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Please do it :) OK fair enough. But KGJ could still give the principles and progressions no? Or is it as simple as "be attractive and have good game?"
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 07:10 AM
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RE the "wear pretty underwear line" in the post archive in the comments: https://archive.is/apDNp#selection-2447.4-2449.107 (but not here for some reason) you say respond to a comment thus: "Be sure to wear pretty underwear for me" wait, that's not creepy as fuck? Not when I say it. You have to set it up right. Can you elaborate more ? Have you written anything that talks about this ? I'm generally on track with life and women (not there but know how to proceed). Except for this bit. Even women …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 01:43 AM
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Great FR and great job ! I got goosebumps reading it. I've been in the same situation I know what a rollercoaster it is. Looking forward to the follow up FR. Any feedback from you guys on here? I'll start with the things I think you did right (there are a lot): I was sitting across from her and she kept looking at me and making eye contact...I could read her body language (eye contact, smile, playing with hair 'daydreaming') You are looking for IOIs. Just having this awareness is so important I …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 11:57 PM
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Not the parent but here is my 2c: OP should keep acting as he did and approaching no matter what. For the stage he is at this will help him get over his approach anxiety the fastest. However in my experience the approach he did wasn't ....optimal. The main thing he could have done differently is to approach her immediately when he saw the signs. From his description she is giving very, very strong IOIs. Delaying only increases the chances of it going wrong (e.g. it getting awkward, chickening ou…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 11:16 PM
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I had huge success with asking a girl if she'd had a boob job knowing full well she hadn't. She was 24 and a virgin (though I didn't know it at the time). She had amazing B/C cup tits. It was almost 10 years ago so I don't remember exactly how it unfolded but it she laughed and clearly took it as a compliment
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 09:54 PM
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I feel like I'm in a different prison now, forcing myself to be someone I'm not Sounds like you have made massive changes in a very short time. It's no wonder you feel like this. It's harder as an adult to make habits. The Spartans were started on this shit when they were little boys. Keep at it. We're supposed to be calm, stonefaced, and stoic, yet live each moment fully, heartfelt with excitement. Are there times to be one or the other? Are these different strategies? No they aren't different …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:14 PM
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this one time I approached 2 girls who were way out of my league and somehow I held their attention good job. Keep doing this no matter what ...a group of bros with this like 7ft tall guy came in and scooped them up don't worry keep approaching Any advice for basically getting out SMV'd? raise your SMV. Read the sidebar for instructions on how to do this
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:02 PM
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Just get up and walk up to girls Definitely do this, even if you keep failing when you start out. No one else is interested in girls there and we always just end up sitting at a table bored and drinking Take the lead. Ask one of the more fun couples if they want to play pool. Then find a random hot girl in the bar and tell her you need a pool partner. Start teasing her immediately that she better be a good pool player or she'll be letting you down. Build on this by teasing the couple during the …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:59 PM
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I obviously can't talk to them like my male friends and we don't ever share any interests so I just feel lost It's not just the interests that are different. It's the end goals. When you talk with one of your buddies you are trying to figure out something or explain something cool you did/saw (e.g. rebuilt an engine). The end goal is just to hang with your buddy and share experiences. With girls you are both trying to hook up so there is a different dynamic. It becomes about power. Most (normal)…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:49 PM
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Today I saw a father say "that's cool" about something trivial, and his little kid copied ... You seem to be making a case for the father not wearing a dress in front of his son, not the other way around
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:40 PM
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That family went over the top with it but I think it's a little simplistic to say a (normal) boy should never wear a dress. First off a little boy is a little boy. No testosterone yet. Boys and girls are much more similar than men and women. Little boys do all sorts of make believe (e.g. dress as super heroes). They live in fantasy land most of the time. Secondly: I'd guess most men and most men on this sub have worn a dress at some point, if only in jest. Off the top of my head I can think of t…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 10:42 PM
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Women don't care which is which when it comes to their tingles Bringing the conversation back to the point of this sub (sexual strategy). I like your work
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:09 AM
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the solution isn't to filibuster all evening, but draw her into the conversation A point well made. And something I needed to hear thanks for the post
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 09:56 AM
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I'm thinking the title might be just an attention grabber. I found a summary of the book/idea written by the authors and read the first bit it looks reasonable: "The business world is a natural habitat of alpha males. Whether they're larger-than-life legends who run giant companies or the heads of little-known firms and small departments, these aggressive powerhouses are hardwired for achievement and eager to tackle challenges that others find intimidating. Those alphas who are balanced human be…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:46 PM
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I wonder if they realize the irony with which it was written? Women recognizing irony when it comes to men and money haha good one The vibe I got from reading that book is that Jane Austin kind of loathed women with that outlook I haven't read the book. Would you recommend it ? How subtle is loathing that you perceived ? From what I know of the story it mainly centres on a handful of sisters and one rich good looking guy ("Mr Darcy"). What are those sisters like individually and what happens to …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:34 PM
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...ivanka trump... That girl is a ten until I remember who her dad is then she goes down to an 8. I respect the Donald but somehow I can't be (as) attracted to his daughter(s)
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:41 PM
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How far do you try to go with the act ? Do you talk about your feelings ? Interject in conversations to talk about how important it is to close the gender pay gap?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:39 PM
