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QUEEN SH*T2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:00 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:54 AM
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2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:33 AM
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NAH, SIS2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:01 PM
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TRIGGER WARNING2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:56 AM
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REMINDER 👑2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:12 AM
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RANT2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:30 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY2020na/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:09 PM
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Yes, just pay for it since that's the only reason you want a woman.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:31 PM
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She looks 15. I look young for my age as well and at times it crosses my mind if the attraction I receive is perverted. We're told how great it is to look young for our age but it's just another thing that can be used against us. When older men or men in my age group are surprised while being elated when they find out my age, bells go off in my head. Like damn why are you so excited I don't look my age? Smh I can imagine this feeling is even worse for little women (those with dwarfism).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:54 PM
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Reciprocate in what manner? Paying for dates? I'd think reciprocating via emotional labor that you already do for free would be enough. Only after marriage should financial sharing occur. Once you offer to pay for a date the expectation of paying for dates will raise on top of what you already bring to the table that he cannot provide for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:06 AM
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This is scary. A jealous spouse is a dangerous one. I wouldn't doubt if the baby was his idea and she better be careful of him getting her pregnant again not that that would stop her from being successful as she's already proven to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:55 AM
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Single mothers have to be careful of losing their independence when entering a relationship as the children are relying on them only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:25 PM
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Go to the hospital, let them know you were assaulted and make a police report. There may be other cases and yours could lead to something. You never know..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:48 PM
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Because of their location, one of my thoughts was that he left the country by boat. Take that with a gain of salt though. I honestly thought it would have been a m#rder/s#icide situation once they found her, but it seems like he may actually feel worthy enough to live after what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:03 PM
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And they went camping with their son while Gabby was missing( no longer alive at that point). It's beyond obvious they're helping him and playing us for fools. I think about with all the conspiracies growing and the popularity of the case, how will they get a decent jury (especially with manosphere still saying she abused him 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:28 PM
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I haven't seen criticisms(amongst fans) about the podcast except mine(in relation to the host whitewashing why police treat black/white people differently). I usually see praises which are the only comments to receive the highest upvotes 🤷‍♀️. Edit: Nevermind, based on other comments apparently I missed something that happened recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:04 PM
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Using that as a defense would be admitting that not only was he there but also killed her, knew where she was located but went home anyway, possibly conspired with family, no cooperation with investigators, and a whole other bunch of other factors that will make the case easier for prosecutors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:55 PM
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And our school has blocked it. Sadly we can't control it's used outside of school. I don't see it as a p#rn site personally because I don't come across it in any of the Reddit's I follow. Low value men will turn everything and anything into something p#ornographic when given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:37 PM
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I heard my students(teens/freshmen) talking about the animal crossing page on reddit. I looked it up and was so disgusted. So there are multiple pages that are reporting that user yet the videos and the user are still there. I've reported him on animal crossing and Mario, and got others to report him. But he's still there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:06 PM
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Yes Black male+White female couples get pulled over by cops and the girlfriend/wife/friend has to convince the police she's safe and not being harmed. This is very common and I personally know couples like this who have to deal with it. Gabby would have been alive if Brian was a man of color. Yes, I agree that this is 100% white male camaraderie and I'm sad this racial dynamic was minimized to something as trivial as lawsuits on the podcast. I was quite shocked she made that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:57 AM
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We should create a password protected version on fds website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:11 PM
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Women know this and still use the app hoping for a unicorn. Bumble makes it extra easier for them were they speed swipe and then let you do the work in starting the conversation. If you haven't, it's time to get off the free sex catalog ladies, that's all dating apps are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:05 PM
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That sounds like marital r@pe. He doesn't respect you. There's someone better for you out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:41 AM
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If she's using her phone to contact you, then advise her contact a women's shelter, they may hopefully arrange for a taxi to get her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:29 AM
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Yes because some of us are not really looking for dating advice but more so empowerment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:17 AM
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And I think he abused Gabby in front of his family based on their lack of cooperation. No way the family didn't know he was abusive to her. Men are not born this way. He's probably following his dad's footsteps and or the family didn't care to raise him into a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:06 AM
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I'm currently listening to the podcast and I'm not sure why the panelist who brought up race is not acknowledging the RACIAL(not financial) aspect in the difference in police treatment between Black and White people. People of color who have money aren't treated better than those who don't. Black Americans who've been winning million dollar police brutality cases aren't scaring officers from not messing with them. If an off duty Black cop or a rich Black woman can face police harassment, the poi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:03 AM
