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CrazyLegs78/r/askMRP01/02/19 04:39 PM
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Hell yeah she's getting taken to pound town by some masculine fucker with big muscular hands from doing physical labor all day. What the fuck are you going to do about it? Take your weak, skinny fingers back into your home office and be quiet.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 12:42 PM
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Don't worry there big guy, this is an easy fix. Get some testosterone therapy going. Then, a few weeks into said therapy, grab your wife and take her to the closest hip hop/r&b club where big booties abound. Slam two red bull and jaegermeisters at the bar and order a long island tea for the dance floor. Find your way into being the meat in a dat butt dough sandwich. At this point your wife leaves you or tries harder to keep you. Either way, problem solved.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 12:33 PM
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All i see here is an attempt to justify cheating on your wife because you think that sex in real life should be like internet porn. I'm not judging. If that's what you're after, then go for it. If you want to make your wife a better lover while remaining married, then do that. Either way, you're about to have a kid so you better figure out what it is you want, get your shit together, and do it already.
/r/askMRP16/09/20 12:24 PM
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What color is your gimp suit? Hot pink or more traditional black?
/r/askMRP20/08/20 03:50 PM
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Come on man, is there nothing else going on in your life that the mother-in-law gets under your skin for "some time?" Who the hell are you to worry about or interfere with her extended family dynamics? Your wife comes with parents, siblings, and all kinds of other fuckers. Those people are her responsibility. Are you pleased with your wife, kids, relationships, self? Those things you can influence/control. Let the wife know how you feel about things, then let her deal with it. If you are worthy,…
/r/askMRP20/08/20 03:44 PM
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Get a vasectomy.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 05:48 PM
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A little trick I learned in the Marine corps was to make every Thursday night "Field Day", aka - a time set aside for cleaning bathrooms, bedrooms and common areas. You set the expectations for what/how to clean. Allow time for said cleaning, then you inspect the area after. If it meets your expectations, then pizza and movie/ free time/ whatever. If expectations are not met, more cleaning immediately. This can carry over into friday evening or saturday if necessary, but you expectations should …
/r/askMRP13/04/20 03:12 PM
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This is pretty simple dude. She does this stuff after you've told her it's not acceptable. She also tries to hide it from you.----> She's not afraid of losing you/you aren't high value to her. Why do you fight about this stuff? It's/she's not worth it if she is doing shit like this. You've already set your boundary, she broke it, now you must show her what happens. This is the hard part for low value men without options. You could always stick around and support her and the kids while she buys g…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 04:46 PM
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I think you might be missing the point on some of the replies. You should have a written list of things you want out of life. Engrave it on some wood, frame it, or tatto that shit on your forehead so that you see it everyday. Real stuff, like retirement property in the Bahamas, sailing across the pacific, raising some awesome kids, three chicks at one time, etc... Does she fit in to this list? Can she help you get there? Will she bring any value to your accomplishments? If you think she can, mak…
/r/askMRP10/02/20 10:33 PM
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Good points here. I haven't given any thought to this in literally 10 years. Thank god.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 02:11 PM
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If its a matter of time and effort on her part, I highly recommend investing in laser hair removal. The good ones that come with a guarantee.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 12:56 PM
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Your mind is in the completely wrong place. I can tell by the way you describe yourself and your situation that you are full of insecurities. Probably why you joined the corps in the first place. Ask me how i know... 1) Why is your marriage broken? Are you going by the societal definition of marriage? Have you given any thought to what you want out of a relationship outside of the Disney construct? Remove your emotions here and determine how to make this situation benefit YOU the most. Does she …
/r/askMRP03/12/19 06:09 PM
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1.5 yr LTR lolz. You mean exactly monkey dick to her! Bitches risk 20+ year marriages, retirement packages, and the futures' of their children for much less than 6'7". The problem isn't her, its you. Your peace comes when you go to her work parties and take pictures with bitches hotter than her. Internalize that shit and get to work.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 09:23 PM
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HIIT, Sprints, and Prowler sled for no more than 20-30 minutes per session. There are good diy prowler plans on the interwebs. When i'm short on time for the week, a good superset gym session kicks my ass as much as a cardio session.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 03:57 PM
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Maybe this will help. She loves money more than you. She would rather fuck random old dudes than you. She would rather get spit roasted at the senior living center than be with you or her son. She is eager to have her every orifice stuffed, stretched, and left full of man goo so that she doesn't have to be with you. She'll let you have the sloppy seconds though. Maybe that's your thing?
/r/askMRP24/10/19 01:19 PM
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Its hard for me or her to say "no" with my dick in her mouth.
/r/askMRP16/10/19 02:41 PM
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OK, so use all this to your advantage and flip the script. During the week you need to be "warmed up," a little help getting your mind in the right place after a long day at work. Let her drive and you be the passenger. On the weekends, up the alpha and just take that shit! Or at least go after a hard no. I can come show you how its done if you like...
/r/askMRP16/10/19 02:29 PM
