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I can see why bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:46 PM

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:33 PM
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Y?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:03 PM
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So it's interaction based ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:58 PM
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So fast ⏩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:56 PM
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Length more than 6in and girth more than 5.5 in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:34 PM
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certain realities about men and women and life in general push them into more traditional partnerships. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:42 PM
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This is the case only in your vicinity right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:09 AM
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In your experience this is the case I presume ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:59 AM
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What does that look like ? In between ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:58 AM
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What does red pill mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:57 AM
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Low effort rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:21 AM
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I thought women wanted men to take control ? Or are both possible simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:50 PM
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Real life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:28 AM
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More than 80-90%. Dont trust what women say here real life is different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:12 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:59 AM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:41 PM
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U tried someone after your husband ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:39 PM
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Yeah thank you for being honest 🙌. I didn't know tip size was a thing too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:21 PM
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You're right . What's the right size for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:00 PM
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That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:04 PM
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🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:44 AM
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Who are those people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:53 PM
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My reasoning is a bit more abstract
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:32 PM
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What ? Misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah your POV makes seen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:43 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:26 PM
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It might be , considering how piv dominated sex our society seems to push
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:05 PM
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What are my views on women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:45 PM
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Yeah 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:35 AM
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how weird vaginas are. Weird in what way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:24 AM
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That seems unrealistic. I don't think they make fingers that long . And cervix is 6 inches deep right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:24 AM
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Yes obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:23 AM
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Doesn't that prove that bigger ones are more preferable to women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:14 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:11 AM
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Okay 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:11 AM
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Most
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:49 AM
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🙌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:49 AM
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Y/N
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:49 AM
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But does it make PIV pleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:25 AM
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Apparently they asked couples(women) if they were satisfied with their partners size . 85% said yes . But most men believed they were insufficient. It could also be that those researchers interviewed well endowed men more , and the 15% happened to be average or small men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:05 AM
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Yeah a lot of men say this on social media for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:59 AM

What is this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:35 PM
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🙌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:49 PM
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Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:25 PM
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It is a
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:06 PM
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Because it's a hoax and a psy op
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:05 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:03 PM
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Here before it gets removed . What do people think about wizardliz getting cheated on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:13 PM
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spark, attraction. So physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:01 AM
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How many sls is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:41 PM
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Obviously. Individually what do you think and your guesses for other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:30 PM
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Do you estimate you're in the majority , minority or just a sizeable number of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:19 PM
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People don't even read the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:42 AM
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What motivates your relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:14 PM
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You can do both
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:14 PM
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It's not me it's how those men think . But you get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:47 PM
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Because the said man would still want to feel "masculine" in his relationship, so he'd still want to pay for most stuff . So you can let him and sit back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:33 PM
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Read the last paragraph in op
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:19 PM
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So a good guy with money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:58 PM
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What's not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:16 PM
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But there's a lot of financial potential to be had . Money is very important in life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:16 PM
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How are you dependent on him if you make your own money and have savings ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:47 PM
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And you didn’t address the fact that income isn’t static. Sure I could find an older man already in his career making 60k when I made 30k as a student, then when my career takes off and I make 150k, what then? Then you make more money I guess . What changes ? You can keep that in your personal savings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:41 PM
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No when you assume all men who make more than you are looking for something extravagant in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:24 PM
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Well that guy was a bit hedonistic. But not all 6 figure men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:24 PM
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Most men don’t make 200k, especially not in their 20s which is when most people want to meet their partners. It was easier to just split expenses with a compatible man I love based on our relative income, much easier than finding a rich man. I used 200k as an example . Suppose you make 30k. Why not look for a guy who makes 60k or more so your life gets a little easier . He'll take a little load off your financial uncertainties
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:22 PM
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Subordinate, subservience? Who said anything about that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:18 PM
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Equal obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:17 PM
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I never said those women are gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:16 PM
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I think that's a bit cynical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:08 PM
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Yeah true . Do you just dislike older men or don't find them attractive enough for your age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:08 PM
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Not all the money . He just makes more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:06 PM
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Fully dependent is bad obviously. What about him paying for most of the stuff while you still earn your wage and are fully independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:33 PM
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So all men who wanna be the provider type in a relationship have mal intent?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:32 PM
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See my last paragraph in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:28 PM
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I don't really get It
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:23 PM
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You don't have to listen to him really. What's he gonna do ? Break up after investing so much money into the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:21 PM
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Is that why you don't ? Or any other reason as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:18 PM
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More power ? In what way ? He's paying for most of the stuff . If anything goes sideways he loses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:14 PM
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Buy your attention? He's just paying for dates and stuff. First 3 dates he pays but you don't force him at all , 4th one you pay . Then the next 3 he pays again . No one is forcing him . Some men are just frivolous like that. So why don't some women want that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:13 PM
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That can happen with any man though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:12 PM
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I think people misinterpreted my question. I'm not saying women in the aforementioned scenarios would completely forego their jobs, titles etc. I'm saying why don't they look for a guy whos making 200k(suppose you make 100k) , who's gonna pay for most of the dates while you pay occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:04 PM
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I think people misinterpreted my question. I'm not saying women in the aforementioned scenarios would completely forego their jobs, titles etc. I'm saying why don't they look for a guy whos making 200k(suppose you make 100k) , who's gonna pay for most of the dates while you pay occasionally. But I see your point as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:03 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:01 PM
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You raise a good point ☝️. How much do you look at personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:53 AM
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So I guess you mean looks is the primary driver ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:48 AM
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She doesn't have a very positive outlook on men it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:16 PM
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Yes. But im asking what women here prefer in a fling like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:34 PM
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Oh ok. Still any bit of belly means hidden penis due to pubic fat pad . You'll have 0.5 inches more or so with a skinny dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:03 PM
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Belly hides penises so you need to be wary . Skinny men are the go if you want size
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:02 PM
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Creaminess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:58 PM
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Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:11 PM
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Yeah but they still think women are "objects" to be used . Most or all . So you should avoid them no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:43 PM
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What kind of fetish though ? All fetishes are a turn off ? And what constitutes cringe for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:38 PM
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What kind of fetish ? What's cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:33 PM
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Cringiness , fetishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:20 PM
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Offensive ? In what way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:07 PM
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What's different about him that makes you give up vs make you wanna try?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:07 PM
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What do you look for in terms of personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 PM
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But that's casual or long term no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 PM
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myself deliberately doing casual or short term is if I was desperately in love and hoping he will change his mind and commit to me Can I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:33 PM
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Ok all men are like this . All men are trash . You shouldn't even get with any man really . If they all think women are objects to be used , why would he see you differently ? Avoid all men !!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:12 PM
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Personality-wise or looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:44 PM
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Maybe . I've only ever had one . But they're more complicated to navigate than hookups even . It can only work if both are truly dissociated and have contrasting personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:20 AM
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I was referencing hook ups and Fwbs here . But I see your understanding too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:13 AM
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I am . Their penis insecurities result in shittier sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:23 AM
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Mods removed it . I did have it before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:25 PM
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Read further
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:28 PM
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Atleast they have fewer wasted encounters , less wasted time due to selfish penis centric partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:19 PM
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Studies (e.g., Garcia et al., 2014; Frederick et al., 2018) consistently show that lesbian women orgasm at a much higher rate per sexual encounter than straight women (often ~75% vs. ~60% for straight women).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:17 PM
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Both things can be true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:48 PM
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Cool .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:29 PM
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Yeah I wonder who that guy is he needs to chill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:14 PM
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Recent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:13 PM
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Subreddit. Cool . This is the kind of ethics you were talking about on PPD I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:13 PM
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That's fair . I ask for your sources . You've created fantasies better than mine so I'm intrigued at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:44 PM
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People really don't read the whole post before commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:11 PM
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Yes they just convert it into bad sex , hence the orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:11 PM
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That's a temporary fix to a permanent problem . How do you know men don't take them anyways? They tell you about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:37 AM
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If there were safe measures for penis enlargement, I assure you men would sign up for that . So many men fuck their legs up too for something like limb lengthening, why would their penises stay absolved ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:19 AM
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Then can disagree all they want . I speak from real life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:38 AM
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Read my post again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:34 AM

Meme
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:23 AM

Ybg don
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:34 PM
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Idk what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:09 AM
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Yeah some of it also falls under how some men tend to believe that "men and women can't be friends" And that " men know other mens' intentions around 'their' women "
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:41 PM
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Yeah I think normal men don't hyper-fixate on that but I don't know. That can also be repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:48 PM
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Thats what I said too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:46 PM
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I would say low self esteem for me . If she's too self depreciative and conscious about her appearance it's a turn off for me . She needs to be confident about her body image . I can only support her to some extent , but the internal work is her job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:43 PM
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But surely some are too difficult to navigate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:41 PM
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Illegal at 16 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:28 PM
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That explains a lot .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:19 PM
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Yes and I got insights
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:58 PM
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I think I have an idea . But regardless of that , women prefer older, men prefer younger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:33 PM
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Only the important stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:29 PM
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Very few young men can offer anything other than really good sex, and a lot of young men aren't taught how to treat a woman. Anyway, there's lots and lots to continue with but I've rambled enough! So you really just agree with me ig .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:15 PM
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Apparently, so are most women's. Since most women prefer older men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:11 PM
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So where do you differ exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:09 PM
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But how do most women internalise this idea too ? That they simultaneously find older men more desirable and younger men "icky"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:07 AM
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Don't know the specifics . Which data are you referring to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:42 AM
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Last point is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:42 AM
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Yeah ig women are judged more for dating much younger . I also see your broader point . Most couples do happen to be within 5 years of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:39 AM
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Might be a sugar baby situation if the man is too young and the woman is quite old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:21 AM
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Not really looking for AMs . Was just curious as to how I would perform
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:43 PM
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I've heard there are apps in your country though. Do they straight away dismiss non native suitors or does it just depend on their profile ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:37 PM
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Yeah I guess your country is very traditional and prefer culturally homogenous dating suitors too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:26 PM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:25 PM
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I like your country's scoring and tier system . It's very rigid and makes a lot of sense . Do they accept non(your country) suitors as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:22 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:44 PM
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Which country ? Link me the scoring system
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:30 PM
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It's a well researched phenomena that women underestimate mens' sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:28 PM
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But I never mentioned it in my OP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:14 PM
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No I said the point about her being small was irrelevant. Has nothing to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:57 PM
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Yeah your anatomy is smaller than average I guess because that's the minimum for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:41 PM
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Maybe you have a really small v canal . So it would make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:39 PM
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False equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:38 PM
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How big do you think inches are ? Some women underestimate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:35 PM
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Smallness has nothing to do with it . Even small women can take any size
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:32 PM
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personally don’t care about his job or income. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:19 PM
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Remarkable character ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:11 PM
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What is it ? If you don't mind sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:01 PM
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somewhere between 3.5-5.5"). Are you sure? votes liberal consistently. ("Apolitical" just means "you wouldn't like the way I view voting so I'm going to hide it", I find.) Is this a dealbreaker for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:01 PM
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No I just want to be the big dick guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:46 PM

Okay but metro co uk isn't a good source just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:15 PM

Yes but attractive is so subjective for women . I've seen women on X pick jack black over supermodel men because of his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:12 PM

But it's more that , women don't even like supermodel type looking men I think . They just don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:09 PM

Yes muscles can be a plus for sure although I'm unsure about the height and hair part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:08 PM

And men like fat women, bald women and everything in between. I see fat women with gym bros all the time Not enough to be a trend that's the whole point .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:05 PM

Maybe . Have you seen OkCupid studies ? The women that are hugely popular among men ? Women were literally invested in walter goggins a few days back .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:04 PM

