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DISCUSSIONBungalowBootieBitch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:39 PM
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Can I just say I'm obsessed with her laugh? I have this ugly cackle when I laugh just hard enough and it's a love-hate relationship. Her laugh is so, so perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:35 AM
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THIS IS MY MOMENT! Please, please PLEASE watch my queen Kelly Stamps. I cannot express how much I love her and high key jealous I am of her. She is humble, extremely intelligent, is open about her mental health, and has no time for LVM. She has inspired me a lot since getting recommended a video titled something along the lines of "I burnt that bridge to a crisp."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:34 AM
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Had me in the first half not gonna lie. I didn't realize there were more screenshots so I thought OP was just stating what she believed would happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:51 AM
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I once invited a guy I met on tinder to go bar hoping with me, my best guy friend A, and his Reddit friends. My date failed to mention he has alcohol problems so he got drunk quickly. When A realized my "date" was going down hill, he stepped in. Mind y'all A isn't a big, muscular dude; he's definitely a short king. Yet when the tinder guy tried to put his hands on me, A pushed him off of me. A got us an Uber and made sure I was safe getting home. We've been homies for about 11yrs now and never, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:21 AM
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This is a date when you're like 16yrs old and have to be home by curfew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:27 AM
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Okay so if you ever need to give out a fake number, get those phone number apps. I have one when I don't want to give out my real number for any situation (I use text now). You can always get a new number and it costs you nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:04 AM
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It's literally the one necklace I think all men wear. My mom bought my nephew and brother a similar chain. This dude needs chill tf out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:56 PM
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But I don't want women as my human shields! Lock up violent men! They don't need access to women sex workers or not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:26 AM
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He even cleaned the son's mocitos from his nose 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:35 AM
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Something I started doing years ago was to up how often I said dude, bro, and homie. I might sound like a jackass but the message is loud and clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:07 AM
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Texas wants to make sure they have enough babies for the school to prison pipeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:55 PM
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I definitely think part of the problem, at least from my experience, was the rise of the "not like other girls" phase aka the cool girl phase. I know I'm not pretty by conventional beauty standards so I lowered my dating standards and tried to look "kewl" smh. That's how I ended up with an angry, weed dependent ex. Then of course the introduction of liberal feminism in the 2010s warped my idea of what equality was. That's how I ended up paying for dinner dates, my ex's weed, rent, and gas (I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:25 AM
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Like here's the thing: they can do whatever they want. I'm of the belief that what people do behind closed doors is there business. Also, I don't care. I have a lot going on in my life. I won't tell people how to live their lives. My thing is that no matter what, I'ma think to myself, "do they know this isn't sustainable?" Because it's not. Unless they're investing that money to transition out of sex work, they're going to find themselves in a cycle of poverty. I don't hate sex workers and I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:35 PM
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Maan it was summer 16' or 17' that made me straighten tf out. I was in my early twenties and I began wildin out to rebel against my strict upbringing. The thing is that I had no real guidance except basic sex Ed and stuff. My family didn't like to acknowledge that, hey, maybe I was interested in relationships and sex (I'm the youngest in an old school, Latino family). I ended up being pressured to give oral on a "date" and it was just awful. When I returned to University, I got tested immediatel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:41 AM
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In the words of Bianca Del Rio, I would ask him what does he do successfully. Quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:18 PM
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If she's talking about celebrity men, she's delusional. I promise you men like George clooney absolutely have a skin care routine. They probably pay hundreds of dollars too. Even Pharrell Williams owns a skincare company and I'm positive he's a vampire or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:55 PM
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Oh baby this hurts me. My experience was that I was always ignored. I would just leave. No one wanted me there so why would I stay? So I developed this funny friend personality. Just always cracking jokes because I wasn't going to be the pretty friend (pretty sure I was just being annoying though). Deep down though I too just wanted to feel pretty. And for the longest I needed the validation of men to believe it because I couldn't believe it for myself. It breaks my heart that me at 14-23 wanted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:18 AM
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🎶You must sing your scales and your arpeeeggiioos 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:24 AM