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I still have issues with this. I keep myself very busy between work, school, and gym. After I put my kids to bed, I most often prefer to go to sleep as well instead of messing with the wife. If she wants it, she makes it a point to get at me while I'm awake. I find that timing is everything. That's why most red pilled men will tell you to disregard initiating at bed time. For me, weekends are prime time because I'm awake and ready to go. The occasional afternoon delight or early off from work is…
/r/askMRP16/10/19 02:14 PM
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First, make sure you want the sex for just the sex, not some kind of validation. Then, understand that sex for women is an emotional event most of the time. For your wife, with you, it's as much about feeling close to you, feeling attractive, feeling something...as it is about getting off. See all those feelz right there? Are you meeting those needs? A little effort here goes a very long way, but be sure not to do it in a beta way.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:02 PM
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Literally just laughed broccoli out of my nose, you asshole.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 05:29 PM
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You have recurring dreams about getting your ass kicked, and you chose to strike your wife. Its sounds like you have some tuff guy insecurities. If you want to find out how tough you are, go for some bjj rolling and see. Muy Thai, or get back in the boxing ring again, whatever. Just learn to control that temper.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 01:08 PM
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That was MCT satire my man. He has a wonderfully fucked up way of feeding you your own bullshit. If you had read any of the askmrp or mrp material you would know that love languages is useless. Your wife says she wants quality time, but haven't you been giving quality time for the past 5 years? How well did that work out? It's what women do, not what they say. Your wife wants some quality time with a masculine man with a higher smv than her. Not with you.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 12:57 PM
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If you don't feel like you should apologize, then don't. Reset, and play your nice card every day. Show a little comfort and concern by making a recommendation on how she could sleep better.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 01:45 PM
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Just some food for thought... Why are you regretting the dog? The attention it needs? The expenses? The time demands? Who provides the majority of care? Now what do you think it will be like with kids? I was not RP enough, before I got married and had kids, to identify things like this. You are, and consider yourself slightly ahead of the game. All of the little fights and disagreements will be completely amplified once you have children if you continue down your current path. The way I see it, …
/r/askMRP03/08/19 03:07 PM
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One of the more difficult areas of MRP - Where to start mentally? Read what you posted; She doesn't respond to your emotions and feelings, but expects you to respond to hers. Your feelings don't matter. She's supposed to be your partner, but there is no "law of equivalent exchange." Now really absorb this information. She is not as invested in making this physical relationship work as much as you are. She is only doing the bare minimum to keep you around. She would not hesitate to get her physic…
/r/askMRP25/07/19 01:32 PM
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Best I can remember, it was about 3 weeks after the burning /painful sensations in her leg. Then there was a little bladder control loss the day before her doctor appointment. He wanted to do surgery that day.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 11:08 AM
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From the outside, it looks like you're trying to get some kind of binding commitment by this girl. If that worked, few would be divorced. The church will require you to talk about this stuff before allowing you to get married in the church, as mentioned above. Been there, done that. But if you think that will ever allow you to slack, or be a lazy, lesser man, you are very wrong. Stop worrying about this kind of shit, pick up some weights, and work on being the kind of guy she wants to be with! L…
/r/askMRP24/07/19 11:09 PM
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Get the other opinions ASAP, no joke. My wife went from lower back/leg pain to permanent nerve damage and permanent numbness very fast.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 05:03 PM
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WTF with all the posts about hierarchy and shit lately? This isn't a fucking job or school playground. This is about being a man. A logical, decisive, strong, masculine man. A woman will naturally follow and be feminine around a man that gets what he wants out of life. That's all there is to it.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 03:12 AM
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How fucking true is that!!
/r/askMRP23/07/19 09:13 PM
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If this is truly what you believe, the only way you will ever understand is to experience it. Moral convictions and beliefs cannot undo thousands of years of evolutionary hard wiring. That's enough of my time for you, pick up a barbell and read if you want to better yourself->
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 07:09 PM
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I've been doing something like this, and it works great on calorie deficit. You should be around 50-60% of your 1RM and run 4 sets x 12 reps or 5 sets x 10 reps. Superset as much as you can. You should be the sweatiest fucker in the gym.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 01:16 PM
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I had the same issue when I first started my journey. I'm really not sure of when it stopped or how I curbed it. Some combination of being too exhausted at the end of the day and not really giving a fuck anymore. It's pretty liberating actually. You really need to accept that you are doing this for you and you alone. Purge yourself of any and all covert contracts. They will become more evident with time and learning. Put a shit ton of effort into your lifting program and diet so that the results…
/r/askMRP23/07/19 01:07 PM
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Great stuff! I wish I would have found something like this sooner and saved myself some pain. For me, 4x10-12 Kroc rows on press days really keeps my shoulders from pulling forward and impinging. It's been a godsend!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 04:16 PM
