs, deporting hard working immigrants. It's a feature, not a bug, because they are legitimately okay with non-conservatives being killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:18 AM
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RIP hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:55 AM
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Nope, not sure how many Americans need to be killed by ICE for congress to do something. Surely there's a number, and we aren't close. And each one gets spun as being a would-be assassin that had officers fearing for their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:54 AM
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Women didn't intimidate to earn the right, they disrupted and argued. Men do value women, so when they are going on hunger strikes as a protest, it affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:42 PM
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BoogeyMAN See? Patriarchy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:39 PM
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Yup, my salary before compensation, because I referred her before the raises were announced. To add, I told her what what tools we use (which we used at the company she is currently at) and she is like "I don't want to make those. I just want to make powerpoints." And it's like I have to spoonfeed her, when she should be showing waaaay more eagerness to fulfill needs of this new role. So I think I'm comparing her to myself when I started. I was extremely grateful, and she's just jaded and alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:38 PM
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I just don't want to feel responsible for her or her work ethic. I gave the referral, but if she's a slacker, I don't want to feel like I have to manage her, despite being her equal in position... and salary. Somehow I was more amenable to 'managing' her if there was a clear difference between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:29 PM
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Man I referred a former coworker to my team and she asked for the same salary I make.. as of the raise I just got. I'm surprised at how much that bugs me. And I'm like... she can do the job, sure, but she has not proven she is as good as I am. I guess it stings because that would have been great leverage for a bigger raise for me but they literally just announced compensation this week. So it'll be almost a year before that conversation happens again. So now I feel this urge to sort of distance …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:05 PM
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Lol if you try to "train" it out of women, the population will collapse in a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:54 PM
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I'm interested in interesting debate. I don't necessarily feel like I am defending my identity here, whereas I think people get triggered because that is the case for them. I also think people treat it as a team sport and that's how they derive satisfaction out of participating, which, fair enough. I think it's interesting to deconstruct and find parallels in the way the world operates, to think critically about why systems and biases exist, and to consider how that affects the world as a whole.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:55 PM
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If someone didn't ACTUALLY value those aesthetics in themselves and wanted to be loved with their average body, I do think they will resent the amount of work required for a Greek god body. They will also feel insecure and vain because if they ever slip and regress, they might get abandoned. I don't think most people can sustain that unless they want it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:16 PM
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I don't think they are considering long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:07 PM
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Being someone you are not will lead to an eventual identity crisis. And make you extra resentful because you are doing things for someone else instead of yourself. And at a certain point if you are fully LARPing as something you can't actually sustain, then at some point the mask is going to drop and the reveal is going to completely put off the person you were trying to attract. Like if you are a furry and it would completely sadden you to never be a furry again, then... don't hide it from peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:06 PM
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Statistically and historically? Yeah. Abundance and scarcity makes that possible. Men have a spray and pray method of securing a mate and women have a discerning and vetting method.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:55 PM
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Dang, she dating someone she didn't even get butterflies for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:14 AM
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There is a spectrum, including very low-risk boundary crossings that can be shut down with little more harm than annoyance or discomfort. My point is that persistent boundary crossing is structurally baked into the male sexual role. It is often evaluated as “worse” because it is more likely to involve engaging people who did not consent to that interaction, to varying degrees. By contrast, the female sexual role is far more likely to be expressed in contexts where consent already exists, which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:23 PM
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What is obnoxious to you? Irritability or mania?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:15 PM
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My point is that taking risks that involve crossing boundaries is by definition non-consensual. The risk that comes from acting without knowing whether the other person wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:52 PM
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Yes, consent is not essential to the creation of life, as seen in the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:10 PM
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On an individual level, they are mutable. Huge variance is possible. But historically and at scale, men and women fall into different gendered expressions of risk taking, personality, socalization. It's probably still an endless nature vs nurture debate, but the end result still persists of genders falling in statistical categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:37 PM
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I'm not framing all male sexual desire as rape. It's on a huge spectrum, and on a portion of the spectrum is taking risks and crossing boundaries because it can result in sex. And only because of that, is women's sexuality seen as comparatively 'good', because it has a much smaller expression of crossing boundaries. This is just statistical. And as they say, statistics mean nothing to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:33 PM
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Actually, I've been seeing quite a bit of horseshoe ideology as feminism grabbles with transgenderism's reinforcement of gender roles. Definitely a lot of divides in feminism when it comes to intersectionality vs performative gender vs gender critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:06 PM
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Strawman, see above.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:05 PM
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Exactly, it's a huge spectrum, and they are not all equal but stem from the same mentality of 'crossing boundaries and taking risks may reward me with sex.'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:04 PM
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Well gender roles have existed for a long time, and definitely inform a lot of perceptions and societal morals. It's not absolute, but it has been the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:03 PM
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Male desire is more often expressed through initiation, persistence, and escalation, even in the face of ambiguity or soft rejection. Female desire is more often expressed through selectivity and signaling IOIs. Because of that asymmetry, male desire is statistically more likely to be directed at someone who is not interested, while female desire is more likely to be directed at someone who already is, especially if you are in agreement that men have higher libidos in general. That difference sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:02 PM
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No one said “man wants sex = rape.” That's just a strawman. The actual point is that male desire is more often socially rewarded for persistence, while female desire is more often shaped around filtering and safety. That difference affects how identical behaviors are interpreted. And yes, persistent male sexual desire is a spectrum that INCLUDES rape, but there's a lot of other morally 'gray' things prior to that, LMR, cat calling, not taking no for an answer, hoping to get a woman to relent. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:55 PM
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For sure, or the dad didn't really want to be a dad, and so they both resent each other, him for being trapped, and her for making a huge bodily sacrifice and being unsupported. Scenarios like that create /r/regretfulparents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:45 PM
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Pfft, bird erasure. Them birds gotta sing a beautiful serenade to attract females on top of having pretty feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:42 PM
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Sucks for people who thought they were an investment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:41 PM
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This is taking some of the mental load. A lot of people get decision fatigue from the household and job decisions, so something taking authorship of a small but persistent task like dinner is a relief. Assuming your choice doesn't cause more problems than it solves, i.e. a mess she's gotta clean up, or food that is consistently unhealthy, making her fat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:38 PM
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Yes because male sexual desire is often forcing it, persistently, on an unwanted recipient. But given the disparity of desire, whenever women want sex, the odds are it's with a willing recipient. Does that make sense? There's a reason that there's a moral perception of male vs female desire. It's abundance and scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:34 PM
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I guess as men became less masculine and less honorable, women had to pick up the traits to provide and protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:28 PM
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Of course there is also the scenario where she just is not into you and you are a free meal. That possibility exists in literally every dating interaction and does not magically explain all delayed sex as low desire or deception. "Pretending to be something she isn't" is obtuse, because we act differently with different people in our lives. We act differently with our parents, our bosses, our friends, strangers, lovers. It's not manipulative, it's a form of code switching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:23 PM
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It's not that she finds them sexier, it's that she's actually less attached to the guy she sleeps with fast and cares less about his judgment of her. For men she is both sexually AND romantically interested in, she doesn't want to fuck it up by acting desperate or easy. I think in many ways restraining oneself from sex shows poise and is demure, thus a more feminine, attractive trait to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:03 PM
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The way I see it, there's a limiting threshold to how much someone can value you for being their best sex ever. But there is no such limit on how much someone can love you for making them feel loved, seen, valued, respected, special etc. Being the best partner scratches an itch much higher on the hierarchy of needs. Both are fallible though, if someone takes you for granted or treats you as an object. Plus people don't know you are their best, only the best so far. So they can still think the gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:55 PM
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Not having sex with someone as fast as possible doesn't mean you don't sexually desire them. It can often mean you care about the optics of having sex with someone as fast as possible and are resisting the urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:50 PM
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I misread that as "Men usually love their partners and are attracted to other females." And I was like... so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:48 PM
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This is where the term morally gray comes from. Comes down to motivations and intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:52 PM
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I am quite sure men fall victim to the "grass is greener" and leave relationships. If anyone was unhappy in a relationship and truly believed there was a better option out there or right in front of them, they will be tempted to take it. It's just not usually that black and white and there are other inhibitors like sunk cost, fear of destitution, fear of loss and loneliness etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:52 PM
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New drag queen name I just thought of Tomi Yulovmi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:58 AM
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Sex is pedestrian, celibacy is enlightenment. Hence the reverence we have for monks. They are much more pure in their virtues, unadulterated by motivations of hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:34 PM
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The bar of being more present than their own fathers were... still puts the bar low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:27 PM
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People will point to there being more aspiring adoptive parents than there are white babies for them to adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:25 PM
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That is gossip lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:36 AM
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I prefer some build up. A single date isn't nearly enough anticipation. I want to be squirming over how much I want that person. That and, one date just feels like a convenience, a second date feels intentional. So uh... at least the second. Unless it was someone I knew for weeks or months prior to the first date, and I already was in deep limerence for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:35 AM
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Clarity is helpful. People say 'dating' when referring to exclusive relationships too. It's vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:32 AM
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I don't think they'd complain, I think they'd be vindicated lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:29 AM
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Money money money money. If you are white in a foreign country, there's probably a lot of assumptions being made about you and how much money you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:20 AM
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It's not a reward for men, women want to have sex with men they are attracted to. They just want security that the dude won't fuck off after they have sex, that they want the same things beyond sex, and they don't want him to turn out to be someone they regret having met at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:18 AM
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It probably does if a guy is working full time with a demanding schedule and takes a more passive approach to dating at that point in his life. He might be too busy to be cold messaging on OLD all the time, doing first dates over and over, and thus doesn't mind the courting period for awhile because it gives that girlfriend-lite experience in between seeing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:14 AM
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It's catering to generations of patriarchal views on women and sex. Puritanical culture did not evaporate, and it ebbs and flows with each generation, but there is always a prevailing sentiment that a woman having sex quickly or frequently is a whore, slut, "not one you take home to mama." Some people ignore it, and ultimately it doesn't infringe on their lifestyle and majority of relationships, but they still experience the judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:09 AM
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Perhaps a different age bracket than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:04 AM
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Yeah, it's honestly a vulnerable feeling to be attracted to someone. It's so easy to make a fool of myself for doing too much, and being eager for their approval with sex is one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:00 AM
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If I was supposed to be with him, he would have been better at assuaging those fears instead of acting like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:50 AM
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Doesn't mean I'm not sexually attracted. It means that I see more cons than pros to having sex on the first date. And most of that is fear of regret, fear of optics and judgment, fear of being too easy and desperate. I'm sure the exception is if I had a first date with someone, but I had known them for months and months prior to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:00 AM
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Why stare at her if you aren't going to talk to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:18 PM
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You merely adopted the cringe. I was born in it, molded by it. Basically, ain't no one cringe these days except the people who would have ended up on /r/cringe. And that's a person who... is a few sandwiches short of a picnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:22 AM
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I think some people just come to this subreddit completely pissed off and go on downvoting sprees because it feels like a small win for them lol. Really you are doing your part in providing them that small scant catharsis. Very philanthropist of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:18 AM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:17 AM
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Whelp, at least you can feel good when you win the battle for being the most boring. That'll really show 'em. I know some people feel indignant about 'performing' as interesting or fun loving, but I personally find satisfaction in being witty and clever and perceptive... so "Hey" sucks. Not to mention that shit PMO because people do that shit at work instead of just saying what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:14 AM
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Well it used to be a subreddit lmao. So in that sense it had a community.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:11 AM
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Yup snark is like 90% women. And it's all about tearing someone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:11 AM
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Meeeow. You keep calling your tone neutral, but your replies are full of little personal jabs. Claiming I'm saddled with issues and I'd benefit from fixing myself. Nothing neutral bout that. Pointing out where your language reads dramatic or smug isn’t the same thing as feeling attacked by the logic. I agreed the reasoning was fine. Lmao and now you're just doubling down on the smugness. Or your ChatGPT. Can't tell which one I'm talking to at this point, since you both write the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:20 AM
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Lol, it's dramatic, snide, scolding, mocking, smug: Alright — I’m answering your actual question, not skirting it, not moral-lecturing… Smug You handed me a forced-choice trolley-problem-on-water… Dramatic mockery Not because he’s “better.” Not because bipolar is disqualifying. Not because spanking is worse or food issues are trivial. Chastising/scolding You've deffo trained your ChatGPT to be catty and smug lol. I don't take issue with the logic at all, I'm just noticing the tone of it. And iro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:45 PM
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Man you have a catty GPT lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:06 PM
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Yeah people can't seem to spot their own leading questions. We actually used to have a rule about that here to not have leading questions in the post titles. People break the rule a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:01 PM
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The machine tells you about you. It has contextual data about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:57 PM
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Yes, free from obligation, but at the expense of any emotional needs that don't get fulfilled by friends or family. People like getting coupled up though, for the needs it fulfils, and the satisfaction and security of having someone to share life with. And the logistical ease of having someone else to raise your shared children with, or someone who provides for you when you cannot provide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:14 PM
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Jacob Elordi might be the sub 30 sex symbol. But yeah, there's no real brat pack of hot men like there were in previous generations. But tbh I have only seen Elordi as a villain, so I find him to be unsettling at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:10 PM
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Henry Cavill is the new Brad Pitt as far as sex symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:38 PM
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Lol are 21+ BMI women lining up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:51 AM
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I don't know man. Some men work so god damn hard to find the opportunities to cheat. It's quite the spectrum. Passive dread is being attractive to other people, but there's so much more than goes into it with cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:47 AM
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You can feel ambitious, but pragmatically you know that adding an income to yours makes it... bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:38 PM
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Why would I want to be with someone I feel none of those things for? Ambition and a desire for family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:54 PM
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People don't change easily. This is what I said. There is a difference between expecting someone to transform their hobbies, personality or lifestyle vs honoring the most basic element of monogamy, which is not having sex with other people. Everything beyond that becomes a push and pull to reshape someone into a version of themselves they never claimed to be, even though you chose to date them based on who they already were. Boundaries are about the structure of the relationship. Trying to redes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:50 PM
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What relationship did you ask for and they agreed to? Monogamy? Are all promisciuous women also liars and cheaters? Or do they have a history of having sex without betraying long term partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:42 PM
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Yes that's the one thing that defines monogamy. Exclusivity. Everyone has different degrees to which they expect exclusivity, the only one 'by default' is to not have romantic and sexual relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:40 PM
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It's not about fairness. If you date someone because you want them to change, you're just taking a risk. People don't change easily. You date them for potential, then you could end up disappointed. You gotta be clear what you want from them, and it's up to them to rise to that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:33 PM
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You're talking about baseline attraction. But baseline attraction isn't lust. Lust for women is reactive to more than just whether a guy is their type. It's the flirting, confidence, scent, fitted clothes, competence, the way he carries himself, the way he touches her, the way he looks at her, the timing, the energy he brings into the room. It's not a binary for women. A lot of women have experienced a guy going from mildly interesting to intensely desirable because of how he interacts with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:29 PM
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Everyone wants to feel special, no one wants to be judged. But everyone gets defensive when they are afraid of being abandoned. And men's lust can seem so indiscriminate that of course it doesn't make women feel special, and it makes women feel like they could be abandoned on account of the indiscriminate lust men have. I don't know if women's desire for love inspires the same kind of fear of abandonment that men's lust does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:21 PM
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I think you're imagining a woman 'begging' you to lust after her. Mobjack is talking about implicit behaviors and intentional efforts on your part to make yourself as appealing as possible. You're gonna lust after a woman who takes care of herself, dresses nice, isn't fat etc, isn't annoying or disgusting... That same woman, but with the veneer of homelessness and meth would probably not inspire lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:19 PM
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Not sure if it's double standards, or men just lack standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:17 PM
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Some men are gay for women. Also maybe someone like John Buttfinger wants to change his last name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:14 PM
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That's the economy. Gone are the days of raising a family on a single income. Immigrants do it because they are used to destitution and likely don't pay for birth control or have a religious impetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:18 PM
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Yeah that's what /r/TheRedPill was supposed to be. Seemed like successful men weren't really good at translating their success. In fact, some of them profited off of you having to constantly come back for more advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:16 PM
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Yup the existence of bitcoin and stocks renders this a no-brainer. If you're too old for bitcoin? Invest in Apple, Disney, Nvidia, Microsoft, the whole deal. We can all be Biff from Back to the Future
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:54 AM
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Well sorry I just feel taken advantage of when I go to Chipotle and they want a tip. The 60 seconds of work they did is worth 10% at best. Like fast casual and takeout restaurants discovered over covid that you can skim your customers for more money for no reason other than social impetus to not look like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:48 AM
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My server friend said that if she made $100k a year she would tip like 30-40% on every meal and drink. And I'm over here annoyed that they don't list 10% anymore as an option lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:12 PM
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It would be so baffling and incongruent with their character that I'd doubt everything I knew about them. We'd need some couples therapy or radical honesty to have any hope in saving the marriage. My gut reaction is that I'd want a hall pass to make it even, not out of revenge but for parity. But I'm sure that never helps. Now I'm really curious to read about stories on reddit where people tried that after their partner cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:19 PM
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You might think this, but from the woman's perspective, having NSA sex means she doesn't care what your opinion of her is. The courting process is her trying to be as appealing as possible (which for many men means... not acting loose.) The other element is that women also enjoy the anticipation, the sexual tension, the build up. So savoring each step is a more enjoyable experience vs just getting to PIV as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:11 PM
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Look out the window or somethin'. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:55 AM
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I think job matters more than college degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:54 AM
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Probably paired with a compliment. "Are those natural? They look amazing." And if they are fake, then you would say, "Well worth it, they turned out great."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:35 PM
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The top 40 is dominated by Taylor Swift's whole album. I just looked it up today because I'm going to a skate rink that said the music will be 'top 40 pop'. Eugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:23 PM
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LASIK? I was so satisfied with my results, that I would go through with it every year if that's what it took to maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:22 PM
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True, but the forever alone guys would still settle for this... they just haven't been given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:21 PM
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Tiny waist. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:19 PM
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Do you feel genuine excitement when anyone in your life announces they are having a baby? I have yet to have that reaction. Granted I don't even get excited when people get engaged, lol idgaf until I get a wedding invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:18 PM
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You want kids? You worried that squeezing out a couple of pups will expand your waistline and ribcage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:19 AM
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Probably for the same reason a lot of people celebrate Christmas in the US nondenominationally. It's an iconic consumer holiday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:19 AM
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Lol do they secretly hate games?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:08 PM
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Hm. Then what feels like a challenge to your competitive nature, but not one that relies on you having low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:06 PM
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Yeah that's the implication of posting anything on social media. Performance. I'd argue you're performing right now, despite being anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:05 PM
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If a man is competitive, does that mean negging would be really effective on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:02 PM
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Do you mean just waistbanding your boner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:40 PM
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When it comes to cold approaching or sending IOIs, I'd say the majority of women are very risk averse. Think of all the things women do on tinder dates to make sure they are safe. Sharing locations, neutral meeting places.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:18 PM
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It's a Schrodinger's cat situation. They could be, but being around another woman suggests they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:11 PM
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I don't think you'd care about her if she 'looked' 58 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:08 PM
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You're perceived as safer to approach and less desperate if you're around women. You also can get incidentally acknowledged by people who were originally interacting with the women around you. Especially if those women are attractive, they could be the ones turning heads first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:04 PM
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I have no sympathy for him. Cheating is social suicide, and this reaction of people seeing malice in all your past actions is a consequence of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:26 PM
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Ah if she wasn't there, then those girls were just doing it for their own validations, trying to prove they had the right intuition about him etc. Which I also find somewhat understandable. If someone gets exposed for doing selfish asshole betrayal shit, you start looking to see if there were patterns or motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:09 PM
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Imagine how much they talked behind his back and already looked down on him before he cheated in the first place. They probably didn't. You probably would have heard it. Right now they are venting and disparaging him to try to make it hurt less. Makes perfect sense. Not gonna feel as much loss if you convince yourself you were settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:00 PM
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Cooperation is. We are incentivized to do so because we interact with each other over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:21 PM
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If you're not confident in getting hookups, it's gonna be hard to cheat. Plus, if you're with a paranoid girl, she's gonna suspect you and be rifling through your shit and expose you before you ever get a change to secure a hook up. I just find the emotional turmoil and reputation risk too great to be a serial cheater. And of course, things don't go as you plan, so there could be a number of financial and social entanglements that make all of this much messier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:35 PM
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Lol those are some pretty wide ranges. 5 years is normal, average. 17 year age gap is not common. And of course, it's an even smaller percentage that has nothing to do with financial incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:30 PM
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It's just not long term thinking. So what even is the end goal here? Date women for a month or two, cheat on her, ad nauseum? Until you feel satisfied and find a woman that you... will marry and not cheat on? Hoping no one in your life found out about your behavior and could compromise this desired relationship? Just seems like bad OPSEC. You don't even know what 'experience' you are getting. Sounds very abstract and goalless. More over, it sounds like by doing this you are actually getting an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:24 PM
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I mean two things are true. That luxuries have become cheaper, and people are more likely to impulsively spend on luxuries and convivences vs 50 years ago. But also it is mathematically twice as hard to buy a house on the median household income vs 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:19 PM
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Grandma better be blowin' if she wants that paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:17 PM
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Yeah, if you are in a committed relationship. Those come with an intermingling of social circles that can find out about you cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:17 PM
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No, probably not worth ruining your reputation just because you had FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:14 PM
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Basically asking if people would prefer to never work again for the rest of their lives... at the expense of having a nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:10 PM
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Ever since Charlie Kirk died, my aunt has been real uppity on Facebook. Now shes's posting this today. "I’m so tired of hearing “Our grandparents could buy a house on one salary, but now we can’t even afford rent on two!” Yeah, because Grandma wasn’t blowin’ half her paycheck on $12 iced coffee and avocado toast, that’s why!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:08 PM
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Another martyr that was executed in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:07 PM
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Okay that is very morally consistent. But there is one more. George Floyd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:00 PM
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Yeah but did you have that same concern when people were celebrating the shooting of the United Healthcare CEO? It seemed like everyone was overwhelmingly cool with it because everyone had biases against healthcare, billionaires or both. And I have to wonder what the right's reaction would have been if Hasan Piker was murdered. I can imagine even Trump saying, "Maybe he shouldn't have done XYZ." Like I am disappointed in the left for being incapable of STFU. For making a show of how much apathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:54 PM
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Sure fair. But it's a 'don't bite the hand that feeds thing'. Men seem to dismiss and brush off women IRL shit talking male sexuality. The women you are sexually interested in may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:13 PM
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Probably when Mrs Drgree was still here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:04 PM
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Tight buttoned up shirt or polo. Caveat is you have to have a slender waist, big arms and shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:01 PM
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Do you mean... black pill? Because red pill still tries, it's black pill that says it's hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:01 PM
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Man in Utah is caught by minister? Because conservatives tend to be religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:55 PM
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Man it doesn't even matter who the assassin was. When it of course comes out that he's a conservative, it won't give pause because the right can point to the left's reaction to his death and say "Look how many leftists reveled in his death or reveled in their own apathy." That was a massive L that millions and millions of people needed to project their glee or disdain for empathy for the situation and lash out instead of STFU for a few days until the shooter was caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:52 PM
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I think the only good thing to come of out of this assassination would be gun regulation. It's too easy to get a gun. We need education, exams, training, mental and medical health evaluations, and renewals. If you really feel like a gun is needed to protect yourself, you need to prove you are 'the good guy with the gun'. There's too many god damn guns in our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:45 PM
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Ope seeing this post about his face visibly drooping, maybe he did have a stroke and couldn't record the video. Oh man, they can completely Weekend at Bernie the president with AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:31 PM
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It does look weird and stiff. But it does look like there is a blue screen reflected in the background, and a person in the reflection. But maybe that's just from all the other videos of Trump the AI learned from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:42 PM
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I'm just here hoping that a liberal figure can make some positive political or culture change instead of dancing on his grave or rubbing people's noses in it. That's the one thing the left lacks, unification. And we have extremists on the left saying revolution is the only option, you can't be tolerant of the intolerant, you can't reason with nazis. So they make it clear that they lack empathy for the intolerant, they do believe violence is the only way to make progress. And of course we got ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:38 PM
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Any possibility is likely, but none of that colors my perception of what happened until actual facts come to light.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:15 PM
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It's allll over my Instagram... but I'm a liberal so I'm fed liberal content, and within the comments of nearly any liberal video about this, there's a lot of people saying this is karma and deserved, that he was a bad person and the world is better without him. That's celebration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:57 PM
