Lets say you get involved with a woman who is 20 and you are 40.

20 and 40 can work just fine.

30 and 50 can also work.

But once you get to 40 and 60, I'm sorry my friend but you're going to start losing the plot.

You're getting older, she's still relatively young. You're going to lose your power and soon she's going to cheat or divorce you.

However, if you marry a woman your age, you're actually going to gain power in the relationship over time, because men remain attractive as they grow older, while it's harder for women.

So marry a woman your age and , if you feel that you have to, just have an affair with a younger woman, just like normal men do. Looking to marry a much younger woman can get you in serious trouble down the road.