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Just checked into a hotel and made the receptionist laugh. Me: Can I leave the keys here? Her: Sure. Me: I pink promise I'll be back before curfew. Her: (Giggle.) My tummy felt funny, my heart rate went up and for some reason, I started smiling as well... I hate this feeling this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:36 AM
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Creep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:08 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:31 AM
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Very good. Kindly spread the word as we cannot have people thinking they can use the image of another person as masturbation aid without seeking permission first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:29 AM
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Their body, voice, demeanor or impression thereof is not yours, therefore you cannot be allowed to use it without their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:27 AM
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If distance and not volition is the only barrier to sexual congress. Consent can be assumed..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:58 AM
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Consent can only be assumed if there is reasonable evidence that suggests physical sexual congress would still feasible with the particular person in question...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:37 AM
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CMV: Masturbating to someone without their consent is a violation of their rights. They may not wish to be part of whatever fantasy you have them in. An exception can only be made for those that have agree to put themselves in a sexual context (e.g. pornstars, actors in movies with sex scenes and strippers.) Express permission must be sought if one is to use anyone's image - even mental - as an aid to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:26 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:15 PM
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the issue is women having those two separate criteria instead of looking for the good guy immediately to settle down with. People grow. What someone might have thought was a good choice in their teens may turn out to be a horrendous mistake...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:11 PM
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Psshhhh....They are just as immature as the girls were when they picked awful guys....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:10 PM
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That's a new one...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:09 PM
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I don't think it's the same. In one case, there is a change of preference whereas in the other represents a failure to attract a mate. Unless, said woman failed to secure committment from the bad boy (which is usually not the case) one must not feel bad...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:08 PM
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Husband material is a pussywhipped boring safe guy with a average dick . Not really. True, husband material tends to be the guy that is reliable and safe, but that doesn't always need to include dangerous. Also, though the average woman tends to grow up faster than the average man, there are men that are just too far ahead of the curve to be interesting to a late teen/early 20s woman. Once they mature completely, many in fact do think that.... The guys she went early with and got burned were the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:04 PM
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Perhaps...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:32 AM
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Misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:32 AM
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they'd rather be a sloppy drunk fuck bc marriage is no longer seen as desirable I think this is disingenuous. Most men I've met that adopt this mindset rarely end up as drunk fucks. They end up as average or well-off fucks that lack life partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:28 AM
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Don't you think then that they are guilty of the same crime they charge women with? (i.e. being superficial)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:28 AM
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Why do so many men here have a problem with being "husband material" as opposed to "the bad boyfriend"? Alright, she went out with a few awful guys and got burned, but most times, they are usually still growing and learning. Maybe she just needed some time to see just how amazing of a guy you are and guess what? Now you get to have her for the rest of your life (ideally.) I don't see how that would be a bad thing for a guy....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:24 AM
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I don't really try but I feel I should, espescially since I feel I may want kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:19 PM
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How come? 3 different environments and I get similar results?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:55 PM
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Yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:47 PM
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Funny how nearly every single friend circle I join seems to think I need help with attracting women. Back in HS, my friends kept on dragging me in front of women that clearly seemed bored by my presence. In Uni, my 2 closestbmates tried to set me up with girls that both ended up telling them they wanted more exciting guys than me, and now as I start my work life, my new housemate says he can bring home some prostitutes if I ever feel the need to "get rid of the virgin stench that's putting ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:39 PM
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Chances are that player needed to be that much better to overcome perception bias....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:30 PM
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It would seem there are a lot of losers in the sexual marketplace then...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:21 AM
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I've led a very sheltered existence...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:46 AM
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I always believed only desperate men slept with prostitutes. Yet, some work mates that never struggle with attracting women have revealed that they enjoy banging prostitutes. When I asked one of them why he does it, he said, "It's a lot less complicated. No paying for meals, no calling to check up on her, no showing up with flowers and chocolate, no listening to half an hour of jargon. I just pay and proceed. If I need anything else, I'll talk to my girlfriend but sometimes you just need to blow…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:18 AM
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How have you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:44 AM
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Maybe it's just me being a virgin but I am thoroughly confused as to how any of this is supposed to be hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:50 AM
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I imagine it's something that works better in theory than in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:40 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:16 AM
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When you think about it, french kissing is one of the most disgusting acts you can do. It's like spitting in each others mouths...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:08 AM
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You really think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:40 PM
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Hmmmm....Didn't think of it that way..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:58 PM
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Well, that's unique...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:58 PM
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Easy now, cupcake. I don't think the world is ready to handle the amount of beauty your blushing face gives off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:57 PM
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Her: That's a nice shirt you're wearing. Me: Oh, this? You are the only reason I wore it. Her: (Rolls her eyes but giggles for the next 30 sec) Am I doing this flirting thing correctly? That's 2 contradictory signals....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:55 PM
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I'll be sure to check that out. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:46 PM
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I think I agree. The best ones I've had so far are the ones I had at an event at the Swedish embassy....God, those were good...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:15 AM
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Things are looking up already, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:13 AM
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So yesterday I talked about how my cooking skills have gotten me labelled as a gay man. Today one lady that knows those two asks me if I still had some of the cinnamon rolls left over. I guess girls do talk....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:51 AM
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Cindy doesn't. It's a shame because I really do think she's pretty... Oh, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:41 AM
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Good to know it's not a "Gay Man," sticker. Not that I'm homophobic, but it's frustrating being labeled as something you're not...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:27 PM
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Oh, so you're saying it's not necessarily a gay sticker and that there are women that won't mind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:25 PM
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Remote, no. Conservative, slightly but not extremely... I mean, I have seen her wear mini-skirts and make-up so she can't be that conservative....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:53 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:45 AM
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Cindy doesn't seem to think so. Ah well, maybe there's another sweet, chubby cupcake that'll appreciate it...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:39 AM
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Yeah. Hope to buy a book on Greek cuisine next month. I hear it's phenomenal...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:23 AM
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What women say on social media and what they feel in real is actually very much different. This seems to be what I am learning as well. I have heard so many complaints about men not knowing how to cook that if I played them as an audiobook, I'd have nothing else to read for the next 2 years. Yet, I demonstrate my ability and get my sexuality questioned in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:19 AM
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And also, even if you did learn from a woman why is that gay. I guess the idea is that since cooking is a "female past time," the only way I could get that good is by neglecting my male hobbies and spending time with women. Only a guy with no interest in such and is comfortable around ladies (e.g. a homosexual) would fit that bill. People are so strange. So I am learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:15 AM
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I thought learning to cook would make me an attractive guy. Instead, I have just overheard the following from a chubby, pretty girl gossiping to her friend, BFF: "How come he can cook this well?" Her: "He's probably gay or something. No man can learn to cook that well without learning from a woman. " Geez, Cindy. Here I was thinking this would be a way for us to connect and bond and yet you just drop me like that. Well, at least I can make some legendary cinnamon rolls and tandori chicken now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:17 AM
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Musical instruments are so expensive. God!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:31 AM
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What's the new form? Some random couples relationship you saw and thought was cute? Perhaps ones where gays and lesbians can be free to marry with no hostility. Not the toxic and adultorous relationships that the church seems to have no issues with. The church is the expert in marriage because they came up with most of the rules Wow. It seems you are totally unaware that many of the rules of marriage have existed prior to the founding of the church and in nearly every single culture, including s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:25 AM
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Coaches have excellent observational skills unlike players Don't know which sports you follow, but it is certainly not true in any of the sports I'm involved in. Players can see things just as well as coaches and I think the same is true in dating/marriage. Those that have at least walked the path know the terrain a lot better than those that have only seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:09 PM
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In it's traditional form, perhaps. But more importantly, let's not forget my original question which was that priests and nuns that have a vow of celibacy and zero experience with this "shitty, outdated" institution. How are they the ones giving advice on how to be successful in it? What gives them that qualification?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:58 PM
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Buddhism ain't so bad, but I see where you're coming from....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:48 PM
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Didn't say they needed to be the best. I said they needed to have at least played.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:40 PM
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The catholic god is very privy with who he interacts with, ey?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:39 PM
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That method has been used for more than 1000 years in most of western civilization and has had the biggest impact on the social institution we know as marriage. The blatant discrimination of homosexuals has also existed for about that time. I do not think that the longevity of a practice or idea is always indicative of it's superiority. Perhaps people adopted it because there were just no better alternatives at the time. That is certainly not the case today. People like marriage the way it has b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:38 PM
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Question for Catholics. Aren't priests and nuns massively inexperienced people to be giving dating and/or marriage advice? If you want a coach, shouldn't you speak to someone that has played the game before and knows how to acheive what you've acheived?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:09 AM
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Bruh, the reason it’s called a boyFriend is all that friend stuff that comes with being someone’s friend. If things are this cut and dry, tell me why the dreaded "friendzone," exists? It would appear that women are still disinterested in any romantic involvement with these kinds of men, inspite of them being good friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:59 AM
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nah men usually make more money and are more motivated to work more hours. If this gap exists, it's not a very large one. At least not large enough for a man to use it as an incentive. men often bring useful additional social resources, like friends, Not anymore. Most men in the modern era have smaller social circles. In fact, I'd say women are the ones that bring the majority of social connections to the relationahip can fix your car for less money than going to a shop,.... a lot of women also …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:48 AM
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decent Nah...not anymore, it seems. caring, responsible Maybe these, yes... intelligent In what sense of the word? I can say that nearly all the academically gifted guys I've known personally have talked about how tough it is to find a girlfriend nowadays. I did an informal survey and only 2 of the top 15 in our uni program are either married or dating seriously....Inb4 "School is not a predictor of intelligence."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:58 PM
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decent Nah...not anymore, it seems. caring, responsible Maybe these, yes... intelligent In what sense of the word? I can say that nearly all the academically gifted guys I've known personally have talked about how tough it is to find a girlfriend nowadays. I did an informal survey and only 2 of the top 15 in our uni program are either married or dating seriously....Inb4 "School is not a predictor of intelligence."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:57 PM
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Everytime I hear your opinions, I really wish I could French Kiss you, lillith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:49 PM
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CMV: Dating is screwed because men have very little to offer women in romantic relationships. In the last 200 years, men's bodies have been rendered almost useless for protection and labour, 2 unique things men could bring to the table of a romantic relationship. Also, since the '80s, women have enjoyed more freedom in education and the job market than they have traditionally had. This means financial stability is also out of the options available to be tabled. Apart from emotional support (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:47 PM
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Good point! I don't think I'd say I wanted any of them, but others will say it is possible to leverage those experiences into something else in adulthood. For instance, the most obvious one would be business and romantic relationships. I started my career rather late because no one seemed willing to go out on a limb and back me when it came to hiring. Then with romance, I have a far smaller social circle to pick from compared to folks that partied every fortinight. This becomes problematic when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:12 PM
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if not then you can meet friends as an adult its just harder because you put in extra effort to show up to events I've started to notice this as I grow. Back in uni, I remember women being eager to meet all kinds of people - guys included - whereas now, even a common interest isn't enough sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:09 AM
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How so? One would say I've missed out on a lot of formative experiences e.g. I don't know how to react if a woman says her card declined and she needs me to lend her some cash. I don't know how to react if a lady says, "I want you to make me feel better." I don't know when it's okay to touch, hug or kiss a lady. 1st date? 2nd date? Official?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:04 AM
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I regret the trips I missed or the hangouts with friends I did not went to because I was training or studying. It is never worth it. Shit. I guess I am set for a mid-life crisis...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:59 AM
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That's the position I'm in. I was so laser focused on my performance that I ended up torching my social life in the process. Funny thing is that my grades ended up being mid after everything so I ended up wiping out on both... I pray he is wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:52 AM
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There are women that aren't too bothered about height. Hard to find, but they are there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:51 AM
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Met my old college dormmate and he just told me that I'll probably have a cosmic level midlife meltdown because I didn't enjoy my "college life experience." I didn't have black out drunk nights, subpar dates, hookups with curious girls or any of that stuff. He said, "Pretty soon, you'll see that all that focus you put on your degree was not even remotely worth it." Do you think he's right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:45 AM
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I've known other people that were not stunning in person but were just unbelievably photogenic. Yeah. Seen quite a few too...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:42 PM
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I am right there with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:44 PM
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For real? I was actually playing with the idea of hiring a pro photographer....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:40 PM
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Me Looking at a Mirror: You don't look that bad. There's probably 1 or 2 ladies praying you approach them and talk to them. Me Looking at Photos: Fucking Hell, Man! If you can't invest in male make-up, buy a Balaclava or something. How is this possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:15 PM
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Those poor girls. Getting feasted on is a pleasure every man should be willing to give a lady...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:30 AM
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CMV: It's okay to give a prostitute oral sex. For as long as you are using dental dams, it can be a great act for those not in relationships looking learn the intricacies of the female body...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:01 PM
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Never heard of that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:32 PM
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Why'd you quit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:31 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:31 PM
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Oh...I see. Neither was I, but it's getting really hard to find something in common with anyone these days....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:31 PM
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So weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:26 PM
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It's amazing just how well drugs can bring people together. In 10 months, in my new city, I have seen 3 romantic relationships form over weed, lean, booze or a pack of cigarettes. Excluding alcohol, what recreational drugs would you recommend someone try if they wanted to begin bonding with others?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:23 PM
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IDK...You'll have to ask them. But I have seen it happen, especially if said party girl ends up with a kid outside a stable relationship....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:07 PM
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Church, perhaps. I know a few ladies that ran there once they decided they wanted something real...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:59 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:08 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:04 PM
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CMV: Drinking alcoholic beverages is the best way to socialize and drinking places (e.g. Bars, Clubs and Lounges) are a goldmine of interesting individuals. If you do not take alcohol, it is unreasonable to expect the rest of society to accomodate your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:34 AM
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Super late, but no, I am not in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:23 PM
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Lol. That actually sounds like a very interesting experience. I'd worked with 2 of the guys and really wanted to see what kind of ideas the rest of the others would bounce off us. Turns out only one of the ladies was even willing to work with us. When the other 2 left, she felt the other 2 may have noticed something she missed and left too. It sucks because the last lady to step out was a really heavy contralto. You rarely hear those kinds in pop music these days...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:11 AM
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My fellow amatuer musician tried to set up a group of mixed sex musicians to begin collaborating and possibly build new friendships. 3 girls and 4 guys. All the girls left group because they said they're not comfortable working with men that are strangers. I guess this, "find them through your interests," is not going to work either. Also, anyone here know a contralto singer that can also play folk styled harmonies on classical guitar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:24 AM
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Hmmm...good point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:48 PM
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Height and status is all he has, really...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:47 PM
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That's quite clever, but he used cash, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:46 PM
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I'm wondering how she knew that something was off...He made sure to eliminate all evidence before getting back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:42 PM
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Define, "chad."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:41 PM
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Yeah...But I'm stunned as to how she knew? He usually works clean..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:40 PM
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I'm only average...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:33 PM
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Women's intuition never ceases to amaze me. A workmate's wife thinks he is cheating and asked someone to have his Imessenger synced to her Mac aswell. If only this woman knew that her husband slept with half-a-dozen women durin a 4 day business trip....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:32 PM
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Yes when flaccid, no when erect...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:17 PM
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I guess that's just life with some autism, unfortunately...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:55 PM
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There are still a lot of young, single women in churches...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:54 PM
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What other alternatives are there to sex? Apart from drugs or exercise...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:49 PM
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I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:35 PM
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Idk if I'd put him in that group, though. While he is a proud, self-professed player, he is running a locally successful businesss full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:34 PM
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Me: "There's more to life than sex. I think it is possible to live a happy, fulfilling and meaningful life without it." Housmate: "The lies people will tell themselves to cope with no coochie?" Dear universe, bless my efforts with a pay rise, I need to find my own accomodation. ASAP....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:18 PM
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Places of worship are usually proposed as places to meet women...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:16 PM
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So I have to pledge in first? Damn...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:01 PM
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How do you even flirt in church/synagogue? I (a junior level infidel) got invited to a few services because someone said it's a great place to find decent young women. I noticed that it's like your attention is always taken up by something else (either singing or listening) and might seem a little disrespectful to do it then. Then after the service, the ladies that you may be eyeing may be a little wary of talking to a stranger (I'm a heterosexual male, btw.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:18 PM
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Unless you just get lucky, it is usually unwise to question those that know more than you in a particular field (e.g. The teacher.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:58 AM
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What makes you convinced this is how it works? Accruals. Unless girls choose to stop improving their knowledge base and systems of thought, that early advantage can never be closed. what we do know is that teachers are biased in favor of girls when grading their students So why is it that in systems like the British one where grading is not done by the class teacher but by an independent marker, girls still toast the boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:54 AM
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What about in A-Levels, and other such examinations where class teachers are completely uninvolved in grading? In nearly all subjects, excluding math, Girls cook the boys well and good...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:47 AM
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Your claim assumes that everyone grows into their intellect at the same pace Perhaps. I think women get an ahead start and keep that advantage throughout life. boys are less likely to give a single fuck about school. Could that be because it is one areas where girls do the fucking? I wouldn't enjoy playing a game I knew I would not be good at....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:34 AM
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Yeah, heard that one. It was wildly controversial when it came out, I think the person that proposed it was severely attacked in "open-minded," academia....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:29 AM
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young girls develop faster physically than boys, around 10-12 girls are taller than boys why is it hard for you to believe maybe their brain develops faster too? That's precisely what I'm saying during and after puberty, girls get ahead start that they keep throughout life... men used to outperform women in academics until they grossly rigged the system in their favor in recent years Or was it men that have simply been putting barriers in women's way throughout time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:27 AM
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What I Believe But Cannot Prove: Women are smarter than men. I have come to this conclusion after seeing just how large the performance gap between girls and boys is in grade schools in many countries. The fact that some are beginning to suggest that boys should begin school a little later than girls also supports my belief....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:31 AM
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I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:21 PM
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No pizza in my town, unfortunately...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:37 PM
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CMV: It is impossible to get razor thin, fastfood grade pizza crust in an oven....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:07 PM
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Just visited Ford, Toyota and Nissan websites and the prices there really scared me. At the rate I'm saving, it'll probably take me approx 20 years till I'm able to afford a brand new one. I've made peace with 2nd hand being my category, but wonder, who is buying these cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:41 AM
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That's dark...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:45 PM
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What I believe but cannot prove: Women are more ticklish than men...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:49 AM
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If you do not have a roster of women ready to help you with that, then perhaps you don't deserve to. Use that frustration to self-improve and get better for women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:48 AM
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No, no, no. She was married in her mid 20s (say 26~27) but got widowed around 29....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:13 AM
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What about her? She's probably lonely through no fault of her own....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:54 AM
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Hmmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:47 AM
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Why? She's not promiscuous, as that seems to be the reason most men don't want single moms....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:42 AM
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Imagine that infornation may be unavailable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:40 AM
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how old is she now Early 30s when was she widowed Married in her mid 20s, widowed shortly after (Car crash) child current age Less than 2 age of husband death Early 30s,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:37 AM
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Q4M: Would you date a single mom that was widowed young?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:27 AM
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A few of us told him we hope she dates a player like him in her teens...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:29 AM
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I would've but this lower belly fat just won't fuck off.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:20 PM