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I really think a post on lifting form and accessories would benefit this group and is warranted. I thought of writing one up as well. I went through my first 5 months of 5/3/1 with impingement in both shoulders. Form and back work fixed it right up. A little supplemental information about a balanced lifting program would really help out some of the guys that have never really lifted for long periods of time before.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 01:37 PM
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OP- I was going to PM you, but I want any lurkers to read this as well. Getting to know everyone here can sting at first. It's some wicked combination of being force fed the bitter truth and having to earn acceptance. So you cannot get discouraged or pissed by some of these replies. Understand that this is the truth, spoken by strangers that genuinely want to guide others to be successful. Don't get discouraged! Use this as fuel for the gym. You can see results in 6 months of lifting I assure yo…
/r/askMRP12/07/19 02:38 PM
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Can't tell if you're trolling, but I've been working at this for less than a year and my wife went from duty sex to wanting to rub her pussy on my traps and asking me how much I get hit on. I've only reached intermediate level lifts. I have no doubt it will be like this after 4 years of hard work.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 01:46 PM
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Give her divorce papers as a gift.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 12:17 PM
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I think the most useful advice I've ever gotten regarding off days, is to "find the type of body you want, and train for it." So if you want a runner's body, do cardio. If you want a "ninja warriors" body do lots of cross-fit. If you want to be big, lift big. Your off days are just time for your body to recover. The reasons a person might want to do light cardio are two; create a calorie deficit, or conditioning. If you want a calorie deficit, its much easier to eat healthy whole foods and cut 4…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 06:22 PM
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It's all good, no need for thanx. I came here because of my relationship, then realized it was me. You're ahead of the curve, keep it up. SL5x5 is a great program to get you familiar with the lifts and to build a strong base. You should absolutely run that until you begin to stall or get frustrated with limited progress. Should be around 6-9 months from now. Then consider 5-3-1 Boring But Big.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 03:02 PM
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OK, it's not too often we get guys your age in here. So I'd like to give you a few tips that I wish someone had given me. The first, and most important, thing for you to understand is that you are young, have no serious obligations, and life only gets more difficult if you don't learn to manage it well. By identifying your current situation, you are already light years ahead of the game, so props for that. LIFT! - Lift like there is no tomorrow. Tomorrow your testosterone decreases, and continue…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 01:43 PM
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This exactly! You should ALWAYS be actively looking! You never know what may show up...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 07:23 PM
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I'm at this same point. Except I'm not trying to use anything to my advantage, I'm really just trying to get a full 8hrs of sleep to try for that next PR at the gym!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 03:12 PM
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I tried it before I found MRP. My wife confronted me with the love languages crap. I told her my love language was absolutely sex, and that 2-3 times per week was optimal. Now I cringe about that. It was mostly validation seeking on my part any way. In all honesty, the quantity of sex with my wife may have gone down but the quality has gone up post MRP. I never really get rejected, but I'm so exhausted from work, gym, and school that I can't even think about it most nights of the week. Sounds ga…
/r/askMRP08/07/19 07:25 PM
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lol! ME: "Oh sorry! Wrong person!"
/r/askMRP02/07/19 06:15 PM
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What finally hit me, and changed my entire perspective around the house, is that her standards of parental care and cleanliness were just that. Hers. Mine were totally different. I work and clean around the house to bring things up to my standard because it makes me feel better. I can't expect her to immediately adopt my standards because I flip out like a little bitch, and I did plenty of that - it doesn't work. Over time, my wife has slowly transitioned closer to my standards. I still make up …
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:36 PM
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Also, If you were already hot shit, option 2 would be the go to. But you aren't ready for that. You need to go option one until you no longer have questions like this.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:11 PM
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You need to thank her, she just did you a huge as favor! Wake the fuck up! Not even a year invested, not married, no kids, no shared financial obligations, and she just showed you AWALT. If you don't get your shit together now, you deserve whats coming to you. You have the opportunity to change your life here. Focus on your new job, use your anger to lift and lift until the anger is gone. Those two should be your main objectives for the next two or three years. Practice a little game, and date a…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:03 PM
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Damn dude. Literally the first three books. "Prerequisites" --->
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/19 07:27 PM
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Guilt by omission. Look dude, I've got nothing to win/lose here, so quit being defensive and learn. What kind of man has to be asked to walk the fucking dog? That's the easiest/best chore ever. You should be so on top of your game that you're asking her what she needs from the top shelf before she starts cooking dinner. You should have already purchased two smaller hampers from walmart so that she could carry the laundry herself. The point that went (way) over your head is that, your wife thinks…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 06:15 PM
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It's all good, a mistake would be not learning form this. It gets easier, and it sounds like her little hamster wants to submit. Show her enough comfort that she can.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 03:45 PM