True but this is what I said to someone else might be applicable here But there's so much variation in what women find attractive and it's usually never the same thing or physical trait . Women like short guys , bald guys , fat guys and everything and everywhere in between . So "caring about looks" would be an oversimplification but I have a new post lined up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:01 PM

True . But men gravitate towards certain physical features for sure enough to cause a trend , while women's preferences are so much more diverse . So it's not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:01 PM

But there's so much variation in what women find attractive and it's usually never the same thing or physical trait . Women like short guys , bald guys , fat guys and everything and everywhere in between . So "caring about looks" would be an oversimplification but I have a new post lined up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:57 PM
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Yes big dicks are more attractive. No I didn't read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:55 PM

Interesting study . I wonder if it's replicated throughout the world as well or its limited by the sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:53 PM

True . Blackpill has fooled a lot of men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:52 PM
1

There are clear indicators though . Attraction is varied but some things remain constant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:28 PM
1

It's only an estimate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:16 PM
1

You don't think physical parameters matter at all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:11 PM
1

Some things are applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:38 AM
2

And very few men are sought after to begin with As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:30 AM
1

You think a mans dating succes doesn't hinge upon any of the factors I've listed ? Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:15 AM
1

Don't know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:00 AM
1

Yeah like if you had to . Personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:56 AM
2

That's fair . What about theoretically?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:52 AM
3

Leave the date ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:14 AM
8

Such a weird incels fantasy . Rarely see this IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:48 AM
2

Who is Bella ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:02 PM
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Yeah so you don't know the lives of these men . So you're bluepilled . My best friend was in the escort service. He used to have a life very much comparable to good looking models
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:55 AM
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Bigger than 7.5 length . But girth is key . My estimates say 5-.5.5 is minimum for supermodel good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:51 AM
-1

Neither am I. I've had good experiences too . But I have had some other experiences which lead me to believe that having a big dick is as good as being a supermodel to women but nobody else seems to share that perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:48 AM
0

Are you a woman ? Don't let social media fool you. This bullshit doesn't apply in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:40 AM
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Because hypocrisy . Plus they think it's harmless and deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:39 AM
3

Yeah brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:36 AM
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They only talk about penis insufficiencies in womens circles. Never heard women talking about this in front of men . But obviously size matters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:14 AM

Only on reddit will women deny that size matters. But im glad some subreddits are holding out for the truth still among the stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:43 AM
1

Free use kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:52 PM
1

Bang myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:38 AM
1

That's true . But I think bigger is better unless he has a horse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:34 PM
2

"more attractive" in what sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:31 PM
1

Saw it on qoves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:55 PM
2

There was a study somewhere comparing face versus body in terms of heterosexual attraction for women and 75% of women said face was critical and body was unimportant. By body you mean gym dudes right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:24 PM
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If plastic heartless golddigger is a "high value woman" to you sure money is the best. I've only heard that in manosphere and redpill circles really . Beauty is in the face Yeah face is everything for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:12 PM
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Money by itself as an entity isn't attractive to me . Hedge fund babies also have money does that alone make them "attractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:09 PM
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If that was true then how do all the busty women get thirsted over and they can make OF accounts for millions of men ? Same with endowed men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:07 AM
1

Peace and consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:11 AM
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Discussion leading to an agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:10 AM
1

What do they say ? You're being very accusatory here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:22 PM
1

No incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:54 PM
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We have to account for conditions like vaginismus so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:45 PM
1

That's true. But then again most men are hostile to the top earners , not the bottom 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:36 PM
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Maybe they're jealous of the women who make good money and the ease of it . Those men are responsible for thier deeds , women are just being capitalistic in this world that would force anyone to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:04 PM
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Am I wrong though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:30 PM
1

It's over
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:30 PM
1

6-8 4.8-5.3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:22 PM
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No those are accusatory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:00 PM
1

How can you virtually punch someone 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:37 PM
1

Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:24 PM
1

👎👎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:23 PM
0

👎👎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:23 PM
1

👎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:22 PM
1

/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:17 PM
1

Right size
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:09 PM
1

Asking thoughts on those studies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:09 PM
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Length - 6-8 according to research Girth - 4.8-5.3 according to ese
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:04 PM
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What I gathered, is that women prefer above average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:44 PM
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I'm looking for the TRUTH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:42 PM
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False equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:41 PM
-1

Discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:08 PM
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If it's the right one then why not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:07 PM
-1

👎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:07 PM
0

Real life women in girls talks talk about it secretly I think . I've eavesdroped
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:06 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:06 PM
2

Unless it's above average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:09 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:08 PM
2

Truthful*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:07 PM
1

Irrelevant to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:04 PM
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Labia is irrelevant to sex . Penis size can be very important
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:52 PM
-5

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:33 PM
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I know the world would be easier if we could predict what everyone we meet wants. This is by far the most frustrating part I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:32 PM
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No . But atleast some will admit to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:13 PM
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That's true . But then why does research point towards a certain number ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:42 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:36 AM
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I have it but women dismiss the source as fallacious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:25 AM
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For there to be one true consensus or atleast one that points towards it (most women prefer 6-8)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:22 AM
1

I have research too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:21 AM
2

I have seen surveys too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:21 AM
-1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:20 AM
0

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:11 AM
1

As in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:04 AM
-2

To find the consensus regarding
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:03 AM
-7

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:59 AM
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You mean research right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:58 AM
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Obviously I don't believe in myths . My whole point is there's an "ideal" size for women , all else the same . Other things matter as well in bed but an endowed penis is also a huge plus point correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:58 AM
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Just for science .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:56 AM
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Would I be wrong/incorrect if I said most preferred 6-8 according to research and IRL ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:44 AM
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I think the discrepancy for me comes when research and real life says something else entirely . Like what are men supposed to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:41 AM
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Yes , purchasing power in mind . I get it if you're referring to poc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:32 PM
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I do just fine thank you for your concern . It seems IRL women are much more laid back and chill comapred to the zealots on reddit . Morally incriminating me online doesn't seem to have the same effects IRL I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:59 PM
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Sure . Thank you !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:01 PM
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For you ? Yes Who says I want to date you or any woman on PPD ? It was just a question to see if there are matched compatibilities or not . I don't do well with non critical thinkers anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:50 AM
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This is based on the assumption that all attractive women bad . Not true obviously . They aren't mutually exclusive traits you know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:36 AM
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That's why I used to pay especially to POC . But now I know the solution is to abandon these restaurants and start a movement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:32 AM
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Well you are calling me an asshole . No need to sidestep what you've quoted in your own response . And why do you assume women not wanting to date me for something as dumb as this would be important to me ? If she doesn't see common sense the same as me , we are already not compatible. But if I were to go to a regular restaurant, I'd tip a minimum of 20% because, i can want and try to change things all I'd like but that doesn't change the fact that the current system requires tips Don't go to su…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:44 AM
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So instead of questioning the capitalistic structure that offloads wages to customers instead of businesses you double down on calling strangers online from a different country assholes because they don't feel like perpetuating this shitty and exploitative culture that only keeps the status quo in place ? Guilt tripping only works on emotional fragile fools who lack critical thinking skills . Go try it on somebody else . The issue is tipping culture is so culturally ingrained in ignorant America…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:37 AM
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I get where you're coming from, but here's the thing , if the business model relies on exploiting workers and shifting their pay responsibility to customers, then it's a flawed model to begin with. There are plenty of successful restaurants with fair wages for staff that don’t rely on tips to make it work. The issue isn’t whether prices go up, its whether workers get paid fairly for their time without being at the mercy of the customer’s mood or generosity. Businesses should be responsible for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:00 AM
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Do Americans just take every cultural norm at face value or something ? Never question it ? Theres so many fucked up things about the "American culture" that you guys digest every day without thinking about it . Why is healthcare so expensive? Why are guns more readily available than books,baby formulae and mental health care?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:49 AM
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Is being a server listed as a crowdfunded job anywhere in the public database? If it is , then I concede I'm wrong . Just because something is the norm , does it mean we shouldn't question it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:44 AM
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I tip black servers yes . I definitely tip POC servers whenever possible . We're in it together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:43 AM
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You can believe whatever you want to . But that isn't true . But yes, I don't feel like I belong here. But that will be corrected soon anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:48 PM
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Then what did you mean by your comment there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:37 PM
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I don't date outside of my community usually unless its from dating apps. then why are they complaining about you not tipping? They aren't It isn't about economy here or there, but about not feeling welcomed especially while you are looking down on those you want to welcome you. It feels like sour grapes. Who do you think has laid out the red carpet for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:18 PM
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It's just to put things into perspective. Are we really debating who has a better quality/opportunities in life when comparing the two ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:12 PM
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The business can do that without hiking prices .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:40 PM
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What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:17 PM

We were circling around that discussion anyways . I did not ask her out of the blue . That would be weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:09 PM

I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM

My own experiences I meant . I asked them to guess mine they underselled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:04 PM

I believe that you top out at 6 . But as you said , not the same for all women . Maybe others can take more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:03 PM
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So instead of mobilising and fighting against that , why must people insist on exploiting the working even further ? Doesnt make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:01 PM

Whats there not to believe ? What did I dismiss?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:59 PM
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For money and education. I'll move out soon so you needn't worey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:58 PM
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Because it's annoying that people think I'M THE WRONG ONE HERE . Because curious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:57 PM

Do you really know what 6 looks like ? Some women underestimate from my own anecdotal experiences .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:56 PM

I believe both . As long as huge means 9+
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:53 PM
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Why not start a movement? How long will you allow the capitalist structure to be in place here? Does this cycle never end ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:53 PM
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No I don't care . Plus I manage to convince them of my idealogy anyways because they're the ones who start pestering me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:52 PM
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Yeah instead of saving for my future , I should feed into this broken system . Perpetual self feeding quicksand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:48 PM
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Why don't Americans make it so that tipping becomes a luxury not an absolute requirement? Not trying to change your mind or convince you , it absolutely stumps me here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:44 PM

Thats true . But small boobs will provide men with the same orgasm as one from a bustier one . Women can have 4 different orgasms from a well endowed penis. It really isn't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:42 PM
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I'm simply trying to explain my view since somebody asked why I would do so . I have 0 inclinations to make women on reddit more attracted to me for something as stupid as tipping culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:41 PM