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Just heard Mr. Steal-your-girl from highschool just had his first kid....It's a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:19 PM
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It's a lot better than losing 5 to 15 IQ points everytime you behold feminine beauty. Or wanting to kick it with a person you know has a hair trigger alarm to any kind of sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:21 AM
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Hope so. I'd hate to make her feel uncomfortable and scared...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:40 PM
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So I was onto something when I decided to avoid provactively dressed women a lot for this...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:39 PM
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I imagine she cares...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 AM
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I try to be discreet but I do get caught sometimes and most don't seem to react well to it. In all my life, I can only remember one girl that liked it and it shook my worldview vigourously...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 AM
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I feel so bad about checking a pretty woman out. I know she'd probably be horrified that I'm looking at her, but sometimes I can't help it. I really wish I was asexual, sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:26 AM
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I'm pretty much maxed out on those and though my BMI puts me in a healthy range, I still don't have abs...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:01 AM
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Coke is illegal. He can source Ketamine, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:18 PM
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Do 4 X 8 of OHPs, Squats and RDLs in 45 and tell me you won’t feel it. Alright, I'll give it a shot. Track your beverages. Remember I said; I never drink juice. All I drink is water and maybe ice tea on Pizza night. So I'm already maxed out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:51 PM
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You'd be surprised how many business deals he's been able to score from a chocolate and hookah session.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:43 PM
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Two of your going to stick with this program you need to up the sets and the reps. I only have an hour a day, though...with 1-3 mins rest between sets, the weightlifting/calisthenics take about 45 mins. Three your cardio is barely there. Either up the intensity or add time to it. 20 mins non stop skipping is not enough? Sheish. Four: you can’t spot reduce. If you want to drop fat you’re also going to need to start tracking your food and calories and making sure you’re in a caloric deficit. All t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:39 PM
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What happens when you cut while on weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:21 PM
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He might be an exception. No one ever knows he smokes until he pulls out a cig. His skin, lips are fine and his stamina is okayish. (At least enough to bang a woman.) Also, Tobacco kitty? Never had that one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:20 PM
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I lift weights and do calisthenics 3 times a week and I jump rope for 20 minutes every Sunday and Friday morning. Been at it for about a year and a half. My diet is basically veggies, fruits, nuts and meat. Excluding Saturday night pizza with the lads, brown rice is the only carb heavy food I eat. I never drink juice. All I drink is water and maybe ice tea on Pizza night. Yet I still can't push past the 19%~22% bodyfat range that keeps me chubby. This guy rarely worked out. IIRC, he only did wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:12 PM
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Sunday 20 mins Skipping Monday Bicep Curls (3×12) Dips (3×12) Crunchy Frog (3x12) Bicycle Crunches (3x12) Tuesday Pistol Squats (3×5) Wall Sit (2× 35 sec) Donkey Kick (3×12) Weighted Lunges (3x12) In-n-Outs (3x12) Wednesday REST Thursday Overhead Barbell Lift (3x12) Normal Pushups (3x12) Diamond Pushups (3x12) Planks (2 x 30 sec) Mason Twists (3x12) Friday Skipping (20 mins) Saturday REST Only my bums, arms and chest seem to respond to this routine. My tummy never seems to budge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:10 PM
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She does have tattoo, though....It's not her face though...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:56 PM
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I lift weights and do calisthenics 3 times a week and I jump rope for 20 minutes every Sunday and Friday morning. Been at it for about a year and a half. My diet is basically veggies, fruits, nuts and meat. Excluding Saturday night pizza with the lads, brown rice is the only carb heavy food I eat. I never drink juice. All I drink is water and maybe ice tea on Pizza night. Yet I still can't push past the 19%~22% bodyfat range that keeps me chubby. This guy rarely worked out. IIRC, he only did wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:54 PM
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I know it sounds crazy, fam but I'm running out of ideas for what will finally get a lady to look at me doe-eyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:52 PM
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I lift weights and do calisthenics 3 times a week and I jump rope for 20 minutes every Sunday and Friday morning. Been at it for about a year and a half. My diet is basically veggies, fruits, nuts and meat. Excluding Saturday night pizza with the lads, brown rice is the only carb heavy food I eat. I never drink juice. All I drink is water and maybe ice tea on Pizza night. Yet I still can't push past the 19%~22% bodyfat range that keeps me chubby. This guy rarely worked out. IIRC, he only did wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:48 PM
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I've been thinking of taking up smoking to lose weight and become attractive. My former roommate did 2 packs a day and women were always complimenting him whenever we were out together. Also, the cute, chubby girl I've been eyeing smokes both tobacco and weed so it might be something we can bond over...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:32 PM
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CMV: Unless you live in the USA, STEM degrees are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:16 AM
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I do not follow your logic...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:00 AM
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What do you think of girls that did?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:49 AM
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Still, stupidity of that magnitude does require testes the size of watermelons...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:41 AM
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He says if sex is all you're after, it does work. A lot of highschool girls were curious about sex and so finding a guy that was unafraid to explore the depths of perversity was deeply fascinating to some...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:40 AM
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According to him, some girls would be visibly uncomfortable (he said he found that adorable) while others would try to one up him and show they were more dirty minded than him by becoming handsy or even stripping. That sometimes led to sex, which is all he wanted in the first place... Strange tactic but only the flying spaghetti monster can judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:34 AM
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Friend just told me he used to watch porn whenever girls would come to his room back in High School. I used to get embarrassed watching movies with kissing scenes in the presence of girls. Where do some guys get their self-confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:28 PM
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Let's assume it's on the high end of moderate, i.e. A full crate on the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:25 AM
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What's wrong with girl doing lean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:11 AM
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What impact would the following drugs would have on a person's attractiveness (male or female)? Alcohol Smoking weed Smoking tobacco Drinking lean Drinking dropping Acid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:52 AM
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Not necessarily 1:30 AM but I do get it a lot when looking at pics of myself. Like, there will never be a time a heterosexual member of the opposite sex looks at me and thinks, "Wow!" or even "Meh." It will probably always be "Yuck!" feels bad, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:12 AM
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How do folks afford this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:52 PM
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Cheapest one was about $250....Still pretty heavy for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:03 PM
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Aren't these places women complain about being hit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:02 PM
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And stadiums are almost always packed....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:51 PM
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$400 for a ticket to the Kendrick Pop Out concert? Seems not everyone is affected by this economy....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:48 PM
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You would be surprised...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:29 PM
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I mean there are social gatherings and circles where you can meet women Which ones are these? Work is a big ,"no-no," anyone with good sense is not stepping into a church, festivals and concerts are out of most young people's price range. Unless you're a drinker or live in a big city that can attract large enough gatherings for your hobbies, you don't have a lot of options. Worse if your childhood social circle is dead....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:31 PM
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That doesn't sound good at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:42 AM
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I'm not sure but I assume it's the heavily volatile, spontaneous, heart pounding and passionate relationship with a caree-free guy. I'm more cautious and calculated about my affairs...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:41 AM
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Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 AM
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Not sure I'll make it...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:50 AM
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A diplomatic way of saying I'm ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:49 AM
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Dating does make me feel that way, sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:48 AM
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A woman I've been talking texted me the following, "You'll make a very good husband someday but I can't date you because I don't want to skip any stages." I don't know what to feel....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:32 AM
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I guess you're right...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:22 PM
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I'm doing my best to staee at my screen but God, this is difficult...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:20 PM
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She might slot me into the creep bucket, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:16 PM
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I am drawn to her, but there is a gross lack of evidence that the feeling is mutual...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:15 PM
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Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:10 PM
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A woman came to work in a really short skirt today and has stopped by my neighbours desk. I'm doing my best to find something on YouTube more interesting than her thighs...Any recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:08 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:14 PM
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Alright, perhaps I may be wrong on the scientific and military front. However, I still do maintain it may have played a role in artistic, culinary and maybe even physical acheivement...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:12 PM
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Alright, perhaps I may be wrong on the scientific and military front. However, I still do maintain it may have played a role in artistic, culinary and maybe even physical acheivement...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:11 PM
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What I believe but cannot prove: A large amount (dare I say a majority) of scientific, artistic, military and culinary breakthroughs were driven by a male's desire to impress women in general or a certain woman in particular....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:52 PM
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As a born-bred African that has seen extreme poverty 1st hand, I disagree profoundly. Most guys can probably acheive the outline, but chiseled abs is only for the lucky and/or the dedicated...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:15 PM
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I know several relationship "experts," that have suggested just that...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:11 PM
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Half of the top performers in my uni programme were big fans of it...The story I love to tell myself is that they were smart inspite of it, not because of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:04 PM
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I would find it very interesting, but dealbreaker? No....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:01 PM
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I wish eating pussy had the same effectiveness rate. Hetero-males that love a good feast would probably benefit....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:58 AM
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CMV: Skills<Networks. Even in STEM fields like mine (Electronic Engineering) this still seems to hold true...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:08 AM
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I believe Western society is still in a state of transition and people are still trying to cook up suitable solutions. I disagree with your first premise. I think that dating apps do suck (e.g. power-law distributions, paradox-of-choice, heavy reliance pics, cheap signalling.) However, I do agree with your second premise (i.e. No good alternatives.) Religion used to be a big alternative but in the past 2 decades, it has been put on life support in most Western nations. Work was also big one but …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:44 AM
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Surrender feels sweet...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:18 AM
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Yeah. I feel like a simp too when I go out of my wau to make one laugh...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:26 PM
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It's up there...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:22 PM
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Yep. I hate the fact she has that much power over me...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:21 PM
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I hope that's not a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:20 PM
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Just your penis? Not everything else attached to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:19 PM
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Why do I feel so good when I make a woman laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:31 PM
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It's not about her liking ne. It's about getting rid of the "virgin vibe."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:27 AM
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Trying for a while without success does take it's toll...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:50 PM
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I guess so...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:10 PM
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Interesting... Can an anxious person be eloquent as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:09 PM
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Condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:06 PM
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I do try, but like I said, since I'm apparently giving off "virgin vibes," it never really gets far (i.e. past talking.) I believe many women expect men to have done the awkward discovery stages around highschool. Since I haven't, they deem me as "unprepared" and their suspicions get triggered. Prostitutes are supposed to eliminate that vibe...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:05 PM
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So I am learning...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:47 AM
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Guess Imma have to have the awkward conversation about where he found them after vehemently turning down his proposal....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:46 AM
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28
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:44 AM
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My male housemate had been saying that one of the biggest reasons women reject me is because I give off virgin energy. I've just finished the book, Mate by Evo Psych Professor, Geoffrey Miller and he seems to concur that women can definitely sense a lack of female attention by reading body language which is bad because of "pre-selection." If that is true, then maybe my mate really was trying to help the night he brought 3 prostitutes to the house and offered to pay extra for me to be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:09 AM
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How so? According to the Popperian view of science, a theory can be valid If observation shows that the predicted effects generated by the theory are is definitely present. The predictions evopsych provides are almost always accurate...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:31 AM
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CMV: Evopsych is legit...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:07 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:09 AM
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How old are you? 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:09 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:59 AM
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So I've been told I am handsome by 2 older women and yet I've been told I'm ugly by women my age. What am I supposed to conclude from this? Have male beauty standards evolved that drastically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:15 PM
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x2 speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:31 PM
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CMV: Reading has lost relevance. It is far more efficient to listen to podcasts and lectures on the go than it is sit down and consume a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:37 AM
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SMV: 4. Chubby build, 5'6, dark-skinned and nerdy. Go figure. RMV: 6. I have a job that pays okay, but quite stable with a lot of room for growth. I have a few interesting hobbies and a few older women have said I'd make a very good father. My looks and econonic situation really bring me down...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:38 PM
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No I’m asking if you would follow her advice as a man. Do you ask goalkeeper how to score goals? Seems the same situation except dudes the one getting Sugar. Which is a situation and some ok me thing that most dudes are able and willing to get in? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:54 PM
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If he were a woman in a sugar daddy situation, would you think her experiences would be helpful? Yes! Why not? Provided that sugar daddies are not the only kind of person she can attract which is also clearly not the case here. Remember, in addition to the sugar mama, he ended up having 1 kid with a girl that really wanted to marry him and was already videotaping 3 somes in college. If this woman had a track record of attracting a variety of different men, I would also ask her for her experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:17 PM
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Sounds like a Sugaring situation. It was... Why we listening to a gold digger just cause he’s got a penis? No. We listen because he has a demonstrable track record of attracting different kinds of women at will. Something modern men seem to be struggling immensely with....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:06 PM
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I'm just a messenger. I don't know what to believe which is why I brought it here....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:52 PM
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Could be a cultural thing. The interwebs says it's one of the best ways to ensure she comes, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:49 PM
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a dude that pays for dates. He doesn't, though. He once spent the entire semester with an older, richer, lady who was recently seperated because he lost the money he had brought for upkeep. He kept her company at functions and she kept him fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:47 PM
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How is eating pussy unmasculine Idk. He didn't elaborate. I'm still a virgin, but I don't think I'd have any qualms about doing it. The application of his advice varies on what you are looking for. Perhaps, but he did argue that the principles of attraction remain the same. For instance he has used some of his knowledge when finding long-term girlfriends but did advise that in such a case, "scale some of it back," once you have captured her attention. "You can't get the job if you don't pass the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:40 AM
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Don't want to say exactly, but sub-saharan Africa...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:25 AM
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My 3 month stay with a reformed womaniser comes to an end this week. Here are the top 5 tips he gave me about male-female attraction: Looks do play a role. If you're short, fat, ugly or a combination of the 3, you will definitely struggle. Period. Eating pussy is very unmasculine. Save that act for a gf that won't judge you for being that unmanly. A lot of women struggle to correctly identify the source of their emotions. If you can get her into a situation where her emotional state is heightene…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:06 AM
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They probably focused this energy into a fucking kamehameha Not quite. They did focus their energies into building empires, creating masterpieces and making scientific discoveries. There are many acheivements we owe to horny men that were trying to impress women. With less need to impress, there's less of an incentive for many to even try nowadays...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:28 AM
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And we are seeing the chickens coming to roost already (e.g. #MeToo, Sex Recession, Gender wars.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:24 PM
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But you did say it's making men worse. Yes, I did. You did say that it's making men depraved. Not quite. What I said was this; Gen-Alpha males might end up being the most depraved in history... The possibility of porn sending people into depravity is there but not always gauranteed. Sorry, how is that meaningfully different than evil? In the same way one might say pizza, black forest cake or weed are unhealthy, but not evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:19 PM
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I would say there's a lot more correlation than causation in the studies I've seen. Also, read other responses, many are still unconvinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:11 PM
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Islam is the solution to the world's depravity...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:40 PM
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So we have to unhealthy things on the loose. Men are truly fucked...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:39 PM
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Yeah, although IME, most of them seem disgusted by it and rarely watch it. It would seem to be a predominantly male activity....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:37 PM
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More of the latter, although the former has not gone away completely...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:34 PM
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Gen-Alpha males might end up being the most depraved in history...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:34 PM
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I didn't say it was evil, I just said it was unhealthy...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:33 PM
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Young men shouldn’t watch porn, instead of going off to porn they should fantasize about females they know irl. learn self-control and channel that energy to more productive endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:32 PM
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The amount of variety present online dwarfs whatever could be found in any historical king's harem....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 PM
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What I Believe But Cannot Prove: Porn is inherently unhealthy and is making young men worse....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:53 PM
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I have and I find it very amusing because a lot of them seem mad when you tell them the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:27 AM
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According to some gossip I overhead from other ladies, they say I have the look of someone just getting ready to kill someone. A cold, hard look. I have no idea how true that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:25 AM
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If I had a dollar for every woman that has said, "Please, smile, you're scaring me." I would be rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:58 AM
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And she's not the first woman to do this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:34 AM
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Why do they talk about wanting men that just shut up and listen, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:33 AM
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Yeah. He seems pretty cut-throat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:28 AM
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Shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:08 AM
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I have to show concern, don't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 AM
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I thought women wanted a man that was a good listener...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:48 AM
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I though women wanted men that were good listeners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:46 AM
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I though women wanted men that were good listeners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:45 AM
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It was a 25 minute story but here is a summary; She falls in love with a broke guy. Broke guy tries a whole bunch of shit that doesn't work and runs into debt. She bails him out. He eventually gets his break and becomes upper middle class Decides he needs to upgrade his girlfriend and dumps her. After an ugly fight with his new gf, he calls his now ex crying saying she was a good girl and he feels bad for the way he treated her. She goes to his crib to cheer him up and ends up giving him pity se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:43 AM
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Just got off the phone with a girl that spent 25 mins talking about how big of an asshole her ex was. She ended the convo with, "Anyway, men are still nice. I can't help but be attracted. I just wish y'all were more well behaved." There are still women rejecting the bear....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:13 PM
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I like the first one. Lot's of access to the critical areas...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:30 AM
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This makes sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:28 AM
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What's the best position for a hetero couple if you want to keep whispering in her ear? I feel doggy might be too stressful for both backs and missionary doesn't allow for clitoral stimulation....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:09 AM
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Even when I wear cologne?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:35 AM
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Do you stutter around women and shit? No...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:34 AM
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Just had a male friend offer to pay for a prostitute for me. He said I give off a hungry look that all virgins give off and that it repulses women. Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:55 AM
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I bet #2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:41 PM
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She didn't. She did upsize my drink at no cost, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:53 PM
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But why would she flirt with me, then? I'm sure she sees lots of great guys at that joint, I am not convinced I rank highly among them. Maybe she just gets a kick from flirting. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:50 PM
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Maybe she could gain a promotion if she bring more customers? Man, IDK. I just can't think of a good reason why she'd flirt with me...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:46 PM
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Just come out of a fastfood joint where the cashier flirted with me. I know she was probably doing it to get me to spend more, but it would be a lie if I said it didn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:53 PM
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Shame. I didn't actually mind the presence of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:01 PM
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Waste - Foster The People
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:28 PM
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If you got dates on Online dating, you're probably more attractive than you give ypurself credit for...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:06 PM
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Be sociable. With how almost everyone seems to have social anxiety these days. Unless there's a chance of repeated encounters, this is unlikely to work. Use apps. Definitley will not work if she's "out of your league." Chances are she's alreadu Go out to events. Maybe this....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:40 PM
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And here I was thinking dick pics were a nuissance to women across the board...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:57 AM
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A good looking loner is useless. Perhaps this only happens once people mature. I say so because as a Zillenial, this has not been my experience, particularly when it comes to my fellow men. Some of my friends have turned down really friendly, chatty women because they were a bit too "Homely" and have taken a chance on "Baddies," that are known to be "toxic," (prounounced: Misunderstood.) I've seen it in women too, but to a lesser degree...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:56 AM
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She cannot possibly know he has a huge cock on the first encounter...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:56 AM
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From the looks of things, his strategy sounds like this to me; Get one lady interested by simply getting lucky. Rock her world with your skills. Let her become your advertiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:55 AM
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The jokes write themselves, bruh..."Your advantage is that you get to work 3 times as hard for a quarter of the attention."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:09 AM
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This is why Gay/Celibate/Asexual men dominate social circles and achieve pinnacle of power and success. Do they? I think you're severely underestimating just how many scientific, artistic, athletic and technological achievements have been driven by heterosexual males trying to impress ladies...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:42 PM
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I think this post might be specific to heterosexual males....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:38 PM
1

