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3	Randomly Refuse Her Sex. PSA: Only do this with women who are both A) Self-Confident and B) Someone you are legit willing to lose. People love to throw around AWALT around here, but dread can backfire very easily.	/r/TheRedPill	07/07/16 03:18 PM
2	So... Reading TRP makes me feel as though you're all 10/10 Chad Thundercocks with ripped bodies and perfectly sculpted faces I live in Sweden and American 10s are Swedish 7s So yeah, this turns from a shitpost to a humblebrag. I love it.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/16 03:50 PM
2	Things nobody told me about being obese and what to do about it. I feel like it should be stressed that you clearly had an extreme caloric restriction and that is the only reason that you lost weight. Because that is the only way you can burn substantial amounts of fat. Focusing on protein is important for maintaining lean mass, though. That much is legit.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/16 03:49 PM
3	How To Fuck Your Girl Rough If there was one valuable thing I took away from my brief foray with formal "kink", it was the idea that, if a woman wants me to "rape" her, then she has to give me explicit consent to do so, either written or texted - preferably both, followed by confirmation after the fact. The more I've participated in this, the more formal I've gotten with it - and I am not afraid to lay it the fuck out. Seriously, if you are ever going to participate in a rape fantasy, then you should be able to show in cou…	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/16 11:01 PM
2	The 15 most common mistakes I see day in and day out on AskTRP after having posted there the last couple of years. Can you point out, exactly where you clarify nose rings are okay? You just say "or multiple piercings", which implies semantically that you are stating multiple piercings as a singular example of a "red flag". Yes, I am arguing semantics, but this is written word and semantics is pretty important here. This example becomes especially troubling since virtually every post on this sub regarding red flags mentions, as independent points on bulleted lists, each of the things you mention in one form o…	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/16 04:41 AM
5	The 15 most common mistakes I see day in and day out on AskTRP after having posted there the last couple of years. Any time I see a post that starts mentioning red flags on here, I throw up a little in my mouth. Here are some fun ones, starting with the ones mentioned on here: Bisexual Multiple/Unusual Piercings Short Hair Tattoos (apparently, even one is a hard-stop red flag) This is all complete, unfiltered horse shit. Here's my experience: Women tend to be bisexual more often than not. I'm not saying all of them are, but what the fuck is this supposed to imply, anyway? The implication that the count or po…	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/16 08:56 PM
-3	FR: TRP helped me rock my interview The only specific examples here are generic nonsense bullshit. I mean, yeah, you should have a firm handshake. That has nothing to do with TRP. That's "Shaking Hands 101". Setting your shit on a desk to somehow symbolize that you own it? What? I mean, don't get me wrong - it's good that you could go in there calm and confident, and it's cool you feel like TRP helped you achieve this, but the extent of useful or interesting information in this post is "TRP turned me from a snivvling girl-boy who …	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/16 08:26 PM
1	A girl rejects a guy based on her feelings, even though rationally she knows he's fantastic for her. I meant that I would struggle to allow myself to date a doctor, so, basically, I would stop myself.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/16 04:41 PM
3	Real confidence vs. Fake confidence. If we, collectively, are nature, then you are the same as everyone here and you are throwing a fit about yourself. I mean, are you really here to bitch about other people bitching about things, and then following that up with saying that we should just do what's natural? Kind of lame. I mean, seriously, I agree with a lot of your post. I post here quite a bit and I've read a lot of the material, but I think that people who approach it with dogmatism are pretty far off the mark. I can't call myse…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/16 02:51 PM
1	A girl rejects a guy based on her feelings, even though rationally she knows he's fantastic for her. At the time I was on route to being a doctor myself before I changed career paths. That said, now that I support doctors professionally, I'd struggle to date one.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 03:52 PM
19	A girl rejects a guy based on her feelings, even though rationally she knows he's fantastic for her. This happened to me once, back in college. I met a girl who had the same faculty advisor/mentor for her capstone project as me. I was one of his honors students, she was one of the non honors group. She had dropped a report off with the professor, and she and I somehow got started talking about my research and ended up chatting for several hours. Super intelligent, super foxy, sweet-seeming girl. A solid 8+ in my book. I'd never met her before, and kicked myself for not getting her number (I was…	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/16 06:18 PM
1	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week I'll PM you sometime today if so get a chance, but let's get this out of the way, first: The idea that metabolism goes down during calorie restriction is mostly founded on starvation studies like the Minnesota starvation experiment. A bunch of people at their ideal weight were put on a strict, regulated diet of very specific foods, at about 50% of their TDEE, for several months. And their metabolism went down. By less than 30%. The big takeaway from literally every caloric restriction study I've…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 06:52 PM
1	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week I did, actually - I'm 6 feet tall and had 186lbs of lean mass when I started. I lost one by the time I was done doing cardio and switched back to lifting. There is a big difference between a sedentary, obese person and a lifter who is trying to cut, absolutely. The main idea is that your body prefers to use fat to fuel your daily activity, but the leaner you get, the more your body has to turn to other things (like your muscles) to get what it needs. If you take a guy who is 300lbs overweight, a…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 08:13 PM
1	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week That is more or less true, in the sense that yes - less efficient methods of ambulation will definitely burn more calories. The main reason I would suggest higher intensity exercise over lower intensity is for the cardiovascular benefits, though. And I don't just mean the heart. Fitness is reflected in so many parts of your body.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 08:07 PM
