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| 0 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Be me. Sexually active since I was 15 years old. Never used a condom or birth control pill with my ex-boyfriends, only the pullout method and tracking ovulation days. Keep reading on the Internet that these birth control methods are not reliable. Start wondering whether I'm infertile. Now at 34, me and husband decide to try for a baby. He cums inside me during my ovulation days. Almost immediately, I get pregnant. Are people who get pregnant "accidentally" actually retarded, or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:09 PM |
| – | Women what are your Standards for hookup vs relationshipFor hookup: How dominant they are in bed. I literally don't care about looks and think that being dominated by an uggo is hot. (I'm into BDSM) For relationships: If we are compatible and yes he needs to be at least mildly dominant in bed. He also needs to have a job because my own job doesn't pay that well. I'm actually married and my husband fits that profile well. My only issue is that he has kids from another relationship. I love the kids but it's a nightmare fuel situation. I would never rec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Red pill should go to therapy to learn how to listen.Women are very far from being a monolith. I think you would be surprised at how many women expect men to be "the man" in the relationship instead of whatever the loud feminists are saying. I also didn't realize this until I started running in certain circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?And? The suffraggettes were ridiculed too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:38 AM |
| -3 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?Why would a man in 2026 be obligated to fight for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Question for red pill: what of genuinely sexually submissive men?Fantasy is one thing. Reality is another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:19 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I feel like the blue pillers on this sub have become a joke who don't know what they're talking about. For example, I just saw multiple blue pillers insisting that it's easy to find a sexually domimant woman. As someone who has 10+ years of experience in the BDSM community as a submissive bisexual woman, I will tell you that you have no clue what you're talking about. The vast majority of dominant women in the kink community are paid professionals and findom exploiters. It's very rare to find a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Question for red pill: what of genuinely sexually submissive men?I don't know about this. Finding a dominant woman who is not a paid professional is pretty rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:13 AM |
| -1 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.I agree with the red pill on almost everything but I also think feminists are right, men are dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:07 AM |
| -2 | I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thingGood luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:37 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thingThere's no unconditional love.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:29 AM |
| -5 | I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thingThere are absolutely women who will stick around when you're at your worst. But I'm still not convinced that their feelings of love have the same roots. Men love women like a cute little thing, women would actually be repulsed if they viewed men this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 3 | I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thingWhat are you talking about? The love you feel towards different people is different. I also don't love my parents in the way I love my friends. They are different kinds of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:19 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thingYea no, my love for my husband feels different than my love for my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:17 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You don't mog shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceIf it was entirely up to women, about 50% of them would only want sex twice a year. Lots of women simply lose interest in sex in long-term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:36 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I was telling my husband about The Red Pill and he was like "what? They believe 80% of women want 20% of men? That sounds crazy" which is funny because my husband is an 190m finance bro and women always lined up for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.Unmarried women are largely viewed as sad cat ladies, especially if they have no children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:10 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm seriously curious to know what on Earth is the plan of feminist societies in case a total war happens. Like lets say, Russia, China and Iran team up to invade Europe and the US doesn't want to help. Will they just send the men to fight like in Ukraine? Will they just surrender without a fight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:54 AM |
| 7 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?They will just blame the mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?You don't have to breastfeed, people won't judge you if you prioritize work over family, people won't judge you if you don't come to kid parties, people won't judge you if your kid shows up to school with dorty clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:07 PM |
| – | How undesirable are single dads?I'm married to one and honestly, I wouldn't recommend it at all. Becoming a stepmother means being everyone's punching bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:53 PM |
| 5 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?Assuming no divorce happens, being a father is soo much easier than being a mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm not like the biggest fan of feminism but I don't get how there can be women like Pearl and Rachel Wilson that unironically defend the patriarchy. How do they reconcile their support for the patriarchy with the very victim-blamey attitude that most patriarchal societies had about rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:31 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm the aloof, robotic type of autistic and I swear men hate it. Any success I had with men had been despite my autism, not because of it. Even my husband, who's a neurodivergent, thinks I'm too cold sometimes. I don't doubt that if I was a male I would be an incel though. I just wanted to challenge the phrase I see repeated here often that "men love autistic women". Nahh, they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:46 AM |
| – | You have to be comfortable with the idea of getting cheated on to be in a relationshipMen need to have an abundance mentality the way most women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itI don't know if most of them actively prefer bad boys but I will say that if you're charming and handsome enough, it will hardly make any difference if you're good or bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:34 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have a different explanation. Male and female sexuality are different. This should be obvious by the mere fact that women's libido changes during their menstrual cycle while men's libido is relatively stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:44 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵PPDers acting like women who have no interest in sex with their husbands don't exist. Meanwhile, my widowed aunt during one of her drinking binges: "I don't know what is it about men and sex. It was the worst for me when J...(her late husband) wanted to have sex. Eventually our kids caught him watching lesbian porn". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:29 PM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismThey're not asexuals lol. They find their sexuality again after divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:23 PM |
| 1 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?I do believe that civilization wouldn't exist without the patriarchy. Of course, civilization is not good or bad, it has both positive and negative points. If we lived in a matriarchy, we would still be hunter-gatherers but that's not inherently bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:00 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismThey still believe men are socialised to be like this. Which is an optimistic view imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:50 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismIt's not about me. And perhaps they love these men but don't find them sexually attractive. It's actually a huge debate on X right now , why not go and see what these women have to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:49 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismIt's more like the woman has sex because she feels it's her wifely duty to occasionally have sex, even though she doesn't want to. Just because you have not heard of it it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are multiple married women who would gladly go for years without sex and they have it only because of duty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:20 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismThey feel raped when they're pressured to finally give in after multiple refusals, because they feel like it's their wifely duty to sometimes have sex, even though they don't want to. I am a woman, it's low key sexist to assume a woman can't have these beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismMany married women in fact report feeling like they're raped when they're pressured to have sex with their husbands. Even if it's not coercive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismThere are exceptions but there are studies that still show that on average men have a higher sex drive. Let me give you an example, if 8 out of 10 men had a higher sex drive would it be fair to generalise just because 2 out of 10 don't? I think it would be fair. Pushing the narrative that men and women have equal libidos is more harmful as it creates unrealistic expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?Biological males are not women. Other than that I don't give a fuck if someone wants to transition or dress a certain way. Go for it all you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?They might call me sexist but not a liar.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?Don't care enough about the trans stuff to have an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:40 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?I think feminists actually have a view of men that is too kind. They think that men and women are born equal and that socialization is what makes us different. I actually think the opposite. I think that men are naturally less empathetic and considerate than women. I also think that most men would rape under the right circumstances. Like if they are in an environment that promotes rape, like being in the Red Army in WWII, most men would absolutely do it. I don't hate men, I simply accept their n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:19 AM |
| -5 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%I didn't say intelligence is gendered, just that the male brain is usually more efficient at certain things. I do think women are good at other things and there are of course exceptions at everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:41 AM |
| -1 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%What rules in this breaking? I'm totally serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:38 AM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Conservatives are the biggest misandrists of all and it's amazing that some of you guys can't see it. It's the conservatives that want you to marry some single mother and be a glorified slave. It's conservatives that want to preserve the all-male draft. Leftists don't care if you're a draft-dodging forever bachelor and would rather the society burn than admit their worldview is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:23 AM |
| 0 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%If it was so easy the man why do people have 2 kids at most and look at you like you're clinically insane if you have more than 2 kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:58 AM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm sorry to say this but how come feminists don't seem the least bit concerned about fixing the gender divide and instead seem to actively try to make gender relations worse? Like how can a society be functional if women hate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:57 AM |
| 3 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%Hard disagree on this one. What makes a man unattractive is appearing incompetent. When a woman does most chores, she subconsciously views the man as incompetent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:43 AM |
| 4 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%What I describe is not egalitarian... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:40 AM |
| -1 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%Women hate being bored and stressed and arguably handle stress worse than men. Women need to be carefree to be loving and attentive wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:28 AM |
| 4 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%Unless you have some very particular standards, there's no excuse for why a grown man can't wash a pot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:26 AM |
| -4 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%I'm just telling you what works but you guys don't listen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 09:59 AM |
| 4 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%Married life with small kids is glorified slavery anyway. It's something that you have to accept if you want the full package. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 09:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Say what you want about women but I'm at a hospital right now and all I see is women being there for their sick husbands. Rarely do I see men doing the same. Women are usually taken care of by their children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 04:30 PM |
| 6 | If Men Had Understood Hypergamy, Would They Have Supported Feminism?Most people (including women) did not support feminism in the way that you think. There are studies from back in the day that showed that around 50% of women were against female suffrage. However, capitalists wanted to empower women to double the workforce and the consumer base. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-suffragism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 09:01 AM |
| -4 | A lot of the things that red pillers attribute to "female nature" are just them not respecting average numales enoughWhere does the red pill say this? All I see is them trying to discover female nature in evolutionary terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:18 AM |
| -1 | A lot of the things that red pillers attribute to "female nature" are just them not respecting average numales enoughI have studied the case and I'm convinced it's just another case of a woman in love with a pimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:15 AM |
| 0 | A lot of the things that red pillers attribute to "female nature" are just them not respecting average numales enoughI didn't just discover it. I knew it . It's just aimed at red pillers who say these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:14 AM |
| -2 | A lot of the things that red pillers attribute to "female nature" are just them not respecting average numales enoughI've seen many red pillers say "women don't apologise , never admit fault because they're solipsistic" blah blah blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:14 AM |
| 8 | If feminism and patriarchy didn’t exist, but you had to choose between marrying the love of your life and being a homebody all day and having no friends, or being a career women yet never meeting the love of your life or getting in any serious relationship, which would you choose?Why do the "trad women" in this scenario get to have no friends? In real life, our grandmas who were trad for the most part had many friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:41 AM |
| 8 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?You have to understand that women receive lots of unwanted male attention that usually starts when they're still minors. At some point they get sick of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:40 AM |
| 10 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.I think you guys are blind. Older women=more comfortable with their sexuality, more slutty, more eager to please the man, less entitled. Older women is where it's at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:48 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I feel like some guys here think submissive women are somehow easier and low maintenance when in reality they probably have brutal standards and will turn into bitches if you slip up and don't act like a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronNobody took care of women "if things didn't work out" in the patriarchy. Even widows where literally starving because there were no good options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What do abusive men bring to the table?It's taboo to admit this but some people want to be abused. There are lots of people out there who are self-destructive and fall in love with their own misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronWell yea this is why men should just say no to this bullshit and stop being simps. This doesn't change that the patriarchy is bad for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:11 PM |
| -1 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronThese happiness studies are not very reliable because of how subjective happiness is. There are people living in squalor who say they're happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 06:28 PM |
| -2 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronTrue. I admit if I was a man I would be pro-patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronI don't think we currently live in a patriarchy in the western world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:01 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Red pill men are honestly such pussies. They will talk endlessly about repealing the 19th and taking away women's rights but they will never actually do it. Just do it you cowards! Such a pathetic display from the "stronger" sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:04 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They often magically find their sex drive again when they get divorced... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 11:44 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't think the women who criticise age gaps are generally okay with 18 yos having Only Fans. Anyway, I'm not super anti-age gap at all but a lot of people have bad experiences with older men when they're very young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 11:40 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵People on Reddit and twitter are getting completely hysterical, completely misinterpreting any criticism of age gap relationships. People are acting like critics of age gaps are objecting to 30 yo women dating 40 yo men, which is obviously false, nobody except trolls does that. What people are skeptical of is when 30 yos date literal teenagers and that is because these relationships are often not beneficial to the younger person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:10 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's a no from me, but you can do as you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:07 AM |
| – | Why should women obey average men?Most husbands will be average.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Why should women obey average men?This is not his account and subscribers is not the same as influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Why should women obey average men?Rollo is literally one of the OG theorists and most newer red pillers rely on his insights one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Why should women obey average men?You know what? That is my dream life. However, there are not many men who make capable leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:56 AM |
| 3 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionI am implying that if most women lived in ancient Judea they would rather be part of King Solomon's harem than married to a random peasant. Obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:49 PM |
| 0 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionI was talking about red Pillers who defend the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:27 PM |
| 3 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionNobody deserves anything. Some men do get submissive women because they are capable enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:27 PM |
| 3 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionIf you are truly worthy then submission will happen naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:24 PM |
| -10 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionIt happens naturally if a man is powerful enough. No need of force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Men love women as possessionsLets see men don't give a shit about anything that defines a woman beyond sexuality and obedience. How is that seeing them as full humans ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Men love women as possessionsWell yea tbh if you're not a leader, confident, have an aura of mystery, have potential to be dangerous and have at least average looks, then of course you can't expect women to worship you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Men love women as possessionsWomen treat their partners like gods as long as certain criteria are being met....Average guys just hate that they don't meet that criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Men love women as possessionsIt's not criticism. It's expanding the theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 11:19 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵By most people's standards they at least seemed like a pretty successful family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My aunt: 65 yo widow with three adult kids. Was with her late husband for almost 40 years. Now all she talks about is an old ex who alpha widowed her at 16 and they apparently added each other on Facebook. I'm starting to worry that alpha widowhood is real folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 05:12 PM |
| 9 | What is the average female sexual experience like?I wanted to experience something edgy and "dangerous". I'm just weird like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 09:23 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm baffled that people are still surprised by the existence of female anti-feminists. The likes of Pearl and Helen Andrews are nothing new. If you read a bit of history, female anti-feminists existed even back in the suffragette era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 08:16 AM |
| 14 | What is the average female sexual experience like?All the one-night stands I've had were unsatisfying but it's not like I expected anything different. For me personally, the ONS were not about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 08:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hybristophilia, emotional masochism plus I'm scared that if I left, his relationship with his kids would totally fall apart and the kids would get hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 02:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Where did I say that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 02:09 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I recently married my man and he wants kids , I think it would be a really bad idea. Just to clarify my man already has kids with other women so he's not childless, he just wants kids with me. The reason why I think it's a bad idea is that my man has narcissist tendencies. I knew it before I married him it's not like I'm delusional but I am a sufferer of hybristophilia and I knew I could never be with a nice man. In fact, when I dated nice men in the past I always turned into the narcissist. My … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsThey're into men just not the way that men are into women. Women's sexuality is not spontaneous unless you're a gigachad like Harry Styles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsSorry but women's sexuality just works like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsPeople will slam you for this and for good reason, it's not healthy to emotionally manipulate your wife. I will say though that I believe women are more likely to forgive infidelity than overall incompetence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 07:40 AM |
| -2 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsYou might be the exception then because I am surrounded by married couples and once a week is optimistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsAsk the married couples around you how often they have sex. Once a week is the optimistic scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:24 AM |
| -6 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsIt's not bullshit it's how it works for most couples with kids.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:23 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If women are as awful as the red pillers are saying, why are they so obsessed with getting into relationships with women? Red Pillers should just go MGTOW and leave women alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:06 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It somehow seems unmasculine to me. I know it sounds unfair and irrational but I can't help if it annoys me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵We have been together for over 6 years. I'm not going to beak it off because of an ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:39 PM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is there a way to say this to my man without being an emasculating bitch? There's something my man does that gives me the ick and makes my pussy dry up. He sometimes seems to dress in warmer clothes than is suitable for the weather. For example, if might be 19 degrees Celsius out there and he might carry a jacket with him. He might wear long-sleaved shirts even with 20 degrees Celsius. It makes him look so weak in my eyes like he's afraid of the cold. I know it's a bitchy thing to say but it rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵We practice one way monogamy, he still fucks other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know it's a heavy topic but do you think rapists ever feel guilt for what they do? I keep wondering whether the man who SAed me ever thinks about it or if it was just nothing to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I recently got married. I was around 26 and me and my long term man were separated so I fucked some guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:41 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵5 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is what I'm wondering. Does he even care or give a fuck that he traumatized me? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 02:41 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why would it be so weird? I still think about it from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 01:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have been drinking coffee since I was 14-15. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 12:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I need insight from males because I struggle to understand the psychology of the man who sexually assaulted me. When I was about 16, I went on a date with a 19 yo male. Or at least I thought it was a date but apparently it wasn't. We met at a park and he immediately told me to go to his house. I was like "can't we get coffee first or something" and he was like "no, we'll just go to my house". I was like whatever, I'll go to his house but we won't have sex because I don't even know this guy. So w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 12:12 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Let me guess because you don't believe someone can have all these opinions? Yes, I like being told I'm special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:05 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't think there's a specific crime that would be off limits when it comes to my sexual attraction, unfortunately. I will say that something like tax fraud is not sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:34 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:28 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm a sufferer of hybristophilia, meaning I find evil and criminal men attractive. AMA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:19 AM |
