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Although you are being downvoted, You are not entirely wrong. Many girls ive spoken to, have told me how their current boyfriends had to ''work'' their way out to be with them. Like they told me how they rejected the guy a few times, after they, finally, after seeing how much effort the dude put, decide to accept them.
/r/seduction24/05/15 03:13 AM
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thanks for this, op
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:46 AM
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You are right. But as a first step for the guys here is kind of a important thing. When they get used to getting numbers, they'll see it that way. It's also important to know that girls will flake, its in their nature, thats why we gotta keep picking up more and more :)
/r/seduction16/05/15 12:46 PM
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Yep. Ive been doing Daygame for the last (almost) 2 weeks. So far I've got 16 numbers. 5 dates. 3 makeouts. And for this Sunday, definitley a F-close. When i ask the girl why would they gave me her number (this is after we kissed). 2 of them said that it was because I seemed really ''trustable'' and make them feel listened and good. It's all about good vibes, people. Getting numbers is a very easy thing we all can do. There is nothing to be afraid of. Yesterday Ive got 0 numbers and I didnt gave…
/r/seduction16/05/15 12:43 PM
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We all have it, man. Sometimes you just get tired of running and hiding, and awesome stuff happens.
/r/seduction15/05/15 08:36 AM
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So happy for you, man.
/r/seduction13/05/15 10:26 AM
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Not much actually. I've been doing approaches consistenly (everyday) since the 4th of may. Every day i do, at least, one cold approach; the other ones are always indirect. I'm not really that confortable with direct approach yet haha. My first CA was a few months ago, and the girl just looked at me with a ''go away'' look on her face. It was probably because i was and acted nervous as fuck. Since then i stopped doing cold approaches until last week :)
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:24 AM
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Approach them if you find them interesting/like them. That's enough reason. Now, if the girl is looking at you for that long, that's like an invitation for you to approach her. Just do it ! :) And no, i don't think strangers holding eye contact while they walk past is that common. At least, it doesn't happen to me that much.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:10 PM
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Good post, op!
/r/seduction12/05/15 10:09 PM
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Always escalate my friend.
/r/seduction12/05/15 02:35 AM
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It was hard before i sat next to her. The second my butt was on the seat all that fear and axiety just disappeared. She didn't move when i sat there. I think she was a little confused because, all of the sudden, a random guy just sat next to her and started talking like he knew her from some time. So thats why I made clear my intentions by telling her that I found her really cute as my reason to be sitting down there.
/r/seduction08/05/15 01:50 AM
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This is so funny, but its problably because im high
/r/seduction08/05/15 12:11 AM
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How is asking for a number when you meet someone new awkward? I do that all the time in college. Not only with girls, but dudes, If you had a good time with someone you just met, It's only natural to want to keep in touch with him/her.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:42 AM
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Dont set yourself for rejection. Just go with the mindset of having fun while you approach!
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:36 AM
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Believe it or not i never tried that kiss on the lips trick that you said at the end. I wanna do it now! haha
/r/seduction06/05/15 11:35 PM
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Sure, man
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:38 PM
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where does guys like you come from lol
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:55 AM
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Congratulations, man. Just remember to keep approaching. Keep getting dates. It happened to me that after the first K close or F close im like ''My job is done here'' and i stop doing seduction for weeks. Then, when i want to approach again is somehow like starting over.
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:51 AM
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sure, man. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2rmfhb/fr_german_girl_i_met_on_the_bus/
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:44 AM
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I only met one german girl on January (did a fr btw) and the same day i met her, i got a make out. From here i could tell you that german girls are very sexually open or whatever. But id be generalizing. I don't think nationality matters that much. You just had the luck to meet a certain kind of german girls. :)