0	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week Here's a hilarious bit - 100% of excess lipids in the blood are either converted into glucose (very efficiently), or stuffed immediately into fat cells, but Keto is all about eating fat, you know, because we need fatty acids for our brains to not die. But all the Keto diet does is skip the insulin/glucose feedback loop and drops the fuel directly into the mouth of fatty acid synthesis and gluconeogenesis. The point, though, is that it burns more calories and more grams of sugar to convert carbs …	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 08:02 PM
-1	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week Wait, what? Do you know what calories are? I mean, I don't like to be rude, but your post there is so ridiculous I almost just walked away... but I can't. I can't do it. I can't let this stand. First, let me get this out of the way before there is any misunderstanding - the key to losing weight/burning fat is to maintain a calorie deficit. I'm not going to say that there are no mitigating factors and that calorie deficit is 100%, but I'm talking a solid 90%. If you are, in fact, maintaining a ca…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 08:02 PM
0	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week Haha I definitely didn't mean to imply that an obese guy would be rocking 1000 calories per hour. I just threw out an approximate number I was pretty familiar with for the 1 hour of good cardio ~= 1000 calories. My point was in response to Sepean's comment: Look, exercise doesn't help you much in losing weight, if at all Even if a person can only muster the enthusiasm to burn 300 calories - That's more than you will likely ever be able to increase your TDEE by any means, so saying that exercise …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 11:30 PM
3	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week That's a good point, but I think it's irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. Obviously, in the course of going from the 12%BF I was in 2011 to needing to lose 80lbs in the first place involved me getting very out of shape. But brisk walking every day turns in to something reminiscent of Couch to 5K (Walk a minute or two, run a minute or two, walk a minute or two, lather, rinse, repeat), and a few months later you are running three miles and burning well over 500 calories each time. That's not…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/16 03:36 PM
1	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week So, first of all, I'm not here to say that Keto isn't a good way to lose weight, because for many people it is. I'm not convinced that it's the biochemistry of Keto itself more than the fact that most people on Keto eat fewer calories than they did before, but it definitely helps many people lose weight, so more power to them. But allow me to provide some comments: A: More than controlling the pH of your blood, and more than counting macros, and more than any shit like that, the primary factor i…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/16 05:59 PM
8	How you will lose 10 lbs* this week Look, exercise doesn't help you much in losing weight, if at all. You lift while cutting so you don't lose muscle mass. Never cut without lifting. An hour of good cardio can burn 1000 calories, so bullshit exercise doesn't help. Also, an obese person doesn't need to lift while cutting to retain muscle mass unless they are doing way, way too much cardio. Your body burns fat and sugar preferentially to protein and the only way to shift that balance involves fucking with your glycogen stores (which…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/16 04:31 PM
1	How to kiss? (Clueless girl here) This is pretty much it. Open your mouth a little, purse your lips a little, and then proceed to do what the other person is doing. It's not hard.	/r/seduction	30/03/16 11:30 PM
1	I Was Warned About The Scam Of Family Court Oregon. The tickets were municipal courts (I believe) in two different counties, and the restraining order (It was a "FAPA - Family Abuse Protection Act" protective order) was circuit court. The same event that lead to the FAPA order (I defended myself against her boyfriend when I was trying to see the child my ex and I raised together) also lead to some misdemeanor criminal charges against me, because of course they did, which I ended up having dismissed via civil compromise. I don't remember w…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/16 03:43 PM
1	I Was Warned About The Scam Of Family Court The general gist of this may be true to some extent, this is some balls-to-the-wall, Grade A exaggeration here. I say this as a guy who - 1: Has defeated two speeding tickets in front of a judge, once with the issuing officer in attendance. Both were cases where I asked the officer to see the radar lock, which he was unable to provide (both times they said they had already cleared it). 2: Defeated a domestic violence protective order in family court with two witnesses against me, representing my…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/16 11:08 PM
1	NoFap is Not for Everyone: How Jerkin' the Gherkin Destroyed my Depression Phase Let me just say this: Me as a regular masturbator: Great sex drive, reliable and raging hard erections during sex, and nearly incapable of getting off from a pussy. I had to be finished with a mouth + hand, or I did it myself. Basically, I was approaching sex god status for most women I was with. Me as a no-fap: Low sex drive, weaker/unreliable erections, and if I didn't watch it I could finish in 10 seconds flat. NoFap basically ruined me. I will continue to enjoy my deathgrip spank in the show…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/16 04:07 PM
52	Beta Males Will Take You Down If You Let Them Am I the only person who doesn't live in a cess-pit of drama, antagonism, and bullshit? Seriously? Some guy hit you with his car because someone else flipped him off? Alpha, beta, or no - Stop hanging out with fucking insane people. This is a ridiculous story.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/16 04:01 PM
14	Always have a backup plan when you date. I was trying to be civil about OP, but this comment was too much! OP just sounds really immature and butt-hurt :/	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/16 04:43 PM
1	Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex. I think that what you are getting at here may be true for many people, but I don't think it's as universal as you are implying. Of course, I appreciate the idea of generalization in moderation, but there are some strange assumptions here, and I can use myself as a (biased) example - seeing as how I lost my virginity when I was 26 or 27 (I don't exactly remember...). First, being a "late bloomer" doesn't necessarily mean a person is low in their social hierarchy. As a teen and in my early twentie…	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/16 03:10 PM
1	Ghost her from time to time Thanks for this comment - I agree completely. The main thing I dislike about these kinds of posts is that they don't come with adequate disclaimers that, in this case, AWALT doesn't ring true, and as always - dread/ghosting has to be handled with precision and skill. I'm also not sure I agree with idea of pre-emptively ghosting/dread-gaming... any women. It makes sense in a context of, "You've been bitchy with me, and you need to know that I am not to be taken for granted, and can comfortably di…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/16 07:46 PM
