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This line of thought can explain income disparity, how it came about, and where it's going. The cost of technology is falling while it becomes more effective. The cost of labor is constantly rising, not just in the West but eventually in third-world markets as well. The people who own the machines that are replacing labor are making all the money, and this trend isn't stopping any time soon. This includes ownership of companies, property, etc. If you want to get ahead, get a job that's hard to a…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:17 PM
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You're right. Having said that, his advice on using debt as a tax break is totally valid, especially for high income earners. Another little nitpicking item: you're better off dumping your retirement money into a low-cost fund or ETF (as opposed to stocks or cash). Buy-and-hold is the right mentality but stockpicking is a total waste of time and limits you to investing in the US. I think you can hold similar products in a Roth IRA.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:56 PM
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Hardly sounds like a sacrifice. Make some money from the media attention, build a name for yourself which you can abuse to start a profitable "real" business afterwards, and probably score some decent tail in the meantime if you do this in the right environment. Just tell the SJWs that overweight women trigger you due to some past trauma involving an overweight woman (ie abused by a large babysitter). Repeat the same process for other dealbreakers of yours. Paradise, until someone finds this pos…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:25 PM
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Tumblrina: Why don't you look into hormone replacement? You can get the operation when you can afford it. Black Knight: How DARE you imply that my body is the problem here! I am a lesbian in a man's body, but that body is beautiful and must be accepted. Tumblrina: (explodes)
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:31 PM
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Yeah from what I can see, he'd be able to get out of child payments but not spousal support. Dunno the laws involved though.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:27 PM
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"Ben" is on the hook for child support but what about alimony? And aren't there a few cases where the court awarded child support from a non-bio father due to "interests of the child?" Depends on jurisdiction I guess.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:25 PM
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Love it. Best part is if she walks, HE PAYS. He's trapped no matter what he does. Don't marry.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 02:17 PM
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Son of a bitch, I'm bulking today and I almost just lost 1000 calories over my keyboard just now. Trigger warning on this shit man. My take: Beta Brohan thinks by being accepting and encouraging this shit circus, he will earn applause from the PC world and earn validation from hotter tail. I used to be on a path to become this man, that was my motivation all along. "Fat is beautiful, just not to me, please notice and love me now."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 11:21 PM
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Spot on. Whose idea was the open relationship? If it's her idea, as Rollo says, it's a mechanism for AF/BB and branch swinging. If it's his idea, remember the statement that women would rather share an alpha than own a beta.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:51 PM
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I agree, I often fall into that trap, but it makes the mistake of applying the same standards to women as to men. After unplugging, I realized that even a totally average SMV easy woman could accumulate 10x the partner count of a total alpha stud (and we'd still be lining up for our turn) just because of the effort it would require him. Even if he had the time, it just isn't worth it. We're best off just laughing at the system, accepting it, and getting what we can out of it (ie seek out and enj…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:15 PM
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True, but a caveat: with feminism having been so ubiquitous for a full generation in the West, there are a number of women who are starting to view partner count as a point of pride. They don't try to rationalize the number down (I really only fucked 10 guys if you think about it), they seem to rationalize the quality up (All 30 guys I've fucked have been top-notch, and therefore I am the shit). Of course, if you listen well enough, you can still hear the same sense of shame in the background. B…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:13 PM
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And for those who are reading this in the anger or depression phase, remember: never be jealous of what a slut can accomplish. The sexual accomplishments of a slut are meaningless. All it takes is for a girl to get laid is to say "yes" to the constant stream of cock that she's being offered. All we can do is be one of those men.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:01 PM
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I'm sure it's been said before, but when you start getting laid a little more, and your anger starts to cool off, don't lose your discipline or motivation. This stuff will still be true, don't let your absence of anger make it any harder to buy into.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:48 PM
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ALL religions were invented to provide guidelines for societies, and ALL of them have some kind of marriage tradition. Not a coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:31 PM
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This thread is old, but this might come in handy: http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html#frequency
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:09 AM
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Dude I totally hear you. I also have immense anxiety about being ostracized as "that loser who's always trying to get laid instead of just enjoying the night" etc. I know an attractive guy with a huge N-count, 80% from cold approaches at bars. He never thinks of this stuff. But he gets shot down hard all the damn time. Dozens of rejections over 6 hours a night with maybe a 50% chance of a lay. He just goes back to his friends and swaps rejection stories with a laugh, then gets back out there. It…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:59 PM
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I hear ya. Not exactly the same but same mental process... if I push through and act "alpha" I freeze up and run away scared when it actually works. It just isn't "me" to get laid without playing into the "beta" role at all. Been working on this for at least a year.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:03 PM
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The whole issue hinges on the double standard: a sexless marriage (commitment without sex) is socially kosher, but sex without commitment is "using her." This is the feminist morality. A benevolent person is one who seeks to do good and avoids harming others. This poster isn't necessarily benevolent or malevolent because he doesn't see what he's doing as harmful, and he doesn't see offering commitment to her as particularly good or noble. Those attributes to sex/commitment are assigned by the fe…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:03 PM
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(Not an economist but I do have a bit of background in economics... I think OP is correct but it may go even deeper) Wages consist of two components: a rate for your base labor (physical presence and involvement) and compensation for the use of your human capital (training and skills). Both are based on market forces and have stopped growing in recent decades for various reasons. Raw labor has become less valuable in inflation-adjusted terms because we've flooded the market with it. As our diets…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 09:09 PM
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Great example of DFU game but if I'm honest you're extremely lucky the cop was a bro. This could have ended much differently... he/she grills you for potential rape, Brun begins to feel like she's being judged by everyone for being slutty and starts to regret it, changes her story, then you get screwed. Honestly, awesome story though. Right place, right time is a goldmine if you know how to pounce quickly on every opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:42 PM
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This is great "what would Chad do?" logic. No philosophy, over-analysis, etc just the sort of thing that a guy who gets laid would say.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:18 PM
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One does not. I don't even list my height. The thing is, it's rarely an issue when we meet up, and I'm visibly not 5'11 like the other guy is, therefore his issues on OKC are not because of height.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:55 PM
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It's not your height, I'm shorter and less fit than you (especially in pics) and I get laid online. Try Tinder vs OKC. OKC is very much dead in comparison. Tinder is the favorite of girls because they can filter.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:51 PM
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Pure genius. But don't limit this to the new guys, I've been on TRP for nearly 2 years (plus a few years of Pook etc) and I still desperately need this. No amount of self-improvement, lifting, and theory will re-wire your personality unless you force it in that direction through action.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:44 PM
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I think everyone needs something to really unplug once in a while. Not reading a book, not watching a documentary. Just something really dumb to set your IQ down for a few hours once in a while. I'm doing a mix of physical training for almost 10 hours a week, I do a full 40 hour work week starting a business, I'm solely responsible for my home and my dog, I have packed weekends full of plans with friends and women, and I have a number of enriching hobbies, but sometimes I just want to blow Satur…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:34 PM
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He's suggesting that men who are cheated on while deployed are prime recruitment targets for foreign spy agencies. Imagine the country you literally kill for and risk your life for takes half of your stuff and gives it to your cheating wife. Are those the legal and moral values you want to uphold with your very life? This is a serious problem with the Western legal system. We're just alienating otherwise good and honest men. Edit: takes your stuff and your kids. Forgot about that, since I don't …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:49 PM
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Where I live, most gyms cost $50 or more per month. I found one that costs less than half of that amount and I really need to save the money right now When I have more money though I'd rather join your kind of gym than a franchise gym.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 02:56 AM
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Damn, I wish I could afford that kind of gym. Honestly, getting swole is half of "having good style." Having a good body shape and buying a $10 plain t-shirt that fits your body well looks way better than being scrawny and wearing a $40 dress shirt.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:40 PM
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Yes, very much agree. There's absolutely nothing you can do to change their minds. And you gain absolutely nothing from doing so. Hell, even girls who shame fit men are secretly 'mirin half the time. Edit: I should mention that, in my teens, I used to be "that guy." I truly believed that musclularity was savage and irrelevant, and that intellect is the new sexy. Can you guess when I lost my v-card? Hint: it wasn't my teens.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:32 PM
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Great observation. Even totally single people are guilty of this. I don't see how it's acceptable to be any less than 100% presentable while out of the house unless you're at the gym or working a manual job. In fact, people are shamed for "overdoing it." Crabs in a bucket, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:25 PM
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I would wonder if the stigma against bachelors is just another part of BP culture, trying to get successful men to become providers.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:54 AM
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I think the issue is that these services have been corrupted by exposure to the democratic process and special interest groups. It's pretty easy to tell a school system "prepare children for the real world" but loudmouths ("activists") all want their specific issue included in the curriculum. Because they're voters, they win.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:41 PM
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I've never been in a real fight, so take this with a grain of salt, but then again I've been escalated on a few times and avoided a fight without ever "backing down" so I might not be entirely talking out of my ass... I've had a few guys try to pick fights with me lately, and each time it was not necessarily a fight they were looking for. They were in that spot everyone is in at least once in their lives: feeling powerless and full of rage, looking for someone else with a lot of rage to feed the…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:07 PM
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Maybe not pure. You'd have to have some system in place to prevent children's lives from being ruined by shitty parenting. By all means allow the parents to be miserable and broke (try not doing meth next time) but don't let the kids get hit in the crossfire. I'd also personally be okay with total deviation from free markets in the area of health and safety. The market doesn't handle those things very well.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:10 PM
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I don't get this. If you don't like TRP, don't come to TRP. Just as I'm often offended by some of the content on the feminist subs, so I don't go there. We generally mind our own business and for the most part don't try to push it on other communities. Meanwhile some of the subs that are meant to be netural, open discussion spaces have a clear feminist bias... but you won't find any similar subs with a RP bias. Reddit isn't one big community, it's a platform to host many communities, which can t…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:02 PM
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Great insight, but I feel like a lot of us are guilty of this logic too. In my BP days it would drive me almost to tears when I got hit on by an unattractive girl or a gay guy. I think it's because it made me feel like I couldn't get hot girls. Now that I am getting hot girls, it doesn't bother me as much. It used to subtly say to me "you don't deserve a 9 and you know it." Maybe it just bothers these girls because it's a subconscious reminder that they're not really worth the attention of a top…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:15 PM
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My very first thought when you said she brought a ton of coke into your car was to tell her to fuck off. She must be quite the girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:43 PM
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Not pictured: the reinforced-concrete aviation-grade platform this photo was taken on. Edit: fat-hate is wrong. Using propaganda in an attempt to change our biologically-imprinted tastes is also wrong.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:22 PM
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ALL women have the same AF/BB urges. ALL men have the urge to sleep with as many young, fertile women as possible. There are party girls with promiscuous pasts who have legitimately developed the capacity to control their urges. There are also over-protected girls who have only avoided promiscuity due to lack of opportunities with high-value men... and of course have never had the chance (or need) to learn to control their urges. You can't argue with statistics (that promiscuity = bad for marria…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:36 PM
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"Fake it till you make it" is an unavoidable part of the process, but being aware that you're still faking it is an essential part of the process of internalizing a personality change. You have to understand that you're going to slip up and make mistakes and women will occasionally see through your facade while you're still faking it. You need to understand that this isn't proof that the system doesn't work, etc. IMO the best way to get past this is to ditch TRP (the sub) for a while. Focus on a…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:27 PM
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"I knew sex would inevitably come." This is perfect, I know what you mean but I couldn't find the words for it. I know a lot of guys who get into game and read some bad advice that tells them to totally give up and just let the right girl come to them. It's the easy way out. This one took a week, the next one might take a day's worth of effort, and the one after that will happen without even lifting a finger.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 02:07 PM
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Younger, but similar problem. I actually use this to my advantage... I put huge distance between myself and the girls who seem to care about my lifestyle, and let the ones who don't care a little closer... they're the ones who are actually into me, not what I can give them. If it's really hindering you, just tell them it's a rental.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:31 PM
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Cold approaching is great for training confidence and conversational skills but it's terribly awkward. You inherently lose SMV points when you do it because you're signalling that you have to go out of your way to meet girls, while simultaneously making her feel like hot shit and possibly "out of your league" since you went through all that trouble to talk to her. It's not hopeless, just inefficient, and I think that's because it's UNNATURAL. I know this opinion is controversial. Stuff that I'm …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:52 PM
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It was an extension of the same math used in the comment above me, but it isn't perfect because I don't want to do the research. For example, there is a correlation between race and income, so being wealthy automatically predisposes Mr. 666 to being white. Of the population she would already fuck before considering race, the white portion is greater than the population as a whole, which is the stat I used for that line. Anyways it was just an illustration for fun. Basically a small city of men w…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:21 PM
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This means she would fuck one out of every 757.57 men who approach her. There are a number of unspoken assumptions about Mr. 666 that she takes for granted. Let's add more stats. Facial aesthetics: if we assume the 80/20 rule applies, then she's probably looking for a guy with a top 20% face as well. That brings her target market down to 0.000264 of the population. Assume she wants an above-average penis size. Women often call average 6 inches, which is actually only 1/3 of men. That's just by l…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:48 PM