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:02 AM
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Im about to take imporv classes, can you tell me how did it improve your social skills? :)
/r/seduction03/05/15 12:59 PM
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Ive been trying to do direct approach and it hasnt got me good results. Girls are always like ''Hum... ok'' They find it odd i guess. What ive found out is that being honest about my intentions after an indirect approach makes the girl more confortable. For example: (after asking the hour or whatever, ''I actually thought you were cute and i said whatever i got in my mind just to talk to you'')
/r/seduction01/05/15 04:35 PM
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I guess maybe. But i never got it on such a explicit way (i dont know if this is the right word). Like, the times ive been rejected were because the girl was not ready yet(for example, id try to kiss her but she wouldnt want to, and after a few more dates eventually se have sex) So yeah, ive never been called out because of muy looks by any girl until yesterday. I don know if it influenced but i has a messy beard at the time that make me lool like a hobo(my friends tell me this a lot haha)
/r/seduction25/04/15 07:03 PM
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English is not my first language. I speak spanish and its kind of hard to express myself as fluent as i can be in spanish when i try to speak english. I am sorry for the grammar mistakes by the way.
/r/seduction25/04/15 06:54 PM
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Thanks, man.
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:22 AM
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Like i mentioned on my post, When i turned around the B girl looked at me and whispered to C ''oh god no hahah''. Inmidiatley after this, B wouldn't even look at me when I asked her something. You are right though, my mindset and reactions were really low too, and maybe the rejection wasnt entirely because of my looks. But, seriously man, you could tell how B didnt even want me near her from the first time. Even C had to answer for her because she wouldnt listen to me. Even my friend told me how…
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:02 AM
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I just got a flake a few hours ago. It was from a girl i met en the bus a week ago. I never has such a great first interaction un muy life. We were laughing and joking with eachother all the time. It felt like weve knew eachother from years. So i told her i wanted to meet her en thursday (today). She confirms. Some hours passed( i was already sleeping) and when i wake up, i see i got a text from her at 2:00am. "Sorry im not going to make it, gonna meet with friends tomorrow". And then she blocks…
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:53 AM
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Good job, but i think you could have gone for the number anyways. In situations like these i always remeber to myself that being bold is awesome.
/r/seduction11/04/15 09:47 PM
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Great read, man! I want to ask you something about the first kiss. After you said that she looked beautiful, did she looked at you or just looked away and you went for the kiss anyway? It may be a very particular question, but I'm really curious about that first move we all do when going for the kiss.
/r/seduction06/04/15 12:06 AM
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Lord GabeN haha. I though it was used only on the doto community.
/r/seduction27/03/15 06:30 PM
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Dude if they look at you, it's like an invitationj for you to approach. Every time I approach a girl who stares at me, the interaction always feels not so 'random' like when you approach a girl that didnt even see you. And, of course, I get the number, because assuming attraction is way easier when they look at you :)
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:12 PM
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I know that feeling bro.
/r/seduction27/03/15 03:36 AM
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Actually, you are right. I had trouble with girls when i was 15-16. At 17 i developed a different mindset. Which was: Girls want to fuck as much as guys do. I just started approaching girls(not on the street, but on class) that i found attractive. Some were receptive, some were not. Thats how i found my first girlfriend. She was this crazy hot girl that saw the world the same way as I did. But because I was approaching so much (it became automatic) i met other girls and I ended up making out wit…
/r/seduction26/03/15 05:24 PM
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I mean ive started pick up a few moths ago hahaha. The thing is i can't say a girl to come over my place because i live with my parents.
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:35 PM
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Thats great, dude! I hope someday ill do that when I'll live on my own
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:33 PM
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True. I learned it. This is why whe should always go and pick up girls, go on dates: to gain the reference experience and learn from our mistakes.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:44 AM
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Thanks for finding it! Ill put it on the op.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:41 AM
