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I can see the appeal to that approach. See https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wN9Jq3_Z-1M
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:33 PM
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Man you need to take a chill pill. If reddit comments get you like this this you're going to have a hard time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:21 PM
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Are you okay? You seem to be very emotional right now pal. I think you are reading something you want to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:18 PM
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Ok nevermind your trouble makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:03 PM
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I need to watch the weather channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:07 PM
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Sounds like you waited too long and got friendzoned. You can be friendly with women, but not their friends. Well, you can, but then you have what you're dealing with. Honestly, if you're interested in someone, just ask them out. It seems like a big deal but it's really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:06 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:10 PM
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That can be worked on. Or, idk, lean fully into it like Ben Stein. I'm not Ben Stein so I trained myself out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:00 PM
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Yeah I'll second this. Sure there can be a time and place for something you'd talk about in a college seminar...and it's not a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:49 PM
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This is exactly it. And yeah, if you never leave your house of course women will find you boring. Men find it boring too. You know who spends all their time in their house? Old people. Because they can't leave their house! The vast majority of people like to go out and do things at least occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:47 PM
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It's not introversion. You may need to spend an evening at home to recharge your social batteries but that has no bearing on whether you're boring or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:45 PM
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Just wait till we get a thread asking about mothers! Half-joking but yeah there's a lot of family dysfunction in these spaces. I could go on about both of my parents if I wanted lol Your typical guy who swam or swims in these spaces isn't in the water because they wanted to dive in and see what it's like. :\
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:04 PM
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Yeahhhhh it's a mess. There's things like that, there's Purity Culture (which is a huge rabbit hole), there's people thinking you need to ignore looks, there's people who think you can sit back and do nothing because God will do it for you, and that's not even the half of it. It's just a complete mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:35 PM
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Lol yeah the chart actually fits my town The town sub has the occasional post asking about dating and basically the answer every time is "it's a dumpster fire" 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:54 PM
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You're on-point. And man none of this is even scratching the service of the dysfunction in the Christian-dating world. It has its own set of complications lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:50 PM
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Yeah some places are rough. Mine is apparently one of the worst places for dating lol Dating is a lot like the job market. Location, location, location
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:36 PM
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The pool is very....mixed. To get results you have to set your distance wide and even then you'll still get a lot of...quite frankly trailer trash. I remember helping a friend get set up on the Christian one and man with what he could see he didn't even have to go online! He could've gotten matches that were just as "good" at the local trailer park. I'm not even in a rural area but I think just with my req of 'Christian' I'll have to set my distance wide to include other nearby towns because eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:31 PM
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I remember getting to visit my biological dad on Christmas and being shoved into a tent in the attic because my "stepmom" wanted her two boys to have a bed to sleep in when they were visiting her on Christmas. Like, at the time I thought it was an adventure but in retrospect that was really messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:37 PM
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this world want to spin it as "oh, my poor broken child" I hate, hate, hate those types of parents. It's one thing if you're the brand of autism where you scream and punch yourself in the head all day, but a lot of the guys I've seen aren't that. But then their parents treat them like some helpless cripple and lo' and behold they go around thinking "Oh I can't do X, Y, and Z I've got autism." Or just as bad, they cater to every whim of the kid, who then grows up with a mindset that the world sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:35 PM
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A lot of this is further exacerbated by where someone is too. I'll give a personal example but I think it's indicative of similarly situated regions. I'm not in a rural area by any means (city with >100k population, more in the greater metro area) but dating is awful here. You can go to the city's subreddit and get similar remarks there. A large part of this is when people graduate high school and are college bound they'll move away because the schools here are nowhere close to top-tier. They ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:01 PM
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🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:07 PM
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gross tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:19 PM
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*9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:54 PM
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Just needs Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:39 PM
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Caprese is based tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:36 PM
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You probably don't appreciate crows enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:12 PM
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I'm partial to the New Balance 990s myself. Expensive but worth every penny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:11 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:51 PM
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I just have stacks of books scattered around everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:50 PM
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Lol, apparently I got blocked by someone in this very comment thread. Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:42 PM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:10 PM
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You don't actually want an obsessive stalker. You think you do, but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:19 PM
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This is a neat one https://youtu.be/Xynvrod0P6k?si=HP3LfZr2Z-QHqeDg Also this https://youtu.be/BZlRt05RY9Y?si=6FSoSpI3A1BR9hQ6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:58 PM
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Have the video playing at 2x in one ear, AI reading the Bible in Chinese at 3x in the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:56 PM
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Nobody will ever win the Battle of the Sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:52 PM
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Yeah they're required to report that stuff. Doesn't even have to be something like that. When I was teaching years ago I had a student write this big long love letter, so of course I let her counselor know ASAP. 3 parts covering my rear, 1 part hoping the counselor could address that because that student wasn't in a good place mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:02 PM
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I mean, they're crows
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:45 PM
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Nah, you know, just crows. The little fellas that hop around and squawk at you. Sometimes they come bearing gifts of coins and tinsel You need to gain an appreciation for crows. Become a crow appreciator. A crow enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:41 PM
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You probably don't appreciate crows
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:35 PM
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If you want someone who loves you for you, get a dog. You'll see people say "love is a choice," or whatever, and sure. To a degree it is, but the vast vast vast majority of people will have a limit to how much of your nonsense they can put up with before that choice stops being worth it. And how you act and how you present will affect how easy it is for you to find someone with a high tolerance for your nonsense. This goes for men and women. I could make a copy/paste of your post from the male P…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:06 AM
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You're right. He's just taking it personally. Dare I say it, like a woman /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:08 PM
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As long as you care irl ig 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:05 AM
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It's a bad look for a 22 year old. A 14 year old boy sure but not a man. Which you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:00 AM
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Try reading some Spengler Or House of Leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:12 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:11 PM
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Fwiw, if I see someone looking at their phone I'm going to assume they don't want to be bothered. Probably texting someone, or checking emails, or whatever else. People doing that don't really have the body language that says "I'm open to conversation!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:29 PM
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I'd take this over another paternity-test week any day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:15 PM
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I bet he'll be glad to get that stuff. If he has any sense, which he probably does, I bet his favorite gift will be the portrait :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:07 PM
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Apparently Chris-chan is having a kid with his gf so apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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It has birds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:01 PM
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Or stay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:58 PM
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10K is ambitious with the whole Miami thing. But maybe doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:56 PM
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My stupid boyfriend doesn't want a present ☹️ Of course he said that. We all say that. It's good you're giving him something because he wouldn't like not getting one. Pro-tip for the future: Make a mental note to yourself whenever you see him eying some gadget, trinket, piece of clothing, or whatever else he wants to get but won't for whatever reason. He'll probably forget about it so when you finally gift it months later he'll be saying "WOW!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:50 PM
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Do you consider dumping her, Can't really pull a "You can't fire me! I quit!" because she would've beat me to the punch. It's over either way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:47 PM
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Watch out for infections! A friend of mine got bit by hers and was laid up for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:16 PM
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Eh. Probably depends on the therapist. You have some who actually want the patient to stop coming to see them, then you have others who will gladly be your rent-a-friend for $200/hr.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:00 PM
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They'd probably be superfund sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:19 AM
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Just befriend a lawyer who works in, I dunno, patents or transactional law
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:51 PM
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It's all about framing. Hardworking - exploited workhorse Optimistic - delusional Polite - doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:46 PM
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2024's full of portents and omens
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:18 PM
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If last week showed us anything the mods are soft and weak. Weenie Hut Junior enjoyers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:45 PM
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Eh we're already seeing guys minecraft themselves over their AI gfs so I'm not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:44 PM
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I had a regular at an old job come in and spend an hour just going on and on about some play she was writing. Basically just My Dinner With Andre. I don't want to hear about My Dinner With Andre
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:28 PM
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"Be sure to drink your Ovaltine."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:15 PM
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You're supposed to do thread rel when you spend time with em.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:57 PM
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Unfathomably based if true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:14 PM
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No. The laziness and lack of ambition are pretty big for me. The ambition doesn't have to be big either, just have something you're working towards. But honestly these things read more like depression symptoms so if someone like that recognizes it and starts to address that then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:55 PM
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Not with the lack of direction or ambition. Those two outweigh the other things by far. I have a decent career, getting licensed to practice law pretty soon, I'm not starving. Like, you want to stay at home to raise (I mean actually raise) kids and tend to the home? That's good enough to tick the direction/ambition boxes in my book. Just so long as whoever it is won't be sitting at a computer or TV vegetating 25/8/366 while they let their lives and environment fall apart from sheer laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:14 PM
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BMI is fine if you aren't some athlete. Which is most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:17 PM
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Same tbh. I get why a lot of people may want to be involved in the "autism community" but it just comes off as very self-limiting. As much of a crabs-in-bucket mentality as you see in the inkwell spaces. Not a fan!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:44 AM
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Then don't get one then. But don't be surprised if people understandably call bs on any self-diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:39 AM
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noot noot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:06 PM
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You can be angry about it, or you can try to adapt and do what you can in spite of it. You can't change the hand your dealt but you can play it as best you can. Or fold. Being angry and doing nothing is an option too, not a good option, but an option nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:06 AM
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yeeeep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:02 AM
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Of course it's practical. You're buying clothes for the express purpose of looking better. You said so yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:45 PM
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In all seriousness, I would like a truck, but I'd have to go for something old probably. These new ones are just way too big imo. Can't park worth a darn in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:07 PM
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Doesn't even have to be fancy, just made up enough so you aren't coming back to a chaotic jumble of linen at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:02 PM
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You're missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:02 PM
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I unironically want a Toyota Hilux. Maybe a (lightly used) fifth-gen. Buuut you can't get 'em in the states 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:57 PM
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Christians on reddit too. You have St. Paul going on about how there's no Jew, Greek, Gentile etc. so the average one doesn't want to say something that sounds badeven though it's true. At most people may be ok with the idea, but generally people prefer their own group. Which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:37 PM
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But did you make your bed tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:33 PM
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Remember, they do it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:36 AM
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I'm in a red state so I'm safe :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:02 PM
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Road to Perdition is great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:57 PM
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It's a larp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:54 PM
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Guys who say they don't like makeup don't know what they're talking about tbh <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:26 AM
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I got a cringe one that looked like something you'd get at those weird county fair trinket stands (you know, the ones selling confederate flag shirts). Not a fan!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:31 PM
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You're watching the wrong tiktoks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:06 PM
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Yeah but neither gives you infinite money like JP Morgan does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:04 PM
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Sounds like an effective operator. Could be worth adding to the squad. They need to figure out if it was from a stand-up fight, an ambush, etc. Bonus points if she's been through MOUT training
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:02 PM
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Aella is an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:21 PM
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As if Eat, Pray, Love is any better. Would agree most people read slop though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:12 PM
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I was so glad when I could finally stop paying for quimbee. Helpful but man that was $25 a month
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:10 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:08 PM
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They're kinda like the libertarians of the gender-space in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:36 AM
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Didn't Erin Pizzey try to start one too? It was either something like that or her pointing out a lot of the women she was seeing come to womens' shelters were also perpetrators of domestic violence. idr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:34 AM
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Getting flashbacks to college with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:34 PM
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i am listening to Zakir Hussain in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:30 PM
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I would theoretically be open to that, but when you factor in time from date to engagement, engagement to marriage, and available time left for having kids.. that'd be a stretch to say the least. But I say that with the full realization all these preferences and requirements we set out tend to go straight out the window if it's the 'right' person, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:58 AM
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Tax evasion's always on-theme
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:41 AM
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Tax evasion! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:40 AM
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Probably both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:11 PM
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But I can save her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:48 PM
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Meetup's probably great in the really big cities, but let me tell you it's just a wasteland in tons of places. I'm not even in the middle of nowhere but my area's Meetup just has a few cults and the local "Skeptic's Association."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:38 PM
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On demisexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:16 AM
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You weren't around when Obama came in and everyone forgot about the whole antiwar thing huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:30 AM
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What's your favorite color?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:25 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:34 AM
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Wheres the ghosts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:40 PM
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It got archived! https://theredarchive.com/blog/Dalrock
/r/RPChristians08/10/24 07:39 PM
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I miss the days when you could just hit pause, leave, and come back an hour later to watch the rest of the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:07 PM
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Yeah. It's wild. I'm not sure if it's still trending but the Whatever podcast was pretty big. They have these OF girls come on, the hosts have "debates" with them, the chat calls them stupid whores, and everything else under the sun. But without fail, those girls get a load of subscribers after. Each and every time. Maybe a bit of shame, a dash of self-loathing. Hate and love are two sides of the same coin. At the same time, the women are affected in their own ways. You can see the content creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:51 PM
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I'm not sure care would be the right word. Maybe as much "care" as the people who saw the Truman Show end. But then again you have the minority of this group who think they actually have a personal connection with these women. You see a similar dynamic with the twitch streamers, vtubers, asmr girls, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:40 PM
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It just takes practice. It's like how you put everything on your first few job interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:23 PM
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It's all fun and games here in ppd daily 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:12 PM
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It's the parasociality of it. The girl sends the men texts (and it's probably a cube-farm third-worlder doing it for pennies and not the girl herself), he gets to see "day in the life" type junk. Basically an ersatz girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:11 PM
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That's not very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:04 PM
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You grew up in a stable family so of course it's unrelatable. I'd just take that as a win. Sincerely. You should be thanking your lucky stars it's unrelatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:53 PM
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Freya India's great. Yeah, a lot of this is applicable to the guys too. I'm a younger millennial so that whole normalization of divorce was alive and well where I grew up and with my personal situation. I highly recc reading Rob Henderson's Troubled. This stuff was alive and well in the 00s if you were on the wrong side of the tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:45 PM
