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Do you think that he was genuinely confused? It's hard for me to tell. He did seem like the type of guy that probably wasn't used to hearing the word 'no'. How did you respond to his message that he misunderstood the "kink-play? At the time, and still to this day, I kinda wanted to make the whole thing go away and bring as little attention to it as possible. I accepted his excuse because it's just plausable enough to allow me to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:51 PM
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Once upon a time, during college but not at college, I was sorta seeing this guy. Fooling around a while, nothing official. One night I brought him back to my place to fuck. He wanted to do anal, I did not. I told him often, and long before the heat of the moment that this was off the table. But that night, he pinned me down, and sodomized me. I kicked and screamed bloody murder and everything I could do against him. A few moments later he did get off of me saying if I didn't quite down the neig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:39 PM
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I started with 3 lbs and 5 lbs dumbbells, but I quickly worked my way up to 12s (I have 8s and 10s in my collection too). That range covers all of my upper body and most lower body moves too. Dead lifts are the only ones I can do easily with the twelves for any number of reps. I highly recommend Fitness Blender, they have some great videos for women's strength training. The newer videos also tell you how much she's lifting for any particular move.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:10 AM
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I agree that you should never play dumb. Its not strange or unexpected for your partner to come to you for your advice and opinions, especially if he trusts you. A good leader always surrounds themselves with people he can ask for help when he needs it. If he is getting touchy when he asks for your opinion and gets it, it's probably in your presentation. Instead of saying 'I think X, Y, and Z', try asking him questions about his work, like how he came to that conclusion or how his response would…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/16 04:34 PM
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First, show me one of these studies. Secondly, Isreal's army seems to be doing just fine. "The number of wars and border conflicts in which the IDF has been involved in its short history makes it one of the most battle-trained armed forces in the world." From Wikipedia. Thirdly, I think the advantages gained to the general public from such a program would at least be equal to the advantages of winning a war (on terrorism? Drugs?).
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 01:31 PM
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I met my SO on OkCupid. All sorts of folks use the internet these days. There's more to shit to sift through, but there are some genuinely good men on there. I noticed you had Church on your list, perhaps you could try the Christian specific dating sites, ChristianMingle I believe it's called.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 01:42 AM
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Probably. Women (and I know I'm guilty of this) when left unchecked, either by themselves or society, naturally try to betafy their men. Both to test for fitness and to make him unattractive to other women. Was he actually more masculine when you first started dating? If yes, you definitely should ease up. If his level of dominance is really just about the same, it's probably just how he is and you should probably ease up anyway, but just know he may never be a super commanding guy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 08:33 PM
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I like the idea of a responsibility/rights solution. That's why I'm pro women in the army. It's catching up on the responsibility that we have been missing. (Actually I'm pro mandatory military service for everyone, for just a ton of reasons.) If a woman works, pay half the damn dinner bill. Tit for tat, that's the societal change we need. Edit: Misspelling
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:45 PM
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One of the things that helps me to let go is to think of what's the worst that could happen. Like, if he makes a mistake but no one will get hurt, and you won't go hungry... Let him make it. And then let him fix it. Start with little things and build that trust. Learn to turn your head when you see him doing something you think will end poorly. For example from my life: my SO bought a basil plant and for a while I insisted he was going to over water it and kill it. But after about a week I was l…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 11:37 AM
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You could preserve your family name another way, giving it to your son as a first name. In colonial times, it was common for a woman to give her maiden name to her first son as a first name. Also, you could hyphenate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 11:23 AM
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For the cleaning schedule, I use a free app called chorechecklist. It's not very pretty but it allows you to make multiple lists that automatically reset every day, week, month whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 07:06 PM
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I'd say at the time I was a 6, maybe a 7 if I really tried. He was 3 or 4. We only had sex that one time, and as far as I know no one caught feels. I had never considered a relationship with him because I didn't find him attractive, why he didn't persue one with me I'll never know. I'm glad I could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:01 PM
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I'll come forward. I've done it before. I had a friend in college who was about to graduate a virgin. He was way low smv, but he was a friend and he told me that more than anything he wanted to have sex. Not specifically with me, but I guess on some level it had to be specifically with me, right? So I offered to have sex with him, and did, and then we resumed being friends until he left for grad school. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 09:43 PM
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Why wait? Why don't you dye your hair purple now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 02:16 PM
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An hour? Really? That sounds exhausting! I'd probably want sex a bit less often too if it took a whole damn hour. 15-20 min is ideal for me personally, if it takes much longer than that I start counting ceiling tiles. If it takes much longer than that every time we have sex I start avoiding it because it's not fun for me, there's only so many times I can say "oh baby that feels so good!" in an hour before it starts coming off as fake. Plus I've got other things that need to get done. I'd try wra…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:06 PM