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It sounds like your wife is to polite to tell you to get off your ass. I wish I didn't have to coach my wife to get off the couch. You ungrateful bastard. You should be working with her, as a team, to get the daily stuff done. If she's on her feet, you are too. Then you can both sit down and enjoy some time together, or working on stuff alone. Without interruption.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 03:36 PM
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When she hits you with rhetorical questions about sex "what if's," hit her right back with "why, do you plan on closing your vagina for 6 months?" or "Is sex not enjoyable enough to want to have it more often?" and do this in a fun, light-hearted manner. It's a joke to you that she would ever ask such nonsense. When you ask her to get on board with your mission and she says she needs to think, she's grasping for power. You yielded to her when you came crawling back for her decision. Don't fuckin…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 03:08 PM
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Damn man, sounds exactly like my marriage from 10 years ago! The only thing that kept me trying after our first kid, is that we had been married for 5 years without a child. During this time, we really bonded. I firmly believe that all women have the mentality of a 13yo girl. Imagine a child having to be responsible for a baby in today's world. That's what you and your wife are up against, and she may never realize that. All you can do is lead her in the right direction if you are willing. She m…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 02:28 PM
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Not sure why you view them as contradictory. Unless you are thinking of making your covert contracts overt by talking about them! At first, STFU is intended to be damage control until you have mastered several of the basics. Don't know how to avoid,identify, or handle a shit test? You better STFU! Comfort test? You better STFU! Want to avoid blowing up a 10yr marriage that could potentially be awesome because you "learnt not to take no shit from nobody on the interwebs?" You better STFU! Once yo…
/r/askMRP26/06/19 05:13 PM
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When you read about dread, you must consider the relationship to which it is being applied. Your relationship for instance. Do you not think that your relationship would benefit from you leading and seducing your wife (DL1) or from lifting heavy (DL2)? You may never have to go beyond DL3(alone time) or DL4(availability conditioning) to be treated how you want to be treated by your wife. Some guys that find mrp are in relationships where they are the ones being manipulated by some harpy bitch tha…
/r/askMRP26/06/19 01:12 PM
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This is such bullshit. How old are you kid, 12, 13? Take your fucking blue pill and get the fuck outa here. I was fat in high school, but the most awesome dude ever with a pretty hot girlfriend of 2 years. We didn't have sex because she was religious, her family was religious, and the church told her to wait for marriage. She dumped me because her future was to be with someone in ministry, then she fucked the cross-country runner she was working out with while with me. Now she's on her second ma…
/r/askMRP21/06/19 02:08 PM
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It's not an issue of characteristic of the women, it's a problem with the dudes. Your validation should not come from anyone but yourself. You judge yourself on what you've accomplished - did I fucking murder the gym today, is my all my shit on point, did i wash my ass crack before expecting oral, etc...Then stand back and absorb the rays of light that come down upon you from the heavens as angels exclaim "You are the prize." That is your validation. It's all you need.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 01:08 PM
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Lolz, right?! I'm still sore from the first time MCT got a hold of me! However, back then I couldn't understand what they were getting at untill red-sfpplus broke it down barney style for me. The mix of shit talking and explanations on mrp and askmrp is priceless!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 12:51 PM
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It's the rule of 2/3's. You respond to roughly 2/3's of the "I love you's" and it's supposed to keep them wanting more. It works on more levels than just the obvious. When my wife says it during the day, my lack of response spins the hamster. It may convey that I'm extremely busy, makes her wonder/want more from me, or it may simply show that you feel texting like that is an inferior form of communication. I personally skip the texting BS and set aside a few minutes in my day to call and see how…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 02:01 PM
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About your marriage - Remember the nice card/mean card. Everyday, you play the nice card first, then respond in kind to her move. Seems like you are doing that. That's where you withhold attention if needed. I always kiss my wife on the forehead and tell her I love her before I leave the house in the morning, it avoids shit/comfort tests and seems to establish emotional connections for her. I'll skip a response "I love you" later in the day. You need emotional connections, she isn't going to let…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 01:29 PM
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OK, I can see your "wishful" dread logic here. Do yourself a favor, and try to play it all out in your head - every possible outcome instead of just the one you hope happens. If this fails to play out the way you want, it will be on you. She is showing you right now what she is about. Best of luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 04:16 PM
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Dude, quit being a bitch and hit the barbell hard! I'm 40, and started 5-3-1 BBB around the beginning of the year and now approaching intermediate level lifts. Progression is nice and slow with a training max of 90% of 1RM, so if your form is good there is little chance of injury. Keep your weight where its at and your body will recomp to a beast! Stomach will take care of itself. Around 6-9 months of REAL lifting, you'll begin to get a feel for what foods you can and can't eat to keep your weig…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 02:12 PM
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Why do you want to buy a new house to share with an unattractive wife that won't even sleep with you? Are you going to be happy with your current arrangement forever? Otherwise, she's going to take half the new house when you finally get sick of her shit. Or she gets sick of yours. You definitely need to enforce this boundary, but what wife privileges are you going to remove? She's already getting the new house she wants! At this point, i would personally go completely cold and remove all attent…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 01:42 PM