I think that makes sense . But some men are genuinely attracted to small boobs, so let's not take away the essence from that . Because it's purely a visual arousal body accessory more than anything else . But women are not attracted to small dicks in the same way because small dicks simply pose a functional issue , not a visual one alone. And as always , opinions on reddit ≠ opinions I'm real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:40 PM
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Well I've paid so far not out of self checking morality , but due to coerced guilt. western women? Define "western"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:34 PM
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Because of the struggles of people I've seen there obviously. I plan on expanding it once I have enough capital
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:27 PM
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Who says I'm in India now ? Did I say that anywhere ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:51 PM
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Well you know the answer . So you're asking a rhetorical question disguised as concern trolling or sealioning or both . I know enough Americans on the internet to gauge when that's happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:49 PM
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The person I'm replying to us using ad hominems against me the entire time . I don't care about your fragile conscience here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:48 PM
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If you look back to what I've first asked , I never asked you to reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:47 PM
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What would you want me to answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:46 PM
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I have been guilt tripped enough time to tip now . I just won't do it anymore . 20% of the total bill for walking 20 metres in total . Fucking hell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:45 PM
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Yes because not tipping = being an asshole to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:44 PM
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Well people in my country just don't tip at all . None of what you're saying adds up at all .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:44 PM
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Well I'm not dining out every week am I ? I only got out for special occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:42 PM
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Well I will just not listen to your advice . It's not my fault americans are blind to the global wealth Inequality indicators
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:42 PM
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Well I am guilt tripped by my friends IRL to tip every time. Next time I'm going to stand up to my beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:40 PM
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"political science"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:36 PM
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Is serving tables the only way of making a side income in the US ? Why is the capitalist structure in your country the average working mans fault ? Why don't you unionise , vote for better leaders or have better fallback options for people to utilise instead of guilt tripping non willing participants to feed into your bullshit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:35 PM
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Why is it being an "asshole"? You can leave it at , " are incompatible". Just because I don't follow into the herd mentality bias , doesn't mean I'm an "asshole". Such an American thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:31 PM
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Well I'm not motivated by in group biases or tribalism primarily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:29 PM
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Well he/she doesn't have to , since I already am . But if he was to ask , I wouldnt say no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:08 PM
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Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:07 PM
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As a toast to you , will go out to dine and not tip this time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:07 PM
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But those systems ARE in place if they happen to falter .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:06 PM
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I only eat out rarely . Like twice a month at most . Mainly because of the tipping culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:05 PM
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No rebuttal just ad hominem . I think you might just have been a server in the past , hence why you're taking this to heart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:04 PM
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Well more restaurants should just have a self service option then . You asked me what's the criteria between the two geopolitical regions , I gave it to you .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:03 PM
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Might as well not go out at all then .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:02 PM
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Purchasing power , social safety nets , social welfare systems .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:57 PM
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Well I'm not of the "community" around me . People aren't exactly welcoming to people who don't look like them . And your perspective is so american centred it's actually funny . You really think an average person in the us has worse social welfare systems to fall back into than someone in Africa or war torn countries ? they are deliberately paid less with the understanding that they will be tipped Instead of pushing back against that , you want to further exploit the worker class . So ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:55 PM
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I donate my monthly income to ngos back in my country . I'm already on a net negative . When I make more money , I'll donate more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:41 PM
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What would that have to do with anything? You're being a classist here no? Just because I don't agree with the asinine tipping culture in the us doesn't make me the immoral one . You guys will do anything other than to vote for better leaders or unionise or both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:41 PM
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have better social safety nets , social welfare systems , higher levels of education also .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:39 PM
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It comes across as an asshole move and unapologetically classist. Why do you assume every person who intends to dine outside is better off in life than the server serving him food ? And even if I am , I don't nearly make enough to have decent savings . If you have such a big problem with hourly wages , wouldn't it be more prudent to unionise or something? Instead of making the commonfolk even poorer and the corporate structure richer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:38 PM
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I guess I just haven't been raised to believe that I have to tip every server who has ever served me food . trying to find ways to get out of tipping makes you look petty and cheap. Well I am certainly am in certain aspects of life .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:35 PM
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In countries where tipping culture is the norm, they often tend to make way more than the median income of the world , have better social safety nets , social welfare systems , higher levels of education also . But most countries in the world calm way short of that. And situations in some countries are incredibly dire . So I don't think it's a good use of my money to tip someone who's already rich on a global scale . My money would be better spent elsewhere. Not trying to take away your point . …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:25 PM
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What if I had another logic? Not that alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:13 PM
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I guess it's something I'll have to clarify before going on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:09 PM
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Because I want to eat outside ? And so does my date I assume . If she doesn't agree with my rationale no worries, we're not compatible. But this isn't something I'm fluid on. Tipping culture in some areas is insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:05 PM
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It isn't about that . It's about wealth Inequality for me . Why should I tip my money to a well above average earner(in terms of global median income) rather than to UNICEF to donate it to poor children in Africa , or war torn countries in the middle east .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:58 AM

Tinder does not equate to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:54 AM

I don't believe they are . Women find dad bods attractive, fat guys attractive, small dicks attractive, blubber jawlines attractive, short men attractive. Pretty much every combination of looks in men is desirable to women . It's a false equivalency to state that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:32 AM
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Why do they do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:23 AM

It's so fucking frustrating that women even attempt to deny this. But good work brother your work is better than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:44 AM
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That looks matter so much more than bluepill thinks along with a lot of other physical qualities. But I'm unsure how exactly bluepill is split between these two
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:01 PM
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I think some of them are brutally honest when they reject men . Plus I'm in favor of not letting the opposite persons self esteem drop by keeping the truth to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:29 AM
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What isn't logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:19 PM
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From a very young age men are exposed to the fact that bigger is better . It's hardwired in our brains and any other facts break the dissonance. Even if a woman tells me my size is perfect, porn and social media has made it impossible for me to believe that . I have watched too much well endowed pron for my own good . I don't think a penis is all you can bring to the bed . Obviously there are other attractive qualities that will please a woman . But I still vehemently believe that if ALL ELSE WA…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:47 PM
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Because women need to admit it to men that they're in fact more desirable to women because that's just the FACT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:28 PM
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In what way do "men support other men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:36 PM
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From a very young age men are exposed to the fact that bigger is better . It's hardwired in our brains and any other facts break the dissonance. Even if a woman tells me my size is perfect, porn and social media has made it impossible for me to believe that . I have watched too much well endowed pron for my own good . I don't think a penis is all you can bring to the bed . Obviously there are other attractive qualities that will please a woman . But I still vehemently believe that if ALL ELSE WA…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:08 PM
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Maybe . Me 🤝🤝 women It's better to be red killed about size
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:48 PM
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What about ask women or askwomen over 30? Are they toxic too? They're the REAL woman based subs on here with no male interference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:39 PM
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Well I'm not. Test me for misogyny 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:33 PM
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I'm not misogynistic. I just read the truth between all the concealed layers which no one else can. I'm a "TRUTHER"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:31 PM
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Because like I said fda has no pretences of hiding their intentions to protects men's feelings . They'll be straight shooters not bullshitting around what they need . While awnc is a performative sub. It pretends to care about social and racial issues unless you're of a race they do not like . So naturally fds users will be much more upfront about their desires and intentions about everything while women on awnc will just lie to your face to uphold the "women are wonderful effect". They're purel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:30 PM
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Nothing Okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:26 PM
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I have an issue with all of them . Fds is just overtly racist . I expect it from those likes. The virtue signalling idiots(in awns) are much more subtle and implicit in their biases. Someone from fds will strike me in a way I see coming. Askwomennocensor has the kind of cunning women who will just stab you in the back while masquerading around as proponents of feminism and egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:23 PM
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😂😂😂😂. I do not take a sub seriously which promotes racial profiling of my race of people casually . Fuck that sub . I take the opinions from that sub in the same breath as MGTOW sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:18 PM
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Check out female dating strategy or askwomenover30 or askwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:07 PM
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Well boobs are fully discernible. Dicks are not . If they were we'd have a new subset for high value men and the brutal truth would be outed as to how important dicks really are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:57 PM
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Yes the advice is all bad .. But they're brutally honest about their body standards which I appreciate They won't Gaslight us into thinking they prefer "unconventional" shit in men because they don't . Bigger penises are just more desirable to women and at least they're very honest about that . Women here lie because they're scared of offending men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:51 PM
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There are recorded cases . Cervical orgasms are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:38 PM
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As evidenced by my post , no . Plus a woman actually agreed with me that a big dick converted her into a size queens. Women won't admit that stuff on neutral subreddits though. Check out female dating strategy or askwomenover30 or askwomen. They aren't beating around the bush unlike women here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:35 PM
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No . Have a nice day ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:01 PM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:00 PM
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That bigger is better , curvature is better, girth should be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:59 PM
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Yeah somehow most men don't have a curvature in their penises .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:57 PM
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Rest assured
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:43 PM
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Then why feed into it ? If you were. 100% certain , scoff and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:40 PM
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Then why feed into it ? If you were. 100% certain , scoff and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:40 PM
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What research have you cited ? None I have in my previous posts .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:26 PM
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Your beliefs are not even remotely grounded in reality. Your argument is just " trust me bro . Im a woman who speaks for herself and nobody else but I'll project my opinions to all women ." All research is vehemently against you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:24 PM
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Good to know . Finally women are agreeing with my posts here !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:17 PM
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Source for your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:56 AM
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You're right I possess something better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:53 AM
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What is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:52 AM
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Not for all . "Some"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:50 AM
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Not for all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:50 AM
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Do you have anything to contribute to the discussion at all ? Challenge any of my points?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:42 AM
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The truth and not some bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:39 AM
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Who says I will listen to him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:24 AM
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Not giant just above average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:14 AM
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agree with you here, Finally ! Thank you 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:08 AM
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Just having a discussion that's all 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:59 AM
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Will need to do more research and move on from my penis 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:59 AM
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NSFW Well I do all the rest of the shenanigans in bed just fine. But it's frustrating that I can't make women finish from piv alone since I'm only slightly above average . If I I had a bigger one they would be orgasming all the time .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:53 AM
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Ik just trying my best from all the knowledge I've seen on the subject 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:50 AM
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I'm listening 🎧👂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:49 AM
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What did I ignore ? I considered it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:44 AM
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Research and women told me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:43 AM
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What about "a spot" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:43 AM
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It's easier with more endowed men that's all I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:42 AM
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What ? But I'm the OP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:36 AM
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I don't get why they orgasm from it then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:35 AM
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What about "a spot" orgasm and cervical orgasms? They can only be achieved by more well endowed men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:30 AM
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You aren't obviously measuring dicks when you sleep with men , so it's fair to assume you're just guessing the size that would be the "maximum" for you . Also even though the 9 inch guy hurt, he was still probably more enjoyable than a smaller one as you continue to slept with him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:29 AM
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If you have a fight to pick with women so be it. No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:25 AM
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Seems the guy was really bad in bed that's why it sucked I'm sorry for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:17 AM
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Obviously I meant above average like 6-8 . Okay 🆗👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:10 AM
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Okay Just a trend I was highlighting 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:07 AM
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Google it. Plus a spot is reserved for bigger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:05 AM
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My point is , " bigger is better" ( upto 8). Yeah what you said Is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:05 AM
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Seems we should just trust the research on it then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:59 AM
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Yeah but minimum 6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:57 AM
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What? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:55 AM
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Obviously. A means anterior fornix which can only be reached by 6 plus inches
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:53 AM
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What about "a spot" O's? And if hitting the cervix is bad why do women orgasm from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:52 AM
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so in fairness to the women who actually believe that "it doesn't matter" , they just might have never been with a bigger dude .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:48 AM
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Ok. But my point stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:48 AM
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A spot , Cervical orgams
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:42 AM
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Hi . What do you think about my last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:41 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:02 AM
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When will you realise that youre a small minority of women that do not care. Most women do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:53 AM
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Because it's simply untrue that it doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:24 AM
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Research and real life as well then. Look at street interviews . I've also personally interviewed so many women btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:24 AM
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So that we have a healthy discussion but on the grounds of research and the truth/reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:11 AM
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Porn isn't my source check the op
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:10 AM
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Because of research and real life both . Watch what women do and act in real life , not what they say in reddit for karma systems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:53 AM
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I think as a general rule , anyone who sleeps around is shamed by society and nobody is really exempt. Yes women receive the brunt of the shaming but it exists for men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:13 AM
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Ad hominem won't get you anywhere . So far nobody has been able to refute my points and research
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:55 AM
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I guess so Im not active there though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:54 AM
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Not my best argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:23 AM
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Yeah on reddit at least
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:19 AM
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No karma system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:18 AM
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Ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:16 AM

