I see a lot of posts by people who have oneitis, they admit to having oneitis, but they don't know how to get rid of it. I then see comments about the really simple system I'm about to describe. I don't think I've seen any posts about this process yet, so I figured I'd be the first to actually post about it. So here it goes: A really simple way to rid yourself of that nasty oneitis is going out and talking to girls! I don't mean that talking to one girl will make it all go away. it definitely won't. However, talking to girls over a period of time will take your mind off of whatever girl you've been thinking about and soon she won't be on your mind at all. I wouldn't want to tell people to do something I haven't done, so I'll relate it to myself. I was dating a gorgeous girl, she was the first girl I ever kissed and the first girl I dated. We dated for a little bit then she ended due to some personal things going on. Because she was the first girl I ever dated/kissed I was really attached/in to her, so when she ended it, although I understood why I was quite depressed for a while. After like two weeks of feeling shitty I decided to feel better. So I started talking to girls. I've spoken to like 5 girls and I'm already feeling much much better. Now I barely think of her, and I feel that this is primarily because of the interactions I've had with girls over the last few weeks. It's helped me realize that there are other, hotter, and more emotionally together girls out there. You just need to talk to them. Hopefully this simple cure helps people out. I know it worked well for me.