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Repeat the following: Nobody owes anyone anything. Nobody owes anyone anything. Nobody owes anyone anything. Provide value or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:28 PM
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ironically a beta thing to do—changing your entire life just for the possibility of female interest. I completely agree with this btw, and I consider it to be the ultimate 'alpha' stage. It's what "just be yourself" really means. It's beta as fuck to constantly second guess yourself and wonder if you are living up to a standard that will satisfy her or appeal to her. Instead, if you actually want to live as IDGAF, if you actually want her to qualify to you, you need to take strides to be the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 03:58 PM
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I don't think there's hatred (I don't hate them). I just don't want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:52 PM
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I mean, I agree. I love tying up third wavers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:40 AM
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My question is if I am looking for sex or a relationship, Which one do you want? should I be myself or should I "become" something? You should be yourself and yourself should become awesome. If I don't lose my virginity by the time i'm 20 i'm at least going to harm myself, and I figured this is the best place to post about this for feedback *Okay. Full stop. THIS is what you need to address. *NOW ** This is what is stopping you. You're desperate, needy, you rely on others to inform your self wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:37 AM
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It's super common. Doesn't mean that anyone has to do anything. I'm asking what guys do when they encounter that resistence. What they should do is next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:47 PM
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Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with waiting until she really wants to have sex with you? The waiting part. It's better to just immediately next her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:44 PM
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The real problem is that any approach to dealing with LMR other than going cold shatters your value and lacks abundance mentality. All of these strategies are shit. If after 2 dates a girl shows any level of enthusiasm less than "Please please put your cock in my mouth" then I show her a fun time for the rest of the evening, smile a lot, then delete her number from my phone and never call her again. I have tons more in my phone and tons more in the universe at large, and my time is the most valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:42 PM
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Is your position that it's justified to be a douche because of what happens to non-douches? What if I crossed the street to avoid black people on a regular basis. Would you call me on it if you were walking with me? What if I provided statistical evidence supporting the idea that most muggers are black...would that justify my racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:43 PM
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It's been fun, but I've gotten bored. Thanks for the cool questions though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 09:42 AM
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Well, the main reason why redpillers think of cuckold fetishes as being weird is the part about being okay with your wife fucking other men, which you're okay with. Keep in mind, a cuckold fetish is actually getting off on the humilation and the cuckold isn't allowed to or doesn't want to have sex with other women. An open/poly relationship isn't the same as cuckolding because there's no fetishizing it, a) IDGAF is not the same as getting off on something, b) there's no humilation or submission,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 10:36 PM
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Do you think there's a correlation between a woman being fat and being a feminist No I'll admit that there's probably a correlation between a man being an anti-feminist and being a wife beater. I don't think there's much of a correlation here either. Helpful tip: provide data for supposed correlations or stfu. Due to you implying that it's completely unreasonable for me to assume that your wife might be slutty enough to post in /r/gonewild It's exactly as reasonable of an assumption as assuming …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 10:21 PM
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BTW, you never answered my question about if there's a correlation between being obese Yes, I did. Read between the lines. Lol I wasn't offended, I just think you're being obtuse. When I think about a husband who's okay with watching his wife fuck another man, I have a harder time picturing the husband as being muscular than being obese. When I think about a husband whose wife lets him fuck whoever he wants and also begs to fuck him every day, including days he hasn't even cleaned his girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 08:49 PM
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I think she's unattractive, her shape is...odd. Or at least her pose is. Not fat tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 08:53 AM
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Anyways, do you think obese men are more likely to be okay with watching their wife fuck another man? As trollish as that sounds, I think there's probably a correlation there. Do you think there's a correlation between being obese and being in a relationship where your wife and girlfriend are okay with each other and also encourage you to take mistresses? I think so too. Makes a lot of sense, despite how trollish that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 08:52 AM
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Lol analogies! Work on those SAT skills you'll need it for your entrance exams. My point was that there's no reason to believe that if anyone engages in a particular behavior that they engage in any other particular behavior, even if they are classified similarly. Even if we let the assertion stand that "Mfm=slut" (which is simply an assertion btw), then it's still silly to say "If someone does X slutty thing then clearly they also do Y slutty thing". It's hilariously idiotic and illogical, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:26 PM
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Why do you think that cigarettes are so much worse for you than mcdonalds? Are you sure they are? Are you sure that's what I meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 08:25 AM
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Women don't use men for attention or favors. Maybe not consciously, maybe not you, but absolutely some do. This would be like if I said "Men never use women for sex". You'd laugh in my face. Women EXPECT a deep emotional connection in a relationship. Not all women, honestly. And most of us are willing to do the same thing to the guy, in case he needs help and emotional support. I mean, women drastically overestimate their willingness to do this, on average. Women want an all-in-one partner. We d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:06 AM
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But I'm sick of reading about "Nice Guys TM" and male entitlement when 7/10 women feel entitled to receiving girlfriend privileges without having be an actual girlfriend. To be fair, you assume that you have a right to something because you gave her something that you hold valuable as a gift. If you asked me for a donation to help the needy, then I gave you $100, you'd be grateful. If I then said "Okay, I gave you $100, give me a blowjob" you'd be like "what the fuck? No?" I'm being an entitled …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 11:58 PM
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Using guys for emotional intimacy is just as shitty as using girls for physical intimacy. Women criticize these nice guys for feeling entitled to sex/a relationship while at the same time thinking they are entitled to a man's time, attention, money, gifts and emotional support. You're right, except it's not shitty. Nobody is entitled to anything, and anything you gave to her you gave because you expected something in return, and now you're mad because she didn't 'uphold her end of the bargain' W…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 11:42 PM
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Do you really think it's unreasonable to assume that someone who's unhealthy enough to eat french fries also is unhealthy enough to be a chain smoker?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:51 PM
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Why is it their business? Why do they care? It's not their life. It is if she gets involved with them romantically, and it's a dealbreaker for them, and she knows it, so she lies about it. Otherwise, not a big deal. If sleeping around ruins the woman's life...oh well. It's her life to ruin. True. Take responsibility for it though. Don't lie about it, don't make someone else raise your kids, don't make taxpayers pay, don't hide STIs, etc. Same would go for slutty men. You don't have to associate …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:27 PM
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Since I was right in my assumption that your wife's a slut (at least slutty enough to be double-teamed), would posting a nude pic of her really be a big deal? I'm wondering why she isn't already a /r/gonewild girl. Sure, here you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:21 PM
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Yeah it would absolutely suck for the clone. But there are probably other chads out there. Which is why I don't understand why people say they'd be jealous or whatever. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 09:16 PM
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Why would it matter? Even if I was mono it's not the same person. The moment they stepped out of the cloning machine their brain and cortisol levels and choices started fundamentally diverging. Especially in a mono context, I would feel bad for the clone because she wouldn't be able to have me because the 'real' her would already be dating me, which would suck a butt for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:46 PM
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I consider an N count of 10 to be an N count of 10 regardless of gender. My wife is bisexual, my girlfriend is bisexual, about half of my plates are bisexual. I don't have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:43 PM
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Has your wife ever been double-teamed? Yep, it was fun, but I think I've been double-teamed (FMF) more than her at this point and I think it's more fun to be the corner of the V. Gangbanged? Nope. Or were the MFM threesomes you've been in with other women? Not yet. I'm not against doing MFM or FMF with my girlfriend or with plates but I haven't pushed for that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:40 PM
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Nope. good luck though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:57 PM
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Since your wife has fucked other men in front of you, you're basically a cuckold to me (although not technically one since you also fuck other women). Lol label me how you like. I don't personally hold it because most cuckolds aren't bdsm tops or sleeping with 3+ women or spinning plates, but I'm not going to protest your opinion. How many men has your wife fucked in front of you? I haven't kept track on a notecard or anything, but two or three I think. I think she's watched me with 4 other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:17 PM
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I am a girl and I could be hanging out with my girl friends, if I decided to pay for one the girl's check, I'd pay for everybody's check. How often has this actually happened? Have you actually ever done this or are you simply hypothesizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:16 PM
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because he told EVERYBODY at work he wants her to date him, but he is still in the courtship phase. cringe cringe cringe He proceeded to pay for the girl's check and the girl's friend's check cringe cringe cringe cringe he looked at me and said "Oh, sorry, I should have paid yours too". cringe6. Megacringe What do you think of his attitude (paying for those two chicks' checks and not paying mine)? Sexist? Rude? Understandable? Weird? Normal? I think that he should not have paid for anyone's chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:14 PM
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Yep. She's watched me fuck many women too. We've done various configurations of group stuff although that's not really the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 06:35 PM
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Why is it not? I live in a local bubble of free sexual market, and I tell you, it's pretty fucking great. The sexual revolution brought the price of sex for ALL men down from a wedding ring and a lifetime of support down to at most three lackluster dates and a tinder profile. If sex was another good like oil, and I was the head of an oil cartel, the price would have fallen so goddamned much it would be "jump off a building" time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:31 PM
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the market for committed stable relationships is also skewed in the opposite direction. If shit was so easy for women why would women's magazines be nothing but "how to lose weight! How to do your makeup well. How to catch his attention without looking like a slut!" Women are all too aware all the time that they are playing lemonade stand too and have to fight tooth and nail
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:26 PM
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Please stop using that pill example. It's patently stupid and says the exact opposite of what you think it does. Pill asshole was able to do what he did because of fda regulations restricting free trade and other fda regulations giving him a relative monopoly on production. Yes, the drug wasn't patented but only he had paid the government for the licensing of the processes and safety checks requred to produce it. If the fda did not restrict the market from above to have no competiton then consum…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:21 PM
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who raised the price of a drug from $13 to $750 did so because the demand from consumers is incredibly high, and the supply only comes from a single company producing it. So....not a free market then huh. Seriously this is the result of regulatory capture, I don't know how you can describe this as a free market with a straight face In a sexual context, this also occurs because the demand for casual sex is much higher in men that it is for women. Because women have more demand on them, they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:11 PM
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Or they reject the guy because he has a bad attitude despite being attractive. Its not all about smv. Smv is not synonymous with looks. A gas guzzling SUV is not high value to an eco-warrior. A gorgeous vanilla milkshake is not high value to someone who doesn't like sweets. A brand-new high-end laptop with a known virus on it or hardware flaw might look good and fast but is not high value, and might easily sell for less than a less pretty model. Similarly, if a person looks very attractive but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:40 PM
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Everyone involved can do anything they want provided 1) no lying 2) condoms My wife has had girlfriends and boyfriends and hookups of either gender. She currently has only a boyfriend who isn't seeing anyone else but tries to. My girlfriend isn't seeing anyone else but she doesn't really want to. I have a few plates for when I want a bdsm sub and/or some variety, but they're pretty low-effort and fade in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:33 PM
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I mean, how is your wife more special to you than your gf? This is a really complex and personal question. A summary would be that we've been together for years and I love her. Although most poly people don't really tend to focus on who is more special to whom and rankings...that's not really the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 05:50 AM
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How do you define sex-positive? I think sex between consenting adults is awesome, and all actions/fetishes/practices between consenting adults are morally acceptable/awesome, that people should do what makes them happy, and that sluts are fun, and that being a slut is fine. (not that you should care what I think) Lol, I don't, but thanks for acknowledging that. Do you regret marrying your wife? No, but I think that most people should not get married and that marriage as an institution is a bad i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 12:46 AM
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either in relationships, healing from a broken relationship, So, they reject them because they aren't on the market or they don't like the guy's attitude. Or because he has low SMV. How does this contradict anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 12:40 AM
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So just because a woman is hot and is interested in a guy he has to say yes? Oh, yeah, guys would never pass by a chance to get laid, let alone with a hot woman. Give me a break. I see women attracted to hot guys rejecting these guys. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:36 AM
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I mean, I agree with you on all points here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:00 PM
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If the market was tilted so strongly towards women, there'd be way more men taking the time to get to know their customers instead of advertising their business through spam and pop-up ads. Spam and pop up ads are terrible marketing but by and large men know that. Catcallers are dumb and desperate. However, polling your customer base directly is also terrible marketing, as customers almost never have the ability to accurately describe what they really want. The best thing to do is to try differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:11 PM
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The greater point was, even with that, it still doesn't mean a woman of x SMV is going to find every guy of x SMV datable or attractive. Well, it does, because you just said it's universal. my SMV to another person is the set of traits that a person finds to be attractive about me and the relative percieved benefit to that person of those traits...like, my SMV to you is exactly how attractive I am to you. If we were in a world with, as you say, zero nuance, where the things that people find attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:12 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it per se morally, but I don't think it's great for you long term. Kinda like eating TV dinners all the time keeps you from being in the habit of cooking and eating good food, or reading nothing but comic books and magazines can help you get out of the habit of reading literature. Plus the thrill of dating and fucking real people who actually want you is a lot more fun for me even though it's a little bit harder...but it's not even THAT much harder.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:06 PM
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Second, no. Some will say it's more than looks while others will frequently I mean, you're going to be hard pressed to convince me that models don't get laid...but okay. Either way, the RP sidebar says a LOT about how male attraction is somewhat physical but mostly psychological. Why do you think there's so much emphasis on 'social status'? on 'frame'? on 'dominance'? It doesn't say so much on beauty or fashion tips or how to broaden your jawline with foundation. women are routinely holding out …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:56 AM
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My point is that if a girl existed who provably had all of the qualities in a partner you looked for and provably had none of the dealbreakers you associate with sluttiness (e.g. "self-entitled and unhappy post-wall hag with saggy tits and a fat ass, who will try to manipulate you into paying even more by withholding certain practices or even sex as a whole?"). IF this girl existed, then according to your arguments you wouldn't have any actual problem with her even if she had a high-n count. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:52 AM
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so you think just because they are looking for something and someone offers, they should accept? why? what if they have nothing in common? I didn't say anyone is obliged or it's in their best interests to accept all offers. That's silly. She should reject people who she isn't interested in or aren't up to her standards. I'm saying that the statement "If a person who is interested in a relationship turns you down, then they are holding out for someone better" is basically a tautology, because if …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:42 AM
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sometimes even based on the fact that - she perceives - his SMV is "too high". If she rejects him for this reason, then she's basically saying that he's actually low SMV for her because his attractiveness implies that he's going to be more trouble than he's worth or there must be hidden costs. If I offered you 5,000 cash and a free toyota corrolla online, you'd (rightly) be skeptical because you know that nobody gets those things for free and you might reject me without even bothering to find ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:37 AM
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Sure they're holding out for a "better offer", but that doesn't necessarily mean they're holding out for someone who LOOKS better. Where does TRP say that *MV is looks and only looks? Don't they say the opposite all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 11:30 AM
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It's even possible for women to be attracted to a man of an overall lower SMV if he has one particular quality that she finds incredibly attractive. This is nonsense. If she finds a particular quality of him to be incredibly attractive so much so that she holds the idea of being with him to be the most desirable option over other options, then by definition he has a high SMV (to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 09:27 AM
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And if she isn't she's holding out for someone higher status. To be fair, if a person is interested in a relationship, and they reject someone who offers them a relationship, they are by definition holding out for a better offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 09:25 AM
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The fact that a low SMV female could reject a high SMV man does not compute in their tidy little model, yet it happens all the time IRL. This, and many other social phenomena cannot be explained by TRP so they are ignored and denied. That's not true, it's just misunderstanding what SMV is. If a low SMV woman rejects a high SMV man, then clearly he's not a high SMV man (to her) or she's not a low SMV woman (to her). Just like any other market, SMV "prices" are totally subjective. Of course it hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 09:24 AM
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Young women are enjoying a skewed dating market and men who witness that are frustrated. Women and female presenting numales are unsympathetic. What's skewed about it? Whining that your cafe went out of business because subway and starbucks ate your lunch doesn't mean the market is wrong, it means your products and/or services weren't competitive. The market can't be wrong by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 09:12 AM
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As SMV is not a rigid, standard unit measurement, meaning an “objective 5” can be a “5” for a number of reasons, it seems silly to assume a 5 “should” find ALL OTHER 5’s attractive across the board. I don't think anyone says that. It's a unit of relative economic value on a market, just like every other unit of economic value is. My $5 is worth less to me than your $5, because I'm a rich asshole and $5 doesn't mean anything to me. Thus, I'm willing to spend $5 on designer chocolates, when the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 09:10 AM
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Because nobody in america has political power. Nobody. Unless you have over 108 dollars, you don't have any voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:48 AM
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Neither one of these things causes tingles. Cooking can occasionally cause tingles if he's doing it to make something manly for himself and for his tribe because he wants to, it's nega-tingles if he's doing it because he's trying to buy her affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:46 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:43 AM
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Go with 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:42 AM
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is otherwise identical to her more modest twin sister doesn't exist. In my experience, sluttiness comes with a host of other issues that are valid dealbreakers in themselves. Maybe, but saying that n-count is correlated to dealbreakers or that women who have the qualities you want and also a high-n are rare NOT the same thing as saying that n-count is intrinsically a feature that is attractive or unattractive. Suppose I hypothesize that being black intrinsically means that you're too dumb to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:38 AM
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Here's a copy-paste from a pm asking me about "red pill feminism" I'm something like a 2.5-wave sex-positive feminist with a gender-egalitarian application of the theory, and also a total rejection of marxism in favor of relationship anarcho-capitalism. I have gender-critical tendencies. I'm RP and believe that the SMP exists and that it's not a bad thing and that it should be deregulated. Consent is the highest virtue. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3m06eh/q4_everyone_why_wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:34 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:32 AM
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Read my profile history to find when I've been asked that question, I don't feel like copying and pasting. Short version: no, it's not sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 07:35 PM
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I don't care, humans can consent to whatever relationships they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 04:45 PM
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There's a difference between /r/Cuckold and "Being a cuck" just the same as there's a difference between /r/bdsm and /r/rape (rape survivors forum). One is a fetish fantasizing about consensual fantasy submission in a limited sexual context, the other is non-consensually actually being made into a victim. Your question is kinda like asking "If women don't want to be raped, how come /r/bdsm exists?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 04:40 PM
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Non marriage is the best solution but I do what you describe and it works just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:45 PM