There are more bad things in the world than good things . Relationships are overrated and over represented in the media . We need to wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:43 PM
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Yeah in no way did I claim ALL women want big dicks. I just said most do . If you don't you're in the minority . That's literally all I've tried to say with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:40 PM
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No you just have to realise you're in the minority here for your "AVERAGE" preference
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:23 PM
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You guys just have phantom thoughts or something. I've always vehemently agreed with everyone woman who affirmed the fact that women like larger penises. Because it's rare to see common sense in that department here even when presented with facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:22 PM
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Ok so what do you really believe about size ? I'll take your word for it at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:27 PM
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Brody and costa and herbenick is the one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:23 PM
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If there's decent research behind it why not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:23 PM
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Well I came back with different research. I have to keep asking ai for different studies because women aren't listening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:21 PM
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So I'm wrong for looking at research ? Im a misogynistic if I trust research about women ? What are you gonna say next ? Women don't care about physical qualities at all ? Women don't care about height looks nothing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:20 PM
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I get where you’re coming from . But I think some research you're dismissing too quickly. Those studies like Mautz (2013) and Prause (2015) are actually well-regarded. Just because they’re repeated a lot doesn’t mean they’re invalid. And they’re not the only ones—Brody & Costa (2008), Herbenick (2014)—they also suggest girth can play a role in pleasure, especially for vaginal orgasms. Also, flaccid size isn’t the same as erect, and visual preferences don’t always match what feels good in bed. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:11 PM
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And that just shows how you guys deal with the world (misogyny) Why the fuck do women here assume a man is misogynistic because he asks a question ? Im genuinely confused about this . I have research behind me while you soak from feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:00 PM
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I've already replied to you before then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:59 PM
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Then why does research overwhelmingly point to a certain desirable size ? Are they lying to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:25 PM
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Difference of an inch can give women vaginal orgasms potentially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:21 PM
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What about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:10 PM
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I've also asked women seperately IRL and they all say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:47 PM
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I've even watched street interviews where they asked women what sizes they prefer, and if I'm being honest , yes some women do seem to answer that it doesn't really matter to them but all others say that bigger is better . But even that can be explained by the fact that they might not be fully honest on camera and might be scared of the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:41 PM
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I've pointed that out look at my op
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:36 PM
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What do I care what I SOUND like Believe whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:36 PM
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I'll continue my research 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:30 PM
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So what should I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:28 PM
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though I’m not sure it’s 6-8 inches) but Don't worry about the range I have research behind me . As for the rest , Im saying that on the basis of answers I've read from women on forums like quora and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 PM
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True 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:17 PM
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I've read about it on quora where women are more honest . And also on other forums . Just accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:17 PM
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I've asked chatgpt , deepseek and grok about it . " You're right that men, generally, can be more direct or open about their preferences when it comes to physical traits like breasts or buttocks. But for many women, there might be a few reasons why they may not express their preferences as openly: Social Norms and Stigma: Society often expects women to be more reserved about discussing physical preferences, especially when it comes to men. There's sometimes a cultural pressure for women to focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:16 PM
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I've asked chatgpt , deepseek and grok about it . " You're right that men, generally, can be more direct or open about their preferences when it comes to physical traits like breasts or buttocks. But for many women, there might be a few reasons why they may not express their preferences as openly: Social Norms and Stigma: Society often expects women to be more reserved about discussing physical preferences, especially when it comes to men. There's sometimes a cultural pressure for women to focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:16 PM
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I've seen them take it so easily in all kinds of porn . Obviously not only because of porn brain. But it's not just about how a big dick feels. It's about the visuals too . Women will get wet just looking at one in person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:12 PM
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I've linked the name of the articles in op
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:11 PM
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Most men are Most women aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
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That's true . Women who like big dicks just go and fuck them while ignoring such questions online . I didn't think of that your perspective has been insightful to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:07 PM
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Of course.. But most women prefer between 6-8 as evidenced by research
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:06 PM
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Well they should be . If men are honest and brutal , women should have the agency too. But it seems it's because of male pushback that women don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:05 PM
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An inch difference is huge . It could mean the difference between a vaginal orgasm or no vaginal orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:29 PM
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What about them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:24 PM
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Man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:15 PM
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Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:15 PM
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6 simply isn't average in the world . It's closer to 5 than 6 . 6 inches is top 30% of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:15 PM
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That's true ! 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:41 PM
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Average dick isn't 6 💀. But even that depends what country you're in . Clearly anyone can get into a relationship regardless of physical qualities , but we're talking about what's ATTRACTIVE here .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:36 PM
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But the biggest if them all is the discrepancy I seen regarding penis size on here and in real life . Even other things are debated here . A lot of women say they're attracted to short men and dad bods , and while individual cases may exist , I don't think it's a widespread trend of phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:28 PM
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Ok 👍 I hear you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:25 PM
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That's cool. Im talking strictly on the basis of research
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:15 PM
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Good insight . I don't believe women like monster dicks either they look painful . But the goldilocks size exists (6-8)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:12 PM
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What reason would we have to lie anonymously on reddit about our preferences? For karma obviously? Ive never insinuated that women want giant dicks . But research does say women prefer between 6 and 9 inches and thats not even up for debate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:07 PM
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Who said it's dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:03 AM
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So I'm right yet you were calling me crazy . Maybe read what I've written first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 AM
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Well I'm well aware of that so why did you reply at all ? I've consistently claimed that women like between 6.5-9 inches over a 5 incher .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:51 AM
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Even when women admit to liking big ones they're not taking accountability here 🤣🤣🤣. Wtf is going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:25 AM
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But men aren't the ones looking to have sex with 6" men constantly that's women. Plus the most common porn watched by women is big dick porn too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:49 AM
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So you admit to liking bigger ones but still stick with this bs Men are way more obsessed with penis size than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:40 AM
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Most women severely underestimate sizes . So for you 5 maybe 6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:39 AM
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MOST
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:37 AM
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Because I'm shocked people are disagreeing when presented with facts still
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:12 PM
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Ummm idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:30 PM
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I’m not saying size DOES NOT matter. It does. But not NEARLY to the extent that men think it does. So why are we really stuck here ? Both of us agree size matters to an extent . Bigger is better upto an extent . Is this good?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:51 PM
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What part do you disagree with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:39 PM
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What about all the research I've stated ? No one is agreeing with it which is shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:05 PM
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That's a fair take also
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:01 PM
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Yeah it's kinda cringe I would never do it . But I get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:54 PM
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Because a faceless dick is unattractive. But a good looking guy with a big one would elicit a different reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:22 PM
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I've already linked research to prove my statements. Go through them . Other women care too they just don't admit it here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:02 PM
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Yeah between 6-7 inches is ideal for women but even somewhat bigger(7-8) is much more preferable than a 5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:05 PM
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According to research that's the ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:52 PM
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That's Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:36 PM
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What a weird fucking thing to assume 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:28 PM
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If you don't mind , can I DM you regarding something or should I ask here itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:22 PM
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As in , have you pulled out 6 on a scale and checked ? Because if no then you don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:17 PM
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I've already linked relevant research about that as well in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:16 PM
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Hence they're attracted to bigger ones within means
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:14 PM
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Do you really know what 6 inches is ? Because girl inches is a thing for a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:12 PM
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Yeah more than 9 is not ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:34 PM
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No it isn't that's your interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:24 PM
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That's great . But when we're talking about facts and objective stuff , we need to look at data and facts . Which is what I'm doing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:18 PM
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I value the TRUTH over feelings . Which means research and data . Women online can just flat out lie . Research doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:00 PM
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More objective research 👇 Penis size influences male attractiveness and is as important as height Brian Mautz et al. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS), 2013 Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models Nicole Prause, James Pfaus, Geoffrey Miller PLOS ONE, 2015 Women rank men's penises - revealing what they find most attractive and what tempt them to cheat Bad Girls Bible Survey, 2024 (Reported by The Sun) Size does matter: Women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:50 PM
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Since people are asking for my source Penis size influences male attractiveness and is as important as height Brian Mautz et al. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS), 2013 Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models Nicole Prause, James Pfaus, Geoffrey Miller PLOS ONE, 2015 Women rank men's penises - revealing what they find most attractive and what tempt them to cheat Bad Girls Bible Survey, 2024 (Reported by The Sun) Size does mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:48 PM
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**Penis size influences male attractiveness and is as important as height Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models Women rank men's penises - revealing what they find most attractive and what tempt them to cheat Size does matter: Women find large penises more attractive Women Find Men With Bigger Penises More Attractive, Study Shows Science: Women Prefer Larger Penises Study Reveals the Perfect Penis Size, According to Women We Now Know Women Pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:47 PM
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Chatgpt is coded on 570Gb of data . It knows more than you or anyone here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:44 PM
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Why do you keep denying the reality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:41 PM
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Ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:24 PM
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The Double Standard in Advice For Big Dicks: - "Use more lube!" - "Try different positions!" - "Go slower, warm up more!" - "Communicate with him!" - Effort is encouraged. Women will bend over backwards (literally) to make it work because big is seen as inherently valuable. For Small Dicks: - "Just leave if you’re not satisfied." - "Maybe you’re not compatible." - "Have you tried... accepting it?" - Effort is dismissed. The assumption is that small = unfixable, so why bother trying? Why This Hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:24 PM
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Good for you and that's the way it work for you. Other women operate differently as indicated by the research I've stated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:21 PM
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Women here are probably asexual, low libido or don't know their bodies well enough . Not my issue . Do your research as I have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:18 PM
-1

As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:16 PM
0

Maybe for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:13 PM
2

99% of a woman’s pleasure occurs in her brain before penetration even happens Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:08 PM
2

What AI says about size preferences 👇 You're hitting on a core inconsistency, and it's completely valid to call it out. The cognitive dissonance is real: if size enhances pleasure in casual encounters, why would that preference magically disappear in long-term relationships? It doesn’t—but the reason women (and society) downplay it in committed relationships is more nuanced than pure hypocrisy. Let’s break it down honestly: 1. The Uncomfortable Truth About Long-Term vs. Short-Term Short-term: Ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:02 PM
1

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:06 PM
1

Women can accomodate upto 8 inches when fully aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:47 AM
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You know what was funny ? They ended up underestimating the sizes that were desirable to them . They were given 3d models to work with . So they actually prefer well above average . Just girl inches makes them think it's "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:46 AM
-1

Yeah research is wrong , data is wrong, studies shouldn't be conducted at all. We should just trust opinions and anecdotes right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:44 AM
0

Look at ncbi.nlm research. All of them concur that women like above average(7-8 in).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:37 AM
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Actually never heard of vaginal depth being measured. It's just taken to be 4 inches but we don't know if true for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:32 AM
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Isn’t it interesting that the average penis size is 4.5”? Depends actually. Some countries average more others less. I read research somewhere that the average penis size has actually increased since 1990 . Make of it what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:28 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:28 AM
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You haven't provided me with any concrete proof yet , and you've made this post with your chest as sure as hell about whatever you've said. You can make posts about men In general sure , but if you don't have specifics for the loaded post that you've made , it can be a disaster . I've already had to shut off a moron who said "blacks have lower IQ because of genetics" or something stupid like that . You've left the pot brewing for nothing good to come
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:46 PM
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I think op just wanted to shit on immigrant men and this is turning into a far right echo chamber here pretty fast . Also the women part was just a red herring and she has swerved/skirted the line well to avoid it being a "race" first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:38 PM
0

What is a taqiyya
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:17 PM
0

Is twitter the best representation of the general and public consensus out there ?🤔 If I was to go off twitter , I would legitimately believe that most people in the world are racist to my ethnicity, but the real world doesn't reflect that . X is built on controversial and weird takes for clicks and X algorithm pushes it everywhere with 0 moderation because it fetches views. If you go off of twitter , you have a feeble argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:56 PM
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OP wants it to be apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:50 PM
-1

I don't possess the specifics. But not as prevalent as OP is claiming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:50 PM
2

Your word against mine then unless you have proof to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:22 PM
2

Nobody's saying those men can't make problematic statements at all , but you're saying 90% of those are made by men from those countries alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:24 PM
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I assume she's talking about problematic and traditional dating rhetoric. As far as I know I haven't made any of those points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:19 PM
0