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“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.” Opening line to a story women have loved to hear for hundreds of years
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:36 PM
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What do you think of Paul Graham and Y-combinator ? Have you read any of his essays ?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 06:03 AM
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Those are only models on opinion polls right ? Not what actually happens when they go to war on each other?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:48 PM
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Modern economies (i.e. the USA since ~187) are ridiculously complex and there can be some emergent properties that are counter intuitive and thus may require strange intervention. But the fascist top down central control of Hoover, FDR and subsequent governments make my skin crawl Agricultural production quotas and destruction of food (e.g. pouring milk down the drain) while Americans starved was unconcienable. Sending out goon squads to patrol industrial districts to find people working outside…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:42 PM
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Mole for the Democratic party So you are a Democrat who is on TRP hence being a "Mole" ? One of the things I love about this subreddit is that it's one of the few places that exist in the world where people with wildly different opinions can have an objective discussion and actually educate each other from a different perspective. I have many long term good friends who are wise who I can't do this with when it comes to divergent political opinions
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:15 PM
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A study on what male scents women find attractive showed a preference for men with different immunogenetic profiles while unpregnant and for similar genetic profiles while pregnant or on the pill. Strongly implies women are programmed to find someone from a different family/tribe to mate with and run back to her own family/tribe without him once pregnant
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:26 PM
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Generally speaking: Do what others in the replies to this post are recommending: Don't argue with them and don't put your grades on the line. Don't waste your time and mental energy on making good reasoned arguments that they won't even listen to. But, specifically: If you are in a calm and stable state of mind (sounds like you maybe aren't right now) and just want to practice manipulating them and having a bit of fun try asking questions in neutral or BP language and if they ask for clarificati…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 08:22 PM
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So is that your daughter's (child) version of attempting to figuring out if he is AF/BB? If so I'm guessing she would have pegged him as BB. Or is it something else...more like just trying to get attention anyway she knew how? Knowing your daughter what would have been the most fun for her in that situation ? Making her pick it up would have been boring....maybe he could have picked it up and "claimed" it for himself then faux argued with her about it
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:59 PM
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I was at a bar around six months ago and there was a six seater booth with 3 girls in it next to ours. One of them was a 717 I'd made some eye contact with her and decided I was going to go over there. Right as I sat down some drinks arrived. There was another table of 3 dudes nearby they had bought the girls drinks before even speaking to them. If they were too afraid to approach 3 women alone there was no way they were going to do it while I was there. The dudes left around 30 minutes later. I…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:39 PM
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Don't the girls just say 'park wtf?' No they don't, I used to think like this too.... Girls have many sides. I think because when we see them dressed their sexiest (club slut side) we think that is the only place they are in a frame of mind to hook up. Since becoming older and wiser, swallowing the pill and reading TRP I've learned that women love the small simple things too. Small talk on the bus (small talk but with cheeky and very subtle sexy overtones), walking, simple meals. Specifically RE…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:28 PM
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Very interesting thanks for posting. It's almost off topic but I almost don't get how two inches can make such a difference to "height". Two inches is the diameter of a cookie how could it matter to an animal that is 5 to 6 feet long that could eat that cookie in one bite? Yet in social interaction that two inch difference in eye level can be huge EDIT: From "is huge" to "can be huge"
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:39 PM
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Your assessment of his SMV is probably off Go on.... Is he short or below average height? Roughly average or slightly below average. Wikipedia says average heights for men in North America is 5' 9' to 5' 11'. I was surprised it's that high I would have guessed more like 5' 7". Does he command the attention of the whole room like a concert, or is he there mostly as a source of music while people do their own thing? More of a source of music while people do their own thing. Now that you've pointed…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:39 AM
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Yes ! So common. They don't seem to even consider that there are pedestrian "freeways".
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 12:17 AM
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being able to sing or play a sexy instrument on a stage (the stage is crucial) is the easiest way to get laid I believe you that it's the easiest or among the easiest... but do you think that all or even most (stage) musicians get laid ? At my local pub there is a guy who is paid to play one night a week. He does covers and he does them incredibly well, everyone comments on it. I wouldn't have noticed this before swallowing the pill but he should/does have a high SMV. He is average to good looki…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 12:14 AM
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Read this book multiple times as a teenager. My copy opened with John Donne's No man is an island. The poem (and the book) made such a powerful impact on me I can remember most of the poem 20 years later: "no man is an islande, entire of itself. Each man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod bee, washed away by the sea, Europe is the lesse. As well as if a promontory were, as well as if thee or a friend of thine own were. Therefore never ask for whom the bell tolls. It tolls…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:56 PM
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They get mad and yell at you for not waiting for them and you begin to feel the tension or guilt and think that you owe them an apology. So, instead of saying sorry, just don't say anything, right? Case 1: Correct. This hasn't happened to me but I feel like I could get away with laughing and saying "you weren't quick enough". They still don't move... Case 2: Move to the margin of the side walk, but not off of it. Do it slow and smoothly. Don't stare. Don't move your shoulders to accommodate them…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 01:18 AM
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or "You tell me...how would I know if they pay you or not?"
