EdgewaterEnchantress Archive

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3	I fucking hate myself Therapy might be the only thing that might help. Compulsive self hatred isn’t an easy thing to fix without knowing where the problems and feelings originally come from. You can’t fix a physical injury without seeing exactly where and how the bone broke or the muscle/ tendon tore. You can’t just “walk off” a broken leg or torn tendon / muscle, so why would your brain be any different? Ultimately we are the ones who decide how we experience reality so you would benefit from someone walking you thr…	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/26 04:14 PM
1	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. Basically, I am all for holding people accountable for problematic beliefs, but was he problematic just for asking a question? Not really. But people jumped so hard that the poor bastard deleted his OP.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/26 03:51 AM
1	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. Pretty much!	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/26 03:46 AM
2	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. But can we even prove the OP is into Red Pill? (I haven’t looked at his post history, so IDK.) He chose an odd place to ask the question, but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a genuine question.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/26 12:04 AM
2	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. But is there any proof actually suggesting he’s “looking for other women,” cuz I am not really seeing that. Only a bit of insecurity thrown in for good measure. He obviously cares way too much about what random strangers think.	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 11:17 PM
3	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. Really though! Why does the OP even care if his GF doesn’t believe that?	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 11:09 PM
3	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. Appreciate someone sharing stats, cuz IDK what kind of fantasy island the OP is living on!	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 11:06 PM
4	I feel like the expectation for a man to be the sole financial provider in 2026 is unfair and unrealistic. First and foremost, ignore rude random people. They are irrelevant. A lady who works at Auntie Annie’s Pretzels shouldn’t be standing around judging customers, especially with no context. Secondly, I have noticed a lot of younger Zoomers got brainwashed by the Alt-right grift including women buying into the “Trad Wife” aesthetic. Basically, it’s incredibly ironic that everything gets blamed on Liberals / “liberal media” when it’s also always been feminism and liberal ideologies that encourage wo…	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 11:05 PM
3	do non red pill men exist? You absolutely can find guys who are not red-pill! You simply have to stop hanging out with guys like your BF because they hang out with each other since nobody reasonable wants to hang out with them.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 03:52 AM
8	My partner’s views and media consumption are bothering me Hate to break it to you OP, but he is not a good guy, and I think that he secretly resents the fact that he takes care of you financially since you are disabled. Since he pays for everything he thinks you shouldn’t have a say in your own life, and it’s a very yucky perspective to have.	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 04:36 AM
2	Never dated and anxious about the future/ resentment of gender roles Technically, they said “anxious and awkward” not “weird,” and anyone can be anxious, awkward, or even “weird” without having ASD. Saying “look for a community or support group for Asperger’s” is solid advice, and as another Neurodivergent person, just with ADHD instead, I often do find other Neurodivergent people (with either ASD, ADHD, or both) to usually be easier to talk to and connect with.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 05:43 PM
24	Falling down the incel pipeline has made me realize how unintelligent I really am. You aren’t “dumb” OP, merely human, and more importantly you seem to be learning! Intelligent people recognize when they are wrong and seek to course correct, so it sounds to me like you are very intelligent, indeed. Social media has really done a number on people and warped their perception of reality, unfortunately. I think that one of the best things you can do is reach out to other young men and share your experiences with them.	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/26 07:06 PM
2	My dad is very quickly falling deeper into the red pill I don’t know, Redpill is pretty toxic and it’s basically a cult. It won’t be long til he stops seeing his daughter as human and caring how she feels cuz of her gender.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/25 02:21 PM
5	My dad is very quickly falling deeper into the red pill Really though. OP might love her dad, but her dad is literally losing his ability to see women as human beings and love women. She’ll be on the list of “people he doesn’t care about” before she knows it. You can’t fix that, especially if he “doesn’t want therapy.” In all he’s becoming a toxic man and only he can do anything about it.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/25 02:19 PM
6	How do I become fine with being alone By knowing that having a bad partner or at least the wrong kind of partner for you can totally ruin your life, and it’s really that simple! People tend to over-romanticize romance, over-emphasize the importance of romantic love. But the reality is many different kinds of human relationships can be incredibly fulfilling {Family, Platonic friendships, Mentorship / being a mentee, positive co-worker relationship, and etc…….} Where really the one which is the most likely to end badly in heartbreak, …	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/25 08:19 PM