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The only one I have seen floating around is that this was orchestrated to draw attention away from Trump and the Epstein files, to unify his base that was starting to divide based on their opinions of pedophilia. But isn't it just as likely that it's a lone wolf who disagreed with Kirk's politics? If the shooter never gets caught I'd be more inclined to think it's a conspiracy, because we live in a surveillance state so there's footage to be found of this person, and if they never find it, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:52 PM
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Hard to know until they catch the suspect. Until then, it is conveniently just 'their' fault. Insert whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:40 PM
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To be honest, I would only get the ick if he handled himself worse than I did under pressure. Which is such a low bar, my brain shuts down, I can't think. So it's probably not fair, but if he can't react and just stands there, even if it means surrendering items to supplicate the robbers, I'd feel like my partner can't protect either of us. That's indeed a visceral feeling that when it comes down to life or death, you can't trust your own partner. And maybe he'd feel the same about me. But maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:36 PM
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I am all powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:26 PM
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I think the irony is palpable, but anyone who says it is karma or that he deserved it is in a small part celebrating his death. Additionally, many people who usually care about gun violence care more about being smug than actually showing concern for gun violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:24 PM
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I hope I'd be worth many goats for my hand in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:17 PM
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Just saw my Facebook friend has her wedding anniversary on 9/11/2023. Bit of a yikes honestly. Hope they got a discounted rate for choosing that auspicious date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:16 PM
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Would you even care if the files implicated Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:45 PM
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I don't think men date women based on their 'potential'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:20 PM
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I thought surrogacy was double that. Looking into it, the surrogate makes between $40k and $80k, but the agency makes between $25k and $60k, and then the cost of the IVF is separate from both of those and is an additional $15k to $25k.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:18 PM
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I'm not looking for equal, I'm looking for fair. When I made less, I paid fewer bills. Now that I make the same, it's even. But we do not keep track of who pays what. There is no tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:07 PM
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It's weird to me that Trump's announcement of his death emphasizes that Kirk has a BEAUTIFUL wife. Like there's a tone deafness to being like, "The man is dead, but hoo boy what a nice piece of ass."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:49 PM
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It's crazy that Minnesota politicians were assassinated earlier this year, yet no doubt this will have WAY more impact because it was done in the light of day, in a crowd, with multiple video angles. I am usually not very dramatic about the state of the country, but this shooting is going to cause more violence. We are already in a fucked up state with the national guard being deployed to our own cities, people being kidnapped in unmarked vans and shipped out of the country... The president is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:55 PM
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No... I don't have that many versions of the same product.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:53 AM
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No he'd just have his own autonomy and conviction and wouldn't desperately say or do whatever I wanted just to keep access. Someone who is not compelled to be with you but chooses to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:32 PM
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Not a sycophant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:09 PM
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That would result in more children then they can realistically care for. So biologically it makes sense for women to have limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:54 PM
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Because if they cheat they feel like they can explore and scratch that itch without destabilizing their entire life to do it. Having their cake and eating it too. And leaving your wife or husband of 18 years to try out some strange doesn't often leave the door open for reconciliation. There's a lot of resentment to being abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:50 PM
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Other men do manage to form and sustain deep friendships, both with other men and sometimes women, and even if they lack the depth of some female-female relationships, the breadth and larger network of male-male relationships compensates. That shows it’s possible within the same societal conditions. I think there is a deficiency there, because there's a level of showing up and being attentive as a friend that allows many men to have flourishing friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:46 PM
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Eh fair enough. It's never that clean of a break though. People feel compelled to stay longer because they don't like the optics of ending a long relationship just because they want to try something new. So people cheat. But they also do that well before the kids move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:39 PM
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So if you have the expectation of marriage ending, what amount of time is worth it to justify getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:51 PM
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I do, it's a somewhat new thing in my adult life, but it's nice to have friends who are open to that form of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:48 PM
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Some women want kids and a nuclear family. The women who enjoy their lives without a man either already have kids, and got divorced, or don't want kids. Financially it is easier to live with someone. As far as why you'd choose living with a partner instead of just roommates, It's convenient to live with someone you love, and are attracted to, and get your emotional needs fulfilled by. It sounds reductive, but I'm trying to break it down so that it makes more sense to someone who doesn't already …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:41 PM
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Because in your scenario there is no more status to get from a man. You purported that the woman is a supreme empress. In reality, a lot of women have a lot of security to gain by choosing a man with status, influence or wealth. And even though that is the case for many women, not all women have a prime operative of finding a man with status. Some women are self sufficient and don't need the extra security.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:00 PM
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I just need one partner. Yeah in theory I'd pick a husband I respect, not a sycophant. I'd probably already have plenty of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:57 PM
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If I'm a supreme empress, I don't need to marry or date someone for more power. So I'd just be choosing someone I enjoy the company of. Probably someone who is exceptionally charismatic. I'm sure if you are a supreme anything you start to think everyone is beneath you... Kind of in the name. And people tend to reinforce the dynamic because they will twist themselves into whatever you want because they want to benefit from your power and influence. So the goal would be to find a partner who is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:35 PM
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No you'd probably not want to spend time around people who think you are too ugly to love. They'd be a reminder of it because they said it to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:27 PM
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I have no idea what kind of man that would result in. Maybe I'd pay for a therapist to vet men. They have to go through like a dozen sessions with a therapist so then I know exactly what their deep seated flaws are that usually come out a year or two into a relationship. I don't expect perfection, but I would filter to find men whose flaws don't deeply conflict with my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:22 PM
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Eh. I probably wouldn't bring her around my friends and family. If she's extremely open about what she does, I wouldn't want to deal with my dad trying to find my friends OnlyFans or some shit. But if she had a 'cover' job that she tells people it would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:28 AM
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I already explained a downside. Encouraging women into the workforce without rebalancing domestic expectations created the double burden of paid and unpaid labor. That's capitalism, consumerism, feminism, recessions, wage stagnation, inflation, all bundled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:23 AM
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Industrialization, automation, urbanization, capitalism, economies of scale, consumerism, wage stagnation, inflation, wars, globalization, individualism, medical advancement, recessions, depressions, the internet, social media, cell phones... All this contributes to the negative outcomes you are trying to identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:14 PM
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It's a wary choice. I don't think stay-at-home moms plan for their husband to divorce them in the future thus requiring them to work to support themselves. Yet divorce happens. The feminist agenda is saying that it is a huge risk to depend on someone financially and forsake your own ability to support yourself. People will gamble, but it should be done with eyes wide open.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:07 PM
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Women being empowered to enter the workforce didn't come with restructuring household expectations. Women still do more housework. Not sure if that's because of feminism empowering women to do it all or because of sexist thinking that it's women's work. Any other 'negative' outcomes can't be reduced to feminism alone as the cause. Too many things have changed in the last 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:01 PM
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It's the volume.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:05 PM
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I definitely lean more sex negative. It's both the physical disgust of higher STD risks and just the sheer volume of flesh being exchanged as well as the objectification and desperation that goes along with needing to pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:39 PM
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No, not equally, because civilian women haven't rubbed genitals with as many people at the prostitutes Johns visit. But I certainly still think a fuckboy is gross in his own right, but not to the same degree as a John.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:12 AM
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People aren’t pulling this reaction out of thin air. It comes from seeing how often age gaps are tied to exploitation, unhealthy obsession, and a loss of innocence. It comes from their own experiences with all of it. When people then appeal to biology or fertility, it just reinforces the idea that women are being reduced to vessels. It makes sense that this sparks a deep, subconscious disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:45 PM
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Sounds like gen Z too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:41 PM
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No the prostitution and Johns is just another visceral disgust thing. Dipping your wick in that well is just gross. And men should understand this well because they too have a visceral reaction to the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:37 PM
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Nah it could just be the case that they go after mid but young women who see it as an opportunity to skip ahead in life by having a wealthier partner. Very little to do with looks. I mean look at all the bald fat 40 year olds who still pull younger women. It's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:34 PM
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I'm realizing the visceral disgust women feel at age gaps is probably similar to the visceral disgust men feel at women's high body count. The rest is just spinning the hamster wheel to see if logic can justify the feeling you already had. And then there's probably people who are disgusted by both. Puritans unite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 AM
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Yeah you're absolutely correct, and that does kind of prove my point... because the biology argument goes a lot younger than 29...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:19 AM
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Ugh and the other thing is skin. Older men get wrinkly chest skin from not using sunscreen, and it reminds me of my dad and gives me crazy ick. the girl is mid and can’t compete with the more attractive girls her own age, This is an interesting thought as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:16 AM
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Visceral disgust isn’t the exact same as logical reasoning. It’s a reflex, not an argument. What’s really being reacted to isn’t the person’s actual age, it’s the idea of youth itself being sought out. So you're trying to logic your way into people's approval when generally the only 'logic' being applied is that if someone likes them young... they'll like them even younger... and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:12 AM
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You don't know why it triggers people to take their claims and refute it with "WELL yOu'Re jUsT JeAlOus" Bad faith triggers people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:03 AM
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Women just remember what it was like to be preyed on by older men. It's a visceral disgust seeing their cohorts end up doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:59 AM
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Well you are holding others to a standard of morality, I want to know if you practice the same morals, or if you are hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:32 PM
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What do you want in a partner? Does it have anything to do with being enjoyable to be around? What makes someone, in your opinion, enjoyable to be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:24 PM
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I'm wondering what you find in women that is enjoyable to be around. Are you clinging to traditional gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:22 PM
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You want someone to enjoy your company. That's the whole point of romantic relationships. So... be enjoyable. That's it. I don't know what you feel compelled to mask, but if you aren't fun to be around... that's really all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:19 PM
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Indeed. Shyness isn't the only barrier. But it's one that guarantees lost opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:32 AM
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For being the most villainized person in the trans community, 'TERFy' sounds quite underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:24 PM
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I still have no idea what tf JK Rowling did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:18 AM
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I don't browse the app store just to see what's hot lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:50 PM
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For sure, social anxiety affects lots of people and can change over time with effort or exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:59 PM
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Being charismatic isn't the opposite of shy. Outgoing is the opposite of shy, doesn't guarantee you are smooth and received well, just means you aren't avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:58 PM
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Because those women are addicted to drugs... People become petty thieves just to keep their drug habits going. I don't think that's a metric of what men or women actually want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:52 PM
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I don't know any shy men that stopped being shy. Friends, exposure therapy, getting older, feeling competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:48 PM
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Problem is they begrudgingly opt out, or think that being extremely vocal about it will make people come crawling out of FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:47 PM
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Uh oh he better hurry up and settle down before people figure him out!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:39 PM
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Crazy how I've never heard of this app until these last two posts. Is this an ad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:37 PM
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It's not that dramatic. If women pursue men, the women become an easy lay of opportunity for that man. Doesn't have to be abusive, just emotionally uninvested in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:31 PM
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Probably depends on sunk cost. Bird in the hand, two in the bush and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:28 PM
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🍪 Over half of men continue to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:13 PM
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What is your philosophy on money?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:34 PM
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How often does a homebody leave the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:14 PM
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Outsourcing emotional processing to partners or friends instead of internalizing it This isn't emotional intelligence, this is repression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:14 PM
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Lol and by the end of the day they will know nothing about each other. Male friendships are based on vibes. Not a shared interest in each other's thoughts and lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:13 PM
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So many em dashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:11 PM
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Not sure why they'd bother posting here when there are actual adultery subreddits that might empathize with them. That makes it seem like bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:12 PM
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There's nothing more selfish than asking for scantily clad photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:10 PM
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I think a lot of cheating happens within the context of some sort of a moral double bind. Expand on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:08 PM
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Yeah but you even talking about it online is terrible OPSEC. You say you want him to stay ignorant but admissions of you cheating are now all over your browser history... Taking it to your grave is a much more serious, unindulgent, eternally paranoid task that I don't think you're prepared for. You need to vent, you need catharsis. So he's gonna find out eventually because you can't keep it bottled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:04 PM
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Yes and choosing your desire over their dignity, health, and wellbeing suggests that there is a shallow limit to the depth of your love. You aren't as in love as you purport to be. It is what it is, people fall out of love, and you might be in denial about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:26 PM
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Any sex for pleasure is degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:22 PM
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Hell yeah brother. Up top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:19 PM
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They might be, just not with that person they are cheating on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:18 PM
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I wouldn't say... very much. Unless he consented to non-monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:17 PM
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Men being considered less attractive is because they lack aesthetic. Like goth and emo dudes fuck. Because they appeal to something instead of just being as generic as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:16 PM
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You might have a point if men stopped using porn once in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:13 PM
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Lmao. Do men consider women who look like absolute dogs to be wife material? Or do both genders only reserve 'husband' or 'wife' material for people they are actually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:09 PM
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Guys here think women dislike “husband material” men because they themselves dislike “wife material” women. Oh now that's a good line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:05 PM
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If people want to stop prioritizing dating simply because they don't want to put in the effort to change themselves or their situation... that's fine. That's their choice. As long as they stfu they can secretly yearn for whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:52 PM
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It's no different than celebrity worship, just with a dose of parasocial connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:31 PM
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I'm really digging standing out in the rain. It's like a free water park, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:30 PM
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Lol men have turned it into a Buzzfeed quiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:18 AM
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Alpha, Beta, Sigma talk is just Astrology for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:06 AM
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Building or buying an ass is just a new marker of luxury. Building an ass brings you closer to an hourglass if you didn't have it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:54 PM
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Yes, best not to look inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:52 PM
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If only I could have known you chase Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:06 PM
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Are average men attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:04 PM
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Is this guy average? What is his rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:00 PM
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Yes that's how attraction works for both genders. The 'average' man can be attractive however.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:58 PM
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I'm imagining that TikTok captured even the men who touted to not be on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:06 PM
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Sure, attractive men are rare and get more attention, just like attractive women. Some women do engage in casual sex, have lots of options, and prefer rare, hot men in those contexts. Novelty and physical attraction can be powerful. But that doesn’t mean women drop all standards or that anything meaningful usually comes from it. What you're describing is surface-level behavior that plays out in specific situations, not a universal truth about women or what they actually want long term. A hot guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:22 PM
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This has me pontificating on sunk cost fallacy. Is it entirely a fallacy? Like if you leave a relationship of 20 years, you lose more than just the relationship. So many other relationships with friends and in-law family are now strained or severed. You lose your living arrangements, some amount of wealth, you lose a second income, lose a lot of plans and security for the future, if you have kids you lose the nuclear family etc. It probably takes a long ass time to recover all those things, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:09 PM
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Oh for sure. My algorithm is full of people calling out relationship dynamics or illustrating weaponized incompetence. Because that shit is ragebait for women and gets engagement. Similar to this subreddit. The discourse gets people heated, and they like feeling that way, regardless of if it's representative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:04 PM
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Women are more notorious for being addicted to their phones Maybe pre-2020. But social media has changed. TikTok, YouTube shorts, etc. Men consume from their phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:01 PM
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Nah see now Blue Prince is the rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:35 AM
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I was juuust reading an article about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:32 AM
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I wanna go to Bangkok this year. 🍜🍖☕
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:42 AM
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Drinking alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:41 AM
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Yeah it's pretty topical for straight white women to have a problem with this phrasing during pride month. Really taking a W and turning it into an L with all the infighting over words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:27 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:16 AM
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"The girls are fighting" in reference to Trump and Elon apparently makes some women upset. They think it's misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:11 AM
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You should always strive for above average. But at some point you gotta question the actual value of luxuries vs the time it takes you to make the money to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 AM
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Where do you have good debates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:05 AM
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It is satisfying to see the right cannibalize itself in the way the left does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:17 PM
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I'm learning gen Z and gen alpha like/don't care about staged videos are presented as real. They don't think it makes something less funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:03 PM
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Wonder how that'll effect the car market. A mad dash for people to buy before the credit expires. Tbh the new car credit was kind of a wash because the cars usually lose $7500 in value the second they drive off the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:41 PM
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RIP, I was gonna buy an EV this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:29 PM
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Is Elon doing a stunt? Is he trying to publicly separate himself from Trump, but behind closed doors they are still in bed with each other? Seems like he's just being performative because he doesn't like that everyone hates him and Tesla now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:13 PM
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That's... RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:49 PM
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I should hope people marry someone they consider attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:49 PM
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It's funny that my only dilemma for pirating things is that they won't have achievements on the game...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:46 PM
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Nope, you can conceal quite a lot. SMV is all about perception, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:45 PM
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Since women are increasingly free :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:57 PM
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Which renders this thread pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:12 PM
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Women do be attracted to personality. Sounds boring and frustrating to spend time with someone who you don't actually get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:21 PM
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Some of the highest engagers just created their own niche discords and stopped using the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:59 PM
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I quite literally do not want to know how the sausage is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:58 PM
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They kidnap kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:57 PM
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It can, but it also can shine through in 20 minutes of conversation to the point where you start getting a crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:26 PM
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He better like me if he's flirting with me. He may not know our compatibility and values, but if he's flirting with me it's obviously only meaningful if he is attracted to me and likes my personality. How long does that take for him to decide? Maybe like 20 minutes. Vetting is something entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:20 PM
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Yeah it's uh... going from illegal to... legal. Bit of a vibe shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:34 AM
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This is probably going too far down whatever 'doomsday' scenario is being tossed around here, but I think the point is if men evaporated today, women could still procreate using leftover sperm. But if women evaporated, humanity would just die off. So that lack of procreation parity still colors perception of which needs the other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:07 AM
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Doesn't matter if it's less efficient. Anything would be less efficient if personnel was cut in half and replaced by people with zero experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:59 AM
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Do you think women can do that? If they had to. Same as if all the white collar men who spend time on reddit would have to figure out how to mine the coal and run the power lines without the guidance of the experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:46 AM
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I don't think it's misanthropy. I think society has shifted towards individualism and agency of expression in a culture that no longer demands constant propriety and politeness. People aren’t sent to finishing school to learn how to entertain and appease anymore. There's less pressure to keep up appearances for the sake of fitting into rigid social roles. That doesn’t mean people hate each other more, it means they’re prioritizing authenticity and boundaries over forced pleasantries. In fact, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:38 PM
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Men couldn't create these modern luxuries if they were charged with entirely raising their own children, making their own meals, keeping their own house in order. Idk why this is even being argued. Clearly both sexes benefit from each other's labor. Both can 'survive' without each other. But not thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:29 PM
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they want to sit there while the man performs and then slit his throat the moment he fucks up Lmao I don't entirely disagree, but such drama, really trying to sell it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:34 PM
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Everyone's attitude is worse about everything. Divisiveness creates engagement which is profitable. Outrage gets attention which is profitable. Overall attitudes are not going to improve unless people unplug from the content consumption profit machines. People like to argue online for sport. Hence the debate part of PurplePillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:31 PM
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Eh, some of those places also fuck themselves over by having preference for male babies, and end up killing or abandoning the female ones, leading to a poor gender distribution. I'm sure that causes problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:30 PM
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how women wish men understood the "you can't win" feeling coming from that. It's really just this. In recent history, men felt much more entitled to a woman's attention and politeness, and society reinforced that. Things are shifting now, and women are less polite because... well, time is valuable. Fawning and entertaining a man you have zero interest in, only for him to interpret your politeness as an invitation for him to argue more and convince you to like him is just... a waste of time. Blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:26 PM
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become the dominant sex. Do all animals have a dominance hierarchy? Why do we assume if strength is equal that women will then dominate men? Because of thirst? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:17 PM
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they'd admit that the ready-for-commitment guys aren't as attractive as the noncommittal guys I don't think anyone, man or woman, wants to hear their partner tell them how much more attractive their previous partners were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:59 PM
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Ok, so what if they were chasing regular ass attractive dudes with jobs and no personality disorders who simply were non-committal, and then when those relationships don't work out the 'settle' for the nice stable ready-for-commitment provider male?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:46 PM
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Why are bad boys bad? Who is casting that judgment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:40 PM
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Problem is conservatives believe they are all temporarily embarrassed billionaires, so they continue to fight for the interests of the elite because they think that's their future. How do you break that illusion? The American Dream was a powerful motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:26 PM
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Anti-Intellectualism You could argue the same for wokeism though. Suppression of debate, ideological purity testing to enforce conformity, appealing to lived experience over evidence, cancel culture, language policing, tone policing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:20 PM
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Which example was she outright transphobic? People allude to it but I haven't seen anyone give a quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:14 PM
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On the posts about his cancer, everyone hates him and calls him a Zionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:38 PM
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Lmao, damn reddit does not like Joe Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:26 PM
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No one listen to this guy, he's a kidnapper waiting to ransom your family for your crypto currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:44 PM
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That's not young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:43 PM
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If you were really doing that well, why would you still be here and take the random redditor opinions to heart? Like haven't you finally figured it all out? You're getting the young women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:41 PM
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I mean.. they are just sitting there posing for a picture. Guess that's what you gotta do when you want to post a photo of the entire murdered family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:40 PM
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Just heard this song and it made me nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:21 PM
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No personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:10 PM
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Lol I think it's an emotional buzzword, because promiscuity elicits an emotional response. Disgust is an emotion. Would you prefer to date a woman with N=1, but her partner was a 10/10 attractive man, or would you prefer do date a woman who has N=50, but the men were between 3/10 and 6/10 in looks? Is it the N count that persuades you, or the SMV of her sex partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:45 PM
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It's interesting to see men dismiss a 19 year old woman talking about sex in the same way that women dismiss an incel posting about relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:38 PM
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Bruh most women won't even meet 10/10 men. Even with the power of social media and dating apps, the men they have logistical access to are still probably max 7/10 men. The Chad narrative is just the amorphous, intangible goal post that keeps moving around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:35 PM
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I go to sleep afraid that Trump is gonna rug pull the US stock market again. Fucker made 400 million when he announced tariffs and then paused them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:32 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:41 PM
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How long is too long for someone to start monologuing something you have no interest in? Where's the line between you politely listening, and them rudely holding you verbally hostage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:33 PM
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Already got it then. 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:32 AM
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That's crazy to me too. Pans are huge, it's a waste of space to put them in the dishwasher. Blew my mind people ALSO put the pans directly in the fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:49 PM
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I'm learning that the majority of people ruin their non-stick pans in 1-2 years. I have had mine for 8 years now, tf is everybody doing? Do none of them know you don't use metal utensils on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:41 PM
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Better than marrying for love at 4 months for sure. Those couples have a huge comedown awaiting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:41 PM
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What do the knuckles say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:39 PM
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Are arranged marriages common there? At that point, it's just choosing a husband based on a resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:37 PM
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If I remember, I'll ping you when I see it pop up again. It's part of issue men take where women at one point in their lives DIDN'T wait to have sex, but then in future courtships wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:35 PM
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Exactly, women approaching more makes them look desperate, which can either be a turn off for a man, or prime pump and dump material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:21 PM
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gave them sex too early This is a debate in itself here. So many men on PPD push for women to have sex ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:17 PM
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Low birth rate! Social security nightmare!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:11 PM
1