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:24 AM
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In a fair world she'd repay his expenditure and pay for his time wasted, and she'd go to prison for fraud Truer words were never spoken
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:43 PM
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Here's the thing, if your girl cheats on you - her perception of you is indeed beta I don't think this is always true. Maybe not even mostly true. Women have an incentive to have children by different men for genetic variation alone so she may well breed with an "equal" or "lesser" man just for that. I think the only thing that really stops her (if at all) is the fact that she doesn't want to lose the BB and/or she doesn't want the social stigma of having cheated. EDIT: changed "you might be her…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:38 PM
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The theracane is by far the best tool.... I'm going to buy one. They are offering me this book for $25 with it - should I buy it?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:13 AM
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God. Why do I keep reading the brag reports I think it's important to list this stuff in FRs. That way the reader can estimate how much of the success (or lack of) is due to attractiveness and how much of it is game. I'd almost go as far as to suggest height, weight, BF %, race and face out of 10 should be mandatory in FRs
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:47 PM
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It's better for their bodies too
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 09:14 PM
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Lol he beat me to it also. I thought of the bit by the 2nd paragraph I was ready to hunt down the video and start transcribing it for my RedPill brethren
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:03 PM
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I've found that if I answer the second (unspoken) question to her satisfaction Very interesting. I feel like I can respond fairly well to to shit tests (e.g. Agree and amplify) but not so well to comfort tests if I even spot them in the first place. So how might this go treated as a comfort test? Her: Are you fucking other women? You/me/OP: .... EDIT: I'll have a go: Me: "Yeah but you're my favourite"
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:15 PM
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Will try harder next time By all means but don't regret not "trying hard enough" this time. There is some great advice in the thread about how to actually get the girl. But I still think it's good to burn them occasionally especially when starting out
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:18 PM
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but it's ultimately pointless. She doesn't feel any less entitled, and it hasn't really benefited you either I disagree. She will feel a little bit less entitled and he got the benefit of taking pussy off the pedestal at least part way EDIT: So it wouldn't help him get this particular girl and maybe not even the next one. But the one after that...
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:14 PM
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You make a good point but you say this: If you went around knocking women down off of them all day whereas the parent said: Sometimes you just need to have fun He said sometimes. Not all the time. Certainly not all day. And I agree. As per my other post in this thread I burned a girl once basically because I was tired and had somewhere else to be. I still laugh about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:12 PM
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The parent comments may well be true but I've done this type of thing too. Was at bar and approached a group of six girls sitting down and took a blonde 717 by the hand and led her to the nearly empty dance floor. Danced for one song was twirling her she was laughing she loved it. Told me she had a boyfriend so I let her go. Left the bar about an hour later because I had hockey in the morning and wanted to be fresh. Waved to her as I was walking out. Felt a poke in my back as I got to the door a…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:00 PM
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A user suggested that I 'follow my gut' I received similar advice once from a wise friend: "you're gut is a finely tuned instrument". He was right
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:30 AM
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This is one of my favourite posts ever. I don't even care about the formatting I hope the mods let it slide. Pull ups Have you tried adding weight to yourself when doing pull ups?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:25 AM
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My advice RE the server - do nothing unless someone senior comes to you. If so have your boss around also (need to have equal seniority present from your "camp"). If/when they come to you about your actions with the server just say: "I thought fixing the server as soon as possible was the right thing to do. Should I have done anything differently?". Do not be afraid to admit mistakes ("Yes you're right I should have logged what I did to fix it in the ticket immediately"). Whatever they say just …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 11:35 PM
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Fuckin' wow ! I couldn't think of one and you rolled out five rippers....
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:51 AM
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You should have had shit-tons of fun with that situation... I wouldn't know how to start joking around with those women. Their "frame" is so uppity and self righteous and out of touch with reality. I could easily offend them further and make them cry but no way I could make the situation "fun". Little help ? What is a first line after SJW hipster girl says "you shouldn't say pussy it's really offensive !"
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 12:36 AM
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That line always gets me Me too. I think it's partly how he slips into an impersonation of the wife beater just as he's saying "Tuna casserole?!" and slips right back out
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:43 PM
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I really like the overall message thanks for another great post OmLaLa. However I struggle with some of the advice: ...dial your body language two notches behind hers ... Break eye contact more oft than her. Let conversations die. Feel comfortable keeping silence between the two of you and don't worry about what she thinks about it or if she'll leave At least in my case I think doing things like this make me behave unnaturally. As we keep telling each other girls are very good at reading people …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:38 PM
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I found this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7DlYzODWmo very informative...