7	How to get Laid Like a Sociopath I definitely like the idea that, in a lot of ways, just listening to yourself is the key to success in these things. You need to observe what is happening, explain it to yourself, and do better next time. The affirmations and mantras bit has been especially useful to me, especially with the recognition that sometimes bullshitting yourself is the key to pursuing self-actualization, so to speak. I picked this up from a post quite some time ago on here, but one of my main go-tos when I'm talking to…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/16 07:35 PM
3	[FR] Is it possible to gain/regain a woman's interest after you've had many interactions then stopped, now after awhile she's back in your life again? Are you asking if you can get out of an imposed friendzone? Yes, but if involves fucking lots of other women, and not giving a fuck if you get out of the friend zone. That's pretty much the trick.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 06:11 PM
2	[FR] Is it possible to gain/regain a woman's interest after you've had many interactions then stopped, now after awhile she's back in your life again? That was my impression, too. OP bored her/wasn't a good conversationalist in the first place.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 06:10 PM
2	[FR] Is it possible to gain/regain a woman's interest after you've had many interactions then stopped, now after awhile she's back in your life again? No, not really. The trick is to not fucking try. Got friendzoned? Go out and fuck other women. Let her see that you are a desirable, valuable man. Don't put her on a pedestal. Basically, let her see you exhibiting alpha behavior without it necessarily being directed at her. Alphas don't get put in the friend zone. I guess the only hard part is being receptive enough to IOIs that you can tell when that switch has been sufficiently switched, and claim your prize. Granted, I've only been able to te…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 06:09 PM
35	Why You Should Be Shaming Fat Girls (And Why You’re a Bluepill Loser if You Don’t) If you remove the word "shaming" from this post, then it is an interesting, if flawed, read. Otherwise, it's almost laughably off-base, but I must digress and recognize that you are basing this assertion off of a very flawed assumption: That fat shaming will actually make a difference. Sadly, fat shaming doesn't do shit to encourage people to lose weight. In fact, fat shaming only makes people fatter: Perceived Weight Discrimination and Changes in Weight, Waist Circumference, and Weight Status T…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 05:01 PM
1	Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men. Haha, that study is actually pretty up-front about its selection bias. But, you're right, and I don't necessarily mean to be argumentative. I have a tendancy to get fired up about biology topics. My degree and all. Let me clarify a few points, though: 1: I am definitely not suggesting that finasteride isn't effective, or a good option for many people. 2: I am well aware of the fact that the risks are small My main argument is that the risks, while small statistically, are not small in terms of p…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/16 04:30 PM
5	Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men. I probably should have clarified - I looked for studies discussing finasteride's effects on estrogen, and thus far I haven't found any thing but evidence of side-effects that are signs of high estrogen/prolactin. This study is old, but they state that the most common side-effect of finasteride was gynocomastia - development of breast tissue. (This doesn't seem to be the most common side effect in more recent literature, mind you) http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM199609123351116 Finasteri…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 11:21 PM
3	Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men. I wear a beard. It's a fine beard. I oil this beard daily. This is critical to my beardly lifestyle. I make my own beard oil, because shit's unnecessarily expensive. I use a base of Sweet Almond and Argan Oils with Vitamin E. To this I add clary sage, tonka bean, blood orange, rosemary, amber, bourbon, sandalwood and mahogany oils. I give great beard.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 08:37 PM
7	Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men. I think the side-effects of finasteride would be... something that would pop up after long-term use, simply based on the way it works. I can't imagine taking it without regular blood tests and extreme caution. Male pattern baldness is caused, in large part by DHT, which is a form of testosterone. Finasteride is a DHT blocker, which keeps testosterone from being converted into DHT. That itself is fine. DHT is responsible for development of secondary sexual characteristics in men, but as we age th…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 08:33 PM
2	Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? You actually mentioned the source of the consensus (derived from studies I've read) - the casein doesn't actually last long enough to make it through the night. When you first go to sleep, your body is still mostly in "anabolic mode", and while some casein may help keep your liver glycogen up for an extra hour or two, it is only slightly delaying the inevitable and expected. Hehe, and after having spent three days in the hospital and having as many units of blood transfused, I have spoken to man…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 07:29 PM
1	Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? In addition to some of the other comments here, make sure you aren't spending any time in your bed outside of Sex/sleep. Don't kick back in bed to read, or anything like that. This can help condition your body that bed = sleep. I used to read propped up in bed and had trouble getting to sleep at night until I stopped doing that.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 05:42 PM
2	Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? try to get a belly full of "Casein Protein" (not Whey) before going to bed I almost died from blood loss from a GERD-caused ulcer. I'm not going to eat shit within 1.5-2 hours before bed. That said, I've read studies about eating a ton of protein before you sleep to fight of catabolic muscle breakdown, and it seems the general consensus is that it doesn't really help. Hunger is certainly a different issue entirely, but I think that if the only way you can get a goods night sleep without it being…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 05:40 PM
