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So who needs to change what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:29 PM
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Correction: you want criminals to change. Of course they won't otherwise they would not be criminals in the first place. Yelling at unrelated people that are not actually doing those things is simply useless bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:02 PM
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That is not the same thing. We not talking about "standards being too high" or "who brings more to the table". Stop trying to shift the goalposts because you can't defend your original position. We are talking specifically about "hypocrisy" and "double standards" of demanding a particular trait that you don't have. For example a low n count. It's not hypocrisy to require something in a dating partner that you don't have since people are looking for someone to compliment them not to be the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:31 AM
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No there are not. Find me some posts calling out the hypocrisy and double standards of women's preferences. Find me any women ever calling out another women for hypocritical dating standards. You can't because there are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:58 PM
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No they are not. Are women called out for wanting a confident guy when she is not confident? Are women called for demanding a guy make the first move when she won't? Are women called out for wanting a guy who makes her laugh when she doesn't make him laugh? Are women called out for wanting a man who takes charge when she won't do the same? Are women called out for wanting an emotionally stable guy when she is not? I could literally run out the character limit of this post just listing endless ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:52 PM
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Not true. Woman demand many things in partner that they don't have themselves. Nobody calls this hypocrisy. It's only when it comes to n counts that women want to fabricate a fake concept that they don't apply to anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:49 AM
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Telling autistic people to "just read the room" is like telling a paraplegic to "just get up out of that wheelchair and walk" If they could they would not be in that position in the first place. Autistic people seem to have suffered the most from the breakdown of traditional social structures and clear norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:51 AM
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The things they bring to the table are not very popular or desired in their native area. There is little demand and an overabundance of supply. On the other hand in other areas of the planet their qualities are desired. There is significantly more demand for them and a lot less supply of guys like them. The profile is usually average looks, average to low height, mid to low income, introverted, not charismatic, somewhat shy, doesn't have game and is a bit of a people pleaser. The US as an overab…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:46 AM
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Your entre position is based on stereotypes. Ones that are completely wrong to boot. Let go of the stereotypes and you have to concede your entire argument is wrong. If that's what you are doing then great, we don't have to beat a dead horse any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:20 AM
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In what world are Latinas and Asian women submissive? have you met them. They generally rule the household with an iron fist. Most guys looking for a wife overseas just want someone that is attracted to him and loves him. If he was looking for a submissive woman he would go to an islamic country or to some fundmentalist christian sect. Not go to the other side of the world to a country well know for fiery chancla lobbing passionate or iron willed women where he doesn't understand the language an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:13 AM
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a party incapable of meaningfully defying you? I keep seeing these weird xenophobic attitudes from Americans. Despite all the information available right before everyone's eyes they choose to believe that South America and Asia are some post apocalyptic wasteland where the population is starving and dying on the streets desperate to exchange sex for a few grains of rice. This a profoundly ignorant fantasy from people who should know better. Makes you really wonder what is going on inside them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:55 AM
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I just checked and the linked video does not work. (Possibly region locked) Ban issued for incivility, trolling and making repeated baseless accusations of criminal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:02 PM
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It's always funny when ignorant americans assume everyone is desperate to move to the US when the majority of women in those countries prefer to stay in their own country. The majority of marriages with a american husband and foreign wife end up living overseas in her country. Also most men marrying overseas are not "ugly" they are plain and unremarkable in the US while having a shy or introverted personality, which is a recipe for failure in the US while being quite attractive to women in certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:41 AM
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Removed for bad faith: counting your change is not an accusation of theft, reading a contract before signing it is not accusing the other person of fraud. Checking something is not the same thing as accusing someone of a crime. You intentionally conflated two very different things to ask a leading question with violates 2 rules on Q4x posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:33 AM
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Removed, telling people to change their sexual orientation breaks reddit TOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:48 PM
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Removed, Q4x posts are not for rants
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:57 PM
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You mean guys who complain that they are forced to pay will tell you why they are forced to pay. That's not them "enforcing the gender norm" that's them having it enforced ON them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:17 PM
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Your using black pill things to try to disingenuously gotcha a completely different pill is predictable indeed. Busted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:55 AM
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I have read thousands of comments by real red pillers and they never say that. The truth is clear. You can't provide examples because there are none. The only mystery here is why you want to attribute a black pill thing to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:47 AM
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"I don't see actual red pillers being surprised that looks matter." - and i do, now what? You claim that red pillers do this thing on mass, provide some proof. It should be easy if what you are saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:28 AM
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I don't see actual red pillers being surprised that looks matter. The red pill always included material on how to best present yourself and draw attention, from improving your body to your styling. None of this was presented in any way that suggested it would come as a surprise, none of the comments underneath acted surprised at all. Don't forget that most black pillers try to hide from the banhammer by using a red flair here but as soon as you read what they actually post its pure blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:21 AM
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Why do say red when you are talking about back pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:09 AM
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Do you understand the concept that different people have different beliefs? It's not "weird" for two different guys to each have a different viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:21 AM
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Occasionally being too forward or sexual will cause you to lose a girl. However not being sexual enough will lose you every girl. You can usually fix things and come back from going over the line. When you stay too far under the line there is nothing to fix, you are not even a candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:14 AM
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Sounds like a personal issue. I'll leave you to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:07 AM
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We were not talking about a home wrecker here. It's obviously someone that came after the divorce. The way your mind immediately went to assume something awful that was never there is as I said before quite concerning. People are awful, self-serving and uncaring. I notice this inaccurate belief structure is common among fds and pink pill types. Which might be something to unpack as well. More importantly, its completely wrong. The majority of human beings are decent and don't have any evil inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:42 AM
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No, only sociopaths and narcissists would do that. The way you think that is normal raises some serious concerns about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:14 AM
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Dad's new girlfriend should be just another small part of the community that surrounds a child. There is no reason to exclude her other than petty resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:23 AM
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It's always better for kids to have more sources of support. Children need a community, large extended family, friends, neighbors involved. This modern western isolation promoted by corporate propaganda to sell people more stuff is stupid and bad for both kids and parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:35 AM
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No, what this will do is greatly reduce the cases of paternity fraud since it's actually punished now. Also the real father can take the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:24 AM
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Sadly it's something most women do. Just look at how they cover for women cheating by reacting violently whenever the conversation touches on DNA tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:55 AM
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There is only one side. Women care about it, men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 AM
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Spent a decade in such places and that's exactly how they behave there. Then next day deny it all. Just like the woman in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:26 AM
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The only people saying this are career women who can't get a date because of their looks or bad personality. Got to find some excuse to avoid having to look themselves in the mirror. Men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:24 AM
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It's always funny how women close ranks around woman misbehaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:49 PM
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I'm sure the girls that I've flirted with, made out with or hooked up with on their "girls night out" all say the same thing. Probably call their men paranoid. Say they are not planning to do any of that when they go out (but make sure their men wont be there to see)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:30 PM
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"girls night out" is a very specific thing from a very specific set of people. It's entire purpose is to exclude the boyfriends or husbands so that they can do sus things. Go to bars/clubs and act single get male sexual attention, dance and grind on randos, flirt with them, sometimes make out, sometimes end up with a new "friend", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:13 PM
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You don't have to get serious with women who do "girls night out" that kind of women is only good for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:46 PM
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Better remember that for later since most women go through their partners fone at some point (or at many points) or check their social media follows and connections for other women, or ask a series of accusatory questions about his interactions with other woman that betray a lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:59 PM
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As long as you are fine with him having the exact same reaction and going scorched earth divorce on you if you ever go through his fone, or accuse him of cheating or ask for proof of who is is with, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:18 PM
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That's not how it works. Guys are the ones that make the first move and generate interest. If he is not making any moves then there won't be any girls interested in him. That doesn't mean he is a incl it just means he is not willing to do what it takes to get a girl. For regular guys women are not lining up to offer themselves as "options". The guy has to go out, meet women, flirt with them, hit on them, rizz them, ask them out, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:20 AM
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What about guys not choosing to be celibate, they want a girlfriend they just are not willing to put in the work of getting one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:16 AM
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That's a big problem that introverted, socially anxious men have who spend a lot of time online. They listen to weird Neurodivergent women online giving them dating advice that is terrible for dealing with normal woman in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:54 PM