3	Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line? Agreed	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/25 01:59 PM
3	Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line? BS and a misrepresentation of that statistic.	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/25 01:57 PM
2	Friendship with women Don’t diminish your progress or down-play your own personal growth just because of your past, or just because you aren’t quite at the level you want to be at just yet. If you keep up the work consistently, then you’ll get there! If you are learning from it, then your mental maturity has already increased exponentially. Unfortunately a lot of men still don’t get it, still don’t grow in their level of empathy in spite of having female family members and relatives.	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/25 10:55 AM
5	Friendship with women You are so nice! This other dude is just not going to get it, unfortunately. He’s got his head too far up his own rump to see clearly. I am glad your interactions with women have gotten so much better and I am sure at least some of your female coworkers definitely see you as a real friend, not just a coworker friend.	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/25 05:45 AM
2	What would happen if the Redpillers had political power and one of them became president? What would their government be like? I mean look no further than the state the USA is in presently. It looks like this when a Redpill muffer is in charge, and it blows!	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/25 05:07 PM
2	What would happen if the Redpillers had political power and one of them became president? What would their government be like? Really though! 🫠	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/25 05:06 PM
10	Groomed through “hypnosis” by a fake Dom I’m really sorry for your experiences, but also if you ever hear weird stuff like that, block immediately! You never know what kind of weirdos are out there willing to try really weird crap. I kinda think you should probably take a break from dating, overall, and maybe try seeing a therapist for a little bit as you try to process this emotional trauma, cuz it sounds like it’s a lot, and you deserve to process it all in a safe space.	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/25 04:16 AM
6	Still believe that women will leave for better The real reason you believe that is because you don’t like the fact that the truth is infinitely more complicated than RedPill / black pill makes it out to be because human beings are complicated creatures! You want easy answers rather than inconvenient truths, and we can’t help you with that, unfortunately. 🤷‍♀️ I know it’s much easier to believe in nonsense than it is to take risks and potentially get hurt, but that’s the only way to eventually find a good partner who wants to be with you beca…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/25 06:25 PM
7	What if the 80/20 Rule Isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but a tool to Understand who we're actually compatible with? Someone who actually knows what they are talking about?!? 🙀 Eww, stop! It would point out how flawed OP’s perspective on the world is! 😜 {yes, this is a joke / troll response on my part.}	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/25 01:39 AM
10	Anyone here just see many of the Incel types as just horrible human beings?? While I agree that neither Andrew Tate nor Jordan Peterson are “INCELs,” they are grifters who legitimize and sell the Redpill agenda, and they are objectively terrible people. As are many other people who are “INCELs” or support RedPill / toxic Manosphere content and ideology.	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/25 05:36 PM
1	What is the 80/20 rule and does it actually apply? Technically, men are the choosers more often when it comes to long-term relationships, seeing as they / their families were the primary selectors of their brides throughout the course of human history, and conventionally they are still the ones expected to propose. So it’s not so simple just because women superficially appear to have more options for casual sex in the modern age. To these red-pill egg-heads, what is casual sex really worth when women have always been commodified for their bodies…	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/25 11:12 AM
3	What is the 80/20 rule and does it actually apply? No, it does not apply in this context. That is a theory in statistics and is mostly only applicable to business and sales.	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/25 02:06 AM
3	What is the 80/20 rule and does it actually apply? Plus, this specific rule of statistics does not apply to dating because by that flawed logic, “the top 20% of women get access to 80% of the men,” {meaning “the bottom 80% of women” would have to make due with the man-meat leftovers} and obviously we know that simply isn’t true. 80/20 works in a business and sales context, not in a human relationship context. Especially because not every single man, woman, or person is cisgender or heteronormative, and like does Red-pill forget that those other …	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/25 02:04 AM
3	What is the 80/20 rule and does it actually apply? It’s not nonsense when it’s related to business. It is nonsense for everything else that is not basically {literal} sales.	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/25 01:38 AM
