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| 1 | How to get the first overnight with dog owners | Escalation & Calibration | NChSh | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:53 PM |
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| 2 | How do you reach out to exes?You can text them some random bullshit but women are getting texted by their exes all the time. The best way is to send them something funny/clever and specific to them with no seeming agenda attached to it. If they're interested they'll write a bunch of shit and if they're not you didn't look thirsty. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 11:10 PM |
| 2 | I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desertIt really depends where you live | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Had To Deal With A FlakeIts what I call my "strategic reserve" | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Reaching back out to old leadsI think of it as my strategic reserve. Its usually not very fruitful but you can hit here and there. Just don't reach out to more than one at a time so you don't blaze through the whole stockpile. Check their socials for sign of a boyfriend first too | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 05:20 PM |
| 3 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted?My personal theory on double texting is that: a.) it is so out of vogue now that men send them less than ever, and b.) women are used to getting them at least a bit but now are barely getting any. So with the dearth of double texting women are almost flattered to get them now. I have been double texting a lot lately and I am literally like looking forward to it. It doesn't work every time but it is hardly the death knell people make it out to be. | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 04:40 AM |
| 15 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?Also women misrepresent themselves on app all the time its better to meet in public for both of you | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 18 | Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuckHello | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 01:14 AM |
| 5 | In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once?I think women are all different. Dating is just as exhausting for women as it is for us and a single wolf in sheep's clothing problematic guy can really turn them off from it for awhile. Its not uncommon for women to arbitrarily go on Hinge or whatever on a random day, pick 3 matches from just that group, get busy that week and only have one match still active a week later. Some of them want a partner and just dont absolutely crave validation like others do. They're out there but its hard to tel… | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone tried AI dating assistants? How effective are they?I use ChatGPT to hone messages and advise on when to send them but no ai will be able to do this on its own | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 06:53 PM |
| 43 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]This is honestly way more believable than most shit posted on here frankly. And hes not even trying to sell a class or some bs like that. The woman is probably nuts but who cares | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Top Dating Red Flags - How To Pick A Long Term Relationship And Not Waste Years Of Your Life!Lol have you actually started dating yet | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 12:26 AM |
| 9 | Top Dating Red Flags - How To Pick A Long Term Relationship And Not Waste Years Of Your Life!Yeah like that would be great but the dating pool often has really cool, attractive avoidant people in it that have been emotionally trained by others to hide some of their impulses. It's harder to filter this shit out than you're giving it credit for | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:54 PM |
| 14 | Telling people "not to apply pressure" is terrible adviceYes but you don't know which woman is super shallow about looks and which isn't. There are some women who are vain as hell and only get activated by the dopamine hit of the guy being handsome. But a.) who gives a shit what they think about you and b.) There are a lot more women who can get activated by personality than you'd think | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 05:37 PM |
| 18 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?You can still be a "nice" person and believe you are worthy of dating. Im still super nice and do ok, im just good at dating too | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Thanks to this sub i get to enjoy my fwb walking around my room naked .. Thanks seduction!How to write an em dash | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 03:53 AM |
| 167 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedAfter finishing, I sipped some water and tried to catch my breath — I had pushed that set pretty hard. "Ok so ChatGPT, make sure to emphasize how hard i was working whenever possible" lol | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:01 AM |
| 35 | I find dating extremely exhausting and confusingWomen in a lot of cities in the world have a glut of options in 2025. They can be picky in a way that you cannot. Also, having sex with women is fantastic and a lot of men will do basically anything to do that. They will try as hard as they possibly can and center their life around trying to do it as much as possible. Also a lot of women are dating less than ever and this is probably the worst decade since like 1930 to be dating as a man (in most cities). So any woman who wants to date right now… | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 10:03 PM |
