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| 41 | The word ‘incel’ has effectively become a slur for virgin men.It’s a slur for men that you don’t like or men who have opinions that you don’t like. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/26 09:39 PM |
| 10 | "Emotional Intelligence" and "Emotional Availability" are Pathologized Versions of Biological Advantages: Strength and Self-Reliance.Emotional Intelligence = I want what I want right now, exactly how I want it and I shouldn’t have to speak about what I want like a functional adult. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/26 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that feminists have done more for men than MRAs?Thource! | /r/MensRights | 25/07/26 03:43 AM |
| 16 | What are your negative experiences of being a man working in a female dominated industry/workplace?The women who abuse only men stay untouched for eternity. Workplace abuse is only workplace abuse if it’s against women. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/26 09:01 PM |
| 10 | "Misogyny of male suicide"Guys are killing themselves, women most affected. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/26 10:02 PM |
| 7 | False accusations are much more prevalent than feminists claim and male consent-seeing is a turn-offNo content, just a negative adjective. Got it. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 6 | They don't care about us men at allIt’s trained on bofa deez nutz. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/26 10:35 PM |
| 36 | 102% Male disposability hereYou could literally ask these women what if the situation were reversed, they wouldn't even be able to compute getting conscripted. These are people who have every advantage in life and still complain as if they're oppressed. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/26 08:46 PM |
| 7 | The missing men of the American marriage marketwtf? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 11:21 PM |
| 59 | Fathers: Please teach your sons to notice how women triangulate on peopleNo, I don’t think matriarchs or good women have been ‘de-valued.’ I think women of today have just learned that there are no repercussions for them being terrible people. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I’m Just… Tired | Why Men Are DISRESPECTED TodayThere are completely different standards and social laws for men than women. The standards that used to apply to women are being shed as misogynistic oppression. In the end, women have absolutely no duty to take responsibility for anything and there is no mechanism that forces them to be accountable. It really is that men are second class citizens in the effective practice of life. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Men are more violent because when we're desperate, we don't have the option to start an OnlyFans or become a prostituteIf we were not capable of violence we would be seen as lesser men. They like to criticize both sides basically so they get to be a victim no matter what the situation is. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/26 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Any other straight white men avoid public places as much as possible?It’s reasonable. Don’t let anyone try to shame you for it. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/26 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Living in a female dominated worldYou have to gray rock method, nod as if you agree, and plan your exit. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Would it be fair if women were given 32 paid days a year for having periods?Well then I should get paid for deez nutz | /r/MensRights | 13/04/26 06:37 PM |
| 38 | The Hawk Tuah believes that it's "disrespectful for women" to be interviewed on the street.But crypto scamming is okay | /r/MensRights | 11/04/26 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...They classify themselves as ‘partnered’ Some of these women proudly admit they’re the side piece to a certain category of man | /r/MensRights | 28/03/26 02:14 AM |
| 10 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...Women have a partner because they’re all sharing the top men. Of the women who truly are single, they get to use the strong, independent, empowered female narrative. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/26 09:55 PM |
| 3 | What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother?Sounds like a topic change | /r/MensRights | 26/03/26 06:40 AM |
| 6 | What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother?Where did I say that? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/26 09:14 PM |
| 4 | What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother?Sounds like you answered your own question | /r/MensRights | 25/03/26 08:13 PM |
| 51 | What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother?Withholding affection is abuse. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?It’s true | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:01 PM |
| 34 | My contempt for feminist teachers and bosses comes from knowing that I do not behave the way they do with female students and subordinates.Misleading criticism is huge. I never got this from any male educator in my life. I have also gotten it in some form at every stage of development from some female educator, somewhere, even in grad school. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/26 07:25 PM |
| 29 | Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners, while drastically rating them lower as parents.r/ihadastroke | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/03/26 02:54 AM |
| 20 | Woman mayor caught 'romping with teen boy' at boozy pool party by her own kidsMassive jail time or some kind of violence | /r/MensRights | 02/03/26 07:42 PM |
| 4 | If they are forcing companies to hire and promote more women into their workforce and balance the gender ratio why don't they force schools and daycare centers to hire more men? And why haven't I heard about any lawsuits being filed for this kind of anti-male discrimination?Education is an environment that’s toxic to men. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/26 05:15 AM |
| 10 | If they are forcing companies to hire and promote more women into their workforce and balance the gender ratio why don't they force schools and daycare centers to hire more men? And why haven't I heard about any lawsuits being filed for this kind of anti-male discrimination?It’s much worse than this actually | /r/MensRights | 02/01/26 05:14 AM |
| 15 | A tennis match labelled a "battle of the sexes" took place in Dubai yesterday. Read the article this is no joke. The worlds number 1 female tennis player was given a 9% instant advantage to level the field!Not really. Feminists have no problem taking the advantages and if the woman wins, create the narrative that women are better at tennis inherently. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 10:19 PM |
| 33 | A tennis match labelled a "battle of the sexes" took place in Dubai yesterday. Read the article this is no joke. The worlds number 1 female tennis player was given a 9% instant advantage to level the field!There's no money in it. It's female dominated and an unfriendly work environment for men and women still want men who earn more than them. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menI’m literally in the business. Of course people aren’t going around ‘mentioning quotas’ openly. I’ve already said this before. Publishing is a very big world. There are many different genres of writing. The romance novel situation is a very specific case. This is probably one of the more market driven genres because it’s falling less and less within the purview of traditional publishing. If you know anything about this genre you would know that the bulk of it is going the way of independent, Ama… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menIt’s old news at this point. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menYou can disagree all you want for any or no reason it does not change the reality of the situation. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menNo. What I’m telling you is that it’s not. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Be honest, if a girl calls you cute instead of hot/handsome it isn't about attraction right ?Hot it is. Cute sounds like a loss. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menAs you should know, publishing is a very big world and there are many different types of writing, which often can be under the purview of the same company. For a nonfiction book on a specialized topic, the identity of the author may not matter. As an example, for any type of contemporary call for fiction, and you can check the releases yourself, right now, the stores as well, they are looking for certain types of identities over others unless you are previously well established, of course. This … | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menI work in publishing as well, currently, and it is true that there are quotas and preferences for authors of specific identities over others. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menThat is absolutely not true. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menThe people doing it are going to own up to it. Are you kidding me? It is already well known that there are quotas. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 12:53 AM |
| 3 | The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for menPublishers don’t want male authors these days | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Women support women.What? How dare you slap an incorrect label on something that I’ve said without even explaining why you out of pocket slapped said label. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/25 05:34 AM |
| 13 | Women support women.Nah. Men support women and have absolutely no problem doing so. Women support only certain men for however long it suits them. The vast majority of men not registering as human. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 10:46 PM |
| 51 | Women as providers, men as hobbyistsThey want all the advantages of both gender roles with no disadvantages or accountability. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/25 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Men Don't Abuse Their PowerMen build ramps for disabled people, men are firefighters etc You're gonna build Beansie a ramp. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 3 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLI don’t see fat funny guys doing well at all these days. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?This is getting completely off topic. What was discussed here is not the same as any of these analogies. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?Topic change. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?I don't know that this is what's being said. People are able to speak on things that are generally true, and people are allowed to see their lived experiences as somewhat valid. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?I understand how it works. The guy is saying something that is generally true and he has a personal anecdote that confirms this. That's how speaking about things in general works and that's how anecdotes work. Everyone knows this. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?Maybe he has used the other method before in the past. I know I have. It doesn't work. He's speaking in general and he uses his own personal experience to confirm that this resonates true to his experience. It's not as if he's saying to do one thing and in his private life doing another. It's not like this is confirmed in his experience so obviously the opposite must be true. While anecdotal evidence isn't the be all end all, you can't say he's proven wrong just because he's not doing something … | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 10:30 PM |
| 0 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?Any instance of anything happening in life is what it is. But when speaking in general, you're putting together an average of how things tend to go. It's true in my experience and from what I've seen in other people's experience that a man who prioritizes his woman tends to lose out in every conceivable way in the relationship. It's just true. There's no point in trying to convince you, personally, because you're just going to say what you say. Saying what you think you want is really just that.… | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What are interesting questions to ask a partner about their sex life?Set him up for a deez nutz | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?You’re getting in your own way by making it about you. He had other options at the time. Men don’t have the luxury to just walk away like you’re suggesting. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?leaning in as in showing consistent interest, talking about our upcoming plans, asking questions, sharing stories, compliments. Initiated everything. Conversations of seeming like we were moving in the same direction / and pace of getting to know one another. <sup>This</sup> is what men are bare minimum expected to provide women to establish any level of interest in them. Every man has to do this to every woman just to be CONSIDERED by that woman. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?It sounds like a completely different situation that's not like the one described in the post. "Leaning in hard literally" what does that mean? In person? Leaning into you? "he apparently went on a date with someone one night." Yea. It sounds like he went with that option. Duh. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?What? | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?The job of guys is to initiate with as many women as possible. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 14 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?If she's such a catch out of their league, then why would they stop when she likes them? | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 06:48 AM |
| 26 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?Men out of your league that is. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Do any of you believe there's a gender health gap?Life expectancy gap. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/25 05:58 AM |
| 7 | Why are feminists so against paternity fraud?I think they just phrased the title wrong. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/25 04:04 AM |
| 20 | Why are feminists so against paternity fraud?Are they against paternity fraud? I thought they were for it. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?I told you 2 times that those men deserve help bit you still say I said we shouldn't help them, that's lying. 'men deserve help' is not where you were at at all. It's isn't lying. It's your position. It's not a lie a because you offer a justification for the fact that 75% of men are homeless. Doesn't matter how much you personally contribute. Doesn't matter how much you say people should help. You're going to have to reread yourself to understand this. You said that homeless men are responsible … | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Why are you lying ? This is strike three. Accusing me of lying. This is another bad faith conversation practice. We all try to have conversations with women online, and this is what always happens. False characterizations, and accusations of things that didn't happen. It's not a lie to point out that society cares very much about helping homeless people when they're women. And no amount of saying that you 'personally' give to the cause of homeless men changes the fact that 75% of the homeless ar… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Cool. So when women are in need, we won't help them. Like let's say they accidentally get pregnant, their responsibility, right? So, that whole "anyone with morals would..." Doesn't apply when it comes to helping men. Got it. Thank you for proving my point. Have a nice day. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?But, most of the time, they are responsible of there failure, but we still should help them Again, victim blaming. You proved my point again. This in no way refutes anything I just said, it merely confirms what I said about your position. Truly disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Women have control over reproduction because they do 99% of the work, it was always like this. No. Women have control over reproduction because that's the law. If the law didn't say it, women would not have control over reproduction. That's what gives it to them. That's how control over reproduction works. Again. This is sounding very similar to things we've already covered. The cell is inside the woman so her opinion is more important, This is a sexist essentialist argument. One could assert au… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?And men are more homeless than women for the same reason there is more rich men than rich women, men take more risk, sometimes they Win and sometimes they lose. And also because women are more social, more family/friendship oriented than men. Incorrect. What you say about men taking more risks is correct. What you say about women having better support systems in society is correct. Those are not the reasons why. Even if we pretend that they are the reasons why, it changes nothing of the inequali… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?You can't abort because you can't get pregnant, Clearly you don't understand abortion as an issue. The woman's right to choose means that men have absolutely no say in whether or not a birth happens. Women have complete control over reproduction. If the man wants the child to not be born, he does not have a say. If the man wants the child to be born and the woman doesn't, the man doesn't have a say. In either case, the man doesn't have a say. There's no angle here where men in the equation are g… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 08:25 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Yes but specifically women getting to have desicions over voting doesn't match up with war. This connection has already been established and explained. I'll take the 'Yes' as, you understand my point now. It completely matches up because it has to be enforced every day that there is voting in this country. Do you think the moment humans first entered the world men immediately had more power? Gee. I don't know. Who wins in a fight there? Really? But in my opinion I highly doubt that one gender wa… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Men didn't do anything more for women than did for men, Explain abortion. Explain family court, child support. Explain 75% of homeless are men. Explain resources that go to women only. Explain 60% lighter sentencing on average for women committing the exact same crimes. Explain the social mores around protector providership in relationships. The list goes on. You truly must be joking. And women have always worked, stop acting like men bring everything and women just wait for them giving them eve… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?You are saying that giving the right to vite to women was not good for the household No. Again. Stop trying to claim that I said something that I didn't say. Warning number one. That is bad faith conversation strike one. Men didn't do anything for women, letting us vote isn't giving something to us, ut's just equality and respect. Men did not gave me anything, and they should help each other more instead of crying because women get the right to vote. Yes, throughout the whole of human history, m… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?And why should men have power over women? Where did I say that men 'should' have power over women? Thank you for proving my point. I'm sorry. I didn't realize you had a point beyond attempting to troll on a Men's Rights sub. Life is not easier for men but women getting right and respect What are you talking about? r/ihadastroke Men get less help because they don't do anything to healp each other So, again. How have women done anything for anyone other than women? women create association for the… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 06:45 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?In what world does men fighting in war correlate to women's [anyone's] voting rights? In our world and exactly in the way I previously described. We don't get to have civilization unless there is sovereignty and enforcement in place. It's really not complicated but it is fundamental to the world we live in. Women never asked for that. No one asked women what they think. What are they gonna do about it? We all started off equal in this world and at some point men ended up with more power in socie… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 06:38 AM |
| 2 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?Voting wasn't established as a 'basic right' in the beginning of the United States, at all. It used to be in most states you had to be a land-owning taxpayer to vote. The idea was that these are people who are actually invested in the outcome of policy. If you don't have skin in the game, it's possible for people to simply 'troll vote' and ruin the country for everyone. In fact, it could be something that the most powerful use to their advantage because they have the resources to produce propaga… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?That's not what I said at all. Before women had the right to vote, women still had power in society. There were actually a lot of women who were against the women's suffrage movement. As it turned out, many women, and many men, actually, decided that women should have more 'political power' in having the vote. Even if these votes go against the interests of their own household. This does not get done without men giving it. We live in a world, like it or not, that is ultimately enforced by men. T… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 05:47 AM |
| 7 | As someone trying to learn, why do conversations here mostly focus on women?No. Here’s one difference: men have demonstrated they’re willing to give up their power. More women now vote in U.S. general elections than men do, for every election since the 60s and by an average margin of 10 million voters. When it comes down to it, women will not curb their selfishness or give up their power to help men. They rationalize this through a false narrative that suggests life is overall easier for men. This allows women to see men as less deserving of help. The implication here i… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/25 08:23 PM |
| -3 | Why I quit dating apps forever (and what I now do instead)Most of the women in these classes don’t really give a shit about yoga either anyways. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:24 PM |
| -1 | Why wouldn’t he let me give him a blowjob?That’s what I’m saying and that’s why I said it the way that I did. You’re not entitled to give him a blowjob. He doesn’t have to tell you why he declined. | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Why wouldn’t he let me give him a blowjob?Yea I mean. You’re entitled to do whatever you want with him sexually because he’s a man. How dare he decline. Is less of a man now? | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 10:58 PM |
| -1 | Why wouldn’t he let me give him a blowjob?How dare he? Am I right? | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Major Left Wing News Organization Denounces AOC's anti-male height shaming of Stephen Miller and democrat attacks on masculinity in general.And that’s what I came to comment on. They don’t really care about men’s rights. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/25 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Genuine QuestionsI don’t really have solutions. There’s currently no authority or social mechanism that forces women to be good people to men. The only thing women might bend to is top 1% Billionaire men. Even here it ends once they get the bag. Women are simply rewarded for being terrible people. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 15 | Genuine Questions1) Why does the movement come across as so hostile to women and even men who don't fully agree with you? Women can decide if they feel like something is 'coming across to them' as 'hostile' for any or no reason. They call it hostile because they don't like it, also sometimes for no reason. Most of the time, women have no basis at all to call things names that they've convinced themselves they don't like or don't see themselves 'in alignment' with. They require absolutely no reason at all to beha… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/25 08:05 AM |
| 0 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?No. It’s a very simple singular point. I said what I came here to say and I stand by it. Nice guys are scapegoated for ‘manipulation’ that doesn’t work (how is it ‘manipulation’ when it doesn’t get results?). Meanwhile the effective operators of women are the ones who find success and the evidence of this is found in womens’ complaints. At the end of the day, the nice guys are at least offering the gesture of sometimes actually very genuine nice treatment. But again, how dare they right? Because… | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Women don’t hate genuinely nice men, it’s exactly the opposite. Some of them actually do and there are reasons for that. One of those reasons is what I discussed in my comment. They hate disingenuously nice men who have ulterior motives. All men who are attracted to a woman might have some type of motive with said woman they are attracted to. This motive doesn't get erased by any type of behavior toward said woman. Women, also, clearly do not like men who are genuinely nice if they don't like th… | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:52 PM |
| -4 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?The most manipulative guys are the assholes who mistreat women and get tons of success. If a nice guy is being ‘manipulative’ through being nice, at least he’s being nice. Women hate genuinely nice men in part because if things go wrong, they won’t be able to win in a reputation destruction contest after the fact. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Major Left Wing News Organization Denounces AOC's anti-male height shaming of Stephen Miller and democrat attacks on masculinity in general.You posted about the young Turks and your most recent comment was about where they are politically. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Major Left Wing News Organization Denounces AOC's anti-male height shaming of Stephen Miller and democrat attacks on masculinity in general.Yes, the Turks are quasi woke opportunistic critics of whatever they latch onto. Possibly the most left leaning actual political issue they seem to believe in (outside of identity politics) is campaign finance reform, which anywhere else in the civilized first world has already been accomplished or is considered center. They are serving the mainstream by doing this. For all their talk about discussions of masculinity they don’t really care about men. They care about what it does to the Democrati… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Major Left Wing News Organization Denounces AOC's anti-male height shaming of Stephen Miller and democrat attacks on masculinity in general.They don’t really care. This is a convenient opportunity for mainstream democrats to outcast AOC which is something they’ve been want to do for years. The party will go less woke in appearance only. It won’t help men. This party will continue to support corporate globalism, and it will claim to represent the interests of working class non-men only. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 07:15 AM |
| -13 | Youtuber Actual Justice Warrior has a pretty fair take on AOC's commentsI couldn’t agree more with what he has to say about her comments. That being said, he’s a completely self-professed conservative commentator. And the behavior he has here is one clearly looking to score points. Constant callbacks to the character of liberals and ‘lefties’ as a whole show he’s looking to take it back to that, including the phrase ‘liberals being soft’ lol. The criticism here is clearly not that her words were ‘soft’ and her ‘apology’ is more of a double down than anything else gi… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.The OP gave their views on why marriage is advantageous to women and disadvantageous to men. Again. This is not a conversation on the topic of what marriage 'is about.' Read again. I gave a single example from Japan. Japan is not western culture. It says nothing about dead bedrooms in the west. It's an example that is not on the topic. It was the only example you provided on the topic of dead bedrooms. What here do you not understand? There's tons of western men who are the cause of their marria… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/25 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.but a traditional marriage was not and is not about a gold digger finding a target. No one made a claim attempting to state what marriage 'is about.' Marriage, in the west, in practice, IS effectively as described. This is so in the sense that any woman COULD find a target and have that work for them legally and socially. It's not a controversial thing to say in this day and age. What marriage 'is about' is entirely irrelevant here and is a completely different topic. For example, in Japan... Re… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Is finding a girlfriend improbable for gen z men?Yes | /r/MensRights | 11/09/25 07:13 PM |
| 39 | Thoughts?None of the stuff in the pro GF is guaranteed. It should all be ‘maybe from time to time’ | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I feel like being a man who is attracted to women can often give one an inferiority complex.No. I’m not thinking that at all. Have a nice day. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | I feel like being a man who is attracted to women can often give one an inferiority complex.Well done for proving my point and outing yourself at the same time. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 09:44 PM |
| 3 | I feel like being a man who is attracted to women can often give one an inferiority complex.In what countries do men live longer? | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 09:32 PM |
| 5 | I feel like being a man who is attracted to women can often give one an inferiority complex.To assess power, you have to understand what power is. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 08:56 PM |
| 3 | I feel like being a man who is attracted to women can often give one an inferiority complex.No. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 08:52 PM |
| 2 | What if marriage was actually insisted upon by middle-aged women?No, it's the premise of my comment. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 10:01 PM |
| 3 | What if marriage was actually insisted upon by middle-aged women?And yet some are as this is the premise. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:45 PM |
| 6 | What if marriage was actually insisted upon by middle-aged women?It kind of doesn’t matter. Desirable men are desirable. The ones that are desirable will not have a preference for older women if they have a choice, hence the ‘desirable’ part of the equation. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Welcome to LifeYes. No feminists hate men because hating men isn’t as bad. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Male Privelege Is A MADE UP Concept!It's not 'privilege' to be born with this or that anatomy under the presumption that one suffers 'worse' than the somehow. That's a victimhood Olympics narrative that asserts, somehow, men 'owe' women because they're born with vaginas? It's bullshit. When people talk about 'gendered' privilege, it's about societal treatment. Attempting to lean on 'anatomical' difference is not a part of that conversation. So, again, you've listed absolutely nothing that pertains to privilege though you did vague… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/25 03:04 AM |
| 4 | Male Privelege Is A MADE UP Concept!So basically nothing and you’re not going to mention the advantages women have, just refer to them. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/25 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Study: 40% of female colleague students could imagine a situation in which they would make a false assault claim against a male, motivated by revenge, fear, or embarrassment.And yet purportedly 18 out of the 255 female participants admitted to having already falsely accused men. 101 out of the 255 responded that they would consider doing such a thing in the future. I don’t really know what kind of ‘pie in the sky’ makes this acceptable. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Study: 40% of female colleague students could imagine a situation in which they would make a false assault claim against a male, motivated by revenge, fear, or embarrassment.Imagining a situation where a person would choose to do something is different than simply just imagining doing something. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/25 09:10 PM |
| 12 | Why the Left has Anti-Male Rhetoric and PoliciesWe don’t get to do civilization if we don’t have security. Men provide security, men enforce the laws we decide to legislate. Health institutions tend to prioritize women’s health above men’s. And educational institutions are similar, probably even more female leaning these days. And yes women take this situation for granted. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 02:02 AM |
| 5 | The shift in why men don't read anymore (high iq megathread)They don’t want male writing. If a woman writes it, they’ll publish whatever it is regardless. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Men created the system so all problems are created by menIt’s schrodinger’s patriarchy for sure. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 08:46 PM |
| -1 | How would you feel about my wife’s donor choice if you were in my shoes?Divorce | /r/MensRights | 19/01/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?It’s not ‘paternalizing’ to know you’re wrong and point that out. It’s not ‘paternalizing’ to refuse to tolerate disrespect. If you have the gall to make claims that insulate blame on men, that are wrong, that you admit you don’t know what you’re talking about, you might get a tone as a response to that. You got your hand caught in the cookie jar. It’s offensive because you assumed male fault by way of victim blaming. Your use of the word ‘paternalizing’ reeks of sexism. You wouldn’t talk like t… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?No. It’s not whatever. This is the exact kind of normalized, casual disrespect of men’s issues that we talk about here. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?If you don’t as much because you haven’t read into something, you should probably read into something first rather than offending the sub by putting forth a speculation that puts blame on men and has already been disproven. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?No. The fact that the majority of men get very little out of dating apps is not the product of a small group of men behaving in a repelling way. People have reality tested this many times with profiles of extremely hot men. The women overlooked criminal records being mentioned in the profile and horrible things being said in messages. This can be found all over the internet if you search for it. You don’t know what you’re taking about and you’re on a mens rights sub right know trying to say thes… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?How is it happening? You prove to me it’s happening. Women get dates, even if they’re ugly. A lot of guys have no opportunities to date. The guys who do get selected on the apps get dates and guys who get dates, date many women. Meanwhile most guys on apps don’t get dates at all. Because the women don’t want them. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Okay. It sounds like what you’re saying here is that women are generally seeking guys out, meeting them, getting to know a little bit about them, and then deciding they don’t have enough to offer. That’s not what’s happening. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 10:44 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?But not interested enough to answer my question. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Sounds like you’re getting a bit off topic. I said what I came here to say. If you think there are such great benefits to lasting relationships why aren’t women finding all the single men? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?So, again, and I don’t know why this is a surprise to anyone because it seems pretty obvious but not every man is considered marriage material by women. In fact, there are articles out today in the news saying that women are now complaining that ‘there aren’t enough marriageable men.’ It’s not that they’re not enough men or even attractive men. It’s ’marriageable’ meaning he is an exceptional, typically financial prospect. Men who are poorer tend to be married way less. There’s a stat here that … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?I came here to say something that’s pretty commonly accepted and I stand by it. Your assertion that marriage shortens the life span of women is not even supported by the kind of data you vaguely refer to. And I already explained why. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Your conclusion has nothing to do with the data you mention. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Data that doesn't mean what you think it does. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Yea. Not buying this line of thinking for one second. Just look at the disparity in overall life expectancy for starters. Furthermore, the men who are marriage material are a data set of men successful enough to have marriage as an option. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:39 PM |
| 3 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?‘Assault’ is assault and we all recognize it as serious and illegal unless it’s a woman assaulting a man in most cases. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:12 PM |