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This is actually two questions in 1. I'm going to seperate them out and answer both of them: At what age is a human being capable of consenting to contracts/body autonomy/sex/bdsm/drinking/war/whatever? Real answer: it varies from person to person. Some people develop the mental and emotional age required for this at 13, some people develop it at 19, some people never develop it or are mentally children forever (and probably can't consent to things). Since we don't have an emperical way of measu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:27 PM
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Did you an I have a pre-existing relationship where I agreed to that, or it would be reasonable for me to expect that (If I stopped sleeping with you you'd tell my spouse I'm a cheater)? If so, then not coercive. If not, then yes coercive. The point is the consent standard. There is nothing inherently wrong telling someone that their spouse is cheating on them, so which side does it fall on? There's nothing inherently wrong with firing someone. There is something inherently wrong with telling so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:12 PM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 09:09 AM
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I think of magic the gathering then, or other card games, where you're "forced" to make a move strategically based upon the moves the adversary has made, and you have no other choice because your other options are worse, but you would NOT have made that choice if the adversary had NOT played a hand against you. This is not force or coercion. If it is then so is my cinnabun example, because if the option to not eat my cinnamon bun is worse than eating my cinnamon bun to you, then you are "forced"…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 09:05 AM
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Okay, fine. Suppose I tell my wife that she must promise me that she will do the dishes every second day from here on out, or else I will no longer wish to be married to her, and will likely reconsider our marriage. Am I forcing her to do the dishes? Why or why not? It also fits under the same definition you gave, for exactly the same reasons: She wants something (to be married to me), I only consent to that something under the conditions that she play some card (do the dishes an equal amount), …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:53 AM
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That's not a fair question, though...because you're not isolating variables. Try this one instead: a funny and witty 20-year-old with firm tits and a tight ass, who has a low partner count and enjoys having sex with you s well as trying out new things with you, OR a funny and witty 20-year-old with firm tits and a tight ass, who has a high partner count and enjoys having sex with you s well as trying out new things with you The difference doesn't matter so much if you isolate variables. One migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:22 AM
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why settle for sub par women when you yourself are a hot commodity that is desired by many women? Don't settle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:20 AM
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Damn straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:20 AM
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Okay, what does it mean? My point was exactly what you said, that the definition you gave is terrible. Going by the definition you gave: The term "to force one's hand" means that you've created a situation in which the other person feels compelled to use a card that they wouldn't have if they were in a stronger position. In a stronger position, you would not have to spend $6 to get one of my cinnamon buns. If you could overpower me, or I found you attractive, or I owed you something, or many oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:18 AM
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I'm sure if we break it down, there is absolutely no truth to the statement. The husband is emotionally supportive, listens to her, does a fair amount of choreplay, engages with her in other ways, yet somehow all of that mysteriously disappears when he attempts to initiate. None of these things imply that he wants her for anything other than sex. In fact, if he does these things because he believes it will result in sex, then he does only want her for sex. He should do those things because he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:12 AM
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if a man is standing over her with doubled fists saying "give me a BJ or I'm beating you black and blue" Subtext matters though. Someone doesn't have to overtly threaten you before they are obviously threatening you. If he stands in the doorway and scowls at her right in the eyes while putting his hand on the gun in his side holster while saying "Hey....sweety...how about you get down on your knees for me and open your mouth...I'd really appreciate it." He's not pummeling her or even verbally th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:09 AM
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There is a difference between facing the mutually-agreed-upon consequences of terminating an agreement, and facing entirely spurious consequences that you did not agree to. "If you break up with me, I won't sleep with you anymore" <- reasonable consequences to face as the result of a breakup: not blackmail "If you break up with me, I'll claim that your brother raped me so he gets fired" <- not reasonable consequences to face as the result of a breakup, so this is blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:06 AM
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The term "to force one's hand" means that you've created a situation in which the other person feels compelled to use a card that they wouldn't have if they were in a stronger position. It's commonly understood and held to be true and a valid meaning of the word "force". This definition of the word force contains effectively no meaning, however. If I have delicious cinnamon buns that I baked myself for sale, and I offer to sell you one for $6, I am compelling you to use a card (your money) that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:02 AM
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--a man's use of manipulative or psychological tactics. --a man's use of Dark Triad techniques. Where these things cross the line into fraud or exploiting psychology to go against consent, I absolutely would call those things force. In the business world, it's coersion to blackmail you or to brainwash you or to lie about the contents of a contract. The rest of what you said was true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:57 PM
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For what it's worth, I wasn't even necessarily trying to say "Hurr dur you guys mock uss tooo". (See my flair). My point was much more easygoing, as in, many bloops wouldn't know a Terper in real life just the same as many terpers wouldn't know a feminist in real life. In real life I largely keep my opinions about gender to myself because nobody wants to hear about feminism or trp, just like I'm sure most other terps and feminists do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:54 PM
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Are redpillers really just neckbeards? Some are for sure. But majority aren't. You probably interact with RedPillers every day and don't even know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:38 AM
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It's neither of their faults. He's not owed anything from her. This is damn straight. She doesn't owe him sex and if she did pity sex isn't what he wants anyway. However, he doesn't owe her anything either, and he certainly doesn't owe her a relationship where he isn't happy. Neither of them are at fault in the sense that it doesn't matter who is at fault, the situation can happen to any relationship. Both of them are at fault in the sense that if someone isn't happy in the relationship, they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:35 AM
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YEEEES!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 07:41 PM
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Sex is nice to have but you won't die without it. Hmm...From this sentence alone, I bet you're a woman. looks at profile...yep, you're a woman. I mean no disrespect, but in the same sense that men will intrinsically never be able to understand what the pain of childbirth is like, you will never be able to understand what sexual needs feel like for a man. Sorry. It's biology. There is a LOT of evidence that testosterone levels basically indicate the amount of arousal you have and the state you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 07:13 PM
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Does anyone seriously believe that the government should do something about this? Like what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 06:44 PM
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This is actually a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 05:53 AM
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Feminism isn't about how terrible and shitty men are and how all men are rapists or liars. But when someone goes on /r/TwoXChromosomes to cry about how she was raped and probably never going to be able to to trust another man again, nobody deletes her comment. This is by design, people need to feel safe to vent about their frustrations even if their venting is ultimately harmful to them, because they don't have the ability to do it anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:53 PM
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This is a great answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 01:31 AM
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openly disrespect women instead of just realizing that they are fallible humans just like men are. TRP doesn't advocate disrespect. It advocates that women are fallible humans just like men are. The difference is that we are trained to falsely identify the latter as the former because society puts women on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 01:29 AM
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While at the same time minimizing happiness and maximizing pain for all the women they interact with. See A. I reject this assertion, I think there is a citation needed here. All the women I know who are in BP style relationships or in relationships with betas are VERY unhappy because of the stresses and demands those kinds of relationships put on them. When I was BP, my wife cried every single day and we fought ALL THE TIME. Since I became more RP and applied more RP and became more relaxed, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:40 PM
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This is like asking whether brewers or drinkers are more responsible for the alcohol market. It's a nonsensical question and even if it had an answer it would be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:35 PM
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It's also illegal and shamed, because if it wasn't this would be a solution for some men (not all, but some), and this would upset the market equilibrium by easing demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:33 PM
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TRP generally says do whatever you want at the expense of what she wants Not at all. This is a misunderstanding. Ignore the desires of your customer at your own peril. In fact, TRP is almost entirely focused on doing what she wants, it just argues that customers don't have the words to describe or even acknowledge what she actually wants. Do what you want (because that's usually also what she wants) and if you find yourself unhappy that's on you and stop doing whatever it is that makes you unhap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:28 PM
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I wouldn't really call trump an "alpha". He has some of the dominance social cues right (probably from practicing on board meetings or just overall being sociopathic), but overall he isn't in control of himself or others and it shows. Trump whines and yells like a child when things don't go exactly his way: just like Dennis from always sunny....and that's fundamentally the most beta needy creepy unattractive beta bullshit ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 10:25 AM
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What's contradictory about it? The basis of capitalism is the idea that the state treats all actors equally under the law, but that actors should seek to find optimally beneficial voluntary interactions within the confines of the law and consent. Pretend I'm a taxi driver: It's absolutely rational to argue that the government should be more fair in treating uber drivers and making them subject to the same regulations the government subjects me to, while at the same time hoping and seeking out cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 10:21 AM
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It's hard to reason about such extreme hypotheticals. "If you were never trained to think murder was wrong, and murder wasn't illegal in your society, would you murder someone?" I mean, I'd like to say no, and I believe I would say no, but why would I do that if I never grew up with any culture saying I should?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:07 PM
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Where on TBP does it say anything? But I've never seen much BP'ers seriously say these things that RP'ers claim they say. So, can you show me where it says that? I can't find any place on TBP that takes any solid positions or advice about anything other than "TRP scary TRP neckbeard lol pathetic"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 05:41 PM
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..? Is that what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 05:38 PM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:13 PM
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Since when is amazon not selling a book equivalent to not having access to a book? Is amazon the only legal book distributor in your area?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:13 PM
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Nobody cares about Change.org, nobody cares about rooshv, a retailer making a market decision to sell or not sell a particular work isn't censorship, and censorship is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:12 PM
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There's nothing alpha about handicapping yourself. If you're weaker than your rival, but smarter than him, you use your smarts to waste him. Not starting a fight you can't win is hardly beta. Right, but alpha people don't sit around plotting how to usurp their rivals, because they don't HAVE any rivals Their kingdom is theirs and they know that they can defend it adequately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:09 PM
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I mean, basically. Look how sneaky he does it, and how he doesn't confront him to his face, and how his whole motivation is about trying to usurp/trick the actual king.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:50 PM
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I mean, only let her struggle if there's a safeword.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:15 PM
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TRP sells itself as self help but the main sub and many of the blogs are so overwhelmed by anger stage fuck all women, I hate them that many guys who are already fucking lazy get caught up in women suck rather than let me get my shit together for myself. THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:12 PM
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Do it, I'll help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:10 PM
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None. Disney Villains are beta as fuck, that's the whole fucking point. "Dark Triad" shit is beta as fuck (at least if you have to actually attempt to emulate it) Mufasa mother fucker. He has his shit together and a harem of bitches that he uses to hunt for him while he sleeps in his kingdom. He's the literal AMOG. His only downfall is that he has a soft spot for his family that puts the rest of his harem at risk: He jumps in to rescue simba because it's his kid (but he has like 10 kids), he giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:05 PM
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TRP encourages that last part. TRP says unless a woman is screaming no at you and punching you, she actually means yes. TRP says it's better to assume no=yes than no=no. TRP says it's better to assume "yes" when the answer is hazy when statistically, that's not the case. That's not actually what TRP teaches. TRP teaches that the response to LMR is to go cold and withdraw. Make it clear that if she keeps doing this shit you're gonna go give your dick to someone else THAT NIGHT. So, boys: If a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:02 PM
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I'm just highlighting the irony that the feminists of the 70s and 80s who were exceedingly Marxist have actually helped create a more cut-throat capitalist sexual landscape. Yes, this is ironic. On the other hand, its' a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:57 PM
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I agree. By this token, the Marxist-Feminist is a contradiction doomed to failure, This is basically my position. A feminist sexual marketplace is a ruthlessly free market with no recourse to address market failures (the frustrated guys who withdraw from society or go on a killing spree). These are so exceedingly rare as to be not worth mentioning, or at least not to change society for. Do we want a 'sexual safety net' promising prostitute blowies for awkward nerds? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:52 PM
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I do think modern feminism has lead to a massive decline in the nuclear family and the morale fiber of the western world. (things like honour, pride in the family name, duty are all but alien to most people). Good. I hope they die quicker. Mostly a cancer that curtails people's freedom and oppresses them (men and women). Honor isn't derived from family or social norms: it's derived from you doing things that are consistent with your personal goals. Oh why can't we just go back to the good ol' da…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 01:34 AM
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I mean, no? It doesn't illustrate anything because it's logically incoherent. "Can you show me one thing an athiest can do that a christian can't do? Doesn't that illustrate something?" No, no it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:07 PM
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Construct a scenario wherein a woman could not master the situation. The problem is that a hypothetical woman can hypothetically do literally anything. Prove that a hypothetical woman can't cure cancer. Prove that a hypothetical woman can't be a billionaire. Prove that a hypothetical woman can't move objects with her mind. This isn't how "proving stuff" works and the whole question is intrinsically flawed, and I don't even believe in the penis-brain aspect of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:41 PM
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I don't really understand UK law, but I'm fairly certain anything like this would be wildly unconstitutional in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:36 PM
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I hate to "no true scotsman" this but what you are describing is sorta the opposite of an actual RP person. You're describing someone who has probably read RP but understood effectively NONE of it. It's sorta like how legbeards probably aren't actual feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 06:39 PM
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it's still in beta testing. I don't know if this was intentional or not but either way bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 06:38 PM
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Do you openly let them know you're dating more than one person and if they choose to fall, then so be it? Yep. And if they stick around, how do you deal with them dating/sleeping with other guys? I tell them to do whatever they want. If they do in such a way that it becomes disrespectful or interferes with me, I next them. most prominently the thought that if she's banging me I don't want to know she's dating/banging other guys to She will regardless of whether you know about it, so why do you c…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 06:32 PM
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And that's exactly what this says: "Do not do things for him unless you actually want to" What's the complaint here? RP says to not reward bad behavior but do reward good behavior. ALL over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:13 AM
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I don't agree that's actually going to happen, but my argument is that even if I accept the absurd axiom that it would, I still prefer apocalypse to going back to traditional families and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:11 AM
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Note, I didn't make that claim and I agree it's nonsensical. Can a red not be a true red if they hold a RP notion that is also a feminist one? see my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:10 AM
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Can it be a RP and feminist notion at the same time? Yes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:42 PM
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Do not do things for him unless you actually want to. Emphasis mine. Nowhere else is doing anything for him suggested unless he does something positive to merit praise. This is classic psychology training: reward the good don't punish the bad. All of this advice is exactly the same advice I would give to a man with a shitty wife. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:40 PM
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I'd rather have society crumble than have to have an imprisoned underclass to prevent that from happening. If having a society means denying agency to 50% of the population then let it fucking burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:36 PM
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I feel like this question was MADE for me. I'm in a poly relationship and I support the open SMP. Deregulation FTW! For example, any economic benefits? Yup. I'm married but we have completely seperate bank accounts. We split rent and food 50/50. She makes her own money and I make mine. I don't have to pay for shit for her (although I sometimes do because I like my partners to have nice things and feel appreciated). I don't buy her gas, her car, her insurance, her hobbies, her dance lessons, none…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:34 PM
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Reward him for bad behavior in the hopes he'll behave well. Seems good. How is any of this shit a reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:26 PM
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I also believe we have deficit of men interacting with children in the home and in our schools. We need more men in our children's lives. In my home and in every home I've seen the parents contribute equally to the children's lives. Actually now that I've moved out I think my dad takes care of my little sister more than my mom does by some margin. Currently, it's very unequal. I mean, without actual studies on this with qualitative measurements of quality time contributions this is actually hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:52 AM
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I think those people are kidding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:24 AM
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"All men and women equal" - that is the basis of feminism. Not men above women. Not women above men. No racism. No superiority. Yes, but please at least admit that some people who wear the label of feminist do NOT believe this, and advocate political and philosophical positions that explicitly deny male agency and explicitly discriminate against them. It's not over yet because women STILL do not represent half of the people in positions of power and influence. Politicians, company boards etc The…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:29 PM
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Everyone knows that women are, due to a combination of systemic infantilsation and pedestalization, denied access to leadership roles and opportunities to demonstrate authority and self-reliance under the patriarchy. This access is denied at almost all stages of development. Furthermore, due to the entrenched gendered norms about these roles and kinds of decision making, beyond simply being denied access, women are often actively or passively shamed or discouraged from these positions by society…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 07:36 PM
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Sure. What do you want explained? I can do this for literally all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 07:23 AM
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Now that we have established that I, a TRP leader, am literally Hitler, explain how that has any relevance whatsoever to the fact that feminists say horrible things, and do horrible things with their political influence. It doesn't. But of course, if I said "Look, RP is so terrible, it encourages Nazisim. /u/Whisper has admitted to being literally hitler." then anyone who had even an ounce of critical thinking and context would roll their eyes at my statement and immediately know that my claim a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 08:11 PM
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You can say that about anyone. Difference is, about feminism, it's true. I mean, okay, I guess. Just gonna summarize this thread for you so you can see how silly it sounds: Me: TRP paints and fears a straw-man version of feminism. You: You can find feminists who say insane shit. Me: That's literally the definition of a straw-man. You can find terpers who say insane shit. So what? It's still a straw man to cherry pick insane shit. You're attacking a straw-man right now. You: The people who I cher…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 10:38 PM
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the radicals, the psychopaths, the man-haters are steering the ship. You do realize that you could EASILY levy the same complaints against RP right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:33 PM
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So much truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 07:14 PM
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But does anyone actually say outright that they're "entitled" to these things? Yes. All the time. Men are told they are bad people if they sleep with a woman and don't want to be exclusive. "She's entitled to something 'real' because she bared her soul to him" (lol whatever). If he doesn't give her commitment he's an asshole. Women are accused of being 'teases' or 'putting me in the friendzone' if she doesn't sleep with someone who likes her. See also betafag whining "WHY CAN'T I GET A GIRLFRIEN…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 07:09 PM
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We are unable to construct any straw feminist so ridiculous that we can't also find actual feminists who have said that actual thing. You do realize that "Find a crazy person who identifies as a label said it" doesn't qualify as a legitimate source for someone's belief system right? And that criticizing said crazy person is the definition of a straw-man. I can find RP guys who say that all black people should be exterminated. I can find RP posts who say that RP means we should return to 1740s et…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 07:06 PM
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I'm not saying they are bad people or being cruel for the sake of it. I'm just saying: fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice shame on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 05:02 PM