| 16 | As a guy, the "mysoginists" are not that succesful as you all make them out to beThe point is that misogyny doesn't affect your sexual life negatively. At least not if you're physically attractive and have high status. Even literal women-killers, like Oscar Pistorius, can get girlfriends easily. In fact, Pistorius now has a girlfriend that looks like the woman he killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 12:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Can someone who speaks the red pill language enlighten me about wtf was Rollo talking about in this old essay? Like how is this kidnapper lunatic relevant to anything Red Pill? https://therationalmale.com/2013/08/05/dominance/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who considers getting into a long term age gap relationship in this day and age is a total idiotWell yea if you don't want marriage then it's okay I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Anyone who considers getting into a long term age gap relationship in this day and age is a total idiotThey won't stick around for long without a ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who considers getting into a long term age gap relationship in this day and age is a total idiotIn the beginning yes. But eventually the older person will get "too old". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who considers getting into a long term age gap relationship in this day and age is a total idiotI would say 10+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who considers getting into a long term age gap relationship in this day and age is a total idiotThat's not a real age gap tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:30 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is there a way to actually not be attracted to bad men? I'm serious. And before someone asks, no my father wasn't some domineering asshole. I don't know where my sexual preferences come from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessFun fact, more women than men have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:55 PM |
| -1 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?Yea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessI'm into BDSM and love being used. My boyfriend is dominant but sometimes I think he's not as dominant as I would have liked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:57 PM |
| 12 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessYes because they want to have kids. Older women are less likely to remarry than older men though and from what I've seen it's not because of lack of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:41 PM |
| 18 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessThere are people who are genuinely not built for the conventional family life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:48 AM |
| 17 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessExactly people assume that being surrounded by lots of people automatically means you're content which is not always the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:23 AM |
| 8 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessI see the opposite, 50 is usually when couples either divorce or go for polyamory because they secretly miss fucking other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?I once dated a man who admitted that he raped and physically abused his ex when she cheated on him. He didn't seem to feel any guilt at all and was proud of it. He was very controlling and once violently grabbed me by the throat when he suspected I was flirting with someone else. Ladies, I know the temptation and I understand but you need to stay away from possessive men like this. They're actively dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:25 AM |
| 3 | The redpill only calls out men when it makes them feel superior. They wont call out men when it makes women "look superior".The red pill in general has a Men are Wonderful mentality just like feminists have a Women are Wonderful mentality. The average red pill male would never admit how pervy, creepy a lot of men can be for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 01:44 PM |
| 6 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themYou don't get it. There are people stuck in relationships where they get constantly rejected for YEARS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:05 AM |
| 10 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themThe problem is that the low sexual desires partner usually makes absolutely no effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:04 AM |
| 1 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themMore marriages are like this than you would expect. There is something fundamentally wrong about modern marriage and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:42 AM |
| 3 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themAnd the person who's always not in the mood is supposed to not care at all that their spouse feels rejected, right ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:38 AM |
| 6 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themWell, masturbation is obviously not the same as sex, is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:35 AM |
| 1 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themWhy do you put the blame only on men? Should women not vet better ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:35 AM |
| -2 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themThe logic is that the mainstream is obsessed with the "manosphere" while we have cucks like Pierce Morgan whose wife openly disrespects and likely cheats on him. The issue is usually not sexual incompatibility but lack of attraction. Yea they're okay with once a month.... That's why we have so many married guys pay for hookers and OnlyFans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:33 AM |
| -6 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themWhat about empathy for the person who is sexually unsatisfied? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:31 AM |
| -6 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themObservation. I've seen so many married couples in their 50s where the husband cheats, pays for OnlyFans, is a sugar daddy etc. If he was satisfied this wouldn't have been the case. And I also know women who have affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?It examined how Myron and the others are cringe but it didn't really examine the manosphere beliefs and whether they're true or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any groupMost young women don't really have the smarts and the guts to capitalize on that sexual power, so that discussion is moot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:39 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Most of this comes from Rollo himself. He has admitted most of this on his stream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:59 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I watched a bit of Rollo's recent stream and he was complaining about how the red pill stuff doesn't make him enough money. I seriously think guys like this made a huge mistake when they decided to show their face and become streamers. Rollo was already a somewhat known red pill personality before he revealed his face. He could have kept his regular job and remained anonymous. Look at Roissy who never revealed his identity and just disappeared. It's even more embarrassing that he's a married man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:54 AM |
| 72 | It isn't fair to think autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating or any part of lifeTbh, I'm an autistic woman and I admit that if I was a man, I would probably be a permavirgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:21 AM |
| 1 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsThat's just a stereotype and not always the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:28 AM |
| 1 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsThere are studies that show that age gap relationships initially report more satisfaction than same-aged relationships but that this changes over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:39 AM |
| 0 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsAssuming no plastic surgery etc. an older man who's not a bum will typically look better than his female counterpart. Look around you. Women need Botox, 100 skincare products and typically still look worse at 50 than their male counterparts who wash their face with soap. However, it's true that women can get casual sex at any age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:31 AM |
| 1 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsYou make some valid points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:28 AM |
| 2 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsThe disadvantaged spouse will usually be entitled to alimony assuming they stayed long enough. And divorces can usually be messier when joint properties are involved. Also, age gap doesn't mean that the younger spouse is some stay-at-home trophy wife, that's just a stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:10 AM |
| -2 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsSounds like a problem that is inherent in any relationship with a financial disparity, not just age gap relationships. It's a shame that many women are actively seeking out much wealthier men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:05 AM |
| -2 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsYou really think some 55 to can control a 30 yo woman? He can barely overpower her physically. And it only becomes worse By the time he's 60 she can probably beat him up no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:00 AM |
| 0 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsAfter a while, the younger person gains the upper hand because the old person will literally mentally decline. Most people mentally decline in their 50s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:54 AM |
| 2 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsThey like INDIVIDUAL older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:43 AM |
| -2 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsRelate to what things? Any specific examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill men should support feminismLike what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill men should support feminismFirst of all, low status men never got as much sex as people think. Maybe they would get an ugly wife who would have duty sex with them. Second of all, in most places cs is calculated based on difference in incomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill men should support feminismWhy would a sexually successful red pill man care about mean comments by feminists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Does it Get Better for Women Over 35?In my experience women go through phases like that even if they're married with children. I remember my mom showing some serious signs of depression and burnout when we were kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 05:54 PM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenMy aunt and uncle had a similar age gap and it really started to show after a while. They stayed together but I don't think they had a very good marriage by the standards of most people here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenThere are plenty of young women who don't fully understand the value of youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenWell, for one you're messing things up for men her own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenA 40 yo man might seem more masculine but this man will decline with age. The dynamic will be much different when she's 40 and he's 60. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:09 AM |
| 11 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenMen will selfishly date a young woman and not consider that she might be selfish too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenWhy would a man take such a dumb risk? It is a risk to date younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenIt's a very temporary advantage that older men have. In the long-run, these women will see their peers married to men their own age who are not much worse off financially and they'll be jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:47 AM |
| -1 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itAnd? Men are also attracted to basically everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 03:02 PM |
| 8 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for ityou're making some huge assumptions here which are not necessarily the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 4 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itYea, just exaggerating as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 14 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:43 PM |
| – | The ugly truth is that both feminism and the Red Pill are correctSexual assault includes stuff like women being groped on the train. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:10 AM |
| – | The ugly truth is that both feminism and the Red Pill are correctLike that about 1/3 women has experienced some form of sexual violence. Idk it rings true to me. Men don't get how many creeps there are out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 09:15 AM |
| – | The ugly truth is that both feminism and the Red Pill are correctWhat about feminism is false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:59 AM |
| – | The ugly truth is that both feminism and the Red Pill are correctI believe that if you took a bunch of men and put them on a remote island and then put a bunch of women on another island, they would end up creating different societies. While not all men and women fall under the stereotypes, I believe femininity and masculinity are real forces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:58 AM |
| 0 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameThey work if you have a man who is worthy and willing to step up as a husband and father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:32 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameThere are many men.ehk have glaring flaws. Red Pillers act like men are always perfect and their only problem is being too nice. That doesn't reflect reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:18 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameSo in other words there's no good advice for women who actually have problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:16 PM |
| 11 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameIt's easy for a man to say this, but men can be just as flawed as woman. My own dad never understood why he and my mom got divorced and still doesn't get it. He's an addict who wanted to sleep until 12 pm and would scream at us as kids if we weren't quiet. My mom had to do everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 12:25 PM |
| 13 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameMany people struggle to afford basic healthcare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:54 AM |
| 13 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameWe live in a hypercapitalist society. Unless your husband is a millionaire, you shouldn't give up your career. Every single woman I know who did this has regretted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsYea look at all these single moms swimming in money! Not like they're almost all struggling financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:38 PM |
| -2 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsLesbians are gays are less than 3% of the population. Why should we care about what they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 10:04 AM |
| 7 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsExactly, people blame marriage but it usually all falls apart after KIDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 10:00 AM |
| 14 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsThey foolishly believe the man will change and become more responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsThere are very few single father households to make that comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsWell, if you did all that and you got divorced then you are the exception, not the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 09:54 AM |
| 12 | No way most men are friends with a rapistThe definition of what counts as sexual assault etc. has changed so much since the 80s that it wouldn't surprise me if most men are friends with men who have been rapey/creepy in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsNope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends?The Paul brothers have been involved in controversies, including alleged crypto scams and sexual assault allegations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsYou will only get scrutiny if you date like a teenager which is a bad idea not just because of the scrutiny but also because of the huge maturity gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:58 AM |
| 20 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsWomen will just tell you things that make them sound good. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsNo man it's just an echo chamber. Who will care irl if you visit prostitutes? Why would you even tell other people ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:42 PM |
| -3 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsYea insecure women will say they don't want a muscular guy. Notice that it's never gym girls saying this. The same goes for men. Men with bad bodies often say that women who lift look too masculine. It's just based on insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsYea men spending too much time in these online spaces is also a bad thing. Men should put themselves out there and live real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsThat's why the man has to go out there and see for himself what works for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:10 PM |
| -1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsI don't have kids I am just saying what I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:48 AM |
| 4 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsSo this woman managed to find a guy 3 years younger and they're constantly making out but we're supposed to believe they're miserable? Sounds like wishful thinking and sour grapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:47 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsI think you're underestimating how many guys out there are desperate to be needed and be the knight in shining armor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:06 AM |
| 4 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsThey still have more options than the average childless guy.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 4 | It's men's fault and responsibility for 'the loneliness epidemic'At best they were a bit bi which is normal male behavior found even in animals. It was different from the modern perception of homosexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 11:58 AM |
| 6 | It's men's fault and responsibility for 'the loneliness epidemic'The gay panic of the 1900s ruined male solidarity and friendship forever. Current men don't realize that it was perfectly masculine to say you prefer the company of your male buddies over your wife's. According to the current male mindset the ancient Greeks and Romans were "gay" because they spent most of their time in the agora and the Roman bathhouses with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 11:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicThe real problem here is the simps who listen to women. Imagine if men collectively decided to stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 04:52 PM |
| 25 | Men are more violent than women, not more abusive.As with most other things, men tend to fall into the extremes. While you would find more women who are a bit psychologically abusive, when it comes to extreme, life-threatening abuse, that's almost entirely committed by males. That's what I have observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink?I would be interested in exploring it as a one-time thing. I would not want it to be a regular part of our sexual lives though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that conservatism will eventually die out since pretty much all women don't want to have sex with conservative men?Liberal men tend to skew childfree or gay/trans. Many liberal men are also liberal because they're poor/disabled and want to rely on welfare. Women who want to have kids are very likely to settle for conservative men when they're older because they're seen as more reliable providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 12:13 PM |
| 10 | The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single"I'm worried because not only are people forming families less than before but they also seem to have fewer friends in general. There's a lot of cope online from the single, childfree crowd about how their friends and neighbors will take care of them in the old age but I don't see it , if anything people seem to become more and more alienated from their neighbors and communities. What people miss is that being highly social requires compromise and sacrifices, you have to show up, you have to play… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenListen, I know divorces are messy and many things can happen but at the end of the day stats show that men who fight for custody do get some custody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:55 AM |
| 14 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenJust propose stuff like drafting women and see how the white knights will react. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:47 AM |
| 11 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenMany states have automatic 50-50 custody nowadays. Many men don't take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:40 AM |
| 3 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenConservatives are primarily the ones defending stuff like the sexist draft laws, that men have an obligation to "man up" and be a provider etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:40 AM |
| 2 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenHow do women block male paternal rights exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:32 AM |
| 11 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenWhy don't men stand up for their fellow man is the question you should be asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:31 AM |
| 4 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenRed Pillers and MRAs frequently use these issues to attack feminism and imply they're feminism's fault somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:12 AM |
| 7 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenThe draft is often cited as an issue by MRAs and some countries actually have mandatory conscription for men only. Circumcision is also often cited as a major issue by MRA types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:09 AM |
| -1 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manWell you're right. A lot of men in non-prestigious jobs will also cheat with prostitutes etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:43 AM |
| 0 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manBeing beta is not necessarily a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:19 AM |
| -4 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manAlmost all men cheat if they have the opportunity. Have you been around men with prestigious jobs who are not very beta-minded? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:15 AM |
| 1 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manBut if women are viscerally attracted to at least some men, it shows that the potential exists, most guys just don't meet the criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:11 AM |
| 2 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manBeing some married man's mistress is a lot more common than people realize. I've known at least two women in a situation like this and I don't know too many people. If there's a woman who is supposedly chronically single (and she's not mentally ill or disabled) there's a significant chance she's not actually single but dating an unavailable guy. Married men who are above average and are not very beta almost all have side chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:09 AM |
| 6 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manTbf, I never bought into the idea that kindness specifically creates sexual arousal. Also, women being viscerally attracted to a small number of men still means that they're viscerally attracted to them. It has now become popular to say that even Chad isn't truly loved by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:02 AM |
| -1 | TRP is so close to the real answers but they still fail to empower make because they make it all about womenIf women can do just fine without men, so can men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:53 AM |
| 1 | TRP is so close to the real answers but they still fail to empower make because they make it all about womenIt's crazy because if you look at history, like in ancient Greece and Rome, men knew how important male friendships were. At some point it's like this knowledge was forgotten . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | TRP is so close to the real answers but they still fail to empower make because they make it all about womenGoing to the gym is good for your health and you should do that. Creating fraternities and male groups are good and men should do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everI didn't mean consent specifically is to blame just that it's a contradiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everMen are definitely more afraid of approaching women now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:19 PM |
| -4 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everBy today's standards sure. But by the standards of the time not even the women considered it rape. I am not defending it but there are legit some boomer women happily describing how rapey their husband acted when they first met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:18 PM |
| 17 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everThat's also true. There are too many distractions nowadays. Back in the day, there was not much to do except hang out with others. (which leads to sex) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:17 PM |
| 8 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everWhat are you talking about, there's no advice here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding datesProperly applied makeup can fix a lot actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 09:43 AM |
| 8 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding datesThese guys complaining would be incel even if they were skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding datesDon't swimmers tend to have huge arms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding datesWell I mean they have no trouble finding dates compared to how they would do if they were not bulky.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenI am simply saying that the idea that men only have a problem with "modern" women is clearly bs. Men always had problems with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenHe literally said women should be considered unaesthetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenYou don't see any resentment in describing women as defective men and ugly? Is it an objective description? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenI didn't say all men, just those that don't get laid enough. His speech is similar to the incel-speak I see on the Internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:47 PM |
| 17 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenSaying women's bodies are ugly is as stupid as saying that female monkeys are ugly. It's just nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysThe statistics have nothing to do with societal prejudice. I recommend reading the book Stepmonster by Wednesday Martin. It explains, with data, why stepmothers are more hated than stepfathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:27 AM |
| -1 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysThat's why I said you shouldn't get overtly attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysThe point is that if a man struggles to find a woman he might have more luck with single mothers who are willing to make compromises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:44 AM |