| 3 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?We’ve collectively decided that crimes against women are illegal. We also have a culture where men protect women. This is not so the other way around and yet women are ‘constantly afraid’ | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 3 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?So, yes, the language around ‘sexual assault’ has moved to include things that aren’t ’assault.’ Meanwhile, whenever men get literally assaulted by women it doesn’t count. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Men are the primary victims of violence | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Lady explains how to get divorcedNo. I don’t think divorced men have a leg up over divorced women. At all. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Would you go to war for the modern woman?No. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Are there any great movies about women exploiting men? One example would be Lights in the Dusk(2006), for reference. I know there are tons of Hollywood films about how evil men are, but rarely are women ever portrayed that way. So, I am curious.Both the female lead characters are beyond psycho | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Are there any great movies about women exploiting men? One example would be Lights in the Dusk(2006), for reference. I know there are tons of Hollywood films about how evil men are, but rarely are women ever portrayed that way. So, I am curious.Body Heat 1981 The Last Seduction 1994 | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Attacked and downvoted in an unrelated sub because they went through my history and found that I post here.Yes. How dare men have rights | /r/MensRights | 12/12/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Do our dads teach us misandry.No. Your dad knows that some men are either not ready or not good for his daughter. He’s looking out for your best interests as a human that he knows very well, probably better than you know yourself. This is a man who has the honesty enough to call out the bullshit that men do in life particularly when they are your age. He’s honest enough to inform you that some men are immature, might not have sincere intentions for you, and might not have their shit together or may never get their shit toget… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 08:22 AM |
| 7 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Maybe you’re just interested or curious. Maybe you change your mind later. If there’s any level of interest, it needs to be communicated. Men are dragged over the coals for ‘not communicating’ and it’s bullshit because we all know the group that expects the other side to be mind readers is women. Look, you all asked to be treated the same as men in every way. How about you start taking on a sliver of what’s expected from men? We aren’t asking you to work on an oil rig. We’re simply asking you to… | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 11:00 PM |
| 15 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Yes. Too much can go wrong if it’s not made abundantly clear that you’re specifically interested in a guy romantically. Women have used plausible deniability so much to the point where it’s literally unsafe for men to assume anything. And it’s sad. But if you’re a man today, you are always running the risk of serious consequences unless the woman literally says she sees you that way. If you’re the one here complaining, you need to be asking men for some numbers. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else think that some obsessive male feminists going against the redpill and whatnot on social media are narcissists or sketchy people hiding skeletons in the closet or looking for fame?Think about the possibility of these viewpoints being funded and encouraged. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Host of “The View” says men are uselesswomen most affected | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 06:03 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Let me know. I don’t even care what you look like. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Pacific Northwest | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I used to be from that area of the country. You should move here and we should date. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I have been open to dating 4s for years, though I consider myself very much above a 4 and in a previous life would never have even considered dating a 6. Even then it's hard to please these women. Let me think. Years ago I landed a date with a 4, definitely, like this girl maybe even could've been a 3. I gave her a chance. Her real life look was worse than the photos of course. She probably needed to lose like 20 pounds. Just like for health reasons. This date was started with her sizing me up f… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!You clearly live in a different region. Where are you? Dating is very regional and there are plenty of men all over the country who won't even consider getting involved with a woman. Some of these guys even leave the country to find nicer women. Just women who like treat them with respect. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!No. Picking is a situation where you have more than one option in front of you. If you're in a location and you hit on multiple girls there, it doesn't work out so you will get all their numbers and date all of them. But if you approach all of them and the first few say 'no' then you have to move on and keep asking. There's no choice but to keep asking. When a man approaches a woman, they don't know anything about that woman. And men have to approach a lot. And the reason is - they get rejected … | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I don't know where you're getting that stat and I don't understand how 39% is most women. I also was under the impression that less men are even looking. There's a difference between looking to date and looking for a relationship. only guy that I’d ever felt truly acknowledged by outside of my looks. Sounds like he knew what to say to you. I can find plenty of sources of women who’ve been through horrible things too. I'm not saying that women have not been through horrible things. I think the de… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!You’ve linked no sources… Citing the conversations that I've had with real actual people. You can hear women talking about this same stuff online all over the place I'm sure. Just google it. The measure of what I'm saying is not dependent on data, it simply speaks to cultural things that we all already know and agree with. Women are allowed to have any or no reason to divorce and still be supported, typically. Men are judged as scumbags if they have selfish or no reason to divorce. It's just a c… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I can’t speak for privileged women. Again. It sounds like you are privileged on account of the fact that you are a woman in the first place. If you 'haven't met a good man worth dating,' that should tell you something. About you. Where do you meet men? What are the kinds of men you're interested in? You, like many women, are spoiled for choice, because you have so many options, you don't understand what you should be looking for. Meanwhile there's tons of great guys out there who can't even get … | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!This has already been covered. People rally behind women's choices even if they're bad. There's a difference here. Women need to pick better because they need to pick better. Men are pretty highly policed by other men and if they have families, the women in their families. Men are pretty regulated. They are responsible for households, i.e. the man of the house. They are responsible for the children i.e. child support. Women picking better is what they have. Women are the choosers. Men are the ap… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I said it the way that it was. It's from a source. Furthermore, I thought you weren't interested in taking on this topic. And yet, here you are. I didn't come here to talk about divorce as I stated. I did mention that marriage is at an all time low because it is. And we notice that most women are leaving their husbands because of cheating or lack of communication: This is not true unless you're including the cheating that women are doing as means to leapfrog to a different man. I don't think 'la… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 01:45 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I could argue men are attracted to women who don’t want to be with them Think about what you're saying. Consider the words you have to fall back on and concede. You have to go so far back here that it could apply to anyone. PEOPLE are often attracted to people who don't want to be with them. That's how attraction works in life. For you to say something most people would agree with, you have to walk your language back to a place where you're saying something that could be said about anything. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!This area is one of the manifestations that I talked about earlier where women have been allowed to leave behind their 'traditional gender roles' when it is to their advantage at any time and switch it around back and forth, however they want, while men are still expected to be traditional men. So, again. When a woman uses a man for his money, that's pretty standard. For starters, a guy has to have some level of earning power just to be in the game. There are women who do this in the extreme and… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Okay but now we’re getting outside the realm of heterosexual relationships. Please. You just threw a bunch of off-topic things at the wall. The crux of what I've been saying has never been about non-hetero dynamics. which is mostly projection since most people who get divorced are more typically poor, and tend to have only a HS education. Why do you say this is projection? What is one fact that you think you know about me? Name one fact that you think you know about me that pertains to this conv… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Now we're changing the topic to rape and violence. Classic. >Women also have to worry about rape, getting beat up, getting killed, men also can be gold diggers Why do men not have to worry about these things? Men are the primary victims of violence. Men die significantly more than women. >Women don’t kill men as much as men kill women. Proxy violence. Men are more capable of violence. This doesn't mean that women are less violent. They are less physically able to successfully do it. Women instig… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Again. Thank you for being the tone police. You've not actually taken something I've said and explained why you think those things, you've just generally attached vaguely unflattering sounding language to my 'overall tone' as whole. Because of that, I can't really say I find your 'criticism' very convincing. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Cool. Well you can talk about that and you don't really need to talk about me as a person. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I quoted you and I responded to those quotes. We’re no longer talking about content now per your choice. It sounds like you insist on talking about me, not the topic. It says all anyone needs to know. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I always find it funny that there’s a criticism in online culture for replying thoughtfully and thoroughly to content. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:15 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!A lot of times what I see is couples where the guy is trying to make his gameplan be known and the more you talk to these people, you begin to realize that these two people have completely different life gameplans and when you talk to the woman about what her life gameplan is you mainly hear two things. Firstly, you hear a blood curdling an insistence that she has the right to chart her own life gameplan, and secondly, when she tells you what her life gameplan is it sounds absolutely cracked bey… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I mean i feel like you’re projecting a bit when it comes to the divorce stuff but idc It sounds like you need to change the topic to my personal life because you've run out of steam on the actual topic. I already covered this with the whole 'who hurt you' bit. Called it out. Thanks for delivering. All i hear is “women should pick better” that’s literally why im here Women have the luxury of picking. I don't make the rules. It is a luxury. Most guys don't have what we would call 'options.' As in … | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!>OP has been nothing but gracious towards you I don't have a problem with her tone. We've been having a conversation that started out pretty structured. I don't think anyone has a need for the tone police but it sounds like you've stepped in and volunteered to say she has had a 'gracious' tone. It actually hasn't gotten to the point where you commented on my tone exactly despite mentioning hers. So, thank you for bringing up her tone? > into this self-victimising narrative. For pointing out some… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 05:09 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Not really Again. I addressed a lot of problems with modern dating and social perceptions, conventions, expectations and laws, and enforcement of laws not keeping up with the advancement of women in western society. It seems that we've allowed women to be 'modern' or 'traditional' when it suits them, meanwhile the expectation for men is the same (as you point out certainly a 'provider' but likely also masculine, etc.). And in fact, men can be shamed on either side of that coin, for not being mod… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!>Where is the problem? I feel like this has already been covered pretty extensively. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!I'm not throwing any shame your way for seeking out the right kind of guys and properly hitting on them. You're probably going to have to in order to find quality. I think that people need to date differently and grow up. That explains why I'm here. I've given up on actively looking for women as the juice isn't worth the squeeze and I have too much to lose. Your fear is you 'might get ghosted.' I have a lot more to lose than just getting ghosted. If you get involved with the wrong woman, I could… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Saying that an anecdotal experience is an anecdotal experience is not the same as saying that an anecdotal experience is invalid - it might not be a valid basis for convincing someone of anything. It certainly is invalid in probably most societies all over the world to use one bad dating experience of ghosting that's pretty common to most people and use that as a basis for restructuring to a highly fear based outlook on dating, and men as a whole, without acknowledging that you are also an adult… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 5 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!>he just butters up new women while he’s in a relationship before the exit. I've already acknowledged that people lie, do fake things, and change their minds. This isn't unique to women only. If this is happening to you a lot, you should probably ask yourself - what are you selecting for? Turns out superficial charm guy worked on you. The guy you actually want to be with, might be completely invisible to you. This is what I've been talking about pretty much from the start. >instead i got ghosted… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:39 PM |
| 0 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!There's nothing bad faith about saying what you're bringing to the table is anecdotal. Men have their lived experience denied all the time, especially online. More people default to defense of women in general even in situations where they're in the wrong. There's nothing bad faith about examining your own account of yourself which states that a thing happened to you once. One time. Already discussed it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Not sure why you downvoted me. I actually brought extensive content on all these issues and all you had to offer was "this one thing happened to me one time" and "I've had married men hit on me." Please. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:20 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!>He was vulnerable with me. I couldn’t see through the act and I can guarantee most men can suspend belief long enough to enjoy an escort. Look. We don't really know. When women don't get what they want from men, our general default assumption is that the man was bad or he did bad things with malicious intent. You know what women do all the time that is completely defended by society? They just change their mind for any or no reason. Women are allowed to change their minds. Men aren't. Once a ma… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:03 PM |
| 7 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!>You’re saying this to someone who has literally been played by a player before. Lots of men say all the right things, warm you up, express long term intentions, lie and future fake with you. Firstly, I've been played by women as well. Women might do it differently (after sacrificing everything you have "My feelings changed") but it's just as devastating. Even further we live in a time where women's selfishness is celebrated. Women ruin families in a way where it's legally permitted and socially… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!No. It’s an analogy and I’ve said what I have to say about it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:27 PM |
| -1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!This is kind of a really messed up analogy. Going to a bar full of escorts is not where men who are looking for a relationship would start. If a guy is going to a bar full of escorts, he's going there to have the kind of dynamic that guys have with escorts. If a guy is going there for that kind of transaction, specifically, there's a lot he's not going to care about and this would include, particularly, interest in getting to know you kind of stuff. It's kind of disgusting, actually, that you ma… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 5 | 46 y/o Middle School Teacher Sentenced for Locking 14 y/o student in classroom to rape himNo | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 08:56 PM |
| 27 | 46 y/o Middle School Teacher Sentenced for Locking 14 y/o student in classroom to rape himNo. How bout we start with punishing female pedophiles proportionally in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Can anybody respond to this and fact-check this? (Courtesy of u/Main-Tiger8593)I frankly see very little anti-man sentiment in the activist/organizing spaces I frequent; Yea, right. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend keeps making comments about mansplaining and men's humour... EtcPlease walk away my friend. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Ok, I'm getting kinda sick of thisThat’s kind of the point of bringing up power and class in America and how it actually works in practice. For example there are tax laws and wealthy individuals who successfully get away with paying no tax or far less than what they should. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/24 12:02 AM |
| 8 | Ok, I'm getting kinda sick of thisI don’t think it will be passed either but not based on the principle of power dynamics you point out. While most representatives are still male, you have to acknowledge 2 things. Firstly, women have outvoted men in every major election since the 60s by an average of 10 million more votes. Secondly, which is perhaps more direct to your claim, the legislative class, quite often skirts the very regulations they set for others. Men at the top control men at the bottom in ways that suit their needs.… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | The gender wage gap is not due to gender bias, periodIt’s not wage gap it’s income gap. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Why Men go their own way now (MGTOW)Looks like they got canceled | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?Because they can get sex, they can get a relationship if they want. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Misandrists on FacebookMy mom is in hater camp and it’s been impossible growing up male under a single mother who essentially hates men. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/24 09:09 PM |
| 10 | In the 2024 Democratic Party Platform, the word Women appears 82 times, the word Men, 4 times. Why don't the Democrats pay more attention to male voters since they trail among them in the vote?Because there have been more female voters in every American election since 1962 by an average of 10 million votes. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty Is Not Feminine"Fourth, some women got into relationships with Germans to protect their families. Not a pretty fact, but that’s war. People will do anything for protection, food and survival. You cannot judge them if you hadn’t experienced it." Yes. When the enemy tribe invades your territory and murders your men, it's a great show of loyalty to open your arms and legs to them. Survival is so paramount that we 'cannot even judge' women who do this. Talk about truly disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 09:16 PM |
| 24 | Loyalty Is Not FeminineReally, in the end, loyalty based on feelings isn’t loyalty at all. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Loyalty Is Not FeminineThe difference was male coerced collaborators were shot. Women had their hair cut as a form of public humiliation. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 43 | Loyalty Is Not FeminineAnd their feelings can change in an instant. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 13 | Why are men's traumas and men's emotions seen as harmful to others? Why do we internalize that man-hating idea and then self-censor?Basically proves his point. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Delusional belief women have.The problem is not that all women are like that. The problem is that enough of them are because they can get away with it. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 08:00 PM |
| 18 | Can men have standards the way women do?All you need to do is just read what his point was. Whether the marriage is ‘arranged’ or not there are still the socially understood expectations that he listed that are one way expecting something from men only and judging them. Both families are judging him, what are they judging the woman for? Nothing. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/24 10:55 PM |
| 18 | Can men have standards the way women do?Arranged marriage is fucked on both sides but the stuff this guy mentioned was on one side not both. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 13 | USA: Bumble Shares Take Record Plunge on Slashed Annual Outlook. OP: Feminist man hating dating app takes a hit.It’s more like you’re handing out ice cream to fat women and charging men triple as well in a town that has no food. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 08:48 PM |
| 18 | Am I the problem?No. It's simply easier for women to cheat. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Am I the problem?What about the woman's infidelity? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 11 | Am I the problem?Would she really be though? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 11:03 PM |
| -1 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedNo. He presented a situation where he persuaded a woman. Which is pretty remarkable. So remarkable that he wrote a post about it. He vaguely referred to ‘facts that he dropped.’ I was interested in the kind of factual substance that might resonate with such women and actually work and if not work at least inspire an amount of empathy toward men. Upon further elaboration there were facts, more details about the delivery and the admission that he was likely dealing with an exceptionally reasonable… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 10:41 PM |
| -5 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedDude. I don’t know why you’re so defensive. I’m just trying to understand what happened. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 09:49 PM |
| -5 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedWe get it but let us determine that for ourselves by telling us what you actually said right? | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 7 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedWell I think it’s important since you’re presenting a narrative about persuading a woman. I lay tons of facts on the ground and get called a misogynist. It’s like a religion to these people. So I’m wondering how on Earth you were able to get this kind of response. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedBut like what evidence did you present? | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 5 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedWhat did you say to her though? | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 11 | Criticizing feminism to a feminist is criticizing their identityI think this holds true for a lot of opinions that women in general may have. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 06:35 AM |
| 8 | She makes $550,000 a year. Her husband makes $60,000. Here's how it affects their relationshipIt’s simply to say that there’s no objectivity to a ‘household standard’ and women can bully men by always claiming authority over the household realm. This allows women to complain about stuff even if it’s just fine. By the word of some women, some things are never clean enough even if they are. This is also not to say that all women do this. It’s not that every woman does this, it’s that any woman can do this if they feel like it and everyone knows it for the destructive bullshit that it is. Y… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 08:22 PM |
| 14 | She makes $550,000 a year. Her husband makes $60,000. Here's how it affects their relationshipThe ‘burden’ of household work is just another form of dick swinging that women use to measure themselves against other household keepers and to control men. When men have a lot of money they just hire a fucking maid service. At 550k a year you can order a fucking maid service. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Power imbalance just screws up everything"in terms of gender equality women are in the minority." You have me at this. This may very well be the perception of things. But if we're being honest, what do people even mean by 'minority' anymore? By population there are more women than men in the US by .51 percent (a difference of 3 million people). More women have voted in every US election since 1964 by an average of 10 million more voters. What even is that? I disagree with the premise. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Joker, of Better Bachelor fame, has started a news-focused YouTube channel called "Odd Man Out News" -- his take on news and politicsI think mens rights should be acknowledged across the political spectrum. This means it really shouldn’t matter what part of the political spectrum you’re on. I’m not sure that it helps the cause for him to show his cards on politics. I’ve listened to him for years. It’s kind of cringe when he gets into politics. I think it’s an easy way for people to write him off. I listened to basically 5 years of him denouncing women for doxxing and canceling men. In a recent video he rethinks this when Trum… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 11:38 PM |
| 59 | African woman here, why do men stay silent in the west?I live in the Pacific Northwest in a major city. It’s extremely feminist here. If I were to speak up on any topic related to male suffering, I would be met with hate and called a misogynist. The women in my family are also pretty awful but people very much allow them to be awful. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyWhere do you see women “flaunting their access to abortion?” What does that even mean? This isn't the main thing I brought to the conversation but it's true that I've seen content like this, if not, why would I fabricate that? TikTok. It's a thing. One I remember is a 20 something girl acting scared that she might have to consider a relationship with her FWB or something due to the positive pregnancy test, then she flips to - sike, I'm just getting an abortion. Pretty flippant view. I’m not sugg… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyMen are already on the hook for children financially sometimes even if it’s not their kid, so not sure why you think that would be new, for starters. Secondly, don’t assume my view of abortion. I already admitted that abortion has its place. The scenario concerning an ‘undo’ button is simply to say that it’s something that happens. Women nowadays make jokes about it and flaunt their access to abortion for example. In the end, contraceptives failing is still part of the game. I don’t see how that… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyI also don’t understand why men can’t have have equal reproductive rights. You should need BOTH parents permission to perform an abortion, not just one \<sup>This</sup> was the comment above that he responded to. That should help orient you around the conversation. We're on a Mens' Rights sub right now. I'm not trying advocate for men having more rights than women when it comes to reproduction, but where it stands now is frankly lopsided in a direct too far gone without any accountability and so… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyNo. Because he implies that some regulation of abortion is a threat to a woman's bodily autonomy. Utilization of the modern abortion procedure is not what gives someone their bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyThe whole point of this particular thread is entirely around the assertion that women should not have bodily autonomy This person's thesis was that his belief in abortion is oriented around bodily autonomy. But just to be clear, do you believe that the fact that children do not have bodily autonomy justifies women not having bodily autonomy? I think women do already have bodily autonomy. Men are responsible for the sex that they have, why aren't women? Abortion should be a joint decision on acco… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyFalse. I know this. But for the scenario we're talking about they had sex. You wouldn't go through artificial insemination for the woman to then change her mind, or maybe she could. Women try to change their minds all the time for any or no reason and if only they could be held accountable for things that not every woman would do but all women can do then maybe they would be treated more like adults. A man doesn't have to have sex with a woman at all to create an unwanted child he is legally obl… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyGreat argument. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyI get the concept. I am just pointing out it is very consistent with treating her like a child. She isn't allowed to consent to surgery on her own Being a part owner of something doesn't make you a non-owner of something that has no control over the thing owned. It's an incredibly simple concept that you, yourself, just said you understood. The whole thing about how we shouldn't treat women like children isn't one of them It only happened based on someone else brought that logic into the convers… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:59 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyWomen do not have limited responsability Women, in the legal system are held less responsible than men virtually across the board. They enjoy 60% more lenient sentences for the same crimes. But I get your position now. You think a woman deciding whether or not to have an abortion \<sup>Strawman.</sup> I'm not against all abortion. I, in fact, went out of my way to pick a few examples. You didn't read. So, in any case, women are being treated more like children when you remove the choice from the… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyThey don't get to consent on their own. They need someone else to sign off on it. If two people both own a property they need to sign off on all legally concerning things related to that property. Doesn't seem like a hard or shocking thing. Why is it just because the child is in the woman's womb does that mean that it's entirely hers? What about his bodily autonomy? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyI don't believe that requiring a woman to get consent of the father to abort (when possible, except for a medical condition, some other extreme circumstance) compromises bodily autonomy. It was her choice to have sex in the first place, without contraceptive, no attempt to morning after. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancySee, I think I disagree. The woman deserves the right to bodily autonomy, first and foremost. She gets to decide what happens to her body, regardless of what you or anyone else wants. It's that power that comes with responsibility, however. She is the one who has to carry the child. To rephrase, both have the right to walk away and abdicate responsibility. No one is forced to do something with their body that they dont want to. \^ This was his original comment. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancybodily autonomy People have bodily autonomy. You can choose to have sex with whoever and however or not. Once you're pregnant, that's on you. It is exactly the opposite of what you are claiming. It's really not. The only parties in the room that have limited responsibility in life per your own example is children and women. So which is it? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancymight disagree about that this implies adults should not have bodily autonomy. Never said this. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyHe was not talking about children who were having sex at all. I was not talking about children either. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyHe was not talking about someone who had sex at all. Strawman. When you get pregnant you must have had sex. You are responsible for your sexual choices and actions and should be held responsible for your sexual choices and actions the same as everyone else. If you can't accept responsibility for your sexual choices and actions then you probably aren't responsible enough to have sex in the first place. These adults are pregnant from having sex, therefore they should be held responsible for that. … | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyYou're the one who strawman put words in my mouth that I didn't say. You let this guy argue for you because you didn't have anything. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:15 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyNo, it's not. You didn't have a response. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:09 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyHe was not talking about someone who had sex at all. I know what he said. I quoted him. He was talking about children not being able to consent to medical procedures in general. I understand that and I responded to that by simply saying that the difference between the way we treat children and adults in one serious legal respect is that we hold adults fully accountable for their choices and actions. How many contraceptives do these people need? The point was just that the fact that kids can't co… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyI literally quoted you. It’s not difficult at all to understand assuming that you also know what you wrote on your account. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyYea. I read all that and quoted you. Should be self-explanatory. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyFriend, that's because they're children. You're talking about a person who is 'adult' enough to consent to sex and choose to do so without contraception, and then choose no morning pill, gets pregnant and then wants to click the 'undo' button. If they're not children, then this is a person who isn't mature and responsible enough to engage in sexual activities. If we are to play the 'woman' card in this situation, letting them off the hook according to their whims, we're effectively treating them… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 10:38 PM |
