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It’s good to see that this place rots women’s brains as much as men’s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:29 PM
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At that point poly would be better as multiple fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:40 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen some friends with them Arther’s that were at like 20 and it was their second. I warned them but they unfortunately learned the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:21 AM
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My point was people like to blame things on stuff that isn’t a real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:41 PM
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N count really isn’t a big deal unless you’re dealing with experience gaps that are larger than a 5-10 person difference. I’ve noticed the larger the gap, espically if the women have the higher count, causes more issues than anything else. Not pair bonding, usually a difference in opinions on intimacy/sex and in some cases insecurity. People always go for either “they’re just insecure” or “she can’t pair bond.” Like be real it could be a lot of things and people just wanna soothe their ego eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:36 PM
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You people are fuckin psychotic. If you need to bribe someone to love you, you don’t deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:34 PM
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Cuckoldry and Polygyny is for losers. It’s not the next step in dating. Touch grass ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:24 PM
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Wishing to be gay is a sign you pick bad, have shit luck, or are secretly gay. Both sexes have issues but not once have I ever seriously considered being gay because women were a serious issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:05 PM
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Probably A but I ain’t staying more than a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:35 PM
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I mean that’s definitely possible, variety of people means a plethora of reasons why. Gus here? Probably insecurities for a lot of them but some dudes just find it . I’ve been with like 15-16 women so I can’t exactly judge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:15 AM
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I’m guessing more disgust in relative terms to themselves. I’ve met tons of man hoes who won’t marry them either and I was kinda gobsmacked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:43 PM
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Well in your case that’s good, I’ve seen it in the last 5-6 years when I was still dating. I’m not even hating, I was a slut like everyone claims can’t find a partner to be stable with. I think people are better off staying in their lanes but it’s not like people who slept around can’t be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:08 PM
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Supply and demand 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:59 PM
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Naw most just lost interest in the chick and moved on. I don’t get why people need to make a big deal over it when you can always just date someone new. Dudes here acting like every woman is a “ran through slut” when in reality if they wanted to avoid those kinds of women all they have to do is have any amount of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:52 PM
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I’ve only heard of dudes asking a handful of times, mostly they just assume. I mean I think the virgin or busy group is silly af
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:43 PM
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I remember years ago coming here over body count and honestly the only thing I’ve come to recognize as a general rule of this is that men care relative to their own number for dating/marriage. Other than that they don’t care cause it ain’t gonna be long term 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:31 PM
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The majority of men irl don’t care about virginity, they just don’t want someone who had been sleeping around a lot. It gets brought up here more than anywhere else I’ve seen and I’m saying that as a dude who came to ppd years ago because of count. I get that argument to an extent but I don’t get wanting a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:15 PM
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I mean it went from 0-15 during that time so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:04 AM
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I had severe depression and thought nobody would love me. I knew it was a me issue and didn’t blame women for it. I also had a hoe phase too so I’m not mightier than thou
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:04 AM
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I mean I wouldn’t have gotten a gf otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:14 PM
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I swear you people never talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:45 PM
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Avian, I agree that it was her fault. However that’s not how most people date nowadays. I’m not arguing if they should do it, I’m saying they don’t. I was clear with my gf about exclusivity early on like a smart person 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:31 PM
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I didn’t say he was freaking out but ok . Who cares if she left crying that’s on her for being a dumbass. If people think they’re exclusive without talking that their fault for assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:53 PM
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Most of the issues I’ve seen have been with a power imbalance which I get. Some women are bitter about it but I think you’re over blowing that aspect. I got a bit of a gap with my gf and nobody says anything cause there’s respect and balance. Nobody cares if you got that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:01 PM
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That the point tho. If you don’t clarify early on this kind of thing can and did happen. If people don’t wanna admit that then that’s fine, it’s just the reality of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:56 PM
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I’m guessing you haven’t had a lot of sexual partners. That or you only date in religious circles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:11 AM
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I’m glad you got proof to back up what you’re saying since it’s “fact”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:34 AM
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Whatever ya wanna think man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:02 AM
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If she’s banging him first date it’s highly likely she’s doing the same with at least some of the other dudes. The part about her fucking other dudes continually is part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:37 AM
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She slept with him on the first date, I don’t understand why he thought she wasn’t doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:28 AM
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I’m not a 7.5 and I did fine on the apps. Yeah they are probably the shittiest of men’s options but it isn’t for sure shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:42 PM
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I swear y’all just wanna find reasons to be petty at each other instead of just using the advantages you got. Dating isn’t that goddamn hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:28 PM
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I would never bother being with someone who wants an open relationship. I honestly barely consider them as actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:14 AM
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Some of y’all who are like this really should never have relationships or breed. Like ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:51 AM
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Cause most of the men who object to women who sleep around are talking about dating. At least from what I’ve seen on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:02 PM
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I think I got laid while I was still here but I got tired of all the same stuff being said over and over. And I kinda realized that this place is cancer if you’re here all the time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:17 AM
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I mean that’s part of being a dude. Dealing with rejection is normal tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:08 AM
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Honestly I was on here a long time ago and I still went out so I don’t get their issue. Outside is where the women are 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:52 AM
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Dudes gotta get out and just get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:37 AM
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It’d solve so many problems here if people were more honest. All the dudes I know irl just go “sluts are nasty” and move on. Dudes here gotta have a who’s 10 page report 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:30 AM
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Older fathers are more likely to have children with autism, older women increase the chance of Down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:29 AM
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I mean most people in open relationships are gonna end up breaking up anyway so there’s no real reason to open it up. Most dudes I know who “agreed” basically stayed to fuck while looking for a long term gf and then jumped ship once that was secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:25 AM
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What I don’t get is the argument about being safe. We know these dudes don’t like it cause they think it’s gross, why do they need statistics to justify it? Just don’t date chicks who slept around instead of posting on here about not doing it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:20 AM
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Haha I wasn’t when I first came to ppd, but not being here often helps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:59 PM
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Yeah I find it reasonable. Some people have told me I should be fine with people at like 30-40 since I’ve been “with a shit ton” and I’m like naw, wish those people well though. You can say no to people and not be a dick but apparently that’s lost on a lot of people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:29 PM
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Well I’m at 15 so as long as it’s around that I’m fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:21 PM
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For real tho, I’m glad some people on here are reasonable. I know I used to be way too hung up on this and it causes men nothing but grief
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:37 PM
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Stop being so reasonable, you’re on ppd /s XD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:32 PM
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I remember being on here a lot like 3-4 years ago. Good to see things never change 😂. For real though I used to care more about this back in the day but honestly it’s not really that important now. Sure there’s limits but too many of y’all want virgins and that ain’t common nowadays 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:20 PM
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Gettin real cuck vibes from this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:09 PM
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Never had to dumpster dive and usually punched up but from what I’ve seen dudes who get inflated egos from this are usually not secure in themselves in the first place and it spirals from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:36 AM
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Just don’t date that kinda person. Why do so many people here gotta worry about it when you can just leave them damn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:33 AM
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My gf was a virgin when we got together and I didn’t think it was a big deal. I just wanted someone who didn’t sleep with 20+ people or did threesomes. People on here are weird and aren’t a great representation of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:53 AM
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I have like n 15 and I’ve gotten looks from chicks when I told the truth. Most people around me don’t really trust people with n counts of 10 or higher tho. Honestly even someone with my number trusts someone with higher numbers less than someone with a lower number, man or woman for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:05 PM
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Tbf it sounds like the problem is hers. And tbf it’s a dude larping and posting on a ton of different subs to rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:46 PM
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For telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:54 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:29 AM
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It’s literally a dude who’s been posting on every sub they can to rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:25 PM
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Husband? In every other post you made it was a bf. Guess it’s hard to keep up the lies 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:55 AM
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You too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:22 AM
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I’m fine, you seem triggered tho. Just cause most men don’t want to use them doesn’t mean you need to be triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:19 AM
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I’m fine with my dick but you’re funny. If dudes wanna use sleeves that’s fine but I’m telling you 99% of dudes would just find a new gf/wife than embarrass themselves by using one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:06 AM
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I’m open to try new things, I’m not gonna embarrass myself using one. And a few people buying them isn’t most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:50 AM
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I promise you in 30 years most men will still leave chicks who ask to use them. Edit: Did you delete your comments when you realized how ridiculous they sounded?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:39 AM
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I don’t know how small your dick is to be into them but I’ve never heard a man ever say he’d use one. Also a vibrator isn’t a sleeve and they ain’t comparable. Like maybe if the dude is rocking 2-4 inches they’d be into it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:30 AM
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Let’s be real you have a better chance of curing cancer than getting most dudes to use a sleeve
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:27 AM
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I don’t see a reason to help a dude larping as a woman on this. And if you actually think any normal dude would wear a sleeve I got an invisible bridge to sell you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:26 AM
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Your larp is getting sadder and sadder man. Pack it up and go get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:20 AM
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Don’t worry I saw them post on another sub and they did the same shit. Probably some dude who’s blackpill, larping to stir stuff up cause they have no life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:19 AM
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I wouldn’t bother responding it’s a dude larping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:10 AM
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And the larp continues. I didn’t expect to see you on here but it makes sense considering you’re probably a dude larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:05 AM
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If you like hooking up then hook up with people. You might miss out on a good relationship and be stuck with shittier partners later tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:56 PM
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Always more people out there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:36 AM
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I’d say like over 10-15. Once it gets past that I don’t think I’d care where the relationship is going so it wouldn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:45 PM
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Once you leave I don’t give second chances. I don’t see a reason to go back if you have any options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:30 PM
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Your autism is showing my man. It can suck at times trying to a read a chick but most of the time it ain’t that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:19 PM
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Bold of you to assume that men need women more than they need us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:24 AM
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Like it’s ok to kinda detach at times to preserve the ego but doing it all the time is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:31 AM
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Yeah we used to kill those people in the tribe cause psychos are bad for society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:29 AM
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Detaching yourself from your actions kinda makes you a psycho. Oh and an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:39 AM
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I mean it’s true. Also it ain’t jealousy it’s just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:20 PM
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Polygyny is for losers, people who can’t have partners stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:38 AM
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Man this reads like incel nonsense. Some women are retarded and date those dudes, what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:15 PM
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No shit move on. Women or men who do this are just trying to shut down your argument cause they ain’t shit and are mad someone rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah I mean that’s what I did. Oh her n count is not my thing, onto the next chick. Don’t gotta be rude about it, just move on and be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:40 AM
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No. I had mine and honestly it probably hurt me more than it benefited me. But if people wanna have one go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:52 AM
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Right? Like if you wanna slut around do it. It’s not like people have to date them but I guess we ain’t adults now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:50 AM
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Just date around till you find one you like. Whenever I found someone I didn’t like I just stopped talking to them and found someone better for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:46 AM
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As a dude I say fuck no. Never go back, only go forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:01 PM
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Cause I think it fucks with someone’s ability to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:30 PM
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I mean I kinda am?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:18 PM
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I’d rather my daughter not marry a hoe like me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:56 AM
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Yeah FDS is retarded like TRP is. I don’t expect them to understand what a healthy relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:52 PM
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I mean just be open and honest about what you want and what you’ve done. Do that and it makes life way easier for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:50 PM
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Yeah I don’t but into pill stuff. As for trust yeah I didn’t either but I found a gf that works with me so it worked out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:49 PM
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Eh I just don’t trust them. They’re probably fine to date but I ain’t gonna do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:19 PM
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I mean if people are gonna lie you might as well use what you can 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:09 PM
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I’m saying you could find a chick that has like 1-2 partners and is cool with you having idk say 20
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:22 PM
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I mean if you can find a chick who’s fine with that then it is what it is, but it’s a lot harder. I’ve had to stop talking to chicks cause I found out but usually I’m nice enough to just tell them we ain’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:18 PM
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I mean how much of a history does she have and how much do you have? For me it’s fine if it’s equal or less; that’s what I see most dudes irl look for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:11 PM
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Most times chicks are honest if you’re cool and not spazzing about it. Find out that way and then make a decision if you’re gonna date her or not. Worked for me and honestly I sucked at dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:07 PM
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That’s the most reasonable comment so far 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:05 PM
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I’m sensing a lot of bitterness from both sides in this debate. Just date people who have similar numbers and leave it at that if you’re having this much trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:15 PM
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Why are we not having sex instead of you fucking a robot? At that point I know the relationship is dead and I’d move onto another chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:11 PM
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I’ve seen people of Reddit argue it’s bad but I also have this sneaking suspicion they got pump n dumped for a younger woman and are kinda bitter about it. Cause most people irl don’t care unless it’s like 30+ and early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:51 PM
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It’s the mentally ill I think. They are all around ppd lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:45 AM
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That’s what I think too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:50 PM
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I mean I guess if it meant losing the kids I might stay married. At that point idc what she does as I’ll find someone to date on the side. She can go fuck who she wants as long as I don’t have to sleep with her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:43 AM
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I guess get a divorce and find a new wife? At the very least divorce and get away from that chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:30 AM
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Yikes I hope he ran. And honestly that’s why I don’t like chicks with huge n counts. If you gotta lie to get a husband you know you did something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:23 AM
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Well I found a few who don’t dead bedroom and they ain’t hoes so that’s good. Besides the articles shared here about divorce rape always pick and choose shit. Naw it ain’t all bad otherwise you wouldn’t have married your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:13 AM
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Uh it’s normal to still wanna marry, ppd is just weird. Also I’ve had chicks pay for my meal before so I guess they suck at choosing chicks. I agree you shouldn’t marry a hoe in 2022 tho 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:08 AM
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Again never seen or heard of that irl. And yeah she puts out. Great then she’s a hoe and you can’t marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:51 AM
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I’ve never had that happen so I guess pick for less shit people. Also if she fucks you fast she probably fucks everyone fast and what good is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:45 AM
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Simp? I didn’t realize liking someone counted as simping
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:40 AM
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Y’all really can’t think normal dating is that hard so you? It’s not great but y’all make it sound like normal dating is hell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:34 AM
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Most people don’t like dealing with poly so I can’t imagine most would go for it. It’s more a Reddit thing for people who couldn’t pull normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:21 PM
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Causal sex was fine but not really rewarding after awhile. No matter how I tried my disgust for chicks fucking tons of men never went away and the few times I caught feelings for them I pushed them down so I didn’t make the mistake of dating them. Overall I’d rather have just met my gf earlier and skipped all the drama from casual. I really enjoy being with my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:22 PM
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Eh was fit HS sport player who had shit self esteem and then got fat. Didn’t think anyone wanted me so I didn’t bother till I was 26. Nothing crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:52 AM
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I’m a dude and I lost it at 26
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:32 PM
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I mean I don’t think any of those ideas have any merit personally, it’s just what I’ve heard. Personally I wouldn’t date someone who’s been with a certain amount of partners but I don’t see a need to be rude about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:03 AM
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For some it’s not wanting to be not her best and others just think it’s gross. For here I’d say it’s more the former and irl it’s the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah I don’t get the anger here. I’ve had the chance to date some women with high n counts and I just let them down softly. No need to be a dick about it but you don’t to date those women 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:56 PM
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I don’t get what the issue is. If you don’t sleep around don’t commit to people who do. Date around till you find your match and if you find out they lied just dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:46 AM
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I can’t imagine catching feelings for someone from a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:44 AM
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I mean I think they’re incompatible and shouldn’t have ever dated. Both would do better with partners more similar to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:33 AM
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I mean that’s valid but that’s not a good match for him. He should be with someone more like himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:32 AM
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I mean I think those dudes should just date chicks who were in a similar situation. Better for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:32 AM
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Oh I was talking for the dude more than the chick, I don’t think she did anything wrong. He will resent her and she’ll be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:31 AM
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If he was chad he wouldn’t be worrying about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:34 AM
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Like I’ve said in other parts of this post, dude shouldn’t have dated someone like her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:09 AM
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Exactly. Dude shouldn’t have dated her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:20 AM
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Well yeah that’s the issue with that dude. He was a nerdy studying dude. She was hot and with athletes. A terrible mix honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:44 AM
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Why would I even bother with a woman like that when I’ve never had that issue before and I can just find a better person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:13 AM
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Basically said that he was mad she dated an athlete and he got the worse years now that she’s heavier. AFBB is what people here would say I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:59 AM
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I mean I don’t believe it society that makes me feel this way. I really just don’t trust people who’ve slept around from previous experiences. It’s not much deeper than that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:01 AM
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Eh I just think it’s my disgust at it all. Which is whatever cause some women feel the same as I do about people who sleep around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:55 AM
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Why do you say that? I just don’t wanna date someone who’s been with like 30 people. We don’t see sex as the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:46 AM
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Yeah exactly. Some people don’t wanna date promiscuous people and that’s fine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:42 AM
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I mean not really. He was feeling insecure and decided to be a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:41 AM
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I mean it’s not really an issue cause I just dare women like myself and it worked. Plus I find promiscuity as gross but hey let people live their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:41 AM
4

Tbf past dating/sexual practices are a good indicator if the relationship will work. Should it be the only thing? Probably not but hey rejection happens all the time, people just need to get over it and find a new partner who likes them the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:08 AM
5

I mean some of us just don’t wanna date those people. Doesn’t mean you need to shame them but you know they ain’t for certain people. Everyone will be happier with their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:06 AM
9

“I feel like you settled for me by dating jocks when you were younger and now you changed and want to date dudes with money” instead of “your youth got wasted on jocks and now I get the leavings”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:01 AM
9

Yeah and those dudes still won’t get over how they felt. Once it’s built in it ain’t going away. Just date someone not like that and it’s all good anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:26 PM
16

That rarely helps from what I’ve seen. They still don’t want the chicks who’s tastes changed and then they feel settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:14 PM
33