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:00 AM
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Show her that you know how to disagree, that you can stand your ground without breaking the connection I suck at this whether it be men or women. Joe Rogan is great at it maybe I should study how he does it.... EDIT: To be clear I'm great at the "standing my ground bit" it's the "without breaking the connection" that I struggle with
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:17 PM
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Thanks I think I get where you're at now. Personally I don't think the guy on the right really stands out much from the other two Agreed that was my example of unique but "at the same level". Granted his shirt has a collar and the other two are wearing t-shirts
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:29 PM
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I also am interested in your style but not about what it is but at what level it is compared to guys around you. I can't even imagine its context. Is it as outrageous (in its context) as this ? Or just more unique but not at a different level like the guy on the right here ?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:31 PM
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She suggested popping up Netflix Bullshit ! Really ?!? What the fuck is it with chicks and Netflix ?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:47 AM
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Being a sexual minority, feminists can't be too hateful towards him because his priv level is pretty equal to theirs. And him being gay, none of their shaming tactics work on him Milo outright says this in a video...can't remember where I saw it. Might have been the Joe Rogan podcast
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:41 AM
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Nice work fucker I'm jealous. Tell us a bit about your profile - is your first pic shirtless with good lighting ? Edit: also of the girls who u message roughly how many do u get a date/lay ?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 06:39 PM
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Haha great point ! So how does one sell dick to girls ? Is that the essence of game?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 09:31 PM
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Getting laid isn't that hard It has been for me, I've bedded two 6s/7s in six months. It's hard to pinpoint the problem exactly.... I'm six feet tall and a 6-8 with an athletic build. I play lots of team sports, I have a decent job. I approach lots of women and it's easy and natural. I get dates roughly one per week anything from 6 to the occasional 9. Lifting more and working on game would help a lot I'm sure but it never seems to get high enough on my priority list; I'm busy with sports, work …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 07:02 PM
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Sounds like you guys have a good thing going. Are you enjoying this sub ? Out of curiosity how "redpill" would you say your BF is ?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:23 PM
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Yes !!! I was doing this to a girl on Saturday. She didn't make it to the event but we ended up meeting last night based on the banter. I was giving her commands and teasing her about being a hungover skank she loved it
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:41 PM
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Do you try to coffee close during day game? Goddamn I can't even imagine trying to close after a morning coffee...
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:39 PM
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my method of playing it to the best of y ability is looksmaxing, then focusing on my wealth/status, and then, lastly, working on my game ....my method of playing it to the best of y ability is looksmaxing, then focusing on my wealth/status, and then, lastly, working on my game This is pretty much mine also except for me looksmaxing and wealth/status are roughly equal with game a fairly long 3rd. The reason I'm doing this is because the first two have benefits in all aspects of life whereas game …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 10:21 PM
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I tend to strongly agree but I also have a sneaking suspicion that I'm wrong about it. It's a strange place to be
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 10:18 PM
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More to the point who would hire that ?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 10:07 PM
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HUGE trick i've found for the number close that I've been running since is to just open my phone to the contact sheet while talking and hand it to them This is fuckin' fantastic ! One of my weakest points was getting the number. I started discussing meeting up before getting the number then it was natural when I asked for it. But it's great to have another tool in the box.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:23 AM
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Were any of them "singles" cruises though?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:00 PM
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In my experience, anything geared towards putting single people together is usually swamped by beta men, and very few, option-limited women In mine too. I went to a "traffic light" party recently it was exactly as you describe. I talked to the 5 cute girls there within the first 25 minutes then paid my bill and got the fuck out of there
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:00 PM
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"Writer" is usually a profession women do while they're hunting for a husband Haha Gavin McInnes teases one or both of these women for exactly that in the podcast I just linked in the parent comment: https://soundcloud.com/crass-to-mouth/everybody-loves-black-jizz-w-gavin-mcinnes
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:53 PM
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Case in point. Gavin McInnes is a mental Judo master
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:51 PM
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every girl puts down Netflix as an interest. What does that even mean? I'm going to have a go at translating from hamster to English. It's my first attempt wish me luck: "I don't have any specific hobbies, interests or passions thus I'm not able to seek out media I want to watch. Instead I need an unlimited variety of vacuous bullshit to browse through until something gives me feelz then I start watching it"
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:47 PM
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I've been making a point of approaching or at least initiating conversation at every opportunity and it's been great. But what's been even better than approaching and initiating is just trying to make very brief contact with women and some men in my daily life. It's doing one or more of the following: eye contact, a smile, a throwaway phrase or laugh. I'm now able to make a woman I've never met before smile within an instant of meeting me even if that meeting is only 2 seconds and I never see he…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:33 PM
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Then after a couple glasses of red she starts telling jokes about those same kids, it's quite horrible actually Sometimes humour is a coping mechanism. "If you don't laugh you'll cry"
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:02 AM
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Thanks for the stats. I went on Tinder briefly. My profile pics were reasonable but no shirt off I'm not jacked yet and didn't have any pics with women that I felt OK about posting (only ex gf etc). Still I got a fair amount of matches and replies to my messages (maybe 50%). After this it went downhill got almost no meets and no lays. From OP: Don't start until you're ready. A strong frame, attractive figure and abundance mentality are REQUIRED prior to attempting this guide I wasn't ready and w…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:09 PM
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Thanks for another great guide/FR /u/OmLaLa. RE: I've dropped the ball countless times and so will you If you were to go out and start matching/responding on dating sites with your current level of experience and knowledge what would be your hit rate roughly? So if we count from when you send the first message what % would you end up meeting in person ? Of these what % would you end up bedding? EDIT: "start" not "starting"
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 11:18 PM
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I'm just interested in a discussion of how and why this has been successful for you since it does not seem to be the norm Me also... I read the original LSSW series that OP wrote and I was struck by how much of the details (but not the big picture) seemed to contradict things I understand about TRP. For example sometimes he seemed to put himself in the friendzone at the earliest opportunity when first chatting to girls on dating sites/apps. Some of his convos went something like: him: "what are …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 11:11 PM
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Very interesting. RE the keto and leangains I've messed around with IF for weight training but I find it too debilitating when I want to excel e.g. surf big waves for hours or play a team sport to the highest of my ability What has been your experience?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:17 AM
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None of my water sports pals socially drink or party Not even a beer and a burger after training?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:06 AM
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In all matters spacial in public I find there are hierarchies of awareness: male > female middle aged > young > old white & black > brown > asian So old asian ladies are the worst. Young asian dudes are fairly inconsiderate. Middle aged black and white men are very aware & considerate etc. Doesn't matter if it's holding doors, driving, walking down the pavement this hierarchy of awareness holds true
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:40 PM
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Looking at her stats you are/were roughly 2 inches taller and ~35 pounds heavier. I wonder how she would have gone against a D2 guy of the same height and weight....