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Well you have to have it on so you can try turning it off..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:29 PM
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It's missing the Welsh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:44 PM
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Did you try turning it off and back on again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:33 PM
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Any sort of front-facing job really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:09 PM
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Because it does for the vast majority of people. And even if by some cruel twist of fate you're some radioactive troglodytic mole-man spawned from the depths of Hades with a brow extending .0001 micrometers too far you'll still be a less hideous mole-man if you're fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:00 PM
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One can hope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:03 PM
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He embiggened his muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:02 PM
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Oh for sure. They'll care but like, "Lady, you're calling yourself a Christian, at least give the whole abstinence thing lip-service like the other women."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:00 PM
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Man, I even ran into a Christian woman saying she preferred non-virgins to virgins. What's that saying about keys and locks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:30 PM
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And so we see the rise of things like "partner" instead of "boyfriend"/"girlfriend." At a base level we know having to go through that when we're older is just not how it's supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:14 PM
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Redheads are ontologically superior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:47 PM
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I'd rather be pickled and left to settle :p
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:44 PM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:25 PM
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You're getting angry at the tides man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:23 PM
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Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:31 PM
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The sub's full of spazzes and spergs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:10 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:05 PM
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gm 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:04 PM
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One of those little farms where you can gather your own fruits and veg from the field. Perfect date idea because the picky eater gets to pick their food
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:29 AM
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A temporary restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:47 PM
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Based. Now to work on self-perception so you don't bring that energy with you. You've got the ball, don't fumble it. Now the illness and traveling are another matter, but the self-esteem can really make or break a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:39 PM
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I want a new duck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:31 PM
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You don't tell her this stuff do you? You say things like that enough and eventually other people believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:26 PM
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There's whole tribes of em
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:14 PM
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Don't knock em till you try em
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:46 AM
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Just like how everyone can get thin by just eating less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:43 PM
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Ribs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:19 PM
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A lot of this stuff starts in the home. How do you even begin to fix that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:19 PM
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Someone really likes porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:43 AM
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Stefan Molyneux is pretty redpilled...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:10 PM
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This just sounds like Oprah's Rainbow Parties scare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:59 PM
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Chicken tikka masala :9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:41 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:37 PM
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It's 100% with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:35 PM
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That's not a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:28 PM
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I'm starting to get a few grey hairs and I like them, personally. I think it makes me look dignified :p
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:27 PM
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Eh. Moreso just learning how to adapt imho. We just have to do more adapting than others. I don't necessarily like parts of the game, but I like the things you can get out of it so I learn the rules and play it anyway even if some of them don't make sense to me personally. You often find out they don't make sense to a lot of people either. But hey, them's the rules so you just play by them like everyone else has to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:26 PM
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In spite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:36 PM
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I know that feel lol. I'm at the point where I'm even reaching out to my pastor to see if there's anyone he knows in his networks! Once next summer hits probably going to be looking into those singles conferences; some pastor in the LCMS had a singles cruise that I saw some positive reports of. And of course more things around where I live as time permits. There's prayer and what have you that other Christians who aren't in and have never had to be in our positions say to do, and they aren't wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:26 PM
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I and plenty of men who do go to church would say there are no single women there. I think both are true, to be honest. IIRC church-going men and women of the ages that typically look for long-term relationships are increasingly going to different denominations from each other; women to the more liberal denominations, men the more conservative. And then you have the other factors relating to sex-distribution like region (e.g., urban v. rural), age demographics of each denomination, denomination …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:32 PM
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Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:58 PM
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A maker of artisanal firewood and assorted outdoors accoutrements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:48 PM
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The good guys lost in that movie 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:31 PM
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To one group of people. To another the child's already made, hence why it's such a hot-button topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:43 PM
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Ime those are great if you're a retiree. Everyone else is busy working. Granted, this probably depends on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:57 AM
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Actual A10s are out there doing things, not making memes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:37 PM
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I think a lot of curse words and pass the second guy because we have no shoulders out here. God I hate bicyclists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:23 PM
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They're talking about the Grapist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:24 AM
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Hello yes I would like to know more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:08 PM
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Idk, I sure hope not :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:41 PM
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that's why I just goof and gaff in the daily. Sometimes if I'm feeling frisky I'll spend time writing something serious but then I delete it because I realize it doesn't really matter anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:40 PM
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I hope the kid doesn't end up too messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:30 PM
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One thing I did that was suuuper helpful for me when I was younger was I had a rule for myself to only go back to my dorm room when it was time for bed. Could probably revamp that to house, flat, whatever but not sure how helpful that idea would be if you're not in some area where everything you could do was close by. In any case, by doing that I was forcing myself to have to talk to people, running into things to do with friends and acquaintances, and generally doing things that didn't consist …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:27 PM
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And you'd have an idea of that if you had hobbies where you ran into that hypothetical woman. And you may run into one that is interested. Or maybe not. Still a better shot of it when you're actually going out into the world and doing something instead of doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:39 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:57 PM
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Evergreen take on demisexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:20 PM
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FDS does online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:18 AM
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Wow. Canada is even more of an embarrassment than I thought it was. 💀💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:25 AM
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We could probably put little buzzers in their ears to go off every minute so they can't think long enough to string two sentences together when they're talking to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:00 AM
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100% true. Seen what happens when OP doesn't happen way too much to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:48 AM
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Personally, I don't bring it up unless I'm on good terms with the person and it's relevant to the conversation. Either because of masking or low-severity people think I'm normal, if a bit standoffish. Eta: Fwiw if it wasn't for older family having it to a much worse extent and knowing I needed various correctives in early-childhood I would think it was more due to my upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:55 PM
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I'm in the wrong business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:17 AM
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Gobbed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:27 AM
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I think it does that to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:11 AM
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Basically every church I've been to, the singles are male so this tracks. Of course, you have women saying the reverse too. If I had to guess, this is—broadly speaking—a large coordination problem that's amplified by skewed sex distributions at the regional and denominational level (and nevermind how churches have treated dating and relationships for the past few decades. E.g., Purity Culture). And of course leadership at the various levels generally seems to view this as an individual problem s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:49 PM
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Meeting someone half-way around the world, screwing them, then shacking up with a marriage cert. because you get them pregnant isn't trad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:03 PM
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I bet it's like pulling teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:59 PM
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Freaking /pol/ meetups looked better than reddit. I still have that cringe Boston meetup pic emblazoned on my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:52 PM
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In all seriousness are you colorblind? The colors are doing everything but matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:40 PM
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My best guess is the people actually commenting are older. We have a ton of lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:09 PM
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Pill Island
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:38 PM
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Pls excuse me i have autism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:20 PM
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It isn't a 1:1 thing. We have married, dating, and single-but-who-have-dated people here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:14 PM
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Skewed sex distributions based on regions and denominations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:43 PM
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YouTube shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:48 AM
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Unfathomably blessed 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:21 AM
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What's good for Ben Franklin is good for the gander, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:03 AM
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It's going to be really location dependent and be a huge ymmv no matter what but some ideas are book stores, animal shelters (for volunteering), various area clubs and their events (eg., hiking meetups), places that offer dance lessons, churches (ig yoga retreats if you're not into the whole religion thing). An obviously non-exhaustive list of suggestions that may or may not be available where you live. Really, the name of the game is going somewhere that *isn't* your home/apartment so you incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:57 AM
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The smores Pop Tarts are goated albeit unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:31 AM
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It takes a lot of introspection and self-awareness, and that's just to start. I don't recc having to adjust if you can help it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:17 AM
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The real Chad was the friends we made along the way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:13 AM
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All dogs go to heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:06 AM
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Not for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:22 PM
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Good to focus on that given your age and weight but be careful you don't let your fitness goals completely override your relationship goals. Maybe not as big an issue if you don't care for LTRs, but if you are then you're at that age range where the good people are already pairing off and leaving the dating pool. If you are LTR-minded then there's a chance all the good ones are "taken" when you finally reach those goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:19 PM
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I'm glad you finally ditched the lunchables :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:49 PM
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That's how I read it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:43 PM
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That's literally the plot of Her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:09 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:08 PM
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Picture taking is tough!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:46 PM
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Peak comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:41 PM
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Be sure to take selfies with the camera on the back. The selfie camera has a different lens and you'll get a lot more distortion with it. e: And what Lift said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:22 PM
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And I'm assuming this is nationwide. You're going to see further variation at the region level. You'll be surrounded by overweight and obese people in any Southern US state for ex. Much less of a chance in, say, CA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:05 PM
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"We're all gonna make it" instead of "not gonna make it"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:56 PM
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Ladies it is with great sadness and regret to inform you that MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:55 PM
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WAGMI instead of NGMI
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:52 PM
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This one's in my top 5, ez
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:52 PM
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I dont get what there is to be mad about. I think it's a similar dynamic to the one where some guy finds out there's more to attraction than "being nice." Like, yeah, these things are no-brainers to a lot of people, but there's a ton of people who just don't get those memos for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:51 PM
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dishonouronmycow has a good point. Another factor is one of perspective. I lost a bunch of weight and I could've been angry and upset at women suddenly finding me attractive, but I was inspired to keep on. The process of weight loss taught me we have a lot more control over how others treat us than we think. Of course you have men who take the same tack as those women you're talking about. It's often all a matter of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:39 PM
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𝕸𝖔𝖓𝖙𝖞 𝕻𝖞𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓'𝖘 𝕱𝖑𝖞𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕮𝖎𝖗𝖈𝖚𝖘
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:18 PM
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This is true. Also, we're starting to see trends showing that there will be more zoomer men in churches than women. The younger women are just dropping out of church entirely. Moreso than the men, at any rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:16 PM
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I think this is probably region dependent. Tons of people out there saying "Where are all the Christian [men]/[women]?!" Fwiw I'm in one of the areas where there's a surplus of men. And that's not even getting into the population issues within denominations. The Orthodox are getting a lot of single men converting and from what I'm hearing there just aren't enough unpaired women (and this isn't even getting into issues re: distance)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:44 AM
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The ones that'd bug me were the "I lost 30 pounds and now I get complimented on all the time wtf why are people so shalloooowwwwww I hate everyone" posts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:57 PM
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Same happened to r/loseit 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:48 PM
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;) wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:39 PM
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18f cali
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:22 PM
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Just get swole. No need to chop your legs up for a few extra inches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:11 PM
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Always go. Maybe you'll even get a story or two out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:04 PM
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>City Council when the journo gets the FOIA compliant recording and she can't use it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:53 PM
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I agree with you 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:50 PM
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Also she told me she had a boyfriend even though I did 0 flirting with her. This happens quite often with me. I can talk about the most mundane stuff and they'll find a way to mention having a boyfriend. They can probably sense it from my body language. Ime it either comes up in conversation naturally or, well, a guy comes up to talk to a girl he doesn't really know. It's pretty clear what's going on. Good luck! You got this fam
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:58 PM
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Delivered because then I can rationalize why they haven't gotten back instead of knowing they saw it but didn't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:48 PM
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We probably disagree politically but I 100% agree on consooming
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:25 PM
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I start getting cold when it's like, 68F. I have family up there and the scenery's beautiful but I'm having Nunavut. I'm happy with my 1in of snow/year thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:22 PM
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Plenty of folks move there and absolute love it And then winter hits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:09 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exL51n3py6g
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:07 PM
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Just wait till you see PEATED youtube and twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:56 PM
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6' but not at a healthy (19-21BMI) weight yet 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:43 PM
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If I ever had a GF, I would never tell her my history regarding my disabilities. I wouldn't do it right off the bat, obviously, but that's a bridge you would need to cross eventually. You tell them and if the person is good it'll help them better understand where you're coming from and will help her to understand the things you do that might not make sense to her. If it hurts the relationship then you wouldn't want that person and would be absolutely miserable in the long-term, anyway. The right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:11 PM
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In the land of the blind the one-eyed woman is queen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:40 PM
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Bruh's dropping absolute 🔥🔥🔥 I'm saving this one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:52 PM
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You get a sense of it after awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:49 PM
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Arguing with schizos There's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:41 PM
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real DBZ hours up in here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:35 PM
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Hol up adding that to my bucket list
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:12 PM
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You still need to complete the second triumvirate 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:04 PM
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Your mileage may vary and is probably heavily location dependent. That's a senior citizens game where I live But worth a shot either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:02 PM
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Yeah...opera isn't going to be a good way to meet people. You may have better luck at a gallery walk or art exhibition if that's the sort of women you want to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:01 PM
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Lol you should watch Crumb. Fascinating doc about the cartoonist R. Crumb. He was... a piece of work, and provides a good counterexample.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:35 PM