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What they care about is how much they are being judged, whether it's first-date sex or ONS. In front of cameras (or around their friends) they say one thing because you never know who's listening, and who might judge them negatively for it later. But if she's alone with an (alpha) guy she's established is non-judgmental, or her friends sleep around too and don't care what she does, and no one else might find out... suddenly she finds a way to hamster it into harmony with her previously stated "r…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 09:45 PM
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What you're probably experiencing is just a symptom of the social climate. They have no incentive to meet people outside their circle, and they spend very little time doing things other than school, service/retail jobs, partying at the student bars or at student house parties, or working out at the campus gym. That's not to say they're actually opposed to older guys. Their "stated" limit, from what I've seen, is 30... but that was mostly what they say among friends, who might judge them, so they…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:02 PM
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It's worth it to note that women in highly feminized locations seem to be taking on a very masculine attitude towards sex. I've spoken with girls who brag about their high number, and other girls who resent the fact that they've only been with one or two guys. Not ALL girls. It's a subtle trend. But it's there.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:29 PM
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Failure. Even mediocre success would have encouraged me to be even more beta. Complete and total failure on the subject of gender identity and relationships is what turned me to TRP. I think I speak for a number of others when I say that... don't resent your failure.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:09 PM
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If you read one book and nothing else, make it Pook. When I stumbled upon TRP, all of what I read here was just echoes of that book. His over-exaggerated example-stories do a great job of capturing the "essence" of an "alpha" character without having to scientifically describe it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:58 AM
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She won't learn. Even if she does, there will be a hundred others like her who won't. I mostly suggest emulating Chad as a method to live a successful, fulfilling sex life. Chad is not the enemy, he's the role model. Unless he's a poor douchebag... then just become a rich douchebag and bask in the feminist criticism (and pussy) you get then.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 04:04 PM
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Hilarious. It's fucking called "dead bedrooms." It's a sub about trying to resurrect the sex life of married couples. That's exactly what this guy did. He is happier, his wife is happier, and he's on a path of general self-improvement which is great. One can only assume that she'll feel a need to work on herself too, as a result of the dread. This one post could probably solve all of the dead bedroom problems on the internet. But they complain.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:52 PM
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The most disgusting part of this whole thing is that, if you stuck around long enough, you could have been held liable for the child support in some jurisdictions. I don't know how anyone can support that system in good conscience. Good call ejecting. This post has been cross-posted to "the blue pill" subreddit. Where one of the comments actually raised a good point: why do we hate Chad Thundercock Sr.? Isn't he the epitome of alpha? The pinnacle of what we try to become? I know you're angry rig…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:40 PM
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My only complaint about this post is that it's too long to make into a poster or background of any kind so I'm forced to read it every day.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:27 PM
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Good stuff. But don't surrender to the "fixed" qualities so fast: Height: if you're on Reddit you probably have terrible posture. Lifting and stretching will fix this. You won't gain more than an inch or two of "perceived" height, but you might as well go for it. Penis size: lose weight, the first inch is hidden by fat if you're obese. Also better bloodflow and improved sex drive will get you to 100% hard more reliably, which is the size that really matters. Facial features: you can't change sym…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:21 PM
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I believe I read it in The Organized Mind by Daniel Levitin. I'm still working on the book but it's a good read. Anecdotally, I can validate it... my focus is way better on those days when I've killed a whole bunch of tasks and only have 2 or 3 things on my plate, all of which can wait... I'm more confident, less distracted, more able to just live in the moment and be chill.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:19 PM
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I'd watch that. And if the cops stop you for "disturbing the peace" or whatever your local bylaw equivalent is, don't try to argue that the feminazis are even louder... tell them you're "showing your support, like cars passing by and honking, you know?"
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:15 PM
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We have to remember that the researchers are human, too, with insecurities and fears and doubts etc. To admit this phenomenon is due to any force that might still persist today would be to admit that our reality is much more harsh and un-romantic than they would like to believe, male or female.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:41 PM
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Haha. How about "I feel like I can't provide the level of emotional maturity that older women bring to the table"?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:37 AM
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I'm paraphrasing Jeff from Community... if you argue enough, you can make anything true. If you're good with words you can make any manosphere argument from a feminist perspective and it will sound right.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:02 PM
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I'm starting to see this phenomenon in another light. The height is just one of many excuses she can deploy to pre-emptively reject men... so that they can't reject her first. "Oh, you'd rather go chase those skinny bitches? FINE. You're too fucking short/brown/poor/skinny/fat/whatever for me anyways!" [cries, posts to tumblr, eats ice cream] Hot girls just don't seem to be as elitist as fat girls on any front.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:43 PM
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Simply don't engage them when they try to convince you to change your path: -You will probably lose the argument (in her mind) because feminists have one muscle that is more developed than all of yours: the hamster. Your most rational argument will be twisted using mazes of faulty logic that make Hitler look pretty sane. -Even if you win, you've accomplished nothing. That kind of high-volume jaw workout borders on sinful cardio, and you will lose gainz. IMO they're not even good for a lay. I get…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:49 PM
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With the limited swipes, I decided to start raising my standard a bit, so I went to go tighten up my age range (by lowering the top end, of course). I noticed a small blurb of text at the bottom stating that the preferences are only preferences, and they may show you matches that don't fit your criteria. I'm willing to bet ten bucks (aka 3 days of Tinder Premium for a man, or 3 weeks for a woman) that there will be some feature that lets you bypass the preferences of others if you're a paid user…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:03 PM
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You may be interested to know (unless you already do) that the premier of Ontario is a short-haired, openly lesbian woman: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathleen_Wynne I've only ever been there a few times, but Toronto is a hotbed of retarded feminist thinking. It makes Sweden look like a pretty normal place. This is another example of a total failure of democracy: just because (a very misled) 50% +1 of the population say they like it, the (sane) rest of the province is going to have to put up wi…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:16 PM
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This doesn't answer your question, but it will help your conscience later on when people start actually calling you a jerk: What's going through a woman's mind when she calls you names (post-TRP) is "UGH! He didn't put my interests before his? What a X!" Examples: -He didn't pay for the date? What a greedy asshole! -He won't wait 3 dates because other women put out faster? What an arrogant douchebag! -He refuses to date fat women like me? What a selfish jerk! And so forth. She's raging at you fo…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 01:52 PM
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I think there's space for a general "TRP lifestyle" sub. Sort of TRP less the sexual stuff, for MGTOW and Monk Mode guys. Finance, general health, meditation, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:53 PM
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Cut your distractions and multitasking. Do everything with focus and deliberation. Don't talk on the phone while driving, don't listen to music while working out, don't stop working on a project to answer a quick email, don't eat lunch at your desk. Task switching generates cortisol (and also fucks with your dopamine sensitivity). Multitasking doesn't exist: it's just rapid, repeated task switching. Source: it's legit, but I'm too lazy to find it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:49 PM
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I wrote up a very long reply to this and just deleted it. The point of what I said with my prior comment is that none of this debate over what is "useful" or "valuable" to society is relevant to an argument attempting to defend the validity of TRP. TRP is about accomplishing goals. Those goals vary by person and by life stage. Right now I want to get laid. One friend of mine wants to find a wife already, and another is looking for ways to life a fulfilling non-sexual life. In 5 years, I bet we'l…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:06 PM
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Some people are bitter about all this stuff until they learn to use it in their favor. They'll use angry, hateful language. It's just venting rage. If you don't feel that bitterness, you're a step ahead.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:58 AM
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Time is money. Simplify your language around here. We aren't idiots, just busy. Explore our concept that "sexual strategy is amoral." I agree with you on a moral level, and I tried your way for many years. But I wasn't happy. The feminist method of courting consistently failed me and left me feeling worthless every time. Then I made a commitment to "do what works." Part of that happened to involve total rejection of feminism. Now I'm becoming the guy who girls used to fuck after rejecting me. Ne…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:49 AM
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"Open relationship" is the most powerful way to deal with cheating IMO. Just act like you don't care that she cheated, and then make it sound like YOUR idea to open it up. Now it looks like you were the less invested partner in the first place, which is inherently attractive. If she wants to keep it closed, tell her it's already too late. She'll probably explode from guilt and hamster some way to leave you. If not, you get to keep your (much more attracted) primary and bang other girls. Win.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:35 PM
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What you're doing right now is admitting that you're weak. Even when you were blissfully confused by the "nice guys finish last" bullshit, a strong man would have known that the answer is obviously to stop being a nice guy... whether or not he's been exposed to TRP. I started moving towards TRP before this was even a subreddit, finding it has only accelerated my progress. You're wishing you could purge TRP from your brain because you know it's right and you can't justify being a lazy bluepiller …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 04:03 PM
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Anyone else get LESS confident on alcohol? Sober, I'm aware of my mental bullshit and can shut it down pretty fast. Drunk, my thoughts run free and self-conscious ideas get control of me. Plus you can drive, which is great.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:42 PM
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My interpretation of his concept of "vulnerability" is to put yourself in a vulnerable position (a bold approach on a girl, or whatever) while putting off a vibe that you're not afraid to do so. It shows that you're not going to be hurt by whatever happens. So basically... be vulnerable to show that you're invulnerable. At the end of the day we all do shit to fit in... lifting, dressing well, having a good career are all done to impress other people. But IMO it's okay to impress other people in …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:36 PM
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Hahaha that was hilarious. You really had that guy. Edit: doublepost, deleted the other.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:24 PM
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This is why I don't do dinner dates... I only have one cheat meal. If I'm stuck doing a dinner date, I make that my cheat meal. The more she thinks "it's genetic" the better.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:23 PM
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Off topic... I cannot believe your fucking username was not taken. That institution happens to be one of the biggest feminist insane asylums on the planet. You should be using that account to troll people.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:08 PM
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This is why women loathe PUA/TRP so much. They despise the idea that someone who is "naturally beta" can just "put in effort" to become "alpha." In their minds it isn't real.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:06 PM
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I've found that if a girl has zero interest in having a relationship with you (she just wants to bone) they tend to be most honest about their numbers/past.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:26 PM
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You're right, I should explain what I meant... I lift to get laid. There are other benefits, but that's why I do it. I also put a lot of effort into it, eat very well, and never skip a workout. But I hide my intentions and my effort very well. In my daily life, I act like I only eat well maybe half the time, and hit maybe 2 of 3 workouts per week. I'll go to the mall with the intention of hitting on a girl, but I'll always also buy something. Yes, you do have to go out and find clients for your …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:23 PM
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Reddit is a terrible, terrible sample for such a thread. You've got an over-saturation of super-betas and masculine/feminist/"sex positive" women. Regarding those women... I've found that the women who have an overabundance of sex partners are typically unattractive and somewhat masculine, both in appearance and her attitude towards sex. But they all think they're the shit because they can still get with high-value men. Admit it, you'd fuck a 6 if she literally just offered it to you, no strings…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 02:52 PM
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4-10% is not low. Go for a walk, just one block in an urban area. You passed by one child of infidelity, by that statistic. I'm getting a paternity test before signing any birth certificate, even if my eventual wife is, by some miracle, a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:40 PM
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I'm being a dick because I'm in that business, but a better analogy might be to say "don't hold concentrated positions in volatile assets." It made sense to commit to a girl when those "outside market forces" existed (like having a government guarantee on those bonds you bought) but now that the guarantees are removed, the risk is too high for the investment to make sense at the return that is being offered. Diversify. Don't marry.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:35 PM
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One of my favorite tests of a girl's respect for you is whether she's willing to admit a high number. If she admits her double-digit killcount to you, she wants you to see her sexually, because she sees you sexually. If you can tell she's lying, she's hiding her sexuality because she doesn't see you sexually. She's looking at your wallet.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:24 PM
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This actually makes a lot of sense. With women, there exists a clear duality of AF/BB. Most men I know are sexually turned on by attributes that signal good child-bearing and even mothering potential. Having said that I want to make the point that the absence of "alpha bux" (the presence of the AF/BB duality) is not necessarily a natural thing. If you think about it, for most of our evolutionary history, strength, genetic advantages, and confident leadership are the (alpha) traits that led to (b…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:08 PM
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I can seriously feel my blood pressure spike when someone says "progressive" or "enlightened" or the like. OH MY GOD. One might say such language is... triggering.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:40 PM
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A man who plays the seduction game by his own rules (refusal of commitment before sex, acceptance of the value of dating younger girls, and so forth), while acknowledging the reality of the marketplace (lifting is critical, style dictates how you are perceived, etc) and does so without seeking or needing the approval of others is what is most attractive to women. Without attaching a title to it, that's what TRP generally advocates.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:37 PM
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It's the "edgy" appearance of them that they like. It shows you're a more "exciting" guy, willing to take risks, not begging for the approval of others, not the kind of guy she's going to bring home to her parents. Works especially well when you're an otherwise presentable kind of guy. I've known about this effect for a while but I was never going to get one just to score girls. Now I feel like a small tattoo or two would actually suit my style, women or not, so I might give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:33 PM
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Laughed quite hard when I saw the "suit up" clip. I immediately thought of this place. That show has a lot of RP truths in it in the form of satire.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:29 PM
1

