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Field Reporttrees_away/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:01 AM
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It’s sad how true this is. Every time I go through a mindset change, it always is associated with an upgrade in women. Like I begin to realize the woman that i’m with isn’t good enough for me, so i shake her off and then bam, an even higher value upgrade falls in my lap. Younger, hotter, smarter, better character. It’s like a pattern in my life that repeats itself like clockwork.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 07:23 AM
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Precisely. I’m kick ass at photography, and use it to be around and date hot, naked women. I can do that because in terms of photographers who do what I do, I’m an alpha. I’m still overweight, but I’m better looking than most of the other knobs with cameras, and my work stands out. I’m starting to try to move to the national stage, and I imagine that is going to extend my reach with women as well. Just be good at what you do and the groupies will come. First a drop, then a trickle, then a waterf…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 02:19 PM
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Abundance bro. You’re not going to hit a home run every at bat. Stop letting it get to you, learn from your mistakes, and take another swing. Just relax. It gets easier. The rejection stops stinging. You begin to realize that not every woman is worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 01:25 PM
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Your learning style isn’t everyone’s learning style. Some people get a lot out of in person events. The energy in the room, hearing things in a different way, bouncing ideas off the people around them. Don’t discount the value someone else may get from it just because you yourself won’t find it worthwhile. That’s pretty narrow minded.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 01:20 PM
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Mind sharing at least the name of the interviewer or perhaps, a link to where to find it? 🤣🤣🤣 I’m sure you didn’t intend to leave that stuff out and give an endorsement of any old interview he’s done so I found it funny.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 01:49 AM
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My girl and her brother (who I’m mentoring) live with me.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:00 PM
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Basic: "Sorry babe, the servants can't hear you on account of they don't exist. Guess you'll have to get em yourself." "I'm the second most interesting man you'll ever meet. But you won't meet the first-most for about..." <checks watch> "...Seven years, 11 months, 19 days and 3 hours. Give or take." "I'm friends with lots of girls" Intermediate "OOh, sounds fun! I bet his dick will taste great after the gym sweat." "Cool, I'll let your brother know y'all are moving out." "Damn I'd hope not! That…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:23 AM
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I think American are too prudish about nudity anyways, so why would that bother me?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 06:08 PM
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Nah dude, you smacked this one out of the park. This deserves its on post IMO. As a guy raised very similarly as you and had had to peel off the religion without losing the truth behind it... This rings a lot of bells. I’ve thought long and hard about how I am going to raise my daughters in regards to their sexuality. Thankfully, I think I’m going to be able to be a balanced father figure for them so hopefully they will neither have daddy issues nor be too curious about sex. I refuse to raise th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:57 PM
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You are divided my friend. Look yourself in the mirror and find out if you see a person there. Would you treat other people the way you treat the person you see in the mirror? If not, why? Meditate on that answer and it’ll point you in the right direction. Treat the guy in the mirror better than you treat other people and your life will balance out. That feeling of despair you feel inside when you chicken out or doubt yourself- that’s called lack of self respect. Start standing up for yourself w…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:16 AM
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Why does accepting your current state have to detract from wanting to change? They are not incompatible in my experience. I was at an Incubus concert a few weeks ago and my girl flashed the people behind us, and another girl responded then teased me saying "ok, your turn". Without hesitating, I lifted up my shirt and jiggled my still-existent belly and man boobs with zero shame. Yes, I'm fat still. No, I don't give a shit what people think about that. ​ That was the first time in my life this ha…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:20 AM
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Didn’t tell my girl I loved her until 4 months in. Hell, I told one of my places that I loved my gf before i told my gf. I waited until I was sure it wasn’t just infatuation talking, and that I was willing to actually follow through on the words with sacrifice. Because she definitely demonstrated love to me long before I let her know. Doesn’t mean her ass isn’t out on the street tomorrow if she pulls some AWALT shit. Thankfully I’ve got her trained pretty well. Think she might manage to make thi…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:37 PM
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As far as the religious stuff, I’d be willing to chat more about how I got free of my sexual hangups there in private. Message me some time.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:01 AM
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The meditation part is to help you gain inner strength and game. Read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Learn to observe those “thoughts” that you’re having that are shaking your confidence when you start approaching. (They’re not your thoughts by the way. They’re chatter in your head. meditation will teach you to observe this chatter and learn to tell the difference between your own inner voice and the chatter in your head.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:00 AM
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I promise you, you can get laid. I’m 37. I’m fat. (6’4” 283lbs. Think Dwayne Johnson if he made poor life choices and lacked discipline and had a strong affinity for pastries. But he started lifting now so he’s kinda starting to take on that manly shape. And he grew a really manly, well-manicured beard). Women NEVER open me. I’ve fucked 30+ women in the past year since swallowing the pill. Focus on shoring up your inner game. It’s the most important thing. Confidence and DGaF will charm the pant…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 08:20 AM