| -12 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysYea but as a woman it's different. Stepdads are always celebrated in polite society for dating women with kids. Women are viewed with suspicion for dating men with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:43 AM |
| 3 | More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities""bad personality" in this context means not interesting/charming. I agree that a man can be evil and still find a date if he's attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Whereas male attraction is largely amoral, women’s attraction seems actively immoral and sex itself is therefore bad for either genderMeanwhile males are attracted to literal 15-year-olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenYou guys seriously lack reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:34 PM |
| -3 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenI think you guys seriously lack reading comprehension.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenIs "being treated like shit" just not getting any pussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenHow do women as a whole "treat men like shit"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:05 PM |
| 8 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenI mean trp is obsessed with evolutionary psychology.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenYea well , the point still stands. Men have no legitimate reason to be angry at WOMEN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenMany humans are barely conscious, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenWhy do macaque monkeys keep reproducing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:52 PM |
| 12 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenMen were never pressured to be obedient and submissive to women in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 11 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenTell me this, what have women done to men exactly? How have they harmed them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenIt's called the anger phase by red Pillers and it appears to be never-ending for some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenAnd? Men should not be angry at women for not getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:46 PM |
| 6 | It's not going to get betterIt's not a chronically online take, lots of mainstream sources are talking about these issues nowadays. Maybe it was a chronically online take 10 years ago but now it's too obvious to ignore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 12:05 PM |
| -1 | It's not going to get betterI would argue that gender roles are not the same as the patriarchy we know of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 12:03 PM |
| 9 | It's not going to get betterSomeone has to work if you want to keep the welfare systems going. If there are no workers, then who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:09 AM |
| 6 | It's not going to get betterDo a little research, even some Muslim countries are below 2.1 in this day and age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:07 AM |
| 4 | It's not going to get betterExactly, back in the day kids were heavily pressured to respect their parents no matter how shitty they were. Honor your mother and father and all that. Nowadays the parents are expected to be the child's slaves basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:05 AM |
| 13 | It's not going to get betterI doubt it's just an economic issues. Lots of developed countries with good welfare systems have low birth rates. Having kids is just not rewarding in this day and age. They're burdens and provide no tangible benefits. I know couples that could afford a second child but they simply don't want to be the child's slaves for 5+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:04 AM |
| 10 | It's not going to get betterMen don't want kids either. I know many couples where the woman wants more kids and the man doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | The percentage of genuinely loving marriages is astonishingly lowThese couples I mentioned seem happy on the surface. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 12:02 PM |
| -11 | The percentage of genuinely loving marriages is astonishingly lowSure they may "like" each other in the sense that they tolerate each other's company. But do they have sex? Do they communicate? Are they genuine friends? In many cases that's not the case with married couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:51 AM |
| 6 | The percentage of genuinely loving marriages is astonishingly lowIt was always about business and combining assets. People are just now delusional and have false expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendHe's a pimp who was forcing his girlfriends into sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendBeing autistic and in a position of power can make you seem "mysterious" and "enigmatic". If he was poor he would definitely be an incel though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:38 AM |
| 8 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendTrue, men will still bang a hottie crazy woman. Look at Karla Homolka, she found a new husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendHe's not good looking anymore. Have you seen his recent pics? There are also rumors he's in serious debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendIt's a description of reality. Nothing to do with what I personally think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:17 AM |
| 24 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendThat's the thing. If they were tall, handsome and confident they would get a girlfriend even with their bad attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendSerial killers in prison are kinda broke though. They have no money but still get love letters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Unpopular opinion but I don't care at all if my boyfriend cheats. I am narcissistic enough to believe I'll always be the best he ever had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI legit know many women who meet a guy at 34 and they marry him within a year. It seems like the new trend nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 9 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI don't see any dismantling of gender roles, unless it explicitly benefits women. It was the men who had to stay and fight in Ukraine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:27 AM |
| 11 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI come from a country that has forced military service for men. Feminists don't care at all about the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:07 AM |
| 24 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeWell, then people shouldn't be surprised if men are not interested in being "good allies". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:01 AM |
| 7 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThat's not going to make guys support a movement that they feel is making life harder for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:41 AM |
| 19 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThe point is that feminists need to give men a solid reason to support it or at least admit that it's a movement for women and not for men at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itI don't disagree with you but we really need to specify what a shitty dad is because the term is a little subjective. In developing countries there are many parents who would qualify as shitty by western standards yet they produce some successful and well-adjusted individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 08:52 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismThere's a difference between provided and trad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:34 AM |
| 9 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismThere are very few people with a normal self-esteem who want a boss in their day-to-day life. There's a reason even a lot of Christian women have careers and are the boss of their own home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismRight like I said, there are no negatives to women when it comes to the feminist lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:12 AM |
| 0 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itIt's different for a COUPLE to use a sperm donor vs. a single mother. At least with a couple the child will still have two parents. Advanced paternal age is linked to those things you mentioned but the overall risk is low. Moreover, some would say that this mindset is dangerously close to eugenics as it implies that people with disabilities don't deserve to be born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itSpeaking from experience, single fathers usually make grandma or stepmom raise the kids.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itYou just highlighted a huge problem with divorce that is often overlooked, but I am still not sure using a sperm donor is a better option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:03 PM |
| -3 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itYou don't think it's weird to have many half-siblings you don't know about? What about the possibility of incest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itI mean I'm not morally against it per se but I do think if more men did it there would be more criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badWhile I agree that romantic relationships and friendships are different, men who are lonely should start by forming solid male friendships before trying to treat their girlfriends like their therapists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badWomen actually go outside and campaign about solving their issues. Men just whine online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badHow would traditional wives help the situation exactly? Except if "by traditional" you mean buying a woman from her father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badWhy don't men change their attitudes then? Men can support each other.n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badWhy should "women" do something about it? Guys have the resources to help each other when it comes to male issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:13 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badIt's a hot topic here and in red pill communities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formWay to miss the point that women simply can't lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formEven if we assume these statistics are accurate, what makes you think feminism is the cause? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formConservative women are different from those promoting tradwife culture. Tradwife is something different than just SAHM, it's promoting a far-right narrative about how women belong in the kitchen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formI literally don't buy this narrative at all that women are unhappier than ever. Back in the day it was taboo to admit that you had personal problems. People wouldn't talk about mental health struggles and psychotherapy was for crazy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashThe man can always try to have equal custody to pay less cs. The man can always marry a woman who works to avoid alimony.n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashHe does say the 100% responsibility 0% authority in some podcasts. I'm too lazy to search for specific examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashWell men have no Rights to control a woman's body but neither men nor women can have a "financial abortion", that's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashYea when you dig deeper it's obvious that his wife was the primary breadwinner for a long time, no wonder he felt like he had no authority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 01:52 PM |
| -1 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashHow does society blame men as a whole for crimes committed by men? Like how you , as a man , are affected by this ? Are we talking about social media posts here? Yes, there are certain expectations of men when it comes to dating, but women also have to deal with dozens of expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashHe keeps repeating this phrase but never specifies what he means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers I know IRL are losersI would also argue that most red pill podcasters are not that great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 10:19 AM |
| 3 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Tbf, a lot of married women are on antidepressants. My mother is in her third marriage and has two adult kids and is on Xanax. Anxiety is a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 05:02 PM |
| -1 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 11:20 AM |
| 16 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.It's all about proving that you "made it" and humble bragging. We have friends who love this kind of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:58 AM |
| 2 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Not the examples I provided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:39 AM |
| 17 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.I agree. People don't need an extravagant wedding, yet they want one because that is the social expectation for the middle class. It's all another keeping up with the Joneses and proving that you made it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:38 AM |
| 12 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.In recent years, there have been efforts to push the narrative that single and childless women are the happier demographic. It's all based on the questionable research of Paul Dolan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:36 AM |
| – | Red Pillers have a shallow view of attraction and women should be more than just young and hotMost men are not repulsed by women who are taller than them, this is delusional. Men date shorter women because of their own insecurities and because women tend to prefer taller men. Men won't see a tall woman and go "ewww would never smash". And where are these studies that show educated women are less desirable?; | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 09:05 AM |
| – | Red Pillers have a shallow view of attraction and women should be more than just young and hotSo they can find a man just not a man who is up to their standards. It sounds like the problem isn't that men don't want professional women, it's that professional women don't want most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 08:45 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceLots of women support their men. Men just need to prove they're competent and that the woman is not wasting her time supporting a bum.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:12 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceNah it entirely depends on how it's framed. Expressing your feelings doesn't always mean you show weakness. It's possible to open up about your feelings in ways that don't make you look weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:42 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceYea but he will play the victim and fool his new girlfriend for a while. Eventually she will see through this and leave him too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:40 AM |
| – | From a material standpoint, monogamy for women doesn't even make sense anymore.Some people have not seen a middle aged woman cheat only to successfully move on with her affair partner while the divorced husband is left in the dust. You need to see it with your own eyes to believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value maleI mean for her, he is. She's a brokie with a mid job and a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value maleWell yea it might have some effect but if anything it helps clear the field from self-oriented guys and leaves you with the typical simps that most single mothers want anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 09:11 AM |
| -4 | Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value maleI thought you guys said Andrew Tate was high value. Moral character clearly has nothing to do with the RP definition of high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 07:31 AM |
| -1 | Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value maleThey both cheated on their spouses with each other. But who cares, that's old news. They're getting married on Friday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value maleNo one cares if a 45 yo man dates a 35 yo chick, don't be so dramatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 07:29 AM |
| 0 | I am convinced that most married women would be happier if they lived near their mothersNot the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | I am convinced that most married women would be happier if they lived near their mothersPretty much. But tbf most women find the grandmother role pretty fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:20 AM |
| 0 | I am convinced that most married women would be happier if they lived near their mothersI am unconvinced that even the most attentive men are able to fully understand the pressures of motherhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | I am convinced that most married women would be happier if they lived near their mothersWell yea there are some exceptions to the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 10:45 AM |
| 0 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameTotally agree. Being socially awkward and trying to be nice is just a recipe to get taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:53 PM |
| -3 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameDesperate people need to resort to desperate measures. Besides this is from the men's perspective, not the women's. For the men in the situation it is very healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:52 PM |
| -1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameIf you're reasonably physically attractive it can work. Think about the bullies in high school that always had a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:50 PM |
| -7 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameWhy not? These women can often put up with a lot and are trained to think they can heal the man. Sounds ideal from the man's perspective. I sure know that there are very few women who would be able to handle my partner long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:45 PM |
| -2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameWell duh if you're physically unattractive and have a very dorky personality, nothing is going to work, it should be obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:42 PM |
| 9 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingBecause autistic women tend to have better social skills than autistic men. And because the world is not fair and men have different preferences than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:44 PM |
| 7 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingYea it's not about looks. If an autistic man has very poor social skills, he will be unattractive to most NTs. Similarly, if a NT man has poor social skills he will also be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:42 PM |
| 9 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingMy great aunt was born with significant motor disabilities and she never got married. Do men have an obligation to date women with significant motor disabilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:39 PM |
| 17 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingThis but unironically. Fat women who have attractive qualities can still find partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:35 PM |
| 12 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingMan, I wish. As much as I like having obsessive special interests, I have come to the conclusion that autism has mostly ruined my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:34 PM |
| 10 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingWhy is it discrimination? If an autistic man is genuinely attractive the way a neurotypical might be, he will have no trouble. Where is the discrimination? If you're so high-functioning that you feel entitled to dating NTs, why even announce that you're autistic early on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a beta male worksLol. You think historically the average man has "raw passionate sex" with his wife? More like with his mistress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:30 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being a beta male worksHistorically, marriage was to build families, it had very little to do with "desire". Prioritizing sexual desire and romantic love is how we ended up with the toxic dating market we have today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a beta male works"Hate" is a very strong word. What's more accurate is to say that the woman will inevitably start prioritizing motherhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:34 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Being a beta male worksLots of people want a family. Family men are vastly more respected and socially accepted than single men. I am also convinced that, emotionally and socially, men need women more than women need men. (Again this is emotionally and socially, not financially) Men especially have a very hard time being single. I keep comparing older widows with male widowers. The widows are usually doing fine, sometimes even thriving being kickass grandmothers and hanging out with friends and family. The older male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:32 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Being a beta male worksI have news for you but women in the past patriarchal societies were not having pornstar sex with their husbands either. Modern men have unrealistic expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a beta male worksIt works for FAMILIES. It's much better to be a super involved dad who changes nappies and does the dishes than an asshole who spends his days at the gym. I have yet to see evidence that beta males get divorced at a significant rate compared to other types of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:04 AM |
| – | Most professional men marry professional womenYea but they're still usually women from the same socioeconomic background as the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:46 AM |
| -10 | Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families"It's basic common sense. Anyone who has interacted with kids knows that forcing many unrelated kids to cohabit is bound to become a clown show. Add the ex-wife/husband drama and the jealousy issues.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families"They're usually guys with very little experience who think they can save a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:34 PM |
| -5 | Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families"What does the parent having a "healthy" relationship mean? People always make that claim but it's so vague. How much do the parents have to fight before the statistic changes in favor of a divorce? What about cases where the parents just divorce because they simply "fell out of love"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveThey took a "neutral" Switzerland stance. In practice this is the same as siding with the cheater. Many of them even hang out with her boyfriend now, the AP who cheated on his own wife when she gave birth. I am trying to convince the guy to dump these snakes for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:44 PM |
| -2 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveEveryone is selfish. Duhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:25 PM |
| -1 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveI mean, it´s not me complaining about the Sisterhood, it´s the red pillers who say that women always take women´s side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveI mean, it´s not me complaining about the Sisterhood, it´s the red pillers who say that women always take women´s side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveThey´re all white collar professionals. I am the only one doing a blue collar job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveI guess you have never been divorced, have you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveI only said it to point out how everyone is selfish... However, at least women are usually supportive of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:30 PM |
| 9 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveIs that why so many men only rely on their wives for emotional support and start completely falling apart after divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:28 PM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeIt's not controversial to say that 30% of men would rape if they were sure they could get away with it. Seems accurate to me, a lot of men are very rapey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:12 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeThings like 50 shades and ACOTAR are mainstream fiction for women. These books were widely successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:49 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeVery deep down? Sure, lots of men would rape if they were 100% sure they would get away with it. There was actually a study about it and something like 30% of the male respondents admitted they would rape if they could get away with it. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:48 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsome"And guys are into thin bubbly and pretty?" Yes? Of course they´re into it. However, guys also have lower standards. (tbf it´s because they have fewer options in general) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:43 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeIt's a pretty old phrase and it pretty much always referred to dark-haired men who have a "dark aura". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:29 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeYa hentai reflects men's deep desires actually. I don't know why it's controversial to say. You really think that men aren't attracted to very young, hot and over sexual women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Give me some classic PUA negs. I want to use them for a book where I have a cringe character who´s a PUA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in lifeNo one seems to care? Everyone is saying these men are irresponsible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:53 AM |
| 5 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in lifeHaving young and active grandparents is a huge benefit. This is a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in life35 is fine, but if you have kids at 40+ you're definitely pushing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 5 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in lifeBeing a younger father is still better if you want to be involved. And older sperm can affect children's health and development too according to recent studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in lifeMany people still need their parents even if they're adults . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:07 PM |
| 3 | I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in lifeIf you have kids in your 40s, you will be 70+ when they're 30. Many people died or develop serious issues at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveAnd? He could easily find a hotter 40 yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveI've known worse women who managed to land decent men.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveYou just need to look around you and you´ll find plenty of women in their 40s who have no trouble finding a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 12:58 PM |
| 27 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveIt´s very controversial according to the red pill. I´ve been around for years now. I remember when the red pillers were throwing a fit over George Clooney marrying a woman in her 30s, even though she was significantly younger than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveWell the red pill makes generalizations about men and women and what they want. Imo they´re generally accurate about what women want but are painfully oblivious about male nature. For example, they keep telling us about how men don´t want single mothers. The single mothers I know never had any trouble finding relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 12:43 PM |
| -2 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsBecause children need to be born. We have a birthrate problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsBeing overly nice and offering your love generously and unconditionally is a recipe to being a forever girlfriend. Yes, in the man's mind that is a "healthy relationship" , until the woman finds herself still unmarried and with no kids at 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsNo, it's not. Being a bitch doesn't mean you're smart about it. I am talking about women who are smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:14 AM |