2	I'm not whining, I'm looking for actual discussion and advice: I've taken action and made huge improvements, but am now suffering from ED and it's killing me. Another person pointed this out, but you are pretty unlikely to be "low T" unless you are 40+. Despite what some people on here like to insist, hypogonadism is not even slightly common in men under 40. Assuming you are still physically capable of being aroused, and this is just something that becomes an issue with you are actually with a woman, I can practically guarantee that this is psychological. You are almost certainly just psyching yourself out. Unfortunately, this is probably the hardest …	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/16 06:17 PM
1	From Having To Deal With So Many Women In My Line Of Work I Now Can't Fucking Stand Them At All I just realized I got double lucky - back when I worked/DJ'd for my college radio station, our female station manager was super chill, and when the campus Women's Resource Center (aka the SJW Corps) tried to me and a buddy fired repeatedly, she derived great pleasure from telling them to go fuck themselves until their sacred genitals caught on fire. Note that they tried to get us fired first for "playing commercial music", then for "not taking our PSAs seriously (which they don't pay for)", and …	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/16 10:22 PM
3	Every Man should know how to fight: Part 1 Being intimidating/coming across as threatening is antagonistic behavior, which starts fights. Like I touched on before, what you are suggesting would be useful in an environment that is already highly antagonistic, but I am contending that an intelligent individual with his shit together isn't likely to spend a lot of time in those environments as an adult. I think part of my issue is the example you chose, which boils down to this: Fantasy Asshole Guy (FAG): Yo, that's my spot - a spot I am pr…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/16 07:45 PM
17	Every Man should know how to fight: Part 1 This post boils down to: Life is a dick swinging contest. Start fights over stupid shit all the time. Bullshit, man. Nothing you described is necessary, desirable, or responsible for a man who is in control of his shit. If your life is as comparable to high-school as you've described it above, then you need to seriously rethink where you are spending your time, and who you are spending it with, and spend less time being ready to lose frame at the drop of a hat. This is just bad advice for people…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/16 03:53 PM
2	A Treatis: Id, Ego, and Superego... or, Why Frame is the Most Important Part of Male Existence I think your conclusion is spot-on, but I try not to dwell too much on theoretical metapsychology unless I'm playing a game written by Soraya Saga ;) I definitely agree that frame control/stoicism isn't about destroying your emotions/Id. It's about keeping your Id "secret". Suppressed. I need to get out of this thread before I start relating Xenogears to TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 09:19 PM
3	From Having To Deal With So Many Women In My Line Of Work I Now Can't Fucking Stand Them At All I think I've been pretty fortunate with my current contract. Most of the women at this organization are pretty worthless (but then again... so are many of the men... they just complain less), but my supervisor here is a woman and she seems to be pretty awesome so far. Definitely in the "someone who would be fun to drink with after work if it wasn't for the fact we'd probably end up sleeping together" pile. She knows her shit professionally, and is fun to BS with from time to time.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 09:12 PM
5	The Rational Male – Ghosting This sub, understandably, completely avoids the fact that it is absolutely possible to be successful and happy with a blue pill lifestyle. With a bit of luck, of course.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 04:53 PM
2	When you wonder if you should fuck a crazy girl Crazy girls are the best in bed, man.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 04:28 PM
1	The Spin Cycle That's not really the point, though. The point is that asserting that you can't create tingles through texting is a false statement.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 11:37 PM
8	Before you make a decision, always re-read TRP Man, if you don't like her, the person (women are, after all, humans who can be liked on a personal level) enough to have an LTR with her, then don't. If you want to be with her then man up and do it. If your mindset that you can do better ruins it for you, then own it and don't fuck with her.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 10:59 PM
0	The Spin Cycle I hate it because you cannot create tingles through texting, you can only destroy them. Everything besides this line is pretty solid. You absolutely can generate tingles via text. You can also destroy ASDs via text, and take the air out of LMRs before you've even met the girl. It is even possible to get a girl hooked with a non-sexual dating profile, to making out/sex within minutes of meeting her in person for the first time via text. It's not easy, and it doesn't always work, but you most cert…	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 10:51 PM
0	I am so unbelievably bitter: blue pill media brings me right back to the anger phase. Meh, there's not use getting worked up over fantasy. That really is all it is.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 05:11 PM
1	Women "Smelling" Alpha Honestly, it sounds like you probably just have "resting douche face". Not necessarily a bad thing, mind you. Otherwise, I don't care how "alpha" you carry yourself, people aren't going to assume you are a philanderer unless you look like one.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 04:52 PM
1	How to Become Her God I think its really only useful as far as metaphors typically are. It's really related to the concept of self-actualization, or the notion that we should strive first that our human needs are fulfilled, and then that we are happy and satisfied. Ultimately, that struggle is ours. Obviously a human can't achieve true omnipotence/omniscience/aseity, but actualization should bring us as close as possible. Human omnipotence is characterized by establishing control over your life, and to some extent, t…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 09:21 PM
1	Gamer Girls I think the points that "Even slightly attractive girls participating in nerd culture have artificially inflated SMV", and "Some women will intentionally insert themselves in to nerd culture with the specific intention of inflating their SMV" are both very easily observed and true... But there is a lot of garbage here. That said, semi-attractive gamer girls do exist (nothing more than an HB 7.5 by my reckoning), but most fall into the demographic of ostracized weird girl or semi-goth, fuscia-hai…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 05:56 PM
5	Gamer Girls Yeaaaah, I went to one anime convention (Sac-anime) and should probably do that again. It was almost too easy. I was a tall, attractive blond in a Seifer Almasy costume. Women of all shapes and sizes were vying for my attention and pictures with me, and the second day scored me an autograph from Johnny Yong Bosch and my first threesome. The thing was, I was fortunately at a point in my life where I really didn't give a shit about the crazy girls running around desperately seeking attention, and …	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 04:59 PM