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You’re never to late to the game. I’m 37. Started swallowing the pill last year after my wife of 10 years left me for my best friend and divorce raped me. I was completely hopeless with women. Started reading everything i could get my hands on. Started learning game. Got my T checked and started TRT. started trying to live an interesting life and find a mission. Now I’m in an OLTR with a 21 yo model. I’m about to follow a life long dream and try to become a rock star. I hang out with young, beau…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 08:07 AM
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This is gonna sound weird AF.... But before I really swallowed the pill i had an experience during meditation where it was like I was seeing a vision of my body’s energy but couldn’t see anything defining my junk. It was like I was a Ken doll down there. Something was definitely blocking my sexual “chi” if you will. For me, some of it was my major low testosterone and self-consciousness about my skills in the sack. When I got more experience with women and realized that I’m actually a natural in…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 07:46 AM
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Involuntarily love isn’t love. That’s a chemical reaction in your brain - infatuation. Love is a choice you make. It’s voluntarily, because you have control over your love. You love something or someone by investing time, effort, energy, and attention into them. You consider them valuable enough to be worthy of those things from you. You choose to let them in a little deeper than someone you just casually fuck. You’re still in control. You can just as easily remove them from that coveted place. …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 07:12 AM
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Yeppp. If I waited until I had 10% body fat and a rock star I’d have missed out on the confidence and game that I learned while still in the process. You can do both. You can be going after your mission big time and still have time to game women. I’ve been working on my debut EP for the past 9 months while still meeting and fucking lots of women. While improving my fitness, losing weight, lifting, etc. I’m the fucking man now and i haven’t even arrived yet. I just believe in myself because I’ve …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 07:25 PM
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Exactly that. My genetics give me a super sharp, extremely fast mind (that never wants to sit still). Gives me major advantages in soft-skills. Physically I’m not that talented except for hand/eye coordination from way too many years wasted on video games. But anything that requires learning or understanding I absorb nearly instantly. My brain makes connections to concepts instantly that take others exponentially longer.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 01:25 AM
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Rape charges was certainly a thought that crossed my mind. I tried to be very careful to skirt the line between "this is playful fun in a sexual context" and "I'm punishing you bitch". Again, calibration is key. I know this girl well enough to know that she's a) going to love having the shit beat out of her in a sexual context cause she's a dirty little slut, and b) completely enamored/mind-fucked by me at the moment. She's got me so stinking pedestalized its surreal. She is naturally a "go with…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 02:05 PM
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I see you are a student of Taubes.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 03:45 AM
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Get your testosterone checked. That drive to persevere past the non-instant gratification pain was severely hindered by my lack of testosterone until last year she I started TRT. With testosterone you grow a spine and become willing to overcome fear of failure to take the risk of success.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 03:43 AM
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Dude, you’re wrong there. Innate talent is certainly a thing. Certain kids are more gifted at some things than others and it has nothing to do with interest. I have always had a sickening amount of innate talent and it’s actually been an Achilles heel in many ways. My natural gifting made it easy to not have to learn how to discipline and apply myself to get good at things. Interests are one thing, but being able to pick something up and do it at a proficient (if not near master level) almost im…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 01:46 PM
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/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:41 PM
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/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:41 PM
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Agreed. I look back at where I was at the beginning of my RP journey and wonder how the hell a fat slob like me actually managed to land some of the women I did. Even now, I still look at myself and the women that i fuck and scratch my head a bit. But game and frame is king.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:22 PM
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I’m not the man yet. Still just a former bloop on a journey to become redder. But I’m a lot further than I was a year ago. I still have a lot of discipline to learn and struggles to overcome. I am terrible at managing money so I’ve backed myself into some bad corners financially, I rely on weed too much to manage the massive amount of stress i live in on a daily basis, and I still find myself getting too hung up on some women that I’m mega attracted to personality-wise (I hang around far too man…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:18 PM
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My comment was too long, so here’s the rest of it: Honestly, the more assertive my girl sees me being in public, the less she tests me. When she sees me being unafraid to stand up for myself or put up with shit, or even in some cases using the fact that i can be a big scary monster in her favor, she feels safe. Just today I got a big shot in the arm in that department from a situation that arose with her boss. But that requires a bit of backstory: He hired her because he wanted to fuck her and I…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:17 PM
