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sparta126/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:36 PM
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Your kidding yourself about abundance. You need at least two plates minimum before you can say abundance mentality. I would suggest dropping the first girl to 1-2 times a week and have another for the last time. This will also convey the message to girl one about her man and that bullshit
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:54 PM
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It's hard. AWALT. It sounds like your frame was weak. Going nuclear should really never happen in a solid frame environment. Most the guys I see on here have one thing in common. They acted alpha to get their woman and over time they showed they weren't alpha. You don't get what you want out of life. You get out of life who you are. Become the person you are. Don't fake being that 1% guy , become that 1%
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:48 PM
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You had every right to be upset. However you never show this to a woman on the first few dates. You showed way too much investment that she didn't earn. You needed to reply with k or cool or a short one word answer. This does two things. The first it sends her hamster into overdrive. Is he mad, what is he thinking, what is he doing. The second it doesn't show investment which is what women crave.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:36 PM
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She went through your messages - deal breaker Finds you unattractive- deal breaker Why the fuck do you put up with this shit? Grow a pair and show her you have options. Quit living in her frame. It's your life and she should be along for the ride.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:31 PM
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You gotta be a troll
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:44 PM
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I would suggest mandrin. It may be the hardest, but if you're in business and speak mandrin doors are open for you.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:41 PM
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If your truly the Trp version of yourself her talking to exes doesn't even phase you. Your SMV is high and they are orbiters. It sounds like your social skills are a bit behind. As a man you need to lead the conversation where you want it to go. She brings up a boyfriend , tell her history is better where it's at, in the past. She does it again you next her. The no kisses next time was a shit test. You didn't fail but you didn't show your Smv either. If she says no kisses next time I would respo…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:59 PM
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Dude , they have other options besides pills, just so you're aware. IUDs work as well. This video helped me. http://etinspires.com/tgim-season-10-episode-3/
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:25 PM
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Don't over think a layup or you'll miss everytime
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:33 PM
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"Me too"
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:30 PM
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"Once I'm in shape" Wrong mentality. "I get the vibe she's not in the mood for sex" If you take charge here , she'll have sex with you. Make her deny you sex, don't assume. Never talk about porn. I don't recommend watching but that's a different discussion. Every time you want to get off involve her. If she doesn't participate or Denys you , do it in front of her to her.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:22 PM
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Let her take whatever she wants. You don't need it. Don't let her hang on to that damn cat as a way of talking to you. Have an abundance mentality. She can talk everything she wants , burn down your house and you'll be ok. You know the principles that got you the house, the cat, the stuff. Join groups and be active. This will take your BB out of wanting to go back to her. Grind, grind, grind
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:31 PM
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You use TRP principles to climb the mountain. Along the way there's going to be bodies of failed people who try to ask you to stay. Argue with them, be with them, not so alone. It takes everything you are to keep going , by yourself on the journey. Many people talk about climbing the mountain. Some put their foot on the base. A few make it halfway. A sliver of people reach the top. Isn't it funny how that same sliver is the same percentage of men who are Trp? It's not coincidence that those men …
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:24 PM
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Because in situations you're not acting congruent to her reality. When you don't acknowledge her giving you a hard time by being beta it messes with her frame that your that guys little bitch. If her reality is not true than she would actually have to be accountable for her actions and why she is lazy and self entitled. She would rather bring you into her frame than be snapped out of hers.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 07:50 PM
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You have a unhealthy dose of Menvy here. You're a RP man. Don't compare yourself to other men. Be the best you can be and you'll be different than some other "Alpha" guy at work. You should completely ignore her reality and frame. She wants to be with this guy from work because he has power and status. AWALT. Change your frame , change your mind , change your life.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:49 PM
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Your friend needs to realize she's probably been banging the co-worker for a while now. The London trip most likely was her hamster spinning and now she in London things can just happen with her co-worker. AWALT. In your situation keep working on her. It will happen. You're young. Don't even say the M-word for at least 3-4 more years if ever. I would research the topic and see how she gets off on her own. Many women with cold feet can't seem to get off. Perhaps have her wear wool stockings or so…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:43 PM
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The funniest is talking to a girl over a guy that is trying to cockblock you when you have 3-4 inches on him. I tell the girls to wear the heels you normally can't wear( I only date 5'7" and up girls) When I first meet her I tell her something like you don't have to always look up to me or something like that.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:38 PM
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What's the best way to play the guitar? Same principles. Practice. Practice. Figure out where you fucked up and practice more. The best guitar players of all time practiced , practiced and practiced. I believe the 10,000 hours to mastery rule is right.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:35 PM
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This is true. If she's trying to get validation from you I would certain use amused mastery here.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:33 PM
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I can't stress bustanutmeow's point enough. Once you start working out women become noise. It also helps if you can randomly walk up to one of those women get her number and go back to hanging out with your guy friends.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:14 PM
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Sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:08 PM
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This helped me. Use this as a starting point. www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpf1RTn_s5k You need to unstifle yourself. I used to play video games 60 hours a week. I was kicked out of 2 colleges. 430 pounds I was in your same mindset and a similiar situation. Your stutter is part of your brand. You need to go out and start to interact with anyone you can. The lady on the bus stop, the person in the library. Use online voice communication to people if you have to. The only way to help yourself is to wor…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:06 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ADkYBPyW5Bc
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:46 PM
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Tell her you can only take payment in sexual favors. This will do two things. It will tell you how crazy she is and hopefully save you from ever seeing this woman. It also reframes the whole relationship which is what you wanted.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:39 PM
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You're letting her frame be your reality. This is a really simple shit test in all actuality. Since you're not attracted to her anyway this is great practice. You need to reframe her and show her that your frame is stronger. First you need to disarm/knock her off balance. She says I don't do more than kiss before I'm in a relationship. You can say: Your mom said we could hold hands but only in public. Cool Girl if you don't cuddle me as well this isn't going to work. You're a dork. Any of these …
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:35 PM
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Would you believe me if I said you could have made out with her? You need to do what you feel like and if she isn't up for it make her reject you.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:37 PM
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Could you run before you learned to crawl? How long did it take you to be able to run? We're not even talking run well. Just run? How long after that did it take you to run faster. You have to realize this takes time. It took me years to realize that I oils walk up to a girl say I hate you and she would become attracted to me through this. Be willing to dedicate years to this.If you stick with something long enough you will be successful
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:20 PM
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If you want to do this , you need to fully commit to the LTR. I suggest you have her move in and you two play house for a bit. If it's something you want , then lock her down. Playing house in my opinion is a great way to determine how LTR dynamics will work out.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:30 AM
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Re-phrased. The kind of women you want to bang want exclusivity.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:49 AM
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If he's a true player and settling with a virgin, shes about to get wealthier and take half his shit. She hasn't had sex for 36 years. How often is she going to want it if they do get hitched? Especially if he doesn't want kids? Bad Bad Bad Bad....
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:48 AM
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Treat social circle like cold approach pickup. Everyone you approach has wants and desires. Figure out what these are. Be open to meeting new people. Find out where the people you want to know hang out. Hang out there.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:46 AM
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Why didn't you do her on her rag? There's several times a woman tells me this and I throw a towel down. Most of the time after that I get no shit tests and the sex is just way better. Some guys can't handle it , but it is just better and you don't have problems like this. You sent a text. Now text another girl you're seeing and take her to pound town. If you're not seeing another girl that is your problem.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:43 AM
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Ok here's the deal. Why are you bringing up shit that doesn't matter. I don't care who she's had sex with because I know that I'm going to rock her world. The same reason she won't tell you about her sex life is the same reason she won't do threesomes with you. You are showing that you are judging her through your words or actions. Make her open up to you and she will tell you everything you need to know. It first starts with non judgement , or at least making her think you aren't judging her.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:40 AM
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Let her be mad. Women want to feel all different emotions. Eventually you not acknowledging her childlike behavior will make her snap back into line. Your absence of affection will affect her more than anything you can say.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:34 AM
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You don't tell women your fucking feelings. Christ you might as well have told her how you feel. Her best friend relayed the message for sure. You needed to use amused mastery here. When she says you can't be together you laugh and say let's hang out Saturday night. If she rejects you again you walk away. You needed to go after more girls while she was gone. You needed to have 4 women and have fun. The girl should be part of your entertaining fun life. She should want to join your party. I ask y…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:24 AM
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Approach anxiety never leave you. You need to realize that your putting too much on yourself for these approaches. You know how you get less fearful of the results. Approach more. Anything you do for the first time is going to cause you more fear. The more you do something you gain experience and with experience you get better. How many women do you approach a week?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:17 AM
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My question to you is why do you care? Honestly women can think whatever they want, it doesn't make it true. Usually amused mastery changed her mind. For instance when she says your average I normally say , those orgasms you had last night didn't seem average. My main concern would be why you care about this. Women say stupid shit all the time and then weeks, sometimes months later she'll say baby I can't believe I said that. Thanks for putting up with my bullshit.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:18 PM
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In an ltr you have to make concessions. Women desire comfort , safety and value. In order to give them comfort once in a while beta characteristics need to be shown. Now you can't become a complete beta, but buying gifts or paying for dinner is not terrible. I would avoid talking about your feelings. Normally when they want to talk about feelings I just let her ramble on until I can change the conversation. Mostly I tell the girl I appreciate her helping me to reach my goals.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:13 PM
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Note it's the guys wife. This hopefully means ltr. When you are in a ltr some beta behavior has to be shown. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't stay alpha, it just means that in a ltr concessions will be made to keep the woman from hamstering herself into outer space.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:13 PM
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You need to establish a man to woman relationship with her. You can do this on the trip. You need to plant seeds of your attraction to her. Right now she probably views you as a potential mate, but if you don't move forward or at least show her man to woman she will friend zone you
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:01 PM
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What got you the body and the clothes. Was it by sitting at the bar waiting for it. Did you go to the gym and wish and pray for those 22 inch arms? If your answer is no, why do you expect it to be different with women? Take fucking action. You should know that how you get what you want in life is you take it. Nobodies going to hand you shit and women certainly don't care how far you've come. The only thing that matters are results. They don't come to you , you go to them. You walk up to those wo…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 07:56 PM
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You close the same way you would any lmr. You test your limits , back off and keep testing
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:08 PM