Perhaps....Best of both worlds...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:46 PM
1

You are an exception, not the rule...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:45 PM
2

Bass voices are overrated. Nearly every chart topping male RnB singer has been a Tenor (e.g. Marvin Gaye, Ne-yo, Usher, Stevie Wonder, Akon, Timberlake, Bruno Mars) or a Baritone (Frank Ocean)...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:30 AM
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I don't think we have those in my town....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:31 AM
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What diet are you following?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:10 PM
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Did you ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:59 PM
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I find that even more difficult to believe....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:55 PM
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So I have discovered...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:33 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:28 PM
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Do MILFs actually exist? Nearly every older woman I've approached seems to be appalled by the idea of being romantically involved with anyone 5+ years younger than them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:32 PM
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Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:19 PM
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What happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:33 PM
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Will hugging her, comforting her and cooking for her help when she's in that state? Because I can do all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:31 PM
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Sounds a bit extreme. Although I do believe there might have been a lighter version of your suggestion in the old testament of the Christian bible....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:28 PM
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Idk what the ratios are in my area. Hope it wont be too tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:23 PM
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Wise...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:22 PM
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Oh, no...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:21 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:21 PM
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I have no sisters and didn't track mom's cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:44 PM
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Been trying to get a girlfreind and a thought just hit me the other day. What if I'm not man enough to handle her on her period? I often hear how women range from unreasonable to boderline abusive around that time of the month. What if PMS makes her say something that'll crush the baby in me? How do men in relationships manage this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:07 PM
1

I wouldn't say I was horny, though. Maybe I did misread this entire situation...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:20 PM
1

Maybe I am...🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:30 PM
3

Sitting next to them? With our legs almost glued to each other when there are free seats available? That can't be normal...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:59 AM
1

My friend's girlfreind got really drunk and started to behave really weird towards me. I was alone in the living room and she came and leaned on the door like this and offered me some of the food she had cooked earlier. She then left came back with everyone else in the house and sat right next to me. As in, right next to me. I mean I could feel her thighs touching mine. I know none of this should qualify as (IOI) and even if it did, I shouldn't act on it as it would ruin the friendship but damn,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:29 AM
1

Her: "Like what?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:26 PM
1

How can I know beforehand that it'll be a truly rancid one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:13 PM
3

Thanks. Will try....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:05 PM
1

Yes, I have. But I can't seem to compete witg whatever might be entertaining her on her phone...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:07 AM
3

The former...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:08 AM
1

Shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:47 AM
3

I meant to say during a first encounter...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:43 AM
1

The Civilizations of the Far East have typically fared well. Even Levantine civilization wasn't doing too bad until circa 1700...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:32 AM
2

Western Civilization is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:21 AM
3

How on earth do I get her off her phone without looking needy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:20 AM
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Yes there are people partying and going to frats but that’s not the majority. You've missed my argument. What I was trying to allude to is that traditionally, higher income jobs usually went to college educated people. Since females now outnumber males on college campuses, it means that there might be more high earning women than men in the near future. If that is true and if hypergamy is true, ot logically follows that college educated men are set to become a very rare and valuable population. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:16 PM
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Uhmmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:47 PM
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If women being hypergamous is indeed a real thing, then I am convinced that polygamy will definitely make a comeback. Male college enrollments are well nigh the toilet, right now so there are going to be a lot less, "High Value," men be to be monogomous with..... ....That is, unless college education loses its lustre, which some say it is....What a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:42 PM
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Some of my friends say they enjoy it. Like getting free admission to a wrestling match...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:36 PM
1

I would think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:23 PM
1

Could be...I'll do so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:19 PM
2

What would they be looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:16 PM
1

My guess is they just want to get the girl, I'm not good at that either. Pushing 30 and yet to have my first kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:16 PM
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I have never been in any kind of serious relationship, yet half my male friend circle come to me when they're having relationship problems. Like, "Bruh, the best coaches are those that played the game. Not those that just watched."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:40 PM
2

I do not bother myself with nonsensical endeavours, I focus on women and commerce...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:45 PM
1

The wife gets a mansion and handbags and shit, the husband gets young pussy. Sounds deeply utilitarian...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:50 AM
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I frankly told him that he was lucky to have her and to get his shit together and stop acting like a teenager in his late 40’s. What was his reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:47 AM
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Women still fall for them, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:42 PM
3

Good lord...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:02 PM
4

Unprofessionalism is abundant in my workplace...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:01 PM
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I found it strange that a man that doesn't seem to struggle to attract women should go down that road. I guess men that high up have very little patience....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:55 PM
3

What's their range?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:51 PM
3

It was truly surreal. I was seated there thinking, "Why exactly is this man telling us this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:43 PM
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During workplace banter, I discovered that one workplace superior (male) frequents prostitutes and escorts for sexual gratification. He is well up the corporate ladder, with the money and lifestyle to match. He has a wife and 2 children; One born to his wife late last year and another born to another woman he dated earlier but decided not to marry, (much to her disappointment.) That's 2 women that are (or at least were) interested in him as a partner. Then that doesn't include his secretary who …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:33 PM
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They wear it cause it's comfortable...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:17 PM
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No, but exceptions do exist. You could fill a large book bag with studies done on how height affects a man's dating prospects. It's definitely not cope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:17 PM
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Do some people look worse when they smile? Asking for myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:59 PM
1

You find the video yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 01:57 AM
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Thought as much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:15 PM
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A man never takes out his balls at a concert.. It's considered criminal. Double standard, but whatever... Also why is paying your ultimate test? I use payment because money tends to be the mots fungible and measurable medium of value modernity offers us...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:08 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:07 AM
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And even if they were the same, women have no need to pay for sex. You've completely missed the argument. "Men crave sex," and there are many pieces of evidence to justify that. e.g. Prostitution - an institution where men pay some of their hard earned money to sleep with a complete stranger - would fail to work entirely if men weren't so horny. However, I assert that the claim, "Women crave attention," especially from men, is flimsy since we have no instances of women going to the same lengths …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:04 AM
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If women crave attention, as so many men love to claim, why haven't we seen them go to the same lengths that men have gone for sex? e.g. Paying to be heard...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:28 AM
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Calling your sister's boobs beautiful is wild, but who am I to judge...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:02 AM
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Men who put effort do have success. I really don't think this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:56 AM
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CMV: The current sex ratios on colleges suggest that women have allways been smarter than men and were simply held back by the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:18 PM
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Namibia, Botswana and/or Switzerland.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:11 PM
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It surprised me quite a bit too. Like why swipe and then send an intro if you're not ready to talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:05 PM
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You seem to have this shit all figured out....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:33 AM
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Bruh! I'm beginning to think a lot of them just put things they wish they could do or would make them look better... Nothing apart from getting them off the app is worth even a second of your time. Right there with you. I'm not even a month in and I'm beginning to see why so many people say OLD is a sewer...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:44 AM
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Interesting strategy. Definitely look into it...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:11 AM
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Some of them get nothing at all, for months. That's heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:06 AM
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Already tried that. I do my level best to make the conversation about them. Their interests, their hobbies and their dreams but I still get nowhere most of the time. E.g. I remember one had said she loved hiking and when I asked what trail she found the most challenging, she just responded "lol."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:00 AM
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That's better results than a lot of guys Is it, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:52 AM
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I'm a late 20s male that wants to take my romantic life a little more seriously. I live in a city with about a million people and joined online dating for the first time in my life about 2 weeks ago. I'm using Bumble and OkCupid and here are some of my findings; Many people say online dating is for hookups, yet every woman on there says they're looking for LT relationships only. How are these hookups happening if virtually none of these women want them? In 2 weeks, I only got 12 matches on Bumbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:09 AM
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For people who are well-adjusted and actually touch grass often enough (going to concerts, bars, that sort of thing): No need for a solution. They’re probably getting into relationships.. And if they are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:57 AM
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If she’s comparing you to guys on apps, so what? Dating has always been like that. Not quite. See before the internet, the dataset of men she could compare with was a lot smaller than it is now. The only guys she was comparing you to were those she had either met or heard about. So even if there was a comparison, it was not as extreme as it is today. You’ve got a way better chance in person to make your case than you do over a phone screen. Why would you intentionally put yourself at a bigger di…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:50 AM
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They give you a bunch of matches up front then drop it off as you start sending messages. Suspected as much...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:27 AM
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Haven't met a guy that could do even half of those numbers....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:25 AM
1

Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:58 AM
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You have it backwards. The reason they're saying there's no one good is because standards are higher....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:04 PM
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Go out into the wild and actually physically approach and talk to women As someone that rejected OLD until very recently, I can reliably tell you that women's standards have definitely changed. Even if you approach them in real life, she's still comparing you to the guys she's seen on the apps and social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:03 PM
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After doing my level best to avoid online dating apps, I'm trying obe for the very first time. Just got 14 likes in one week as a guy. Either this app is trying to bait me in or maybe I'm not as repulsive as the girls in my teens and early 20s told me I was...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:56 PM
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Stop that. Hope is what causes disappointment....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:05 PM
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I have just seen one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life. She got on the bus and sat a few rows behind me... I tried to take a peek one more time an saw her staring at me. Now my mind is in overdrive wondering what on earth she saw....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:57 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. This is pretty much human nature so it's a lot more difficult to do than you think....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:23 PM
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Pay According to the historical record, that's the quickest and most effective way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:21 PM
2

Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:44 AM
1

so many guys forget that porn is bad. Controversial claim. What makes you think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:02 AM
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"Men are stupid and women are crazy." What exactly does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:59 AM
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Being both scared and attracted to women is such a strange feeling. I really want flirt with you but I'm terrified that if I do, I become a creep and you'll tell everyone you know that much... Where can I grow some balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:24 PM
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Her: I think I should go. It's about to rain and I might get soaked. Me: Damn. I thought I would be the one to do that. Her: Do what? Me: Get you soaked. Looks down there Her: giggles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:45 PM
1

Oh, no....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:37 PM
3

I just made a lady I met at a resort giggle. Do you think she wants to have a baby with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:16 PM
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How can I be sweet without simping? I've been reading romance novels with the intention of getting some ideas but most of the stuff I find there is cringe worthy....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:14 PM
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Sounds like fun. It's exhausting being in an environment as stratified as ours was...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:58 PM
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Lucky you. The 2 groups were almost always distinct at my HS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:55 PM
1

I see...Come to think of it, I can't remember a smart fat kid from highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:35 AM
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First time I've seen smart kids so highly elevated...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:10 AM
1

Lucky you...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:09 AM
1

Everytime I bring up the issue of jocks being the highest status, people assume I went to school in the US (I didn't.) Ours looked something like this; (Top to bottom) Athletes Comedians Rich Kids Everyone else Nerds, geeks and other slightly autistic individuals What did your high school social status hierarchy look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:26 AM
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Most men are married, so it definitely seems like game that most men are profiting from. I guarantee you that this will cease to be true when Gen Z matures...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:49 PM
2

No they don't. Don't fall for the just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:51 AM
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Someone who rapes also “succeeds” at having sex. The 2 are not even remotely similar. Rape involves overriding someones will whereas assholery does not.In fact, it is the very trait drawing some of these women in. A better question to ask is why do so many women fall for this kind of attitude if they know it is detrimental? And why won't thsy admit that it does work, at least in the short-tern.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:49 AM
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How old are the people in question? He's 26 and she's 33. From what I understand women mature faster during puberty, but dudes catch up and everyone is on an even playing field in adulthood. This is what they don't believe. They are under the impression that since women get off to an early lead, it remains that way throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:13 AM
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Do women really mature faster than men? I ask because a friend of mine started dating a woman 7 years his senior and his parents threw a fit about how she probably just saw him as a boy she was baby sitting. According to them, a woman should be a year younger if they are to have the same level of maturity....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:57 PM
1

Fax...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:49 PM
1

Yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:34 AM
1

Hope I can get mine this year, too...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:34 AM
1

It's never too late. Let's hope so....fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:33 AM
1

I hate driving. Why, tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:32 AM
1

Send me the money, sweetie...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:32 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:31 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:31 AM
1

Almost 30 & I don't know how to drive...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:33 PM
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Church will have more women of your dating age than men of dating age . Not these days. When I last went there, most young women I met in church were either burned by others or school is the all time best place to meet a partner I agree 100%. If I knew this back in college I would have taken my love a little more seriously, raves/dance nights are cheaper than concerts and much more social. Still trying to find those where I am...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:34 AM
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My small city has several ig pages dedicated to posting shows every weekend. Three nights a week there's usually sth, tickets are $5-10. Just searched through some Facebook pages focused on my town and the last time we had a show was December...It's a pretty quiet, town...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:10 AM
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Parties How on earth do you get invited to these in your late 20s? It seems everybody in my age group is worried about nursing sleep deprivation at work should they throw one... I don't understand what is stopping you. I find bars unsafe, and I find the presence of really drunk people irritating...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:06 AM
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I have tried some of the places I listed (e.g. Work, store.) which is what led me to some of my conclusions...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:01 AM
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I am sincerely convinced that women here find most kinds of male attention irritating. Some of y'all are pretty and charming, though. No cap....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:59 AM
1

Social media may be one of humanity's biggest blunders...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:48 AM
1

Late 20s and few people seem to throw those outside the holiday season...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:46 AM
1

How do you get invited? At my age, it seems everyone holds off til the holiday season because they don't want to nurse hangovers or sleep deprivation at work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:46 AM
1

What are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:44 AM
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For men that don't drink, what are some perfectly acceptable places to flirt? Church: Rapidly losing popularity among the young. Work: Heavily discouraged (at least at mine) because men have often abused their priveleges. Store: Interactions are too rapid for any serious flirting to take place. Gym: Everyone is focused on getting their sets done. I predict they may react badly to any flirtatious attempts. School: Unless you're a college kid, or look young enough to pose as one, you may get label…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:49 PM
1

I think you are underestimating how much 15/16 y/o boys look forward to sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:33 PM
1

Noted, madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:30 PM
1

Yeah, I hear that in other parts of the world, this is what would be done...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:25 AM
1

How? If I understand Black pill philosophy correctly, one major fear many incels have is that they will never get to experience the immense pleasure one gets during sex. Therefore, if society guaranteed men that they will have sex at least once in their life, wouldn't that eliminate that fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:23 AM
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Yes, precisely. It used to be done woth older women in the past, but now people might use prostitutes...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:08 AM
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Incest, yes but do consider that villages were so spread out that had travel tens of miles until you got to the closest village. In fact, marrying cousins that were twice or thrice separated was seen to be acceptable given that the alternative was traversing swamps and forests. In certain African cultures, they still refer to cousins as spouses in jest. And, also remember that the arrangement with the aunts would not be for the sake of procreation. Then on the point of sexual slavery, it was so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:37 AM
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Perhaps, but what if it was contractual?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:43 PM
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That was the most problematic part of the arrangement. Usually it would be widows or distant, elderly aunts who might have remained spinsters. Trying to talk them into doing such a thing would never fly in the modern era. A relative suggested that a modern approach might be for the family to hire a prostitute or take the man to a brothel...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:40 PM
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My relatives told me that in my great grandfathers time, traditional initiation rites would involve sex with an older woman to "gain experience" & lose the fear men had of the oppositevsex. Do you think such an arrangement eould help modern incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:27 PM
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I think they may have tried that already...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:19 PM
1

Is it, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:52 PM
1

It gets harder as they get older...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:53 PM
1

You seem to be n exception...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:51 PM
1