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Can we get supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:07 PM
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It allll comes down to how we're raised. No one winds up in these spaces without a reason, and that's often a big reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:23 AM
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At the chance for a relationship, or a chance at getting laid? Odds will be good but she'll be wading through a lot of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:29 AM
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Raised by mom. It's a bit difficult to answer this question through the lens of gender roles, because as I was thinking on it, she was former military and our family comes from working class background. Just on the background alone it's a toss-up whether any woman would conform to "gender roles" as we understand, because they often seem very based upon a middle or maybe upper-class conception of femininity. She hasn't been afraid to get her hands dirty, and many of the woman of this background a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:09 AM
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Plenty of decent women, but they're all taken! Circumstances vary but simple facts are if you're not locked down early you're in the pool with the rest of the also-rans and has-beens. Doesn't matter if you have extenuating circumstances putting you there. Buuuut if you're generally doing ok except on the relational front I think you still have a decent shot, at least in my patch of dirt. For context, I would've been off the market early but for various issues I and my gf at the time both had. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:24 AM
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Too many people thinking with the wrong head
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:08 PM
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I have a friend of mine who goes back to Romania every so often to visit relatives. He's been lowkey "joking" I head out there with him for that reason on his next visit. Probably going to take him up on that tbh once I have the vacation days for it lol I get a cool vacation and get to see where he's from, if nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:02 PM
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You still remember fine dining and breathing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:02 PM
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I mean, technically you don't have to quit drinking and smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:36 PM
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No solutions, only tradeoffs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:35 PM
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Us wagies miss all the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:19 PM
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Nature is healing ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:08 PM
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We do a little galavanting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:52 PM
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Eat mor chiken
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:50 PM
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Vermin Supreme 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:07 AM
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The iPhone and its consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:14 AM
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I've found over the years it's very flaky. You miss something when it isn't in person. Maybe even in video calls but even then that's missing something. When we're all just words on a screen we aren't talking to another person, just what we cooked them up to be in our minds. What we present isn't ourselves either, but what we want people to see and even then that's not getting across anyway because it isn't us the other person's interacting with to begin with. Unless you start to bring in aspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:01 AM
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Those are pro numbers, we gotta get those numbers down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:11 AM
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oof
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:03 AM
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Yeah I think the evidence is pretty clear at this point. Idk if there's going to be a fix though. It'd take men and women to stop acting like idiots lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:00 AM
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​ <image> OOF 💀💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:55 AM
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You may like Jojo Mayer if you want to see some sick drumming. Dude's a human drum machine it's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:29 AM
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I said that a month or more back lol Sam Hyde (PBUH) actually had solid advice on this matter. Basically anything else I'd take with a grain of salt because it's Sam Hyde
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:23 AM
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Just find someone you vibe with and theeen introduce her to your interests. Depending on what you want with a relationship, aligned values are probably the better bet. Like yeah, finding someone that wouldn't mind listening to this, or wouldn't mind talking about Marshall McLuhan would be great, but sometimes you gotta be real. With your situation just find someone into anime or vidya and you're already most of the way there. Literally just go to your area's anime con
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:12 AM
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And they got cooties
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:53 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:51 PM
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CAN'T WAKE UP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:24 AM
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but I strongly believe I can fix her. I strongly advise you recognize you can't fix her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:09 AM
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lol see edit! Glad you got off them. Only reason I did was because by the time I noticed I wasn't doing ok I probably would've hurt myself or something stupid. Been off 'em for years though. Activity, diet, sleep, and change of environment helped me get off of them. If I had all those in place at the start I probably could've avoided them entirely. If someone's going to start taking them I'd want to try one or more of those things first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:20 AM
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Eh, just be glad you weren't ever at a point where you needed them. [I can't read.] Another side effect they don't tell you is weight gain lol Good for a last resort but just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:10 AM
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Nah he's gettin brozoned
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:41 AM
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Can second
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:38 AM
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Does he have a taste for freeform jazz Unironically a banger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:34 AM
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He's happy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:24 AM
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Patchouli and sweat is an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:15 AM
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Be Civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:36 PM
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Tom was my first online friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:27 PM
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Imagine missing a parent because your single parent chose to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:26 PM
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I just eat regular eggs, no schlonking tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:21 AM
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Less talking dairy more talking turkey
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:14 AM
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What about the ents
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:50 AM
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I think a lot say that. Mine is I thought having an apartment was better than a house L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:37 AM
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​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:11 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:07 AM
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Could be nicotine withdrawal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Either that or caffeine withdrawal is what gives me a headache. Or dehydration. Or lack of sleep. Or loud noises.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:33 AM
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If he's not in the South, sure. But even then, I think if he's a good candidate for a LTR he won't have much trouble in the long run. In some respects I see worrying about dating like artists worrying about AI. (Ie. Skill issue) But on the other hand, sure people may eventually stick the landing but it's happening later and the people are worse off from baggage and damage because of issues that weren't present in the past. I want to see those complications lessened or erased outright so people d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:59 AM
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5.6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:25 AM
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Best of luck but I think you may be cutting down on potential respondents by requiring them to both self ID as i*cels AND have been on i*cel forums. For ex. I've never ID'd as one but I used to spend tons of time on /r9k/. That's at least one potential respondent cut out based on the qualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah can confirm. I think 25 is the absolute latest for the vast majority of people who stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:46 PM
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Nancy Reagan has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:44 PM
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I don't see the problem with that statement if sex is entirely off the table. The whole point of dating, to me, is to get to know someone, see if you're compatible, whether you're looking for the same things from the relationship. You date around, then you go exclusive when you find someone you mesh with. If I found out someone I was dating was sleeping around I'd amicably part because that's just a plain values mismatch. No need to waste anyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:42 PM
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Yeah.. from what happy_discus has said I'm not getting a good vibe from this lady. If it was me and assuming everything said is true I'd be leaning to just ending things. It shouldn't feel like pulling teeth. I'd be fine with pulling that trigger because this is just dating, it's not like you're married. If things get serious what if the rest of the relationship is like that? You don't want to deal with hot-cold. 0/10 do not recommend at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:32 PM
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Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:24 PM
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We get by with a little help from our friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:22 PM
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I love that channel. I have to be in the right mindset to watch what he puts out but it's consistently good. A modern-day Studs Terkel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:56 PM
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Great Value round crackers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:54 PM
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😮‍💨Top shelf on the right behind the graham crackers. pfft no appreciation for the subtleties for goodness sake what is it with people today, I mean really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:24 AM
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Nonono, that's not how this works. There has to be tension, repartee, uncertainty, and finally in the denouement the holy sacrament of marriage 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:17 AM
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Wait this isn't in my script you're not supposed to say that They're g e n e r i c Ritz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:06 AM
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I have some Ritz crackers in the cupboard will that work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:02 AM
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B'waah! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:55 AM
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Weak men create "It's so over" times "It's so over" times create strong men Strong men create "we're so back" times
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:54 AM
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Are the cute blondes in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:16 AM
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Well heck. :( We're losing the icons one by one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:08 AM
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They were happy with their take home income! Look at how much money the fanart market draws, similar thing here Just pick a female nom de plume and you're g2g 😎👌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:45 AM
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Pretty common. We had two women at my work who moonlighted as romance writers. And another at a different workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:38 AM
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It's almost as if it releases chemicals in the brain or something 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:00 AM
2

🐦
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:59 AM
2

A Rotund Robin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:38 AM
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Here I am 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:46 AM
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I try to avoid it. I'd like to say I do ok with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:56 PM
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I wouldn't wear a polo, but that's more personal preference. I'll give an example of something I wore to a dinner date in January. I wore slacks, paired that with a long-sleeve dress shirt (no tie, leave the top button undone) and a matching sweater.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:54 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:42 PM
2

It's Ron Livingston, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:00 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. - Wayne Gretzky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:45 AM
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Some good takes 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:42 AM
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He'll get a kick out of it guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:28 AM
1

IFV actually 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:25 AM
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Relevant Cary Elwes movie peak 90s kino 😎👌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:24 AM
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He was fatfishing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:32 PM
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Grid broke out the green for this one. Probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:31 PM
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This is how these dreams go: you're sitting at the bar, a pretty lady sits down and you chat. Maybe she even buys you a drink. You don't know how much time passes. Five minutes? An hour? Three? It doesn't matter now. Next thing you know you're groaning in pain on the hardscrabble ground, struggling to even remember who you are. You're in a back alley or under the bridge, or maybe some ditch in the middle of nowhere with rough, bloody stitching on your side and the worst hangover known to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:22 PM
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Runner up prize 🥈🥳🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:33 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:31 PM
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He's not the hero we need, but the hero we deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:30 PM
1

Hu's on first?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:23 PM
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Hello it's me, who is you It was you the whole time. Sorry to have to break it to you but the headmates are getting tired WE NEED REST LET US SLEEEEEP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:16 PM
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What's the one condition a disproportionate number of people here have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:08 PM
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Please avoid bathtub troonshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:09 AM
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The DT is ephemeral and fast-paced. This and the general board culture of the sub mean that, historically, mentioning someone multiple times is very out there. It's like coming to America and greeting a local with a kiss on the cheeks. It's done elsewhere but the locals understandably find it strange at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:00 AM
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Guess you'd just have to get a second wood chipper and splitter!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:29 AM
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But sheep are cute and fluffy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:28 AM
1

Two chainsaws!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:19 AM
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Not in my headcanon :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:06 AM
0

For every short king there's a short queen 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:23 AM
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Who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:17 AM
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I'm ornery
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:15 AM
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I'll give the correct opinion based on my understanding, and then my personal take. If one has truly repented and come into the faith (i.e., they've truly changed and don't act as they did before conversion) then by all rights we shouldn't let what they did before factor in. Me: However, the mistakes we made in the past can have lasting consequences. It just so happens that one of those, in this context, means you have a difficult time finding someone. An easier example: Ask your average religio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:18 AM
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A very poetic end, as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:56 AM
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That's super small tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:05 AM
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I'd rather fly Jet Blue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:15 PM
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"Sending bobs"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:00 PM
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Playing with fire. The old tales say if you indulge too much you start listening to sordid fare like "Older neighbor checks up on you ASMR [F4A]['Good Boy'][soft spoken] 48:34" These are from the ancient tales of what life was like in the Covid times. The things they saw, the horrific acts perpetrated by man against man, rites most foul done under cover of phone screen. Don't let it happen to you!!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:21 AM
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Tell that to the guy who consented to being eaten cannibalized 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:55 AM
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But that's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:37 AM
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You're confusing her with Ainsley
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:36 AM
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But aren't you glad you had those 50mLs? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:21 AM
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If someone put on their resume: "managed __-member guild/corp" I'd consider taking a look at em lol. If you can wrangle internet regards you can hopefully do it irl Also, when I was active in one game the guild I was in was wildly professional. Onboarding, slide presentations for trainings. Serious things with office-world applicability. I was actually quite surprised Another guild (this time ESO) I got on real well with a lady that was a paralegal irl. I don't think I would've leaned on that fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:07 AM
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Wake up (wake up) Grab a brush and put a little make-up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:02 AM
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No lie. I remember getting snubbed more than once for mentioning I was in on scholarships. Rookie mistake!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:59 AM
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Which is 50 more mls than you would've had!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:34 AM
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5 for a fun evening. Worse ways to spend a fiver
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:10 AM
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Because they do have to read the room properly. There's a lot of wiggle room and I'm brushing over all the little things like setting, people involved, what's being said, how it's being said, etc. All the things we know and love about socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:36 PM
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People as a whole generally like that. Between the two who would you pick? A man who doesn't speak his mind and quickly backs down whenever he does, or a man who isn't afraid to and stands his ground whenever he does? More simply, nobody likes a milquetoast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:49 PM
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Thank goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:48 PM
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Generally yes. I forget the stats but it's bad and personally I think they'll just get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:17 PM
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A certain Joshua Harris wrote a book about that and it didn't go well. Hey let's listen to the unmarried 21 year old talk about marriage and dating that'll solve everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:41 AM
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27 lol. It goes in and out like the tides depending on the phase of the moon academic year
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:43 PM
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Concurring. I join this opinion because Red is the proper color but do so as a separate concurrence due to a separate line of reasoning. While some think Red is the correct color due to the nature of the event at issue, others think some colors are inherently better than others due to their nature. I reach the above conclusion from this line. I therefore join this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:33 PM
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Millennials are peak reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:44 PM
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simp: ❌ shrimp: ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:42 PM
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Nature is healing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:36 PM
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Many here are neurodiverse lol. Like, this isn't even up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:52 PM
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Sweet little lies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:40 PM
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As soon as the shouting starts I'm mentally checking out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:47 PM
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Just find some hole in the wall Indian restaurant 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:43 PM
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I'm giving you an updoot because I do admire a man who stands by his convictions o7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:24 PM
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Unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:21 PM
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You need a disinterested third party to decide Kinda like a search warrant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:19 PM
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Don't tell anyone 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:18 PM