Dudes who couldn’t pull chicks like that and then get with them later never are happy. They feel like they’re being settled for. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:45 PM
28

I don’t think he will ever stop feeling that. Probably shouldn’t date someone who used to be with athletes if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:21 PM
44

The dude was rude af for saying what he said. Now is he right in not wanting to feel settled for? Sure. That being said the comment was unnecessary and is probably gonna be the end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:54 PM
1

I mean it’s pretty easy to cum as a dude. Plus it feels good to make your partner feel good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:52 AM
1

I’ve never had an issue but I always communicate with my partner. If it takes a long time I might just get her off and then I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:33 AM
1

I mean they all are happy with gfs/bfs now so it all worked out. They just didn’t take them seriously as ltr material
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:51 PM
1

They don’t seem to take them seriously for dating is what I’ve heard. Different strokes for different folks I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:44 PM
1

Maybe? A lot of people I know don’t consider hookups as actual dating and only do it for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:30 PM
1

I find that interesting. I’ve met a lot of people who separate the two into two groups, one you hook up with and one you date seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:28 PM
1

I mean different strokes for different folks. Some of us care cause it tells us something about the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:03 AM
2

Fair enough since you got kids and a family. I see it as a way to know if people are compatible so I ask and depending on the answer I break up or stay. I find people who can’t/won’t talk about their past as a bit of a red flag imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:18 PM
1

If he asked you do you think you’d be truthful or lie to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:50 PM
1

I mean I started really late and only got to 10 but I wouldn’t care what her n count was as long as it’s equal to mine or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:05 PM
0

Because they need attention so badly they will do anything to please men. No good comes from giving those women commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:00 PM
1

Not if you’re chadly enough yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:00 PM
2

Because she’s the kinda chick to put out for anyone to get attention and will probably cheat cause she needs attention so badly. Having a gf/wife who’s somewhat disagreeable prevents that and makes for a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:40 PM
25

That’s why no sane dude marries that chick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:32 AM
3

If she wants to fuck anyone else she’s good for sex and not much else. I don’t care if I get to watch or join, I ain’t sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:50 AM
2

Why would I waste time with a relationship if I had to share my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:42 AM
6

He doesn’t have to date her, he can tell her to just fuck off. If he’s smart he won’t bother talking to her. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:51 AM
2

This is some of the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:46 PM
17

Why would I bother with her? There’s billions of women and I don’t need to embarrass myself by going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:37 AM
1

Yeah yeah hamster this, silly reasons that. If you got options this is a non issue. If you wanna be second best by all means go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:09 PM
1

Or I could just find someone else? I don’t see a reason to bother with that person. Why waste time when you can find someone else if you have options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:01 PM
2

If they rejected you screw them. They chose no and that’s all the way get from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:39 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:38 AM
1

Nobody wants to feel settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:37 AM
1

Smart of you to not commit to her. That’d be a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:50 AM
14

If you’re the fallback option just find someone else. There’s no reason to stay with them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:56 AM
24

Porn seems to fuck people up and give them weird fantasies so I’d prefer her not to. That being said I’ve also pretty much given up porn so I’d like someone to match my energy. Besides if we are having sex enough we shouldn’t need it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:43 PM
5

Right? How fuckin lazy are you to not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:08 PM
1

If she needs it to cum then she’s probably not compatible with me and that’s fine. I wish her luck with the next dude and I can find someone where I can use my fingers or tongue instead. I’ve never had that issue but honestly I’d rather just find a partner who doesn’t need them. If she wants to masturbate with them alone then that’s fine but it shouldn’t be needed every time we have sex or something is probably wrong with me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:59 AM
33

If you’re fuckin on the regular you don’t need porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:14 AM
2

If she needs toys to cum with you you’re probably not a good match. Just find someone else who doesn’t need them to cum and you’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:18 AM
1

The women I try to date bring it up and I expect the same but I’m trying for marriage one day so it important to know if we will be compatible. I don’t believe in shaming someone for their choices as long as it didn’t hurt anyone but people do best when in relationships when they’re on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:11 PM
3

I mean that’s her issue if she feels like a slut for him asking a basic question. It’s sad her insecurity broke the relationship but hopefully they’ll both find new partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:09 PM
1

Yeah cause you’re being an adult rn. Some people are different and don’t wanna be with people who’ve been with tons of people. Sorry you get excluded cause you don’t have self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:18 PM
1

I mean if you can’t keep track something is wrong with you. And please spare me the “what adults do”talk. People who have no self control do that not adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:32 PM
1

I couldn’t know but I’d hope they’d be honest. If they’re not honest and I find out I drop them. They’re not trustworthy and are pos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:01 AM
1

Probably. I mean I ask to know if we’d be compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:24 AM
1

No person with 100 bodies would be a good match with anyone outside of another person with just as many. Besides it’s not like most women want manwhores either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:57 AM
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Sexual history tells you who they are as a person and if they would be a good match for someone. Also if they’re the village bike dudes wouldn’t wanna be with them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:19 PM
2

No man wants to stay with a woman where some other dude is better than him in bed. Hopefully he broke up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:15 PM
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Naw he should break up with her and find a better gf. No reason to waste time on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:13 PM
1

Oh it was hottest? I mean yeah that factors in but it’s probably not the biggest part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:50 AM
2

Eh I just see it as wanting to be the best partner for your partner. People cheat and leave all the time so you don’t wanna waste time on someone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:36 AM
2

Eh it’s more common than we let on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:12 PM
2

Sex is important if he’s just a hook up. If he was a bf then maybe you could coach him? Not all dudes are against advice if you word it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:45 AM
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Yeah it’s not always that tho, that’s just how people perceive it. Also people who sleep around have issues with monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:32 PM
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I mean some people feel actual disgust and it’s not one or both of the reasons you give there. Also even if it was either of those doesn’t that mean that they’re better off with someone who doesn’t elicit those feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:51 PM
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No the chick who fucked a lot of people. She’s more likely to cheat or get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:37 AM
1

Yeah I’d say that’s worse honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:02 PM
5

I figure she’s less fucked up than the one who fucked 20-30 dudes in that time frame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:10 AM
8

I’d say being n 20 would be more a red flag than having long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:04 AM
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They could have just been more into actual dating then fucking around. Strange as it may seem some people are built to be sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:02 AM
3

Why would they? Like for real what benefit would it give them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:22 AM
4

Why would they give them the time of day? They don’t want someone easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:27 PM
8

Lol no. People are adverse to marrying the person who seems like they either have no self control or it’s like giving someone a hand shake. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:11 PM
2

Still, nobody cares about virgins. They just don’t wanna marry the chick/dude who can’t keep it in their pants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:05 PM
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The fact you used a Christian source is already showing the bias. Also most people don’t care about virgins, they just don’t want a hoe. There, I solved your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:47 PM
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Valid. For women it’s not really an issue but for men it is. That being said I don’t think those women shouldn’t find a SO, they should just be with dudes who also slept around a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:48 PM
1

I mean yeah the n 7 is the better choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:46 PM
1

Eh I mean I’ve seen enough women cheat that I can see the threat. I’ve never seen a marriage where the dude has a lot less n count work out. Tbf it’s people I know irl so it could be a sampling bias
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:40 PM
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Yeah I’m not blind to it being ego but I figure that’s everyone and everyone has something that their ego won’t allow them to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:36 PM
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Guess so. Honestly I don’t really care cause I’m never happy when I’m with women like that. I do wish them the best tho in finding a partner that’s right for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:40 PM
1

Yup. I have no idea why 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:29 AM
1

I mean I’m at 10 so as long as its within 5 of mine I’d be fine. I don’t need her to be a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:24 AM
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I mean I don’t really want a virgin I just want it around mine. And her being that experienced (20+) will just remind me that sex will never be special with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:23 AM
1

Yeah that’s how I feel about B. It’d be a terrible mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:34 AM
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I mean I’m actually joking I’d never wanna cheat on someone. But if I married B by accident like she lied about her n count I’d probably break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:34 AM
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Interesting. I’d figure it’s marry B and then cheat on her with A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah I mean most men don’t believe this cause of life experiences. Doesn’t mean they’re bad as much as not compatible with ltr. Well maybe if the other person is also running through people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:00 AM
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I mean if she’s around my n count I don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:34 AM
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Not really caring about what my friends think as much as I feel like you’re a loser if you’ve slept with way less people than they have. Doesn’t help they need variety
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:10 AM
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Just don’t wanna be the loser who wife’s the high n chick up. Not much to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:36 AM
1

How many people you’ve done sexual stuff with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:09 PM
2

Oh I’d totally understand if she didn’t want to be with me. I don’t see it as a gender issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:16 PM
2

I wouldn’t purity I’d say compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:19 PM
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You can only control your actions and actions have consequences. Besides if they smashed a lot of dudes they obviously have a lot of dudes to pick from so own dude saying no shouldn’t be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:07 PM
2

Oh well that’s dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:16 PM
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I mean I just see it as an incompatibility issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:33 AM
2

It wasn’t a happy moment but I felt like I had no real choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:05 AM
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Well I was at 5 and she was at like 25 so some of it was comparison. I also know when chicks with high n counts date dudes with lower ones they either get cheat on they get bored so I didn’t wanna waste both our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:43 AM
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The sex didn’t feel special, any feelings I had kinda evaporated, and honestly just being around her was a bummer. I didn’t wanna make her feel bad so I I just broke it off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:26 AM
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I mean I wouldn’t say it’s the most important thing, but if I wanna feel comfortable in a relationship I’d want someone around my body count. Seems fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:07 AM
9

For sure I would have. Unfortunately had to end it. Edit: again why are y’all down voting my answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:56 AM
9

I decided to try dating someone who had a much higher n count and I ended up feeling like shit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:53 AM
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I compromised on n count and got burned. Never again Edit: Don’t know why I’m getting down voted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:15 AM
3

You know you can just ignore those women right? They have their place and yours is not to give them commitment. Why try to make them feel bad or whatever, just don’t date them cause you can never commit/love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:11 AM
1

No man would settle for that. Imagine being the loser who’s wife said she loved him and that the sex not being the best was ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:57 AM
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Imagine being the dude who has to deal with that. Not worth being with them honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:54 AM
1

Agreed. Lots of people try to date multi daters and it ends badly cause the person isn’t really serious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:11 PM
1

I’m not but yeah I don’t take them seriously. It’s like ok next and then you find someone else who takes dating seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:32 PM
1

Yeah but if you’re not dating and she’s fucking other dudes why does she get past pump n dump? And I don’t even like that but that’s kinda what you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:31 PM
1

Oh that’s reasonable. I just see people here talk about multi dating and it’s hard to take them serious for long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:06 PM
1

That’s an interesting take. It seems more likely that the person who multi dates had issues with commitment or isn’t really seriously dating. That being said expecting bf lvl of commitment early is silly but then dating/fucking other people seems like they really aren’t dating you as much as using you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:51 PM
2

That’s an interesting take. I see people multi dating as people who either have ADHD or someone who has issues with commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:48 PM
1

Also some men care, some dont. It’s not something most men wanna know about their woman getting dp or having been run through
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:21 PM
2

If a woman thinks putting out is gonna get her a relationship she’s in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:15 PM
1

Well said. It seems like some people feel entitled to a relationship because they’re “nice” and it’s like no, people have deal breakers. Just cause you don’t like them doesn’t make them less valid that your bs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:08 PM
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I mean it sounds like you found someone who views sex the same way as you and that’s great. That being said expecting a man to stay with a chick who lied about it and her number is like 20-30 is unrealistic and that person should go be with someone else. Expecting the person with the lower count to be with them cause “love” is stupid. Why do they have to suffer for your choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:41 PM
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Expecting people who multi date to have any sense of exclusivity was your first mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:32 PM
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I guess as a woman it’s not something you can understand and that’s fine, men don’t get a lot of stuff that bothers women too. All im saying is staying with them is a waste of time and honestly they don’t respect you if they lie. Why would you bother being with someone like that? You can always replace them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:26 PM
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I mean considering how many relationships I’ve seen implode cause the dude found out she lied about that, yeah I’m a little concerned. People are dumb and lie, thinking the other person will actually love them based on a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:10 PM
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Who did distressed about life? I said find a better match for a SO. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:01 PM
1

I don’t see why you have an issue with this. If you wanna be with someone who lies all the time and doesn’t actually respect/love you go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:58 PM
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Obviously. That’s why I’m saying if you find out dumping them is the best policy cause you don’t need that in your life. Start having abundance mentality and you won’t be stuck with a loser who has to lie to you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:56 PM
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I’ve never lied about my past as I don’t see a need to. How is it hard to be honest with someone you “love”?. Why are you trying to punish someone you apparently love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:52 PM
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I think you misunderstand the incompatibility of some men and women with sleeping with someone early. To some sex mean nothing and then bonding experience is from something else, to others the sex is important and having it early is a sign that it won’t work out. It’s just an incompatibility of people and they shouldn’t get together with people from the other group, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:35 PM
2

Again, sounds like a personal issue. Also if the person who lied (man or woman) is stupid enough to be with someone who is disgusted with their choices then they deserve to be sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:28 PM
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Anyone who lies is a loser and deserves to be alone. It’s not the other persons job to love a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:27 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:23 PM
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Yeah this isn’t gonna make men change how they feel about hoes. Why don’t those women just stick with the men they’re hoes for and everyone is happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:41 AM
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Cool? They’re shitty people for it and the people who are with them will think less of them when they find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:39 AM
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Idk like n count, financial history, she’s ruder to propel then she pretended to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:12 PM
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Why some women will lie about something you don’t like and think that if they keep the lie up it will all go ok. Like why would you want to be with someone who actively despises what you are/used to be???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:36 PM
3

People getting mad at others for multi dating when they can just find out and next the person instead. Just throw them to the curb and find someone more serious about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:30 AM
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Yeah having fwb or fucking people on the side shows you’re not serious about the person you’re seeing. And to the part about them not easily changing behaviors I agree. People always say they are different when they’re with someone compared to being single but how realistic is that? Honestly not really believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:14 PM
1

Do you have to marry either? It sounds like #2 is there better option you just can’t marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:10 PM
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Oh I have no doubt that you can commit and be happy in relationships, I just think it’s usually ends badly for both parties by mixing the groups. Group C will get bored though cause they need variety and Group A won’t be enough for them so it’ll end eventually. Hence why they should stick to group C. And to your first point, I would say I’d want to know how many people you’ve been with. Over a certain point the two groups would not be a good long term match.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:43 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:55 PM
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I mean yeah if he proposes that many times and gets rejected something is wrong. If she was trying to get relationships with sex and failed that many times then something is wrong with her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:32 PM
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This seems like a round about way to say you find hoes gross. Just say that cause we all know that’s what it means when you make posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:27 PM
1

I mean I’m happy with the partner I have now. I don’t really wanna have tons of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:02 PM
1

I’m not those men? Also it’s not hard to enjoy sex while also not being a total hoe. But to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:38 PM
1

You’d actually trust those people? Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:31 PM
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Well that’s good that it works for you. I’ve found people who try and hide their pasts are usually not people to trust for relationships tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:22 PM
1

Which is fair. I’ve seen a few people here say they’d date group A when they’re group B/C and it’s like why would you punish everyone 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:21 PM
1

Yeah you sound like a nice person and reasonable. I think men are just built to not want women who sleep around so maybe that’s why they’re more in group A.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:20 PM
1

Eh nobody wants the village bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:17 PM
2

Most people who don’t want a partner who slept around a lot probably deserve to know. If you believe in consent, then knowing who you’re actually dating is more fair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:02 PM
1

Group C would be better served by sticking to their group. Most Group A types won’t take you seriously and the difference of opinion on ltrs means you’ll eventually break up anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:00 PM
1

While not a lie it seems like Group C would be better off being honest and sticking to Group C
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:54 PM
1

That seems fair as long as you stay in Group C
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:52 PM
2

Hopefully they don’t mix with Group A as that’s a bad match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:50 PM
1

Better to be alone than to have to accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:17 AM
1

Maybe? Idk Gen X seems like a dumpster fire for dating like millennials are too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:27 PM
3

Talking to Gen X or Boomers about dating is usually a waste of time because of how much dating has changed. They won’t understand modern dating as they dated like 20+ yrs ago and stuff has changed a lot. The boomers seemed to be more about courting tho and Gen X kinda just muddled though it it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:41 PM
2

N count posts really are the Ouroboros of PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:41 PM
1

Find a way to separate the groups into smaller ones to avoid incompatibility. People with higher sociosexuality in one corner, lower in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:16 PM
3

I mean how he finds out is irrelevant, he loses interest either way. The guy has decided it’s a waste of time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:00 AM
1

Eh it matters to some people. I don’t see why it’s a big issue to not just tell them and if they act like a dick just next them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:49 AM
4

Yeah I think if you don’t have a lot of options the dude is more likely to just give in even if it’s def not what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:40 AM
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They don’t wanna have a power imbalance in the relationship. They know it’s a house built on sand so they don’t wanna try. It’s not really crazy to see why a dude with less experience wouldn’t want to date a woman with way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:57 AM
3

I’m sorry but yes is does. I’ve been with 8 people and that’s already a lot. People at 20+ are a different level. Let them date other people at 20+ like where they belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:43 PM
2

I’m sorry but that high a number is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:17 AM
1

I don’t think the issue is them being a slut for them, it’s that she did it for everyone. And dudes don’t want that but it’s unrealistic to assume she wouldn’t be for every dude before him so he gets mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:11 PM
2

I mean I get not wanting to be compared. Fuck someone who hasn’t fucked a ton of people and you don’t have to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:13 AM
2

I mean as long as you don’t have to be with them why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:18 AM
11