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:08 AM
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I include her decades of Judo when I say "....she started doing an activity intensely and with good coaching decades before it became popular". By "activity" I meant martial arts in general. As I understand it: She was coached by her mum (a US Judo champion back in the day) from a young age. Random fights in the house it was just part of their family life. Rhonda became a judo champ herself culminating in getting bronze for the womens division in the 2010 Olympics. Then she switched to MMA. So ~…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:39 PM
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why are you getting downvoted ? And with no comments ? It makes no sense...
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:31 PM
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I'm a big Rhonda Rousey fan and she has a lot of physical and mental characteristics that make her able to succeed. But I don't think she is a total freak. Her main advantage is that she started doing an activity intensely and with good coaching decades before it became popular. Thus she is now a large fish in a little pond. EDIT: Serena on the other hand is a total freak
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:12 PM
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One of my uncles has a hilarious theory about how you should send your wife out to work not least because of the reasons you mentioned but also because she uses her boss's resources rather than yours e.g. power for climate control, lighting and hot water, snacks
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:35 AM
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Almost entirely agree. The only thing I'd add is that some housewives end up doing more stuff for the kids with their freed up time and extra resources e.g. get them involved in more sports and drive them around, cook them fancier food
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:47 PM
2

Respond with "what do you weigh?"
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:59 PM
17

A few years ago I was having some relationship problems and was venting to a wise friend about it. His only response "Your gut is a finely tuned instrument". EDIT: "ago"
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:53 PM
9

I'll never understand how desperate a man can be that he would be willing to fully commit to someone that lived in a different city Because romance blue pill disney movie conditioning
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 08:03 PM
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.....she seemed like a sweet, kind girl with some issues. And she is, 90% of the time. The other 10% of the time is bitch-mode That's actually a pretty good ratio. As close to a unicorn as you're going to get. You just need to find a younger one and learn to handle her better
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:08 AM
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I'm sure there are guides out there. I payed them to teach me. There are TM centres all over the world. The people who teach are volunteers the money goes to run centers in poorer areas and such. The price varies from country to country and it's not cheap (~$900 bucks in a western city) but you get lifetime support. You can call them anytime and get a refresher session at no charge. For me it was worth every dollar.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:10 AM
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The fact you repeatedly used the term "steps" is encouraging. Doing it in small steps everyday or every week is definitely the way to go. Learn, make incremental changes, evaluate then repeat. Also be careful of the terms beta and alpha. They are great for giving simplified explanations of reality but can become invisible mental prisons if you're not careful.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:09 PM
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In addition to all the great advice already here: don't try to change too much at once it will be too incongruous with how you are and the skills you already have. Believe it or not you very likely have some skills that will help you a lot with women. Possibly charm, charisma, listening skills and wit. What's required is a change in priorities, attitude and to gain some new skills. Don't "switch off" your existing skills by overdoing the new ones. You seem to be in the anger phase and girls will…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:03 PM
5

I believe the military is being used as a leftwing lab experiment. I wouldn't be surprised. Governments use the military for all sorts of testing whether it's the effects of radiation or even that of LSD
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:22 AM
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Great post thanks /u/Metalaggeddon. 1: don't ever discuss money around women..... not what you do...... I have a "good" white collar job which I like. I'm struggling with the "what do you do?" question. I think girls ask it partly to make chit chat and partly to assess provider value and social status. Initially I can play it off with some dumb funny answer. But they seem to get suspicious of why I won't answer and end up not trusting me or thinking I'm hiding something. Which I am I guess. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:31 PM
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Most people don't go on dates now, but let's throw that point away Please elaborate You went on a lunch date. If you're going to do something during the day you text hey let's get drunk and go to the zoo. You should prefer if not demand seeing girls at night It's not possible to get laid on a lunch date ? I read FRs where dudes claim to do it on the regular It is a common thing girls do if they pay the bill or half the bill there is a chance she is saying I will never fuck you Interesting I hadn…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:52 PM
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You are heavily overthinking things. I tend to do this in life so you're almost certainly correct Escalating does not mean coming off as needy. Alyways take the lead. This is my natural impulse. So something else was going wrong on the previous dates when I used lots of kino and escalation How long has it been since you sent that text? 3 days
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:47 PM
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Why did you stop escalating in both cases? Because I feel like it conveys being desperate and needy and a lack of abundance. I concluded (maybe incorrectly) that too much kino on past dates has given the girl the impression that I'm super thirsty. Also that it creates no tension. And doesn't adhere to the golden rule. At what point does she start chasing me? EDIT: Also for the 2nd girl we were in public I'd escalated as far as I could. I think I may have tried to get her back to my place but I d…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:03 PM
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RE rejections I don't know if truly cold approaching is the right way to go. One big success I've had recently is only approaching women who give Indications Of Interest (IOI) which for me is basically if she makes eye contact. How high are your looks and SMV? If you are average or better looking and you dress well and have good posture and confident body language you should be able to get IOI from at least two women in a packed a bar. If you want more details let me know