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Using a small number of extreme outliers to slander a whole group of people is not truth, it's manipulation to justify hatred of people who have done nothing wrong. If the same were done to any other group you would call it xenophobia, bigotry racism, homophobia, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:04 PM
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This is what flirting is for. Gauge attraction and interest while maintaining plausible deniability. Ether ramp up or eject from there. As long as you are not doing it one immediately after another nobody will know nor care if you have been hitting on multiple women over a period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:42 AM
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That idea never made sense to me. By doing things you increase their presence in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:46 AM
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If I'm ashamed of anything I would write then why write it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:35 AM
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As someone that has spent most of his life touching grass and connecting with other people, building deep friendships with people from all over and hooking up with and dating many a girl that I met at the strangest places, I think I'll follow my judgement rather than anything that comes from PPD creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:52 AM
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What is weird is telling other people how to live their lives, what things they are allowed to enjoy, where the can socialize and where they can meet people. People that are outgoing sociable and having fun while meeting new potential dates and friends are going to continue enjoying their lives while the terminally online stay lonely and judgemental. Each to his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:06 AM
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Oh my, are you claiming that people can only ever have one motive for everything they do? Like you cant go out dancing both because you like dancing and to meet people. You can't exercise for both health and looking better. Seems like you didn't think that comment through before hitting the send button.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:39 AM
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You have no idea how much effort charismatic players put into hitting on women. They can have a rotation of 5 girls already and will still be out tying to meet new ones. If you are likeable and good looking nobody will question your motives. They will find rationalizations for everything you do. Your comment is an example. On the other hand awkward, weird ugly dudes will always be suspect even if their motives are pure. It's just how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:33 AM
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That's how people think it should work. but in the real world it works out completely different: The extroverted charming guys are well liked and welcomed even if they flirt with all the girls, the people that will be negatively judged and pushed aside are guys who are socially unskilled, ugly or weird. Regardless of their intentions for coming there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:04 AM
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It can be both, you enjoy the activity but you also want to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:00 AM
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None of the links and quotes you posted ave anything to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:06 AM
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Obviously both sides should benefit, however the question in this post is specifically asking for when men look for in women. What i'm interested in is why you had such an emotionally significant reaction to that guys comment in particular. I ask because it not the first time I've seen this from women. When a man suggests what women should bring a net benefit to the table women here often have a angry reaction almost like the very idea offends them. I was hoping you could take a moment to dig de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:03 AM
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Statistics do not show that a all. Correlation does not equal causation. Once you control for confounding variables the correlation disappears. Basically you have the causal relationship backwards; being richer and healthier makes it more likely for you to get and stay married. While getting married does not make you richer or healthier. Also if you are talking about the happiness studies you run into a similar problem once you dig into the data. The only way they were able to force the desired …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:51 AM
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Why does a man answering a question about what they want in a woman an stating the most basic criteria of adding to his life rather than subtracting have you so up in arms? Your offended tone and immediate attempt to turn the conversation around seems to indicate that it really made you feel threatened in some way. Can you explain why, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:42 AM
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No contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:26 AM
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For a wife better an ex hoe than a virgin uptight high disgust neurotic controlling harpy. If you are going to live with someone for the rest of your life there are more important traits than sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:51 AM
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Too bad most women don't get the memo and will enthusiasticly date guys who are assholes to the peers, their family, their coworkers, other drivers etc as long has he is nice to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:18 PM
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Ah the classic "he was always nice to ME" Pro tip; he will eventually treat you like he treats everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:32 AM
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No race baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:09 AM
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You mean a small number of terminally online incl whiners. Still those individuals do not represent the majority of men in real life. The people that frequent this cesspool are quite different from the majority of men. In fact the cel people that frequent this place are not really that interested in sex itself. They are obsessed with female validation because of the deficient way they were brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:12 AM
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You will pick a tiny minority that tells you what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:57 AM
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Nah men just need to masturbate more often and the hornyness goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:46 PM
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These days most middle class people sacrifice too much pampering and entertaining their kids. Which is one of the reasons the latest generations are so depressed, overwhelmed and hopeless. To go from a life of being the main character constantly attended by servants/entertainers to hitting the real world and being an insignificant production unit for bigcorp and having to take care of themselves in a harsh world is too jarring switch from the top of the world to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:50 AM
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or he hasn't put enough effort into it (or any effort at all for that matter)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:07 AM
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Imagine living better than 99% of human history and wanting to off yourself because you can't have the last 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:43 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:37 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:36 PM
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red pill adjacent men So not red pill then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:36 PM
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Usually only a temporary phase that changed as soon as the kids grow a bit more and not with anywhere near the frequency of people regretting not having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:01 PM
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People don't regret being single and childless when they are young. It's when they get older that the consequences bite. Often when it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:46 PM
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This is absolutely true. Also women are very reactive to the sexual energy the guy puts out. If the guy is straitlaced, uptight, judgemental and awkward around sex she is going to be much more vanilla with him regardless of how much she might want the relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:24 PM
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There is no such thing as "rapey". Rape is a specific crime with a specific definition. There is a huge distance between the best most wholesome and positive sexual behavior and rape. There are plenty of asshole/pushy/selfish/uncaring behaviors that have nothing to do with rape but that does not mean they are good nor recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:19 PM
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I'd fight to protect her safety not to satisfy feelings of revenge or ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:58 PM
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She just showed you that she is willing to throw your life away for her ego. She is not in any danger but wants to throw you into danger to satisfy her bruised ego. Dump anyone that views you as a sacrificial pawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:49 PM
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Thats a very strange feeling. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:36 PM
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Removed for contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:46 PM
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Why is a man being modern and egalitarian equivalent in your mind to bitter and miserly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:59 PM
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Traditional woman who expects you to pay = OK Feminist woman who splits the check = OK Feminist women who expects you to pay = not OK That last case is the one you want to remove from your dating pool anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:58 PM
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There are also lots of stories of Bigfoot sightings and aliens. Just because there are "stories" of a thing doesn't mean it's any significant majority of the population. If the guy was a functional human being before you got married odds are he does not need you to micromanage him. Woman's anxiety, need for control and stressing out of the inconsequential destroys far more marriages and women's own lives than the rare horder. And if it's one of those extremely rare cases where the guy has seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:59 PM
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Far too many woman go through life deluding themselves that if they are not anxious and stressed out wrecks all the time that everything will crumble. The reality is that her BF or husband was doing perfectly fine in life before she came along. The world won't end if the tiles behind the toilet are not scrubbed twice a week nor if the guy keeps a glass by the sink to drink water out of instead of washing it drying it and putting it away each times he drinks out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:18 PM
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He absolutely should have picked better. Anyone that is not proactive and instead chooses only from the pool of people that chase them is going to end up picking badly. People that have too many bad experiences with the opposite sex typically end up with baggage and are not good options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:05 PM
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You can also reduce the risk of car accidents by not driving, reduce the risk of choking on food by blending everything before you eat it. reduce the risk of infecting other by staying home and never using public restrooms. What std and what percentage are we taking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:01 PM
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There is never 0% risk. They could die in a car crash just driving to your place to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:38 PM
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I don't think he had to "chase" women. looks like he gets plenty of women chasing him. However that comes with it's own problems since the people that chase the hardest (of ether sex) tend to be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:06 PM
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Absolutely, the guy will step up and do what is actually necessary and what is not necessary won't get done nor stressed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:00 PM
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Guy was being whinny, and uncharismatic. That's why he fails with women. Not because of red flags. Women love red flags if they are the exiting, attractive and charismatic kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:50 PM
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As far as I know there are no STDs that properly managed preclude you from ever dating again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:41 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:59 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:10 PM