How about you save yourself a lot of issues and just date someone in your “range”? Why is this an issue when you can just avoid the high or low n people?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:49 AM
1

Yeah so either find a hoe who doesn’t care or accept it. He loves you, why do you have to ruin that? And how is it worse if he loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:35 AM
0

Your bf is a man. Men are dumb and you should know this by now. Also voice that it makes you uncomfortable cause you’re an adult. Ok you got shit luck or you didn’t read the red flags cause it was your first relationship. Sorry it turned out that way but a lot of dudes won’t cheat on you. Voice how you feel. Reasonable people can solve these simple issues if you just talk. Yeah women also didn’t have to worry about kids being theirs thousands of years ago, no man wants to raise another dudes kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:19 AM
-1

Looks matter in so far that we wanna fuck you. If you meet the threshold you’re good and no we don’t care that much. You being a chill person is way more important than looks. No, stop projecting your fear of cheating on us because you have issues with trust. I understand, I also struggle with trust and it took me a long time to realize that it was mostly me that was the issue. Hot women are hot. You’re supposed to look but not touch. Hell if someone is good looking you notice it. Some men are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:53 AM
2

That’s fair. I’m low n and trying to find someone who feels the same way about sex, so I do. But hey o understand why you’d feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:08 AM
-1

Some people value sex differently 🤷‍♂️. If they shame you for your number I get getting mad tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:54 PM
1

Man you fuck some bad dudes if that’s how you think about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:47 PM
3

I mean that’s fair it it works for you. I also don’t see people who do a ton of casual sex as someone I’d wanna date so it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:13 AM
3

I find it weird that people would consider fwb or hookups as someone to date. To me they’re to have sex with and not commit to, not someone that I’d want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:04 AM
1

Ah well if it works out in that regard that’s good. I also applaud you for honesty, it seems to be more rare nowadays. But I will say I’ve never seen a low n dude and a high n dude last more than 4-5 yrs at most so I wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:24 PM
1

Im don’t mean to be a dick but maybe you should stay away from those dudes for their sakes. You don’t sound like you’d be a good gf for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:18 PM
0

Oof now I feel bad for those dudes looking for a relationship. But yeah there’s a reason people who last usually stick to their field. Good luck in finding your unicorn tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:13 PM
0

I mean I won’t say there’s no chance dating will work between those two groups, I just don’t think you’ll find lasting happiness that way. Low n count dudes don’t work most of the time with high n women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:08 PM
1

You don’t think you’d be better off with someone who feels the same about sex as you do? Shouldn’t the virgins get with the virgins so it works out in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:01 PM
1

That’s the most retarded concept I’ve ever heard. Anyone who cheats to stay in a marriage is making an excuse to cheat cause they are too lazy to break it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:29 AM
4

Yeah they can change, but why can’t they date high n dudes? Everyone is happier in the end if they did. They have a group that will date them, they should stick to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:56 AM
1

Not religious and the more conservative ones are already with bfs. I don’t try to date anymore so it doesn’t affect me. I just think people are trying to make relationships work that we’re not meant to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:26 PM
1

Didn’t have sex till 26
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:14 PM
1

Ah well guess I’m alone in this, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:12 PM
1

Oh that’s good to know. Was kinda afraid everyone was sleeping around and there’s no normalish people left. That’s why I say people who slept around are best for other people who slept around , and it’s only bad when they intrude to the field where people who don’t sleep around date in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:58 PM
1

Ah well that’s good to know. I don’t think it’d work out for me like that but that’s cool you had a nice relationship. I’ve noticed it’s women who can get over it easier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:42 PM
1

Haha thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:03 AM
1

Oh well I’m glad for you 😊. For me I can’t ever get past that so it’s find someone who is like me or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:01 AM
1

Huh weird, I could never see myself falling in love with someone who viewed sex as your boyfriend does. But I’m glad you found someone you care about. To me if she’s been with that many dudes I’d rather not just be another notch in her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:53 AM
1

Oh I believe they should have the right to choose, I just think for a better shot at happiness they should date people of equal experience. Like let’s be real me being at 4 isn’t a good match for someone at 15. We would both be happier with people of closer experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:41 AM
3

Yeah people would be happier if they stuck to the same range. With a shared experience lvl everyone is comfortable and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:37 AM
0

Eh like I said different strokes for different folks. As long as people who slept around date others who slept around it should be all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:27 AM
1

I can see that. I assume it’s based on where you grow up. More people care about it where I live but we are probably just less promiscuous. We might see sex as more of a special thing but it’s not a big deal. Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:22 AM
0

Even if they do, they’re smart enough to keep their mouth shut. Unless you wanna break up with her you might as well lie so it’s easier to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:13 AM
1

ONS are not in the same box as relationship women, you don’t mix the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:11 PM
1

Explain what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:39 AM
2

Oh no problem, just confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:38 AM
1

Eh fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:22 PM
1

Ah well I don’t think that makes us loseres, we just value sex differently
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:21 PM
1

I mean if that makes me a loser for not wanting to be with them then that’s fine. I don’t think they’re bad people, I’m just realistic with how it will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:19 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:18 PM
1

Ah. I mean let’s be real tho. We all know everyone would be happier if they dated other hoes/ex hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:17 PM
1

Why would you care? Go be a hoe as well so the other hoes have someone to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:15 PM
7

Honesty is the best answer. You say it’s not his business but if you’re gonna build a life together then yeah, it is his business.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:50 PM
1

I mean I do ok. I haven’t had any issues before but I also ask before if they have any particulars that they like, moves or positions. I also do a lot of foreplay so that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:45 PM
2

I’m uh...I’m a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:22 PM
3

I me a I’m at 4, and im 27. To each their own but goddamn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:39 AM
5

I’m sorry to hear that man. I went the other way with my feelings on sex so it seems foreign to me. If I get to 10 I’m done. But honestly I hope you get some help man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:39 AM
13

Never dated. Almost did but found out she slept around. Edit:Lol someone mad I made a personal choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:22 AM
6

Jesus Christ 80+? Damn I’m at 4 and I can’t imagine ever being at 10+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:12 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:58 AM
17

Never dated but if I did and she lied about her n count it’d be a breakup. Pretty easy at that point. As to what she can do? Don’t sleep around, that way it won’t affect you. Or do it, and don’t date dudes who care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:43 AM
1

Not the response I thought you’d give. You at least understand where I’m coming from right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:28 AM
1

I’m not sure what this means?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:03 AM
0

Yeah and they should stick to that crowd. I don’t care that they do it, I want them to not bother us when they get tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:51 AM
1

I mean if you only care about hooking up then yeah you’re not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:12 AM
7

I mean men should do that but come on that’s a weak reason. That sounds like she doesn’t want to suffer the consequences of her actions. And no it’s not better that way even if he’s ignorant cause she’s a cheater and their character is that of a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:09 AM
0

Why can’t people stick to their zone. Why you trying to make things harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:01 AM
2

I try not to shame but the fact they lie about it is getting old. They made life choices and they need to live with them. That being said I hope they do find love someday, just with other people who slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:07 AM
3

Yeah this is right. It sucks cause those who sleep around try to intrude into the non promiscuous peoples dating pool. Sure you can date them but honestly if you sleep around you know who you should be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:56 AM
-6

I mean the assumption is everyone is hooking up nowadays cause they are. I will agree it’s a weird premiss the op started though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:55 AM
1

Also why do you think he’s losing? It’s not like there isn’t more compatible women out there. This was him being stupid and not outlining his boundaries yes but he isn’t losing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:56 PM
2

I mean they have incompatible ideas of dating, it seems like they both got a W from it. I’m not saying she should be hated on so harshly, I’m saying a lot of men wouldn’t look favorably at a woman for doing this. Hell nobody should.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:37 PM
2

I mean they were incompatible, i wouldn’t call it throwing it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:18 PM
3

Considering most people can’t keep it in their pants when they are looking for exclusivity, maybe? If she pulls the whole “sleep with a dude super fast cause I don’t see a future” thing, then no I don’t wanna be the sucker in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:59 PM
2

Yeah you seem like a reasonable person. We both agree it shouldn’t happen to either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:18 AM
4

I mean any of those isn’t something you should hide. If you can’t live with the consequences of your actions don’t punish others for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:12 AM
3

Ok then yeah we agree. Honestly I just find it strange anyone would think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:00 AM
3

How is it fair to the dude for her to hide this kinda stuff? Like I don’t know any dude who wants to date seriously who would consider dating a woman who did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:50 AM
3

I guess so. Either way they’ll try to justify it when they can just take the L and find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:47 AM
2

I mean that’s unfortunate but it’s not fair to the dude. Why would he think she’s ever going to be serious if he finds out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:45 AM
12

Yeah cause it’s complete crap and women will never understand. It’s like how men won’t get women who are disgusted by men who are bisexual. Bisexuals gross women out and chicks who do this gross us out. Easy enough to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:01 AM
1

Sounds like a shitty dude. She’s better off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:23 PM
2

Some men prefer monogamy and don’t wanna date someone who sleeps around. If I had to guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:57 PM
2

I mean it’s part of it. It’s intimidating and maybe i don’t want someone that makes me feel uncomfortable? Like why can’t she date someone one else? I’m never gonna feel safe with her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:32 AM
2

I mean I’ve been with 3, that’s not a lot. I don’t have the experiences that match with hers. Also I’ve never seen the dude feel comfortable and he blows it up anyway. I’d rather she is happy with someone else cause it won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:18 AM
2

I mean virgin doesn’t matter, but if someone has a lot of experience you think you won’t be enough. Plus they might get bored. That’s why I usually tell people to date someone with around the same exp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:40 AM
2

I mean ltrs are a good thing for experience. And yes you can learn from sleeping around but it makes people iffy if they’ve been with less, at least if you’re a dude. I’m not saying it can’t work, I’m just saying I’ve never seen a dude with a way lower n count who dated/married a woman with a high one work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:29 AM
2

Yeah I mean I’m n=3 at 27, if someone sleeps with a lot more than you it’s intimidating. I won’t say they should be shamed but I get why people wouldn’t wanna date someone with way more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:06 AM
2

Oh then I gotchu, it’s only the shamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:46 AM
3

Some people feel skeeved out by having sex with a lot of people. If they don’t demonize the person having sex and avoid them is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:41 AM
1

Give up on love and sex now so you can be happier when you’re older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 10:06 PM
1

If I could also turn off wanting romantic relationships as well fuck yes. I would be so much happier not wanting love and honestly if ssris didn’t mess you up really badly I’d take those to numb it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:31 PM
1

Eh people should do what they want. Some people ain’t built to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:57 AM
3

I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:32 AM
6

What you don’t want all that “seed” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:38 AM
1

I guess I’m looking for a new girlfriend then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:45 PM
2

So I don’t agree with the OP but what about men who don’t have a lot of partners? Is it slut shaming to not want to be with a woman who has had a lot more than their small number?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:23 AM
1

I guess so. There’s a reason I don’t come on here much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:57 PM
1

I mean I understand why they feel that way, but they shouldn’t. People are too shitty to one another on here and honestly any honey debate gets sucked into the morass. Women will talk shit, men will talk shit, and nobody wins cause it just devolves into autistic screeching.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:55 PM
2

I guess so? For me personally I don’t have a lot of partners so that’s why I kinda care, and honestly after losing my virginity I haven’t cared nearly as much. People are just bitter in here and make up all kinds of excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:50 PM
2

It’s probably of an experience thing than dick size. Sure dudes can worry about that but from what it sounds like it’s either 1: he’s grossed out by the amount of dudes she has slept with or 2: he doesn’t think he’ll be good enough for her and she’ll leave anyway so why bother with her. At least from observing dudes on here that’s the impression I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:31 PM
1

I mean I’d assume I’m dating someone first if she’s a virgin. At that point yeah it’d be bad but I’d love her so I’d just try and work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:03 AM
2

Damn honestly I’d just say be more careful and use waaay more foreplay to make her less freaked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:44 PM
4

Yeah but I can’t imagine they’re the majority. Most people out here are fucking a lot. That’s the reason I’m trying to get over the n count thing. There is like nobody out here bar a few exceptions that don’t fuck 10+ people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:58 PM
3

I will say most men over 22 don’t care more than they don’t want. Most just wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:39 PM
1

You went from men don’t care about n count to men kinda care about n count, man what a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:27 AM
4

Have you ever seen Kathleen Maidgan or Taylor Tomilson? Those ladies are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:07 AM
1

Yeah but is it really worth the risk? You can find someone who thinks like you do so you match better. That being said good for you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:36 PM
2

Male, 26, no pill. Yeah I would but that’s because I wants someone like myself. I don’t sleep with a lot of people so it’d be a bad match for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:39 PM
1

26 and I’ve been with 2. Honestly id be ok with 0-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:35 PM
1

Honestly I just want someone around my number. Number by age is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:53 PM
1

I agree that’s it’s a bad predictor of cheating by itself . It’s more of a compatibly barometer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:50 PM
2

Ms Right. I don’t want a harem I want one person to fuck me into a coma and then watch Star Trek with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:14 AM
3

Oh Jesus yeah he should have gotten over that forever ago. Well good for you that you moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:15 PM
2

I mean people should definitely tread with care on the subject but some people just care. The two of you wouldn’t be a good match and that’s fine. It was hypocritical for him to have a lot and then care about your number tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:20 AM
2

I mean you’d probably be better off with someone who had around the same numbers anyway. There’s no real reason to date someone who’s at 2 if you’re at like 15+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:10 AM
3

Naw that just means you get to experience it together for the first time. Honestly as long as you’re enthusiastic about trying things I’d just be happy about that. Also I feel ya on people being weird about only being with 2 people, they treat you like you don’t know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:34 AM
4

I mean not everyone is made to sleep with a lot of people, you gotta do things at your own pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:31 AM
3

No hate but I’m curious, did it irk you because he slept with a lot of people and gave you flack for it or because you think it doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:30 AM
1

I mean I personally care but yeah a lot of dudes here have a weird revenge fantasy about it because they can’t get anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:28 AM
2

Yeah and not a happy one. It’s happened a few times and I want to be mad but, they’re still human and have insecurities so I have some sympathy. That being said if you lie to me about this I don’t wanna ever date you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:41 PM
7

For real. Just walk away and find someone else, don’t be a freak about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:57 PM
3

Yeah a girl I tried to date a year into college who seemed super cool in the beginning and she told me she had been with 3 people. I’m like shit I’m a virgin, it’s not great but it’s not bad and....she lied. Her friends were drunk af and started telling stories at a party. We got into a fight, she said “the past is the past”. I told her she lied to me and 15 isn’t 3 and that I think we should stay friends. Well she loses her shit and I just spend the rest of the night drinking with my buddies at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:56 PM
2

Oh well that’s understandable. It’s like any echo chamber on Reddit but more so with the pills, FDS, or any thing associated with them. They all feed off negativity and try and protect their own group, even if it’s slowly chipping away at their psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:57 PM
8

Yeah it can fuck with your head. That’s why I don’t pay almost any attention to RP or FDS in any real capacity. They are people who have been fucked over or are fucked in the head so they can only see what benefits themselves, not seeing people as people. I honestly kinda feel bad for them cause that much bitterness isn’t healthy. I will say that there are a lot of shitty people out there, but the ones that are nice make it worth it. And this is coming from a dude who has never really date but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:11 PM
9

They’re dudes who fucked up and are looking for direction to find women. RP is pseudo-science that makes dudes feel like they have a say in the fields of dating/sex, and maybe it does help with a certain subset of women, but for the majority it’s stupid. A lot of these dudes lost hope and got sucked into the morass of RP. I’d feel bad for them but the way they treat women is fucked shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:06 PM
25

I’m not RP but honesty most dudes are either not interested in RP or don’t know about it. Reddit is an echo chamber so it seems like more dudes are this way when they’re not. I personally don’t want someone like you described, I want a partner who’s like me, nothing more. I could act like all women are like FDS and write them all off because i think all women act like that, but I don’t and try and treat people as individuals. Honestly women are awesome and i want them in my life, as friends, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:04 PM
39

Tbf you are scraping the bottom of the barrel for men when you look at TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:26 PM
2

I honestly think it’s a bad idea to be with someone who doesn’t have around the same numbers, I gotta assume the way they view sex wouldn’t be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:36 AM
2

I mean I don’t think those people are bad relationship material, they just wouldn’t be a good match for someone like me. Honestly I don’t get why people who had a lot of partners would wanna be with me, so why not just get it out in the open so they can find someone more compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:54 AM
2

I mean I’ve been with two people, I’m not gonna match up with someone like that so I kinda have to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:19 AM
2

Right? Like I’m glad you’re being upfront about it but it wouldn’t help if he/she’s like “I’ve been with 20 dudes but hey at least I’m clean”. That’s an instant no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:18 PM
8

Idk honestly. I can only speak for myself and I can’t imagine wanting to be with someone who slept with a lot of people. Like it makes me feel gross and because of this I can stand waiting longer. That being said i wanna have a lot of sex, just with a gf and not multiple randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:10 AM
3

Like 6 months- 1 year. If I really like her I’d wait but I’ve been with two women and that’s it, so waiting isn’t that huge of a deal as long as i know she’s down for sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:02 AM
8

People like to broad stroke groups because it fits their narrative. Hell people on here think all women who sleep around are damaged not realizing those women like to have sex and don’t wanna date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:38 PM
17

I mean it’s probably just different opinions from different people. For some reason people on reddit just assume these ideas come from one kinda dude. Like I don’t think someone who slept around is good for me so I wouldn’t want to be with her; a lot of dudes on here want that kinda women and would disagree with me. At least that’s what I think is going on, some of y’all might have multiple personalities and post different shit idk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:36 PM
6