10	Redpillers are bitching that women are only interested in money, status and looks, but when they come across exceptions among women, they brutally humiliate them True story.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/25 08:07 PM
9	Why Rp makes man insecure Cuz insecure, hopeless, and desperate people are easier to manipulate, and a lot of Red Pill grifters are only out to make money. Basically they call women gold-diggers and stigmatize sex work to distract their audience from the fact that Red Pill influencers are also doing it primarily for the money! They don’t really want to empower men because they have no desire to lose their audience to actual contentment. People who are content enough spend less money on crap they don’t actually need.	/r/ExRedPill	28/03/25 08:04 PM
4	Can the damage be reversed if my partner consumes Red Pill content? B/c Reddit hates it when you point out that certain age gaps are still kinda inappropriate even between “consenting adults.” Grooming doesn’t always have to happen before a person is technically “of age,” but lots of people don’t care “as long as it’s legal.”	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/25 04:16 AM
7	Can the damage be reversed if my partner consumes Red Pill content? Look, I hate to be this person because 6 years usually isn’t a “red-flag” age gap with slightly older adults, however there is a reason a 25 y/o man pursued a 19 y/o woman who was barely legal, to begin with. He was likely always predisposed to certain kinds of mentalities that made him much more susceptible to falling down the alt-right red pill pipeline. He was probably never quite the guy you believed him to be, and he was simply given permission to say what he had probably always low-key tho…	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/25 04:03 PM
4	Can the damage be reversed if my partner consumes Red Pill content? I’d argue that if a 24/25 y/o man pursued a barely legal 18/19 y/o woman, then it’s not even that surprising he eventually fell down the alt-right red pill pipeline. That’s one of those age gaps that isn’t too bad, and normally isn’t problematic on its own. However it also speaks volumes when the younger partner is barely an adult at 18/19 and the older partner is already approaching their mid twenties at 24/25.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/25 03:50 PM
5	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life It’s unfortunate, but let this be a painful lesson. People become what they watch, read, and who they listen to. He has likely always had insecurity issues if he even wanted to listen to red-pill crap in the first place. Nothing has truly been lost because he has merely become who he always was deep within himself, 🤷‍♀️ and what bothers you is that deep within yourself, you know this! You probably feel betrayed that the person you loved never really existed.	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/25 07:45 PM
7	Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists? Except OP doesn’t consider themself to be an INCEL, so why are you trying to “gaslight” them into believing they are?!?	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/25 03:43 AM
9	Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists? Exactly this!	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/25 03:41 AM
9	Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists? Really though! Those are two very different things! Especially because lots of INCELs aren’t even “virgins” anymore.	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/25 03:41 AM
3	Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists? It cuz a lot of INCELs fall down the alt-right pipeline, unfortunately. That said, a guy isn’t automatically “a misogynist” just cuz he’s a virgin. Frankly, that sounds absurd to me, as guys can choose to be virgins / wait for the right person, or choose not to have sex for various personal reasons. That doesn’t automatically make them “an INCEL” cuz they are making a personal choice not to have sex, meaning it’s not “involuntary” if it’s a choice.	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/25 03:40 AM
27	A cautionary tale for passport bros Good for his now ex wife. 🤣 They go to foreign countries to essentially buy girlfriends or wives, then they are surprised when the women move on in search of a guy with more money! That’s what happens when a person makes their romantic relationships “purely transactional.”	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/24 02:50 AM
1	Am I desperate because my partner is not a "provider"? The thing is, a lot of those guys who talk crap are insecure and they don’t even have any kind of woman, to begin with. Don’t look for advice from losers with such crappy social skills no one wants them, even though finding someone to have sex with is easier than ever cuz of dating apps, and they still can’t do it!	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/24 01:09 AM
4	My trans cousin is falling down the red pill rabbit hole and it's incredibly scary to watch. He “idolizes” his dad because he witnessed the man getting away with psychologically tormenting and emotionally abusing his mother, and messing up the whole family with no consequence! Which was one of your aunt’s unfortunate contributions to this situation, btw. She never should’ve stayed with that horrible and toxic man! She literally ruined her kids for being too spineless to “break the cycle of trauma and abuse.” So her own son thinks she’s weak and “deserves this fate.” Cuz that’s what mess…	/r/ExRedPill	26/07/24 03:57 PM
18	My trans cousin is falling down the red pill rabbit hole and it's incredibly scary to watch. My honest opinion? Your cousin was probably always an @$$hole and it wouldn’t surprise me in the slightest if part of the reason they transitioned to begin with was because they always resented their mother, wanted to separate themself from her, and I suspect that if the father is in the picture, then he probably isn’t a very good person or a very positive influence on his family. Your cousin was “good” and “empathetic” cuz they were expected to be and would be “punished” if they were not. Not a…	/r/ExRedPill	26/07/24 04:11 AM