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So currently you think TRP is effective/applicable for 92% of women, at least. and if it was effective/applicable for <50% of women you would stop believing it? I said Id have serious doubts at about <75% .>50% is the point where even bloops would be forced to accept the literal truth of the statement "a majority of women do X" because it would be true by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:39 PM
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I didn't say it was a bad thing, it just seemed like the person I was responding to was under the mistaken impression that OP was spinning dozens of identical plates who all "sir" him, when I don't think that was OPs intent
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 01:33 PM
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Men of all walks of life are willing to have sex with prostitutes or young hot sluts outside their marriage. This is because "the kind of man willing to fuck a prostitute" is not demographic or relationship-status dependent. The desire to do so comes from a perception of high-to-perfect SMV of a high-class prostitute: she's young, available, willing, and has the ratios that signify sexual value..(tits, ass, pretty, makeup,). She doesn't have a lot of Relationship-MV, but who cares, that's not wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 10:08 PM
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There's only one woman. He's just humblebragging his subby relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:02 PM
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I want to hear from both sides of the fence, Red and Blue and colors in between, when it is best for a man to "settle down" meaning a serious LTR with the possibility of kids/marriage. Or IF he should settle down. Never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:29 PM
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3) Feel okay manipulating strangers and partners into wanting random sex with me TRP isn't about manipulation, but tomato tomato.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:28 PM
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For the argument to be "correct"? Over 50%. That just makes sense, because if we're trying to argue that something doesn't affect a majority, it should be ineffective on over 50, by definition. For me personally to think it's within a statistical margin of error? 20-25%. Too bad it's like 8%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:27 PM
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I think that trp's antagonism for feminism is based on a hilarious straw-man perception of feminism. The way a lot of them elevate the feminist boogeyman to some massive global conspiracy is downright cringe and shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:25 PM
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and unlucky And stupid. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:49 PM
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It's unknowable because there's no way to verify or sample it, and it depends greatly on demographics. My demographic it's women on average more, but again, unknowable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 07:44 PM
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women would still choose to voluntarily wear more revealing clothing on the bottom parts of their bodies, and this would still make them seem inferior to men. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 07:43 PM
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Abundance mentality works best for me. You have X (where X is your current social situation). If you don't approach, you have X. If you approach, and she shoots you down, you have X. If you approach, and she doesn't shoot you down, you have X+Y, where Y is the value of the potential interest she's showing you. Since X is currently enough for you, and you can't lose anything by approaching, approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 11:04 PM
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"You know, that was a kinda stupid thing to agree to. If we want to get out of it, here's an easy way" in private is a great asset. Sure. I don't want a drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 11:01 PM
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Hey now I beg to differ. I'm poly. Poly is great. It's got so many RP advantages and it's basically just the honest core of what RP teaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:20 PM
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I find the opposite to be true. The problem is that for a lot of "intelligent" men there are a lot of correlating negative traits that outweigh their intelligence (betaism, sexism, arrogance, demandingness, mommy issues). On an even slightly fair metric between two men who are the same except for intelligence, even 10 IQ points difference is a HUGE pussy magnet. It's like saying "Men don't select for women who put out". That's bullshit. Men absolutely consider passionate sex with a partner to no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:17 PM
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That's really interesting actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:13 PM
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Do most women even care about feminism No. Do most women even support everything feminism says? A tiny minority of feminists understand everything feminism says, much less support it. Women in general, forget it. Another thing we hear from TRP : "Women divorce rape their husbands". Really? You think all women are responsible for a few women who "divorce rape" their husbands. Isn't that the same as saying that "All men are rapists"? I think it's more akin to saying something like "All rapists are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:12 PM
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You probably want to go to /r/RedPillWomen. I'm a man, and a fisherman should not ask fish how to fish. That being said, use dread (be hot, sexy, flirty generally). Show that you actually care. Don't be a pushover but work hard to demonstrate that you are a contributing partner to the relationship emotionally, financially, but most importantly, sexually. If I had to summarize my ideal woman in a single word it would be "loyal". She supports me unquestioningly, in front of everyone, in private. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:04 PM
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I'd be a giant slut who was unabashedly proud of it. My sluttiness would be counteracted by the fact that I intimidate most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:13 PM
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...Uh...ok Trump: Maybe we should ban muslims from entering the U.S. Everyone: Holy crap that's racist and unconstitutional and borderline nazi-germany. Trump: Hey, don't jump down my throat. I just think that would work out better. It's not my opinion it's just a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:45 PM
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Consent to sex is not consent to fatherhood. Maybe it should be. Can you clarify how I'm misunderstanding you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:44 PM
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The point isn't whether or not abortion is easy or untraumatic. If you sincerely believe that consent to sex implies consent to becoming a parent then you don't have any leg to stand on if you support access to birth control or abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:33 PM
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Really? Politics absolutely is full circle when "Consent to sex is consent to parenthood" is the debate argument. Go join the christian right and their positions on birth control,marriage,and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:32 PM
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Right but that's the point. It's a shit argument because "I propose we make Rule X. You should support Rule X because not supporting rule X is not supporting the rules. If you don't support the rules then you shouldn't support any rules, and you should be exiled." It's hilariously circular, can be used to justify anything, and incredibly stupid, even for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:30 PM
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Yeah I can't check all three of "Married, Long-term non married relationship, spinning plates"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:04 PM
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I mean, when discussing social policy, we usually justify those policies because we don't want to live in a society where policies remain unjustified. Not gonna lie, I never expected to see such an extreme argument made here on PPD. Your argument basically boils down to "So what if I can't explain why I want to do X. Rules are rules and if you don't like to obey them then you should just not have a society." Please be aware that can be used to justify literally anything in terms of public policy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:03 PM
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The only measure of a company's success is whether or not the people who own the company (shareholders and founders) consider it to be a success at furthering their goals. If their goal is to make money, the company is a success if it makes money. If their goal is to make social change, the company is a success if it makes social change. My and your opinion of a company being successful is irrelvant/navel-gazing, because we are not shareholders or founders and thus our opinion is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:56 PM
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No one forces a man to have unprotected sex. There are consequences of that, duh. I mean, I think this argument is stupid when it's used to deny women access to abortion, and it's stupid here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:00 AM
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So what? Don't have an LTR, don't get married. Why do you have to give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 12:11 AM
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ITT: Everyone, RPers, BPers, and PPers alike, assumes that human women don't like sex and have no agency, despite the existence of consentual sex among prelinguistic primate tribes and male competition for female mate selection in said primates. Lol. P.S. , they had the advantage over OP because without language they couldn't say cringey shit like "How do males acquire fee-males?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 09:04 PM
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Okay TRP. Explain this one. Without using any personal insults at all, explain how the trans guy and the orchestra screening proves there is no bias against females. I'm not sure that TRP holds as some kind of iviolable law that sexism doesn't exist. That's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:14 AM
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Okay, what if he didn't say the graduate part because he didn't consciously have the self-awareness necessary to be quite so machiavellian. Amended quote below: "Man, I can't stand to listen to her fucking little irritating voice. She's just soooo stupid and annoying....yeah....haha...yeah...I mean, well, like, I love her tits though....I mean, for such a dumb slut she's great at sucking dick so lol it's pretty great..." Is he not using her anymore or is he still using her? He still thinks he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:25 AM
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I asked you a question...it wasn't rhetorical. Seriously. In my example would you describe him as using her? How is the guy using her? he liked fucking her and wanted to try a relationship. he's not fucking anyone else, he just knows he doesn't like her for her brain or for her intelligence. He has a high sex drive and low empathy drive. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:05 AM
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I have a 5-5.5 inch cock because I'm fat (naturally like 6.4). I'm confident and easygoing and I have a wife and a girlfriend who know about each other and don't care. They have stripper physiques and both have advanced degrees. 74% of my partners have told me to my face I'm the best sex they've ever had. Most of them had nothing to gain from this (e.g., were not in a relationship with me and were not going to be). Dick size < frame and skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:03 AM
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I approached two women 2 minutes ago. They flirted back with me. It took less time than it took to make this post. If I was available I could have gotten numbers or flirted but that's not why I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:57 PM
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Suppose your good friend was dating a man. They've been dating for several months but she doesn't seem terribly happy. She came to you crying one day, because she overheard him talking on the phone with his buddies when he thought she was in the shower. He said "Man, I can't stand to listen to her fucking little irritating voice. She's just soooo stupid and annoying....yeah....haha...yeah...I mean, well, like, I love her tits though....I mean, for such a dumb slut she's great at sucking dick so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:18 PM
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I don't see why her post is wrong just because it doesn't conclude with an entire beta makeover in 2 sentences. If this post was on AskTRP and the poster responded with "You can't negotiate desire. hard next. Choose better next time, abundance mentality." then that poster would ALSO not include a bunch of self-improvement followup but would still be a quality RP post. You can't suddenly criticize the same message just because of someone's tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:11 PM
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Anytime a guy has a relationship problem and presents it to bluepillers, I've seen 0 actionable advice. None. RedPill would give this guy specific steps to improve himself in a utilitarian fashion - to give himself the best chance of attracting a decent woman. Why can't Bluepill do this? Bullshit...look at the post: My advice is to leave her and find someone who is sexually excited by you. If she isn't nothing is gonna make her. How is "hard next, can't negotiate desire, have abundance mentality…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:08 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:06 PM
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I don't think it's easily dismissable as a feel-good lie. The majority of women might not like short asians, but they are right that you can't do shit about it so why worry? Worrying about it just puts you into qualifying mode by default, and even if 99% of women aren't into him for those reasons (the real percentage is probably less), then he can still be drowning in pussy because if he follows RP then he should be approaching hundreds of girls and not apologize for anything. 700 approaches a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:05 PM
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I also don't think your girlfriend sees you as a "beta bucks" in the sense that she thinks "ohhh he's not sexy but at least he'll earn a lotta money and take care of me". I think she genuinely likes you as a person. She just doesn't like your body or your attitude in bed. What's the difference here? What are the 'other attributes' that she's referring to liking that aren't is body or his sexual appeal, that are also not his generosity or his kindness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:02 PM
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I think it's a hilarious joke. No aspect of this plan addresses the social or practical concerns of rape or consent in any meaningful way, and it's completely and totally impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 09:57 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 08:17 PM
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Such a contract isn't intrinsically a bad idea, but be advised that it has the following flaws: 1) it would be a huge turn-off/creep indicator for most people because it signals a lack of social intelligence to read between the lines and infer the unwritten contract. 2) It is completely and totally unenforceable. In practice, every person in a relationship will ignore the contract (or retroactively reinterpret it to fit their feelings) and literally nothing can be done about it if they do except…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:28 PM
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If we're the ones who get pregnant, we don't want to have to worry about having to prove ourselves to him 24/7. What if he bounces while I'm in my 3rd trimester? It's why grandmothers always say "make sure he loves you more than you love him." It's an insurance policy. I'm not saying it's fair. But it's what it is. So...I mean....Isn't this exactly what RP teaches men to do? Why is it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:22 PM
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I'm funny and confident. I don't think RP would put me in the Alpha category. Er...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:21 PM
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I think you're happy and dating two men who don't care about the other. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:34 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:34 PM
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Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Only the old stuff like starcraft and minecraft. Why? (Shit-eating grin). Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” You're a smart cookie and I love that. I better be careful around you! Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” I just found out my wife just died! It's our anniversary too! Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Past a certain point I felt like counting was dehumanizing. Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Ye…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:24 PM
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But for all the talk of the sexual marketplace, there is very little application of the study of markets, that is, economics. And there isn't any economic reason that women should have an advantage. Socialized supply/demand perception is a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:01 PM
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Yes yes so much yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:00 PM
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Yes, but keep in mind that for most people the risk of rejection from someone you're actually interested in sounds/feels worse than the risk of acceptance from someone you're only mildly interested in. Being accepted by someone you sorta respect feels way way better than being hurt by someone you really respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:58 PM
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If in that case you decide to hide your opinions, doesn't that make the relationship less open and so less worthwhile? I don't hide my opinions but I do hide this forum and the word RP or any of the lingo. My partners all absolutely agree %100 with all of my opinions and RP and feminist theory, but 1) there's not that much value to constantly debating gender or politics in a relationship so it rarely comes up and I don't bring it up....alnd 2) they don't know that they do and have a straw man ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:56 PM
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They don't because they've never had to. If you're an average guy, nobody has ever asked you out. Your choices are 1) Masturbate 2) Ask someone out. You're likely to be rejected because that's how asking out works, and therefore you're likely to feel shame and pain. Those are the only two options for men. As a result, they do 1) up until the point when 2) finally seems like a better option. For women, they have three options. 1) Masturbate 2) Ask someone out. You're likely to be rejected because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:49 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. BDSM is compatible with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:37 PM
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So feminists are good hypocrites because a bunch of other groups are hypocrites as well? I didn't say being an expectant little child who demands stuff is good, I just said it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things and everyone does it. It's not good to be a dick to homeless people, but everyone is a dick to homeless people so singling out feminists for being a dick to homeless people is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 11:50 PM
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Yes, that's true, but that doesn't make people on facebook/reddit/stormfront/tumblr demanding behavior of other classes any more likely to take place. You can demand anything you want, but nobody owes anyone anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 11:49 PM
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So what? Poor people demand that the government give them social programs. Democrats demand that people not be allowed to have guns or that people need to not talk. Christians demand that they be allowed to spread their religion in public schools. AskTRP has a thread a week about how angry they are that their wife/gf/person they dated owes them sex. Men demand more women put out/get mad when some girl "tricks" them or rejects them. This needy bitter bullshit was posted all over facebook where me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 10:20 PM
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"If men owe women chivalry" Feminism, RP, westernism, capitalism, individualism, freedom, whatever you want to call it...the shared kernel that all of these philosophies have in common: "Nobody owes anybody ANYTHING"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 10:09 PM
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This is all great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 09:05 PM
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Practical feminism is absolutely a response to capitalism. It's also pretty awesome. A lot of the more heinously absurd parts of academic third-wave feminism justify themselves through communist and marxist theory directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:46 PM
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Well, I think the vagina carousel is real, too. The more women you have sex with, the less able you are to pair-bond. Sure. Chadettes who were simply amazing in bed. I've been with maybe 40 women and I don't know if I ever can settle down :( Good! Don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:42 PM
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Yes. You're absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:41 PM
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Who is John Galt!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:39 PM
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My thoughts on the SMP/RMP A strange game. The only winning move **is not to play.** You directly said in OP "I don't play in the SMP/RMP game". So...I mean, are you saying now you never said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:39 PM
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Some red-pillers are racists, but not all racists are redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:33 PM
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all women have the same socialization. The premise of the idea of the patriarchy is that there is widespread (across cultural groups and political boundaries) gendered socialization of humans based on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:29 PM
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No, I still do those when I feel like it. If you consume food you did not personally grow, you are a part of the market for food production, sales, and consumption. You are contributing to and participating in the food market. Your willingness to trade something of value for the privilege to eat food means that you participate in the food market. The food you eat has a value on that market. You can't be like "Well, my thoughts on the food market is that I don't participate in that". If you buy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:27 PM
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I'm failing on Tinder :/ So am I. Everyone does. Try OKC. I get laid a ton from there. Better yet, don't date till you get your shit sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:20 PM
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I've got to say, Manosphere, I am totally impressed. Never have I had a set of memes on the Internet make me lose a girlfriend and friend of 7 years, need anti-anxiety medication and have to take sick leave for a year to figure out how not to get emotionally and financially used or hurt by half of the world's population. Gratz bro, you got Riku by the balls. Maybe you should take this as evidence that either the pill is super unhealthy for you or the way you understand it is wrong or both. If it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:51 PM
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So, you don't date or have romantic relationships? Ok, fine, but most of us like sex and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:37 PM
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Wow, thats a lot of swearing in one post. I mean, this is PPD not dora the explorer. By virtue of divorce courts alone, basically every married woman is in control of their relationship status ? So you're saying that women generally find it very easy to get married to the man of their dreams at any age? Uh, ok. so what are they all complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:34 PM
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To be honest, I think she looks pretty good in her picture, albeit these things are airbrushed to shit. But she's hardly in peak physical condition, and I don't think anyone would say that she's the epitome of female beauty. She's also 34 years-old. Meh, she's smart as fuck, funny as fuck, very pretty (to me), confident, she's a little too curvy (like past the hot part of the curvy spectrum), but not to the point of unfuckable....plus she's rich as shit and obviously enjoys sucking dick and very…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:43 PM
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Almost no nature, maybe 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:38 PM
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Always believe women. Encourage them to tell their story. Don't silence them by saying innocent till proven guilty. #standwithstoya Lol. You can tell your story all you want, hon, but if this goes to an actual criminal prosecution then you better bet your ass I expect that he will be innocent till proven guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:38 PM
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I will laugh my ass off the entire time, chat up some feminist chick about BDSM and consent while openly mocking the neckbeard "RP" types who think they are unplugged but still sitting around debating gender. I will smile and nod to the RP guys over in the corner drinking and laughing and talking about dumb shit to a bunch of BP girls as the girl and I duck into the nearest bedroom with handcuffs and lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:35 PM
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edit: I fell alseep halfway throigh typing this out, will make fonal revisions in morning I fell asleep halfway through reading it. Must have been next to impossible for you. tl;dr Acknowledging gender dimorphism on both sides from a young age, cherishing our strengths and working in synergy to help each other develop our weakness (empathy for men and logic for women respectively) may help ease the tensions to the gender wars. However, to do so we must be willing to let go of the blank slate fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:33 PM
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Lol what a fucking shitpost that was on trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:50 AM