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Hello
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:38 AM
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Did you playfully chase her after she told you that ''Its not important''? I think she was into you!
/r/seduction24/03/15 07:45 PM
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I'm still looking for it! The original post was from a dude who never kissed a girl before and one of the comments had this step by step guide!
/r/seduction24/03/15 06:24 PM
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My man, i thought about this after i said goodbye to her and it really made me feel a little dumb for not doing it. After I tried to kiss her, we were very close and she kept talking and talking. She was confortable with me being that close to her. I should have tried a second time, but with a more playful/seductive approach. The first try was so bad I still don't know why I did it like that. Because, when i was looking back at how my other first kisses started NONE was like the one that happene…
/r/seduction24/03/15 06:20 PM
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Yea man. I mean, it was pointless to sit on my own for so long while thinking about the girl -i was giving her too much importance- . So i just approached these two girls and when she called me i wasnt in a -ive been waiting for you so long- mood, because i was actually having fun talking to the girls. Therefore, i felt more relaxed and less anxious when she told me she finally arrived. It was also like some kind of warmup to get in the talking mood.
/r/seduction24/03/15 05:27 PM
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Ok it was like this: Me: '' Hey, i think we know eachother from somewhere, right?'' She: '' hahaha yea i think so, was it from ''X'' class? Me: '' Yea, i remember now. So what are you up to now?'' From there we just did some chit chat about where are we studying now. Also talked about a few common friends we have. After that is when i asked her if she was free next week. She replied ''Yes :)''. And the rest just follows.
/r/seduction24/03/15 04:04 PM
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You are right. There was a moment when i was talking A LOT and i wasnt giving the girl the space to talk. I just stopped and she started talking about things that she liked and asking questions. Thanks for the comment, bro!
/r/seduction24/03/15 03:34 PM
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I'd like to know that too!
/r/seduction24/03/15 03:32 PM
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I always take her to the hospital to check her out before we have sex.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:25 PM
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oh god. loved that part too hahaah
/r/seduction20/03/15 01:58 AM
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It's ok dude. Next time just do it. Go for the kiss. Show her that you go for what you want!
/r/seduction18/03/15 11:40 PM
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Thats amazing. Im definitely taking her to the ice cream parlor to spend some time with eachother and create a connection with her before going to the movies. Thanks By the way. I'm 21 and she's prob 27-29.
/r/seduction18/03/15 09:21 PM
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Sorry thats my shitty english right there. I didnt say literally to her that ''we should go on a date''. I said something like :''you are very nice, we should meet again and ill show you my new tricks on plants vs zombies(inside joke) ''
/r/seduction18/03/15 09:05 PM
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I mean i know she is interested because she added me to fb; and, also, wanted to go on a date with me. The thing is, i don't know how to take this first date on the movies thing. I just talked to her once (when i met her on the bus) I always thought girls wanted to get to know you more before going to the movies (a place when you cant barely talk and is usually when the kiss happens-at least in my experience-).
/r/seduction18/03/15 09:01 PM
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I met a girl some few weeks ago. I got her number and since then we have been talking a lot through fb/wpp/texts. She always initiates conversations, but when i would tell her that i want to date, she just said: ''well see :)'' I didnt push it too hard, because i didnt want to seem needy or something like that. I tried to ask her out in another way: We were talking about our first impressions when we met. She said that she remembers me as a very educated and tall guy. After that i told her how b…
/r/seduction18/03/15 08:43 PM
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hahaha i thought i was the only one
/r/seduction15/03/15 01:53 AM
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I don't know why but i remember reading this before. Did you post it as a comment on another post? Anyway, nice one.
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:48 PM
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Would this work on day game? I would try it but only on the night haha.
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:26 AM
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Yea. I actually jerk off to porn like 1 time per month or something. Normally i do it thinking about past experiences with girls or experiences that i know are going to happen with a girl im dating atm.