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You could get pizza as a side :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:12 PM
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You could've asked for chicken and pizza It's like how KFC and Taco Bell are always in the same building
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:11 PM
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I got nothing. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:08 PM
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This is what the diviners say when I put your question in ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:03 PM
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Diversity done right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:50 PM
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PPDitis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:49 PM
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Tfw the bird is bird-brained
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:48 PM
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I certainly can't think of anything else he talks about but BMI. I'm trying but I'm drawing a blank :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:45 PM
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Yessss Crows are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:42 PM
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You should teach crows to pick up trash Like https://youtu.be/6x-b_TUkxLE?si=D55-FEF7VFdDWehm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:40 PM
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Oh this. I liked Dave Greene's take: I feel like I constantly have de-mystify teen girls the same way I have to de-mystify LLM AI. It’s not rocket science guys, you get out a reflection of what you put into the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:33 PM
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Because it's fun 🐦
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:28 PM
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It's a bit of a fixation, isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:21 PM
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Cool if true and doesn't hurt them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:20 PM
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>hitting ostriches I sure hope you guys don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:15 PM
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You'll like https://nitter.poast.org/sopranosshot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:11 PM
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You're a cool cat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
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I walked through blood and bone in the streets of Manhattan trying to find my brother. He was in Northern Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:46 PM
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This is it. Digital handkerchief dropping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:45 PM
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Everybody wang chung tonight! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:40 PM
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You don't create it for the world. You make it for yourself. It's a compulsion. The artist has to paint, the writer has to write, the musician has to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:32 PM
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A rookie mistake. If you're having conversations like that and you're not dating you're already toast
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:19 PM
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I've always gotten on better with older people. I'm spiritually Gen X lol Doesn't help dating any, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:24 PM
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You either die an Aragorn or live long enough to see yourself become an Elessar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:18 PM
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The men for whom this is an issue have no idea what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:25 AM
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What if it's onlyfans but it's an onlyfan who happens to be whoever your husband is and you don't use onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:14 AM
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Do we still have any Black pillers? The mod pogroms have been pretty effective
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:14 AM
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lol no. My talent stack's skewed as heck Maybe in random info. There's things I don't even remember knowing until it comes up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:12 AM
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I'm really not into the whole discord thing but everyone in DT is cool so I'd join if it looked like the sub was getting put on MAID
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:03 AM
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DA ZOGGIN 'UMIE DON'T KNOW A 'FING ABOUT COLOURS HAHAHA RED'S A PROPPA ORKY COLOR COZ IT GOES FAST
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:01 AM
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Trailer park. No question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:57 PM
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Red's better It's a faster color
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:55 PM
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What about health. I could do nutrition and someone else could do fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:53 PM
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If that looks like it'll happen I may actually join the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:51 PM
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You're missing out on being able to say you're banned. Each ban is a feather for my cap (he doesn't have a cap)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:50 PM
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What's it's favorite color?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:50 PM
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Unless... 👉👈😳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:47 PM
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Based landchad, unironically. I'm glad you aren't doing AirBnB that whole sector can go burn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:45 PM
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Can I do the weather? Aside from being a stock broker I wanted to be a weatherman when I was a wee lad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:44 PM
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Not bothering with Piers Wife is a 6.3 all things considered. 5 is absolute average so not bad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:42 PM
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Please read up about it on erowid and use responsibly if you decide to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:21 PM
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Good! We need more people with a sense of aesthetics. Not enough of that in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:16 PM
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Of all the things TRPs can say to the young guys that has got to be the most dangerous one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:07 PM
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I'm so glad I just didn't have energy because if I did I probably would've gotten into darknet drugs and RCs. The Silk Road was still a thing back then!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:04 PM
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They're all fine but I'd have to be in the mood for Biggie or Tupac. I'm more Gang Starr or A Tribe Called Quest (I'd say De La Soul or Digital Underground too but they're more 80s. I'd put The Cure there too. The Smiths1 are better anyway) 1. Also 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:55 PM
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It's literally the only reason you need. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:49 PM
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What kind we talking here? 90s music is a wide umbrella. And then also a cultural decade != actual decade. 1962 was still culturally the 1950s, eg. I'd say the 90s as a cultural entity didn't start to appear until maybe 1992 or 1993.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:45 PM
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I have an eraser I'll just change the faces and add different faces to the money
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:29 PM
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Oh yeah. By the time I realized I wasn't doing ok it was get on the pills or I probably do something really freaking stupid. It was full on just not doing any school work, keeping myself in the dark dorm room 24/7, viewing life through a TV screen (iykyk). It was rough! If I'd a.) had the self-awareness to see I was in a bad place earlier and b.) actually communicated with people I probably could've easily addressed root causes and avoided a lot of trouble. We're our own worst enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:28 PM
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What if I told you I had Z$50,000,000?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:22 PM
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Yeah, I was on it for all of undergrad lol My weight's much better but I'm still not back to where I was. It's been years of yo-yoing through my Master's and law school with a general downward trend. I'll get down to 200 then back up to 220 one year, then back down to 190 and then up to 210 the next. The highs getting lower and lower each time. Loads of stress eating around finals. Right now the name of the game is just building up a buffer for when I start really studying for the July Bar 🤣 If …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:14 PM
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The most annoying part for me was the weight gain. I was at 175lbs and a decent mix of fat and muscle. By the time I was able to quit I was at 245lbs and just fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:03 PM
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I know the meds all have different effects but I felt very flat on escitalopram. Good enough to keep me from doing something stupid at the time I needed to take it but all the side effects were awful. It was a last-resort type of thing and I got off of it as soon as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:58 PM
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It's reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:45 PM
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Daniel Radcliffe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:34 PM
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That's not Dwayne Elizondo Herbert Camacho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:23 PM
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It sounds like OP has a life partner now, so going off what he says he won the game. 100% success rate. It's either 0 or 1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:06 PM
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Or put more simply, you don't know something's a problem until you experience it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:57 PM
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D'aaw c:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:40 PM
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Unironically based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:32 PM
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You should check out Jaco Pistorius.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:59 PM
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According to Wm. Costello's research they're actually a pretty diverse group. Kinda like internet racists in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:58 PM
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From her it was STP and 90s grunge, which was alright but really that set more of the vibe I had and the directions I went down musically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:56 PM
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It's divorce and remarrying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:54 PM
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They're midcels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:54 PM
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I did get a lot of music taste from her though, so between that and getting internet access way too young I feel spiritually Gen X lol. There's like, a 15 year difference. We've gotten a bit closer over the last few years due to family circumstances and bonding over how we were "raised" which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:59 PM
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Not that close due to large age difference plus a mix of her being from a prior marriage and growing up in a different state but we get on alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:52 PM
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I want whatever capium that guy's taking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:49 PM
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You should do what Frances McDormand did in Burn After Reading
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:47 PM
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Good to see you back :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:39 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:47 PM
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💯% this. Perfectly stated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:31 PM
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I'm going to replace Twilight and insert The Matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:28 PM
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A bit too revealing for me. More importantly, I'd think someone with this look is too high energy and/or high maintenance for me. Not that that's bad, mind. This is matter of compatibility. I'd think this look really only works up to mid-20s +/- a few years and even then would probably draw creeps and weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:26 PM
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Hang around long enough and you see the lightest joke has the hardest punch to the terminally reddited This is where it helps to know your audience and sub. Hard to better describe how to avoid the banhammer. Much like how top men can't tell a whatevercel how to date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:17 PM
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The key is to avoid, well, all the big subs and get a good sense of how much is too much. I've been highlighted on SRS, post on PCM, and submitted rightist posts but I'm still around. But then again I try to avoid going out of my way to antagonize anyway. It doesn't accomplish anything and it's exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:09 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:02 PM
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Just think of how much better theyd do with a mom and a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:55 PM
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That's fair, height and weight give me a bit more leeway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:55 PM
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I don't think we have any benzochads here 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:31 PM
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Wait, noooo Who's going to Bezosmaxx in the sub now??? This is a tremendous loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:17 PM
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Her twin is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:02 PM
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I just learned about this last week on the Christiandating sub. Apparently it's getting to be a common practice which doesn't surprise me because it sounds like a way for women to filter through the 10,000 swipes or whatever they have. Online dating just sounds exhausting all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:00 PM
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The trick is to make a comment and wait for people to give unsolicited advice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:55 PM
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If you're getting your steps in like you should going over a little bit really isn't worth stressing about. Actually, even if you don't it ain't worth stressing about either so long as you keep to whatever your regimen is. I've eaten like trash a couple of days the last two weeks—I'm talking honey buns, candy, and other bottom of the barrel garbage that definitely exceeded my daily limit—and I'm still down from where I was the first of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:49 PM
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Something something Beta Uprising
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:16 AM
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Or your pinterest, if you will. Wait a second WHAT THE 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:14 AM
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Just a heads up a big benefit to attending college in person that no one told me is the opportunity to network. It's easier to build connections irl and the people you meet there may well be the same ones putting in a good word for you at a potential employer in the future. I can tell you that this for sure got my foot in the door at a previous job. Not saying you have to go in person but this is a benefit that really doesn't become clear until after you're out of school ETA: that said, depressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:58 AM
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Very Chadcel, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:06 AM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:42 PM
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I'd like to have any kids I have pick their school based on program quality. If nothing else then at least cost and scholarship amount like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:52 PM
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It's a ymmv with parents, but generally yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:36 AM
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Your caloric intake is grossly adequate And you have no potassium.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:44 AM
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mea culpa? More like medea culpa amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:38 AM
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where were they all this time ? living under a rock? Unironically yes. Chances are they didn't have any adults at home curbing those maladaptive tendencies and/or instructing them on how2human. Lord knows how many could've been kept off that track if their parents didn't give them a computer at age 11 and actually gave a toss about them. Another form of the parent that lets their child do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:52 PM
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"Hey babe can you start calling me fat? I need to feel bad about myself."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:40 PM
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What the frick You've got to be kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:37 PM
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She's not?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:37 PM
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PPD. Loads of salt here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:31 PM
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Depends on the Southern accent. The accent of my state is, of course, the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:31 PM
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A strange game. The only winning move is not to play
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:52 PM
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Those subs get banned. Everything else is true tho. There's a happy medium we can have but mods are too quick on the trigger
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:47 PM
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I'd stake money on them being fat, on prescription drugs, or both. Oh you're taking meds that affect libido and can't see your feet? Of course you aren't going to be in the mood. Your body has no mood to have!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:56 PM
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The trick is to have friends that aren't getting married. Ezpz 😎👌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:03 PM
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That's what most of these would-you-rathers boil down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:00 PM
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Based if true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:17 PM
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The hardest hitting insults have the softest touch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:08 PM
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Ok ok how's this: trash tv activates wammen brain receptors and floods their brainstem with happy chemz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:04 PM
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Eh, I think if someone has their squad like you describe then more likely than not a lot of those little things were present so they would more likely than not be in a situation like what OP describes. The effect of all those little things that do or don't happen while growing up is hard to quantify but the presence or absence of each little thing has a huge effect when everything's tallied up in the end. But of course there are outliers, some people will just have a tough time no matter how "no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:02 PM
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Reality TV is their Roman Empire. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:54 PM
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You're supposed to do that after business hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:52 PM
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It's all a bunch of little things that accumulate over years. Difficult to quantify but a huge effect in the long-run.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:50 PM
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A lot of what should've been done to prevent that needed to happen in early childhood and prior to adolescence. Athletics, cultivation of hobbies and interests that aren't video games and the internet, doing things with them and getting them out of the house. Just living life in a such a way that it isn't just a few hours of school then vegging out in front of a tv or computer screen until bedtime day after day after day. Doing things that enable those soft skills that facilitate relational succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:03 PM
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Never change, Ainsley 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:40 PM
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2/10 for the same reasons I gave last time but now you only have 1 more meal in the day to eat healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:38 PM
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We're so disembodied from reality that the most normal processes are alien to the people who come up with these concepts. As this tweet says: "I'm a demisexual heteroromantic sub with a breeding kink" yeah so was your great great grandma, that's just being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:48 PM
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This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:44 PM
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I'd say it depends on the kind. Like DBZ? Yeah that's ok. If it's harem slop or K-On or whatever then they need a prescription of grass touching, pronto. But then again, if some autistic teen is watching that then there were multiple points of failure along the way to get him or her to that point. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:40 PM
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And they have things in place that can help make what they do permissible. Tax evasion is a big no no. Tax avoidance otoh...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:34 PM
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I'm starting to grey and I actually quite like it. It looks dignified.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:31 PM
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Language! 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:28 PM
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I know I've seen that guy but I completely forgot which poster that is. He can't have been too active.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:19 PM
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Courtney Love did it Source: The theory's more interesting than what probably happened
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:13 PM
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"Mrs. Krabappel and Principal Skinner were in the closet making babies and I saw one of the babies and the baby looked at me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:11 PM
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I could mention Uncle Ted, but he's understandably going to put people off from his writings (which iirc are distillations of Ellul plus some other things). Ellul's not as accessible for the average person but more palatable. Kaczysnki is an interesting figure in that his writing is worthwhile, but I'm not sure it'd have the reach it did without the bombings. It'd probably be gathering dust in some academic library.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:43 PM