| -1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsIt doesn't always work. The man will find excuses to push marriage back and the woman who is in love will put up with it until she's 38 and starts having fertility issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:13 AM |
| 5 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsAnd here I have my aunt admitting to me that she had all three of her kids "by her own design" even though my uncle didn't want them. They were married for almost 40 years until my uncle passed away. I have another friend who is very obviously manipulative, she was married within a year, they have two kids and look happy. Men often don't even realize they're being manipulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenThey have really gone mask-off. Back in 2015 when I started reading purplepilldebate for fun, there was a lot of denial. Nowadays, people don't even pretend that lookism and hypergamy are not real. The argument now is "yes it's real but it's actually good". (And don't get me wrong I believe hypergamy is neither good nor bad) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenI disagree with your assessment, I think love is possible. But sometimes love is not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenThere are problems with most age gaps relationships, which are reflected by the high divorce rates among those who participate in them. I never said ALL age gap relationships are problematic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenIt's more like even if you wife up a woman in her 20s, once she enters her 40s she'll start experiencing middle life crisis and feel like she wasted her youth with an old man. Then she'll consider her future and see herself as a caretaker and be like "hell no". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenIt's not that she should, it's that she will. Once a woman enters her 40s, she'll start feeling that she wasted her youth with an old man and leave. I've seen it play out multiple times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenMaybe you should reread the original post and consider it critically instead of getting triggered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenBecause after a certain point the older person will start slowing down compared to the younger person. It's a natural part of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenExcept that I am in a long term relationship and most of my past relationships had an age gap too. I bet I am in a better position to judge whether these relationships are problematic or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenSo because I am dating an older man it means I can't recognize there are problems with most age gap relationships? If anything I am in a better position to judge than some others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenNah, pretty sure younger women are more into social media.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityNot as uncommon as you might think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityThat's literally what he himself says. Some cultures are very family-oriented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:05 AM |
| 6 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityI don't know why people are so eager to defend cheaters.n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:12 AM |
| 5 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityCheaters are often better prepared for the separation/divorce than the victim of the affair who is often caught off-guard. The victim ends up hurting the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:10 AM |
| 0 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityShe has another job now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:05 AM |
| 3 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery_laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:36 AM |
| 8 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityMy homeland, Greece. It was illegal until the early 80s. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery_laws Also, in ancient Rome the men could legally kill cheating wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:29 AM |
| 3 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityI don´t think this guy had a lot of shit in his name. They were renting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:34 AM |
| 6 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityI literally said "Yes they did cheat" but cheating used to be a crime or at least socially unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:27 AM |
| 4 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityDid you actually read what I wrote? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:22 AM |
| 4 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityMy point is that marriage as an institution has become pointless. People can just break the rules at any time with nearly 0 consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:19 AM |
| 2 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityWhat about this makes you think it´s not real? Lots of men marry women they don´t love because they feel they can´t get anything better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:11 AM |
| 6 | There´s no hope for marriage as an institution because there are 0 repurcussions for infidelityYea but it used to be illegal or at least have serious social repercussions. Nowadays, cheaters are often rewarded and the victims are told that they´re unreasonable and should get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:10 AM |
| – | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodThey're dependent on their parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 06:50 PM |
| 12 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodremove migrants and see how many men will work in construction... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 09:13 AM |
| 8 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodRemove migrant men from the equation and you´ll see that men are not as productive as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:50 AM |
| 15 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodSome of them do stop working, I know men in their 30s who are fully NEET and have barely worked in their lives sadly. Others work but are not very productive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:47 AM |
| 21 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodI think most women will not tolerate men long-term if they feel like they don't need them. Besides marriage rates have already declined white a lot, I can see it becoming worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:08 AM |
| 5 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodThat's good and all but I doubt our society will thrive without stable families. The birth rates are already going to hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityIt´s common RPW advice to not correct men make they take the wrong turn driving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:45 AM |
| -8 | Women who have cheated: did it feel good and any regrets?I don't even consider it cheating if you're not married or at least have kids together in a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:18 AM |
| 3 | To all: Have you ever broken up/divorced and then the aftermath it made you feel that "I should have fought harder in that relationship/marriage"?Hasn't happened to me. I do think my father regrets his own divorce, he never really got over it. Not that he ever admitted his faults though. In general, I think women are better at moving on, emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Quick question do red pillers actually believe that hot women in 30s with kids can't get hvm to wife them up and even play step daddy?My mom was not hot and she found a guy as a single mom in her 30s. You just need to play your cards right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 08:18 AM |
| 2 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityThe difference is in the tone. TRP says "women are emotional children and therefore shouldn't vote". This book is more like "you should cherish women because they're emotional creatures who crave connection". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityYea I legit love this book too. Some exaggerations here and there but it's solid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityThen the Red Pill influencers should stop pretending it's a serious, groundbreaking thing because they sure do.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 01:44 PM |
| 3 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityIf you read Rollo's book, he constantly says stuff like "if you disagree with me it's only because you're an AFC/beta male brainwashed by the Feminine Imperative". There's definitely an underlying "women bad" tone in red pill circles. Even if the men are acting badly, they find a way to blame the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?50 is not even that old nowadays. She could easily find a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?Thanks for this. I am actually childfree myself but I do recognize that the idea that "friends" will be there for you in your old age is mostly cope. At the end of the day, most will prioritize their biological families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:21 PM |
| 0 | From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn"The point of the slogan is to be mentally prepared that the woman can leave at any time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:22 PM |
| 5 | From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn"It´s actually the opposite. "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn" encourages men to think they CANNOT own a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:34 PM |
| 3 | From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn"This is about protecting the individual.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn"Men tend to have a much harder time getting over break ups. Divorce is linked to make suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:09 PM |
| 4 | From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn"Why is it problematic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceIt doesn't say that the chromosomal abnormalities are all caused by the sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenIf you are not ready for marriage then you are not ready for kids as they are a much bigger commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenYounger women will push for marriage eventually no matter what they say in the beginning. If she's really not into marriage then she's likely some radical feminist hippy. As about me, I am 32 and in a loving relationship. Also, the Red Pill OGs were definitely pretty anti-marriage. It looks like I know more about the history of RP than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenThe younger woman will push for marriage eventually no matter what she says in the beginning. And if she's really not into marriage then she's likely some weird radical feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenJust no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenI would rather die than become one of these aunties who date much younger men. It's just advice based on my observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenIn the current climate, not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenThe whole point is that this is for men who don't want to get married... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:32 AM |
| -1 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenI'm not old though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenThe 26 yo will eventually push for commitment no matter what she says now. And you'll give in because men are soft for younger women. And then she'll divorce you when you get too old because there's no way in the current social climate that a woman will willingly become a caretaker for an older man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenI knew a guy who always only into older women. Then he had an experience with a younger woman and suddenly developed a fetish for younger women. You can change your preferences with enough exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:28 AM |
| -2 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenThere are plenty who are still kinda hot. Besides I believe sexual preferences are largely caused by exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:21 AM |
| 7 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"Society collapsing doesn't mean that everyone will die and we'll be in a warzone. Most likely it'll be a slow death. The West has already declined compared to how it was in the past when you think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:03 PM |
| -2 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"Bruh, just let this shitshow unfold. I am in a happy, secure relationship myself and I hope shit goes down so that me and my man will have things to laugh about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"Why do you care? They're telling you they're so happy , so give them what they say they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"The thing is why do you even care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 6 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"Lots of gender-based resentment among younger people. This stuff is not some niche online thing anymore. Didn't you watch Adolescence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"If you have money just invest in a sugar baby, that's what married men are doing anyway. If you don't have money, then go for an older woman who already has kids and doesn't want to get married again. (however don't become an active stepdad! Better go for a woman with older kids) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone elseIt's never the man's fault according to you people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone elseThis is BS, men who have a lot of experience don't stop craving variety just because they're married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 10 | Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else"This guy just wanted some side pussy and I guarantee the 45F put on a full court press of love bombing him and showering him with freaky sex that made him fine with leaving his dead bedroom wife." Yea, from what I can tell this is what happened. The guy was not attracted to his ex wife though, he had admitted as much so it's possible he was the cause of the DB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone elseNah men cheat on perfectly good women all the time ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceIf the woman is old chances are her man will also be old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceReread the OP, I address this argument and how it makes no sense in this context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceAnecdotally , I have noticed more allergies and a weak immune system in children of older parents too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceBecause of financial reasons. Also, when we people say older parents they typically mean 38+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceThe problem is I've seen women who are like 38 years old and do want kids yet they still make no serious effort to settle down. I can't decide if these women are delusional or if they just don't want kids that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceThere are some studies that show a link between advanced paternal age and autism but what people miss is that the chance of an older man having autistic kids is still only 1.58% https://www.thetransmitter.org/spectrum/link-parental-age-autism-explained/ Even if we count some very high functioning undiagnosed people, I doubt the percentage is over 2.5% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceI see a lot of comments online especially on TikTok about how women don't have issues when it comes to advanced pregnancy and it's actually the men's fault. Not only is this information false but it's just bad advice in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceExactly like wtf does sociology have to do with health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceIt's statistically unlikely for a woman to have kids with a man 5+ years younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:21 PM |
| 2 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27Most people nowadays only want 2 children maximum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:25 PM |
| -2 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27I am 32 and I don't judge because I don't know what's happening behind closed doors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 06:29 PM |
| 2 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27There's no reason to date for 6 years before getting married. 2-3 years is more than enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:34 PM |
| 0 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27If you marry the same person you have been dating in your early 20s, there's a higher chance of getting "midlife crisis" and feeling like you missed out on your youth later on .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:15 PM |
| 2 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27There's a reason why even players settle down eventually. Most people can't handle loneliness and always being on the chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:13 PM |
| -2 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27They can do whatever they want. It's just unwise most of the time.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:43 PM |
| -7 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27I think women become self-conscious about their age when dating younger men, especially after 50. I know a couple, both of them progressive feminists. They started dating in their 30s and the woman was 2 or 3 years older than the man. She was making more money than him too. Now they're in their 50s and I believe he's making more money. He looks younger than his age and she looks, well, like a 54 year old woman who hasn't done Botox. I think she's beautiful but we all know how the average man thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsYour partner might die decades before you especially if you're a woman. I also know an older childless lady (currently a widow) who is pretty happy. But there are some conditions. She's pretty well off and can afford to hire professional help. She's very close to one of her nephews who is hoping to inherit her money but he also does genuinely care about her as a family member. They're so close that they might as well be mother and son at this point. She's also a highly social person by nature an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 02:04 PM |
| 0 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsYea no one said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:50 PM |
| -2 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsWhat exactly do you want proof of? That people have kids for selfish reasons or that adult kids very often help their elderly parents one way or another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:49 PM |
| 0 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsIf you go to r/regretfulparents, 90% is parents with kids who have profound autism or some other severe disability. The other 10% is parents with very young toddlers venting about how hard it is to parent a toddler. It's very rare for a parent of an older kid to regret their decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:38 PM |
| -6 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsGood for you. 99% of parents have children for selfish reasons and that's okay. Most want the status that comes with being a parent or they fear loneliness. Yes they resent it but it's also fulfilling for most of them. It's supposed to be rewarding once the kids are older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:36 PM |
| -2 | In the long run, there's nothing that fulfills most women better than having kidsMy mother used to tell me that kids are torture... But it's sweet torture. You need to keep in mind that feelings are not black or white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Marriage and kids benefit men more than womenBeing with a man sucks in the long-term because there's a huge chance you'll end up as his caretaker one way or another as women live longer and tend to live healthier lifestyles overall. However, having older, well-adjusted children is the best way to be a fulfilled, well-respected woman in the long-run. I don't buy it for a second that it's better to be childfree in the long-run. Any "happiness" studies are unreliable by default because the term "happiness" is vague in the first place. Not to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?In most cases, child support is not enough for even 1/3 of the child´s expenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:58 AM |
| 16 | Women are primarily fond of their kids, men are primarily fond of womenYea I am sure most men love the idea of having a kid...out there somewhere in this world. This is not the same as being an involved father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:05 PM |
| 13 | Women are primarily fond of their kids, men are primarily fond of womenNah men cheat more despite having fewer opportunities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Women are primarily fond of their kids, men are primarily fond of womenYea I didn't mean it as in they actually prioritize the woman's well-being. More like to them having an adoring sent woman is above all else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:56 PM |
| – | Women are more supportive and self-sacrificial in relationships than men areI feel like I'm taking crazy pills because most of these headlines have nothing to do with men or gender relations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:25 PM |
| – | Women are more supportive and self-sacrificial in relationships than men areWhat are you talking about? How are the headlines anti-male? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:16 PM |
| – | Women are more supportive and self-sacrificial in relationships than men areMy point was that she does everything all around the clock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:09 PM |
| 20 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenMen will save a woman in a moment of danger. But women will spend years mothering a man who refuses to pull his weight in the relationship. I have seen it happen dozens of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 10:45 AM |
| 8 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenThere are so many examples from everyday couples where the woman makes tremendous sacrifices for the man. If you visit a hospital, it's usually a wife or daughter taking care of an elderly person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:08 AM |
| 28 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenI agree with this. Many men lose interest the moment their wife gets fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 07:47 AM |
| 8 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenYea so why didn't she put him in a retirement home as soon as he got Alzheimer's? Why didn't she hire more help? You gotta admit that taking care of an Alzheimer's patient by yourself requires a significant amount of sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 07:28 AM |
| – | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy don´t people realize that the book Tampa is obviously parody to satirize how the sexual exploitation of male, underage students by female teachers is treated by the media? I have seen a number of manosphereans, including Rollo Tomassi imply that the book is CONDONING the sexual assault. Anyone who has read it and has a brain knows it doesn´t. And yes, there are similar books of males exploiting underage girls. Examples: Lolita, My Dark Vanessa etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:58 AM |
| 2 | We have been conditioned to rely on our spouse/partner for everything and I think this puts a lot of pressure in marriages/LTRsThere had to be a balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:17 PM |
| 6 | We have been conditioned to rely on our spouse/partner for everything and I think this puts a lot of pressure in marriages/LTRsThis fear of being alone would be greatly diminished if they actually had a solid support system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | We have been conditioned to rely on our spouse/partner for everything and I think this puts a lot of pressure in marriages/LTRsI didn't say that your partner shouldn't be your best friend. I said that some people take it too far and rely only on their partner for everything which is not always healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:53 AM |
| 9 | We have been conditioned to rely on our spouse/partner for everything and I think this puts a lot of pressure in marriages/LTRsOk, just because you don´t know people like this it doesn´t mean they don´t exist. Also, there are lots of studies that show that people, especially men, have fewer friends than the previous generations did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:06 AM |
| -1 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsIt's definitely not illegal. Post a meetup.com event about a male centric interest. Wait until you get some men attendees and then close it before a stinky woman joins. Profit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 07:14 AM |
| -1 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsMy boyfriend would gut me if I had male friends. Once again, men are the problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsYea and as soon as this status is threatened, they commit suicide because they have no real support. Also, why do we hear endless complaints about "lack of male-only spaces" then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsI think men could benefit greatly from having close male friends. Maybe then they wouldn't commit suicide just because their wife/therapist/maid left them. Everyone needs support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:30 PM |
| 5 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsThey don't accuse the freemasons for being male only. If it's a private group, nobody would care. Obviously you can't stop women from attending public events,unlike Comicon, that's delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:11 PM |
| 5 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsYet if you look at history, men used to spend a lot of time with other men. In ancient Rome men would hang out with other men in bathhouses, in ancient Greece they would eat together and have philosophical discussions etc. In fact, men spending more time with their wives than with their male friends is probably a fairly recent thing. The genders used to be more segregated for better or worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminism largely ignores women's part in shaping men and causing men mental issues.Some of you guys are real crybabies. Oh no, random women aren´t immediately sympathetic to you. Do you have any idea how many women have been mistreated by men? According to your logic, women should have been far more problematic because of the way they´re treated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limitMost successful men in that age group will already have been married once before and might even have kids from a previous marriage. (It's relatively rare to find a successful, attractive man in his late 30s who is a bachelor) They will likely want to date a woman in a similar life stage to them, not a 20 yo. Even if we assume that the man in question is a childless bachelor, they will likely aim younger but not as young as TRP says. A 35 yo professional will likely date a 30 yo professional woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 09:46 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limitI´ve seen similar problems with women who settle down super early. It often leads to midlife crisis, FOMO issues and divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 06:31 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limitYou see I highly doubt this is the only way to get commitment. In this day and age, a lot of professional men will flat out refuse to seriously date a woman who is not a professional herself. Also, I firmly believe that even a 40 yo single mom can find commitment if she really tries. I have seen many examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are not as toxic as menBecause men are on average richer than women. Of course they donate more. Also, if Melinda Gates uses Bill's money for a charity, it'll still be listed as Bill Gates giving to that charity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:03 PM |
| -1 | Women are not as toxic as menCollective anecdotal experience of many people. People laugh at the Women are wonderful effect but maybe it exists for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:50 PM |