I mean honestly it’s not your job to have sympathy for people who spend most their time whining. You can’t help those who won’t help themselves anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:22 PM
1

It sucks but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:22 AM
0

Yeah that’s true. I’m shocked that attractive women would say that but I’m not a woman, so it’s a perspective I didn’t see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:44 PM
4

Most have around 10-20 partners and then settle down. I don’t want a partner that slept with that many people so I’m sol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:21 PM
1

Idk if there is a solution. Most dudes that I’ve heard from wanna try and date younger so they avoid these women but I think that’s gross. I personally don’t have any hope in finding someone like me so I don’t try anymore. It sucks but hey I got friends; can’t fuck or love them romantically but it’s better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:50 PM
3

Eh it’s hard to not just see most of the people sleeping around and feel depressed. Honestly I feel bad for the women here cause they were taught that guys would date them even if they fucked a lot of dudes, which hasn’t been the case. Most dudes I’ve talked to at bars, events, etc. all will fuck the women but would rather be alone than date them, and it’s some fucked shit. The other half of guys don’t wanna date these women and want relationships (like me), but are shit outta luck cause it’s mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:40 PM
11

I mean I can understand that feeling, that’s how I feel about women that sleep around. You can’t really control these feelings and as long as you don’t be a dick to them, it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:18 PM
4

From what I’ve seen in my area it’s half the people are sleeping around and can’t function in relationships and the other half see those people and think relationships are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:17 PM
2

Of course. People on here can be....weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:54 PM
2

Oh yeah no that’s just silly. Having less sex doesn’t make someone better, it just means sex means something different compared to those who have a lot of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:34 PM
1

Ok yeah I understand that. I’ve been with 2 women so it’s not like I’m asking for anything crazy, I just think people who have a high n-count would be a bad fit for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:29 PM
2

Oh ok that’s makes perfect sense. I’m against trying to make people with low n-counts date higher n-count people but if you’re talking about dudes smashing and then looking for low n-count people, I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:18 PM
3

Why would you want to change how some men feel about promiscuous women? Why not just have them date women like themselves and let the women who slept around stick to men who did the same? There’s plenty of people on Earth so why force people to accept things that gross them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:15 PM
1

Ah ok thanks. As someone who has been with two people it blows my mind that some people think everyone should not care like them. Thanks for the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:29 AM
1

So do you think it’s natural to have like 20-30 partners? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:35 AM
1

Ah makes sense. I don’t get the anger but I’m from Cali and almost everyone is a slut here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:32 PM
6

The anger from RP about this is weird. I don’t wanna date women who has a high n count and I just don’t date those women, it’s not hard. I gotta assume they just are pissed women have a better chance of getting laid than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:05 PM
3

I honestly can’t tell if people are trolling on here or if people actually think like this in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:35 PM
1

I honestly can’t tell if these are troll posts or people actually think about people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:35 PM
7

From what I can parse together it’s constant usage of pornography that makes it so the person needs a slightly more kinky thing to get off. It’s not immediate but over like months or years. The other thing I’ve heard from people that used to look at step sibling porn was that: It’s taboo, which feeds into the need for something “more”. Most the dudes told me if it was real step sisters it’d be too much for them. Honestly it grosses me out but it’s not my life so keep it to yourself and we’re Guc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:38 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 10:23 PM
1

I wouldn’t complain about not doing anal cause o don’t care about it. If you gotta lie about your n count you’re probably a terrible match for me. The fact anyone tries to justify this shows they’re selfish and shouldn’t be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 10:22 PM
1

Is it really punishment tho? I thought it was just not wanting to be with someone who slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 09:20 PM
13

Why do people who sleep around feel justified in lying to people about it? You slept around, accept the consequences and move onto someone who doesn’t care. Don’t be selfish and punish others for your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:24 AM
1

Then be alone? This sounds like mgtow talk honestly...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:54 PM
1

I can’t believe Im in agreement with Atlas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:53 PM
11

Date someone who’s asexual. Also if you’re expecting dudes to date you but not fuck you, at least the majority of us, you’re gonna be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:52 PM
1

Dying alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:54 PM
6

Oh for sure! A lot of people on here are so fucking mean when someone doesn’t do what they think they should. Men and women should do what makes them happy as long as nobody is getting hurt. Also doesn’t help that all the incels came flooding here after they lost their sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:26 PM
11

This is something I can totally understand. It’s how I feel about people who sleep around. People on here try and justify with “facts” but at the end of the day if it skeeves you out no amount of “coming to grips” with it will change how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:13 PM
2

Yeah. Women who have a lot of partners aren’t gonna wanna date me anyway so it’s a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:52 AM
8

I personally want to be with someone who views sex as I do. I feel like sex is a huge part of a relationship and women who’ve been with more partners than I’m comfortable with won’t feel as I do about sex. They should date people in their range so that they both feel the same about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:43 AM
1

The other problem is people keep lying to impress people/make them like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:35 AM
2

I feel like if people stuck to their own level everyone would be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:23 AM
1

What culture is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:29 PM
1

I swear the lot of ya are poofters from how y’all are responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:24 AM
1

Already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:19 AM
7

Like I get not wanting to be with someone cause you feel they had more partners than your comfortable with, but calling someone used goods is a shitty way to treat someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:21 AM
1

Is that what the term originally meant? I thought it was about women branch swinging. To be honest I never really heard the term outside of PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:59 PM
4

Evil no; kinda gross, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:52 PM
1

Sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:32 PM
1

Looking at your profile it’s hard to imagine someone wanting to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:30 PM
11

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:53 PM
2

And? I don’t wanna sleep with 30 women, I wanna date one and then get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:36 PM
3

Jesus. How’d you react? And I don’t wanna shame them, I just want them to stop trying to convince me to date them. Like you obviously can get a dude why are you ignoring my boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:31 PM
3

Man that makes me sad. I feel for her I do, but like I said I’m basically a virgin compared to her. There’s no way that’d work out. I’m surprised at how many women think it’s not an issue vs how many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:24 PM
3

I’m not here to argue high or low value, I’m just saying for me I don’t wanna be with someone who’s had 10+ partners, Hell the close to 10 the more I get sleeved out. I’ve been with two women and that’s where I belong, in the 0-5 range ideally, 0-10 more likely. If they have been with over that amount then I’d probably be a terrible match for them, as they don’t view sex as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:18 PM
6

I meant dudes who obsess over it. A lot of dudes get weird about virgins even tho they ducked 10+ women,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:00 PM
2

I’m pretty sure he’s an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:59 PM
2

Also you talk like an incel...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:50 PM
4

I didn’t admit to anything but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:49 PM
5

You really are a troll aren’t ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:46 PM
26

I’ve never met a good dude who talks about women this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:33 PM
1

Oh well guess I should just kill myself /s Edit: also you’re a loser for downvoting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:19 PM
1

Idk is 6.5-7 inches small? Edit: also don’t downvote me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:10 PM
1

I think so as well. That’s why I can’t date people who slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:19 PM
3

I like it a lot, it’s a lit of fun. That being said I can’t imagine being with a lot of people. It feels so...impersonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:07 PM
3

Honestly I’ve been with 2 women, I’m not meant for people who’ve had a lot of partners. We just wouldn’t be computable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:04 PM
2

I’ve only been with two women. I feel like people who sleep around don’t feel the same about sex as well. Edit: why would anyone downvote this comment? For real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:03 PM
8

It’s probs dudes who can’t get any in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:47 PM
5

The virgin fetish is creepy, and I’m one of those dudes who wants someone with a lower n count. I think you’re right about dudes being scared of women with experience, at least for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:46 PM
7

The only time I’ve heard that used is women having a lot of sexual partners which is fucked. I don’t wanna date someone who slept around but anyone calling people used goods is probably an asshole. It’s not hard to not be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:40 PM
1

Eh. Also don’t downvote me plz
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:38 AM
3

If I was gonna date her yeah I can just cuddle and watch something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 05:36 AM
2

That’s fair. As long as people respect boundaries I can’t hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:45 AM
0

We crave it because we’re programmed to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:24 AM
-1

Does....does nobody wanna fuck anymore? Dudes wanna fuck cause it’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:23 AM
1

Wait what do you consider dangerous or overly promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:56 AM
3

🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:09 PM
2

Tbf in the circles you run in that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:19 PM
0

Ma’am I need you to sign here on the dotted line... OMG what are you doing?!? Ma’am please put your pants back on! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:17 PM
6

Ah I was like that sounds like how incels talk about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:58 AM
0

Not for me to date/marry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:53 AM
4

Pick what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:32 AM
4

Yeah and that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:55 AM
0

Yeah, it’s why I don’t try much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:54 AM
7

I’ve been with 2 women, I’m a terrible match for women who’ve slept with a lot of people so that’s my reasoning. Edit: why are people downvoting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:24 AM
5

I mean for some people they can have their cake and eat it too. My friend was complaining to me this dude at her work won’t date her cause she got around and he said fuck no. It matters to some people and others it doesn’t. I got little sympathy for those who slept around and now wanna settle down with someone who didn’t sleep around. Stick to y’alls own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:16 AM
2

I just want her to not have slept around, treats people with kindness, and wants to sleep/snuggle with me. That’s about it, and if that makes them “good” then yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:54 PM
20

For some reasons a lot of dudes around here don’t/won’t believe that a lot of women would rather be single, or at least single at this point in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:48 PM
4

If you have to lie to get a relationship you shouldn’t be in one to beging with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:18 PM
2

There’s a difference between a nice guy and a “nice guy” and y’all know the difference, don’t act like you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:30 AM
3

I’ve been trying too but a lot of women around me are really good at lying. That being said I’ve been going for introverts cause I figure they’d be the least likely to sleep around. Also 0-8 would be a great range for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:00 PM
2

Aw thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:11 PM
2

Honestly I just don’t try anymore, there’s nobody I wanna date near me and I kinda just don’t care. Dying alone sucks but so does being with a person I can’t love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:54 AM
2

Went to the zoo, it was really nice. Honestly I was waiting to be in a serious relationship before sex but at 26 it wasn’t happening. I took my friends advice and just had sex with someone from Tinder. That felt awful so I tried to seriously date. The second I thought wanted to date and that’s when I had sex, turns out I was rebound sex along with another two dudes. I feel that sex should be a fun, sexy, bonding activity with someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:15 AM
1

OLD to set up the date and then idk a normal date? As to your first point, if i do that i might as well not try cause there’d be no point. If they do it with every dude I assume sex isn’t the same for them as it is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:04 AM
1

Some chick who says they’re a dude/not a dude from the pic I saw of her. I’m trying to find a relationship, I don’t wanna fuck around and waste time. I’m getting older and the amount of women who haven’t fucked 10+ dudes is drying up, so wasting time on someone whom only wanted sex is wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:51 AM
1

I was led to believe she wanted more than just sex and she ended up dating a non-binary person. Found out she was using me and another dude for sex until she got a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:46 AM
1

One, just read what i said and corrected it. I didn’t like either and honestly yeah she used me for sex. This is the reason I don’t like people who slept stung, and they usually are pushy about accepting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:43 AM
1

Probably the one who didn’t use me for sex. Edit: misread that, I’d say the one who used me for sex was worse, but I’d rather not be with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:27 AM
2

I said sleep around not be with nobody but me. I’ve been with two people, so I know it’s possible to not sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:10 AM
7

Oh I don’t want someone at 0 (well I wouldn’t care if she was), I just want it to be low. Also I’ve tried but I’m not super religious and it’s limited my field where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:41 AM
4

Women who sleep around gross me out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:39 AM
30

Cause I don’t sleep around and people who do gross me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:37 AM
2

Some of us ain’t hoes like y’all so that’s why we care but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:32 AM
1

Honestly if people couldn’t lie about it I’d be happy. Just so you can’t be lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:30 AM
1

Nope 26. We just don’t wanna deal with cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:20 AM
1

I thought the patriarchy was a system of inheritance founded in a time when your average person was slightly smarter than the average PPD member? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:07 PM
3

Pretty much. I don’t wanna date someone who slept around but wants to have sex a decent amount. Since that’s not gonna happen I don’t see a point to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:38 PM
1

I did pick, I stopped trying cause you’re right, that’s pretty much how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:37 PM
2

No but that’s not really what I want. I’d rather just be with a chick who’s down to fuck but hasn’t fucked like 10-20 dudes. That’s not realistic so I just stopped trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:45 PM
1

Yeah if I lived in a town like yours I’d probably be screwed. I mean we saw those people again and were not rude but we just didn’t talk to them. Maybe I could talk to them, but I wouldn’t ever trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:41 PM
6

I’d rather have neither. I’ve been with 2 women in my entire life, why would I want the hoe? I wouldn’t want the prude either cause while I’ve only been with two women, I’m still a horny monkey who wants to fuck constantly. I know That’s contradictory but women who sleep around make me grossed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:39 PM
1

I mean it’s easier with my group cause all we do is kick the offending party out and its good. Honestly the last time it happened we kicked them out and just didn’t talk to them, nothing else really changed cause we like everyone else in the group and didn’t like the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:37 PM
2

Also some of us are not hoes like y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:33 PM
1

Yeah everyone wants something different. People who sleep around a lot can’t handle that fact just like people who didn’t sleep around can’t handle people who are trying to change their minds about it. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:32 PM
2

Sry I took the “blows over” comment as forgiveness, and I’m kinda high so that’s my bad. Honestly I don’t sleep around/neither does my group, so it’s easier to toss people like that out of the group if it comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:31 PM
1

I guess if you don’t have many options you’d be ok with it? Not trying to be rude but I can’t fathom forgiving something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:25 PM
2

Really? I’ve always seen it explode and then destroy the group, splitting depending on who cheated, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:46 PM
2

Lying is probably a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:21 AM
2

Eh it seems like it’s filled with really sad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:43 PM
3

Ok my bad. He started downvoting and I should have stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:42 PM
2

I didn’t? I literally just wrote the comment. Don’t downvote me. Edit: Did you really downvote me again?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:37 PM
3

While I disagree with FDS on stuff that doesn’t mean we should ban them. Also FDS can be annoying but it’s not as bad as some of the incels on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:36 PM
4

Men also have most of the power to do anything. Second, if you’re this angry at dudes then go be alone. No dude is gonna wanna date you if you have this much hate within you. And don’t give me that LVM crap, I don’t speak badly about women, I don’t believe in redpill, I’m an average dude trying to not be a dick day to day .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:34 AM
4

Speaking in generalities is the issue, not you treating men and women differently. Not all men are shitty like y’all say constantly, just like all women are not shitty either. There’s shitty people of either sex and acting like it’s one sex or the other is horseshit and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:30 AM
2

Y’all speak in generalities about men like TRP does about women, which is also really shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:12 AM
1

To be fair I’m a dude and I’ve seen dudes send “wyd” in response to wanting to hang or go drink. That being said if a dude sends this to a chick he wants to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:03 AM
2

This sounds like an incel post to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:53 PM
1

Fair enough, but that seems really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:34 PM
1

Then yeah I’d love 3. Also who would choose 2 for a relationship? Isn’t the point of relationships to love who you’re with or am I just crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:57 PM
1

Can I choose 3 and just not get a hoe? Cause honestly I just want someone who’s somewhat like me and I’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:36 PM
1

That’s some sad shit ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:38 PM
4

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:03 AM
18

You might have a really low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:32 AM
3

People who’ve slept around aren’t made for people who haven’t, at least most people from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:08 AM
4

I don’t think they’re bad people but they need to stick to their lane. The biggest problems come from people not knowing to stick to their lane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:01 AM
3

No I don’t think I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:27 AM
2

Exactly, you date the chick who gets around and the dudes who don’t want that date chicks who are virgins or women with low counts, everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:54 AM
1

up down up down left right b a start lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:37 PM
3

I’m sorry it didn’t work out. There was a line from Star Trek that comes to kind with what you said: “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:34 PM
1

I mean I don’t see it as repressed but hey different stokes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:02 PM
2

Yeah I feel like it’s hypocritical and shitty to do that. That’s something I can’t stand about a lot of people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:01 PM
2

Yeah for sure, nobody should try and hurt someone over this. That being said if you’re not comfortable or happy with it just be cool and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:00 PM
1

I mean don’t tell the person every detail but how I’d figure people would know at least something basic like how many people they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:55 PM
2

I’m tired and high so I honestly can’t remember. I’m not saying celibacy but I’ve been with like 2 people, I’m not built for people who’ve fucked 10-20+ people. Also thanks for being cool, a lot of people on here are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:03 AM
3

Yeah but...I kinda don’t wanna date chicks that have gotten around and that’s like...almost all the women in my area. Honestly I’very accepted being alone and it ain’t so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:51 AM
3

It’s about being attentive to your partner and willing to adapt so everyone can have a good time. Also it definitely helps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:47 AM
3

To be fair I’m broke af right now trying to finish a degree but yeah most of those should be normalized. Hell the hygiene ones alone are for me mostly, I can’t stand smelling like a pig. That being said I kinda fell behind in the whole dating thing and honestly I’m good to just let y’all have fun and sit back myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:46 AM
3

I’ve always thought doing it was fun but hey i like everyone to have a good time. I feel kinda bad for women if that’s the case honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:39 AM
3

Does nobody eat pussy? I’m honestly asking cause it’s like...go watch a video on how to do it, it’s not hard. Giggity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:33 AM
2

Where are y’all meeting these dudes who are shitty at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:30 AM
1

I’d rather not find out my gf banged 20 dudes before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:44 AM
1

Jesus Christ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:19 AM
1

I mean to be fair I’ve been with only two women and just want someone who views sex as I do. Nobody should shame anyone tho, that’s a sign that the accuser has shitty self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:16 AM
11

Holy shit there’s other rational people here? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:14 AM
3