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:43 PM
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I'm new here but as best I understand it (in as much as a hivemind can be understood) game follows naturally from having/doing most or all of the following: self respect abundance mentality high SMV strong masculine dominant frame (usually some combination of leader, father figure, bad boy etc) not having pussy on a pedestal taking the initiative and leading valuing your own time and priorities and putting yourself first being in a position to have fun and "play" with the woman being fit and men…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:31 PM
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Accept rejection. Look forward to rejection. Rejection helps you grow because you realize that the worst thing that can happen during an approach is a rejection, and after it happens you realize it wasn’t even that bad I've only been approaching women who give Indications Of Interest (IOI) so I'm not getting rejected much. At least not on first approach I have basically a 100% success rate in getting a number and roughly a 50% success rate in getting a follow up date. This follow up number would…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:19 PM
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I kinda feel like he wants grandchildren outta the deal, but he would never see them if I ended up divorced anyway You're a smart kid. I wish I'd swallowed the pill at 18
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 05:35 AM
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It's a great point I think there could well be a connection. But as people keep telling each other on this sub it seems like feminism and other factors are causing a collapse of western culture by giving us all of the downsides of Mosuo type culture without any of the benefits EDIT: If I had to bet I'd say there is a connection. But it may just be correlation it is a very small sample space. Maybe living like that in the modern world would create the greatest civilization ever. Who knows....
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:44 PM
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I do what works, and your proposal in my experience is the quickest way to burn through plates. I haven't found the suggestion of "text for logistics only" to be effective in practice. In my limited experience I've found the same
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:09 PM
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I don't really know but I noticed it especially with girls I already knew (i.e. the incongruence with previous texts was obvious). Out of the girls I've done logistics only with from the start they would flake really often. As I understand it that's part of the point of logistics only texts - weed out ones who aren't keen. I felt like the ones who didn't flake were kind of guarded and cold. As opposed to ones who I used text game on would arrive at a date warmed up. I think the main incongruity …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:28 PM
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One of the problems with tinder for guys is that there is no social preselection. The girl sees a jacked guy of her type and but might wonder if he's a weirdo. If she sees the same guy in a bar one night and he's with friends having fun whether or not he's a weirdo never crosses her mind. He looks good he has social proof so she gives him the eye then it's up to him.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:48 AM
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This is hilarious, sad and inspiring all at the same time
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:55 PM
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Two generations and counting
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:40 PM
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No martial arts training. Honestly, if you do things right, you never need to fight at all. I agree however it seems like the size and skills are required by the employer as a backup
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:14 AM
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RE the security jobs - are you big? Do you have martial arts training?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:45 PM
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Not nearly as much as she did. Search this sub for "open relationship" there was a great post recently about how an open relationship benefits the woman way more than the man
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:26 PM
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Especially women. I suspect a lot of the changes I've tried (e.g. logistics only text messaging) have failed due to incongruence
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:18 PM
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Reading the OP and your reply reminded me of the Musuo people: "Women have the choice to invite men of interest to their private sleeping room. If the man does not reciprocate this desire, he may simply never visit the woman's household. Men perform tisese in the true sense of the word. They can seek entry into the sleeping chambers of any woman they desire who also desires them. When feelings are reciprocal, a man will be allowed into a woman's private sleeping area (Hua, C.) There he will spen…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:44 PM
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You're either a troll or someone who wants to look good to others in this thread you're not being real. Real bro took a bullet for me last weekend. A fkn .50 cal round to the chest. I did my one trick and managed to attract a hot girl who is way too young for me. She had a fat friend and real bro latch onto her like a limpit. Not all for me he's pretty thirsty but I was thankful all the same. So I owed him. I still owe him. He can take the fkn 9 I'll take the six
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:55 AM
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OK but why were you cringing ? That singlet tanned fuckwit is probably just bigger and doing better than you with women No he's not read my responses to other comments. If he was I'd be happy for him. Also he would have actually got the 6 and thus helpled out real bro by succeeding where I failed there's no takeaway lesson here besides you need more time in the fucking iron temple Agreed I need more time at the temple. But there are other takeaways namely that I need to work on my inner attitude…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:47 AM
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We have hung out in the past I've wingmanned for him but he gets distracted has abundance... He doesn't have abundance. He attracts a fair amount of girls then fucks it up and throws his bros under the bus while he does it. He dated an annoying 5 for a few months 2 years ago he was the epitome of beta bucks ...and comes and goes as he pleases and I'm left entertaining chix I have no interest in falling victim to my own We have hung out in the past I've wingmanned for him but he gets distracted h…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:36 PM