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Do what you have to do to survive. Arguing with idiots is pointless and wastes your time. I challenge you to use Rp on the Ta and get with her.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:44 PM
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It's no different than any other woman. This should be easier than girls you don't know with boyfriends.Escalate and close. A boyfriend means nothing.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:42 PM
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I just met you- You are not attractive enough to her to sleep with at this moment. She is telling you that she doesn't feel comfortable with the notion of going with you. You have not built enough rapport with this girl to move her. You get around this by changing venues with her and introducing her to new stimuli. An example would be going to a new bar and playing pool. The main point here is that you need to build rapport. Keep talking and don't give up. I have to find my friend- this is a tim…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 02:06 PM
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Using Uncle Sam
/r/askTRP14/11/14 12:13 AM
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Sounds stupid, but in 20 minutes last night , I learned to play Mary had a little lamb in the guitar. It's liberating.
/r/askTRP09/11/14 02:54 PM
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The only thing keeping you from achieving your goals is the bullshit story you're telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it. Jordan Belfort
/r/askTRP08/11/14 01:26 PM
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The grass is only green where you water it. Here's the thing about RP. You are the captain of your ship. If she fulfills your needs and is subjective to your every whim you would not be asking this question. So you cried like a bitch to get her back. I think you want to go out and find another chick. If you do go for it. In my opinion if your not with your ideal ten then there's no way in hell you should commit to her. Life's short, have fun and change the world.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 01:22 PM
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What do you mean play dance?
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:57 PM
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Study French while you're there, pick up that Russian and Chineese. When running make sure you beat your old time every since time you run. Even if it's by a tenth of a second. This solidifies your growth. 100 push-ups , 1000 sit-ups and 100 squats every morning right as you wake up. Before meditation find a mint plant and inhale the scent. Mint clears the mind.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 07:23 PM
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It's a slippery slope there. I would use these messages to set up the next meet up/bang session. Normally of ifs it's girls I'm not going to see in a while or something , I make her show me how bad she misses me.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 07:18 PM
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Depends. My frame is that I'm the man and any man she's with isn't as funny, interesting or strong as me. I'm 6'4 250. It is conceited but more often than not jealous boyfriends don't really come into play as often as you think. Most of the time I find that it is her orbiters and the looks on their faces when I do something like that is priceless. Do I get rejected of course , but i can not stress how important your frame is in this sort of environment. Typically starting out I would reccomend p…
/r/askTRP03/11/14 07:12 PM
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An escort will not change your mindset. You will change your mindset. You have to be willing to go through the battle to win the war. If you get rejected by 100 women , but the 101st said yes and was the hottest girl you've ever been with was it worth it? I lost over 170 pounds and still think I'm far , but I realized something about perception, yes you can improve yourself and you constantly should be improving , but until you truly love yourself and value yourself before any woman you will be …
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:52 PM
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You can literally walk up to a girl in a club not say a word and make out with her. I know it's hard to believe , but I have done this several times in the past. It's easy and if you follow an RP model of a man women love it. Often times to get myself in the mood I walk into a dance club grab a random chick by the arm and tell her lets dance. From there you can do whatever you want. Be a man and a leader to women and they'll follow you.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:46 PM
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Depends. Have you been on a date meet before this? If not do exactly like tombreck says and ignore it. If you have met/banged I would use this opportunity to set up quickies or future dates. Never have lengthy conversations over text unless you need to build quick rapport. Many times texting eliminates you from a meet up where if you had shut your mouth and met with the same girl she'll sleep with you.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:42 PM
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Your afraid to lose a mom that popped two kids out and is leeching off her ex and probably yourself? Your SMV must be pretty low if you're scared of losing her. Your frame should be not giving two fucks about if she leaves. She has so much baggage it would be doing you a favor. Your bored at work? Learn a new language and use it to meet women of that nationality. Join dating sites or something. You can always do better, she can't.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:38 PM
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If a woman strikes you that's aggravated assault, you can turn her in or defend your self with a backhand. That guy is not your friend. Friends don't do that sort of crap over xboxes. Find some better friends, maintain that frame. Protect your money like you protect your health. If you don't either will be taken from you at any time.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:32 PM
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RP is knowing who you are and what you want. It's also about realizing all women will lie and tell you what you want to hear when they need a beta. You are not only fucking yourself up but by suplicating to the woman you are essteentially training her that her behavior is ok. The next sorry fuck who meets this woman then will have the same shit happen. Be a selfish asshole and worry about yourself. Your 18 and have far better things then this to do
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:30 PM
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Two options here. You put your seed in a woman who wasn't worthy of it and now your going to pay a price. You can either try to get joint custody or you can focus on yourself and build yourself up so in a few years you can provide a good life for your child. Either way you're going to pay for it.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 12:51 PM
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Why not use this girl to show him how women are? I mean it may be a harsh treatment for him to see that , but in the long run I think you would be able to open his eyes. I'm not saying try to convert him because until a person truly can see how awalt then they will not convert. My suggestion is to open his eyes a bit.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 01:58 PM
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I'm 27. I'm not super into clubs , but I mean when you can walk downstairs and pretty much have your pick of women to choose from I am strongly considering that the extra $200 would be worth it.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:06 PM
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My company has a gym I can use for free. I also have a gym membership 5 min away from the $900 place. Either way the gym won't be an issue.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:40 PM
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Make a change. If life feels dull make a change. It doesn't have to be major, but it can be. Every time you feel stuck do something that you've never done before. Can't break a weight lifting plateau? Lift twice a day for a week and watch the gains. Sick of an ltr? Take a day and talk to every girl you see. Hate your job? Ask for a Raise or more responsibility or even a transfer. If your really stuck, take a mini vacation to a place with minimal people. Sit down and meditate one what you want in…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 02:07 PM
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It takes two people to fight. If you do not let yourself get sucked into her frame she can not and will never fight you. Imagine that scene from the movie 300. Leoniadias and the army stand there as the storm beats against them. The Persian ships try to fight the storm and are smashed among the rocks. You must choose to be the army who stands there and yells do your worst for I shall not move. She can yell, not speak and throw tantrums all she wants. Never change your frame. Let me tell you the …
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:55 PM
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I'm off the opposite opinion here. As a RP guy it would tickle me that someone is wasting their precious time making me more popular. Why think about this at all? This does two positive things for you. It gets you more popular and adds a shroud of mystery to you. Do you think the big stars care what people write? Nope they don't. As long as your being written about your golden.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:47 PM
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It's no use arguing with idiots. Why waste your time or energy. Besides you have to work really hard so the thousands of feminists can live off welfare.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:10 PM
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This can and will back fire on you. For a one and done this works great , but for a girl who you know word spreads quick and can hurt you down the road.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:07 PM
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You have to see it as you are bringing something special to the person you are talking to. If they reject you, oh well you don't care. You need to see it as rejections get you that much closer to your goal.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 07:22 PM
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http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0
/r/askTRP28/10/14 07:15 PM
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http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0
/r/askTRP28/10/14 07:10 PM
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Correction to twice a day
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:35 PM
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Dude you put her on a pedestal and when that pedestal go kicked over you got butt hurt. If you had been following trp principles this wouldn't have happened to you. Improve yourself and she can fuck off.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 03:38 PM
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I know who I am. Whatever is said to me doesn't change how I feel about myself. Whatever is done to me doesn't affect the person I am. I am man among men, a lion amongst sheep. A true living legend.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 03:26 PM
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It's going to need done, the real question which I'll ask is At what point.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 03:07 PM
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You don't answer. Until she texts or posts something to you , you keep gaming.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:32 PM
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I would imagine your just out of highschool or early 20s. You need to leave. If a woman's getting physical ( and not sexually) then she doesn't respect you. Respect yourself and meet other women.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:29 PM
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I feel that it makes me look slovenly in both men and women's eyes. I'm willing to work my ass off to get it to just skin , but I still feel that I will need it.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:26 PM
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It's a bit more than that ,but it doesn't hinder me currently. I'm 27.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:20 PM
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Let's look at this for what it is. Your Smv has stayed the same while you chase her. You could be banging 9s right now but you're stuck on this special snowflake and your value has not risen. Her value declined( she's injured) so you want to swoop in and take her. Do yourself a favor and hard next her. Work on your smv
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:50 PM
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Get yourself checked for hsv 2. If it's not no affect. If it is lawyer up and sue her. My grandma gave me hsv1 bless her heart. Has no affect on me. When I get them I use abreva and no kissing for that week.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:45 PM
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You're on the path. Understanding is the key brother. Once you understand women it gets easier. When you can recognize a shit test and own it, when you can make out with random women in the middle of the dance floor while their orbiters watch jaws dropped. That is the path you're on.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:38 PM
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Build more rapport, make her laugh. Your opening is kinda terrible. You need to either make fun of something she's wearing or set up a joke sir something. The whole meat of your subject you look fun is uninteresting and boring. Some interesting openers. I was going to like you until I saw you were wearing ( team name) shirt. Your dog looks like he can bench press a house what do you feed him? I see you like ( subject) Have you ever been to ( name of place)? Basically you need to talk to them lik…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 06:16 PM
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Common thing. It's the hamster stating oh it just happened.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:35 PM
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I would rather have op go after any girl he wants to which is what I mean by go after them all, than sit on the sidelines and watch. In the example below dick seems to not have the charisma needed to be social. In my experience he probably goes up to girls and says want to bang or something like that. Dick probably had people that are jealous of him as it seems. Let's make no mistake about it though, dick is getting laid. After college is over dick is going to be the one to succeed because he is…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 01:42 PM
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Depends on the woman. If she's nude the illusion you're exclusive it could backfire. Personally I try to find women who want me to date other women. They know I'm a catch and want to let me do my own thing,
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:35 AM
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Is it wise to have several college age girls who only want to screw and party at the same time? Don't just go after the ones you think are hot. Go after them all. Several of the 7-8s have 9-10 friends at other colleges. Practice practice practice.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:37 PM
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Yes they are lairs. Push-up bras, makeup, high heels. They lie to you before you even meet them.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:35 PM
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You need to let it go. Being Rp is knowing that there is another woman/women out there for you. You should focus on becoming the absolute top in your class and getting that job most people dream about. Nothing is better revenge than overwhelming success. Be so successful that every day they have to see your face. Wether it's on a billboard , a tv or just your name on the building that's what you should strive for. When you reach that level woman aren't a problem, money isn't a problem. Aim for t…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:33 PM
1