| -7 | Women are not as toxic as menWomen can be toxic. I just doubt that on average they're as bad as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:39 PM |
| -13 | Women are not as toxic as menCall it anecdotal evidence but the worst abusers I know tend to be male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:36 PM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibilityYou think dating young women is more difficult because your assumption is that they date hot young women. More often than not, I see these types of men with younger women who are fat and/or nerdy and not very conventionally attractive. These women usually think they won the lottery because they´re dating someone who actually has a job even if he´s a loser within his own age group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 06:07 PM |
| 4 | One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibilityExperience. I have been in a lot of AGRs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:52 PM |
| 12 | One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibilityYet I see many of these men getting heartbroken when the younger woman leaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:51 PM |
| 5 | One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibilityA significant amount of them are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibilityI am just saying this is why AGRs usually don't work in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:22 PM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeDrug addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeNo, she lives in her own house and wanted to renovate another house that belongs to my stepfather. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:26 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeTRP says that women should trust men and let them lead..it's one example of why it shouldn't happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:25 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeAs opposed to TRP that claims that men are better leaders based on NO evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:23 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeWhere is the evidence that men are better leaders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:23 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeWhat do the statistics say? That men are better leaders than women? Where are these statistics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 10:29 AM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeDo they necessarily handle things better than the women would though? Maybe in some cases but not all. I am just pushing back against the idea that men should be leaders because they're so much more rational and good with finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 10:29 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageThe opposite is probably being tied down to a man who doesn´t allow you to go clubbing or having kids at a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:08 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageEnjoying adult life while single/not dating seriously. Partying, traveling with friends, clubbing, flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:03 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageExcept I didn´t say they´re all sluts, I said they had fun in their youth. This can mean many things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:54 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageOf course they did. Also, having fun in your youth doesn´t necessarily mean getting railed by dozens of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc.Ummm, I don´t agree about the age gap thing. It´s true that some people (mainly on X and TikTok) indiscriminately hate all age gaps, these people are a small minority. Most people who are concerned about age gaps have valid reasons to do so based on their personal experiences of being taken advantaged of by older men when they were at a vulnerable age. They´re primarily concerned about barely legal teens dating 30 year old men which is a valid concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:55 PM |
| 12 | If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc.You have a point but I think there´s a difference. Women insult men when they have to interact with them in some way, say a man says something mean and the woman calls him a virgin. With men, they just insult women out of the blue. It´s highly unlikely for women to group up and insult random men for being virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:20 AM |
| 10 | If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc.Nobody´s forcing men to settle for women who aren´t excited and passionate about them. If they can´t inspire female passion, that´s on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:02 AM |
| 5 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyNah it was clearly a serious post. Google "the Shame of having a fat wife married red pill" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:46 AM |
| 24 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guy1) I am the last person to deny that women can be bad. However, I do think that men are on average worse than women. It's objectively true that all the worst criminals are men. Even in everyday life, I see more women who are empathetic than men. 2) There was a post a while back that asked users here something like "how exactly did women harm you?". Most of the replies were along the lines of "these girls in middle school called me ugly". Oh please, cry me a river. 3) If men have unrealistic expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:48 PM |
| 3 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyI wish it was amoral. When it comes to women's behavior suddenly it's time for moralizing language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:26 PM |
| 5 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyWeight is often related to mental health issues. Not everyone is mentally fit enough to take care of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:21 PM |
| 6 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIf only. I see constant whining and demonizing women even in the main sub. The double standards are insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 5 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeBut my honest answer is that it really depends on your values. That said, statistically speaking, most people who initiate divorces eventually come to regret it. Do they? If you break it down by gender, it´s only 27% of women and 32% of men. If you removed the financial factors as well as those who regret it because of their kids, the percentages would be lower. https://www.onlinedivorce.com/blog/how-many-couples-regret-divorce/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:51 AM |
| 8 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeJust like men are probably better off not settling for literally the first woman who tolerates them, the same can be said for women. This is the 21st century and we only live once. Settling for a sexually unappealing guy is a recipe for disaster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:40 AM |
| -2 | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks RedditThe problem is that in these discussions the manospherians always blame the women. Why not blame the men who don´t care for their fellow men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:25 AM |
| 22 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI believe that women who complain about not being able to find a man are not proactive enough and passively wait for things to happen to them. I firmly believe that proactive women who are not afraid to make the first move have no problem scoring above their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:24 AM |
| -3 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeNah, I post basic common sense that is lacking in most online places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:22 AM |
| -10 | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks RedditI am not denying it´s a real thing to a degree, but you have to ask yourself why men themselves don´t have enough empathy for their fellow men. I think women having more empathy for other women is only natural as women a) are their "tribe" b) are more relatable. It´s men, regardless of political affiliation, who are traitors to their own gender. Before you blame feminism or whatever, look at how conservative men are outraged over immigrants raping women but largely ignore male victimization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:03 AM |
| 0 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesThe point isn't necessarily to be in a toxic relationship but to find someone you're excited about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:24 AM |
| -6 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesBeing in a boring relationship with someone you take for granted usually just makes you complacent and doesn't motivate you to improve yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:23 AM |
| 8 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesIf you're actually excited about the other person, you can feel motivated to fix yourself. If you're in a boring-ass relationship with someone you take for granted, it will only make things worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:19 AM |
| 12 | Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they areExactly, women who are dynamic and confident almost never fail because as you said, they can be proactive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they areI have read the study. First of all it says 45% of women will be single, not necessarily childless. If you want proof read the actual link. This means that the stat is influenced by single moms and partnered women who are not married.. https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 15 | Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they areYea I know women who found a husband in their 30s or even their 40s with relative ease. If a woman can't find a husband I assume her standards are astronomically high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:01 PM |
| 3 | "Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true.Unfortunately, two-parent household is still statistically the most stable environment to raise kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:06 AM |
| 2 | "Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true.I don't know you tell me. We need to compare the effects of divorce with the effects of moderate family conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | "Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true.It also might indicate that they have commitment issues... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | "Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true.Actually, there are studies that show that children of divorce are less likely to get married so what you say is not resolved by divorced and if anything it might be made worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 06:35 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:00 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:09 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:08 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:07 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:00 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 05:27 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don't know because I have never been in a similar situation. I admit being attracted to dangerous men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI am fairly certain I am a closeted hybristophile. Ask me anything! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:12 PM |
| -5 | Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this factWhy don't men use their political power to do something about it? Like I hear a lot of complaints but in practice it's like they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Is this really true? In my experience they just delay it until it's too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerMen literally fought for their rights under much worse conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerYea if men seriously had a problem with the draft they would use collective action to solve it. History shows that men can organize and fight for their rights if they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerIt's even worse. Many of them outright say that they believe women shouldn't be allowed to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerThey will get to have a bangmaid like "the old times" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerWhat are these grievances? What's stopping men from using their political power to stop them, especially considering most politicians are male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerExplain how empathy will do anything about "male loneliness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerWhat is "the right thing" in this context? Just giving men what they want? (Sex, loyalty, companionship) What about what women want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:30 PM |
| -6 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerI don't know men here complain about stuff that can't be solved by empathy and can be boiled down to: "why can't I control my wife". I already clarified that I am not talking about all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:27 PM |
| – | I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys.Absolutely not. It's not a woman's job to break a shy man out of his shell and besides , shy guys aren't much better personality-wise than outgoing guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:46 PM |
| – | Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl?It doesn't contradict it. I want a devoted mafia lord who murders people irl too I just realize it's not wise so I ignore my impulses. It's called maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:44 PM |
| 4 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?No sorry I don't really have friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:20 AM |
| 1 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Before that I had made a post about male anger towards women and the responses were about how women treat men horribly on a personal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:14 AM |
| 7 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Men who whine about misandry but find it perfectly fine to be angry at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Νο. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?No. This guy started a study group where he helps us with our studies. Were nice to him. (Of course) Is this really manipulative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?It just seems ridiculous to me that men would hold a grudge against women as a whole over something that happened in high school. I have been bullied by both men and women and I don't hold a grudge towards anyone, let alone an entire gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?A man offers you a service without asking for anything in return. You're nice to him. How is this treating someone horribly? If someone has secret expectations, that's him being manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:45 AM |
| -19 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?I am sorry dude but if you fell for it then it's on you. I am also nice to a guy who helps out our study group for a Master degree. It doesn't mean I owe him sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?What does sexual power over men mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 10:33 AM |
| 16 | This Platform Coddles Women and Shames MenEveryone knows that these feminine-coded subs tend to be harder on men. It's like a woman posting on r/theredpill and expecting sympathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 03:53 AM |
| -3 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?I highly doubt it because a) most men don't care about male inequality issues like the draft and do absolutely nothing to solve them, b) even in countries where males have significant legal privileges male anger is just as bad if not worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 8 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?What's an awful thing that women do to unattractive men? Because in my experience many men perceive any type of sexual rejection as "being treated awfully" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 02:46 AM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsProbably the "quirky" kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 05:19 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsDo people honestly think that autism means you're a little quirky? https://www.autism.org.uk/what-we-do/news/new-data-on-the-autism-employment-gap Autism can be a serious disability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Unironically if someone called me a gold digger I would respond with a joke yea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:31 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWell it's your call. If you want to risk it, then risk it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:05 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsAgain who is going to pay for these people? Tell us your magical solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:01 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsYou really find it hard to believe that a lot of autistic people are chronically unemployed? Not everyone is high functioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:57 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations🥱 someone still has to pay for these people one way or another. If there are not enough workers , who will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:56 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationshttps://www.gold.ac.uk/news/comment-autism-spectrum-disorder-and-employment/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:51 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsYou guys are in major denial. Something like 80% of autistic people are chronically unemployed. Even if the real numbers are lower is still looks bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Worst case scenario she'll just roll her eyes and leave. Best case scenario she's into bad boys and fucks you. Nothing to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:02 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Men need to stop being sensitive nancies. If a woman says men are dangerous just agree and amplify. Say something like, "you don't know the full extent of how dangerous I am" wink. More probable that you'll get pussy that way than by whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:29 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWho will be paying for that? Money doesn't grow on trees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:54 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsEven if the real numbers are lower it doesn't change that autism can be a serious disability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:53 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsAnd you think that's a good think for the future ? Old people are going to be voting for their own interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:52 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsImagine 80% of voters being over 50... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:51 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsImagine 80% of voters being over 50... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:48 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWell for one we're already ruled by a bunch of old people and it's terrible. Imagine how much worse it can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:45 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsSomething like 80% of people with autism are chronically unemployed. Autism is not just people like Elon, it can be a serious disability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:44 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsLower birth rates are good for the environment but terrible for society and the economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:36 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsI agree with you but I am afraid the issue is not just economic but also cultural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriagesI mean in this case, sure. Kids fundamentally change the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:37 PM |
| -10 | The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriagesPretty much everyone likes "traveling". I am not saying you should literally have nothing in common, just that many people chase "interesting" over other qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:34 PM |
| -3 | The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriagesMany couples barely survive the first few years of having a kid, let alone seeing what will happen after the kid grows up. At the end of the day, raising kids should be the purpose of marriage otherwise why marry at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriagesYes but the thing is that it's pretty difficult to find someone who is the "perfect match". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Spoiled life over 40 in bad circumstances: what would an RPW do?From your other comments it looks like your child is pretty high functioning. My mom was in the same situation as you , married to a manchild and had a child with mild ASD (that was me). She did in fact find a new man and they have been together ever since. I believe there is hope if you play your cards right. You need to be open minded and look for a nice Christian guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesNot that interesting then. I would like to interview someone who has consciously raped someone else. It would be interesting to see their thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 6 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesYou should do an AMA here on PPD. I always wanted to ask a rapist some questions, sounds very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 03:54 PM |
| 9 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesYea I honestly believe a shocking number of men would rape if they were totally sure they would get away with it. It's not a moral judgement from me , it's just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 6 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesMaking an observation has nothing to do with whether you like or dislike something. TRP literally says that women almost immediately fall in love with their rapists. What do you have to say about that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 12:16 PM |
| -2 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesIt's more of a red pill theory , there are no studies. Well, there are some studies on animals like gorillas that show that female gorillas often mate with the gorilla who killed the men of their "tribe" but that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 12:08 PM |
| 5 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesI mean it's not just in the West. I can think of multiple examples of this happening in non-western countries. It recently happened with ISIS and the Yazidi women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:37 AM |
| 6 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesI mean war rape is extremely common and it used to be worse in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:15 AM |
| 6 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstanceswell, it's not my theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:12 AM |
| 12 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesThe argument is that women are solipsistic and move on easily when a relationship ends because they were once war brides and this was so common that it literally altered women's psyche on an evolutionary level. Well, if this theory has any validity then we could might as well argue that men have natural urges to rape people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:04 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?No I am too lazy for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 06:00 AM |
| 3 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for datingThey want a guy with a warrior's aura who can protect them. These guys are more likely to have some dark triad traits. So yes they don't necessarily want a bad boy but they want someone who can be ruthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 2 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for datingI always thought it meant having a dark aura. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 02:09 PM |
| 15 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating"Tall, dark and handsome" is a thing for a reason. To some degree they do want a guy with dark triad traits because it's more exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for datingHmm you might have a point but whatever the reason is they do change who they accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are men and women not so much different?People are too obsessed with the nature vs. nurture issue. At the end of the day does it really matter? The differences exist for whatever reason and that's not going to change for a long time. In fact, some differences are more prevalent in egalitarian countries than in non-egalitarian ones.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?No that's not the point. The point people who virtue-signal like this are often fake. Nobody said that normal men only want virgins. These guys I am talking about put other men down just because they don't want to date the town bicycle. It's the "shaming of other men" part that's important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 05:10 PM |
| -1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?Yea so when you watch porn do you bother to check the pornstars' age first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:21 AM |
| -1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I was not talking about people who just want to date someone their own age. I am taking more about some on Reddit who say stuff like "I don't even look at women 2 years younger than me". That sounds like virtue-signaling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 07:27 AM |
| 3 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?Wanting someone your age is normal. Saying stuff like "I don't even look at people 2 years younger than me" is obvious virtue signaling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 07:21 AM |
| 16 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?It's extremely rare for women to do this. Male and female sexuality are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:27 AM |
| 22 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Well, the obvious difference is no man finds it offensive to be fuckzoned. However, being fuckzoned is generally considered humiliating for women. I don't make the rules, it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than womenThey have more options than men but they're not going to be quality options necessarily. Sure, a 60 yo woman can date a new man but this man is usually just looking for a caretaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 05:23 AM |
| – | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Remember the Armie Hammer scandal about how he abused his ex and said he wanted to literally eat women? He was able to find a new girlfriend very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 07:21 AM |
| – | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltYea because all women must have the same opinions , right ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltNo people definitely like to generalize their experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:44 AM |
| -1 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltYea both sides can be a bit delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltTikTok is weirdly more normal than reddit and twitter I think. Probably because TikTok tends to attract more normies while Twitter and reddit are nerd sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltI feel so gaslighted about the age gap thing. People here act like 5 year age gaps between people who are both in their 20s is some perverted, scandalous thing. Meanwhile I personally know many respectable married couples who are 8-10 years apart and nobody even notices it after a certain point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltYea and working class communities in general. Everyone talks like they live in some upper middle class area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:55 AM |
| 0 | The Manipulated Man is a terrible bookShe romanticizes men too much. The reality is that men are sexual perverts and if they said out loud what they really think, women would be terrified. However, women are not innocent angels either. They can do mental gymnastics to the point where it looks almost schizophrenic. They're often very bitchy to other women, especially women that they perceive as a sexual threat. They generally have very low empathy for anything male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:26 AM |