3	I used to be friends with a dude who hated woman and got laid a ton. It’s nice to see a positive post, for a change.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/24 01:10 AM
2	Contradiction I’ve noticed Geez! You are so warped! I don’t even see how it’s possible to “get to a thousand” without basically being a sex addict who doesn’t have a job or any kind of life responsibility. Who has time for that? This is not a thing to flex about, from any gender. To me, aside from the obvious exaggeration, it demonstrates severe mental illness. Being an emotionally unhealthy, mentally unstable person is not a flex!	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/24 11:48 AM
2	Contradiction I’ve noticed That’s such a gross take! Especially cuz it has been demonstrated through statistics that while it’s easier for women to get sex (from sad, gross creatures with zero impulse control,) it’s definitely easier for men to get actual romantic relationships / partners. Having guys who are “Fives and below” have the audacity to “shoot their shot” when I think they look sloppy / problematic is infuriating (and scary!) I am just trying to walk to my train stop in peace and their attention is insulting be…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/24 11:41 AM
12	They literally start to whine when they see a smart women Idk why you got “downvoted” cuz this was a valid point! “Redpill guys don’t marry successful, smart women,” and “if she does ‘date down’ it won’t be a Redpill dude.” Maybe they just don’t like that idea of “subjectively assigning value to people,” which I get! But it’s only reasonable to have at least some objective standards. That said it would also benefit you to know that a smart and successful woman would never see her chosen partner as “a downgrade.” Very often, she has many reasons for “da…	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/24 07:31 PM
2	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? I know it doesn’t always feel like it, but “we got this.” 🫡 I always try to remind myself “I have survived much worse than any perceived discomfort, today.”	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 01:35 AM
3	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? That sounds quite nice! There are no psychologists “in house” where I go and the LCSWs work for the hospital, itself. So they don’t do therapy “in house.” You have to get referred out and their “out of house” psychologists and LCSW haven’t been good fit for me, personally. One of them was even religious, which is a “trigger” for me.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 12:22 AM
3	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? I have and it didn’t really work for me because my pathology is too complex, and I have yet to meet a therapist who knows what to do with me. My psychiatrist is pretty good though! Even if all of this other stuff is overwhelming and it sucks, at least I have that Ol’ kook who actually listens to me! But I didn’t even meet him until I was like 30 and we got lucky that my husband’s union just so happened to have a decent psychiatrist. That said, over 90% of the time I will still recommend “go to t…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 09:22 PM
1	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? Word! I agree with this and I sympathize with you.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 09:05 PM
4	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? That’s not necessarily true. I am a woman and 3 therapists failed to treat me, one of whom actually did have at least some diagnoses to work with. The only person who has actually done a good job with me is my psychiatrist because I am actually mentally ill in a pathologically complex way, and I have more than one! (ADHD, Chronic long-term clinical depression and general anxiety, Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder, and complex PTSD.) I have had to take actual drugs, at times, in order to manage my …	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 09:02 PM
9	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men Honestly, you are not required to be sympathetic towards people who actively make unwise, objectively bad decisions. But you should still be kind to them, as human beings. I get why some people are saying “the girls are being manipulated,” but at the same time if a person keeps getting manipulated by the same old tactics and tricks, time and again, and they are still pursuing the same kind of guy, then they are making an active choice not to learn / grow. Meaning that they, themselves, are still…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 02:37 AM
11	When can I say it is 100% my looks Really though! Whenever I see people going the “I am ugly” route, I literally remember all of the “not so attractive people” I have seen at 6 Flags / Hurricane Harbor with families, and everything! Meaning they almost certainly “had to have the sex, at some point, to make kids.” In OP’s case, I think he might just be a bit of a doormat! Cuz why is he “setting up friends” if a romantic relationship is something that he wants, for himself? I ain’t sharin’ my friends if I want a BF or GF that badly…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 05:52 PM
5	Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why. This too! ⬆️	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/24 02:23 AM
4	Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why. This is a very good comment with excellent advice. I cannot recommend it, enough.	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/24 02:23 AM
