I admit that If you look at the top 5% of humanity perhaps you would find more males who are competent leaders. However, for the other 95%, why should women obey? When I look at couples around me, I strongly doubt that the men are better leaders than the women. There are sooo many men that literally destroy their own families. In my own family, both my father and stepfather were proven to be incompetent compared to my biological mother and as a result I struggle with trusting my man.

Before someone says "the red pill doesn't say should should obey", here's a panel of prominent red pillers who say EXACTLY that. https://www.youtube.com/live/JMvjm5sbYcE?is=R8M8mBB3Xje\_4FmM