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The question does ask what you think is a quality man, but most men aren't looking for quality men to start relationships with. They're basing those qualities in what they think other people would like (hopefully with the goal of emulating those qualities). I thought it asked for your definition of a quality man, without putting words in other people's minds or mouths. So then who are you to say his definition of a quality man is wrong. Perhaps he has different values than you. Right but if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 05:14 PM
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And again the issue is he claims this is "according to women" as if you can know someone else's standards. If this is his standard, fine. There is plenty evidence women have higher standards and weed out much much much further than this superficial list. Well the op didn't specify that the question was for women, so I took it to mean 'what do guys think women think', which is a valid question and a valid answer. There are many different forms of abuse, not just physical. Someone who is consisten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 02:28 PM
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All I'm saying is that by asserting this is what women consider a "great guy" when in fact that list is insufficient to weed out abusers, that shit is illogical. That is not a sufficient list of criteria for a great guy. It's funny that you mention the list is insufficient to weed out abusers. But abusers very often do find mates. Not saying that it's good or that is should happen (its terrible and definitely shouldn't happen). But as individuals we cannot weed out abusers, because they are shap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 12:21 PM
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The dating period is a trial for marriage. The rpw needs to display her value to the man in order to gain the commitment. If she's holding out on the housework until after commitment, the man has no reason to keep her around in the meantime or to believe she will actually start as she promised or that her skills are up to his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:31 PM
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I like your comment. It makes me very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 05:27 PM
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How did he deceive you if he didn't say those things? Somebody else did. And you never heard him say otherwise, only what other people maaaybe said about him. Your whole problem starts and ends with gossip. Maybe he is actually all that and more, but you got so butthurt by what other people said about him that you feel it reflects badly on you (which it does), so you feel victimized as a self defense mechanism. You obviously found him attractive, and you felt enough of a connection to have sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 06:01 PM
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Lol, it would be interesting if an under aged girl lied about her age to have sex with someone. Then they'd both be rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:34 PM
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Did he deserve punishment? He didn't lie to you, he didn't say anything. The girl is the one that lied to you, why does she get off Scott free? I can understand feeling poorly for what happened, but putting it all on this man, and not on yourself or the other girl is not fair or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:21 PM
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I would definitely include parties, simply because lack of sleep is implied. Traveling could also lead to lack of sleep and premature aging as well, but I don't think its inherent. I don't really include sexual experimentation as long as its safe, being full of STDs or post-pregnancy isn't going to make you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 12:09 AM
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It isn't a magical point, it happens over time. Obviously, aging. And the more a woman (or man really) lives a party lifestyle in youth, then the sooner, faster, and more severe the aging will appear. As if she/he suddenly hit a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 06:52 PM
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Do I even need to mention how immigration and the recession has that sector nearly completely sewed up? Especially in America and the UK. Saying nothing of the fact that people looking to hire a nanny generally tend to go for younger women who can keep up with small children. A 42yr old divorcee with few references is not likely to be the first choice. And more importantly, the majority of service industry jobs are minimum wage and part time. I don't buy the immigrant argument, I know that stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 08:33 PM
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Cleaning service, babysitter/nanny, hotel staff, cook or any other job that you don't need much experience for. Sure these jobs aren't fabulous, but a) someone's got to do it and b) if they were really great jobs then it wouldn't be a sacrifice. Lastly, this outcome wouldn't be a surprise to someone who was considering a sah lifestyle, but an accepted possible outcome that she/he would have to weigh before choosing that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 07:11 PM
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I can see that for some cases, Hindi is similar I've been told. I don't think any religion where recruitment is a heavy strategy would be like that. When I say tribal/ethnic thing, I mean a significant proportion people are openly atheist or agnostic but still identify with Judaism because it describes a specific world history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 06:00 PM
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I'm Jewish, but for me its more of an ethnic/tribal thing than religious. I think religion has a time and a place, mostly for building community. But like any other institution, it can be used by some to propagate agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 11:03 PM
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I recognize that people have different ways/triggers of passing judgement (I value conversational skills very highly), I'm just pointing out this one (degrees) because it's personal to me. Thats fair, every one is entitled to their own value system and it takes all kinds to make the world go round. I'd just guess I wanted to point out that you can't just say, "I make six figures" and have it be equal or better than a degree. Its two separate measures that emphasize different values and skill set…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 11:09 PM