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With the feminist culture surrounding boys growing up these days it's not surprising that so many develop internalized misandry and tie their own value to female approval. The sad part of that is that same lack of internal self worth and need for woman to make you feel valuable by desiring you is a massive turn off to women. Bit of a catch 22 for the guys that have been raised almost entirely with female authority figures and a gynocentric modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:06 PM
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Removed: Not related to relationships nor the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:58 AM
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Removed; stop spamming the same post with minor alterations. The topic as been done to death already and you have demonstrated an unwillingness to have your view challenged or abide by the Debate Post subtype rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:46 AM
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Do you have the same " little sympathy because of their common and widespread behavior" for any other groups such as the say religions, ethnicities, nationalities, sexual orientations, social classes etc or does the bigotry only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:13 AM
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Do your use the same group blame for individual's actions for any other groups of people? say religions, ethnicities, nationalities, sexual orientations, social classes etc or does the bigotry only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:02 AM
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You do realize you are trying to turn everyone you see here against lonely guys by your behaviour. Being a dick to people while trying to play oppression olympics isn't exactly the best PR move for your little group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:56 AM
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You might want to look empathy up in the dictionary because it has nothing to do with someone being in the exact same circumstances in their life as yours. Also if you are being seen as an weirdo and an immediate danger you might want to think about changing your behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:52 AM
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Why do you keep saying "men" this and "men" that when you are talking about the behaviors of one weirdo incl you are talking to on the ass end of the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:49 AM
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So red pill 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:13 AM
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You are the one that wants out so it's on you to get out. Why would you expect the person that doesn't want a thing to happen to be the one to try to make it happen? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:15 AM
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Yes, setting aside the extremely few truly ugly or severely autistic people, everyone else's issues are self inflicted. Of course you can to some extent blame their behaviours, attitudes and neurosis on upbringing issues like their parents, schools and media but that is a little more murky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:40 AM
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So you are the one that wants to beak up but you are complaining that the person that doesn't want to break up is not doing your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:26 AM
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In the real world it's still men that don't want to get married. You have been spending too much time with the 'cel people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:11 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:23 PM
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Looksism goes in the looks megathread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:04 AM
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No race baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:40 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:38 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:38 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:37 AM
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Crabs in a bucket advice. Just because one person has crippling social phobias and a neurotic personality does not mean they should tell other people to behave in the same failure of a way. Women have made it very clear No, women as a whole have absolutely not. Only a tiny percentage of perpetually online antisocial/autistic and hateful feminists think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:57 AM
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Post removed, if you rework your post to clarify exactly what you mean by the a no is a no part in a way that ensures that it can not be misinterpreted as recommending illegal actions then you can repost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:33 PM
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Predictable from ppd women; use a few exceptions to deny the overwhelming majority. Numerous psychological studies and meta-analyses consistently show that, on average, women tend to score higher than men on measures of the personality trait of neuroticism across many different cultures. . Many experimental studies and surveys consistently find that, on average, women display more risk-averse behavior than men when facing decisions involving risk. . Research suggests that women, on average, tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:06 AM
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These are broad trends that describe the majority of men and women. Women are more neurotic on average, women are more risk averse on average, men care less for empathy on average. Not everyone is the same and there are exceptions and degrees to all this but that does not change the fact that those trends hold true for the majority. The personality and outlook of the men here is very unlike that of the average man you will run into on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:09 AM
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The men here don't act like men at all. They are very much like women: feminine, neurotic, whinny, risk averse, catastrophizing and demanding of "empathy" while showing none for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:13 AM
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Women just tend to not be happy people full stop. Even when single women across the board are less happy than men. Woman have a higher baseline level of neuroticism and instead of dealing with it they tend to blame the nearest man. Of course all this on a spectrum, exceptions degrees etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:46 PM
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Complaining about your partner is part of conflict resolution, making your needs heard and managing different interests. That is only if the complaints are rare, reasonable and go for both sides. However that is rarely the case. More often then not the wife is demanding and controlling and the husband ends up being the one that has to bend himself into a pretzel to acomódate her ever increasing wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:39 PM
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"They need to stop trying to change men into better men" More like they need to stop trying to change them into servile doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:33 PM
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No rants, looksposting goes in the looks megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:05 PM
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Looks posts go in the looks megathread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:52 PM
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Ah the ol' "your point just proved me wrong so I'm going to pretend I just didn't read it" routine. Well here it is again try to address it this time: I'm sure you call all the woman that want a strong man while not being strong herself hypocrites? Or all the women are want a man who is funny and can make her >laugh while not being funny herself? Or all the woman that want an ambitious men while not being >ambitious herself. Hypocrites as well? Or the woman who want a man that will take initiati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:17 PM
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I don't care about promiscuous women being a manwhore myself with no desires to live a white picket fence life. You are free to feel however you want about men and women who are disgusted by promiscuous women. I just made an observation about how yall were over relying on the buzzword "insecure" to shame and manipulate people who had dating preferences that made you mad. Now with your word choices and phrasing you are proving my point about how mad woman are about this and what specific words th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:12 PM
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Ah the old dating preference hypocrisy charge. Not bursting at the seams with originality are we? I'm sure you call all the woman that want a strong man while not being strong herself hypocrites? Or all the women are want a man who is funny and can make her laugh while not being funny herself? Or all the woman that want an ambitious men while not being ambitious herself. Hypocrites as well? Or the woman who want a man that will take initiative when she won't take initiative, hypocrites one and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:41 PM
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I'm afraid that your little attempt at and ad hom doesn't work since I'm quite the manwhore myself and mostly hookup with women like myself. I'm just pointing out that ppd woman yelling insecurity won't change people's preferences and that men on the internet are past falling for such basic manipulation attempts. If pointing out the obvious makes a whole bunch of ppd women mad enough to jump in and attack me, that really shows that they care about men's preferences a lot more than they want to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:30 PM
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That ppd woman are big mad about men's n count preferences and coming out of the woodwork to try insult and shame them into changing them. I'm going to be disgusted by insecure dick obsessed men. Interesting choice of language there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:20 PM
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Nice story bro. Seems like you jumped in and started a conversation with me by saying how you were disgusted, and tried to shame people with the insecure buzzword. What an odd way of showing you don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:17 PM
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How is pointing out that woman are getting big mad about men's preferences and trying shame and manipulate them wanting a safe space. Women can whine about men getting the ick all they want. Me laughing at their antics don't make a safe space, quite the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:12 PM
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You're not beating the allegation there I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:06 PM
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I don't use n count myself. There are more reliable ways to gauge a person. However most of the men that use it do so more because of visceral disgust than statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:02 PM
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Men can't talk to each other about their preferences now? Woman got to get big mad and jump in trying to shame them and manipulate them with vacuous buzzwords. If you are not interested in these "prudes" shouldn't you just let them do their own thing in their own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:59 PM
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Just pointing out that all the effort of 1300+ comments trying to shame and manipulate men into going against their own interests by yelling "insecurity" is a bit of wasted effort in the day and age. Ain't nobody falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:52 PM
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Methinks you doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:42 PM
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y'all insult people who do whatever they want with no regardless to your personal preferences. You talking about yourself there insulting men and calling them insecure for not wanting to marry promiscuous women? How about you are free to enjoy promiscuity and other people are free to be disgusted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:40 PM
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I like myself just the way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:40 PM
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Just stopping by to laugh at the blue pillers trying to manipulate men to go against their own interests and instincts by yelling "insecurity" like its some kind of magic spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:30 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:40 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:45 AM
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Everyone could posibly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:46 PM
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Most guys who are "successful" with women are not Brad Pitt. Take advice from the normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:40 PM
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Each country needs a socialist experiement every couple of decades to remind people how they really turn out because each generation thinks they just invented free lunch and refuses to consider that previous generations already tried that many times and it always failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:35 PM
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The drinking can be perfectly normal for people from heavy drinking culture however the love bombing is a massive red flag. Also the calling himself a "true gentlemen" and the insisting, very creepy vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:50 PM
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The vast majority of men are not in the top 5% of physical attractiveness nor are they in the bottom 5% of physical attractiveness. So yeah rizz applies to the vast majority of men. It should be talked about way more than ether of those two extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:42 AM