So I hear....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:51 PM
1

Shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:51 PM
2

Q4A: Is blushing repulsive? I love making women blush but I feel women get repulsed when they see me blush...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:35 PM
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Being short as a guy is clearly one of the worst treat you can have in dating. You're not doomed but you're playing the game on an insane difficulty. Out of the thousands of languages that exist on planet earth, you have chosen to speak pure facts. And no, this "self-improvement" thing recommended to guys rarely improves thjngs drastically...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:36 AM
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Idk about others but I can give you my experience. I'm 5'7 in a place where the average height is 5'10. Nearly all my friends are 5'11 or taller. Do you think dating is very difficult if you're short? Yes. There are women that have turned me down for that specific reason and nothing. E.g. Some of the things I've heard from women about me and my other short friends include; "I know that he's smart and kind but he's still short." "He's an interesting guy but tbh I want a man that'll make me feel f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:22 AM
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Perhaps she wants only the right guy to look at them while the rest can mind their own business.... I doubt I am her "right guy."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:30 PM
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Damn...To your good health, then🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:04 PM
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What constitutes staring?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:56 PM
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But isn't that a violation of consent...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:45 PM
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It was while I was walking...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:44 PM
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I get it. Even though I have an EEE degree, our economy was so much of a mess when I graduated that I was virtually home for close to half a decade. It took someone to vouch for me to get the job I currently have. Just as I got my lucky break, I hope you can get yours too so that the world is not deprived of yet another bright mind...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:43 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:33 PM
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Just got caught looking at cleavage. She looked me straight in the eye with a Anya Taylor-Joy style blank face... I'm so embarrassed. I wish could stop checking pretty women out...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:13 PM
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I see...Of the 6 which would you say you use a lot Math, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Philosophy, Languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:43 PM
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Powerful combination in today's era...All the best on your exams.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:39 PM
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Any career to speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:37 PM
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Oh nice. I wish I could use words as well as lawyers. The power of persuasion you lot have sometimes seems demonic to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:37 PM
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Shit. Any backstory?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:37 PM
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What program?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:34 PM
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Former school nerds what are y'all up to? I got an BSc in EEE but working in IT rn...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:13 PM
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She doesn't need to be thin...Especially if you're not Western...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:11 PM
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She doesn't need to be thin...Especially if you're not Western...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:11 PM
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There's a lot of speculation in it but I doubt it's in the balloney category...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:53 PM
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CMV: If evo psych is correct, an ugly duckling is unlikely to become a swan without major cosmetic proceedures. Only losing weight and building muscle seem to be in your control. Most of the rest, (height, breast size, jawline, skin texture) are most certainly not...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:34 PM
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Well given that society doesn't seem to value the qualifications we earn there, I would say it's more overrated than evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:15 PM
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playing the virtuous male feminist will get you nowhere in life. Who says I am playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:46 PM
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I guess so. Another girl that now thinks of me as a creep...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:08 PM
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Exception
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:56 PM
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Oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:58 AM
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Should I wear kevlar?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:54 AM
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It would have driven her crazy, probably even in a good way But wouldn't that put me in danger? She just threatened me with violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:53 AM
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I just told a pretty girl I know that she's looking like a snack. She smiled and said if I said that again, she would hit me. I'm hopeless at this flirting thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:31 AM
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I’m pretty sure having a deep voice is a good thing. Not for singing. Maybe for talking or intimidating people, but not for singing...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:31 AM
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Elton is not a bass, though. Frank was in a different era. Unless you're a rapper, it unlikely you'll do well on the billboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:25 AM
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Is it too late?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:23 AM
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I am annoyed. I used to be an amazing tenor singer til puberty happened. Now, my voice went all the way to bass. No one gets pop hit or leads a boy band singing bass...There go my musical ambitions. May well just sell my piano, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:54 PM
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That should've been evident from my P.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:44 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:19 PM
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I always thought it was something women did to impress men. I didn't think it was a visceral feeling of needing to be filled...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:19 PM
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I have...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:17 PM
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Some are legit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:15 PM
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I know. I'm ugly...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:14 PM
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Until a year ago, I believed it was impossible for women to get horny until I started watching the, "leading my gf on..." prank videos. It's amazing how agitated they get when their boyfriends turn them down for sex. P.S. Yes, I am a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:15 PM
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That's not been my experience...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:12 PM
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I believe the difference lies in the fact that the terms you have used above specify a human relationship, while the term "woman," does not. It's very subtle, but I do think it would be the same as referring to someone as, "My Asian," or "My African."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:43 PM
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Two wrongs don't make a right. However, I focused on the "my woman" because women have been the ones oppressed for the majority of human history. They have been the ones pushed into living with men they had no affection for, they have been the ones forced to shed their last names as a sign that they belong to the man and they have also had their had their sexual expression restricted...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:44 AM
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I cannot think of a context in which this would be okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:37 AM
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Far more problematic...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:36 AM
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CMV: It is inherently sexist to call her, "Your woman." She is an individual and not property that can belong to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:42 AM
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Stole?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:06 PM
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I find IOIs so confusing... This lady keeps glancing at me and then looking down, laughs at every 4th line I say and keeps trying to make me talk. But when I ask her if we can hamg out sometime, I get hit with, "Oh, no. I already have a man. I'm sorry if I led you on." Am I autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:00 PM
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Which is within reach of most men...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:41 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:39 PM
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Yet ignoring that "need" leads to no discernable health effects
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:38 PM
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A few may, but that says more about the lack of mental fortitude men have than it does about its utility...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:36 PM
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No person has ever died due to a lack of sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:22 PM
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CMV: Sex is not a need and men should stop pretending like it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:33 PM
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And yet someone ITT claimed you'd like it...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:05 PM
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Women want to be checked out as long as you could not be their dad's age. This has not been my experience with those that have caught me... If they wouldn't want to be checked out they'd wear ugly clothing and no make up. Perhaps it's meant for a specific guy(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:04 PM
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Just carry on and pretend you haven't seen me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:00 PM
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And how has that worked out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:50 PM
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I feel guilty about "checking girls" out without their consent. I've tried listening to music constantly when I'm out to occupy my thoughts but it doesn't seem to be working. Anyone got some tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:31 PM
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CMV: BSc Physics > Any BSc Engineering. They have a better understanding of "why" things are the way they are & why they can or cannot be improved. If mammon happens to tempt you, it's easier to transition into Engineering than it is to go vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:09 PM
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Isn't casual sex a fairly common thing nowadays? It's not. News sites have been shouting about a sex recession since 2018. They say every age group has experienced this deckine but it is more pronounced among Millenials and the Oldest cohort of Gen Z. Even on a personal level, very few of my peers are having as much sexual activity as our uncles and aunts did when they came of age in the 90s and 00s..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:57 PM
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I have never experienced that on a physical level but, okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:01 PM
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Perhaps you're you're juicy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:58 PM
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Hahaha...Should've thought of that one in the moment...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:39 AM
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I hope that is the case...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:38 AM
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Children are generally thought to be honest and blunt, so I imagine they are often more willing to say things everyone else notices but are simply too polite to say out loud...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:38 AM
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A child just asked me, "How come you look ugly and scary?" Lord, save me from spiraling....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:53 AM
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In this day and era would giving a lady you're flirting with at a party a kiss on the hand be considered a gross violation of consent? I nearly tried it but chickened out when I grabbed her hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:35 AM
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What am I looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:18 AM
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How do I tell the difference between nervous and flirtatious laughter from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 AM
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It's nowhere near as high as the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:35 PM
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Stick around the sub. There are some that will still claim the median woman's libido is lower because of social oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:56 AM
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You know, the fact that sexual scandals are virtually absent in nun run schools is another bit ofvevidence that the median woman has a lower libido than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 PM
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Not that unpopular. In my rather limited experience, early to mid 30s are when the curves really start to show. Contrast teen bodies with MILF bodies...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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I go to places women might be, e.g. parties, churches, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:07 AM
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What are you doing to find a date? Approaching women and flirting with them. Do you go to church/ temple/ etc? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:05 AM
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I was beginning to think as much...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:01 AM
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When's the last time you went to a social situation that had lots of women. A week ago. Christmas eve party. Many women were willing to talk but would run away once it got to flirting...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:16 AM
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I knew it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:15 AM
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are you physically attractive? No charismatic? In some situations funny? To some
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:09 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:04 AM
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Alright so ; I have an engineering degree but currently work in IT (lousy job market). I make slightly lower than what my former EE class mates are making. For the past 2 years, I've been exercising 3 times a week and mainly following a pollotarian diet I know how to play piano. Started when I was a kid (now at ABRSM ARSM level). Someone taught me how to cook and she went to cookery school. For some reason I still cannot get a date. At what point does this self-improvement thing begin to work? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:13 PM
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CMV: There is absolutley no evidence that women crave attention as RP claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:02 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:33 PM
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At what point did you realise you were no longer "the ugly duckling."?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:33 AM
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I come from a conservative country so my view point is a little different from the average Westerner. Puberty and how the body changes. I am yet to meet a person in the past 15 years that hasn't been lectured on this. I had "the talk" around 11/12 and it was probably that late because I am a male (i.e. mature later) Basics of how sex works between 2 people. We were (formerly) taught this in 9th grade (13/14-ish). However, guys that had access to porn or R rated movies were probably initiated to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:53 PM
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It's the entire sub, tbh....Someone will claim "men/women would never..." and yet the very next comment is a man/woman justifying that exact position...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:13 PM
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Obviously exaggerated, but several women have said that they prefer men with prior experience. So "no woman ever" might also be an exaggeration on your part....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:11 PM
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Is it, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:46 AM
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As a man, how am I supposed to feel when I'm told I have a "Ladies' ass,"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:38 AM
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You should have been there when I said it, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:02 PM
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Alright, I have 2 that immediatley come to mind; I once baked some mini-cakes and passed them around a group of folks. One ended up in the hands of a girl who took the time to come back and say she was impressed that a guy could cook this well. I then put my hand on my chest in a perceptably feminine manner and said, "Awww. That's sweet of you." After that, she was constantly "bumping" into my arms, invading my personal space and giving me more eye contact than I was comfortable receiving. Durin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:50 PM
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In my ongoing attempt to seperate fact from fiction in the dating world by making myself the guinea pig, I've noticed that many women tend to get very amused (more flirtatious) when you act a little feminine. Does anyobe know why that may be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:40 AM
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Oh.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:06 PM
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Can someone explain the, "good girl" prank to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:25 PM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:08 PM
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Swap out the milk with tears. It suits the occassion better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:14 PM
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I don't think that's the norm, regretably...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:21 PM
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A lot of y'all need to heal from your middle/high school bullying. I promise people in the real world aren't like that....They're worse, sobyou can't head out still wounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:31 PM
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Seconded. The USA is the promised land for many STEM pros in my country as well. Getting there is quite the process, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:45 PM
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But I didn't mean to be silly. I just wanted to make her giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:03 PM
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Is it, now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:03 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:03 PM
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So I give her a compliment and she rolled her eyes while giving me a naughty smirk. That's one sign saying I'm annoying her and another saying I didn't mind what you said. I swear I'm either somewhere on the autism spectrum or women are so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:07 PM
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Guess what, babe? I feel FREE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:45 PM
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Only the gods would know...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:11 PM
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Or one party is in denial...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:09 PM
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Kissing: If you haven't gotten it out of the way by the time you finish highschool, be prepared to answer the question, "Why?" Virginity: Depends. For a woman, I've never seen them interogatted about it until they hit their 40s. For men, at 30, people begin to voice their "concerns."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:11 AM
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This is precisely why most "self-improvement" is a trap for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:56 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:06 PM
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I currently run a small streaming and social media marketing operation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:47 PM
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Lose my virginity. Attempt to make my current business profitable Start another unrelated business (spreading my bets) Leave my home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:37 PM
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That's the most frustrating part about being a heterosexual male. She doesn't need to do much to have you drooling for her...Yet I have to move heaven and earth to have an audience with her...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:43 AM
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Yeah. It's ridiculous how gorgeous women are when they really mean to look good...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:16 AM
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A lady calling you "sweet" is so overrated. I want you to think I'm yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:13 AM
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She don't need no man for validation....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:10 AM
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do well in school -> make more money Not anymore. It seems connections and experience are a lot more important in the modern job market....Ditch college and join a training program.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:08 AM
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Perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:44 PM
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Music and cooking are doing a lot worse than I thought they would...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:09 PM
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Dear ladies, rate how attractive the following skills are in a man: Athleticism. Musical talent. Humor. Culinary prowess. Household handiness. Wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:08 AM
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Micheal B Jordan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:01 AM
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We had indicators. This was in a boarding school where most of your schedule was controlled. We discovered that the same guys that would smuggle in phones to watch porn were usually the same ones that would eventually get caught having sex with the girls on campus...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:02 AM
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In my experience, "chads," or men that got a lot of female attention tended to watch a lot more porn than men that would get less female attention. It's one reason I never really bought the "porn is the problem," arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:29 PM
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Congrats you have rules out 73% of American women How is America not the land of plenty with stats like these?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:24 PM
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His life experience is much greater and therefore he can have a lot of sway and power over a 22 year old. I'm sorry but a lot of the time, this is precisely what these women want. How often have women rejected men their age because they want a man that, "Knows what he's doing?" You could flip it and say that it's the older men being manipulated in such relationships. Some of these guys are unable to attract women without wealth, else, why would they need to barter for "affection." Wealth is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:46 PM
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CMV: 80% if behavioral differences between sexes are due to socialisation or environmental factors...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:28 PM
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With current dating stats, I doubt this will remain true for long. Especially once gen Z hits the 40 mark
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:24 PM
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It's funny, but I also can't stand to hear myself on recordings. Amazing how one person's trash ends up being another person's treasure....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:52 AM
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A woman told me she likes my voice. This is the first compliment a girl has given me since 2019. Let's see how long it'll be til the next one....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
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Wow, so this Western-based cancer has also infected Africa? It's not yet reached the terminal states we're seeing in the West (& I pray it doesn't) but it does seem to slowly be seeping in...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:01 AM
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I know a few men that have a huge abundance of girls and they are nowhere nearly as picky as women. I have seen women drop a guy because he doesn't have an Iphone (it's a status symbol in a lot of African countries.) The same cannot be said of men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:34 PM
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Only if you know women that love the company you provide when their legs are spread...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:53 PM
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At what age is male libido supposed to go down? I'm almost 30 and still as horny as I was as a teenager... m
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:34 PM
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We honestly just need to make porn illegal again. This would never work...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:17 AM
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Well, until we find a number of beholders equal to the number that have loudly confirmed our repugnance, we still qualify as ugly....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:00 PM
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What if it's true, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:33 PM
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This is a philosophy that states that a woman's primary of attraction is wealth and status. Given the basic premises of the philosophy, it therefore foolows that they advocate for men to gain as much wealth and status as possible, through whatever means possible...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:30 PM
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You'll see more understanding from men. This seens to be true among most married men I've met...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:02 AM
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Being open about your fears, sensitivities and insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:02 AM
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CMV: Being vulnerable as a man usually backfires...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:58 PM
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Nah.....Marrying 1 woman and proceeding to get 3 on the side certainly doesn't signal fear. If any damage was done, it was probably an addiction to sex. Not fear.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:00 AM
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No. It is sweet to surrender. Accept your limitations and make peace with your own mediocrity. Happiness is but an illusion the mind plays on us to fuel us on this miserable journeywe call existence. You aren't special. You never have been and never will be. Your efforts are meaningless in the pitiless indifferent eyes of fate...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:22 PM
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People who are sexually abused as children like this usually have unhealthy relationships with sex and often are scared to participate. Well, if they were scared to participate, they definitely didn't exhibit it...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:36 PM
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It's only in the modern era that it would be called that. The definition of grooming is; becoming friends with a child in order to persuade the child to have a sexual relationship. Using this definition, such an act would might not qualify because there was no friendship involved. These teenage boys were under no obligation to continue any relationship once the act was performed. This was an initiation into adulthood and often served as a form of exposure therapy. Many parents back then didn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:14 PM
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By today's standards, it is. However, he did tell me that many guys looked forward to it....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:36 AM
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Some uncles might...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:35 AM
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According to him, unless she was widowed or a prostitute herself, having sex with one of his mother's friends would definitley cause discord in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:32 AM
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On the contrary, he says many guys woul look forward to it....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:22 AM
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Jocks & nerds aren't equals in high school hierarchy....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:11 PM
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It is...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:10 PM
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In my great-grandpa's days, a father would take his son to middle aged prostitutes on their 14th birthday to "become men," & lose their fear of women. Would such a practice help incels in our enlightened era?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:09 PM
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To the oppressor, equality looks like opression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:01 PM
1

How would I protect my identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:29 PM
1

What then would be more scientific?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:10 AM
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"I've just noticed how pretty your are. Can I give you my number?" Seems pretty non threatening to me as they can decline / never text you if they aren't into you. And then it would be a better indication of your attractiveness level depending on how many women get back to you Makes sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:09 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about the cancer...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:44 AM
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Here is my methodology for an experiment to gauge my attractiveness level. Approach 250 women that look my age (+/- 4 years) Give a warm smile. Say hello and ask for help with directions to a particular place. Notice how much more willing some one will be to lengthen the conversation. Rationale being that someone would want to drag out the conversation with an attractive person. Tally results and obtain an average. Critique my methodology....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:39 AM
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Attending orgies and sex parties are the ultimate test of confidence. I want to be so confident that I can pull walk around strangers, cakes out, and still have the ability to maintain a rock hard erection...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:40 PM
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Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:50 PM
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Carbs = Satan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:08 PM
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CMV: A lot of conclusions from the world of evolutionary psych suffer from neurosexism....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:07 PM
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Exactly. Since, people are fully free, they can finally dive head first into what they believe to be attractive and not their parents or their peers told them was attractive. I'm approaching 30 and still I see women my going for men that are not ideal because, and I quote, "At least we don't get bored." It's not as extreme as highschool, but it's definetley still there....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 PM
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Depends on the lies, tbh. Jho Low did get a lot of female company through deception and few would call him an "Alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:37 PM
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If so, it can get better afterwards. It can also get worse....Much. Much. Worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:34 PM
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I guess we have quite a number of unhealthy women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:33 PM
2

I'm sure it's Schopenhauer....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:44 AM
1

Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:43 AM
1

Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:08 AM
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Women are so nice to look at. Just watched a female friend make some food in the kitchen and her curves, her movement, her skin....Good Lord. It's unfortunate that as a man, I'm scary and so I can't just sit and watch them...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:34 AM
1

I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:24 AM
1

Would deflower be a better metaphor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 PM
1

I guess so....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 PM
2

Math is just nature's opinion. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM
1

Stronger erections and improved sensitivity mainly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:51 PM
1

True, but they certainly have a big interest in making men cum....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 PM
1

Light. I think it would be an honour to take away the innocence of a sweet and soft lady and introduce her to the wild world of carnal pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:18 AM
1

Computer/Network Technician. I make about 5000 USD a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:15 AM
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I've just seen a news article that says men that ejaculated at least 21 times a month were 20% less likely to have prostate cancer. That's about once every working day. I truly think this is big Porn trying to dupe me into blowing my nut this November. Stay stong lads, the rewards are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:12 AM
1

Once every 2 to 3 days? Goddamn....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:48 AM
1

Why? Emotional baggage. Grew up in Africa where all talk of sex is hush-hush. Add to that the fact that throughout my teenage and college years, many girls told me I was painfully ugly so I've never had a first hand experience with a horny female human being. Even though I know on an intellectual level that women do get horny, the thought of girls being sexual in real life still makes me blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:49 PM
1

What is considered healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:54 PM
2

As we too will be future generations....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:50 PM
1

Watching porn in front of the other gender is some level of bravery. I still cringe a bit when I'm with women and there's a kissing scene on screen. I don't know how I'd handle boobs, ass and pussy....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:50 PM
1

Any that you remember? For academic purposes, of, course...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:45 PM
1

I wonder why Porn studios continue to push them....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:44 PM
1

TikTok would've worked great for porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:43 PM
2

I guess the signs were there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:43 PM
1

How so? It'll come out during wet dreams if it has to but he doesn't need to coax it out masturbating or making love to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:21 PM
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Does anyone ever watch a full 2 hour porn film? Within 20 mins, you'd probably get bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:13 PM
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Point taken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:10 PM
1

Though rare, it does happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:13 PM
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Why would you chat during a film, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:11 PM
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All the 20 something guys I've seen try to flirt with 40/50 year olds are dispatched with, "I'm old enough to be your mother, son."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:28 PM
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France?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:23 PM
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What? On Reddit? That's basically the gold standard for evidence.....I guess it can therefore be accepted as an actual phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:23 PM
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Also, the dark triad doesn’t work when the guy is socially inept and/or unattractive. This is not true. Nearly every male serial killer, including the ugly ones, has had a sizeable amount of groupies....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:45 PM
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Most men get laid Why then is there talk of a sex recession?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:41 PM
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I think Cougar/Cub relationships are largely a media construct and rarely happens in real life. This isn't because both younger and older men are safocating young women with their romantic efforts, but because older women are simply wiser and more intelligent than young men. Apart from vague rumors or seeing it in Hollywood, I have never once seen an older woman get attracted to a younger guy....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:39 PM
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Still. OP's point is that even the best version of you, (whatever that even means) may still be unattractive. You can go to the gym, hire a stylist to fix your wardrobe, sacrifice your sanity to climb up the economic ladder and do everything else people do to "improve" themselves and still end up in virtually the same place. Race, height, facial bone structure and to a certain extent, personality are all fixed quantities, yet, they play a massive role in the modern mating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:38 AM
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Very difficult thing to do given that the desire to reproduce is sometimes as strong as other biological urges...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:31 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:20 AM
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With the exception of social clubs, these measures were taken to protect women, which is yet another piece of evidence for the love men have for women. The thought of women getting hurt in the line of duty was too much for many men to bear and that's why they wouldn't let them get in. It should be obvious that without the miracle of modern technology, women were incredibly more likely to injure themselves. Some historians say this is still the case in the millitary. Let us say that these circums…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:18 AM
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Women have been used as buffers to protect other men from violence In what sense? AFAIK, Men are far more likely to die in war, crime or any other form of armed conflict perpetrated by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:39 AM
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Why are religious figures so attractive to so.e women? Have you noticed that nearly every religious leader in history has at the very least had a sizeable female following?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:12 AM
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I think I wanted to say that the demand for good dick is slowly being satisfied by vibrators and other such toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:53 AM
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Men hate women? This is news. How come we only have an excess of novels, movies and plays of what our world would look like without men, yet men that have been publishing written stories longer than women have rarely entertained the prospect of a world without women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:48 AM
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According to this sub, being a heterosexual male is perhaps one of the most masochistic predicaments you can find yourself in. You feel an intense attraction towards beings that at best you know are wary of you....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:31 AM
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There's always lots of demand for good dick. I would respectfully disagree. Women seem far more likely to have an orgasm with vibrators and dildos than with man. It is for this reason that many women are opting for a life of guaranteed orgasms with no cleaning up after, cooking for or rolling eyes at a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:09 PM
1