Most probably are like how you described, but some of us just want someone who feels the same about sex as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:48 AM
5

Right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:46 AM
1

Pretty much. I know I’m gonna be a bad match for those women so that’s why I ask. They don’t wanna tell me that’s fine I just tell them it’s not gonna work out and move on, no need to shame anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:40 AM
2

Yeah no that’s understandable honestly, a lot of dudes here are shitty and hypocritical when it comes to women. Personally I’ve only been with two women so I figure be with someone like me and it’ll go way better. That being said yeah....lotta incels on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:36 AM
1

I find that mindset kinda weird but I’ve always valued honesty, but hey I guess ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:34 AM
2

I mean some dudes don’t sleep around and want someone who’s like them, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:33 AM
6

Some people are just looking for a partner that has the same experiences/values, it’s not always about insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:29 AM
7

Or people have different views about sex that should be discussed and not mocked idk maybe I’m just crazy. Just because I don’t wanna date someone doesn’t mean I’m insecure, it means they value sex differently and I want someone who feels the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:25 AM
2

Yeah well you should do what’s best for yourself, you’re young and there’s plenty of dudes who would probably be a better match.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:38 AM
2

Tbf I went to your posts when I saw the title of this and saw that you’re not happy with your arrangement with him. He’s either using you for sex and/or can’t articulate his feelings. If you want him to change and not be a 15 yr old about how he feels, you gotta make him change. Or don’t, it doesn’t really matter what I think, it’s your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:20 AM
3

I mean I understand that, I like cuddling as well. That being said do you honestly think he’s gonna change for you? Do you really see him willing to change how he is, or is it more something you wish than something that’ll happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:08 AM
10

Some dudes do. A lot of people mistake lust for love as well. Btw you probably shouldn’t be fucking a dude who can’t figure out his feelings when he’s almost 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:47 AM
15

I’d bet that most dudes here would be happier not trying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:39 AM
9

That would require them to deal with their own problems like adults and realize they are part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:41 PM
2

Just realized I didn’t write it all up, writing this in a class. I was agreeing with you, but yeah most dudes don’t care. I’m honestly surprised when women say they didn’t know some dudes care and I’m like yeah you are in a “sex positive” group of course not, just like I don’t see a lot of dudes not care cause I don’t run in those circles. Tbf idgaf what anyone does, as long as nobody tries to change how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:20 PM
2

Yeah it seems to be more oh how people view, more so than gender. I have noticed more dudes care then women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:12 PM
1

No shit I wish I wish I felt this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:58 PM
2

Haha well I’ll have to take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:58 AM
2

It’s really not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:09 AM
1

Get pets and accept dying alone, so the plan I already have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:27 AM
18

I’m just shocked so many women are surprised is all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:51 PM
16

Yeah I’m honestly shocked at the amount of women who are surprised that I wouldn’t date them because they’ve had too many partners. I guess you don’t experience it enough it just seems so weird to y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:28 PM
2

Sounds like the words of an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:31 PM
1

Y’all are making it worse so thanks for that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:43 AM
2

Because then we wouldn’t have similar feelings about sex/love. Why would I waste time on something I know is gonna fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:07 PM
2

Shh this is PPD, we aren’t allowed to use facts here /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:30 PM
1

I guess it’s jealousy, cause for me it’s just wanting someone who’s like me. I don’t get all mad about it and throw a fit like they do so I can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:15 AM
3

How is she fat...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:16 AM
0

Some people view sex differently than you and might want to know if y’all would be compatible. That being said this dude is being weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:54 PM
1

I’ve never understood why dudes need to make up a reason as to why it’s “logical” why they don’t like women who’ve had a lot of partners. Just be honest and say you’re grossed out and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:25 PM
1

Lol wut
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:08 PM
5

Ah that makes more sense. I’ve heard there’s a lot of black women in FDS so I guessed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:05 PM
0

To be fair some of us are just looking for someone who feels the same about sex, not all of us are nuts like this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:36 PM
1

I believe POC stands for People of Color.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:23 PM
1

Not an incel as I’ve had sex. Also honestly I don’t really care at this point, I’ve accepted being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:56 PM
2

Eh they are not gonna be compatible anyway. They slept with a lot of people so we don’t feel the same about sex. So if I get to like them it’ll just for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:52 AM
1

Yup. I’ve always gone with honesty cause other than not wanting to be a dick I also know people don’t take kindly to that kinda thing, makes them do all kinds of crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:54 AM
5

Yeah exactly! There’s no need to shame someone, you just say “im sorry but I don’t think I’d be a good match for you” and move on. As long as they don’t lie, I’ve had some women lie about something I cared about, I told them about, and they still thought it was ok to lie. Those people I have no sympathy for, but in your example yes, I agree totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:41 AM
2

My friend has been trying to set me up with her friends/friends of friends and I keep telling her to stop and she won’t. All of them used to/do sleep around and I’m getting annoyed that she won’t knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:28 AM
6

Ooooh ok that’s fair. A lot of dudes get so angry about it and it’s like....don’t date hoes. Like it’s a dick thing to be so hateful and in the end everyone comes out of it worse. People should just stick to their sexual own but a lot of people wanna be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:21 AM
7

Some of us just don’t want to date people who slept around, not all are men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:13 AM
1

That’s actually really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:39 PM
1

I mean some women are not low libido And not sleeping around. I’m not low libido and I don’t wanna fuck all the women. Some people just don’t want to be # 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:10 PM
1

Oh agreed. It sounds like they are terrible for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:38 AM
2

The fact that she used one of your friends to get back at you is a crimson red flag and honestly no, you won’t save the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:14 AM
3

Just tell them you fuck a lot so they can decide to date or leave. Some dudes will be down and others grossed out, so it’s a win win for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:13 AM
4

Oh well that’s cool, I’m glad you can do that man. You’re a better dude than me. Personally I’ve been with 2 women and I can’t be with someone who has sex on the first date/has had a lot of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:37 PM
1

Which is great, they are who you’re meant to be with. Some dudes don’t want that and aren’t hoes themselves so why date one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:21 PM
5

Some of us have only been with a few people and want the same. If you don’t care more power to you but there’s no way it wouldn’t matter to some people. And these people should never date someone that holds your opinion on sex as they’d be way too different to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:15 PM
1

Yeah pretty much. Maybe I feel like I’m not enough? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:13 AM
1

I guess? Never really dated so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:58 AM
1

Yeah that’s true, condoms solve a ton of the problems just dudes don’t wanna use them. Honestly she sounds like she should just get a bf and then get tested. Boom problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:33 AM
1

Yeah that’s nahes sense for someone who’s been promiscuous. For her she probably values sex differently so the fear makes sense for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:23 AM
2

I mean personally I’d be unhappy about porn in a relationship, I was just speaking of how most people I’ve talked to my age see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:11 AM
2

Wait porn is cheating? Idk about you but people around my age don’t usually consider it cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:01 AM
1

It’s not. I don’t like it because it means there’s less women who’ve slept around like myself, but it’s not my job to force them to act how I want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:33 PM
1

Yeah and they fought for freedom from the British, kinda different than dudes whining about not getting women to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:17 PM
1

Whining on Reddit isn’t doing something about it. You think I like how women act nowadays on apps? Fuck no the entitlement is almost as bad as incel entitlement, but bitching isn’t helping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:52 PM
2

Nope just saying life is unfair get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:43 PM
2

Yeah and I want to date someone who wasn’t a hoe, do you see me bitching how the world is unfair cause most of them sleep around? No, so suck it up or drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:39 PM
5

You assume that many men are like you though, most are not. Most can/want to have sex and even though women are kinda a pain in the ass, so are we.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:37 PM
2

That’s never gonna happen. Dudes are way too thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:23 PM
10

So if I want sex and I’m a good boy I should get it? What if I wanna fuck you? What’s to stop me from fucking you because I feel like I deserve it? You won’t give it to me so I shouldn’t behave like a fucking adult so I’ll just take what I want, because I’m a child. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:19 PM
24

I’m gonna say this cause apparently nobody told you: Nobody owes you sex/relationships because you’re a good lil boy. Tbf this also applies to women on the other side but outside FDS it’s mostly whiny dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:10 PM
1

Sounds like a shitty thing to do honestly. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:27 PM
1

Ah gotcha. It’s anathema to me so I’m like why would someone do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:29 AM
1

Why would they settle though? I can’t imagine wanting to be with someone who get that way about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:31 PM
1

Serious question, length or girth? I wanna see you make the downvoters madder 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:31 PM
2

Hard pass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:09 AM
1

The same way women lie about their number. It justifies their end goals and they’re selfish so they lie to get ahead. Their is no real justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:54 PM
32

A lot of people on here can’t accept that men and women are not monoliths and can be different than the stereotypes written about on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:16 AM
1

I’m not disagreeing with you but that’s the saddest shit I’ve seen all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:50 AM
2

Ah shit I’m sorry to hear that. I mean I’m grossed out by people sleeping with what I consider to be too many people so of course I’m grossed out by STIs. I’d be more understanding if it was something like your case cause that’s awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:29 PM
2

Man that sucks. I mean it’s a lot less likely if you don’t sleep with more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:02 PM
1

Well that’s good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:47 PM
1

I mean the chances of that are way lower. That being said even then that’s not something I’d want to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:03 AM
2

I don’t want someone who has slept around, why would I want to be with someone who has an STD/STI?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:00 AM
1

It’s shit for finding a gf tho. Finding a hookup yeah but I’m not looking for that and I don’t wanna date someone who slept around :|
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:02 PM
10

Right? Even someone as jaded as me knows there’s billions of women in the world and you can go find someone that matches your personality. Don’t like sluts? Don’t date them. Don’t like prudes? Same as before. All these dudes whining are not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:49 PM
3

People who don’t want to date/marry someone who slept around are at a disadvantage when looking for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:13 PM
1

Stop trying to shoot out of your league and be more open with your sexuality (whatever it is) so you can better connect with someone. Nobody wants to sleep around to then settle down with a dude who thinks that’s gross and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:07 PM
0

That seems like you wouldn’t really try hard with any of them tho wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:05 PM
1

Why would you wish that plague upon us?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:36 PM
3

Ah thanks. My friends told me to stay off most apps cause of what you just said on your original post. I’ll have to look at Hinge tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:26 AM
2

For dating. And idk I seem like a normal enough looking dude. I’m not ugly but Id look a lot better if I lost some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:05 AM
6

So it’s probably not worth using OLD as a dude? Honestly the reasons you started above seem like a weird vain waste of time to me so it’s probably not worth using it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:56 AM
1

Like I said, don’t bring it around me and I don’t wanna know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:01 PM
1

Honestly yeah. I mean I wouldn’t stop talking to them but they can’t bring her around me. I’d spend too much time making jokes about him having to fuck a 16 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:57 PM
1

I said it was gross more than they shouldn’t do it. Honestly as long as I don’t have people in my life doing that i don’t really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:53 PM
1

I mean yeah a few 16 yr olds can look older and attractive as well but you don’t fuck them. Also yeah a promiscuous woman can be hot but once I know she’s been with a lot of dudes I get grossed out and leave. There’s no need to be a dick about it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:48 PM
1

Idk I guess I’m just weird. I also have an aversion to hoes, is that wrong as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:43 PM
1

Listen if y’all wanna fuck 16 yr olds go ahead, just leave me out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:40 PM
1

Have you met 16 yr olds. They’re mostly stupid, inexperienced kids and a lot think they are smarter/wiser than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:35 PM
1

Ok well I don’t debate with them much because I don’t really care about their positions. Honestly I’m just gettin high and drunk cause it’s the holidays, I take this shit even less seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:30 PM
1

I guess so. It’s not that big of deal either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:58 PM
2

Yeah I’ve never understood why people with a higher number bother with lower count people. Sure it could work out but why bother with the increased chance of it backfiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:58 PM
3

I wouldn’t say league as having sex doesn’t make you better/worse. If she was twice my number that’d be 4 people and I can live with that. That being said there is a limit for me and once I’m there I feel gross enough to not wanna bother, no matter how much I like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:54 PM
8

I guess so. The amount of hate coming from them makes me believe they can’t love, at least not at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:30 AM
2

As long as I didn’t get people pregnant or break shit I was allowed to do pretty much what I wanted. That being said my family has a serious disdain for hoes so that’s probably where I get my disgust from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:48 AM
13

Pretty much. I don’t even understand why these groups waste time trying to have relationships with the opposite sex considering how they feel about them. It’s like watching a nazi try and date a Jew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:38 AM
2

FDS, TRP, and most other subs like them are bad. They’re all just echo chambers for people to say ridiculous shit in a community that won’t/can’t remove them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:36 AM
1

This is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:22 AM
3

Lol I’m sorry that’s rude of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:15 AM
24

Go be friends with women then. If you’re gonna be this weird about it please avoid us normal dudes as much as possible please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:37 AM
1

Wait for 5.5-6 inch girth you need to special order condoms? I thought I went full retard and couldn’t put a condom on properly...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:09 AM
2

Shhh we have to blame all men/women, otherwise we might have to recognize we are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:27 AM
-1

Yeah well that’s insane. That being said him/her being shitty isn’t an excuse to also be shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 02:09 AM
-2

You do realize that you’re doing exactly what these redpill freaks are doing by broad stoking an entire gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:25 AM
2

Thanks for being cool and reasonable. It can be a somewhat rare thing on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:57 AM
2

I feel alone and like I’ll never date someone like myself. That being said I have no real resentment like they have, so it’s hard to sympathize. They don’t get to be shitty just cause some women were shitty to them. That goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:55 AM
2

Yeah a lot of people on here and FDS are bitter af.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:40 AM
2

Ok that’s fair and reasonable. Also trying to argue with these dudes is like talking to a wall unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:24 AM
3

To be fair some of us don’t sleep around either so it doesn’t make much sense to want these kinda women. That being said the hypocrisy of some of these dudes is staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:21 AM
0

Some women can, but I won’t blame all women for some of their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:20 AM
-1

I mean it’s not oppressive to ask for someone to be the same sexually as you are. I’m at 2, they can’t bitch at me for being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:41 AM
12

I mean as long as they stick to dudes like you I think it’s a great thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:48 PM
3

Unfortunately probably never gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:16 PM
0

It’d be nice if people stopped shaming these women so they could speak openly and then guys could reject/accept them for who they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:16 PM
1

I’m a dude who’s 26 and been with 2 people. 5-6 wouldn’t be that bad, but by 10 it’s kinda iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:35 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:12 AM
3

I mean those people can just date people like themselves. Don’t punish us who may have a different view on sex or whatever. Also everyone judges someone, like you are doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:56 PM
5

I mean it’s probably just different views on sex. People who sleep around probably should stick together, it’s not like they will be a good match for people who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:28 PM
7

I mean the “loose vagina” myth is bizarre and gross but sleeping around is also gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:26 PM
1

I guess so. I’ve never been a fan of dating multiple people and I can’t imagine wanting to date a woman who’s putting in 1/4 of the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:08 PM
1

Well she should drop that guy if he says anything like that. I guess that strategy works but I wouldn’t want to be dating that woman. If she’s gonna juggle dudes I assume she’s wasting my time and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:33 PM
1

Wait so if you’re looking for a relationship that’s not just a fuck buddy you should date multiple people? I can’t imagine actually trying with women if I was dating multiple. Wouldn’t it be better to get and date one dude instead of having to run through 2-5 dudes at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:54 PM
1

Didn’t the free love generation basically create a ton of stds/stis? I mean it wasn’t just the Christian revival in the 90s that made us all scared of the consequences of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:21 PM
0

Eww. Man I’m glad I live in the U.S., not gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:42 AM
1