| 43 | How to talk to a girl to see you as a potential partner, not as another guy-friend?Theres kind of a paradox where its like the more I have in common with a woman, especially if we're having drinks, ill just get to chatting and have a great time. Then get ghosted. Women apparently dont like a familiar feeling conversation though and will not be attracted to me for having no sexual tension on the date. At first when I started dating I found this completely perplexing. However with women I have less in common with, even if theyre way hotter, I usually do way better in terms of ge… | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 11:50 PM |
| 12 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Hotter women often have higher standards than less attractive women 🤯 | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyMore desirable women are harder to sleep with than less desirable women lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverI do best on Bumble but I think Bumble's algorithm really rewards engagement and momentum | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 10:20 PM |
| 19 | Start your game BEFORE your date arrivesI always thought of this as like Groundhogs Daying | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Are spontaneous daygame same day lays possible?Im sure you do want to find women to have sex with whenever you want on your terms lol | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak.By "MagnusMain" a DOTA 2 reference lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 05:40 AM |
| 2 | 7 signs a girl is not into you and that it's time to move onThat's not mutually exclusive. Its easier to go on a bunch of dates at 42 than 27 but to land a secure woman at 42 is really difficult | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 08:10 PM |
| 23 | 7 signs a girl is not into you and that it's time to move onEh never initiating anything is pretty common even with women who like you. Mind games and postponing are often from avoidant women and they might actually like you but are a little advanced for a lot of the posters on here to actually date. Like this basically is a list if you get a secure woman how you want to see them treat you, which if you do hold on to her because they are fucking rare as you get older lol | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 05:01 PM |
| 34 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyIf you have to brag, make them tease it out of you. Don't just offer it. Bragging is a huge turn off I think guys see it as a short cut to getting a big spike in attraction but it doesn't work that way. If they find out you can do those things organically without you offering it though they love it. So just let it happen if you do it | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 10:15 PM |
| 56 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateOne for me is if there is a lull in conversation in dates 1-3, never be the one to start talking again. Just look super comfortable, relax, smirk and just kind of lightly laugh while making eye contact. Be completely at ease. They will always start talking again and process it as a moment | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 08:52 PM |
| 22 | It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a dateThe real paradox/irony or whatever is correct is that dating is more skill based than ever but women still want a guy who is only into them. Like look at the rates people were having sex in the 90s vs today, its literally like 3x as much. And im doing great with women but I have multiple pipelines to get them from and rehearsed dates and have studied how to build attraction on dates. I ate shit for a year getting all that down, but when I was eating shit I was probably a much better long term pa… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateI also have a date where I make a beach fire with a charcuterie board and wine. Its a ton of work. I had a first date with a woman who was so different than her profile for the worse and then I was just stuck there with her. And it was so much work! Great second date though | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 11:32 PM |
| 52 | Text/online game is an amazing tool to get you laidYou seem like trouble is the exact line ChatGPT always feeds me too ha | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose OutYeah it's like would you rather go out with a woman that is interesting and fun or a woman who is nervous and like is scared to say their opinions to you. There you go right? | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Congratulations, You've Been AMOGed...Lol I need not just one group of friends to go out with, but a second tactical group that goes to a different bar so one group can bring everyone to the other at some point | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 10:19 PM |
| 11 | What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches)I'm 6'1" but if you run my picture through Photofeeler and ask it to be reviewed by women aged 30-44, my most common score is "0" attractive. So like a picture I think I look good in will often get every single woman saying I am ugly. I'm 42 by the way. However I do amazing on the apps because all my photos are "gimmick" shots. A picture of me where I look like every other picture I get a 0 on gets almost an 8 overall attractiveness if I am playing guitar on the beach for instance. I am sure tha… | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 05:14 PM |