| 12 | Do older women withdraw completely from the dating market as they get older because dating sucks so much for them?Menopause destroys some women's libido. That is the real answer in most cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Short version: Men are not slobs. Fathers are not slobs.Sorry but I trust my lived experience more than some study. Contradictory studies are posted every day. Studies that use problematic methods or don't replicate. In my experience many fathers are in fact slobs. Not all of them, but many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:14 AM |
| -1 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableYea they subconsciously think obese women and older women are easier and more sexually available. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:26 AM |
| -4 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableI am talking about morbidly obese levels of fat. If you're attracted to that you are attracted to a person who's ill. It's not normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:02 AM |
| -6 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableYou were likely just exposed to it from a very early age.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:35 AM |
| 2 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:14 AM |
| -3 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableIf someone is morbidly obese or approaching menopause they're likely not going to have kids as pregnancy can be difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:03 AM |
| -6 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableThere's a difference between not being into skinny women and being into someone who is obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 06:58 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Lived experience is often a valid thing to consider. Science is not perfect especially since many studies don't replicate. For example when I say that women get sexually harassed more often than men think, some man will immediately say "bUt wHeRe iS dA hArD dAtA?". Dude who cares about the hard data. If thousands of women are telling you the same thing it's something to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalWould a woman who makes 50k settle for a man who makes 50k? Often not, even though he's arguably her equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:31 AM |
| -9 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalIn the long term it doesn't matter. Most couples barely fck after kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalWould you be willing to do at least 50% of chores and parenting every day even though you work more and make more ? That is the real question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalMoney definitely helps but we see examples everyday of rich people who still get divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:56 AM |
| 2 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalThis clearly is not going to work in modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:55 AM |
| 2 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalWhere is the lie in what I am saying ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:53 AM |
| 2 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalShe's going to start being resentful that he's not an "equal" parent and doesn't treat her equally even if she knew all these things before she married him . Friends will whisper in her ear that he's too controlling etc. Modern women are not taught to be patient and submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:47 AM |
| 0 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalBecause I have observed many couples like this. And because it's very common for men to cheat and abuse their women during this period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:43 AM |
| 2 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalNot in modern society. It creates resentment in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalI literally don't give a fck about "ethics" that are subjective depending on the society. However, in modern society women marry someone who is clearly superior to them and expect equal treatment. This clearly doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:38 AM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhen have tradcons done anything for men? Especially young single men? I wouldn't be surprised if they impose a bachelor tax soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:47 PM |
| 0 | If most women had the same standards as single parent women the dating pool would be more balanced, women would be less broken hearted, and it would benefit everyone.Man what are you talking about ? In my experience single mothers have very low quality standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:39 PM |
| 10 | Settling is not what you think it isIt's a mentality. If you feel that you could have done better then you "settled", at least that's how the term is used around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 07:32 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy is The Red Pill crowd generally right-wing? You would think they would sympathize with their Muslim and Latino brothers who are more likely to have a macho mentality. I literally don't get it, they throw their non-white brothers under the bus in favor of the cucked white race and the dying western civilization? I personally hope the Muslims do take over. I am confident it wouldn't affect ME personally and it would be pretty funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooI didn't generalize. Some men do it and it's a fact. I've known men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 9 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooOur society prioritizes marriage for love to the point where everything else is taboo. Of course these people will feel like they have missed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:20 PM |
| 7 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooI think there's a difference. Men who do this generally want to stay married. They might get a side piece when they're older but they want to keep the marriage. Women who do this are more likely to go nuclear and divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 12 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooI know men who married women they admit they weren't in love with. It's a silent epidemic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:15 PM |
| 6 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooNo? It's just food for thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)You're just raised to value certain traits more M | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:05 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenWhat does that have to do with anything? If anything my comment literally said that even non-conventionally attractive women can get married . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:00 AM |
| 23 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenI just don't buy that women like this can't find a man. My mom has a very masculine personality and looks like Brienne from game of thrones yet she has been married 3 times, never had a problem finding a man. What is more likely is that they can't find the "type" of man that they feel they deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:19 AM |
| 7 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?Men would be happier. However, birth rates will likely become even worse than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Well nobody is talking about 30 years age gap. You guys always go for the extremes because it's low hanging fruit. There's nothing "backwards" about a 40 yo man dating someone 10 years younger. Regardless the whole thing has nothing to do with age specifically. Men can try for something better than to settle for literally the first women that will show interest in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)This has nothing to do with age specifically and I didn't say he should go for younger women. Just that he should want something better for himself. However, age gap relationships are more common than you guys make them out to be. Something like 17% of married couples in the US have a 5-9 year age gap. 8% have a 10+ years age gap. That's millions of people and it's even more common in certain cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:31 PM |
| 10 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)How about men living life selfishly instead of settling down and being good provider like good little boys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)The entire point of TRP is that men should be able to self-improve and do better than a women who literally wouldn't look their way 5 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:22 PM |
| – | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goYou guys don't get it. It's about perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)You're missing the point that the woman in question had had hundreds of men courting her throughout her life while the man is question likely had to jump through hoops just to get laid once or twice. Their situation is not equivalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)True. Men are generally raised to perceive the male body as "gross" to some degree. Imagine if people were raised to recognize how beautiful men can be. Wasn't it the ancient Greeks who argued that the male body is perfect while the female body is weird looking? (not that I support this view, but we're now literally promoting the opposite) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:25 PM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)I haven't seen it. Sure you'll see some people saying that men should wear makeup (which I doubt would work anyway) but for the most part, they encourage men to know their place and settle for some 35 yo woman who is "finally" ready to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Isn't it convenient that what they define as morally virtuous is whatever best serves women's interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Doesn't Elon, Nick Cannon etc. prove that TRP is partially right about hypergamy and about how women are willing to share certain men?I mean men are more violent than women. That's a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 20 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?I think it's because most grand romantic gestures are orchestrated by men. However, men do it to win over the woman, not because they're romantic themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:33 AM |
| 16 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?I am not sure that's really true. However, I understand why it might look that way form the male perspective. Women tend to present a united front when it comes to men. However, they can be quite bitchy to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goSurprise, surprise! Women (just like men) are selfish. Especially if the culture encourages it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI never said otherwise. You guys are way too emotional about these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:47 AM |
| 0 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goHow is this in any way a "morality" tale? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:47 AM |
| -1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goBecause I said "this is what's likely going to happen" and you're like "So you're saying that men should date old hags". No dude, I didn't tell you what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI partially disagree. Good people can turn under certain circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:33 AM |
| – | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goWhy are you guys so emotional and taking things personally? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:26 AM |
| -5 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI literally don't care. I am just telling you what is likely going to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:21 AM |
| 1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI am personally of the opinion that people are not separated between "the controlling ones" and "the non-controlling ones". Rather I believe that everyone has the capacity for darkness under certain circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:20 AM |
| -3 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goIt's not a stretch, this is literally how it works many times. I have even seen it happen in same-aged relationships. One party begins having doubts and getting FOMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:18 AM |
| -3 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goThere are many people, especially women, who are influenced by the hivemind. I don't know how this is controversial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goThey become controlling because they feel insecurity because of the age difference. There are also some legit psychos like Andrew Tate who intentionally get in a relationship with someone as young as possible (usually a literal teen) in order to control them and abuse them but these cases are usually a minority of the age gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:16 AM |
| -1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI am not saying happy age gap couples don't exist. However, in western society especially, the woman is going to be facing direct and indirect pressures to leave you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:07 AM |
| -8 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goSo if the title was different, like "why age gap relationships don't work", would it be more clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goYea of course it happens in same aged relationships, it' just more common in age gap relationships. Also, it doesn't matter if it's true or not. A lot of 40 yo women "feel" they're in their prime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:04 AM |
| -7 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goI am just explaining why age gap relationships often don't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?In all couples I know, the woman is pushing for kids while the man is ambivalent. This is the opposite of what you hear on Reddit which makes.me wonder if redditors live in a bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.The point is that the implication is the toxic situations will end with the divorce. They won't. A couple that is toxic pre-divorce will often go on to be toxic with co-parenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:49 AM |
| -4 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.Just because the parents are divorced it doesn't mean the drama is over. Coparenting often involves a lot of drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:58 AM |
| -3 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.People always say that but I haven't seen any actual evidence for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:57 AM |
| – | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.You really think there are no toxic dynamics among divorced parents? My sweet summer child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:56 AM |
| -5 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.People always say that divorce is better for kids than having parents who loathe each other but I haven't seen any compelling evidence that this is actually true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Women can always secure a High Value Man if she's willing to date 5-15 years olderSure. I am just explaining why these relationships often fail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Women can always secure a High Value Man if she's willing to date 5-15 years olderThey already do that. Relationships with 5-10 year age gap are more common than people here admit. However these relationships hide some dangers. The younger person eventually "catches up" to the older one careerwise and suddenly they feel that they're too good to date someone older. This is the reason why you'll notice that women around the age of 30 stop romanticizing older men. It's conveniently the age where men start becoming successful in their careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers should admit the Red Pill is about how to get your dick wet and leave the "grand narratives" behindSo? Saying men and women are different is not TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers should admit the Red Pill is about how to get your dick wet and leave the "grand narratives" behindThis is not how "humans" operate. There is no solid science behind all this. There's a reason no real evolutionary psychologist wants to be associated with TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Red Pillers should admit the Red Pill is about how to get your dick wet and leave the "grand narratives" behindI mean watch a red pill podcast like FreshNFit or TheRationalMale. Usually, the last thing they do is give dating advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 7 | Red Pillers should admit the Red Pill is about how to get your dick wet and leave the "grand narratives" behindNah, they do try to make it more than that. For example, Heartiste Chataeu used to be one of the most prominent red pill sites and they had a huge turn to politics towards the end. Before the Red Pill sub got quarantines you also used to see these grand narratives all the time "women are children and shouldn't vote blah blah blah. Rollo also wrote a book trying to look at religion through red pill lenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?I was raised in the 90s. TV and some electronics existed but we as kids were more interested in playing in the neighborhood with other kids. I literally remember being on my bike most of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?Remember there was a time where smartphones didn't exist and somehow parents found a way to keep their kids occupied... Nowadays they can't survive for 2 hours without a screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:41 PM |
| 2 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?You're not alone I am just saying it's a toxic culture that encourages that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?I mean I have a feeling social media is dominated by very young people who have a lot of free time. Of course they'll paint a certain picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 8 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?They're definitely not the majority yet, but we're slowly getting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayYou guys need to understand how these stats work. If you include the 5-9 years age gap which I see no reason not to, age gap relationships are around 25%. Also, 7% of all marriages is still millions of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:34 AM |
| 4 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayWell on twitter and reddit you see people saying it's inappropriate for 23 yo women to date 28 year olds. I think it's an increasingly common view among gen Z. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:35 AM |
| 0 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayHere's the thing even if everything else goes well, the younger person will eventually feel that they're being dragged down by the older person. Getting old sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:34 AM |
| 3 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayI've seen many people who would classify 5 years as an age gap, especially in this specific age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:29 AM |
| 0 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayIf anything I have noticed the opposite. 19-20 year old women usually try to date older at least once. It's highly dependent on your backround. It's way more common in urban, working class communities, than in the middle class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:19 AM |
| 6 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayidk why people always jump at large age gaps. Of course a 30 year age gap is always going to be highly unusual. However, something like 5-12 years age gap is nowhere near as rare as some people here say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:15 AM |
| 2 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayIt's true there's a significant difference there. However, it's still very much possible for a 30 year old man to date a younger woman if that's his goal and he actively tries to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:07 AM |
| 11 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeI didn't say young men don't get laid at all. The point is that they usually have to jump through hoops , while it's significantly easier for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:45 PM |
| 7 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeI actually made a post in the past about how marriage is a bad deal for men and I received the same excuses "married men live longer" etc. The same people usually cherry pick studies about how single women are supposedly the happiest group . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:40 PM |
| 5 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeIn theory yes but in practice men are a lot more thirsty and simpy so women will always receive 100 times more attention than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:27 PM |
| 15 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeOf course average people date average people. It's just that if you pay attention the average guy will magically find someone around his level in his late 20s. Whereas before he received very little interest. Meanwhile his female equivalent got a lot more attention both in her youth and when older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeThere is no official blue pill position. I am just talking about the blue Pillerss on this sub who act like they're entitled to keep men down. Just make a post about how marriage is bad for men and watch all these "feminists" rush to tell you how it's actually good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsYea there are many including me. I just think the age gap makes everything harder for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsYou misunderstand. I meant that this is the age where men start getting more successful in their careers and gain confidence. There is definitely a shift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 9 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsWomen really start liking men their own age when they're around 30 which is conveniently the age where men start getting more successful and confident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsI have definitely seen people classify 5 years as an age gap. And besides in this specific age range it can be significant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:15 PM |
| 6 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsYea I know . I am just talking about the pattern of young women (18-23) perceiving men in that age range as unconfident and unfckable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discriminationHow does this discrimination even look like? Just some random Internet asshole telling them they don't like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 11:49 AM |
| 8 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Men leaving their wives for a younger woman is such a niche phenomenon these days that I don't see how it's worth it to even discuss it. Men who have affairs rarely actually leave their wives. They prefer to have their cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:20 AM |
| 0 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesThe lack of empathy is about them not understanding his feelings at all. They low key act like he's overreacting or something for not being comfortable with the AP being near his kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:02 AM |
| 3 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesActually that's what I have been telling him, that he's lucky they're even still friends with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:57 AM |
| 0 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI am pretty sure it's well documented that women have better support networks than men. And it's largely because men are less supportive of their own friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:14 AM |
| 2 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesWhen the opposite happens the women do take the side of their female friend who got cheated on. This is why men are lonely and have weak support networks, not even other men support them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI am pretty sure it's well documented that women support women more than men support their fellow men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:50 AM |
| 6 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesWhat I mean is that once people get married they usually make the well-being of the marriage their top priority and don't give that much of a fuck about what their friends are doing unless they feel personally threatened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesIf the women get cheated on, the female friends will usually stand by her. The opposite doesn't happen so much and the man who got cheated on is either viewed as a cuck or as someone who must have caused it somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:26 AM |
| -1 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesStill too young . Once your friends start getting married and having kids themselves you'll notice that the fcks they give will be reduced significantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:18 AM |
| 0 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesHow old are you? In my age group, people have stopped caring about whether their friend is a cheater unless they have a personal reason to care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.40 is not too late to find a husband. Although it is probably too late to have kids for the first time unless you can afford IVF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | The fundamental difference between misogyny and misandry: against "enlightened centrism"I find that western society is a little more misandrist for sure. (if we're talking about mainstream culture). However, I have yet to see proof that misandry is as dangerous as misogyny. I mean maybe in 20 years we'll see some terrible results , but for now there's nothing there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:07 PM |
| 2 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerThe average man? No. But the average terminally online zoomers is definitely an incel.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 0 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerI don't know it's fairly accurate from what I've seen. May married men are in fact idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerYou realize that many boomer women worked right ? And that divorce is pretty high among boomers. These women did have agency. Boomers are not people born in the 1700s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:01 PM |
| -3 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerYes because at least they were getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:47 PM |
| -1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerI highly doubt that boomer women were as subservient as you say. Boomers are people who were young during the sexual revolution. They were largely feminist just not delusional about it. Not saying things were great back then because there were still huge problems. But at least they had more nuanced views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerIt's largely the same right now. Young marriage usually ends in disaster and divorce. The only difference is that there is a larger percentage of people who don't get married at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerAnd they were right ? People misunderstand what the phrase means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerAt least when they were young they had more sex than zoomers do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:48 PM |
| -4 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerThe thing is that now we're going in the direction of people not marrying at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:47 PM |
| 3 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerIt's very misogynistic because it doesn't recognize that women are physically weaker than men. Unless you buy into the delusional view that we're all the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:31 PM |
| – | Vanity Fair, Far From The Madding Crowd, Emma & Little Women, 4 novels written by women nonetheless, where the 'Beta Billy got the girl' What does this imply?Try anything written by Ana Huang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:31 PM |