Rapport is the world you're looking for. You may have made out or touch her, but by messaging her in the way you did your coming off creepy or it seems like you think your inferior. I would respond something like this. Hi and who are you might I ask? Me: Possible answers( Your future husband, the man of your dreams, your future children's father) etc. That's pretty far considering I don't know whos asking. Me: ( Say something sly where she knows it's you) at this point you need to evoke and emot…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 01:32 PM
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You're doing the right thing here. She was using you and you were receiving nothing in return for you being there. She now realizes that she wants you back( she lost her orbiter) and is trying to squeeze back into your life. Personally I've found that if you let these go it will be best. You could use her push and hookup but I'm of the opinion that there are many women out there that would gladly get with you, why settle for one who won't?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 01:24 PM
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Amen. Remember these are the same girls who would tell you you're such a nice guy and to never change. They are jealous that you can have such a relationship while they have to deal with all the drama that comes with an ltr.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:47 PM
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College is easy to game. Go to sports events , join the clubs. You don't have to be in a frat. It really depends in what girls your into. Want to have the odds in your favor? Join a salsa dancing club. Looking for that nerdy lawyer girl? Join the debate club. Outcome independence is key. You are probably coming off as needy in your interactions. Tons of options in college.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:04 PM
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You want it to be there on the second date. It's the sign of a good woman. If it was easy it would be not a suitable girl for ltr. What your looking for isn't so much comfort as it is rapport. You need to show that you are a sex worthy man. Build rapport is best do e through isolation and esculation. She needs to feel good about being alone with you. I would suggest after the first date talking a walk around to get intimate personal time.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:41 PM
3