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It's so crazy we can feel like this when there are so many amazing women who are in their 30s we look up to. I know for me Jhene Aiko has been such an important influence in my life. Her album Chilombo was released when I was at my lowest mentally and emotionally. I couldn't even listen to Born Tired without sobbing (I spent months holding in my pain). She's such a powerful woman and she's in her 30s! I try not to fear getting older or compare myself to gen z. It's hard though. My best friend, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:34 PM
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And what if a misogynistic man wants to harm her because he decided OP being a sex worker meant she wasn't human? I don't want women to be literal human shields! That's what happened with the women in Georgia! Dude would go to them to get his sick needs met then he killed them!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:36 AM
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Saweetie said he can go back to the streets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:42 AM
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Unfortunately what happened to my friend. It didn't help that she was so unsure of herself. On one hand, she wanted a relationship with someone who she thought could pull her out of a toxic family. On the other hand, she didn't want to commit. She was okay just letting things happen as they did. No commitment on his or her part. So many red flags but she didn't care. She finally left when he reacted so horribly to a pregnancy scare. I understood where she was at because I was in a similar mindse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:35 AM
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Duuude how did you know!? Like the title makes is pretty suspicious but you accurately picked up which subreddit it was too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:44 AM
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In the time I've been part of FDS, which I think is over a year now, I've learned a lot of things. Things which forced me to reflect on my past, my decision making, and generally dealing with a lot of skeletons in the closet. I've always operated from the assumption that FDS isn't a monolith. There are things we can all agree on and perhaps some things we won't. At the end of the day, however, the message I got from FDS is, "ladies, you don't need a man to having a fulfilling life, but if you do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:08 AM
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Bold of her to assume "modern women" would care what she does with her life. What she does as a wife isn't my business. She's the one in an imaginary competition with other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:31 AM
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I'm glad my friend finally left the guy she was "seeing." He raised her voice at her, which had been the second time, and she realized this was a pattern. I hate that it took him verbally disrespecting her to realize he wasn't right. I feel bad she feels so awful but at least I know she's safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:50 AM
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I live in Texas where the governor decided to lift the mask mandate. The same state where getting a vaccine is a miracle. I'm supposed to have a baby in this environment? I think the frick not. For better or worse, I finally got birth control because I have pcos. I'm never, ever letting go of my birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:59 AM
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Fuzzy love goes a long way 🐶❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:18 AM
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She said "let your wife find herself a better boyfriend you cockblock" lmaooo 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:30 AM
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FDS literally says, "hey most men can't even wear clean underwear. Just focus on you and don't worry about relationships." We are actively encouraging each other to let go of this idea that we can't function without men. Are relationships fun? Yeah they can be with the right person. Do we absolutely need one? No of course not. It's better to be single and at peace than to be begging your partner to wear clean clothes (something I had to do). How are we female incels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:11 AM
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The gag is that the moment you ask to go somewhere nice on a date, you're suddenly high maintenance. If I don't agree to a burger in his car while we watch netflix on his phone, I'm too high maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:59 AM
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So I read an article about this and she said she started an OF to "spice" up the marriage which i can't understand that correlation. Whatever though I guess. She supposedly posts lewd photos that are "tamed" in comparison to what is expected of OF. Either way neither parent thought, "what could happen to my kids if this got out?" Classmates are gonna make hella uncomfortable jokes and her kids won't be able to do a damn thing about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:39 PM
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If and when I go to grad school, I'ma buy a really good sex toy. I'll hopefully be attending a university in a smaller town that's also known as a party place. Trying to date will be useless. At least I know I'll be 100% safe with a toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:50 PM
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My niece recently told her dad she wants nothing to do with him or his family. He was given information about my niece from his niece and slut shamed my niece. Obviously this information was a lie, but instead of investigating this story, he called my niece and threatened to beat her ass. He started off as a good dad. Then he stopped picking her up over the years. She told me he would pick her up twice a year. Once if she was lucky. He really hurt her but she's trying to keep a straight face. Mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:55 PM
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Something I sadly had to begin doing was really bro-ing up my speech in order to seem unappealing. A lot of dude, bro, homie, etc. I also would basically introduce myself with my worst qualities or exaggerated them. So I would say that I'm flakey, lazy, antisocial, etc. Literally anything to make it clear I was just a friend and not someone to approach romantically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:23 AM