That sounds familiar indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:09 PM
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Abstinence in extra-marital relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:57 PM
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That's semantics. Abstinence is 100% effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:34 PM
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Fidelity is not a need. It's a condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:32 PM
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When men say sex is a need, it's a way to justify the desperate behaviors to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:29 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed. But the continuance of the relationship is contingent of fidelity, just as the continuance of a relationship can be contingent on sex. Lots of people in /r/DeadBedrooms eventually divorce. It's just not as instantaneous of a catalyst as cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:24 PM
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I was arguing with a guy who think you should bring your own water to a first date... because there should be no expectation of going somewhere to hydrate or do anything. Yeah, I consider that to be 'unfun'. The bar is on the floor for what 'fun' is being had. You do not have to be performative to show that you are a fun-lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:17 PM
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If in your opinion women are not worth the effort, then you are correct, there are no good women. You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:48 PM
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Does he not want a partner to have fun with? This is so bizarre. Recreational activity is important to many couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:46 PM
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That one in particular is just an off representation because of how concave he is. Makes him look like he has feminine hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:45 PM
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Ah, I too browse /r/PublicFreakout . Women screaming in those videos isn't any more annoying than when people shout the same fighting words on repeat because their brain is short circuiting. On god on god on god on god on god.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:52 AM
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Exactly, that's extremely matriarchal and pro-woman to have your own money and still get men to pay for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:41 AM
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That's not something you tell your partner. I don't care if it's true, but I don't want to feel like my partner is pining for other people and other lives with other people he could have led. If I get to the point to even ask if I am a first choice, I must feel quite neglected and unappreciated. So yes, if at that point my partner affirms that there are other people he wishes he was with, I am gonna be upset. If the relationship is good, that's one of those questions you shouldn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:20 AM
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You're allowed to be single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:46 PM
3