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I'm a feminist, and a RPer, so I get to do both. Lately I help men by talking to them (and other feminists in feminist code) about issues they face. Try to give them help as much as possible and steer them away from shit that sucks. I help women by being feminist, and supporting consent and equal rights, listening to them, talking about consent to everyone (men and women), Oh and tying her up when they ask me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:49 AM
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Sincere high five, ask her about her best stories. Immediately friendzone her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:47 AM
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I love feminists. They usually like anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:47 AM
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Edit: Real quick, could you name me some examples of this: where men are not considered valuable. I've never watched a lot of TV so I'm curious. Could you give me specific examples, not just broad statements. I'm not denying it's true, I just want solid examples. I will think about this because I'm sure I can find a bunch, but I'd like to point out that it's less about the media saying "men are worthless/undesirable" and more about what they are not saying. Can you think of ANY examples where a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:59 PM
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I think it would have helped if he could have said, "I'm the prize, and so is she, and we're both going to respect each other and appreciate what each of us bring to the table." I mean, that's what I do, and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:52 PM
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I don't know if it's possible to make a statement about "need" in the general case. "Customers need McDonald's more than McDonald's needs customers" is instantly recognizable as a bizarrely nonsensical string of words. Without customers, mcdonalds would die. Without food available (as in a total loss of available food options), the customers would die. The market forms some kind of equlibrium here at the intersection of the needs, and we call that equilibrium point "price" One argument for why R…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:23 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:07 PM
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It's not really about LMR, I mean, ostensibly it kinda is but that's not at all how it plays out nor how to actually overcome it in real life. It's more about playing hard to get and teasing and about her trying to get him to qualify to her why she should give up her valuable market position to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:40 AM
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Lol I say that constantly to my girlfriend. We were walking with some people and I said "nice bouncing titties!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:27 AM
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My opinion is that one of two things are true: 1) he believes that intelligence turns him on a lot. 2) he does not believe 1), but believes that saying so will help him get something he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:26 AM
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I would not self-identify as a pill of any kind offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:25 AM
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It's neither manipulative, nor takes several hours a week to learn. The fact that you believe these things means you're still plugged in. I love using matrix quotes because the analogy is so so apt. Every time I answer your questions about game or women I use them and I choose them very deliberately. Please pay attention. Today we have: Spoon boy: Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead... only try to realize the truth. Neo: What truth? Spoon boy: There is no spoon. Neo: There …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:20 AM
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In my experience that isn't true at all. Any shame or regret is ephemeral at best and caused by social pressure and a cultural history of implanted sex-negativity. Most of the sluts I know are intellectual and self-loving enough to genuinely enjoy their lives and be happy with their choices. I aspire to be like them as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:15 PM
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personal bias and preference can be avoided It can't be, but that's not the goal. There is no such thing as absolute value on ANYTHING. A picasso painting is "worth" 10 million dollars. I do not like picasso art. If I could not sell it for money, the value of the picasso painting to me would be the same as the value of the canvas, which I would probably use as a placemat or maybe a dishrag (seriously, I would actually do this). Prices are not objective measures of the values of goods and service…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:12 PM
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Why can't they both be assholes? Her expecting him to continue a relationship where he is unsatisfied makes her an asshole, him handling the fact that his needs aren't being met in a childish way rather than handling it like an adult makes him an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:04 PM
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Yep, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:03 PM
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Not being employed is perfectly fine for a lot of people. There are some people who can live just fine on very few posessions, don't like eating a lot or often, and enjoy sleeping outside. However, since those people are not the norm if someone loses their job we become concerned for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:02 PM
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Those people do exist, yes, but if someone who is not one of those people is in a relationship with one of those people, then it is very likely the sexual person is unhappy with the relationship, and should end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:00 PM
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He's posting on deadbeadrooms and coming up with this obviously bitter schema. He obviously wants sex and sees it as important. He should get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:59 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:56 PM
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The crux of my question: if you're only getting BJ's and sex because of dread, isn't she only fucking you because of her own insecurities and not because she actually desires you? Dread game isn't about making her feel worthless or insecure. It's about reminding her that you have options and are a valuable person and will remain one even if she's not in your life. Dread game can be as subtle as simply smiling back when a waitress hits on you, or not being super needy about taking up her alone ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 07:57 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 06:56 PM
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The problem is definitions of compromise disguise the issue: which is that it all comes down to markets. If you don't have any negotiating power (anything on the table that she values, or the willingness to walk way from what she's offering) then you won't have any compromise because there's no incentive to compromise. It all comes down to market choice, not compromise. If you want something that she doesn't want, then either that's enough for you (and the compromise is that you don't get what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 06:56 PM
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It's still safe for approaching women, just not for you and not using the methods that you probably use. However, that's not a change from the status quo...it's been like that since we spoke Mesopotamian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 06:33 PM
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Firstly, in terms of being friendzoned, I've had female friends who I wasn't interested in sexually. But I've never had someone who I was interested in essentially try to use me. I've had that attempted on me and failed (it's incredibly easy to shut down.) And I've seen it openly done to like 3 of my friends. Generally, if I've been intersested in a woman they've just made it clear, usually politely, that they're not interested. Or on the odd occasion they've made it clear that they are interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 06:32 PM
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Number one: being demanding and controlling is the exact fucking opposite of having frame. The king doesn't need to be king. JB demands NOTHING. EVER. in fact, he's most on top of his game when someone is holding a gun on him and demanding things of him. Number two: Don't live with your dad. Adults don't live with their parents. You should still right now because you need help and you need to be a child for a while but personal goal #1 BEFORE getting laid or talking to women is to move the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:15 PM
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Not quite because PD is about something else specific... but good try though and I agree it's about econ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:11 PM
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Okay? What was the point? I read paragraph after paragraph of "women who aren't that great are dumb for rejecting me, who is that great" I guess at the end there was a "women just don't understand" thrown in at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:09 PM
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Right, and that's his fault. If there's no union and all autoworkers accepted $5 an hour, or scabs accepted $5 en-masse. Then guess what the value of auto work is. Men who complain about the low negotiating power of men and relationships yet continually accept low offers because they feel they have to are responsible for the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 08:15 PM
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I totally totally totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 08:13 PM
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To me it seems you don't quite understand frame. You know who has frame? James Bond. Does he plan ahead? No. Does he always make the most politically or strategically valuable decision? No. Does he always do what is best for his country? Does he always do what is best for him? No and no. However, he always does exactly what he wants, because it's what he wants. No, scratch that. The universe does exactly what he wants, because it's what he wants. James Bond has Frame
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 08:12 PM
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Where is his Frame? His frame is that he likes to play Xbox, so he does, instead of sitting around worrying about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:19 PM
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TRP's Prince of Darkness. The prince of darkness thing is hilarious. It's a beta strawman of what a man should be. Alpha takes many forms, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:18 PM
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ITT: A guy thinks he gets to decide his own SMV independent of his actual market value, while getting upset at women who think they can decide their own SMV independent of their actual market value. tl:dr; "Waaaaaahhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:16 PM
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I think that literally everyone is attracted to intelligence. Everyone. "Saposexuality" is like me (a straight man) claiming to have "mammosexuality" because I like big tits. Sure, a lot of intelligent people have other negative traits which counteract their SMV, but between two otherwise equivalently attractive people, the more intelligent one will have more options on the dating market. Yes, even intelligent women. Intelligence has been a primary sexual characteristic since before we had socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:12 PM
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But you see, that's the way markets WORK. I can bitch and moan about how terrible McDonald's food is for my body, for the economy, for americans, for minimum wage laws. I can complain to no end about starbucks cups, or IOS security protocols.... but the MOMENT I sit down with my quarter-pounder deluxe meal ($7) and wash it down with a grande mocha light ($4.50) while playing angry birds on my iphone 6 ($400?), I've completely and totally set the goddamn market value of the items in question. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:06 PM
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Boom headshot. I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:01 PM
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You hit the nail on the damn head here. It's probably the main reason I don't really go there anymore. Every other post is a revenge fantasy or hate fantasy or virgin fetishization. Every other post is about how to lock down some unicorn for an LTR. Every other post is about how evil women are or sitting around masturbating to some anecdotal story about a slutty woman having ANYTHING bad happening to her (even if it's not at all related to her sluttiness). It hilariously toxic and hilariously la…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:56 PM
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Why would you hate someone who desires a relationship after being a slut ? It's not the desire, it's the entitlement. Different. For example, a very unattractive "Nice Guy" whining about not being able to bang "females" all the time would be offensive. Not because he's not allowed to desire human sexuality (even gross nice guys are people and allowed to have sex drives) but because he believes the mere fact that he has the desire entitles him to have the desire fulfilled. The darker versions of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:53 PM
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....her still treating him like she loves him but with a 'not tonight honey, I'm really tired'... Eventually we have something akin to a cold shoulder at home. The man tries to communicate with her about this, but she blocks him out. ...over time it becomes a pattern of withdrawing emotional validation too... I was saying that, at this point in the story, there has been some extended period of time where we have an established pattern of emotional abuse. THAT is when the countdown begins, after …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:45 PM
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Yeah, choosing a divorce isn't a choice made that quickly or easily. Divorce isn't anything like breaking up with your girlfriend. Even if you do get to keep some of your money, your life is still left in complete shambles. Losing money in a divorce might suck, but honestly? Money is easier to replace/rebuild than most of the rest of what you stand to lose. Eh,that's fairly subjective I think. Not too mention, going straight to divorce after seven days no sex seems a bit of an overreaction in ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:07 PM
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Doesn't really matter if it's a trap, because no matter what it's a false one. The guy has final say. ...So she initiates a dead bedrooms. DB begins innocent enough, with her still treating him like she loves him but with a 'not tonight honey, I'm really tired' rejection and generally changing the conversation when he tries to initiate. However, over time it becomes a pattern of withdrawing emotional validation too, except when she needs it. So, his emotional needs aren't being provided for as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:55 AM
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Cheating is never justified in a case where someone is otherwise free to dump someone. Cheating because you can't be honest about your desires is cowardice. Cheating is anything you would have to lie to your partner about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:57 AM
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Also what you've described here isn't polygamy. You've described a polyamorous N with a married center. Polygamy is multiple people who are in one marriage commitment/agreement, which is a totally different thing. po·lyg·a·my noun 1. the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 12:35 PM
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Morpheus: Neo, sooner or later you're going to realize just as I did that there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:57 AM
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There is. It's actually super easy. This is dismissive but not intentionally so, I'm just too exhausted today to go into explaining it, especially when I'm %99 certain that you specifically can't understand it right now because you are waaay waaay too plugged in. However, I can give it to you in the style of a Zen Koan: Neo: So you're saying I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No Neo, I'm saying that, when you're ready, you won't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:22 AM
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Me too. It has nothing to do with poly, shitting myself is my fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:18 AM
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This is useless because women arbitrarily change the parameters of creepiness depending on tingles. The exact same behaviour from a Chad would not result in an accusation. So learn how to cause tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:16 AM
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I thought the purpose of 'please be joking' was more about mocking me, an omega, for thinking I had the right to ask a woman out or a remote chance of success. I mean, this conclusion or interpretation is absurd at best and bordering on some kind of paranoid psychosis at worst. If these kinds of interpretations that jump to a personal victimization are very very dangerous. I've never insulted you or called you any names like "Omega" and I absolutely think that you could absolutely have a very la…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:12 AM
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I'm an anti-anti-feminist. Seriously answering the question regards to the comic, the only one of these that even comes close to resounding with me is "the economist" but even that is sorta weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:03 AM
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I'm poly. I don't care. I think it's the same relationship market but amplified in intensity. If the normal dating was the market for food and services and goods, then polyamory would be the real-time high-stakes trading commodities market. All the relationships are higher stakes, the trades are higher value, and happen way faster. For example, in a normal relationship, AF/BB means that a woman is married to one guy but fantasizes about sleeping with chad so she divorces him or just has a dead b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:00 AM
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2) Haha yeah I suppose that's right. I was mostly joking. If you were mostly joking, then when I said please please please be joking Why didn't you simply say "Haha, yep" instead of what you actually said, which was ...give up and crawl into a hole so you can all point at and mock me for failing at life' Hahahaha NO if you think I'm going to give you the satisfaction of being miserable or dead fuck you the lot of you. None of that is a rational or well-adjusted response to "Are you joking?", esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:42 AM
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Xemnas: I bother talking to you know because I'm sincerely worried for you. Because, believe it or not, I was you once. Because I know how you feel and where you are coming from and where it leads. Because I sincerely and honestly hope that you can figure your stuff out and avoid the dark and painful future that I see you in right now and because I've been there. Since we're discussing the pills, let me offer you this. Trinity: Please Neo, you have to trust me. Neo: Why? Trinity: Because you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:09 AM
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Outcome independence bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 07:16 PM
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Lesbians exist in my experience but they are far less common than more fluidly sexual women who turn their nose up at anyone not alpha enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 07:01 PM
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Serious answer: most "alphas" aren't in need of the benefits financially for this to matter. At least not in need enough for it to be worth the sexual and social cost of being openly gay and openly married. It's pretty hard to seduce and fuck women who think you aren't available AND gay. Not impossible, but tough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 06:59 PM
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I mean it's not really a matter of attitude, it's a logical contradiction. If you truthfully don't value her, you aren't bluffing. If you're bluffing that you don't value her, she isn't reacting to you telling her any kind of truth
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 04:44 AM
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Really. On a post that's orientated around lying. That has a massive title, biggest text on the page. Right at the top saying "Women dont want the truth, they want to be lied to". I don't have a problem with lying per-se, at the very least I understand what the poster was talking about. I was referring to this post: Women naturally struggle to handle inconvenient truth. If you want a woman to go truly nuclear, tell her the unadulterated, unfiltered thoughts on her value....Unless they call your …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 09:51 PM
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Are you male / female? Male Would you date this person? Sure Would it bother you if they couldn’t afford to do things that you enjoy doing without you subsidising them? Yes, but the alternative is not dating them. Would you consider a LTR / marriage with this person? Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:44 PM
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Unless they call your bluff, of course. If it's the truth it's not a bluff. If it's not the truth than it is a bluff but then why would you say it?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:17 PM
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Before I was unplugged that conversation with your plate would have had me completely slack-jawed in disbelief. I'd think you were making shit up. I think I had that exact same conversation last week with one of mine.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:14 PM
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You must be a woman, surely? No If not, why are you a feminist? Because I believe that women and men don't have nearly as many biologically intrinstic differences as redpillers say, that market forces and culture explain almost all of the gender dynamics that people claim to need evopsych to explain, because I believe that men and women should be treated equally under the law, because I believe that the sexual marketplace should be totally deregulated, because I believe that people should have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 05:55 PM
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Side note on spreadsheet husband. Spreadsheet husband was totally right to do what he did, just totally wrong in how he handled it. He should have made the spreadsheet, then kept it fucking secret, and used it himself to prevent the gaslighting, then used it as personal strength when he gave her divorce papers. When she starts crying and says "but whyyyy?!" he says "I just don't feel our connection anymore" and CONTINUES TO KEEP IT SECRET. Then, after she's signed the papers, he can CONTINUE TO …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:43 PM
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Now you're getting it. I don't understand why the downvotes. "Don't get married" is a part of the RP canon. If the prevailing opinion is something else or some kind of whining then it's more lost than I previously thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:39 PM
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I'd laugh. If she wants to be with him instead then I am glad she was able to trade up for something subjectively better. I'm no woman's second choice though, so if we were monogamous she's never getting me back and I'll find someone equally hot to bang (almost guaranteed) who sees me as a first choice, in a few weeks/days/months.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:35 PM
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I got beat up a lot in wrestling in high school and in BJJ after that. Honestly, there's nothing that chills me out like getting your ass kicked. There's that moment when you realize that you're going to lose. You're going to get crushed. You're going to feel thigns turn in ways that they aren't meant to turn and there's not a goddamned thing you can do about it. It makes everything else dull, really. Why would anything matter ever compared to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:38 AM
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I'm not really sure it matters. Consider: we could have a long and drawn out evolutionary psychology for why humans strive to obtain stuff. We could argue that the pursuit of property is a fundamental biological imperative passed down through centuries of evolution. We could argue that the desire to have wealth is a part of our destiny, distilled in us by years of selective breeding where the wealthy got to spill their seed. We could argue that, therefore, capitalism is biological. Or we could j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:34 AM
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What if one of things contributing to this was a Madonna/Whore complex? The ED started right around the time I started enjoying and initiating sex rather than "okay, I'll let you have sex with me" Seems possible. We all know that many men long for a virgin, even if they don't admit it. They want to know the feeling of taking a girl's virginity and some men even worship virgins to the point of calling them unicorns. A lot of men do for various reasons. I don't, and not all do. So, basically, my q…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:58 PM
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Women are actively hypergamous because hypergamy is the rational action on the market. Seriously, people who bitch and moan about hypergamy don't understand it yet. It's like complaining that companies try to make money for their shareholders or that men want to be with hot women or that children wear costumes to try to get candy. Men are "hypergamous" too. In fact, all humans actively try to achieve the maximum of what they can achieve in all markets they participate in. It's not immoral or eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:52 PM
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You aren't wrong that here's not the place for it, but a lot of people on both sides of the pills are genuinely putting aside their differences to recommend that Xemnas get some help. Considering that we don't have any way to contact him or interact with him in the real world, this is the only channel for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:49 PM
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I told you that regardless of whether or not your insane theory was true you should forget it. You used that as evidence that it was true. I said that was logically fallacious and that you shouldn't bomb synagogues You used that as evidence that I don't believe in ethics Please please please get off the internet or gender subs and get outside. Have fun. Live. I'm seriously concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:12 AM