1	You guys suck at Tinder. Heeeeey I had the exact same thing happen. An ex (with a claimed n-count of 3) told me she'd never been with a guy with less than a 10 inch dick, and she couldn't imagine sleeping with a guy who was less, and didn't think she would like it. I said something like, "You screamed so loud last night that you probably woke the neighbors from my considerably less than 10 inch dick." She laughed but said in all seriousness: "Fuck you, you're the biggest I've ever had." Note that I would describe myself…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 12:11 AM
17	How to Become Her God I feel like this analogy gives a lot of room to expound. Exodus 34:14 - Do not worship any other god, for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God Of course, many here would argue that an alpha isn't jealous, but this is about respect. TRP 34:14 - Do not fuck any other man, for I, whose name is Alpha, am a jealous man who will not abide by that shit God isn't going to mate guard - she has free will. She can do what she wants. But if she messes around with strange dick, she will be cast …	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/16 11:51 PM
2	OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what? even a negligible amount of muscle burn is unacceptable, when it can be planned around and accounted for. I think my main assertion, based on my understanding of exercise induced protein catabolism, is that - while cardio certainly increases the rate that you are catabolizing skeletal muscle, there are two important things to note: A. Your body is always catabolizing skeletal muscle to some small degree, whether you are sitting on the couch eating pepperoni or chasing bears through the woods wit…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/16 12:09 AM
1	OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what? I always understood 5x5s and Greyskull to be pretty much exclusively beginner oriented, to begin with, and that after 6 months to a year you should switch to something a little more advanced. Maybe I'm crazy?	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 09:58 PM
5	Travelling is the cock carousel on steroids for women I lived in Japan for a time, where men tend to be, in some ways, more beta than elsewhere (which is interesting in a couple where married men freely fuck prostitutes with their wife's knowledge), especially when it comes to American women. White guys with the smallest amount of game are drowning in native pussy, while white women tend to be... not so fortunately. This leads to the evolution of what we called "sexpats". The longer a white girl has been living in Asia, the easier she becomes to fu…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 07:16 PM
2	Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain. I believe I've actually read that study, and my takeaway was this: Increasing levels of obesity and increasingly sedentary lifestyles are probably to blame. This is an entirely separate problem, though. The study was either the only of its kind, or one of very few, so the phenomenon hasn't been well studied for actual suggested causes beyond the theoretical. Mean testosterone levels, especially in young men, are still not low. It's definitely an interesting look at the issue, though.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 06:19 PM
3	[FR] may have escaped friendzone I'm not sure why your chosen frame is the sit still as stone and fucking ignore her like an asshole. That said, what you described is exactly how I broke myself out of a self-inflicted friend zone with the former subject of my blue pill generating oneitis after a full year of being "best friends". Jesus, I cringe thinking about it. She became aware that during that year that my attention waned as I proceeded to sleep with 6 different women, all of whom I told her about the same way she would tel…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 06:10 PM
2	If you had to boil it down to 4-5 "Golden TRP Truths" that are the most important, to crash-course someone, what would they be? I probably don't have anything earth shattering here, but I'll give it a go. This sounds like a decent mental exercise. Be Excellent - Always be the best that you can possibly be. Be as fit as possible, as educated as possible, and as successful as possible. Do it for yourself - never anybody else. Each of these goes hand in hand if you truly striving for excellence. Be Different - Men and women are fundamentally different. They both act, generally speaking, in accordance to their own nature. Ne…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 05:12 PM
4	Chads gets caught about to cheat, he doesn't give a fuck If you aren't sexually satisfied and your partner doesn't care, then I'm not sure it would be considered "cheating", and you should probably get out of that relationship before you end up with Hepatitis from your almost certainly CC riding "partner" :)	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 05:07 PM
10	Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain. Most young men now have no frame and low testosterone. Haha, you lost me here, man. Welcome to the bandwagon. This is absolutely not true. Try this: We did not include men 20-29 years old in the prevalence estimates because so few had low testosterone and the reasons for their low levels are more likely due to congenital hypogonadism rather than due to aging. From here. Fewer than 2% of men in the 20-29 age range have low T. This study looked at almost 1400 men and the mean testosterone level on…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 05:05 PM
1	Don't mistake IDGAF attitude for inaction Exactly- "Man, that fucking sucks. Oh well, I'll get over it. No need to let it ruin my day."	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/16 09:55 PM
1	Don't mistake IDGAF attitude for inaction I think you are hitting on the functional different between "being stoic" and "appearing stoic". But you are right, I think, in the sense that the primary goal is to exist above your emotions, so that whatever emotions you may be experience don't affect your behavior/break your frame.	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/16 09:54 PM
1	[FR] Don't be a pussy and let others disrespect you. It really depends on the jurisdiction (i.e. the prosecutor), and how much damage you manage to inflict on the other person. You are absolutely right that "two guys got in a fight, and here's the guy who won" doesn't make sense from a criminal justice standpoint, but when you say things like "Doubt such a case is worth any prosecutors time", I think you are sidestepping the reality of the situation a little. People can and do get convicted of assault over petty fights (especially if they have a r…	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/16 03:46 PM