Next her. No use of a relationship if there's no sex.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:16 AM
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This post resonates with me and let me tell you why. I was an avid video gamer for most of my early 20's. I wasted over 448 days on my video game addiction and what I had to show for it was a 435 pound frame that couldn't get laid, thought about suicide everyday and who failed out of school. Video games are addicting especially because I probably know which games you play as they are most likely the same games I played. Let me tell you some worthwhile points that video games helped me do in real…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:10 AM
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" I can't change." Bullshit. If I offered you 2 million dollars to be somewhere by 3 am tommorrow could you make it? Same concept. Adapt or die, grow or stagnate. It's a fucking choice. You don't get to choose the cards you're dealt, but how you play your hand is entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:07 PM
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I had a similar situation. I dated a volley ball player who was a starter in college. 6'0 and gorgeous. She left to grad school and I kept thinking how to get her back. The only thing I can tell you is overwhelming success is the best revenge to should've would've could've.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 01:03 AM
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Most women are followers. They will accept your reality before they even create their own. I would suggest trying to create a reality where she is your second in command and answers to no one but you. If one of her friends calls her out in front of you step in and crush them. Show her how to behave and she will follow.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 01:00 AM
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Why don't you use this to your advantage. Apply this to something that can make you money. It will help you long term. Find something you enjoy and do it.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 08:58 PM
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You need an abundance mentality. Next time she stops you ask her to leave. If she asks why tell her , I'm not your boyfriend or your friend if you want sexless movie night I'm not interested Set the tone that coming over to your house means sex.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 08:46 PM
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Your 25. You've been to places and done things these guys coming out of and still living in their parents basement have never done. Have you been to a foreign country? If so you have more Smv than 80% of your competition. I'm 27 and have no trouble competing against 18-24 year olds. I'm simply more interesting and fun. Plus if you were smart you have a thing most 18-20 year olds don't have: money, maybe even a house or your own place. It's so easy when your older that once you start really tryin…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 07:38 PM
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/r/askTRP17/10/14 06:54 PM
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Smells like a duck, quacks like a duck, looks like a duck. It's a duck. Your male hamstering her behavior. I'm confused. You said you don t live together? Why would she screw at your place? Did you give her a key to it?
/r/askTRP17/10/14 06:21 PM
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You shouldn't need to read about this if you're applying the principles. In theory you shouldn't have hours to read this if you're working on the best possible version of yourself. You need to become redpill not just read about it and use it like a technic. It should be who you are.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:34 PM
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Eat heathier. I'm talking about getting rid of everything processed. Do it for 4 weeks and you'll be detoxed and feel better.At 16 you're still growing and developing. Work out every day!! Your height doesn't excuse your physic. Cleaning eating will help all symptoms from above. Don't let other people tell you how attractive/unattractive you are. You are attractive because you work out everyday now. You are attractive because you eat healthy. Last point , most people your age worry too much abou…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:23 PM
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It's not horseshit. If you've been applying principles since your early to mid 20's your 30s should be extraordinary . It seems like you've just started. You still should have an advantage given you've had over 30+ years experience. You need to understand that starting out progress will be slow as it should. Trp men are like skyscrapers. You need to spend a lot of time at the base before you can build the floors. It's great that you started working out. It's great that you have hobbies. You need…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:12 PM
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Just be funny man. If you can make a chic laugh and show her you're silly, you're halfway home. I used to be like you and never get a second date. I was fat and took dates like job interviews. Be silly and have an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 11:39 AM
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I look at it like a car purchase. You don't quite want a new car because you don't know if that is broken in and who knows if there's a screw lose somewhere. On top of that the price for these cars is exorbitant and over market value. On the other end , you don't want those cars that have been drive. Nearly into the dust because god knows of they'll hold together. They may break down at any time and cost more just to maintain. Women are the same way. You want a barely driven car at or below mark…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:53 PM
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She was trying to bang her friends brother? Dude her Friend is in on it. There's no way her BFF is not encouraging her to do this shit. She is sorry she got caught. She came home and rode you but Imagined it was the brother. If you have kids you need to get custody, but if not leave her now before she gives you a nice present from a dude she hooks up with.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:37 PM
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The problem is going for the meetup with no rapport isn't working for me. I know there's so many flakes so I shouldn't be surprised
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:59 PM
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Super lucky is bullshit. Winning the lottery is lucky, everything else is a calculated risk. Are you pouring everything you have into these endeavors? If you are then work harder. You need to ensure you follow through.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 06:01 PM
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Right on the money, as always.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:47 PM
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Most of the focus should be on your daughter at this session. You need to make sure those women don't start putting special snowflake ideas upon her. Imprinting happens at an early age so this is crucial. As for gaming I don't raise some other dudes nut that he planted. To each their own , just my take.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:45 PM
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Lol. No contact. I would even think about this girl.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:42 PM
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Behind your little feelings there may not be anything. That's why you need principles(Trp) to protect you from yourself. Behind every principle there's a promise- Eric Thomas
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:58 PM
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I hate girls like that because they get butt hurt pretty easily because they have terrible social skills. Have you even been alone with her before? If so you have all the rapport you need to "watch a movie" or "play board games". If you haven't gotten 1 on 1 with her you need to as soon as possible. Texting her for more than 15-20 times not talking about a meet up friend zones you super hard.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:56 PM
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It really depends on the girl man. I mean generally if shes into you you can say pretty much anything , if you've never met use text to close her and get her out with you. For example: I see you like to frequent (bar, restaurant/place). I've never been , and I want you to introduce it to me. Meet you there at 8?
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:02 PM
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I normally start off with you've been to ( location). That's interesting, tell me more. Another one , it appears like you like adventure , tell me something crazy you've done.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 08:58 PM
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Just my opinion , but I go to the gym with one thing in mind, killing it. I treat the gym like church. I don't game girls in church, and I don't game girls in the gym. Girls are distractions that take away from my workout. Life is is all about what you focus on. If you focus on the girls ass you're missing out on building the best possible body. Maybe you miss that one extra rep or forgo that last set so you can chat. Last point lets say everything goes well you game and bang. Every time you go …
/r/askTRP03/10/14 04:28 PM
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Do you have a link to these?
/r/askTRP02/10/14 02:31 PM
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Trp principles. It's not all about looks either. My game was really good. It also helps when your friends are there treating you like a celeb. It's all about mentality and perseverance. Was it easy at 430, nope, I was an unheathy slob. I played football in college so I took that 430 and make it a solid 260. Way easier now. I find women are mostly the same. You pass shit tests your in. You build rapport and pull them.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 04:24 AM
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Lol. Read you post in Cartmans voice. It's hilarious. Hugh Hefner is still landing 9-10s near deaths door, I think you'll be ok. How many girls do you approach daily? Out do you go where the girls are? Are you a 8 or a 9. At 430 lbs I was able to get 8s , so don't tell me no girls will go for you. You need to quit crying and start grinding.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 06:09 PM
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Proactive works for face zits. Diet works even better. If your diet is right face zits don't occur very often. You need to sleep near the same every night for best results. Numerous studies show that people who are sleep reprieved can not even tell when their performance is decreased. A person not getting enough sleep can expect lower mental/physical performance up to 45%. YouTube body language and study the videos. Many are spot on. Practice on people and watch them. Body language doesn't lie. …
/r/askTRP29/09/14 06:05 PM
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You had rebound sex with a girl. She realizes what it was and you will soon as well.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:46 PM
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Your 18. This was the best thing to happen to you. Take that pain and focus it. Take that anger and hone it. Every damn day. Go to the gym and focus on getting the best fucking job you can. In 5-10 years you'll see her somewhere , perhaps at the movies or at some fancy restaurant. You'll say hi and your Russian model girlfriend will ask you how you know her. You'll smile , shake your head and say that was a long long time ago
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:39 PM
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Didn't know until after I took it. People still talk about how good I was in IT. In operations it's like a foreign country so nobody knows how good I was/am. I can't shine in this position and it's frustrating.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 02:25 PM
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Here's an exchange I recently had. Me: ( lyrics to a popular song) Her: ( completes the song line) Me: Karaoke duet? Her : (omg I'm so bad)( no no no, I can't) ( only when I'm drunk) insert playful line with sexual tones. I normally talk about getting a drink. Having me help her hit the higher notes etc. This exact conversation gets me laid about half the time. If she'll meet you , then she'll fuck you.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:57 PM
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That's not resistance. That's the female hamster. She's rationalizing why she hooked up with you last time. I usually ignore these. I suggest a new meet up time/place then proceed. If she tries to push back and says she wants a step back in person , be clear that there will be no steps back if she wants to continue seeing you.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:32 PM
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I'm confused. Your in a ltr. It sounds to me like you don't like this girl or want plates. Why not drop the ltr or plate her and keep your two plates. Add more plates and get a harem. Do what you feel is right for you and not for her. In the end shell thank you for it.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 10:46 PM
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"I still want her". Well that's great because she probably is looking for orbiters. If you want to pump and dump her ok , but I have a feeling that your feeling old and you want her validation for your ego. Keeping fishing a there's more than one 9 in the world.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:50 PM
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" I'm a 7.5 or an 8". I lol'd at this. How are you not a ten in your own mind? Want to know why she's not attracted to you anymore? It's because you're not even a ten in your own mind. You can't hide that shit from her, she clearly sees you don't value yourself as a ten through your body language. You need to act and treat yourself like a ten first and foremost. Secondly why are you in an ltr with a girl you think is a seven? Ifs she's not a 9-10 your settling bro. One thing I've learned I. Life…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 07:37 PM
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I would suggest to join a club that meets every week. Find something you like and join it. The people there will be interested in you and you'll always have things to talk about(ie the next meeting). From there try and branch out by being friendly. It takes time to build a network. Work on your Smv as well. It's easier to make friends and join networks when you look better and have /can provide more value.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 01:01 PM
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Thanks. I think that is my main reason for the stagnant feeling. I'm 6'4 and 260 when I was down to 245 before she started fucking around. Even at 260 I can literally see the outline of my abs and it kills me not to fully know what it would look like. I can see the goal in my mind and I think you've hit the nail on the head. I listen to ERIC Thomas everyday and I'm motivated. I just need that extra push and to keep going. I'm going to wake up tomorrow at 5 and start grinding again.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:14 AM
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Sex blinds you sometimes. I think I'll be ok. I signed up for grad school today so I'll have my mind elsewhere anyway.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:09 AM
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I'm not married. I'm in a short term lease for 4 more months. It's not a terrible situation , don't misunderstand me , it's just not right for me. I feel that my lack of drive is stemming from depression which is my own fault.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:07 AM
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I cannot as we both have the lease in our names. I could attempt to sublease , but honestly I think I'll wait it out as it will be easier and cleaner.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:06 AM
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Lease is under both our names. Money is not the issue. I'm liable for half the lease.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:06 AM
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Let's paraphrase. Should my girl go to her exes house , get drunk and then something happens? She's never going to see them after they go to the army( great reason For a final bang). Oh btw are you cool with that? Fuck some of these questions and the male hamster. Be RP and tell her she can go but the moment she's there you two are over.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:38 PM
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You've been together nine years ,but yet you have been depressed all bit one of them? Are you crazy? Why do you even being up marriage when it's pretty clear you're not ready. One year of normal doesn't take away eight of crazy. You need to meet his needs and then maybe in a few years think about it.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:33 PM
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It's the same as when you're in a bar and going up the every girl and asking if they want to fuck. There's no rapport and you instantly alienate the girl even if she's into you. The reason is because logic is not the main female driver as it is in men. That's why a girl asking guys to bang will get instant yeses. With women they want to feel emotion and by saying no games , your taking her fun out of it. I use Jason Belforts straight line method. 1. Sharp as a tack ( looks, physique, speech) 2. …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:24 PM
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This reads like a movie title "she's just not into you". She would be on you already if she was into you. Don't act upset by responding whatever , you need an amused mastery frame. I normally use k or ok if it's a shitty message. Go radio silent and wait for her to inquire about you. Besides you've already got two girls , so why not get ones that don't play games or hamster?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:37 PM
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You don't. You can game their friends , but never game them. Don't shit where you eat. Unless your the CEO then use caution.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:02 PM
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You first messages up to you not approving were decent. After that you turned into a beta. You showed you cared too much and were jealous. Instead of telling her to buy that guy delivery I would have told her that since she's buying pizza you'd like one brought over and specify the time. Then go radio silent. Her hamster will run like crazy. Any way if she goes out with this dude drop her gf status and get out there and spin.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 01:26 PM
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You sir have yourself a keeper. Reverse the situation. Emma Watson or Jessica alba give you their number. Would you take their card? How about telling your wife after you took it?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:26 PM
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There is loose skin, but you don't notice it. I'm working to lose 70 more pounds and then I plan on having surgery if needed. I built muscle up while doing this and you really can not tell that I was ever 430 pounds.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:39 PM
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People like to know who you are. She's used to you being a beta and when the slightest hint of alpha comes out it terrifies her. Omg he's changing. When you change yourself it makes other people question why they haven't changed themselves. It terrifies them because they don't want to see you do better than them. This girl needs to know the real you. Be a red pill man in all aspects of your life. Text like a red pill man.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:59 PM
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430>255 and continuing. I was kicked out of school three times before I double majored in MIS and Business. I have 250 college credits and am working on my masters. I have a job where my company is paying for it. I went from no girls interested to being able to walk up to any girl and at least chat if not get her number. I worked on myself every fucking day and haven't stopped yet. Sometimes when we hit rock bottom we have no where else to go but up. The first thing I challenge you to do is make…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:54 PM
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Your 6'3 but I'm guessing your thin and lankey. I'm 6'4 and from experience it's how you talk and carry yourself. Work on walking with your head up and chest out. When you talk to people look them in the eyes. In our society the first male to break eye contact is submissive. When you talk to people always use their first name No dan I don't want to go to the meeting for your notes. Well, Ernie I'm working on this big project right now. Another bit if advice. Wear the closest thing you can to a s…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:38 PM
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"What's there to clap about"? About her ass, "I've seen better" .
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:04 PM
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You took away what she was after :commitment. By hard no she knows that you won't commit. A better response would be to say that you enjoy your time together and want a relationship to happen naturally. You move is to wait for her to contact you again and keep spinning other women.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:57 PM
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It depends on your area. What do you do as a job currently? For me I know my IT salary averages and constantly negotiate to get above that. Factors I assess are how hard is the job., what are the perks and is the salary worth my time. In my opinion at 31 and an army vet 50-60k in the Midwest is average.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:52 PM
1