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average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:42 AM
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If you take 200 average guys when they turn 18 split them into two groups at random the first group you blast with hardcore blackpill propaganda every day for a year and the other group you leave as a control. Which one of those groups will have more sex and more relationships on average at the end of the year and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:36 PM
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Cant bring yourself to admit your own degeneracy and hypocrisy. You are degrading others every day by touching them with your disgusting degenerate masturbating hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:46 PM
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Jacking your weiner every day to degenerate shit is not necessary ether but that doesn't stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:39 PM
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You should not be touching anyone with your right hand since you use the same hand to masturbate. You also use the same hand to touch food that you use to wipe your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:35 PM
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The only reason I could think to be bothered with your friend is if your friend intentionally participated in her plan to "get back at you" by sleeping with your best friend. If they just want to hook up for unrelated reasons then I don't see any reason to be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:31 AM
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They are claiming exactly that in the very thread so don't even try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:02 AM
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Nope, average normal men are not sitting back and having a bunch of women hit on him. He has to generate interest in women. Hence his looks are not attractive, his actions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:01 AM
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Then why do they get so much unsolicited male attention if they aren't attractive to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:58 PM
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You say "compensating" like being a chad is the norm and that normal people have to try to compensate to bring themselves up to the level of a billionaire. It's silly. The norm is for men is being average and invisible to women unless you do something to break the status quo. It's up to each individual how much effort they want to put in depending on their objective. Lots of casual sex is going to take a lot more effort than landing one girlfrend which is why most guys do the latter. My friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:52 AM
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Nope, as a guy who regularly engages in casual sex and most of my friends do likewise I can categorically tell you that is absolutely false. I'm not a chad and none of my friends are chads, there is nothing remarkable about our looks. What makes the difference between us and guys who look the same but get nothing is attitude, behavior, lifestyle, effort, charisma, extroversion, social skills, flirting, thick skin and putting the numbers in. Men are not women and if they try to use women's sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:33 AM
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If you are going to use that definition of "unattractive" then it has absolutely nothing to do with being ugly because almost all men are "unattractive" and only a few men are ugly. The majority of woman are "attractive" to men based on their looks. Men on the other hand start off as invisible to women unless their actions change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:10 PM
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The immense majority of men don't "attract women" with their appearance. That is normal and has been so through the entire history of humanity. You are trying to say that anyone not born with a private jet is in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:27 AM
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You can really tell that blackpillers don't go outside because all their arguments are based on the idea the the world is entirely made up of chads and hideously ugly manlets. Meanwhile functional human beings can see that the vast majority of men are average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:55 PM
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Men and women have similar levels of obesity so no, women don't take care of themselves in the way that matters the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:38 AM
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You aren't a bald 5'1 ethnic guy so why are you using him as an excuse for your own failures to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:13 AM
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You act like normies don't exist and that all the world is ether chads or basement dwelling incls. The fact remains. The immense majority of incls have a very unattractive personality. They have all the opposite traits behaviors and personality from what makes an average looking guy successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:28 PM
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That is a baseless claim. Show me some evidence of outgoing confident, charismatic, funny, risk taking guy with great body language and voice, leadership qualities, social skills that loves flirting with women that get nowhere. Don't expect me to pull up a chair and wait because we both know that no evidence will be forthcoming. We both know that the immense majority of incels are the exact opposite of that list personality and behavior wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:53 AM
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If looks are everything why are there some 6s that are fucking a bunch of different women, other 6s that are happily married to a women who love them and other 6s that are kissless incls that are total romantic failures that blame their looks when guys of equal looks are getting vastly different results. Looks are just one factor among many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:46 AM
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Sadly we come to the end of the conversation loop that happens with every blackpiller or 'cel. Inevitably when reality clashes with their dogma they say that everyone that has experienced something different than what their ideology tells them to believe is lying. Never mind you can go down to your local divebar and see for yourself. Or if you can't stomach going outside look at subreddits with pics of people getting married the dudes are not chads. Or take advantage of your next trip to wallmar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:39 AM
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When you look up studies every single one shows a majority of men being sexually active. In fact the lowest one I found still showed 2/3 of young men having access to sex. Normies are having sex, the perpetually online introverts with "nice" boring personality are the ones not getting any. two people one a nice guy but a male model the other edgy, confident and a good personaily but deformed who will get more relationships and sex? Here you are back to extremes again, why? because the only way f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:15 AM
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personalities like socially unskilled, neurotic, "wet cardboard" types. Those are the vast majority of 'cel and blackpillers community. The majority of average men are getting girlfriends, blackpillers are not, specifically because they are the minority of men, the neurotic and socially unskilled introverts. Take two people with average looks, one with a confident masculine, outgoing and risk taking personality and another with a blackpiller's personality and the first one will get a girlfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:21 AM
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For normal average men attraction is based on what they do, their posture, tone of voice, clothes and grooming style, confidence, charisma, flirting skills, social skills, leadership, risk talking, being outgoing etc. All that and more goes into getting a visceral sexual response from some women. Opportunity is created by lifestyle, habits, choices of recreation and venue, also social media activity. The opportunity goes nowhere unless he capitalizes on it by making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:01 AM
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"Looks are only a determining factor on people's success when we are talking about the extreme ends of the bell curve." Unless you are on the extreme ends of the bell curve you make your own opportunities. Among the vast majority of the population of normal people they don't stand out enough to have any sort of halo effect neither negative nor positive. What makes normal average people stand out is what they do. How they behave. By definition their looks are unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:46 PM
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We are talking about normal people here not the extreme ends of the bell curve. It's possible to be so good or bad looking that the normal rules don't apply. But that is not who we are talking about here. Those men you are talking about on dating subs are not brad pitt nor are the 4 foot tall bald janitors. The only way that 'cel people can maintain their delusions is to exclusively talk about extremes. For normal men having a personality described as "nice" makes pussy dry up. If you don't unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:16 PM
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If your gang had the personal wherewithal to start a revolution they would not be sexless to begin with. The immense majority of the romantically unsuccessful are that way because the are risk averse, shy, introverted, socially unskilled, neurotic, and on the spectrum. All the traits that guarantee that they will never be the types to start a revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:58 PM
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Translation they are socially unskilled, risk averse, and/or neurotic and self effacing with the personality of wet cardboard. "nice" makes pussy dry up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:36 PM
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Looks are only a determining factor on people's success when we are talking about the extreme ends of the bell curve. For normal people What you do will determine if you are romantically successful or not. Almost all of the people reading this comment have people of the same looks rating as themselves that are successful and others of equal looks that are total failures. What makes the difference is what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:41 PM
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I'm actually speaking from experience growing up on the streets. Confidence has nothing to do with looks or having an easy life. Jails are full of confident assholes. I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:38 AM
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What you basically saying is that there is no difference between an 80% chance of a good outcome and 20% chance of the good outcome because they are not 100% and 0%. I see this argument style here a lot from people that can't dispute a clear trend, where if something is not an absolute then massive trends don't matter it's all just a coin flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:02 PM
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Confidence has nothing to do with positive experiences. You can find supremely confident people sleeping under the bridge. Super unconfident people at the top of their field. Confidence comes from your personality. Mostly it's lack of neuroticism and a higher than average amount of narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:56 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:19 PM
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All top level responses must challenge the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:34 AM
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No contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:47 PM
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That's extreme sexism and probably influenced by excessive porn consumption. As someone who hires and manages lots of people of both sexes there are many different reasons for 1 on 1 meetings with subordinates. Their sex has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:24 AM
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Are you talking about actual asian women or asian women stereotypes that are popular in the west particularly among western women? have you actually been to any of those countries for a decent amount of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:20 AM
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High rise belly button hiding jeans are a war crime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:18 AM
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Having a 12 year old palate at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:06 AM
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Rewrite in proper english.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:02 AM
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bullshit. Women will dump a man or lose attraction to him in a heartbeat for having female coded emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:00 AM
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Both men and women get pushback for being assertive. Only women use that as an excuse to take a passive role in life and blame their personal failures on the neerest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:59 AM
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Why would a male teacher need to meet with a female student privately? That’s a stupid risk and sketchy af. This is extremely sexist and toxic. You might as well ask why would anyone meet privately at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:55 AM
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Search one guy's opinion? What does that have to do with the vast majority of red pill men that don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:10 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:54 PM