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:42 AM
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do you think its ok to go for the kiss just a few hours after meeting someone? Ive done it a couple of times. Sometimes the girl goes away(stop answering texts); sometimes, she becames more invested (calls me, texts me, etc). And one time i ended up having sex with the girl (this was after 20 min of talking and i still cant believe it happened) A few days ago i met a girl on a hospital, and we got along. I scalated quickly so when we were leaving the place i got her around my arms walking on the…
/r/seduction11/03/15 01:27 PM
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Hola. No sé si el articulo que acabas de linkear estará prohibido aquí, debido a que, obviamente, estamos en una comunidad en donde la mayoría de personas habla inglés.
/r/seduction10/03/15 01:22 PM
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I know this will sound kinda silly or corny, but i met one of my gfs by just telling her, out of the blue, ''hey, how are you doing'' And i didnt even watched friends back then. I think you can say almost anything, if you keep yourself relaxed, it should flow. I mean, is just another casual conversation.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:27 AM
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I loved this post, thanks for it!.
/r/seduction08/03/15 02:43 PM
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I know right, regret is a bitch!
/r/seduction08/03/15 02:43 PM
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Approach anxiety/ Field Report :)
/r/seduction08/03/15 02:42 PM
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Yea i guess i'm too used to whatsapp. I don't even text or fb msg that much. Although i agree with you ! Calling her could leave a stronger impression.
/r/seduction08/03/15 02:41 PM
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Will do, my friend!
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:39 PM
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heh thanks :)
/r/seduction07/03/15 05:17 PM
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Check this out :( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmoKObDnGEA
/r/seduction06/03/15 12:39 AM
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Yep i love those 3 bastards. Its a shame Jason is no longer working with them :(
/r/seduction05/03/15 09:17 PM
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Sorry, but what do you mean by ''survival mode''?
/r/seduction05/03/15 09:14 PM
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Noted. Next time i post a FR, it won't be for asking advice! Thanks.
/r/seduction05/03/15 12:00 AM
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Yea, better delete this thread. I mean the story aint complete. Im still pursuing what i want tho :)
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:44 PM
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I guess you are right, my friend. I just wanted to have an experience with a mature woman. It is new to me.
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:00 PM
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Touching is the easiest part for me. I love 'kino'. If the girl is receptive, it gets me in the mood quickly.
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:21 PM
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Not sex, but make out. I talked to a random girl on the day and we kissed gently. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2rmfhb/fr_german_girl_i_met_on_the_bus/ After i made out with her, i could have got laid (we were a few meters away from her hotel!) but i didnt react properly. Just kissed and said goodbye, kissed again and then i left. I know you are talking about sex, but id like to point out that a girl can be seduced in the day and she doesnt need to be drunk.
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:14 AM
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you are too used to porn and masturbation, of course sex wasnt going to be a jhony sins movie. It happened to me on my first time, mr. D was soft the entire time but i stil finished.
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:03 PM
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Maybe give some of that to me? Need to pay college! Just kidding :p
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:04 PM
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It hurts because you care too much. Why do you want to be with a girl that is not interested in you? Don't be so needy, my friend. Do you realize the huge amount of women that exist in world we live? Chances are youll meet more beautiful and smart women than that ONE girl that didnt get to discover how fucking awesome you are. Move on Shes not into you, thats enough reason for you to stop thinking about the idea of having something with her. If you dont stop caring so much about what the next gi…
/r/seduction17/02/15 11:44 PM
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Isn't great when she smiles while kissing? Good job, man. You are a boss. Also id like to repeat this: And if she doesn't like you this way, it's fine. Why would you want to hang out with a person that doesn't like you the way you are. This is very important, boys.
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:40 PM
