This has been on my mind a lot recently and today, I finally have time to address it.

I don't know how it got started, but there's this obsession here with lifting weights and it's gotten ridiculously out of hand. Let's put it this way: What body type(s) do you like on women? There are many different varieties and my guess is that there would be no consensus on the perfect female body. So what on earth makes you think that it's any different for a male body? My spidey senses tell me that the TRP veterans are mostly body builders. If anything, that is just one idealized version of fitness.

Body-building can be good as long as you don't obssess with how big you are. It's the male version of anorexia. There are more options. You don't need to have muscles bursting out of your ears. If you have a good physique, most women aren't going to give a shit if your pecs stick out just a little bit more. But hey, some women like that.

Anyways, find your own sport(s)/hobbies. Play basketball, soccer, learn MMA, start running, swimming, biking, or whatever the hell you want to do. Only thing that matters is that you get off your lazy ass and stop being so sedentary.