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Mostly just the way discussed on the sub and in the sidebar. I treat it like any other shit test and respond accordingly. A few times I’ve had to step it up when she was really trying to figure out if I’m the big scary monster that other people seem to see in there sometimes from stories she’s heard from my friends. In those situations, calibration is essential. What works on my girl works on my girl because I calibrate it to her. She’s a slutty little sub and I pretty much use the sex god metho…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:17 PM
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I may be too 1% in some areas but I’m still a fatass. But I lead my girl in such a way that Patrice O’Neil would be giving me props. It really is all about frame. Since the day she’s been in my life she’s never known me as anything but a cocky motherfucker who could replace her in a heartbeat and who makes her life exciting and adventurous. She’s smitten. She tests the boundaries, and I have to remind her that they’re there, and she feels safe. I lead by example, and watch her turn into someone …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 07:56 AM
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First time i ever came on a girls face it was a last minute fallback date on Tinder. Subby little thing who just wanted to get laid and i never saw again. Wanted to be degraded and used. Sure thing sweetheart! That was the day I discovered that having a woman staring up at me with doe eyes begging me to blow a load on her face is a fetish of mine. Definitely a ho. 🤣
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 01:51 AM
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This. I’ve noticed the change over the past year and a half on TRP. As I’ve become more assertive, dominant, and masculine, that’s all that has mattered. I looksmaxed everything but my body immediately (body in progress - 287lbs at 6’4”, 24% BF from 340 1.5 years ago) but it wasn’t until my testosterone got right (from TRT) and i started not giving a fuck what people thought of me and being unafraid to stand up for myself that women began to take notice. I’m sure as I lean out it’ll make an even…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 01:03 AM
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Wait, you mean you don’t tie women up and they’re completely fine with that?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 02:24 PM
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Dude, I don’t let my bitch get away with shit. Not an inch. She is trained. She’ll test her limits on occasion just to see if I’m still holding the leash, but I seriously just have to ask “do I need to get the ladder?”* And she’s whimpering like a puppy dog and apologizing for whatever dumb shit it was she just did. She needs me to be dominant 100% of the time. She needs to be put in her place some times and uses me to do so. I intentionally go out of my way to not do shit for her much of the ti…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 07:01 AM
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Get some hobbies my dude. My main hobby (photography) has put me in close proximity to very beautiful women. Numbers have been in my favor, and I’m in an OLTR with one and playing another. Before that started to pay dividends, Tinder was my other source of plates.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 05:37 AM
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Woah. Shit. That’s the first explanation about why I’m an unmotivated zombie every morning and never want to fall asleep. I’m gonna have to start amping my dompamine right after wake up.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:01 PM
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I find there to be an ebb and flow. I’ll have a week where it just rains pussy and then 2 without a single match.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 07:24 AM
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It’s not that hard to get a face to face conversation on Tinder though.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 07:22 AM
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Why not OLTR a plate and keep spinning? There are times when I’m sexually satisfied, too busy focusing on work and hustle, and I’m really glad that I can crawl into bed at the end of a hard day, wake up my GF with my cock in her mouth, and not go to bed horny cause I’ve been too busy to hunt. And then there’s times when I really want the thrill of the chase, and so I’ll go find someone else to fuck and remember why I like strange so much. Best part is, it’s like it freshens up my attraction for …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 04:31 AM
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My OLTR texted me the other day, “Baby, you make my life interesting.” That’s possibly one of the highest indicators that I’m doing it right that i could have received IMO (aside from the dizzying BJs). We have adventure after adventure. We are always planning the next “big” one (typically trips) but I’ll spontaneously take her camping naked, on a motorcycle ride to fuck in the middle of a park, on an impromptu electric scooter scavenger hunt, etc. Hell, even including her in the hunt for other …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 01:59 PM
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This. I don’t bother trying to be coy about it. I just make it clear that monogamy is not who I am, take it or leave it. I don’t need her, so why would I give a shit about her leaving it? Wasted so much less time this way. And honestly, I find many women are just flat out refreshed by the boldness and lack of subterfuge. Then when they realize i know wtf I’m doing with a woman’s body, she’s got plenty of means to hamster her desire for exclusivity out of existence. My OLTR never thought she’d be…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 01:55 PM
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Watch the Ted y’all about “Everything you think you know about addiction is wrong”. It kinda opened my eyes to some things. Drug addicts are drug addicts likely due to their environments, internally or externally. (See the Rat Park Experiments) So in a manner of speaking, yea kinda cause of media. There’s no doubt our fast paced info overload world (not to mention traditional western diet) has changed our brain chemistry and it certainly contributes to drug addiction and unhappiness alike. Doesn…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 12:02 AM
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Another one will come along. That’s the best part about this, now you get to have that kind of connection with a different woman someday and enjoy her in a similar but different way. I’m in, what I’d consider, an absolutely perfect arrangement relationship-wise right now. 21-yo, zero drama obedient cock gobbler who doesn’t fuck other dudes but doesn’t give a shit about me fucking other women because I was up front with her about it from the get-go. I don’t take her too seriously, but I love her …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 05:55 PM