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My first approaches happened when i didnt even know i was actually approaching. I was 15 - 16. My friend and I would go next to all the girls that were sitting on a coffee table or walking inside school and just tell them random stuff. Good times. Now seriously, when i discovered all of the sedduction community, i approached one girl that was looking at me on the bus the whole time. When we got off the bus, i just said ''hey'' to her, then waited for her response and said whatever i got in my mi…
/r/seduction15/02/15 11:01 AM
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http://markmanson.net/shut-up-and-kiss-her
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:46 PM
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I would say: How much do you hate me? She:Eh.. I don't! haha Me: Well..(while sitting next to her and looking into her eyes with a flirty smile) Happy valentines day!
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:22 PM
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Correct me if im wrong, but I think manson said in models something along te lines about how the fact that he was raised by his mother influenced him at being more relaxed/natural when talking to girls. On the other hand, he didnt really had that much male friends.
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:23 PM
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Nowadays, i dont really get nervous while im talking to a women, but i do get nervous when i have too perform/present something in public. Do you get over this fear/anxiety by doing it a lot of times?
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:16 PM
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i love kong !
/r/seduction07/02/15 05:29 PM
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Like the other guy said, it depends. One time i made out with a girl who i was flirting with for a month. We got along and one day i kissed her. She freaked out and said it was too early; also how important is a kiss to a girl and blabla. Few weeks later i made out with another girl on a concert (i knew her from college) and she was cool about it. We still talk and banter with eachother like the friends we are.
/r/seduction07/02/15 05:27 PM
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A girl rejected you? You should watch a movie on netflix, play some basketball outside, read a book or take a shit. It doesnt matter.
/r/seduction05/02/15 11:42 PM
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Hello. Ive connected and had funny and nice moments with women. My friends would call me a ''player'' and id always say to them: Im not a player, i dont see this as a game, but a way to connect with women; the more i talk to them, the more chances i get to find a really beautiful connection with a girl i know ill love. That was my mindset when i was 17-18. Then at 19 i failed college courses, and i developed(sorry if this is not the right word) a lot of acne over my face. It was disgusting for m…
/r/seduction05/02/15 11:25 PM
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Well i wasnt taking about norman bates level of craziness. (loved the movie and the tv show by the way) Yeah spontaneous crazy would be the answer!
/r/seduction01/02/15 01:17 AM
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pretty face, sense of humor, craziness.
/r/seduction01/02/15 12:10 AM
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Most of latina girls like white guys. So youll be alright.
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:54 PM
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Spanish speaker here. The only time ive heard that word was in my math class. Tabula means to place some numbers/values on a data table.
/r/seduction31/01/15 11:11 AM
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Making out with you may not mean a big thing for her. I think it was just a hook up. And thats all. You shouldnt be pushing it too hard. Believe me, i made out with a couple of girls that just appear uninterested on taking it further after the first date. Yea, girls sometimes just want to have fun too and not taking things too serious. Just move on until you find a girl that is really interested in you. And of course, a girl that you find interesting too :P
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:13 AM
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I wish i'd look like 16. Im 21 and i miss my 17 year old kid looks :D
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:02 AM
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You'll probably fuck up your first kiss, or maybe not. I think if you would have kissed her in that bar and the kiss went bad, you can always say that it was because you were drunk. Honestly a kiss is not a big deal its gets better after the first one. And you will discover how you like to kiss better. In my case, i love pulling a girls hair while we are making out. Its great stuff. Just ''shut up and kiss her''
/r/seduction30/01/15 09:54 PM
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I wish i could invite girls to my place to watch netflix. But i live with my parents in a small apartment. That's why i am saving some money to finally leave the nest.
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:33 PM
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edited
/r/seduction27/01/15 10:43 PM
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I never really knew how to follow up the conversation after an indirect approach. The ' im, x, by the way' just solved everything for me
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:33 PM