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Based and Ellulpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:38 PM
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You best be believing in cyberpunk dystopia You're in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:57 PM
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42.0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:05 PM
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Depends on the region
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:13 PM
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Every once in a while I'll have a dream about getting an email saying I was dropped from a course I had no idea I was in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:45 PM
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Orinoco Flow's an absolute banger 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:46 AM
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I'd be more concerned about how he fits inside the tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:44 AM
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That's just networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:37 AM
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Por que no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:14 PM
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It's nature and nurture. From what I've seen of his posts the "nurture" side probably wasn't there either. Not like it should've been, anyway. Many such cases etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:15 PM
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Fwiw this is my cooking philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:10 PM
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How important is it that the dish come out just right? If I'm short an ingredient I'll just sub and hope for the best. It's getting eaten anyway, but that's just me. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:02 PM
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You must embody The Waiter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:40 PM
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Debates are generally unproductive. Discussions otoh... I think people are more cordial, respectful, and able to listen to the other when the format doesn't constrain either party to some verbal gladiator match. Debates are fun if you're in the peanut gallery though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:37 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:09 PM
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You need to try making some gabagool next
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:20 PM
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Just a ground beef stew. The recipe from the book itself is basically just a template with different things you can use while you make it. A springboard to experiment with. I wasn't as heavy with vegetables and cheese in my first batch and that one was around ~500 cals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:14 PM
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If you want a good bulk instapot/pressure cooker recipe here's the recipe. I made it for the 2nd time yesterday and it's very good. 1tbsp olive oil, ghee, butter, etc. (something to sauté the ground beef in) 2lbs ground beef 1c-2c broth (I've used beef) ~2tbsp tomato paste 5-6+ cups chopped vegetables (e.g., carrots, cauliflower, broccoli, celery, onions, peas) (I think I used more than this, and increased the amount of soy sauce, vinegar, broth, etc. to compensate) 2tbsp apple cider vinegar 1.5…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:11 PM
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I'll just get a food processor. I'll be needing it in 50 or 60 years anyway so might as well get a head start.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:35 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:46 AM
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Wait! I think this is the one I use https://parade.com/recipes/trisha-yearwoods-slow-cooker-macaroni-and-cheese It's so unhealthy but soooooooo good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:59 AM
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This mac and cheese recipe has been a hit when I've made it for potlucks. I add a few cans of Rotel tomatoes with green chilis to it to give a bit of extra zing https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/trisha-yearwood/baked-macaroni-and-cheese-2637291
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:53 AM
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I’m pretty sure there are a lot of guys on here who would date a homeless woman Would it surprise you if I said a guy on ppd did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:28 AM
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One of the lightbulbs in my bathroom keeps flickering and it's getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:20 AM
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I guess it makes for better tv doing it the way they do. Idk In my personal experience (myself and men and women on the spectrum I've known irl) I wouldn't say someone being ND or not has factored into the calculus there. Though interests of everyone involved were probably self-selecting to a limited extent. Of the men on the spectrum I personally knew I was the only one to have actually dated at all. The women.. from memory it was just a toss-up as to whether whoever they were with was on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:54 AM
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I'd probably take that as a reality check and just make time to work out and eat right. Emphasis on the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:37 AM
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I'm sure your wife wouldn't approve either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:36 AM
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That's what I'd seen. I haven't seen enough to really know the quality of the people on it though. Generally my reason to decline was I find the whole concept to make a spectacle of autistics, I don't want my private life aired for people to see, and with the circles I run in it'd probably be a net-negative to be on TV in that capacity. Let alone irl obligations at the time with work and school. I only got so many spoons to spread between all the cups I'm juggling! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:35 AM
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That's something you should ask your doctor when you get a physical. But in my non-medical opinion you'll prob be fine as long as you maintain calories or keep to a deficit depending on your weight goals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:18 AM
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That connotation is why I wouldn't find an extra +1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:17 AM
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Maybe a change of scenery is needed? I'm 30 and only really noticed recovery times going up in the last year or so. BUUUT I've been full time and doing night school for half a decade and that really isn't good for physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:13 AM
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I had extended family try to get me on that Love on the Spectrum show. Apparently production was quite interested but I wanted nothing to do with it lol Neurodivergent minstrelry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:10 AM
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I've gotten into birds and looking around at nice houses when I'm driving. But I'm still into other things. It just takes planning around it because the body doesn't recover as fast as it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:06 AM
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I like my diamonds how I like my coffee. Harvested by the blood of Xhosa children
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:27 PM
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Tbf I have a pretty good radar for the 'tism irl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:08 PM
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I gave myself ick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:14 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:41 PM
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You're just talking about yourself and your own worldview more than anything. I hope you run into people that don't share that worldview and that you don't drive them away with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:59 PM
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Autismbrain is a heck of a drug huh 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:56 PM
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We have some finance bros here. You should date one of them. They may not have the Bezosbux but they're probably gud enuf ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:09 PM
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No. What does anyone gain out of it? You want to tell someone? Tell a therapist, tell your dog, tell the agony aunt in the paper. It will only hurt the dad, and besides, he'll still be your dad, and you'll still be his son. Just because someone's your father doesn't make them your dad. relevant Bel Air
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:39 PM
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but it's a d r y h e a t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:19 PM
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This is also an acceptable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:52 AM
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75 because 75 is a comfy number
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:47 AM
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Meanwhile he’s short, overweight, balding and always wear graphic anime shirts. Dude should at least lose the weight. One of my work's IT guys is all that without the obesity and even he's happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:10 AM
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Yeah that's definitely an ick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:03 AM
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It was true ime. mid-late 00s. On the one hand we deserved it; we were envious resentful little shits . On the other hand it was circumstance. It was a high school with a handful of well off kids (probably just regular middle class), a good deal of lower-middle class ones, and some poor. Us "nerds" were in the latter and with poor home lives and other negative factors characteristic of that group. Maybe one or two of us pulled ourselves out of the muck. Outliers at best. edit: Probably better to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:00 AM
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Leave a spot empty in memory of 5PointTakedown An absolute madlad if there ever was one o7
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:56 AM
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Sounds like that doesn't pass the green line test tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:54 AM
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What if they like Gorilla, Interrupted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:50 AM
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It means "woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:34 AM
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unbothered. moisturized. happy. in my lane. focused. flourishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:34 AM
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Relevant tweet: "I'm a demisexual heteroromantic sub with a breeding kink" yeah so was your great great grandma, that's just being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:12 PM
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Yep. "Just move bro" sounds very easy on paper. But, like any other pearls of wisdom online it's usually just said to get the other person to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:23 PM
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Rare prof W
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:34 PM
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Based and Metropilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:32 PM
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ime the women dating men like that end up dating women in a year or so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:20 PM
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The whole Metroplex will have guys like that but the general obesity stats for Southern US states also hold true. Maybe a few percentage points less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:24 PM
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You'll want to visit the South! 🤠 But like, not the backwoods parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:37 PM
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Just skimming it for a second started to bug me so I'll just assume it's bait because the alternative is too infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:34 PM
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I will not eat the bugs I will not get the goon googles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:30 PM
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This is not a love song.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:21 PM
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That's the choice? Come on it isn't in a toughie! 2 natch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:11 PM
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That comic's a deepcut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:08 PM
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We did it Reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:53 PM
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If I was born 10 years earlier I probably would've been raised by MTV. Instead it was video games and the internet. I don't know about anyone else but I turned out great! :p
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:49 PM
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That's one of those things you don't know the answer to until it's actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:07 PM
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If you ask Camille Paglia she thinks LSD fried the brains of her generation's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:06 PM
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Correct. It's worse than that, it's boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:04 PM
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Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:55 PM
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If you're going to post something like this at least make it spicy so we can get funny replies out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:55 PM
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Nazeem energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:38 PM
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It definitely is a yes. I know it doesn't make sense but it's definitely a thing. You'll have to just trust everyone saying yes on this but understandable if you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:28 PM
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And then in women we have skyrocketing antidepressant use and an increase in rates of alcohol abuse.. point being both sexes seem to be experiencing very negative effects from rapid technological and social change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:46 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:27 PM
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Absolutely selfish. A child needs a mother and a father. Not to mention parenting alone is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:47 AM
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You can't force attraction. Just let him you know don't see it going anywhere so you stop wasting his and your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:11 PM
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Unironically this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:26 PM
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Almond Joy gang 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:40 AM
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AFUERA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:40 AM
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Based Samoa-enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:39 AM
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Bukele's pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:52 AM
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Q4M: You’re in a desert walking along in the sand when all of the sudden you look down, and you see a tortoise, it’s crawling toward you. You reach down, you flip the tortoise over on its back. The tortoise lays on its back, its belly baking in the hot sun, beating its legs trying to turn itself over, but it can’t, not without your help. But you’re not helping. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:24 AM
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PPD Voight-Kampff Test
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:54 AM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:51 AM
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Australian Shepherd >inb4 "why?" Why not? 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:50 AM
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He's moneypilled and mogging all the cashcels smh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:51 PM
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My biggest piece of advice would be to get your buddy off the apps and have him meet some women in person. The options on those apps are awful and I'd say the culture of dating on those apps doesn't really work. Everyone is looking for the next best thing and it's extremely forced. You're not wrong but I'd say make it a both-and instead of either-or. He'll want to cast a wide net due to new trends in how people meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:35 PM
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You don't want four wives You think you do, but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:20 PM
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I'd suggest a large used bookstore if you're wanting to make that route possible. Closest large one I can go to is maybe 3 hours out. Yeah there's ones local to where I am but their selection is limited to harlequins and other similar fare. The former has the name recognition and space to have just about darn near anything. As for B&N and other mainstream chains, yeah gl on variety and depth of material. I buy basically everything online due to lack of selection in my area. To have a selection I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:14 PM
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Yep. This and otherwise occupying yourself with some mission or things you're working towards or for that's not work. Of course this doesn't mean to forgo dating (I say this on offchance someone reads this as being all or nothing. It's not), but things you have going on in addition to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:20 AM
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What a strange land.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:16 PM
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If someone's going to act like that you don't want them anyway. Absolute savages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:14 PM
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Barristers are those weird British lawyers and solicitors are guys like Paul Newman at the beginning of The Verdict
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:56 PM
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It's an all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares thing. To be a lawyer you just have to graduate law school To be an attorney you have to be licensed to practice law. For most people that means graduating law school and passing your state's Bar Exam. I'm a lawyer, but I haven't taken the Bar yet so I can't call myself or hold myself out as an attorney until I do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:48 PM
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You could be a lawyer. When I was younger I wanted to be a doctor... but then I discovered I couldn't really deal with the whole, well, all of it. Which rules out medicine, dentistry, and everything else involving fixing people. But you're still at least 5 years out from applying to law schools and I don't really know how it's going to look in the next 5 years especially with AI
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:12 PM
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Peeps be driving 100 miles to save 5c/pound on chicken l o l
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:26 PM
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AR porn, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:24 PM
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Paths of Glory A Distant Plain Fire in the Lake Twilight Struggle Space Hulk Navajo Wars Command & Colors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:46 PM
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If they are it's because men would be so stricken and degraded by technology they would lack the capacity to know anything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:11 PM
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fwiw I was #2 when I was a kid and you're 100% on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:37 PM
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So was mine but you don't see me thinking like this. That's a you thing and I don't recommend staying in that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:42 AM
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That's just too much plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:44 PM
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You need to Ellulmaxx. I'm guessing (i haven't really watched whatifalthist so cant comment on him in particular) he got his takes either from Uncle Ted, which is simplified Ellul (+ some degree of MKULTRA brain-fry) or a combo of Ted and Ellul. I'm about 1/4th of the way through The Technological Society and it isn't the most accessible text but man is it worth a read. It's basically still 100% applicable to today if not moreso and the guy wrote the first edition in the 50s. At any rate, ok you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:38 PM
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Anti-Christian, really. You only ever see them go after Christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:29 PM
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gm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:23 PM
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unbothered. moisturized. happy. in your lane. focused. flourishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:15 PM
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If I'm worrying about that when I'm in a relationship I'm probably in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:14 PM
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Oh for God's sake you're 22, not 82.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:49 AM
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Thank you for giving me another chance to hear Don LaFontaine's voice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:34 PM
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That's essentially mod intent as stated by various members of that group. Ban the loud ones and drive the rest off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:27 PM
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you don't understand, we have an infestation of i_cels we hAvE to do this tho /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:38 PM
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It's nice that you're helping but man that sounds like a really big ask. That friend's calling in some mighty big favors from the sound of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:17 AM
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She should've married Ron Livingston when she was still working at Tchotchkie's
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:41 AM
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Ez I just stay. Very difficult choice to make huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:40 AM
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Embrace the cringe! It's like post-irony
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:39 AM
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It just takes practice. And I'll tell you it comes in handy when figuring out gifts to give people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:06 PM
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Gesundheit!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:56 AM
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Our tax dollars at work!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:51 PM
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My college absolutely dropped the ball one winter and had tons of bursting pipes after a winter storm. They even had to replace the big basketball court because of flooding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:04 PM
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"Sorry teacher, the power was out." "Couldn't you go to the public library?" "Roads were iced. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:56 PM
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It sure can get cold in Des Moines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:35 PM
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You gotta eat the lettuce
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:33 PM
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Bone broth is a sleeper hit, I was surprised it had as much protein as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:31 PM