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It’s called imposter syndrome. Everyone gets it. Just maintain frame, bust your ass, prove your worth, and it’ll go away. Or you’ll fail and learn from it. Either way is good. I’m a software architect. I lead the team that built the employee engagement portal for one of the worlds largest corporations. I’ve built websites that scaled to 100s of millions of requests monthly. I still get imposter syndrome with every job. Even after I demonstrated myself to be a world class problem solver and had t…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:41 PM
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Open him first. Pay almost no attention to her except for some light teasing. Establish rapport with him, then find an opportunity to ask him if they’re together when she goes to pee or something. If they’re just friends, he probably wants to fuck her anyways so regardless he’s likely going to get jealous, but that’s not your concern. Use the elevated social proof from your rapport with him to start gaming her based on what you learned or move on.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:20 PM
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I’m 37, couldn’t land anything better than a 40 year old Shamu last year. Now smashing my 21 year old OLTR and her friends due to a lot of learning in the past year. It’s really all about confidence. Use the fact that you have seen more of life to your advantage to build a rock solid frame and date younger women. Don’t take them seriously. Tease them, but in a cocky and funny way. Go to bars and practice having conversations with as many men and women as you can. The only way to get better is to…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:18 AM
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That’s why you go for OLTR. I embraced it as part of who I am that I’m not monogamous. I was very upfront with every woman about it. Sometimes it cost me a lay or a plate, but I’d rather be up front than waste my time. Worked out. Now I flat out tell them I have a girlfriend and most of the time they want to play with her too.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 12:55 AM
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This is absolutely correct. I started my RP journey a year and 5 months ago and the only women I could land were post wall fatties a few years my senior. Practice, losing weight, improving my self esteem and game, and testosterone shots has turned me into a different creature entirely. I’m in an OLTR with a model who (at least for now) has zero interest in fucking other dudes, but is completely bought in to me fucking other women. She knows I’ll drop her ass faster than Hillary on a cool spring …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 11:58 PM
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Or just get laid a bunch. Fuck every day in a row 1-2 times a day for a week and your dick will be begging you for a breather.Masturbation will be the last thing on your mind. I only jerk it when I’m traveling and haven’t scored for a few days.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 11:43 PM
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I completely agree. I’ve paid for escorts, and my main girl has been on quite a few of those paid dates. She even met a sugar daddy who gives her $1300 a month. Last time she fucked him was in January. This dude lives out of town now and she sees him maybe once every 1-2 months. At that time she also told him that she didn’t have any feelings for him and didn’t want to be with him. He basically continued acting like nothing has changed. Absolutely pure BB chump if I’ve ever seen one. I’ve listen…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:07 PM
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I could co-write it 🤣. Been seeing a chick that has sugar daddies it’s been an interesting case study.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 03:07 AM
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I’m 36, and before TRP I was dumb enough to have my age range set to 25-40. I looked like a slob, so all I ever matched with was 38-40 yo whales who expected you to pedestalize them ASAP. It was bad. I don’t know why it never occurred to me to date 21-24 year olds, but when I changed the slider after a year of TRP it got so much easier. That age range is so much more open to my non-monogamy (I’m very upfront about it) and quite simply, a lot more fun to be with. Their energy and naivety gives a …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:25 AM
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That realization blows. Hardest part about swallowing the pill. No rest for the man. No slacking. No safe place. Your guard can never be truly down, though you must pretend it is. Letting her close enough where you’d be wounded if she left is the very thing that will begin to sour her feelings towards you.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:45 PM
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Lol, most women are. Some are just more honest about it. I have zero issue with a woman selling her body for $$. She’s clean, gets tested regularly, and doesn’t have any issues sharing me. She’s fun to have around and brings me hot women to fuck. What do I give a shit if she leads on some beta bucks cuck who gives her $1300 a month for shit. She hasn’t even slept with him since Jan. Fakes having her period. He’s out of state, so she sees him like 4x a year. I have zero illusions that this is a t…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:36 AM
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I agree completely. I upgraded a plate to probationary bottom bitch recently, and she willingly gave me access to her phone so I could reply to the chicks we were trying to pull on Tinder. (She loves bringing me women to fuck) Anyways, I used that as the way to discover something that I had suspected: she had sugar daddies. I confronted her without letting on how I knew, just telling her I needed her to choose to willingly tell me all her shit if she wanted to be more than just some chick I fuck…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:03 PM
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What’s good for us ephemerally is not necessarily what’s good for them, or society, as a whole. Hence the adage “enjoy the decline.” Would the 21 year hotbody be better off being hung up on the 37 year old with no intention of monogamy/marriage/commitment or someone closer to her age who wants a wife and kids? I’d argue that the latter is what’s good for society and would be way better for her long term. Buuut, that’s not what gets her motor running, so I’ll enjoy fucking her (and her friends!) …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:34 AM