Are you really dating strong, independent women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:05 PM
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Don't you think they'd only want one with men that are too far seperated from the norm? (i.e. Superrich or Lex Luther level smart or annoyingly handsome or a combination of all three)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:05 PM
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I have a tendency to tense up and blush whenever young women (usually around my age) make close physical contact with me. When I was still in college, there was one girl that would jump on me and hug me out the blue because she said it was funny to see how I would stiffen and start blushing. My aunts and even my own mother has confirmed this observation. I am usually quiet when it comes to locker room talk. The fact that I don't seem to have any story about m one crazy night when I indulged in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:00 PM
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The future is female...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:35 PM
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Teens are judgemental and gossipy as fuck. Adults aren't? I think I'm living in a different version of reality....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:19 AM
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Me too...and everyone tells me it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:18 AM
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Modern men crave sex so much. That is why they can't handle the fact that since they now have nothing else to offer strong, independent and intelligent women (not money, not security, not emotional support, not social validation) they may now be the irrelevant ones in a two person relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:17 AM
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I disagree whole heartedly. Teen love is usually part and parcel of a healthy development stage. For as long as caution is taken, this may actually put many people at a greater advantage in the dating market. For instance, people are a lot more willing to hold your hand in teenage when you first get your heart shattered. This isn't always true in adulthood, particularly for men and can lead to disastrous results. Also, since teens tend to be impulsive, you can have an unfiltered look into the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:06 AM
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A few women have claimed that they are impervious to a man's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:40 AM
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Few minutes? A quickie is 20 mins for me, cuz..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:32 AM
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I was part of the brotherhood but Death Grip Syndrome hurt me like a bitch. I got to the point of watching full length 50 min porn flicks just to feel something....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:08 PM
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I think Coconut Oil > Baby Oil for male masturbation..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:02 PM
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Doesn't always work though. Especially the money one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:59 PM
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Dresses provocatively. This can have so many interpretations depending on your culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:57 PM
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Apparently any discussion of such makes you an incel and therefore dangerous...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:49 PM
1

Whaf if there is circumstantial evidence available that she might be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:28 PM
1

Try and imagine doing something in real life, now...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:26 PM
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Not really. It sucked a little bit but I began to feel really good when I heard her lose control laughing...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:23 PM
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Am I The Simp? I did something and suffered some mild embarrasment just to hear her laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:52 PM
1

What then is the correct mindset for men to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:15 AM
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Happiness and excitement are overrated. According to evolution, survival and reproduction are the objectives of life. For as long as you do that, it doesn't matter if your partner rolls her eyes everytime you talk to each other or even if she closes her eyes and thinks about Chad from highschool everytime you're fucking. You reproduced and therefore you won....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:09 PM
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That won't happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:02 PM
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Don’t just look around at all the shorter, balding, chinless, acne ridden, lazy eyed, pudgy, fashionless, squeaky voiced, dumb, boring, poor, unemployed, remarkably ordinary guys in relationships I don't know where you live, but I know very few men under the age of 30 with these characterstics and are in a relationship. Most men south of 30 say unless you're rich, famous or irritatingly handsome, dating is unbearably tedious and I have seen them struggle. have a look at other subreddits here and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:00 AM
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Trust me, things can get a lot worse for men. How? Many are already fighting tooth and nail for females that clearly want nothing to do with men...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:48 AM
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Religion is dying off anyway less and less people are religious. This is only true in the west. Religion is spreading like wildfire in Asia and Africa. 2 continents that have the largest populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:40 AM
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Wise...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:29 PM
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Shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:44 PM
1

Do people still go to church?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:25 PM
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...oh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:30 PM
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I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:30 PM
1

Does this mean I'll either need to wait if I ever want to get married or I just need to chase older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:48 AM
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How do I go about doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:25 AM
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So 2 older women just called me adorable. I found this remarkably strange because most women my age seem to find me abhorent (Yes, they have told me that to my face). Have beauty standards changed that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:34 AM
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The evils that run through your mind make me worry....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:07 AM
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I guess men in summer might be hyperstimulated because of all the sights they have to bear....Or perhaps pornsites like PornHub, Xvideos and Instagram have massively compromised male sensitivity to such things. Which do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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I had thought, it might...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:02 AM
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It has been said that if a woman wants to tease a man, she can wear clothes that reveal her curves and skin and add a hint of the sexual to her behaviour. What would a man have to do if he wanted to tease a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:40 AM
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Sigmund Freud once remarked "despite my 30 years of research into the feminine soul I have never been able to answer the great question "what does a Woman want?" Has any male had better luck than he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:09 PM
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I don't know, is that what the definition of a simp is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:03 PM
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Nope...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:54 AM
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Definitley not...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:53 AM
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At what point does sweetness become simpery? Let's say a friend really likes a certain girl and he tells me that after talking to this girl, she has confirmed that the feeling is mutual. However, he's concerned that he's beginning to simp for her hard. For instance, he cooks meals for her, he brings her chocolate whenever he visits her and most recently paid for some of her school expenses. I think he's just trying to be sweet, but I haven't been too successful with women, so I doubt I'm the rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:58 AM
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No, it wasn't. She doesn't say that, she just says she was alone with her son. Also, look at the background of the video, that's not an empty parking lot....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:48 PM
1

What’s the worst thing that could happen? Famous last words?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:37 PM
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The "never approach women" thing seems to push a lot of conscientious goody two shoes, guys out of talking to women without a mask of professionalism. It's sad because women I've talked to irl seem to actually enjoy it. Internet has messed up peoples perception bias. While 99% of women will at least tolerate an approach, social media has shown us that there are women that will do things like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:32 PM
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This man gets GENUINELY more attractive and it aint about the money or status per se. It is a factor but it is not the KEY AND ALONE FACTOR. Why does his wealth matter at all, then? For the guys that say i am wrong, then i have a question, do you believe di caprio in his prime was just attracting golddiggers and clout chasers? Impossible to know, some may have indeed just wanted the status he had. Di Caprio was conventionally handsome, I doubt he'd need money to rope in a sizeable harem. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:12 PM
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You seem to agree...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:46 PM
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What is her argument? I've Googled her and seen her Wikipedia page and I can't seem to find any of her views on intelligence. P.S. She doesn't seem too popular among mainstream historians....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:09 PM
1

How is welfare a bad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:04 PM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:55 PM
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CMV: We are smarter than our forebearers. One piece of evidence is in the way we treat women...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:14 AM
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At first it was simply trying to determine what it would take to actually get a girl interested in me. I haven't had a lot of luck with women and so I thought it was because I was doing something wrong. That led me to try a whole list of things, including the tactics mentioned above. Nowadays, I think I'm more interested in separating faulty attracting advice from legitimate advice by testing them out in the real world...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:16 AM
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You could call it that...You'd be surprised how long you can draw things out when you hide your intentions...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:05 PM
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So you flirt, they get interested, and then you go cold? Yes, that's one way of doing it. Another would be to act indifferent, then warm up and then cool down again. And you say this often leads to nothing? Yeah. What seems to surprise me is that I still attract more than I would than I would with outright interest. It's only after 3+ months that the tactic starts to breakdown... Why not just stay on it if they're interested, unless you're trying to find ones with issues? Ssme explanation I gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:39 PM
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Being hot and cold. Doing things that hint that you might be interested and then switching up when you sense them draw near....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:06 PM
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Aggressive vs Mysterious flirting? Provided all other factors are kept constant, which do you think has a higher success rate? My own experience (late 20s male) has been that aggressive flirting seems to work less often but when it does work, the payoff is massive. Whereas mysterious flirting produces in a lot more opportunities that usually lead to nothing. How unique is my experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:56 PM
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Also stop using dating apps as evidence. Why not? Isn't that the default these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:32 PM
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The only way to know i'd be picked for who i am would be to be picked by a man who has options. Fair, but you do realise that you are basing your choice on how others have evaluated him? What happens if others have performed a lousy analysis of him? I would then know he picked me for good reasons and that he wont leave me or cheat on me the second he gets another option. In theory, this would be true, however, history seems to suggest that men that have options usually choose to pursue quantity …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:31 PM
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It ceases to be embarrasing after 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:41 AM
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At what age does having an n count of 0 become embarrasing for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:17 PM
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Hearts...in the metaphorical sense.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 08:33 AM
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Mean cognitive performance may be equal but the geniuses are disproportionately male and disproportionately productive (especially in the modern world). True. So would you say the future will have a lot of power law distributions?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:11 AM
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Humans have souls... Do we, though?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:07 AM
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the same thing can be applied to men, though? why does this only have to be women? Most men have never claimed that personality is what drew them. Women on the other hand are adamant that it's personality they're attracted to. also, what about love? that doesn’t have to purely be based on sexual attraction now, does it? You don't get the job if you're not invited for an interview. Unless you labour trying to find ways to express your personality, one might argue that you are never going to be co…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:43 PM
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Right. So men are obselete.....
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:30 PM
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Well for a vast majority of history, they couldn't! Without the use of weapons, the overwhelming majority of women were far more vulnerable to threats from other predators and other men. Same thing applies when it comes to farming and hunting. I am lost as to how acknowledging this simple fact makes someone think women are sub-human.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:29 PM
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That's not what I meant to suggest. I'm just curious as to what men would need to offer (apart from looks and more resources) to become desirable to woman with modern sensibilities?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:23 PM
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Source?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:40 PM
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Obsolete implies there is a something that has completely over taken men, like male fuck dolls that can do labor, protect and provide for a woman and vibrate when he fucks her too. I indeed do mean obselete. Women can buy a vibrator, guns, pepper spray, stun guns, shock battons to take care of their physical and sexual needs. Provisions can be taken care of by themselves since machines do most of the heavy lifting these days....
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:38 PM
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Men that view don’t woman as sub human or objects and just treat them like another person are going to be fine. Are you implying that by offering protection and provision for women, men have treated women as less than human?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:34 PM
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What else is there for men to give? Resources? Done. Protection? Done. Children? Most don't want them. What value would you say a male - & a male alone - would provide (emotional support doesn't count because they can get it from their girlfriends who are much more empathetic)
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:32 PM
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and yet there needs to be a female category in chess because females cannot compete with men, the greatest scientists are men, the innovative companies are started by men. You left out one important word in my comment. Median. It is slowly becoming accepted that more men do occupy both tails of the cognitive distribution curve (i.e. more male geniuses, but more male retards). Also, women are allowed to compete with men in certain chess tournaments and have sometimes triumphed. Remember how Judit…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:28 PM
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This is actually an underrated sentiment. I've read about 4 sci-fi novels speculating about what the world would look like without men. Yet, it was quite the herculean task discovering books that speculated about a world without women... Do you believe that they have a point, though?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:22 PM
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No, no, no, I don't think you understand what the black pill preaches. Blackpill says you work as hard as you can and it will still not make much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:28 PM
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You do bring up some valid points but on this; The majority of men are doing fine. many men born circa '93 and later and living in most of the west would strongly disagree with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:53 AM
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True, but IIRC, men have been affected even more severely by the trend. And then, there's the issue of women's standards. Blackpill would argue that perhaps the reason most of these women aren't getting laid is because they what they find is not what they want, whereas men can't find anything. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:37 AM
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I am yet to see a sizable proportion of the population who are completely excluded from the dating pool because of their genes. Wouldn't you think that the famed "sex recession," is precisely the beginning of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:31 AM
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Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:29 AM
1

Perhaps it is. But just imagine what happens when women blessed with those attributes wear heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:26 AM
1

How so? Heels do stick the butt out. They do accentuate the legs. Also, they do make the breasts stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:26 AM
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I think one of the blackpill claims is that the process of dating is getting harder and that the amount of men being chucked into the undateable category is growing at a blistering pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:59 AM
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Do you believe the outliers outnumber those that do folllow the trend? And if not, do you believe the minority is large enough to discredit this ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:19 AM
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If you are willing to date at your attraction level you can still do alright I don't think this is true anymore. Statistics from dating apps seem to show that men initiate contact with women based on a bell curve distribution. Average girls get the most attention while both ugly and hot women receive fewer initiations (for different reasons.) This doesn't seem to be the case for females that initiate contact. They seem to approach the top 1%-10% of men on the site while the rest of men get very …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:06 AM
1

I've seen more without...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:55 AM
1