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Yup, nobody should marry a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:05 PM
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Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:55 AM
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He dodged a bullet. Should have seen the signs long before then and noped out of a relationship with a narcissist. If she wanted to do it her way then she should have been the one to propose. Then it would be her proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:39 PM
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What is even about her getting her way 100% and not even giving thought to how HE wanted to do HIS proposal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:03 AM
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Why would you marry a man whose wants you don't care for? Why does the world revolve around your wants and never his?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:50 PM
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Did she listen to him? does the world revolve round her? Do only her wishes count? Does he have no say whatsoever on how HE proposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:48 PM
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What you call "good" personality is unattractive personality. The type of personality that makes you sexually attractive to women is a lot closer to morally "bad" personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:21 PM
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I'm talking direct facts here; I can't count how many times incels will make wild claims about things being impossible and when i tell them I have direct personal experience doing exactly what they claim is impossible they just say I'm lying, it's all made up. Everyone whose personal experience is different from their dogma is all getting together to lie to them. These are grown ass men we are talking about. They don't need pats on the head and validation they need to face the harsh truth that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:18 PM
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The problem is those inexperienced failures get together on the internet to have a big old 'blind leading the blind' circlejerk and come out of it thinking they have the gospel truth and then try to gaslight the experienced and successful people about their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:39 PM
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Then they should ask questions from people that are more experienced or successful than them, not prothselize the gospel of their cult of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:33 PM
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people here come with studies that show hard numbers That hardly ever happens. Mostly when people do bother to post a stat or a link they take it way out of context and use it to push something that the numbers linked to don't support at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:31 PM
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Virgin men are more likely to be straight laced, sexual unadventurous and not risk takers. High n men are a much larger risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:21 PM
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Because all virgin men are like this one random guy I saw on the internet. Wait till you read a comment by some other random virgin on the internet saying he has a low libido and don't like sex all that much. So then you can be like "women should not give virgin men a chance because they are all asexual" Or you know, different people are different and some rando guy saying something online does not represent large demographics of millions of vastly different individuals. What a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:11 PM
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Attacking an opponent's alleged emotional state is an ad hominem and not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:23 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:17 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:13 PM
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Top level responses in agreement with the OP go under the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:52 PM
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Warning for make things personal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:49 PM
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Removed for personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:45 PM
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No trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:17 PM
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Removed; Blackpill content goes in the looks megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:39 AM
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You claimed I had no specifics. You were wrong. Now the excuses come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:55 PM
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Your first two sentences contradict the third
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:34 PM
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"A place for people of small stature to discuss the pros, cons, highs and lows of being shorter than average." Nope, not supposed to be a doomer circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:27 PM
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Gaslighting: any fact or real life situation that clashes with the blackpill cult's dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:24 PM
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I can give you a very specific step by step guide if that's what you want. But you don't want that. You want to feel wronged by life rather than change you circumstances. How I know is you didn't ask for specifics nor help, you just gave an excuse for why it wont work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:49 AM
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There is a looks threshold for most women but it's very very low. IE doesn't look like his face was melted with acid. 98% of men pass the looks threshold for most women. And even for the 2% that doesn't there are still odd woman who are specifically into that; woman with Florence Nightingale syndrome, woman with weird fetishes, woman with certain traumas, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:02 AM
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As someone who was decidedly "not cool" and changed into one of the "cool guys" with all the well connected friends, I can tell you it's absolutely something you can change. It will just take significant effort over a period of time and bringing something of value to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:18 PM
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Yes much better with alcohol, there is a reason it's been used for thousands of years. It's not for the taste. Also autistic people are terrible at immediately adapting to a new social situation. They need lots of experience and repetition to build up their routines and masks. Of course going to a bar once will be uncomfortable for them. They need to go regularly for a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:01 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:44 PM
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How much of each and how did it go? Edit: No answer, as usual when you ask for specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:47 PM
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when pressed finally admit that trying consists of swiping on apps and having gone to a meetup one time and being disgusted by the fact that no women suddenly fell into their lap then deciding it's useless and never going again. went to a bar once and ordered a nonalcoholic beverage then sat by themselves for 15 minutes looking at their fone before leaving never to return and concluding it's a waste of time the women in the bar only want to talk to chad. Reading is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:42 PM
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I just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:38 PM
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When you press them for specifics it turns out that they haven't really tried. (idly swiping on tinder does not count as "really trying")
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:18 PM
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I have many dozens of times, they are always evasive and when pressed finally admit that trying consists of swiping on apps and having gone to a meetup one time and being disgusted by the fact that no women suddenly fell into their lap then deciding it's useless and never going again. Let's not forget the ones that went to a bar once and ordered a nonalcoholic beverage then sat by themselves for 15 minutes looking at their fone before leaving never to return and concluding it's a waste of time t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:13 PM
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I have many dozens of times, they are always evasive and when pressed finally admit that trying consists of swiping on apps and having gone to a meetup one time and being disgusted by the fact that no women suddenly fell into their lap then deciding it's useless and never going again. Let's not forget the ones that went to a bar once and ordered a nonalcoholic beverage then sat by themselves for 15 minutes looking at their fone before leaving never to return and concluding it's a waste of time t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:13 PM
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i told myself i can't Well there is your problem. Just because some miserable online misandrist tells you she hates men talking to her in X place does not mean that is true for normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:05 PM
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Sure, and all men should get paternity tests as well. Everyone should take steps to ensure they don't get fucked over. The people recommending secret bank accounts and going to lawyers behind your spouse's back would never object to something as simple as a paternity test right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:18 PM
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Take it to the looks thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:36 PM
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It's all sounds good except for the no sex part. Would never marry someone I haven't had sex with. In fact I would not go into a serious relationship with someone that was purposely "making me wait" If we ignore that part then any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:16 AM
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Personality/charm/body language are immediately evident as soon as you interact with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:36 PM
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If you are good looking but a petrified goat you will get plenty of initial interest then get ghosted before you even get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:33 PM
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Both open doors and both keep the door open
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:16 PM
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What red pill ideas? looksism/hightism/woe is me/its impossible to get laid etc is all back pill. We would need specifics. Again incels use fake red pill labels to hide from the mods because they keep getting 30 day and permenent bans for incel content. I would know because finding them and banning them is my job as a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:18 PM
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I'm not red pill, I'm just educating you in the differences between red and blackpill. The backpill is about looks, red is about game and behavior. The backpill whines about fairness and their lack of a jawline The redpill brags about going to the club and fucking Entirely different worldview, attitude and mindset. Sure the red pill has plenty of faults, inaccuracies and toxic shit but it's different toxic shit than blackpill. If you have any further questions about the differences between them …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:01 PM
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Removed for being a rant not a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:44 PM
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Some blackpillers here use red lables to hide from the mods because incel content is banned. They are not red pill and never have been. Red and blackpill ideas are complete opposites. They only share a few words and even those words mean radically different things to red pillers and back pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:43 PM
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"Impossible to get sex"----->blackpillers "I fuck any woman I want..." -----> redpillers different groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:37 PM
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That's blackpillers complaining and red pillers fucking. Two different groups of people. But don't let facts get in the way of a good circklejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:36 PM
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Removed for incoherence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:45 AM
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Of course I would be interested. I'm not a religious prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:28 AM
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Non neutral discussion post. Removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:25 AM
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Context: we are talking about reddit. This: Agency. Free will. Liberty! Is not a thing on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:18 PM
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If your sub grows enough they will ban it if it doesn't fit the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:45 PM
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You just proved that people can change and going out of your comfort zone is good, that there is no fixed "real you". That doing things differently is not "faking it"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:54 PM