Well Ive already told you that it's been a mixed bag and your heavily influenced by biases here unless you can back it up by proof or screenshots
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:37 PM
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Not been my experience. It's a mixed bag
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:30 PM
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How do you know they're all from there and all of them make such points though? You don't have any sources
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:25 PM
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Plenty of problematic people "convert" to Islam after getting mainstream and controversial like sneako and tate . Muslims have a strong sense of religious tribalism , where they defend all/any actions/statements made by fellow muslims . Not all obviously , but it's something problematic that I've noticed from them . And those guys know that muslims can and will bat for them if needed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:23 PM
5

Plenty of Western men are in pill spaces as well. On what basis are you claiming this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:17 PM
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That's a very small minority of Muslim men wanting Sharia law if that's what you're implying here , especially in a country thats not islamic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:14 PM
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Selection bias and sample bias . All of what you've said is done by Western men/women as well . The only thing I can agree with is the virginity part . Western men are more liberal regarding that. Also project 2025 was a brainchild of a western man too . Some Christian men also talk about repeating voting rights and the 19th amendment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:10 PM
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Physical attraction isn’t the foundation, but it is the doorway. Without it, most relationships don’t even get off the ground. Yeah, looks fade—but connection grows. Attraction is the spark, not the whole fire, but without the spark, you’re just forcing something that was never there. That’s not deep—it’s denial. But if it works for you that's also great 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:55 PM
1

So passport bro right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:29 PM
2

Yeah same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:02 PM
2

As in mutual physical attraction is important for it to last long
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:50 PM
2

Well is like to improve myself physically first . I want my partner to be enthusiastic about me physically too . It's important that mutual physical attraction exists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:39 PM
2

So physical compatibility is ideal and a must I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:22 PM
2

For some it does , but it's mostly personality that makes a man attractive to women i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:20 PM
2

Only religious women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:16 PM
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Looks open the door , personality makes you stay kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:14 PM
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Yeah thanks . It gives hope for the average man . I do believe a lot of men would instantly improve their appeal if they did some self care and looked after such details . There's a lot of good looking men hiding in a neglected , dishevelled exterior because they can't be bothered to improve themselves to level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:12 PM
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Does he have to be good looking or does average with great sense of grooming does it for you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:06 PM
1

mail order route. Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:03 PM
2

That doesn’t make them compatible with me. So does it work out for you or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:02 PM
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Some women just want a man who would make a good father and they know they’ll eventually stop having much sex I think that tracks and is the only thing that would make sense as to why they feel that way . I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone who I wasn't attracted to , and I was a bit shocked to see this rhetoric online where women said they actively chose this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:32 AM
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Understandable. There's no amount of personality/money that would make up for it right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:22 AM
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I was always attracted to women between 28-40 even when I was 18. Never found women under 20 appealing for any reason .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:08 PM
1

Femcel aah post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:07 PM
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😅😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:06 PM
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You have to look for the controversial answers in this post to really get an accurate insight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:25 AM
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You have to remember most studies do show women prefer between 6-9 inches . What women say on the internet doesn't mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:37 AM
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It matters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:13 AM
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Fr?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:32 PM
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Biology influences behavior, sure, but it doesn’t dictate it. If testosterone were the sole factor, we’d expect zero women to make the first move—yet plenty do. Social norms shape behavior just as much as biology, and those norms can evolve as we have seen throughout history .If we can challenge outdated roles in work, education, and leadership, why act like dating is the one area where we’re stuck following a script from nature like cavemen?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:10 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:51 AM
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I can attest to the fact that even I don't find most women I approach all that interesting after I've talked to them . It's a fleeting moment of appreciation for their demeanor, style, confidence and fashion . Even if they're really pretty , I can't bother to remember the details . Most people are uninteresting to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:13 PM
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Come on now, biology isn’t a script we have to follow word for word. Sure, sperm chase the egg, but that doesn’t mean human social dynamics have to be stuck in caveman mode forever. If we went by pure biology, we’d still be living in caves, solving disputes with clubs, and picking mates based on who could throw a rock the farthest. Humans evolved beyond instinct—we build societies, create technology, and challenge outdated norms. Just because something had a function in the past doesn’t mean we …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:02 PM
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Women can't/won't do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:20 PM
0

Are you american?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:33 PM
1

Or you can just say it you know . I'm dumb🤦🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:27 PM
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Cool thread . What am I looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:25 PM
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Still no clue what your original point was . Women approach men because men only approach women for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:08 PM
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You aren't even elaborating on what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:03 PM
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What does that mean? Men date for hook ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:53 PM
-1

Some people just inherently want to argue and misinterpret things for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:12 PM
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don't approach bc they hide behind gender expectations? Exactly what I'm saying. Women who say that they don't approach men ,act so for the reasons I've stated . I don't know what kind of armchair analysis you conducted to determine that I'm asking women to approach men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:47 PM
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It is. You are saying women should approach more and the other user is saying they do Classic strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:30 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:16 PM
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Maybe . That's still not what the topic of discussion is herr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:27 PM
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Yes . I've seen similar claims there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:23 PM
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Name of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:21 PM
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Who's to say they don't approach me? My personal dating life is not the part of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:21 PM
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Not always true . I've seen this rhetoric in feminist subs too . It's literally in the name
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:19 PM

Wouldn't go so far as to say that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:14 PM
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That's fair . Just don't defend it as a trait of "masculinity" . Because it creates an unnecessary box to fit people into for no reason when it may not even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:11 PM

Choice feminism was something I never saw favourably upon to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:06 PM

Yes, women can legally surrender newborns under Safe Haven laws, but pretending that’s some easy, no-consequence "dump and forget" option is asinine. Pregnancy itself is a grueling, life-altering process with serious physical, emotional, and financial tolls—something men never experience. That alone makes comparing Safe Haven laws to a man walking away from financial responsibility completely disingenuous. You’re fixated on the idea that child support is some unfair burden while ignoring that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:28 PM
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You’re grasping at straws equating financial obligations to pregnancy. Money isn’t taken from a man’s body, and working isn’t a medical process with health risks. The fact that you even make this comparison shows how flimsy your argument is. You claim that since women make the final decision to give birth, only they should bear the financial consequences. That’s nonsense. Both parents contributed to conception. If men don’t want child support obligations, they should push for legal financial abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:34 PM
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You acknowledge that child support laws can be unfair but then immediately jump to "reward structures" as if single mothers are getting prizes instead of struggling. The idea that financial responsibility "promotes single parenthood" is absurd—kids still need support, and the burden shouldn’t fall solely on the mother. You also contradict yourself. You admit women should have the final say (because pregnancy affects them directly), yet you act like it’s unfair that men have financial obligations…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:54 PM
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You're trying to equate financial abortion with physical abortion, but the comparison fails because one affects the body and the other doesn’t. Abortion is about bodily autonomy, while child support is about legal responsibility. A woman having an abortion doesn't create a child that needs support. A man walking away from his child does. You claim that allowing men to "dip out" would make women think twice, but that logic applies to men too. If men knew they couldn't walk away, they'd also be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:18 PM
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My point was , how is a woman expected to take care of a child when she has been a stay at home parent the entire time the man has been working ? Assuming she doesn't have any savings . Yes alimony is a given in that scenario, but if she's going to be the default parent , the dad also has to step up to take care of a child he has created . You cannot expect a woman who hasn't been working a long time to be the default parent without any savings and also shoulder the child's financial burdens. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:44 PM
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You're still missing the point about shared responsibility. Yes, women have the right to choose before birth, but that doesn't mean men should be free from responsibility after the child is born. The child exists, and that reality requires both parents to be accountable. You're framing it like men should get a pass after the child is born, but that ignores the fact that once a child is here, they have the right to be supported by both parents, regardless of whether the parents ‘wanted’ them or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:49 AM
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I'm not being rude at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:48 AM
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You’re confusing the right to choose with the right to abandon responsibility. Abortion is about giving women control over their bodies, and I’m fully on board with that. But that’s a choice—a decision that happens before the child is born. After birth, the situation is different. The child exists, and the responsibilities of parenthood are now shared. That’s what your argument is missing: when you make the decision to bring a child into the world, whether you wanted it or not, you’re responsibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:18 AM
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Here’s the thing—abandonment is never ‘okay,’ no matter how you spin it. You’re trying to paint the picture of a ‘free pass’ for men to walk away after creating a child, and that’s just not how responsibility works. It's not about the mother wanting a child; it's about the child having rights, and both parents being responsible for their creation—whether they wanted it or not. Adoption is just an easy cop out by letting both parties avoid the responsibilities of their actions . There are about 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:51 AM
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You’re avoiding the real question here—let’s stay focused. You’re not giving me a response to why abandonment is okay for men but not women. The thought experiment wasn’t about adoption, it was about the idea of walking away from a child with no consequences. You can't just point to adoption as if it’s a perfect solution that absolves someone of responsibility after they’ve already chosen to create a life. Adoption is a process, not a loophole to dodge accountability. You’ve got to stop framing …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:42 AM

I didnt down vote you weird guy . Should I send a screenshot to calm your insecurities? I didnt even say they were by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:57 AM
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How do you expect her to have any money if she was at home parenting and didn't have any savings ? Plus you really wanna promote parent absenteeism for men even more ? By not paying for child support for your own kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:30 AM
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If you really believe men should have more reproductive rights, fight for things like early ‘financial abortions’—but don’t use that as an excuse to run from responsibility. Because right now, all you’re saying is, ‘If I can’t force a woman to have a kid, I should be able to abandon mine.’ That’s not equality, that’s just being a deadbeat with extra steps. I'll give you another thought experiment: Imagine a woman gives birth and then leaves the baby at the father’s doorstep, disappearing forever…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:55 AM
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If she was a stay at home wife then the guy should pay no questions asked. In other cases the guys just don't care about their kids . Perfect cases of parent absenteeism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:49 AM

Worst fate known to man ever . Women like these should be upfront about who they are and let the guy make the choice . She's using him for her emotional dependencies which is pathetic as fuck .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:23 PM

Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:18 PM

Depends on the guy. But most guys who are "9s and 10s" date women who are as good looking. But I have seen some of these guys with women who are "7s"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:07 AM
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I get where you're coming from, and I agree that men’s issues deserve attention, too. But the reality is, patriarchy hurts both men and women. Many men don’t support these movements because they’re trapped by societal norms that suppress emotions and vulnerability. Men’s mental health, fatherhood, and violence should be taken seriously, and feminist movements, at their best, should support those struggles too, because equality benefits everyone. The problem with some MRAs is that extreme voices …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:47 PM
1

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:50 PM
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If that was true , why are men more racist , homophobic , transphobic than women to another degree ? Doing that to your fellow men why ? It's a severe misjudgement to even suggest that men care about men's issues . They want to sustain the patriarchy . Do " masculine " stuff and conform to gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:42 PM
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They don't and they shouldn't . Yes feminism isn't ONLY about women , but when women are disproportionately more affected than men , it's obvious where the primary efforts should lie . Why don't men care about men's issues either though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:34 PM
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Because it isn't . Why would it be ? If men were concerned about men's issues fewer men would be racist , homophobic, transphobic to their fellow men . I don't get why women are expected to shoulder the responsibility in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:43 PM
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Yes the focus is on women because they're affected negatively much more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:34 AM
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Feminism isn’t just about women—it critiques how gender norms harm everyone, including men. The issue isn’t feminism itself but how it's sometimes communicated by people who are not proponents of feminism . Your broader point I do agree with though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:38 AM
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Ok myb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:59 AM
1

Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:58 AM
1

Afbb?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:45 AM
1

Why do people ask anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:38 AM
1

As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:59 PM
2

👽
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:44 PM
1

I don't how do they work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:38 PM
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Im aware . But I was asking if they consider an emotional connection at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:20 PM
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Good take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:04 PM
0