| 20 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyThe woman deserves the right to bodily autonomy, She has the right to not have sex if she doesn't want to. She has the right to seek birth control or not. She has the right to the morning after pill. If only women gave us a fraction of the amount of grace we give them. If it's rape or there's a medical thing, fine, I agree. But in the end, it's not as if women are guaranteed always going to abort a child that a man wants to keep, it's that she can. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I mean, women fall for liars all the time. What works is what works. And just because a guy is a tactical liar doesn’t mean he’s inherently an RP devotee. I don’t see how it’s a stretch to imagine that men who expect substantial things from women out of self-respect would possibly be interpreted as RP by women for doing so. It was just a talking point and not really the meat of the post which is the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Maybe. But that’s not the question of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I’m not going to disagree with you but does that then invalidate what I have to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It certainly doesn’t say “men only message the top women.” Let’s be honest there’s a high percentage of women who filter out the height of most men from the very beginning, before messaging even enters play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?No additional words are necessary. Yes. No need to back up your view at all on a debate sub. It's not "trolling" to express my view about something you said on a debate subreddit. It is trolling to say 'I don't believe you' and not explain why you think that. Your explanation still might be wrong but at least you'd have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Cool. Thank for all you've contributed to this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?The difference between "stop commenting" and "please stop commenting" is a matter of manners, not intent. This has no bearing on what I said. I said if you're here to discuss content, fine. If not, I'd appreciate it if you'd stop harassing me on numerous comments I've written today. Again, not sure what your problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Playing head games, So women who play games are RP then? I agree that those are some pretty obvious tells associated with RP but are they always indicative of a man who is truly RP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?That's certainly an opinion. >I don't believe you. No reason listed. Given that this is the entire comment, I'd say it looks pretty troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Because you feel entitled to tell me what I need to be doing. I politely asked you. Not sure what your problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You're not debating any content, so there's really no point in continuing the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I wouldn’t. Imagine a world where it's either that or be single your whole life. No need to “flip out,” it’s just a red flag because this is common language for people with certain attitudes to use. Context obviously matters. If I were a guy I would definitely run if she used “scrotes.”lol Okay. I will scale it back from 'flip out' to 'bothered by it at all.' And yea I think 'scrotes' is a bit extreme. I point it out because while women take issue with the use of the word 'female' as an 'extreme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?If you are here, clearly trolling, then it's accurate to call you out as a troll. Not sure what you expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Why choose someone who tests you, doesn’t take things seriously, and doesn’t take accountability (which is what jokes are) ? That's a good question. Why do men tolerate this from women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Of course. But just because they're RP doesn't mean they're inherently an asshole, and just because they're an asshole doesn't mean they're inherently RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I hear you. I'd appreciate it if you'd stop bothering me unless you have some actual content to discuss on the topic of this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You've repeatedly personally attacked multiple women on this post and called us names. Proof. Prove I haven't been attacked. Say something of value towards the topic or stop commenting please. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?By looking at their behaviors Clearly. The reason we've gotten so deep into this discussion is that it's not always so simple to know for sure which behaviors are truly proof of RP and the degree to which those things become unacceptable to women. If they behave a certain way, Right. So, describe that in detail. That's the point of the post. then a person may find those behaviors undesirable and thus not date them. Again. That's the point of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Cool. Well thank you for respectfully hearing me out. If there's nothing further to say then there's no reason why you should keep commenting to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I agree. The question of this post is all about how to effectively do this exact thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?being nasty Yes, it's very 'nasty' to say things that women don't like. uncivil because us evil women Yes. I've been very uncivil and I've used the phrase 'evil women' many times. I'm reporting every instance of it. Perhaps you should try reading yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I've already discussed this numerous times. I'm allowed to give people the flexibility to discuss what they think RP is and still disagree with those assessments of what RP is if that's the case. I don't understand what your problem is and I'd appreciate it if you either participate in this discussion more thoughtfully and respectfully or stop tracking down every comment I've written to drop something asinine and vitriolic. I'd sincerely appreciate that by the way. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Jokes have already been discussed. It might also be a shit test on her. But, again, as I just said, different people have a different idea about what RP is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Cool. Thanks, troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I certainly respect women who know what they want and are able to effectively and respectfully communicate those things. I don't even have a problem with the conditional part, maybe I see it as a little unfair. I also think men want their women to be happy and are willing to work hard for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?There's lots of reasons to not want to date someone. Just because you don't want to date someone for any or no characteristic, doesn't mean you've correctly identified them as RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?beer? Damn. Lots of guys like beer. into active disrespect of others. We already have a word for that. It's called 'assholes.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?It's simply to say that many people have a completely different concept of what RP actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?men are pretty unbothered by things, I don't know that they are unbothered though. Tolerating something annoying doesn't make it not annoying. Does that mean he loves her more? Not sure if this was the direction I was going exactly. We were talking about conditional vs unconditional. Maybe, or maybe he's just more "meh" about things. This is definitely an interpretation. Not sure if that's actually what's happening. He wouldn't care if she left her socks on the floor every day, but she would. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Perfect. Don't say anything of value then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You will know current RP by their blatant misogyny. Kinda hard to disagree with. Pretty obvious one though. Give us a real world example? how can you be so vitriolic towards the thing you believe will bring you happiness? Good question for a lot of hetero feminists as well, no? Old school RP is about I tend to see that this is what RP is really about before it got adopted and twisted by people looking to sell cracked relationship advice and sensationalize ratchet behavior. finding women who want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I'm describing it as contextual. In reality it is just not exact and there is no arbitrary number. Which is not very helpful unless you perhaps put some effort into it and explain a few contexts in detail so others can understand. The question exists for a reason. It's not a question for the sake of asking a question for responses that are for the sake of filling out responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I was more thinking in line with telling women you aren't RP when you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Approaching dating as an adversarial game. Are we supposed to tolerate women who do this? “Females” as a noun. I still don't understand this. I get the angle, but men don't flip out when being called 'males.' I mean FDS goes a step further and calls men 'scrotes' lol. Really? Referring to himself as “alpha” or “sigma.” I think that shit's kinda weird too. There are little language choices that can give clues Such as? A lot of manosphere guys like to follow little scripts, and some can’t seem to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Why would a man lie about being RP? Maybe to hit it and quit it? Obvious, no? Why would I want to keep dating a man who lied or joked about being RP? You gotta know that he lied first, right?. If he says something ironically and gets the laugh then it might be a joke, no? Aren’t women supposed to be “choosing better”, aka not men who hold sexist or misogynistic views, I think so. I think we're having a discussion about how to for sure screen guys. who think they are funny/unserious? Sometimes gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?It's a really interesting idea. "🎵 ..I wan-na know what love is....🎵" I feel like mens' love for women is unconditional to a point but probably more unconditional on the spectrum, comparatively. And I think part of this is the design that women, once they have children, love their children unconditionally. I think that men in romantic relationships typically don't experience that kind of love from their woman. I think that women tend to care a lot about what men can do for them moreso than the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Men have rules too - I've given you examples of them. We've discussed this, chiefly, that mens' rules and womens' rules are not the same. If you want to compare them, that's a whole different topic. It was the underlying premise of a point I was making. You claimed, 'men have rules too' sure but not in the way I was talking about when I was talking about womens' rules and how they apply them. Women have the luxury to establish and stick to whatever inane 'rules' they feel like having in any give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Well then what’s the point? Describing it is what I mean by helpful. If other people aren’t able to grasp it in tangible terms then you’re not describing it very well which does not help others understand. If you’re trying to describe it to someone else, no one is going to understand if it’s all based on your personal feelings in any given moment and loose numbers. Doesn’t sound like you have it figured out at all if everything is so vague. If you don’t want to help other people understand then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 11:25 AM |
| – | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Again. Super helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 10:01 AM |
| – | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Oh, a feelings based answer. How helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?A significant number. Way to narrow it down. What number is that? None that are specifically red pill, no. Well, there's a lot of RP beliefs that aren't specifically RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?He expresses belief in red pill beliefs, All RP beliefs or just 2. And which ones? Are there any RP beliefs that you find acceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I don't know if this can be said for certain. This also is getting way off topic. We could consult some really rich philosophy on friendship but that doesn't mean that 'most people' agree. Deep Fried Frenz is a song about friendship. "I had no idea I should've been concerned about my friend" You're really reaching with this one. There is no doubt that I have concern for my friends. There's a difference between 'concern' and having information that lets you know you should be very concerned, in p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?If you have a problem with how I defined it, then either give your own definition or quit whining. I'm allowed to go with what you think red pill is and disagree with it if I do. Not sure what your problem is. Nobody said otherwise. I'm just going to link the wikipedia page for straw manning every time you do this. It sounds like you're more interested in calling something 'strawman' and running away from the subject rather than actually attempting to clarify what it is you actually mean to say.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:13 AM |
| – | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Is this one of those word game puzzles, like Susie is taller than Jacob but Jacob is twice as short as Lucy? Now, within a half an inch, how tall is Susie? Like who's who and what's your point? How do I know what else you would look like? Is this for real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Lmao, dude, you made the post. I I understand that I made the post. That's one thing I know for certain. Now that we've established that, we are no closer to why you're accusing me of having a 'mask' of some kind in responses on here to random people on the Internet. I don't even know what you fully mean by this, why you think this is so, and why one be motivated to do such a thing in the first place. See, RP induced behaviour always reaches the surface. Yes, I'm a real RP rager now, being accus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?At this point, I don't even know what you're talking about because you've been pretty vague about it and I asked you a lot of follow up questions that you ignored, and I don't know what the stakes are but you're calling me a liar over it. You can think what you want I guess. Does that mean you'll stop bothering me and accusing me of things now? Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Now here's how i know this is a lie. Ypu became spiky with the feminist egalitarian lady who i know for a fact has very good, compassionate takes and never uses a bad tone. Just like i said: the mask drops. There could be any sort of reason or no reason at all for whatever it is you're mentioning. But you insist that the only explanation is that I'm putting on some kind of 'mask' for some reason. What reason is that? I won't even mention the fact that I can't even imagine what could possibly be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I think. Like. A lot of women want men to be providers, no? I'm starting to think I just don't know anything anymore. What do you think about the guy's question to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Again. Thank you for your very useful response. I'm glad that you are able to represent the Pink Pill with such maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You had me until this one: Another guy talked about how his ex moved in with him but he didn’t charge her any rent because he believes men should be the providers. What, would it have been better for the guy to charge her rent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Hence i don't consider myself a feminist so i don't accidentally get bundled up with misandrists. That's really cool. It makes me unreasonably happy to hear this. You, on the other hand, keep the RP label. I don't believe in labels. I also think that what a lot of people are saying RP is, really isn't RP. It would be similar to if I were to say - this misandry stuff and this non-sense, that's not what feminism is. I think that 'feminism' now means so many different things to different people tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?And she answered your question multiple times. No. She answered her question. Just stick to saying things that are true, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?ignore the red flag The only reason you've given for it being a red flag is that you've called it a red flag. give him a chance!" meme Cool. You do you. Don't give any guy a chance ever. Doesn't mean it makes sense. You could say the same about avoiding any obvious red flag like criminal history, past DV, cheating. Just because they could be good for you doesn't mean the trait isn't a red flag. Yea, but I didn't say that now did I? XD. Serious question: Do you think that men should consider it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:29 AM |
| -1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?My very first question to you was what you were defining as "bad RP men." No. I just said RP = bad man, per the narrative. You had the opportunity to define Red Pill That's not what I'm here to do I named specific traits associated with red pill men who are toxic in relationships Some can be toxic in a relationship and not be RP. "men who are shitty in any way shape or form." I made an honest attempt to summarize what you said and distill it into a brief description. It was based off what you sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I asked the question that I asked. I didn't realize I wasn't allowed to do that. It's not complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:53 AM |
| – | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Cool. Thank you for giving us a very useful response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:46 AM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?There's a difference between a man lying to you and a man specifically lying to you about being red pill or not. It's not complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?We aren't comparing. You asked what the rules were, and I've listed some of them. The whole premise was that it's comparative. You ended up saying 'men have rules too,' yea I guess, but certainly not in the same way at the same level, nearly. And then I explained why. I've listed rules that men might use in dating. Do you disagree with my examples? I picked apart many of them and wrote quite bit on how men are less in a position to even have rules let alone keep to them. What's a practical diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?we probably don’t share belief systems Are you a slave to your belief system? I thought love conquered all? Red pill people tend to believe a lot in strong gender roles in relationships How strong are you talking about? I don't know. I feel like some guys are like - as long as I don't have to wear a dress if I don't want to. Is that a crime? I think whoever is best at something should do it. I feel like this is the premise of gender roles in the first place. I couldn't imagine why an RP or a non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Okay, so it sounds like what you're saying is that you will know they are RP by their misogyny. Do we have an example that's more specific? Like what is something you can observe to identify that in the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Help me understand what you're saying here. Any type of buzzword in particular? How do buzzwords relate to self-awareness exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:01 AM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I don't know if you can 'always tell' anything but that does sound like it might be a clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I'm not criticizing or giving judgment to these rules. But again, comparatively we just discussed the difference between rules as it pertains to men and women. Some men are desperate. Just as some women. Yes, and across the board desperate women are more in a position to make rules and apply them in comparison to desperate men. It doesn't mean that men overall can't or don't have rules or preferences. It's simply that 'rules' is a primarily a thing that women do and get to do for reasons we've a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?don't date single mothers Would you tell your son to date a single mother? If your son was deciding between two women who in every other way were exactly the same and he said that he's totally on the fence since he likes both of them equally. One of them is not a mother with a child to care for and the other is a mother with a child to care for from some random guy in her past who may or may not be in the picture. Who would you recommend your son to date? Would you say, hey, I think you should d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:52 AM |
| 3 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I navigate "life with men" just fine, thanks. I was speaking of your belief not you as a person. Either way, I'm not convinced. Either fucking define red-pilled men or let us have our own definitions You can define it however you want, doesn't mean that your definition will necessarily at all be in touch with reality. IDGAF what "the other side" It's a conversation about ideas. No one cares about what you actually think about that specific example. It was an analogy. Glad you understand how absu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I made the post. Are you trying to claim that you wrote my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:48 AM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?i don't really see any similarity or connection between the two. Yes. They are poles with a range in between. How do you spot an RPer with certainty then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?It doesn't stop men to put hard rules. What hard rules? Where? How? Men choose who they approach, so they can put the rules on it at least. Men cast a wide net because they receive a large amount of rejection. That's obvious. In dating there are few things that are "fool-proof". Then maybe people should stop acting as if they know everything. Just as you can't be sure that you'll never get into abusive relationships or that you'll never get divorced. Some women insist that they can tell based on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Both men and women do that and it's fine as long as it works for them. Not to the same degree. Women are the selectors. Pretty basic concept in dating. Sure, there's no fool-proof way. People could just say this. I don't have to do it considering I've been married Yes. We hear this from you about every other comment. We understand that you are married. Like many married women, you spend a lot of time on this sub. I've been seeing older red men saying that the youngsters "don't have it" What does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Dating is highly contextual. I know that. This does not stop women from setting hard line boundaries and rules to follow regardless of context in some cases. Based on what you're saying, you can just simply admit that sometimes you never know. Don't put it back on the question for being ignorant to reality. The question wouldn't be asked if there wasn't a certain behavior in reality. And as for women trying to filter out RP - don't act like you do know if you know enough to know that sometimes y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I agree that living life according to generalized thinking is not without problem. This doesn't stop women from acting according to what they think their red flags are in the dating process though. Hence the question. Yes. Some people are fucked up due to their own preferences. Why are men not allowed to say this? Or should I say, why is there - you're a misogynist level pushback whenever men try to say this to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 3 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man? ^ This was the question. You can suck and not be a bad person. You can be a bad person who is very good at pretending not to suck. ^ This was your response. Try again or don't, idgaf. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?So, you're not going to answer the question. Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You can also be really effective in dating, charismatic, successful in your career, and still be a bad person. I don't understand why you felt compelled to ask me if I understand human beings? It also doesn't look like you've answered the question at all. Thanks for your response I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I agree there are many factors at play which is I why I'm trying to get to the bottom of this in all of its complexity. Charming + asks what i bring to the table = 👎 Charming + easy going, fun to be around = 🫦 I don't disagree. I do consider these fairly obvious. Ask your grifters why RP narrative is so different. I think that what some people think 'RP' is, is actually just the grifters. Grifters are grifters, RP is RP. Aaand the stoic mask dropped and emotions spill. I have not attempted to pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:33 PM |
| -1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?you asked if i would trust a man i am identifying as bad, sorry, does that not seem like a dumb question to you? No. I asked you if you trust men who lie to you. You can go read it again. I see why you're confused now. i have no idea what you are claiming to be sarcastic about. I see that you're confused about this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:26 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Once again, we're talking about generalizations. Right but the process of identifying RP men is all about generalizing in the first place. That's the point. In general, TRP men are conservative, Some aren't. while also seek casual sex It really isn't about casual sex. they heavily rely on hot and cold games. You can be RP and not do this. Oh, they're fucked up. So you're perfectly okay with telling these women that they are fucked up for liking what they like? I support you but good luck with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:24 PM |
| -6 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Okay. 'Red Pill' means men who are shitty in any way shape or form. Got it. Very useful. so they are usually very concerned with their public image. And women are not? Isn't public image a little important in this day and age if you expect to have a career? What if you're Mayor? Are you still not allowed to be concerned about your public image? Help me understand. known for 10 years commits DV, rape, or child abuse, then suddenly nobody knew he was like that. Oof. I mean, to be fair, sometimes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:16 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?i'm not sure how you are confused by this. It's not confusing at all. Help me understand why you think there's any confusion on my end. I would end a relationship with someone who said they are a bad person whether they are telling the truth or lying. So sarcasm is not permitted around you. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:56 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Husband did quite a lot of things that TRP recommends against. It's really not a hard concept. Even lots of men who have pretty focused RP beliefs may also occasionally do things that aren't in line with whatever behaviors you're using to define RP. Which RP is more about men are allowed to do whatever they want to do and what works for them. The people who are giving hard line dating advice are the grifters or they're centered specifically around how you get a girl in Miami or Las Vegas. Basica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?RP men being charming or charismatic?!? They wouldn't be RP in that case. This doesn't make any sense. Men who come across as charming or charismatic might precisely be so because they're pick up artists. Foreign concept to you? Something like how lucky i am to meet him or things like this. This is an ego-centric douchebag and may have no bearing at all on whether or not he has RP beliefs. Accountability, complaining about how women aren't what they used to be, Anyone who expects more from women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man? ^ This is the question. Red pill people are usually on the conservative side and are often right leaning. Not always. What if they're just apolitcal? So if I’m on a date with a man and I tell him I like going to Drag Queen Brunch, if he grimaces and says that stuff is weird and gross, well now I know we’re not compatible. A lot of these things are easy. Some of them aren't. Just becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:45 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I don't understand the strategy beyond the general advice to recoil from things that you don't like. Obviously, if a guy says something outrageous it makes it very easy. Sometimes it's not easy though and that's more to the point of the conversation. It's worked so far. Do you really know this for certain though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:41 PM |
| -2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Simply saying 'I married my husband that's how I know he's not that' doesn't answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?So you trust men who lie to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Venn Diagram of "a guy who knows himself, respects himself, and thus has healthy standards and boundaries in his life and relationships" and a red-pilled man has no overlap. This might be what you believe which is fine. The basis of this belief is probably not likely to give you a useful road map for navigating life with men in reality. The other side could just say the same thing about feminist women. Doesn't mean it has any truth to it at all. You have as well done everything aside from actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?First i'd look for possible hints: fit, keeps a cool mask like emotionless or stoic, lack of charisma, charm, humor and wit. Usually it's the other way around, no? nagging Nagging you to do what? manoshpere buzz words. Such as what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:28 PM |
| -1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Dating-wise TRP concentrates on "spinning plates" This is not necessarily true. I think some of this is simply to say that, since it's easy for women to get interest and acquire dates, then men should be advised to keep their options open until happy, committed dating actually happens. Because as much as women criticize men for 'spinning plates,' many women do that themselves in the background and if they're not literally spinning plates as in dating, they often will have a roster of interested … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I used to go on their Instagram click on "following" and search for manosphere creators and peep the meme pages. Okay. So you infocreep. That's actually a good strategy. What if you don't have their social media? What if you don't find the evidence there? Some people only use Insta for business nowadays. I think men are smart and cultured enough to handle their socials appropriately these days. I think this has limited value. You'd maybe catch the guys who are the worst about it. If it's a dude … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Of course it is. Not simping, being willing to walk away, and not counting on “niceness” are definite advantages that many men don’t employ, to their detriment Attraction happens first. It really is not hard to see what other people wear and how they style themselves and mimic it. That’s what my current partner does I think so too and yet people still get it wrong all the time. In my job, plenty of average dudes who aren’t particularly great at anything are just fine and in relationships. Doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?What if he says he's 'Red Pill' but that totally just doesn't seem like him based on who he is and how he treats you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:11 PM |
| -2 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?'Red Pill' is defined as whatever it is you think 'Red Pill' is. Hope that helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?I don't think that a man who is in TRP is inherently a bad person. The context is dating. And many women try to avoid dating RP men. Maybe it's not a value judgement on them as people so much but it certainly would disqualify them as dating material - hence the use of the word 'bad' in the context of dating (to date). You're kind of making it into something else at that point if you're digging into an overview of their moral character and that's not what the question was necessarily intended to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Harder or easier is the question. So, as far as that goes, it’s the only relevant thing. It’s hard to follow your logic through this tangent you’ve taken us on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I have to ask why you don't chase then? I believe at the time what I was describing was a situation where I had minimal interest in them and there may have been minimal interest both ways or no interest in my direction. Let's assume that's the situation. I'm not going to chase someone who presents themselves as potentially not interested in me (I mean that sounds kind of cringe no?). Conversely, if I'm possibly open but not really that interested in the woman, I probably wouldn't 'chase' them to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it really so bad if virgin guys are forced to go for women with experience?It's been said here before that guys would be much more comfortable having their first experiences with a woman who is also a virgin as well. I really don't think most men here or anywhere actually think this. I chose to go for women more experienced than me, Like I said. However, I wonder if having to do it this way is really so horrible for most guys. I don't think that it is and, again, I don't think most guys really see it as an issue at all. In a sense it's learning the hard way where the g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?An average-faced man can do “fine”. An average-faced man who has something going for him and through a lot of work can do 'fine.' Male fashion is so basic that anyone can do it I don't know that this is true. You have to keep in mind that your audience is women, and they're the ones who care about it more. If 'anyone' can do it, why do so many consciously dress poorly? aka confidence, not simping and not being desperate, help you in dating. They have to like you first. How do you get them to lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Nope. I have a pretty good body and below average face, Then what makes you think it would make dating easier as a man? I’m not motivated to dress up either with cosmetics and fashion/style Not knowing how to dress is not going to help you as a man. not charming or empathetic or emotional, Not going to help you as a man. dump friends and partners easily. Not going to help you as a man. People do like my competence, skills and leadership, but find me brusque and too logical Not going to help you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Are you not attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?No. I said my life would have been better personally in that my father would have invested in me, but it was off topic. If it's off topic why are you presenting it as if it's the meat of your argument? This isn't a forum to discuss your deep seated issues with your father. You sound like you need to talk to someone about it. We already discussed parenting. There has been no content that would indicate that if your father invested in you, then it would've made dating easier for you compared to ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I see boss masculine girls date easily all the time. They can order up a man the way one does a coffee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?One of the most frustrating things about it is, you might be doing something for the sake of one of those 'tests' despite the fact that said tests actually don't work the way they think they do. As in, despite such precautions other men have passed those tests and turned out to be the very thing they were trying to screen in the beginning. So, their tests don't even work because they're looking at the wrong things, and yet even truly good men have to suffer through them. And in the process of al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You can think what you want but all the confidence in the world doesn’t make it so. You’ve presented really no evidence to support that you’d do just as well while admitting that dating is harder for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It seems like it would be pretty easy to understand, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The men in my family are above average height. I think I should get average height of 5'9. And the only reason you won't give it to me is because I'm the normal size of women in MY FAMILY. So I have to be the normal size for women in my family, but not men because...you're so reasonable. I've already responded to this and it's not for the reason you say here. Please see my comment specifically on this topic. 5'9" doesn't really change much about your situation regardless. Whatever you say. I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?My resistance to having to play a female body as a man when I know what the men in my family would be like? But don't pretend you're being reasonable by saying, "hey ladies, would you want to be a man with your height and build????" I'm giving you inches that you don't have. I'm not giving you a foot and a half. Fuck no, but approximately 98% of men are not a woman's height and build. You won't even give me average height because....you're so reasonable and rational? Yea. Because you're fucking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don't have anything to prove to a person who is confident about shit that they know nothing about and I'm not going to argue with you about shit that I already know. Feel free to look into it if you're interested. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don't know what that is. And the male version of you would be the male version of you, not a different person that you already know about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?If you really care you can look it up on your own. I'm not your lackey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It's not my job to do that dirty work for you but I'm sure there are numerous conversations that went exactly that way in the history of this account dating back a month or two because I remember those conversations. I don't need to argue with you about the existence of shit that I already know for certain exists. The fact that I had to tell you speaks for itself. I'm sure this sub has search functionality if you care. You will find it though. It's not just one delusional lunatic it's like a who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Didn’t notice that. It sounded that for many hours you argued that dating would be just as easy if you were a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?My personality is similar to theirs except I’m a straight woman in a female body and my high school experience was different. And clearly you're not them. And it sounds like it hasn't been as easy for you even despite the fact that you're on easy mode. So, what makes you think it would be easier if you were a man? What do you have going for you? And my best informed answer is that my personality type is more desirable to straight girls in high school than straight boys in high school. Are you in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?In addition to being fit (maybe enough for a hookup), for a non-superficial relationship women have to have a lot more qualities that appeal at least to the type of guys she likes. No shit. And if you read you'd know that the female version of myself would have no problem with that. My husband didn't marry me and my bf's didn't date me bc I was just fit. Again. It helps the introduction. Already been discussed. Summary: you sound like you're generalizing and simplifying what women want in dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?5'8" is enough to make you want to change genders I don't have a problem with how I was born. It's how people treat you without knowing anything about you. Btw, women have to do a lot more than just be fit, tho that's a good start. Being fit, gets you in the door. I never in any way suggested that that's all women need and if you actually read what I wrote you would know that I would have no problem in areas beyond fitness and superficial appeal. I already have a lot to offer, I just don't get t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?No it’s not complicated Right. You would understand that you're not them. Again, not complicated. It’s easier for a 35 year old man to start a family than than a 35 year old woman. It's not complicated to read the comments on here. Despite the fact that there are biological truths that I agree with you on, there's a loud contingent on here that cites an increase of sperm degradation at a certain age. They use a study to then conclude that any such child would 100% be born hideously deformed in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?In general, however, I am very happy being a woman. I wouldn’t change it at all. A very unnecessarily long way to find out that we agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It's not my fault you don't understand. I've happily clarified it to many people, just not this one because we already know she doesn't care anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay. That's an opinion. And you can feel however you want to about that. Perhaps you should talk to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Again, my brothers have never been without a relationship since high school, Again. You are not your brothers. It's really not complicated. Men don’t have to get all their ducks in a row by 33 if they want a few kids. I truly don't understand the basis on which you consider this to be true. Are you new to this sub? There's a huge swell of hate for older men all over this place, online, and in society. “where are all the good men” and watch men rag gleefully on I thought that place was about wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Girls need their fathers. I'm not saying they don't but there is a who needs who more as children develop into their roles and expectations that society thrusts on them. And I think you know that. Trust me. Trust me, bro. They want their daddy to love, protect, and care for them. I never suggested otherwise. But again, in terms of them developing into adults, some models are better for a reason. To just cast aside a child because they aren’t the gender you wanted is very damaging and painful. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?If I had to date from scratch as a man, I'd start dating as a teen just as I did as a woman I don't know that I see this also as a time travel question. Not sure if being a male teen in dating is really the boost you think it is. In university context it's enough to have a noticeable number of professors preferring boys over girls. Gee. I wonder why they do that. Like, it can't possibly have anything to do with merit, right? boys were getting more attention and were always included into social l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It is simple, you're just off about the who's not getting part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Of course it not “all” men, but it’s still lots of men Your brothers are just a few men. Again, we are big, loud people, extroverted and opinionated, Have you ever thought to maybe work on this? You do realize that men put in work too, right? It definitely would have been easier to be a man contemplating marriage and children at 28 than a woman. I don't know if that's necessarily the case and largely depends on other factors such as how well off you are and how well you're able to get women inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?if it wasn't "acceptable" (to some) for women to be less go-getting. There must be something specific to your area or social circle because I don't really see it being like that. Even if it's your dream job it's still work. A lot of times people find jobs in their passion and the job part ruins the passion for them. It sounds all fun and games like it might be motivating, because you're not forced to so you won't really know that feeling. I would 1000% trade places with my female counterpart. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You lost me at ‘men don’t have trouble dating.’ Your brothers might be doing fine, but, again, that’s not all or the majority of men. Kind of hard to believe that you make that mistake. As for your hard time dating, how would it be easier if you were a man? Just make it make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Well I feel like I would be above average man, even If you count out face. Height, money, good talker. Yea. Like you could also 'feel' like you're really a giraffe. Doesn't make it so in reality. But for building a family in the future I would want me to work and him to not work, so one person would take care of the house. Also I love my job. Why is it that you have to be the one who works and could you truly provide for the whole family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Well considering it took me many years of being hopelessly single to meet my bf, Imagine what it would be like if you were a man then. Didn't you just try to assert for hours that you'd do just as well or better? Which is it? Just make it make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I'd be 5'5" and I'm sure I'd make it work. You wouldn't have a choice, you'd be 5'5". The question is not could you persevere, the question is - would dating be easier or harder than it is now? It's just dating was effortless for me as a woman and I'd probably have to put some thought into it as a man. It would probably be a lot harder, no? On the bright side, as a man, society would have higher expectations for me career-wise, How is this the bright side? Not every man finds career success. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?According to my bf, men tend to approach less attractive women because they have more of a chance of getting their numbers. That could explain why you saw unattractive women get approached. The point being, they still got approached. That was. The point. Sounds like you changed your mind and we agree on this now. I said I’d succeed as a man because I’d have good looks + put in effort. And, Again, this doesn't make you any different than many men who fail. And the question is not - would you even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I'm 30. I am 4'11 Right. So, this is why I'm asking for what you are and not what your brothers are. Your resistance here makes sense now. What you're saying about your family might be genetically true but I'm not going to expect most people to believe that if you were born a man then you'd be over 6 feet tall. It's just too much to ask other people to believe despite the fact that it might very well be true. If you're 4'11, I'll give you 5 or 6 inches. What is your opinion about men who are 5'5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I think we can agree to disagree that when men put effort, dating isn’t rocket science for them. I'm not saying it's rocket science. It certainly involves more than dating as a woman. The reality is not that it's rocket science, it involves more, has more challenges, and if you get it right, it works if you're attractive. If you get it wrong, it still might work if you're super attractive. That being said, you could do everything right and still face an enormous amount of rejection, and this exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Women are selective. It’s inevitable that most men are going to be rejected. Literally what I've been trying to talk you about for hours. Given that this is the case and that we both agree, why are many women here assuming by default that they WOULDN'T be a man who gets rejected despite the fact that you just said most men are going to be rejected? Just make it make sense. What do you mean by a woman can just exist? Even as a woman, you have to put effort into dating to have options. \^ Looks li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?But I'm a woman, not a man. No shit. I would be a man physically like my brothers with my own temperament? How do you know that for certain? Just say what you are as a starting point. Age, Height, Job, Income, Attractiveness out of 10, Hobbies or anything interesting about you. The sexual assault did not include hitting, it included sexual assault. The other example was of physical abuse. I expressed preference for physical abuse over sexual assault. Which I saw as more likely if I were not a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?What about the millions of regular men that are in happy long term relationships? Doesn't mean dating was easy for any of them. It's a really simple concept. A man may end up with a woman, but that doesn't mean that his dating experience up to that point wasn't a lifetime of getting ignored and shit on by women. The men here have such a negative view of themselves for thinking like this. Men who have experienced nothing but rejection or have received non-rejection so rarely, would probably be in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I dont think it would be difficult for me to have a girl like me. Why do you think that? The question is - would it be more difficult or less difficult than it is for you now? Bi women hit on me, so I think id be fine. Because you're a woman. What if you were a man? I work from and do housework by myself as well. I dont currently live with my bf. Just in futures sake id like to work and have my house taken care of. I don't understand, it sounds like you're doing that just fine as it is. Are you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Look, I don't know the exact percentage and I'm not here to make a claim about that specifically. But it's sufficient to say, even backed up by womens' own admission, that it's a top percent of guys in any market that get all the attention and you're not in that top % then you're invisible to women. It's top percent men > women > all the other men. On the whole, it's harder dating as a man because even if you are a higher % man, you're still expected to do things. Women can simply exist. This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Good genetics, good looks, a fun personality and the gym will get me there A lot of guys bring those things. What makes you any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay then I guess I’d be a desirable man like all the men I know apparently. Of course you think this. This is what most women with your opinion have assumed. You can't all be top 20%. Chances are that you're not going to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:40 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitI hear what you're saying but the 'just don't tell him' strategy is deception that women wouldn't stand for if it happened to them. What if we told men - 'cheat but just don't tell her.' Rules for thee not for me. Aside from that there are other indicators. People are going to know. The problem is - if what you really desire is a long term relationship at any point in your life, you can't live your life the opposite way and then switch gears later. By the time you reach that stage, you will not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Women are brutal on there because it's so disconnected from the real world. Women are brutal IRL and because it's in your face it's way more of a fucked up experience. Have you ever approached a woman as a man? Have you ever been a man who has approached a woman and been aggressively insulted in response? Most of the women there are just looking for likes and attention, they don't want to date or go out with anyone. Look, this is just what a woman said to get you to understand. Obviously you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitA lot of people would argue that if she doesn't have sex with the guy early on then it would make the guy feel like there's not a suitable amount of genuine desire. Really the only issue that guys have is if he's made to wait for sex while some other guy didn't have to wait. I think it makes sense that guys would feel that way. It doesn't solve anything to rely on the 'just not tell the guy' strategy which doesn't change the reality that the woman did at some point have sex with a different guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:24 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitMen can often figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Those are certainly eye openers for people who actually go through those experiences. I was on an app talking with a woman once and she asked how long I'd been single and after answering sincerely she ghosted and left the chat. I felt that my availability would be what women want not the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Because I will know from the get go If a woman actually wants a relationship. You have to get them to like you first. My bf refuses to be a SAHD I work from home and do both by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It typically doesn't happen to men as much or at all. Most men won't have that experience in their lives. Just because your boyfriend is a certain way means just that. Your only point of comparison is successful men which is why you think it would be easy, the problem with that line of thinking is that very few men get that kind of treatment. They might be the only ones you remember so it might seem like that's how it is for 'most men' but what's happening is you're ignoring all the other men th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don't see women saying this much here. Women are saying it right now on this post. Ik i would with my genetics and personality. I would probs go to the gym as well to stay in shape just as i do as a woman. That's quite an assumption. Unless you are a top percent man as a total package you won't get anywhere near the ease of dating that women have. Have you ever gone somewhere randomly and some guy has approached you and asked for your number and then that led to a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?No. It doesn't at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?What would you say so them to try to get them to understand that their experience would be different in some way? I kind of don't have a problem with people not having any idea about a thing but I have a problem with them not having any idea and yet at the same time assuming with 100% confidence that they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Again. That's not what that says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Many of the men in this sub are socially inept, scared of approaching women, and only rely on dating apps to meet women. I don’t think the men in this sub reflect an average man’s experience. Most of them men I know irl have no issues attracting women given that they have social skills and go to real life events with women. I made no mention of the men in this sub. I noted what I've been hearing from women on this sub right now about dating. the consensus is still even according to women on this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?This is not a question about your brothers. And just because your brothers had success also doesn't mean that dating is easier or just as easy as it is for you as a woman. I've probably said some variation of this about 30 times at this point. Everyone is like - I have a brother and he's done fine. That doesn't mean at all that dating for you would be just as easy as it is for you as it is right now as a woman. I think if I were a man I’d have an above average time dating. Based on what? You can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You understand that she knows who her brother is right? You understand that she's not her brother, right? You understand she knows her brother’s personality and how closely it mirrors her own right? You understand that I never attempted to deny that she knows some things about her brother, right? You understand that she can actually see her brother and see how closely her looks and his match right? You understand the question is about her attributes and not his right? It's pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That's not what that says at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Why not? If I have similar genetics and upbringing, why would I assume very different outcomes? You were born and raised to be yourself and not them? It's pretty simple. You don’t think she would be more popular if she had been born male? The question is would dating be easier or harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?What the fuck is your purpose in asking the question and all your follow up questions if you don't want people to actually answer? Nowhere did I indicate that I don't want you to answer. I'm allowed to respond to your answers. Not sure what your problem is. The notion that dating is generally harder for men on the whole is merely something that a lot of women on this sub right now are actually saying. I'm not a giant argumentative arsehole This conversation might suggest otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You can’t force it to happen if you’re not clicking with anyone then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That’s kind of thing though isn’t it. Men, like you said you would, adapt however they can and yet the consensus is still even according to women on this sub right now that dating as a whole is generally harder for men. You think that there’s guys who DON’T try to figure it out? Every guy tries to figure it out and yet many guys still fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The title is at the top in bold, so how is that hard to understand? You can think what you want that doesn’t mean anyone would agree with you. No different than obese women claiming that they’re 10’s. Yea, they can say it, doesn’t mean it’s true. You can’t say that height is meaningless though. This or that anecdote of a guy doesn’t resolve the obvious cross-cultural, global preference that women have for mens height. All that’s needed is to imagine yourself as a man. Your dad is your dad and yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That doesn’t mean anything. You would be you. You have no idea what it takes for him to be him. Because you’re not him. You can’t just look at a man you like and know and list some similarities and then take off with the assumption that if you were a man you’d be just like him. That’s what children do when they’re like - I’m going to grow up to be just like this or that rare superhero or athlete. It’s what most of the women here are doing and it’s a fallacy because you’re only ever comparing you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It doesn’t say what you said though. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That sounds sad but it might sound worse than it actually is. I know women in that situation and they make the whole thing about them. I think that men are more needed in the task of raising men. And despite how wrong it might come across I think that women are better at raising women as well. I think the reason is simply that men and women live in entirely different worlds. What is successful for a woman would not necessarily be successful for a man and vice versa. My instinct says that regardl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?But, no. It’s not right there. At all. And this has already been explained to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You can’t just imagine yourself as if you’re a guy that you know. You’re not your boyfriend. And you wouldn’t be your boyfriend if you were the male equivalent of yourself, you’d still be you, not him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Again, that is a claim that has nothing to do with your charts and it has already been explained why that is so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?There’s no need to compare yourself to an entirely different human being, you say what you are not what your brother is. You aren’t your brother, pretty simple concept. Yes, in life, avoiding abuse is impossible. If your metric for ease in dating is entirely oriented around avoiding abuse, I don’t know if you’d be so sure. Both of your examples involve hitting btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Humor and charm as a woman is one thing, you’d have to be attractive to women. Have you ever done that? Do you really know what you’d be signing up for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Yes, data that is far disentangled from your claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You’re posting charts and claiming that they mean things that they don’t. That’s not ‘facts.’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You have to be more than just attractive. Lots of guys are just attractive. You will find though that top percent level guys happen to most often be attractive. Once you’re attractive you can play the game but you have to have something going for you and you have to get them to like you. How are you going to do that? As a woman you can just show up and exist. That doesn’t work for men. Your lack of understanding here speaks for itself. You would probably have a much harder time dating as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That’s also an assumption that doesn’t make any sense. By your logic we could just as easily say the same thing about women when referencing the preferred height chart. Preferred doesn’t mean dealbreaker. It could not be more simple but I see you don’t respond to reason anyway so stop trolling on my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Look, I don’t know what more I can do other than write the question I want answered. If you really just read the comments you would find that I’ve redirected everyone back to the actual question so which is it? I really have a hard time believing that as a person on the shorter end of spectrum that you’d have it just as easy as you say. Pretty bold assumption. Also just because your dad is your dad doesn’t mean that you would be your dad. Regardless, if your equivalent ended up being at the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Again, preferred age doesn’t speak to the point in any way. It’s an incredibly simple concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?A lot of guys are just attractive. What’s your appeal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?A closer hypothetical, since you mention it, is actually simply considering who they are not who their brother is. You understand that a person’s brother is a different human being right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?No. Some are literally not answering the question. You can read and like everyone else, see it for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?You’re only the 1,000th woman to do exactly what you did. It’s almost as if it’s a pattern. Why do you think it would be the same? Just make it easy - Age, attractiveness out of 10, Height, job, salary, hobbies or anything else that makes you remarkable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Yes. Some women aren’t answering the question that is asked to them. It might seem like I’m arguing. Just because I ask a question in the post doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to question their responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Easier or harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Right and again the hazard there is the assumption that you would be just like your brother. That’s not necessarily always going to be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Yes. Every single woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I’m not saying that she doesn’t know her brother, it’s just not relevant to the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:26 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That doesn’t mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?A lot of these women are saying they think it would be super easy. What do you say to them? Also, why do you think it’s so much harder for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Would. It. Be. Easier. Or. Harder. Compared. To. Now? That’s the question. Not if you’d ‘do alright’ or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:24 AM |
| 6 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?How much harder is it for short guys and why do you think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:20 AM |
| 13 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That’s not what most of these women seem to think. Look around, a lot of them are saying it would be super easy. What do you say about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I mean, explain it. How do you ‘make a girl vibe with you’? Like, what if you didn’t want to vibe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:24 AM |
| 0 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.It might not be though, “champ.” As in it’s possible. You’re right to point out that it’s not a big ask and I wasn’t speaking of every woman I meet. At my age, they have to be the right age, single, available as well. I wouldn’t even say there are zero non-batshit insane women out there, it’s simply to say that it’s all I ask for and it’s been hard to find. I think it would be even harder if I hardline stuck to ‘agreeable.’ Agreeable is asking for a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don’t know. Good strategy. Get the girl to ‘vibe with you.’ Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don’t even know what that is but I’m pretty sure 100% that’ll work. Idk maybe it means you’re a 5’10 chubby dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Like if you’re a 22 year old guy, why would a girl be interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I just don’t think 22 year old law student guys are at the height of their desirability compared to 22 year old women. You can just say ‘slay’ this ‘slay’ that, it doesn’t make it so. There’s tons of kids out there like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?That’s cool. I don’t know that the 22 year old male equivalent version of yourself would have quite the same appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay. What constitutes an LTR nowadays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay. Sure, if you have no dating goals then anything’s a win. I don’t know that the ‘just existing’ strategy gets the same kind of results for men as it does women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay. How old are you now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?As a man with the exact same personality, I'd be a "dominant, authoritative, confident go-getter." I feel like women hate on the too. Do they not? Take yourself for example. I know 5'10" (178cm) is, according to TRP, not tall enough for a man This isn't according to TRP. This is according to women based on what they say. Surely, there's more to this complete package. So far, you're 5'10" and obnoxious. As if there aren't hordes of men who are exactly that. What else you got? except getting out o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?But as I've said these women and their partners seem to be fairly content with their relationships. \<sup>Sounds</sup> like they're already taken. Traditional dynamic isn't just about different labor division, That's an opinion. Not everyone sees it that way. as it also includes the idea of a man being "the leader" and a woman being his follower. The best leaders know when to follow. It isn't inherently bad btw, as long as it works for this couple. It's just not something I'm into. Then what's y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Okay. Cool. Maybe you need some help. I'll help you. Age? Attractiveness out of 10? Height? Job? Income? Hobbies or something interesting about you / what are you passionate about? Not super social. Has some masculine features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.And it's incredibly rational how you keep strawmanning what I'm saying, making assumptions, and insulting me lmao. Yes. I was the first to do all those things. legit doubt you're capable of rational thinking at least in this area. Again, so incredibly rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Well, I'm talking about people who practice what they preach. I.e. what I see in my social circle, where a lot of people who share their values don't even use these terms. Lots of people think that they do and many people appear to do that as well from the outside. You never really know until you're in a relationship with them. Traditional dynamic isn't really about being equal. This is not necessarily true at all. When you say this, you're imposing what your idea of 'equal' is, which might actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 05:06 AM |
| 11 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?This is what seems to have happened over and over with this post. Women have spotted a guy that they like or have some similarities with and have imagined themselves as those men if they were men. It's as if there's a pattern happening here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?By liberal and egalitarian I mean a set of values and the relationship dynamic. Right. So it might surprise you to know that there are some people in the world who just say they're that but in practice, they aren't that, sometimes specifically when it suits them to not be that, and knowing that they can completely get away with it. relationship dynamic I mean being equal and splitting responsibilities in a way that leaves both of you enough free time. Right. And so what I was saying earlier was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Yes. It's so incredibly rational when you imagine my emotional state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.you got butthurt I did no such thing. Imagine my emotional state more. You just conveniently left out what you wanted to in your comment which was a choice. I don't know why you enjoy talking about me so much. That's on you. You know absolutely nothing about me. Please assume more. good with people in other contexts would translate to a romantic relationship. I think that part of being good with people definitely is a factor since we have relationships with people. That piece is a bit unavoidabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The first one. Even the most conservative people in my region are like this at a bare minimum. Except for the equal partners part where the woman is obviously more 'equal' than the man in many ways including but not limited to being able to say and do outrageously inappropriate things without consequence. I quoted the connection. Not sure what the problem is. It's simply to say that the terms 'egalitarian liberal' can mean quite a lot of different things to many different people in a way that va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Is that really true? How do you know this for certain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:48 AM |
| -1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?America is a big place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Where though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Ah. What community is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I'm not sure what your paragraph has to do with my comment. Which paragraph. There's more than one. My husband and I are "looksmatched" and have similar background This alone doesn't mean anything that would suggest that your experience dating as a man would be similar in any way. Age, Height, Attractiveness out of ten, Personality, Job, Income, Hobbies. You have those things, now how would that play in the dating market as a man? ^ I asked these things to make it easier for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Again, the question is easier or harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It’s like I said earlier, sometimes guys are wrong in describing someone’s behavior as ‘bitchy,’ sometimes they might actually be right. I said many times, women, as in one or many because it’s something that happens here any time the subject comes up. Again, see first paragraph. Also I know what I said and I can say whatever want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.I came here to say what I said in the beginning and I stand by it. Other people made the choice to focus on what they imagine about my personal life. I did not come here to debate facts about my life with people who don’t know anything about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Sometimes it’s not like that though. Are you generalizing all men now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It’s clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Well I didn’t cause them which says little because the assumption is that I caused them. Like I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Have you considered for one second that it's how other people have described me and used the words assertive and confident? You're the one who said 'like a bitch.' If you have an issue because other people think that's how you come across then that's all anyone needs to know. Those men are usually not NT in some way and that will destroy your chances. Doesn't mean none of them struggle with dating regardless. It's the same for women if you're honest about the topic. If you're honest it really is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.You're the one who brought your personal life into the conversation, and your reasons given for why you're not responsible for your relationship woes are not entirely compelling, as being good with interacting with people in some contexts doesn't mean you're a good romantic partner. In addition to the first thing which is I don't introduce problems into my relationships. The latter evidence is simply to show a wider view. Maybe you did and you're lacking in self awareness Yes. I cheated on mysel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I've said this too many times already. It's not about what your brothers are and just because someone is successful in dating doesn't mean it was easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I've heard of a thing where Asian men have it harder. I can't speak to that experience. Assertive and confident gets you called a bitch as a woman. Have you ever considered that what you see as 'assertive' and 'confident' might come across to other people as actually, for real, bitchy? It's not about what you think you are, it's about how you come across to other people and this a very fundamental part of communication in life. I personally don't like men or women who are 'confident' or describe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:19 AM |
| -1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?My husband doesn't complain about our chores division or my ability to make compromises - we both view each other as equal partners, hence we treat each other with love and respect. Even the most conservative people in my region are like this at a bare minimum. Except for the equal partners part where the woman is obviously more 'equal' than the man in many ways including but not limited to being able to say and do outrageously inappropriate things without consequence. I think it would be realis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?So, for you, dating would be harder. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.It's sufficient to say that I'm good with people and relationships. It's also sufficient to say the part that you left out which is very important, and that was - I was not the party that introduced problems into my previous relationships. Which is important. Saying the one thing without the other, says a lot. You seem to be putting me in a position where you're trying to ask me to 'prove' that I'm not the problem in all my relationships, under the assumption that I AM the problem in all my past… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don't know if that guarantees that you'd be 6'4" exactly but you'd be probably tall and it would make you a catch as a man. Height is important and we can all admit it. Many times in these conversations women attempt to disavow or skirt their preference for height. But you'd be tall and under that measurement you would presume that it would be desirable, which I think it would be. Again, since this isn't a question about your brother's characteristics or your brother's success in dating. All t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?So why would you think you would be just like your brother? That's the whole point. Are you as tall as him? Do you possess his same unique male attractiveness? There's too much missing information here. Just make it make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:19 AM |
| -2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating? We don't even have evidence to show that your brother is your male equivalent in the first place. Also, he could have success, that doesn't mean that dating is easier. A guy could have a lot of success in dating on account of really hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Well, you're right in pointing out that no one cares about your job. All the other shit, you're still wrong about. When you compare average men to average women, it's not even close, even when men have good jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The question isn't - how successful was your brother? That's not what I asked, at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:06 AM |
| -4 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?But are you him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?But are you him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I’d be like my brothers- ^ What do you think this means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 13 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Everyone is like - I have a brother and he's done fine. That doesn't mean at all that dating for you would be just as easy as it is for you as it is right now as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I don't know that it's sufficient to just say "I have a brother and he's done just fine." That doesn't mean that your experience dating as a man is going to be just as easy at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?So now do every other characteristic that's of note when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:58 PM |
| -1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The question is would it be easier or harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?The question is not could you do this. It's easier or worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?No, you didn't get my point. If I was a man, I'd have easier time looking for a woman with compatible views and values than vice versa. No. You didn't get MY point. You'd be a man. That would not be what you want once you're a man. I'm a man and I'm just about as liberal as it could possibly get. It is unpleasant to date extremely feminist women. They simply view themselves as more important than men and any attempt to push back against their selfishness is met with shaming language having to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:46 PM |