She still wants it. She puts it on as an act. Next time she makes the face tell her you need to discuss that in your room later. Always be closing on her. She'll come back. The fact she still takes to you shows she wants it.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:47 PM
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Two options here, ignore or A&A. My girlfriend does this all the time. She tells me I don't love her. I either ignore it or I say your right the only woman I'll ever love in my life is my mom. This normally leads to 10 minutes of pouting followed by sorry I was a bitch/sex.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:42 PM
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Your hamstering so hard in this post. You're looking for a reason for us to tell you to stay. Let me be up front with you about this. You've been beta this whole relationship and it's quite clear your girlfriend is using you as a provider. Your Smv is so low to her that she fucks other dudes while you make her soup. I'm guessing you have probably threatened to leave but after a while she calls your bluff. After she meets her ex-fwb you should've ended it. There's ten girls out there right now th…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:37 PM
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Be a redpill man and tell her it's not happening with another guy. If she still wants a FMF and you do as well , then do it. If she's says she doesn't , then you know that truthfully she wants another dude. If she says it's not fair , I usually tell her life isn't fair.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:26 PM
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You need to have affirmations. When I began to get depressed or act beta I snap my fingers loudly and changed state . Imagine yourself at your happiest moment and then snap Your fingers. Do this until your state changes. Tony Robbins has a great video on this. When talking to girls I imagine her riding me In my bed later and then I'm in state.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 06:13 PM
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Count to three and do it. If the girl rejects you they won't remember you. They're too caught up in their own world. The more you do the easier it gets.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 06:09 PM
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What year would you be in school? If your a junior/senior go to the university. If your a fresh/sophomore go to community college and transfer. The extra debt is not worth it. I have a double major in MIS and business and I recommend to anyone for the first two years to go to community college. The classes are the same for CS (I started in CS at a university dropped out and restarted at a community college) and you get a more personalized teaching style. The upper level courses at the university…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 06:07 PM
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You sound like a girl on this post. You are hamstering as you ask us what to do. She's not relationship material. I don't care if she looks like Jessica alba , if she talks shit about you she will cheat on you. If she doesn't respect you she will use you to get things then leave you. Why waste your time on a person by replying back. The best thing to do is to not talk to her and let her come to you. Use her if you want, I wouldn't but I just can't share myself with someone who talks shit about m…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:11 PM
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"Until you push yourself to your limits , you will never know how far you can go" You need to read more info if you think this is just about women or find a "girl". It's a lifestyle . Women , career , achievements all are part of red pill. Girls to be honest are the least of red pill in my opinion. Red pill is about bringing value to the world and going through all the bullshit to do it. You want girls? Invent the big thing. Look at the twitter inventor. Women will chase you if you have value. S…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:04 PM
2