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Intelligence and hardwork are not synonymous with a degree. You can have intelligence and be hard working without a degree. Please see the last line of the last post. You can also have a degree without any intelligence or hard work. Fair, but normally these people get caught in other filters. You can also have a degree with only one. I personally don't find degrees to mean anything anymore. You can basically buy them now a days. I don't think thats true for most people. Normally if you have at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 07:32 PM
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Maybe its not the money that matters? I'm in the camp of women that does this and its more about the intelligence/hard work that goes into higher learning that I'm looking. Education was heavily stressed in my life since childhood, I'd like to instill that same value into my children, I very well can't do that if my partner is not at least as educated as I am. Preemptively, yes I realize you can be intelligent and/or hardworking without getting a higher education, but my personal belief is if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 06:56 PM
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Mating is a much higher risk for women then men, biologically speaking. Things like marriage (or ltr) with a man that has more resources helps make reproduction maaaaaybe worth it. Thats what I mean by fair. In order for a woman to want to reproduce there has to be something to make the risk she has to take more in her favor. And of course woman are always looking to take advantage, so are men. Doesn't mean that either should get their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:12 AM
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How is woman spending more money on hair and clothes not fair? If a man wants to spend that money he can and if a girl doesn't than she doesn't have to. Same thing about the shoes. Both of those things increase smv for the person that does it, and doesn't decrease the smv of their husband/wife. As for the child bearing thing, thats biology, the whole point of mating strategy for women is to try and make this as fair as possible with social construct to counter the fact its inherently unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 11:48 PM
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Hey you asked what we would think about making this the usual thing. Now why the hell would I be for something that, by you own admission, is unfair? Thats why it won't become socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 09:52 PM
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Not the best advice, an ltr-worthy girl probably wouldn't let herself be a plate.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 09:37 PM
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Its not preserving the marriage, its changing the rules of it. If a woman gets married early in life with the understanding that it is monogamous, the man changing the rules on her once she is older is deceptive and unfair. In rp terms: an older man going out and having sex with younger women (be they hookers or other) can still get her pregnant, therefore the wife will loose 18 years worth of his sm currency. This is unfair to the wife who may have given the husband her full currency and at tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 09:20 PM
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This makes me think of the web show Red Vs Blue. Actually I can't believe I haven't made that connection sooner...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 09:03 PM
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Very true, the only reason I knew about this friend was because we were roommates and I walked in once while he was injecting t. He had to sit down and have a very awkward convo about how he wasn't doing some hard drugs.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 04:00 PM
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It is a legitimately recognized condition in the medical sphere, you need to have ongoing psychiatric therapy to get diagnosed, to receive testosterone/estrogen treatments, and have many therapy sessions before getting a medical referral for surgery. Edit: more to add I have a friend that is truly trans, he considers himself sick and that hormone therapy is medicine that makes healthy. The difference between him and other Trans people that I've met is that if he passes being noticed as such, he …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:10 PM
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Oh sorry about the miscommunication. Since it is your thread, would you like me to delete the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 11:40 AM
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It seemed to me you asked about the pros and cons of a woman remaining sexually conservative in today's world. I was giving another con...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 11:02 AM
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She keeps an eye out for those types, but I think they usually fail the 'of a certain intelligence' portion. Not saying that having faith makes you less intelligently, or that you need to be less intelligent in order to have faith, but generally those that save themselves for religious reasons are such fanatics that its the most profound aspect of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 02:59 AM
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I have a acquaintance who is a dear sweet, bubbly, young lady. She is a clear 10 and in her third year of medical school. And she is saving herself for marriage. But she's broken up with every guy she has ever dated because of things like "he never held the door open for me" and "he made me pay for my own dinner". And this is what I would tell her if she ever asked for my opinion on the subject... She has set her standards too high, and therefore is attracting the wrong kind of man. And let's as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 02:18 AM
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Yes it is just having a good relationship. I'm not sure why its called game, its just terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 11:45 AM
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Like keeping up attractiveness, not withholding sex, being helpful and positive and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 01:04 AM
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Hypergamy extends from a woman's need for alpha-fucks and beta-bucks, but under the right circumstances, she doesn't need to choose one or the other. The ideal man for an ltr has enough Alpha traits to keep her tingles firmly in place, but enough beta qualities to be in a healthy and happy relationship. Women can deal with their hypergamy by finding such a man and then keeping him using girl-game techniques. Edit- spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:47 AM