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As best I can tell she lost interest when I went full beta. Then she looked around for other options and saw my (non)friend. RE-reading my story and going over it in my mind the shit about orbiting bro is kind of irrelevent. I fucked up she started looking around. The fact that it was orbiting bro she tried to latch on to is neither here nor there. I'm just sick of orbiting bro in general and when I was drunk and angry last night it just came out in my post
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:19 PM
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Interesting take. I'm doing fairly well on face, height and body fat. Could be taller and better looking but can't do anything about those. Around 14% body fat I'm cutting it to around 10%
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:08 PM
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I take it you mean the muscles aren't as useful as I'd think? Yeah game and frame are definitely crucial. But it seems like the muscles help too
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:48 PM
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If you want to get better at closing, don't say that you will respect her more if she sleeps with you. That shit is needy as fuck. I believe you and I know it's a bad move based on other comments in this thread. I'm going to do better. But why is it "needy"? So confusing Instead after all the grinding and dancing, suggest she come with you to a different part of the club/bar. It's unanimous that this is what I should have done. Once there, look at her eyes, if their dilated, then let her say som…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:38 PM
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Honestly man you just have to realize one thing: about 97% of everything, literally EVERYTHING, that comes out of a girls mouth is utter bullshit. Don't take them so seriously. I know this in my head but haven't internalized it and thus am not doing it. I'll work on it Play dumbass games with them. I'm working on this too. I get stuck though...this one girl asked what I do for work and I gave her some funny bullshit answer she loved it. A few days later she asked me again and wouldn't let up abo…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:31 PM
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Confident and charismatic but a bit beta and really really bad at closing. I'm well dressed which I think in general helps me but I'm starting to believe that jacked + singlet > athletic + well dressed. Sure, for initial attraction. It's the betaness that's doing you in though. As another poster says, you're rationalizing now. You're saying I'm rationalizing by saying it's the jackedness rather than the betaness ? FYI I think it's all of them.... You do seem 90% of the way there. Maybe your bros…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:12 PM
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Great advice thanks. I've read about this but it helps to have it reinforced when I've actually experienced something.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:02 PM
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One of my orbiting bros is tall, tanned, handsome and jacked but he's a fkn idiot. He's come straight from the beach and is wearing a singlet which shows off his tanned jackedness. Natural Alpha. No he's not he just seems like it at first. As per my post the girls figure it out also. I know many natural Alphas I know one when I see one I'm starting to believe that jacked + singlet > athletic + well dressed. Jacked + not giving a fuck if you look like a retard because you're confident is ALWAYS >…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:59 PM
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The reality is that good game will actually outdo a guy with a higher base SMV. (Game artificially inflates your SMV... or really inflates it... that's a debate for another day.) I'm already experiencing this to a degree. My game is way better than your average frustrated chump. But still a lot of work to do and some big gaps This shows precisely where you need to work. You may think you don't give a toss... but you still do. Truth The IDGAF attitude can be sensed... I sense it in your jacked no…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:32 PM
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You disappeared, left your wingman and now you wrote a 900 word essay rationalizing your decision. And for what, looking for sympathy? Yeah a little bit. I got him the introduction and did a lot of work. There were lots of bros there that could have taken over. You saw the "fuckwit" getting more attention from a girl and you got envious No not really I wasn't all that into the 6 and I reckon I'd already failed so whatever. I'd rather be me than him any day of the week. And then instead of shrugg…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:25 PM
0

Yeah dress code is very lax where I am. I find it weird too I'm used to "nah mate your shoes aren't shiny enough GTFO"
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:16 PM
1

Can you give me an example ? I'm really really struggling with this aspect. And yes I have read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:14 AM
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haha you sly dog ! What type of things might you do to "minimize the threat" ?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:32 AM
1

For many reasons don't try to meet up with people in this sub IRL. My 2c worth: For day gaming do it alone as part of your regular activities. Chat to the cute girl at the food truck about what she ordered, talk to girls in the line up at the checkout etc. Talk to dudes too For night gaming you want a wingman. You don't have any buddies you can go out with ? Do something to meet more dudes like have a regular bar and befriend the bar tenders or go play a sport. Sports are a great way to meet bro…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:52 PM
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Whether there is true Altruism or not is a philosophical point. But in general I'm calling bullshit on your statement. If you were on a football team and one of your team mates needed help with their kick I bet money you would help them.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:06 PM
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"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:43 AM
1

What is your idea of good text game? What do you think of this for example: http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl My text game has always been good but not great. Witty and they engage but I can't close. I tried logistics only but they seem to go cold; possibly my SMV isn't high enough compared to theirs and/or my preselection sux and/or I'm doing something else wrong
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:41 PM
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95% of guys on Tinder have no game Were they sending banal stuff like "Hey how's it going?" or more brazen like "DTF?"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 09:59 PM