They're definitely rare, but they do exist. What you've described is the average in my social circle but I also experience a lot of outliers. I met a 25 year old who lost her virginity just a few months prior (that info comes from a trustworthy source). She's very attractive. I guess she just had a very conservative upbringing.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:28 PM
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It's about being a leader regardless of how many people are following you. If you're alone, it means guiding yourself. If you're with a girl, it means guiding her. If you're in a group, then it means leading the group. That's why we can see guys who are total loners be labelled as "alpha" in some cases.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:22 PM
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Good point. Maybe one could say that being alpha is literally just doing what you want without giving any fucks. Doesn't automatically make you attractive but it's the right mentality. Combine it with lifting and social skills and you've got high SMV. I used to have the same fear of doing things alone but something that's helped greatly is pushing myself to do those things. I have a friend who is very naturally alpha and I picture him laughing at me if I were to admit to that fear. It's almost g…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:21 PM
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This definitely supports the notion that part of being "alpha" is "not following others." I didn't know about this theory before, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:44 PM
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From what I can gather, the major argument made by the "gender theory" feminists is that it might be painful trying to override our social programming/biological imperative (ie, for a man to willingly become more feminine at the expense of any sort of reasonable sex life) but that it is noble to do so because the present/prehistoric state of affairs is somehow "wrong." They hope that one day we can live in a genderless world and then we'll all be happy again, but it will take a few generations o…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 06:04 PM
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Every time a girl gets let down by some successful, dominant douchebag who refuses to commit, there's a guy in her past who got his heart broken by her. Maybe that guy also went on to become a successful, dominant douchebag, who will go on to let down some other girl by refusing to commit, who also broke a nice guy's heart, and so forth... I know that some women will "get away with it," but I like to think that there's some kind of karmic system at work here.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:04 PM
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The honesty in that thread is actually admirable. Not only do they admit their true motivations, they admit that they're immoral and dishonorable in many cases. That said, one useful observation: not all these men are leaders, not all these men are massively successful, not all of them are socially powerful. The common thread is actually in what they are NOT: followers. The same woman could get turned on the same way by the "hot for teacher" professor and the "pot smoking mechanics" on the same …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:43 PM
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I think that's true when women are motivated to have sex. They CAN be as invested/motivated/driven as men. But from what I've seen in the women I know well, that window doesn't open quite as often. But when it does, I've observed that their standards tend to drop quite dramatically (that is to say, when she's not really looking for sex she might give some time to a high-value man just because he's a rare opportunity). Regardless of her history, I treat the "not looking to hook up" as meaning "I'…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:34 PM
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"that the problem isn't them but women" Are these people fucking retarded? The Blue Pill pushers are the ones who constantly kept preaching "she's just a girl and she still likes boys, you're a REAL MAN and she'll come around eventually!" The Red Pill came along and said "shh... first, lift this and put it down five times. The problem is you."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:56 PM
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I've done the same with my father and it's great. I love spending time with him learning self-sufficiency things, playing a game together, or even just having a beer at the bar. My parents are still very happy together, and always were, but I just avoided my dad's advice because I knew it would be "tough love."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:30 PM
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Not just a lack, for some of us it was a choice. My father was reasonably present in my childhood, and offered relatively RP advice when I first started experiencing the SMP. The problem was that my mother's BP advice made me feel a lot better and was a lot easier to swallow. I don't have the heart to tell her that her protectiveness is the root of all my problems because I know she meant well. I'd rather blame myself for choosing the easy path over the right one, but when you're like 10 years o…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:15 PM
2