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Its been my experience, as a young woman working in a stem field, that it is pretty even. I do think that I'm probably on that crest where its starting to equalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 10:33 PM
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This is pretty bad, not as bad as molesting her sister, but still pretty bad. And her show sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 01:35 AM
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I'm actually the product of an affair, though I'm willing to forgive my mother since she didn't have much of a choice when it came to who her husband would be. Apparently everyone in my family (over a certain age) suspected that I wasn't my father's daughter, but my mother only came clean to me a couple of years ago. It explained a whole lot about the differences between me and my older (half)siblings.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 10:20 PM
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Simple enough, he didn't love me. When I say father, I mean step-father, but he was there for as long as I can remember. And he always favored his own children over me. Now we've reached a place of mutual respect, but I can't really call that love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 12:56 PM
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I don't consider my SO as another father-figure. Sure, the relationship may be a similar one in that I would follow and obey what he says. The differences is that with my father, I would do it because of negative consequences (grounding, scolding, or just general b.s. stirring). But I do it for my boyfriend because I choose him (you cannot choose your father), and love him (and I definitely don't love my father). To me it just makes sense that things would move more fluidly with a decisive leade…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 01:20 AM
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What makes you think you are worthy of a a virtuous feminine wonderful woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 11:55 PM
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It doesn't bother me per-say, just the bad logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 10:57 PM
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The results are the same, it shows a disconnect between pre-marital sex/cohabitation and marital success since you have no way of known if the person you are engaging will be your future spouse, and as the study says "premarital sex and cohabitation limited to one's future spouse has become part of the normal courtship process for marriage."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/14 01:29 PM
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As a girl that does this (I'm on Seasonique), you still get PMS symptoms and spotting at irregular intervals. So our options are deal with the full pain on predictable terms, or deal with a slightly dulled version whenever the gods hate you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 03:05 AM
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This is not a primary source, it says so in its very first line. This report Further down in the paragraph it tells you where they got their statistics from. The study is based on... Also it doesn't contain the standard scientific paper format - abstract, introduction, methods, conclusions and references. Instead it is a brief introduction, and a bunch of graphs. I say duh to the the above quote, because a woman that only has sex within the context of a marriage has literally no way of of becomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/14 12:29 AM
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First off, this is not a primary source. Secondly, what the fuck is this? It looks like something you could have typed up in your free time. It is unlike any scientific literature or review I have ever seen before in content and structure. Thirdly, Women who have more non-marital sex partners are more likely to be single mothers. Women who have had five non-marital sex partners during their lives are seven times more likely to become single mothers than are women who have engaged in sex only wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 10:21 PM
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No problem. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 09:18 PM
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, later regretted it and accused them of rape so she wouldn't look like a slut, Technically this is hearsay and is inadmissible in a court of law. No one can say what she thought, and how it affected her actions other than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 09:01 PM
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Oh I agree that a teen who was pressured into sex before she was ready is going to have a skewed view of relationships for the rest of her life. However, this says nothing about the other 58% of women who lose their virginity in their teens as happy participants, or the countless women who wait until after their teens to become sexual active.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 08:57 PM
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Marital dissatisfaction and premarital promiscuity are correlated as well Im still not convinced of this. But to say that promiscuous behavior automatically shows "a history of infidelity". This is the leap in logic to me. The only history would be if she cheated in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 11:16 AM
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This article is about women who lost their virginity before the age of 16 in traumatic situations. Of course that is going to leave a scar. I'm talking about the boring consensual pre-marital sex between two adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 11:10 AM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 11:06 AM
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From the abstract of the Teachman's article, These results suggest that neither premarital sex nor premarital cohabitation by itself indicate either preexisting characteristics or subsequent relationship environments that weaken marriages. I'm guessing if this finding was important enough to include in the abstract than they have found significant evidence that specifically says pre-marital relationships are not the cause of (and are independent of) marital disruptions. That is to say, perhaps a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 03:09 AM
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Thank you, that is exactly what I meant. You said it much more clearly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 01:59 AM