You've got a harem just waiting for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:08 PM
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I don't think women are doing anything wrong by treating strangers as a potential threat. Whenever a woman gets raped, people question what she should have done to protect herself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:07 PM
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Even I got threatened to be shot when I was a 21 year old lil gal doing door to door sales in a nice suburb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:03 PM
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I gave you some more sources. It's 0.27% as of 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:01 PM
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¯_(ツ)_/¯ It's the first piece of data that shows up as a source when you google "rate of homicide in robberies"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:57 PM
3

So your point is that men should be more afraid of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:54 PM
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I'd guess they prefer the smaller waistline, similar to why people like 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:53 PM
2

1 has more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:46 PM
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Yes when people are actually mugged and raped, surprise, all their fears are validated. My point is that sexual assualt is so much more likely, 2.5% of robberies, than getting killed is, 0.75% of robberies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:45 PM
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No one said men never experience unprovoked violence. When women fear men, it's often rooted in the threat of being preyed on, stalked, assaulted, controlled, or raped. It’s personal, targeted, and hard to predict or avoid. That hits differently than random street violence or getting jumped in a fight. And yeah, let’s not ignore how men are raised. You're not exactly rewarded for saying “I’m scared of other men.” It's seen as weak, so most stay quiet. This isn’t about saying male victims 'deserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:36 PM
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Your question was why don't men share this fear of men. And now you are leaning in on men being victims? What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:28 PM
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When men are violent toward other men, it’s the context of bar fights, disputes, gang violence, etc. And not usually tied to the same underlying fear women have of being preyed upon or dominated. The other component could be a inflated machismo sense of self. More men feel like they could defend themselves than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:15 PM
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Maybe obese women want a man bigger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:03 PM
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I'm surprised 6 isn't higher. I wonder if women consider 6 to be dad bod. 2 is definitely the most classic dad bod, but maybe 6 is under the umbrella. 6 to me is like quintessential blue collar man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:32 PM
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The real question is if women think 6 is a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:30 PM
3

Ah a fellow twink enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:28 PM
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TWINK ERASURE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:10 PM
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Here's a nice lil pie chart I agree with the top 4 results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:09 PM
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I ain't fit, I've been eternally skinny fat. But I do like me some otter builds. Skinny with just a little bit of lean muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:59 PM
1

Q4M: What hair color(s) do you dislike the most on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:58 PM
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Lmao having fun is an 'unsustainable foundation' to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:13 AM
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You're not gonna get a second date if you appear unfun. That's one of those things that you need to show, not tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:01 AM
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Might as well invite a gal into a parking lot lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:46 AM
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I might get thirsty during the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:35 AM
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Calling something "selfish" doesn’t automatically make it bad. The word loses its sting when you realize it just means “motivated by something internal,” which applies to literally everyone, including people who die for what they believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:27 PM
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I think the majority of parents have a goal of raising a child with ideal traits who is going to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:14 PM
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I'm surprised by how anti-natalist this subreddit is. Do you think the universe would be better if everyone was sterilized? No one ever has to experience existence again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:00 PM
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Those motivations are emotionally driven. Again, motivated by how your values of love and duty make you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:57 PM
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I'm not that anti-natalist. I don't believe all life is suffering and thus should not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:55 PM
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Turkey has all them street cats that people care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:47 PM
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Yes, to the point where it's a complete nothing burger because everything is selfish. If literally all human action stems from self-interest, then calling something "selfish" loses all meaning as a critique. It’s just stating the obvious. Wanting to have a kid because it brings you joy or fulfillment isn’t some moral failure. It’s the same root drive behind any decision people make, from volunteering to eating breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:46 PM
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Everything you do in this life is selfish. Because even 'selfless' acts are motivated by how it will make you feel to be selfless. Altruism does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:42 PM
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Nah. Might be an unpopular opinion, but I think men with vehicle enthusiast hobbies are probably neglectful parents and partners. That's an expensive, time consuming, and kid-unfriendly hobby to get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:33 PM
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Lmao I'm reading this 'Why do people have kids?' post and it is wild how much people are lambasting the responses. "Oh you want to have a kid because it feels good to love someone and watch them grow? SELFISH!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:30 PM
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I think it's more common now for people to spend a few days or weeks texting before they ever go on an actual date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:51 PM
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Exactly, you best be taking me to a place that has matcha as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:50 PM
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I think the dealbreaker is the judgement that often comes along with straight edge individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:48 PM
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I agree, but men have always devalued it. From women, it's new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:17 PM
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A lot of women’s complaints in dating aren’t about genetics. They're about emotional maturity, competency, communication, ambition... things men can work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:15 PM
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Idk, it's kind of the norm to look people up before you meet them in this age of information. Just think of that person as more... neurotic and data driven than average. If that's a problem, so be it, but some people just like information.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:52 PM
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I agree, but men have always devalued it. From women, it's new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:49 PM
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Women aren't complaining, "Where have all the tall men gone?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:48 PM
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Nah those will be exported to El Salvador.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:04 PM
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People don't give two shits. Women don't understand that, they care too much about what others think so they need something to save face Yeah this willingness to burn bridges and tank your reputation amongst peers is probably why men have worse support systems than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:58 PM
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Among women under 35 today, 30% already have children, 41% say they want to have children, 15% are not sure, and only 14% say they don’t wish to have children, according to a new Institute for Family Studies/YouGov survey of 2,000 young adults conducted in May to June of 2024. It's still certainly the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:49 PM
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People don't give two shits. Women don't understand that, they care too much about what others think so they need something to save face Yeah this willingness to burn bridges and tank your reputation amongst peers is probably why men have worse support systems than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:43 PM
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The nuclear family is the thing women still 'need' men for. If a woman wants a family, she likely envisions a partner. Yet as we get further and further away from traditional values, women devalue motherhood. The strong pendulum swing away from having kids is an entire discussion in itself. I'm not moralizing any of that, but if a woman values motherhood, she may compromise a lot on her partner in order to make that happen because of her own fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:39 PM
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What are you entitled to? lmao Are you entitled to a job just because you applied?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:33 PM
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Both things can be true. But if you let a negative feedback loop degrade your social skills, that's all strangers and acquaintances see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:28 PM
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Exactly dating is supposed to be exciting and fun. The anticipation of your own will they/won't they. Women love anticipation like catnip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:45 PM
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Would you say women are happy with current dating market? I think men and women are complaining about the same issue. Women are complaining that men don't meet their standards, and men are complaining that women have standards lmao. So either men need to strive to meet those standards, or women have to lower their standards. And then it's a battle of attrition. Whose life is more disturbed by this mismatch? Who can endure longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:18 PM
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Well the pandemic was 5 years ago, so I imagine that changed the level of socialization of those younger generations. I think people surprised themselves with how content they were in solitude. but today men will get in trouble at work for simply asking a girl for her phone number. This is a failing of the man because god damn no one can engage in flirting and clock indications of interest. Everyone goes autistically hard on the cold approach, extremely hard sell, zero banter. Like men are being…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:12 PM
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That's a dangerous way to get orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:16 PM
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I think feminists take issue with anything representing a woman being treated as an object. The concern is that having a literal object in the shape of a woman can embolden and further regress men to treat actual women as objects. But I think that's just waxing philosophy, I don't think anyone actually cares enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:59 PM
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Women are visual, it's just insufficient. They require more of something else. The content they consume isn't necessarily pure or noble but the premise is that the porn they consume does not affect their perceptions of sex the way it affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:54 PM
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They can, but do they want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:29 PM
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What percentage of women have these fetishes? What does reading a romantic fantasy book about sexy shape shifting fairies have to do with women's perception of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:24 PM
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Yup the disparity in consumption is likely a factor in how influential it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:11 PM
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Women know what bad sex feels like. They learn early that porn isn't real because their bodies tell them that. I think women see porn and erotica as a fantasy, not a blueprint. They aren't as visual of creatures as men, so they are not as keen on recreating exactly what they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:54 PM
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Are those the same men who want to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:46 PM
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Remember when income tax used to be 90%? What is it capped at now, 35%? Do billionaires even pay 35%?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:52 PM
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you only have those things now because men graciously, heroically sacrificed Do you feel the same way about white people graciously ending segregation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:17 PM
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It is simple though. He didn't love her, felt compelled to stay out of pressure, and acted as such. Funny when men think they are principled for marrying out of duty... but then just break the vows anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:59 PM
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Lol turns out they do come like that, because that picture is trained on pictures of girls that exist in 2010-2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:53 PM
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Yeah those denim jean shorts with the pockets sticking out are too modern for 1970s. And that blonde girl with the side part is also modern.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:52 PM
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Boss babe was an over-posturing pendulum swing to appear more independent but people are likely getting burnt out. It also could just be an age thing. I assume millennials were the ones pushing the boss babe mantra and now a decade later they are settled down with kids, likely sacrificing career progress and relying just as much on their husband's salary. Or just just minding their own business and not contributing to those spaces anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:50 PM
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I'd guess the majority of women can physically handle and might prefer slightly above average penis size. And I'll hazard a guess that 4'' is the line where it's too small. But once you're at 10'' or higher then it's an issue of discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:45 PM
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There’s a difference between protecting and posturing. If your partner gets hurt over some random guy mouthing off, what exactly did you win?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:36 PM
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Early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:29 PM
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No, not literally forced. We are just talking social expectations and precedent. It’s like saying women aren’t forced to wear makeup or shave, no one has a gun to their head, but they’re still socially penalized if they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:28 PM
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Women have more options, it is known. This means they can afford to be more selective. In Buss’s “The Evolution of Desire,” women reported to perceive effort and persistence as signs of genuine interest and long-term potential. I'm surprised you needed proof for this...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:26 PM
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I'd prefer my husband keep his teeth rather than defend my honor to someone brazen and crazy enough to accost us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:19 PM
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Simply because women have the abundance mentality and use a man's willingness to court as a a sign of interest. If a man doesn't approach, then it's a form of vetting enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:17 PM
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They usually have pretty obvious tells, like bouncing them titties constantly in a video. I'm amused by the "only fans detected, opinion rejected" comments. Idk why you'd get upset, unless you were trying to fuel some kind of parasocial relationship with them and get disappointed that they aren't the idyllic proxy you were hoping for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:24 PM
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I've never seen the Lion King, nor do I identify as a furry. But Scar has the lean build I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:20 PM
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My financially irresponsible friend has been saying she's gonna buy a house this year. She just needs to save up for a down payment... starting with $0. This broad so far has bought a $1000 Disney trip and now has decided she needs to get 5 tattoos this year. Things ain't lookin' good for that down payment, boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:17 PM
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M, but in an almond shape. My natural nails can get to M but then they break or tear within a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:07 PM
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I read that it's even illegal for a step parent to have a relationship with a non-blood related child, as long as the parent is still legally a step parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:59 PM
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Also birth control is pretty significant. If I didn't have it, surely I'd have multiple kids by now, even with old world 'natural' prevention methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:31 PM
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Not in Alabama, surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:29 PM
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People with genetic disorders already choose to procreate, like with harlequin ichthyosis. Many couples who carry the recessive gene chose to have multiple children with it, despite knowing the risk was as high as 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:28 PM
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It's sort of both. The fundamentalist's point is that we as a society consider incest to be wrong, so we discourage it legally and morally, and the same should be done for homosexuality. But as I considered my perspective, of course I think incest is gross and wrong, yet I don't feel that way about homosexuality. And the issue with incest is The grooming/victimization The genetic risks of procreation But if you can prove that grooming didn't occur, AND as a society we do not discourage people wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:24 PM
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Ooh a religious fundie on a video just made a good point, I don't agree with it but I have no idea how to refute it: If we permit homosexuality because it is happening between consenting adults, then we should be allowing incest between consenting adults. And if your argument is that it's bad because of the genetic issues from procreating... well... we don't stop any other couple with near guaranteed genetically transmitted diseases from procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:07 PM
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What do you remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:55 PM
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Lol it's just pump and dump but a little more poetic. I don't pump and dump, I simply thought of it and I was pleased with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:41 PM
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Personality changes perception. Women's arousal is way more about the scenario than the aesthetics. A guy could be meh 5/10 to a girl, but if talking to him makes her feel good, she's gonna feel physical attraction now too. And suddenly he's more like a 7/10 to her. But as people say, if your looks are distractingly unattractive, you're not gonna get your foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:59 AM
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for watching copious amounts of porn as if they really have a choice. What quantity of porn are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:57 AM
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True, she should derive some pleasure from it, but it's never gonna be as much as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:27 AM
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It wasn't men who created the term "born again virgin," Isn't that a baptism?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:31 PM
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Started with a meet-cute at the gas station because he can buy her beer. From a 18 year old's perspective, an older man has access to more 'mature' things. He's got more money than the 18 year old men, likely has his own place, women might think since men take longer to be ready for marriage and children, then obviously the older one is the correct choice because she can be married and have kids before she's 25. But it turns out many men who seek younger women don't want equal partnership. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:31 PM
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The concern comes in when “better partner” = “easier to manage” or “less likely to question me.” Seeking out younger women because they expect them to have fewer boundaries or less life experience suggests a desire for control, not connection. If the appeal of dating someone younger is about shared values, energy, or outlook on life, cool. But as I've pointed out, the reality plays out that the appeal hinged on having fewer expectations placed on the older man. And it takes like a decade for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:27 PM
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No. Men being 10+ years older is 7.6% of relationships, where women being 10+ years older is 1.3% of relationships. Frankly, when women date younger men they don't make a peep. They spend no time trying to justify it to the masses, so I don't have a profile on their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:17 PM
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No one’s denying that most men find women in their late teens to mid-20s physically attractive. That’s not controversial. Some men might say they would never date a teen, but if they did not know the teen's age they would still think she's attractive. Some older men pursue significantly younger women not just because they’re attractive, but because they’re hoping for a dynamic where expectations are different, less pushback, less emotional maturity, or more admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:13 PM
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Don't people change? Like some people aren't 'ready' for things and then eventually they are. Something changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:10 PM
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"Women my age are bitter or jaded. = “I want someone more easily impressed by me and has nothing to compare me to.” There's just a lot of self deception instead of self awareness. It's way more about validation, control and insecurity vs actual genuine connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:06 PM
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Pretty common pattern in /r/AITA posts or /r/BestofRedditorUpdates that the husband is doing the most controlling or immature shit and there's a 10+ age gap. Seems like men in their late 20s or 30s that pursue a woman 10 years younger than him are hoping she doesn't expect equal partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:03 PM
2

Describe the most humorless person you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:18 PM
2