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Just one sa-lad? Fuck I've been eating two sa-lads with spinch :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:34 AM
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It's just safer honestly. My family is Latino so they can't fathom not wanting to be married and having kids. Never will I be able to make them understand that men now days ain't shit lmao (they weren't any better back then either though). Also, mama, the generational trauma is real. What kind of mother would I be passing on my depression and self loathing to my kids? When I first moved back home, I went to get my cards read. My best friend has a friend who does tarot card readings. She said the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:28 AM
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We don't want men! We don't like y'all!!! Half this subreddit don't want kids! Watchu mean eugenics!? Baybee you wanna talk about eugenics? Let's talk about how woc were being sterilized without their permission back in like the 60s and 70s!!! There is even a documentary on it called no más bebes! Don't come here talking about eugenics when poor woc and enslaved women have had their bodies used like lab rats!!! Also I've said it once and I'll say it again: if we are a bunch of ugly women with ze…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:54 AM
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I read something along the lines that when you start calling out predatory behavior from men, other men get uncomfortable. They get uncomfortable because they realize they might be guilty of doing the same thing. I had a relative really defending tekashi 69 saying, "wHy wAs a tEeNaGer pReTeNdInG tO bE aN aDuLt?" THAT LITTLE GIRL CLEARLY LOOKED LIKE A TEENAGER! I was immediately suspect of this relative. Like I began to wonder if they got themselves involved with a minor or someone just way young…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:35 PM
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Oh oh omg so my friend was telling me that she's been kind of talking to this guy she met on bumble months ago. She fully admitted she's bored. She met up with him and he said, "let's be friends." She said that's fine. The moment she hit him with that friend energy, he started acting up! Not only has this dood been frequently texting her, but when she told him she was going out of town, he said "oh well you're probably going to flirt with guys. I'm just letting you know it makes me uncomfortable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:50 PM
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This whole article could be summed in one sentence: the government hates women, severally oppressed them, and are now paying the price for it. I hope women like Star become millionaires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:47 AM
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"she can eat a fuck ton of food but never gets fat. Also, she fucks like a porn star but is still a virgin."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:54 PM
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As someone with depression dealing with a codependent, depressed mom, WE CANNOT HELP ANYONE WHO IS DEPRESSED. How in the fuck can a regular person, especially those who also have depression, be qualified to help outside of offering support? Even if I was a trained therapist with 20 degrees, I couldn't help someone who I have a close relationship with. It's a conflict of interest! And look I get therapy is mostly inaccessible to a lot of people now days. I could afford only a few months of therap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:46 AM
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I could never pick up a man. Even before FDS, I always had concern a man could hurt me. I'll have my keys for my car and drive myself home if need be. If he doesn't have a car, I guess we ain't hanging out 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:36 AM
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My friend used to identify with the dude from 500 days back in highschool. Then he grew up and understood the actual point of the movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:30 AM
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What money tho? Lmao most men aren't as rich as they think they are. Even wealthy men can be LV. If I walk away from FDS remembering only one thing, it's that I really don't need to be in a relationship. Like it's nice and cute sure. However, I can be single and direct my energy to my career, education, and family. I can make money for myself and my family (especially my sister's kids who want to go to college). What's bothering people is that we are choosing to be single. That we set hard bound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:45 PM
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And then when 18yr old girls rightfully tell these men they're old af, creepy, and need to stay in their own age group, they get offended. Like yeah they don't wanna sleep with you; you're old enough to be their dad ya weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:43 PM
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And then the man proceeds to not do anything on the list lmaooo they're always "too tired" after work and just wanna spend the night playing video games. Can't even throw their dirty clothes in the wash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:08 AM
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Besides my fear of being left the way my dad left my mom, I'm scared I'll pass on my mental illnesses. Seriously generational trauma is real. My siblings and I have dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts. My sister's kids are suffering from depression (their dads are also deadbeats which doesn't help). My mom keeps telling me women who don't have kids will regret it. I'll feel like shit if I gave my hypothetical kid a bad upbringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:00 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story. I think it's very important to hear the stories of women in college. It gets very hard financially if you don't come from a privileged background. I was super tempted to get a sugar daddy my sophomore year. My friend had a friend whose sugar daddy paid her rent. All I wanted was money for food. Ultimately I decided not to because I was afraid of getting stalked and killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:00 PM