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It’s not like it’s even hard or expensive. I do SubQ EOD at .3ml and it’s damn near painless and completely covered by my insurance. I was doing 1.5ml 1x/week IM but switched to self injection and didn’t want to do IM myself. I had to lower my dosage with SubQ EOD because it was so much more effective. I went from 800ng/dL to 1236ng/dL in a month and my doc asked me to drop down from .4ml to .3ml. The only downside is the acne, but it’s becoming more manageable with the right skin care treatment…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:56 PM
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I agree. Especially if your main plate is down and actively helping you pull. And if she is satisfied by how you fuck her, you’re push/pulling enough, withholding commitment while passing comfort tests, it can be a great arrangement. Eventually AWALT will happen and you replace her and keep living because you’re not dependent on a single woman for sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:43 AM
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Boasting? Sure, a little. Pointless? Not really. I was contrasting my soon to be post-wall (at 34 and with two kids she would be already if it wasn’t for good genes) ex-wife’s life with the amazingness of being on a RP journey as a newly single late 30’s man. I have it made, much of which is thanks to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 10:55 AM
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Yea, especially since I was WAY BP still and the bitch got what the bitch wanted... “Happy wife, happy life” right? 😂
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 10:51 AM
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Exactly what happened to me when I sunk $8k into my soon to be ex wife’s breasts. She suddenly started getting more attention and decided she was better than me. I used my bonus two years in a row to do what SHE wanted.... Even though I was fine with her tits the way they were. Fortunately, they look like Frankenstein’s monster and she won’t be able to afford to get them fixed on the $3400 a month she’s getting from me until she finds another beta shmuck to marry. Good luck with the wall sweethe…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:11 AM
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It’s not that they don’t get attention. It’s that the attention they get is all unwanted. It’s guys sending creepy PMs, every man she meets on the street turning every interaction into a lame pickup attempt, etc. Guys that they actually want don’t approach. Just the losers who ARE actually out of her league, have no charm/game. They filter so much of that on a daily basis. I have a plate who I’d rank as a 9. I hear story after story about it every time I see her. But she was incredibly lonely be…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 02:10 PM
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I use a Ketozonale shampoo, it’s definitely big cycstic mofos. I switched my regiment to EOD sub-Q last week. Hoping that causes less of a spike and less acne response. My E2 was slightly elevated, so my doc upped me to 1mg 2x weekly anastrazole. Not on HCG. Honestly what has done me the most good is going to the local nudist resort and spending the day in the sun and saltwater pools. I took the chick from this post there on Saturday. 😉 Going the last two weekends has caused a dramatic reduction…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 12:21 AM
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And come, and come, and come some more. 😂 You nailed it though, feminine energy is definitely the chaos. Was just listening to Jordan P talk about that in his book today.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:04 AM
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Or just use your money to pay for people to do these things. I spend much less per month having a personal assistant, personal chef, and housekeeper than I did on having a wife. $175/wk for personal chef to meal prep (includes cost of groceries) $10/hr for my personal assistant to do all the things that are a waste of my time $120/mo for my housekeeper to come do a deep cleaning
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 10:54 PM
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This one definitely wants to escalate the relationship. I'll enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:16 AM
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She's had several medical necessary surgeries. That one's from an appendectomy I think.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:13 AM
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Yea, I had some decent shots before. What helped is finding a model or two that was just starting out.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 12:14 AM
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Started contacting local models on IG about implied or boudoir shoots.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:04 PM
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The way you comment is quite blue pill lol
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:38 PM
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She had nothing advertising my value other than a decent headshot and a measly IG following. Well, and a decent portfolio. I'm great at creative lighting.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:27 AM
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Yep. I was 365 at my heaviest. I had major body dismorphia and emotional issues. I was blind to how fat I was. Thankfully not so anymore. It turned out I had been low-T my whole life and that was a cyclical thing that made it really hard to be motivated to lose weight psychologically and actually keep it off physiologically. I got help for my emotional shit, got out of my depression, started TRT a year ago, and began the long road of change. I doubt I have as much muscle as the rock either, but …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:26 AM
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I weigh in around 292 right now (though I’m 6’4”) and wholeheartedly agree. I’m mostly invisible to any woman I’m genuinely attracted to. I have great game and a strong frame. My buddy who is always asking me for advice with women slays, but I’m wittier and have a better rapport with women while he comes off as insecure and pretty needy. Doesn’t matter. He’s 40 and skinny fat, but gets constant female attention from women I’d love to plate - while all of those women are telling me “oh your weigh…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:42 PM
6