I wonder if everyone who wipes sitting down has had at least a few instances where they accidentally touched the water with their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:14 PM
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Once they learn how to fill in their eyebrows lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:28 AM
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I am so pale I get sun poisoning if I work outside for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:27 AM
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Then it's delusion on his part. Of course, of course it takes two to tango. Yes everyone needs to communicate more. But my point is that the earlier comment is patting men on the back with Relationships take work, and it seems men are the only one willing to do that The reality is, 'work' in a relationship means being genuinely engaged with your partner. Checking in, being aware of their needs, and proactively addressing issues before they escalate. Simply going through the motions or doing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:56 PM
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The one who "initiates" a divorce is the one who says "I want a divorce." Obviously those who cheat in relationships and get caught are NOT the ones who initiate the divorce itself, even though their behaviors caused it. In fact it's likely the opposite, where a cheating spouse is bargaining and begging to keep the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:26 PM
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What do men do in relationships when they are bored of their partner ..? Hm... that's a puzzler.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:12 PM
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Divorces can be unilateral, marriage is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:11 PM
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HIS-steria.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:09 PM
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What if you don't do the "work" of the relationship but don't feel motivated to leave because it makes your lifestyle comfortable? I get the sense that a lot of men deprioritize everything except sex, work, and hobbies, and that satisfies them but not their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:02 PM
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I just did my taxes and I have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:58 PM
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Categorically, those who cheat don't "want divorce". They want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:54 PM
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Lmao both things can be true. A rapist can build a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:17 PM
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past those men weren't even alive for No, a generation of men alive today were a part of the society that treated women as second class citizens. That generation is the majority of law makers and politicians today. Same with Jim Crow. And just because things become legal doesn't mean the discrimination ended. It just means people employ plausible deniability. But HOO boy do they get excited when they can start to blame problems on DEI.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:14 PM
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Do you all... not have childfree uncles? I have two. It's normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:10 PM
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Sure, but that shit needs to be notarized. I think it'll be mutually beneficial. Men get financially protected, and women get turned off to sex lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:03 PM
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They are trying to get it to be a civil offense, not criminal. It's all very difficult to prove in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:36 PM
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What is the punishment for men stealthing? Do they go to jail, pay a fine? Can they even get sued for damages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:15 PM
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That's a good idea, that's the kind of financial abortion that I agree with. Informed consent with a notarized contract prior to any conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:13 PM
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No, a neurologist told me it truly just happens with age. People experience changes in memory recall and retention as they hit their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:32 PM
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Some people will just be disgusted by that. And in the finnicky world of attraction, disgust is a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:28 PM
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Makes it hard for women who really want breastfeeding to be seen as a non-sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:30 PM
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Well that's not so bad. He can just be the cool uncle for everyone else's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:29 PM
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I think it depends on how bad A's reputation is. Like if I am genuinely embarrassed by him, and he treats people like shit, he could end up disowned. And if he believes He believes women aren't as smart or capable as men. He better earn more than I do otherwise I'd be dogging on him his whole life for not being able to live up to the 'truth' he believes in. And with B, the concern is that he is a pariah and he'd end it all. That'd be devastating as a mother. So I think for a mother, it's less gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:24 PM
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Were you... alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:17 PM
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I'm thinking we doin' bulgogi beef and cheesy ramen noodles tonight boys. With a fried egg on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:46 PM
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gay for pay straight guys Surely those guys are... just a liiiiiittle gay. Like a 1 or 2 on the Kinsey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:44 PM
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I guess the crying one. Because people would come to understand that's just how they sound. Whereas if someone is loud, it actually annoys people and hurts their ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:42 PM
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I think frankly some people lack the abundance of options and patience and time to quit on some relationships. Fear of the unknown keeps them in place, and a 'bird in the hand is worth two in the bush' mentality. So they might be partially satisfied by a relationship, and not want to risk losing that in the pursuit of better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:43 PM
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I'm not absolving her, I'm pointing out that men want and prefer abortions too. Just because they can't force them doesn't mean they don't have a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:40 PM
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Many men are pro abortion as well. Even some who are outwardly conservative and against abortions still seem to get them. Those men who are 'leaving the mother and child alone' would lose no sleep over that woman aborting, they might've preferred it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:36 PM
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That conflicts with the existence of fuck boys, the majority porn consumption being men, men engaging in excessive drinking, drugs, and partying, the status seeking pursuits of wealth, luxury, and stats markers, video games, sports, entertainment and gambling being addictively consumed by majority men, extreme sports, reckless driving and other thrill-seeking behaviors, and just the classic avoidance of responsibility of avoiding parenting and domestic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:55 PM
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You might not think those men are husband material, but if those women are hoping to get married to their man, obviously they think he's husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:51 PM
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What's with all the life or death extremism? Are you living in an active warzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:48 PM
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To have a witness to your life. Their is validation and security in that. Meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:29 AM
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I have probably ingested some at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:22 AM
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Smarter. If he can't figure anything out it would just piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:19 AM
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I prefer videos of someone going psspsspfpspspsp in my ear. Knocks me tf out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:17 AM
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Depends on if he's open to other stuff. I'd want to see that he does express desire me but is holding himself back. I'd need some other indication that he's physically attracted to me, otherwise I'd think I'm a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:54 PM
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I imagine a lot of countries suffer from disproportionally more males, definitely in China and India.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:51 PM
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Man such small phrases spread like wildfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:49 PM
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Color removal is less damaging than bleach or ammonia. If you don't want to apply anything to your hair, just buy a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:29 PM
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Nope! But I've stayed within a specific palette that looks good. I've done pink, magenta, red with streaks of yellow, green and orange, and I've done vibrant orange, and a more realistic ginger. I'm pale with a pink undertone, so warm colors have looked good. Even if you don't like something, you can pretty much wash it out of your hair with hot water over the course of two weeks, and it'll just be a very pastel version of the color. I'd recommend some Arctic Fox to try dying it yourself so you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:15 PM
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I love just rawdogging YouTube, browsing by new. Watching a random video, and of course they all have the smoke alarm beeping in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:20 PM
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Yup, or it'll be even higher taxes if the schools try to recoup the federal fund losses by proposing to increase your state tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:05 PM
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Are you a fan of the Department of Education being dismantled?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:56 PM
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Lol what if it turns out the anti-child culture was Russian soft propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:44 PM
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Wow I would have assumed you were 40-something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:42 PM
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Well hopefully AI and automation will be remotely useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:41 PM
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Better balance is a guy with a white collar job, who has hobbies where he works with his hands. Or mofo just likes to chop wood. If it has to do it for a living, he's gonna need new hips and knees when he's 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:55 PM
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Shit, even wanting to date someone who isn't overweight is a 'high' standard, since it eliminates the 73% of the US adult population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:12 PM
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Why would they leave the stable relationship to get married? If it was simply about whoever was available, the logical choice is to just marry the one you are with. The starter gf means she was never good enough for marriage in his eyes. She just made his life easier. And maybe when they break up, the guy realizes if he wants to keep his life easier, he needs to lock down the next woman, otherwise he'll be single again and his life will be harder. Also, probably after being in a LTR for so long,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:01 PM
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Everyone can ride a dick!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:14 PM
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Behaving in a more supplicating manor because you think your relationship can end at any time is why people use passive and active dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:17 PM
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And that's called dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:07 PM
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Because you've gotten away with it so many times that your brain knows it's gonna turn out fine even if you're lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:50 PM
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Don't most guys get whiskey dick? If they get drunk enough, they can't even get erect for sex. I think some of the logic lies in the fact that a man can have sex with an unconscious woman, but it's mechanically difficult for a woman to have sex with an unconscious man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:49 PM
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My unemployed brother posts so much pro-Trump shit on facebook When your hatred for one man is greater than your love for our country, you might be part of the problem. Imagine being mad at two guys who dont take a salary for exposing the people who steal your hard earned money while taking a salary. My inner Ron Swanson is hard for Elon Musk lately. 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:48 PM
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Would you marry a broke woman who refuses to be a stay at home mom? Is it really that noble to not care about women's finances when you simply expect her to raise children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:39 PM
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When it comes to older men, yeah, it's about the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:36 PM
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People do commit before 35. Not everyone knows if it'll end in marriage, but people still have serious relationships. I'd think the majority of 20-something women want a LTR, not a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:32 PM
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Genuinely, being a leech is also a skill. Both my brothers are unemployed. One lives with his half brother, and the other lives with his gf who works and pays the bills. Amazing that they don't have to earn a living, someone else is footing the bill. Maybe it'll run out someday, but as it stands there are no conditions or expectations that they ever work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:50 PM
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Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:31 PM
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I don't think peace and acceptance is a linear thing. It's probably something that just ebbs and flows. Times where you are at peace with something, times when you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:27 PM
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Monks do it, but obviously religion is a huge factor. And on a technical note, you don't have to stay a virgin. You can pay for sex. If someone is going to resign themselves to being alone forever, might as well do the deed once to see if it was worth the agonizing over.' Anecdotally, I have two uncles who never married. One dedicated his life to caring for their elderly mother. The other one could have had relationships, but he cheated on his last girlfriend and kind of martyred himself and nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:22 PM
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It was indeed the end of the month. A beautiful sunny day where they just stood leaning against a lamp post. It had it's intended affect though. I'm more wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:49 PM
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Yup, the stuttering and groveling really must have offended him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:47 PM
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If it was a more expensive ticket I would have strongly considered it. But it'd be difficult to get a lawyer for less than $150-$200.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:40 PM
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Well if I don't get another ticket, it's all kosher. And I guess at this point I'm batting one per decade, points only last for 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:39 PM
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Funny that the next case he reduced someone going 43 in a 25 down to a 29 in a 25 to result in no point violation. And a case prior to me, was 83 in a 65, case dismissed on the condition that he took traffic school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:34 PM
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Yeah but the only leverage I even had would be to plead not guilty just to inconvenience them. Not sure if anything good would have come of that. More court fees. I called my insurance and they already let me know that it wasn't gonna affect my rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:32 PM
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I did not opt to pay for a lawyer because that would exceed the cost of the ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:31 PM
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Not sure what the better outcome was. If the prosecutor won't cut a deal, who will?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:18 PM
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They removed the second charge of expired tags if I plead guilty to the speeding. So that's what I did, but I just felt like I failed the dialogue tree and did not say what I needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:10 PM
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Does that give you points too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:09 PM
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Went to traffic court to try to negotiate a deal with a lesser violation. That prosecutor was not having it, absolutely no deal that would reduce the points. I was going 32 mph in a 20 mph school zone, and I think they considered me to be a child murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:05 PM
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Oh no, I saw my dad holding a sleeping baby this weekend and now my brain is like, "Yes, give him a grandchild." I guess it's just a secure feeling to see that your parents have love to give and want to nurture someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah I'd be concerned they have crippling anxiety or a complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:32 PM
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I mean the real answer is they like the student teacher dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:21 PM
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Maybe they just have big teeth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:33 PM
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Probably because men tend to dictate and legislate women's bodies more than the reverse. But interpersonally it's because men are the ones who do the courting, and their lack of knowledge of female anatomy can inhibit their ability to woo a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:15 PM
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It must suck to receive a Medal of Honor as a vet and have it be given to you by Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:13 PM
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At this point, I'm seeing more people complaining about women's standards than I am seeing women complaining about all the good men being gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:05 AM
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Just because a guy is less attractive doesn't mean he's a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:03 AM
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Why would any of that even matter? Just engage with the replies you want, and ignore the ones you don't think are valid discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:00 AM
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Tf are people doing being thirsty for other redditors?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:55 AM
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It depends on the person and a myriad of other conditions. The same man can derive two completely different reactions from a woman depending on the context of interacting with him, her hormones, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:50 AM
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A club is absolutely a "context" where a lot of people are primed for attraction and impulsive decisions. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:11 AM
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I've got a friend who mentions any time a man is aesthetically pleasing, yet she considers herself to be asexual. Hotness =\= sexual arousal The context has to be correct for that woman at that time to contemplate sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:02 AM
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Lol I'll accept the cliff notes if you remember them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:49 PM
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Women don't operate that way to the degree men do, and that's likely influenced by their hormonal cycle. Attractiveness for women is way more about context and scenario, so it's not until they are in the correct context that they judge someone for their sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:46 PM
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No, men and women are essential, it's simply an explanation for why men engage in riskier activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:44 PM
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No, most don't. I did intentionally link a variety of graphs because they do have different data. But most of them reflect this graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:40 PM
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Define raw attraction lol. I think it's becoming a subjective buzz word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:38 PM
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You ever wonder why that is? Or are women just inherently smarter? Yes, on average women have a higher IQ, however on the extreme end of the bell curve men have the highest IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:09 PM
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Freedom of speech is only ever invoked to protect bigotry, yet the bigots try to censor the reaction to bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:30 PM
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Insecurity masquerading as toughness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:09 PM
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I had probably a dozen as a child. Once you get out of your teens, your saliva changes and you are less prone to cavities. Plus, I just stopped drinking sugary soda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:46 PM
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If you end up in a company with 100K+ employees, you get the luxury of time wasters like bureaucratic incompetence, meetings that could be emails, and incompetent managers that have no idea how long it actually should take you to do your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:44 PM
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I love that even Costco sells lychees now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:37 PM
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I am a grain of sand on a beach, it's a very freeing thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:57 PM
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My office tracks your attendance, but it's simply whether or not you swiped your badge in. So some days, I really do just drive there swipe the badge in, and then swipe out. Today is gonna be one of those days. Even if I did come in, there'd probably be only two other team members, and all we do is put on our headphones and work in silence. No team building, no collaboration, all meetings are in Zoom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:58 PM
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I just noticed from a post on the frontpage that some women expect their husband to drive for the entirety of road trips. Female weaponized incompetence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:08 AM
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Is woman... bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:56 AM
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It's simply a numbers game. Those toxic assholes are usually in more social situations and interacting with a higher volume of women than a shy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:53 AM
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Women view lack of success in dating as a social failing in men. It is what it is. Social ineptitude. No need to moralize it, it simply is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:50 AM
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Exactly, my dad has rookie numbers. Your bitches per hour can be much higher due to the power of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:48 AM
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Are you shy? Is that why you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:47 AM
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Just like my dad, there's hope for you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:44 AM
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You're sending that to your friends on snapchat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:31 AM
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And it’s not wrong for a male to be sexual It is wrong when he's trying to sexually engage with people non-consensually. Men get villainized because some men do not respect consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:49 AM
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Intention vs impact. I'm sure most men do not intend to offend, cause harm, or make women uncomfortable. But that is the impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:39 AM
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Even if they understood it, it wouldn't change your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:37 AM
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Should I go to court and try to fight a speeding ticket? Or should I just pay it so I don't have to pay for parking/pay for their $25 traffic school course and then come back to court a second time? I guess idk how expensive your insurance gets if you have points. That's kind of the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:16 PM
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Women's looks are the primary RMV and SMV, whereas men are judged on a more balanced mixture of looks, status, money, and other personality traits. So it's ultimately not to the same degree. Meanwhile, when women express their own standards like wanting financial stability or ambition, they also receive backlash, and get labeled "gold diggers" or "entitled." Social repercussions exist on both sides, but the weight and function of beauty standards are not equal between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:29 PM
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Men may get chastised for being tactless and blunt with stating their preferences, but women still are affected by the reality where they are being constantly scrutinized and judged about their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:19 PM
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If there was data on the most unsolicited pictures of all time, it would probably be dick pics. I think the nature in which most dick pics are presented to women influences their disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:00 PM
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If you journal about him you will cringe reading it later lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:55 PM
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Humans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:27 PM
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One thing that is silly to me is cosmetic brands tout themselves as being cruelty free and not tested on animals. But the thing is, all the ingredients they use WERE tested on animals, they just don't have to do the dirty work because they aren't out there inventing new chemicals, they are just reinventing the wheel over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:08 AM
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I was going 32 mph in a school zone which is 20 mph. They used the ole laser so it's not like I can argue my speed. As they took ages to write a ticket I did contemplate why I didn't slow down and the truth is I only slow down if I see buses. Since there were none I was just maintaining the normal road speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:03 AM
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After getting pulled over for the first time ever, I am finally ready to say fuck the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:59 AM
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Q4All: Have you ever gotten a ticket?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:44 PM
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No some people genuinely need exposure therapy to deal with their social anxieties. That's self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:56 PM
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Yeah a lot of accidental incest in their future. Shit, even he can end up accidentally having sex with his own daughter. Is that part of the fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:54 PM
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That's important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:51 PM
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Q4ALL: Do you remember the outfit your partner was wearing when you realized, "Damn this person is attractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:30 PM
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No, because our first date was in a group to watch a movie in the theater, and my teenage social anxiety freaked tf out and I was convinced I was not attracted to him. A few months later he tried to set me up with his friend, so the three of us went to a high school football game, and getting a good look at him in that scenario I was attracted to him. I can still remember that first time I really stared him down under those stadium lights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:28 PM
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Which one... am I less likely to be murdered by?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:24 PM
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If someone consistently finds themselves in one-sided, exploitative relationships, the issue isn’t just modern women, it’s the choices they make in partners and the dynamics they accept. Like are you getting absolutely nothing out of these relationships? Why are you still talking to these broads?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:23 PM
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I was looking at some screenshots from 2012, and there Reddit was, bookmarked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:07 PM
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Yeah come January 1st, I need that shit gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:03 PM
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It depends who makes more money. When my partner made almost double what I did, he picked up 80% of the bills. Now that I make more money it has inverted. But that's still 10+ years of him paying more. Ultimately, we are married now, both of our money goes towards things that benefit both of us. If we have kids, and I keep my high paying job, it might reach more 50/50 parity. But if I have to quit, it'll go back to him paying most, if not all if I lack an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:29 PM
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I can tell when amused mastery and negging is being used. But I'm also honest enough to admit that it has some level of success. Challenging or goading a woman into proving herself reframes interactions to be more about her ego than whether she even likes you. And even me, I have to take a step back and realize I'm being goaded. So that's definitely good to keep the conversation going at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:28 PM
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Piss off winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:25 PM
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Just tape a bunch of money onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:25 PM
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Get a foam roller. Love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:23 PM
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90% of the men complaining about being unsuccessful are complaining anonymously on the internet, the volume of incels is too high to attribute it squarely and solely on looks. And then of course the incels willing to share a picture end up looking decent, so it shifts the perception to, "Wow, it's definitely not looks then."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:18 PM
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Gotta confirm my world beliefs, one sec.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:12 PM
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They do, that's what ONS and situationships are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:10 PM
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Difference is you have basically a real profile attached to your 'anonymous' self. Reporting should be an option. So it's much easier to moderate. Women don't have to engage in it at all. But I think creating new ways to get people to interact on a dating app is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:46 PM
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I feel like dating apps should introduce more randomness and anonymity to get more unique interactions. There should be opportunities to connect with people in ways that don't involve swiping first and foremost on their picture. Like every dating app should have basically a Whisper mode or a ChatRoulette, where you can chat anonymously, either publicly on boards or in DMs, video based or text based. And then you can slow drip your information to the other person. Or you can ghost them without ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:40 PM
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Sounds like she was pre-chosen too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:40 PM