1	Don't mistake IDGAF attitude for inaction Haha, we all wish that. It takes practice, I guess. And stoics need not necessarily be apathetic loners. I think that hinges a lot on the efficiency of your ability to internalize shit. Again, it's not about not feeling, it's about not showing how you feel. I definitely feel shit, all the time. Sometimes "hiding" that necessitates retreating somewhat. I probably spend more time in monk mode than most, as I recharge. For me, it's about internalizing my emotions, picking them apart and trying to u…	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/16 04:03 AM
1	The 1 sec prostitute meditation to eradicate neediness. When I lived in a country where it was legal to pay $50 for a half-hour blowjob, I appreciated the option. Unfortunately, I now live in Oregon, and the risk far outweighs the benefits.	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 11:25 PM
3	[FR] Don't be a pussy and let others disrespect you. Are you suggesting that people don't get convicted of assault literally all the fucking time?	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 11:12 PM
1	[FR] Don't be a pussy and let others disrespect you. That may be true, but the one that does could damn near ruin your life. I say this as a guy who was charged with assault because of a fight with a guy who was manacing and disrespecting me. I got lucky and it only cost me $4000 to get it thrown out.	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 11:11 PM
8	Don't mistake IDGAF attitude for inaction This is why I prefer classical stoicism to the IDGAF moniker. A stoic is "a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining." Note that it says nothing about not having a good time or pursuing the things you want, nor does it say anything about being an unfeeling, stone-cold shit. It means that when shit doesn't go your way, even if it bother the fuck out of you, you don't show it. When a girl tells you to go fuck yourself, you don't turn into a bitch about i…	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 08:56 PM
1	What is an Alpha Male. The Ugly Truth I'm growing a little weary of post after post asserting that human alpha males are somehow genetically superhumans. Of course, these posts are usually speckled with praise for Dark Triad men (who are, generally speaking, the closest thing to actual evil that humanity can muster). The truth is, many scientists argue that there is no such thing as human alpha males, which, if true, makes all of this discussion absolute bullshit. I think you touch on this a bit, which is great. Human social hierarc…	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 06:59 PM
2	OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what? I like this for the most part, but I wanted to point something out: If cardio is causing you to lose muscle, then you are either: A. Doing too much cardio. or B. Not getting adequate nutrition. Your body substantially using catabolic processes on your muscles is an indicator of malnutrition. Remember that running for an hour can easily burn 1000 calories. If you are running an hour every day and that 1000 calories isn't enough to replace the glycogen you burned the day before, then you will even…	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 06:24 PM
2	OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what? This is why you need to know your body and pay attention to it. If you are packing on extra fat when "bulking", then cut 50 calories at a time until you stop gaining fat and that squishy bit on your hip goes back down. There's no reason to pack on 10 lbs of fat intentionally.	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 05:30 PM
1	OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what? Forgive me for being an idiot, but isn't that the point of Greyskull, as well?	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 05:27 PM
1	Anime And TRP Fist off, I have to ask - did you seriously just suggest that autism is caused by feminization of western society? Really? Otherwise, I think you make some good points - but I don't think we should be took quick to put Goku on an alpha pedestal since Chi Chi has him pretty pussy whipped. It's definitely a great example of continually improving yourself, not matter how much you are defeated. Defeat should never lead to you giving up. Obviously it's ridiculously over the top fantasy, but we are ta…	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/16 08:58 PM
1	Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? Judging by all the down votes, relevant jokes aren't allowed here ;)	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 11:03 PM
1	NEW Dark Triad Article: Understanding Narcissism - learn about abusive personalities - also discusses sadism and psychopathy. All of that is certainly true (I mean, hey, we still have that 30-36% to work with), but studies on heritability are specifically designed to control for exactly what you are describing to single out the genetic factor. As far as I know, all personality disorders are this way (NPD just happens to be the most genetically based) - You may have been made a psychopath by your upbringing, but you may have just been born that way. You may have been born on the borderline, but your upbringing drove you…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 10:33 PM
2	Consider ghosting a lot of people after swallowing the pill. I'm not sure what I'm doing right or wrong here, but even in the depths of my blue pill life, I never kept people in my circle who didn't treat me as, at very least, an equal. The only friends I've "ghosted" have been because they were fucking boring.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 07:05 PM
3	NEW Dark Triad Article: Understanding Narcissism - learn about abusive personalities - also discusses sadism and psychopathy. While you are correct that there is a spectrum of narcissism from none to "Healthy Narcissism" to disordered/pathological narcissism, the following statement is problematic: The narcopath is effectively a synthetic psychopath, narcopathy >is always socialised. Had their parents been good people, they >would not have developed an empathy disorder, which is really >no more than a coping mechanism developed by a helpless >creature that the needs the resources of an abusive one. It's problematic bec…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 07:03 PM
9	"I don't give a fuck" attitude only works if you don't actually give a fuck. If you care, care like a warrior. This is why I try to stay away from IDGAF as a philosophy. I prefer to aspire to stoicism insofar as "stoic" is defined this way: "a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining." I mean, seriously. If I actually didn't give a fuck I wouldn't do shit. I wouldn't lift or eat clean if IDGAF. I wouldn't talk to women at all if IDGAF. Fucks must be given. Fucks are the fuel of ambition. Fucks get me up in the morning and get me into work. Fucks drive me to the…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/16 11:46 PM
1	The fundamental reason why women love RP behaviour but hate TRP So, I think this misses something: "Being Alpha" is a learned behavior (with a special exception - read on). You can be tall and ripped with a chiseled jaw and a juvenile hairline and be otherwise be a genetically perfect Adonis but still be a beta bitch. On the other hand, you could be a Dark Triad type with Prader-villi. The possible exception to this is true Dark Triad types. Dark Triad traits have been found to have a strong genetic factor. Dark Triad individuals may be the closest thing to …	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/16 11:33 PM