"You're not my father!" You're right I'm not. This is my house and you're going to obey my rules. If you don't there will be consequences.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:52 PM
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You need to provide more details. Does she go home often? Are you away from home for long periods? Have you gained weight? If your traveling a lot and gone, she's screwing him. If she goes home a lot , she's screwing him or at the very least they are fooling around. All he has to do is make her question the relationship and he's got her. How old are you? This matters because divorce hurts more latter in life.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:43 PM
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Jealously shows that your Smv is lower than your mates. Instead of being perceived as strong, weakness shows through. I find shorter men have the most jealousy.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:33 PM
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Be the father figure for your sister. You're a man and she will respect you. Teach her at a young age and she will be ok
/r/askTRP08/08/14 08:25 PM
1

My point about this is you've got to lock in. It's like playing sports. In football , when the play happens , do you hear the crowd or are you so focused on what you have to do that the crowd doesn't affect you? Women are part of the crowd. If they come up get a number and talk later somewhere. If you don't want to bang them why talk to them? Would you rather have your dream body or waste time with women. When I lift , I get locked in. I don't know what's going on besides what I'm doing with the…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 08:21 PM
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If your scared of getting cheated on your still bluepill. Watch Glenn Gary glen Ross Alec Baldwin speech. You should be able to go out right now and girls to come home with you tonight motherfucker. If you don't then I don't feel sorry for you. Don't worry about what you can't control. Prove yourself so Much that women line up at the door for you. You are a lion among sheep. Act like it.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:49 PM
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I don't understand what your asking? Your mind is wrong man. In your own mind a 7-8 and 4-5 face. Fuck that. If your not a ten in your own mind why are you wasting valuable gym time talking to women? There is a time to meet women and a time to work. Gym should be work. Never shit where you eat applies to the gym too bro. If you bone her every time you try to get yourself in state at the gym , there she'll be and you'll get distracted. You don't need game or wit or charisma. You need to get your …
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:45 PM
1