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Do you guys use the new Reddit UI, old Reddit, or purely mobile?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:43 PM
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Robert Durst.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:28 PM
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Problem is, will those modest women think you are a degenerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:33 AM
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Huh. Yeah you're right. I have 100 of those, never thought to replace the little twist tie with it because I thought twisting the bag was secure enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:32 AM
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Tbh I think people get more upset about women or even... women of color being the ones getting the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:28 AM
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I feel like those beeswax wraps would get so dusty and hairy. Nothing wrong with some good ole tupperware. Bread really is the only thing that doesn't fit in tupperware.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:08 AM
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Whenever I open bread bags, I don't put the plastic tie back on. I just twist the bag and fold it under the bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:48 AM
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All of women's sex toys are... inanimate objects. That's not really an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:52 AM
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This argument falls apart under scrutiny. If women were truly 'loved for who they are,' there wouldn’t be complaints about men who don’t find them attractive. The reality is that men, like women, have preferences, and attraction isn’t unconditional. The moralizing comes in because the implicit thing being said here is 'being loved for who you are is good, being loved conditionally is bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:48 AM
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Why do those men have different standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:31 AM
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Why are they saying some guys don't love them for their weight...? I thought men loved them for who they are. Why is it only the minority of men who will date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:25 AM
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Why yes. [I can.] (https://i.pinimg.com/736x/13/8e/80/138e8017048f211ff28c8411b5b69819.jpg) These ones are just a silver glitter though. Holographic is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:22 AM
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I'm thinking of painting my bathroom with holographic glitter... I've never seen it done in person but of course it's a little trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:09 AM
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I don't think you realize how little that proved your point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:08 AM
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Men would find hot female criminals hot too. They just aren't as common, and their cases barely make headlines to get that opportunity to get diehard fans. I think the difference is men REALLY want that conjugal visit with the hot criminal but women seem to be completely content with just writing letters of admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:31 AM
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It's me. I LARP as a user but I'm really a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:26 AM
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For their boobies, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:24 AM
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Maybe when I was 14. Sometimes the attention you get builds up the fantasy when you are apart, and when you come together you're like "Oh.. no this isn't what I've been imagining."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:23 AM
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Imagine how differently you'd feel if you thought it was good to hug your own family. You say it's not the same, but as you said yourself you haven't been hugged since you were a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:38 PM
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Do your parents hug you? Shit I just went to a funeral and hugged like 100 people. You gotta up your physical contact game outside of just hoping a random woman will want to touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:36 PM
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You can still get settled for by a woman in her early 20s. Difference is she's doing it early for trad reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:49 PM
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get fired from your job An at-will company with numerous other policies you are required to ascribe to? You could get fired from some places for only wearing flip flops too. Difference is, you can't infect other employees with your flip flops.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:46 PM
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How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:16 PM
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I think the antivaxxers are just as whiney about their rights. You have the right to not take the vaccine. You don't have the right to be on privately owned properties that require you to be vaccinated. It's discrimination the same way blood banks discriminate on whose blood they accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:08 PM
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It's because they can talk a big game and not have to cash in on it. If a guy had the same energy towards men, there'd be 20 guys in his DMs tryna get their dick sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:06 PM
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Yes, I agree, it costs nothing to be kind but then you still get into dice-y ideological ground. Is it just polite to let trans women win first place in women's sports, depriving cis women of sports scholarships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:03 PM
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She had an opinion that didn't match his.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:57 PM
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Yes we do it for people we want the approval of. It's not difficult to be polite, but it some people aren't polite with people they ideologically disagree with. Some pro-choicers aren't polite to pro-lifers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:54 PM
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How could you tell it was a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:30 PM
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That's probably because gender critical would likely title their posts to with reeally strong divisive opinions that reached the front page. Something here nestled away in a daily thread ain't gonna reach the front page.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:30 PM
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Yeah I see that point too, that some conservatives just lose their god damn mind and really are just looking for a group to subjugate and other. And classes of people are protected against hate speech, it's really a question then if something like misgendering is considered hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:28 PM
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Yeah it's weird we as a society want to subscribe to ideology that just makes us look and sound dumber. It makes sense that if you like someone and respect them or if you just want to be polite in general, of course you're gonna call them by their preferred pronouns and new name. But on a societal level, it's strange to expect everyone to pretend all the time and ignore the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:12 PM
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“I can’t think of anything more vile and small and pathetic than terrorizing the smallest, most vulnerable community of people who want nothing from you, except the right to exist.” Pedro Pascal on trans people What does 'the right to exist' mean? That always throws me off, because it feels like this nebulous trojan horse where anything and everything is packaged into it. They demand privileges not granted to their original gender, including compelled speech and forced validation. ‘Existence’ in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:59 PM
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Literally any woman with a man who is balding is already defaulted to option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:43 PM
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Hm this post on that subreddit suggests that people on /r/TooAfraidToAsk consider "kill all men" to be sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:39 PM
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Oh I think it's the "women are evil" thing you slipped in there. But looking at those top comments, seems people are only interested in virtue signaling and making light of having a micropenis. No one there seems interested in the depressed comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:33 PM
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Vessi Weekender for city/pavement/boardwalk walking. Otherwise just literally any running shoe, especially if it's an all terrain kind of walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:27 PM
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Puritan culture is still here. And even if people aren't following it to the god-fearing letter, they still care about perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:02 PM
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Women don't want ONS with husband material because they don't want their future husband to think they are a sloot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:45 PM
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Wow I'm LARPing as a sub tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:42 PM
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Hah gaay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:23 PM
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It's actually quite funny when said by an Australian.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:23 PM
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I'm intrigued. Does the city progress and evolve on its own or do you have to control every single aspect?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:19 PM
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What is some of your favorite home renovation/house flipper content that you watch? I love that shit, but I'm bad at finding new renovators that make quality stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:08 PM
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Not based on that picture alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:04 PM
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For me it's the RNG aspect. Letting some amount of randomness decide what path Sims are going to take and then making it become a reality. It's just a virtual dollhouse with extreme creative freedom and life simulation control. For some, it's just a dress up game and a interior design and architecture simulator. It's creating drama without consequences. And for many, it's a game they played as a child that still holds up and is nostalgic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:02 PM
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I could never go back to just one. Lmao I even play The Sims with a spreadsheet open on the other monitor to track my Sims. Almost everything I do at work requires me to be referencing a file while working on a project.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:56 PM
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That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:55 PM
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No, but cognitive behavioral therapy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:28 PM
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Her: Do you have a gf? Him: No. Her: Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:26 PM
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I completely agree. My friend has 'autism', yet she's a bartender who makes all of her money from being hot and rizzing her customers. Whatever autism she thinks she has does not inhibit her from doing anything in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:23 PM
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They should be placed in a pillory and have tomatoes thrown at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:21 PM
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I fully am in the camp that anyone who gets cheated on has enough wrath for the both of them. Homewreckers deserve some scorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:11 PM
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If you knew about it, then you're a callous and disrespectful person. Is it... wrong to be an asshole to someone you've never met? That's the question you're really getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:10 PM
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I never got sick this year yet I've had a dry cough for TWO GAD DAMN MONTHS. WHY Winter blows
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:09 PM
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Unless he had a ring or had his GF as his phone background, how tf is she supposed to deduce that? He's probably a liar. She was probably drunk. Idk how much vetting anyone does for a ONS with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:04 PM
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I don't really think anyone should be here if it triggers them. There's very little to gain. It's a debate space. It's masturbatory, not constructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:01 PM
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I actually suspect there are more rad fems here than the normal populous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:56 PM
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Yeah I agree that the majority of full blown affairs get caught. Even easier now in the era of cloud-based messaging that shows up on your kid's iPad. So ultimately I do have to agree that the utilitarian side of it is wasteful too especially because the impending loss of their actual relationship probably makes them regret ever indulging in hedonism. So they ultimately gained so little, considering the perspective of loss is enough to make them not want that affair anymore. But all cases are di…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:54 PM
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I can't even tell anymore. Several of my friend proclaim autism ever since TikTok became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:48 PM
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Oh okay yeah, we were saying the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:43 PM
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I believe people cheat because they like validation and titillations, and some people are near-bottomless voids that can never be satisfied or deny themselves hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:30 PM
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That would only be wasting the side piece's time if they wanted commitment and were being monogamous with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:28 PM
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If you get caught. I don't think anyone cheats expecting to get caught. Stealing is bad, but it's quite utilitarian if you get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:25 PM
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Probably has something to do with women liking gay male porn, gay fanfiction, fujoshis etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:12 PM
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Sorry, you still have several more months to serve your sentence before you are allowed to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:08 PM
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All pets are different. The worst offenders are long haired dogs like huskies and German shepards. But cats shed like 1/20th the amount, and the more hardwood you have, the easier it is to sweep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:05 PM
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There's so many implicit things people develop without realizing that help them communicate with other people, so when they hear you are struggling, it's a surprise to realize just how many things are going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:03 PM
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You shed too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:00 PM
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No but the majority of women would prefer marriage if they want kids. Problem is, men who oppose marriage are really shit at showing the devotion and commitment necessary to prove that it's not her he's opposed to marrying. Time and time again, men drag their feet and avoid marriage with a woman, only to get married quickly to the next woman he meets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/1iv0y4g/luigi_mangione_appears_in_court_wearing_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:26 AM
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Lmao my cats have a really weird dynamic. The male cat is neutered but I swear this time of year is cat mating season and something switched and he slowly tries to bite my female cat's neck and slowly mount her. She always smacks him. My cat is an incel. And my female cat is indoor/outdoor. She'll come back inside seeing red and sometimes just full on bite his name and do a death roll. I couldn't tell if it was play or fight. But she doesn't make a sound. I think she gets amped up outside and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:18 AM
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The true power of AI. It spits out code, you try it, it doesn't work, you give it the error, it spits out altered code. Repeat until success without learning a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:15 AM
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Batch renaming files with powershell is soooo satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:54 PM
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They do, but some of them just look like creepy bimbos unfortunately. Idk, I like feminine girls with some edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:50 PM
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A bit solipsistic of you to think all men here are low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:49 PM
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Idk how I could fall asleep thinking about anything else. If I'm thinking about real shit, then it's gonna keep me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:28 PM
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At this rate, bull is starting to mean "man with paper-thin skin"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:19 PM
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I didn't say it was impossible, it's just not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:58 PM
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It's a double hit to the ego lmao. At least with a woman you can cope by saying, "women have the reactive sex drive, she's probably demi sexual, she's just not a sexual person etc etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:57 PM
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He's not a patriot, he's an opportunist. And apparently doing a Nazi salute is providing an opportunity, likely to distract the press from something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:54 PM
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You think it means? That doesn't sound very bull of you... What were the other two options?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:52 PM
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Two different issues. Sex aversion and sex addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:51 PM
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I noticed that I can fix it on desktop, but it stays out of order on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:48 PM
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That would probably mean she has much higher standards for her husband vs someone who simply want to perform her own expected role.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:48 PM
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Yeah it's extra frustrating I'm sure when men are expected to be the hornier sex. Men have an easier time acknowledging their wife's lower sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:46 PM
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It is, but it's not going to create the same hormonal insanity that novelty creates. The anticipation build up just won't happen organically if you are entirely familiar and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:45 PM
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Information is power. It is at the very least, a look into the male psyche that you would have never found otherwise. And that can make you more empathetic, or at least more self aware. One thing does become obvious, IRL it truly is a minority of men who subscribe to redpillTM or blackpillTM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:29 PM
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If you want to be her friend, absolutely. Call her whatever makes her happy. Or you do it because you want to virtue signal to others. But there's just something inherently off about everyone pretending something that isn't true. It ranges from categorically inaccurate to genuinely offensive depending on who the audience is and the performative aspect of it. But as you say, the more someone passes, the easier it is to call people their preferred pronouns. Everything prior to that creates an unca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:26 PM
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As an update to me buying a hotel room with HotelsInAmerica. That shit is booked and went through to the Marriott, I called to confirm. Saved $100+ by booking third party. It pays to be cheap and risky lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:17 PM
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The right wing doesn't have the big titty goth girls, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:14 PM
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If a white individual asked you to recognize that they are black despite having no black lineage you would not. That's the same argument for not calling people by the opposite pronoun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:11 PM
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To be polite and inoffensive, yes. But not everyone is entitled to that from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:07 PM
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Miss Saul Jeanie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:05 PM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:05 PM
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Everyone settles on attraction when familiarity can't compete with variety and novelty and mystery. That's the nature of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:18 PM
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Leona Latte
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:48 PM
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What's it gonna do to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:28 PM
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I just started using Obsidian as my diary. It's kind of fun. Like a wikipedia for your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:27 PM
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If his goal isn't to be a good father, I can see why he does it. Because he can. He certainly can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:26 PM
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She does look spooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:25 PM
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Other ones I just thought of: Lizz Bean. Sarah Monet. Ricki Shae. Dixie Cider. No doubt one or two of those already exist. Those queens pop up like wildflowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:23 PM
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What would be your drag queen name? Mine would be Bella DuBalle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:22 PM
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Ah I've been persuaded by big milk that I'm not getting enough calcium.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:21 PM
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Yessir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:04 PM
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Man I really should supplement calcium, since I don't drink milk. But it's always paired with magnesium, and if you eat that on an empty stomach it makes you so nauseous. I literally freeze in place, knowing if I move I will barf. I always forget to eat something with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:54 PM
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I found free cliff notes for the "Sleep Easy Solution" book, if you want to skim. I don't think complete extinction will work well for everyone, so I understand why all the Ferber methods exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:50 PM
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I know my grandma had one or two chin hairs, but that's more of like a 60 year old problem lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:09 AM
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Yes actually. 25 is a special year for latent genetic issues to pop up. Ask your mom, she'll probably tell you what you have to look forward to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:43 AM
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I think if a parent is getting sleep deprived to the point of emotional hysterics, it's worth trying a sleep training method to see if your child can adjust to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:36 AM
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I won't cry if I get carried into bed, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:49 AM
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I'm just confronted with my BIL and SIL's parenting style and I just think perfect is the enemy of good. So much fear mongering over ruining your child's attachment style in life due to letting them cry in their crib.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:38 AM
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Me looking up sleep training methods for babies despite having no plans to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:22 AM
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I decided to Google "Cry it Out Attachment Style" And these were the results. Behavioral sleep techniques have no marked long-lasting effects (positive or negative).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:11 AM
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Ice for swelling. Heat for healing. When your ready to give it some physical therapy, try spelling the alphabet using your big toe by holding your leg in the air and twisting your ankle around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:54 PM
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bar is set impossibly high How does that square with the couples you actually know? Is every guy you know with a girlfriend a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:30 PM
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that only looks are important That's black pill for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:24 PM
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Yeah it's really just meant to be a token of thoughtfulness. I don't give gifts to people I don't know well enough to give a curated gift to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:19 PM
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You should try it. It's fun to have a reason to come together and eat cake and drink and laugh and play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:17 PM
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Because of the ways black pill and red pill are the same. Some red pill consumers go beyond self-improvement and into blaming or resenting women. A lot of the generalizations of women are so reductive and negative that it sparks outrage. Red Pill is chalk full of grifters who profit out of demonizing women to make men feel better, and demonizing women to generate outrage for views. And of course, Red Pill existed before Black Pill. Basically anyone who considers themselves black pill now, was wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:16 PM
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$20. I just spend $30 on a new friend and I thought it was maybe slightly too high. I got her a holographic Cyber Harpy Lady Yugioh card.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:11 PM
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Red pill believes in effort, black pill does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:48 PM
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Hey that's perfect since women like bad boy criminals!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:47 PM
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You sleep with her, but she's gonna steal your shit to pawn it off for some drug money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:46 PM
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Hah fascinating. I seem to have stumbled into a very childfree cohort of friends. (At least for now, things might change once everyone gets deep into their 30s) You might have to be open to making some new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:44 PM
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Is $50 too much for a faux fur giant throw pillow? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:42 PM
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he might not be able to navigate a relationship or how to act in one . If he can't figure out how to act in a relationship, yes that is a turn off. I'm suss of anyone who can't. If you like someone, love someone, then your goal should be to make them happy, because you like being with them. If you struggle with that in concept, then you are prioritizing something else more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:06 PM
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No, doesn't matter if he's grieving over her, he should be grieving over his marriage that he fucked up and is continually fucking up by dismissing what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:00 PM
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I do wonder what is the recommended compromise in that situation. If one person thinks things need to be deep cleaned more often than the other person does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:25 PM
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It you have to create rules to force people to exist in a mutualist community, then it's not their innate desire. To be human is to exist in tribes, which we all do to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:12 PM
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I feel like you'd notice it when looking at other things besides the fridge, and it would indeed be alarming to have vision loss in a particular spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:47 PM
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A dude did do that in season 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:45 PM
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Then you gotta switch to smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:37 PM
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You can be a blank slate lol. Doesn't require much personality. You could just be someone who nods and smiles lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:33 PM
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I wonder if this means women are better at Where's Waldo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:26 PM
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Yeah that's bullshit that someone else would be entitled to the child I birthed, if I signed no such contract for surrogacy. At a minimum, you are now owed for the cost of surrogacy, because that shit ain't free. I wonder if that's written into the contracts at fertility clinics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:22 PM
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What is up with the phenomenon where a husband can't find ketchup in the fridge, and he insists that it's not there. The wife walks up to the fridge and points right to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:21 PM
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The one that always resonates with me is when a husband can't find ketchup in the fridge, insists that it's not there. The wife walks up to the fridge and points right to it. Why is that so pervasive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:20 PM
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No incompetence at it's face is not malicious. But refusing to learn after multiple attempt is willfully incompetent. And whether or not that will negatively affect the relationship depends on the dynamics and expectations of shared responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:14 PM
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It is incompetent up until the point where you learn the knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:05 PM
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Nobody just manifests competence without any input so by your definition everyone is incompetent. 100%. Everyone starts out that way, they learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah I think there is a lot of bitterness stemming from women having a zero tolerance for their partner learning how to do a task properly after failing or making mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:01 PM
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The reason it takes longer for you to do it is because you are lacking competency. Imagine if you never learned how to read what time it is because your mom was always better and faster. Now every time you need to know what time it is, you have to call your mom because of course it's faster than figuring out how to read a clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:00 PM
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That's a competency in delegating the tasks to someone else. Competency for the task at hand would be the ability to do it successfully or efficiently yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:47 PM
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It is by definition. The goal of asking for help is that you learn, and therefore become competent at the task yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 PM
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It's not always malicious, but if it's a pattern of behavior with an unwillingness to improve yourself, now it's just willfully incompetent. And that depends entirely on the relationship dynamic if that's permissible. But if things are meant to be a shared chore, and you consistently fail to complete the task on your own, it's likely an issue that needs addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:36 PM
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It's incompetent for you to not be able to figure it out without help from someone else. Not all incompetence is nefarious, you just asked how they were different, and they aren't, it just has a different effect because as you said, it's the clerk's job to help you in the store, but not your partner's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:18 PM
2