3	From now on, your goal is to get rejected. A lot. This kind of thing really can work. When I lived in Japan and was learning the language, at one point I started something of a hobby with a buddy of mine - we would go to clubs/bars that we don't usually frequent, approach random Japanese women (well, somewhat random - we specifically targeted attractive women), and fumble through our broken Japanese to find new, more and more suggestive or direct pick-up lines. Inappropriate was key. We called it "Perapera Nanpa Renshuu" or "Fluent Smooth-talki…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 11:02 PM
3	From now on, your goal is to get rejected. A lot. Haha, I think anyone who thinks it's a good idea to do this at school or at work or some shit probably would have found a way to make themselves a pariah one way or another.	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 10:17 PM
7	Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? In my experience, Stacked > Skinny > "Average"/"Dad-Bod" > Fat. Definitely lift, but remember that there are far, far more women out there who are attracted to skinny men than average or fat men. You are on the right side of the spectrum, and you should be able to derive confidence from that. My last LTR preferred skinny pale guys with long hair to built, bearded/bald guys like me. She was certainly attracted to me, but I know for a fact that she would have preferred fewer muscles. This definite…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 06:22 PM
5	Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? There was a post on here a while back that basically asserted that, if you think anything about yourself in relation to a woman, it should be "I'm more attractive than her". I find this is actually helpful, once you actually integrate it seamlessly. Why the hell shouldn't I be talking to that 9 over there? I'm more attractive than her. Fake it 'till you make it, whatever. It works for me.	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 06:18 PM
-8	Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? Her: spills something Oh jeez, it's everywhere. Me: I couldn't help it, you're just so pretty. shit eating grin	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 06:14 PM
1	Ugly feminist writes letter to her CEO whining about how she doesn't get paid a living wage for her entry level job, and deserves to be paid a living wage to "tweet funny things" for a living. Gets fired, and whines even more begging for handouts. This woman is horrible, but I know enough men with the same sense of entitlement to feel like this doesn't belong on TRP. This isn't gender specific.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 10:33 PM
1	Stop Attaching Yourself To Labels I look at Alpha/Beta as a spectrum, and believe that not only is it acceptable to shift along this spectrum, but that being too far to either end is where the danger lies. I don't believe it's possible to be all alpha, all the time, and still find satisfaction and happiness any more than it is to do so as "a beta". There are times when success lies on one side of the middle, and times when it lies on the other. That's why, generally, I dislike aspiring to be "alpha". I prefer to say that I aspir…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 08:34 PM
7	While drunk, my old oneitis basically admitted she misses when I was her little beta bitch. OP could have leveraged this into a "way in" to her bed that night. I had an almost identical late-night call from a female former "best friend" (i.e. I once wanted to fuck her more than I wanted air) who I hadn't spoken to in years outside of some brief facebook comment exchanges. She called me, fairly drunk, and gave me a similar spiel - "I miss you, I miss how sweet you always were to me, I miss your compliments, I'm sad that you don't talk to me anymore, blah blah blah". I told her I can sti…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 06:17 PM
1	My problem with the widespread opinion about marriage and having kids. To some extent, and for many members, TRP is a dogmatic religion and you are not to question it. This is mostly because most TRP members, as is true for the rest of the general population, are complete idiots. Worse yet: Angry, entitled idiots.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/16 05:04 PM
1	My problem with the widespread opinion about marriage and having kids. Hey man, you could use a chill pill, or a nice swift kick of stoicism to your ass. There are approx. 150,000,000,000 posts here that say "Don't get married". It is an accepted, common theme here to: ...judge what any other man does or doesn't do in regards to his reproductive rights What does it add to the community? It opens up discussion about something that is basically dogmatically insisted upon here. Will other guys benefit from it? Maybe they will, maybe they won't. Your reply is nothing b…	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/16 05:01 PM
2	Nobody wants to know the old you I think that if I knew her as a heroin addict or someone who loved drunken gangbangs at parties, that would be an issue for me, but my eyes work well enough to update my dick on the current situation. As for a hot girl letting herself go a little, I think you are right but the way I see it - if you knock 1-2 points off of a 7-9 (the "hotness range" on my arbitrary, personal rating system), then you are left with a 5-7, which is either still technically hot or, at very least, fuckable. For clarif…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 10:42 PM
1	Nobody wants to know the old you I should clarify that I'm not really one that would just volunteer that kind of information about myself, but I also value honesty and if somebody asked me, "How old were you when you lost your virginity", I'm not going to beat around the bush, or lie, or act like a bitch about it. I have been asked about, and answered honestly, by multiple women and it has never caused a pussy to snap shut. Amused mastery and frame control are all you need. Her: How old were you the first time you had sex? Me: …	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 10:25 PM
3	Nobody wants to know the old you It had only been about a year, not 20 ;) And honestly, if the girl had somehow attained a hot body, I probably would fuck her. Why wouldn't I?	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 10:09 PM
4	Control your Subconscious Mind Normally I would agree with you, and from a philosophical standpoint, I actively do agree with you, but from a perspective of pragmatic reality, this is the approach that has worked best for me with this girl. I've tried to go cold-turkey, after our first break up, but she found her way back into my life after two months and it was a disaster. It was like I was trying to build an emotional damn to reclaim my stoicism, her coming back two months later was akin to testing it with a tsunami. I fold…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 09:59 PM