| 4 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.I have considered that. If that were the case I’d be the person causing issues in relationships not the other way around. If that were the case I’d also probably be a less prominent figure in my community and I’d be less successful in life, especially in areas of life that involve dealing with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Damn. The question is better or worse, not - I'd do okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Average men are invisible to women. Having a good job is a minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:29 PM |
| -2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Scroll up and read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:28 PM |
| -1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?there are more liberal egalitarian women than men, at least in Russia. But then you wouldn't be a woman anymore. Do you see how that works? "Liberal egalitarian" means nicer to women not men. You'd be a man in that equation. They treat you worse, not better. demi men struggle more than demi women. 100%. You would be toast. When the pressure to approach and initiate lies wholly on men, it's harder to take your time and not to be in a hurry. In the end, how is that even remotely 50/50? There would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:28 PM |
| 10 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Yea. That's not how it works. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:21 PM |
| -3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I understand that some of the questions I ask are a little too hard for some people here. You could just pass or not comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?20 something male religious goody two shoes me Yea. Women go crazy for that type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:19 PM |
| 5 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.I would scale the language back even further to - men just want peace and to get along. I threw 'agreeable' out years ago. I simply want a woman who's not batshit insane. Still can't find one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:45 PM |
| 42 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You didn't. You can't even say what it was. Liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You clearly had none which is further supported by the fact that you can't even say it. I had a point. You didn't GTFO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You can't even show that you have a point. Because you didn't have one. Nice topic change. Me showing that I had a point doesn't make it so you ever had one. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1cxfpcs/comment/l53ukkg/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button My point was that people are free to date whoever they want and that includes women in any country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Still no point there. I clearly had a point to someone else in my original comment. You followed up that comment to troll and call people names. You know you never had a point because you can’t even say what it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?No point found at all. You can’t even say what it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You literally did not bring a point to this conversation. Even middle school students can tell that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?What was it then? Can’t even say it because you know you none. Don’t even pretend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I read and I learned that you didn’t have a point. There was not one point in anything you wrote. You can’t even say what is was. Clearly you had none. GTFO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Ah. Can’t even say what your point was. Thought not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You’re now claiming you had a point. You never had one. Prove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?There was no point to be found in anything you said. You can’t say what your point was that says it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Then what was it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?If you had a point you’d be able to say what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You had no point at all other than to come here to troll and try to call other people losers but you refuse to even try to show that you aren't one yourself. All anyone needs to do is just read you to know anyway. Begone troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?As if you came here with an actual point. Troll elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?That's what I thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?So basically we're allowed to have superficial elements of a relationship, only if those are things that women want. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?For the last time, no one fucking CARES!!! If you didn't care you wouldn't be here bitching about it right now. Just stop bitching about it then. Again, people are allowed to say what they want unless it's someone else saying something that you don't like. It’s such loser behavior Have you read yourself? You keep talking about us western women My comment that I came here to say was not even about western women. LOL. Get out of your mom’s basement. You seem to be going out of your way to make cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?If you all were just better women, there wouldn't be any problems in the first place. Generally, criticism of men is accepted. But the second people criticize women on any level, you all need to screech about it. Your gripe is just about us griping, mens' gripes are just about you. We're either allowed to complain about stuff or not. If people are allowed to complain, let them and stfu. Instead you try to police speech when other people do it and screech about it at the same time. Like, get a li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Again. People can bitch about whatever they want and you're wrong about which comes first at its most basic level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Lmao no…you passport bros are constantly screeching about western women. Which, as I just said, we both agreed people are allowed to say what they want so what's your problem? No reason to keep talking about people you hate. Doesn't stop you. Hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?So we agree people can say whatever they want then. The only side screeching about what the other side is saying is you all. If you can admit that people are allowed to say what they want to say then stfu already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?We’re allowed to not like you. You also make it easy. We’re allowed to communicate to other men why it might be of interest to look elsewhere. You all have been on TikTok just to hate on men for quite some time now. We don’t even care but we’re damn sure allowed to talk about whatever we want. You say it doesn’t bother you. If it doesn’t bother you it wouldn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?You already do talk about us. Nonstop pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?It’s simply to say that responding with ‘it happens a lot’ can be evaluated many different ways in many different contexts. I only answered how I felt about that in THIS specific context which is what I said from the start. Because that’s the context we’re in. There is no value in exploring completely made up scenarios for that to be said because I responded the way that I did in this context, not a different one. It’s a simple concept. Again. I stand by what I said. And I said what I came here … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Context is important. And the way that you get context is by reading the other comments on your own like I’ve already told you about 39 times. Talking about ‘implicit bias’ in this scenario reduces the context to a blank slate. It’s not a blank slate. We live in a society. This sub is a very specific place. Read other posts and read the other comments. It’s not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Look. I said what I came here to say and I stand by it. I don't know what you're trying to do with your repetition of everything and use of the terms 'inherent harm' this 'implicit bias' that. I don't give a shit what you think. You can either read that person's comments or not. That's how you're going to find out if you actually care at all about it. I'm not doing your work for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?do you think anyone could have possibly written what she wrote in good faith concern for that issue, unrelated to despising men? Virtually everyone is already well in favor of stopping abuse. Context is important. If this is the context, why distract so much from the actual question? It's a question dodge with an emphasis on - men are presumed to be bad. inevitably victims of various forms of abuse Lots of people are victims of exactly this kind of thing. Many of them don't go around making ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?adults having the legal right to travel to brazil and sleep with a 16 year old? im sorry man but this is just such a weird fkn gripe to say to individuals here What are you even talking about? How did this even come up? OP asked “would you have a problem with passport bros if xyz things.” No shit. That's what I just said, it's at the top of everyone's screen. “idc about passport bros as long as it’s done without harm” Where is the harm in a simple stock situation of someone traveling and dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?It might not have anything to do with values at all. It might have to do with their 'values' of despising men. No one is here to defend perpetrators of abuse of any kind. That's not what the conversation is about but they make it about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?“im cool with this as long as it doesn’t involve kids or abuse” That's exactly the point. The first response to that was - no one's talking about kids or abuse. Why would it have anything to do with kids or abuse? That's not what OP was talking about. Did OP mention kids or abuse? The question wasn't - hey would you be cool with kids or abuse if... It makes it really hard to have a conversation when one side is constantly redirecting the conversation towards the most awful things as a default. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?happens at all Lots of things happen at all. But, I don't go around operating under the assumption that the standard is rare disaster unless it is. she seemed to just say it happens sometimes. It's the rush to the rare exception. It was the first angle she took. And it's the default way people begin speaking about issues that are much more than the rare exception. Conversely, why can't people for the most part accept that when it comes to traveling and dating, both men and women enjoy it, both w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Okaaay.... can you admit that murder and fraud exist? Even if you've never seen them? Have you ever seen Finland or does that not exist either? We can look all this shit up. Where is your data on what you're talking about? Part of what game?? Lying? What lies would exactly be considered ok and where's the line drawn? Where do women draw that line? Where is the line that women hold themselves to? There are still sites that are up where you can order women. Where? There are also sites that claim t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:49 AM |
| 0 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?The literal women who spoke up about this kind of treatment. Where? Who? Where is the documentary? Where is the data? Where are those women? Why is it so far fetched to you to hear that some of them are treated really badly? I can full accept that many abhorrent things happen every day, but I don't speak of rare occurrences as if they're the default thing to happen in any given situation. Why is it the default that men looking abroad for love are treating women really baldy in that process? Why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I already told you several times what my gripe was about. Which I literally just addressed. KEEP WESTERN WOMEN OUT OF YOUR MOUTHS People can talk about whoever they want to talk about and no one cares what you think about it. You're the only one screeching here. You’re like toddlers throwing tantrums trying to get your mother’s attention. Have you read yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?If you truly didn't have a problem with who men choose to date, we wouldn't be hearing a goddamn peep from you about it. If you truly just purely disagreed with what some men say about western women, you'd probably be more interested in trying to show that western women are pretty alright and not as bad as those people are saying. Instead, you're just being yourself and kind of proving their point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I disagreeing with the fact that women care this much about it when we probably wouldn’t care Again. If you really didn't care you wouldn't have anything to say about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Because in a lot of cases they are. Where? How? According to who? How do you know this for certain? I'm sorry, but being aware and conscious over a lot of these women are treated If the women are being treated so badly they don't have to date anyone. It's a very fundamental concept in dating. Men going to date women abroad is not abducting them and selling them into sex slave trade market, it's dating. We're talking about just men going to places to date. And they get more matches and they get m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Not caring about you dating foreign women? Then you obviously wouldn't be here trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Why do I have admit to something that I've never seen in person nor have heard of actually happening in real life? Why do I have to admit to your narrative here when I don't see anything supporting it other than you just saying that it's so. Do people lie in dating? No shit. That's part of the game. When women lie and manipulate men what happens? What happens when women do that to us in the west? What happens when men are scammed and killed? Most of the time, not a damn thing. They take everythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:03 AM |
| -1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?The assumption coming out of the gate is that they are treated badly though. It's an assumption that is unsubstantiated and it doesn't even stand to reason since women choose who they want to date in the first place. Why would a man who likes a woman even more than women he's used to, treat her somehow worse? It just doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?It's clear that you're the one who doesn't understand. I'm not OP. The only reason I'm here is because a woman dropped a comment attempting to rationalize that it's problematic for men to date abroad. If you don't disagree STFU. If you think I came here to announce my dating intentions, you're wrong because I did no such thing. Now GTFO. As if for what it says about western women you made your bed with that. Nothing stops you from announcing your preferences. Nobody gives a shit anyway since no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?If you didn't have a problem with it then there wouldn't be any screeching. If you act like it doesn't bother you then STFU about it. Yea, cuz western women don't ever take to social media to say anything negative about men. People are just doing it. Stop raging and then act like it doesn't bother you, Pick one, can't do both at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I never announced shit. The conversation would be a complete nothing burger if it weren't for you all screeching on about how 'morally problematic' it is in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I'm not from the US. Still doesn't necessarily mean that it should apply to you in the least. Where are you from and where are you currently living. Men might not even want to go to where you are anyway. If you were raised in a certain place, you may be fine to date anyway. I would be concerned about this attitude What attitude? If anything is being pedastalized it's the notion that there are women in places who are naturally inclined to treat men with respect and compassion. Yes, excuse us for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?I'm closer to the "foreign women" party, What does that mean? And like I said you're free to date whoever you want and always will be. No one is holding a gun to your head. Date or don't. Date foreign or domestic, date long distance or the guy next door. The choice is yours, and no one gives a shit. If other people want to date that's their business too, not yours. They don't care if you approve or not and nor should they. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?Foreign women, 'the receiving party' are free to date whoever they want. And if they're concerned, they don't have to date whoever they don't want to. It's not like men are traveling and holding a gun to their heads forcing them to go on a date. It's more like men are traveling and meeting women who like them, find them desirable and actually treat them with respect. It's like a whole different universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?That. And when women pick tall men over short men, fuck their feelings right? It's a preference. Men aren't allowed to have feelings. Those are for women only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Would you still have a problem with passport bros if they were marrying women of a higher socioeconomic level?What if the foreign women really are better than the western women and what if those women are actually legitimately happy and treated very well by those men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 11:04 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallEvery guy wants to be used for their dick. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers and Women reveal some truths when they criticize Age Gap Relationships and Passport BrosIf loving a man came easier to the big tittied Asian girl then she’d be with a man and not on pornhub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers and Women reveal some truths when they criticize Age Gap Relationships and Passport BrosAbsolutely. And the guys in her harem who attempt to show love and devotion as a means to keep her are received as losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Women always say if men paid attention they wouldn't be shocked by the breakup, but is it even possible for the man to save the relationship?I think he’s on the mark as a whole when it comes to the specific point that once a woman has decided the relationship is over, it’s over and there’s no convincing women of things if you are the guy. Many women would likely agree with this. There’s a difference between generalizing all and speaking in general per generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 03:58 PM |
| -2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.That mean things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:11 AM |
| -3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Customary is customary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:11 AM |
| -2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.You’re right, it’s customary for women to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:56 AM |
| 3 | TRP will not solve your problemsYes. If reversed stuff that women would say is below bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:27 AM |
| – | Here's an interesting thought experimentWhat’s up with these inane false dilemma questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I can admit that I don’t know everything. I know that you didn’t answer the question earnestly. Based on what you’ve written it looks like you haven’t expressed what I would call a point. You might be holding an unexpressed point in reserve for some weird reason. Rather than pursuing on actual point and communicating that you have a point, you’ve instead focused on me and the level of confidence I have in that assessment. It only builds more confidence that you don’t really have a point and if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Your leading response to the post was facetious and no one mentioned sex except you. Pretty non-sequitur. So, I’m sure a lot of people are having trouble figuring out whether you even have a point or not. You can earnestly answer the question or not. If you just came here to troll you can go elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?That’s not the question of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I don't think men should be given a free pass on this topic exactly. I don't think this is what I'm saying. I will say that we often already hear that women want men to communicate 'more' or 'better.' (There's a side of this where if women are really being honest, many of them don't choose guys who are good at communicating or don't choose guys for that reason, it becomes an issue later when it's time to make one. There's also the meme of women losing attraction for men who give them what they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Never said anything about sex at all either til you mentioned it. What are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 03:55 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Where did anyone say ‘stranger’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:56 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Yes. Men never pay for sex in one way or another. That's why free is the expectation. Free sex is everywhere. How dare men desire to be sexually satisfied in a relationship. Sex should revolve completely around the whims of women at all times. Anything less than that is misogyny. And as for autonomy, you know it's misogyny and toxic masculinity when men have wrong opinions and do things that women don't want them to do. It's also misogyny if a man asks anything of a woman that differs from what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?We can communicate and understand each other I'm not convinced that you have understood many things that I've said to you. still not agree on the same answer I don't care if we agree or disagree on an answer. You claimed that you answered the question in my post and you kind of technically haven't and I've explained exactly why your attempt at an answer doesn't qualify. You can read the post again if you have to. We’ve both stated and restated our points several times Which didn't need to happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?And you're right to point out that communication is a thing that lots of people struggle with. I don't know that communication difference between men and women is a top answer or an answer that really qualifies because you phrase it as difference. \<sup>It's</sup> like literally in the comment before that I said this. Also as a sidenote, “poor communication” you also specifically agreed with lol. So if it’s a shared problem (ie difference), it’s not true or relevant. But if we say communicating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Many bad traits in women are found in men also. This post isn't about men though now is it. you agree to “exhausting” They unpacked what they meant by that at length which was actually something very specific to women, if you cared to read. That aside I'm not sure a top complaint that women have about men is that men are 'exhausting' when it comes to dating in the same way that was described. “poor communication” you also specifically agreed with lol Right, and you are more evidence to that poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you marry a male that checks all of your boxes except one - "has great chemistry"?Totally. It’s impossible for it to be fake contrived or superficial in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:26 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Sure, it’s not specifically about only women, but few things are. That's kind of the point of the post though. It's the only reason we're here. And you're right to point out that communication is a thing that lots of people struggle with. I don't know that communication difference between men and women is a top answer or an answer that really qualifies because you phrase it as difference. You can read the question again to give you more of a clue as to how to actually answer it in a way that qua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I literally gave you an example in the last comment. The prophecy says that Macbeth will be king and this creates a plausible idea that doing anything to make him king is perhaps correct according to the powers that be in some sense. I think that Lady Macbeth is ambitious to a fault and not the greatest lady to her man for being so forceful. I think she's bad, but in the end there is a sense of tragedy, and you can't really have tragedy work for a character that's just pure evil. No one feels so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?A communication difference between men and women goes both ways so at that point it's not really a specific thing about women. Can you really believe this is the worst thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Riiight, it worked about 3 minutes later Again. I stand by my assessment and explanation from earlier. It could be 3 minutes, 30 seconds or 300 years. We're only going off of what you say about you. Feels weird to have to verbally hold someone’s hand so they understand that, \<sup>Yea.</sup> I wonder what that feels like. My point on that was just that I never had the same problem with women. \<sup>Right.</sup> And we already discussed explanations that aren't communication related at all. You’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:38 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I've read Shakespeare and performed it. Macbeth is bit more complex than what you describe. And there are female characters far more evil and grotesque than Lady Macbeth, obviously what she does is wrong. Though ambitious and willing to propose and assist with murder, she's also a victim in the end to some of the same evils and she appears to show a level of remorse. That's not really all that evil in a pure sense. I would also not reduce Macbeth to merely a simp. You can't forget that there's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Sounds like a great beginning of a troll larp fantasy romance novel for lonely neckbeards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Information that was shared that resulted in a mutual understanding of the issue (the trash being full), what that means to you (pls help), and with the appropriate tone (which is none really because taking out the trash is a nearly universal experience). checks notes Yeah sure, that’s CLEARLY terrible communication lol. It might not be good communication when speaking to a man though apparently. We already examined your own account of what you said quite, when you said that you said "the trash … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 09:57 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I don't know that my post or film recommendation is about that. If you want to see an older film about the dangers that can happen to a man being victimized by a woman in a relationship, I recommend that and it's a far better one and honestly a far better rendering of a female antagonist. In Fatal Attraction the woman is certifiably insane and presented more at a demonic level. It's just not interesting and rather horror film grotesque. Body Heat keeps you guessing because you don't know what's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 09:26 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?It’s was clear enough to literally every woman I ever dated. Doesn't mean that what you said was an example of good communication. And just because it was clear enough to those women does not mean it would be equally as effective to all women. Regardless, it was not optimal communication and the results shows that. Again. It's also very natural that less needs to be said between two people who are familiar with something already (chores). I didn’t mock his feelings or his points in any way. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 09:10 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Body Heat (1981) is far better imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 08:18 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?No shit, but it is communication Anything is communication. We're having a conversation about good communication. Just because you 'communicated' doesn't mean that you communicated said thing well. It's not enough to just communicate. Just communicating by itself doesn't make you a good communicator. I could stop and say your exact script for asking I could give you several scripts off the top of my head in any given moment that are far more clear, more effective to a broader group of people and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 08:11 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Sparing men’s feelings and thus being indirect and vague instead of asserting hard boundaries from the get go. I'm not sure I understand. Perhaps you're being too vague. Again, I don't know that everyone dating today has actually seen Fatal Attraction (1987). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:50 AM |
| 5 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Correct - because I mostly dated women and they DID understand those things. I have to alter my communication style for men though. Again. Communication is about making sure other people understand not just assuming that they do. And if you find that it's difficult for you to communicate effectively (being understood, understanding, effective style) with entire categories of people who are different than you or not your specialty, then it sounds like you have a lot of work to put in, in order to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you marry a male that checks all of your boxes except one - "has great chemistry"?You guys know that chemistry is fake right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:23 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I have. Not sure about these youngins. That's a pretty old movie at this point. This seems like a worst case scenario although I can imagine worse. I don't think it's statistically very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?You say this: I’m aware of what communication is about. But then you said this: There’s things that I don’t think need to be said because it seems obvious to me, but if I don’t say it, my partner won’t pick up on it Part of communication is making sure you know other people are getting what they need whether that's obvious to you or not. Just because it's obvious to you doesn't mean it's obvious to another person. That's what communication is all about. In this example, you saw no need to commun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:06 AM |
| 7 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I won’t say that women communicate badly - just very differently than men Communication is about being understood. It's also about making sure people know what they need to know. Or sometimes during an argument with him, I’ll try to deescalate by making dumb jokes about the argument for instance, but for whatever reason, I’ve never had a male partner pick up on that - as if jokes about the argument = jokes on his understanding/intelligence (which gets interpreted as a personal offense, I guess).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 06:38 AM |
| 14 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Boys get reprimanded for rudeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 06:07 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Regardless they’re clearly bad parents. Clearly you've lost the plot because you're making assumptions about people you don't know anything about at all. Raising a girl or boy isn’t that difficult in terms of difficulty. Again, this was one person's opinion and explanation for that opinion. The majority of about 10-15 other mothers agreed with her. I'm not here to say what's correct or not, that's not really the point but if you're a parent and you set example through your behavior that it's acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 05:53 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?The same things as in men. Yea. I don't know that the most commonly recognized worst things about men and women in dating are the same things. Maybe you could start by perhaps listing one of those things with more specificity than lumping it under the general umbrella of "abuse." What kind of abuse? What specific words, actions, and behaviors are we talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Yea. I don’t think that’s the only reason and from what I can tell I’m very sure that’s not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:38 AM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Women are exhausting. Can't help but agree. "if you are not perfect - you are worthless" The nitpicky neurotic perfectionism is ironically what's making them imperfect. Perhaps if they just chill the fuck out they wouldn't be so exhausting and they actually be closer to 'perfect' and if not perfect they might just allow themselves to live a happy life somehow. So many women I know are miserable because they make themselves miserable. It has nothing to do with me or other people, it's all about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:21 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?And again, I'm not here to preach about telling other people what to do. I hear what you're saying. I don't think it's a solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:42 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I literally just said the paying for the meal isn't the actual issue. I don't mind paying for dates and for many this is still the expectation - for men to pay. The issue is paying for dates with women who are using men for that purpose. Kind of a topic change after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:15 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?It's simply to say that it's incredibly common. Everyone has their own process for that. I'm not here to say what people should do about it, they can do what they want. I don't mind paying for a date even if it's expensive but I'm just looking to actually date and not just pay women's tabs. you gotta appreciate ambitious women and their hustle for their own money. What do you mean by this? Don't come back later and want them to be SAHM with no home business to maintain their previous financial s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Some women date out of boredom, for entertainment, a quick dopamine/ego boost, to fill their social calendar, because we're socialized to partner, etc. But they don't put forth effort because there's no goal attached to the dating. Again. If they had no need then they wouldn't be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?It's pretty clear that I addressed both sides of it. No need to tell me what to do at all, really, as you already have my response in any event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:57 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I don’t think you need a relationship to be happy and fulfilled I never said that you do absolutely, in every case, require a relationship to be happy and fulfilled. I simply don't think it's the core widespread issue you were claiming it to be. And, yes, since you were talking about women not dating at all, that's not what the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:54 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I'm only responding based on what you said about the issue being that "Women don’t need a relationship to feel fulfilled in life." Thank you for agreeing that you don't actually believe this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Just men like me? If you really believed in what you were saying I'd expect to see an answer more along of the lines of "steering clear of all men," right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:42 AM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I’m explaining a phenomenon why women tend to be unmotivated in the dating scene. I understand what you're trying to say. I just find your explanation dubious. If it's true that 'women don't need relationships to be fulfilled in life' then we'd likely see a lot of perfectly date-able women straight up not dating at all, in which case those are not the kind of women I'm talking about anyway. I don't see that happening though. What I do see is women ordering up men to date on their phones the way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:37 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Women don’t need a relationship to feel fulfilled in life Well, then they're not dating. The question starts with "When it comes to dating..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:26 AM |
| 6 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Why bother with something so time consuming and expensive when you barely know each other? My question exactly. I think some of these women have an idea, with 'foodie call' dates, that they really want to maximize extracting anything out of a man that they're able to. Some of them really see it as an opportunity to get something for free, especially if they don't even like the guy - they still got something for free. This is actually how a lot of women think nowadays. It's messed up and sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:13 AM |