What in your view is not true about this ideaology?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:55 AM
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CMV: The blackpill is simply the bitter truth. Some men will simply be incapable of keeping up with the standards modern women demand of men and will simply have to find alternatives of finding happiness...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:09 AM
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It accentuates their feminine attributes. It sticks the butt out, accentuates the legs and pushes the chest outwards meaning the boobs stick out. Also, most men do like feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:10 PM
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Try laying ethernet cables in 34°C (93°F) heat. Thank goodness for my dark skin...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:03 PM
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Are you asking us to choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:00 PM
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Many blame it for the sorry state of dating in the developed world. e.g. Some interpretations of feminism state that women find it annoying to be approached by men that may have romantic intentions for you. Yet, time and time again, women have stated that they are too scared of doing the approaching. So we are stuck in a world in which men have been told not to do the approaching, and yet women do not want to do the approaching...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:59 PM
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Same with Eastern Europe… I do remeber Eastern Europe being a popular destination for Africans that wanted to date exotic women in the 1980s, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:39 PM
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I've noticed that a lot of passport bros don't try areas like the Middle East or Africa? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:33 AM
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It just struck me that the medieval concept of chivalry would very much qualify as simping today. Yet, many men would earn the heart of lady that way. Why do you think simping so disparaged in the modern era, when in other eras, it seemed to be encouraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:24 AM
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Suppose such men make a committment to "ethical"prostitution. Would that still be misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:37 PM
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I couldn't say, the fact that even if a man made a committment to only engage in "ethicall prostitution," that would still not sit well with may women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:21 PM
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I don't actually believe this to be the case. For instance, I know guys on a personal level who have women throwing themselves at them and yet still decide to frequent brothels and the like every so often. According to them, sometimes they just want sex and don't want to deal with the emotional support (e.g. calling every now and then, listen to someone bitch about problems) required of a lover. I think the movie Shame does explore such a character
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:14 PM
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std Fair. you view sex as a commodity/ as something a man does to a woman and not with a woman. you most likely don't care about your partner's pleasure. How so? Because money is being exchanged? raging hypocrisy if you don't respect the women you're paying to fuck or if you wouldn't date a former prostitute Respect, sure, but why is it disgusting for a man to have no desire to date someone he would have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:05 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:01 PM
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Also the idea of your man paying for sex is sooo cringe like were you that desperate I don't think you could say that it's always desperation that leads to such behaviour. Some men I've met that are knee deep in that lifestyle already have women interested in them. However, sometimes, they just don't want to emotions and intimacy to be involved in every sexual encounter. I believe the movie Shame does explore such a character. I’d rather be with a virgin So even virgins, are repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:00 PM
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What is there to be disgusted about? Here is a lady that has decided that sex is something she has no problem trading for money. Unless there is a risk of disease, how does a normal bodily function becomes disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:43 AM
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How does sex between 2 consenting adults become gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:25 AM
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Why are women so repulsed by men that use the services of prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:06 AM
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Not all prostitutes are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:59 AM
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One would also say that offering sex for financial gain is taking advantage of someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:57 AM
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If every woman had sky high standards we'd barely reproduce. Well, birth rates are falling all across the developed world. There could be a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:49 AM
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I don't think I can really tell which was more impactful between the following; Didn't make any girls pregnant. Didn't experiment with drugs (or alcohol) I would have also put "took school seriously" but after graduating college and speending 3 years unemployed, I often ask myself if perhaps I took school too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:34 PM
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What's it like to turn a girl into a giggling mess?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:29 PM
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Does serenading really work? I was always told it would embarass her...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:16 PM
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Clearly your life has been middle-class or better....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:50 AM
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I have not argued for causality. I've said; even a guy that went from having poor luck with women to having slept with hundreds has acknowledged that an unhealthy attitude does seem to help... Hence, the application of tactics like negging, push-pull and such...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:05 PM
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I don’t know who Neil is but if his tactics destroyed his marriage why would anyone listen to him? I'm a little hazy on details but Neil Strauss is a journalist that joined the then undergound movement of Pickup Artists (PUAs) for a story he wanted to write. At the time, he was single and reports having mediocre luck with women (he even says his one regret is not being able to hook up in college because he didn't know how, IIRC) so I can imagine he was eager to see if the claim the PUAs were pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:52 PM
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Well, you're not alone. Neil Strauss talks of the same thing happening...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:49 PM
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And you agree that a little misogyny does help with attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:19 PM
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Indeed, but at least let's be honest about it. ITT many seem to be suggesting that it cannot work when there is plenty of evidence to the contrary. We can be honest and say studying Neil's tactics might get you hundreds of lays, but that it also destroyed Neil's marriage...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:13 PM
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The unhealthy attitude isn't what helps, it's being detached from outcomes or the need for validation. Not according to Neil. Here's one quote from Chapter 7 of Step 3 : Even when I was having a deep conversation, learning about a woman's dreams and point of view, in my mind I was just ticking off a box in my routine marked rapport. In bonding with men, I was developing an unhealthy attitude toward the opposite sex. And most troubling thing about this new mindset was that it seemed to be making …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:15 PM
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Women like masculine men who are good looking and act a lil asshole-ish. I wouldn't say they have to be goodlooking, though. Neil Strauss admits that he wasn't very good looking when he descended into the dark world of PUA and yet, he still had success and became a bit of a misogynist when he was done. So much so that it ended up wrecking his marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:39 PM
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Is your sample size in the hundreds?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:34 PM
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I don't think it's as simple as "a guy with looks." According to the now infamous book, The Game, Strauss states that as he had more success with women, he respected them less. And that in turn made him even more successful with women. So even a guy that went from having poor luck with women to having slept with hundreds has acknowledged that an unhealthy attitude does seem to help...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:28 PM
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Well, male libido also gives us angry incels that end up doing wild things like mass shootings in the hope of obtaining status... Female desire for attention simply gives us women that look really good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:53 AM
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Some red pillers want to claim that attention for women is like sex for men, in that if they don't get it, they become depressed or irrationally angry. Women can do absolutely fine without male attention...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:39 AM
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CMV: Women's need for attention is profoundly overstated by men and is nowhere nearly as destructive as the male libido....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:09 PM
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Correct....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:38 PM
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I should have put /s after that comment, but I genuinely need something that will give me an ass and thighs women won't be jealous of....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:08 PM
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Nothing that passes the rigour of peer review...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:33 PM
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I would argue that porn, through its usually objectifying nature, alienates women from men. It gives men the illusion that women are more exotic than they actually are. Couple this mysteriousness with the desire men have for women, it leads to anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:27 PM
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CMV: Men's fear of approaching women largely comes from porn and not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:11 PM
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Please rephrase your response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:08 PM
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What do you believe feminism can be faulted for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:00 PM
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I'm a guy that for the past 8 months, has been working out 5 days a week using the following schedule: Mon: Biceps, Triceps, Chest. Tue: 5km Jog Wed: Calves, Bums, Thighs Thu: 5km Jog Fri: Shoulders, Back, Abs. In that time, I have switched to a modified keto diet (I heavily supplement it with fruits.) I'm beginning to see the outline of my abs and my chest sticks out a lot more, but my thighs and bums are still huge. Female attention is still pretty rare to come by. Thinking of taking up smokin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:54 PM
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I'm not a passport bro, but was born and raised in a poor country....Where I'm from, 30,000 USD/year puts you near the top of a lot of pyramids. Including the sexual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:32 PM
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CMV: Feminism is not to blame for the Wests' current dating woes...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:05 PM
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When are guys going to get off the dating apps and realize sliding into the DMs is the best way for them to get women IME, most women ignore texts from guys they don't know. I have on many occasions noticed women liking a good deal of your posts but then go on to ignore you the moment you slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:54 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:50 PM
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Heck my soccer team was really good in high school and no one but their moms showed up to the games. I'm guessing you're from the US. Being on the soccer team was a golden ticket to female attention in my country...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:52 PM
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Depends what you mean by artist, a painter who paints on a canvas? Meh Yeah, most visual artists weren't too popular with women. Guitarists in a band? They had status. That's interesting, while I don't know many guitarists, most musicians I met (Pianists, singers, saxophonists) never got any action in grade school or Uni. The only exception seemed to be the rappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:49 PM
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From my middleschool to highschool days, being the athlete was the epitome of male status and hence most male athletes had no shortage of female attention. In university, it was being rich. Contrary to the claim of many psychologists, I have not seen artistic talent ever be a major attractant. How unique is my experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:19 AM
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Women now approach men whenever they're interested and don't wait on men to make the first move. I think dating would go a lot more smoother if all women just approached whoever they're interested in and don't just sit back and wait for men to make the first move. Yes, please! That would be my first wish as well. It is you that has the power to decide whether I am a creep or not, not me. Since you are better at reading social cues than I am, there's a high chance that if you think I was checking…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:44 AM
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Just be yourself is attrociously bad advice. Even a psychiatrist that has studied seduction believes this to be the case. In fact he seems to be suggesting that if seduction is the goal, the deception may be a handy tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:44 PM
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Good point...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:37 PM
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Let's hope it was flirting...I don't want to become the creepy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:10 PM
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Thank you....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:09 PM
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So it comes with age and it is not as ingrained as evolutionary psychologists would have us believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:02 PM
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You bet...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:01 PM
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I did say "most." I think he counts as an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:00 PM
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I imagine that such an act would become difficult to take a look once someone calls you out in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:55 PM
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Was she, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:54 PM
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I have often heard it stated that women prefer deep voiced men. Yet, why then is most lovey- dovey RnB and Pop sang in the tenor and baritone range?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:06 PM
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I remember opening the door for one lady and she accused me of being a perv that only did it because I wanted to see what her bums looked like... I guess I really am a loser...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:03 PM
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CMV: A lot of African, South American & Asian societies have had female leaders, cabinet ministers and business leaders. However, their refusal to embrace modern feminist narratives on romance and sex should be taken as a signal of how disastrous this facet of the ideology has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:51 PM
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The problem with most losers whining about their dating problems is that they’re mentally ill, shallow, and/or have terrible personalities. See what I meant by gaslighting? Even when statistical and anecdotal evidence supports the claim that short men have it rough in the dating market, without having a chance to even speak, we still want to chalk the problem up to the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:35 PM
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I've seen short fat balding guys get attractive women just through game alone. And I've seen a lot with oceans of confidence get shot down, so why don't we look at some research to decide which of our respective anecdotes is more common, ey? A 2005 study published by the University of Chicago showed that men who said they were 6 feet, 3 inches got 60% more messages than their 5 feet, 7-inch tall Implication: Be prepared to send at least 1.5 times more messages on the apps if you hope to match ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:28 PM
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CMV: The problem with ahort guys is not their lack of confidence, it's their unattractive height. Anything else is just gaslighting....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:06 AM
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$1-$3 I live in Africa...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:49 PM
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Men can easily have causal sex, but with other men or ugly women. You do know that a person's looks have nothing to do with what their standards will be, right? Men can also dress provocatively, and it has the same level of effectiveness depending on attraction as men. No, no it doesn't. There is actually evidence that dressing provactively may actually make things worse for a man. Men can become hetero sex workers. I really don't know if you are trolling right now. Men can get a free supply of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:41 PM
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So while it is no longer a need, it still remains for some, a want. I guess some feminist lecturer was right when she said that men were like ice-cream; Nice to have but not a necessity. And you don't want too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:24 AM
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Alright. Focus on BJJ then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:24 AM
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You don’t just slip and fall and have your dick land in a vagina. You would be surprised. Choice is not the limiting factor for men, though. Even if a man decided he wanted to indulge in mindless hookups, his numbers would be far, far lower than a female that decides to do the same. I say so because I know of many guys that wanted to have wild sex back in college, did the whole going out thing and failed at it spectacularly. Many have since become resentful (The guys that post, "Well, I'll be ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:19 AM
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Striking : Boxing, Muay Thai Grappling since nearly all fights end up on the ground: BJJ or Wrestling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:59 AM
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Do they, though? Why is it then that western women (US women in particular) are so hesitant to tie the knot? If they really do need it, shouldn't they be willing to pursue marriage aggresively....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:14 AM
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I think the point OP is trying to get at here is that, for most women, it's choice. whereas for most men, it's circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:05 AM
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In my experience, you have a lot of Pareto effects while in college. 20% of guys have fucked or are currently fucking 80% of promiscuous girls while the other 80% of guys that want to be promiscuous get little to no action. I do remember that whenever we landed on conversations about this, say 7 to 8 out of 10 of us would either have nothing or just one experience to talk about. Then there'd be about 2 guys that would be showing us secretly recorded videos of them banging a new chick every weeke…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:58 AM
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Do you believe that men have inadvertently made themselves obselete? At least to women? According to some historians, for the vast majority of human history, a man's roles were protector and provider. Thanks to feminist efforts, automation and a plethora of other factors, women are now perfectly capable of providing for themselves while the threat of violence is no longer a real issue in many developed parts of the world. Since these 2 risks are no longer present, isn't there some truth to the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:45 AM
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Good for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:38 AM
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Sex is a lot louder, though and there aren't many blanket bans on sex in the world's big religions...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:06 AM
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It can open the door to rape, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:30 AM
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As a 5'7 guy, I'm suddenly a bit more hopeful...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:03 AM
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Why do you think most of the world's big religions demonized male masturbation, so much? I have seen it cited that circumcision was used to make masturbation more difficult by religions...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:53 AM
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Isn't height correlated with dick size or something? I always thought taller guys would be packing a bigger weapon...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:30 AM
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Can you give some examples of what this bullying looked like? Not OP, but have also been bullied for being ugly. Some examples of bullying I went through include: • Girls refusing to sit next to you during lunch because, "They might lose their appetite." • Girls refusing to paired with you & opting to fail an assignment because they didn't want to associate with someone gross. • A girl uttering, "Yuck! No." when you ask her out. • Guys taunting you about said incident. It's hard to believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:39 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology isn't real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:22 PM
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Why wish bad things to happen to them at all? Envy. Some people feel it's wrong for someone to have their cake and eat it too. To them it's not fair that some folks had access to the short term sexual buffet while they didn't and then should also have first dibs in long term relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:09 PM
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Ok, do you have a stat for declining marriage rates? Not everyone marries No, I don't but would be happy to look at it if you provided some. The burden of proof rests with the person making the claim. But even if you were to present this data it might not mean what you might interpret it to mean. One explanation might be that older more established men are going through a speed run of pumping and dumping young, women. Another might be that the rift between the sexes has just gotten wider and few…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:55 PM
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This is not more valid that the idea you're trying to debunk. It's based on your anecdotal experience. No, I don't think it is. According to the 2017 US stats, the average age gap for marriage is about 2-4 years, with the woman usually being younger. This seems to suggest that most men are indeed ending up with women around their age bracket rather than snatching girls 10 years their junior. Most men simply aren't going to be successful enough to do that because success in a lot of disciplines d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:46 PM
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Most people (yes the promiscuous women as well) find a long term partner in their 30s. Probably even earlier and to a Higher VM than the hustlers. “I’m doing bad right now, but when I turn 33 I’ll be sought after by all the young chicks, while my female peers will be undesirable old hags”. And bear in mind that even if this fantasy does come true, (& for most of y'all it won't) in most Western societies, age gap relationships are viewed with a lot of suspicion (see: Leonardo DiCaprio). Be prepar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:13 PM
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Most people (yes the promiscuous women as well) find a long term partner in their 30s. Probably even earlier and to a Higher VM than the hustlers. “I’m doing bad right now, but when I turn 33 I’ll be sought after by all the young chicks, while my female peers will be undesirable old hags”. And bear in mind that even if this fantasy does come true, (& for most of y'all it won't) in most Western societies, age gap relationships are viewed with a lot of suspicion (see: Leonardo DiCaprio). Be prepar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:09 PM
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It’s not true attraction you’re creating. Perhaps "true attraction" (whatever that means) is not the goal. It’s not true attraction you’re creating. It’s a niggling feeling of “why is this mid guy treating me like I’m not attractive? It doesn’t make sense….I am attractive….no? Or does he treat me like this because he’s got lots of options? How is that possible he’s mid?” Not all game involves negging. True attraction is something that you don’t even need to try with, you can even be a bit beta a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:46 PM
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Alright, so now I have a 3rd methodology to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:42 AM
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I am tempted to concur...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:34 AM
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As part of trying to get over my rocky past with the female sex, I've recently been different approaches to flirting with women. I have tested 2 approaches; Blunt flirting: This includes outright flattery, adoration and praise. I dish out compliments generously and make it clear that I think she's amazing. Subtle flirting: Backhanded compliments, stealing glances, commments with double meanings. Basically alternating between interest and disinterest as has been recommended by the PUAs. My result…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:28 AM
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The problem may not be you. The game has gotten a lot more confusing for many guys....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:13 AM
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The future is female. We must all be feminists...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:20 PM
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But I don't have consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:20 PM
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Then I'll be bewitched by her eyes...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:11 PM
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Please let me know if you stumble upon something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:11 PM