Ah well I’m not so open to banging a lot of people so that’s not for me. At least y’all are having fun 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:52 AM
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Sorry I should have said “It’s harder to find a gf who has not slept around”. Is that more clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:37 AM
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Haha that’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:04 AM
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I should say the concept of incels has been around but it wasn’t really made into a thing until her. Imagine being responsible for the plague that is incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:20 AM
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Yeah the movement was started by a woman who was really depressed and wanted to make a community so people like her wouldn’t be alone. It would have been really heart warming if she wasn’t pushed out of her own movement and it was turned into a woe is me party/women haters. If I’m not mistaken she was also Asian so that’s just another layer of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:11 AM
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Considering what incels are like today it blows my mind that the movement was started by a woman. If there is a god I can tell he has a sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:09 AM
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Yeah like I think 190 would be a perfect weight. I’m 240 so I got a ways to go, but still better than being as fat as I was lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:10 AM
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Haha thanks poppy. Honestly I know I’m supposed to be 200 or under for my size but I’m like...170? I’d look like I’m starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:25 AM
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Creepy old white dudes have ruined traveling to Southeast Asia for less creepy white dudes lol. I knew a guy from college who went to Thailand because he’s a history major and he said it’s super gross seeing all the fat old white dudes slinging dick at what he hoped were 18 yr olds. Well I say slinging dick but no dude who’s 300 lbs and 65 yrs old is gonna be healthy enough to do that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:32 AM
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Ok since I can’t get a clear answer from the internet I’m gonna ask you cause you work in health care. Is the BMI scale mostly shit or is there any real merit to it? My friend said I’m supposed to be like 170 at 6’1 and I’m like there’s no way I can get that skinny again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:27 AM
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It’s insane that I’ve found a handful of women like myself who are not super religious but also dislike sleeping around. It’s not the worst and honestly being alone is way better than setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:20 PM
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Ah gotcha. I live in California so everyone can’t keep it in their pants. I get why other people don’t care but I do and it’s impossible to find anyone who feels the same near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:03 PM
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Also idk what you consider to be sleeping around. For me if I couldn’t date someone over 8-10 but for you it might be 10-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:54 PM
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Yeah I thought y’all were like us and the average person was at like 10-20 people deep honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:25 PM
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Yeah but they sleep around so its harder to find a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:14 PM
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A lot of women back in high school/early college thought that sleeping around was empowering and what they wanted. Turns out most were not down for it and got really depressed and started drinking heavily. Sad thing is it got worse when a lot of the same dudes sleeping with these women refused to date a “hoe”. Lot of them didn’t do so well after that. It’s fucked up cause the dudes who dumped them went for women that were less “hoeish” and the women got left in the dust. By the time they realize…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:41 PM
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I know a lot of men and women who don’t floss but 2/4 that don’t even brush? Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:16 AM
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Yeah this is the best answer I’ve seen on here. People are selfish nowadays and the more I’ve been on PPD, the more I’ve come to realize that a lot of people don’t want put the effort in. Relationships should be a team effort, supporting each other through think and thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:14 PM
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As a dude who showers 1-2 times a day that’s really gross. I feel super bad for y’all, ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:52 PM
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Honest question, how common is it for dudes to not bathe/brush their teeth? I see this come up a lot on Reddit in general and I’m blown away by how many women say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:37 PM
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I mean I’ve never understood lumping all men/women together as we are such a varied species. This forum alone shows how different people can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:23 PM
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Does...does nobody enjoy gettin women off? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:00 PM
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Damn that’s really sad, sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:53 PM
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I had the same issue with my post, but once it got over 200 responses I couldn’t keep up and said fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:51 PM
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4 years?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:48 PM
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Man and i thought I had issues. Nothing is hotter than getting her off and I don’t understand the logic to not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:38 PM
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Does not compute, does not compute lol. I’m still surprised that men don’t go down more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:36 PM
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Man that’s depressing not gonna lie. I guess I’m either lucky or i follow instructions really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:35 PM
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I’m honestly flabbergasted at how many people are having bad sex. Like if you listen to what people want it’s super easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:30 PM
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Wait how common is it to run into a dude who doesn’t know where the clitoris is? It’s right in front of their face 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:27 PM
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Where are you finding these freaks?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:13 PM
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I’m honestly blown away at the amount of dudes not showering/brushing their teeth. Like fuck finding women to date, just take care of yourself :|
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:52 PM
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My guess is he’s into dudes cause there are FINE ass Korean women. This dude is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:26 AM
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I don’t get where all these people are saying women are hard to get off. If you listen to what they want it’s really easy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:22 AM
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I feel bad cause I want these women to find dudes and to be happy, but idk if I could feel comfortable with them. Plus I’m probably not gonna be sexually compatible so like, idk why they want to date me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:15 AM
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Oh ok cause I was like I don’t ever see downvotes until way later. Sorry the butthurt patrol decided to make a visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:12 AM
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Ok thanks. These conversations were back when I was at 0 and I’d either get told I’m a liar (which is hilarious cause who would lie about being a virgin if you’re a dude) or that it doesn’t matter. Like I’d tell them I haven’t been with anyone and I’d like to be with someone around my experience level and that we just wouldn’t be compatible. I never tried to make anyone feel bad but I’m just being realistic about what’s gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:10 AM
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Is it getting downvoted? I can’t see but I’m m on mobile so idk if that makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:05 AM
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Ok but using someone and then dumping them is still a shitty thing to do. Like idk how anyone could think duping someone for personal gain doesn’t make them a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:48 AM
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Ah well good to know. I personally shoot for people like myself but I haven’t been with a lot of people (2). If I may another question? Do you think it’s fair for women who’ve slept with a lot of people to get mad at someone like me? On here most of the women have been very nice about why it makes them mad, but in real life a lot of women say it’s unfair. I don’t think it’s unfair cause I’ve kept myself to the standard I ask for but a lot of women I’ve talked to in real life get really really ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:42 AM
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Not like that tho. My previous statement stands
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:32 AM
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So it affects men and women both, so tax on singleness in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:25 PM
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Pretty much. They become the thing that hurt them, and they think they’re in the right because they got hurt. The sad truth is both are wrong and both need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:00 PM
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Lol some people are downvoting it and I wonder who that could be lol. They don’t like being compared but if you look at how they treat people it’s the same. Both wanna use people, both use terminology that’s degrading to the other sex, a lot of them speak in generalizations like “all men” just like TRP says “all women”. Also both are broken people who think it’s ok to treat people like shot because they got hurt along the way. Newsflash, just cause you got hurt doesn’t mean you get to be a dick …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:39 PM
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I mean someone is just don’t want to be with someone who slept with 10-20 people. I wouldn’t say that’s being a Puritan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:01 PM
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I remember seeing you respond in one of the n-count debate posts, and I’m curious to how you view sex. I’ve always lived under the assumption that people who sleep with a lot of people (it’s subjective tbf) are better off with people of a similar background. As someone who can compartmentalize sex and love, does this seem to be true to you? I know it’s all opinion based but I’d love to see how someone who’s free about their sexuality would view it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:55 PM
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Is this a FDS woman larping as an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:45 PM
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Yeah I’m not as close to being done with school as I’d like to be and I’m currently not working so I’d rather not waste time dating. Once I got a job and I’m done with college I’ll try and find someone if there’s anyone left. Considering my boundaries idk if that’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:45 PM
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Gettin some real rapey vibes from this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:26 PM
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Yeah I’m trying to lose weight and get my degree so I can have a good enough job to support myself so I’m not a bum while dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:45 PM
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Bachelor taxes never work, I wouldn’t be too worried about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:57 AM
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You mean FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:47 AM
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Fucking goals right here. This is beautiful, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:59 AM
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I want an actual relationship and the more women that sleep around the less likely I’ll find a gf/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:53 AM
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Part of it might be inexperienced. The two women I’ve had sex with were happy with how it went so I’m not freaked out by it but yeah...not feeling like I want to date them. Honestly I just think that low and high n-count people make bad partners. That’s not always the case but probably 80-90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:15 PM
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Uh partly ick factor. I also feel like if she’s down for casual sex she’s probably not my type. I was kinda prodded by friends to have sex cause “sex isn’t a big deal”. Turns out that’s a lie for me and now idk if I’d ever feel comfortable being with someone who is ok with having casual sex. Like I get trying to figure out if they do/don’t like it but after 1-5 I can’t imagine it’s just trying to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:59 PM
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I mean after the 2 women I’ve had causal sex All I really feel is sad. If someone is ok with casual sex then we just ain’t compatible. Not dating before 25 isn’t a good or bad thing, it kinda is just a thing. Also there’s a big difference between 2 and 10-20. If she’s been with like 5 dudes then I probably wouldn’t have as much of a problem, if one at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:44 PM
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Also to be fair I guess I was a late bloomer cause I’m shy, but I just don’t think it’d be smart to date someone like that for me personally. I’m sure they’re lovely women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:07 PM
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Yeah. I tried casual sex with 2 women and it made me sad. Anyone who’s had a lot of sexual partners wouldn’t be compatible with me unfortunately. I’m not really as sad about dying alone tho so it’s not the worst. I’m glad that people can explore their sexuality and I’d never want them to feel bad , but I can’t date these women. The good news is that these women don’t have to date someone like me and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:26 PM
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Well I’m fucked lol. Thanks for the answer, it’s good to know even tho it makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:09 PM
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To be fair it’s just a difference in how people treat sex. You’re more sociosexually more open than these people and that’s fine, but not everyone if open to being with someone that’s had a lot partners. No problem with that but it just means you wouldn’t be a match for someone who is not like yourself. It doesn’t really matter how hot she is if I’m grossed out that she was with 10-30 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:15 PM
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It’s just a way to gauge sexual compatibility. It’s shouldn’t be the only thing a person uses to gauge compatibly for a relationship tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:10 PM
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Ok well what would you say is a normal number for a woman in her late 20s then? Honest question cause I’m at 2 women by 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:52 PM
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Discarding people cause it’s convenient is kinda a dick thing to do. Plus people have feelings and if you think it’s ok to manipulate someone so you can gain experience, you deserve to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:41 PM
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I’m not compatible with women who have had a lot of partners so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:37 AM
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Yeah cause being dumped at the end is cool so he can “upgrade”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:11 AM
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So just use people cause it’s easy? Sounds like a pos mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:48 PM
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I didn’t ask her if they’re real, I asked if she’d put them on my face. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:28 PM
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No incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:27 PM
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Naw sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:26 PM
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I guess so and that’s on them. People who use people probably deserve to die alone honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:02 PM
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Is it bad that I’d be ok being fucked to death by a 15 foot woman just so if there’s a heaven I can say that’s how I got there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:57 PM
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The more I’m on this sub the more I’m coming to realize y’all really do deserve to die alone ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:52 PM
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Serious question, where are you finding all these dudes who don’t shower/brush their teeth?!? Like holy shit I feel gross just thinking of not bathing/brushing my teeth rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:38 PM
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Ah well I still maintain that it’s better to be alone than compromise on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:38 PM
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It’s like watching tv and everyone is just cool with all the transgender women wrecking shit in sports and people are like “idk how this woman is so strong”. Uh is it cause she was a dude for like 30 yrs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:43 AM
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I don’t really care what people think about a lot of stuff. Not because I’m some Billy Badass, it’s because people online don’t really matter to me. I can’t imagine being so mad on reddit that you (not literally you, people on here, TRP, and FDS) would write pages of nonsense that someone is gonna just reply with “ok”. Like I always laugh when someone tries to do that to Atlas and she ignores them, and they get even madder. Honestly I think the issue is more that porn is available everywhere. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:27 AM
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Well I’ve always maintained that I want sex within a relationship as I don’t like casual sex. I was convinced by people on here and friends irl to be realistic about the women out here nowadays and I bought into it when I finally felt alone enough to cave. I ended up having sex with 2 women and honestly...I haven’t felt this alone in years. I discovered that it’s just not possible for me and if that’s all there is in the market I’d rather be alone. People shit on women here, saying they’ll die a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:19 AM
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Why would I love someone that isn’t sexually exclusive with me (in a romantic sense ya freaks). I can’t imagine wasting time with someone where that wasn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:56 PM
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Oh god the dirty talk as Micky Mouse would be terrible/hilarious. Ha ha, you’re a bad girl aren’t you, ha ha. Ngl I don’t know if I could be in a room with someone like that and not do the voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:51 PM
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Do...do people not understand that men are stronger than women at a basic level? Like I’m not talking emotional strength, or the strength to push out a bowling ball out their hoohaa, but a physical 1v1 fight. The only realistic way for women to rape is drugs, having help from another dude or lots of people, or the off chance she’s 300 pounds and chooses the skinniest dude at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:46 PM
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Sounds like a cunt, not gonna lie. Sorry he’s trying to hardball ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:43 PM
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That’s...a bit much but ok. Different strokes for different folks. I don’t sleep around so that’s what I’m looking for in my partners. I figure find someone like me and it’ll work out better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:16 AM
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Idk it seems simple enough, especially when women are willing to say what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:31 PM
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Their dicks are enough lol. Yeah my friend Tonia told me to make my face look like a glazed donut and so far that’s seemed to work. Also dudes that’s don’t get turned on by women getting turned on/getting off are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:45 PM
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I think that’s why the first time I did it, it went well. It’s not hard to listen and women are giving away the cheats codes! Why not make my life easier lol. Also oral is fun idgaf what anyone says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:40 PM
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Serious question cause I’m getting conflicting reports from people in my life. Do women not get oral a lot or do they get it but it’s mostly bad? I’ve heard both from people but idk what it’s like out there for y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:35 PM
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Did you just conflate the psychological damage of rape to having casual sex? Dude I abhor the thought of marrying a high n-count person but even to me that’s fucked up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:24 PM
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So that’s what in the pipe ya hobbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:58 AM
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Well pussy feels awesome so yeah. And I wouldn’t sleep with someone I’m not attracted to anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:30 AM
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It’s the thought that counts 2. Still weak ass mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:43 PM
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I was shy and not great around women despite having women as friends. I wish I could have found someone earlier, it would’ve been easier to find someone who hasn’t been with a lot of people. But that’s on me, sucks to suck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:40 PM
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That’s how we got to cuck and incest porn being so common nowadays. Step mom wants to chug stepsons dick 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:16 PM
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That sounds really nice, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:15 PM
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I was about to say. Porn is ok but come on sex is waaaay more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:07 PM
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Crazy isn’t it? For me I’d be way more upset with the past lovers and not porn, but that’s cause I’m a dude. I guess it’s cause women are afraid that if he loses interest she’ll have to start all over again and for the dude he’s afraid of her chance being higher to cheat if she’s had a lot of past partners. I’m not saying either are true but being here on PPD i see those ideas shared a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:33 PM
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Ah my bad, I clicked to reply awhile ago and my classes distracted me. It’s interesting that women also feel this kinda thing, just for different things instead of n-counts and promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:22 PM
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Nobody wants to be settled for. Why bother being with her if that’s how she feels about me? Like any passion if feel towards would die and then what’s the point of being with her instead of being alone or finding someone else? And if that doesn’t work being alone really isn’t that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:19 PM
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Not trying to be a dick but isn’t that the same logic dudes on here use when they say they don’t want a woman who has been with many dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:05 PM
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Personally I just don’t feel safe with these women so I don’t wanna date them. Like I haven’t slept with a lot of people so why wouldn’t I want someone like me? I’ll still open to try new thing and get crazy. Just cause I haven’t been with a lot of women doesn’t mean I don’t wanna do kinky things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:24 AM
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Who doesn’t love a redhead lol. She seems so nice and I’m serious that she’s the reason my first time went well. Well that and the woman telling me what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:18 AM
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I am...so goddamn jealous not gonna lie. How is she in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:05 AM
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That’s great to hear. I’ve kinda been trying to pull myself out of the hole I dug myself into, so any good news is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:30 PM
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Well that’s a personal choice and I respect that. Personally I’m looking for someone like myself so I ask but I understand your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:33 PM
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It def doesn’t help. It’s also just another great reason to lose weight, ya know other than not being super unhealthy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:32 PM
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Yeah and honestly as long as you’re happy that’s what matters. For me personally I just can’t date these women, but I do wish that they’d find someone and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:20 AM
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I mean that’s reasonable. Everyone should do what is most comfortable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:29 AM
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Exactly. I haven’t really slept with a lot of people and the ones who have would not make a good partner for me and vise versa. I don’t see a need to shame someone for what they do sexually (as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone), but I’ve been with 2 women, I’m not compatible with women who’ve had a lot of partners. No hate though I hope they get all the love and dick they want 😃.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:41 AM
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To be fair I don’t sleep around a lot so I’m just looking for a woman like myself. If she’d been with 20 men and women I’d still feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:36 AM
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That why I believe honesty is key in the beginning. I figure that someone who has had sex around the same amount as I have will share my values. It’s not 100% accurate but it’s a good starting place for me at least. I laugh every time i hear that a low n count woman wants a dude who’s been with a lot of women. Some don’t care and good for them, most that I’ve seen hold back usually are not into that tho and a lot of dudes i know missed out on awesome women because they thought they could get awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:34 AM
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Yeah well when people say on the internet I got 8-10 inches it makes dudes who have 5-7 inches go like wtf. Honestly I’m just glad I have 6.5 . When I gained almost 100 pounds a few years back I got drunk and looked in a mirror and thought my penis was growing smaller (like an inch oh no). Turns out the fat around the base grows when you get fatter and it looks smaller and my dumbass was panicking for like an hour until I went online and looked around 😂. My point is that dudes freaking out about…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:22 AM
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Well I’m new to it all so I’m just trying to get good at all of it. Honestly when I was told 5.5 inches was avg I laughed so hard cause I was worried about nothing all along. A lot of this is in our heads tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:13 AM
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Yeah to be honest i didn’t even know my penis curved upward until the first time i had sex and she told me.... Dudes only really see one angle of it so it fucks with our perception. Honestly I’m just curious to see people’s opinions are so I broaden my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:56 AM
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Yeah I got big hands so I think im ok. Honestly the funniest thing was her insistence it doesn’t work and then it worked wonders. Also I gotta ask cause you mentioned 9 inch fingers and I’m gonna have nightmares with that image in my head, what’s considered small? I know girl inches are a thing but it’s always good to ask for a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:51 AM
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So I’m not crazy? Cause I was told that the “come hither” motion wouldn’t work because the g spot wasn’t a real thing by my first partner and considering it felt like a vice grip on my hand I think she was either lying or misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:38 AM
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Do you think if that wasn’t an issue women would be more open to the question? I fee bad for y’all cause you get shit on a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:25 AM
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Amount of people you’ve had sexual relations with. At least that’s what I think it is, people can’t seem to agree on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:04 AM
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Ok so honest question cause I’m not sure what I’m doing. So not to be creepy graphic but whenever I finger a woman I do the “come hither” motion with my fingers and it always works wonders. If I’m not hitting the g spot what the hell am I hitting? Cause seriously my hand came back looking like I had carpel tunnel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:57 AM
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Eh different strokes i guess. I just want to be informed so I can decide if I’d want to date someone is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:49 AM
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She is a national treasure. She’s how I found out to make women orgasm, well that and talking to the women I’m having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:49 AM
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Huh well I’ve personally said no to a few women that have had a lot of partners, I guess in your social circle nobody talks about it. Also just because I’m crazy attracted to someone doesn’t mean I can’t still be grossed out by their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:48 AM
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Uh I don’t spout misogynistic things and then play dumb about it. There are people on this sub who do that but I don’t. I think it’s just an incompatibility issue, not a moral one. Edit: I’m retarded and thought you meant literally me, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:46 AM
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Yeah but I’d rather learn with one woman over many. Plus I figure you can try out different things with your partner so it’s not as big of a deal. That being said before I found out the two women I’d slept with had a much higher number than they told me, I was really dominant and not gonna lie, it’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:44 AM
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I meant on PPD sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:41 AM
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I thought the g-spot was literally just the back of the clit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:39 AM
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I mean I know some women who can but the vast majority I’ve met cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:26 AM
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The two partners I were with Came from both kinds and both seemed to work really well. Thank you Nina Hartley lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:21 AM
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Yeah and honestly my dad has been divorced like 3 times now, so I’m kinda colored by that. That being said I want the whole wife and kids things some day and finding some compatible is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:09 AM
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Thanks! But yeah I feel bad for how I feel and don’t want women to feel bad about it. I get y’all get shit on a lot here. I honestly just think that I wouldn’t make one of y’all happy cause I’m at 2 and you’re (not literally you) at way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:04 AM
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Ah well I guess that makes sense as well. I feel bad for harpin on about this but I’m a low n-count dude, I would be a bad match for y’all and that’s why I take it so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:01 AM
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You’d think that’d work for all dudes but honestly I probably would be fine for a little bit, and then I’d get depressed over it. It’s not a great look I’ll grant you and I get that it’s 100% my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:55 PM
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Ah I mean I understand your resining but I still think that’s kinda mean. Like we are gonna possibly build a life together and you don’t care about my values. I will say I do believe you deserve to be loved, even if I feel like this is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:53 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:50 PM
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Ah so you would lie though? Like hypothetically for some reason you saw something in me that’s Orth dating, you’d lie if I asked your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:50 PM
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I try and be honest because lying usually kills relationships, starting one with someone who lies from the beginning is like building on quicksand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:48 PM
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I mean that possible. I just wouldn’t feel special if I’m 1/26 and I really don’t wanna have sex with a lot of women. I kinda just want one that I feel comfortable with I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:47 PM
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I think RP is gross and honestly I’m really glad I never fell into that hole. The pair bonding stuff Is weird, not gonna lie. I just assume people who sleep around or did are not compatible with me, nothing deeper than that. I feel for y’all tho cause you gotta put up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:43 PM
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I made a mistake in the wording and meant to say “women in real life I’ve dealt with”. The only one I’ve seen get pissy about it was that Saigon woman. I honestly can’t imagine not caring about it but I’m probably just a weirdo and scared/grossed out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:41 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:33 PM
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To be fair I thought most women don’t have the ability to have vaginal orgasms? Like the two women I’ve been with were lucky enough to be able to but I’ve heard from women (on here and in rl) that it’s not really possible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:26 PM
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Isn’t that a bad way to start a relationship? Also why waste time on a dude who is obviously not compatible if you have to lie about it? You seem like you have a ton of options kandy so I don’t get why you’d lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:24 PM
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Yeah it’s all so crazy. TRP has never really interested me but Ive had good women role models in my life so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:23 PM
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I honestly don’t know. I’m not redpill and it’s always seemed insane that they bang a ton of women and then turn around and shame women for it. It seems like insecurity but I’m not sure. Honestly I feel bad for women that date/have sex with these dudes, women got feeling too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:16 PM
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Yeah I think apps mixed the groups that don’t mesh well together and now we are seeing what happens when nobody really knows how to navigate the situation. That being said the whole reason I made this post is to challenge my preconceptions on the subject. Semicolon is a great example of how my thinking is flawed in some ways, like people can be happy with very different n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:11 PM
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Ah yeah no that was just my dumbass not noticing my mistakes in the paragraph. I’m just trying to figure out women’s opinions on this subject so I can expand my understanding of the subject. Like why come on here and debate of you’re not gonna challenge your ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:09 PM
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I think with the advent of apps it’s mixed the two groups that shouldn’t have been mixed in the first place, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:07 PM
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Yeah and that’s fine. I think people should do what they feel is best for themselves, as long as you don’t hurt the person you’re dating. So like don’t lie about it if they ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:07 PM
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No I meant romantic intimacy for relationships. People can and do have intimacy in a number of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:05 PM
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Oh sorry I got another post on how PPD women don’t lose their mind and I made a mistake in my post, that’s my bad. I meant to say women in real life I’ve seen and interacted with. You are right about all your points tho. Also I thought we were cool Poppy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:04 PM
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That’s my bad, I didn’t put it as women in life, not PPD. Most people here get mad at the “stats” because they’re bs, but a few get really mad like that Saigon person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:02 PM
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I usually get women to open up to me about it, I like to make women feel comfortable talking to me cause why not. I figure be honest, be kind, and actually have a spine and women will play ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:00 PM
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Yeah I’ve slowly gotten better about it, and my friend gave me the best advice. He said if she lied and I found out, I could just leave, nothing is keeping me with her, even if I’m married and that helped me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:59 PM
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Yeah I’ve lost 40 lbs, became more confident and now talking to women is mostly easy. Some really really hot women I try to avoid cause I get tongue tied but other than that I’m doing way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:58 PM
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Yeah and that’s totally reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:52 PM
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I mean I’ve fallen for a woman that was at like 20-25 and that was one of the hardest moments for me as I put distance between us. It sucks but it’s not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:52 PM
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A lot of dudes my age will have sex with women, like 20+ abc then badmouth women fit the same behavior, it’s the only reason why I’m baffled by women saying that most dudes don’t care. To be fair it’s my perspective that could be blinding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:50 PM
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Uh I’d like to say no more than 10? That’s like 5 times what I’m at. And if I met an amazing woman who was only at 5 I’d be ecstatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:48 PM
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Yeah and thats fair, people don’t have same exact experiences so people will find things that baffle them. Like how I can’t imagine being with 20 people and then go marry someone who’s had 2 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:45 PM
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Makes perfect sense. I tried to disconnect sex and intimacy and couldn’t do it, so it’s not an option for me. Also I’m not talking about no sex till marriage, that’s fuckin insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:43 PM
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See that’s weird to me cause I know a bunch of dudes that care. Also to be fair it’s not a thing to you, other people do care, not as much as dudes on here seem to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:39 PM
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I’m sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:36 PM
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I mean I’ve said no to quite a few of these women, I’m more worried about the ones who are shitty people and lie. A lot of my friends were tricked by their ex’s into thinking they didn’t sleep around, and then bam it comes out she’s been with 20+ dudes. I don’t want them to feel bad but Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:34 PM
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Idk, my family was not crazy religious when I was growing up. Most of why I don’t want to date women who’ve had a lot of partners is based off watching friends of mine who didn’t have a lot of partners dating/marrying women who did and then they end horribly. Plus divorce was a huge thing in my life with my dad marrying like 4 times, most of them being women who had a lot of partners. Honestly I’m just kinda an introverted shy dude who doesn’t do well with women who’ve had a lot of partners. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:33 PM
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Right? I’m so confused about everyone being sex positive but not being willing to talk about it. It just seems like a compatibility issue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:29 PM
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I mean I’d hope she’d be a good enough person to not lie to me. Relationships built on lies usually collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:29 PM
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I’ve had only a few women ever snap at me over it, and honestly they were trainwrecks to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:28 PM
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I mean yeah building confidence had been the one thingI’ve consistently trying to work on. My grandpa told me when I was young that “stagnation is death, don’t ever stop moving”. I just don’t feel like I’d be a good match for someone that’s had a lot of partners is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:27 PM
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For me women would count in the n count, i don’t really care about the fact she had dick as much as she had sex with different people. I get your anger at a lot of the double standards put on women. For me personally I’m a shy guy who’s been with 2 women, so I kinda just feel safer with women like me, ya feel me? I don’t want to make anyone feel bad, I just don’t think I’d be good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:25 PM
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Ok thank you, and thanks for the info. Ive been with like 2 women so for me, I’m not the most confident dude so I figure date someone who has had fewer partners cause then she’ll be like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:22 PM
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Yeah I get that. Most people seem to sleep around a lot nowadays and I feel weird for being 26 and being with 2 women. That might be part of why I look for women that didn’t have a lot of partners. No hate tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:21 PM
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What age are you if you don’t mind me asking? I feel for my age (26) people hide the fact if they like someone and then it explodes and everyone comes out sad. I’d be happier if people were just honest and we could all make informed decisions. I’ve honestly tried to not care, like really hard. I just can’t seem to shake how I feel, and I even feel kinda bad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:20 PM
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Oh yeah I wait till before we have sex, just not literally right before. I’d want them to feel comfortable enough to tell me the truth and if not, no big deal we just are not compatible. Dudes on here act like women who have sex can’t be happy later in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:17 PM
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To be fair, I’m not any kind of pill and I disagree with most of what they say regarding sex. The revenge fantasies they have are so bizarre because they ignore the reality of the world, but considering how they act on here I have to question if they get out at all (some of them, not all). I just think that people who sleep around are incompatible for the most part with people who don’t, but I could be wrong. The only women I’ve had get mad at me were not the most mature women if I’m honest. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:16 PM
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Yeah it honestly scares me how confident people are about stuff like that. Like did you not take any classes on sex and human anatomy? Honestly I feel bad for women on here when it comes to dudes just ignoring y’all and posting “facts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:13 PM
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Yeah and that’s fair. PPD seems to cycle like the same 5-6 topics all the time. I appreciate all the answers though, it gives me a perspective I might not notice and what’s the point of a debate sub if you don’t grow, ya know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:11 PM
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That sucks. I mean to be fair I’ve been with 2 women my entire life, so I’m just trying to find someone like myself and I’d trust a woman if she said it was low. I feel bad that women get shit on about it but I’m not true most confident guy so I just want someone like me. It sounds silly I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:10 PM
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Ok so someone like me who is just shy and not the most confident about himself not wanting to date a woman who has had a lot of partners is fine. The issue is the misogyny that dudes on here like to tout as facts. Honestly I don’t wanna make anyone feel bad, I’ve just want to know to make an informed decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:07 PM
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But what if the guy just doesn’t want to marry someone who slept around? I know women can just lie but isn’t building a relationship on a lie a terrible idea? If he never asks then the point is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:02 PM
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Yeah that’s the thing that weirds me out on here about n-count on PPD. Like we all know you’re just uncomfortable don’t try and act like you’re better, cause you’re not. Do you think women overall would be more ok with the question if dudes on here were less autistic about it on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:00 PM
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Really? I’ve had sex and it’s never been a huge issue. Most women say “I’d rather not answer that” or they’d tell me. If they decided not to tell me we just don’t go on another date. Doesn’t seem too crazy to me but I’m probably just a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:58 PM
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Some of us don’t have sex with a lot of people and wanna find people similar to us. It’s a compatibly thing I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:51 PM
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Oh please don’t give them more attention, they’re already full of crazies as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:37 PM
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I don’t have a partner but I can’t imagine being with someone with more than 10 previous partners. So pretty much no women in my area lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:11 PM
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As a millennial I appreciate y’all, it seems like a lot of older people hate us and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:40 PM
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That depressing not gonna lie. I can’t imagine wanting to be with someone that cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:45 AM
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I mean I understand the mindset, it’s just anathema to me so I can’t partake in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:24 PM
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Ok that’s my bad sorry, I’m on break this week and I’m high af for most of it. I’m being harsher than I meant, and honestly I’ve never been in the situation so I can’t say 100%. That being said my favorite story was a dude from my college who fucked a white chick who called him less that nice things. I was like why would you do that and I shit you not he said “Boy pussy is pussy”. I don’t think I’ve laughed that hard in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:55 PM
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Ok well easy there now. All I’m saying is if you hold the opinion that racism is bad and you compromise those values, that’s desperation. If you don’t care then whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:23 PM
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I mean it depends on the situation. People are confident in some things and not so in others. I think part of confidence is just losing fucks to give while being aware enough to not seem like an ass. Once I realized that I had no real chances with women talking to them became easy. Once you lose the apprehension of losing out on a chance win a pretty woman because you don’t think you have a chance, you seem to be able to string sentences along much easier. So depending on how much effort you put…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:09 PM
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People who don’t have options can’t think like this, at least in their mind. That being said I can’t imagine being that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:59 PM
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She slept with like 15 dudes. I learned of the info from her friend who had sympathy for me cause of how I viewed sex. So I stopped flirting with her and she moved on. Ngl her friend is the real mvp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:55 PM
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I mean we all don’t agree here in PPD, but that doesn’t mean we need to be dicks to each other. I actually really enjoy talking to some people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:51 PM
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Jesus....yeah I was so confused as to what I said that made her cry. She said that dudes don’t like to do that and I was shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:48 PM
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I mean if you found someone who feels like us I guess that’s a good sign to have hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:19 AM
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I’d still be grossed out and not want to be with her. She. Will be happier with a high n count dude and I’ll be happier with a low n count woman. Tbf I’m at 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:13 AM
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I wish more women were this way honestly. And thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:22 AM
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Ah well even if they are, I’m happy they get to do what they want. I don’t want people to fee bad, I’m just not able to date people who’ve slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:12 AM
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Like I said a loser lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:53 PM
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Nope I was just surrounded by people who slept around a lot and I tried to date women who didn’t but most were already shacked up. I didn’t even lose my virginity till this year
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:49 PM
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Jesus and I’m at 2....yeah I think I’m better off being alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:45 PM
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Yeah. Sorry should have made that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:36 PM
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I mean I do hang with a lot of mixed groups. Also what do you thing the average person is at for our generation? Like 10-20?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:34 PM
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Huh well guess I’m just a freak then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:12 PM
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Holy shit what you just did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:36 PM
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Oh I meant the fact y’all are gettin so flustered at each other. I didn’t mean the actual facts of the issue. Sorry I’m high af rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:28 PM
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Oh don’t be that was much easier to understand, thanks. I get why you’d be defensive with how dudes on here are. Honestly I feel kinda bad for women every time I come on here, but tbf I went to FDS and found out what female RP looks like, so it’s bad all around. I don’t want anyone to feel bad, I’m just not the most confident dude with women so I want someone who is around my number. Also don’t feel bad, I’m smoking Cali weed right now and sometimes I can’t write my thoughts out properly because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:26 PM
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Ah well see that’s a perspective I didn’t consider. Thanks for the insight, honestly it’s the reason I’m even still on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:06 PM
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Yeah that’s true. I fee like such a weirdo on PPD when I hear how much dudes lie to get sex. Like it seems like lil bitch behavior that you need to lie to get someone. I try and be honest up front so I can avoid all this. Cause if I’m honest there was one woman who was amazing and I really wanted to date her but I found out she had been sleeping around and I just...crumpled and walked away from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:04 PM
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But it’s only nonsensical from your point of view because of how you view sex. It’s not a wrong view it’s just not compatible with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:47 PM
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Yeah but that means I have to pay for a date and waste time on someone who isn’t gonna be a match anyway. Like I’m happy to pay for a date but not if I’m wasting time on someone who is just gonna be a no anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:44 PM
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I mean partially. Women also don’t want to have to put that work in. It’s understandable that they don’t wanna get rejected, it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:34 PM
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Like she was super sad cause dudes didn’t want to go down on her, and honestly I’m still baffled that more dudes don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:33 PM
1