| 11 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?If we talk about the minority of batshit crazy psychopathic women We can talk about that if that's what people really want to do. But, again, this post (and I'd probably say the spirit of most posts on here that are simply trying to spark a fruitful conversation about dating in general based on how dating generally is in general) is about, in general, for the most part, commonly what you're going to run into with dating and dating women, trying to figure out what is, on the whole, the worst part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Okay. So, again. When it comes to dating, what then is the worst thing about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:47 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?You basically just said that the worst part about women in dating is that there's a trend of a certain behavior. You've not quite linked that to women themselves choosing to do a thing or doing a thing by virtue of the fact that they are women in dating. Or are you saying that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Thank you for a very honest answer. I don't know if this is the top one that most people would agree with but you make a good case for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:40 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?'Fashionable' is another way of saying it's a trend. It's not about clothing. Fashionable - "characteristic of, influenced by, or representing a current popular trend or style." Something can be 'fashionable' and have nothing to do with clothes. I don't really think of qualities or characteristics based on gender. Humans have qualities and characteristics. But that's really what the question is asking though. What is the worst part about women when it comes to dating them as opposed to men and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:38 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?That's not really what the question is about though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:35 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I don't know if I agree with that as the worst thing. But I think there might be something to be said for the fact that, as a woman, you don't really have to accomplish much for yourself in life in order to be date-able and find people who will date you and go on dates. Maybe that is an issue - that women take a lot of things for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:27 PM |
| 7 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Yea. So. When we're having a conversation about things in generalities we're trying to discuss things that are more common than not. Are you suggesting that you really believe 'the worst thing about women in dating as a whole' is that they're murderers? Sure. The worst thing that could possibly happen is you date a woman who murders you, I guess? It's not really a common issue but it has happened. I'd say it's pretty rare. I don't think that the biggest, most common problematic characteristic of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:24 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Okay. What are some of those characteristics then that specifically apply to women in the context of dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:04 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I’m trying to ask about a quality or characteristic. If it’s just a ‘trend’ are you saying that women are doing this kind of thing for the most part because it’s fashionable to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:58 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I kind of understand what you’re saying and I might not disagree but what exactly is that quality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?I won't marry a woman because I won't marry anyone full stop. Not having 'great chemistry' would not be the reason. I could date and stay with a woman for the rest of my life and not have 'great chemistry.' The concept of 'great chemistry' isn't even in my top 20 list and is probably close to completely irrelevant. 'Great chemistry' has no bearing on whether your relationship is going to be successful or not. If we share similar values and want some of the same things, that's more than enough. F… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:33 PM |
| 6 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexSo it seems some men here seem to think for the sex to be good for the woman, all that he needs to do is stay hard and not cum straight away. I don't really think most men think this. And if there's a dude saying this he's probably a teenager or never had sex before. My own personal thoughts are that I like an experienced man who knows what he's doing. Different people like different things on account of emotional, psychological, and physical differences. Some women seem to speak as if they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureI never used the word ‘favor’ in my comment. Which time period are you talking about and which men in said time period are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 08:56 PM |
| 21 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.You had me at ‘they meant well.’ I don’t think they did mean well by answering bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureYou can get all those things without marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:52 PM |
| 18 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureWhat he’s saying is quite simply that the consequences of a long term relationship not working out are so severe for men specifically that many men are avoiding them altogether. This means that more ‘attractive’ ‘datable’ ‘marriageable’ men are choosing more casual forms of dating and hookups over longer term committed relationships until or unless absolutely necessary, on account of the risks involved. It’s a pretty simple concept and among the top percentage of men who can get dates, I believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. Says the guy who uses two Chris Hemsworth's as a point of comparison and thinks it means something. Tell us more about how that worked out for your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. Now it's actually better to be an average looking guys who's HOMELESS than to be attractive. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. You did not quote this No. Control of emotions is not correlated with high value to women. When you said this Oops, looks like you decided to rewrite history again LOL No. Control of emotions is not correlated with high value to women. After getting owned. LOL. That DIDN'T happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. It's in fact BETTER to be average looking than to be good looking. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Keep changing the subject to different quotes out of context. No amount of distraction saves you from Chris Hemsworthing everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. I completely see why comparing Chris Hemsworths only to other Chris Hemsworths and average men only to other average men completely disproves the guy's original statement saying that looks and status are more important than emotional disposition. Yes. Everyone knows that since an emotionally well adjusted Chris Hemworth is preferred when compared to other Chris Hemsworths, this shows that emotional stability is more important than looks and status. LOL. Great scenario and great argument. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Looks, status and charisma each play a bigger role | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Looks, status and charisma each play a bigger role | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Where did this come from and what does it have to do with anything? LOL. You keep bringing in quotes that have nothing to do with this conversation thread as if they did have something to do with this conversation thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Haha! You even completed it with the 'trust me bro' followed by 'we fucked' tmi story. Sure man. Whatever you say. You're right. "Being attractive doesn't mean shit" at all! Proof is - women don't like crazy lunatics. Lol. Of course they don't. Nobody was talking about crazy lunatics until you chimed in. You can't make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. I completely see why comparing Chris Hemsworths only to other Chris Hemsworths and average men only to other average men completely disproves the guy's original statement saying that looks and status are more important than emotional disposition. Yes. Everyone knows that since an emotionally well adjusted Chris Hemworth is preferred when compared to other Chris Hemsworths, this shows that emotional stability is more important than looks and status. LOL. Great scenario and great argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Are you for real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.The hypothetical also works with two copies of an average man This, again, falls in line with what the other guy was saying. How do you not understand this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.This is what he said: "Sorry, are you saying that, to women, there's no difference between Chris Hemsworth being chill and laid back and a Chris Hemsworth who flies into a tearful rage anytime things don't go his way? You believe there is no difference to women? They find them equally attractive?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Again. It's not a struggle at all when your only choice is one Chris Hemsworth to another. We know the answer but unfortunately that has no bearing on what the other guy actually said. Also, we don't live in a world where every man is Chris Hemsworth. The fact you think your hypothetical question actually helps your point is beyond absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.This other guy is the guy who used the Chris Hemsworth as a reference. Scroll up and you can read about it. It's as if we live in a universe where every man is Chris Hemsworth according to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. Nevermind the fact that he said - "Looks, status and charisma each play a bigger role" This is not saying that any type of emotional preference has ZERO role. DUH. And you merely confirm that looks and status come first because your hypothetical question revolves entirely around Chris Hemsworth as that starting point (coming first). LOL. Just say you agree with him because that's what you're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Sorry, are you saying that, to women, there's no difference between Chris Hemsworth being chill and laid back and a Chris Hemsworth who flies into a tearful rage anytime things don't go his way? Nowhere in your 'witty' hypothetical false dilemma do you even discuss men who aren't Chris Hemsworth. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.How many references to Chris Hemsworth does it take for you to understand that your use of Chris Hemsworth as the 'default' reference point actually affirms what the other commenter was saying about looks and status coming first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Yes. When your only reference is Chris Hemsworth, someone is certainly bound to pick some type of Chris Hemsworth. You sure showed him. You make his point for him "Looks, status.." comes first. The Chris Hemsworth part comes first even in your own scenario. How does that prove anything that someone would obviously pick one Chris Hemsworth over another? No shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.Comparing two flavors of Chris Hemsworth has nothing to do with what he just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?You must be a troll. There's no other way, you havent made a single point, you asked an open question , didnt like the answer and then this wall og angry words There's not one place here where you ask what my point was. There's, in fact, no questions at all. You are liar. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 08:53 AM |
| -2 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?Sounds like you came here just to call me names. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 08:48 AM |
| -8 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?You made the assumption that I was talking about looks. And then you woman-splained to me on how 'looks aren't everything to women'. I KNOW that. Whatever it is that led to a date was obviously something that you were attracted to enough to go on a date with them. LOL. It's really that simple. When you assume wrongly, it makes YOU look like you're bad faith strawmanning the conversation. I said nothing about looks per se. YOU did. Now you're taking the conversation off topic which ALSO looks pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:40 AM |
| -6 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?Where did I say 'looks'. LOL. I never said that. Obviously you considered something about them attractive enough to go on DATES with. LOL. Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 01:47 AM |
| -3 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?I don't think you understand what I'm saying at all. You were still initially attracted to those guys you went on dates with, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?It’s funny how so many women are claiming that they’re now avoiding RP men once they realize RP isms and actions in those men over time. The question is, how are they still ending up on dates with all these RP guys in the first place? They don’t sound like they’re very good at filtering them out and they’re at least going on dates with them. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?How do you end up dating such men in the first place? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?That’s what I just said numerous times. My point was I have been willing to show all of my details to people and let them decide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Like I just said in my previous comment it appears to be pretty standard to consider a variety and combination of factors when evaluating men today. That’s why sharing details of the whole package is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Probably means a lot of things to a lot of different people when measuring men on the whole. That’s why there are many details to show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?I have time and again been happy to show people my details. Even above average men struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:06 PM |
| – | What are men allowed to complain about today?I think though when you try to bring these complaints into a discussion, you don’t win the crowd over. You actually probably get mostly denial and resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:02 PM |
| – | What are men allowed to complain about today?I’m not exactly invalidating circumcision as a legitimate answer though it does beg the question of - why is this practically the only legitimate answer this post was able to come up with and have support behind it? It’s also simply to say that it’s more likely to find sympathy among women because it’s a situation where children are being victimized. It’s not something ‘made up’ that women tend to categorize between ‘threats’ and ‘persons who need to be protected’. It’s a notion that other peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Are men massively walking away out of the plantation?You’re right. Men are more likely than women to have that option in life. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Sounds like we agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.I don't think that is the correct answer. That's why I said what I said how I said it. Should poverty exist in the first place? No. But it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:36 AM |
| -6 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.You know who deserves to be lifted out of poverty? A woman who is simply just nice. You know who doesn't deserve to divorce r*pe men? An entitled western feminist Karen. What is wrong with dating women who are through no fault of their own born into lower socio-economic standing? How is finding love with or considering dating such people 'wrong'? You're saying we should not date them because they're poor? That might be how western women think and that's exactly the problem in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?The post is a question. The question is very specific in what it asks. Your response is not an answer that qualifies. All that’s needed is to read the post. It’s really not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Intersectionality This is why the question is phrased how it is. no matter what you say, someone is going to push back. Again. This is why the question is phrased how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Then you don't understand. The 'male specific' means male specific. How those complaints are received by a general population public forum is also a qualifier. What male specific injustices or circumstances of unfairness are men permitted to complain about and have that be received as legitimate by the general population in a public forum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Again. That's not the question. Read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Taking Care of yourself FIRST before other Attracts women as a manWell regarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women"I thought that one was called “Cocaine Bear” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:53 PM |
| 105 | Dating app Bumble will no longer require women to make the first moveYes. I wish I did a screenshot of one experience I had. She led with ‘hi’, I countered with ‘hi’, her response was something like ‘oh I’m sorry, I expected something a little more than that, good luck out there.’ | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Your argument I've not come here to construct an argument. wasn't about public reaction, but about his gf herself. A topic and a phenomenon that has been widely posted about. discuss public discourse or personal relationships, as these are different things Public discussions are made up of real life things. It's really not hard. Oh no, my claim is that men do get validation and sympathy on certain issues No. Absolutely not. This is what you said: I think both men and women get a similar amount o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:55 AM |
| – | Why would a man devalue a homemaker but at the same time insist that his partner be one?That's the guy I feel sorry for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 11:09 PM |
| – | Why would a man devalue a homemaker but at the same time insist that his partner be one?Yea. No one agrees with a dude like that, if he truly is the way that you describe. Why would a man like your ex be like that? Because he's an insecure piece of shit? I don't know. Why does anything exist? Why were you with him in the first place if he is so awful? Our kids? What? You had kids with this guy? That aside, it does appear that he DOES value this work being done at home. This is to the point where he's making it a huge priority. He might not be nice or grateful about it but it's clea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Content in the context "how people react to a man talking about his gf leaving him when he was grieving" I have seen this post before. That's kind of why I drew it up like that. Male spaces get banned not because they're male but because of their content. I really don't agree that this is always the case. Regardless there's still FDS scroting up. Nothing stops them from deliberately dehumanizing men every day. MensLib is pretty decent It really isn't. You keep missing my point. I really don't th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:23 PM |
| 0 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Either clarify what you're trying to say or stop trolling on my post, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:42 PM |
| -1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?This looks like the same exact thing that you wrote earlier. Again. What do you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?What male specific injustices or circumstances of unfairness are men permitted to complain about and have that be received as legitimate by the general population in a public forum? It has always been about the complaints themselves. It's not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Yes, but you're mixing "how a partner reacts" Which then becomes content being discussed online. Duh. It's not hard. And to further buckle down that specific detail, the phenomenon of women losing attraction or getting the 'ick' from men crying is widely discussed. It's a thing. It's not as if the thing in real life never becomes the thing in public discourse. LOL. Why do you think there are less male space? Many of them get banned. Many of them open their doors to women on account of complaints… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?the mainstream as a major challenge facing men Sympathy from a point of view complaint. Validation of that as a challenge in public discourse. Not a book or news bulletin. I then asked you where All that's needed here is to use the Internet. You can find a complaint from a female perspective, switch the gender on it and just read. So I gave you an example of an online forum Yes. A forum that's all about acknowledging career struggles may have some amount of sympathy for those specific struggles.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?If you can't even explain what you're trying to say then that's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?isn't children complaining I'm aware of this but it's people being victimized at the time that they were children. This is much more palatable to women than sympathizing with an adult male who was victimized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:02 PM |
| 4 | What are men allowed to complain about today?“guys make 3 friends when they’re 15 and decide that’s enough socialising for a lifetime” I think this is a cruel take when you think about it. Yes. Men will keep that same friend group that they formed early on. Sometimes it's not really a choice. Sometimes it's the problem you all were just speaking about. It's comparatively brutal trying to make friends as an adult male. When you say a quote like that in that way, it takes a struggle that men have and twists it to - men are choosing to do thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?A public discourse and a public forum are different to close personal relationships. This really isn't complicated at all. People take to public forums to discuss their issues in their private lives. LOL. This is exactly why I said what I said how I said it. I'm not convinced that women will get less victim blaming comments All you need to do is use the internet on this one. Find a complaint, reverse the gender, find that thread, read the comments. In a community with more women, yes, Women appe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Again. Have you ever seen those posts complaining about the same thing but as a male versus as a female? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Since you're lecturing me on my post you should at least know that I'm looking for specific complaints and not niche spaces. I'm sure one could go to an addiction group and receive sympathy for being an addict, whereas the general population would view that person as a degenerate addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I said public discourse, a public forum. That could be a lot of things. Private becomes public all the time with these issues. Personal anecdotes are a part of these discussions. You’re really reaching. On the whole you’re gonna get much less victim blaming comments to the woman who was raped unless it’s a highly sus sounding ‘r@pe’ claim. False claims are a thing. Who is more likely to be doubted though on their stories? And the threshold for agreed upon sympathy is not one comment one time in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?You can read the post. Where are the posts you’re talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 4 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Gee, I don’t know, have you ever seen those posts complaining about the same thing but as a male versus as a female? Female specific issues seem to get addressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I have the Reeves book. There’s not widespread change or understanding of these facts yet. It certainly hasn’t worked its way to the point where men receive sympathy for being purposefully held back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I’ve experienced that as well. There are some boomer parents who are so narcissistic that they would actually feel better about themselves if their children failed. Which is pretty much the opposite of what parenting is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Exactly. There usually isn’t agreed upon sympathy. There’s often a very loud sizable naysayer contingency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I don’t know what this means. More information about the question is in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?You can read the post again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?If people are really mostly onboard with this complaint then that's cool. But in thinking about it, I don't even know if I'm onboard with this complaint in the sense that I hold this as a complaint personally. I understand if other men complain about it though. Like I said, I don't even know what I would prefer and I would have no way of testing it out. The TMI facts are, I was circumcised. I see how it's messed up. I happen to like how it looks. I don't have problems with size. I don't have pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:24 AM |
| 5 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Yes. Every uniquely male gripe is a yacht maintenance complaint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:13 AM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I thought I was clear enough in the post. Sure, you're bound to get any kind of response to anything, really. It is yet another exercise that's about speaking generally, as with most of these kinds of conversations. One commenter put forth the claim that 'men and women get about similar levels and degrees of sympathy and shame.' If we're using this as a starting point, I just don't think it's true. Using her examples I explained why, you can find it on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?What a reach and devotion to the victim narrative It's almost as if this is the exact kind of shit I mentioned in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?So again, acknowledging that men are falling behind from a statistical point of view and acknowledging that it’s a problem is not the same as a man voicing a complaint about his lack of opportunities and being firstly believed and secondly met with sympathy. There’s still a majority view out there that still assumes a ‘patriarchy’ or that men are more ‘suited’ to careers and certainly that men are more ‘responsible’ for providing and having career success. Despite the fact that we’ve helped wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Keep proving my point then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?That was my response. Why don’t you do something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Why don’t you do something? What’s stopping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Yes. Again with the it’s mens responsibility to solve their own struggles under the assumption that all men are very powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Now the onus is on me to change the world. Because I’m a man, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:47 AM |
| -1 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I mean if we are all the lucky 4 and are white and live in Bradford uk. Lol. Is that 400 month really making a difference? I just don’t think you can translate all those qualifiers and say - look, we’re helping men. Pretty weak sauce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:45 AM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Right so it’s very specific to a region trying to boost a demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:41 AM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?This would be a situation where men are saying - there’s not opportunities. The question is - when men complain about this how are they received? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I thought a lot of women were pro-circumcision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:16 AM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?White ‘working class’ males get 400 a month. This is the first of anything I’ve seen I’ll give you that. It’s more of a social mobility effort than an effort to help men as a whole really. I think it’s strange to focus in on white people. It also pales as insignificant when compared to the kinds of preferential treatment we give to women all over the west doesn’t matter their skin color, you might get even more for different skin colors. Cool. 400 a month to 4 students already living there. Miss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:13 AM |
| 7 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I think it’s beginning to be acknowledged as an issue from a statistical perspective. I don’t really see the sympathy for the men themselves that are falling behind, or men as a whole. And don’t see anything being done about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:01 AM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:57 AM |
| 8 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Interesting. I don’t know enough about this. I feel like in my situation I was circumcised and didn’t have a choice. So that’s maybe wrong. I do wonder if I posted something like - I’m an upset and aggrieved adult male because even though I don’t know which I would prefer, I was circumcised at an age where I could not consent to that. I’m not sure what the response would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:54 AM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?So there shouldn’t be female only spaces? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:49 AM |
| 6 | What are men allowed to complain about today?No. I'm sorry, we're not going to play games with our own idiosyncratic idea of what constitutes 'normal' and use that to then move the goal posts of the discussion. 'Normal' can be anything and my use of #3 in my response to you was simply an example not a rewrite of something you said though it does happen and we can't honestly sit here and pretend that it doesn't. Women have demonstrated that female only spaces are important them. They have them because they asked for them. Men do not really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:31 AM |
| 8 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Let's start with one for example - cheating. Man cheats, you get more universally shaming comments unless it's a man of a certain standing maybe. Woman cheats, there's very often a - she wasn't happy, it didn't mean anything, how dare you try to say what I can and can't do with my body you don't own me, sex negative, judgmental, etc. There are actually even comments that are like - the man deserved it because he wasn't performing well enough in bed for her. I don't think the reactions in public … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:23 AM |
| 5 | What are men allowed to complain about today?You literally led with It’s much harder to men to make new friends for the reasons listed above. You're now invalidating your own example of a legitimate grievance that you brought into the discussion. Can't make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:09 AM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I’m not so sure about that last paragraph. "Men’s complaint about the loss of male only spaces is a stumbling block of men’s own creation." Really? Yes. Men heard from women that they want to be included in male spaces so they changed it to now where there are hardly any male spaces left. Which is it, women? Do you want us to have male spaces or not? You decide. Smells more of the textbook victim-blaming I describe in the OP as category #3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:51 AM |
| 10 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I don’t think women and men get a similar amount of sympathy and shame. I think it says something that you spent your response trying to convince me that it is similar instead of really sticking to answering the question where you have the opportunity to provide some kind of examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:47 AM |
| 11 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Again, I don’t think a majority general population receives these well. They are problems. Nothings being done about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 18 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Your first paragraph is most certainly true in my experience. Women very often redirect this complaint in various ways. One category is - the woman always has a right to their perceived ‘safety’ which can be anything they deem it. So, even when a man jumps through hoops to prove he’s a civilized human who doesn’t have suspect motives, one of the women in the group can always simply say the words “I feel unsafe or uncomfortable” - game over. Speaking towards your overall claim - ‘every aspect of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:41 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?If I really like a guy he’s going to know it Sounds nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:00 AM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?The only time I've ever participated in this act is when women have vehemently asked me to do it. I was scared to do it, and with a new partner I always will have some fear of doing that with a woman for the first time. Somehow there's this narrative that men are the instigators of this shit. It's just not the case. It's not the case at all in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:59 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?It seemed pretty clear actually that I was the first choice in that situation and not the second. She was giving me the pick of which day. And I think, by speaking of it in such a manner, she was communicating this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:53 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?That's how I interpreted it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:50 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?"Op has defined too available as dating one person at a time and giving full romantic interest to one person." I agree with this. "[most people] in the comments have interpreted this as having nothing going on in life and having 0 social network and no friends." It certainly looks to be the case. I think the guy was just trying to say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:49 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?Pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:48 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?I understand this I just think it's immature and pretty dumb for them to think that way. That being said, women being like this even into their 30s is more becoming the norm it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:47 AM |
| – | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?Be honest, 'desperate for you' works only if you like them and want them to feel that way. If someone is 'desperate for you' and you don't want that, then it's creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:41 AM |
| – | Study finds feminists don't hate menStrom Thurmond was a racist who got with black women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Would you hate even more the french dating scene ?This actually sounds way better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 07:46 PM |
| 53 | Are men massively walking away out of the plantation?I see plenty of married women I’m not attracted to who are dating men who earn more than them. Marrying up financially or in any way is typically an option only reserved for women. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 12:30 AM |
| 26 | Are men massively walking away out of the plantation?Not really. Women want the top guys. Guys just want a woman. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 10:35 PM |
| 113 | Are men massively walking away out of the plantation?I think it’s mostly men though. Generally it’s more likely that women can fall back on the marry a rich guy option. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 07:42 PM |
| 50 | Are men massively walking away out of the plantation?The men ‘asking’ in drizzle drizzle are being ironic only in response to sprinkle sprinkle type shit. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Am i crazy to think that most women are also shallow but not tagged like that? Like they would definitely be interested in a man if he is tall or has big d, but if a man would date a girl just bcoz she got a great fit bod.. or big tits its shallow?I’m not sure that as things currently are that women do get hate for their shallowness. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 07:38 PM |
| 20 | Am i crazy to think that most women are also shallow but not tagged like that? Like they would definitely be interested in a man if he is tall or has big d, but if a man would date a girl just bcoz she got a great fit bod.. or big tits its shallow?I think he’s just saying the only people who tend to get pushback for their shallowness is men. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 06:33 PM |
| 15 | Single shaming in men VS womenI mean men shouldn’t have to be put in the position of proving themselves in any way just because they’re single. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 0 | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?Based on her reaction, I'm sure I could've played it slightly differently. I thought that being open and honest was what it was all about. They were direct questions; I don't see how the truth should be a problem at all to be honest. Why would that even be something to hide? I think that's really what the point of the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?even though i'm a homebody who wants to stay home and read a book 7 days a week, i'm still "busy". I'm busy doing the things i want to do. i wouldn't immediately jump into a relationship or see someone multiple times a week right away, because i'm busy. ^ This is not relevant to any of the topics or anything I've done in my life at all. I'm also a bit of a homebody and consider some of that time to be important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?i dont do is announce to men that i am giving them free monogamy and they are now the center of my life. ^ Yea. I didn't do this. There's nothing that I said in my post that implies that I've ever done any level of this. Another personal story I'm willing to share - I got a girl's number because she showed me attention, so I asked for her number. Great. Later she emails me and says I need to pick Saturday or Friday because her date with the other guy is going to be on the other day I don't pick.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?what did you say, specifically? I answered her question by saying - the last time I was in a relationship was X and the last time I went on a date with a woman was Y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 3 | At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative?thats it Seems reasonable and that's where I agree. if its more than this, the woman is immature and playing games. (which is stupid af). Then the dating world in my region and market is overwhelmingly populated with immature women who might be playing games. And I'm an older guy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?There’s room to say all sorts of things in different modalities for different reasons. People are simply saying that what you said isn’t true therefore technically it’s a lie. It’s not complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?It’s a lie. You might be joking. You are nonetheless saying something that isn’t true. It’s a very simple concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 02:46 AM |