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It's funny, sometimes I'll be browsing one of the Christian subs and you'll see a guy spouting off about wammen or some crap and then you check the post history and he's posting on porn subs 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:29 PM
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I'm reminded of a tweet I saw yesterday: If link doesn't load, text is This is because women’s discernment for mates is predicated on the assumption that their fathers are weeding out the obvious losers and sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:38 PM
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Very astute point!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:05 PM
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It sounds potentially psychopathic when explicitly laid out like that, but people do this all the time. That's just networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:21 PM
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That's Ludacris
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:35 PM
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Took me way too long to learn this one lol, but yeah it's definitely true. If she's into you, you'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:26 PM
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It all comes to one judgment or another in the end. Can't get an "ought" from an "is."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:48 PM
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R/askmen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:29 PM
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Men do the same thing. Functionally speaking you should assume everyone is superficial and act accordingly. Fortunately, you can work on your appearance unless you're the 0.001% of men who happen to be deformed troglodytic burn victims, and chances are you aren't one of them. Aren't getting picked for "superficial reasons?" Then work on 'em until you are! You got this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:14 PM
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DeWalt, obv. In 𝔶𝔢 𝔬𝔩𝔡𝔢𝔫 𝔱𝔦𝔪𝔢𝔰 I would've said Craftsman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:51 PM
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Sure. You're just seeing if there's chemistry and mutual interest at this stage, it's not like y'all're going to skip town for a Vegas wedding!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:40 PM
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You should get a kookaburra!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:28 PM
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Just go to a majority woman workplace and you'll quickly lose any notion women are more "moral" than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:47 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:21 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:22 PM
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Yep. I've noticed this for awhile and saw it play out.multiple times with people I personally knew irl. Im surprised the correlation isn't discussed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:09 PM
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Probably pre-K or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:33 PM
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Un absolutely mogs all the NK men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:28 PM
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I think 🍇 actually is a bad influence on the kids tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:06 PM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:24 PM
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For real. If he's like this online I'd hate to see what irl is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:38 PM
2

That's a you problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:33 PM
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I told him that a week or so ago. He won't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:35 PM
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It's a very anti-human worldview so it isn't surprising. The same sort who'd call mankind a virus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:42 AM
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You're going to want to quit holding to the virgin req.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:19 AM
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Oh chances are the kid's going to do exactly that when he gets older. He's ngmi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:43 PM
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you don't understand the mods nEeDeD to make these rules because of the i n c e l epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:39 PM
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Best of luck! It's tough out there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:36 PM
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I won't say it's impossible, but your odds are stacked against you. Notanothrshitthrow is on the mark for what your best bet would be (and since you're religious it's just all around good and required to be participating in a church regardless) but it's still a long shot; that's just a factor of the times we happen to be in. Main thing, you can keep virginity as a set-in-stone requirement but given the times we are in, and the fact rate of sexual activity really isn't much different in Christian…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:57 PM
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Don't worry I'm sure the mods will take your complaint seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:45 PM
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Now let's see Paul's Lenovo y510p gaming laptop
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:42 PM
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Syllables of cringe A deluge like summer rains Short-lived as mayflies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:40 PM
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Deceitful and just setting yourself up for failure for anything from misaligned values to future conflicts over how kids are raised. And besides, finding someone in a place of religious worship is a 'your mileage may vary' at best. Ex. Insofar as Christians are concerned, demographics skew to a surplus of women but I don't think those stats take denomination, region, or age into account. Lots of single people reporting a dearth of the opposite sex wherever they happen to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:55 PM
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This is place is turning into r/askhistorians lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:10 PM
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Well duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:06 PM
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Monotone with little variation, not exactly but within the ballpark of being "robotic."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:48 AM
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I don't think red pill men are the cause, at most they're one factor among many. I think social media, instagram, influencers and the like are greater factors here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:06 AM
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Blues are pretty comfy ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:36 AM
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What's your favorite color?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:27 AM
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Literally a nonissue when you use old.reddit.com 😎👌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:33 AM
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Nice to meet you! My name's actually yvaN_ehT_nioJ though 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:54 AM
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Z, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:43 AM
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They're completely ignoring maternity testing which shows how unserious they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:15 AM
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They're getting the last laugh since you're letting them live rent free in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:09 AM
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I just have dreams about missing finals or getting an email saying I failed a class I didn't even know I was taking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:05 AM
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A guy I know met his girlfriend online. There's about a ten year difference between them and he's like, in his 40s but she's a bit overweight and... you know, to be honest I don't really see what drew them together except for both being dysfunctional. He goes for abusive and volatile women, and I imagine his draw is that he's easy prey. He kinda has himself trapped in that situation and it's actually pretty worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:04 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:54 AM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:53 AM
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Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:26 PM
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A common thread I've seen in these spaces (not just PPD) is a history of dysfunction in their homelife or prior relationships, if any. It's sad but not surprising there's an inordinate fear of cheating when they can't point to any examples of positive relationships in their personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:17 PM
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Make the meal, then measure the cooked food in the serving vessel, then subtract the vessel and divide by however many servings. That's what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:03 PM
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That's mean! The carrots didn't do anything to you They're innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:01 PM
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I'd probably just take the piss out of that meme and have completely outlandish reqs. Swipe⬅️if you pay taxes Swipe⬅️if you hate capybaras Swipe⬅️if you're a Walloon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:14 PM
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Bad news: Possibly a missed opportunity Good news: Train yourself to avoid making eye contact with people and you don't have to get the bad news anymore :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:11 PM
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No different from the bogus "just wait and God will send someone" crap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:39 PM
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You're on reddit so yeah otoh it's annoying, on the other... it's freaking reddit. I 100% agree but you aren't going to get le redditors to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:02 AM
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Be the grass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:45 PM
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You don't want lip filler You think you do but you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:58 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:58 AM
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Absolutely demonic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:54 AM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:08 AM
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Who the heck said that That guy needs to touch grass asap. Putting aside the idea of getting knowledge from fiction, anime is the absolute worst to get any "K N O W L E D G E" from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:00 PM
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Family or close friends ostensibly know you, want the best for you, and will have opinions on whoever you date. This includes whether they think you make a good match or whether they think the other person is crazy or not. Anyone is a fool not to take their opinion into consideration if they have such people in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:46 PM
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I think it's fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah it's generally as good as junk food. Total is fine, Fiber One is fine, but those are the "least bad" as far as cereal goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:39 PM
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I'll eat it if I'm too beat to fix some eggs. It's not the breakfast of choice and definitely not the healthiest option. I'll add a scope of protein powder to make it less "bad." But still, empty calories. Normally I'll have some eggs and maybe bacon or sausage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:28 PM
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Use old.reddit.com and you don't have to worry about feeds :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:10 PM
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many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:05 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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Cool from afar but I'm not getting close to any meese
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:00 PM
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"I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:18 PM
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When he was first posting about the r'ship there were things that, if not red flags, made me go 🤔 Hope it works out of course, but yeah that sort of talk is borderline at best and that's being charitable. He seems alright though and sounds like things are still early enough that he can nip this in the bud pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:17 PM
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I don't think it's the fact he was a pro, it's he had a woman taking care of him in such an intensive way. Stephen Hawking cheated on his wife with his nurse, for ex. Florence Nightingale effect etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:09 PM
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There's sending birthday cards, and then there's sending flowers. They're on completely different levels. Only people I see sending flowers are men wanting to do something nice for their wives/fianceés/girlfriends (not girl_friends).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:06 PM
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Cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:51 PM
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You don't have to play the game, but then don't complain if you never win it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:45 AM
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Just that little bit was more impacting than I thought it'd be lol Eh, I have a lot to be thankful for all in all. Not least of which I received a great education in what not to do as a parent!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:34 PM
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Functionally, yeah. Anyone questioning this put on 50 or so pounds of fat and get back to us. That's all controllable, mind but it's wild just how much appearance can open or close doors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:14 PM
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Don't really have the energy to go in depth but I'm not close. Basically I call on holidays but that's it and it's more out of familial obligation than anything. She wasn't into the whole parenting thing and if I had to pin down a "diagnosis" it'd be BPD. Failed relationships, failed marriages. I have a half-sister who ended up an alcoholic because of her; she went sober thank God, but not before paralyzing herself in a single-vehicle drunk driving accident. I'm very lucky she didn't remarry and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:09 PM
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Basically spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:57 PM
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That's why I mainly hang around in the community chat. I think.. if you want constructive debate, it's generally not here and most things have been discussed to death as it is. The people looking for advice (here and elsewhere) generally are just looking for validation. It's tiresome so I just fun post or put my two cents in and skedaddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:20 PM
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There's a a whole lot of "I's" and "me's" here. I wouldn't get so caught up in those when relationships are all about "us" and "we." Now, I have no idea how the rest of your relationships are; I'm sure they're great aside from just this one thing! ETA since this sounds sarcastic when it isn't: It'd probably get on my nerves if I was really into something and the other person still did it with me despite not appearing to otherwise give a toss about it. I imagine I'd try to find some other common …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:59 PM
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Please don't go. The pills need you. They look up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:51 PM
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Women love a man who can cook!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:11 PM
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He'd be interesting to know irl if it wasn't for the whole killing-anyone-to-the-right-of-Hillary-Clinton thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:10 PM
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You gotta factor in home-cooked food into the calorie counts. Skip a meal or two if you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:07 PM
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As with flaming_coochies (pbuh), the light that burns twice as bright burns half as long
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:01 PM
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"Boyfriend-free girl" / "girlfriend-free boy"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:25 PM
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What if he shows up with one of those gas station roses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:51 PM
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fwiw I've been working in office settings for about 15 years now and have never heard that sort of talk in an office. Closest thing was a coworker complaining about crazy men on bumble, but that one had a few screws loose herself and her story was actually pretty sad and screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:48 PM
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He's telling on himself. It's like those redditors who say it's normal to get off to their friends' bikini pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 PM
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Tbf anyone would if they married someone like his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:33 PM
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gm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:32 PM
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The problem is when you take a woman out on a date, she treats you like a guy who is only interested in sex, and that's unfair. I mean, when that's the general rule now what do you expect? I forget who said it exactly, but she (the author) almost felt like she had to come up with reasons why she didn't want to have sex with someone. No sex was the default, then The Pill and its consequences comes along, for the most part divorces sex from the consequences that it previously had for millennia bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:16 PM
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You can still have a good morning even if you're a ballpoint peasant! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:09 PM
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I really need to have this stuff bookmarked, but yeah it's getting really bad for S.K. As in, it won't exist in 100 years bad. Their demographic pyramid looks awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:03 PM
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gm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:45 PM
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Red = Strawberry blonde > sandy blonde > everything else For men... darker blonde tones come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:59 AM
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It's called being a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:16 PM
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I think it's the blonde hair and orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:47 PM
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And it's just good to make friends with people at work! You don't have to be best friends with them but it's just good to build up that social capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:32 PM
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You're supposed to be deciding if she's worth having sex with while thats going on too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:14 PM
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7/11 was a part-time job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:50 PM
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I gave a similar answer of 35/36 but assuming all the time dating, engaged, etc was skipped over. The upper limit would probably have to be my age or no more than a year or so older, realistically speaking, and that's maybe pushing it because the odds of finding someone I could get married to right out the gate is probably low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:23 PM
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I'm 30. Assuming that, based on the scenario presented, I'd be jumping from the "single" box into the "married" box in short order, 36? Maybe? I'd like to have kids (plural) so I imagine I have to be more cognizant of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:05 PM
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Trick question! It's being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:17 AM
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What if they're a demisexual heteroromantic sub with a breeding kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:13 PM
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Same, I was like, 240lbs of fat at 13 and lost the weight late in HS. A complete game changer!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:23 PM
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Well duh. Thankfully losing fat is simple. Just put in the work and it'll happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:22 PM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:11 PM
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You can certainly blame them for sleeping with those men. Plenty of blame to go around!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:53 AM
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Eine kleine Nachtmusik
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:19 AM
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Well it's apparently happening because the career services folks starting advising women to do that based on alumni feedback. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:55 AM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:16 AM
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My school has a career services office and they advise the women to hide wedding/engagement rings because the interviewers notice that and it can hurt their odds of getting hired. They give that advice because it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:55 AM
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There's dozens of us! He died within a year after I was born so I hate that I didn't get to see him but I'm glad Dweezil's still touring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:20 PM
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It could be a factor of lack of experience with women in general. Could be hard for them to imagine it because they haven't been in relationships before, or could be they haven't done sufficient introspection either. Or maybe lack of good examples in their personal life for whatever reason, which probably feeds back to your larger point on atomization. As for your comment of young women not sharing your tastes, could be, but I also think you'd be quite surprised. Like I said, I'm aware I'm proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:15 PM
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I love those moments where you hear a phrase resolve and it's just 😊, or some great harmony going on. I couldn't imagine not getting anything from music. One woman I had the misfortune to know absolutely hated all kinds of music. Didn't like it, couldn't stand it, didn't want to stand it; completely on a whole different plane of existence from me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:21 PM
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Not that guy but I've heard similar from people I knew irl. Or they thought it was all boring. I can't even begin to understand it but more power to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:03 PM
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I have a pet theory that a big part of the struggle some men are apparently facing is due to a lack of pop-culture application/literacy or being highly atomized. There's probably a good effortpost waiting to be made on this. I was talking just yesterday or day before about technology enabling people to develop ultraniche interests, which is bad when relations with others require some commonalities. To answer the question, honestly I know my tastes are eclectic enough such that I don't really thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:48 PM