I like "monkey dance." The other guy invented it though lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:40 PM
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Yeah that's what I was going for. But I was extremely tired last night and didn't notice how similar it had become to the original Monkey post.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:31 PM
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I was sleep deprived when I wrote this, considering removing it lol. Re: women's investment in sex... I didn't think of that effect before, but I definitely agree that it exists. Rather than "invested" I should have said "motivated." From my experience, the men I know are pretty much always good to go, the women I know have an on-off libido. Maybe this is anecdotal but I do remember seeing some scientific evidence for this as well. I left out all the stuff about maximizing and demonstrating valu…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:31 PM
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This needs to be its own post. Basically everything about TRP and SMV in three paragraphs. Best part? Remove "feminizing" and "feminized' from this post and it would be upvoted almost anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:56 AM
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Damn straight. I've gone raw before but I will only ever finish inside if I feel her IUD when fingering her. I'm the asshole who flushes his used condoms. If I finish elsewhere on her, I'll clean it up myself and flush that too. I suggest everyone do the same. I have extremely high provider potential but no interest in providing... I know it's a small chance but one can never be too careful.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:25 AM
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Most bars in college towns are packed with young girls, but a guy pushing 30 doesn't exactly stand out either. Of course you don't hear about it. Girls don't want anyone finding out they had sex. This can actually work to your advantage if they're looking for a guy to be discrete with. Well, yeah. Blame those in your life who tried to keep TRP from you, but at the end of the day we only have the present and the future. Make your own opportunities after school. They won't fall in your lap as much…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:04 PM
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Yeah that's what I mean, and that's how it should be with all PUA stuff... look at the "give me a kiss if I can make you laugh" video on Youtube... the guy is scrawny as fuck but tall and has a decent face, yet he looks like a "cool, fun" guy because he's doing a prank video in public. There's more to it than his looks. That being said there's a lot I don't like about GLL. Specifically he has this really weird vibe that I can't put my finger on... like an "intensity." My best PUA examples from r…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:34 PM
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I guess what I'm getting at is... his actual experiences were earned in the gym, in the clothing store, in his social life, and in his business, and simply executed in the actual meeting of the girl. The only genetic thing that he has going for him is his height. His face is average (correct me if I'm wrong, I'm a terrible judge of facial looks in men) and does not include facial hair, if I recall well. All his other assets were earned through effort or pushing his comfort zone. I think it's saf…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:14 PM
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If you get familiar with his material rather than just the game bits, it's basically just TRP "looks, money, status" blended with AF/BB and picked apart in great detail and accompanied with an unusually specific set of action items. For example, sure, style matters in addition to looks, but what kind of style is best? For getting laid fast, it's an edgy style. Why? Because it's exciting and when it comes to casual sex girls want exciting. His good looks definitely make the ratios better but that…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:46 PM
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I haven't read that, but I treat every pickup video I see with total skepticism. That being said, fake or not, a lot of this stuff works. My first ONS off cold approach was just me emulating RSD Tyler, who has also been accused of faking videos. I haven't tried GLL's night game stuff on my own yet but it's really similar to how my natural alpha buddies act.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:40 AM
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Is this your ex? I have no idea what your history is from this post. If she has nothing more to offer you... disregard this crap. What do you get out of this?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:40 PM
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Certainly I won't claim that 100% of the attraction I've had in the past would have led to sex. There were a few incidents where I've had some blatant offers of casual sex that I dismissed as being part of a prank or something (seriously, one even involved "wanna have sex?"), but even the less extreme ones were met with disbelief. The point is, a normal man would see IOIs as, at least, an invitation to approach and see if there's a fit. A person with a history of low self-esteem would overlook o…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:15 PM
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The mindset I'm going for is "I am good enough for her" rather than "I don't deserve her." Both "I made an error in my game, but my SMV is fine" and "she's an idiot for not wanting me" as well as related mindsets like "she's not sexually available and is a waste of my time" accomplish the same or similar things. But yes, that is the extreme mindset I hope to cultivate one day.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:08 PM
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That's an awesome policy. Norway doesn't sound as feminist as Sweden. I'm referring actually to the "alimony" law. If a couple divorces the richer partner must pay the poorer partner money for life until they get married again. The argument is that the wife agreed to a certain lifestyle when she married her husband, and if they divorce, she is entitled to continue living that lifestyle. I think she lost that entitlement when she fucked another man but that would make too much sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:14 PM
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Haha, what's funny is that I could have written this comment as well. I've also turned to meditation as a solution. The only difference is I have no problem initiating sex with girls who are in that "questionable" category... I'm moving to the binary scale, but we'll call them 6/10 for now. With girls 7/10 or more, the only time I ever bang them is if I feel that they are attainable in some special way. For example, I slept with an 8 a few months ago, but she was kind of unconventional in that s…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:11 PM
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Yeah, I have this thought too. But if you do it mindfully, I don't see the actual harm in it. That said, if you're already predisposed to an irrationally negative viewpoint, trying to force an irrationally positive one might just "cancel it out."
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:56 PM
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This guy should be able to next her like no other. He probably went out last night to the local college bar and played the bleeding heart card on the hottest girl he could find. The only disgusting part is that he's gonna lose half his stuff now. I don't really object to committing to someone for life... I think it's what's best when raising children. But I just don't get the "half his stuff, even if she cheats on him" bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:59 PM
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"Please upvote my hamstering, I use your internet points to validate my own argument." -Random Slut, c. 2014
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:10 PM
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Maybe "growing out of it" was a bad way to say it... I pretty much meant exactly what you wrote. I'm nowhere near that stage yet however. Regarding the first part... it's hard to explain. Yes, all relationships should start with uncommitted sex. But what if she is only offering up her "uncommitted sex" in hopes of eventually securing beta bux? Was it really uncommitted in her mind then? Is she really, truly sexually attracted to you, or faking it to advance her interests? If it's pure casual hoo…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 02:35 AM
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This is excellent. I found that the girls who would respond well to "boring" game on Tinder are the ones who are looking for a boyfriend. Being goofy and immature will immediately turn those ones off.. and that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:27 PM
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Agreed. It's too easy to blame feminism for everything. I mean most of it is feminism's fault, but not all of it. I know women like that, and they are never happy.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:20 PM
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My take is that she saw him drowning in affection and swooped in to save him. 6'6 was probably her boyfriend. She might have just been doing him a favor.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:25 PM
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I won't try to refute evidence. If partner count is all I'm given, I'll go with lower is better. Having said that, "partners vs happiness" is not that simple: The people I know with the highest partners aren't on a straight male's prospect list: obese, gender-bending, queer, fetishists, etc. I know many exceptions to this rule. Her count might be 2, but she had a BB boyfriend and had AF on the side for nearly a decade. Another count might be 20, but the average of her friends might be 60. Who is…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:15 PM
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I wouldn't do this in an academic or professional setting where you have something to lose. Career (education, networking in this case) takes priority. I know it's unfair but what separates TRP from the feminism vs MRA fight is that we see the world for what it is and work with it, rather than try to stand up for social justice or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:42 AM
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Man, I always get the downvotes for stating that point of view, no matter how much I say it's just my opinion. Good to see someone not totally disagree. Regarding personality dynamics... I don't think girls ever truly want the upper hand. I think they fight for it because (a) shit testing and (b) they are told to do so by feminism. They're happy when a guy takes it from them.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:38 AM
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Pragmatism, man. Don't be afraid of confrontation, but you already know that. Just don't waste your time unless (a) you have something to gain from the confrontation and (b) you have a reasonable chance of making a difference. Neither is true here.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:13 PM
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Ironic, then, that they are so good at using logic to recruit white knights. I say ignore it all. Want a young hottie? Bang a young hottie. The only person you need to justify it to is your boner. Girls your own age didn't give a fuck about you getting hurt when the tables were turned and they just kept saying "JBY!"
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:10 PM
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Definitely agreed, but one comment on the last part... I know a lot of guys worry about "party slut" girls but honestly when I settle down, I plan on doing it with a girl who I knew as a slut first, who kind of settles down "with" me. Another redditor said it way better than me... I'd prefer if we met as two very compatible carousel participants and grew out of it together, rather than trying to find a girl who somehow managed to never participate in it. I feel like they all have those same AF/B…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 03:50 PM
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Most of the thinking that 'age gaps are bad' comes from women who are older and competing with significantly younger, hotter, cooler girls for top-tier men when they're in baby mode, which is then repeated by the men who end up settling for said women in order to rationalize their own sacrifice. At the end of the day, when I decide to settle down, I'd rather it be with a 7 who is 20 (fuck it, why not 18?) than a 9 who is my age or even a few years younger. Not only will she keep her looks longer…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 01:30 PM
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I'm pretty sure I was given a concept from this book by a colleague but I can't remember if that's where this is from... Basically, write down a list of all your responsibilities, all of your "to do" list items. Categorize them into the broadest logical categories. The average person can only handle about 7, give or take 2 based on stress levels. More than that and things start falling apart. If you're like me and found you had like 15, you have to cut stuff out. Definitely effective, highly rec…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:07 PM
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This is good for us, guys. The only girls left on Tinder would be the ones actually wanting the guy to take control, push for a meetup, etc. We have a better time there because no messaging attention whores (as much). Second, the only girls who message you on Bumble are going to be the ones that are actually motivated to talk to you (and potentially meet up and bang). Get the app, swipe right a ton, and wait. Not reliable, but time-efficient. Edit: never use the 24 hour extend feature. "I have h…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:24 PM
1