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Day 5: ✓ Went to a movie school to do a adimision test. There were like 40 people, mostly boys in there. After we all did our writing tests we waited in a room with a big TV to pass to the next step of the admision test ( an interview). Then i saw a girl on her phone. She was a cutie. There was a empty space next to her. So i sat down by her side. And told her some silly comment about a TV show that was airing at the moment. We talked a bit. But she was hypnotized by her smartphone. We talked a …
/r/seduction20/01/15 02:39 AM
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It's actually the first time that i approach after a girl break eye contact. And it got rid of the AA inmidiately. Normally when some chick did that, i would just go away feeling ''manly'' because i won the stare contest. But actually i was being a pussy for not approaching.
/r/seduction18/01/15 06:27 PM
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As others have said. You should leave your hose asap. Start working on yourself. Save some money and go study something if that's what you'd like. If not, just think about how do you want your life to be and start working towards that goal. You shouldnt make women a priority. Make YOU a priority, women will join you later. Its all about you, man. Do what you can with what you have.
/r/seduction18/01/15 01:27 PM
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I wouldve said. ''Because i find you attractive'' or ''I like you'', then wait a few secs to see how she reacts; and go for the kiss. Just be honest, man. That shows that you are not afraid of showing what you feel, even if you get rejected.
/r/seduction18/01/15 01:17 PM
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Make them talk about oneitis, scarcity, and the abundance perspective.
/r/seduction18/01/15 01:14 PM
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Day 4 and 5 are up. Sorry for the delay, boyss
/r/seduction18/01/15 03:11 AM
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Day 3: ✓ 3 approaches. 2 were good and 1 meh. So i was going home after work, and while i was walking through the streets, I saw this little girl(i'm fucking tall so almost all girls are tiny for me lol), she was pretty, not really my style, but pretty. So at this point, i don't really let AA influence me that much. Yea, i just walked and standed next to her and told her ''do you know why are there so many police cars around'' (i already knew it btw) she told me it was because some protest about…
/r/seduction16/01/15 01:32 AM
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Go with a friend and tell him to kick you in the balls if you dont approach.
/r/seduction15/01/15 12:10 AM
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Here it goes, boys. (Don't get too excited) It's day 2 and i made 2 approaches. (Maybe for day 30 ill make 30? :D) Day 2: ✓ Today i was going to another job interview(ikr) but i finnaly got the job!. Now i can win some money to the future dates i'll have. Ok so i was walking going to the interview, and i saw a girl walking towards me. She was really cute. I have a thing for inocent-not so inocent-looking girls. They just drive me crazy. The girl i saw on the street was like that; cute face, not …
/r/seduction14/01/15 10:34 PM
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hahaha, that was hilarious. Trying to hit on older women. Ive tried that when i was 17. Only worked with one that was 23 at that time. Anyway that was a nice try!
/r/seduction14/01/15 11:06 AM
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Day 16 Went to a conference that seemed interesting. In front of me was this sexy lady (she was probably in her late 30's). Boy she had such nice legs, whatever. I touched her shoulder and asked her when was the conference ending, because i was bored. Turns out she was bored too. So we talked from time to time to keep ourselves entretained. She was very talktative and nice. I told her that we could get out of there at the same time ( i was already in the mood, and she liked me too) I had in mind…
/r/seduction14/01/15 02:11 AM
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Good!. Sign me in, please. Ill start tomorrow
/r/seduction13/01/15 12:14 AM
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It would be cool if we got a list of the people participating and check how we all go through this challenge. The list would have the FRs linked next to the username of each participant. Itll be interesting to keep track of our movement. Also there shoud be a deadline for people to sign up here. In that way, we could start at the same time.
/r/seduction12/01/15 11:36 PM
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Things like this need to happen more in this subreddit. It incentivate us a lot. Im signing up for it by the way! I want to write more FR's! :D
/r/seduction12/01/15 03:39 AM
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Bro, i've read some of your posts. And i really think you overthink this whole seduction thing. You shouldn't see this as some kind of cheese game o math test. Girls are human beings, just like you and just like me. And when you are out there with the girl you should NOT keep thinking about all of your strategies and lines and movementes that you plan to do. Stop that. Focus on having a geniunely nice moment with her, connect with the human being that is sharing time with you. A kiss, a makeout …
/r/seduction12/01/15 03:29 AM
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I would like that ! thanks
/r/seduction12/01/15 01:53 AM
13