| 148 | 4 small grooming tips that helped my dating gameTwo quick ones too are - trim your nose hairs and make sure your fly is up. Can't stress these enough | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 11:30 PM |
| 25 | "Womanese" - a guide to basic yet complex things women say and do without telling you what they meanYeah and honestly the women I know IRL that I consider wife material are guarded as fuck. If they gave non mixed answers out they'd be wifed up already so that's the tradeoff. Its like the final boss of dating | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | The reason you’re getting ghosted is because you lack sparkIt's fucking absurd how technical everyone is getting to get women to like them. But I mean it works I don't know what to say. "Ok 45 minutes in you're going to want to lean back 17 degrees and modulate your pitch 1/6th of an octave down, so make sure you have a timer set" | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 05:06 PM |
| 14 | The reason you’re getting ghosted is because you lack sparkI think they piece of advice in here that works is if you're going on dates and they all end the same, then you gotta start taking some chances. Send a flirter text than you might have before. Try to switch venues faster. Etc but you gotta start experimenting. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face?If she's interested she'll reach out if you don't turn her off. It's unlikely but you have better odds than asking her when she's ready or whatever. The only move is not to play | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Struggling to Meet Girls in Clubs – Need Help from A to Z"Hey what's up! Your shirt/necklace/dress reminds me of [forced transition to my funniest story]. Oh and [second funniest story]. Anyway do you wanna come back to my house, listen to records and make out? I have whiskey and cocaine" | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 06:02 AM |
| 12 | Who do the really attractive women on the apps actually date?Theyre going out with me and sending a "no spark" text the next day lol | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:42 AM |
| 28 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameWhy did I sleep with you? Oh because of push pull of course. Get outta here | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 44 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?I live here and the guys thing is a lot of like 18-22 year old military guys and nerdy engineer shut ins. So not as bad as it sounds. The city is not super promiscuous but there's places like Pacific Beach that are pretty crazy. If you're a gay man though it's probably the most promiscuous city on Earth though those dudes are fucking crazy with it | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | For an inexperienced man, what is a good first date location?Never a classical coffee shop like a Starbucks. Like you might as well be at a Dunkin' Donuts. You want it to have a fun interior more than anything and a big corporate place is not going to have that charm. I think you live in Dubai? So you want an interesting interior with good lighting like at La Nena vs something like a Bateel where you are in a bright mall sitting across from each other with no art or ambiance. Try to get a good interior shot of the coffee place/bar/restaurant and imagine t… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm totally lost and I don't know what to do next to save itUse it as a learning experience. Getting these missives and pressure is super annoying, especially after she told you it's just ajar. Get a therapist if you need to vent | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:02 PM |
| 18 | A review of top AI dating assistants [Wingman Live, Rizz, PlugAI]ChatGPT likely blows these out of the water anyway and if your message smells of AI even a little bit that's game over. But ChatGPT is so good at workshopping good openers | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 07:21 AM |
| 20 | People just want to be more EfficientIf the really great women were easier to get and didn't give you shit tests, a bunch of loser guys would be all over them. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?It's normal you gotta keep at it. 3.5 months is like the you're getting first dates but not second dates stage. We were all there just learn from what you're doing | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:45 AM |
| 51 | Checking out female tinder to see the competition. Holy shitOn Hinge I do numbers and I'm not ripped or well dressed. On Tinder I get no attention. So let them all stay there who cares, the women I'm matching with have six packs lol | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What improved your first dates the most?That's why you try to tell the same stories and disclose the same things on every first date. I was forgetting who I said what to before haha | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:38 PM |
| 5 | What improved your first dates the most?I try to go for the kiss but I've had solid dates where I didn't get one that still lead to a second. But yeah to everything else | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | What improved your first dates the most?Lol yeah | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 06:48 AM |
| 2 | What improved your first dates the most?It's a first date but my dog is awesome and basically is bonus points for me. This works really only if she has a dog too. After you are at your cars you say "well I don't want to drink more tonight and drive but our dogs can't go in an Uber. Do you want to come back to my area of town and go out there?" And then say "ok meet me at my place it's [my address]" then when they come over open wine and put on a record | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 04:10 AM |