Straw man argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:09 PM
0

Im a dude what you're saying belittles your own . Do and say whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:07 PM
1

Well there's nuance to all of that and there's no rigid definition/stance of either pills on any of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:07 PM
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It's a classic online misogynistic trope paraded by incels. "Oh look at women with body counts of over a 100 whom I just happen to know because they told me so, are struggling to find nice guys like me "
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:04 PM
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More traditional in dating ventures and relationships meaning the guy takes control of relationships and pays for majority of the stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:01 PM
1

Why wouldn't they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:57 PM
1

Good larp dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:56 PM
-1

cheapens a woman So she's "cheap" for indulging in such stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:53 PM
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Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:50 PM
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I mean you could've followed that up with at least one example to support your initial statement otherwise it looks empty when you basically minimised the role of physical attraction to nothing in all of your following statements
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:14 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:06 PM
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Well you stated 0 reasons to support/follow your initial statement so it would make anyone curious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:05 PM
-1

You've stated 0 reasons as to why physical attraction is important for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:01 PM
1

So physical attraction plays a little role for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:48 PM
1

Can you expand on what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:20 PM
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Cool story dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:14 PM
1

Then what makes you "blue pill"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:13 PM
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But if he's the only guy you've slept with that early so far then it might be different. Plus you knew him before too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:10 PM
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For me atleast , It means that I like the person but some other vices they have make me uninterested in them for LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:03 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:00 PM
1

Curious how that works out with your flair though. I thought red pill women are more conservative when it comes to casual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:59 PM
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I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:56 PM
-2

Well I thought you were the Op my bad then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:49 PM
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So you don't do casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:46 PM
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is not the type of guy who'll just have sex with anybody and i was an easy target, What's the difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:16 PM
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Yeah emotional connection is great for short term too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:54 AM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:47 AM
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Even for short term stuff ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:46 AM

"If a female can't even reward me with sex for being the nice guy that i am🤬😤😤 , then what's the point of being one?" - this guy probably
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:23 AM

Then don't ? Who's demanding such standards from you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:40 AM

I don't hold feminist values in order for me to have access to sex with women . This is just a classic "nice guy" argument u got there .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:30 AM

I believe the best middle ground is to be a man who lives by feminist values rather than actively engaging in feminist activism. To me, impact can also come from treating women as equals, supporting fair policies, and challenging biases in everyday life rather than spending time on activism, which often feels performative or inefficient especially as a man. Activism also tends to rely on emotional appeals and public discourse, which isn’t my preferred way of addressing issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:29 AM

The best middle ground is to just be a man with feminist values . Not necessarily a feminist activist which i believe has very little value as a man and a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:14 AM
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As has been well discussed before , no matter how egalitarian a woman thinks she is , she'll always appreciate benevolent sexism in the initial stages of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:13 PM
1

I assumed since you were pretty traditional , that's what you'd expect . And chillis is the "minimum" for you so who knows .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:37 AM
1

Why do they have to be extravagant the first time around ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:07 AM
1

That sounds sane . Women have to worry about their safety too . Coffee dates are best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:03 AM
1

Gee thanks . Im still not very confident in myself and a little insecure . And I try and do everything I can to impress the woman I'm dating . But thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:45 AM
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Before the first date? No I've never discussed financials . I usually go for low key date ideas for the first one anyways , so it's not like it's going to be a huge investment on my side if things don't work out . Plus I have asked a few dates to split the bill if I didn't enjoy the date at all . If I feel like I'm never going to see them again , why would I pay for the whole thing ? This is why vetting is important as a guy, especially if you haven't made it yet in life . I mean I've also never…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:50 AM
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Why not coffee dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:44 AM
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So no coffee I guess? Is that what you meant ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:15 PM
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What was the correlation here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:12 PM
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Is it a red flag if he asked to split in any case ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:06 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:43 PM
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I do not ask men on dates. I'll flirt first, I just won't be the one to ask him out. I don't mean to encroach , but may I ask why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:48 PM
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It's crazy but I'm not where I grew up . I moved here for my studies and am dating here . I would have to fly her back to my country for that😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:25 PM
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I thought of bowling as well , but the ones in my city are usually noisy so you can't get a word in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:19 PM
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But not all men drink . So what would you do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:18 PM
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That sounds cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:17 PM
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What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:16 PM
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but I’ve never had a man take the offer. Would it be a turn off if he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:29 PM
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Insights......how? I do that via texting/chatting for a few days atleast .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:22 PM
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I wouldn't be in this situation. I don't chat for "few days/weeks." I don't do online dating or anything that require this kind of behavior. Since I'm usually the one expected to pay for first dates , i vet the women i date a lot . I don't casually throw in 20 bucks every week into a woman I might never see again . It's important and necessary for men to do this who aren't old enough to afford dates every week. So why are you making this post? Insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:20 PM
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Yeah first dates i prefer something really casual too . Coffee dates are the best because I love coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:08 PM
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Ok that sounds fun !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:57 PM
1

Refreshing to hear a different story/perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:50 PM
1

That sounds cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:48 PM
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I don't think OP has interacted with any woman at all for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:05 AM
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Noted my next post will touch on looks then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:26 PM
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peoples looks. Not 'peoples'. Just a "looks" post . They generally get removed by the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:17 PM
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This is a looks post lowkey . Mine get removed if I try and post them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:56 PM
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I'm jus saying , guys who go overboard about how good they are in bed , how many times they can make women orgasm, how long they eat women out are all bark no bite . It's what women tell me atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:17 PM
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Men who brag about how good they are in bed never are 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:01 PM

Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:26 AM

Who me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:06 PM

Because she might be a weirdo with no sense of personal and physical boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:54 PM

No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:05 AM
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Still open to it ? If you were single ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:17 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:26 PM
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I don't know what any of that means . Stars aligning and shi. Maybe horoscopy or astrology or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:40 PM
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he took my breath away on the first sight... Took your breath away how ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:36 PM
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If they cold approach you , would there be a scenario where you say yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:17 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:14 PM
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Ok fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:11 PM
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What if he was super respectful and you end up clicking with him on some topics ? But i get that the concept is too scary still when it comes to a random strange man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:06 PM
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Yeah immediate sexual comments are gross anyone would feel creeped out by them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:50 PM
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That would be cool we can exchange contact info and see where it goes. Yeah this route sounds more sensible rather than asking women out right away after just meeting them .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:48 PM
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I assume you have to be physically attracted to him too right ? Or is it irrelevant for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:52 AM
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That's true . But would you consider the guy in the scenario I just gave you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:33 AM
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Being asked out for a date - nope. I don't know you. I need at least some degree of familiarity for that. Maybe not directly after only looking at you for the first time . What if he talks to you , and you give him your number (if you are ok with that) and continue to talk for awhile before he finally asks you out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:46 AM
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The best pickup line I’ve gotten was “I want to hurt you.” I'm like 99% sure that I'll either be ghosted right away or slapped if I say that to a woman as my first sentence . You're in the 1% and I can't afford to take risks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:35 AM
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I'm Goth and if a mainstream guy approached me it would be an automatic no. Mainstream?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:33 AM
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Yeah obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:50 AM
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Right ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:10 AM
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Yeah social and body cues are important to read . Your take is understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:42 AM
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No after a few dates or chatting over text?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:17 AM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:08 AM
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warm approached Never heard of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:02 AM
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Thanks for your response
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:55 AM
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I don't want to make it another l00ks post or tirade you , but it's important to you that he's your type right ? For cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:34 AM
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Marvel stars is an extreme example that cannot be extrapolated to real life or normal guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:20 AM
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You're talking about the less than 1% gym builders who do this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:58 AM
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Yeah but men don't want to care because promoting an unhealthy lifestyle aint for us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:56 AM
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There's lesser acceptability for different male body types because they simply aren't marketable to men .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:04 PM
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Yeah maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:36 PM
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Even adjusted for the difference between the numbers for men and women , there are still extreme variations of body types seen in women models
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:33 PM
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Then why should men be on board with a movement meant only for women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:31 PM
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For women only , not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:27 PM
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It disproportionately benefits women because women are the ones who have been disproportionately fighting it. If that's the case , why are there way more plus size female models than male ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:27 PM
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I don't have anything against the body positivity movement at all , but you can't deny that it disproportionately benefits women compared to men . There's a reason that plus size female models are much higher in number than male ones. The same goes for height . You can find a lot of women who model under 5'7 but very rarely will you find a male model who's less than 5'10. Plus women generally don't find plus size men attractive , whereas men do find various body types attractive in women . And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:05 PM

she says it's ok for a woman to leave you on read, respond the next day, etc. Men should not be doing that. If he does he should be blocked immediately because real men doesn't play games. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:02 PM

Nice bait . But really if a woman was to act like that I would lose interest fast . Playing games is not attractive to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:54 PM

Are her tips for women or men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:48 PM

Women aren't a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:01 AM
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'using her for her body' sounds misogynistic to me . If she's enjoying it too isn't she 'using' him as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:02 PM
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It isn't egalitarian that's all I'm gonna say . And I'm not asking women to change their standards so I'm not complaining do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:10 PM
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It isn't egalitarian and I don't like it and i wouldn't do it . Find men who want to do it from you instead of complaining all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:59 PM
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I can't see the votes but i didn't realise that this was downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:46 PM
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Are the men in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:17 PM
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As you can see in the replies , not all women want that . So if a particular woman wants it I guess she has to communicate it to their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:07 PM
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Which ones do you expect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:36 PM
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Link the article
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:09 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:36 PM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:54 PM
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Where did I say I'm dating these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:16 PM
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Wow nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:14 PM
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Yh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:36 AM
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Sounds reasonable and fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:06 AM
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Yeah . In your opinion is what you want also applicable to most women or is it a minority ? I know women are not a monolith but if you had to guess based on your experiences and friend groups
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:05 AM
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Obviously my list wasn't exclusive or exhaustive . Just what I've seen as a recurrent theme on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:54 AM
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Yeah sounds realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:44 AM
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What gifts? Useful stuff? Can we afford it? Can I afford to give equal gifts back? Let's say it's something you, like maybe in your tastes or hobbies . You can buy gifts for him back too. Mostly affordable because it's every month i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:31 AM
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I wish that was the only interpretation of the abbreviation 'FDS' I knew
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:41 PM
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Another fds post is crazy 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:34 PM
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So you think its ok to body shame men since they do it to women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:49 PM
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Tu quoque fallacy sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:42 PM
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No you said that it's a ' bait post '
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:31 PM
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That's a square assessment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:20 PM
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Where is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:16 PM
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How big is that book
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:09 PM
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Ironic . Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:51 PM
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You keep going around in circles . How many screenshots of men do you have in your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:48 PM
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'like this'- being a financial leach in a relationship . Don't be coy , we know what the dog whistle intended here is (supposedly )
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:42 PM
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This doesn't upset me because I wouldn't even go near a woman who thinks like this . And I don't want to go over to a sub that's a cesspool of misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:38 PM
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You did state your opinion . I'm simply pointing out the fact that you took one decent piece of advice that was given there and conflated it to being a representation of all women on that sub while simultaneously letting one bad comment from a man here define the actions of all the men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:35 PM
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Damn i didn't know they had a whole forum dedicated to such stuff . It always puzzled me that they hate men so much yet try and date them . Just stay away lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:31 PM
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Cherry picking at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:28 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:27 PM
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Fds is a subreddit not an online creator
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:18 PM
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Well I'm not referring to you alone then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:26 AM
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Ding dong size is the most important physical quality you can offer women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:48 PM
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If you expect traditionalism in dating you should be traditional as a woman too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:45 PM
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Macken murphy recently made a video about that check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:23 PM