| – | Vanity Fair, Far From The Madding Crowd, Emma & Little Women, 4 novels written by women nonetheless, where the 'Beta Billy got the girl' What does this imply?Emma is a bad example. That guy was rich af and also a "daddy" type of character. (At some point he literally lectures the protagonist like a father would) The whole book is about how the woman is arrogant and airheaded and messes things up while her sensible and mature male friend tries to help her become better. And of course they end up together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 0 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Yea you're very wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:52 AM |
| 5 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"So are there any concrete examples of these double standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 14 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Why don't men as a class try to do something about it? They are literally half of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:48 PM |
| 10 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"TRPillers don't really care about these issues at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 6 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Okay. But the male oppression that TRPillers focus on still boils down to "I am mad women won't behave exactly like I want them to" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 11 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Yea I highly doubt it's just the Black Pill. If your examine what the old guard has to say (Archwinger, rollo etc. ) these dudes are extremely reactionary and believe that women shouldn't be allowed to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:00 AM |
| 21 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"I mean the moment the discussion is about society and marriage you will immediately see them start glorifying the type of patriarchy that you would only see in Afghanistan.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itPeople in western society have kids at 35. I highly doubt most of them are "done" with kids at 45. Besides even if your kids are adults it doesn't mean that your responsibility is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:31 AM |
| -2 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itThe point is that they can, not that they will. I rarely see men stressed because the woman they're dating is wasting their time and doesn't want to get married. It's usually the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:40 AM |
| -4 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itIf you go to more rural or working class communities about 95% of women want to have kids. Only middle class professional types who work in corporate seem to be different. But even then you'll usually see these types use IVF to have kids after 40. It's also probably why autism rates have skyrocketed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:38 AM |
| -7 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itIt's just common sense. after a certain age most people are either married or divorced with kids. So the quality of the options declines. Obviously this is also true for men but this is not what we're talking about here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:35 AM |
| -1 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itI mean isn't that just one more reason to settle down early ? If women have kids at 40, the father will likely also be 40 and have "bad sperm". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isOh you mean how literally all women have multiple experiences with creepy men throughout their lifetime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isIf you're red pill you shouldn't be denying male.nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isOkay and some people don't have legs either. The point is that it's wayyyy more common than people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isYou really thought I would disagree with that, didn't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality is[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isUnironically yes, most of them are. My father was arrested for stalking a young woman btw. So bad example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isIt's not the first time genocidal rape happened, it's a common occurrence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isI am not complaining, people need to be more honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:32 PM |
| -10 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isJust because I think something is factually true it doesn't mean I am a misandrist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isI mean yea but the point is that when shit hits the fan these guys will show their true colors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isConsidering female teachers vastly outnumber the male teachers this is not saying much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:09 AM |
| 5 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isI mean yea society can't function without these rules. But look at what happened when there really were no rules like when the Red Army was raping everyone during WW2. Suddenly, at the time of war everything is fair game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:08 AM |
| -3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isIt's factually true that men are attracted to very young women, how am I wrong? Just go look at a society where this type of thing is normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterI don't know why people think a woman can't see things from a man's point of view. I have been critical of men before too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterYea, most zoomers I know find dates via Instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterHe can do both to increase his chances. Yea, he's going to need to make some changes but that can take years. He's going to need some more instant solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:50 PM |
| 22 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterThis might be a good idea but men like this vastly outnumber the women who are like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterEven socially adjusted people struggle to make new friends after a certain age. Too many people are set in their ways and don't want to meet someone new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterA guy over 30 who is so socially awkward is not going to be constantly making new friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:16 PM |
| 2 | New Stanford Study finds huge differences between male and female brain activityStudies like this are not new at all, it's not going to matter at all. These differences are meaningless if they cannot be determined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleA dude who struggles so much with dating in the first place is probably surrounded by friends who are like him (nerds, socially awkward). It's highly unlikely that he will be part of a socially adjusted mixed-gender friend group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:57 PM |
| -9 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleIt's just extremely statistically unlikely. There have been like maybe 5 cases of men posted on social media without good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleThese women could easily get laid in their own home countries without much trouble. Most men would fck anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.I didn't comment on whether it's a wise idea or not. Just that it is possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:28 PM |
| 2 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.I've definitely seen people saying anything over 5 years is an age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:29 PM |
| -1 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.Of course divorce rates skyrocket. At some point the woman will realize youth is precious and start feeling like the old man is dragging her down. But the point is that it still happens. Every single woman I know has dated someone over 6 years older at some point. Obviously not all of these relationships ended in marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.Out of my friends, one of them dated a thirty year old guy when she was 20-21. Another dated a 37 year old guy when she was 19-22. Another one is 29 right now and a lawyer and is dating a 40 year old. None of these guys are celebrities or even very rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:20 PM |
| 4 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.It's just that when I look at the woman I know, almost everyone has dated someone over 6 years older at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:24 AM |
| 4 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.I mean regardless of what you think the point is that they CAN date younger, which is what I said in the OP. Not everyone is looking for marriage, some want something more casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:22 AM |
| 5 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.I mean if you think that it's impossible to form a connection with someone younger/older you must lack imagination and have poor social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:11 AM |
| 6 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.Yea, I mean almost no woman will tell you they find older men attractive. But at the same time almost every woman I know has at least one experience dating someone over 6 years older. The truth is that women find "individual" older men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.Not really, sure women are often attracted to men to make money but that is true regardless of the age difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:02 AM |
| -1 | Feminists and older women actually have a point about age-gap relationships, but their explanation is somewhat inaccurate and self servingThey are at different stages of life, it's simple as that. Even if everything goes well, the younger person will likely end up being a caretaker at an age where they won't be ready for it. I am following a couple where the woman is around 50 and the man is 80 and they have been together for 20 years. They actually look solid and happy but I still can't help thinking that she's being dragged down by this old man who is likely going to die soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Women will defend women no matter whatI am surprised nobody called him a predator for the 4 year age gap. I wouldn't put it past reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 08:35 AM |
| 1 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingNope. I have first hand experience with this. After a while literally no one cares. In fact I even know a couple where the man has a mistress and they literally hang out together with his friends while his wife is at home. I also know another couple where the woman cheated and divorced her husband, out of all of their mutual friends only 2 cut her off, the rest "stayed neutral" (which is effectively taking the cheater's side) Idk how old you are but after a certain age most people don't really c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingIdk I am just saying that it seems unfair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:57 AM |
| 7 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingLol I have seen it play out with average people too. After a while everyone forgets about it and will invite the cheater and their new relationship to social events. If you, as a victim, try to say something about it YOU will end up being seen as jealous and a bad guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:33 AM |
| 23 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingThey don't want to get caught because they want to have their cake and eat it too. But the consequences for the victim are usually more severe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:30 AM |
| 1 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingI have seen this play out with average people too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:29 AM |
| 0 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantBecause men are fcking dumb. It is so common to see anti-marriage, childfree men eventually settle down and have kids at 50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:39 PM |
| 2 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantIt actually makes sense once you realize that I think both genders suck. Start from there and you'll figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantWhy would a 35 yo woman want to date a wealthy man if there is no marriage and kids in the horizon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:35 PM |
| 0 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantHow is this opinion extreme? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:34 PM |
| 8 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantRegardless of what feminists and reddit tells you, most women find it humiliating to be a forever girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:41 PM |
| -2 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantMost women want kids, idk about the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:40 PM |
| 7 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantFair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:39 PM |
| 0 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantShe has to subtly push for marriage and kids. Most men if left to their own devices will be happy staying boyfriend-girlfriend forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsA lot of people are in fact idiots who probably can't think for themselves... Especially when we're talking about very young people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:19 PM |
| – | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsA lot of people ARE in fact idiots, that is why pushing bad advice is irresponsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsHe died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 6 | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsFirst of all, it depends on how you define that "they did much better". Secondly, back in the day society was much different. A man had to be approved by the woman's family, there were different expectations etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 01:50 PM |
| -1 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededLol trust me there are plenty of men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:58 AM |
| -9 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededIn this day and age, I don't think that's true. Being a simp is too widespread. Men get viral on TikTok for saying they prefer single moms and stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:44 AM |
| -1 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededThat's a separate issue. I was talking more about men who say stuff like "single moms are hot" etc. There's nothing hot about single motherhood. An individual single mom can be hot though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Is it tougher being childfree?Maybe date an older woman with adult kids. I agree that no matter what reddit tells you true childfree women are pretty rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:19 AM |
| – | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupThe weird thing is when they say they don't want kids but then become codependent with their sibling's kids. I don't bash anyone btw, if someone wants to be childfree then you do you. I am just saying that it's weird to say you don't want kids and then constantly babysit your nieces and nephews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:58 PM |
| -19 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupI personally suspect that those who are single and childless have an incentive to exaggerate their happiness in order to cope and not admit they made poor choices. (Most of these happiness studies are based on self-reports anyway) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:46 PM |
| -11 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupI agree you don't need an exciting life. What I meant is that the idea that all there is to life is work, Netflix, two vacations per year seems pretty grim to me. It all seems to get boring after a while. This is why having a family is such an interesting adventure for many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:38 PM |
| -1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2Saying that watching a movie sometimes is an interest is pretty silly because I am pretty sure everyone does it. I am not saying that you should have totally incompatible lifestyles with your partner, obviously. I am just saying it's pretty stupid to treat "common interests" like the number 1 thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2Saying that watching a movie sometimes is an "interest" is weird because I am pretty sure everyone does it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 01:34 PM |
| -5 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2I am just saying that telling guys who like anime and video games to try approaching women at anime conventions or whatever is pretty stupid. These guys would probably have much better luck approaching random women at a bar. Talking about relationships and watching TV is not really what people think of when they talk about interests and hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:47 AM |
| -6 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2A guy probably has much better chances approaching random women at a bar than he would if he approached women at an anime convention or whatever nerdy interest he has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:42 AM |
| -1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2It's almost impossible to find someone who is not down on cuddling with their partner or watch TV sometimes. I wouldn't call it an interest. I am not saying that you shouldn't do anything together, obviously. I am just saying that telling guys who like anime that they should look for girlfriends at anime conventions is pretty stupid. These guys would probably have much better luck approaching random women at a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:41 AM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manBut according to people here and on TikTok it's just a cute little quirk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manI mean I wouldn't trust someone self-diagnosed from TikTok that they're autistic because they were a little socially awkward in middle school. Most autistic people face serious struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manAutistic men can do what they want. Who tf cares. I am just describing the reality of their situation since they frequently ask why they can't get dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manI didn't say it's impossible you just need to accept that not everyone will want to deal with it. And honestly I am sick of seeing people act like autism means you're just a little nerdy. A vast number of autistic people need years of speech therapy just to be able to talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manMost likely no, but it's my own risk to take. People deserve to know what they're signing up for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:42 AM |
| -4 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manThis was advice for women. Women deserve to know the risks. Advice for men is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:38 AM |
| -1 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manUnfortunately, we have a wave of people who think autism means you're just a little shy and nerdy thanks to TikTok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?ASD is highly heritable so you can't blame people if they don't want to seriously date someone who has it. And I say this as someone with ASD who is currently not planning to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:15 AM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menYou're free to risk it. I am free to state my opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:31 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menBecause autism and being a late bloomer are highly correlated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:30 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menAutism is not a cute quirk, it's a serious condition. If you want to have autistic kids be my guest but people deserve to be warned about it. For context this is how autism can look like. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4PTf7LgsIE&pp=ygUPc2VyaW91cyBhdXRpc20g | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:27 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menIf you want autistic kids then be my guest. I am just warning people to know what they're signing up for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:20 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menPeople deserve to be know what they're signing up for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:17 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menMost high betas date, it might be fat chicks but they do date. Late bloomers are a special category and they tend to be weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:18 AM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menMany , many people can complete their education and have a life at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:15 AM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menMost high betas are not late bloomers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:41 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:18 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:15 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:03 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:59 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:48 AM |
| 10 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:48 AM |
| 2 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:45 AM |
| 2 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:37 AM |
| 3 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:34 AM |
| -6 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:32 AM |
| 12 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:31 AM |
| 3 | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:25 AM |
| -1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsNot really. That's basic stuff that everyone likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:27 PM |
| -2 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsWe watch TV, have sex and gossip about friends and celebrities? Lots of stuff to do even if you don't share the same hobbies with your lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsI like books, my boyfriend like tech stuff and video games I couldn't care less about. What do we do together? We watch TV, take walks, gossip about our friends and have sex? It's not that deep and you don't need to share the same hobbies to hang out with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:21 PM |
| – | Why do you think casual disrespect by women towards their male partners is so common? Is it really acceptable?The point is that women are much more likely to get triggered if a man makes fun of them like this. It's just usually not symmetrical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Why do you think casual disrespect by women towards their male partners is so common? Is it really acceptable?The point is that it's rarely symmetrical. Women are much more likely to get triggered if men do things like this. I get that most men don't mind this kind of attitude but it's just not symmetrical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Women: what's the most irrational thing that gives you the ick when it comes to men?It's a turnoff I want men to be masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Women: what's the most irrational thing that gives you the ick when it comes to men?68 degrees F. Anyone who thinks this is cold has to be a wuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:25 PM |
| 30 | Why is it that we prefer forcing the absent parent to pay child support over making the present parent choose between supporting the baby on their own and adoption?Because the adoption industry fcking sucks. Talk to some actual adoptees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:18 PM |
| 0 | The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financialThere are studies that show that men are more likely to financially recover from divorce.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:57 PM |
| -7 | The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financialWell, this tweet was the inspiration. This is how older, single men are viewed. https://twitter.com/realChrisBrunet/status/1776821104906039452 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financialMost women who date men with kids, don't want to do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:55 PM |
| 4 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.No, I meant they should realize how lucky they are and learn to be happy with the companionship they already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:41 AM |
| 6 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.No, I am saying that some people have massive FOMO issues and can't be satisfied with what's in front of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:31 AM |
| 11 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.There are people who are never happy, that's the point. You can have everything and still not be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?It used to be about single mothers who had no other choice. Now I see more and more people going the sperm donor route by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?De Niro's kid is going to be raised by the mom. There's no real difference between this and going the sperm.donor route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?I don't propose any alternative. I am just saying the normalization is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?This is pointless because most people are not going to live in communes. Also, there are studies about single mother households and some of them control for income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 10:29 AM |
| -2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Yea that's the point that fathers are important. But there are other studies about two parent households as well. As about Robert De Niro, unless you have some moral objection to single mothers by choice as well, I see nothing wrong with what he does. At least Robert De Niro's kid will know who their father is. Sperm donor kids will not know their father or their half-siblings and they will worry they will accidentally fck their half-sister or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 10:09 AM |
| 20 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?I mean I agree but I have noticed a weird denial whenever this topic is brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:20 AM |
| 3 | A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large menSure, many people don't act on this attraction, but the point is it's still there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:53 AM |
| 8 | A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large menI mean it was regular housewives that were thirsting over Christian Gray and the guy from 365 days, not broken women raised in the ghetto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:29 AM |
| 11 | A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large menI recognize that I find this type of guy arousing and my father was not like that. He was a deadbeat and a loser but not dominant. And I didn't have much exposure to him either. I was closer to my stepdad who is the typical beta nice guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 33 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Autistic men tend to have worse delays and worse skills than their female counterparts. Idk if it's because of nature or nurture or whatever but I used to work at a treatment center and men were the more "severe cases" 95% of the time.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is menopauseFor one there are literally more older women than older men because men tend to die younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:43 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?A huge amount of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in front of their men which explains the appeal of "bad boys". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 07:16 AM |
| -1 | The real wall is menopauseWell obviously women can date at any age. I am just talking about who has the most options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:23 PM |
| -1 | The real wall is menopauseYea? So let's say a man over 50 and a woman over 50 are looking for a LTR? Who has the better chances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:21 PM |
| -3 | The real wall is menopauseWomen over 50 typically have reduced libido from menopause. So they will likely not mind the erectile dysfunction. If anything the stereotype is the opposite, that women's desire dries up at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:20 PM |