| 16 | If you, as a straight man, could get sex as easily as a gay man…This is predicated on the assumption that all men at every stage of life are relationship avoidant sex hounds. That’s just not the case. Honestly, if access to sex was as easy for straight men, life would be better for everyone. Women would be less hurt just for sex and men would find that they’re able to focus on more important and deeper things, having the ability to satisfy their immediate base biological needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?It’s actually most men. The men who aren’t forced to do that are the men who have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?It takes til the third paragraph to say you’re talking about high SMV, the quotes I took were from your first paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?The post is about more than high SMV people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?Read the post. A lot of men must use commitment to access sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:27 PM |
| 17 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?Men can get sex from sluttly Mc chubbs easily. Not true If you personally are content with a 5 in looks McDonald's manager who plays too many video games. Props. Most women would not accept that. Most men would accept the female equivalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:25 PM |
| – | How would you rank these 3 dating choices and why?It’s a false dilemma. No man wants any woman like these. In a world where women aren’t shamed for asking for 666, men should be able to ask for the bare minimum - not a whore, not a slut, not a domineering single mom. I’m interested to see what your opposite examples are. 1. Dude who’s acceptable in most ways except he’s only 5’10 2. Dude who is everything else except he only makes 99k. 3. Dude is everything except his Johnson is only 5.9 inches. Unacceptable choices, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 04:05 PM |
| 24 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Listen to the torrent of people who’ve already explained it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:59 PM |
| 35 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:57 PM |
| – | How would you rank these 3 dating choices and why?Lol. None of them. Why do the choices have to be whore, slut, or masculine single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?It’s so awful having billions of dollars because I run out of ideas for things to spend it on! You just have no idea how much I suffer. Try growing some empathy for a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 12:14 AM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?Yea. They complain about their advantages as if they’re drawbacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?I’m pretty sure these women are wanting to do it. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?I didn’t realize live-in polygyny was the standard though I fully see one live-in partner in the picture in many cases. This is exactly the lifestyle mode of ‘polyamorous’ people in my area. It also fits the structure of what I spoke about as ‘gig relationships.’ It’s happening. Men doing the ‘soft harem’ is shocking and shameful but women doing it is empowering. In my region, many women do this. If you try to call them out on it, it’s like how dare you. Or they have this bullshit ‘sex at dawn’ … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:01 PM |
| 7 | The advantages in dating men seem to think women have really aren’t advantages for womenFeelings based equality. I feel like things are unequal, therefore things need to be addressed at the societal level. This is despite the fact that I’m actually inherently advantaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 03:48 PM |
| – | Any method a man can use to get into a relationship is demonisedAnd any method women use to do anything is celebrated to at the very least excused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:20 AM |
| 23 | The advantages in dating men seem to think women have really aren’t advantages for womenHaving advantages aren’t really advantages because it’s possible to still find something to complain about even when life is easier for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?Nah. It's already happening. It's like the gig economy but for relationships. Women have all sorts of guys on their roster. They got a guy or multiple guys for 1. Bills 2. Dick 3. Emotional stuff 4. Handyman type shit 5. Niche interest of the month, etc and then they could also have a primary female live in partner. I've already witnessed this as a common lifestyle in my region. As a man, you have to know how to avoid getting involved with these people. They don't want a monogamish relationship … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?It's way more common than it used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?It really has no bearing on her level of hypergamy in her nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Would men actually be happy if dating were easy?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | We often talk here about how successful, high-performing women want educated and successful men, but do most educated and successful men want ambitious women?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?What I'm saying is - it makes no difference whether her previous partners were unattractive or not. And furthermore, this has nothing to do with her nature being 'hypergamous' or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | "redpilled" and NOT misogynistic?I think the word 'misogynist' is used far too lightly and frequently and to the point where it no longer has any real meaning. Basically, you're kind of like - if you are RP, then PROVE you aren't a misogynist. LOL. It's like the assumption is that RP, as a default state, might very well be. I don't think RP men need to prove their innocence under the assumption that they are guilty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?No. How does this make any difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Bluepill men exhibit the same "toxic masculine" traits that all men do, they just perform mental gymnastics to avoid shameSo the entire idea of a bluepill man is to be redpilled but pretend like you aren't This might be true some of the time but not all. A lot of men haven't yet realized any of the uncomfortable realities of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Bluepill men exhibit the same "toxic masculine" traits that all men do, they just perform mental gymnastics to avoid shameI literally had a time with a BP user on here who might present himself after I put this comment out there. I simply defended people's rights to date abroad if that's what they wanted to. He called me a 'Passport Bro' and tried to shame me. Later it turned out he had dated abroad and I'd never had that experience before. He was the only Passport Bro in the conversation, attempting to disrespect other people for being, essentially, just like himself. This sub is a wild place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?It seems that you’re not reading, trying to claim things that aren’t true, and being butthurt. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?This has already been explained to you. Scroll up. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?That doesn’t mean that leagues = ‘superior’ and that leagues don’t exist. This has already been addressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Your argument is simply repeat name calling and adding ‘lmao.’ This does not put you in any believable seat of authority to be calling anyone or anything else ‘emotionally immature.’ You’re projecting. Read this conversation over again. That is why men reject you. It’s not because you engage in the act of approaching them. It’s because you are yourself. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Yes. Blanket denial and calling things names certainly is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Let us all know when you’re willing to date men uglier, shorter, more broke, and more obese than you. Leagues will still exist to must other people though. Just not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?It’s literally not that you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?This sub is wild. People here would never entertain a man claiming leagues don’t exist. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Nah. You’re adding that in there on your own. Just because men reject you and won’t date you doesn’t mean they’re ‘better’ than you necessarily, they just won’t date you or girls like you. Because they’re out of your league. It’s just as simple as where you drew the line earlier with the guys ‘you’re not interested in.’ It’s not a ‘flavor’ - they’re ugly and obese! Same same is often why guys reject you! The idea of leagues is actually more nuanced than your strawman interpretation. Bc you’re bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?There you have it. That’s the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Believe it or not, it’s a thing. Call it something else if that works for you but surely exists. If there are no leagues, then you’re out of no man’s league right? So ugly, bald, broke, short, obese, losers with mental problems are not beneath you in any way right? Since there are no leagues you give all those guys a chance right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?No. That’s how leagues work. Especially with age. Grown men aren’t wasting their time on women who aren’t at their level. You’re approaching them, they’re declining you, that’s how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Did they reject you? They were out of your league then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Yes. Reframe lack of social skills to ‘incompatible.’ The reality is most likely that you’re only bothering to approach guys way out of your league. Of course those guys will say no but not because you approached, unless your approach is really that bad in which case that’s the reason as stated previously. “It tends to not work out if I approach therefore I don’t approach” I would say more likely than not, all things being equal, that women have a FAR higher success rate approaching compared to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Maybe it’s not that the guy doesn’t like you. Maybe you’re doing it wrong. This is what most everyone here would say to a man who said what you just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating?Rooted in your experience of operating on that assumption. So of course. Self-fulfilling prophecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 07:50 AM |
| -1 | What does PPD make of this "soft guy era"? Drizzle DrizzleGo on bout yo bidness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Are we dating the same Man?Again. This was you. And your one word ‘cheating.’ It’s all there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Are we dating the same Man?Lol. Okay. I was just told earlier apps were full of married men. Which is it? At least now we have an explanation. Every guy you’re not all picking and dating simultaneously is a goblin. Kinda backs up what people are saying. Thanks for admitting it at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Are we dating the same Man?In this case, the evidence is coming to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:28 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?Anyone can call anyone a boyfriend for any or no reason and the OP hints at this with use of contrasting perspectives. Which brings back to the original question, how do you prove your commitment to these online groups? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:26 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?Which, again, has no bearing at all on OPs point that you helped prove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:19 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?You brought the word ‘cheating’ into the conversation. That was you. If the people going to groups online are suspicious of cheating, what is the process for proving their mutual commitment with these men? This is only being said because of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:16 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?This has no bearing at all on what people are saying. Matching is still a part of the selection process. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:12 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?The guy is not saying that you’re picking them because they’re married. He’s saying that women tend to end up picking the same top guys despite claims suggesting a highly varied sense of taste that woman claim to have in men. Why do your matches online even concern you then? The fact that finding out if they’re married or not is a problem for you in the first place is evidence to his point directly from yourself. All people are saying is that you’re very often swiping on the same guys. So either… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:42 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?You said what the ‘picking’ was in the first sentence - the matching part. Lol. That’s what OP is saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:30 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?Again. Where do they submit their proof of commitment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:29 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?So when they make their claims on these sites how do they submit their ‘proof of commitment’? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Women accept being alone better than menIt’s really just a silly meme. Just because a meme exists doesn’t mean that what you’re saying makes sense. You’re saying the problem is ‘men treat women like a sock.’ Like they put them away in drawers and wear them on their feet? That’s what socks were made for and that’s what most men do with them. No one buys a sock and is like okay I’m going to Jack off in this. Most guys have plenty of other better ways to Jack off which is why the sock thing is a funny joke. I can’t imagine fucking a sock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:14 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?You realize this is based off of real actual are we dating the same man groups that exist for this reason. If these stories were so unbelievable we wouldn’t have the groups with exposés like west end Caleb or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?90% of the ones you’ve been picking, which is OPs point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:03 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?You looked up the ones that you picked though. This is kind of the point of what the guy is saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Women accept being alone better than menThe whole sock thing doesn’t make sense though. Pick something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:58 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level droppingPerhaps there’s a new pill theory at the intersection between gay frogs and bird law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Like I said, I’ve already said what I came here to say and I stand by it. You don’t read what I write anyway and you just came here to change the topic. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?So you are the one invalidating suffering Wrong again. You can revisit the context of the LOL that I already unpacked. Why are you ignoring who the perpetrators are if you claim to care about the violence? A discussion of victim-hood is a discussion of victim-hood. I don't know how many times this has been said. It's an incredibly simple concept. men are still the problem Of course this is something you would say. How about this - most violent offenders are also non-white. I dare you to say who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?You have the nerve to type that out even adding in the “LOL” for good measure and then turn around and claim that I am invalidating men??? Was pretty easy to LOL at. Dude you literally said women are victimized by men because they “choose them” Didn't say that at all. I did say that men are more likely to be killed by strangers which is true. Women complain about the physical threats outside, when it's the men closest to them that are most likely to cause them harm. It is true that women at some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Okay what are the ways? Exactly what you're doing right now is one of those ways and it's evidence that it happens in abundance. It goes back to my original response to you. 'Feminists,' yourself included based on what you said, attempt to invalidate male suffering in various ways. One of those ways is to, in any situation, change the discussion to a comparative and insist that 'women suffer more' or that 'mens' suffering is mens' fault.' What you've done here and what you tend to do pretty much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:49 AM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?The source is on your team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Are feminists the ones victimizing men? Feminist victimize men in various ways. You changed the subject to violence which you think serves you but it's an issue that you have just illustrated that you don't understand. It’s typically chauvinistic misogynistic type men attacking men It's typically chauvinistic misogynistic type men that women select. Lol. Most violence against women happens at the hand of a male that was previously at one time selected by that woman. Now are you afraid of the men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:53 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?Tell that to the source then. I never claimed to invent the term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:21 PM |
| – | So much arguing about which gender has harsher standards or a harder time dating, can we just agree both men and women struggle?I just checked it out. You are attractive. I would take you out on a date that I pay for at a nice place, without hesitation. Based on appearance alone, you have the level of attractiveness. You wouldn't be the hottest girl I've ever dated but I would marry you and pay for your entire life if you weren't too much of a pill to deal with. The problem is - I don't even hear back from girls like you. You cannot honestly pretend that you have no offers and nobody interested in you. I do not feel sorr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?So miss me with the “reverse sexism” it’s not there. It doesn’t exist. the idea that sexism against men is a real threat is bonkers. Men are more likely to be victimized by actual misogynistic men then they are by feminists! A man who is victimized is still a victim, regardless of who victimizes them. Men are the primary victims of violence and this has remained constant throughout history. Men who are victimized are not simultaneously the victim and the perpetrator. The vast majority of violent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:05 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?I’ve given you a definition from a source. Not sure what else I can do for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:50 PM |
| – | So much arguing about which gender has harsher standards or a harder time dating, can we just agree both men and women struggle?She should change her thesis statement to focus on that part then. The tell is that she acknowledges that women as a whole get to ask things like ‘above 6 ft tall’. It’s very commonly iterated. Men don’t get to ask for things like that. Men try to say - ‘please don’t be obese,’ and are met with - how dare you for body shaming. Dating is very regional. But across regions, who do you think has a better chance? A black woman of any kind or a below average height man of any kind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 3 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Again. Yes. Men are never violently attacked. Sexism against men doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:44 PM |
| – | So much arguing about which gender has harsher standards or a harder time dating, can we just agree both men and women struggle?Sounds like you’re moving the goal posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:42 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?It sounds like you don’t. I posted a definition from a source for you twice that you clearly refused to read the first time. ‘The manosphere’ sounds like ‘the manosphere’ ‘Red Pill’ sounds like ‘Red Pill’ It’s almost as if there’s different terms for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:40 PM |
| – | So much arguing about which gender has harsher standards or a harder time dating, can we just agree both men and women struggle?The population of excluded women is smaller. Most women could drastically improve their situations by simply getting in shape. This is, all things considered, comparatively pretty easy. The majority of men are excluded based on characteristics that are unchangeable (height) to very difficult to change (achieving top socio-economic status). We can’t all be tall and top 20%. The reality is that much fewer men are chosen and reproduce. It’s always been this way. This should be all that needs to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:38 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?'Red Pill' is not an 'extreme.' There might be 'self proclaimed Red Pill aligned people' who say extreme things. That's not 'Red Pill.' This is so even according to sources that don't like it. "The “Red Pill,” a term that comes from the 1999 film The Matrix, has become a framework for individuals to describe their awakening to some previously hidden supposed reality." "to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world." Red Pill - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:50 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?'Red Pill' is not an 'extreme.' There might be 'self proclaimed Red Pill aligned people' who say extreme things. That's not 'Red Pill.' This is so even according to sources that don't like it. "The “Red Pill,” a term that comes from the 1999 film The Matrix, has become a framework for individuals to describe their awakening to some previously hidden supposed reality." "to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world." Red Pill - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:48 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?'Red Pill' is not an 'extreme.' There might be 'self proclaimed Red Pill aligned people' who say extreme things. That's not 'Red Pill.' This is so even according to sources that don't like it. "The “Red Pill,” a term that comes from the 1999 film The Matrix, has become a framework for individuals to describe their awakening to some previously hidden supposed reality." "to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world." Red Pill - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:47 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?'Red Pill' is not an ideology. This is so even according to sources that don't like it. "The “Red Pill,” a term that comes from the 1999 film The Matrix, has become a framework for individuals to describe their awakening to some previously hidden supposed reality." "to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world." Red Pill - There are uncomfortable truths about dating and relationships today. Blue Pill - There are no uncomfortab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:46 PM |
| – | What exactly makes a person "Purple Pill" and how is that even possible?'Red Pill' is not an ideology. This is so even according to sources that don't like it. https://www.newamerica.org/political-reform/reports/misogynist-incels-and-male-supremacism/red-pill-to-black-pill/ "The “Red Pill,” a term that comes from the 1999 film The Matrix, has become a framework for individuals to describe their awakening to some previously hidden supposed reality." "to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world." R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:45 PM |
| – | Would “emotional labor” be better described as “consideration overload”?Ah. So women are high maintenance ‘nice guys.’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:14 PM |
| 2 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?These people live in a world where they truly think their feelings run what’s happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I don’t think it’s really that confusing when you think about it. On the one hand, both men and women here often find it out of touch whenever older married people come to this sub and lecture us about how ‘dating is today’ despite the fact that they haven’t actually been on a date in 20 years. On the other hand, 55+ personhood and expression is still a cultural force that has its hands on the center stage of legacy media all the way to the background executive producing all kinds of things. htt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?They wouldn’t. Again. That’s the entire point of my sarcastic violin comment. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?No one feels sorry for you. Lol. That’s all that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?It’s not controversial, That's all people are saying. to have kids at 21. No one is saying you have to have kids at 21. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?So, again. All other things being equal... having kids at 40 is not as ideal as having kids younger. It's a a pretty simple concept and it's not controversial at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Maybe if you make your font bigger it will make your point more substantive. Lol. Again. That's not the question at all. To use your example: Having kids in your early 20’s marrying a rich man who isn’t old who worships the ground you walk on and who will retire you for life is better than having kids at 40 marrying a rich man who isn’t old who worships the ground you walk on and who will retire you for life. There, fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Lol. That's not the question though. Move the goal posts more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Do you believe everyone comes to Reddit to get in arguments so they can “win?” Who said anything about Reddit? I have often heard people rationalize their interactions on THIS SUB on the grounds that it's a 'debate sub' - meaning they don't care what the truth is, they're here to debate. And keep in mind, this is a person who has already twisted words that other people originally said and then they ended up saying - The View. I’m not sure what the ratings are like, but they may be a bit low to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Of course that’s better than ending up a single mom. How does that translate to having kids at 40 is better than having kids younger? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:14 PM |
| 3 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Of course you know what it’s like, because you’re a woman. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:12 PM |
| 5 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Always the men are more capable of violence card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:09 PM |
| 3 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?This is the kind of shit that happens. They even sympathize with murderers if they happen to be women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:08 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I don’t watch reality tv, You don't have to watch tv at all to know what The View is. Does this prove that misandry is mainstream and misogyny is not? ^ I don't know that this was the original claim. We've already said what we came here to say. There's no need to change it around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:12 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Your hostility is uncalled for There was no hostility involved. I’m not sure what the ratings are like, but they may be a bit low to call it truly mainstream. ^ You went with this. A one-second google search can tell you that's it's a show on a major network. In fact, some would say that media on a major network kind of doesn't get more mainstream. Mainstream media kind of epitomizes the mainstream, no? which avenues misandry is acceptable and commonplace. As people have been saying, a lot of di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:09 AM |
| 3 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I don't know, should he have done it the way some women murder their own children? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:11 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?The exception is now the rule! Waiting to have kids in your 40s is now somehow WAY BETTER! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:03 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?getting chewed out publically for daring to ask if the person was single. It's funny because women will also rage if you DON'T approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:55 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?The last time I saw cat calling was in a show that was produced in the 90s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:54 AM |
| 6 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Exactly. Where the f*ck is she talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:53 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I have never in my life seen a woman berate a man to his face for saying “can i take you to coffee sometime?” Try being a man for one week. a brick wall of general disinterest Walk in the park compared to what men go through. Check your privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:52 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:47 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?You were guilty of being a man and saying something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:46 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Shallow values are promoted today - but not just in women, it has to be said. No. There is actually more than enough shaming and gate-keeping of man-hood. You just don't see it because you're a woman. It’s absolutely disgusting that a man being mutilated was joked about It wasn't just a joke, an enormous audience laughed at it out loud. It took one courageous woman to not agree. One out of how many people in that room? Do you think they could air a show like that about a woman being mutilated? D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:36 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?The View is a syndicated television show on a major network (ABC). I guess you've realized that the key to winning this argument is having a very narrow and limited view of what 'mainstream' is. LOL. I can't think of anything more mainstream than a show on a major legacy broadcast network. One of the old ones, like right when the stream first originated. LOL. ABC, NBC, CBS, that's ... the stream. Fine. Name a television show on a major network where men speak of women in a similar fashion. Or is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:29 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?to do what they want. Yea. Sometimes people want to do stuff that's fucked up. It often isn’t in response to any behaviour towards/about men Sometimes it is. encouraging a woman to do her own thing I have a buddy who's ex-wife decided to 'do her own thing' - it ruined their entire family. The new relationship she tried on, like it was a t-shirt, fizzled out within months and she actually tried to go back with him. There's certain things in life where there's just no take backs. Her sons are stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?I'm not interested in casual sex. As a man, the desire for sex is pretty biologically hardwired and strong. This is to say that even though I'm not into or looking for casual sex as an end goal, if sex is on the table and I'm attracted to the woman, I would want the sex. There's really nothing wrong here and no contradiction. As an older man I'm looking for a lot more than that. At the end of the day, however, sex is important - this doesn't mean I'm looking for a hookup or a sex club or anythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:40 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Welp. Try saying it and we can all stand by and witness the comment not get removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:24 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Oh, that's TOTALLY the same thing as "all short men should be eradicated." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:19 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?We can have this discussion. You and this other guy should probably first agree on what you think 'mainstream' is, and then don't move those goal posts. I would start with something ubiquitous and small. But I think, keeping it on point to what we were talking about in this post, we can just look at what kind of expression iterated in public discourse is generally more accepted than not. And I think, for the most part, we already know how that tends to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:15 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Yes. The Internet has nothing to do with public discourse and culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:57 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Great anecdotes. The exception is rule! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:51 AM |
| 5 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?If you're complaining about an anonymous message board and you're saying this is one of the places you're finding offensive content you don't like, then that sort of directly speaks to the point of what we're talking about. In order to say stuff like that people need to go to dark, and as you say 'anonymous', places like that in order to say it and not have it insta-taken down. In many other places, it's insta-taken down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:39 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I think that it’s not the ‘you go girl’ inherently, rather it’s surprisingly what many people will say ‘you go girl’ to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:34 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Correct. Only women are allowed to be victims. Even when they’re not! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:31 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Those are the best examples she can come up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:29 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Oh, so you can see the rest of Reddit, which is now and has always been dominated by men. So dominated by men that you can see them being called 'incels' for any or no reason on the daily, with no consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:26 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?It's impossible to be genuinely kind and it's impossible to be single by choice. If you are a man only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:24 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Yes. Let's abolish r/askmen. Only asking women should exist. LOL. Yes. Let's get rid of r/deadbedrooms. Lol. Women do not have enough control over language and culture today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:23 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?They are active, not banned. Some of these groups have been banned on the male side only. Meanwhile we can go over to FDS right now and still see them scrote it up on the daily. What's more is you can go out in public and women can say it out loud unchecked. Men outnumber women on reddit 3:1. This population stat has no bearing on the discussion whatsoever. A simple population break down is just that. Public discourse is very often policed by extreme minorities in a population, and this has been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:18 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Again. You're deliberately not reading. By comparison, misandry is completely accepted not just online but out in the open. No one gets corrected or canceled for saying openly misandrist things in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:44 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?And many of these places get banned out of existence. And I'm not here defending one iota of their content. You can read my comment again to see what it was actually about. I'm sure men are like this online in part because there's a lack of places where they'd be able to get away with such things. By comparison, misandry is completely accepted not just online but out in the open. No one gets corrected or canceled for saying openly misandrist things in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:42 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I've been in leftist groups my whole life because I'm a leftist. Men keep their mouths shut so they don't rock the boat. Women get away with saying literally whatever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:36 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I'm not here to defend whatever it is you're claiming these other men are saying or doing online but you can't honestly pretend that women don't do the equivalent harsher, more openly, and less taxed, every day, offline as well as online. Check your privilege. “lmfao nobody wants you you are expired”. Women say this shit about men every day, except it doesn't stop at age. The only* point I agree with is that we shouldn’t mock small dicks. But you should be able to diss men for everything else I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:29 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?I'm sure men are like this online in part because there's a lack of places where they'd be able to get away with such things. By comparison, misandry is completely accepted not just online but out in the open. No one gets corrected or canceled for saying openly misandrist things in public. And if we're talking about online, let's be honest, women come here to call men 'incels' just for being men who have an opinion that they don't like. 'Mansplaining' can be 'a man saying anything.' Words can co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:02 AM |