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I remember in college we'd always joke about getting sugar daddies but like for feet pics or something. Because we didn't like the idea of actually having to have sex. Also, when story telling was big on YouTube, there were stories from former sugar babies. They usually told stories of crazy encounters where they could have been hurt. Some were probably made up for clout, sure, but I'm inclined to believe many were subjected to uncomfortable/dangerous situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:53 PM
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Is... Is this a bit? Please tell me it's some weird joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:11 AM
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Someone get her far away from him my goodness. I don't think her current environment will allow her to heal. She's so deeply hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:21 PM
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For the longest I think the men in my family just told themselves that I wasn't interested in men or dating. I know the men in my family are treated differently and act how they want. I'm almost positive that's why they were, or are, uncomfortable with me dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:10 PM
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Didn't you know? Getting into the club for free before 11pm is pRiViLeGe 🥴🤡 we also get free, water downed drinks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:01 AM
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My sister is 42 but looks like she's 30. Idk what this wall thing is lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:20 PM
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My mom isn't a perfect person and has other behaviors I'm hoping she can address with a therapist. However, I can gladly say she's never been a pickme type. She's obviously old school when it comes to dating which isn't always a bad thing tbh. She isn't desperately looking for a man to give her crumbs of attention. She told her ex boyfriend that she didn't want an expensive engagement ring but rather a big house in the country. She's not one to be impressed with flashy stuff she can easily buy h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:41 PM
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Girl men ruin everything. They even think you working out is for them. As if you're a professional for their interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:16 AM
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My mom had me when she was 40 and her doctor said the same thing. He said, "you have no business having a baby at your age. She might come out with down syndrome." To which my mom said, "well if she has any problems, I'm gonna love her even more." Also, my dad was ready to throw hands. Plot twist: I don't have any development delays and I have a Bachelor's Degree in Ethnic Studies. Even if I did have something, he had no right to age shame my mom. Sometimes I wish I could find this dood and tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:04 AM
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I went to my family's long time doctor because I stopped getting my period. He said I just needed to lose weight because my it wasn't my thyroid (I had hyperthyroidism but I'm at subclinical now). I went to a lady doctor at PP. In a week I had the proper diagnosis of PCOS. I told my mom I would never go back to the first doctor. He was in a rush and I didn't like his bedside manner. Also, I had to spend close to $400 for two doctor visits 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:43 AM
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And remember ladies: you won't create the perfect race of humans if you have a husband with saggy balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:04 PM
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TeNdEr YoUr HeArT 🤡 so you can take advantage of me in a vulnerable state? Goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:56 AM
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I went to see if my comment got downvoted or not and I was at -2 lol. Because I said don't let him use you like a sex toy? Because I said if he wanted to give you better sex, he would? 🤷🤷 I mean all it takes is effort and her manz doesn't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:44 AM
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I left a comment on this post! Is told her if her partner wanted to give her sexual pleasure, he would. I'm not surprised the post is deleted. It's hard coming to terms with having a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:02 PM
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I don't use tik tok but I'm so tempted to make an account just to send this to my good friend. She's literally in this situation. Except she's also unsure of what she wants. It killed me that she was trying to figure out how to ask the man to not sleep with other women while gone for the holidays. Like that's probably why he hasn't made it clear to her what's going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:08 AM
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Omg omg so my sister was talking to this guy she met online. They started engaging in phone sex. There was a point where he started calling her ugly names and would say things like, "I'ma rpe that mouth of yours." Immediately she got confused and worried. She pretended to finish and hung up. She's 42 and has never met a man with a rpe fetish. I told her that he sounds like a man who has consumed a lot of violent porn and that it was right of her to block him. She has kids and doesn't want a man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:34 PM
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Hate speech is me wishing harm on men. I don't wish harm on men, women, and everyone in between. What I've decided is that being a single adult is going to be more fulfilling in the long run. My decision to be single affects no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:31 AM
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Because they think we'll beg them to come back to us. The thing is that we aren't going to tho? Lmaooo like please leave. Pack your bags and move back to your parent's basement because we all know that's the way they're going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:56 AM