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I had a shoulder impingement from bad posture and focusing too much on chest/shoulders while neglecting my back. Be sure you work your back and upper posterior as much as your chest to achieve balance. The shoulder is an open joint that depends on muscle and tendons to keep it in proper orientation. Stretch your chest and shoulders constantly. Added bonus - A strong back will really help improve your bench press numbers. Look up shoulder impingement on you tube and there are some tests you can p…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 01:15 PM
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Yes, but it took me way too long to become the man that leads her through life.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 07:37 PM
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Hey devil dog. The corps makes riflemen. The corps makes alphas. The corps also makes you a professional cleaner of everything. This was a huge problem for me even 10 years into my marriage. I would lose my shit because it seemed to me that my wife was just a nasty slob that didn't give a shit how dirty the kitchen sink was. You seem to be on the right track in taking ownership and pride. It has helped me tremendously to simply remember that I am the one with the compulsive need to keep shit cle…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 01:11 PM
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I agree with the STFU. When I have crazy/negative coming at me, I STFU and do my thing until she chills out.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:42 PM
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Always. That's what mrp is about.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:43 PM
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So, first thing, get the fuck out of her head! YOU CAN'T CHANGE HER. Quit worrying about it so much. Don't seek validation from her. Get your validation from how you have performed at the gym today/this week, or how much you've improved yourself according to YOUR standards. Only that can tell you if you're worth your salt. If you need the validation of a woman, run some day game and practice approaching. This will help curb your validation seeking from the un-receptive wife, and give you a pussy…
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:20 PM
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I don't know man, the way he presented it; "the next time you want my attention" is pretty solid as long as he is truly OI. When I tell my wife to buy something, it's usually some kind of girly cutesie shit that does nothing for me. I have no problem buying my wife a slingshot V or fishnet bodysuit if that's what I want to see her in. Just my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 04:31 PM
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This part is key fucker! Pay attention to simbarlion! Only after a good fucking do you give her the kind of attention she wants. Pick a good day and game her/ build up to it. If you get a hard no, laugh that shit off and no butt hurt. Then employ the mentally pre-occupied as suggested. A couple days later, rinse and repeat. At first you have to actively employ this. Hopefully it will become a natural thing for both of you in time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 04:01 PM
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On the sex - you never know until you try, and how else are you going to get what you want? There are times she will be more receptive-when she's ovulating. It also helps to kick it off on a night where responsibilities are minimal, ie "date night" if she deserves a night out. Pay attention to the things that turn her on during the routine activities. For example, my wife seemed to like a little nipple play during ovulation, so I bought some clamps without mentioning it to her. One night I broke…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 03:49 PM
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FYI On the lifting, I've been doing Wendler 5-3-1 BBB template on a four day split and I love it! I've changed up the BBB sets to a different compound lift from the main. Android has a great 531 app. My 40yo ass needs a recovery day, so I'm on Mo,Tu,Th,Fr, and off We, Sa, and Su. I prefer this over a three day split.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 03:12 PM
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Jesus. She is at home taking care of two children, and then you are trying to make her take care of your needy, child-like, bitch ass on the phone from across the country! You need validation? You are at a hotel right? Dress the fuck up, go out, and get your validation! You don't have to cheat, but go build some fucking confidence man! Quit fucking nagging her, you sound like the harpy bitches we always talk shit about around here. Re-read your post. Do you see that? When you get home, if she do…
/r/askMRP20/05/19 01:47 PM
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I have an obsessive infatuation with big asses. I use my wife's big ass for sexual gratification. What my wife's big ass thinks of me does not change how I feel about myself. I am now strong enough to lift my wife's big ass. I don't care about the shit that comes from my wife's big ass. Thank god I live in 'Merica where there are lots of big asses.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 04:52 PM
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Your wife doesn't change this early in the game. What is happening is YOU are beginning to change by realizing her responses to your new actions. Kinda like the neural connections your body makes when you first start lifting and get those "noob gains". How are you going to have a satisfying sex life that meets YOUR needs if you never initiate? It is seeking external validation if you are wanting/waiting for her to initiate. Go for what you want! Sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. If you …
/r/askMRP25/04/19 01:40 PM
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My wife is EXACTLY like your girl. Chill AF, down for whatever sexually, but I'm always the one to push it. She is mostly a starfish fucker. Doesn't seem to get emotionally wound up about anything-zero drama. At first, I thought I had it made! Let me burst your bubble. You are nothing to get excited about. She is no different than any other girl. If you were on her mind, she would be acting like it. She knows she has it made, she knows you aren't going anywhere because the starfish satisfies, an…
/r/askMRP29/03/19 03:42 PM
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So, yeah. Everything you said here is my experience. Before MRP I was blindly in love with my wife, she could do no wrong and all I did was what society had told me to do. Now, it's just like your last sentence. It's a little sad, but the first time you get screwed over really good, you get over it.
/r/askMRP15/03/19 12:29 PM
12