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I'd put it as going out, doing things and putting oneself in opportunities to meet people, expanding your social networks. But then also going out on a limb and asking someone out if they think the opportunity presents itself. Writing that all out this is pretty basic "how to human" stuff here, honestly. An issue with the advice in OP could be one of interpretation, I've noticed that's a common thing in these spaces and among men who have issues with relationship formation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:24 PM
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Terrible shape and poor fashion sense. But honestly the latter's just a common thing. Try sitting somewhere at brunch and seeing how many couples walk in with the women well-kempt and the men looking like schlubs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:59 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:57 PM
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They can't help being Br*tish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:21 AM
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It's been around for awhile yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:10 AM
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Even people in the 80s knew it was special
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:42 AM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:28 PM
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What if you become the bossman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:46 PM
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Another issue is technology has allowed us to pursue and really dig into whatever we're interested in. On the one hand that's great, but on the other it makes it so easy for people to get stuck in their little micro-subcultures and niche interests that literally no one else within a 500 mile radius has. Before, you had whatever books were at your bookstore or library, whatever music was on the radio, whatever shows were on the 3 or 4 stations (or 100 channels for the cable enjoyers), whatever mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:40 PM
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You'll realize it even more once you move out. I've been out for years but I'm still connecting the dots between my household growing up and how I am today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:33 PM
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Pure fiction I think it's an issue of degrees if anything. Letting it consume you won't help, but you shouldn't just outright stop looking. You won't just land into a relationship if all you're doing is just going to work and coming home day-in and day-out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:42 PM
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No data, just vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:03 PM
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A new documentary on him dropped last week, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:30 PM
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I thought this was going to be that pic of Boogie2988 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:19 PM
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Get husband to change his last name You take his new last name ????? Profit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:17 PM
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Looking at complaints from both sexes, let's just say there's a lack of good men and women. This tit-for-tat "We have it worse because blah blah blah blah" from both is not productive and just makes either more hateful and mean towards each other, and that definitely isn't going to get people into committed long-term relationships. Just say both are awful, and we can go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:14 PM
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Save sex for committed long term relationships. Preferably marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:11 PM
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Are you really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 PM
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That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:44 PM
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I'mma just assume that's some APD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:26 AM
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This is something I've seen pointed out by various counselors/therapists who've commented in online spaces on TRP. Has a lot of weight to it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:28 PM
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Oh yes let's just throw more technology at the problem that'll definitely work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:25 PM
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It'd be interesting if it was a LARP. It's not exactly "scientific" but I ran the OP through a few gender text analyzers and the OP showed up as feminine on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:45 AM
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oof if true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:38 PM
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When did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:57 PM
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Anime was a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:30 PM
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A sibling had theirs at like...24? my folks had me at 33 and 39, respectively. My grandparents on either side were in their early-mid-20s when having kids. I think I'll be lucky if I have any before 35. And that's assuming I can quickly find someone worth marrying who also is at the point where they want children. Just the thought of having kids at 24 is absolutely wild to me because there was absolutely no way I was even remotely ready for them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:58 PM
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Just view it as a descriptive shorthand for how a child's treatment by their parents has long-lasting effects
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:45 PM
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Women going to those places have good odds.. but the goods are very, very, odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:40 PM
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yah-huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:37 PM
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☕
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:36 PM
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🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:36 PM
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Jokes on you I have a forcefield!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:32 PM
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Growing up in evangelical circles I saw they had a lot of mixed messaging. Aaron Renn and dalrock have both done a lot of great work talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:23 PM
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It's very interesting. People say they want women to recognize and acknowledge problems men have, yet a woman does just that and they're upset. Stated preference: acknowledgement. Actual preference: being mad Reaction from women.. I can't claim to get a read on why it's triggering them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:34 PM
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The thread reaction interesting. This is what men have been saying, and now we have a woman confirming what they're saying and she's getting push back? Make up your mind people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:37 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:16 PM
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Why not all three?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:09 AM
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That's not a good idea You think it is but it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:09 AM
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The mods and their consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
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It's "eat your cake and have it too"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:21 AM
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Oof :( Hope it passes sooner instead of later!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:57 AM
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Are you positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:55 AM
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Muenster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:54 AM
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Never give up!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:52 AM
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You don't want to post pix You think you do, but you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:50 AM
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That's a good thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:14 PM
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Is this unique to women? Seinfeld was the first thing I thought of. It's a sitcom so things in reality are taken up to 11, but it does hit on things a lot of people run into in their day-to-day life. I don't think this is a gendered issue. Personally, two times I can think of where I lost interest in women: one had an obnoxious laugh, another just dropped an F-bomb out of the blue completely unprompted. Objectively minor things, but still I lost interest ¯\(ツ)/¯ e: I see I'm not the only one to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:02 PM
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More like lolbertarian tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:21 PM
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Can't overrate yourself if you underrate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:13 PM
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You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:18 PM
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Absolutely horrific if true. Dogs are great!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:46 PM
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You want her to date a 0/10 to show solidarity for men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:23 PM
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I completely forgot about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:27 PM
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A bit of work/school. It'll be a memo for a school thing but going to a judge wanting an answer to a question he had
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:23 PM
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Paper writing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:16 PM
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Back in my day teachers made kids give valentines cards to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:16 PM
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You could try singing Here Comes a Regular
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:00 PM
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In no way is that setup aspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:29 PM
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Broke: focusing on bed coverage Bespoke: focusing on throw pillow coverage Dang things are everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:44 PM
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I'm too quick to take things personally, but that's not a PPD thing, that's an every sphere thing. To the extent I get into serious posts I see Williamwyattd's post quality as aspirational but I fall very short of that, so I usually just stick to memeing and shooting the bull
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:33 AM
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I didn't see that subtext on first-read but can see where you got that reading. Where he messed up was making it a sex-based issue. Men and women both need to select for traits conducive to long-term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:32 PM
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This is another aspect that gets ignored. Husbands and wives aren't meant to absorb and take all the obligations and expectations placed on them today. bAcK iN tHe DaY you had extended family nearby who could and did help as needed. Nuclear family model is atomizing bs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:26 PM
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Family background Profession Posting here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:03 PM
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The whole thing around marriage and family formation is just messed up all around. To the extent issues are fixable it's going to take generations :\
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:58 PM
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That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:55 PM
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Lovecels... but who's buying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:48 PM
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I think Camille Paglia had a point when she said her generation absolutely fried their brains on psychedelics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:47 PM
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I wumbo, you wumbo, he, she, me WUMBO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:46 PM
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based and MKULTRA pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:45 PM
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tangentially related, but apparently there's a part in the Boogie2988 doc where they interview an ex-prostitute and she says “Sleeping with Boogie is one of the things that made me quit sex work.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:41 PM
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I mean, there's nothing really to say to that. It's not like anyone here knows that guy irl so anything genuine's going to sound like a Reddit Cares message at best
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:38 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:36 PM
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0 for religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:44 PM
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There's a bit of distance between laughing at misfortune and laughing at someone threatening suicide. Like, I don't think the former's right either but you've gotta admit there's a biiiit of ground between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:33 PM
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In my case it was just being fat While fat: 0 interested women Lost fat: multiple interested women Physically attractive appearance is what gets your foot in the door. I was looking for a relationship so of course I had to have a decent enough personality for those interested women, but I wouldn't have had the opportunity for that to be seen if I hadn't lost that weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:18 PM
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Ye It's not a guarantee obv but it helps a lot. Assuming he wasn't trolling even 5pointtakedown got what he was looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:08 PM
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Hussain; Antarctica; 7/11 Ez
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:46 AM
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straight fax
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:38 PM
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It's pretty worrying seeing how old the pilots are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:36 PM
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my dad thinks that men today struggle because they are too feminine and don’t act like men anymore which i think is a typical conservative gen x/boomer response. Very broad strokes he ain't wrong. That new finding that so many men just haven't even tried asking anyone out in the last year was pretty surprising. I think this is an area where men can't be passive. Now, as to why so many men are apparently passive, that's worth discussing. In my own experience much older men (boomers) seem to be aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:21 PM
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On the one hand I'd like to say it'd depend on the prominence of your ASD symptoms. Low prominence, not really needed. But otherwise could be a good explanation for why you're acting the way you are and a roundabout way of filtering out someone you don't want to date anyway. Personally I don't mention it unless it's relevant to a topic of discussion because I'm at the point where people can't tell if I don't say anything and I have no need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:39 PM
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Just wait until you learn about the oncoming competency crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:01 AM
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it's the "88", 8 = 8th letter of the English alphabet: H. 88 = HH = Heil Hitler Seen more commonly as "1488", with 14 referring to the "Fourteen words" So it could be that.... or she just used her birth year. I'm leaning to the latter just because the odds of any individual woman knowing terminally online esoterica is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:27 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:52 PM
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broke: zodiac woke: myers-briggs bespoke: enneagram
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:33 PM
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you live in a society where millions of dollars are spent trying to end autism. Unfathomably based, but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:22 PM
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No, but it's something you can adapt to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:50 PM
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That's the one with Anna Khachiyan and that Dasha lady right? From what I know of em I'd put em in the sphere of Curtis Yarvin et al. I.e, dissident right, NRx, whatever it's called. His old Unqualified Reservations blog is an interesting read
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:13 AM
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ye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:34 PM
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Aurelian's pretty good Hon. Mention to Heraclius
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:23 PM
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The song is Winter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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C
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:12 PM
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It's like that comic with the guy talking about getting his bike stolen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:12 PM
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Incel's more of a state of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:59 PM
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Of all the questions on PPD, this is certainly one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:51 PM
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Understandable if yes. Or do you think he might be less qualified to be a good father because he never grew up with a good example? I'd be less worried about this. Speaking personally, I'd like to say I have a good idea of what not to do. That said, someone dating me should be worried about how my background has influenced my personality. General stats on sons growing up in this situation are higher rates of drugs and alcohol use, mental issues, and so on and so forth. I thankfully am doing ok a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:11 PM
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They hated her, for she spoke the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:44 PM
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The walls are getting out of control
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 PM
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Onlara başka dillerde isimler vermelisiniz. Küfür için ekstra puan
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:02 PM
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Corporate litigating attorneys make more money on average than family lawyers and that’s really upsetting to some here for some reason Whaaaaat?! SAY IT AINT SO And no one watched the World Series between two teams that no one cares about. I would've watched it if I could, pretty happy for the Rangers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:55 PM
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Lol yep. A few youtube accounts I follow occasionally have things on dating and relationships and the comments are a cesspool of "wOmEn AsKeD fOr ThIs" Most recent example was comments on a vid talking about a recent tiktok of a young woman complaining about work hours. A.) She didn't ask for it anymore than men did, she's in her early 20s and this all happened decades and decades ago B.) Men allowed or enabled it to happen. I'm just done with all the whining. Like, shut up and do something abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:16 PM
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I don't understand them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:03 PM
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4.20 is a banger. Runner up: 6.9 Hon. mention: 3.14
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:55 PM
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Yep, it's like any endeavor. The motivation goes away, but it's the discipline to keep going regardless that makes or breaks you. Same with exercise as with studying as with painting as with anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 PM
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I'm reminded of the R. Crumb doc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:10 PM
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The issue with ‘free choice’ is there can be too much choice Bingo. Widen the pool of options and you lessen the individual chances someone lands on a "good option."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:47 PM
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😬 glad she found God but I wouldn't be up for handling that baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:59 AM
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Just saw a really great twitter thread on parenthood earlier today that touches on this. Personally I take it all as knowing what not to do whenever I have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:34 AM
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Yeah I think it boils to a time and place thing. Don't be some emotionless robot, but when something hits the fan you have to be calm or at least be projecting that outward because you have things to get done. I don't see that as bad, it's just part of the "job description." I think though there would be times it is permissible. At the funeral for a loved one, for example. That'd be ok. That loved one passed away but you have to call the funeral home, contact other next of kin, go through their …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:20 AM
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I'd say denomination doesn't really matter imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:02 AM
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Minors aren't allowed on the PPD discord, yet they're allowed on the PPD subreddit. Curious. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 AM
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I could see a good screwball comedy coming out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:57 AM
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Spot on advice, I really can't think of anything to add. I could've used allll of that when I was growing up!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:14 AM
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Ye If you'd like to see our previous daily threads, click here! Please Join Us on Discord! Include your reddit username, pill color, age, relationship status, and gender when you get in to introduce yourself. Our Brazilian friend says the people hitting refresh in the daily just need to head over there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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From what I understand a marriage or two came out of the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:22 PM
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In my day to day I wouldn't personally be worried about it. But I'd probably not start right out the gate with a dinner date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:29 PM
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FBI's sure taking their time releasing her manifesto 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:57 AM
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Hmm... re: sensory issues.. You know, I was going to take a stab at both questions separately but I think they tie in together. What we probably have is a large group of men who have had no intimacy with women. Whatever knowledge on how that works is probably broadly is taken from games, movies, anime, maybe books. As far as "knowledge" on physical intimacy, porn of course. Alongside the issues of realism, accuracy, and so on with all of these we have the issue that this knowledge is all theoret…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:17 AM
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And I figured they just understandably weren't into socially awkward dopes! This makes them very vulnerable to guys who only want sex but pretend they want a relationship. Im going off topic here, but this is why waiting to have sex is better in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:27 AM
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Can confirm, and definitely a case of practice makes perfect. Probably a lot more of it than normal people but it is what it is !