| -6 | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?If they were truly ‘happy being single’ they wouldn’t be on a date with a guy in the first place. It’s bullshit because at some point in this process women like this are not being honest about something. You’re happy single? Cool. Enjoy that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 01:20 AM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…I am told that all men, regardless of their own age and marital status and parenthood, prefer childless women age 18-35. Prefer is just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Intelligibility and reading comprehension are two different things. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Some dates is better than zero dates. Check your privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:11 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of female posters here are trolls?There are a lot of older married women here (if they're married and happy why do they spend so much time on here?). They come here to antagonize younger single men. They very often get caught lying, contradict themselves, and engage in purely personal attack based interactions. This kind of person and this kind of behavior is what I would call a troll. The men who come here and do those things typically get spotted and banned, which is fine. However, nobody is stopping these women who come here … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:13 AM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?When you really boil it down, the man's attractiveness is the reason behind most issues to be honest. The problem is the constant gaslighting we see here trying to convince us otherwise. If we weren't met with such vehement denial, there wouldn't be as much of a need for these kinds of posted. So, I'm not surprised that they're so common. Don't worry. You're a woman posting. Mods won't delete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionAge: within 15 years older or younger Personality: someone who likes me and wants to be with me, is nice, and does not suffer from extreme npd or bpd - like personality disorders. Sex: Likes sex and understands that it's important. Interests: Literally doesn't matter. You are curious enough to have a read a book about something one time in your life. Values: They value keeping our relationship together through thick and thin. How do they treat you? Nice. Which means no games and they have no nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?I know you won't because all you know is ad hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Cool. You can speak of the content to express that then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Adding a comparative doesn't unsay what was said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Then you would think it would be easy to prove that through a discussion of what was said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?The penis is what is considered dangerous on an aggressive person Is there a reason you can't express nuance in written text? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Says the person who began by labeling penises as inherently dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Yes. Being raped is only scary if it's a man raping you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Yes. Because it's impossible for men to be chased and raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Then one would think you'd have a lot to say about the content then. Not leave a one sentence comment about the speaker as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?omg penises are so fkn dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:15 PM |
| -1 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Men are the ones who congratulate boys other if a high school kid dates a woman in her 20’s. Not women. r/ihadastroke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:12 PM |
| -5 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Classic. Top comment has nothing to do with the content. Just the speaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:09 PM |
| 30 | Women rush to defend female family annihilator in comments on Instagram post about recent m*rder-su*cide incidentYou know. I've never investigated that issue. Whether it's that specific 'they' or not, I've never seen the kind of people who sympathize with female murderers victim blame men for their mental health struggles. Just never seen that happen. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 07:05 PM |
| – | How can a woman differentiate between actually wanting a relationship versus being unsure of what she wants?If a straight woman was in her thirties & still has never been in a LTR, would you consider that a red flag? Yes. If people tell her she’s attractive, very reserved, sex isn’t important at all & she uses the dating apps primarily but pretty casually, are all these traits of a woman that actually wants to be in a relationship? She might want a relationship, she might think that she wants a relationship, she might be just saying that she wants a relationship. If she truly wants a relationship, how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:59 PM |
| 46 | Women rush to defend female family annihilator in comments on Instagram post about recent m*rder-su*cide incidentIt’s like they care more You produced the 'they' | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 79 | Women rush to defend female family annihilator in comments on Instagram post about recent m*rder-su*cide incidentYes. And they behave the same when it comes to mens' mental health. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Because they meet you and they realize you are such a pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Clearly still found a guy though. "relying on me for money" Welcome to dating as a man, where you are expected to provide and the moment you question the other person's careless expenses, you are shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Men suffer from low quantity and quality. Because there's a lack of quantity, many men have no alternatives to putting up with low quality women. This allows women en masse to get away with being low quality and they can still get dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:33 PM |
| 10 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?You can only say that because you have the privilege of having gone on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Could you be with a woman who doesn't make you laugh?Most men would be fine with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Like I said it could be picking out of her league or personality. Based on what I’ve read, sounds like a combination of both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:42 PM |
| 11 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Doing nothing is always easier than doing something. The world’s smallest violin is playing for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:23 PM |
| 10 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Yea. Sounds like a personality problem and a picking out of your league problem. Much easier problems to deal with than the vast majority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?She gets dates and has admitted she is now in a relationship. The post could not be more deliberately troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:20 PM |
| 9 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Still claims dating is harder. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:18 PM |
| 16 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?You're picking out of your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:17 PM |
| 39 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?If 99% of the guys you went on dates with rejected you then you have your answer right there. "Most did not attempt to have sex with me either. They just did not like me and were not attracted to me despite me using no filters on my photos or anything." You are not at their level. You are picking the wrong guys. But you get to pick and you get those dates anyway. This is why no one feels sorry for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:17 PM |
| 37 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?First world problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?You must be joking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexYea. It’s almost as if anyone can read what you write here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexYou literally led with it. If someone has an opinion that you don’t like - they’re ‘on the spectrum.’ If you have a difficult time responding to an argument they ‘just aren’t listening.’ This is the kind of thing that should be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickMale icks don't matter. In fact, men should be shamed for having any icks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexHe heard that spectrum part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s considered being single by choice?Remaining single because you don’t like your choices enough is either being picky or settling for not settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | What’s considered being single by choice?Picky and single by choice are not the same thing. The reason is simple - the choice that the person really wants is a significant other that they don’t currently have. True single by choice are people who are happier single. And that’s different from merely saying you’re ‘happier single’ because we all know that many of those people are in fact liars and are miserable. Single by choice is setting out to be single and achieving that vision. Being single because there aren’t options that you like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3Looks like there’s a lot you don’t understand. It’s a pretty simple question. Not surprising you’ll do anything to dodge answering though. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3Not sure how it could possibly be any more clear and still retain its meaning. It’s not a complicated question. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3So in our society, by and large, we expect women to pay? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3I’m sure there’s men who have no problem stepping in to do fatherly things for children. Stepping in and being inherently responsible for paying the tab are two different things. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 18 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3Alone beats a helluva a lot of alternatives out there. Make no mistake about this. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 08:35 PM |
| 3 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueI mean you can claim anything is ‘incel rhetoric’ for any or no reason. Saying such a thing also has no bearing on the truth value of the original statement. You don’t want to have a conversation about whether the statement is true or not. You just want to call it names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:16 AM |
| 7 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueSo you admit that, by and large, height is important to women. That’s the only point that’s being made here. And if you agree with that, there’s really no need to cite anecdotal exceptions or evoke the term ‘incel’ at all really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueHe’s right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:07 AM |
| 6 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueYes. The exception is now the rule! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:06 AM |
| 15 | Outrage over controversial 'female privilege' list drawn up by men's rights activists - which claims women are 'not expected to go to war' and are taken seriously if they report rapeIn the last one, firstly look at what's happening in Ukraine. Being a male Ukrainian is a death sentence and that's because of the draft. Secondly, the fact that a nation hasn't used a draft is immaterial to the fact that men are registered to be drafted and women are not. Every response is a cop out. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Hope men here only have issues w hardcore feminists and not women in general!hardcore feminists You don't have to be a dedicated ideologue in order to treat men poorly and contribute to casual misandrist culture. Basically if you're a woman and you find it impossible to acknowledge male specific suffering then you are the problem. I don't know that I'd say most women are like this but many are - enough that are worth talking about. The real problem is that most women, if they wanted to, probably could get away with this and not be shamed one iota of a peep for doing so. … | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Again no one cares or asked for any of this information about you or your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Cool. Thank you for contributing nothing after not reading my post. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Those girls barely wanted you If you'd actually read the examples, you would know that this isn't always the case. But you didn't read the examples, and you still don't understand the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?what’s so great about your stories? I never said they were great. They were written to serve as examples of a specific phenomenon that the post is about and describes at length. Despite all of this work, you've still completely failed to understand the concept of this post and what it asks for. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?I told you the story, The story that you told me was about a woman who was caught cheating. The story that you're telling me now does not fit the description of what the post describes. oh shi you hate advice, Right, so for the 30th time, if you'd read the post you would know that this post does not ask for dating advice. I’m a handsome tall successful guy No one cares or asked for this. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?If she is saying too available or not, or whatever excuse she’s luke warm to cold. You failed to attract her appropriately, no stories are necessary move on to the next, and hope for best. So, again. It's clear that you have failed to read and/or understand the post. The issue of this double bind does not hinge on a rejection. There are examples I list where I was the one rejecting her, not her rejecting me. The examples still show women responding unfavorably to availability independent of othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?I just told you every story of mine You mentioned zero examples of what I described. And you ignored the post entirely. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Availability double binds aren’t real, Whatever you, say boss. Great conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Who wants to tell a story... Then don't. IDGAF. But that's what this post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:52 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Why do you want stories? Because that's what I asked for in the post. If you don't want to share, that's fine. That being said, this post does not ask for your dating advice or worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:45 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?What you’re talking about is women’s whataboutisms to support their shitty hypergamous, I know what I'm talking about. The post is pretty clear. It's actually a lot more specific than just general gendered whataboutism, etc. You just have to avoid these girls as best as you can You're really not hearing me. This post is not asking for dating advice. You said you had 30 more examples. Let's have it. All the stories you won’t boil down to a similar scenario Again, I didn't mean to ask something el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:19 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Like you want a story? Damn dude. I just don't know how clear I can be for you all. The title of the post is a question which reads - Who here has experienced the male availability double bind? Followed by a description of what I'm talking about to be clear. Followed by real life specific examples from my own experiences. Followed by a question highlighted in bold which reads - My question is, for men, have you come across this and what is your story? I could tell 30 more. Then do it. I'm asking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:04 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?If you date around you’re going to experience other chicks dating around. I know this. Again, for maybe the fourth time, this is a question to other men asking about their experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:46 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?I'm not asking for any of this 'advice' or 'explanation.' The question is the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:37 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?It seems like no one is actually answering the question of the post. Instead, it's a lot of people trying to reimagine things that I've already described in the post or put words in my mouth that I didn't say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:36 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Okay, you seem to be really struggling with a very fundamental understanding of women and mating. Nah. The post is simply a question to men asking if they've had similar experiences and what they were like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:28 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?I appreciate that you have thoughts about this. I'm not really struggling for an explanation as much as I'm asking other men if they've had specific similar experiences and what they were like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:24 PM |
| – | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?We have all experienced what you're describing here. Then what are your experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Women do not date losers. They very often do. Objective losers maybe ^ That's obviously what I'm talking about. Which leads us to the question of what really is a loser now doesn't it? Because it doesn't matter if the guy is a loser or not. The woman simply for any reason or no reason at all rejects him. Keep in mind the context of how I originally used the term 'loser.' You've already taken that term outside of that context and now to the point where it has no meaning. In my original post, 'los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?It's clear that you're putting absolutely no thought or effort into these comments. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?‘Label’ is not necessarily ‘perceived.’ People are capable of calling others names without believing those things to be actually true. I don’t know or claim to know what women are perceiving or thinking. So stop changing my words. Again, not sure you’re getting the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?Yes, people typically exist on a spectrum, not as a binary option. You will find that most traits that people find attractive are only attractive at a certain point on the bell curve, but on either side of that the attraction falls off. For starters, let's examine your first comment. Never did I say that actual people don't exist on a spectrum. That being said, there is often a vast gulf between what men actually, objectively are and what women label them as based any or no reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:58 AM |
| 5 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?I have no idea what you're talking about. you believe women perceive me to be This conversation has never been about you at all. Again, I don't think you're grasping the concept of this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?It's clear that you're not grasping the concept of this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?My conclusion is that we are bundling two types of women into one. I don't know if this is necessarily true. I've talked with many women about this and how they see guys they're dating. I also very much have witnessed women saying something one day and then very strongly saying the opposite a different day. Not only do I not think it's only 'two types of women,' I think it's very often sometimes the same woman, just a different day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?You are making a very big mistake It's not a mistake. You can read some of my examples. The "loser" that she rejects even though he is available is rejected for being a loser, not for being available. He would be rejected even if the woman has no information on the status of his availability trait. That's an assumption. Women date losers all the time. You're assuming that women are knowing enough about the men to know that they are losers. We can objectively evaluate guys as losers but it's hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Who here has experienced the male availability double bind?'Emotional availability' means a lot of different things to a lot of different people in many situations. I think what some women mean by 'emotional availability' is basically men who are relationship ready. What it often actually is, is that man giving her attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Apply what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.What standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendThe point is, it’s not cheating. Cheating is cheating. That’s why there’s this word for it called ‘cheating.’ Lol. Now, these behaviors might not be desirable but they’re not cheating. Lol. Yea, I don’t respect the logic of people who try to change words into things that they’re not in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Who gets more hate: the low maintenance boyfriend? Or the low maintenance girlfriend?My experience is that women don't like low maintenance men in and out of relationships. In dating, they don't like men who are easy to get along with because it's not a challenge. They don't like being in relationships with low maintenance men because it bothers them being around men who can be happy with so little. I've seen this many times. Men love dating low maintenance women. Those are more rare. Women tend to not like other women who are low maintenance but men love them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 0 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendIt doesn’t matter what the particular comparison is, though I think both are applicable due to the inherent differences between men and women. The fact remains that you consider a list of behaviors tantamount to cheating only if it’s men doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 0 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendOkay. So nothing other than cheating is cheating for women. But when it comes to men, all sorts of things outside of cheating are cheating. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:13 PM |
| 0 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendLol. Okay. So then women using sex toys should be cheating right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendWhat if I’m getting off to this post right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If you're subscribed to OF or SC you don't deserve a GirlfriendSo, women getting attention from other men is cheating too then right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 10 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Male victims of domestic violence don’t usually get any support at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Never said it should be illegal not sure why you're going off about that? Right so what's your problem? People want to do what they want to do. You act like men are the only people in the universe who make selfish choices. LOL. Women make bad decisions as child producers and parents EVERYDAY - women ruin families over their selfishness, and now men can't even have kids at an age that pleases you. LOL. Well considering how a woman is going to be expected to carry, birth, and probably taking care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.LOL. You clearly don't understand that while age can be a challenge as a parent, there are a lot of potentially WAY WORSE problems associated with bringing up kids too early in life under circumstances that can be WAY poor if people aren't prepared to have a kid. Of all the factors associated with producing a quality upbringing for a child, you're LASER FOCUSED on the age of the MAN on this dating sub topic entitled "Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I mean, yes?? Why would anyone want to have kids that old? Ask old women who freeze their eggs. Lots of people. LOL. 'Sperm quality' please. Everything degrades when you get older. If men are able to have kids and still want to have kids, like what should that be illegal? "Proper dad stuff." Lol. As if that's an age specific thing. Then tell me where is the line for that? Certain age - Nope, you can no longer be a father figure to someone. As if YOUNG fathers are SUPER ON POINT with being father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.LOL. But he can still have kids if he wants to. All 'my body, my choice' until men are doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.If you're a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.We already covered this territory. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Lol. So, again, what you're saying is that if a man doesn't impregnate a woman by 45 then he shouldn't reproduce. Who are you to demand this? You realize you're saying this in a post entitled "Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s." Kind of an own goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Okay. But, according to you, if he was 45 and talked to your mom about wanting to have a kid, the 'normal' response to him should be - welp, go kick rocks? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.That’s a pretty normal opinion if you want a normal family life. My parents had me older Lol. What? XD. You can't make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.a man that old would be running into pretty significant health problems while his child is relatively young. That's not necessarily true though. 45 is not even old. Lol. should forget about it. What people should do, according to kids on the internet. Lol. You should put away that TikTok and stop with the dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Men and women have different situations in life. I don't make the rules. What I referred to as morally repugnant is the notion that 'men need impregnate a woman before 45 if they desire to reproduce.' Pretty disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I mean. If women have to worry about starting a family before age thirty then I really don’t care if you find it morally repugnant to think a man should have children by forty five. What? I literally don't understand what you're trying to say with this. I didn't make a rule that men are able to father children at older ages than women are able to have them. I did not make that a rule. Just make anything you say make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:49 AM |
| 7 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.My uncle is forty, fat, ugly and smokes and managed to get a wife and have four kids. She however was ugly. Okay. What's your point? Lol. I mean men on this sub say that about women who are thirty and older. It’s not that different. I think it really IS that different. Some people, men and women, consider certain dating ages appropriate. Are these men also uncompromising on appearance, height, income, weight, etc? Lol. We all know what women want because we've listened to them. Lol. Some men jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Men do too, at least in this subreddit. Not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iHr5tJhTgA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiASL3ERgec | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Most men don’t have nearly as many standards as most women have. Look, if I were 25, I wouldn’t waste my time dating a 30 year old either unless she was like really great. Most aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I’m pretty open to giving just about anyone a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Women get approached, therefore they have options. Some men never have an option in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Yea. But for the most part men are far more flexible than women are. You agree that women get approached right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Most men have pretty reasonable standards though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.You can’t just speak about mens’ standards in general as you do in the title and then exclude most mens’ standards because they’re reasonable. Lol. Like.. what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.You can’t just speak about mens’ standards in general as you do in the title and then exclude most mens’ standards because they’re reasonable. Lol. Like.. what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.But then that undermines the claim that mens’ standards are problematic. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I have pretty flexible standards personally. I’d be open to dating just about anyone at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Most men have pretty flexible standards. Especially compared to women. You would think that would be enough to refute the claim in the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Up above them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/AH4rGqV0t2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.That last sentence is not true though and we’ve been over this many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.When you’re a man and you’re looking to date, marriageable options don’t just come to you. Lol. Options come to women. Most men are invisible to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I already have very low standards. Ugly women still have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Where did I say that was the ideal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.So again it’s ‘mens’ fault.’ I don’t think you understand how dating works. Men who don’t get noticed don’t have options. With no options, there’s no ‘potentially should’ve’ anything. In fact it’s probably smart for men to build up stability. In the end, you’re basically saying that if you haven’t impregnated a woman by 45 then forget about it. I can’t think of anything more morally repugnant that’s been mentioned here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Yea sure. Lots of incredibly rare things still exist sometimes. What’s your point? You what about that conjoined twins that still found a decent husband. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.If you’re a man and want to reproduce, you can’t really date 40+ women. Like you physically have no choice. Lol. Those 40+ dudes have been trying their whole lives to get noticed by any woman. It probably didn’t work for them in their 20s and 30s. So after investing in their career for decades they come to realize - women still don’t like them. What do you honestly expect these guys to do? Lol. Divorced women with kids look for men with money and no kids all the time. How is it all of a sudden n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Old women chose not secure a man in their youth. Promiscuous women chose to be promiscuous. Fat women chose to let themselves go. Short men have no control over the height they were born with yet we are allowed to openly judge them. This place is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I know an anecdotal token short guy exception to the rule!!! That means the exception is now the rule!!!! Women prefer short men!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’It really just means men leaving dating. Somehow it has to ‘also mean something else,’ the more sinister the better. Spite is irrelevant if you’re no longer interacting with women in the first place. If you’re spiteful, how do you know? You don’t if you’re a woman because they’re not interacting with you. Lol. That’s the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:11 AM |
| 0 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’I literally only wrote this in response to comments in this post from women suggesting that the problem is mens’ simping. We have women who are complaining about something that often benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:52 PM |
| -1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’This is a double bind. The only party creating the double bind is women in this scenario. Which obviously means that the only way this can be changed is if women can manage their feelings and expectations better. We do not have a mechanism that forces women to do this. It's a double bind because it stands as follows: As men we are expected to 'provide' for women. Men who are perceived by women as 'inadequate providers' are disregarded and seen as men who are 'less than' as men. Cheap, broke, dus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:25 PM |
| 22 | ADL says MGTOW is an extreme misogynist movement.Men going their own way = misogyny. Got it. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Would men do the same in the current dating market?Women aren’t even into casual hookups so it doesn’t even make sense. If you look around most men date down even lower because they want a woman who will stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Rich guys are not on redditLol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? It's common to see tradcons and red pillers alike... ^ When you reduce advice to 'who speaks it' rather than weighing the merits of the actual advice, then that's when you know we have truly lost the plot as a thinking society. This topic seems to really focus on the 'who' is giving the advice. The challenge of advice is really to sort out the truth of which advice is worth listening to. Sometimes the right advice is not what people want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | If men go away women would not look backIf what OP is saying is that "men are going away" then it sounds like men are just going away and that's that. If what OP is trying to say is really that "men are 'saying' they're going away but kind of just fake 'going away' only to come back and hate on women" then that's not what I would describe as men 'going away' exactly. In which case if the latter is what's happening, and that "women are not going to look back" then why do women give a shit about the comments? I thought they "weren't loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 09:36 AM |
| 1 | If men go away women would not look backMen who quit dating out of despair, men who suffered a breakup/divorce and sworn away from dating, men who can't find a GF and switch to dolls/AI chatbots - share same trait. They are not desired by women. \^ This is not necessarily true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | If men go away women would not look backIt is not a hypothetical scenario. Your title says otherwise. It reads "If men...blah blah, then, something." While not all loneliness is attributed to men giving up on dating, it very well might be true that, in reality. that an amount of men have checked out of dating altogether. So what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:33 AM |
| 2 | If men go away women would not look back? I’m not sure what you’re describing. Look. You created the hypothetical situation of “men going away.” If they’re going away they’re going away. How women respond to that is not relevant to men who have already left. Just make your own scenario make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:22 AM |
| 3 | If men go away women would not look backIf men are going away then they likely don’t give a shit so who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:12 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:35 AM |
| -11 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimNot really. Friendships tend to come first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.I don’t think ‘most women’ do at all is what I’m saying. Lol. https://statusofwomendata.org/explore-the-data/employment-and-earnings/employment-and-earnings/#MedianAnnualEarnings https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity https://www.statista.com/statistics/241535/percentage-of-childless-women-in-the-us-by-age/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:15 PM |
| 0 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.Can most women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.honestly, no you haven't. I said it pretty early on. This post is meaningless without your actual bare minimum requirements list. “Settling” can be anything including but not limited to perspectives that are completely out of touch with reality. If your perspective is out of touch with reality you still have the right to choose that but since you’re posting here, people do have the right to have an opinion on the situation. but only when enough information is given. Which is why people are askin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.It's still about dating in general, read the whole post. I did read the whole post. The title is not something that is not part of the post. Lol. If I, for example, wrote a book, the title is a part of that work. Lol. In fact, some would suggest that if my title says something, then the book should be supporting what my title says rather than all of sudden contain a different point. Lol. Settling is bad for all people involved. It depends on what people mean by 'settling' though. Because, again,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.You don't need to tell me how posting on the Internet works. Evidently, I do. Lol. The point of the discussion is to talk about why people need to worry or care about other people's standards be they "reasonable" or not. You can look at the title of your own post. Lol. And yes, I think that knowing what those standards are, is an important part of that discussion and I've already explained why numerous times. Lol. Something which a stranger would rarely be qualified to asses. I didn't say strang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:00 AM |
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