Doesn't really matter. TRP is an idea. This sub has become basically the centralized "forum" section for the blogs of a few dozen RP writers like Rollo, Heartiste, etc. If this sub gets shut down, we'll just end up migrating elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:48 PM
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Fuuuck, me too. I think I get approached and totally miss it, or sabotage my own approaches, more often than I actually get rejected by girls. All because I just can't accept that cute girls actually want me in their pants. I found some info on this and will post it sometime soon.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:34 AM
1

Certainly regulation is a good thing in some cases. For example, stock market regulations that allow the markets to work. But in many cases, the "excessive power" held by corporations actually comes from corrupt or misguided regulations that were designed to protect them, rather than just from having lots of money. This is what libertarianism wants to stop. For example, look at Tesla. They are having problems in the US selling cars directly to customers because of laws made to protect the existi…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:01 AM
1

Pretty much this. I have, at one point, identified as basically everything on the spectrum, then went libertarian as I started to learn PUA, MRA, and eventually TRP. That said, I'm all for government intervention in situations where the notion of personal responsibility doesn't apply. If things work out better for literally everyone involved, why not? Shame most countries are stuck without legit libertarian options.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:24 PM
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The "neg" is so well-known that every girl knows about it. Girls these days are actively watching out for negs. But they still work. Funny, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:00 PM
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Disclaimer: I'm not terribly short, not terribly tall. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/looks-and-style/short-guy-gets-laid I have some anecdotal "short guy gets laid" examples but they're kind of redundant in this thread. The insecurity is worse than the actual problem. Sure you won't get as much attention from girls, but being insecure means you will feel like you're not good enough, so you won't even try. This applies to other insecurities as well, I even know guys with no specific thing…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 04:35 PM
1

"I'll keep it short!" I don't even know what to say, man.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:53 PM
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Something not many suit people seem to know about: http://mrlapel.blogspot.ca/2008/04/its-all-in-armholes.html The example doesn't look that great, but if you try it on with the right size suit you'll get the idea. The extra fabric on the sides ruins your "V" shape if you have it. Easy enough to find shirts and winter jackets that have high armholes, but I have trouble finding good suits.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:46 PM
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I think you pretty well hit the nail on the head. I went through this system as well but I can't say I ever had the idea of privilege thrown at me. What was shoved down my throat was mostly related to gender roles: boys are allowed to cry, girls can make the first move, etc. What's ironic is that in private everyone drops the act: girls freely admit they lose attraction to weak men and will never be the first to make a move. No one in Canada actually believes this shit, we just endlessly preach …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:28 AM
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It's not just commercials anymore. Take a look at any textbook in Canada. They make every effort to make the female the more powerful partner. Waste of time and effort. Then again, this might not be just a Canadian thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:07 AM
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At 0:04 you can see Max turn around to try and find a fuck to give.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:30 PM
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I can't get over the indifferent smile on Max's face. Dat frame. In other news, my neck hurts.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:09 PM
3

My takeaway: audioen's comment is basically pure, unfiltered Red Pill knowledge. But it has 14 net upvotes on TwoX. People gladly agree with everything we say, until we actually do something about it...
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:34 PM
2

Yes, definitely delete that line. I've found that raging at a women signals to her "I am frustrated with the way women treat me." This implies women treat you poorly, and she'll be comfortable doing the same to you. If you act like you really don't give a shit about her and her poor behaviour, you're implying that she has no power over you, because your needs are satisfied elsewhere. That's attractive to women because it means that other women must like you, so she assumes there's something to y…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:40 PM
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Honestly man, pick someone real. You can learn from celebrities and fictional characters but you will never be able to relate to them directly because the situations they are in are so far removed from yours. With someone real and somewhat similar to you, you can relate to them easily and really get to know how they think by asking questions and seeing them function in situations that you actually find yourself in.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:15 PM
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This made me laugh. I'm a guy who legitimately doesn't care about partner count.. I know that deviates from the dogma here but whatever. I'm totally fine committing to a high-count girl. That said, if she's put out before commitment in the past, she better do the same for me. The real issue (for me) isn't the slutty past, it's the fact that she is deceiving me by hiding it. The "paying a higher price for the same thing or less" issue. When I think about this stuff I feel tempted to just start ly…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:01 PM
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My humble opinion... "Oh I didn't know you wanted to open up our relationship. Go ahead, I'm totally cool with that. I'm gonna go kick it with a friend, call me tomorrow." Downgrade to plate, go to bar, get second plate.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:31 PM
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I'm an average-height guy who used to have an unreasonable amount of height insecurity. I don't know what being 5'2 is like, but I know what feeling 5'2 is like, if that makes sense. Height obviously matters. But I've met enough short, but sexually successful men to know that it isn't the only thing that matters. Height confers an instant advantage of appearing more powerful, dominant, and imposing. What all of the successful short men I've met have in common is that they find other ways to expr…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:35 PM
1

Totally agree with this. That said, one doesn't need to be top 20% in the fitness sense to be top 20% overall. Even with a body like this, if a guy has an aesthetic face, 2 inches of height over the average, decent style, and just a little bit of confidence, you can probably get away with the beer gut. Compare him to the next 4 random men you see. Our guy would still probably be the top out of 5 (top 20%).
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:46 AM
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I think talents like music only add value to a man who is already alpha in a sense that he isn't emotionally invested in the opinions of women. It doesn't matter how awesome you are, if you're heavily invest in what women think of you, they'll see this and be repulsed by it. On top of that, I've found that most guys who work hard on a specific area of life to get laid focus too much on that area of life to the neglect of other aspects of SMV... the best musicians I know look like they couldn't i…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:32 PM
2

You open yourself up to rejection by her through making your intentions clear and being open about wanting her, but you do it in a way that shows you are not invested in her response (in a sense that you aren't deriving validation from her positive response). Basically shows you DGAF about her opinion, which shows you don't rely on others for your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:11 PM
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OP is describing an irrationally high sense of self-confidence. Act like a 10 no matter what you are. You're right: if you are a 1, it will fail... nothing can help you but self-improvement. That said, even if you're just average, this mentality can work wonders. If you try to be realistic about your value, you'll be constantly guessing, relying on feedback, taking things personally, and seeking validation. This impacts your game. If you're really a 6 but really, truly believe you can score any …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:21 PM
2

I lol'd. How long were you waiting for this opportunity?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:05 PM
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The break up resulted in more sex for less commitment. I fail to see how this in any way can be deemed a "fuck up." Well done, good sir. Most men would have either beat the shit out of the other guy or begged for her loyalty. Keep banging her but do it because it's fun, not because you're angry at her or resent her in any way.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:17 PM
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It might have something to do with the way they approach hotter women. Looks are important but you can totally screw it up with a needy approach. For myself, I've noticed that I treat fives and sixes way different than 7+. I get good attention from girls all the way up to the occasional 9, but the majority of the girls I've had sex with have been 6/10 and lower. I've noticed that I don't approach 7+ girls very often, and when I do, my attitude is much more validation seeking ("she'd be doing me …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:44 PM
4

Yup. Girls do not communicate honestly with men. If a man gets back with his ex, he says "I'm back with my ex." If a woman gets back with her ex, she just stops answering texts (unless she wants something else from you).
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 12:26 PM
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You're definitely not wrong, but really as men we should be willing to walk away at a moment's notice. She swung branches? Good luck to her. Next. Legal marriage strips men of this power. Just don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:25 PM
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Good read. I think most of the fixation on partner count is based on jealousy: if you have a lower count, your short-term sexual value is lower than hers, her attraction to you is partially based on your long-term value (provider), implying that she probably thinks about alpha cocks when you're (rarely) sleeping together. Not a good basis for a relationship. Every girl deep down wants to be plowed by alpha men who won't stick around. Some girls can't get it (fat) or don't want to (repressed). Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:22 PM
1