Dude, WTF? Why are you not gone and why do you give a shit about how she is responding? You should be in your prime right now, not dealing with cold interactions and twice a year sex.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 01:22 AM
1

I built a rack out of 2x4's, found the instructions on the web somewhere. It's basically 5 boards cut to specific lengths based on your height, then all sandwiched together vertically. Set the bottoms in a 5gal bucket with concrete, and you have easily movable squat and bench rack. The only drawbacks are less stability and no safeties.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 12:24 PM
1

I have some similar issues as a 40 year old returning to weight lifting. I have previously tried strong lifts and I found that the progression was just a little too quick for some of my previous injuries. I'm currently following Wendler 5-3-1 with Boring But Big and i find that the slower progression and extra volume are much easier on the joints. FORM IS EVERYTHING!! And if its hurts, ice it.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 01:06 PM
4

Move her to a separate room in YOUR house. Cut communications to a bare minimum required for the kids/logistics. Do what you have to for the house and kids and do whatever the fuck you want in your free time-go plan, lift, STFU, hobbies- and do not give a fuck at all!. If she's truly remorseful, she'll comply and start to get nervous about her future with you. If she is not remorseful, she will begin looking for an exit. Either way, you will be distancing yourself and she will show you through h…
/r/askMRP19/02/19 01:46 PM
3