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They don't have everything, they just have money. People crave a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:52 PM
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You just said the same thing I did in my first paragraph but with a more positive spin. It's confort not because there is no such thing as an authentic soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:49 PM
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All growth is forced. If everything was perfect nobody would need to change. They are forced to change because they are not getting what they desire the way they are. Nobody would venture out of their comfort zone if they could get everything they ever wanted inside it. Only entitled losers get bitter when they don't get what they want for a few years. Sadly a common disease around these parts. Bitter because they can't get their perfect wifu without any effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:23 AM
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What they call authentic is their comfort zone persona which is simply what feels good and easy at this moment. Has nothing to do with authenticity. People are in a constant state of flux depending on the influences that surround them, what they are eating how much exercise they are getting, even the season or who they have been hanging out with lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:16 AM
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It's likely that being too picky is why they ended up with ain't shit partners which is why they are telling you to not make their mistakes. If you raise your standards to the point that is excludes all the normal authentic people in your league then you will inevitably end up with a scammer selling you a mirage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:52 PM
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Maintaining a good relationship requires doing thing you don't like doing or don't come naturally to you. There is no mystical "authentic you". People are in a constant state of change based on the influences they have and the circumstances that surround them. If you want to achieve results you have never achieved before you need to become someone you haven't been before. People have to change all the time for any number of reasons. Changing for a relationship is just as valid as any of the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:57 PM
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Everything good in life requires doing thing you hate. Most people hate going to work, doing the dishes brushing their teeth, studying etc If you want to get results you have to do things you don't want or don't like. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:30 PM
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Shy and introverted women like confident and charismatic men just as much as the next women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:30 AM
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Why do you consider changing your habits and behaviors to get better results "pretending to be someone else" Is everything about you fixed at birth? can nobody change and grow? Take a new path in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:20 AM
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Changing your behavior and habits is not acting nor pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:14 AM
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Then go on a date with her. Take a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:29 PM
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Oh really then why are yall complaining about getting friendzoned then? "on the trip out to the lake I tried talking to the female friends of my friends in the car and they pulled out a pepper spray and kicked me of the car because I wasn't chad enough to talk to" Is that how you imagine the real world works?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:30 AM
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Why don't they do it every time you get blood work done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:59 PM
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The why the sudden concern about "the government"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:33 AM
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Then include as part of the law that the results are only to be shown to the parents then destroyed. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:52 AM
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I suppose you always vote libertarian right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:50 AM
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Suddenly libertarian now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:34 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:20 PM
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What did you do that you are apologizing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:23 PM
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Anyone can just make up any anecdote that "proves" everyone else wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:18 PM
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Remember, if you take advice from romantic failures you end up just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:45 PM
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It is always you that's the problem. Other people don't have an obligation to be interested in you. It's on you to generate those feelings in others. If nobody is interested then the common denominator is you. If whatever you are doing hasn't given you the results you want then clearly it's not not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:14 PM
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You don't lose half you stuff when you get divorced, you sign it over when you get married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:52 AM
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Do you think PPD women are better at calling out and holding the worst of women accountable? Why are you dodging this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:57 PM
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If anyone was wondering why democrats were recently trying to remove Trump's secret service protection, now you know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:11 AM
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Did everyone know that bullets were sprayed into the crowd? No they did not. Stop reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:04 AM
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A woman screaming is featured in every video on public freakouts. It doesn't tell people that someone got killed. Again you keep trying to claim that all the thousands of people there have perfect instant knowledge of everything. It's ridiculous the lengths you are going to try to push a narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:49 AM
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Woman are always screaming whenever anything scary happens. In those few seconds how on earth is every one of thousands of people many of whom where not even looking or could not really see anything have perfect knowledge? Absolutely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:38 AM
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So you think that every single person of the thousands there saw everything perfectly in those few seconds? Just because a small number of people right next to her knew doesn't mean that the other thousand people knew. It is not a hive mind ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:33 AM
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BS you can't change it, you can reach down and fish it out like a functional adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:20 AM
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They did not know about the other victim at that point, it was literally seconds after the shot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:15 AM
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How can half the far left comments be "Trump totally deserved it" "it's a shame the shooter missed" etc and the other half be "the idea that anyone really wanted to kill trump is preposterous, it was staged" The self awareness, it's just not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:18 AM
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Called it months ago, as soon as it looked fairly certain that Trump as going to win the election the histrionic rhetoric thrown around by the left would result in some far left psychos attempting to kill him. You can't be throwing around a narrative that the sky is falling Trump is a nazi and going to install a fascist dictatorship etc and not expect that will result in some mentally unstable r/politics types taking violent action when it finally looks like he is going to win. Sad day because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:07 AM
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The comment was directed at the movement itself. The "your" references your supposed defending said movement in this conversation chain. You then disagreed and said you were not defending the movement. All this is part of legitimate debate. Saying someone sounds schizophrenic is not civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:50 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:02 PM
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Unless otherwise stated most people will assume people are trying to date in your league or up. That's why I said try dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:40 PM
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Date down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:27 PM
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This is just a bucket of unfalsifiable rhetorical slime directed at some kind of blackpill/tradcon straw man. Not the red pill. There is no actual content to debate here, just invective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:16 AM
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I have found that getting badmouthed around a social circle actually improves my chances. Why I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:47 AM
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It includes all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:29 AM
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With zero aggressiveness humans would have lost to other species and been naturally selected into extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:16 PM
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Without aggressiveness your entire family line would have been wiped out by more aggressive people. Being a doormat is not a good thing. Without aggressiveness we would still be ruled by kings and have zero rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:31 PM
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If your ancestors had zero aggressiveness you would not exist today. People will zero aggressiveness are known as doormats and aren't a good thing ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:20 PM
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Doormat to hyperaggessive is a continuum. Both extremes are bad. A moderate amount of aggressiveness is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:51 PM
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None of the second half is a shitty person. If you don't like competitiveness, high libido aggressiveness confidence etc that's a personal preference. People like that are absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:02 PM
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You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:55 PM
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The point I was trying to make is that modern individualistic advertising and social media driven society is severely undervaluing the teamwork that goes into achieving anything of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:52 AM
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It was the red pill aging out and being replaced by it's talentless nepobaby the blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:46 AM
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Sounds like the social ability is not the problem then, what about the other things on the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:40 AM
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Not as many volunteers as I was expecting. Im living overseas right now so I'm mainly on during what is American night to early morning, EST 1am to around 9am so I won't be here during the busiest part of the day. However if you need someone for the graveyard shift I'm available.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:37 AM
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For a number of them yeah but for others particularly the ones on the more traditionally masculine side they view femininity in woman as something very positive because everyone has a role to play and the defensive line is just as important as the goal scorer. Imagine a restaurant with all waiters and no cooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:20 AM
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The problem is you can't really know for sure if they act different. People with low social ability can't catch the subtle nuances of demeanor and vibe. For example a late bloomer that we sort of adopted into one of my friend groups thought he was doing the same as us because superficially he was but he came off completely different and did not do well with women. It took him literally over 5 years to get to the point that he could pass at least superficially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:16 AM
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So is the monk, the sociopath, the hells angel and you all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:05 AM
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It's pretty weird you are here if you don't have any opinions. Particularly when you are necroing a 3 day old thread to tell me you don't have an opinion on it. You also might want to look up the meaning of "obsession" in the dictionary since a couple of throwaway comments on a sub dedicated to wasting time while you are on the toilet is not what you are going to find. You seem to be reaching so hard, for what or why I have no idea. Why don't you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:04 AM