4	Nobody wants to know the old you I disagree that genetics contributes much the way that you are implying. If you are 6 feet tall and 210 lbs @ 8% bodyfat and carry yourself like a fucking alpha, you could be missing an eye or have a poorly corrected cleft palate, acne scars, and a nose that looks like a porpoise and you could probably still get that pussy. I have concluded from experience that as long as you are visibly very fit and you carry yourself well (ie show high SMV/confidence), then women will find you attractive. I ha…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 09:28 PM
1	Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck. If you knew that she posted pictures of her exes all the time, then you would have something to measure against. Without that info, there is nothing to say here beyond pure speculation. Some women will plaster their facebook with pictures of their boyfriend, especially the two of them together, but these tend to also be the clingy, crazy women. Others just don't, or do only very rarely or after the relationship is "stable" and long term (they can potentially lose face if they post a bunch of pic…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 06:49 PM
2	Control your Subconscious Mind This is a good point. Every time the former target of my life-destroying oneitis complains to me about some financial problem she is having, my suppressed beta-brain starts kicking and screaming. "Hey, hey man, you make six figures, you can help her fix her car. That will show her how much better your are than her dead-beat, basically life-long unemployed boyfriend that she supports financially and is the entire reason she is broke!" Half of the reason I haven't blocked her yet is because I need…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 06:15 PM
3	Nobody wants to know the old you I'm not so sure it's universal. I was a virgin until my late twenties and by now, in my mid thirties, I've fucked 3 girls who I knew in my early twenties. That said, most of the reason I was a virgin for so long was because I set up mental walls and was, realistically, beta as fuck when it came to the idea of sex, and not because I was a fat, awkward gamer (gamer, yes, 'till death and fuck you, too). After I finally stopped being a bitch and had sex, but before I met my ex-fiance, I had adopted …	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 06:08 PM
12	How I stopped being poor AKA financial fitness I went from $60k to $170k in a single job change - like you, to a job doing the exact same thing I did before, but with fewer responsibilities and a lighter workload, and the freedom to live wherever I want. I had stayed at my old job for almost five years, because the salary was okay and I my plan was to start a family with my now ex, so stability was nice. Note long after we broke up, I started shopping around my resume and I realized I should have been doing this after two years. Interviews w…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/16 05:16 PM
2	5 Guaranteed Steps to Completely Demolish Approach Anxiety Too many people here seem to be of the opinion that being stoic means you can't be a goofy guy who has fun all the time. But being stoic means being in control of your emotions and being immune to the bullshit the world throws at you. It means being immune to misfortune because you accept the natural order of things. Nothing about that says you can't spontaneously practice backflips in the freezer section at safeway. It just means you have to accept it when you break your tailbone, and not compl…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 07:08 PM
1	5 Guaranteed Steps to Completely Demolish Approach Anxiety I have a picture of myself that I ran through one of those make-over apps. I look a little bit like Tim Minchin in it, but it is a great way to include myself in things to a ridiculous degree. Plus, if a girl jokingly tells me I'm fucking hot in the picture, I can playfully lightly slap them, point my finger at their nose, and command them to behave themselves. I've never been banned, though.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 07:03 PM
1	5 Guaranteed Steps to Completely Demolish Approach Anxiety I made it a goal of mine to compliment a person I didn't know about something at least once every day. Last night I left the grocery store basically beside this tiny, mousy hippy chick with a beanie, clutching a heavy paper bag with both arms, smiling to herself. I chuckled and told her she was fucking adorable, smiled as she made eye contact, and walked away. That kind of thing used to be really hard, but once I started forcing myself to do it - "Nice shoes", "hey man, cool watch", fucking what…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 06:58 PM
2	Being Attractive is Pre-selection Even the ugliest dude who is ripped af has a top tier cut and style is a 7 at the very least. FTFY. I've not found that grooming has anything to do with it, despite that being parroted around quite a bit on here. You can have a face only a mother could love, bed head/bed beard, be wearing a stained t-shirt, joggers, and bunny slippers, sitting in the student union eating a cup of noodle and a cupcake and as long as you are clearly very physically fit/ripped, the lack of grooming can actually wor…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 06:53 PM
3	When is it not One-Itis? The second to last girl I called my girlfriend was basically the result of the following: I start fucking this girl, and the sex is good and becomes more frequent. She decides she wants to be my girlfriend. I tell her that that's fine but that the second I get tired of her shit, we are done. I proceed to not treat her any differently than I did before. She starts to annoy me, so I drop her. So yeah, no oneitis there. The relationship was just convenient to me, I suppose. That said, I was in a do…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 06:52 PM
0	Autistics guide to winning verbal attacks I'm certainly not an expert, but outside of the agree and amplify bit, I think most of this is slightly off the mark for any actual social situation (ignoring the fact that Mr. Ass in your examples is clearly 14 years old). I mean, honestly, the scheme thing... We're making derisive nicknames, and then using them to someone's face... as adults? The main problem that I have with most of this post is that it's pretty much all about either goading people to become aggressive or just returning assho…	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/16 12:17 AM
5	My Experience With Intentional Extreme Abstinence I had pretty much the complete opposite experience. I was also raised Christian and was super into abstinence and all that. That said, I never paid much attention to women anyway, instead focusing on college and whatever else was going on. By the time I was in my mid twenties and realized I was a never-been-kissed virgin who was otherwise attractive, social, well-liked and well-adjusted, the idea of having sex started to terrify me. Like, seriously, I'm going to suck at sex, and at my age I have…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 09:35 PM