You can't retract permission on that for anything other than financial reasons or lack of preparation(child care) without coming off as more beta. Fuck it, let her go. If you are the prize, she'll not risk anything. If she wants to get some strange dick, she don't have to go to vegas for that.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 10:36 PM
2

My wife used "depression" as a scapegoat for some pretty nefarious behavior. I'm not saying she was or wasn't depressed. For my own reasons, and not to sidetrack, I'm still married. While first starting to get my shit together with RP, I decided to quit catering to her and just let her be unhappy while I made the best of everything. I took ownership of as many things as I could around the house and used my little free time for me and my two kids. I didn't vent or get butthurt about anything she …
/r/askMRP11/02/19 05:07 PM
2

Seems like the only way shit tests stop is when she knows for sure that you got this, or she knows for sure you don't!
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:25 PM
2

I started felling much better at the end of day 3 after getting snipped and decided to take it for a test drive on the wife. After that, I carried around a fucking avocado in my sack for at least 4 weeks. It hurt to sit, move, or even breath deep. Do not fuck with it. I think they really undersell the recovery time, but the procedure itself wasn't bad at all.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 02:37 PM
1

Yes, these fuckers got all in my head. I'll shut up now, read, and lift.
/r/askMRP02/02/19 12:10 AM
1

Got it. I honestly was just trying to have a little fun with her, didn't put much more thought into it than that. Mistake noted.
/r/askMRP02/02/19 12:01 AM
2

I really thought the word "covert" was the unacceptable part. Now I know better, thanks.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 11:37 PM
1

That makes sense.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 11:32 PM
1

Done.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 10:46 PM
5

This. This was useful to me. Thank you.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 10:45 PM
1

Yep, that happened end of Jan 2018. What am I going to do, live with a grudge every day? I have no solid proof of anything, even though she was likely getting spit roasted and loving every minute of it. Since then, I have begun improving myself. She knows I will walk if I find no value in her contribution to my life. She can leave me whenever she wants and I'll be just fine. I'm not trying keep a woman, just trying to enjoy a few things while I figure out others. Sex has been great the past year…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:35 PM
1

I didn't force anything! She could have easily said no or made a counter offer and it would have been just as good/acceptable. It was meant to be a lighthearted, fun, exchange. Thanks for the feedback, will consider this in future situations.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:26 PM
-1

So just for clarification, I normally would not have been involved with the booth set-up. Never saw it as chore play, but thanks for the input.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:22 PM
1

And no negative feedback from it yet? Good to know...thanks!
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:12 PM
-14

Much like your precedent of pretty much useless replies? She gives enough oral on a regular basis to get things where they need to be, not everybody loses their load in a few seconds Mr.Chad Quickshot.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:04 PM
-4

She isn't quite as good at it as you are, so it takes her a bit longer. Yes, it might be a little laborious.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:01 PM
2

Getting what you want out of life is the end. Becoming the man that achieves this is the process. What do I want out of life? A good BJ to the end from a beautiful woman, a glass of great scotch, and a secure future for my children and the designated BJ provider. In securing these things, I must be fit enough for each. My self worth is not based on how attracted to me the BJ provider is, just as it is not based on how attracted to me the scotch is. My self worth is based on the quality of each o…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 03:23 PM
8

I busted my wife in an apartment complex while she was supposed to be at work exactly one year ago. I have no solid proof she cheated, and she swears up and down she didn't. That's when I swallowed the pill. I spent 9 months after that dealing with an angry hamster, but I did as advised and STFU and lifted. My hamster was out of control and worrying about the situation consumed too much of my time. Then I got the most solid advice about this situation on this forum. Everyday, you must live your …
/r/askMRP01/02/19 02:20 PM
3

OYS #1 Stats: 40yo, 6’2”, 260lbs, 30%BF, married 13yrs, 2 kids 5+9, Lifts: Lifting seriously since Thanksgiving 2018. Wendler 5-3-1, 186DL, 163BP, 157SQ, 105OHP My Mission? A return to former glory and to generally unfuck myself. LOSE WEIGHT to 15% BF!! Finish my civil engineering degree with a GPA>3.0 and gain a promotion or 2 at work. Why am I here? I used to be Alpha. Met my wife 3 months before leaving for the Marine Corps. We got married 2 years later, had our first child 4 years after that…
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