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Victim Pukesucka_chump/r/askMRP04/11/20 07:19 PM
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sucka_chump/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:45 AM
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I was right. But I still don’t have the proof that I need to take action. Working on it
/r/askMRP25/04/21 11:19 PM
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Did you make out ok in the end?
/r/askMRP10/01/21 04:33 AM
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Ok will do
/r/askMRP10/01/21 04:33 AM
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Thanks. That clears things up a lot. Appreciate it man.
/r/askMRP10/01/21 03:10 AM
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Ok so I have contacted lawyers and got some quotes on consultations. Man all of these “free” consultations do not exist around here. All lawyers charge at least a few hundred dollars for initial consultation. Problem is that SO keeps an extremely close eye on our finances. Hard to slip anything by her (I know lack of frame) I am considering setting up a second bank account to slip funds into occasionally so that I can pay for some of this shit on the front end inconspicuously in order to get a j…
/r/askMRP10/01/21 12:59 AM
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Thanks for checking in. I am definitely in a better place with all of it compared to where I was when I posted that. Still no hard evidence and still trying to put a plan together in terms of a timeline. Contacted several lawyers and that feels good, but I still have spurts of anger occasionally. That comes and goes so I know that I am not completely ready. I have failed to get out there and meet women. That is really hard to do right now considering COVID restrictions in our state. I think that…
/r/askMRP05/01/21 12:06 AM
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Thanks man. That could be true, but there have been so many other signs that something was going on and I continue to see signs of that. Maybe just because I am looking, but I think that there are too many obvious signs. I plan to update soon as my 28 day ban is lifted haha
/r/askMRP05/12/20 11:40 AM
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Think I read that post too. She is sort of tech savvy and uses a work-issued computer. I think that is what she primarily uses to communicate w him. I can use a voice recorder to catch phone calls but not sure that would be enough. Guess it depends on the content.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 05:29 PM
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Got banned from MRP OYS thread yesterday hahaha. Other than that, no new updates. Trying to get out of my head about it all and I plan to contact a lawyer soon just to be ahead of whatever comes. I just wanna be careful because I am still pretty pissed off and I can’t afford to fuck this up. Also, I need hard evidence or else I risk fucking myself over. Technically speaking, all I have are legally baseless accusations. The advice on here has been good for most part, but it is more complicated th…
/r/askMRP18/11/20 02:41 PM
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OYS #2: A Revealing Week STATS: Height 6’1”; Weight 187lbs (this morning); Lifts: Squat 260 5x5; OP 105 5x5; DL 225 1x5; Bench 150 5x5; BB Row 115 5x5 READ: All 3 of Rollo’s books; Book of Pook; WISNIFG; NMMNG (2x); MMSLP; WOTSM; 12 Rules for Life; MAP (currently) BACKGROUND: 46yo. Married 19 years to 45yo SO. 2 teenaged children. Recently discovered and currently suspect an affair with co-worker (a manager actually) pre-COVID. Not enough evidence to confirm 100% but highly likely after overhear…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 11:20 AM
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Thanks glad to be here. I will be following yours as well
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 11:48 AM
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OYS #1 I am 46 yrs old. Married 19 years to 45 yr old wife. 2 teenaged kids. Read NMMNG (2x), all of Rollo’s books, WOTSM, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, 12 Rules for Life, MMSLP, Currently Reading: MAP LIFTS: Height: 6’1” Weight: 190; Squat 245 5x5; BP 145 5x5; Barbell Row 130 5x5; Deadlift 220 5x5; OP 100 5x5 (deloaded on a couple exercises after tweaking my back 2 workouts ago) BACKGROUND: This is my first OYS ever after asking for advice last week on ask MRP. I sought advice regarding my suspicions …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:47 AM
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Handled his business. Thank you
/r/askMRP06/11/20 11:56 PM
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Great thank you
/r/askMRP06/11/20 10:01 PM
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Damn. I can’t disagree with any of this if my suspicions are accurate. Hell.....even if I am wrong this is still good and applicable advice. I especially like the idea of upping my lifts and my social game. Especially social because that is an area that I have let go. I have lots of friends, but I do not hang with them much these days. I need to reach out and initiate hangs. Got a few guys I play disc golf with and I have been doing that more often of late. Could use another hobby. Need to strik…
/r/askMRP06/11/20 11:44 AM
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Yeah I’ve already had several instances where I was thinking I had something else on her and then it turns out I was totally wrong. That happened today actually haha. Need to move on and shift focus
/r/askMRP06/11/20 01:45 AM
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Thanks, this was eye opening. I start posting on Tuesday.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 09:13 PM
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Damn. Yes. One question...where/how do I post my OYS entries? I read them every week but where/how do I post them? Do I just post it over at MRP?