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Okay let's say this user is a single mom. Why are you upset she bought herself a ring? Why did her post make him so mad? If you hate single mothers, why are you bringing them up? I hate LVM/NVM so what do I do? I avoid them lmao. I don't waste my time on subreddits that are dedicated to hating women. Lurking ass punk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:51 AM
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Question: would it be stupid to straight up ask a dude if he's expecting sex for one dinner date? Like I would probably ruin my "chance" on going out. However, it's not a loss for me if the guy was secretly hoping for sex. I don't want to be in a situation where I'm being pressured. I'll just call up my girlies and we can have a safe dinner with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:39 AM
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Be wary about this tactic though. Back in college I knew like 3 guys who claimed to be "woke" and "respected women." One guy r*ped a former classmate, another held a knife to my friend's neck, and the last was exposed for attempting to sexually assault several women. I knew then to never trust "woke" men. Idk what happened to the first or last guy. However, the second guy dropped out of school on the grounds of mental health problems. My friend suspected he was waiting for everyone that knew him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:16 PM
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His daughter might be frustrated right now but she'll understand in the future. I remember being 17 and just settling for any little attention. I was on my pickme bs and it just wasn't a good time for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:35 PM
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I have to imagine that, deep down, sex workers know they won't have income if they stop being sex workers. They have to ignore the ugly because they need to pay their bills. But then that exposes how shitty it is trying to get a job that pays a livable wage in the US (as we saw with the young women who was an EMT). It also exposes how dangerous, anxiety inducing, and laborious sex work can be. I hope Rose has some kind of support with her. It's scary but PH needs to be held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:02 AM
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They're looking for their "Harley Quinn" but she's already in a loving, respectful relationship with Poison Ivy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:21 AM
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This is why I am holding onto my birth control for dear life and staying single for the next few years. This is mad disrespectful to his kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:03 PM
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Girl let me tell you I have a friend, who is 26, "seeing" a 40 something year old guy. Tell me why she immediately looked past his previous relationship of 8yrs!!!! He wasted his ex girlfriend's time and now he's wasting my friend's time 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:43 AM
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I'm still working out, internally, some things I learned from FDS. However, at the end of the day, if I were to leave Reddit today for whatever reason, I can take the lessons I learned from FDS with me. Like it was painful having to sit and reflect on all the mistakes I made and red flags I let slide. Reflecting on the mistakes the women in my family made because my culture favors men and traditional values. It was so painful last year. But now I know my bar needs to be sky high. Even if that me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:20 AM
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The only taste they have are putting up tattered posters of the avengers behind the tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:20 PM
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And then he'll tell his friends, "hOw wAs I sUpPoSeD tO kNoW?" Idk who told men they can stop giving a shit once they're in a relationship. Like no you keep doing the romantic things that won over your partner. They aren't being bitchy or unreasonable when they ask to be taken on dates. As you said, OP, dates don't have to be at some expensive, 5 star restaurant with a waiting list. Just some fucking effort to show you care, appreciate, and respect your partner. Stupid ass me not only had to beg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:06 PM
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"hey guys my girlfriend, who spends all her time thinking of ways to make me feel special, suddenly wants to break up. I do absolutely nothing to reciprocate btw but yeah weird right?" 🚮 Also, she absolutely meant that way. She 300% meant what she said and said what she meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:48 AM
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His tinder profile is probably set to women ages 18-18.5 years old 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:34 AM
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I feel like hentai and Asian fetish porn got something to do with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:39 AM
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I remember a long time ago this comedian, David So, said, "where tf did y'all get this idea that Asian women are submissive?" Cuz his mom, a Korean woman, ran the house, worked 60+ hours a week at her business with her husband, and would whoop his ass. He never saw his mom as this small, frail, submissive woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:28 AM
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This dude couldn't afford wingstop he needs to stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:29 PM
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Well men are out here really talking about how it's "my job" to cook and clean. Aight then pay for my expensive lifestyle. As my mom once told her ex boyfriend, "I don't want an expensive engagement ring you need to buy me a house!" I thought she was crazy and shallow when I was in highschool. Now I understand lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:50 AM
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There is a tik tok somewhere here of a man admitting men pretty much know right away if they want to seriously pursue a woman. I'ma have to send it to her if I want my point to come across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:25 PM
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Oof a spicy point to bring up tbh. She won't like it but it's not like she's doing any better right now anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:31 AM