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Based on your description, not only is a woman's brain not smarter than her body, it's victim to it. A woman is subject to her biological response to stimulation. It doesn't matter if a woman wants sex or not, she will still "get wet" to clitoral stimulation. This is just an extension of that physical response. The same as a man who gets morning wood with no stimulation or is physically stimulated by a woman he doesn't want to have sex with. No one can control the involuntary reactions of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 01:59 AM
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"I got raped because I was to embarrassed to do anything about it". Saying "no" is doing something about it. And it should be enough. A woman shouldn't have to yell, run away, or fight to make her wishes known. If the guy is truly a good man, and not a rapist scumbag, than that would be enough for him to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 01:54 AM
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Yeah I didn't mean a blog. And the blog doesn't even link to primary sources. At the very best this data shows correlation and not causation, I can't really take this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/14 01:49 AM
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What sort of things could we gain from a female perspective on males who are working to better themselves, maintain frame, and navigate the sexual marketplace? Some aspects of bettering yourself, and all aspects of maintaining frame and navigating the sexual market place are social by nature and women are more apt to seeing the social game and manipulating it in their favor. Women can certainly say something about sexual dynamic that is valid from their point of view that either confirms, denies…
/r/AlreadyRed14/05/14 08:29 PM
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I think part of your definition has to cover the definition of intercourse. Is just PIV? Does it cover sodomy and/or oral? What if something starts as consensual PIV sex and becomes unconsented anything else? I think that all three count as intercourse and could potentially be rape, mostly based on penetration. As for the denial vs. be unable to give consent argument, I think its very case-by-case basis and there can't be any hard and fast rules. Obviously a woman who is passed out drunk cannot …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 06:52 PM
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you are investing your time and resources in a woman to get the same pussy that other men Maybe if you invested your resources in a woman for reasons other than her pussy, you might find that count matters less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 06:33 PM
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Studies have shown that promiscuity is an indicator of future inability to pair bond with one person and it makes a woman more prone to infidelity. Whether this applies only to women or to both genders is irrelevant to me because my circumstances as a man remain the same regardless. I have yet to see a source for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/14 06:31 PM
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holding hands is stupid. Do guys really not like holding hands? That makes me really sad.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:17 AM
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If that were true, how did this start to begin with? Learning by bad example is also a thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 09:26 PM
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This thought process isn't heritable...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:06 PM
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Hey, isn't one of the RP commandments "if something goes wrong its your fault"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 06:35 PM
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I don't think she's marching at the front of the morally standup parade. I really like the way you phrased that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 10:00 PM
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There's a whole sub of us. /r/RedPillWomen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 02:48 AM
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Fair enough. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/14 03:25 PM
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Seems to only work... on a particular kind of girl (one with emotional stability and confidence issues). Well-adjusted normal girls aren't hapless for bad options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/14 02:42 PM
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Ah thank you for the explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 07:34 PM
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What does it mean when you said somenumber+TDEE?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 07:02 PM
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A friend of mine was in a similar situation, which is what inspired the feminist part of this post. However in her situation, her bf was completely useless and did not keep up with his part of this relationship (housekeeping, cooking, and whatnot). And I think that was why she became resentful, rather than him just not working. However, while she was happy in this relationship, she was very happy. And when she was unhappy, she didn't at all cheat on him or chase other men. Though she did let her…
/r/altTRP02/05/14 12:25 AM
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Yes I do have a boyfriend now, and he doesn't knowingly apply RP (he doesn't go on reddit), but I could definitely describe lots of his actions as being RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/14 12:23 PM
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sorry, it just felt like thats where you were putting the most emphasis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:39 PM
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The rise of feminism, no fault divorce, and a variety of other social changes which can mostly be traced to an increase in women entering the workforce. Why were these things on the rise if women were mostly happy with their RP men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:26 PM
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Rise of feminism I just don't see why there would be a rise in feminism, when (according to RPT) all the women were happy with their alphas at home in the kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:24 PM
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So you think it was mostly international economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:23 PM