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I think it's best to leave it alone. A lot of times it would be for nothing as some wives choose to stay. Women can sense when their men are cheating. She must have already been aware and has chosen to ignore it and stay or is staying until she can financially be secure enough to leave. Trust me, she knows. Don't get involved if it risks your safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:46 AM
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Please find a therapist and a DV organization(you mentioned being a punching bag) and leave as soon as possible. You have a lot to unpack and should not waste time trying to figure this out online. Depending on where you live the therapist/DV organization (even your primary care doctor) should direct you to services to help you get out of this situation. It's a process you need to start now (documenting (harassment , abuse, his mental unstableness) to work towards a restraining order. You need t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:08 PM
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Did your husband call him out on it or was he complicit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:51 PM
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The bar has become invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:19 AM
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Does this possibly play into the some of the DV statistics in which the woman is the perpetrator? Men love using those statistics to do the whole "women do it too" argument even though the numbers are miniscule compared to theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:19 PM
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Ask her if everything that she and her husband go through is something she'd want her child to model. Visualizing her child in her shoes should hopefully activate some sense in preventing that repetition. Let her know she has to break the cycle so generations after her will not reflect her current state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:52 PM
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Saved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:44 PM
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Hmmm that's a good question I'd like to hear discussed on the podcast. When they start looking different from their younger years, settling down is the best thing for them to do. They don't have a choice but to settle down in order to get sex. So yes it's possible for them to settle down because the options to continue being a playboy when you're older diminishes. (Which is also why they go after inexperienced/younger women). If he's rich rich then he can be a playboy forever, but some rich men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:39 PM
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LVM will introduce you to friends and family to make you think he's serious about you. His people aren't going to reveal to you who he truly is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:21 PM
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Telling a woman to not date men who have 💩💩 in their underwear is radical?? 🙃 How low can the bar go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:35 AM
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And I find it very sick when men take their young sons there. I wish they would see that It's not a rite of passage, it's encouraging your child to normalize predatory behavior from older women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:59 PM
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So you honestly believe that women, who have the ability to bring forth life, came from a man's rib? Why is God given male pronouns? The scripture has passed through the hands of many men who have more to gain through your subjugation than liberation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:18 AM
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Thank you! I don't understand why women and girls are being encouraged to engage with men who's mental state they don't know. I love my life too much to even respond to those men. Wear headphones and keep it moving. I'd rather us call the cops from a safe distance than respond to those fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:11 PM
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I hope she's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:25 AM
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Yes. She was having a mental health crisis so I didn't take it personal. I was just caught off guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:24 AM
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Thank you! I gave someone genuine advice yesterday and they called me a hoe and started arguing with me. I was shocked 'cause this is not FDS behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:37 PM
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That's just your downvote. We all automatically get an upvote when posting. If you have zero it just means one person down voted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:27 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:24 AM
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You're responding very violently when I responded with genuine advice. I'm seriously concerned for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:23 AM
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I hope you get the help you need. You're in the middle of a crisis and suicidal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:19 AM
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The whole point of my advice is to find a GROUP to advocate for you and check on your progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:07 AM
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Just offering ideas hun. I too had medical professionals that did not serve my best interests. This is a problem for many women especially those who are intersectional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:05 AM
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Look for a therapist who holds views that aligns with yours. For example: LGBTQ? Feminist? Religious? Social Justice? A passionate therapist that love what they do will advocate for you. I highly recommend getting medical services from professionals who are feminists and or in activist circles. Another example: A woman who has postpartum depression should see a female therapist who specializes with that and or is active in the women's health community. If that mother goes to see a regular male t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:57 PM
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Yes, and forgive yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:44 PM
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Yes, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:15 PM
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It's going great. Looking at condos to buy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:53 AM
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I thought I was on the dating subreddit for a moment 🤭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:31 AM
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https://youtube.com/c/DeborrahCooper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:17 PM
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they're literally just repeating what the other is saying over and over again. If a woman wants male advice she'll find it herself from the ones she trust, not from randoms online. Their sinister need for women to have low standards is scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:15 PM
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Turn off the comments please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:10 PM
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I ended up with a desmoid tumor where I lost half of my stomach muscles from removal. No man is worth that. The child, and only the child is worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:01 PM