Great answer thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:16 PM

Rhetoric my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:42 PM

It's classic bluepill advice on some subs here I've seen . I can't name drop them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:39 PM
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What does it say then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:26 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:23 PM
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But it’s true: according to our survey, 84% of working women told ForbesWoman and TheBump that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:22 PM
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Yeah it was my bad . It was regarding women wanting to save up for being sahms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:18 PM
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As much as the redpill and blackpill seem to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:17 PM
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Yeah you should flair up !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:09 PM
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Why did you reply to the automod message if you were asking me lol? https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/09/12/is-opting-out-the-new-american-dream-for-working-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:37 PM

That's fair . I appreciate women acknowledging that looks indeed matter a fair bit when it comes to dating instead of trying to virtue signal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:32 PM
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When all your friends are married with families, when your parents are too old ..and you go back home, alone , with a big empty house and say: yes this is good So you have friends which is a good thing? Relationships aren't a guarantee not a human right . Not everyone has the same opportunities to access them. 99% od humans....no ? If you wre a psychopath or ace sexual i guess you will What the f
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:48 PM
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Good luck with your pregnancy and thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:47 AM
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This is especially important to me because I’m lower income than the guys I typically date, Do you only date guys who make more money than you or it's just happenstance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:42 AM
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Toxic attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:39 AM
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You like being sahm?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:39 AM
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For me it means going way out of your way to try and appeal to the opposite gender , and trying too hard to pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:37 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:30 PM
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Maybe he is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah it's helpful for young guns to know that there are a lot of ways things pan out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:43 PM
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I meant fence sitters , as in undecided on kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:56 PM
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but I doubt that would change if we have kids. You're split on kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:53 PM
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This might be a bit ignorant on my part , but I didn't know christian women enjoyed being the primary breadwinners of their families'. But good for you and you have a good relationship there i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:15 PM
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Your name is funny . Is your hub actually a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:58 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:14 PM
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No then i wouldn't date her . I don't believe in conservative values around sex and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:03 PM
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Maybe their partners can afford to have them stay home and they are making a conscientious choice not to. You replied to the wrong comment I think. But how does your 'biological' argument work here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:55 PM
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Which policies are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:50 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:48 PM
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Politically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:37 PM
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Are you a conservative ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:34 PM
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I think the same almost
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:02 PM
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due to our respective fields and their differences. We have a 2yo and I'm 9mo pregnant with the 2nd child. Good luck with your delivery 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:00 PM
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Are your partner's contributions at home not 'hard work ' (in your scenario)?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:48 PM
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Then what about the other 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:40 PM
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Physical as in they're tired . Emotional because they popped a baby out of their vagina whom they nurtured in their own bodies' for 9 months
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:37 PM
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not working and telling me how the money I make should be spent Then I'm sorry but you don't consider your partner as an equal but someone who's a subordinate to you just because you work outside of the home , and you definitely don't respect him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:36 PM
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Because they're exhausted after pregnancy and emotional bond with their newborn makes them more wanting to stay at home . I don't think there's a 'biological' reason for this . Simply physical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:26 PM
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That's just a toxic mentality I'm sorry . But i see it could be a product of what your grandma has been through in her life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:14 PM
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Why do you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:07 PM
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I was wondering more about the "best man " part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:06 PM
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That's nice . Dating is one thing. I always liked it when men offered to pay most of the time, Can you explain your rationale behind this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:05 PM
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the best man will use you as a doormat if he could”. What does it mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:00 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:59 PM
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over their natural inclinations. The natural inclinations being?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:58 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:56 PM
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I would be bored to the point of homicide. I like my career. I also love learning Yeah same I do not like housework. What about cooking? I love cooking I don't think it's a chore . It's more of a hobby i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:42 PM
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Your flair says childfree so I'm assuming you don't want kids . The idea of staying home fills me with horror May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:39 PM
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That's fair i appreciate your response
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:38 PM
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Wow nice story
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:36 PM
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"Hey, how about I buy you a cocktail and you buy me a cocktail? Choose which one you want." That's nice . I don't do alcohol so I usually go for coffee and sandwiches for the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:31 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:26 PM
1

Paying the bills comes from an equal percentage of our salaries. What if one makes significantly more than the other ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:19 PM
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Then have sex who's stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:29 PM

Over what age would it be a dealbreaker for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:03 PM
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I don't know who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:20 AM
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you're completely changing your life to oppose the group you'r What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:47 AM
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Peep incel.is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:29 AM

Not sexual virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:25 AM
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Where I disagree with you is promotion of sex work. Visiting a prostitute doesn’t solve anything because it’s not a woman that genuinely wants to have sex with you - she either doesn’t care or hates you. Needs are needs. If you want sex so badly and it is inaccessible to you through other means they escorts aren't a bad idea to release that sexual stress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:25 AM

So it's an absolute dealbreaker or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:24 AM

You prefer low bc?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:23 AM
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Incels are violent and obsessed with women , they're not leaving them alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:22 AM
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Why is your flair that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:19 AM
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Why do you date men if you hate them so much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:46 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:36 PM
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On the other hand - the less sexual success dude has the more miserable he's made to feel, sometimes to the point of self-removing or swinging other way and taking what he can by force. Uhhhh. Elaborate on what you mean by this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:36 PM
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I think this also plays into the "women don't care about looks , we only care about their personalities" Bs , which we know simply isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:32 PM
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Yes escort service
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:08 PM
-6

You can have other means of sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:57 PM
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I clearly said IF that's YOUR cup of tea . If it isn't , don't .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:47 PM
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Seems you place a high priority on sex , otherwise there is very little difference between the two scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:46 PM
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FIRST Is that an acronym ? Because every time these types are known to the public and not allowed to hide behind the keyboard (Elliot Rodgers, Chris Chan, Yandere Dev) they're average looking but their behavior is just so appalling and theyre not hot enough to get shallow women to date. Also, they don't have a social life, So according to you men don't struggle with dating due to their looks/appearance at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:32 PM
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Yes if that's your cup of tea , why not do it ? Sex is a real need especially if you have a high libido . I use other means primarily but the use of prostitution should not be ostracised as much as it is societally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:28 PM
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No as in the media promotes the ideas and visuals of romance much more than is realistic or even achievable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:18 PM
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And men obsessing over their looks is an excuse. The reality is that those guys are just unbearable to be around. Why do you think this is the case for every man struggling with dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:02 PM
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It's just sincere advice for struggling men that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:01 PM
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Rump fella won
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:50 PM
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Incredible word salad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:46 PM
1

Then her first sentence in that paragraph doesn't indicate so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:43 PM
3

Where
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:40 PM
7

Not achievable for all men out there , which is the cold truth , but a pill some men do have to swallow at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:39 PM
0

Race yes looks no . Do I need to point out the research as well or you're too bluepilled for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:28 PM
1

conversation from “decentering women” to arguments about women’s sexual preferences. Where did I do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:15 PM
0

majority of 80% of white guys are not considered instantly physically desirable to all women. They actually are . I've seen 5'2 white guys date very attractive women . Actually most white guys I know have always been in relationships or have always been in demand more so by non white women than white women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:14 PM
2

If that's what you want to believe go ahead , why reply to me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:08 PM
-1

I didn't deny the fact that we're 'social ' animals . Who's telling you to abolish friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:07 PM
1

Yet again anecdotal exchange . I have research evidence to back up my statements , while your arguments are merely , 'trust me bro '
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:06 PM
5

No . A lot of men are still desperate like some flappy seals . It's really sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:00 PM
4

But women don’t want to date most men, even if they are interested in friendship with men. In which case, looks are irreverent and personality is everything. What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:59 PM
1

That is only your opinion , not based on reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:58 PM
2

There are literally studies done by okcupid on this subject . Racial preferences are very real and play out in real life fairly often . Your anecdotal angle doesn't change research backed realities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:55 PM
-7

If a skydivers parachute fails, do they do everything they can to deploy it before hitting the ground usually? Or do they just accept their fate, stop panicking, and hit the ground at terminal velocity with a smile on their face and a false sense of fulfillment? Then folks will come in here and say “skydivers aren’t owed a parachute Actually there are safety protocols that exist in case of your parachute failing . Not a direct analogy or even a good one I get it. I’m as MGTOWED as any other unfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:50 PM
2

They need to get more attractive, get their own place, and get a slump buster to get back in the game. Even this won't be enough for some men . What if the guy is in a very racially homogenous country and is just not the ideal physical phenotype for that specific country . No amount of "self-work" would help him in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:49 PM
-4

Sex and relationships are 2 different entities and don't necessarily need to coalesce with one another
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:41 PM
5

So you don't realize that no one takes the 4B Movement seriously. Could care less about 4b. And men obsessing over their looks is an excuse. The reality is that those guys are just unbearable to be around. They just wish they were hot so that massive flaw can be overlooked. Women are wonderful bias . You think women don't care about looks , which is simply not true .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:40 PM
4

Yes and the men who deny this sentiment will struggle at some points in their lives' . Maybe after those struggles they'll come to face the reality of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:28 PM
1

True , but we can slowly work towards that state of mind for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:27 PM

Are u yt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:51 PM

ever Never ? never will Other races aren't your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:48 PM

Are they more your type ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:19 PM
3

Cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:45 AM

Because the US is simply more racist than the UK but that's a discussion for some other time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:45 AM
1

Yeah . Lean beef patty is a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:28 AM

I guess you mean east asian
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:57 AM

Is it a geographical thing or is that just your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:55 AM
1

Subconsciously women and men both look for mates that are at the same level of their own attractiveness . Qoves has made a video on it too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:40 AM
2

I like fit to muscular women . Toned women are good also
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:35 AM
3

But you can build your glutes at the very least . If men had the option to increase their penis size through exercise , we would all be hung.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:52 AM

All of this depends on the fact that if the attractive guy has a scarcity mindset , which you're assuming every attractive man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:00 AM
2

So attractive men are better according to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:32 PM
2

🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:46 PM
6

We already know bigger is better for women . Not a ground breaking discovery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:18 PM
9

This is another "women go for the bad guys , not nice guys like me " post . I saw a Macken murphy vid about that , nice guys don't finish last
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:58 PM
2

married the most attractive and awesome man I ever dated. Everyone thinks that about their partners tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:12 PM
0

I'm unsure of what you're referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:11 PM
1

Well they aren't the guys I was referring to then . Above average guys are the words you're looking for . They aren't that rare but it depends on where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:07 PM
1

Maybe you still are ? Who's to say you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:05 PM
1

But I suppose you expect guys to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:02 PM
1

Well I told you my experiences that's all. And you didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:02 PM
-3

My goal is to reach at least 30-35 b count in my life and settle down with someone after . Having sex with only 1 woman before settling down would be awful , as we men need to acquire sexual experience to please our partners .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:47 PM
1

Then maybe they see you as their "looksmatch" , who knows . I never said attractive men don't approach women at all, but they don't really have to , unless the woman happens to be traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:42 PM
1

I date women who are well educated that's all there is to it . Don't know anything about being " hypergamous" while at it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:25 PM
2

Everyone thinks their partner is the most attractive they've ever been with . It would be weird if you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:26 PM
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They don't , and there's nothing "masculine" about it . A mutual friend of mine was an underwear model and he used to get approached atleast once everytime we went out together .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:24 PM

I rarely watch lesbian porn. It's not enjoyable for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:53 PM
1

think there’s a huge difference between “attractive” and “attractive enough that women will consistently hit on you first.” What seperates them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:49 PM
1

Above average man (current; no egos or insecurities) 2. Below average man (used money to compensate) 3. Average man (became a gym bro Current what? Also are below average men better for you than average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:46 PM
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because I would never approach a man Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:47 PM
5

hardships of life Like what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:47 AM
4