| 120 | What improved your first dates the most?4 things: 1.) Growing out facial hair and keeping it super short with a cleanly shaved neck. 2.) Dressing nicer 3.) Going on so many dates I have no nervousness at all and have no problem touching a leg or arm out of nowhere to build attraction. Lots of eye contact too 4.) Venue selection. So there's one bar that is nice, great low lighting, music is always good, and the seating makes you really close to your date. I also make beach fires but that's more of a second date thing. Then my magnum op… | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 02:54 AM |
| 72 | Approaching in -20°C? How Winter Dating Transformed My LifeSo you improved it by moving the fuck away? Lol | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I’m becoming a sex monster?!The apps have kind of fucked everyone's heads. If I go 1 hour of my life where I am not actively talking to a woman or have a date lined up, I feel worthless, but I go on like 4 dates a week. I never had 4 simultaneously FWB, but the way I "cured" myself from your thing was the women started calling me at like 4 am drunk and on pills to scream at me for not loving them, showing up at my work unannounced, etc. And they all seemed like normalish people when I met them. | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?This happened to me and I grew my stubble out, dressed nicer and picked date venues better. I try to be more physical too. Its like when you first start, it's hard to get matches. Then it's hard to get dates from messaging. Then this happens. Then it's hard to turn 3rd dates into sex. But it's all shit you can learn it just takes awhile | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Got results but realized casual sex isn't for me.Yeah the issue you run into next is if you have two identical dates and you end one even just asking for a kiss vs one you don't and you're dramatically more likely to get a second date. If you just invite them back to your place, you're more likely to get a third date. She can say no to both and as long as you're like, "I totally understand" it still works. Now I have no accurate way of knowing if I want to date someone after 1 2 hour date. So if you're trying to evaluate a woman, you need to t… | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 02:34 AM |
| 55 | How To Sexually Escalate On A DateLeaving handcuffs on the table when you get back to your place is going to chase a lot of women away that...already came back to your place lol | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 04:51 PM |
| 8 | Do ladies like being asked to dance at a club/rave?Dressing for the crowd is so important. I was on a hot streak lately and kind of feeling myself. I went from work to a gay bar near my house, because a gay VIP in from out of town wanted to go. A super cute woman was dancing there and she had this sick like cut off clown outfit on, it is hard to describe but she looked incredible. I made eye contact, immediately walked up to her and she's like "you're cute but dressed like a goober" and basically started dancing 5 feet away from me lol | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 07:05 AM |
| -1 | 5 Steps To Getting Laid On TinderNo you don't | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Don’t Make The Mistake Of Going From Acting “Too Hot” To “Too Cold”I would say do make that mistake at least once so you learn but otherwise yeah | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 12:25 AM |
| 18 | Stop Clowning YourselfYeah but if you're not hot, you have to do what the rest of us do: wildly overthink everything | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 04:59 PM |
| 4 | I Approached Thousands Of Women – 4 Surprising Lessons I Learned In The ProcessI agree it's just you need to be able to tell when it's on the table. I feel like it's a layup on the second date so why bother a lot of the time anyway. A lot of the women I want the most have their guards up for it, so you have to "pull the chair" and go the other way on the first date. Like on weeknights a lot of women won't let you hit on a first date period you're just going to annoy them - I suppose unless you are way better at this than me ha | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 13 | I Approached Thousands Of Women – 4 Surprising Lessons I Learned In The ProcessThe backbone of getting second dates from both approaching and OLD is that you need to better yourself in general and do interesting things. You should have hobbies and friends ideally so that you have things you can talk about. You shouldn't brag on dates but you should be able to talk about the life you have in a positive way. Contrary to a lot of advice on here, you don't need to get sexual on a first date. Plan the date well. Don't be weird. If she asks to split the check, split it and don't… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | 3 Texting principles that consistently get me laid with online datingYo bonus question because I am working on a message right now: I am writing on Bumble to a woman who's location is turned off, but the area I live in is huge (San Diego) so she could live like 40 minutes away. How do you walk into that? Do you go "Hey wanna get dinner tonight at X" or "Hey do you wanna get dinner tonight, does [Area of town] in general work for you?" etc. Asking where they live seems troublesome | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | 3 Texting principles that consistently get me laid with online datingThis is way too one size fits all IMO. Like this