LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2025-02-23T00:20:55+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1caiz4s/woman_alone_in_the_woods_with_a_bear_or_a_tall

When it came to tall handsome stranger women suddenly started to choose men over bears . It was never about men vs bears . It was always particular type of men vs bear

treadmarks · 2025-02-23T18:49:02+00:00

Lots of men including myself instinctively avoid hitting on the most beautiful women because we rationally recognize that attractive people are the least trustworthy. These people have the most options and the highest standards, and are therefore the most demanding and the most likely to hurt you.

This is the rational basis for looks matching where you seek out someone on your level so you don't get burned. Women seem to have not figured this out, get burned over and over which is why they're crying about all men are trash and the bar is on the floor.

treadmarks · 2025-02-24T18:18:02+00:00

Women with slightly above average looks probably get hit on more than all other women. They're just attractive enough to make guys interested, but unattractive enough that their looks are not intimidating and every guy thinks they have a shot with her.

Adject_Ive · 2025-02-27T11:39:19+00:00

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just lemme drop this here

CompetitiveSugar6451 · 2025-02-22T22:41:02+00:00

As an almost 40 years old virgin I can guarantee you women care about looks first and foremost.

Ok-Party8338 · 2025-02-23T10:20:59+00:00

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MalePsychopath · 2025-02-23T16:05:21+00:00

Whenever men complain about bluepilled lies, that’s the dumb shit they are talking about.

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Immediate_Wasabi_920 · 2025-02-22T22:16:05+00:00

Women says penis size doesn't matter, but always end up being the ones who have a partner the size of 6 or above. Conveniently, their ex was always smaller. Don't fall for any gaslighting women try to hit you with. They do care and its an insult try and convince men they don't.

Ok-Party8338 · 2025-02-23T11:53:05+00:00

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PracticalControl2179 · 2025-02-22T21:59:33+00:00

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Last one.

Dry-Ad3452 · 2025-02-24T10:11:46+00:00

It's always been about looks for women. They lied about it and gaslit LVM to believe otherwise to prop up their own false sense of superiority when in reality they're more fucking shallow then men on a wide scale. Women simping over Luigi's ankles for fuck's sake.

Do NOT tell me otherwise, blue pilled freaks. You know it's true too.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2025-02-22T19:10:10+00:00

Q4Women: How can a short man who's well-endowed tastefully advertise this fact? I'm very happily married, so I don't have a personal stake in this, but I'd like to know what you'd say to men with a similar roll of the genetic dice. When I discussed dating apps including a space for this measurement in a previous iteration of this thread, it was seen as weird.

As it stands, it seems like guys whose best physical feature is not visible when clothed are expected to keep it entirely unknown and sell himself with a handicap. That strikes me as unfair, especially if he's short and is also expected to be under a social non-disclosure agreement as to one feature that could help offset his height deficiency.

PrimateOfGod · 2025-02-26T00:29:52+00:00

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Am I physically attractive?

My social personality is pretty introverted and shy. I make conversation, small talk, and am friendly, but I’m pretty short spoken unless I know you well.

Responsible_Mind_259 · 2025-02-23T05:36:59+00:00

One of the main reasons I can’t take women’s dating struggles seriously is because their priorities are outright stupid. Their obsession with height is the perfect example, when you really break it down, it’s completely irrational. Almost all women fixate on it, prioritizing it above everything else, even at the expense of their own happiness. They’d rather choose a tall, unremarkable man who treats them as disposable than consider a short, interesting guy who would actually love and appreciate them.

The hypocrisy is undeniable. Women constantly insist that height isn’t a big deal, yet their actions prove it’s one of, if not the, most important factors in their selection process. It’s not just a preference; for most, it’s a non-negotiable. Meanwhile, men evaluate women on a range of qualities, looks, personality, attitude, compatibility, giving each similar levels of weight. A woman can lack in certain areas but still be seen as desirable overall. But for women? Height trumps nearly everything. And yet, they have the audacity to call men the shallow ones, lmao.

What makes this even worse is that it isn’t just an individual preference, it’s practically a collective fetish. Nearly all women share it, yet they try to gaslight men into believing it’s not real. As if we don’t see it happening. As if we don’t notice who gets chosen, who gets ignored, and what the common denominator always is. And when men dare to point it out, women act like we’re delusional. Then they turn around and complain about being viewed as a monolith, completely oblivious to their own contradiction.

I actually like their shallowness and gaslighting because it justifies me being an asshole to women. They treat short men with apathy, cruelty, and complete disregard, so they deserve to be treated the same way. If they can openly reject, mock, and dehumanize men for something beyond their control, then it’s only fair that they receive the same treatment in return.

ForGiggles2222 · 2025-02-24T11:13:37+00:00

Why do people want to have ONSs with good looking people?

If sex is what you're after, shouldn't you just be looking for someone who's good at sex so long as they're safe people. It's not like you're going to spend a long time with them so why do looks matter? I understand a hot body but the face too?

And no this isn't a rant lol, sex culture isn't even a thing where I'm from.

Logos1789 · 2025-02-26T16:27:00+00:00

Most proof that looks don’t matter are just people pointing to couples…like yeah, they probably settled.

Corbast7 · 2025-02-26T21:53:14+00:00

I think the main reason why you see not-looksmatched couples is because over time one of them let themselves go a little more than the other. But they still love each other enough to still be attracted to each other. Or at least to not break up over it.