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Guuurl I am trying. She doesn't really understand reddit and blows off what I learn from FDS smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:50 PM
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I'ma screenshot this and send it to a friend of mine once the ball drops with this guy she's been "talking to" for about 3 months now. He's done a couple of "cute" things for her and has given her great sex. Now she's head over heels. She doesn't think it's possible a man could find you attractive, want to have sex with you, but not want date you. Saying otherwise upsets her and she swears this one is different 🙄🙄🙄🙄 she's going to call me in a month or so crying that men are shit and doesn't get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:17 PM
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Fellow FDS comrades. I'm back again with a tragic update on the friend. We had an hour long conversation about the man she's been "casually" seeing for a 2-3 months now. The same man she assumed would be mature because he's 15yrs older than her. The man who just, gosh darn it, hasn't decided if he wants to be serious with her. She's already invested her feelings. It's so obvious. Long story short, she was trying to figure out how to tell him she'd prefer he not sleep with other women while she's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:32 AM
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Even if banana was her favorite flavor, that's not an apology. She can buy candy. Hell she can buy herself 20lbs of candy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:31 AM
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My poor cousin had a large bust size as a teenager. She absolutely hated it. She had them reduced 2-3 sizes and felt like a new woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:25 PM
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Also there have been men who in fact stated they hate women online. Wasn't there a narcissist murderer who posted a video stating why he hated women before killing a student in college? I'm pretty sure he killed himself after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:44 PM
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I was in a relationship with a man who was ready to live a bare minimum life with me. He was ready to move me into an apartment with his three friends to pay cheap rent. A man who had me fork over $500 in the course of a two year relationship. Money that was spent on weed, gas, his rent, and occasionally, food for us. Mind you my money was earned from a part time job. He worked double my hours but was always broke. You might love this man to pieces but I don't think he's reciprocating. I think h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:16 PM
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It's really this year I realized I'm not super into kinky stuff. Like I never enjoyed my ass being slapped like a punching bag. Anal has always sounded terrible to me. I think I was maybe 23 when I tried it cuz this dude pressured me into it (he had no condoms so he said it was the "best option.") It was awful. Just really awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:42 PM
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Wooooow basura dude! I work in a nonprofit that donates food to vulnerable families. I would be livid if a dude like this got his hands on food meant for people struggling to eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:35 PM
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Me after watching a season of 90 day fiance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:21 AM
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So up until two months ago I couldn't get birth control because conservative mom. Then I got diagnosed with PCOS. For better or worse, that allowed me access to birth control without judgmental comments. Even if I were to somehow miraculously be cured of PCOS, I'm never letting go of my birth control. I don't want kids and I never want to be in this situation. Imagine giving your time and energy to grow life for a man who doesn't understand how pregnancy changes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:03 AM
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Oh my gosh throw back to Trixie Mattel told Katya the disgusting reddit post of a woman asking for help because her husband refused to wipe his butt. Apparently it was, "gay" to wipe all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:26 AM
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Ooo mija can we go ice skating on your ring later? Lol congrats!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:21 AM
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I warned my friend's younger sister and friend that older men who hit on them are men who creep out women in their age group and they, the women, want nothing to do with them. Older men know it doesn't take a lot to impress teenagers/young adults. I told her I couldn't stop her but to heed my warning. I was 18-19 and totally hung up with a man who said he was 25 and admitted he was 36 later on. Boy did I love that attention though. Glad he's gone from my life. He was this ultra conservative dude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:27 AM
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Throw back to my Chicana Feminism class where the only male student said being in college forced him to learn how to cook and clean. He said his mom had done it for him all his life. Being that kind of class made him reflect on how much his mom actually did for his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:48 PM
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Sounds like I won't ever have to spend another dime on an irresponsible man who is unable to and refuses to regulate his emotions. Sounds like I'll get to sleep peacefully every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:01 PM
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I would have snatched that phone up so damn fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:22 AM
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LMAO she swatted her screen with accuracy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:14 AM