Agreed. My sides are skin fade and I feel shaggy after 2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:55 PM
1

That’s how I felt about this situation. I’m invisible to most hotties. I got lucky.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:53 PM
2

Cause I was doing something else and it was more fun to fuck with her. I don’t give a shit about seeing her molest herself. That does nothing for me. I saw it when she was laying next to me in bed on Saturday.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:46 PM
3

Believe what you want. Mine isn’t.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:30 PM
4

I know my weight drastically effects my frame and confidence, because as I slim down both are increasing significantly. Dropping several clothing sizes in the past few months has done wonders for my self esteem. Being able to shop normal retail instead of big and tall has allowed me to dress in a way that I feel real about. All of this factors in. I still get insecure about the first time a woman sees me naked because of two reasons: my belly, and my TRT induced body acne (which i’m seeing a der…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 05:54 PM
2

You make a great point, that definitely worked in my favor.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:45 PM
4

When I was building my portfolio I used to pay them. Or if I have a specific thing I’m shopping for publication. Now I get approached by models because my portfolio speaks for itself and I shoot them for free in exchange for giving them copies of the keepers (with my watermark.)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:26 PM
1

Did you edit? Cause I swore it said “ate chad thundercock” at first and about lost my shit laughing.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:37 PM
3

If she didn’t seem to be interested, then yes, because our first context was conversations as model/photographer, I would have kept it professional.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:33 PM
3

I never said it was though, that’s why I don’t get your accusations of hamstering. Didn’t mention frame or confidence once in my post. I didn’t feel very alpha. I wasn’t even thinking about fucking her. I have no illusions about the nature of hot 21 year olds. My only point was it was the lack of attention and the not trying hard that led to the situation where I got my my dick wet in her tight little pussy. IDGAF why she fucked me. I think what she wants out of it is a relationship- I’ve seen n…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:52 PM
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I’ll get there. I won’t feel like I’m the catch until I get down to 12% BF (still at like 24%). But, I’m on track to be there this year. Once I’m slim and start putting on muscle, I’ll feel like everything is firing on all cylinders. I’m an attractive dude (well, attractive as a fat-ass can be), I dress stylish, I get my hair cut by the best barber shop in the city twice a month, I have a badass apartment, I have a serious shot at being a touring singer next year with an album dropping this year…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:34 PM
8

Damn man, I never spoke about frame/confidence. All I said was I basically blew her off, thus standing out from all of the thirsty dudes trying to get with her. Pretty sure that’s what happened here, regardless of other benefits she may think she gets from fucking me. It was plain to see based on her showing me all the thirst, that she can’t stand that shit. Had I been one of those guys and tried to get with her, photographer or not, it wouldn’t have happened. There were plenty of photogs in the…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:17 PM
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Isn’t every woman looking to get something out of a guy they’re fucking? All sex costs. I’ve paid a lot more for a lot uglier whores. I count this as a win regardless, and you’re an ass. 😉
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:05 PM
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I have no opportunities for her, and she’s cost me nothing more than the price of some bacon and eggs and cheap wine plus 2 hours of my time getting great stuff for my portfolio that I would have done without fucking her. Sounds like a win win to me. Laugh it up! I had fun!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:46 PM
1

I didn’t show interest. I literally just took her when I was done with her showing off her photos.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:34 PM
2

Tou got some kinda fucked up foot fetish or something? What’d you do, CSi that shit? I just checked the original and I can barely see her toe there. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:34 PM
8

Absolutely. Abundance was certainly demonstrated, and in her mind I probably have fucked every one of the models she’s seen photos of. The non-monogamous thing was brought up in the context of a conversation too, so it wasn’t overt display, just stating a fact about myself.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:24 PM
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I escalated by kinoing when she leaned in, then when I got tired of her vapid showing me of photos of herself, I told her “I’m tired of looking st photos of you,” picked her up off the couch in a cradle carry, sat her in my lap, and started kissing her. Because she wasn’t there to shoot. It had already been made clear that night that we weren’t shooting. She was there for the D. She made that clear when she cuddled up into me. Models will sometimes be flirty/playful when we are shooting and ther…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:20 PM
39

Hell man, she's 21. She's still a "child". Thats the easy part! :)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:01 PM
1

Not sure what you mean? They look fine in person. Perhaps just the dim light and stockings?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 12:55 PM
15

Something I'd considered - sure. Probably plays a big role. I'm sure she's fucked other photogs in the past, though she says she doesn't. But she's always got photogs wanting to shoot her. She doesn't "need" me at all. She's got a great portfolio and has worked with guys way better than me.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 12:54 PM
39

It's so counter-intuitive, but it works. In contrast, I had another situation a few months ago where some friends brought over a chick they met and were trying to redirect towards me. It should have been a sure-thing. She was interested - I even had her naked on my bed, restrained, giving her a massage - but I tried way too damn hard. Learned my lesson. :)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:51 AM
1

Check your inbox. Adapt to your own style and enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:35 AM
1

Honestly, the advice on this sub regarding texting is very true. If you don’t have text game, just do logistics. That works too. If i️ don’t feel like investing effort into texting i’ll ask them out to drinks after 2-3 exchanges. If i’m bored and feel like turning them on, I’ll lead the conversation to sex very quickly and then threaten to make them have to change their panties if they don’t behave. That usually snares them, then i️ unload my prewritten sexting. Zero effort at that point, and th…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:07 AM
1