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A lot of women , especially younger ones, will pick the mysterious guy with the bad boy edge over the boring dependable guy. Define, "A lot." If it does not amount to a mojority, then I don't believe we should be too worried. I think there might be a false dichotomy here. Dependable doesn't have to equal boring. broken women and isntead wife up older, "wiser" (aka used to date assholes in her youth and now knows better) women who are finally ready to settle down. Do all women that learn life les…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:37 AM
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Why? Being confident for nothing works just as well amd takes a lot less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:18 AM
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Well, according to most forms of psychological research and annecdotal evidence, male confidence (& sometimes even arrogance) is viewed upon as attractive. Hence if someone wants kids/female attention, given the highly competitive nature of modern dating markets, the best bet someone has is to become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:57 AM
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This is my biggest gripe with the "Just be Confident," advice most people seem to give men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:28 AM
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In most men's experience, women are a lot more picky about who it is they decide to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:27 AM
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But what happens if someone wants kids or worse...female attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:19 AM
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That must've been torture (or convinient)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:15 AM
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Lucky you. I know a guy that got called ugly a lot by girls and ever since then, he feels like he'd be bothering women by asking them out...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:12 AM
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Shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:51 AM
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How on earth do I stop checking women out? I am aware it might make them feel uncomfortable but some of them are so good to look at...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:51 AM
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It hurts like hell once you become flaccid, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:45 AM
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What about guys that have been called ugly to their faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:40 AM
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And I hear a lot tend to be so, so feminine behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:40 AM
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Precisely. If the bar is that high, what are men supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:57 AM
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This is not a sustainable long term solution for men. Is there really any alternative? The only advice I hear tossed to men on this issue is, "Well, improve yourself." Yet if everyone does that, then we're back to where we started. They say the best way to win at an auction is not to go and modern dating is definitely an auction for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:34 AM
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Economic, mainly. But a few also do have fame on social media. For instance I just received a message that one guy I used to play soccer with in middle school already owns 2 houses at age 22 and drives his own Land Cruiser. No one knows how he made that money, but I don't think the multitude of women that suffocate him care much...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:08 AM
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Most men and women might prefer someone remarkable, but realistically won't end up with them, so it doesn't really matter. Oh, no! According to TRP, this is exactly why it matters. Since an average person will only be picked on condition that a person higher up doesn't declare interest first, it may sometimes lead to one party wondering why they weren't good enough to attract an "elite" mate and that they could do better than their current partner (Please read their theories on "Alpha Fucks; Bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:02 AM
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Many already do. At least in my circles...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:43 AM
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A man has to compete with all other men, so how can he compete You don't have to if you don't want to. There is quite a lot of evidence 123 that women tend to be hypergamous and that they will often check out of dating when men "higher" than them are unavailable or unattainable If you are disheartened by that, then perhaps it would be best to figure out how best to enjoy your life without the possibility of romantic relationships because in a dating market as competitive as that in the modern er…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:41 AM
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Yet, it would seem people have few other better alternatives...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:21 AM
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Remarkable men will most likely get with remarkable women but there are still plenty of pickings left for the rest of us. TRP ideology would argue that most women want a remarkable man whether they themelves are remarkable or not. So if we assume they are correct, an unremarkable woman will still have lots of guys to choose from, while an unremarkable man will have a tough time and will probably have to deal with being a 2nd, 3rd or 4th round pick. And that might lead to resentment in both parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:18 AM
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How is trying to avoid a personal disaster saintly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:15 AM
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ITT: People not grying to change OPs view. Just saying, "Well, it's not for everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:14 AM
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40% is still rather high...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:11 AM
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You go, girl...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:55 AM
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The graduation or the blacklisting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:49 AM
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Because without that validation, getting sexual gratification or even children becomes a lot more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:44 AM
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I honestly doubt a women that cared about you would be turned off that you decided to be a human. I'm not sure about that. It is common knowledge that women like men that are strong, both emotionally and physically. Therefore, showing emotion (crying in particular) may be taken as a sign of weakness by men and even certain women. It is for this reason that men are sometimes encouraged to remain stoic in the face of hardship as a signal of emotional resilience. I do believe this is the same princ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:32 AM
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Most people graduate around 23, so I would say every year after that makes you a bigger and bigger loser. IME a 30 y/o virgin comes off as a rrd flag to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:56 AM
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Pretty priveledge...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:52 AM
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but even men don't just like pussy. tons of men get the ick from a girl with man hands or a deep voice or a bit of body hair tons of men are picky. And tons are not. It's the levels we're talking about here. Women are far more picky than men and it's not even close. This is precisely female prostitution has flourished throughout history while male prostitution continues to remain niche...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:19 PM
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if women don't enjoy sex, if it is actually something they use to trade for something else, and gain nothing from pure sex, then we should just do a survey asking women how often they masturbate. Please read my statement again. I didn't say they didn't like it, I said they didn't like it as much as men, and that claim is supported even when we go with your criteria of masturbation. According to this study its 74% of men that masturbate regularly compared to only 48% of women. That's a huge gap. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:10 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:39 PM
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And what happens when the men they hook up with happen to be "misogynists" like the PUAs? Do you recommend young men proceed with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:22 PM
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You'd have thought that by now we'd be done with this issue and be tackling nuclear fusion. Yet people still want to claim women like sex in the same way men do in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:14 PM
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So the answer is not, "they like dick." The answer is, "They like the dick of a specifc man." Unless women suddenly start pursuing dick with no regard for the man that has it (i.e. Like a lot of men) can we then state, "they like dick." Q.E.D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:10 PM
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So they like dick See that's the problem. The argument most men seem to have here is that they don't and must be manipulated almost to the point of coercion to be willing to develop an appreciation for the phallus....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:23 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:55 PM
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What evidence do YOU have that evolution does not apply to the homo sapien and specifically the brain? That's not my argument. My argument is that women not approaching men is not an evolutionary adaptation. Men weren’t ever scarce. We know this from ancient DNA and archaeological records. There were always roughly similar number of male and female Homo sapiens, but most men didn’t reproduce whereas most women did. I am very skeptical of this claim. For as long as war has been a part of human ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:00 PM
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How seriously should I take a girls giggle? Whenever I attempt to flirt, a lot of them giggle and cover their mouths. Some continue to talk, while others scurry away....I'm a guy that had it rough in highschool so I'm still finding my way in the romance business...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:02 AM
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And what happens when the others do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:37 PM
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You understand that’s sheer nonsense right? Is it though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:37 PM
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He's not wrong, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:35 PM
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Like most of human behavior, it’s because of evolutionary biology and sexual selection. What evidence do you have for that claim? Men have, in general, evolved to be the pursuers. That’s why they chase and approach. Women just have to filter This seems illogical. Don't you think that in instances in which men were scarce, women would have to do the approaching if they wanted their genes passed on? Why hasn't such behaviour survived?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:32 PM
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You are an exception. Most women say they don't want to do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:27 PM
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To all the women, what are your thoughts on dating a baby faced guy? Would it be a turn off because it's "unmasculine"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:04 AM
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If a man approaches, he's made the choice to enter her life, if only for a brief moment. She (sometimes) is able to never see that man again if she wants, but she's not actively choosing who she wants... Men are. I would disagree. Again, I think you are working on the assumption that both sexes have about equal "demand" for each other and I don't believe that's true. More and more women in the modern west say that they prefer being alone whereas men, are a lot more desperate for female attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:53 AM
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It goes both ways. Men aren't going to give access to women they don't like either. Theoretically, that might be true but we must remember that in as far as sexual gratification is concerned, many men have very low standarads. As it currently stands, the demands men have for sexual access is a lot higher than the supply women, as a group, are willing to give to satisfy that demand. It is a rare phenomenon to see a young woman with absolutley no options in the modern era. They may not like the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:46 AM
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Why do they say this? Few reasons. According to evolutionary psychology, it could be due to intra-sexual competition. Since statistically speaking, most older women find it significantly more difficult use just their looks to attract a partner, Evo Psych states that they might resort to other tactics. One is shaming men for picking women that are younger (pronounced: "prettier") than they are. It could be due to social upbringing. Most cultures in many western nations, view large age gap relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:56 AM
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Either way, they are controlling how the dating relationship is going. I would argue that women still have more control. It is well known that it is usually women that control the first encounter. Only men she likes are granted access into her life. Women also usually control sexual access. So apart from commitent, which some do not consider part of dating, women are in charge most of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:46 AM
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There is some evidence that machiavellianism could also be attractive. Men that are willing to tell a woman just what she wants to hear with no regard for truth usually do better than men that are crippled by virtue. Especially in short term encounters....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:45 AM
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women have all the control with dating when men are famously scared of commitment. At what point does dating end because I thought marriage did not count as dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:01 PM
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There are unattractive women, they are in the same boat as incels. For dating and relationships, maybe but not for sex. You would have to be in the realm of hideous to have not even 1 guy wanting to sleep with you. That distinction rarely (if ever) exists for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:52 PM
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Alright, fine. Scratch that. Given that a man's approach can be scary for a lady, women should be given then the task of approaching. Yet a lot of women still seem hesitant to take the first step...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:22 PM
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That's weird, because women's issue with rejecting men who cold approach is when men threaten them, assault them, rape them, and murder them, but are always told that barely ever happens and women should stop living their lives in fear. This is true. In the words of one person, "A man's greatest fear is that the woman he's approaching will laugh at him, while a woman's greatest fear is that a man approaching will kill her." For this reason, many have suggested that it should be women to do the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:03 PM
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Confidence, brashness, bravery and machiavellianism are all attributes that women seem to be attracted to and assholes have them in excess supply...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:53 PM
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We need more women like you. After a few social media incidents, many young men are terrified of approaching a woman they are attracted to...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:52 PM
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I would say 90% to 95% of women will try their best to go easy on you (e.g. "I have a BF," "Sorry, not interested." Giving you a number but flaking.) See the issue a lot of men here have is with the 5%-10% that will do stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:48 PM
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Indeed...Many men feel the mating game is unwinnable and have turned to video games and porn which give almost immeadiate gratification. Just think of how bad things would become if instead of images on a screen, you'd have the full likeness of an actual lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:50 PM
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My feeling is, if men really cared so much about passing on their genes they’d also care about the longevity and success of their progeny. Well, evolutionary psychologists argue that a lady's visual cues give a man information on how well a lady can keep his children. For instance, it is stated that a waist to hip ratio of around 0.7 (Hourglass figure) is most attractive because it signals she is more likely to survive labour without complications. Fair skin is said to mean she is unlikely to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:04 PM
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I still haven’t figured out why it’s wrong to prefer big, strong men or why it makes me a bad person overall, but apparently it does. I think it's more of the fact that if everyone becomes like you, then what becomes of the men that aren't big and for some reason cannot get strong? Some believe it's unfair to be thrown in a game they know will be difficult/imposssible to win and take their resentment out on a person that wont be attracted to them. It gets worse, if you become vocally rude about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:53 PM
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I forsee men becoming inconceivably lazy. Many men are only out here doing the extra mile because they want to look good infront of a certain lady. Take that away (or in this case, make it a guaranteed given) and these men will slip into a life of hedonistic laxity that you simply cannot imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:45 PM
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Why do you believe most people are hostile to a lot of the implications of evolutionary theory? e.g. Women tend to go for men that currently or have the potential to acceue resources. Causual sex is a great strategy for men in as far as passing genes is concerned...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:37 PM
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Ability to fit in tight spaces. Fair. Less money spent on food. It only becomes significant if you look at long periods of time. Can get intoxicated with less alcohol, needs less drugs for a high. Easier to overdose and hurt yourself then... Greater prospect in circus career. Every Christmas there are job openings for Santa's elf's. Funny...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:04 PM
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Better cardiovascular health, Don't know too much about this one, but I'll believe you. need less food, I doubt the difference is significant unless we take a very long view (10-15 years)... better muscle to limb ratios etc Taller people have a higher limit for absolute strength, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:57 PM
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This may be torture if you don't actually enjoy it. And most short men (at least online) don't seem to be happy...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:53 PM
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Treated as less of a threat This one is the one I am most skeptical about. Is it really to a man's benefit to look less threatening? If so, then why aren't teddy bear bodies preferable to MMA warrior physiques?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:51 PM
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Shorter girls have told me they prefer shorter guys as sex partners Very difficult claim to believe if you look at online dating/hookup app stats
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:46 PM
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Are there even any advantages of being a short guy? I have never seen anyone give any...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:52 PM
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Are you telling me UGK were right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:49 PM
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Still lower than Asia, though...If the complaints about Western women are legitimate then this may well be a viable option....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:56 PM
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I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:00 AM
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Lucky you...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:44 AM
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You know what, I had posted something a few days back taljing about how I started to feel guilty when I checked out a girl for like 2 seconds and people thought I was just overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:42 AM
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But they did get married in the first place, now didn't they? OP may even argue that they got married quicker and had "the best pick of the bunch." Whatever that may mean.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:32 AM
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It’s so easy to be attractive as a man. No, I don't think it is. Height requires breaking of bones. Wealth needs ruthless dedication. Muscle needs a very long time to grow....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:40 AM
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All you have to do is to have a healthy (19-21) BMI, put on minimal natural makeup and look minimally feminine. The range isn't even that narrow. A woman can make it to overweight range and still be a dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:37 AM
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he doesn’t believe in his own attractiveness, so why should any woman? Why doesn't this condition hold with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:22 PM
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Why do you think shyness is so repulsive (or thought to be so repulsive) in males? If a guy came to a lady rubbing his hands, avoiding eye contact, blushing and/or stumbling over his words, why is that seen as pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:11 PM
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2, 6 & 4 are the most attractive. 5 isn't bad but still the bottom of this list....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:38 PM
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Even if you dont believe in god, what do you think this says about female nature. Nothing... I truly pity the genuinely good guys in this world. I'm sure they'll be fine....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:12 PM
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Given how often some modern women go into it voluntarily, I can only guess women hate having power...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:29 PM
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Very much so....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:24 PM
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I usually work out first thing in the morning so I feel my muscles are a bit stiff out of bed. Some skipping, bear crawl and wrist prep usually seems to do the trick....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:40 PM
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And perhaps it should remain an opinion...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:19 PM
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What do you think the rarity of women led empires says about human nature? Does it say more about men's craving for power and status to attract mates? Or does it say more about women's incapability to run large, complex structures such as millitaries, societies or kingdoms? I have often heard the latter arguement brought up when I have told people to imagine a world with bo men...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:17 PM
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45-50 mins. 15 mins warm up, 20 mins weights/calisthenics, 10 mins streches...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:10 PM
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Anybody ever think of doing something extreme, like swearing off sex If only my libido would co-operate....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:53 AM
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While ours weren't as distinct as the US ones, they were definitley there....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:52 AM
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So I don't get guys who sit around wondering about how hard dating is. You either have sex or you don't. Unlike you, many guys here either got mixed messages or negative ones. There are guys who have never been complimented by a girl. EVER! Not since puberty, EVER. Do you really think just putting themselves out there will sort out their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:49 AM
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They could be smart, sporty, creative, be in theatre or have any interest they wanted but generally they were just good-looking and likeable. Good looking, yes. Likeabke, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:39 AM
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Asking a woman for her body count is the same as asking a man for his height on a dating app. Unless we're talking about rape, women have full control over their body count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:16 AM
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6) You have to get good at reading her signals. Given that men have said that they are constantly confused by the signals women send, isn't it high time women improved the quality of their signals? How is this still men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:42 PM
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As a man, there are few greater pleasures in life than hearing an attractive women moan your name in ecstasy as you’re fucking her brains out. Makes you temporarily forget the suffering that is life. Months of work for 20 mins of pleasure?...I guess it's no wonder they say men are less intelligent...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:40 PM
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Several pieces of literature I've read suggest that male creativity is attractive to women. Yet, I only know of one of my friends currently in the music circuit that's done quite well (He does rap music). So I just wanted to see if my experience was unique...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:49 AM
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Well, I know a guy that has trained in classical piano (He has an ARSM from ABRSM) and sang bass & baritone for his school gospel choir and has often lamented about how hard dating has been. Yet, when I think about another musician friend (He did okay on the local rap scene), he's constantly receiving cold calls from ladies trying rope him into a date. So is ability attractive in itself or is it the status aspect that attracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:44 AM
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Are male musicians still attractive? My personal experience has been that ladies seem indifferent to musical ability nowadays...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:30 AM
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Should a man have any say on what a woman does with her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:20 AM
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i believe that many People in those subs are to theoretical and dont have reallife experience where they observed those strategies. I do think most PUA do make a point of having field reports and field videos of their encounters. Does that count as real life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:10 AM
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Life is full of trade-offs, isn't it...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:22 AM
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I'm not telling men to be emotionless robots with blank and stone cold faces 24/7 You'd be surprised how often this tends to work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:41 AM
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