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Why did you pick only one? By your logic all men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:59 AM
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Most of the men I know, particularly the ones on the more artsy and hippy side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:58 AM
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Could be any number of things. Most common reasons guys get no play are being introverted, risk averse, inhibited, overly polite and considerate, self-effacing and low social ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:55 AM
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Of course women differ from each other, men do as well. Or do you think you are the same thing as a sociopath or a monk?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:50 AM
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That's a good thing, you need to ruminate through them while keeping your body in movement and get it done with. A good 6 hour walk should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:37 AM
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You can surround yourself with people that view femininity in a positive light, why would you choose to relate to people that look down on femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:33 AM
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Ever consider going for a walk in the forest instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:28 AM
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No surprises there. Most developed countries systemically discriminate against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:23 AM
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What do you think love is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:17 AM
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The same applies to both sexes, there is no unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:52 AM
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Nobody is forcing you to participate in a debate sub you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:11 AM
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Even billionaires complain about money, the economy, taxes regulation etc. They complain about it even more than an average joe. The people that complain the most about traffic are people that drive a lot, not the people sitting at home. Just because someone is successful at something doesn't mean that they don't face any annoyances or setbacks or think that the process could use some improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:51 PM
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What age range are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:56 AM
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As far as I'm concerned rollo was always a grifter, copy-pasting ideas developed on previous blogs and forums then adding 1000 pretentious words to them. Never liked him nor his stuff, it was a tase of what was to come from the reddit brigade. He had already lost the mojo of early red pill and was pandering to the demographic that would later develop into the blackpill invasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:54 AM
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Betrayal is the limit for loved ones, anyone taking calculated malicious action against me. For everyone else it can vary a lot depending on how well I know them if I generally like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:49 AM
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As a suggestion you could add an exception to the "no internal questions" rule on Q4x posts where the OP is actually challenging the demographic in question. For example, I'm a man that heavily disagrees with certain male nerdy, uptight, risk averse attitudes that constitute the mainstream of the male side of the sub. It would be different if I made a question challenging them rather than someone who agrees with them designing a question to elicit answers that agree with him. The same would be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:34 AM
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While the pink pill is not a direct equivalent to incels/black pill it still occupies the same general space in the femisphere that blackpill/incels occupy in the manosphere only with a little wgtow added. Both are filled with incels/femcels and very woe is me/my sex, there is nothing to be done the opposite sex is irredeemably shallow and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:20 AM
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The only one who brought up bear stuff in this conversation is you. I'm talking about the national association of women, the various feminist associations that receive government funding. The woman's studies departments at universities, the predominant views and behaviors of the largest feminist forums in the world. Elected government representatives that self identify as feminists, mainstream feminist authors, journalists and public figures. For example the explicitly feminist National Ministry…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:53 AM
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Mainstream institutional feminism. There is no significant branch of feminism that doesn't engage in those behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:17 PM
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The first step would be to stop hurting them. Stop demonizing men as a whole for the actions of a tiny minority, stop trying to disenfranchise men through laws and policies that discriminate against them or threaten their human rights. Stop teaching a entire generation of boys to hate themselves for things they never did. Stop perpetuating toxic masculinity by being the biggest users of gender role based shaming language such as small dick energy, neck beards, can't get your dick wet, fragile, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:45 PM
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Hated class, went to school to fuck around and never payed attention. Graduated with low grades but did good on our SAT went to college hated class mostly partied and flunked out in the second semester. Worked odd jobs, started a number of businesses with varying degrees of success, backpacked a lot, busked, even ended up semi homeless for a short while. Eventually toned down the fast life enough to focus on staying in one line of business for more than a few months and now it's doing pretty wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:16 PM
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which is why vetting people before marrying them is important i'd never date a guy who was competitive about wealth or >having it better than others even in female friendships or whose books i choose to read, >etc this is always a concrete red flag for me. i do not fuck with >people who have to be better than others to feel good. That's a good outlook to have but competitive comparison isn't just the overt "I make more money than you" type. Among woman it tends to be more subtle but no less insi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:00 AM
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If we look deeper, were the emotional overwhelm is coming from in the first place we come back to excessive status competition, inflated expectations and lack of proper prorization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:26 AM
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If you refuse the see anything that disturbs your worldview that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:38 PM
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Probably the worst part is the people that use it as a sort of moral judgement against the people that have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:33 PM
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I'm not talking about men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:05 PM
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The woman shooting and failing is the one that ends up depressed and bitter. Sure it's her responsibility but when you put millions together you get society as a whole and when the dominant social ideas lead to too many people shooting for things that are mathematically impossible for more than a small minority to get and ending up bitter and depressed, some reflection needs to be made about those dominant social narratives that are leading to such negative results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:07 PM
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The answer is to do some serious self reflection and disconnect from the modern toxic hyper consumerist competitive image driven zeitgeist. After that you will find that you don't actually care about the things that social media and advertising campaigns put in your head. It will be a lot easier to make genuine human connections with normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:02 PM
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That excuse always gets dragged out despite making no sense if you think about it more than 3 seconds. If that were the case then diagnosis numbers would be up but negative consequences would be way down. The opposite is happening, people ending themselves is up, other negative consequences are also way up. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:55 PM
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They get posted here often enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:21 AM
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Rising expectations and entitlement doesn't actually make people happier. The rates of depression, termination and quiet desperation should be some indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:16 AM
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Of course it is, unless you are one of those types of guys, in which case greed flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:49 AM
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Honestly with my lifestyle I never thought I'd get this far. I don't have and end goal and just take each day as it comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:27 AM
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Comments can take up to a day or more to get dealt with. Checking back a few hours later won't tell you much. I do agree that she does behave badly when she randomly pops in from hiatus but then she is gone again for months fortunately. Easily the worst behaved mod, insulting people then banning them for responding while leaving her own insults up. I don't know if the other active mods can really do anything about her since she is higher up on the mod list and everyone above her seems to be inac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:59 AM
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Woman do love experience, or at least the final product of that experience. Most women don't want a clueless bumpkin that doesn't know his way around a clit whether he loves her or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:35 AM
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How would you know what it does or doesn't do? Mods don't make an announcement every time they ban someone for a few days. I know for a fact that woman I was arguing with have been banned because they suddenly stopped responding for 3 days or 7 days then answered back at the end despite continuing to post on other subs in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:33 AM
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Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:17 PM
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What did you do to get that record?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah because men actually think for themselves and have different opinions and are not afraid to disagree with the ingroup. Meanwhile woman can say the most bigoted Hitleresque misandry imaginable and none of the other women will call them out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:13 PM
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While you can gain some experience in a single relationship it pales in comparison with the experience you gain from a large number of people who bring different experiences and perspectives of their own to learn from. Most women are not very explicit in, or outright against providing feedback so an average guy in a single relationship is likely to not learn much. On the other hand I have been with a verity of different woman and a number of them have been very direct and expressive and that has…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:07 PM
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The red pill is a specific thing it's not a catch all term for everything a man says that you don't like. What you are doing is saying communists, socialists democrats the ACLU and antifa are all the same thing because there is some overlap in the membership. It's pure ignorance, each group and term has a specific meaning. If you want a catchall term for them then use "manosphere" that's what it's there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:53 PM
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Why do you have such an problem with accepting the difference between red and black pill ideas? They are different things. Did you get so invested in labeling everything you hate "red pill" you can't accept that part of those things you hate are actually black pill? Why can't you use the proper labels?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:40 AM
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Or, wait for it.... You are wrong and don't know what you are talking about. By your own description you hate the red pill, why would I expected you to have an accurate view of something you hate? Funny thing is I'm not red pill. I have my own criticisms of red pill ideas and the community. However mine are actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:36 AM
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So you want to make things worse for women and force them into situations that they themselves decided are worse than sex work. Just so you can direct some invective at men online. That seems pretty evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:10 AM
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You keep saying that with nothing to back it up. Also the things you list are a result of toxic modernity to some degree as well. It *cause" stress, anxiety, health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:21 AM