Awesome analysis. I've gotten laid on first dates before but the ratio sucks... maybe a handful of times out of the dozens of (honestly useless) first dates I go on where the women just start measuring my wallet. So in reality, the problem is acting like a Saturday hookup guy when she's in a Thursday date mentality, if I understand correctly. I'll try moving away from dates and towards just getting girls to meet me where I'm already out on a party night. At least that way if she's a dud there ar…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:10 PM
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Solid, thanks. Loving the last paragraph. Regarding the first paragraph... part of my issue is that I seem to project provider value in my approach even at the bar... but I'm gonna try acting like pure alpha fucks as much as I can and see what happens. Sick of girls telling me they don't fuck on the first date. Stop lying.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:45 PM
3

Well, no, women could easily dominate us, but they refuse to do so because they aren't manipulative and power-hungry like us evil, evil men. /s by the way
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:29 PM
5

LMAO, then. Why don't we just LMAO?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:04 PM
5

Got a question for you, since you seem to understand the notion of "alpha bux" and girls hiding their slut side, etc. My bux is pretty good. I'm very stable and have great provider potential. I'm working on my alpha right now, and it's going well. That said, since my provider potential is so high I feel like they instantly put up their "good girl" act. I don't want that right now. I want the bad girl. Should I be "hiding" my provider value? How? I know provider value is a good way to spin up old…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:58 PM
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Women are equal, but they need the help of men to be equal. I'm no doctor, but if anyone in this thread is having a migraine right now, I think I know why.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:46 PM
2

I'm no TRP veteran but here's my take... best reaction would have been to just say "K" at the first sign of trouble. The ball is now in her court, and she knows you don't give a fuck enough to send more than one letter. You go hang with your bro, maybe go to the bar and find a new plate. Women should be so abundant that the cost of meeting a new one is lower than the cost of pursuing a flaky plate. I used to rage at flakes like this and it never got me anywhere. It demonstrated that I was invest…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:26 PM
1

Here's a partial source: http://pubs.acs.org/stoken/presspac/presspac/full/10.1021/es1014482 I apologize for the paywall. I spoke to a (field-relevant) scientist who actually has read this (and related) papers about the issue. The bulk of the bad chemicals apparently come not from contraceptive use but from the use of growth hormones in beef cattle, which finds its way into the water system over time. This issue is just coming to the forefront now because of new measurement equipment. The quanti…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:52 PM
1

I think they're not that into any individual man because there's a massive overabundance of top 20% men offering sex to even the lowliest of women on the internet. If you had to decide between four 9/10 girls to sleep with tonight (and no, you cannot choose them all... though I'd totally try :) ) how would you do it, assuming you don't know THAT much about them? Probably rather arbitrarily. She may be super "into you" but why put any effort into it when she can just lay back and close her eyes a…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:22 PM
1

But you can run that exact same routine on a different girl and get into her pants in an hour. Or ten girls in a row. It's so arbitrary.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:17 PM
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Something stood out to me: when a nearly-perfect match for her needs merely offered to bring a gun (assumed not to be loaded, of course) she simply stopped responding. A rational human would have simply said "no, that would not be necessary" and proceeded without the involvement of the gun. This reflects on how women handle their sexual contacts with men in general. You can say one thing wrong (which might have been the perfect thing to say to countless other women) and she will cut contact with…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:39 PM
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This is equally as disgusting as the "let me help you study... actually I want to have sex with you" trope. I'm honestly concerned for the poor thing. If she adopted her for your attention only she may start to neglect her once she realizes she isn't getting anything from you. I hope you check anyways.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:46 PM
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4 sex in the last 2 years? Either he has no penis or she is literally the queen of blowjobs.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:12 PM
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True. I feel like it also has a bit of a diminishing return attached to it. The difference for a "visibly short" guy (say 5'6 and under) adding 3 inches to be a "pretty average" 5'9 would be night and day. The difference for a 5'9 guy moving up to "visibly tall", say 6' somehow would be more subtle. So a guy like Owen probably isn't being dragged down much by his height. Another way to say it... going from 12% to 10% body fat will definitely look better, but if you're hiding your body in old pai…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:21 AM
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Statistically, you can be in the top 20% by being just above average in every category. Being in the 45th percentile or whatever in terms of height isn't a big drawback if you're decent aesthetically, get fit, and have good game (plus good provider value if you're going for an LTR). Think of it this way: the average dude is above average in half of categories and below average in the other half. That's how averages work. Now think of how many guys you know who are approximately average or above …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:59 AM
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Fuck, these people think too much. It's because younger women tend to be hotter. End of discussion. A rational woman would accept this and either get hitched early or hit the gym. Even if they're right about the brainwashing, isn't it easier to just conform to the existing standard than try to change it? I think they take up the impossible cause because it means they can satisfy their need to place blame externally and therefore not feel obligated to any kind of action.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:48 PM
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(a) under 25 (b) 26.... If you're exactly 25, you divide by zero and regain your virginity.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 12:15 AM
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I think that's most of it, but her facial expression is part of it as well.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:21 PM
1

You missed my personal favourite: the eyes. Not eye contact... that look she gets sometimes. It kind of looks like she's holding in excitement or a giddy laugh. It's really hard to put your finger on it, but if you train yourself to look for the other IOIs you'll start to see that they usually come with a certain look in her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:01 PM
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One of my favourite books, almost as influential as Pook on my life. False confidence means acting confident when you're really shaking out of nervousness, or feeding yourself bullshit in order to be confident about something you should probably fix (see: body acceptance movement). Rather than hamster away your imperfections, you need to accept them and become comfortable with them, or fix them. They can't be on your mind when approaching women. Push-pull is just a tactic. Your motivation for us…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:31 PM
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Exactly. All 14 items on this list should be "lose fucking weight you mad cunt." Well, maybe 13, with the 14th being "go to an actual doctor to check for actual thyroid conditions."
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:18 PM
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"Butthurt" Get it? (Whoops, pissed off the bot... better not do that again.)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:09 PM
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You're right. I'm fairly new here, still have a little bit of "why can't women just..." mentality.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:07 PM
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I so wish this was fake. But your response was absolutely perfect. You set her hamster to 11 when you implied that you didn't understand what she wanted. You're an asshole because you didn't buy a girl drink without being asked to do so? Pathetic. It's sad that our society has enough beta men that they can still get away with this shit and have satisfying sex and professional lives.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:41 PM
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I'd hate to hear his videos are fake (though if they are, I can't deny it). His stuff helped me a lot. He's obviously coming from a marketing mindset: "my stuff will get you laid, not looks, not muscles, not style." He's right that having irrational confidence and approaching a million girls will get anyone laid, but he's wrong when he says that SMV doesn't matter. Chris is basically saying the same thing (approach until you find a match) except he works on his SMV in every way possible. No surp…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:16 PM
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I have to disagree that this standard of confidence is excessive. Five years ago I was nervous about ordering food at a restaurant or having to talk to a cashier. Now I act almost like this guy when I go out. Yes it does require a time investment but now we have guys like him to make it easier, and I view that investment as worthwhile because confidence is just generally helpful in life. That said I definitely disagree with lots of what Tyler/Owen says and does but the useful part of contrasting…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:53 PM
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I'm almost exactly where you are... SS since May, 5'9, 165. I definitely gained mass though. It's hard to see big changes when you look at yourself in the mirror daily, but people I haven't seen in a while are giving unsolicited comments about it, etc. Plus none of my old clothes fit anymore... Don't take my word on it but think about trying a cut. With a bit more definition you might see the muscle you've built. Aesthetics is more about body fat percentage than raw size. If you're still having …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:17 PM
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Exactly. I bet she'd even feel different if he had a set of abs and a bit of facial hair.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:07 PM
2

Did we ever find out if he got his way? In the real world, probably not. The blue pill gives you depression and the doctor's only answer "you just need more feminism, you're not actually depressed."
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:04 PM
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TRP isn't here to make you feel good. It's here to tell you the truth about what you need to work on, which usually feels like crap. Do so, and then you can feel good. Apparently that's too much for some people. The ultimate shit test in a way.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:58 PM
1

Speaking as an average height guy, if you're visibly tall you get plus points and your efforts in the other areas are worth more. If you're visibly short, you're dealing with a significant penalty and your efforts in other areas are worth less. But, it all still counts. A short guy who has focused on self-improvement and approaches a lot will NOT get laid as much as a tall guy who focuses on self-improvement and does the same approaches... but he will get laid more than a short guy who DIDN'T fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:11 AM
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The point I'm trying to make is that the 5'9 or less players do score SOME points. Even if they train hard and have the same quality of coaching they may not score as much as the taller players, but they still do score. They could quit the NBA if they wanted to, but then it's not their height that's stopping them from scoring, it's the fact that they quit. Granted some men might say "too much effort for too little payoff" and just decline to play. No problem. But that's a choice.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:36 PM
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Alright I got around to watching the video finally. I'm not disagreeing with anything that's in there. The video basically comes from the mentality that "if you got laid once, it was a fluke, not your PUA skills." I'm arguing: push harder and make those flukes happen more often. Don't give up on it just because you could be better looking. Joe Average might have to approach 500 women to get laid and Brad Pitt might have to approach 5. So? Approach 500 women. I had no idea RSD Tyler had a fucking…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:17 PM
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What I'm trying to say with this post is... if you've ever NOT been rejected, if you've ever slept with a decent girl, or gotten attention from one in the past, it can be repeated. I'm not saying that you just need to dress better and lift more and game harder and ALL girls of that quality level can be yours... I'm saying that you just need to look around harder to find another one who's into you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:11 PM
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Exactly. Looks determine how well a guy performs overall, but even though I don't look as good as my 6' fit buddy with a nice face, I can still get laid. I just have to approach more than him, even at my peak. So the reason I'm not getting laid is not my looks... It's my lack of approaching. If I had bad presentation or style, I might be turning girls off that way. If I had bad game, I might be turning girls off that way.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:48 AM
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Yeah that's the one. Very helpful. Most of the time, it's about being in the right place at the right time.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:43 AM
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I love that site. And I generally agree with you. When I say game, I generally refer to "don't fuck up" game. Work with what you got to be your best, then capitalize on the attention you get. If one girl likes you but you fuck it up, the reason you're not getting laid is not your looks... Not every girl will find you attractive, but if one does, others are capable of it too. Just another way of dealing why o rejection.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:29 AM
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I never said that "looks are not a factor at all." Crossing a girl's looks threshold is absolutely essential. What I'm trying to say is that it's easier to cross that threshold than a lot of pessimistic guys believe. If you've gotten attention from desirable women at all before, your genetics must be good enough. From them on you have to blame your presentation, game, lack of approaches, etc. Does that make more sense? Edit: wrote on phone and contradicted myself in the first 10 words.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:41 AM
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I'm not sugar coating anything, I was trying to be harsh. I'm saying if you get attention from an 8 today, then rejected by an 8 tomorrow, obviously you're good looking enough to earn their attention. Don't blame your genes and stop approaching. If you never get attention for all your efforts... It's your looks.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:47 PM
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See edit. Don't blame genetics until you've ruled out the rest. Sorry if unclear.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:38 PM
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Exactly. A girl might reject you one week because she just had sex with the quarterback, but if you approach the same girl next week she might go home with you because the football team is away and she wants to get laid. With those girls, it's all about being Mr Right Now. It's not personal.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:36 PM
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Good point. However I think that your attractiveness relative to her usual experience with guys is more important than your absolute attractiveness. Not necessarily in terms of "would I have sex with him?" but "how much effort am I willing to expend to have sex with him?" Got nice abs? Great, that cute engineering student is surrounded by skinnyfat dudes all day, if she has any form of libido and a healthy attitude about sex she'll defect to North Korea to sleep with you, provided you put it out…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:15 PM
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I always see it this way: looks are the foot in the door, and are essential in 99% of all cases. However, the threshold of looks that she will consider is a lot lower than we generally think.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:52 PM
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Okay there's not a whole lot of new content here, but this guy's old FRs were my bridge from Seddit into TRP. Assuming they're real stories, they illustrate how and why asshole game works, which is a compelling case for TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:36 PM
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If one company applies this, they'd lose a competitive edge (HR efficiency, workforce competence) but potentially gain another (marketing to tumblrellas). If all companies do this, everyone will have unfilled positions and enormous amounts of men will go unemployed (women, too, in some careers... nah I'm fucking with you, do you think they'd ever have "Gender-Balanced Hospitals" where the nursing staff must be half-male? Because Oppression!) Let's start out own label. Let's call it "Gender-Blind…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:25 PM
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"Of course you can go. But we both know what kind of girl Jenny is, and if you do go I don't think I can see you exclusively anymore."
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:13 PM
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Absolutely do not bother. Don't even acknowledge it. You showed a bit of scarcity and it worked, the fact that she made that comment shows it. It may be a factor in why she was so easy to meet up with.
/r/trpGAME21/08/14 08:56 PM
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This stuff is tough, don't stress too much over it. You may have lost this one but maybe not (you might text something like "haha relax im messing with you ttyl" to brush it off). Text again too soon to make plans, it looks desperate (this is what you did... "if not tonight, when?"). Text too late to make plans, she might lose interest, momentum might die off, another guy might show up. Try to keep up momentum in between attempts to hang out and you look too available or needy. IMO the best opti…
/r/trpGAME21/08/14 03:31 PM
1

