Having sugar daddies and “sugaring” is literally underpaid prostitution from men preying on naive young girls. It’s not easy money without consequences and people need to stop glamorizing it to make it appeal to literal children. This is grooming.

Stuffenfluff · 2021-01-24T07:38:02+00:00

this girl knows what’s up. I’m horrified that young girls are buying into this. “girls don’t just naturally say ‘I’m going to fuck an old man’ “ it’s this sick media fed patriarchy that is OPENLY grooming young girls to get ‘easy money’ fucking old men. No. it might be money but you lose your soul in the process

vmuzondi · 2021-01-24T01:39:27+00:00

Oof I saw this on tiktok too. Women my age have definitely been groomed to believe sugaring is not just glorified underpaid prostitution. I’ve seen so many women lie saying they get paid to do nothing when 99.9% of sugar daddies will only pay you after the relationship gets sexual. Even sex workers think sugaring is a scam because it requires more energy and emotional labor than a sw who gets paid for sessions or cam work. Sugaring has only gotten so popular because young women have been told they can get money from old men while not having to do anything sexual.

Mcccy · 2021-01-24T02:01:45+00:00

Exactly..

I was on a random app a while ago and a 15 year old girl asked where she could sell her nudes.

I wrote her a comment on how she should reconsider, that she's way way too young and it's illegal to do so, how she shouldn't consider this as an option for money and many other things as nicely as I could and I had 100+ replies (mostly men, surprise surprise) telling me how I'm a prude/how it's her choice/how she's not harming anyone.

It's been months but I still think about her, she made a post on how she's s#icidal not long afterwards cause so many random people saw her naked..

candigum · 2021-01-24T04:18:31+00:00

This is true. I have been an SB before and it traumatized me until today. Young girls, this is not a profession. Study hard and find legitimate scholarships instead of looking for old scrote men to finance your studies. Easy money is not worth it when you give up your dignity and soul.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-01-24T05:14:23+00:00

Rebranding prostitution as "sugaring" makes it more palatable for once upper middle class kids whose families were knocked down several rungs and plunged into economic insecurity following the 2008 crash. Many were raised with expectations of lifetime yacht club memberships, not Craig's List hooking. The rebranding eases the descent and also has an obvious relationship to the student loan catastrophe.

The fact that the sugaring influencer in the first video clip is hardly an innocent teenager illustrates something pretty sobering-- that today's "innocent young girls" who get caught up in sex work are tomorrow's Ghislaine Maxwells who will be grooming and procuring the next batch of victims.

Dontstopmenow2021 · 2021-01-24T09:32:35+00:00

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BungalowBootieBitch · 2021-01-24T20:53:49+00:00

I remember in college we'd always joke about getting sugar daddies but like for feet pics or something. Because we didn't like the idea of actually having to have sex. Also, when story telling was big on YouTube, there were stories from former sugar babies. They usually told stories of crazy encounters where they could have been hurt. Some were probably made up for clout, sure, but I'm inclined to believe many were subjected to uncomfortable/dangerous situations.

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