I think for the most part when couples first get together, they very most likely start off as looksmatched.

RoseyButterflies · 2025-02-23T11:35:30+00:00

This or THAT edition 1.0

6 ft 6 inch $6 figure

Or

5ft 10, 7 inch, $7 figure

😂🤷‍♀️

Spread-Em-Plz · 2025-02-24T01:35:53+00:00

How common do you think the following are for men across the looks spectrum?

women looking/glancing at
Getting likes and/or matches on dating apps
gettin’ flirted with
smashin’

How common do you estimate/guess each of these occurrences are for: average-looking men, slightly ugly men, decent-looking men, ugly men, and hot men respectively?

I have a couple guesses of my own but want to gather the opinions of the masses (might make a female version)

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2025-02-26T16:27:20+00:00

There's a weird phenomenon in which, for women, there's practically a 1:1 correlation between looking more feminine and looking more attractive, but the opposite doesn't seem to be true for men.

How many women would choose Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime over, say, Harry Stiles or whoever the pretty boy of the moment is?

Also, a full, manly, viking beard doesn't seem to be preferred by most women over a clean-shaven or neatly stubbled face.

Heavy_Can_6962 · 2025-02-28T05:45:41+00:00

Do you think it’s possible for every man to be physically attractive to many women?

Do you think if men, collectively- got manicured haircuts, engaged in skin care routines, wore scents, adopted a stylish fashion sense, built muscularity through regular workouts, and took care of their teeth and grooming, that every man could be physically desirable to many women?

Or do you believe there are some men who just aren’t going to be physically attractive and hot to anyone no matter how much effort they put in because they’re unattractive?

MikeArrow · 2025-02-22T20:27:26+00:00

I saw this comment and it really made me think: https://np.reddit.com/r/GlowUps/comments/1iv943i/3540_blood_sweat_many_tearsand_more_sweat/me3zdd2/

"This sub is convincing me that there are no ugly people. Only overweight and fit. Gives me hope for myself. Fantastic job! Super happy for you =D"

It's what I've been saying for ages, that I just need to get thin enough to be attractive, but no one seems to believe me.

PracticalControl2179 · 2025-02-22T21:57:12+00:00

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This woman claims she is 210 lbs

Spread-Em-Plz · 2025-02-26T13:25:56+00:00

I still stand by my argument that being good-looking doesn’t actually mean you have sex appeal

Yes of course you have to pass a certain looks threshold to be sexually appealing, but I don’t often see it talked about here

Honestly this’ll sound like a crazy think but I think a mid with good sex appeal who knows his audience, can get more action than a “Chad” who doesn’t have those things

Efficient-Baker1694 · 2025-02-22T21:08:45+00:00

For anyone on here going on a date tonight/this weekend, good luck.

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UnionOk8886 · 2025-02-24T10:48:48+00:00

Thanks again to the mods for giving me permission to post this 🚨 Quick 10-minute anonymous survey 🚨 👨 Only male participants please 👨 We would like to hear your views about relationships! If you have a spare 10 minutes, we would greatly appreciate your participation. Survey link: https://derby.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_2iumeQj8ZbVxqM6

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Novel-Tip-7570 · 2025-02-28T10:58:53+00:00

Why don´t people realize that the book Tampa is obviously parody to satirize how the sexual exploitation of male, underage students by female teachers is treated by the media? I have seen a number of manosphereans, including Rollo Tomassi imply that the book is CONDONING the sexual assault. Anyone who has read it and has a brain knows it doesn´t.

And yes, there are similar books of males exploiting underage girls. Examples: Lolita, My Dark Vanessa etc.

PracticalControl2179 · 2025-02-22T18:49:42+00:00

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This is what a 5’3” 190 lb woman looks like.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-02-26T23:58:51+00:00

Reminder that many men hate and mock women selecting for raw attraction ("tingles," "lower your looks/physical standards") and simultaneously demand it from us

PracticalControl2179 · 2025-02-22T21:55:57+00:00

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This woman claims to be 5’3” and 170 lbs.

Logos1789 · 2025-02-26T16:26:22+00:00

Can we make regular posts about N count now that there isn’t a specific thread for it?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-02-22T20:34:33+00:00

I'm once again asking for any actual evidence that "men aren't hot enough" is the main reason for pairing rates being what they are

As well as the claim that "casual sex with hot men" is a statistically relevant cause of the pairing rates being what they are as well

This means links to studies, not just personal thoughts, feelings, and rhetoric

This also means those studies must prove your claim without extrapolations, editorializing, correlation-without-causation, etc.

GloomyGloomette · 2025-02-22T18:38:49+00:00

Another thing men claim women unfairly judge them on: dick size. But I feel like both genders have beauty standards for the genitals of the opposite sex. Men aren’t shy about their general preference for bubblegum pink coloured vaginas and small labias, which a lot of women don’t have. I don’t see why penis’ should be exempt from said genital beauty standards.

PracticalControl2179 · 2025-02-22T21:57:52+00:00

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5’3” 174 lbs

Parrotsandarmadillos · 2025-02-23T00:36:22+00:00

Attractive people get better treatment FROM OTHER ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE. Normies and sub 5s will gladly rip and shit on people more attractive than them.

Ok-Party8338 · 2025-02-22T23:53:57+00:00

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Title	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD
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Date	February 22, 2025 5:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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