What? Did I say something wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:32 PM
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But why not just go find a different dude? Like I get being into someone but it’s not like you sunk 5 yrs into the person. You have lots of choices you don’t have to waste time dating someone you have to lie to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:32 PM
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I mean I’m at 2 people at 26. Not 0, not 20, but 2. If you would snap at someone for asking I’d see that as a bit of an overreaction. If someone said they were at 10 I wouldn’t be like fuck no get away but I’d be cautious around them. Were they in relationships, did they have a lot of casual sex, how do they view sex now? It doesn’t exist in a vacuum but it’s still important to me. Like I’d get if women were angry at the double standard part of it but I think the double standard is hypocritical,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:30 PM
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Well most people my age meet on apps so texting is usually involved. We ask what they are looking for and opinions on sex, etc. Once I know that she doesn’t have my values I move on. I can’t imagine waiting that long and wasting everyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:23 PM
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Honestly is it really that bad out there? Like I was trying to have sex with this woman and couldn’t find a spot to do anything. I told her we could park somewhere quick and I would go down on here and take her home and she started crying. Like holy shit is it really that bad for y’all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:21 PM
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Ah my bad, didn’t look at your banner. Now I get why you think like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:12 PM
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I meant that women say it looks desperate, but the real reason is dudes are thirsty, women don’t really need to approach so of course they’ll be lazy and let dudes approach. Humans are lazy af, women are humans, therefore women are lazy in this regard. Men would be the same if the situation was reversed so it’s not an either or thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:09 PM
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Right? That’s why I don’t get mad at the n-count thing. I just know that I would be a bad match for these women and vise versa. I don’t bad mouth these women cause...I’m not a shitty person? Of course men and women are different, that doesn’t mean you get to shit on women for acting exactly like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:07 PM
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It was partly self esteem for like 1-2 women, the rest was because I realized we’d be a terrible match because they slept around. Also no I want one woman who I fuck constantly. Not everyone wants to be polygyny, and I’ll be damned if I get told what I like. I ain’t a bitch ass beta male like a lot of dudes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:05 PM
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Exactly. Women are humans, therefore they are lazy pos like the rest of us. Humans don’t want to take the more difficult path if they can get away with it. Men are too thirsty to ever pressure women to approach in mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:59 PM
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Exactly! I fee like I’m taking to a bunch of psychos on here when I discuss there issue. You and semicolon are the only ones who seem not batshit crazy. It pisses me off seeing dudes sleep around and then spout the “only virgins for me” line because they can’t understand hypocrisy. They do the thing they disparage and then shit on women who do the same, fuckin pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:58 PM
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People who need to lie are weak and shouldn’t be in relationships to begin with. Punishing someone because you (not literally you) can’t live with the consequences of your actions is a childish thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:56 PM
2