But.. WHAT WAS BEHIND THAT WALL?
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:41 PM
1

K
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:21 PM
8

Now i wanna get rejected. Ladies, here i go.
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:20 PM
1

The Captain Is Out to Lunch and the Sailors Have Taken Over the Ship
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:12 PM
2

Sorry but. Who cares? From what i read it seems that these are your first kisses, so it's ok to fuck it up and feel her teeth or anything messy like that. We've all been there. I smashed with my gf's forehead when i tried to kiss her for the first time (i know right). It was awkward, yea. But now that i remeber it, it seems like a funny memory, thats that. Last december i felt a girls teeth too when we kissed, even though i am no really new in this but i just laughed about it and tried again and…
/r/seduction10/01/15 01:54 PM
1

I haven't fully read Models. But, from what i did read, my view of how pick up works really changed. Im going to complete it after i finish a Bukowski's book im reading right now (which also helped me to understand the importance of taking action and being bold and dont reallly giving a fuck about silly things)
/r/seduction10/01/15 01:16 PM
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Trying, taking action is the key. As Bukowski once said: "There is nothing that teaches you more than regrouping after failure and moving on. Yet most people are stricken with fear. They fear failure so much that they fail. They are too conditioned, too used to being told what to do. "
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:52 PM
2

Chill out, man. This is not a science project.
/r/seduction09/01/15 10:19 PM
1

God i love that icebreaker, man it made laugh! I'm sure she will love that. But remember, its more important the way you say it than what you actually say. Just be yourself and have fun, dont stress yourself so much with what are you going to say. Go for it, brother!
/r/seduction09/01/15 08:08 PM
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I'm turning 21 in a few days and i dont like looking older. When i was 17-19, girls always told me how i looked kinda inocent too. But then, an abundant amount of facial hair grew on my face. I have to shave every 3 - 4 days because it grows so fucking fast. The last girl i met said i looked like 23, lol. I guess the grass is always greener.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:41 PM
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Thats what i think too, tourist girls are in the mood to explore new things and discover what this new place they are visting can give them. And what more exciting than finding an awesome guy who can show you all these cool new things?
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:40 PM
1

Edit: nvm, i read it. Why only asian girls? Just curious!
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:34 PM
1

I think it may be unconfortable for the girl when it comes to kiss you. My ex always complained about mt beard when we would kiss. But, hey, it also depends on the girl.
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:29 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:56 PM
3

Yea, what he said. A 'wait' works just fine. You have to lead the moment, she is not gonna walk and stand in front of you and give you the puppey eyes waiting for the kiss. The kiss will happen when YOU decide to take action, could be a 'hey' a 'wait' or just holding her hand for a second as you look into her eyes and make it happen.
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:53 PM
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If you have been a lurker for quite sometime here, you already know the answer: just go and talk to her. It doesnt have to be most clever thing in the world, even a simple hi works. And yes, you may choke, get nervous, etc. But who didnt on their first approaches? When you realize that doing it is not a big deal at all, youll feel better. You need to fail in order to be the best, my friend. Thats how i get results and thats how everyone 'grow' some balls.
/r/seduction08/01/15 10:48 PM
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I think you are giving too much thought to this. Dont get me wrong, im not saying that you should kiss her at anytime. But a good kiss happens more naturally i guess, if you feel like its the time and she even gives you a sign by saying that it was perfect time to make out, forget about anything and kiss her.
/r/seduction08/01/15 10:44 PM
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Thanks, man. Im really looking forward to have more great experiences. Ill repor them here when it happens. Writing this FR really helped to see my situationd and analyse my oneitis from an external point of view. I dont know if that made sense hahah english is not my first language.
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:55 AM
1

Thanks for the post!
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:44 AM
2

Thanks! Once you do it for a while it becomes easier, but the AA is still there. In my case i havent been really aproaching people for like 3 months or so. That is one of the reasons that my AA was very high in that moment. Now that ive done it again, i feel more relaxed all day. I aproached a girl today that was so no interested in me! She wouldnt even give me her name hahaha. So before i left i said, " well, seems like you dont have a name, so ill call you paola. Goodbye, paola take care" I do…
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:38 AM
1

It was evening hahaha. But yea, it was a really great moment that everyone should try to have
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:30 AM
1

Thanks for the words, man.
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:27 AM
3

I really like the last thing you wrote. I didnt lost her because i never had her in the first place. The experience itself was new to me (connecting and sharing a nice moment with a beautiful and nice foreigner) so i guess that is why i became so excited about it and ended up with oneitis. Now im feeling so much better, i accepted the fact that this was not some beggining of a love story or whatever thing that involve feelings in a superior level. I get it now. We kissed, we liked eachother and …
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:26 AM
3

Que sorpresa ver un compatriota por aqui! :D La conoci por el Ovalo de miraflores! Abundan muchos turistas por esa zona.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:52 PM
1

Yep. Why?
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:51 PM
1

Lets do it
/r/seduction01/01/15 02:48 PM
6

I love this post.
/r/seduction20/12/14 12:29 PM
2

this is nice, thanks for writing it!
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:39 PM
1

You are right. I tried to pick up girls when i was feeling down once and it didnt work out, no matter how much ive read about seduction it just didnt seem natural. On the other hand, when i do pick up and im feeling great about myself, it always ends up great; it doesnt feel like im trying at all. I just have fun doing it. So yea, building yourself up, being confident and feeling good overall its a really important part of seduction. Ps:sorry for the bad english :p
/r/seduction04/12/14 02:15 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ny35f/the_qualification_manifesto_how_to_flip_the/
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:04 PM
4