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No, I said EVEN IF IT'S TRUE. As in, whether or not it is true is irrelevant, as in, you're completely barking up the wrong tree here. Your post is the equivalent of asking "If there's a jew conspiracy to take over the show 'the wiggles', should I bomb a synagogue"? The obvious answer is "No, you should not bomb a synagogue under any circumstances. Regardless of the status of the wiggles, it's a very very bad idea for you...this entire line of reasoning is insane" Then you respond "so there IS a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:57 PM
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All the 30-39 year olds are fucking the 25-29 year olds who see them as powerful daddy replacement alternatives to their weak and powerless peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:53 PM
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I mean, yeah, although not for the reasons you think. A man who is married (and actively supresses his desire / enforces his monogamy/reassures her) doesn't have any options, freedom, or power. A man who is unmarried, or married and strongly implies desirability, has options and power, and therefore freedom. A man who is powerful and free is wearing the psychological equivalent of lingerie and perfume. A man who is trapped and weak is wearing the psychological equivalent of grannie panties and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:52 PM
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Jesus christ Xemnas. Please get the fuck off of this shit. Even if it's true it's not helpful at all to you personally. You're making an echo chamber in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:45 PM
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I've been kind of resentful lately about how easy women have it in regards to getting sex...am I right to be? I mean, you're not right to be resentful about it. Commitment is, long term, much more valuable then sex, and it's much much much harder for women to obtain than it is for men. Even when men 'cant' attain it, being a bachelor is much easier for a man than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:42 PM
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I think this argument is equivalent to Reagan-era conservatives saying that benefits provided to the wealthy ultimately benefit society. Today we recognize that in an absolute free market, the rich become more powerful and everyone else gets fucked over. Citation needed. Free markets do benefit the super rich in a higher-percentage than the poor...but look what's happened. Over the course of deregulating the airline industry, for example, ticket prices have fallen by a factor of 10 in real dolla…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:52 PM
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Lol thanks for the shout-out (and he is probably too annoyed with the people at the TRP sub to go there). Nah, I'm subbed and I read it but I mostly gloss over it nowadays. It's filled with whining and revenge fantasies instead of useful theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:24 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 12:26 AM
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Honestly you're totally wrong here. You assume that female nature==women being horrible. You need to work on your outcome independence. Women can smell the bitter like you shit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 12:24 AM
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Since the church denies the option to leave the marriage, is the smaller chance of divorce rape worth it? Can that make up your the lax attitude women get in marriage? Lol no. Rules can never make someone do something they don't want to do.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:08 PM
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No, that would be a waste of time to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 07:57 PM
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It depends strongly on what kind of asshole you are. Being an entitled insulting outcome-dependant needy demanding twat is a kind of asshole, but you'll dry out her panties faster than a desert. If you're a cool as a cucumber asshole who treats people right but doesn't need anyone, ignores her shit when she's giving you shit and pulls her into your frame by smirking at her and undressing her with your eyes whenever she talks, you'll get laid. For example: Like for instance ages ago, some girl wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 10:06 PM
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I agree but I also think men absolutely do the same thing. I can think of a good number of my male "incel" friends who are smart enough and funny and on top of their lives enough to have a lot of sex with women who are younger than them and about the same level of physical fitness as them (read: a bit chubby). Too bad they'll never do that because they keep chasing unavailable skinny blonds who make them into beta orbiters instead. They effectively checked out of the dating game while they wait/…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 10:54 PM
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This is also a question for RP, so I'm answering it. This sounds fake as shit, but lets pretend it's real. How would I avoid the situation? I wouldn't date someone this unstable ever, but if I dump someone and it goes bad, (like, she pulls this shit and calls the cops in the first place) Do the following: 1) Go NC. Yes, forever. Yes, no matter what she says. 2) Don't talk to cops without a lawyer present. She told me if I met her she would tell the cops the truth that she made it up. I came over…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 09:07 PM
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I've noticed lots of redpillers say feminism is a sexual strategy designed to maximise a woman's benefit from men/society, if you believe this, will you be raising your daughter's feminist? Yes, because I want my daughter to receive the maximum benefit from men/society. BWAHAHAHA! GO FORTH AND PROOOSPER MY DEARY
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 08:59 PM
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Women under the feminine imperative Why? That's self-referential. If you define value as "Things women like" then you can't be surprised by "No thought, need or idea from a man has any value unless it directly or indirectly benefits women or children. " I mean, that's a tautology. "Things don't have value unless they are useful to women, where value is defined by things women find useful". Well, duh. That's like saying "Everyone hates gay people where we define being gay as being someone everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 08:56 PM
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Taking Briffault's Law and male disposability to the extreme: No thought, need or idea from a man has any value unless it directly or indirectly benefits women or children. Has any value? Who defines value. This is silly. An influential user on another forum I frequent has recently declared 'anyone who evokes the term radical feminist is a chauvinist bigot who took the red pill, I will block you without warning'. This is quite a hostile environment. Dumb fascists be dumb fascisting. Seriously, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:55 PM
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Yes. Probably wouldn't go to the police because you call the police when you need someone put down or caged, and I don't want my wife to be put down or caged. RP, male, married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:48 PM
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Both of you have negotiating power about contributing some kind of value to the relationship as a whole. In marriage, you both sign a contract to continue to provide that value to the relationship while (usually) agreeing to only provide that value to the other person exclusively. Exclusivity contracts in business are already a terrible idea, but in addition, due to the patriarchal social norms that preclude most heterosexual agreements, there are no or few social or legal penalties to her not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 10:27 PM
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They're dumb then. Marrying is giving up all of your negotiation power while it is impossible for her to give up all of hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 09:47 PM
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Most Red Pillers believe in a terrifying future where men will stay away from women , stop contributing to society , stop having children . Lol no. This has zero chance of happening. When did this become a RP meme? It's hilarious and pathetic. Is there a post on /r/TheRedPill I can read? This will lead to economic and cultural collapse and it won't be unlikely that a stronger patriarchy (the Muslims) will conquer us (at least that's what many Red Pillers believe. Bwhahahaha. I don't believe this…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 10:05 PM
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In order to point out this sexist classist piece of trash for what it really is (and it's sexist against women AND men), I've helpfully revised all of its discriminatory and offensive and negative-image reinforcing self-shaming imagery to refer to the audience's race not the audience's gender. Take a gander. Some hilarious highlights: I totally know how you feel. That was pretty much exactly my response when someone told me I was a part of gang culture. It sounds horrible. But just imagine movin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 09:59 PM
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I see RPers talking about this dystopian future, where men abandon women and the muslims take over ect. Lol. I also see a lot of RPers complaining about how muslims are dominating the west and reproducing at a higher rate than whites. What? Lol. RP isn't about race. It's just not. RPers who think it is are fucking wrong. If RPers really wanted to target this issue, they would promote marriage for both women and men at a reasonably young age, they would be natalists and they would promote traditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 08:41 PM
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Some guy in plaid shirt was hitting on me so I punched him in his stomach." I was like, why would she say this to me? I interpreted this as follows: The way to actually interpret it is that she's trying to impress you by 1) emulating what she believes is the way to relate to a man 2) demonstrating/showing off her anti-slut defense. She wants you to think she's a good girl worth persuing. I would take it as a compliment, then go fuck a nice girl who doesn't hit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 08:38 PM
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Yes but you have to actually be intelligent and socially intelligent and use that intelligence to convert to power. Just sitting around in an anime t-shirt talking about how all the sheeple are below you won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 08:33 PM
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...okay....but does that mean you actually understood the analogy? You know I'm not talking about a literal cooking class? Did you understand the chef's advice "You won't learn to make nut paste here. Please don't try to serve nut paste if you want to make people happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 04:00 PM
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the worst RPers treat women like living fleshlights with no goals or minds of their own who have no individual tastes. the worst BPers treat women like asexual angel dolls with no goals or minds of their own who have no individual tastes. Don't do that. Treat women like young men, except young men who want your penis inside them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 03:54 PM
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Do you think people exist that do not strongly identify with....blah blah.... where they conformed to gender expectations for their thoughts, behaviors, motives? Yes, those people exist. If you do think people like that exist, do you realize they tend to want to date people like themselves and would (and do) pair up? That's not necessarily true at all. Those people could exist and not want to date the same kind of person. They might want to date the same kind of person or they might not. I've se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:01 PM
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I sincerely don't understand this comment. What could possibly indicate freedom and power on a sexual market more than the fact that I can afford to demand anything I want with anyone I want with no real fear of consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:49 PM
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mistakenly believe in a sexual utopia I'm a male feminist. I have a wife, and a girlfriend. I'm getting something like a new plate too. They all know about each other and they don't care. It's the end of the second date and plate ended up tied to my ceiling begging me to fuck her (literally screaming at the top of her lungs begging me to fuck her). I didn't because bdsm is about denial and denial is fun ;). Until about 12 minutes later that is. Plate knew about my wife and didn't care. Afterward…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 08:10 AM
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Half of black women humans in the US have herpes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 05:41 PM
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Red Pill To Red Pillers Red Pill To Blue Pillers Blue Pill to Red Pillers Blue Pill to Blue Pillers Both - Should I really care right now, No, you should go fuck some 16 year olds and goof around with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 04:06 PM
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You cannot abolish the law and make it legal. Lol You have to consider the scenario of alcohol or drugs being involved. Can you consent? If so, rape. If not, not rape. Basically, try to imagine whether a contract would be legal if signed while you were shitfaced. If you get married while drunk in vegas is the marriage valid? No? If you are drunk enough to make contracts you sign invalid, then you're too drunk to consent. People act like this is complicated but it really fucking isn't. If someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:47 PM
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If any of you think that a serious movie will be fair or sympathetic to TRP (or any male perspective for that matter) you're more plugged in than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:39 PM
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Dude, seriously...for as red as you claim to be you're still plugged in. You think that possessiveness is a RP trait, you think that demands are attractive. You think that rationalism is naval-gazing and you think that you should allow yourself to be ruled by emotions. These things are all classic fallacies that we strawman women/BP as having, and you still have them in SPADES.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:35 PM
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Lol I know. ITT "Red Pill Dark Triad Ruthless Unemotional Rationalists" can't understand rational self-analysis and handling of undesirable emotions for a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:31 PM
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Certainly one has been proven to work better and been around longer. 'Cause tradition is absolutely an indicator of objective success rates. I mean, gay marriage clearly can't work amiright? I don't think suppressing a natural emotion works. I assume you never ride roller coasters, drive fast on purpose, watch scary movies. I assume you never read sad books, or listen to sad music, or wear depressing clothing. I assume you never run through pain or lift weights even when it hurts. I assume you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:29 PM
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Why is jealousy bad? Jealousy isn't intrinsically bad. It's a natural response to a fear of loss. Fear isn't bad either. It's natural. It tells us when things are wrong. It tells us when we aren't doing OK in order to protect us. But why do you feel the need to suppress and bury or try to deny a basic human emotion? So, why do people ride roller coasters? Roller coasters make you feel scared! You're put up in a high place! It's natural to feel terror when you're out of control and moving fast. Q…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:23 PM
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me too. good shit :p
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 06:34 AM
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1a) "TRP is not about self-improvement, IT LIIEED" I agree this has been done to death because I don't care. TRP isn't just about self-improvement. 1b) "Women like hot guys, get over it" I mean, yeah? I don't see what there is to talk about about this. That's kinda the core RP message honestly. RP is this+ a meta-analysis of what makes men 'hot'. (hint, it's not just abs) 2) "But what about women? Women have it just as bad/worse! Why has RP never considered women's issues? Only misogynists would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 10:06 PM
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Stop being such dicks all the time, about everything. This is so true. Whatever happened to amused mastery rpers? Also, I assume your flair is supposed to be tongue-in-cheek, but I really really like it and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 09:42 PM
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Aka: redpillers, is there anything you see about many of your fellow redpillers, that makes you cringe? Talking about redpill at all, to anyone, in the real world. Most specifically to girls. If you don't take advice about women from women, what do you expect to happen when you try to explain your new "knowledge" to them? Think they'll just agree and then say "wow you're right I AM so simple and easily manipulated. Let me just jump on your cock now!" It's the ultimate in signaling a total lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 09:39 PM
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Non the less. Not choosing her for an LTR might as well be shunning. That's sorta disingenuous really. Not selecting someone for a particular kind of relationship isn't shunning. If it is then whining beta RPers who complain about not being selected to fuck are right when they claim they are being shunned from society. It's always seemed to me that men create the sluts they would discard of for anything meaningful. In the sense that they push them for sex? I guess that makes sense. It's like whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:42 PM
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I want it to happen but frankly I don't think it would help. The desire for access to sex partly involves validation and social status upgrades. These things would not come from prostitution and prostitution would probably not satisfy most men. Prostitution is illegal here but enough men do it anyway that we can see how it doesn't really change the social structure much, and in western countries where it is legal there's still basically the same dating market. With prostitution lots of incel men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:35 PM
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She should have casual sex with whoever she wants for whatever reason she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:58 PM
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Does sexual consent HAVE to be an enthusiastic yes? Yes, but non-verbal communication of an enthusiastic yes is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:20 PM
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As all the RP dudes know... RP doesn't require, or even actively promote misogyny. It is not useful to cloud your personal judgement and strategy with hatred. It makes you less successful. It also is unjustified. The girls are just being female humans in the exact same way we are male humans. If guys want to take that hit then fine, there is nothing to stop you doing so and I won't try.... But TRP (but not RP) seems to have slipped slightly from toleration of it, into outright encouragement of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:15 PM
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Why wouldn't she be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:57 PM
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Good for her. She's doing God's work. Is she happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:20 PM
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I've heard it said many times on manosphere forums that this is exactly what women should do. They are thinking about what women should do if they were operating in the man's self interest. It's as much of a fantasy as being like "Wal-Mart should just pay all the workers $30/hr! Wouldn't that be awesome!?" I mean, yes, but not for wal-mart. I'm emphasizing the point that on one hand men seem to complain about female selectivity. Yeah, not being selected sucks, but they aren't empathizing with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:19 PM
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Don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:11 PM
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well isn't that the whole point of studying Machiavellianism? If you have to study it you'll never be able to do it. There are about 20 world-class magicians in the world who worked their ass off to get that way. there are maybe a couple thousand decent magicians who are good enough to fool people who go to shows and want to be fooled. The rest of them are wanna bes who look accidentally really pathetic walking around thinking that they can fool people when really people just go along with the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 03:36 AM
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YOu have that power, why not use it? There must be no better power in the world than watching others cry or their lives fall apart because of your schemes. Especially someone who gets in the way of your plans. I mean, is that not the purpose of the Laws of Power? I'm not a psycho. Besides, unless you are more adept than adept people can smell all that crap a mile away. True RP is BEYOND manipulation and power games and trying to bend the world to your will with lies and tricks. True RP is when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:48 AM
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Seems pretty obvious to me if you want to appeal to women then you should listen to what they have to say. I could understand listening to men too, but the red pill is really gung hoe about not listening to women. I don't think any reasonable person could actually believe that's a good idea. I mean, the problem is that nobody understands what they want unless they are frighteningly good at understanding themselves, and just about nobody is good at that. There's a reason why companies hire analys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:43 AM
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Get a job, get your own place, get your own goddamned internet, then DO NOT USE IT. Go do things. Hobbies. Music. Go learn Brazilian Ju Jitsu. Spend 10 days alone in the woods. YOU ARE BLEEDING OUT ON THE PAVEMENT XEMNAS PLEASE CALL 911! Even paramedics in the matrix are better than sitting dying in the street muttering about morpheus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:58 PM
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He is concerned I am only consuming one type of media, one type of (toxic) view for a depressive. But I'd like to see his alternatives, he's the one who was whipped for 5 years by Mom. He's goddamned right Xemnas. Please please please leave this place and don't come back until you are fucking sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:56 PM
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I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:51 PM
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This. I have a wife and a girlfriend. They know about each other, they're cool with it. Therefore not cheating. I went on a date with this girl I met on OKC. I told girlfriend about it beforehand because my instinct was not to because I felt like I wanted to hide it from her and that's cheating. She said "Well, I would have been pissed if you hadn't said anything but have a good time!" We fooled around. Not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:57 PM
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Male attraction isn't based purely on physical appearance but also on social proof and game and dominance. I look way worse than this guy and I'm married to a 27-year old pole dance instructor and openly fucking a 26-year old lawyer ex-stripper on the side. She doesn't look particularly above his league as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:51 PM
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Why are you debating this person? What do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:48 PM
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I thought there isn't much of a difference. You thought wrong, unfortunately. You can say "black" but not "negro" for the same reason, (even though negro is just a latin synonym for black). You can say "Chinese Man" but not "Chinamen" for the same reason. You can say "Hispanic" but not "spic" for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:46 PM
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"Privilege" has a specific meaning in the language -- unequal, favorable treatment by the law. White people haven't gotten that for 50 years. Blacks get plenty of it now. That might be your definition but it isn't anyone else's definition. Besides, you're completely delusional if you think whites don't get favorable treatment under the law Show me a black person who complains of racism and I'll show you a whiner who behaved in a way no white person would ever get away with, and got at least some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:41 PM
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How come when that's published in my school newspaper, word for word, people agree, but when I say it in an online forum I'm called a troll. There is such a thing as audience demographics, ok? A School newspaper and this particular subreddit have VASTLY different audience demographics. You would expect to be downvoted on /r/protectandserve for saying "PIG COPS TRY TO ILLEGALLY TAKE MY POT BRO" but probably be upvoted in /r/anarchy or /r/trees for the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:32 PM
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White privilege is absolutely a real thing, with a few caveats. "X Privilege" is defined as the set of systemic advantages that you experience exclusively due to being a member of class X. Usually in terms of disadvantages given due to not being a member of class X. This is a fine theory, except there exists a set of privileges for every class, also relative to your current situation as an individual. Yes, there's black privilege. Yes, there's female privilege. Yes, there's gay privilege. Partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:30 PM
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"people of color" is not the same as "colored people". It's not. Whole different set of connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:25 PM
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Well, for one thing, you know very well that "people of color" is currently considered to be a politically correct term for minorities by the people who advocate such things, and "colored people" is a term that was used exclusively by racists in the 40s and 50s to enforce Jim Crow. If you don't actually understand the distinction and aren't simply trolling then I'm sorry but you have a lot more research to do before you can comment or think about race.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:25 PM
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Shit don't tell anyone :-p Intriguingly, you act as if such a person would have to be machiavellian to be this way. I submit that such a person would not have to be lying: it's possible to actually be that way sincerely. I'm actually a feminist. I'm actually sex-positive. I'm actually poly. I have a wife, a girlfriend, and I have a plate or two right now. It's not some kind of inward-outward disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 05:08 PM