2	Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why. 🫠 Just don’t go on those subs! 🤣 In some ways, they are like “the liberal girl’s version of the Redpill,” an equally unhealthy, somewhat unbalanced “blue pill.” “Two X-chromosomes” can get especially weird, and basically “anti-anyone who isn’t extremely neoliberal and politically obsessed.” Cuz it’s not even “politically correct” anymore, and can veer into “dangerous extremist” territory. They can be very unreasonable and sometimes even truly obsessed, to a point that can appear “compulsive and …	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/24 02:21 AM
8	My BFs redpill beliefs are triggering to me Nah, if your friend is satisfied with the support and comfort you provided, then that’s enough and you did a good job! Lots of people are stubborn and “need to learn their lessons the hard way.” They will actually get mad at you if you brings things to their attention, too soon, and they aren’t ready to hear it. Instead of losing 1 friend, you would’ve lost 2 if you had “interjected and intervened” too soon.	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/24 10:50 PM
8	Lost all respect for Fresh and Fit today. For what it’s worth, the majority of people who are pro-choice don’t actually “like abortions.” Something being necessary isn’t the same thing as something being “liked.” I always wonder where pro-birthers get that idea from? I literally have only known of one person who got an abortion, and it was necessary cuz she was prone to irregular periods cuz she had some reproductive (and mental health) issues, while her partner still had a son from a previous relationship to take care of and they reall…	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/24 05:15 PM
8	I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality. The real answer.	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/24 12:20 AM
1	How do I stop identifying with femcel ideology? It’s cuz I know when people are just looking for trouble. And 🤣🤣🤣 to the rest of your comment. It made me chuckle.	/r/ExRedPill	28/03/24 09:23 PM
1	How do I stop identifying with femcel ideology? 🥱 I don’t have the energy to feed you today, troll. Good luck finding someone else to bait.	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/24 04:10 PM
4	How do I stop identifying with femcel ideology? I understand the complexity of it. But that won’t necessarily help someone who is trying to understand something, simply, and to figure out how to “not hate men.” Nuance matters in a formal discussion. It is not as important in an informal “this is the gist of it” setting. If you want to explain the nuance and complexity of it, then have at it. It’s hella long! But ef’ it, if you’ve got the time. Might as well!	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/24 12:35 AM
6	How do I stop identifying with femcel ideology? This was my takeaway! Cuz I definitely have my “angry misandrist days,” but the more I talk to people and interact with men, the more it becomes apparent that while they are very freaking loud, redpill-ers are actually a minority. It’s very easy to end up with a skewed perspective of men if you are only looking at “the worst of the worst” cuz unfortunately “the worst of the worst” are also the ones who seem to get talked about, the most, even though they don’t really represent the majority of me…	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/24 10:39 PM
1	Growth and healing Cuz personal growth and healing are hard while going back to unhealthy people and things is easy. It’s also trauma. Trauma literally warps your brain and it can even mess up your nervous system.	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/24 09:21 PM
22	How do I stop identifying with femcel ideology? By separating individual men from the system of patriarchy. Understand that these are 2 separate entities which only have so much overlap / correlation and “correlation =/= causation.” Men are not Patriarchy and patriarchy isn’t automatically beneficial to all men. Go ahead and hate patriarchy, along with its ineffective, outdated gender ideals, norms, and standards, just don’t hate random men, for no reason. What purpose does that serve, really?? The same way people don’t choose their skin colo…	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/24 12:18 PM
4	Is it okay to body shame men? Okay, but the majority of people here already seem to agree with that is what I am trying to say (besides “just ignore assholes,” which is still the most important lesson.) It’s a bit like telling a vegetarian “don’t eat meat.” It’s redundant and unnecessary because a vegetarian already doesn’t eat meat. Besides, some men can be dangerous and aggressive when provoked, so the majority of women won’t say something like “small dick energy” to a rando guy on the street. It’s generally a very specifi…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/24 03:48 PM
8	Is it okay to body shame men? That’s not true though. A lot of healthy women don’t actually care about Penis size. “It’s not about the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.” It’s shallow, insecure, and unhealthy women and often other men who care about things like “dick size.” Meaning that they probably hate themselves and aren’t worth listening to! Body shaming is never acceptable and learn how to ignore bullies, and assholes, period! Multiple people have already said “body shaming is inappropriate and unacceptable…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/24 03:34 PM