We have to remember that those "natural alphas" spend their whole lives ignoring Blue Pill teachings and learning by trial and error what works in life and with women. Us "recovering betas" have spent our whole lives putting in enormous effort to move in the exact opposite direction, while being told it's the right thing to do because the other guys are "douchebags" or whatever shaming term was popular in your childhood. This is why the change is so hard. This is why it takes so long. And this i…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:37 PM
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I, too, follow that rule. You may not be leaving her happier than when you found her, but you are leaving her better. She now knows what to look for in a man, what truly attracts her and makes her happy, and what she needs to do to earn it. It's hardly your fault that there is a lack of such men in our society. If anything, your impact on her life may be the force that turns her into an advocate for masculinity rather than an oppressor. Think of it this way: the Red Pill isn't here to make us ha…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:28 PM
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IIRC, women get in a larger number of less-severe accidents. Men may drive more aggressively but generally have better spatial awareness and reaction time. The women's lanes would be riddled with fender-benders and hesitation. The scary, dangerous "everyone else" lanes would flow smoothly and efficiently with the exception of a few suicidal street racers. Still retarded though. This would never happen. Marketing.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:19 PM
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Logged on to post this. Found this already here. Great infield. Most of the infield stuff floating around feels like a highlight reel, you get a few moves and a general sense of the guy's persona but not much else. For those who are producing videos right now, I'd really love to see totally uncut interactions from "hello" to the point where the deal is closed. I think that would be most useful to newbies wanting an example of how to be good at this stuff. (Edit: I mean to say, I love this one be…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:03 PM
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Yeah my 30 year old buddy gets with girls sub-25 (one even 19) with minimal shit tests. Often they even treat his age as a bit of a positive. He acts a little bit like OP's advice but generally parties like he's still in college.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:42 PM
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I think the pizza is like fucking a questionably hot and generally toxic slut: you'd still eat it if you were dying of hunger, but you'd probably catch something and die anyways. But at least it was pizza. This girl is like eating the live rat that was nibbling on the pizza on the bar bathroom floor. This girl offers zero value. I don't judge a girl for just being unattractive, but she has the personality of a castrated Adolf Hitler.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:28 PM
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Finally, a picture. Taking a step back from all the yelling in here, I think the most interesting conclusion to draw from this whole story is that this woman (womyn?) was somehow able to cheat with five men in seven months while some of the best-looking and most confident men I know struggle to get laid half that much. What does that say about our present social climate?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 09:21 PM
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I have limited experience with Montrealers but plenty of experience with other Quebec women, maybe it's a bit different in the smaller cities. Last time I was there was in my Blue Pill days and I never even tried to pick up... they honestly "appear" less slutty on first meeting, that's why I had that impression. But maybe I'm just judging the book by its cover.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:45 PM
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Can I ask what your experience is with Quebec girls? I've personally found their Slut Index low, though the rest is spot on. Edit: I mean to say, how long were you there? Where did you meet them? How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:50 PM
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I'm no resident but I am familiar with the people... there are pockets of radical feminism not dissimilar to the shit you find in Sweden and the like. Yet, the general social climate is fairly materialistic and capitalistic due to it being a major financial centre. It's like a secret government lab that grows entitlement mentality for military use. Love the city, but would not move there as long as I'm trying to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:39 PM
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Do you feel like he should try to add humour to the A&A? In a sense that he's treating his wife's bullshit like a joke?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:07 PM
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Your one-line comment contains deeper wisdom than the entirety of that foolish waste of server space.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:48 PM
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This pushes so many of my buttons it just HAS TO BE a Red Pill-aware troll. There's no other explanation. Even the tumblrinas in the comments are calling her out.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:54 PM
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Oh, I've never been a chick's cuddle buddy. I screen by getting very sexual, very fast. That turns off the non-sexual girls. I just had the impression that I get initial attraction from girls looking for someone "nice." It's not always the case, it just happens occasionally and was looking for a way to manage that.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:58 PM
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I'm a young guy too... just a few years older than you. It's absolutely worth checking it. That said, they won't do anything for you if your T levels are within the normal range... which they don't adjust for age. As long as it's not at the level that will cause actual health issues, they won't give you anything for it. Not being able to build aesthetic muscles, not being a huge risk taker, and not being constantly horny are not "health problems" in their mind. In fact it sometimes feels like th…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:52 PM
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Haha, no I very rarely get "nice". Not all hope is lost. I just had a perception based on this type of compliment that girls see me as "cuddle buddy" more than "fuck buddy" which is not the direction I want now in life, so I'm looking at new ways to come off more sexual right off the bat. It does seem to work. A lot of girls seem to go nuts for a guy who is overall masculine but with feminine features. Attraction + comfort maybe.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:27 PM
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And yet if it actually happened to them, they'd be repulsed by his neediness. I don't care who he is, if he stoops down to that level, he's just being beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:31 PM
1

Thank you - "friendly" is a great word for it. I look friendly, but non-threatening. My issue is that, even if I do work out and act confident, my obvious feminine traits prevent me from being able to pull off dressing "nice" without looking too feminine (just from imagining my self with more muscle).
/r/askTRP25/07/14 08:06 PM
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Mid 20s. I have a mix of strongly beta (smile, height... not catastrophic but under average) and strongly alpha (muscles, facial hair, jawline) traits. I get a small minority of shy, inexperienced, yet still very attractive girls treating me like an alpha (getting sexual fast and with no expectation of commitment) but primarily praising my beta/feminine traits (smile, etc). The average carousel rider (the majority of girls) doesn't give the same response: I get lots of attention from them but Go…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:55 PM
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It's a fantastic mentality. If you do it right, approaching will become exciting and will be your default action, not something you have to force. After a great weekend at the bars I found myself in a situation where approaching was just not a good idea and actually had to consciously hold myself back from doing it. New habits do form. This stuff works.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:32 PM
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You're entirely too correct but no one sees it. A friend of a friend apparently hooked up with 7 guys in a row in one week. I was fucking shocked, knowing TRP I expected her to be a solid 9/10 with hints of crazy so I demanded to see a picture to prove myself correct... nope. She was taller than me and pushing 200 pounds of non-muscle. Average aesthetically. If you keep introducing the prey, the predators will flourish.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:18 PM
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She's as nurse. She saves people's lives. Therefore she can eat whatever she wants... and not be fat? And have it be somehow acceptable that she's fat? Blue pill logic: start with desired but impossible outcome, find most emotionally compelling reason why that should be the case (spoiler: that still doesn't make it the case).
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 02:25 PM
2

Absolutely. I think the only reason why the PUA community advocates complex indirect approaches is that they aren't polarizing... you're not gonna get a "fuck off, creep" from asking what time it is. Direct approaches are instantly polarizing... if you're awkward and unattractive about it, you will get a harsh reaction. If you come off confidently and show off as a high-value man, it will more or less work in your favour. Get physical as fast as the situation allows. Force her to reject you or a…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:07 PM
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Haha, too late. I see her physically tense up when she sees me do something dominant or if I tell her a Red Pill story. As much as I love her I'm using her negative reactions as a sign I'm on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 04:34 PM
2

Hilarious, then, that my little sister says "You'd like Ronnie but the other guys are douchebags for sure."
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 02:59 PM
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They try to convince us (between rides) that carousel riding is bad and that their new brand of "submissive fatherhood" is noble and strong. They try to convince us that we can't have both, so that they can. The reality is that an alpha man's (really, anyone's) fatherhood is much better than a beta's, and that a sliver of his resources is much more valuable than the entirety of a beta's resources. It's just a lot harder to secure when he's the 25th dick she's taken and he knows it, so her best o…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 02:57 PM
1

Yeah, I only swallowed fully about 6 months ago. Prior to that I thought that basically everyone was getting laid all the time. I've only ever met one girl and two guys all my life who had a new partner weekly. Most of the other girls ride the carousel by calling it "dating" and waiting 2-3 dates to make it look like the lead-up to a potential relationship (which she knows won't work in the first place). That's the "socially acceptable" aspect I was referring to.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 10:52 PM
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I was about to post that he should just say "okay," let them go on their vacation, then go on an even more awesome one himself. This is better I think.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 10:41 PM
1