I haven't yet had any success with cold approaches. I get numbers, but seldom responses. I have amazing text game though, so Tinder/Bumble has been my playground. I've found almost like clockwork that if I take the conversation sexual early enough over text, I get laid on the first date. I actually keep a note on my phone of pre-written sexts that have worked well for me in the past and re-use them. Get them wet enough over text and they will want to fuck you when you meet as long as you're not …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:59 PM
1

Sometimes you have to lower your standards to get out of your slump. It works wonders. I broke up with my gf in August. I've been with 8 women since then, 4 of whom are now plates. The first one was a lady that I'm ashamed to have fucked, but within 2 days I had landed an HB7 flight attendant. I'm 6'4" 300lbs, attractive face but still a fatty. If I can do it, you can do this man, but you've gotta get that thirstiness satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 02:34 PM
1

I use the word bro all the time. My IQ is much higher than 110. You're a fucknut.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 01:22 PM
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This. Precisely this. I have an assault charge against me for spanking my daughter, and was kept from seeing my kids without supervision for three months. I got completely railroaded by the court and CPS. My ex hides behinds "she was just doing what was best for the kids", while defending the guy she left me for who sexually molested his 9-year-olld daughter (and she was taking my girls over to his house to spend the night). Our court system is fucked.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 02:35 AM
2

Making small, easy to incorporate changes to your lifestyle on a regular basis is the way to sustain it long term. If you try to change everything all at once you’re setting yourself up for failure. it’s a marathon, not a sprint. It has to be changes that will be life long.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:57 PM
2

Get your testosterone checked and do something about it if its low (which it almost certainly is). Getting that fixed will aid you in your weight loss tremendously. I have primary hypogonadism so I'll be pinning for the rest of my life, but once the doc got me to the right dosage (my total T is 1136ng/dL now - started at 126ng/dL) I started shedding fat like it was nothing. That said, eat natural foods. Stop drinking calories. Try to not consume anything with added sugar. That alone will cause y…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:07 PM
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The best thing about getting a divorce is that 22 year old pussy still has that new car smell. ;)
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 07:50 PM
1

Question for ya fellow Christina bro -what did Jesus mean when he said there would be no marriage in heaven but that we'd be like the angels? Did he mean no sex? Cause angels apparently have the ability to have sex (see: Nephilim). Christians like to whitewash sex and think that its not a part of God's nature - utter silliness if we are created in his image: Sexuality is a core component of being human. I think there's some deeper things happening in our society that are making marriage unnecess…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 04:41 PM
15

It’s hard not to get frustrated by this, but at the same time AWALT so it’s like getting frustrated at the ocean for knocking down your sand castle: You knew the waves were coming yet you built it there anyways. I had to block an ex last night for this very thing. It’s just sad.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:28 AM
1

Get your T checked. Increase it. You'll feel better.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 02:26 PM
1

We've been gradually bumping it up and testing. My total T last time he checked before we bumped it from 250 to 300 was only 405 ng/dL
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:35 PM
1

My doc has me on 300mg a week. Should I be concerned?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:26 PM
15

Its because what the church (or God if you want) calls sin are the things that hurt us. I think the church is misguided about the reasoning behind it and tries to make a bunch of rules to impose. But the jist of it is "manage your life well, don't hurt yourself, don't hurt others." Thats a good thing. If you're doing something that is detrimental to your life, that could be called 'sin'. Its less than what you are. Its less than what you could be. Its falling short and missing the mark.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:22 PM
9

I know a chick that is a solid 8, maybe even a 9. She's 36. Takes really great care of herself. Fake tits. Perfect ass. Style. Probably good genes, cause she still looks super young.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:52 PM
1

Wtf. Are you serious? Dude, what are you looking for here? You don't actually want to change. You just want to make excuses for your miserable fucking life.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:37 PM
1

Then grow some fucking social skills. Go to a bar with a pack of cigarettes. Order a drink. Walk up to a group of people who are smoking outside and ask if you can bum a lighter. They'll be happy to loan you one, and they'll make a space for you in the group. Then just smoke your cigarette (you don't even have to inhale) and join the conversation. Ask people things about themselves. People love to talk about themselves. As people are answering, listen for more things to ask them about. It's not …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:35 PM
1

Yes, you WILL get rejected. But you'll learn. You'll grow. And you'll discover that rejection isn't actually the thing that you fear it is. People with normal social skills get rejected all the time and just brush it off. Thats how the rest of the world works. Your fear of rejection is crippling you. Visualize that rejection ahead of time. Imagine the worst possible scenario you could envision. Picture the girl straight up laughing in your face and tossing her drink at you. Picture how embarasse…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:31 PM
2

Bro, do yourself a favor and go get your T checked. I can almost guarantee its low. Do something about that. If you have a medical condition thats causing it, get the shots. If you can improve it naturally, do so. Your #1 goal in life right now should be to get your testosterone to a healthy level. That T is what makes men men. Its what drives the sexual energy that women are drawn to. Its what will give you the confidence to game women. Its what will give you the desire to go after your goals a…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:28 PM
2