Yea man, talking to a girl sounds so fake. Nobody can do that shit.
/r/seduction01/12/14 02:30 PM
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Id say work on yourself first. Learn to love yourself. Then you can look for women who are worth your time.
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:33 AM
1

Yea ill save this one.:p
/r/seduction26/11/14 01:42 AM
2

Good one, even if she never answers, you acted like a boss right there. Keep trying, there are so many fish in the sea, my brother.
/r/seduction16/11/14 12:21 PM
2

Downvote me if you want but i dont. I just love girls so much and i can't stand the idea of being with just one for the rest of my life (yea i know there is cheating but i wouldnt do it to her). Maybe im saying this because im still young (20), but yeah thats it
/r/seduction12/11/14 03:34 PM
1

Hahahah
/r/seduction09/11/14 02:45 PM
2

This needs more upvotes.
/r/seduction09/11/14 02:41 PM
3

DUDE. Great job! You are the boss. :)
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:13 PM
1

thank you for this =D
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:04 PM
1

Oh, man this sounds so familiar. I was in the same situation. I met the girl and for some reason i couldn't ''game'' with her at all. I felt anxious, all my jokes were shite and never scalated with her. It was like i never talked with a girl before. I ended up telling her that i like her and she felt like it was out of the blue, because i never showed her any sexual interest. Yep, so in the end she told me that it was very random and we never talked again since. Sometimes i see her in college bu…
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:44 AM
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I would say something like : '' you have a really beautiful body'' and then transition it into a kiss and if things keep getting intense say something dirty about her ass.
/r/seduction05/11/14 01:28 PM
2

Im just scared of the fact that ill have to have kids and settle down soneday
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:38 AM
1

It will be awkward only if you think its awkward.
/r/seduction02/11/14 04:23 PM
3

Good stuff. Thank you. By the way, could you elaborate on this a little bit more, please? • If she meets eye contact with you, and then looks away, she’s not interested. • If she meets eye contact with you, and then looks down, she’s interested.
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:40 PM
1

''Grab her and pull her into you... stare into her eyes... then scoff as if she said something lame and let her go, shaking your head and looking away. She'll ask, "What?" or laugh, and you'll just throw a skeptical look on your face and shake your head some more. "Anyway..." you'll say, continuing on with your conversation.'' idk about you guys, but i would never see myself doing this. I'd just go for the kiss in this situation.
/r/seduction23/09/14 12:55 AM
1

:(
/r/seduction23/09/14 12:39 AM
1

Ok. I'm in. Will update when the day is over.
/r/seduction19/09/14 12:30 PM
6

That goodbye kiss excuse was perfect: D
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:59 PM
1

Its something that i already knew but it is always good to read it again from other people's perspective. Good stuff.
/r/seduction15/09/14 02:02 AM
1

this
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:28 PM
1

Just go and do it. Its easier said than done, but believe me, you just gotta go for it, dont hesitate. If you fail, it does not matter. There are a lot of girls in this world and you are just starting to live. It'll be a fun ride.
/r/seduction14/09/14 01:05 AM
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i usually don't prepare for this stuff. I just talk to her like i were talking to a friend. I mean, if she is interested in you, she will ask some stuff too and it won't be a interview. The only difference is that i pay more attention to what she says and, because of that is very easy to find things in common :)
/r/seduction14/09/14 12:54 AM
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thanks. just for the record, i didnt know she had a boyfriend until after the second kiss.
/r/seduction14/09/14 12:45 AM
4

I'm 20 and i was feeling bad about starting to pick up girls 'so late'
/r/seduction14/09/14 12:13 AM
1

If i ever get to marry someone, of course!
/r/seduction14/09/14 12:10 AM
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It's a good idea after the first kiss. For example.Last week i made out with this girl who had a boyfriend. At the end of the kiss, she asked me ''Why did you do that?'' I just said 'because i like you' and i kissed her again.
/r/seduction14/09/14 12:08 AM
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Today a girl was looking at me in the library a lot and I pussied out and did nothing. This really helps. Thank you.
/r/seduction10/09/14 12:35 AM
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