Both are incompetent. But with weaponized incompetence, you are trying to direct the incompetence towards your own partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:08 PM
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It's an incomplete task. You are saying because it's a 'favor' you will not complete the steps necessary to complete the task as you would for yourself. That's willful incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:06 PM
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What would you do if you needed the item next to the eggs? Would you just sit there in a puddle of your own making, with no one to call because it was you who put it on the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:51 PM
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It's simply incompetent, which is the root of this entire subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:49 PM
2

I think some people overcorrect with their first child. So in my mind, if I have a kid, I want to treat it like it's my second child, lol. The wisdom to know what things are worth the effort and what things are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:38 PM
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Lack of sleep harms adults, it's very detrimental to your physical and mental health, so that's why I'm inclined to think there's a balance between complete CIO and coddling your infant every time it makes a noise in the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:12 PM
2

I doubt that letting your child cry at 6 months old is the sole contributor to attachment theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:10 PM
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How do studies actually quantify the emotional damage caused by letting your baby cry it out when you sleep train them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:36 PM
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I think for private companies, censorship is their tool to cultivate the experience that will garner the most users. If the overwhelming majority of users are put off by certain things, it will be censored. For death threats, permitted them across the board definitely risks inciting actual violence. Mob mentality can grow, and people egg on the right person to carry out the violence, whereas if it was censored no one would have been emboldened to engage in real violence due to the internet's rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:29 PM
4

Personality is consequential. Otherwise there would be no distinction between 'husband material' and 'hot guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:56 PM
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Have fun doing nothing and expecting different results lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:48 PM
4

Perhaps they are deficient in parental skill or empathy or desire for sacrifice. But they might still be happier than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:40 PM
3

If you believe in the wall, then surely you'd understand why women don't enjoy their body destroying itself for childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:23 PM
3

Oh nooo~ Don't look down there~!~ uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:22 PM
3

I got chu
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:21 PM
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No one wants ugly husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:20 PM
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It's usually pretty obvious and chronic. If someone's angry enough to levy one personal attack, they tend to be spewing it everywhere. The punishment tends to be a removal and warning for the first one, but if you have multiple offences in one sitting then it's a 3-day ban. If you have any prior history it is longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:18 PM
2

You know, I am actually quite fortunate that no one in my life is a compulsive liar. If anyone is my life is lying, they are certainly taking it to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:44 PM
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Lol it's a virtue to like confidence and extroversion? Seems pretty amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:40 PM
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Inflammatory is all good. Hell, even generalized sexism is permissible here. The problem is how quickly someone saying inflammatory shit with shift to personal attacks and incivility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:37 PM
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Would you consider moderation of death threats or child exploitation materials to be censorship? If not, where do you draw the line? Additionally, most of this 'censorship' is happening with privately owned platforms, not the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:31 PM
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Some people do care about being attractive to as many people as possible. That's really why people even bother the Red Pill. They are trying to cast a wide net.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:27 PM
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How are you gonna stave off the hangover tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:12 AM
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Lol maybe people larping as the other gender are engaging in an exercise of empathy lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:10 AM
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They aren't wrong though. I'd say well over half of the permanent bans here get circumvented with a new account.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:08 AM
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Andrew Tate got famous off of hyperbole and strawman. Generating outrage for views. He became the de-facto face of Red Pill, and you have an uphill battle trying to decouple your ideology from his.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:06 AM
1

Why you drinking on a Thursday?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:01 AM
1

Well the boys on TikTok seem to advertise that mewing is real and chisels your jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:00 AM
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I don't larp, but I do get tickled when someone misgenders me here. Makes me feel like I have a more balanced position if it's not immediate obvious what gender I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:00 AM
1

Yes it's possible to have asymptomatic viral shedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:06 AM
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Take a bath.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:01 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:01 AM
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A few days?? How fast do your nails grow? Lmao. It takes like an entire week to see any kind of growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:50 AM
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I think women have the self awareness to admit to themselves that they were weak. I just don't think they'd broadcast it to reach your ears for your own satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:49 AM
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I never realized how little down payment you actually need to buy a house. You can get a mortgage with as little as 3% down! I wonder if that's essentially a loan shark dynamic. I know that it requires mortgage insurance until you reach 20% equity, so obviously the lower the down payment, the more you ultimately pay to insurance. Maybe since it's such a seller's market, mortgage loaners refuse to do less than 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:47 AM
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I'm sure someday they will cringe at themselves for being attention starved addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:44 AM
2

Q4M: Do you like painted nails on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:20 AM
1

Innocent usually means lacking wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:27 AM
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Most of them happen after you, so it's less pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:26 AM
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Feels relevant to PPD. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1z7n0S8gi0M
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:24 AM
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Oh you are talking about limerence for women you never actually dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:19 AM
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There's also.. different kinds of feminists. Namely radical feminists and liberal feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:07 PM
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Parties with strangers are only fun if you are drinking. Parties with more exclusive guest lists are where the hosts really turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:05 PM
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You can just... not take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:02 PM
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I now pronounce you man and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:48 PM
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Lol I love the irony of this statement. Most redpill guys, myself included, started out by having pure and unconditional love for various women and when we realized that they did not have the same feelings for us that’s when the redpill started to make a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:45 PM
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we realized that they did not have the same feelings for us Sounds like that's a condition for your love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:44 PM
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If it's a scam, all I need to do is call the Marriott to confirm my booking. I'll give them a week to sort their shit out, since it's for June. If it's not there, I dispute the charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:51 PM
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Just booked a hotel with HotelsInAmerica. RIP wish me luck. It was 50/50 on reddit on whether they think it's a scam. But the dang hotel room was $130 cheaper. I had to play roulette with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:40 PM
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It's soup time. Favorite soup?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:36 PM
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Tbh it's probably because he was always squinting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:58 PM
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I always thought Gilbert Gottfried was Asian...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:39 PM
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I think what people are getting at is that accumulating wealth is a testament of hardwork AND shrewdness. To become rich requires some level of judgement and discernment over what choices to make to become rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:09 AM
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Only when I am reminded that they are sharp as they dig in as they knead my flesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:52 PM
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Man it's hard to choose a couch. I like the feel of leather, but my husband thinks the cats will puncture it when jumping on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:03 AM
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That's a naïve thought that rich people don't want more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:16 PM
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I think he has a lot of rich people working for him that can financially benefit from any of the chaos he creates. They can short companies that will be affected by tariffs, they can invest in ones that are about to be backed by the government. He can hand out billions to Elon Musk, etc. The thing about breaking the law at the white collar level is you can do it, and it'll take months before anything stops you. They accuse you of a crime, you lawyer up, they lawyer up. Months and months go by. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:12 PM
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Coyness, plausible deniability, and mystique are all things that enhance the courting experience. Anticipation builds desire rather than outright saying things. If you are privy to indications of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:04 PM
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It's detrimental to the left to be known as the space that is more judgmental and unforgiving than the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:59 PM
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No one is saying it’s good or moral to insult someone for no reason, but no one, especially a stranger, is entitled to kindness, either. This just simply is what people do when talking about their experiences. Locker room talk. You don’t control how others react to you, only how you handle it. You are well within your rights to shun any woman you know who calls a man creepy, but all of that can backfire. And the overwhelming majority of 'creepy' labelling is not done to someone's face, because f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:51 PM
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Yeah they do. That's how they feel. You can disagree, others can disagree, but they feel creeped out because their boundaries are crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:43 PM
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Lmao how appropriate for this place. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_1fdDz2MNxg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:41 PM
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Lol it just seems so... childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:44 AM
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Who is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:39 AM
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Not everyone is a pathological liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:48 AM
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Well said. There is wisdom to be gained from the manner in which you approached, the words that were said, and the place and person that you approached. But it is also the nature of escalating a situation to a implicitly sexual one, that people can just have an adverse reaction. What was once a neutral moment is now met with the pretense of pressure and sexual assessment, and that is bound to cause friction sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:46 AM
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I am a straight women, but I appreciate the ass of both men and women. But maybe I am a 1 on the Kinsey scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:34 AM
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I guess they want DINK, and they want a well-to-do lifestyle and travelling, funded by those two incomes. Surely there are some men in the world who want that too. Let them find each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:28 AM
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Most women have a standard of $250,000? Most?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:27 AM
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Big ass and no boobs. IMO I find a lack of ass disturbing on men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:24 AM
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If the kid is nightmare-ish to sleep with, then I'm moving the kid to their own bed. If not, then I'd just cuddle up to them and let my spouse decide to move them if and when they come to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:21 AM
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You can try to police social interactions if you want, but like I said with women and being called crazy, it's a catch 22. Trying to accost and shame women for calling you creepy is just going to reinforce the initial perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:18 AM
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Yup I agree. That's why it's all moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:01 AM
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Youtube just doesn't hit like it used to. Just waiting for anything interesting to drop in my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:59 AM
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People talk about their experiences with others all the time, sometimes with exaggeration, sometimes with bias. It happens to men and women alike. Just like guys vent about “crazy exes” or “gold diggers,” some women vent about “creepy” encounters. It’s human nature. It's locker room talk. But also any TikTok's that pop up that create this paranoia in young men, you have to remember that people make videos to get views. Most of those gym girl videos acting outraged are motivated by money and view…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:49 AM
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Hah yep imagine that roommate of yours making the same amount of money as you do in 5 years. Gonna make you question all your philosophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:38 AM
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It's simply shallow because men don't have those standards for women. That's the perception, whether or not you agree with it or think there's no comparison. Men can taut that they aren't shallow because they love a woman for who she is (How she looks and the emotional fulfilment she provides).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:35 AM
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Lol don't complain about alimony then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:28 AM
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Just like guys want kindness when being rejected, women want to feel safe and comfortable when rejecting someone. The reality is that some guys don't take rejection well. Women should not be mocking or humiliating someone just for asking them out, because that is a risk in itself to get a strong reaction from the man. Generally this 'creepy' label comes well after the fact and not often to a man's face. But at the same time, women aren't obligated to manage a guy’s emotions when rejecting him. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:25 AM
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Ope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:21 AM
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Absolutely there is a double standard in the realm of creepy. Because men generally aren't afraid of creepy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:19 AM
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Pray tell, what is the alternative? You're going to yell at women who call you creepy? The only thing you can do is refuse to engage with people who are reacting to you in a way you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:16 AM
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Yeah, it's strange that people who want to see gay representation would still limit themselves to an extremely debatable interpretation of subtext. Like it's not the W they think it is. And so they don't get a win from it, and now neither does the platonic angle because the fervent shipping just reinforces societal expectations of male intimacy as being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:55 AM
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It certainly isn't always fair. But people have a right to define their boundaries. Social interaction isn’t just about intent, it’s also about impact. Maybe women's boundaries have changed. Maybe women have always thought men were creepy but would fawn instead of fight. It just comes with the territory of basically interjecting yourself into someone else's life. You could come across as too aggressive, persistent, invasive, or entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:52 AM
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Oh what's up lil homie? I have you tagged as someone who agrees that Jayce and Viktor from Arcane are not gay lovers lmfao. Had to separate the wheat from the chaff on that subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:46 AM
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If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view, you must post your comment under the AutoModerator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:44 AM
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Yes as evident by the election, Reddit is completely in an insular liberal bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:42 AM
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360 no scope pwned these noobz.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:40 AM
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Idk, it's either like owned with a P. Or "pooned"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:39 AM
2

Ugh why don't more smart watches make tiny watch faces like the Fitbit Luxe? I don't need to do much on that screen, just view some vitals. It just seems like Google is going to let Fitbit die slowly, and I fear there will be no skinny dainty fitness watch to take its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:15 AM
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Unethical tip is that if you at least feign a relationship you're more likely to get an inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:12 AM
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sharing advice and experiences to try and do better in dating. When incels get together this is the last thing they want to do. As evident by every subreddit they've ever made. They want to pull each other down like crabs in a bucket and spew vitriol as a form of catharsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:34 PM
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My sister in law does this thing where she says disturbing shit with a sing-song voice and laughs, and I genuinely cannot tell when it's a cry for help because she does this all the time. Last night she said she doesn't get more than 3 hours of sleep because of her 10 month old and she cries randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:23 PM
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If you weren't hanging out 1 on 1 I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:20 PM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:20 PM
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Mostly because I don't need to. I consume everything in moderation. Don't really abuse substances. The discipline I need is prioritizing productive and healthy habits and hobbies instead of just routinely consuming content or video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:05 PM
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I have before, but I don't discipline myself much, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:02 PM
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Dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:47 PM
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Your life can still feel largely the same if you let it. But if you want to keep spending time with the same friends, it takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:04 PM
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Well that's their strategy. Let's see how it pays off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:03 PM
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What are your thoughts on biohacking and supplements? Saw a gal recommend Sea Moss Gel for healthy skin and hair. And I just wonder what is real and what is a gimmick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:36 PM
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I literally just spend $15 on limited edition Republic of Tea Downton Abbey Brambleberry Tea. Simply because I had it at a friend's house and it was tasty. Internet said Black Currant tea would be an approximate match, but I didn't want to chance it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:13 PM
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Just keep a tight seal on everything, hopefully it'll last years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:09 PM
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Wat is it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:59 PM
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Both democratic and republican leaders benefit from it. Nancy Pelosi has like a perfect stock portfolio. I cannot fathom any legislation ever passing that puts restrictions on politicians trading stock. Why would they vote against their own interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:58 PM
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Whatever you collect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:56 PM
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Do you think anyone would consider your collections to be 'alarming'?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:54 PM
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16-going-on-17. My husband was 18 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:52 PM
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There were 14 year old parents in my middle school, doesn't mean it was seen as normal. Kids having sex in middle school was still considered to be precocious and promisciuous. Like if you have an n=1 in middle school people think of you as a slut. But once you are in high school it's all normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:47 PM
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Everyone already covered the extreme end of this of parents mistreating their children in favor of their romantic life. But I suppose the actual moderate take is that some people sabotage their relationships with their romantic partners because they have not established boundaries with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:19 PM
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Not good enough. I must think they are ugly to feel good. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:09 PM
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Lol you're doing gaming wrong if all you care about is being better than someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:46 PM
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Yup. If true, that's something he ought to take to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:45 PM
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Exactly. See that incels? Loneliness is a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:43 PM
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Sounds fun. Women will be interested in that too since they already are gobbling up the AI boyfriend tech. Problem is, stuff like that need more restrictions on it because it is inherently more addictive due to the parasocial nature than just consuming porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:40 PM
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Hm I wonder how frequently the government enforces the draft vs how many abortions are needed every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:37 PM
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As with withholding love, if you tried to withhold protection, loyalty or provision to your woman, it's natural that she would want to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:22 PM
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Some would say it has... conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:19 PM
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How is this any different from racism? Women historically have not and still cannot systematically oppress men the way people are systematically oppressed due to their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:12 PM
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Well I reread the movie summary (Force Majeure), and he ran away from his wife AND children. Women absolutely are expected to protect their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:10 PM
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I don't think women would want to say that to a guy they like. They don't want to feel like 1 out of 100 women. They want to feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:35 PM
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If there were men I was more sexually attracted to AND I would rather be with... I think I'd just be with them. Hypergamy TM. There's more to wanting to be with someone than just sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:32 PM
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Lifting something heavy once in awhile is not the same thing as being expected to constantly cook, clean, and manage household responsibilities. Not to mention, men themselves might just take a car to a shop to change a tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:08 PM
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Woman who cleans up after you like you're her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:52 AM
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Best kind of tea?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:35 AM
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There's a whole movie about that where the husband abandons his wife in an avalanche. The avalanche petered out quickly, and then he had to deal with the consequences of abandoning her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:31 AM
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Women who actually suspect they are ugly would not have the gumption to post there. Short of looking for plastic surgery recommendations, it seems like a completely useless exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:11 AM
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Funny, a lot of men seem to want that for themselves too, as evident by them wanting their wives to be a mommy-bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:07 AM
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Good time to go shopping too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:05 AM
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Blood alcohol content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:04 AM
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Says that you aren't in the sweet spot of BAC.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:00 AM
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Inflation is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:59 AM
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I also had gyros lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:59 AM
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Yeah I believe that's the issue. Problem is my vet won't tell me how much that would cost to extract it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:47 PM
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My boy cat's breath is STINKY. Why he smell like spoiled garbage butthole when my female cat literally just smells faintly of gravy lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:08 PM
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Lol the average man doesn't get to ride on the coattails of a few greater men. Point is as women gained more agency for their lives they no longer had to settle for being married to a man who offers little more than a paycheck. And many men today still haven't figured out how to market themselves to be a holistically desirable life partner. They aren't interested in doing the work to have a higher EQ, they still want unequal gender roles, they, just like they accuse women of, get lazy once the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:49 PM
2