Then plant some fucking seeds. Manure is a great fertilizer.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:25 PM
3

Non-toxic Morty was a pimp.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:28 PM
1

When we transistioned to exclusivity she knew that I had many plates and I told her that I wasn't sure monogamy was for me, it that I would try it for a bit with no promises.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 04:41 PM
3

I know that I'm not going to be happy in an LTR that I can't get side pussy in. I know the risks of trying to push her to that point. But I dig her as a person, and would love to keep her around long term if she can get to the place where she recognizes that she can be the sole emotional connection I have without being the sole sexual interaction. Who knows if it'll work or not. I don't really care. It's worth the risk to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:41 PM
9

Guys just don't even know. Ladies hate how it feels in the moment. But its so exciting for them when you reconnect. Since I swallowed the red pill, I've basically started doing exactly the opposite of what I used to do when conflict occurs. When my GF disrespects, I go ice cold. For days. She HATES it. Tells me what a monster I am. Blah blah blah. I told her if she doesn't like it, the doors right there. I tell her she only gets ice from me if she crosses my boundaries, otherwise she gets nothin…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:49 PM
1

Before TRT I had been lifting pretty consistently for months with hardly any results. My nads just don't produce the T right. Based on the labs, my brain is sending the right signals, but my testicles aren't getting the message. Doc thinks its been lifelong. It fits honestly. Makes much of my life make sense. If I went off TRT, there's a high liklihood that my T would plummet and I'd be miserable again. I have primary hypogonadism. Its TRT or living like a woman for me for the rest of my life. N…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:00 PM
2

Bullshit. My total testosterone level has gone from 126 ng/dL to 600 ng/dL. I have morning wood just about every day (whereas I didn't before I started TRT). A placebo can't cause that. If your test level is where it should be, you should be popping wood every morning. It was EXTREMELY sporadic for me until TRT. Now my girlfriend can hardly stay off of my dick in the am. One of my plates who knew me before I started TRT made a comment one night three weeks into my TRT about how she was going to …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:14 PM
1

Go to a men's anti-aging clinic right now and get your T checked. TRT will change your life. I didn't know jack shit about being assertive with women until I started TRT because I was low-T my whole life. Most of the time when we're fucking the day after my shot, my girl comments something like "Oh, I can tell yesterday was shot day. Damn." because I'm so much more assertive in bed. She loves it. Your libido WILL change on TRT. I used to be a two-pump chump, and had no interest in having sex mor…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:48 PM
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You didn't read the post or something man. He wasn't talking about complimenting her. He was talking about being cocky & funny (and a bit of A&A) by agreeing with the compliment and embellishing it for humor. It's a great move. I use it myself to just be overtly cocky.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:38 PM
1

Even if they don't. Source: Am fat. Get laid because I'm confident, sexual, and can make a woman laugh.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:53 PM
8

Have you read the sidebar yet? Read the sidebar. SMV = sexual marketplace value. Whether the girl is worthy is really up to you. Spin plates. Figure out what you're looking for. After being a typical "nice guy" for most of my life who just took the first woman who came along, spinning plates was life changing. I got to learn what I actually wanted in a woman, appreciating the differences in each plate. After spinning 4-5 plates for a while a woman came along who actually contained all the qualit…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:47 PM
5

We should start a support group. Apparently there are many of us who are controlling assholes. Rewriting history just blows my mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:53 PM
5

Same here. Not a single one. I've been in the field for 20 years and I've worked with a total of 6 female devs. And they were all terrible. Especially the ones who worked for a Fortune 10 Silicon Valley company I consulted for. Not only were they bad, but they were ESL and communication was a constant problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:37 PM
1

My doc just approved moving me to 160mg/ml weekly. Looking forward to that.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:47 AM
7

I'm very new to TRP, so take this for what its worth: Its not an issue of right or wrong. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. If you don't want to see multiple women and you're satisfied by one girl, then just see her. But don't let it cause you to become complacent. Thats the biggest risk with LTRs of course. You have to remain the mission and recognize that its just your turn. But if she's got something that you like and you want to continue to invest in her, that is your choic…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:27 PM
15

Saturday night I had a Tinderalla in my hot tub and out of nowhere she goes "oh God, please don't tell me you voted for Trump." We bantered back and forth about it for a bit with her exclaiming how there's no way she's gonna touch me after finding that out. I shut her up with a kiss and 5 minutes later she was gobbling my knob in the hot tub. She's also asked to come back over. I took great pride in blowing that load in her mouth knowing how much it disgusted her that I voted for Trump.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 05:29 PM
2

I have very low T and I'm hoping that TRT will help me gain some self control. Apparently mine has been low my whole life (guess my nuts didn't fully develop), and it seems to explain why basic everyday tasks cause so much friction in my head.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 01:48 PM
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