Socializing in a club a couple different ways. If your looking to meet women I find employing the claw method works really well. Take them by the arm and lead them to the dance floor. If you want to chat with dudes(clubs are not made for bro chat) then offer your hand and shake hands and go to a quieter spot.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:29 PM
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Indifference is key. Feelings rule them. A girl goes about her day try to experience emotions. They make decisions on how they feel about something. This is why you see beautiful women with people who are losers. Logically it makes no sense to be with a broke , neck beard, tatted up dude , but he makes them feel like they aren't worthy of him. The red pill is dedicated to improving yourself and having a set of standards for all things in your life especially women. Watch the gary glenn gary spee…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:26 PM
1

At your age exclusive is a bad move not only romantically , but socially and career wise. Relationship wise you're inexperienced with women and handling their bullshit. When a woman tells you she loves you , she's hamstering and not to respond to the shit test. I normally respond to women by saying I love your face in a sarcastic tone. Career wise your limiting your social circle to her and her friends along with your friends. The overall idea is at your age is to meet so many people that you ca…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:44 PM
1

Answer to your question is don't be blue pill, take the red pill. Real men do without asking permission. Or how. Find a way , make a way. You want to bang them? Both at the same time? Find a way ,make a way. The only thing standing between your goal is the bullshit you keep telling yourself.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:26 PM
1

The idea is that the woman provides for the children and does not figuratively "ride" the mans coatails. Watch house of cards on netflix. Though they have no children the wife is about as redpill woman as they come. She works , she values the mans career and supports him no matter what. The house is cleaned by maids and other paid men. If your Smv gets high enough house work, food, all that becomes a non issue. Most men 90% will never reach this Smv. I don't say that to discourage you, I say it …
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:22 PM
1

As a 27 year old guy, until she asks you I would keep what you have. You have so much time , keep letting her come to events, etc , but know that once she locks you in that things may change. Some girls stay cool , but most girls aren't.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:17 PM
3

Neither is jump out with minimal resources. I agree with you and I'm going to bide my time and get ready.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:48 PM
3

Money wise l'd have just enough , but I want to be comfortable so I'm going to save save save. I might have to get a second job to help build faster.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:46 PM
2

I do agree. I have just enough to pay for a new place , but I'm going to build a bit of a nest egg.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:44 PM
4

What I did wrong was not dump her the first chance I had. I upgraded her from a plate way too early. I will go monk mode to raise my Smv back up.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:38 PM
1

This isn't the first time something like this has happened. She broke up once and came crawling back begging me to take her. She had talked to an ex while we were broken up. Obviously my Smv was higher. She's not wife material and I have come to realize this especially after this episode. I had been ignoring her hamstering for about two weeks. She got frustrated and after drinking heavily made a stupid choice.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:35 PM
0

My low salary is really what is bugging me. I'm i n a job that has a year learning curve and the training is so poor that the majority of my day is spent doing absolutely nothing because the people that train me are too busy to show me how to do anything. I have to wait one year until I can transfer, I'm currently at 5 months.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:43 PM
4

I'm leaning on that as well. I'll go monk mode for the duration of the lease 4-5 months. After that I'll be ready to go and game.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:34 PM
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She was mad because my brother and I were out partying.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:46 PM
1

Do me a favor and grab that thing between your legs. You feel that right there? That's power. In it's purest form. It's worth more than thousands of women. In China if you aren't born with one you would've been drowned. The greatest empires the world has every seen where founded by men. Why is it our forefathers and not foremothers we credit for our nations? Because they are men and men take action. You want to be a woman, go ahead. You can have a gender change and go see what that's like. They …
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:15 PM
5

Leading you on. She wants options and she's keeping it open to you. Yes you could plate her, but dude part of the red pill is sticking to your guns. You ended it with that girl for a reason. 4 hours is a good once in a while bang feat but her messages make her seem like a Clingon and I for one would not want to deal with that drama.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:58 PM
3

Let me tell you who should stay,. NONE of them. Don't waste your time on girl "friends" . Go to the mall , approach 5 women and just start talking. Meet girls that are interested. Take it from me as a guy who wasted all of highschool on one girl who didn't want him. Meet women who like you for more than a friend.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:15 PM
4

Did this interaction help you in any way be more successful or help you in reaching your goals with women? Did you feed her hamster and let her validate her self by wasting your own time? All you needed to say was you are not attractive enough and let her hamster and go do your own thing. Instead you validated her by drawing out conversation that did nothing for you. Focus on you bro, tell her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:08 PM
1

Tell them you have an open relationship. Pretty simple. Most women accept it and the ones that don't aren't what you're looking for anyway.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:01 PM
2

You've got to be Hungry! Serious read your post with the voice of southparks Cartman. Tell me if you didn't laugh at how fucking pathetic that sounds. Right now you're a sheep. You BA BA BA about your problems. Let me tell you something that you might not know. There are wolves out there motherfucker. These wolves are fucking your ex while you sit here crying ( BA BA BA). They don't give a shit about you not knowing how to bake a cake. They are waiting for you to bake it and then they'll steal t…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:59 PM
3

What is the downside to letting this flop?
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:56 PM
1

Dude, it's like fishing. Do you bait the hook any differently because you know that big ones coming? You do everything the exact same. You bait the hook cast the line and then when you get one on you wrestle the damn thing for hours. A good ltr is going to be like that big fish. It's going to challenge your limits , and even though it's the same method, it just takes a bit more time/effort
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:36 PM
2

Why the fuck do you care ? There's an opening at jelly school if you want a spot. Seriously , she realizes you have a high Smv and is trying to get back under you for it. You have her where she will tell/do anything for you. Why not use this to your advantage and then next her. If you want long term with her it probably won't happen. Good chance that neighbor and her still have fwb going , especially since they hangout all the time. As a man you know one of two things when you go to the gym and …
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:19 PM
1

You have a bad situation. Try to get into freelance stuff online. Severs opportunities exist. You can make more than her if you put some time in.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 09:00 PM
1

Yes. I never stated it and anytime they brought up an ltr I'd be like yeah I'd like one someday. They saw hair bands and misc crap that girls leave when they try and claim you. It made them compete for my time , which is awesome. No feeling in the world like having women offer to buy you dinner. They never met each other , but I think in the future I might try it. Also I had a blonde a brunette and a redhead all 5'10". I'm 6'4" so it was perfect. On girl lived downtown 4 blocks away from my work…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:48 PM
8

This frame. Be amused by the fact he wants her and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:40 PM
4

Let me just say from my experience. I've been with one women for a long time, however I was never happier than when I had 3-4 women of whom I could sleep with on any given night. Each one was different and it's not so much splitting your sexual energy as much as allowing your self to harmonize. There were never any fights, no hard feelings , just constant dates and freedom. It's your choice , but having options is a major advantage because it helps you get out of outcome dependence on one girl. …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:38 PM
1