/r/askMRP05/11/20 07:15 PM
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Damn that part about frequency getting laid is me to a T. I have lost a bunch of weight too...40 lbs in the last year. 10 of those in the last 3-4 months. Lifting has made a big difference and I am seeing/feeling positive changes. Its one thing I like about 5x5 lifts....easily measured progress. But getting bored with that and want to try a different program perhaps. Maybe something lower weight/higher reps. Not sure. Just don’t want to lose motivation. All of this shit actually has me highly mo…
/r/askMRP05/11/20 05:07 PM
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I’m in and I really appreciate this. I want to also focus on being a more positive presence for my kids in case this plays out the way I think it will. Self-improvement is the best way to ensure that. Are you making progress?
/r/askMRP05/11/20 03:23 PM
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Good point, but no I have not expressed or even experienced jealousy with her. That’s what has me thinking this is real. Her co-workers that I hear her giddily talking about him with are female. She avoids talking about him around me, but has freudian slipped his name and became very awkward/embarrassed after. The guy is definitely an alpha male. Big shot upper management at a major corporation. To me, it is textbook. But I am willing to leave room for doubt for now until I see more. Will focus …
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:38 PM
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Thanks for that. Yes, that paragraph rings some bells. This advice is sobering.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:27 PM
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Appreciate the perspective and you are exactly right. Need more proof.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 04:31 AM
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Yup. Surprised the hell out of me too and still a bit of a head scratcher. She was in her home office with the door closed. I had been on a call in the other room upstairs (which she knew). My call ended early and I walked downstairs and heard them taking, so I stopped to listen for a bit. She was speaking in sort of a hushed voice and she had him on speaker.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 03:58 AM
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Great insight and well stated. Thank you.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 03:28 AM
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Create my MAP, be patient, focus on dissolving ego, keep on lifting, read, observe, and OYS.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 03:22 AM
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Thanks man. I plan to be patient and calculated. I appreciate the replies
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:12 AM
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It is possible, but looking back there is a lot more evidence that something had been going on. And just the way I hear her talk about him to her co-workers. It is non-stop. She does not know I am hearing it, but we are both working from home and she is on a lot of calls with coworkers. Before I overheard what I described in my OP, my senses had been heightened and alerted to her affection for Chad. And he is also someone who she works very closely/frequently with, but she always mentioned his n…
/r/askMRP05/11/20 12:31 AM
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Thank you. I have been avoiding this and did not think it was for me. I have no choice now.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 11:01 PM
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Thanks man I think that this is great advice. I want to improve and it is hard being patient, but you’re right that something will come out at some point. I am making my MAP priority #1.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:36 PM
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Thank you this is what I am leaning toward
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:27 PM
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I think she said that bc they are legit trying to end it. There are more indicators of affair now in retrospect. A lot that I just missed completely. All I really needed to hear was her voice when she was talking to him on the phone. The tone of her voice alone was one of intimacy. No question at all about that
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:26 PM
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This has crossed my mind for sure. Would only be about 3 1/2 more years which is an eternity. And the guilt will only work if she actually feelz guilt about it.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:39 PM
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Yes, I see the ways in which this is my fault if I am right about the affair (and I am pretty damn sure I am right). What I want to do is confront and get the fuck out. But it is hard to envision life without my kids in my home. That is my biggest hang up. Bar none.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:00 PM
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I need to provide more context. I know that he is separated from his wife but I don’t know any other details. This is what I heard: Her: (quietly) “I have been thinking about you....a LOT!” Chad: “I know. It’s really hard” Her: “What did you do this weekend?” Chad: “Paddle boarded blah blah” Her: “Good good....that’s really good!!” Chad: “I am talking to (current wife who he is separated from’s name) again.” Her: “Good! I am really glad. I hope you guys can work through everything.” Chad: “Thank…
/r/askMRP04/11/20 07:45 PM
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