Generally for sure, but I've met a few girls who will completely shun the advances of a sexually attractive man, and most of them have been... not undesirable but maybe just a little bit chubby, a few flaws, etc. I feel like it has something to do with disbelief that they're actually attracting such a high-value man. On authority.... agreed that's the best way for us to proceed to obtain the best overall outcome in terms of personal success and success with women... but I still feel like a pure,…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 10:30 PM
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A Beta with Alpha traits is still entirely a Beta... Alpha means Leader in the evolutionary sense, one can be strong, calm, and dominant but still be entirely Beta if he doesn't take the lead. It's my view that "degrees of Alpha" don't exist because in a given society there can only be one Alpha by definition. What we do by acquiring their traits is basically to say "if it came time to compete for leadership, I would be a leader."
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:44 PM
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Is it too much investment for an individual girl? That's what I'm trying to figure out. If it's the case that a simple cold read (what's she wearing, who is she with, where did I meet her) can help me figure out how fast to get sexual then it will end up saving more time than it costs me. If it's too complicated you're right - just go, approach, see who's receptive, see what gets the best results.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:40 PM
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Agreed, I'm definitely erring on the side of "too sexual, too fast." That said, I know a lot of women (not just girls I'm trying to seduce, but friends and family members even) who are extremely uncomfortable around fast sexuality. I've seen them get uncomfortable and fuss over advances from extremely alpha men, then eventually turn them down (usually for some reason like being afraid he wasn't interested in anything serious enough). This post was an attempt for me to better understand why. Some…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:38 PM
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I totally agree with you... though we were pushed down the wrong path by excessive philosophy (feminism) so I don't really consider it overthinking to tear down those same philosophies to lead a better life.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:38 PM
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Better than I could have said it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:04 PM
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Good point. I was in a fantastic relationship where she had an openly slutty past (compared to my relatively limited one at the time). She outright asked for anal and had no issue with kinky stuff I wanted. I had no issue with this.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:03 PM
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I.... fuck. And at the alarming pace of 5 pounds per week, too.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:00 PM
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Actually remember that little study that showed how women prefer different sexual traits when they're fertile/not on BC/looking for sex versus when they're infertile/pregnant/looking for relationships? Facial aesthetics were actually not very correlated at all with either end of the spectrum. Of course they play a role, and of course a woman will be delighted if her guy happens to be handsome, but muscularity and high-testosterone behaviours kind of trump it.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 10:51 PM
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No, they just want us to think that our partners' histories are not related to us, because if you thought too hard about it you'd realize alpha fux, beta bux is truth. It's obvious that this chick has a slutty side, which is totally fine, but not involving him in that aspect of her sexuality IS a problem with this relationship, and has EVERYTHING to do with this man. The inner slut doesn't die, she just represses it when she is forced to date a guy she isn't 100% sexually attracted to. If you've…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 09:25 PM
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While it is hilarious to piss them off, I advocate taking it to the next level: be totally indifferent to their rage. They offer nothing we want, so their opinions of us and our actions are totally irrelevant. That said, if I can't OHP her I won't touch her.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:42 PM
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Yes, there is variety. But there is also a central tendency. I can stay skinnyfat and have 10% of girls think I'm perfect, or get jacked and have 25% of girls think I'm perfect, along with having less competition because getting jacked is not easy. On top of that, remember that women have dualistic mating strategies. Muscularity, within reason, is their criteria for guys they just want to fuck. Boyish looks, a bit of chub, etc are attractive to some girls but not in a lip-biting, juices-flowing …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:36 PM
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DAE stop reading after "co-signer"? In fact I already had suspicions from the start... "distance relationship" = banging alphas. Interesting scenario this puts us in. If you don't want to sacrifice your financial integrity for a girl, you have to find one who is herself financially independent. But then you have a masculine career-woman half the time. Even if she volunteers to quit her job to raise your spawn, now you're on the hook for all sorts of shit if/when it falls apart.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:47 PM
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Yeah this guy isn't RP. Maybe he swallowed last week but he hasn't absorbed it yet. With a little experience he would have been able to detect the raging feminist inside her pretty rapidly and politely cut the date short. Who the hell wants to date a girl who uses "trigger warning" in any sense but sarcastically?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:25 PM
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I don't know if this is another case of "women saying they want one thing but actually going for another." I think it's a case of "women saying what's socially acceptable, what they wouldn't get punished by a feminist for admitting." If we define aggression as being pissy and irritable, demanding as being needy, and dominance as controlling, we get beta traits. Assertive, confident, and easygoing are ways to say aggressive, demanding, and dominant in a way that says "if I don't get it from you, …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:52 PM
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TRP, though, IS actually a sub for insecure men to learn how to get laid. However we understand that not getting laid is a symptom of a much larger problem, and that insecurities must be fixed by deliberate self-improvement rather than simply hamstering the perceived deficiency away. Edit: that is to say, the casual observer only sees someone who wasn't getting laid, then six months later someone who is suddenly getting laid a bunch. They don't realize how much change had to happen inside and in…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:15 PM
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We need TRP because it's mindset and community that allows men to operate in a fashion that emphasizes discovering and acting on the way things are, not the way we wish they were, not the way things should be according to some overcomplicated morality. It's a "no bullshit" straight path from start point to end point, which is increasingly rare in a society so complacent it's "end point" is simply to become content with its "start point." It's too hard for them to recommend we go to the gym, dres…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:40 PM
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Didn't watch, read summary. One of the "implied premises" of this argument is that we do pickup so that we can better society and help other men and improve ourselves. Those are noble goals shared by the bulk of the PUA/RP community, but that's not the motivation of learning game. We learn game to get laid. We do other things to improve ourselves and others. I really don't care if "women choose who is alpha" unless it helps me learn how to become alpha so I can get laid. It's not a waste of ener…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 05:58 PM
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What I mean to say is... in the American system, the Democrats are winning over the bottom half of the economy with their economic policies, then selling the upper half on non-economic grounds such as gay marriage and gun control or even moral obligation to help the poor. The Republicans are admittedly shafting the lower classes but trying to sell to them on social issues like religion, gun freedom, and abortion control, as well as the impact that lower taxes on the rich would have on economic g…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:46 PM
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I agree... having sex once means "okay, I'm desirable to at least one girl, so there are probably a few others who like me." This helps us realize that it's not going to be such a struggle to get laid again, eventually, and we can relax about it a bit. Entering into a relationship means "okay, I'm desirable enough to at least one girl that she's willing to cut off all other men, so there are definitely some other girls who see me as valuable enough to offer that kind of commitment." But what's s…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:07 PM
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"Vote buying." Democracy does not produce the "right" outcome, it merely produces the outcome that can be most easily sold to enough people to win an election. Bonus: the electorate is so short-sighted and uneducated they often vote for something that they think helps them, but actually is a net negative... and not just in the long run. It's super easy to sell the idea of "free childcare" to single women. It might save your average single mom $1,000 per month, but it might cost the government $1…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:13 PM
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It's about genes, that's all sexual attraction is about, but I think women are evolutionarily hardwired to equate dominant behaviour with good genes, even if it's a somewhat faulty premise. It may have made sense at some point in our evolutionary history even if not so much now.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 12:43 PM
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This point is so fucking important. When men complain about not getting laid, about being rejected, about the nice guy/jerk paradigm, they're not complaining about blue balls... they're really saying "I wish I was the kind of guy that girls want to have sex with." That's far more important than the sex itself, that desire is the real motivator.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 12:36 PM
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Every time I read such an article my mind is blown with how much ridiculous shit these people actually believe in the face of the total lack of credible evidence supporting their positions, and the prominent abundance of evidence supporting ours. Then I remember that I believed it for two full decades and wonder how I managed to do that. Such lunacy, very wow.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:38 PM
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Exactly, simply looking being hot and feminine and just slightly unavailable triggers a strong instinctive response in men that drives us to do irrational things. Even on the level of physical appearance, notice how "meatheads" are shunned but female gym-goers are praised for their efforts? I think we are actually seeing a lot more women who are choosing not to have men, and encouraging others to do so. How many times have you heard a girl identify as an "independent woman"? You're right though,…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:49 PM
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You made me think a bit... society in general would benefit if all game were dropped, I think, but from the perspective of someone who isn't a big "greater good" kind of guy, I feel like it's just not our place to bother trying to convince others to adopt a more rational sexual strategy. So you're exactly right, we're powerless to stop the princess mentality, we have no option but to just take what we want as best as we can.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:41 PM
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Good point. Let's be honest: beta game is far more "dishonest" and "manipulative" than alpha game at its worst, but a proliferation of alpha game in general stifles female access to resources, so they need to make up bullshit arguments and rationalizations to counter it.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:38 PM
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It's all alpha fucks, beta bucks. She doesn't just value different aspects of different types of men at different ages, she values different types of relationships and men entirely. She uses her effortless youthful sexuality to sap the resources of young providers to sustain her sexual exploration with top-notch genetics. Then she realizes the gravy train is about to derail, and seeks the commitment of a provider for life, having used her fertility as much as possible. Those of us with resources…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:03 PM
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Everyone who goes from bad to better with girls experiences this. You've trained yourself over years to believe that you're bad with women. The version of you that got rejected all those times is basically dead now, but you still believe you're him. You have to train yourself to think differently. Oddly enough, even just sitting there trying to convince yourself of this with your imagination will work, to some extent, but of course you'll need to earn positive experiences by getting out there. I…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:01 PM
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I feel like some of it might have to do with how we perceive ourselves, too. There was a great crosspost from bodybuilding.com in TRP a few months ago about training your mind to have better self-image. I'm no scientist but I know that depression has a "downward spiral" effect, maybe it's the same in the opposite?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:16 PM
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IIRC, the oxytocin production only lasts about 15 minutes or something, causing a temporary dip in sex drive while you recover. The other effects last. When I have sex with a new partner I feel great the next day instead, in a confidence/assertiveness sense. Additionally, the zinc in your ejaculate is already stored in your ejaculate and is not circulating anymore (it's involved in the production of it, which is why it's needed). Not a doctor but that seems to make sense. I say hypergamy may be …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:12 PM
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Yeah it's meant to be pretty dumb because I honestly don't know a lot about this. I was hoping to get this sort of comment from someone who knows more than I do. Whether it's T or not, there definitely is some mechanism that rewards us for risk-taking/sex/victory in contest, and encourages/assists more of that behaviour, which feels like a positive feedback loop. My thought experiment was trying to get at the potential evolutionary reason for that and how it relates to masculinity and reproducti…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:06 PM
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Swallowing TRP is simply the act of surrendering any illusions about the way the world works and accepting it for what we can objectively observe it to be. We build our worldview on scientifically true facts and then develop strategies based on that worldview for whatever goal you want, be it MGTOW, a bunch of ONS, plates, an LTR, or just making lots of money. We do what works. The reason why self-improvement shows up so much is that it's the key to basically every goal you might have. It's such…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:46 PM
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It's honestly not about the sex. Look at your impulses closely. It's rarely purely about "having sex." It's about "being someone who has sex." The "being" is more important than the "doing." By paying for sex, you're admitting to "being someone who has to pay for sex." That's why prostitution will never "fix" the SMP. The REAL drive in our society isn't sex itself, the REAL drive is to actually become one of those 20% of men that gets 80% of the sex. Edit for clarity: the "exchange of resources …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:58 PM
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Pook said it best: you can hold girls to any standard you like, as long as you hold yourself to the same standard. Your standards are only problematically too high if you're already at the best you can be as a sexual prospect and you're still asking for more. The problem with women is that they all want the same few guys for sex, and a guy 1-2 notches above them for relationships, and they feel that they are logically entitled to such an arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:37 AM
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"Who we are" is broken by all the feminism around us. We fix things that are broken. It's not as though we're trying to abandon all the "good" things that we are, as much as we're trying to relieve ourselves of all the negative influences we've grown into over time. All we're doing is artificially correcting something that was artificially given flaws.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:57 PM
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Wow I was just thinking that the other day. Every time I see a new generation of 18-19 year olds show up for school in the fall the girls seem way taller and the guys way shorter. The girls who list their height (because they're very tall) on Tinder seem to be concentrated in the 18-22 category... the tiny ones are largely 23+. I have a theory that anything above 5'10 is an advantage, and below 5'7 is a disadvantage, but in between is neither. We just need to focus on creating other advantages s…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 02:29 PM
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Then put the company up for sale discretely. Sell it to someone... Google? A private investor? They don't have to publicly agree with this guy, in fact they can even set it up to make it look like they acquired the company in order to fire him for being a "poor public face of the organization." He gets pay day before everyone has a similar tech, gets rich and starts another company as a rockstar rebel entrepreneur.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:30 PM
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I totally forgot about this! I read it many years before finding this sub and the stuff around it. The only thing it's missing is an explanation of how to jump ladders (or get placed on the real ladder more often). It heavily alludes to AF/BB but never quite hits the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:03 PM
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IMHO we need to have an official statement from the mods on Friday's shootings ASAP. Sticky post it for a week. There's a chance we'll be picked up by the media as somehow related to Friday, and hatred for us would spread before we even have a chance to defend ourselves. If we have a big, bold statement about this issue right at the top of the front page, explaining how this is the sort of thing that we are actually working to prevent, it could even work in our favour.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:02 PM
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"PUA doesn't work on women." "We need to defend women against PUA because it is manipulative." Only a feminist is mentally agile enough to believe both of these at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 02:54 PM
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After a particularly harsh rejection by another generally unimpressive girl, I decided that I need to stop doing what others tell me to do, stop doing what is supposed to be "morally right," and start doing what works. That's all TRP is. I started reading up on "what works" and discovered one book or forum after another until it led me here. Set aside your feelings about this sub. Set aside all of your feelings. Just focus on finding what gets results for you, and model your behaviours after wha…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 09:17 PM
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Who the fuck has the time to infiltrate a relatively small subreddit and tear it down for it to be immediately replaced like that? I mean between the gym, running a business, going on dates, seeing my friends, my hobbies, taking courses, nights at the bar, and... oh, right.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 12:29 PM
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Watch House of Cards. Frank asks a lot of questions but I could count on one hand the number of times he actually uses upspeak. I'm still trying to get comfortable with it but he's a great example.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:54 PM
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I believe the closest translation is "black ridge"... unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 01:09 PM
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Your faith has it right. There's actual psychology behind this. If you think hard enough you will eventually authentically believe you are the prize. This is more valuable than actually becoming the prize, but both are important.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:28 PM
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Dad's in his 50s. I feel like that generation was the one that was born to RP parents but raised by a BP society. My dad is almost entirely RP though, but I do sometimes see some BP behaviours creep in. The thing is, I see him recognize their ineffectiveness very readily and correct them over time. He is also extremely quiet about issues of political correctness, feminism, etc even around our very conservative family friends. I'm pretty sure he votes to the right, despite not being very vocally …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:24 PM
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"Feminist physics" "Feminist chemistry" "Feminist medicine"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:27 PM
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I'd offer a RedPillGame subreddit as a solution. That said I think AskTRP would work fine in removing the simple questions if applied strictly. I'd hate to see the "application" content removed, the FRs with minimal theory are what got me into this sub.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:21 PM
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I entirely agree. The theory and discussion posts are absolutely critical to what this sub is, but we need discussion and guidance on the application of those conclusions. I think Seddit, in its current form, is deficient in this role because it is trying to remain PC enough to be marketed to people who are afraid of actually unplugging. Remember that a lot of the seduction community consists of people trying to sell a book, coaching program, etc. Sure there are some quality posts on there from …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:12 PM
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The fact that I sometimes can't even tell if a given blog/image/post/comment is a legit argument or a 4chan troll project is a testament to exactly how lunatic some of these arguments are.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:06 PM
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Consider that you are awesome, even if you aren't. This made me think. In my BP days I noticed that women seemed to like men that were irrationally confident. It irritated me because many of them had nothing to be confident about, or if they did, they were more confident than they should be. Most of us are here because we are rational people and had problems with becoming irrationally confident (even though we were irrationally un-confident before). Now I see that this is really the solution. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:49 PM
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Someone else here mentioned getting a financial advisor. I'm going to offer a suggestion: become one. It varies by country, but sign on with a firm that doesn't pay a salary. If you're feeling risky, start your own. It's basically like starting a business with a few key advantages: -Very, very low educational requirements and zero cost of entry. You can start early. -Earning potential is immediate. It's hard, but you can earn good money right up front. -Prestige and connections. Everyone assumes…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 06:29 PM
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You're right in that the female results would be mostly the same in that the hotter the girl, the more swipes right she gets. However, the distribution would be subtly different in a way that highlights the differences in how men vs women select partners. If we took a whale, a girl-next-door, and a model and put them on Tinder, we'd find that nearly all the men would say yes to the model, all but the pickiest would say yes to the average girl, and a good chunk of desperate men would still say ye…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 10:48 PM
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Not a lot of coaches, but plenty of communities in the sidebar to the right. Some of the members of the seduction/pickup forums are rather Red Pill and have active communities that do offline meetups, etc. I don't think there are any explicitly Red Pill coaches but I'm sure some of the dating coaches (kinda like Manson) are rather RP. Manson can be a little BP at times though, but I think that's just for appearance's sake.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:50 PM
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I talked to a chemistry academic on this subject. Contraceptives are a factor but the biggest contributor is, apparently, growth hormones from agriculture. He sent me a paper on it as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:11 PM
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I disagree to an extent, I think the early gap in experience level is key but for slightly different reasons. See this excellent post: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/459429 (sorry, lazy formatting) The first rejection you ever have, and how you go about it, forms a belief where there was none before, which is the easiest way to form a belief. However, it's nearly impossible to dislodge an existing belief despite all the evidence in the world. The kid who had a slight genetic advantage at early a…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:49 PM
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Something to keep in mind is that, while feminism and its consequences are a massive deception indeed, their proponents aren't even aware of their own motivations, and they largely authentically believe they are a force for good in the world. When a girl's hypergamy breaks your heart, don't hate her for it, because she probably doesn't even understand her own urges. When a White Knight cockblocks you, remember that he doesn't know any better, he authentically believes us to be evil or immoral. T…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:30 AM
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The titles on my version come AFTER the sections. But not all the time, only when it kinda matches the text in order to confuse you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:23 AM
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What's interesting is that basically all of the traits you've listed up top are "high testosterone," even the behavioural/psychological ones. I was gonna make a post about a thought I had about that at some point but I'm too busy now. 90% of it can be changed, by the way. I would definitely agree that it's better to be a provider than outcast, but I'd personally rather move myself up the chain as much as I can, and I think most of the guys around here would too.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:38 PM
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Thanks that's pretty much what I was getting at, I was just in a hurry while I wrote. Regarding limits: there's a difference between a limit you set for yourself and a limit that you're stuck with. You'll never squat a car, but there's no reason to say "man, I could never be as fit as you!" without first trying. Knowing your limits means knowing the difference between the real and psychological ones.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:30 PM
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Hey. thanks man. I think I only say this because I used to be one of the guys who would attempt to tear down anyone who was better than me in some way. Perhaps what you're saying means that it's only insecure people who will try to tear others down, which makes sense since I no longer do this. This makes sense if the bulk of people just don't care.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:29 PM
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Society convinces us of the false dichotomy that it's either "nice guy" or "jerk" because productive alphas are too strong of evidence that masculinity isn't actually a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:36 PM
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I'm mid-way through Rational Male right now and just read a bit of this. "Alpha" is neither positive nor negative, it is simply a state of mind. In my opinion, the core trait of an "Alpha" is superior frame control. Your circumstances and the rest of your personality determine if you use this to better the world or detract from it. What you're talking about is "positive" alpha, but one can defy most of the listed traits and still be alpha, just a "negative" one. You're describing someone with ex…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 11:56 AM
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When a girl does that, I just look at her phone, say "uhhh" and look up at her rather displeased, but silent. The normal response is that she starts off totally confused and eventually admits that was rude. Then she owes me a kiss (edit: the message there being that I didn't let it ruin my mood or actually get me angry, because I maintain frame in a fun way). I used to be all like "NO ITS K U CAN CHECK UR FON ALL U WANT" but those dates didn't go so well.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 11:30 AM
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It's pretty much the "feel good" thing. Anything that hints at the nihilistic reality of the world (or at least fails to support the soft, feel-good "matrix") makes people feel bad, so they reject it. Edit: forgot the most important point: from a financial perspective, the media just responds to what the consumers want. Consumers don't want media that reminds them how meaningless the universe is. They're afraid to create their own meaning. They'd rather have meaning shoved down their throats by …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:17 PM
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I think there are two "tiers" to it, in a sense. "Taller than me" is an absolute prerequisite. For most girls now, "taller than me enough that I can wear heels" is a prerequisite too. Maybe not ALL girls will hold you to this, but MOST for sure. Once you've met that minimum, extra height is just a bonus. A very significant one, but still just a bonus, just like more muscle or more alpha would be. When I see a girl taller than me I usually mentally reject her right away. But between two girls who…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:47 PM
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A controversial topic. As an average dude I've had to deal with this. Height is absolutely key. But if you remember a while back someone posted a study on here that showed which traits are considered the most attractive in men for short-term vs long-term relationships... in addition to height, women placed very high value on muscularity, aggression, confrontation and a few other traits that they would probably be shamed for admitting to like. It goes against feminism to admit that there are diff…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:32 PM
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By this logic, we might as well all already have had kids and been divorced a few times. The number of kids and divorces is equal to your tax paid times the share of income tax spent on welfare for single moms times the number of single moms on welfare per taxpayer. But it's okay, because "the wealthy can afford it."
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:44 PM
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Oh boy this sounds familiar! I couldn't find where she placed her blame for his failures. If she came out and blamed him for having the wrong approach, she would cognitively have to endorse his new approach. So she doesn't do that. Instead, she blames the women. She never comes right out and says it, it's rather subtle. "She was toxic for him." "I get that it's easier for most girls than guys to get casual sex." "He thinks that he's defective." Implying that women don't actually think so, it's j…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:11 PM
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This is an awesome analogy. The fact that the court can order her to keep cooking for you is a perfect way to describe just how crazy alimony sounds from any perspective that we aren't accustomed to. At first, I did think "I cook for myself," even though it's a metaphor, but then I realized there's truth to that: learn to cook, learn to clean (or pay someone else to), run your own finances, get good male friends, learn to manage your emotions so you don't need to constantly talk to someone about…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:35 AM
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I don't necessarily think that it's ALWAYS a case of AF/BB in bad marriages. Some of what you're describing sounds like a chubby girl found a beta guy who was smart enough to rationalize being with her as some kind of "destiny," then got hitched so they could have an excuse to get laid. The fact that this is easier than getting better looking in order to participate in the SMP is a testament to how pervasive BP thought really is. Also marriages are miserable because there is a big paradox to con…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:25 PM
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You're absolutely right, even within the educated class they will always marry up. However I don't think it's true that more successful men automatically have better frame. I have a fair bit of exposure to the "extremely successful" men. Most of them do have alpha levels of frame, but very few of them carry that frame into their relationships with women. Those that do are either happily single or are in long-term relationships/marriages with very attractive, rational women who are, on average, c…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:06 PM
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Don't downvote this guy. The data goes against the usual TRP talk but it does prompt an important discussion. That said... Another important question to ask given this data is, what is the average QUALITY of these marriages? How attractive are the spouses? Remember three important factors, if we assume she marries an educated man as well. First, more assets mean more complex divorce, especially if she tries to marry up within the "educated" category (ie nurse and doctor). Second, more education …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:35 PM
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AWALT vs NAWALT is not as cut-and-dry as we assume when it comes to height. No, it is not a stretch (lol) to say that all girls want tall guys. However, I think our emphasis on height gets blown out of proportion because it's the only "masculine" trait that is socially acceptable for girls to openly express a preference towards. Why? You've probably never heard of a girl saying "I love men who are big, muscular, confrontational, and aggressive." Not, at least, without being feminist-shamed for d…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:41 PM
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This is an awesome way to see it. Coffee shops are underrated, there's no competition and plenty of great girls, especially near major schools. I've had a few (platonic) girl friends that just like to study there, most of them actually hoping to meet someone interesting. When she stares your way, give her a little smile and a wave or some goofy gesture to see how receptive she is (stolen from Gambler). If it's anything other than total disgust, just get up and walk right over. Don't worry if it'…
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:46 AM
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You should at least give meditation a try. But meditation doesn't magically kill your fears on its own. It's a tool to develop your ability to listen to yourself and understand where your fears/motivations/etc are coming from so that you become better able to dismiss the irrational feelings and keep you in a good frame. It keeps you from getting stuck in your head, but at the end of the day, you still have to take action to truly build confidence. Meditation just helps you recognize and dismiss …
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:06 PM
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Posting in ancient thread. I'm in Ottawa too, also a bit older (20+). Totally not going to Hull to drink but OP can get a fake or just turn 19 already. Message me if you wanna go downtown sometime.
/r/seduction02/11/13 04:05 PM
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