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Beautifully written ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:51 AM
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With online systems like MyChart, ladies make him show you his results in person and or go with him to be checked. This is also a good screening for a potential partner because an average scrote wouldn't want to bother paying for a full STI exam. They speak to multiple women at once and will go with the one who's less "complicated"/not asking for accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:00 PM
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With online systems like MyChart, ladies make him show you his results in person and or go with him to be checked. This is also a good screening for a potential partner because an average scrote wouldn't want to bother paying for a full STI exam. They speak to multiple women at once and will go with the one who's less "complicated"/not asking for accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:00 PM
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That guy looks as bad as he sounds. Maybe his STIs got to his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:54 PM
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Yes. I don't know why she's on this show as she could afford to hire a matchmaker that serves only well to do clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:43 PM
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Omg yes that's a good observation! This show is a "who not to be with in real life". I don't know why people keep signing up 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:43 PM
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It looks good on paper but they're really just doing things for ratings. The contestants could lie to them and most men don't seek therapy so there's going to be no history of mental illness unless they ended up in the hospital. For some reason they like pairing women with men who earn less than them and less attractive. Honestly the show is a true reflection of couples in our population, imbalanced. The purpose of the show was supposed to be the opposite of that though smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:25 PM
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Oh wow it's much worse than I thought. She was basically held captive. I think anyone that goes on that show will need therapy to make sense of that experiment. They're playing with people's lives. That's why the other Dr. left that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:51 PM
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Yes I know, it's horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:48 PM
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The sad thing is that no matter how much one tries to not be in the male gaze they still face abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:04 PM
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We should look into doing a private membership site for FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:48 AM
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Stick to female morticians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:09 AM
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Thank you ❤️. There's already a child free Reddit that is quite anti motherhood at times and look down on mother's. Based on what I'm seeing I hope FDS doesn't end up there. I chalk it up the the young age group 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:23 PM
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Wow he played himself 😂. They're really upset with women empowerment and it's scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:49 PM
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This should be the number one comment. I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:12 AM
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I am not excusing their choices. I'm merely stating why such choices are made. I'm sure if you understand psychology you'd be able to empathize with these mother's but with measures in place to protect the children most of which are not planned in these cases. Do you have kids? Live in poverty? Grew up in poverty? In a generational cycle of abuse? Was a teen mom?! Raised by a teen mom? Subjected to religious beliefs that's against birth control and abortion? It's not black and white. It does us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:02 AM
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Do feel sorry for moms like these. Single moms have it harder than child free women in the dating field, 100x harder. Some choose to give up and wait until their kids are older which is a sacrifice as they may want more kids. They have to shift through men targeting them to use them or abuse their kids. Those who aren't strong enough to wait until a good man comes will take who gives them the adult attention they're craving for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:43 PM
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Yes, he was waiting for them to form an attachment to his kids then bounce. I feel sad for the kids, I hope family takes them in if the husband wants to leave as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:21 AM
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That's scary. We're not even safe in a supposedly safe place. I didn't know they were treating us as cadavers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:49 AM
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He's trying to leave his children with his husband because he 'never had time" to himself. I think he had always intended to abandon his kids one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:56 AM
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I wear it because they can't. Trust me, they wish they had freedom to dress themselves up as much as we do without criticisms. Though my choices doesn't excuse the societal pressure of wearing makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:06 PM
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Because they know that when women realize they have options and will probably be happier single, it leaves less women for them to take advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:30 PM
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Because historically the languages and dialects of "non western whites" were regarded as inferior to the "standard" language. What you consider unprofessional, actually derives from other languages, especially those in which anglo whites deemed inferior. Because it's deemed inferior, people code switch until they're back in their safe space amongst those with a similar culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:08 AM
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Code switching doesn't occur in the presence of non "poc" though. As a Caucasian, you don't really have a say in this topic unless you were literally raised by an AA family. Your experiences are quite small compared to a population of millions. I guess you have an issue with "ebonics", which is a dialect that should be respected btw. What you'd consider an unprofessional language isn't made out of thin air. It's a mix of our ancestors language, regional dialects etc that's passed down. Your orig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:58 AM
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Get a Google voice or Text Now number. As soon as you get their number go do a reverse search on their number to get their real name and look them up on a mugshot website, as well as linkedin/facebook. Before I even meet my dates I already know their parents names lol, it's creepy but I've managed to screen out a potential date who had a $250k bond for a domestic violence case(beat up his pregnant girlfriend and had no custody of the kids he was boasting about on his profile).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:41 AM
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