No and you don't need reddit to survive yet here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:38 PM
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You don't need ADHD to benefit from that. Some people just talk slow as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:39 PM
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Proves that men's social status was just handed to them. Now that things have leveled out, evidently they didn't earn their status out of merit or any natural leadership quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:34 PM
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I for one like seeing the outline of attractive people's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:29 PM
3

What reason is there to do anything other than the bare necessity to survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:20 PM
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I feel like that's a controversial opinion lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:12 PM
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It's actually 41% of first marriages that end in divorce. It's the subsequent serial marriages that are 60% or higher. Maybe that doesn't change your opinion, but it does affect the language of 'minority' and 'majority'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:10 PM
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Q4W: How would you feel if you were giving birth and your husband is watching and just starts gagging? Lmao, inspired by a video I just saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:04 PM
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She voiced Vi so that makes her a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:25 AM
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Careful, you mind end up buying a rural Japanese home because they are so affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:19 AM
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Gang gang. Gotta get in there before they start banning Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:16 AM
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Be attractive, maintain your looks, be social, be independent, establish and maintain boundaries. Passive dread is really just about being reminded that your partner is desirable and CHOOSES to be with you, and can leave at any time. Active dread is when you actually flirt with other people, have affairs in plain sight, when you dismiss your partner and do not consider their needs anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:12 AM
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Passive dread is good for a relationship because it keeps you lucid and humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:04 AM
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Oh man. My husband and I left the store in separate cars, and we were stopped at a light together and I licked a bag of coffee beans in a real sexy way to make him laugh. Only after driving away I thought "Man, I'm gonna get sick from licking that." And now my throat kind of hurts. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:01 AM
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I kind of get what Hitler was doing with the disability genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:55 AM
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This is the spool of Pla Pro White I got on Amazon. It's probably color dependent for the price being that low. I haven't bought a lot of different types of plastic, but PLA Pro (Specifically from Microcenter) has been some of the best I've worked with so far. Never messes up the machine. We have a Prusa MK3, and this is it's modern counterpart. I can't fathom why color printing would waste filament... The only way it would waste it is if it's a machine that can have multiple colors printing sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:51 AM
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Hm that's why everyone is better off with the centrist purple flair. So much plausible deniability lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:58 PM
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It takes more than one report on a comment to end up in the mod queue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:57 PM
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As I said, women report men more than men report women. That causes uneven visibility in the mod mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:54 PM
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You should make a NEW subreddit with LESS moderation and LESS women for ALL pills. Call it... /r/AllPillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:52 PM
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Men get banned more because women report men more. But you are right though. I love spirited debate, I love mess. I frankly let a lot more slide than others might because I like to see conversations continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:51 PM
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He savors the whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:46 PM
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Tbh I don't ban anyone for their content. Just for incivility and personal attacks. And incels tend to be more belligerent than the normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:45 PM
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It does, but not instantly anymore. And of course, half of them just ban evade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:43 PM
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That's redpill. This is purplepilldebate... It sounds like you are upset that this isn't /r/TheRedPill, but fear not, it's a click away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:41 PM
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Nah I liked that Latina gal from earlier more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:41 PM
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Lol it's the only sub where they can admit being an incel and not instantly get banned, that's for sure. But it's still not an incel subreddit. The classic blackpill rhetoric gets removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:38 PM
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They’re here to sling shit at women and get a good rub and tug going over how stupid and wrong all the gross women are. Isn't that what you just did?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:29 PM
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Marketplace of ideas, my brother. Gender dynamics extend beyond one's own romantic relationship. It one of the more unique topics that effects everyone in the entire world. So there's a lot of discourse to be had anecdotally, statistically, societally, biologically, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:16 PM
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Nah, redpill bans women quicker than this place bans incels. Plus, if women can't argue, should be an easy win for you, right? Don't you want the ego boost?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:07 PM
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Hmm... PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:56 PM
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And if you have an IKEA Alex drawer, then the designs are already on Thingiverse for perfect measurements lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:52 PM
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A spool is like $13, and I was able to print like 12'' by 21'' worth of organizers for two drawers. Trouble is one drawer is tall enough to stack two layers of bins on top of each other so I ran out of plastic, so I bought another spool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:51 PM
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I'm on a 3D printing kick. Once I realized I could print organizers to perfectly fit a drawer... hooo boy. Organization makes my brain tickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:33 PM
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As a straight woman, would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:32 PM
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I like men with tiny waists with tight shirts and a nice lil belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:30 PM
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Well over the course of the term, who knows if he wipes out regulations that will entirely benefit Tesla and increase stock... temporarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:28 PM
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I just saw a headline that it's tanking, but it was actually much much lower the same time last year. There was likely a lot of inflation due to his involvement in the election. I mean smart move, of course you'd think a guy with this much influence over the government would bolster his companies any way he could. Unfortunately he threw a nazi salute. I wonder what he gained from that, and if it was worth the PR hit to his companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:23 PM
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Lmao, good time to buy TSLA?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:16 PM
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Nobody commits within a week of meeting someone these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:09 PM
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It's not a societal injustice, but a pattern of male loneliness does have societal impacts. Like with the election. I know incels like to throw it around as a bargaining chip, that if they can't get sex/intimacy/family, then men will check out of society or do things to spite it. But if it becomes a trend, it becomes a trend. And now it's a societal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:03 PM
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That's the cool thing about incels, it's often both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:00 PM
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Ehtpils
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:59 PM
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I suppose you do need to think less of him, someone who is content with less, to justify your grinding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:56 PM
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All people mean by that is behaving desperately is often a turn off. Frankly, anyone who enjoys seeing desperation in a partner might have a little thing for sadomasochism so it could even select for very manipulative partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:52 PM
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Lmao I just liked that it all rhymed. I literally married my high school sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:49 PM
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But you could have soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:57 PM
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Cold. Imagine on a hot summer's day, you can only have a hot cup of coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:53 PM
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Lol I feel like this debate over want vs need brings out the tism in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:44 PM
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What a priviledged thing to say, as your emotional needs are met and you know what it is like to feel mutual desire. It would negatively effect your well being if every man you wanted to be with rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:43 PM
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I would say any life saving interventions are a 'need'. If you are choking, the Heimlich is a 'need'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:35 PM
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I've said it's similar to saying a mother's love is a 'need'. You won't die without it, but neglect will create psychological disfunction. The same can be said with persistent rejection of intimacy and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:14 PM
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Maybe if they want a lot of kids. But is that all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:00 PM
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Visually I am not seeing the wall. It probably helps that she's Asian or at least ethnically ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:57 PM
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Feels like self loathing to think your own dick makes you gay lol. Does washing your own ass make you gay too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:55 PM
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I'm thinking they just have some AI scrubbing our accounts to gather data and it made an oopsie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:30 PM
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Probably relates to the origins of this subreddit to begin with. /r/TheRedPill basically banned and removed any women contributing in earnest or defending their beliefs. /r/TheBluePill was a satirical circlejerk with no earnest engagement. So this place came to exist as a way to merge the two. But for any one person who wants to debate in earnest, there is another who just wants to circlejerk the way TBP did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:26 PM
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In what world would they think using that is a good idea instead of my real name, which they already have?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:22 PM
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I didn't actively seek it out, it was something I stumbled upon because I had older siblings and my dad had the black cable box for pay-per-view. Even still, it had a pretty net neutral effect on me. Took a lot of the shock and awe away from sex, and took a lot of the confusion away from all the implications of sex in all forms of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:20 PM
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Yeah I think it had worse effects on my older brothers though. It didn't make me precocious, but it did for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:14 PM
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Amazon is calling me by my username. This is the only account I own with this name. WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:12 PM
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Hah, I watched porn when I was 4 years old, and I understood that sex is how you get pregnant, and I was super bummed because I thought I'd never get to try it because I didn't know there was a way to NOT get pregnant. Makes me wonder if sex education at a young age would be comprehensible to most kids, and if it would have a better turn out for safe sex vs waiting until they are going through puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:56 PM
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Lmao yup. The rerelease of The Sims 2 had me cringing over the fact that she stopped playing it, what an L for her, so much free traffic and engagement from new players right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:49 PM
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Which subreddit do you use as much or more than PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:33 AM
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/r/gendercritical was one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:27 AM
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In a nutshell, men pretty much were banned on sight when they had subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:21 AM
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True, but I mean you could say the same thing about that still life art of a Baja Blast. Does Taco Bell own the rights to that? Does that entitle others to steal that oil painting, add a border and sell the print themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:25 PM
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I don't think alcohol is good for society, but this is Murica.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:49 PM
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Absolutely not. Rad fems consider all sex work exploitative of women AND demeaning as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:47 PM
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Categorically yes. Lots of food rations are rehydrated into gloop, and if you are too picky to eat that, then you're not starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:45 PM
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As an update for those fake photoshopped prints my husband bought, he left a scathing review mentioning that it's poorly photoshopped and that people should buy from the original artist. And that fraud seller had the audacity to reply and said "I found the art on Pinterest, everybody is stealing it so it's cool if I do it. I WOULD have offered you a refund, but you decided not to reach out to me." Lol where's that refund dawg? My husband replied, "Every dollar you earn is one that could've gone …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:42 PM
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Yup 6 was released in 2016 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:26 PM
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Depends on your socio economic status. If you go to country clubs and own multiple properties, the relative 'societal' expectation of the engagement ring price will be much much higher, easily in 5 figures. I think it should definitely be one of the most expensive pieces of jewelry you give to your partner. It's meant to last a lifetime. So I'm thinking a quality ring has to be at least $300 or more. Everything after that is just about aesthetics and customization, and whether you want the value…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:20 PM
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You should probably put it in a Roth IRA instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:17 PM
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You buying Civ 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:08 PM
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I was gonna bring up rad fems, but rad fems definitely validate OP's point about misandry within feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:58 PM
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Porn existed well before feminism was pro-sex worker. Many men consume porn without becoming incels. Incels always existed, or at least the same conditions that would make someone an incel today always existed. The difference is they didn't congregate on the basis of being involuntarily celibate and unloved. Only through the anonymity of the internet is it not shameful for them to gather and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:57 PM
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Yes it can be reduced to that, but in reality people are inhibited by metabolism, hormones that affect appetite, habits, mental health. So they aren't just 'not doing something'. They are actively combatting signals from their brain, physical distress from hunger, interpersonal dynamics with food and other people etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:50 PM
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It's weird to want your AI boyfriend to bring up your period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:44 PM
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Yeah I've seen clips of that. It's a gooner game. It's okay to like smut. It's not okay to like smut and then turn around and judge men for cranking it to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:39 PM
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Lol I wonder if you'd feel that way if you saw wealthy people enjoying caviar on a yacht next to you. Would you resent that you'll never have the money and lifestyle they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:38 PM
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If incels reject or refuse to pursue sex with women they aren't attracted to... Then you've proven that sex isn't a need lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:34 PM
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Kind of makes the point that sex isn't a need lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:33 PM
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That would make them volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:32 PM
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My point was that it's the ego of men who you reject or avoid that is the issue. If people of a different race thought you were avoiding them due to their race and wanted to 'punish' you for it in some way, then yes, it would be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:04 PM
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Lol it's fresh in the mind because I recently got stuck in a loop with a user trying to get the same gotcha over and over, unable to compute any other response other than the exact one they had laid out in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:57 PM
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Have you had to turn down a bunch of women because of their tattoos and piercings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:18 PM
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Bad faith basically means you have no intention to debate a topic in earnest. Instead you engage by feigning ignorance, being obtuse, deliberately misunderstanding the other person with strawmen, shifting goalposts, or otherwise manipulating the conversation to avoid genuine engagement. Some people can only get a 'gotcha' by trying to force you into binary answers. So they will repeat a yes or no question over and over and dismiss any nuance you would present. They are unable to rephrase or refr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:08 PM
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It's not a guaranine, but I'm sure that's extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:32 AM
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That's what I'll get him for his birthday lol. Or... https://www.etsy.com/listing/1187015661/jayce-talis-3d-mouse-pad?click_key=7c03e0059d7e9e9898d763ee73e53552ba6b8e7b%3A1187015661&click_sum=4363863c&external=1&rec_type=cs&ref=landingpage_similar_listing_top-5&frs=1&sts=1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:53 AM
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True, it's very much twofold, because the original art is just superior. I told my husband of my discovery and he said he wouldn't mind if I bought the originals, but he seems gutted that he was deliberating between the two and chose wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:11 AM
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Hah yep in May of last year lmao. Funny enough, one of his best friends is getting married this year on the exact same date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:10 AM
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No idea. I could definitely contact the seller and be like "Yo this is plagiarized, if you don't refund me I'll be reporting you to Etsy." I don't know if I just skip the seller and go straight to Etsy if they will refund my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:01 AM
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Aw man. My husband bought me some wall art for a present, and he said he was deliberating between two with the same character art but with different backgrounds and borders. And upon closer inspection, the one he didn't buy was the original artist, and the one he bought was a fraudulent copy where they erased and cut off several pieces of the character and fucked up the line weight across the art. So damn. Now when I look at it I just see the poor photoshop job and shitty scribbles of whoever tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:52 AM
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Let that sink in Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:39 AM
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How was his game in your opinion, apart from looking like a weeb?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:30 AM
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Are you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:23 AM
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Americans don’t want to share walls They don't wanna share their mcnuggies either. Gluttony got them into this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:18 AM
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Why does your sibling live there if it's such a shit place?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:17 AM
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The humidity was the highest I had ever felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:15 AM
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Wilmington is nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:14 AM
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That would fix your money issue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:14 AM
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I think people being systemically fat is a bigger issue than people being individually fat. Like the difference in obesity between the US and European countries is astounding. And most of that is because of the abundance of high volume processed foods and lack of logistically walkable cities. We need better blends suburbs and amenities. Being able to walk to do your errands would cut down on a lot of obesity. Ironically reducing the amount of space needed for parking lots would allow room for am…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:11 AM
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Inflation spiked globally due to COVID fucking up the supply chain. If countries didn't mint more money, they were going into recessions. AI helped, but inflation was already going down by the time AI boomed. ChatGPT wasn't even widely available to the public until November/December 2022. The Fed’s rate hikes and energy price stabilization also brought inflation down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:08 PM
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What amount of women do you think get humbled with their dating standards eventually, and what amount of women do you think never have to lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:00 PM
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