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| 1 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?I actually think it’s the opposite | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 08:45 PM |
| -4 | What I have learned from some of my player buddiesComments here are massive cope. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What's a good reaction/response when a girl calls you out (playfully or otherwise) for teasing her?I just smile and shrug and change the subject. Some of these responses are try hard | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:35 PM |
| 2 | I left my date because she wants me to payThis happened to me recently. Asked a girl out and she kept texting me later about going for food. I suggested a place for drinks and she insisted on an expensive dinner date. Mind you, I also know she doesn’t have a job. She also kept implying that she doesn’t pay for dates and wanted to rack up a bill. I gave her a spot to meet and then blocked and deleted her. Edit: I always pay on a date. But when you’re talking about money and seem like you’re there for free shit rather than my company, tha… | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 03:43 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, where is all the focus in pickup? What do people focus too much on studying/improving and what doesn't get attention that should?Being able to hold a fun and natural conversation with a stranger, man or woman, is a much better skill to have. Too many antisocial weirdos approaching with no frame of reference to how people actually communicate. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 7 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenA lot of men are so black pilled that they’re not enough that they find themselves on a hamster wheel of self-improvement and their self-worth comes from results. Being results oriented will keep you unsatisfied and in your head. You feel like you need to be perfect. Fuck perfection. There is no such thing. Focus on being process oriented and enjoy the things you’re doing only because you enjoy doing them. All that exists is the present moment when you’re with a woman and how you make her feel. … | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Smash for a Relationships?She was attracted to you but not comfortable enough for sex. Simple as that | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 05:26 PM |
| 2 | How to leave him exhausted/ sore after bed?My man ain’t serious about his gains. Shame | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships?I always have a friend vibe with a little flirtatiousness underneath. I’m never really giving the impression that I want something serious. I’m very abundant. I don’t text them like crazy, but I will comment on an IG story or the occasional snap. I never kiss close or anything like that. We usually go out, have fun, banter, etc. Go check out a few more bars. Then go to an after party, have drinks at mine or theirs and I never make a move unless I know I can seal the deal. I don’t kiss them or an… | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships?Decent. I’m not insanely good looking, but work on myself and take care of my mind / body. I hit the gym, I train BJJ, I watch what I eat, etc. But most importantly I’m confident, bold, and have a sense of humor. That’s actually what matters. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 04:43 PM |
| 122 | Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships?I work as a bartender. So I am friends with a lot of pretty girls that I work with. You realize real quick that they’re just as nasty if not worse than men in some regards. You also realize that you don’t always have sexual chemistry with a hot woman, but they’re cool as a friend. I flirt with my female friends and keep things fun and have slept with a few girls at work… some I’m still friends with. Just keep things light hearted and have fun. The secret is truly that there is no secret. Vibing … | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How can I spruce it up?Turn the TV off? | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How honest should I be when sharing my dating life with a girl I’m interested in?Just tell her you’re single and just haven’t found the right girl yet that makes you want to settle down. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 05:45 AM |
| 16 | How to deal with men using physical force and threats of violence to cockblock you:Dude, some self awareness would be great | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 10:21 PM |
| 29 | How to deal with men using physical force and threats of violence to cockblock you:You’re giving incel mass shooter vibes, brother. Love yourself and stop taking the game so seriously. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 09:58 PM |
| 40 | How to deal with men using physical force and threats of violence to cockblock you:You’re not that guy pal | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Girl literally told me “ur ugly as f”Sometimes girls just say things to piss you off or upset you because you’re coming across as weird, are testing you or don’t wanna talk and you came in at a bad time. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Some guys just have itToo much outcome dependance. Y’all need to get out of your heads and just have fun with going out. The vibe comes first. Dance a bit, make some friends on the patio, entertain yourself first and then you’ll entertain people. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Some guys just have itDo you know how to have fun for the sake of it? Or are you approaching every interaction with the intention of getting laid. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Why don't I see guys with game AND looks?Natural game is very low effort it doesn’t appear as game. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”He’s clever and confident. Self-amusing. And can take control of any social situation. Mind you this guy is in his 40s, is broke, out of shape, and an alcoholic but also has the best game / social skills I’ve seen. And he does that by just being a cool dude. It’s a myth that you need to be killing it in every facet of your life to get laid. That helps and it feels good, but nothing is more humbling than when a bum of a man can make you look average with sheer charisma and self-love. You only hav… | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 07:02 AM |
| 16 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Yah I read it buddy. Vibe is more important than good looks. I know a short guy in his 40s with the best game I’ve ever seen. He pulls girls 20 years younger. My friend is 350 lbs fat as fuck and he fucks girls that I normally would try and go for. Girls don’t know what they want until they have it. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:54 PM |
| 26 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”It’s all about the vibe. The problem with this sub is that people are coming from a place of scarcity and fake confidence. It helps to be attractive, but there’s always a vibe of overcompensation and insecurity with most guys, especially guys on this subreddit. The less you try and have an ease to you in which you navigate the world, the better things will be. With that being said, girls love my personality way more now that I have a six pack. ;) | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:21 PM |
| 3 | 50 first dates, they all say no "spark"Be fun and flirty. You probably take yourself too seriously | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Mating quality vs parental quality | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 01:09 PM |
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