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When you start making pizza and Netflix regular "dates," the men will not make effort to do anything else. This was literally my relationship in college. My ex was so against a regular ass date. He was always tired and didn't want to leave my apartment. Even though I was working and going to school, he was just awfully tired. He was never tired for sex though. How strange, huh? I realize now it's because he didn't want to spend his money on me. As long as his rent was paid, his money went to wee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:18 AM
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Girl let me give the opposite: refusing medical care to the point where he was hospitalized with a stomach virus. I guess weed is more important than his health. It was his mom that finally convinced him to go because it was obvious to her throwing up repeatedly wasn't normal 🙄. I wouldn't be surprised if she paid for his bills too. He was ready to just deal with it because he refuses to spend a dime on his health. Not even on dollar store tylenol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:48 AM
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He's mad because the women he tried hitting on in these costumes turned him down. Like I know he's not trying to talk to the woman who wore a unicorn onesie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:11 AM
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He only wants a woman with an hourglass figure? Fiddle sticks! I guess I'll never have a chance. Woe is meee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:42 PM
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Anytime I feel lonely, I remember all the people I know in bad relationships. No matter what I want to do in my life, I know I won't need to answer to anyone. I don't need to constantly remind someone of my schedule because they're conveniently forgetful. My time and space is all my own again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:42 AM
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Okay well when he gets gingivitis and all that fun stuff he can explain to the dentist he don't like being told what to do. Then the dentist has an unlimited source of income. Also slightly related, my ex was exactly this type of guy. If he ever got stupidly sick, he refused to go to a doctor. Both because of some stupid "pride" and because he didn't like being told what to do. A man in his mid twenties really said "I have a problem with authority." Ladies, just run if you hear that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:21 AM
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For sure J Cole on loop. Don't get me wrong I can, in general, enjoy his music. There's no particular song I favor. My ex would just play his music EVERYDAY. Then when Kanye released Pablo there was one song my ex played on repeat IN MY CAR. I told him straight up to stop. Like we got the message lmao. The worst genre was banda music which is straight basura (no offense to any women who like banda too haha). The only music I really enjoyed was salsa pero liek Romeo Santos on repeat wasn't the vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:35 PM
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My skin just broke out watching this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:14 AM
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As someone who dated a pot head that I thought would change because of the pOwEr oF LoVe, $650 actually is too much. According to cashapp, I gave him over $500 in the course of our relationship. Sure he worked full time but weed was his priority. I was really on my clown shit giving him my part time job money. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:34 AM
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I've been telling all my friends about FDS and to look it over even if they don't use reddit 💕 I always somehow bring FDS into our conversations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:13 AM
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Idk what's worse. These sickos or the 18yr old girl who won't listen. I was literally that hard headed 18yr old being groomed by a 34yr old man! A man who lied and said he was 26. I thought I was really mature or something. Why else would be talk to me? I'm glad I lost contact with him. He really had me doing things that were for his benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:54 AM
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I remember he said he was ready to get married and was good with a quick visit to the court house. Like it was a fucking drive thru.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:23 AM
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Guys swear they hate skin routines till you get them into it 🙄 my ex thought clay masks were stupid till he saw his skin improve. I was the only reason why he cared about his skin for two years. He's probably back to dehydrated skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:35 PM
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My best friend's man bought her a Michael Kors bag just because he wanted to. It's not her birthday or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:53 AM
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I had a co-worker who is married but doesn't want kids. They're cool with kids but know parenthood isn't for them. Instead they'll take lots of trips including trips to nerdy conventions. They're just living their best lives and are satisfied with not being parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:11 AM
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FDS has allowed me to me embrace being the cool tia who travels and has money. Well some money since I work in non-profit lol. Either way it's my money. The majority of the women in my family have been forced to stick with LVM because of the culture. Very few, including my mom, actually divorced (no offense to my dad but he knows what he did). My brother has even shown me his LV behavior and my SIL accepts it (might be cultural too idk). This past weekend I told them why would I want to waste my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:09 PM
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I spent the most of my life with the lowest of self esteem and developing ED as result. It's so exhausting and constantly reliving the pain hurts. I need to cry now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:47 AM
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I hope you become a citizen of Kurtis Town!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:46 AM