4	Is it okay to body shame men? That’s definitely not the point. Part of “getting over ex red pill ideology” is understanding that men hold themselves to their own weird and toxic standards, and some people are just assholes, which isn’t gender specific. Many Redpill ideas were designed by men with the intention of “selling other men ideas and products by preying on their insecurities.” It’s not a “battle of the sexes things,” it is “a marketing thing.” This is how they have been selling women on specific types of clothing and…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/24 03:16 PM
5	Is it okay to body shame men? It’s not “socially acceptable” to body shame anyone, ever. The problem is simply that a lot of people are assholes on the internet. “Asshole” isn’t gender-specific, ya know? So hopefully it will help you to remember “lots of people just suck and I am sorry for it.” Also, as an aside, “small dick energy” isn’t actually about literal penis size. It’s about a mentality of “overcompensation” that is rooted in toxic masculinity, so I hope that helps explain it.	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/24 01:43 PM
16	The biggest red pill contradiction about women’s happiness Because the career woman is independent and doesn’t need them. Thusly the career woman is statistically less likely to end up in an unfulfilling or abusive relationship. The stay-at-home Mom is statistically much more likely to end up stuck in an unfavorable situation, due to lack of financial independence.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/24 09:24 PM
15	The redpill ruined my mental health and turned me (24, F) into a misandrist. I think you sound like you need a Hug OP. Try to remember that both ends of extreme are incredibly exaggerated and they don’t accurately represent the majority of people who are neither “super liberal misandrists,” nor “red-pill dickh0le$.” There are a lot of sane, reasonable, and chill people who hate both extremes, equally! The internet can also really exacerbate this whole “battle of the sexes” idea. When the reality is that both women and men have been hurt by unreasonable gender expectation…	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/24 06:14 AM
2	Are most articles about women's preference for tall men just wrong/exaggerated? Exactly! Basically a lot of tall girls actually like the very exuberant and charismatic personality of guys who “aren’t super tall, but do NOT give a flying F0ck, in space!” I myself am a short girl, but I think it makes a lot of sense cuz confidence is always attractive!	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/24 01:22 AM
3	Are most articles about women's preference for tall men just wrong/exaggerated? I think it depends on the type of women you are interested in. Shallow women are more likely to care about superficial things like status, money, height, etc……. But generally, those aren’t good partners, long term, and they don’t accurately represent the majority of women. Women who have more principles and general emotional maturity won’t usually care much about superficial traits and characteristics, that cannot be changed, like height. They care much more about your effort, whether or not you…	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/24 06:19 AM
6	I need help having empathy for women How hard is it to have Empathy for women, on the basis that women are human, too? Are you saying you can’t feel empathy for your own mother, for example?!? Cuz she’s a woman! Do you have sisters? Female cousins? You mentioned having female friends. You wouldn’t care if they got hurt or were treated unfairly?!? I just don’t understand how you lack empathy for women on the basis that some do bad things! Cuz a lot of men do bad things, too. Humans, overall, are extremely flawed! But are they not st…	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/24 05:17 AM
1	Please help me, redpill is making me suicidal I have cPTSD and it is currently in a state of dormancy. I haven’t had a flashback episode in several months and I am not even taking my Seroquel, anymore. All I have is birth control and a low dose antidepressant. Understand that fear is a mostly useless emotion unless your actual physical life is in danger, and it’s usually not. It’s Mind over matter. You have to believe that you are stronger than your illness. Which you are! If you have survived this long, with a brain that actively wants to …	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/24 12:28 AM
2	Please help me, redpill is making me suicidal Then stop hanging out with Redpill assholes and stop watching / consuming ideology that goes out of its way to prey on your fears and insecurities. Again, OCD and clinical anxiety require professional treatment, so you should try to get it for yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	12/02/24 06:07 PM
1	Please help me, redpill is making me suicidal A mental health diagnosis is not a valid excuse. On the contrary, you should make an active and conscious choice to “avoid your triggers” if you know you have clinically significant OCD and Anxiety. I have ADHD, chronic clinical depression and general anxiety, PMDD, and cPTSD. Yet the overwhelming majority of people have no idea that I have so many clinical diagnoses because those conditions don’t define me as an individual human. What you need is professional mental health treatment and a thera…	/r/ExRedPill	12/02/24 06:05 PM
4	Please help me, redpill is making me suicidal I think that what you are lacking is more introspection! Why do you want to believe in red-pill ideology?!? What about it is appealing to you, as an individual?!? What do you hate about liberalism? Do you simply feel a somewhat toxic desire to be “different,” or “Not like other girls?!?” Why?!? Are you just trying to fit in with these shitty boys cuz you are romantically interested in them, and you want them to like you, romantically? Basically, I don’t even understand why you want to hang out w…	/r/ExRedPill	12/02/24 01:19 PM