Yeah I don’t get all the hate. Like I’m super vocal about not wanting to date women who have had a lot of partners, but that doesn’t mean they are bad people. I just know that we’d be a bad match. The dudes on here who need to shame women for having “too many sexual partners” are fuckin assholes. Like I’m friends with tons of women who’ve slept around, they know I don’t wanna date someone like them and they accept it. People would be happier if they didn’t try to put people down and instead work…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:54 PM
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Yeah it’s crazy. Honestly it’s probably backlash from how open y’all are. Plus older generations divorced like crazy so people put the two together, not accounting for the fact that people just didn’t understand they didn’t have to marry and that most of those failures were from not betting enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:51 PM
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Right? People who sleep around usually are not matches for people who don’t, shocking. They can bitch about there being less women like that today but that’s not the women’s problem. And if you can’t find someone who didn’t sleep around and all the women are like 10-15 dudes deep, sucks to suck learn to die alone like I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:46 PM
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I think it’s a generational thing. We were raised in the 90s and saw the repercussions of the sexual revolution. Plus y’all somehow disconnected sex and love in ways a lot of dudes just seem to not be able to do today. The other thing is a lot of dudes can’t get as much sex as do and don’t want to be the lower than the woman: I don’t feel this way but with how society says you’re a loser for not smashing all the women like women are doing today, it kinda makes sense. That being said I think it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:44 PM
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I mean y’all are both fuckin nuts tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:41 PM
2

To be fair you are right that a lot of dudes lose their shit over the issue. That being said it’s the persons responsibility to “get over it”. They just are not compatible and they both should move on. That being said the amount of “studies” used on here is hilarious pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:38 PM
4

I mean both sides are sensitive about something. Men (some not all) get sensitive about dating a woman who has slept around, women get sensitive when they feel left out of the dating pool cause y’all have abundance mentality and then someone plus the rug from underneath your feet. That’s how dating is for most dudes anyway so learn to live with the consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:29 PM
6

Just...date someone else. Why is this so hard for people to do? There’s like 7 billion people on the planet don’t waste time with someone who’s not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:28 PM
1

This is why you talk about it before you get this far in. It’s incompatible sociosexuality. Learn to sort better and not date outside your range.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:25 PM
1

Yeah they were hot. I used to be in great shape back in the day and women were always so nice to me, I didn’t realize they were flirting with me cause of my low self esteem. The others I said no to (5-6) because I wanted the relationship/emotional aspect. That’s why I’m so turned off by people who slept around. That being said I’m like a minority in the dating field so women are usually surprised when I say no, some have even gotten verbally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:21 PM
1

Yeah I’m that other dude, we don’t all want casual sex. Honestly I’m not great looking but even I’ve turned down sex from like 5-6 women in my life. Men aren’t a monolith on he issue, shocker I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:05 PM
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So I just want to be clear so there is no confusion. You think that lying is acceptable because you know what’s best? So by that logic if I cheat on you and then don’t tell you about it because it would make you miserable is that fair? Also I know having a lot of previous partners isn’t analogous to having past partners, I’m just trying to find something that you’d find equally as unsettling as I find people who lie about n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:02 PM
1

Yeah you’re a lot easier person to debate than a lot of people on here. You and Poppy seem to be the most rational people I’ve talked to on here, there are more but I haven’t interacted with them tho. I will say I don’t want anyone to feel bad. So many people in PPD, FDS, and TRP just seem to be so toxic. Honestly I know that women who’ve been with like 10-15 dudes might be compatible with me, but I’m just not the most confident dude and I don’t wanna get in a relationship with one and then be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:57 PM
1

Ok yeah I guess that makes sense. I like how you actually debate on here and don’t just resort to childish means like “ok” over and over. You’re one of the few rational people I’ve seen on here to be honest. Honestly I started late cause I’ve been grossed out by all the casual sex that the women I’ve tried to date have had. I get that it doesn’t make them bad people but I’m a shy dude that does not have the confidence that many out here have. I just wanna date someone like me that didn’t sleep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:09 PM
1

I get the fear of missing out, but there’s not a limited supply of dudes who view sex like you do. Like I’m a tiny minority, my view doesn’t matter. Honestly when I had sex with just 2 women outside a relationship I feel like I don’t wanna have sex anymore. I can’t imagine having to get to 10-20 to figure that out. I get that it’s not rational but I can’t feel safe with these women, and I’ve tried really hard. Also I had this discussion with that Saigon woman, the fact she would lie to save the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:58 PM
1

But I don’t understand (I’m being sincere), there’s billions of people on the planet, why not just ditch the dude who has these views and get a better match with a dude who slept around? Also unfortunately I’m not a Christian so that path isn’t available for me. Like I said I don’t wanna be a dick to women so it’s better to sit on the sidelines and cheer y’all on. Besides some people are just meant to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:48 PM
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I mean my friends are in the military all over America and have told me the women are pretty much the same all over. Sleep with like 10-20 guys and then settle down. I accept it’s the way things are today, I’m just not made for dating these kind of women. For real though I have to ask a question and I’m not trying to be a dick. Why do women who’ve had a ton of sex push so hard against this? Like I get not wanting to be treated badly but I’ve always noticed it’s these women who try to convince me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:40 PM
1

Eh i live in California, there isn’t mug hope here. Thanks for the kind words but I’m 26, the party is over and I’m just trying to save money so I don’t end up on the street when I’m old. Plus if I’m not out there dating women don’t have to deal with my views about sex, so win win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:34 PM
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I mean honestly I’ve kinda just made peace with dying alone. With most women having slept around I’ve realized I’m in the minority and I should keep my opinions to myself and just not date. I don’t wanna make anyone feel bad and honestly I’m not gonna change. Something inside me just screams run when I find out a woman has had a lot of sexual partners. But I’m just a loser talking on PPD so my opinion isn’t really important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:28 PM
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Because everyone is a collection of their actions. I can understand your point that they didn’t do anything bad, it’s not like they cheated. But honestly I’ll never feel safe with a woman like that. Also it kinda feels like they had a ton of sex and wanna change and I’ve always been like this and now I have to date someone that hasn’t always get like I do. I just don’t understand why people who slept around want to even date someone like me, I’ve been with 2 people. They should date someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:20 PM
1

That’s crazy tho. Like if someone lied to me and I found out and their reasoning was “oh but it shouldn’t matter, I lied because I love you”, I’d still not want to be with them. I don’t get why people who’ve slept around get so weird when people reject them. It’s a part of life, nobody owes you love. It’s kinda depressing the amount of women who will lie because my opinion doesn’t matter to them and then I gotta suffer because of their greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:07 PM
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I guess I’m stupid then I guess, oh well. Honestly people should do what they want but I’ll never understand the past is the past argument, but that’s ok cause nobody is gonna date me anyway lol. And second yeah it’s a debate sub, it’s stupid to not debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:02 PM
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Ok first, this is why people who don’t sleep around resent people who do. Y’all can’t accept that some of us don’t want y’all. Second, the fact that you think it’s ok to lie just because you think it’s right already means that you, or the “perfect person” would never be a good match. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be loved, you should be loved, by someone else. Like I don’t understand why y’all gotta be so angry about it, just date someone who slept around as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:11 AM
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I have an ick factor to people who sleep around. Like I’m happy for people to have as much sex as they want, but if you slept around I’m never gonna feel comfortable dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:06 AM
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That’s an opinion, not a fact. I didn’t sleep around, why would I want someone who did?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:00 AM
2

That’s...manipulative not gonna lie. So building a relationship on a lie is a healthy thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:47 AM
1

Sorry I should have been specific, my bad. I mean of course still be friends and be social with them. I meant date people around your lvl. Like I’m low n-count, so I’d only date someone like myself. Of course people can and should ignore that if they want to but overall I’ve seen the relationships that have mismatched n-counts (honestly most are dudes with lower n counts) burn and fail horribly. Why not date people who view sex as you do? Like I get people can change and want to be monogamous bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:45 AM
1

I think the poster is dick for his views but I’m curious how you view a guy asking about n-count. I’m a 26 yr old dude who has been with 2 women and I ask because I’m looking for someone who views sex as I do, is it wrong to ask? Would honesty not be the best choice for women cause then you wouldn’t have to be with someone who’s gonna be a dick to you about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:28 AM
1

Pretty much. You don’t have to whine about not wanting to fuck high n-count women, you just avoid them in dating geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:18 AM
1

Why not just keep the two groups separate? That way dating wise everyone wins?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:17 AM
1

To be fair the past is the past thing really only works on people with high n-counts. Also the hypocrisy a lot of dudes have on here is hilarious and the fact that they just see it as “fair” would be funnier if it wasn’t so sad. That being said these guys really don’t wanna debate you do they? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:09 AM
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Ah I wasn’t trying to be a dick, it just kinda felt like you still have some anger in you. Tbf text is a terrible means of indicating intent without the normal social ques we use when talking in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:54 AM
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Uh...I don’t think you’ve left the anger phase just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:48 AM
1

Jesus Christ this is why anyone who doesn’t want to date someone with a high n count gets taunted on here. There’s nothing wrong with having as much sex as you want. It doesn’t magically make you a better/worse person for having sex. Stop making the rest of us who don’t wanna date a high n count person look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:45 AM
1

Ok well go be a nihilist I guess. I’m not gonna act like a pos because someone was a dick to me. If you wanna be all edgy and only get what you want out of life do it where normal people don’t have to see you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:54 AM
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You shouldn’t be good because it gets you a cookie, you should be nice because you should treat people like you wish to be treated. Also only losers have to act like this to feel secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:57 AM
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You...you’re not good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:40 PM
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I mean a lot of people lose their shit about it but honestly people who sleep around just aren’t compatible with us low n count people. No hate you just ain’t gonna be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:29 PM
1

Well yeah of course you shouldn’t pick the cheater, but that doesn’t mean if both people were engaging in consensual sex why pick the n=50 one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:24 AM
0

Ok so you’re still downvoting me for some reason. Why would I have a discussion about feet? Also if you don’t like the n count conversation don’t have it. If the woman I ask doesn’t like it that’s fine, we just aren’t compatible. The only people who have any reason to fear are the ones who know the person they want won’t date them. Why is so hard for high n count to understand? A lot of low n count people don’t wanna date y’all, it ain’t personal, we just wouldn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:07 AM
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Ok fair enough. But you know that downvoting isn’t allowed right? Also what is the issue with the n count discussion anyway? If you’re afraid to have it maybe you shouldn’t date that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:54 AM
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I mean yeah but...like if she’s at 15 I don’t think we’d be compatible. Nothing against them it’s just I’ve never really seen it work out that way. I’d wish her the best tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:45 AM
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Nope. I think there was a miscommunication on my part, my bad. I meant there’s no reason to get angry about how people view sex cause we are all different. There are people who view sex as casual and those who view it as not, so why pick someone who views sex differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:44 AM
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Ah well thanks. Yeah I’ve come to realize I’m just a monogamy kinda guy so going forward I’ll try and focus on getting a gf before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:40 AM
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I mean that’s fine. If you don’t wanna have the conversation you don’t have to. For me if it’s not to my liking I just say I don’t think we would work out and leave. No reason to get angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:39 AM
1

To be honest after the second woman I had sex with im sad. I haven’t felt this hollow in a long time. I realized that without a relationship the sex not worth it to me. That being said I’m glad I figured it out, but now I think I’m fucked cause I’m more hesitant to date women who’ve had a lot of casual sex; and quiet honestly it seems that’s the only women around me. That’s a me problem tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:46 PM
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Pretty much. This is why people with lower counts should stick to that range and vise versa. Of course there’s some low n count people who wanna be higher and more power to them. But I only know two people in my entire life were the dude has a low number and the chick had a high number and it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:35 PM
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I mean I guess it’s insecure? I’m at 2 women at 26, so it’s not like I’m one of these red pill dudes smashing chicks and then asking for a virgin. I keep myself to the standard I ask for and if they don’t like it idk what to say. Women who’ve slept around are not a match for me, idk why people get made over that. It doesn’t make them bad partners or whatever the red pill bitches about pair bonding. Also if they lie to me in the beginning g they don’t respect my values and they are definitely bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:24 PM
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People who think they can tell are usually speaking out their ass. The only way you might get the answer is if you ask and she isn’t a liar. Considering how women on here don’t feel bad about lying idk if the odds are in the dudes favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:17 PM
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Wouldn’t it just be easier to get it out up front so you don’t waste time with someone who’s gonna be incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:55 PM
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Most people would be happier with if their own n count league anyway. Doesn’t mean you can’t match with someone outside that range but I’ve only seen it work twice where the dude is super low and the chick is like 10+
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:55 PM
1

Ok first you’re making dudes into a monolith like TRP and incels do with women, don’t stoop to their level. Second if you’re unhappy with men as a whole just be alone. I can honestly say that you’ll be much happier having friends and pets than a person you are miserable with. When I realized that most women out here are sleeping around I figured I’d have to become like them or be alone. Once I had realized that being with someone who makes me feel like shit is 100x worse than being alone it made…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:45 PM
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It’s sexist cause a lot talk unreasonable shit about all men, call them moids, scrotes, etc. Also this doesn’t mean that the subs they lampoon are not sexist as well, they just like to blame men as a monolith like incels and RP do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:07 PM
1

To be fair, it probably is good for people under 5 partners. I think red pill is retarded but honestly n count allows me to see how she views sex ( not the only thing but part of it). She says over 10 I k ow that we probably won’t be a match but it’s not like a for sure no, just a yellow flag is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:05 PM
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Jesus and I was grossed out at my 2. Idk how y’all fuck so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:56 PM
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Well good luck to ya man. Honestly it sucks cause a lot of women sleep around nowadays but this sub over blows how bad it is. There are still some people that don’t sleep around, even if they’re harder to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:53 AM
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Ah well I haven’t dated a lot but one piece of advice I can give you. If you don’t think you’d be happy having sex outside of a relationship don’t. I tried to make myself believe that I could just have random sex (2 women so not a lot) with people and be happy and I feel like shit because of that. Find someone you care about and get weird with them. If you think that’s all crap then fuck till you drop I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:45 AM
1

I meant for dating, sorry I should have stated that more clearly. Also that banner thingy you got is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:28 AM
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Ah I don’t, I live in the burbs, thank god. Not gonna lie from how all the people who talk about how it is in major cities I’d rather shoot mysef than be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:32 AM
0

I guess you are surrounded by shitty men? Idk it’s not that hard to not be a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:28 AM
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Most women are disappointing as well, you don’t see me being a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:24 AM
2

I mean whatever gets you off, I mean what’s the point if it doesn’t feel good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:39 PM
2

Ah well I guess that does make sense, you don’t really feel shame on here so you wouldn’t hide anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:38 PM
2

I mean you don’t have to date dudes, you could always just get a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:37 PM
1

I mean I wouldn’t say all but probably closer to 70% are promiscuous; at least talking to a lot of women in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:36 PM
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To be fair you’re nowhere near as bitter as a good portion of FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:34 PM
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To be fair that could be wrong as well. People call you a slut on here enough that people could think the same about you, doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:31 PM
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I don’t remember the amount of situations but if it’s women I’d say 5? I might be forgetting one or didn’t notice someone was flirting with me cause I’m apparently an anime protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:10 PM
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I mean yeah the dudes who bitch a out n counts are probably insecure about something. To be fair though men are as diverse in our wants as women are. Some don’t care and some don’t sleep around, it’s just preference. I think weirdly enough the internet has been detrimental in this regard as it mixes two groups that never should date/marry/have sex. People would be happier if they just admitted that fact and talked about what they want early enough to not waste time. Most people meet on apps nowa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:05 PM
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I mean if he didn’t ask that’s on him but still ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:55 PM
1

Pretty much. This is why people are usually happier when they are with someone who is like themselves sexually. There’s no reason to mix the two groups together, it usually doesn’t work out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:47 PM
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Ok so you’re not wrong to chastise the dudes who think that it’s an unproductive life choice, but what if dudes don’t sleep around? If you’re hitting out at the weirdos who say cock carousel then I get your anger but some of us just don’t wanna date a promiscuous woman. It’s not gonna hurt you to find someone cause the word is big enough to have groups that fit what you’re looking for. They can complain that all of the nonpromiscuous are gone or are impossible to find but that’s their problem, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:25 PM
2

I forgot the /s but still, people think they’re more free than they really are anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:48 PM
6

Right? It’s insane people want to make people less free. This is America goddamnit, freedom is a right, and we will kill you over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:36 PM
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You can’t remove people’s rights to force them to do shit we made an amendment for this reason ffs...does nobody remember the 13th amendment???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:26 PM
1

Fuck no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:40 PM
1

I mean sex is different for everyone. People have this weird habit of trying to force people to view something the way they do. I feel like it’s people just being incompatible. Like I’ve been with one woman, there’s no way I’ll be a match for a chick that slept with 10-20 dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:34 PM
2

I think the issue is some people conflate different ideas on sex with not valuing it as much. Really it’s just the difference between people who tie sex/intimacy together and those who see it as two separate things that can be tied together but don’t have to be. People who are the latter will never understand how some people can’t separate the two and that’s fine, they just need to stick to those who value it like they do and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:19 PM
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How about you stick to women who sleep around and leave low n count people alone. If you care about it, that’s fine. If you don’t care, that’s also fine. The problem is trying to convince someone that they should date the village bike when they don’t sleep around. Do low n count people a favor and don’t push your agenda (idk what to call this rambling rant) on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:52 AM
1

As someone who lives near Sacramento, this makes me smile lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 06:26 AM
2

Yeah I get that. A lot of people think they can do better than they actually can as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:37 AM
2

Yeah but the problem is how to determine what is ugly? Like I think I’m a 4 but some people think I’m better than that. You might see yourself as not hot but someone else thinks you look good. It’s all in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:27 PM
3

Die alone like I probably will as a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:23 PM
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