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And what's your view on it? I think men who spin plates are disrespectful, whether they are justified for it is a philosophical debate larger than the scope of RP theory. I'm neutral about MTGTOW, as long as they don't bother me, I don't care what they do. Another thing I don't understand about TRP is how there's room for LTRs? If everything went according to the theory, then shouldn't women always look down upon men who would settle in an LTR with them? By TRP's definition, they're not alpha. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:21 PM
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Most of it sounds like my Dad joking with my Mom... who are still married at 67. The difference is that your parents have a relationship where they can do that. Your mother has given her ok that this sort of behavior is acceptable and probably makes similar jokes right back. However, the /u/gaylubeoil is doing this with women he doesn't know, or that he should have a more formal relationship with. So he is going out of his way to make people uncomfortable for no reason other than for his cheap a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:05 PM
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RPM and RPW goals are not directly at odds. TPR advice is a weapon that can be used for good or evil, RPW look at the "good" side of RP advice as being the ideal. There is plenty of information for men who want to be in LTRs and those maintaining LTRs. As to the evil side of TPR, there are vastly different opinions about it on /r/RedPillWomen. Some women endorse this behavior since its a sign of strong overly alpha-ness, others think its vile, and others are completely neutral to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 09:48 PM
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Since the divorce rate is not 100%, I would say that want is strong enough to hold most women in a relationship. A woman will simply always go for the most attractive person that will give her what she wants. For example, if a woman hits the wall and picks up a beta provider, a woman wouldn't risk cheating on him with an unstable alpha no matter how attractive she finds him. Because what she wants is marriage/family life in the last minute while she can have it. However, once those wants are met…
/r/altTRP30/04/14 09:29 PM
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How does reading this post make you feel about TRP? I take everything on that sub with a grain of salt. A lot of it is written by men still in the butthurt stage. Any man who does this sort of thing is not for me, as most men won't be. How would you react if someone articulated this concept to you in real life? Would you still feel the same way about that person? Would it matter who that person was, if it was your father, husband, friend, or son? If I could I would probably try to cut that perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 07:42 PM
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Thank you for validation! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 07:22 PM
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Does cosplay count as fashion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 07:14 PM
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and all the downfalls of being in a relationship with somebody who is not attracted to you apply: cheating/boredom/depression/divorce. I think that if the want is strong enough, it can hold the relationship together. Most women find Channing Tatum, but they don't drop their current SO's to go date him, because they WANT something attainable and sustainable. Want can be stronger than attraction.
/r/altTRP30/04/14 12:37 PM
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Yes. So whats your point?
/r/altTRP29/04/14 04:35 PM
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What is attractive to women is not necessarily what they want. A woman can make the conscious decision to go with something less attractive because it makes it easier for her to get what she wants. I.E. Beta Bux. To the extreme, that means role reversal.
/r/altTRP29/04/14 01:45 AM
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Thanks for being the first submitter to this sub! No problem! This is very interesting stuff, I just wish it was more active up in here. they'd like you to think they can be dominant, but its in no way their desire. To me this screams of solipsism. How can you so blatantly say all women want one thing and not another? And to clarify, my argument isn't NAWALT. Its that a woman's want is no less valid even if a few minutes later, she wants something else. This is evidenced by the fact that as soon…
/r/altTRP29/04/14 12:06 AM
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I've seen it said by RPers that women do not have honor, because they would lie if there is incentive for it and because they look for (any) individual(s) well-being over some moral code. For the first reason, I would say that men are just as likely to lie if there was incentive. And therefore, just as many men lack honor in the same way women lack honor. For the second part, I can understand that being interpreted as lack of honor. But I would only go as far to say that it is a different type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/14 04:42 PM
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Silver fox is kind of specific to men that have grey hair though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/14 07:15 PM
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I already checked it out. But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 09:17 PM
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So he never paid up his end of the deal? Now thats a pussy move.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 04:36 PM
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Oh I agree, but I just want to know what people look like. I think I'm a creeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 04:35 PM
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Your lips are very Angelina Jolie, I like. And for survey purposes, whats your pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 04:34 PM
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But which pill are you? You know, for science...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 04:32 PM
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Well now I'm kinda curious about what everyone looks like, on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 02:47 PM
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TRP has it's share of masculinist reactionaries who want to reclaim these ancient modes of conduct Can you expand on this a bit? The feel of TPR that I get is that its "every man for himself" and not very in the spirit of a code of conduct between males.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 02:36 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 01:18 PM