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To a certain extent yes however it's also a case of woman wording their insults more subtly to technically stay just under the line. Which makes it even more important for men to report woman's personal attacks every chance they get. It might take more than one report to get some action. Also when women do get baned you don't see it, they just aren't posting for the duration. No announcement is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:19 AM
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Your intent here is to villinize men that use those services and discourage them from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:46 PM
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Why not do you claim it's not the cause when woman state as much openly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:21 PM
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Loss of libido is one thing, prioritizing and stressing out over inconsequential female social matrix stuff to the detriment of ones marriage is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:13 PM
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Action does get taken however since PPD runs on a strike system and men don't report, the one guy that does report only gets his target a warning or a 1-3 day ban rather than the much longer ban she would have gotten is the other guys had reported her previous rule breaking and she had more priors on her registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:59 PM
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Only on PPD would I actually have to point out that cheating is obviously disrespectful in the highest degree. Also men want to be loved not just respected. Otherwise you would see more men happy to have transactional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:44 PM
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The one guy that all the other red pillers are disagreeing with and or making fun of is a "recurring theme among red pillers" It's more like dishonest cherry picking is a recurring theme among red pill's haters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:41 PM
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Woman tried that in the 60s and 70s they ah e mostly failed and died out. They cant recruit enough new members to keep them going. So no, they don't live pretty happily, otherwise they would be successful and growing rather than dying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:37 PM
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You can't tell a woman's n count with any certainty until much later in the relationship. At which point you already know what her personality, values and character are really like so why bother with proxies like n count that are only associated with said core values?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:33 PM
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And the men here enable it by not reporting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:30 PM
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A lot of that comes from the toxic modernity idea that the partner has to come in last after everything else is taken care of. The kids actual needs sure, but the competitive white picket fencing is getting out of hand. A woman who can't get in the right headspace for an orgasm because the drapes need to be steam cleaned and she needs to remember to order cups that match the color scheme of junior's birthday cake for next month is not mentally healthy. Yet that is normalized within toxic moderni…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:28 PM
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Personality is directly responsible for a large portion of attraction. Sincerity and goody good boy stuff is not attractive personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:19 PM
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Then change you flair to black. You are not red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:15 PM
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Again that is a black pill idea, this place is infested with black pillers. I was on red pill sites from as far back as heartiste, altsedfast, in mala fide, the spearhead, etc The RED pill concept of 80/20 is "20% of men are having 80% of the casual sex" That's it. Any application to looks or online dating is pure back pill that was only invented recently on reddit. The red pill predates reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:11 PM
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Oops responded to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:10 PM
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Then why are you here trying to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:17 PM
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Nope, that's exclusively black pill. The red pill never said that average men get no matches. The red pill 80-20 is completely different, it's about casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:06 PM
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A certain percentage of woman have always been and always will be gold diggers. A new paint job on a very old occupation doesn't change anything fundamentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:24 PM
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How does this contradict the red pill? Isn't it the back pill you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:15 PM
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You would be surprised how many woman we still string along and keep on the back burner even when we have no intention of ever LTRing her. I have woman in a bunch of different cities just so I have a place to stay, food, company and sex. As long as a woman is willing and not being too demanding chads will string her along indefinitely. My Chad friends don't even drop their side chicks when they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:58 PM
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Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:48 PM
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Chad here and we absolutely do fuck Beckies, and even ugly Janes. we will fuck literally anything that moves depending on the circumstances. Especially after a few drinks, or if we need a place to stay, or if she makes it really easy and getting a better woman would involve work, or for simple verity. Men don't "only have eyes for" one top woman, men want to collect all the pokemons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:47 PM
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You were attempting to attack, shame, deter the men from using the service she provides, taking the option of providing that service away from her, forcing her to do the other thing that she had determined was worse than prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:25 PM
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OP you dint mention the context for that kind of conversation. Woman's behavior is going to be completely different in the club/party than over coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:44 AM
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That is twisting other peoples statements into a contradiction then complaining about said contradiction. The people complaining about woman making a man wait are only complaining about woman who fuck a bunch of other men fast while making him wait. They just want consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:21 AM
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"this woman is in a bad situation with a really bad option and a less bad option. Let's...wait for it...take away the less bad option. What could go wrong" Pink piller logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:10 AM
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Those aren't really polka dots at that size it's more like texture. Yes on the dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:56 AM
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And when they do, the reason is posted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:22 PM
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Then why are all the other discussion posts with affirmative claims or rhetorical flair in their body still up after being reported. Do you realize how many posts you are going to have to go back and delete now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:36 PM
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Almost every discussion post contains some rhetorical flair in the the body of the post. The rules state no leading titles. Not no affirmative claims in the body. Otherwise you would have to go back and delete just about every discussion post made in the last year. he gathered evidence that prove his beliefs. A blue pilled woman challenged him to do that experiment anticipating different results. They did the experiment and posted the results. They were acting exactly how they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:26 PM
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The post was flaired correctly. It was the results of an experiment/challenge both sides got to respond and critique the design of the experiment and interpret the results. It's a textbook discussion post. Flaired exactly as it should be. The comments turned into a rout because one side did a bad job arguing their points. And many blue pillers stayed away from it because they didn't like the results of the experiment. That's a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:17 PM
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Just about every post that is made gets circejerking replies. You don't remove the post because one side is winning down in the comments. The post itself did not break any rules. It's not OP's fault that the blue pill side was not able to hold their own in the comments section.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:06 PM
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A very high traffic post with over 1200 comments, that is very controversial and is being referenced all over the sub will always have removal reasons. Not the same thing as a random comment or shit post that never makes it out of the filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:02 PM
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Since the post had already been approved by at least one other mod and had multiple mods participating in it. I'm not inclined to believe the stealth removal was done in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:52 PM
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The original stealth removal was 9 hours ago, the "wrong flair" excuse was only added 44 minutes ago after people started complaining about the BS removal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:45 PM
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Wrong, the post was stealth removed 9 hrs ago then after the sub started calling it out a mod went back and added those post hoc excuses 43 minutes ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:41 PM
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To try to argue against the fact that lesbian relationships have the highest level of domestic violence you made the point that not all the domestic violence that woman in lesbian relationships suffer comes from their female partners, a percentage of it comes from men; fathers, stepfathers, brother etc. So to arrive at the real percentage of DV suffered by woman in lesbian relationships from their female partners you need to subtract the percentage that comes from men. However if you want to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:49 PM
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Since we are on the subject of basic maths if you want to take a take a percentage off of one side the the equation you also need to do the same to the other. Which seems to be missing from the point that you are referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:30 PM
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Every woman is a pickme if another woman is mad at her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:17 AM
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Saying my woman friends doesn't sound right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:51 PM
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They don't have to all be the same. It's casual conversation on a subreddit. Not a masters thesis. it conveys the general idea quickly and succinctly. You don't need any more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:53 AM
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Drug dealer is just a shorter way to describe a type of person in a way that everyone will understand without typing 1000 word description of their personality, vibe, habits, behaviors and attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:22 PM
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Because that poster has said so herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:28 PM
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One pill certainly exists, the terminally online pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:43 PM
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We are talking about the modern western world don't be disingenuous. This is an ongoing issue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:56 AM
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What makes you think that woman give a single fuck about double standards that benefit them? Or are you one of those blue pill guys that feel that woman are some kind of moral saints floating above the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:33 AM
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Why would anyone express attraction for you out of the blue, are you an attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:28 PM
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Chad does more work on women than you will ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:46 AM
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Twox and all the main feminist subs are hate groups by your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:26 PM
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"a guy" won't date her. Wow. Sorry I forget that men are all connected together into a hive mind. Anything "a guy" says represents all of mankind. Is it replace your brain with a cabbage day on PPD or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:04 AM
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