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Oh my gosh. So Kurtis Conner (wonderful YouTuber) went in on this idiot "dating coach" guy from tik tok. If I remember correctly, he made a tik tok where he called women horses, said men need a constant flow of "horses" in their "stable," and when they, the woman they're dating/mostly just sleeping with, asks, "where is this going," the man can just end the relationship. So the woman can "move onto greener pastures." Like he's doing the woman a fucking favor after wasting her time. Edit: Grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:15 AM
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Unless they've dealt with their traumas and learned how to maintain their emotions in a healthy manner, run the other way. My ex always made it a point to remind me he was mean and I thought he would change. I'll never forget I had something of his but I was at a school event. This event happened to be on the way to the friend's house. I told him to pick it up from me. Idk if he had a bad day but he was so nasty to me about having to make a quick stop. The thing about Aries is that they process …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:03 AM
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Lmao! You right I'm sorry 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:50 PM
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My Aquarius queen! My moon and rising is in Aquarius but I'm also a weenie Virgo sun lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:44 PM
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Dates are only one aspect of FDS. The main point is whether or not the man is treating you well before, during, and after the date. Fishing and coffee dates aren't bad. A lot of us speak of fancy dinners and what not because we used to settle for pizza and Netflix as first or second dates. I know for me I would agree to these dates because I didn't want to seem "high maintenance." Now I realize that's no way to determine whether or not the man will be good for me in the long run. So go on the na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:37 PM
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I'm a virgo my ex is an Aries lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:13 PM
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This has to be the best tweet ever twotted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:59 PM
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Oh how I wish I could send this to a dear friend of mine. Her ex recently contacted her and wanted to apologise for his past actions. Not a bad thing, right? Well he vaguely apologized and didn't really own up to his actions. I told her that if I were her, I would cut off communication. It sounded like he only apologized to get back in her good graces. Her excuse, however, was that she believes that he's someone different deep down. That his actions didn't reflect that. All I could say was that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:32 PM
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I had just had a conversation with a good friend whose ex texted her after he ghosted her three months ago. He said he wanted to apologise because it "randomly popped into his head." Apologizing requires actually holding yourself accountable for your terrible actions and the resulting consequences. Vague apologies like this one are from people looking to get back on someone's good side and use them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:28 AM
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This guy would call me princess despite only speaking with me on and off on Snapchat. At no point did I say, or even hint at, I wanted to be called princess. He would constantly ask for selfies too. The last time we spoke I said I had gotten out the shower to which he responded, "without me? Lol." 🤢🤢🤢 DESCOSTANG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:15 AM
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When I had considered moving up North in my college town, my ex said he he wouldn't visit me. He said anything past my school was too far. I found a cheap apartment near campus anyway so I didn't have to move. The fucking audacity of him though. Then there I was letting it slide because I thought he would change. My education meant very little to him though. He always had his good, old excuse of, "tHaTs jUsT hOw I aM."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:05 AM
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So when I joined this sub, I had been a few months out of my last relationship. I was so heart broken and I thought I would never love anyone else but him. Fast forward to now. FDS has made me reflect on every single bad habit my ex had. Habits, I think, I ignored because I thought, "he'll change once we live together (this was college for context)." Maybe he would have but maybe he wouldn't have. I remember when we broke up, he placed his decision to not better himself on me. Like he was only s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:25 AM
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Is this Sandra Cisneros? I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:08 AM
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I recently found out that a relative is having a lot of self esteem issues and has become dependent on the opinions of men to feel better. Her sister was practically venting to my mom that she can't keep women friends and constantly searches for men. Never did her parents pressure her to get married or anything. I guess she wants what her parents want (though her sister admitted things aren't so perfect with their parents either). I wish I could tell her something but it fall on deaf ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:05 PM
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When I was in my senior year of college, I was a year into my then relationship. Between school, my sorority, and my job, I became Suzy homemaker for my ex. I honestly hated it. Rushing home to cook for him because I knew he was going to be moody (I lived in a student apartment so my logic was that I had to cook for him because he didn't live there; so many flaws in my logic honestly). If he would have eaten breakfast and packed food, he wouldn't have depended on chips for lunch. I would tell hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:52 AM
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My mom has been on back about shaving my pits. My feeling is that if I'm not going anywhere, and I don't smell, I don't need to lol. Also I'm just lazy. She's a boomer so of course women's body hair grosses her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:47 PM
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