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:40 PM
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From what I hear second hand they generally don't want the autistic or socially inept men either. Anecdotally, I've seen the above play out enough to say that's probably more true than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:57 PM
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I don't think it's OK but, assuming for the purposes of the Q it is, turnabout is fair play ig 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:39 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:21 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 PM
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Many such cases. Narrow is the road etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:18 PM
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Generally speaking, fraternities and sororities will each have their own little traditions, I wouldn't go as far as to call it a cult. Now, assuming you do get into one, you get a community of people, easier access to events, and—this is really significant for later down the line—networking opportunities. Both with the people you're in the group with, and prior members. Those people you're with today may well be the ones you're working for or starting something with 5, 10 or more years in the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:23 PM
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Eh, I was the kid people thought would be the school shooter when I was in school. In retrospect I really needed adults telling if not outright forcing me into not being weird. Social shame and social rules both have their place. Broadly I think there is a space for the non-conformist but the vast majority generally do better when they conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:14 PM
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No comment on what you said but in the abstract I bet if someone flipped the sexes they'd get a funny reaction. Same deal with people taking old AITAH posts and changing the sexes of the people involved
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:08 PM
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It was funny but lowkey annoying. And I'd totally do it again. Maybe in Urdu? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:57 PM
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I got a 1 week ban for posting the navy seal copypasta in cyrillic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:51 PM
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I have a relative that has tons of fun with it. Prepare for boomers though. Lots and lots of boomers. Also my guess is you'll have to pick up an NRA membership if you join some sort of group with its own ranges and what not. A p p a r e n t l y they're the only group insuring those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:39 PM
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Probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:22 PM
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He's a chadologist, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:57 PM
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That tweet reeks of lunar energy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:40 PM
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Constrain it is, then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:07 PM
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Look, it's complicated. I grew up on the South side of Chicago but, I dunno man, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:54 AM
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I think the last few decades have shown people are generally awful at picking who to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:40 PM
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CoNfEsSiNg is cringe high school anime crap. Incredibly stupid. Make your interest known at the start, and certainly not this huge built-up confession thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:14 PM
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*eats garbage* "Why is everything I eat garbage???"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:01 PM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:00 PM
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This is not a place for minors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:39 PM
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And why should the career be the default? Misery loves company, ask your self why you want to impose this choice on other women, it may be subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:49 AM
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You're operating from completely different priors. It's to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:30 AM
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Many older women would also say they didn't have that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:28 AM
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I've been going to the same grocery store for years and there was a rather cute girl I saw stocking the shelves. About 5 or 6 years on and she has clear meth mouth, looks haggard, generally miserable looking. Very disappointing to see and can't say she's the only case I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:19 AM
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It's funny, on the one hand women ostensibly have freedom to choose to work if they want, or be a mother if they want. But functionally they're largely if not entirely steered into the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:12 AM
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I'd lean to it being something like that as stats I've seen indicate preference for children is more or less what it's been, as well as the fact fertility seems to be the greatest among the poorest and the richest. You'd expect it to decline with the richest as well, otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:42 PM
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One aspect of the problem, another is a focus on the individual versus the family as the basic social unit, another is the lack of experience many have with children when they themselves are growing up. (I'm seeing a lot of people elsewhere talking about how the first time they held a child was well into adulthood and not say when they were holding a younger sibling, let alone being an older sibling to begin with). Still another the lack of good modeling of parenthood, family, etc. Economic fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:21 PM
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The industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:07 PM
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IT BEGINS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:28 PM
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A rookie making a rookie mistake. Hard to get too upset over anything but the general state of affairs that makes this possible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:22 AM
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It'll be from around 5 or 5:45 in the evening to around 9 or 9:30pm, schedule depending. The 930pm nights aren't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:38 AM
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A program (isn't just for an Associate's degree, I'm finishing up a professional one) where the classes are at night so people who have to work full time can still go through the program. It keeps me out of trouble :p
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:42 AM
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Night school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:35 AM
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idk, mid to high 8s? Note I'm on a scale of 1 = burn victim 10 = spawn of the Greek gods
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:23 AM
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Terrifier? I hardly even knew her!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:19 AM
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I don't have an opinion on the napkin math, I just think if someone is going to worry that much about paternity either a) don't get married and/or have sex or b) get a vasectomy If the risk is such a burden to someone they should avoid the risk entirely. I'm not going to buy a house if I think the damn thing is going to collapse on me in my sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:54 AM
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Oh man Just get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:23 AM
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100% of everyone else's stats and comments are cringe and 200% of mine are based 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:24 PM
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This tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:15 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:32 PM
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And you think this won't be the case later in life? It just gets more expensive and time consuming because older women expect more and more effort. You will also face more rejections as soon as they figure out you're a virgin. Not to mention the pool of potential matches gets smaller and smaller because people who aren't following this advice are pairing off and taking themselves out of the market. This can be especially pronounced if you're in a place where people do this early.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:22 PM
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I fell for the "get your education first" meme. May not be the best advice depending on one's ultimate goals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:21 AM
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Mere semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:21 AM
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Probably not, buuuuuut I did run into and really hit it off with a woman who was very very similar in a lot of ways. That would've been a great relationship but it's kiiinda hard to compete against a man that'd been dating her ever since they first met as high school freshmen over 13ish years prior. Never had a chance! They've since married so it's great to see things working out for them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:54 AM
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I explained to her that this was just a male version of herself That's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see how it plays out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:48 AM
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Hi ainsley 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:18 PM
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I switched from a physics major about halfway through the program, so I ostensibly know enough to get myself into trouble but not enough to get out of it. Figured I'd foLlOw My PaSsIoN so I went with history & Secondary Ed. Hard to say I would've been better off because the route I took did open up opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:07 PM
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Here you go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:00 PM
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Actually a pretty good point tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:44 PM
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Apparently Schopenhauer was another G*rman with some bangers. Source: twitter screencaps of questionable authenticity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:41 PM
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Guys kinda know what we are getting into. Or at least accept them. I wish! A friend of mine has a history of picking the sort of people that leave a trail of chaos in their wake. The guy's in his 40s but still hasn't realized this about himself, and now he's dealing with a situation where he has a woman living with him that is physically hitting him. You'd think the fact she lost custody of her kids from a prior marriage would've been a 🚩, or the fact she had to go to court for DV in a different…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:26 PM
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This victim mindset really isn't a good approach to life. I do sincerely hope you realize that at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:17 PM
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Yep, and they just have to find other places or just grin and bear it. I have autism. Do you think I like going out and doing the whole schmoozing thing? No. I'd rather stay at home or be outside or any number of other things. But, I realize I have to do that for networking, social relations, and so on and so forth so I go out and do it. You don't have to play the game if you don't want to, but don't be surprised if you're left out because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:08 PM
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Unfathomably blessed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:35 PM
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Granted! You now have Steve Jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:32 PM
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Over the weekend. See here. We apparently have a terminal infection of i*cels. OoOoo 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:09 PM
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Unneeded rules changes causing problems? Whodathunk??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:57 PM
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Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:20 PM
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Yeah the personality you got through working out's carrying a lot of the weight here. Fwiw I agree with the fitness aspect 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:09 PM
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Your terms are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:06 AM
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Funny but tame 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:34 PM
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Ez fix, just talk about personality. Like with this thread. Instead of saying, "people need to lose weight" say "people need to lose bad personality." "Calories in/calories out helps improve your personality" etc 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:19 PM
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The average millennial couple
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:12 PM
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I'd say getting them into some sort of sport is more important. You have the socializing, requisite work on fitness, synergistic effect of good physical and mental health on academics, opportunities to deal with failure, collaboration, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:35 PM
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She does that a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:09 PM
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Im a long time user and asked for none of this. You'll do this crap but not do something about the underage users here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:12 PM
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Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:44 PM
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My favorite scene in Gone With the Wind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:05 AM
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nah everything's fine /nothingeverhappens/ why are you worrying? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:07 AM
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Actually unironically based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:26 PM
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The mod's flair says enforced chaos, but this doesn't enforce chaos. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:25 PM
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mods need to post fizeek
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:19 PM
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Inside the darkest coal mine shine the brightest gems
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:18 PM
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What the heck else is there to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:17 PM
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Right, but Being non-fat actually only requires calorie control. It requires zero exercise. I was the resident fat kid growing up fwiw. I've lost that weight, gained it, lost it back, etc. I've been fat for more years than not but at the end of the day weight loss comes down to calorie control. You can have a sob story about why you're fat but it simply comes down to eating too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:14 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:35 AM
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I shall invoke my status of Hispanic, endowed upon me through the blood of my Colombian ancestors and give you my blessing. Go with God my Friend. Go out there and be the best luchador at Halloween
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:24 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:21 AM
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I've not run into a woman irl who didn't love the Cheescake Factory
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:20 AM
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at a football game
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:19 AM
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quadribrow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:19 AM
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omg he's literally me frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:12 AM
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Germans are embarrassingly bad at English holy shit ftfy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:36 PM
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Depends on the nature of the malady
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 PM
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Source! Source! My kingdom for a source!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 PM
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It's interesting that person isn't picking up on that Edit: More broadly, I'm reminded of how people you wouldn't expect to fall for cults and the like are more likely to because they think they're too smart to get suckered. Aum Shinrikyo for ex. had chemists, doctors, lawyers, etc. in its membership at its height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:15 AM
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I am college educated and went to one of the best universities in the world, but eh... that's debatable. I definitely take it on a case-by-case basis lol. Going to college showed me there's a difference between being "educated" and being "intelligent."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:42 AM
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Lucky bastards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:27 PM
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Don't knock it till ya try it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:46 PM
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old.reddit.com
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:45 PM
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Whoo boy sounds like you discovered transmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:44 PM
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What being in love feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:43 PM
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imagine actually using the reddit app
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:42 PM
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People actually go there? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:28 PM
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A trans woman apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:58 PM
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Bad news! Wot? The writers strike! They're still fighting! Oh no! Anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:57 PM
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Lol, lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:10 AM
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birds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:06 PM
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That's fine, but you aren't trying to date yourself. Looks matter to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:59 PM
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Eh, I was in that place as a man that lost significant amounts of weight. If I had the outlook you described I would definitely be single for life! People are focused on appearance and there are two ways to approach this fact: a woe-is-me everyone's shallow why don't they like me for who I am on the inside way, or a "hey, I actually have more control over how people treat me than I give myself credit for" way. External v. internal locus of control. Personally, I think the latter is the better ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:39 PM
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The issue is what people do often affects those around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:25 PM
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Fair enough! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:47 AM
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I'm talking generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:41 AM
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I don't really care either way, it's not my fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:21 PM
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I definitely agree with all of that, especially for that guy based on what he said his situation was like. The below is based around the context of online discussion: Where I think my comment's coming from is I'll see people suggest it in much the same way as Meetup. Like its going to be some cure-all. It can help but as with many things it'll depend on location. A factor could be what people think of when they hear "volunteering." Getting involved in, say, the local Rotary chapter would fall un…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:03 PM
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Assuming I don't happen to find anyone, I'd imagine I'd keep pursuing my career and getting involved more with whatever church I'm in. More big picture I'd love to get involved in something that'd help lower the number of broken homes, as I think so many of the problems men and women are having with their relationships and mental health stem in large part from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:27 PM
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True, those connections are important to help lower the risk of deleting suicide!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:21 PM
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I believe a lot of men can use it to meet people (not to date) Yep, it's a good way for meeting people, especially those who are senior citizens. Which, that's fine. It's worth trying and volunteering is a good thing in and of itself, but he may not meet the sort of people he may want to meet. My experience, and apparently plenty of others from what I've seen, is that volunteering is something old people do. They have the time and energy to volunteer. Your 20 to 40 something juggling a family, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:17 PM
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Team sports sports teammates seem to be very close too. Football buddies seem to buddies for life. This is one of the reasons sport is so important. A good friend of mine was inducted into some state hall of fame for a sport and hearing him and the other inductees share their experiences with that sport—the victories had, the places visited, and most importantly the bonds he had formed and had kept into his late 60s—all from his school and college years. I was happy for him but man just getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:17 AM
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Just look for anything someone here could disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:54 AM
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I'd say 21+ Been saying it needs an age restriction for awhile lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:28 AM
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They don't give a shit. One group is all about "eNjOy ThE dEcLiNe 🥴" the other says "Not my problem 😌"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:19 AM
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And thats the big issue. A jetliner is just fine if it descends at a gradual pace, not when its taking a nosedive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:16 AM
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Which cues exactly? I'm guessing your crime was being a man while out and about on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:07 PM
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Bigger person leads to less headache but being spiteful feels better in the short term. I personally recc the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:30 AM
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Only messed up people wind up here. If it ain't autism it's some other abnormality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:28 AM
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Legal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:19 PM
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Plastic surgery and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:57 PM
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Even worse 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:59 PM
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There's probably some discussion to be had over how deliberate it is, but it does seem like older people don't actually want less-aged people in their organization. Individually they'll say otherwise but it doesn't bear out in their actions at an organizational level. Granted, there are other factors at play there too. The need these organizations have for people to be members for long periods of time in specific chapters is directly counter to the necessity younger people often run into with ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:30 PM
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Ime volunteering is an old person's game. Probably great for meeting people if you're a retiree, but not so much if you're younger. Not to say volunteering isn't good in and of itself, but it's definitely not an optimal way to meet non-retirees. edit: and yeah, a church is very much a 'your mileage may vary' thing. It works for some people but I think the demographic trends and an inability for churches to do anything to encourage family formation among their unmarried population make it a nonst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:39 PM
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4gang 😎👊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:34 PM
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Like so:
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:25 PM
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Here you go!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:53 AM
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