A real man drinks water. Why? Because water is the best drink on this earth. It heals and nourishes your body and enables you be your best. Any time anyone gives you shit about what you drink it's a congruence test built to try and shake your character.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:34 PM
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Dude, you need to keep reading. You need to have an abundance mentality. You need to meet other women. Lots of women. Here's my challenge to you approach 5 women everyday and ask them out. If you get 1 number a week ( which is the absolute worst scenerio, then by 2 months you'll have 8 numbers. Now you have plenty of dates. Plenty of women are better looking , smarter and wealthier, why settle for her?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:20 PM
5

Here's my take on gaming these girls. It's super easy to get them because 5 years and no commitment( ie ring and other bullshit) and she's looking for a quality guy for a replacement. Normally this ends three ways. She says you misunderstood/ she just wants good friends You fuck her and she says it was a mistake / she knows her bf is the one (rabble, rabble) She leaves her man for you and eventually she's cheats on you later down the road. You could plate her, but watch out because jealous bfs a…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:11 PM
1

Life is one big game man. You are the hero of your story. TRP helps you adopt a hero mindset. Everyone else is just a supporting cast member. You decide what you want and then go get it. If you want fame trp can help you with that. If you want women trp can help with that. If you want to be a bald monk in a momentary and chant mantras trp can probably support that. Trp is choosing that you decide your fate and you shape your Destiny. For me my family has always been lower middle class and beta m…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:02 PM
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Women can have kids up to 38 and 40. Is she pressuring you? If so bail, if not don't worry about it and do your own thing.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:53 PM
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What I learned in the text game is patience is the biggest virtue. Wait for her to respond. Eventually she will. This will also tell you key things about her interest in you. A girl that wants you will respond that day. A girl that is unsure will take longer. A girl that your "friend zoned" takes their sweet ass time. Of course stuff comes up and people are busy , however you need to wait them out. The red pill philosophy is that it doesn't matter if she responds because I have two other girls t…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:50 PM
2

My reply would have been, if you have the recipe hidden somewhere show me , if you don't I'm doing this the way I want.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:39 PM
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Dude, take everything with a grain of salt. Are you happy? Are you able to persue your desires? Does she support these or is a hinderance? If she's helping you and you're happy then where is the problem?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:23 PM
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There is another table over there is what we call a congruence test. You failed because you offered an excuse as why you wanted to sit there. Men are proactive, not reactive. My response would have been to look at the table and say oh I see and then proceed to sit down at her table. If she leaves she leaves , but most of the time it makes it super awkward which coming from a self amused frame is funny to me .
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:02 PM
3

Here's how I'm dealing with it. I'm working as hard as possible to do the best I can. I'm in the same boat. The company I work for is great, but I took my in doing the high stress low pay job. The company gives me money to work on my masters so while I'm there I'm going to get my masters. Also since the job I work is high skill set, but low volume I have loads of free time to network and find those positions where I want to move. If you want something bad enough you find a way. I wanted a new ca…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:15 PM
0

In the future , don't do first dates at movies. It gives you no chance to build smv and also you learn nothing about the person you are with. That being said it looks like you have oneitis for this girl bad. You talk about making her happy. The whole point of TRP is to make yourself happy. Where do you want to go? How do you feel about it? From what you describe she's already into you ( anyone that suggests going on a date instead of getting paid for a service is into you) , so why are you worry…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:20 PM
2

Here's what I do to overcome my anxiety or approach. Start the count from 5..4..3..2.. And when you hit one do it. Rsd has a good rule that I like to follow. A group of 3-4 girls are probably friends so you need to engage the group. A group of 5-10 and it's a good chance they are loosely associated , so I engage my interest. Imagine you have a check for 10,000 dollars in your pocket. You can give it to anyone you want. Wouldn't you want to see if the person that your going to give to is worthy? …
/r/askTRP18/07/14 04:39 PM
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You let a 7/10 girl bother you too much. It's as much of a numbers game as with most things in life. You tried 1/1 with a girl who barely knew you. Just because you go to university with her doesn't mean shit to her. My question to you is where did you show her value? By value I mean a mature sex worthy guy? You tried to pull her number without showing any value or worth. Girls are not much different than having fun with your friends. Make them laugh , show value and then unlike your friends , y…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 04:07 PM
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Let's look at celebrity's as an example for this. How about Angilina Jolie? Do you think she's with Brad Pitt because of his money or do you think she's with him because he is Brad Pitt? How about Jessica Alba , did she get with her man because of his wealth or because of who he is? Money, Cars , wealth is impressive, but guys use it as a crutch. Your attitude about yourself is the key. Many times wealth changes a guys attitude and he can act more alpha because of confidence it gives him. Confid…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 01:16 PM
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Jealous and insecurity are feminine traits. Let her have fun while she's there, but let her know that she will have to take classes with you when you get back. If you tell her no , more than likely her friends will pressure her into it anyway and you'll come off looking like a needy bitch or she will lie to you. It's not you , that's just most women with a herd mentality. A RP guy does not give two shits about some poor Latino guy in South America. If she does cheat her friends will tar her out …
/r/askTRP17/07/14 07:56 PM
2

I have a few months on a lease, we consigned . Any suggestions with what to do while I wait?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:50 PM
2

This is one of the problems I have meeting people. Most of them live such predictable lives that if I hang out with them a few times I'm going to be able to tell you exactly when they eat sleep and shit. Many are so bp or white knights that it's impossible to have a conversation because their gf or sister chimes in and they instantly agree with whatever she said.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:13 PM
5

Well that's a question I've begun to ask myself. At first I think I got lost in how good the sex was and she made my life easier when we would get together, ie dishes, laundry, groceries. Almost everything I needed to just focus on me. At the time beta me thought well shit, I could get this every day 24/7. She lived 45 min away and that drive sucked. As far as the kids , I've told her I'm not having any until my 30's. I have a really strong frame and several options and she knows this , so deali…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:49 PM
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At work. She just got a new job and they had a job fair. I understand the stress , which is why I tolerate the hour discrepancy. Ignoring me is a whole different issue that I won't accept.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:39 PM
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That's what I'm leaning towards. I laughed so hard when I saw make the make a list text.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:17 PM
1

Thanks for your insight. I'm going to focus more and take up meditation and see if that will help.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:10 PM
1

I love working out. I get joy out of working out than any other aspect of my life.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 06:00 PM
1

I realize and accept the problem lies within myself. The problem is I don't know what to do to change. You're absolutely right about me being fit , but trapped in a fats man mentality. This is truly my kryptonite when it comes to game and meeting women. The problem is the girl I'm seeing right now is 30. She's definitely at the wall , ie tired all the time, bitchy half the week. As far as her friends go they are all post wall 33-40 and I can't relate to them. Most of them are not financially wel…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:50 PM
1

Thanks for your input. I'll keep working on myself.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 03:21 AM
2

Thanks. I'll work on finding myself , the old self. I'm going to take up meditation and see if that helps.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 03:20 AM
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