| -6 | The real wall is menopauseYea that's not the point. If a man over 50 and a woman over 50 try to date, the man will likely have more options..unless the man totally sucks.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is menopauseI highly doubt that in this day and age men over 30 have more options than women over 30. Maybe if you're talking about people over 50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:16 PM |
| -8 | The real wall is menopauseWhy are so many women obsessed with looking younger if they're so much happier single and men suck anyway ? I am not judging anyone obviously, just food for thought . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:15 PM |
| -2 | The real wall is menopauseWhat does this have to do with who has more power in the dating market ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:13 PM |
| -9 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.Sure, but you're not fertile forever. And I just find it ironic that some women will happily tell you that old sperm causes autism while at the same breath they'll tell you that they plan to have kids at 38.....with a 40 yo man with "old sperm" Like you would think that if they were to worried they would try to have kids earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 11:59 AM |
| -2 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.If everyone had this mentality literally nobody would have kids. Nobody is a perfect parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.Well, yea and I know 50 year olds who have teenage mentalities. That's not an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:57 AM |
| -1 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.They don't develop mentally because they're not encouraged to develop mentally. I only started feeling like an adult when I got a proper job. It had nothing to do with my age, it had everything to do with doing adult activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:52 AM |
| -6 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.How many people were raised by young parents who didn't know what they were doing and turned out perfectly fine? Many, many people. You're not "wasting" your best years. Having a family is more fulfilling in the long-term than having a career. It's not financial suicide, if anything having kids will encourage you to be more financially responsible. There's a reason why statistically, parents are wealthier than childless people. (look it up) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:51 AM |
| -5 | There are many benefits to having kids early and people who wait as long as possible are shooting themselves in the foot.You're never going to be fully ready for a kid no matter how late you do it. It's sometimes better to start early and figure things out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:33 AM |
| 6 | People need to accept that it's normal to not be in love with your spouse after some yearsThere are many reasons why someone would decide that. I listed a few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:12 AM |
| 4 | People need to accept that it's normal to not be in love with your spouse after some yearsThe grass isn't always greener on the other side though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:09 AM |
| -6 | "What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbersThat's not what I meant. If you're an unattractive slob they'll probably reject you from the beginning. What I meant is that "what do you bring to the table" sounds like there should be a checklist of traits and skills you will accept in a partner. What happened to emotion and love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | "What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbersNo that's not what I meant. If you choose to be in a relationship with someone it presumably means that they had something you liked and appreciated in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerStatistics still say that two-parent households are best for children.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?Yep that's exactly my experience too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:43 AM |
| 23 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?People always imagine something extreme like a 30 year age gap , but the reality is that a lot of young women like guys who are slightly older because they're more established. However, it's very hard for a young man to find someone his age unless he's very special because women his age date people 2-8 years older. And of course young women don't date younger men even if it's just one year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:58 PM |
| 50 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?This graph literally confirms that young women prefer slightly older men. We're not talking about huge age gaps, which is a niche thing. But a guy can easily date someone 5 years younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.Lol I wish I was only 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:43 AM |
| 8 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.These men are decent and average. Not alcoholic wife beaters. They're only crime is not being "hot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenYou're wrong on the domestic abuse thing. I can think on the fly some famous domestic abuse cases that didn't have age gaps. Gabby Petito and Chris Watts/Shannan Watts case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:08 PM |
| -6 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenA man who is a late bloomer doesn't have the social skills to deal with a hormonal, impulsive younger woman who doesn't know what she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenYounger women who date older typically want someone with money too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:54 PM |
| -12 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenYea I guess it sucks to be him. His best chance is stepdad or captain save a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenRelationships with age gap difference hide a lot of difficulties especially if the younger person is under 25. Her friends and family will try to challenge you. And a late bloomer man can hardly deal with women his age , let alone a hormonal, impulsive younger woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:52 PM |
| – | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationYea it's not always as easy as it sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 08:34 AM |
| -9 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationOnce again you ignore the logistical aspect. No kid wants to constantly move from one house to the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:16 AM |
| -1 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationThey're not shitty. Even good women and mothers can be in this position because of logistical reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:38 AM |
| -5 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationPeople, including kids are more likely to take mom's side (WAWE) and women are better are communication so they will inevitably win the blame game. This is without taking into account that men tend to work more hours so they will inevitably spend less time with the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.You're right. People act like rights are some natural force that "just" exist. But they're obviously a human creation and need to be maintained and enforced by humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:15 PM |
| 0 | TBP encourages people to be mediocreNah, men (and women) can find a relationship even in their 60s assuming they're in good shape. And marriage isn't much of a safety net, is it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:33 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the popularity of Manacled?Draco/Hermione | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sI think the doctor is 40 yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sAnd 35 yo woman will just date a 40 yo guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sI mean according to TRP narrative she's promiscuous and old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sI didn't say they 'should' get punished. The point is there's nothing wrong with these guys other than being average. That's hardly a punishment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:17 AM |
| – | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdRead the original post again.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:54 AM |
| – | Most men are not that bad looking, makeup and fillers just skew people's perceptionsThey get more matches and dms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:53 AM |
| – | Most men are not that bad looking, makeup and fillers just skew people's perceptionsYea and evidently they rarely if ever pick them on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:39 AM |
| – | Most men are not that bad looking, makeup and fillers just skew people's perceptionsNo I mean they say that men are objectively worse looking than women and that's why they struggle on dating apps compared to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:17 AM |
| 3 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdThere are other studies that show dark triads traits are seen as attractive. You can Google it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 3 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdThis badly written fiction is among the most popular types of fiction. I guess all the middle aged women who enjoyed 50 shades and 365 days have "mental issues. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:28 PM |
| 4 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdOpen a random romance book written by women for women. Chances are the male love interest is either a billionaire or a "tortured" bad boy or both. The majority of women is slightly attracted to dark triad traits. Whether they act on it is another issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:18 PM |
| 5 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdThat it doesn't matter. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:47 PM |
| 14 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdhttps://www.psypost.org/2023/12/psychopathic-men-have-more-children-study-finds-220372 And yet psychopathic men have more kids. I guess evolution doesn't care about what humans arbitrarily consider "mental issues". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 8 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdIt's not common but I have certainly seen people imply that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:35 PM |
| 17 | Do you agree with Redonkulas' assessment of what to expect in case of divorce?Okay I will answer this using my parents' divorce. My mother definitely attacked my father's character but her assessment of his character was mostly true imo. My mother did not vandalize property. My father kept his own house and they had to split a "holiday" house they had built together. To this day they still both use the holiday house just during different periods. Other than that he paid 200$ in child support for my sibling ( I was already an adult so I received almost nothing). We were fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:56 PM |
| – | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyYea because I feel so passionately about men.... /s Dude I am just posting shit for my own amusement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | The gender war is not just an online thingI mean there are also other indications. Like a significant gender divide in voting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:30 AM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI didn't say they "should" be penalized. It's an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:36 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseIt's not about what "should" be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:34 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI didn't say it's a bad thing. I find it amusing more than anything The gender divide is so undeniable that even mainstream media is writing about it atm. Men should be better people to achieve what? To wife up a resentful woman? If the end goal sucks most men won't feel motivated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:32 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseTechnology is making the male role obsolete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:30 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI literally haven't seen a single woman feel threatened by these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 11:30 AM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseYou know I was watching a documentary about the Mosuo tribe, which is believed to be matriarchal and they interviewed some natives. Most said positive things but there was one Mosuo woman who said that it actually sucks because women do all the work and men are mostly being lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 11:30 AM |
| 11 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.I know a woman who was raised by older, conservative parents and as a result she is pretty reserved and sexually shy. She's almost 30 and hasn't been in any serious relationship and I think she might be a virgin. However, not going to lie, she's like that mostly by choice since she has had men approach her in the past and she rejected them. She has admitted that she's really not interested in most men.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:12 PM |
| 90 | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?From my perspective in most cases a man needs to be a "catch" just to date a broke and mid woman. No wonder it's hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityI really don't care tbh. It's just an amusing conversation subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:00 PM |
| 91 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Because male anger is terrifying, a man who talks down on his wife in front of others is seen as a potential wife beater. When a wife does it, it's usually seen as amusing and nobody cares. Because nobody sees female aggression as truly threatening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 09:42 PM |
| -1 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityIf it's a one sided decision it can be pretty toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:15 PM |
| -5 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityI am talking about cases where it's a one-sided decision to stay at home. Sometimes they ARE lazy, especially if the kid is already in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:15 PM |
| 14 | What are things you hate about other women?I don't think I have anything I "hate" about women. I fully recognize that women have flaws but I can't bring myself to "hate" something because I just don't feel strongly enough about it. I do have some controversial opinions about women though, like I think fully female working environments are not very fun. When there are too many women together there's usually an increased concern about not being "offensive" , watching what you're saying/doing etc. It's just not very fun. All male working en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:57 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerCurious what ages are your buddy and her husband? I have heard that advanced paternal age increases the chances of ASD and I want to hear some anecdotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 10:00 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerWell at least you're honest. Things are the way they are because men want them to be that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:39 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerEquality and marriage rights are insignificant to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:25 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerAnd gay people are 3% of the population , but look at what they have achieved. Men have really no excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:59 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerThen why don't men use their resources to actually do something about male issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:52 AM |
| – | What do you think about female teachers going after teenage boys ?Lol no if you said that you would be largely correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 10:58 AM |
| – | What do you think about female teachers going after teenage boys ?I am convinced that if society didn't get in the way , most men would show an interest for young teens. Not saying I approve but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 10:31 AM |
| – | What do you think about female teachers going after teenage boys ?Saying you're not surprised doesn't mean you approve of something. Male sexuality is predatory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 10:30 AM |
| 5 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?But that's the point. TRPillers are acting like feminists. Woman says she was abused. "Lets wait for all the facts", "her story doesn't sound right to me", "it's her fault for picking a bad boy". Man says he was falsely accused. "THAT POOR INNOCENT MAN, FCK DEM HOES". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?His hypothesis was that she cucked him and he snapped. When it was revealed that he was the cheater he and the rest of trpillers got all quiet and dropped the subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?Look at TRPillers' reactions to some man's sob story about false allegations vs. to some woman's sob story about abuse. When a woman says she was abused they always find reasons to doubt it but they will immediately believe the man even though all abusers say they were falsely accused. And don't tell me feminists do it too, I literally don't care. This is about TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:24 PM |
| 27 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?Well then by the same logic it's irrational to expect female empathy for male issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Looks>>Money especially when you're as young as Melina. She's like 24 of course she thinks she can do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?I saw it coming from miles away. Melina is a hot girl and Destiny is a dorky looking man. It was never going to last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 10:17 PM |
| 16 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseIn this day and age the man is hardly responsible for the wife and unless he lives in the ghetto it's highly unlikely that he'll need to physically defend her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 02:08 PM |
| 16 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseThe problem is that while this type of man is hot initially, most women will eventually feel undervalued and controlled. I have literally seen women go after selfish, dominant "bad boys" only to be shocked that these men are bad , selfish fathers too. So a few years after kids are born they divorce because "the man is a controlling asshole". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:15 PM |
| 25 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseMost people don't want someone having authority over them 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive?With the way TRPillers present it, I think it's a bad idea. If it's in the BDSM context where there are clear boundaries and safe words then maybe it's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesHow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesThey're usually divorcing their asshole husbands and settle for a beta stepfather. The opposite rarely happens in older ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesWhen they're very young this might happen. I doubt an older woman with kids will leave a guy like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesI said someone that follows the Christian slave morality, not necessarily someone who is a Christian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:42 AM |
| -4 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesYou guys are thinking about it the wrong way. Considering many women have a thing for bad boys or men who are selfish, aloof the marriage ends in disaster when kids enter the picture. Women's priorities change drastically after kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesNah there are way too many simps out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:33 AM |
| 2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipWhat is the age gap? Who exactly makes these remarks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:03 AM |
| 2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipNot denying that older men have a higher chance of passing a disorder but your stats are completely off. For example with autism, the chance of older parents passing it is around 1.58 compared to 1.5 which is for young parents. We would have a serious problem indeed if there was a 70% chance of passing a generic disorder for people in their 40s considering geriatric pregnancy has become the norm nowadays. https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/#:~:text=One%202017%20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipHow long did you date? If it's a long relationship people usually get over it after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:59 AM |
| 5 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipI would recommend reading this person's comments it's an obvious troll. They literally said in another comment that 2 year age gaps are gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipHave you considered that maybe it's a you problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:10 AM |
| -2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipNah , 20 yo men are dumb af compared to 20 yo women . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:52 PM |
| 0 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipDo you think that an 18 yo boy can also manipulate an older woman ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:43 PM |
| -2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipAren't you worried that the 30 yo will manilulate her though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:08 PM |
| 8 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipMaybe you need to be more open minded because it's perfectly possible to connect with people of all ages. Not even just for relationships but for friendships too. I know an 80 yo woman who is a social butterfly and has many friends, some of them a lot younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipHer boss was a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipI didn't say everything was great just that teens were more independent back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:07 AM |
| 7 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationship1)huge age gaps were never very common , 2) teenagers were more independent back in the day than they are now. It used to be more common to see 15-16 yos dropping out of school to work full time. Nowadays people are babied until they're in their mid 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:04 AM |
| 3 | People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationshipImo the age of consent should universally be 18, unless it's a small age gap like a 19 yo dating a 17 yo. It never made sense to me how a 16 yo cannot vote and is likely still in high school but can date someone 20+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?Lets agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:31 AM |
| 12 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?If anything it makes more sense for women to view it as a waste of time because women are the ones with a limited fertility window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:04 AM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameWomen who show too much individuality are often autistic or have mental health issues. Why is being "basic" so bad anyway? The more I age, the more I find people who try too hard to be contrarian and different cringey and annoying. Like it or not, you live in a society and are part of the herd too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:40 AM |
| – | New research shows that psychopathic men have more kids. Is it another nail in the coffin to the idea that women will reject bad personalities?I don't need to prove myself to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:49 AM |
| 2 | How low would autistic guys have to set their standards, if women only date up?It's not the autism, it's their looks. I have a colleague who I'm 90% sure is autistic. The dude simply never understands subtext even though he's very intelligent. However, because he happens to be tall and handsome, he has a pretty wife and kids and a mistress on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:20 AM |
| 13 | Are young adults infantilized? How does this affect dating?I remember 20 years ago there was a stigma against being in your late 20s and still liking "childish" stuff, like toys and superheroes. Nowadays it's very normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:28 PM |
| 8 | Are young adults infantilized? How does this affect dating?I feel like 20 years ago, people wanted to be grown as fast as possible. Nowadays people want to remain kids as long as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Are young adults infantilized? How does this affect dating?It was deleted so I reposted it and added some stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:19 PM |
| 0 | If a man is a late bloomer wouldn’t it be more natural for him to date down in age to where he would be more likely to find someone closer to him experience wise?I actually agree with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | If a man is a late bloomer wouldn’t it be more natural for him to date down in age to where he would be more likely to find someone closer to him experience wise?As long as you're not dating a minor it's fine by me. I just think grown men who wait outside high schools are creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:48 AM |
| 3 | “young attractive women live life on easy mode” - why this is a mislead statement.Your point applies to all women since men are such simps that they will simp even for mid women. You would have to look like a troll to avoid these simps. However, I don't think it's necessarily true that ugly women "are more interesting". That's what ugly people tell themselves to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:44 AM |
| – | Are young adults nowadays infantilized ? How does this affect dating?Well for one late bloomers often develop some weird complex when it comes to women. Red Pill is full of guys like this who feel like they missed out on their youth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 07:07 PM |
| – | Are young adults nowadays infantilized ? How does this affect dating?Check out my previous post about why being a late bloomer can be a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 07:05 PM |
| – | Are young adults nowadays infantilized ? How does this affect dating?There was an article that said 50% of men ages 18-20 are virgins. So they're not having sex at 17. https://unusualwhales.com/news/young-male-virginity-is-on-the-rise Even if we assume the study is misleading it still looks pretty bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappy"twice as likely" means that the probability goes from 1.5% to 3%. Unless there is autism in your family the chances are low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 12:52 PM |
| -5 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappyThe older you are the more likely it is that your peers will be married . Those who are left are more likely to carry baggage, like kids from previous relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappyThe older you are the more likely it is that orher people will be married already. Those who are left are more likely to have some issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:44 AM |
| -15 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappyI am not single 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:35 AM |
| -15 | Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag...If a man is still a virgin in his mid 20s it's usually a hint that something is off. No, virginity doesn't cause autism. But if a man is still a virgin in his 20s, the chances of having autistic tendencies are high, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:24 AM |
| -12 | Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag...Why am I not allowed to talk about anecdotal evidence when much of TRP is based on anecdotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:20 AM |
| 24 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadI feel like it's the opposite. If anything working-class kids are more likely to roam around freely. Sure sometimes they get into trouble, but the danger is overstated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:22 PM |
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