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What is there to learn? Bunch of dry tinder, balled in your hand, scrape down the flint so the sparks go into the tjnder. Blow. Repeat as necessary. "What's there to learn about driving? Sit in a comfy chair, grab the wheel thing. Push the pedals and turn the wheel where you want the thing to go. Repeat as necessary. Sure I can drive. I've watched them do it on TV" If the apocalypse comes making a fire with flint won't help me.. We've got a 65m pop on land that can only support 4m even if we kne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:43 PM
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I know how to do so but have never done so.. just watched it on tv. Point of dick-measuring: You should actually learn how to do this. Seeing it on TV doesn't count. It's not hard to learn but it takes practice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:22 PM
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How was your house heated growing up? Electric, Gas, Wood, Coal? Gas Can you light a fire with flint and steel? Yes What was the population density of where you grew up? 4,631.7 / sq mi then 2,390.8/sq mi Have you ever been to a historical reenactment? Yes In highschool or college have you ever been part of Swing Dance, Samba Dance, Lacrosse, Humans Vs Zombies, Yoga, Entrepreneurial Club, Society of Automotive Engineers, or Society of Women's Engineers? No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:14 PM
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It's not much of a "red pill" to believe the obvious is true, To you, perhaps, but many men are not socially conditioned to "see the code" so to speak. In fact, there is great social advantage to condition them to be unaware of it....so just because you don't share their perspective and think "oh yeah, it's obvious" doesn't mean that the perspective is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 06:50 PM
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Honestly there's a fallacy there ai think. For you, used to judging a woman using your terms, 6/10 almost EXCLUSIVELY refers to appearance because thats the only attribute that contributes to her value. Applying the same metric to men is flawed: value comes from other factors than appearance...so to say "he's 6/10 but he's socially inept" is like saying "She's 6/10 but she's 400 lbs of harpie"....the additional characteristic MAKES her a 1/10 so it makes no sense to say "6/10 except...." No matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 03:43 PM
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I actually don't know what you're trying to say here. I know which studies you are referring to and they almost always conclude that men are more helpful in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 03:33 PM
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No problem. Sorry for my confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 12:12 AM
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If you could make a lot of money doing something that was harmful to society (like dumping toxic waste that was harmful to the environment), but would have no consequences on you, would you do it? Why or why not? No. Non-aggression principle applies. Dumping toxic waste that is harmful to other people (especially on property that I do not own) is immoral because it hurts other people against their will. Is there anything wrong with someone who would pursue self interest at the cost of society/ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 08:14 PM
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You can't and that's their damn point. As a man, you can't do goddamned shit to prevent being raped or being accused of rape. As a woman, you can't to goddamned shit to prevent being raped or being accused of rape. At the end of the day, nothing can be 100% effective at preventing someone from being victimized. Nothing. That said, in both cases there are obviously preventative measures that intelligent people can take to reduce their risk of either thing happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 07:46 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:33 PM
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I so rarely agree with you but you nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:32 PM
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On the other, a man's body autonomy. He was raped and she should be tried. His body is no longer involved. Rapists should be in prison and probably not have a family, regardless of what she chooses to do about the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:32 PM
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No, such a thing would be an absolute nightmare for fraud and abuse and would be incredibly messy and difficult to prove. Divorce would become even more of a mindfuck manipulation game than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:29 PM
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We met on WhatsYourPrice[1] . I offered $25 for a date (my profile says I never offer more). She accepted, we went out, I gave her $25 and that's the last time she expected money from me. ....dude. I pay for all our dates because she's barely keeping her head above water. She always thanks me. I mean, this is fine sorta (you absolutely are still paying) but this makes her a plate not a LTR. We haven't talked about "the future" that much because it's only been a month, but we are exclusive. eeeee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 07:59 PM
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Now having a career won't make you more sexually attractive to men, but that's not what women want anyways. We want relief from our identity as sexual creatures. We want a new identity that accrues admiration and respect. Fine, you can have it. Stop bitching about how oppressed you are, stop talking about gender. Go build something/do something worth admiration and respect. The best astrophysicist I ever met was a woman. She didn't constantly talk about how great it was to be a woman in stem. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:45 PM
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Do you think these men are being unreasonable, or are the women being unreasonable for not responding to the request for photos? The men are being unreasonable. Especially in the online dating/texting venue. In a bar/club it's a little more subtle but not much. Almost always the men are being unreasonable, but occasionally women actively try to get men to approach them so that they can stroke their ego in shutting them down in the worst, loudest, most shaming and violent way possible. This is ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:36 PM
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It's extortion if you lie about the paternity of a child and force a man to unknowingly spend money on a kid that isn't his. If you disagree with this you are a misandrist point blank. ex·tor·tion: n. the practice of obtaining something, especially money, through force or threats. How is it extortion? What is being threatened? If you disagree with this you are a misandrist point blank. Lol. I guess I better go chop my dick off then. Look, cheating sucks. If someone cuckolded you: e.g. cheated an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 07:51 PM
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I'm asking under conditions would a man expressing this idea to a woman result in him getting to go see the Martian with her They're already married. Only condition I can see this idea resulting in the outcome you've described.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 07:49 PM
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It's a crime and they should go to jail for it. Lol what? It's not a crime, and nobody should be put in a cage because they cheated. That's stupid as fuck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 05:10 PM
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Side note: Murder happens elsewhere at comparable rates to here, usually within a factor of two or five. Singling out 'gun homicide' as a distinct and separate category from 'homicide' is disingenuous at best, because when it comes to judging how likely you are to be dead from being murdered, the method doesn't really matter. It's like making 'Citroen Crashes' a distinct category from 'Crashes' and then acting like the US is 100x safer to drive in because of the 'Citroen Fatality Rate'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:02 PM
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I think the political spectrum of TRP is probably fairly distributed, because TRP is orthogonal to most political viewpoints and thus compatible with all of them. Perhaps it depends on what you consider 'politics' Myself, for example, am a left-leaning anarcho-libertarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:27 PM
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The top of the bell curve doesn't need to have any delusions about where they stand, because they can reasonably get whoever they want. They've never or rarely wanted someone and failed to get them, because the top is on parity or better than everyone. The bottom of the bell curve gave up/is well aware of their standing and probably at some point decided to settle without a lot of fuss. Hopes crushed, no need to hold out. The middle all want to believe they can do better than they can, because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:24 PM
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I'd point out that fundamentally the imperative for both sexes WRT mating is ”have the most success in passing on your genes” The gendered ”imperatives” you describe are actually built on top of that goal based on markets, and are therefore somewhat flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 02:30 PM
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Theres more than just what I said to it. Necessary but not sufficient blah blah blah. I don't know enough about you to tell. Probably starts somewhere with your attitude based on your flair. ”Doctor, running can't be healthy. I run every day before I head to the bar for the night and I STILL have liver failure and colon cancer”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 02:27 PM
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Or, is that some kind of shit test? Possible replies? My idea is... if they need to put something in front of sex and having fun, well, I'm not too attractive to both of them. Yes EDIT: I sent her a text "I like you and I respect you. I declared exclusivity in my life once. It ended badly. I am not declaring it to anybody." Nope, I wouldn't even bother.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:48 PM
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You absolutely should have not said any of the shit you responded with. That's giving into their frame. This response given by /u/RPthrowaway123 is PERFECT "Since your message indicated I could be charged with a crime, I have contacted forwarded this message to my lawyer. If further action is needed, please let me know."
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:44 PM
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Women are not people to alphas. They are just another notch on his belt. These things are not mutually exclusive, as in, you're totally wrong about not considering women people. Considering someone a notch in his belt is not at all dehumanizing intrinsically. You go to the store and you talk to the person there serving you coffee. They want your money, they give you coffee. You aren't falling in love with them or anything, you merely see them as a 'notch in your morning coffee belt'...but you ST…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:16 PM
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Yes, I do agree with Garnet's advice. Interestingly, it's the main problem that "beta" guys exhibit in spades. They pedestalize (read, treat her like she's better than them) and objectify (read, treat her like a beautiful princess who can do no wrong) women who they "love" (when they have no fucking idea what she likes, who she is, or even if she's actually a good person). This is super disgusting and offensive to most women. In contrast, "alpha" guys treat women like people, (as in, politely ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 08:07 PM
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I've never cares about a guys number, dated a few virgins. That's awesome for you in the sense that you are being incredibly sex-positive and progressive in your mate choices, but most women do not do this. And I've also never had a problem finding guy despite my number.. You don't have any way of knowing how your number has effected your value because nobody is going to spit in your face and call you a slut they just won't call you back the morning after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 06:56 PM
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Because generally speaking women have nearly all of the agency when it comes to purely sexual interactions (with regards to whether or not sex occurs, not whether or not it's good or high-quality or socially valuable) The thing is that the 'n-count' metric isn't actually measured as a metric of 'how many times has a penis been inside a vagina'. It's almost always brought up as a proxy measurement for social and sexual market value as opposed to one's peers. Given that women have all the agency o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 06:55 PM
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I was wondering what figures would we get if we surveyed a sample of 30 yrs old men and ask them how many sex partners (excluding prostitutes) they've ever had but before we inject them the right amount of sodium penthotal or truth serum in order to make it impossible for them to lie. Good luck getting that past IRB brah I suspect the figure would be considerably lower than expected. This is probably true. For what it's worth my actual number is 23 (I'm 27) but then it turned out that he only ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 06:42 PM
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I just mean forget all of this shit. Stop looking for gender stuff. Stop trying to see relationships through a lens. Stop trying to point out AF/BB. Stop wondering about how alpha you are or whether a random woman on the street despises you. Just stop caring/thinking/being inside your head. It's entirely possible to be a human being who doesn't think about the sexual marketplace or social dynamics or worry about whether or not they are being judged or notice that their mom is doing X or their si…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 06:36 PM
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Guys: have you ever really encountered a vagina that you didn't like? Yes, but it wasn't really a big deal. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:33 PM
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So I read your posts on here and ypu seem like a rational person Please please please take me seriously when I say that the red pill is too strong for you right now and you are nowhere NEAR close to ready for it . You are in so much trouble you desperately desperately NEED to get offline, read some books, and most importantly COMPLETELY FORGET the red pill or the blue pill or MGTOW or anything approximating gender or relationship issues. Any time you spend thinking about this stuff now is actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:14 PM
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RP seems to have a marked anti-feminist slant. Which is ironic because they actually support pretty much all of actual feminism's ideals just without meaning to and in different language. Open Hypergamy and AF/BB as a result of the sexual revolution RP doesn't oppose the sexual revolution. What, you think that you could have sex on the third date or sooner with any amount of "Game" before women had agency? Before women could ensure against pregnancy? Fuck no. RP doesn't oppose hypergamy either o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 06:27 AM
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What's confusing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:15 AM
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So, so much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 02:20 AM
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"Consent is the presence of a yes, not the absence of a no. Not fighting back physically or screaming for help, doesn't mean you consent. It means you're scared." Modern day love making for couples must be rape every single day... coz theres no 'yes' voiced out Meh, only autistic people can't tell the difference between non-verbal enthusiastic consent and rape. What these women seem to be doing is to force the idea that she must be confused coz she was abused and shes some victim, and she cant p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:26 PM
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You asked why someone would get married to someone they had to lie to. The answer is "They have a lot of pressure to get married and they won't be able to if they tell the truth" It's pretty much that simple. At what point they knew that would happen is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:23 PM
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I agree, but the thing to keep in mind is that there's a lot of social pressure to get married in some cultures and if your "marriage options" go down significantly because you told the truth then eventually you'll decide not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:11 PM
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Meh, everyone does this shit. If you were about to get married to a guy and one of your bridesmaids pulled you aside and said "Hey, so I know you didn't ask but I work at a police station and got curious so I pulled up a background check on this guy...anyway he's got a couple DV charges and a LOT of sketchy connections to gambling and the mob.....so watch out, ok?" That would be her being a good friend, because good friends intervene if they think a mistake is being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:11 PM
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Since then my little brother has become something of a redpill preacher. Every guy he meets he tries to recruit them. Oh man. Facepalm. Rule 1 used to be "Don't talk about RP". What the fuck dude. My brother first time meeting Nikki and her boyfriend Amit (fake name), makes a comment that this dude looks like a total beta. Cringe intensifies. If you need to explain you're the king, you probably aren't. He told Amit, about Nikki’s past guys, that she is settling for him, that she was only into Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:10 PM
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This question won't work because women don't want to see the men they sleep with as 'betas' because betas are disgusting and nobody wants to admit to sleeping with them. Similarly, the men who they picture when they imagine what RP calls 'alpha' are disgusting too, because they aren't real alphas they are beta tryhards. This question is like asking RPers "How many of you are married to a fat ugly feminist slut? How many of you are married to a 'strong' beautiful woman?" The answers you get will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:02 PM
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Yes, exactly. She doesn't deserve his money or attention or provision going into the future. However, that's not what alimony is about. If a man had to cut off his dick for a woman (as in literally cut it off, as in, he could never get it back) you'd better bet your ass there would be compensation granted to him in the event of a divorce to cover his opportunity-cost. Like I said, if a company goes under because a CEO tanked it he's liable to try to recoup the assets of the shareholders that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:54 PM
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min socially acceptable desired age range...y=x/2+7 y=54/2+7=27+7=34 37-34=age difference between the her actual age and the min GC can get away with=3 It seems like the argument is that it's INCONCIEVABLE that george clooney would POSSIBLY see any of her qualities as making up for the SMV lost from being 3 years older than she could be...I think that's silly. I think aging well and being classy/other qualities are probably WELL worth a -x cost where x is the value of 3 years less of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:45 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:38 PM
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He's dating a woman half his age who's also gorgeous for her age and also incredibly intelligent. Yeah, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 03:24 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 03:10 PM
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Yeah basically. Although practically speaking he shouldn't try to bleed her dry as a long drawn out manipulation game, he should just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:16 AM
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So if neither is entitled to anything from the other; then to my mind there's no point to marriage. Then don't get married. Isn't that redpill 101 man? Don't get married? People who are actually married who do it because they love each other as opposed to because they think it guarantees specific resource extraction will continue to do so and you can simply not do so because you aren't going to be given the guarantees you expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:14 AM
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Do you agree that a wife is not entitled to a man's financial provisioning? That's right Do you agree that alimony in all cases should therefore be abolished? Alimony isn't justified based on a 'transfer wealth to the woman' perspective. The purpose of it legally is based on the fact that if someone sacrificed their career or sacrificed any form of potential benefit for the relationship then it's not fair to rob them of it. When a company goes bankrupt the assets of the company are paid to the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:17 PM
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I think part of the problem would be when one party or the other behaves fraudulently with respect to the contract, as in, they agree to the terms up front then suddenly stop abiding by them. For example, if a man tells his wife he will be faithful then after they are married and there are stakes (like children) he starts to cheat on her constantly. Or a woman tells her husband (or implies it...I think most people rationally expect that marriage implies sex) that she will have sex with him, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:04 PM
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If you are putting a whole lot more than your partner and cannot foresee that changing you should not marry that person. Dingdingding. If you already did marry this person, you should divorce them. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:03 PM
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Yep. Nobody is entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:03 PM
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Is a wife entitled to anything from a husband? Emotional "availability"? Emotional intimacy? Companionship, friendship, love? Repeat after me, over and over and over again, chant it until it finally sinks in. This is a RP mantra (and a capitalist mantra, and a feminist mantra). "In a free society, nobody is entitled to anything from another. If an association is not mutually beneficial, the parties to the transaction are free to leave." Got that? Good, do it again. "In a free society, nobody is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:02 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 09:59 PM
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What if she decides, unilaterally, that she doesn't want to have sex anymore? Then you divorce. Unconditionally. And does a man have to continually "earn" sex? No. Can a husband therefore say to a wife "if I have to continually earn sex; then you must continually earn my time, labor and resources"? He can, but it's pointless. He doesn't have to continually earn sex because he should value himself (and she should value him) enough to the point where it's not an issue. He should simply divorce her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 09:59 PM
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At first, I though that she is a prostitute on the side, but they don't kiss and she's invited me for a party with friends... Lol. Dude. "Prostitutes don't kiss" is a hilarious myth. the party is cancelled, we're going on a date in a few days. I will try to move into the FWB direction. People have asked for a FR, there will be one. Also, to end the subject of STIs, I never go unprotected outside of LTRs or FWBs so it's not an issue. I mean, whatever man, do you.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 07:48 PM
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"I don't like those blonde and big-tit bimbos other guys like, I like nerdy , normal, average girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 07:44 PM
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Because of the law of supply and demand and market dynamics. "Hey wanna switch to ATT?" "You could save hundreds by switching to GEICO"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 02:44 PM
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"I think girls with long hair are sexier." It's not really a shit test, more like a demand for you to give her a compliance test. The problem is that if you give in to her demand to tell her what to do you're actually submitting to her frame even as you give her orders. (She told you to order her around so you comply). Also, when she hamsters it later with her friends she's going to be able to say "He wouldn't let me cut it short!" and its a way to pass responsibility on to you. Finally, it's he…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:50 PM
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Has stated to my wife that she'd only be interested in an LTR with a guy making 100k+ per year. Good luck with that. Has an N-count of 50+, due to her 'wild phase' which had to do with self esteem issues stemming from childhood. Good for her. Although the excuses make me gag. Started to be interested in monogamy and LTRs around 30. Has been (or claims to have been) monogamous with the same BF for past 2.5 years. shrug Recently ditched that BF because she started developing feelings for another g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 09:41 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 09:35 PM
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Well, committed lesbians are not into Alphas. Ostensibly, yes. OTOH, I've fucked or been propositioned by all the "lesbians" I've ever met. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 09:33 PM
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Claims that women are pointless outside sex I mean, all people are 'pointless' really. Claims that you have to emotionally abuse women for them to love/respect you You don't have to but it helps ;). J/K. The serious response is that what TRP isn't actually emotional abuse in most cases, (or rather, you shouldn't emotionally abuse people) but that what you should do is so outside the bounds of our social training that we consider it abusive. For many men (and women) telling ANYONE (men or women) …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 09:32 PM
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I'm truly sorry you don't know what it's like when a woman qualifies to you. My wife greeted me yesterday wearing lingerie and a sandwich. She started blowing me while I ate the sandwich. When I was done I invited her up to ride me but she shooj her head and said "please no, I just want this right now" (albeit a bit muffled). As I fucked her throat she started moaning and came as I did (she was touching herself). My girlfriend annoyed her best friends because she was looking for my favorite whis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 12:57 PM
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If no woman will ever do that for you then your smv is too low. raise it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 12:47 PM
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Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:53 PM
2

