KatMagus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
209	Lurking for a while now…	MOOD FOR LIFE	KatMagus	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 04:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	Lurking for a while now… I’m working on being ok. Being on my own for the first time in my life with just me and my kitties has helped me, as does the animal rescue volunteering I do. The ex is struggling, but then again, I did pretty much all the emotional (and a lot of the physical) labor in the relationship. He never had to do that much. I’m sure he’s resentful that I’m not struggling like he’s struggling. It’s so much easier just to deal with your own stuff. Instead of someone else’s, the trauma bond, white and male…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 06:53 AM
6	I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit. And just add, I’m not sure about your area, but you mentioned a degree in social work. I have a degree in psych and mental health places are desperate for folks right now. And another positive thing is if you go into one of the established social work firms and get a caregiver job in an adult foster care and AFC, many times they will give you free hours towards your supervision for your masters if that’s what you’re going for. I am so proud of you. I’m so proud of us. I personally was trafficked…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 03:46 AM
114	UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit") I am a former SW too. DM me if you ever need anything. I am now a counselor by trade.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 03:41 AM
3	Chasing Men Nah sis. Don’t let it get to you. Most scrotes would fuck a hole in the ground literally. They tried it. Meh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 07:15 PM
16	Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this week What a gorgeous ring! Love to see other queens getting independence too. Moving away from the ex was the best thing I ever did. Then the kitties needing rescue came to me. I’m not lonely ever. Have my babies and the Cat Inn. :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 04:32 PM
50	Never again!!! I had a meme once with 2 kitties chatting. “My person is very well. What’s up with the ‘crazy cat lady’ thing? Other kitty: “a woman’s worth is usually based upon marriage or children. It’s a way to devalue her.” Sad but true. 44 year old free for the first time, proud cat lady/rescuer here. My kitties will never deceive me (except when snaccs are involved), hurt my soul or feelings with their harsh words when I’m not the “typical submissive Asian” (YES I’ve heard that mess before MANY times) ba…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 04:13 PM
24	Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to play Amazing advice but in my slightly younger days, these scrotes would fucking FOLLOW me, pretty much demanding my attention and making me feel unsafe. And I was in shit clothes from the gym most of the time. And married at the time. Asian fetishists are annoying and frightening and crazy. At least the incels are usually obese neckbeards I could fight or out walk. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 01:11 AM
6	Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you. These scrotes all want a bang maid, nurse and/or purse. Hard damn pass. I’ve heard of some folks wilin at retirement communities though. They don’t use protection because no one is fertile anymore…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 01:06 AM
12	Message to Male Lurkers Ughhhh. All this screams sexuality is NOT a choice!!! I remember back in the bad old pick me days. Some of these scrotes used their SON’S pic on the dating app. I was SO disgusted. Then when I thought things couldn’t get worse (I was out the time, $, effort, etc), this absolute entitled ASS tries to treat me like a SW and offer me money for sex because “Asian women are hookers.” Go fuck yourself loser. I guess I’m glad he didn’t persist and try and rape me like some others did. Dating…NOOO.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 01:03 AM
47	Women thrive without men, men perish without women, not the other way around True facts. The ex can’t believe I left him for ME MYSELF and I. It’s more peaceful. Dating??? Nah.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 10:15 PM
13	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. And property.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:30 PM
39	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. 40%. At least. And that’s the shit so bad they can’t hide it any longer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:29 PM
9	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. FTP. Always. Never forget the 40%. And that’s just the shit so bad they HAVE to report it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:27 PM
24	There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?” Because kids and marriage are a damn trap. Period. Our “worth” is SO tied up into creating more consumers and being some dudes Fuck slave. I’m a CF crazy cat lady. And I like it like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 02:25 PM
70	NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle" For real. Where do you think those kids came from??? And why they’re decently adjusted instead of running the street. And if she returned to her high powered career, and her kids misbehaved at ALL, SHE would be at fault because “moms should be at home…” Just no damn way to win. I am never dating and for sure never marrying again. It’s just not worth it. My peace is alone. Men are controlling, (often racist esp when confronted), and fragile as all fuck. I like it just me and my kitties. At the en…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 02:05 PM
106	NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle" These losers want to be “KANGS,” but don’t even have a cardboard box as a kingdom. Maybe working PT somewhere and living at mama’s house. They want to lead, but can’t lead shit. Most dudes are low quality like this. They want a mommy/therapist/slave they can fuck. And YES, MOST men are like this. Women’s labor, ESPECIALLY emotional labor is NOT AT ALL valued. That’s why many “caring”‘positions, nursing, child care, many social service positions pay like SHIT.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 02:03 PM
3	I got my coworkers to tell on themselves; a translation of the male mind Amen. That’s it right there. And it was me for almost 30 years. How embarrassing. I didn’t know any better and I knew to get out of the hellish “home” situation, I’d probably have to ride some man to get out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 04:41 PM
2	I got my coworkers to tell on themselves; a translation of the male mind Most dudes are like this. Even the alleged “good ones.” Like the ex. I’m just seeing the extent of the emotional and physical labor I did. There’s a reason why men so quickly move on from divorces and deaths of their wives. Someone has to do the work and dang if they’re going to do it. /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 04:38 PM