I don't think this is true . Even men have racial preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:52 PM
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Also men have way more physical barriers that are insurmountable even by surgery (height , penis size ) whereas women can go and get implants . So there's that . Plus they can even just workout for a fitter and more toned body
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:35 PM
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I don't have a say in this . But it's a red flag for me if she doesnt even offer to split . I dont mind paying for the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:51 PM
-1

No not a natural . I only pay for the first dates , that too something lowkey like coffee or a sandwich. If she says she wants a provider on the first date itself I'm jetting the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:16 AM
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I’m basing it off of life experience So that means you've experienced it as well no? Especially when you factor in the release of oxytocin that occurs during sex. I Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:59 PM
1

And what do women get? What are you basing this off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:53 PM
1

Validation for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:47 PM
1

Are you more conservative leaning also would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:36 PM
1

Explain How are they different ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:35 PM
1

You don't trust men who sleep around ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:31 PM
1

So you're ok with a guy never having been in a relationship before even if he's a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:31 PM
1

Why? Also you didn't answer me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:27 PM
1

This would be my deal breaker Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:24 PM
1

Your bigger issue is the guy sleeping around or his relationship inexperience ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:23 PM
1

You don't like men who sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:18 PM
1

How old do u prefer them to be if u don't mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:58 PM

I think depending on which country you're in less than a certain height would certainly be detrimental. Less than 5'6 in europe and US is hard , but in other countries 5'4 doesn't look that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:04 AM
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don’t know to reply to specific comments on here but they can afford to be dependent on men to pay for everything etc , and “financially abused” like you say I don't think you have the foggiest on what "financial abuse " even means . It's not like he'll take away her toys or something . feminism has worsened capitalism , women working = more money to government Then vote for the person who aligns with your economic and financial concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:45 AM
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so the women you’re taking about that are financially “abused” usually can afford to do so Can afford to be financially abused? and lol let’s not be naive, the government increased prices so women have to work in order to afford anything So you're not even against feminism , you're against capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:25 AM
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women are forced to work Who's forcing them? who’s to say they don’t have any savings from their parents? The absolute naivety to suggest all women in traditional marriages are well off from their families' is just absurd to say the least😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:18 AM
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Yes , they should just be able to stay in marriages where they don't have any financial savings so they can be financially abused right? Also some(or I should say most ) women like to work , it's not always looked at as a battleground for feminism . Thanks to feminism they get the choice to .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:03 AM
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I would say the existence of gold diggers validates the point that women in general care less about the physical attraction part . But in real life that is usually not what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:43 PM

Different species
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:39 PM

That's great . But only 20-30% of marriages are that way . So you're quite the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:35 PM
1

Enm or mono
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:37 PM

The existence of gold diggers proves that women care very little about it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:11 AM
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Or people just like to fuck other people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:15 AM

assume you'd pick things like someone is supportive and fun and care about you and maybe some skills or traits that you aren't good at yourself. Turns out that there are a lot of women out there who want similar things in guys All of that just translates to someone who can also provide money for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:12 AM

Just because they outearn men doesn't mean they don't want a man who makes more or can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:44 AM
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If that helps you sleep sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:41 AM
2

Armchair psychologist goes hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:34 AM
2

infidelity There's no infidelity if it's been previously decided upon that it isn't a boundary for your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:33 AM
1

To do what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:30 AM
2

Because not all women have the same access to laws and reforms that will positively affect their experiences in the workplace . Some communities might still be backwards and marginalised women will not reap the benefits of laws that will be beneficial to women in the workplace alone . With socialist policies , marginalised women , women from backward communities will also receive the dividends in the form of adequate parental leave , universal health/child care . Plus they can also become financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:36 PM
1

If they believe legal and policy reforms (such as equal pay laws, anti-discrimination policies, and workplace protections) are sufficient to fix gender inequality, they lean more Liberal Feminist. Probably this , but I don't think they alone are enough to fix gender inequality issues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:28 PM
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Mix of lib and socialist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:05 PM
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But you can't even define one of the propenents . So who are you even referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:21 PM
2

How do you define a HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:12 PM

I have research based proof of women preferring bigger ones . Your little anecdotal data doesn't mean anything to me . Plus if I was to go off of anecdotal data alone, my opinion would still not be changed . Plus I have reason to believe women who say the prefer "average" ones are larping , I have whole threads of women confirming my statements .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:50 AM

Of course you're a real woman behind this account
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:26 AM

I can see where you're coming from . If it's bigger than 9 inches , obviously it'll hurt . But 9 inch guys are as rare as guys with micros
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:43 AM

Except it is. Unless the woman has vaginismus , bigger will stimulate all the internal spots inside her , so it's always better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:27 AM

True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:27 AM

As in bigger is truly better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:16 AM

Penis size is so underrated in hetero dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:52 AM

Casual sex talk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:59 AM
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It's crazy to me that replies on reddit and real life will always differ . Women do such a good job protecting our insecurities here , but it gets to the point that it pisses me off because they're not fooling anyone .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:34 PM
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dates. I don't really want to date a man who regularly cries tbh. Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:01 PM
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How soon would you want them to open up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:22 AM
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Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:24 PM
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Why did they remove mine then ? I had written dick pill man but mods may have removed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:18 PM
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No as in why you chose that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:10 PM
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Why is your flair that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:42 PM
0

Worth noting that a lot of women who say that they don't want to see men cry are pretty young I think it's older women who believe in traditional gender roles henceare more likely to believe in masculinity/feminity ideals. Curious to know why you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:50 PM
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Thanks . It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:40 PM
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What the issue is (Is What if it's past trauma , mental health issues , past guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:39 PM
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Yeah . I imagine if my partner came up to me crying about something deep , I would tear up too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:25 PM
1

What if you were crying in front of him and he started bawling too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:23 PM
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. I wouldn't like it if he cried as much as I do, definitely. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:21 PM
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Wholesome story😄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:18 PM
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That's nice. Can you elaborate on why you felt that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:11 PM
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don’t experience to be supported in this way ourselves and b) men aren’t allowed to be vulnerable due to their gender role. Even women who aren’t deep into traditional gender roles are still affected by expectations put on men and ideas about masculinity. It takes a lot of self-reflection to see how your ideas and reactions tied to social conditioning. Yeah true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:04 PM
1

I would say OF models are red flags . Nurses are dodgy as well for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:19 AM
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It's great for me !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:22 PM
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You cannot speak for most men because you don't know most men or know how they work. Men think they know what they want until they don't . I don't speak in absolute terms , but yes men may think that they want what you say they want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:55 PM
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How do you know I'm in the minority of what men want ? Most men I know are in relationships like the one I've mentioned above . Unless you have statistics to back your statement , why should I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:34 PM
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Why do some men even attempt to speak for most men ? I care about a woman's career and education . I like someone who would be passionate about their career/work because I am as well. Also I want an equal partner , I do not want anyone depending on me for their livelihood
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:09 PM

Oxymoronic since they won't date anyone themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:47 PM
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Skinny fat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:47 PM
2

I have only known 4 actually really attractive men in my life 2 of them have been in LTRs since their late teens (in their late 20s now ) , one guy is ENM and the other one is a proper "fuckboy" and sleeps around without romantic attachment a lot , cannot hold a relationship down to save his life because he's too erratic and his probably avoidant attachment . I think men who are average looking say that because they think that really attractive men have a lot of options , hence would have a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:36 PM

Prevalence of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:15 PM

Racism kills people . Misandry just offends men like you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:51 PM

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/319337933_Women's_Attraction_to_Benevolent_Sexism_Needing_Relationship_Security_Predicts_Greater_Attraction_to_Men_who_Endorse_Benevolent_Sexism#:~:text=Benevolent%20sexism%20prescribes%20that%20women,and%20strength%20(gender%20differentiation).&text=roles%2C%20in%20turn%2C%20help%20to%20sustain%20intimate%20heterosexual%20relationships https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:24 PM
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What would you have us do for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:51 AM

Yeah but the proportion of women who want that is low compared to the ones who still want an old fashioned marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:49 AM

Well he didn't really have to make a post about it . I really thought it was common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:45 AM

What part are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:42 AM

Ok I got it mixed up , but still over half the marriages have the man as the primary/sole provider .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:40 AM

Hire a surrogate or adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:37 AM

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/319337933_Women's_Attraction_to_Benevolent_Sexism_Needing_Relationship_Security_Predicts_Greater_Attraction_to_Men_who_Endorse_Benevolent_Sexism#:~:text=Benevolent%20sexism%20prescribes%20that%20women,and%20strength%20(gender%20differentiation).&text=roles%2C%20in%20turn%2C%20help%20to%20sustain%20intimate%20heterosexual%20relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:35 AM

Old news . You're not making ground breaking discovery here. We know women prefer benevolent sexism in dating and relationships Women only deny it to make it seem like they're the higher gender or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:26 AM
1

Are u liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:40 AM
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Curious to know what part she "disagrees " with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:53 PM
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Should rename it to redpill since she's also active there . Nothing about this post looks blue pill to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:51 PM
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🤣 u think people with these backgrounds aren't around on reddit ? You certainly seem to loathe every redditor out there for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:21 PM
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I'm having a hard time believing this person is a "purple pill " woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:34 PM
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The more active the more loathed. It is universally understood that no one who is winning at life or of any significance is on reddit. A How do you define who is "winning at life" "or of significance "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:25 PM
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And you shouldnt either . Men need to have more self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:04 AM
3

Then kindly elaborate as to what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:10 AM
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You seriously cannot have such low self esteem that you'll accept anyone who shows interest in you . Well that's your problem to solve not womens'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:04 AM
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As we men tell women a lot of times , "pick better "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:34 AM
2

What was it about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:18 AM
2

What are those subs about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:18 AM
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I have my reasons to believe so . Obviously they can't post literal misandry there but it creeps in almost every other post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:20 PM
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Yeah that was way back . Now it's just a cesspool for conservatives to say whatever they want without repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:48 PM
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Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:45 PM
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Id be more concerned with someone frequenting twitter rather than reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:41 PM
2

I'm not really following you entirely so idk up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:37 PM
1

Thinks like what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:35 PM
4

Crazy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:26 PM
4

So you wouldn't date someone who uses reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:19 PM
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Yeah i used to be supportive of that subreddit and used to be active on it , but some of the comments that have been made to ethnic men were disgusting to read from my POV
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:14 PM
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No which subreddit members/users would be a red flag for you (eg someone who's a regular on PPD don't quote me on this specific example ) as you can see from their post history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:12 PM
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What difference does that piece of information make ? If I somehow found out that someone I was dating was a member it would be an immediate no go for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:11 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:09 PM
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Well im not going to because I don't want to give them any more traffic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:59 PM
1

As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:14 PM
1

So that means you like blonde women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:12 AM
1

What does blonde pill mean ? sexually conservative/ What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:48 AM
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labor , sacrifice and contribution we are speaking of here? Why would that be? Elaborate on what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:31 AM
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So you won't date conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:29 AM
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Yes but men paying for all the dates , being masculine , asking for feminine duties from women are all components of the redpill. And republicans more or less adhere to that lifestyle as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:25 PM

Are you stupid or something ? Who TF uses reddit as a dating app😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:13 PM
-1

So difficult 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:09 PM
-2

It was an innocent question but you chose to write a big ass paragraph questioning my intentions . If you want to answer go ahead , if you don't just ignore and move on how's that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:58 PM
-6

Why did you get so triggered over this 😂? Never mind I can infer from this comment where you are on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:40 PM
1

The flag in your avatar is indian so i asked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:39 PM
1

You won't do liberal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:03 PM
1

Are you indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:57 PM
1

What are your "views"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
-1

Not "a lot" yes but there are probably choice conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:43 PM
1

Are you liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:19 PM
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