Women require men to work for her benefit and in return get even more expectations and demands. Then don't be with her. It's not that fucking hard. RP theory calls this "Make her qualify to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:52 PM
3

I am and I agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:51 PM
2

So much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:51 PM
3

Fair enough. That whole post is emotionally driven gibberish imho. Total whining betafag crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:25 PM
2

But I want to know why there's this idea that all single mothers, except maybe widows, are horrible people. I don't think they're horrible people. I think that at some point they possibly were horrible people (as in, when they were younger and hotter and had more of a bargaining position) and there's schadenfreude about the fact that now that their bargaining position is greatly diminished they are panicking. I understand that there's some understandable outrage toward women who literally lie an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:21 PM
17

I think that the main complaint is the acknowledgement that there's a double standard w.r.t masturbation and bodily autonomy. Nobody would suggest that it's acceptable to shame a woman for having a vibrating double-penetrating glass/silicone penis in her nightstand. Nobody would suggest that it's morally or sexually unacceptable for a woman to create a fantasy in her head of her own personal Christian Grey. Nobody would ever say that reading yaoi comics is something to be ashamed of. Nobody woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:08 PM
1

All humans deserve the same amount of respect and dignity. Statistically classes can act in ways that are less or more valued by the social mores.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:01 PM
1

No one will have work, Sweet. Technology creating efficiency of distribution and production of resources is fucking great. humans will become useless to the economy and civilization will fall. Wait, what? This is simply not how economics works. robots are not conscious I mean, citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:58 PM
1

I don't really follow how anything you said had anything to do with what I said. My argument is basically this: The turing test is designed as a way to assign ethical labels to an entity. We may or may not know if a given entity (call it X) is a person, or at least, should ethically be considered a person. The turing test gives us a sufficient (but not necessary) condition about when we should assign that label. As in, if entity X can convince you that it is a person when you aren't able to see …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:51 PM
5

Why is it wrong for some women to both support the wider fat acceptance movement and still be personally attracted to men who are muscular at low body fat? It's not. "Fat Acceptance" comes in two forms. The most common form is "Do not accept the judgement or abuse of others for who you are". This is a positive thing. It's completely acceptable to believe that people should not be abused or shamed for their body while also being attracted to people who are physically attractive. That's not incons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 09:10 PM
1

What should we call experiences with near realistic sex robots? How realistic? Can they pass a turing test? If not, we should call the experience 'masturbation', or possibly 'bestiality'. If so, we should call the experience 'getting laid' Are there ethical concerns we need to guard against? See my answer to previous question. Particularly regarding 'bestiality' and 'getting laid'. It is questionably moral to have sex with an entity of complexity greater than a dog or small child who cannot cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 09:05 PM
3