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Sounds like you are on the right track with getting good grades and lifting but they aren't everything and will take time to work. Try going out to bars where there are pool tables and playing pool. Activity + booze is good medicine for your social anxiety (don't over do it on the booze though). If you aren't that good at pool do some reading about spin, banked shots etc if you're going to go play you may as well get good at it. Being good at pool is somewhat attractive to girls
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:00 AM
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I dunno man I reckon she did you a huge favour against her own interests. Send her a thankyou card
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:54 PM
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Nice FR OP. Can you tell us about you and your Tinder profile ? e.g. Are you jacked, what is your first picture, do you have anything in the "about" ?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:06 PM
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God I hate downvotes without comments
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:28 PM
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"Can you help me sell some plumbing work proROKexpat ?" "Yah sure it's the least I can do after you fixed my toilet last week"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:27 PM
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So what happens if he refuses some/all of those requests ? "I'm your friend not your handyman." I've got a hunch doing that would get her hamster running. I'm developing a theory that the friendzone isn't always a bad place to attack from. Hell /u/OmLaLa wrote a series on getting laid through dating apps where his strategy was to put himself in the friend zone as soon as he messaged them
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:57 AM
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mmm I was tooling around with a similar strategy on Tinder. Now I'm trying out more of "logistics only" style I'll report back on how it goes
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:45 PM
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I take it you don't subscribe to the "text is only for logistics" school of thought?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 10:53 PM
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There's a hashtag in this somewhere I know it..... #FingerButtInsurance perhaps ?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 06:32 AM
2

World class white sandy beaches, fishing and surfing. World class wine region 2 hour south. I've been to many cities on earth and it's equal first place for concentration of hot women. Though the ratios aren't as good as say Sydney or Vancouver. Not for everyone but it is ridiculous to say there is "nothing special about it" EDIT: also a great place to get rich if you want to work in the mining industry. Lots of opportunities for investment and exploration, engineering and hands on jobs like wel…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 01:35 AM
1

Charm by males is a textbook Beta mistake. (even if you get some success with it) My "guess" is you are pretty good looking, so they give you a pass on those Beta moves." Goddammit you just described me. I can only think if I was less charming and or less good looking I wouldn't have gotten away with it for so long and hence would have had an impetus to change EDIT: by "gotten away with it" I mean that I've had some success but have also wasted a lot of time and energy
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 12:11 AM
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Possibly "happier" but they are getting fucked by us through habitat destruction etc. Bonobos have a matriarchal society it's going to work out as well for them as it has for human matriarchal societies
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:11 PM
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and look where it's getting them
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:37 AM
1

I still have a lot to internalize...
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:38 AM
1

So they are commenting on it negatively ? Something like "I hate it how you never respond to my texts !"
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:09 AM
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Be careful you don't kill him. You many not know your own strength or the depth of your anger
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:02 AM
2

Being a clown turns women off. I have an aspect of me which is to be a clown and make people laugh. And not just slapstick I'm witty and somewhat good looking. I've had experiences recently where women have been otherwise attracted to me but will literally not talk to me until I take my costume off: "I can't take you seriously when you are wearing that" or "I wish you hadn't worn that". Dry vaginas all round. As a wise redpiller told me recently "attention does not equal attraction". Being a clo…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:52 PM
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No better or worse than other. Just much more successful for the time being
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:54 PM
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You have had this happen ? I just assumed it works on them subconsciously
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:21 PM
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Obviously you don't know a go getter when you see one. I decided to get this thread squared away Sunday night so it's ready for all the work slackers to chip in while pretending to work tomorrow
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:52 AM
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haha you got me good ! In case you can't tell I've been stewing on this one for a few days and trying to figure out what I should have said. Then I had the brilliant idea of posting it to askTRP. I like your response. In general I don't suffer fools lightly I think if I can just get the chicks off the fkn pedestals I'll naturally start laughing at them a la amused mastery
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:33 AM
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Would I have been better off just saying "OK, bye" and walking away rather than kissing her as well? Or would that just be aspergers as fuck?
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:54 AM
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"giving me the right impression is way more important"
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:53 AM
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"what about giving me the right impression?"
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:52 AM
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"You're giving me the wrong impression by not coming back to my place"
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:52 AM
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I'm new and I've been making this mistake too EDIT: I like to think I have good text game except it's never reliably gotten me laid. So therefor it's not good game at all. I've had some coaching "save all the game for face to face. Text messages are for logistics only"
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 02:51 AM
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