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I won't lie, this would be a hard decision that would depend on a lot of factors including the chances of passing the condition to our offspring, the level of care that would be needed to manage the condition, and when the onset was. I would like to say that I could manage it for the sake of a few good years, but I just don't know if I could. And in a great show of hypocrisy, of course I would want my partner to stay with me and love me unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 12:24 AM
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A lab job at a University. That way I could take classes towards my next degree for cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 01:37 PM
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Currently I am working as a cashier and as an administrative assistant. However my BS is in Biology, so I'd like to defy that sterotype, but its been a hard battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 03:56 AM
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Masturbation (and sex) have actually been fairly well studied since the 60's. If it happens at an extreme end, then there's definitely an effect on the more mild side. This isn't necessarily true, considering that the vagina can heal. It would take some pretty massive (read: intentional) damage to permanently change its appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 02:31 AM
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I don't see a source, should I assume its because you haven't found one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/14 05:12 PM
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Good answers all around. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 10:36 PM
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You don't balance it. You lean to the side that's more feminine. (Caring/clingy over cold/distant.) I'll accept it. You should pose that to r/redpillwomen. Already banned as it so happens. Besides, its generally a bad idea to get advice about men from women. Cosmo and all...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 02:18 AM
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Once you are in a LTR, the shit testing can be reduced. At which point prudence/sluttiness is irrelevant. So my question still stands. How much shit testing is too much for an LTR? What about the right level of emotional vulnerability, balancing cold/uncaring with crazy/clingy? Other feminine traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 02:02 AM
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Wow I was not expecting such a sentimental answer from a redpiller. But its a good surprise, and very insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 01:54 AM
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But a lack of emotion/being more rational can come off as cold, which is not a positive trait for a woman. Shit testing is an extension of the prudence trait, the opposite of prudence is the negative trait of being slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 01:38 AM
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What do you mean by value? What do you look for first in a woman? If she has that, what would be the thing you look at/for next? So on and so forth until she is your wife. Keep in mind this just overall traits, not in real-time situation (otherwise first thing would always be physical attractiveness.) For example, if you place a high value on loyalty, but a mid value on her submissiveness. So you'd put up with a girl thats a bit more mouthy/defiant as long as you know for complete fact that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 01:29 AM
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Men are emotional. RP men try to suppress this by maintaining frame. Men are hypergamous. Hypergamy in women is more than just marrying up, its about the impulse to cheat and leave when something better does come along. Where as men may cheat, but it doesn't mean that the other woman is better than the one he has at home, or that he wants to leave his wife. Not saying its better, just that its not exactly hypergamy. you don't want a man approaching you just because you're beautiful. Very true. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 01:10 AM
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Well I didnt want it for either of us. And that was my solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 08:06 PM
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I am talking about from the cultural perspective. If a woman values a "healthy" sex life, good for her. But it doesn't change the societies view.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 11:26 PM
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But how do people find out the count at all, without telling? People ask, and as far as I know, most don't lie (since it could come back to bite you in the ass). Also, if 2 people are in the same social circles they could hear about it or see it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 01:53 PM
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You don't get to shame women because of their number of sex partners They are often loyal and do not cheat. I think these two things are really closely tied. If a women's count doesn't matter, she has no reason to hide or lie. She can simply move on. But in a culture where her value decreases substantially for every additional man she is with, she has no reason to be public about her lusty ways. I saw a blog thats commonly used to support RP theory actually have an article about how Eastern Euro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 01:06 PM
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If you did a survey of every guy in the world where you asked him if he would prefer a girl who got fucked by 20 guys in the past or the girl who got fucked by only 1 guy, all else the same --- pretty much every guy will want the girl with only 1 guy. But in the real world, all other things are not held equal. So I think the more telling question would be, if a woman was perfect for you in all other ways, would you be able to over look the fact that she's been with a lot of other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 03:11 PM
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My ex boyfriend brought the idea to me once. I wasn't interested but I knew I couldn't say "no" to him. So I said sure, and made an OKC account. The next morning when he saw I had a billion messages from other guys he shut down the whole thing and that was the end of that story. I don't think open relationships ever work out, if other people want to try it though, I couldn't care less. But it doesn't interest me and I don't want anything to do with that (including being someone's alt).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 02:07 AM
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RPW mods are some of the worst people on that sub. But don't tell them I said that!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 02:03 AM
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I tried this site and wasn't a fan. It just didn't seem active enough.
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