The problem here is that this is like asking, in a barter economy, "How rich am I?" It's not an unanswerable question per-se, but value depends on what the people who have the things you want think about the value of the things you have. If you only want oranges and you have hundreds of fishheads, then whether or not you are rich or poor is completely contingient on whether or not the guy selling oranges is willing to give you a lot of them for not a lot of fishheads. Even after you make the 'sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 09:00 PM
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We're having that debate in another thread, but all this is right except for the ultimatum part. Like, seriously it violates SOOO many core red pill principles, like, what "You're giving her a choice" a choice to what? I thought red pill believed in alpha men making their own choice and women either follow or get left behind. "You give her one last chance to tell you she'll fix it"...what? I thought RP teaches that "Verbal promises are empty because humans are weak. Watch what she does not what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:17 PM
1

So, what, you're a racist now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:05 PM
4

Because it's not just being physically attractive. It's being attractive AND also losing your neediness AND having an abundance mentality AND not being needy as fuck or demanding AND being internally willing to make a change in a relationship you aren't happy with. (All of which is also "being attractive" to TRP so I guess it's redundant) If you just said "Be attractive" then most people wouldn't understand that the key isn't just being an airbrushed model, it's being you in such a way that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:28 AM
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Sjw morality: it is only wrong to mistreat another person if they are less privileged than you. That's why it's "impossible to be sexist against men" or "impossible to be racist against white people". To be fair, part of this stems from the way that they overload those words in a way that is different from what it means to most people, which they do on purpose. Specifically, they say "-ism" is the specific combination of beliefs that comes from having a socially global position of power in addit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:26 AM
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I used to think it was REALLY COOOL, but now I just sorta see it as a non-thing. It's like knowing that the stars are nuclear explosions, or that people are statistically likely to be rude to homeless people, or that popcorn pops in the microwave. As a kid: "WOW! LOOK AT THOSE LIGHTS! THEY'RE LIKE FIREFLIES BUT THEY'RE ACTUALLY EXPLOSIONS BOOOM!! HAHA!" As an adult: "Nice stars tonight. Neat. I wonder how long the light has been traveling. Pretty." As a kid: "HOLY SHIT THAT GUY IS FUCKING SMELLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:09 AM
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hitting on other women and Honestly, most women I've dated consider smiling at other women, or even looking at them or meeting their gaze while talking "hitting on other women". If I did what my girlfriends want I'd literally never talk to anyone in public like sharia law. I consider "dread game" simply to subtly return flirtations you are already receiving (due to being hot) by being polite and warm. I do not recommend to catcall people or do openers on the waitress at dinner. That's fucking in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:04 AM
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Agree to the break up, explicitly point out that one can't make any promises about getting back together afterwards, because the future is a long time away and that's not fair to people I'm going to be with while she's gone. Seek a new girlfriend/plates/whatever while she's gone and forget about her. If/when she comes back and I'm currently still single, maybe fool around more/see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:58 AM
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I agree, basically. The intention to try to change your partners behavior is absolutely manipulative. However, the subtlety between that and 'innocent' dread game is pretty minor.. "I want to become more attractive and I want my wife to notice me and fuck me" vs. "I want to become more attractive because I want my wife to notice me and fuck me" The former is technically more emotionally healthy and less manipulative than the latter, but I'm really not going to be offended by the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:55 AM
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Lol this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:51 AM
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Privilege as a theory is the recognition that there are specific and measurable ways in which if you control for all other variables then subconscious or conscious market forces that exist in society give particular classes an advantage. It's not necessarily assigning blame directly or saying that particular people have the traits because they are a part of the class. The important part I think is the idea of how it 'targets'. A class-based 'privilege' isn't necessarily the direct fault of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:48 AM
1

So much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:41 AM
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In the idea that your partner will change her behaviour because she is afraid of losing you. In my opinion, dread game has no place in a healthy relationship. So, I think it comes down to a lot of subtlety. Answer me this: 1) Should a partner who isn't getting their needs met in some way stay in the relationship out of obligation? 2) Does a person have the right to work to improve their appearance, work on their charisma, or speak publicly to members of the opposite sex? Or is it acceptable to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:41 AM
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I thought the whole point of dread is to make them fear losing you so that they stay. If you're breaking up with them, obviously you don't want them to stay, so how is that dread? Maybe I just don't understand the concept. You're half right. I don't know the other song, but I think "Single Ladies" counts, because she wouldn't even be talking to him if she actually wanted to never see him again. What's the point in taunting someone you want to break up with? The only reason to express the point o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:33 AM
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at its core dread-game is just push-pull Not at all. It's TOTALLY different. the problem is when you do it by hitting her across the mouth etc What the fuck no. Alpha guys don't hit women unless they are tied to the ceiling and begging them to hit them harder. People in power don't need to demonstrate it with force, they simply ARE power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:31 AM
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You do know that "dread game" as you put it is totally irrelevant in this course of events as you described them? He was a typical lazy stupid flabby modern man who in the way of typical lazy stupid flabby modern men has let himself go in a relationship and get fatter and more sluglike than his wife, he pulls his shit together and his wife is attracted to him just like she used to be. I mean, basically, yeah. "Dread game" is called that because people who are used to seeing their partner unattra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:29 AM
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Games up... Divorce ultimatum. Either we stay together and fuck like husband and wife. Or we divorce and he will go make a new life with one of these other girls you can see are attracted to him. She gets the final choice. And that's that. Game over. Everything you said, except for the ultimatum part. Ultimatums are super beta and controlling and needy. If you're actually hot and outcome independent she'll understand the nature of the threat as subtext without throwing it in her face and demandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:22 AM
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Dread game specifically refers to a strategy in relationships. Actions and behavior that causes dread. Yeah, that's what I said. I said "being hot enough to visibly attract the attention of others (as in, others not the partner who is feeling dread)"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:58 PM
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1) Nope, never done that. 2) Nope, 3) Nope, 4) Nope, 5) Nope, 6) Nope, 7) I've used the words, but I don't think they meant what you think they mean. 8) Nope, never done this 9) Nope, not to my knowledge 10) Yeah I did this, but this is because I changed my mind when I was sober. I was under the impression that relationships are about consent right? 11) Nope, never done this...although again, this shouldn't matter unless sex is actually about bargaining. I thought that relationships weren't cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:28 PM
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I think this question belies a misunderstanding of how/why these strategies work. Negging is teasing to prove that you don't need someone's approval, and yes, I've been teased by women before as a part of courtship and yes it works. If a woman walked up to me and called me a fucking fat asshole then I'd probably walk. If a woman said "Haha, you think just 'cause you're hot that I'd call you back? ;)" then yeah that's hot as fuck. Dread game is just "being hot enough to visibly attract the attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:17 PM
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Emergency Room Care is, by definition, not a market, because the "customer" is not given the ability to choose between providers. In fact, typically customers of emergency room services are either unconscious or otherwise in a position where their ability to consent is compromised. No market can exist where actors have no choices. Thus discussion of the hypothetical deregulation of that market is nonsense because no market exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 05:31 AM
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I guess the difference between you and me is that even if all that is probably true, I don't care. Markets are ALWAYS better for pretty much all actors (except the super wealthy) when they are deregulated, and deregulation is awesome: after a period of instability, there's a correction, then everyone ends up happier and more even and more stable. Capitalism and Market Choice are fucking great. For all the whining and bitching and moaning RP guys do about the state of the "uneven" SMP, they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:32 AM
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Is it a pre-rational attempt to manipulate men into being beta-bux? Is it just the politically correct thing to say in order to not seem as shallow ? Do women actually do want nice guys but also attractive ones so it's a half truth? any/All of the above depending on the person/situation. All are valid reasons to do so. One things early Redpillers who are still plugged in don't understand is that none of those reasons, even though they certainly feel really malicious, actually are so. In reality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:23 AM
1

I think it's a bad idea for anyone to marry anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 04:41 AM
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Pretend we're all genderless aliens. We all have the same parts. Every one of us. You're about to go on a date. Would you prefer to not pay for it? Yes. Boom. There you go. That doesn't make you a hypocrite. What would make you a hypocrite would be if you didn't want to pay but dumped your prospective agendered very nice very pretty very handsome date because they did not want to pay either. That makes you a hypocrite. Nothing wrong with being a hypocrite, people can choose to only fuck generous…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:14 AM
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I'm impressed. If she's hot, I'm turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:06 AM
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No, because everyone wants to not pay for stuff. As long as she doesn't judge or dump them for not doing it it's fine. If she judges them or dumps them for not fulfilling their gender role, then yes she's being a hypocrite but there's nothing wrong with that. People have their own preferences. But she loses the right to be taken seriously when she is upset because she got dumped for the cute subby smiling blond in the sundress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:04 AM
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There is a difference and that difference can be determined by non-verbal consent cues and tone and all kinds of other stuff that's obvious if you aren't autistic. However, I think it's best to play dumb and just bail in either case. No gray area to deal with, and if she says "not now maybe later" then she obviously doesn't want me bad enough to not play games. Well babe there are other women who want to suck my dick "now" so bye. When "Later" comes around give me a call.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:02 AM
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Manipulating involves deception and it's also about intent. The difference is subtle, but compare you trying to convince your brother to buy one kind of car over another. The reason you might do this is because you legitimately believe the first car is better (safer/faster/more fuel efficient/cooler) for the price. However, at the end of the day, you don't REALLY care whether or not he picks the car: You just want to convince him to make the choice that is in his self interest because you care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:58 AM
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More. Male and female sexuality are portrayed as very different, but they are almost identical. Men and women have pretty much exactly the same drives and motivations when it comes to sex. The difference is social dynamics and market forces that greatly differ W.R.T sex makes them respond to those incentives differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:51 AM
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Incidentally, I'm one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:51 AM
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The sexual revolution is awesome. Just like capitalism is awesome. Just like the industrial revolution is awesome. Liberty is awesome. Of course, it usually ends up being more awesome for some people than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:50 AM
1

It means that I'm a Red Pill Feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:44 AM
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You're right. Totally serious. Bonus question: Would you seriously actually like to live in the world you've posited? Because I seriously would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:43 AM
1

...I mean.... Please tread carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:23 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:21 PM
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I'm not going to change your view because I agree. The effect has an effect on both sexes. There are some studies which purport that the effect is reduced in men, but there's not a lot of evidence to support it/it's inconclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:20 PM
1

Justification for the Alpha/Beta dichotomy. Alpha is the set of behaviors that signal reproductive success to prospective mates, and thus succeed at said reproductive success. Beta is the set of behaviors that does not result in said success. Alpha/Beta is a dichotomy because, by definition, behaviors either contribute to success or they do not. Alpha/Beta exist because they are whatever behaviors succeed or do not succeed. Whether or not a specific behavior is Alpha (e.g. leads to success) in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 12:04 AM
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so why do redpillers claim to hate feminism so much? If redpillers go on about how the greatest creations in the world were created by men, then they should accept the fact feminism was created by men. Waterboarding was created by men, so therefore if you're redpill you should love being waterboarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:52 PM
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I absolutely feel like whenever I'm with a hot girl I'm the one that has to produce the fun. It's my responsibility to tell stories and probe topics/joke around to see what she responds well to, and it's up to me to keep awkward silence from happening and to keep the date escalating. I've definitely encountered girls that literally give you nothing but shitty 1-word answers to work with and instead just sit there sipping on a drink waiting for you to produce the funny juice. They do, and they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:00 PM
1

She shouldn't. Monogamous marriage is a pretty bad idea for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:48 PM
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Not particularly, not monogamous ones at least. It's rarely a good idea for any party.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:20 PM
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Do you guys honestly think non-RP "Alpha" men care about how many partners their eventual LTR has? Lots and lots of studies and anecdotes have shown that they do. I don't necessarily think that they should, but they do. However, they won't tell you this because "Alpha" men (RP or no) generally have options, and if you have options you probably won't be interested in a LTR, and if you aren't interested in a LTR then you don't give a fuck about history, bang who you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:18 PM
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You've made a commitment to her, possibly married her. There's your first mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:15 PM
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Would you agree this man is emotionally (over)reacting? Yes. It's no different than "all men are evil" after an abuse or something happens...but it's still completely irrational. Would you agree his reaction is illogical and extreme? It's logical in a sense, but it's extreme. Could all of MGTOW/MRM/TRP possibly be having an illogical, emotional and extreme reaction to women that is undeserved? They aren't the same movement anyway, and within the movement they are made up of individuals. Individu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 04:06 PM
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Why do you think that the multimillionaire ex politician being told that he is out of line is the victim here? I don't. I think that the question asked is 'who, as a representative of their class is the greater victim of domestic violence'. A man was the perpetrator, sure, but that wasn't what you asked. The perpetrator victimized two people, a man and a woman. The woman was harassed online. The man is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 01:10 PM
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I mean, are you for real? A boy died and his mom is the real victim? It's a very simple question about an obviously horrible situation: Who became more of a victim as the result of a crime. On one hand, she's being harassed etc as you say. On the other, he's fucking dead. I don't believe that trying to figure out who is more victimized as a class or as individuals is a productive question, but if we are going to ask it, the answer is stupendously simple. He's fucking dead. Let me ask you this, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 05:58 PM
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Now tell me again how men are the real victims here. I'm sorry, I wasn't aware that the point of analyzing institutions of power and social harm was to decide who has it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 03:11 PM
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I'm married, and I currently practice polyamory. I have a wife and a girlfriend. RP principles like 80/20 and alpha/beta apply to an extreme in the poly world. Additionally, women are even more in demand, because more men are willing to do non-monogamy than women are (in my experience). The whole beta-bucks thing can ABSOLUTELY tank your relationship when your girl is out fucking chad thundercock and you're at home masturbating. In fact, it was the poly world and it's hyper-hypergamy that REALLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 03:17 AM
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Male, interested in lifting and gym. Looking for a woman who will respect and adore her man. I appreciate a traditional woman who enjoys cooking for her man and knows what the broom is for. I'm looking for an attractive (7-9) girl who likes a dominant guy and understands that her performance in the bedroom forms part of our relationship contract (blowjobs not optional). For what it's worth, there's a big difference between saying these things and implying these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 12:29 AM
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No, but the point of being a feminist isn't to get sex out of it. If you pay lipservice to ANYTHING so you can get your dick wet then you don't really believe it. See also christians, animal rights groups, whatever. I've almost certainly been 'feminist'-tested by incredibly hot intelligent feminist women, but only AFTER they've decided to bang me for other reasons. It's basically a shit test to see if I'm the real deal or if I'm just trying to get pussy. I always pass, (because I'm actually a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:51 PM
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"Feminists want to raise women above men!" Some self-identified feminists are incredibly sexist and actually consciously or subconsciously believe that men are intrinsically inferior/dangerous/stupid. Some of them act on it by advocating policies that would be directly oppressive to men. For example, many feminist groups would be against giving gender-based financial aid to men to attend college, even though women have had it for years and as a result now something like %62 of people who can aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:42 PM
1

YES! I wish I saw this thread earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 08:01 AM
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Because women want a nice sweet human to go out with, and boring supplicants who only do what they are told and live boring lives and have nothing to say register somewhere above furniture but below a television show on the 'is it a person' scale. The sort of behavior that you would consider 'assholish' if done to a stranger would be exactly the sort of behavior that you would do to a person you respected if you were an actual human being with interests and personal goals. Women want to fuck int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 07:59 AM
1

because TRP is mostly about bangin' a lot of biddies, what's your opinion on women who don't want to have sex? I hope they find happiness without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 03:37 PM
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Soulmates are a statistically ludicrous proposition. Considering that there are 7 billion people in the world, and you only get to see like maybe a few hundred thousand of them in your lifetime, and you only get to meet like maybe 10 thousand, and you only get to date less than 100, if there was exactly one person out there for you the chance that you ever even saw them in a crowd over the course of your whole life is on the order of 1/100000.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 08:04 AM
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Ok, so if I drug you and steal your car it's not theft. After all, you don't have a black eye and if I was mugging you you'd fight back or some shit right? You're stupid as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 07:50 AM
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