advice And I’ve personally never had a girl that got so turned off from me suggesting we meet at my place that she wouldn’t go on a regular date afterwards. - I mean I've had women turn me down because I asked them to dinner instead of drinks AND on different times because I asked them to drinks instead of dinner. I think what has really helped me is to take every conversation seriously but learn to let go if it fizzles out. I asked a woman out af… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | My Text GameThere's always more women so you don't need to worry about it, and this isn't the line | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | My Text GameUm I wouldn't be so sure! Sending an extra text is not like a Herculean task. I think you are in your own head a bit | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | My Text GameHer: it’s just that I don’t have time. I work all week and do sports on the weekends. Nothing else happened. She blatantly ignored my question, which signaled to me that she was not on the same page, so I unmatched. Wait she wrote that and you didn't send another message, you just unmatched? If that is the case then I mean it's kinda on you | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 07:58 PM |
| 6 | 3 Rules To Succeed On Dating AppsI break 1 all the time and I have to say it works for me | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:05 AM |
| 10 | How do you guys juggle dating multiple girls?The amount you have to text becomes like a soft "salary cap" on the number of prospects you can have actively | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 05:03 PM |
| 33 | Tired of being walked over. I wanna attract as many high value women as possible.Also gay guys are fun as shit. A lot of them spend like 80% of their day partying even if you count sleeping. And contrary to popular belief, they're not going to really hit on you if you're straight. Unlike us they have no problem getting laid haha | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 07:16 PM |
| 24 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolFlowers is a lottery. Like a quarter of women lose their mind over it and the rest think you're a try hard loser. If you correctly guess right it's great but it's risky from our side of things | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 12:17 AM |
| 10 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeDouble-texting when she doesn’t reply: This shows insecurity and pushes her away. She saw your text man, she just isn't interested. I've seen guys think like "oh well every once in awhile it works!" but the other side of that coin is that there is an opportunity cost. You are not going after other women and you are all caught up with one that is not interested, so you are a lot more likely to miss out on someone new than you are for the old person to get back to you. Just keep it moving. Also th… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ?Because you need to have a good Instagram and post good photos all the time to be a threat on there. It's like another job. I'm 41 and it's kind of hard to do it right at my age though, I concede if you're 28 it's probably easier | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Stop entertaining drynessI truly believe that if enough men do this then less women will exhibit dry texting. No this will never happen. Just move on and don't be petty for your own good. You'll feel better just dropping them back | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 10:42 PM |
| 5 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Some people say to wait a few days before you message someone to avoid looking needy but that just causes her excitement to die down I think this was true pre smartphone but things move faster now | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Weird Problem, but You Ever Feel Like You Have Too Many Friends?You are throwing parties so that is good, but I recommend theme parties and make the parties at least 100 people. You end up working it like an event is the problem so you want other people to help out. Try to get a couple people to DJ. You can literally do this into your 50s | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Fitness coach tried daygame - here's what happenedI remember when I went from 0 likes on dating apps to dates every week, then finding out those dates go nowhere unless you get this additional skillset. It's such a grind | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedIt goes both ways too. You've obviously never had a woman you were sleeping with get belligerent after knowing her a week and screaming in your face for four hours about how you don't love them | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:03 PM |
| 93 | My 1 secret to building an effective dating profile and standing outYeah this is what I've landed on, too. Basically what I have learned is that every photo you have up should be have a "gimmick" or hook. Like you should be playing guitar, shooting a basketball, hugging a dog, catching a frisbee on the beach, with friends, sailing, painting, etc in EVERY SINGLE PICTURE you put up. I know there is advice to have a smiling headshot and a full body shot, but you need to work those into a picture of you doing something. Women are scrolling through like 50-100 profil… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 05:56 PM |
| 4 | How to have same confidence regularly as I do at the bar?Alcoholism | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 04:34 AM |
| 2 | The one texting frameworks that consistently gets me laid with online dating.I usually get a date confirmed at message 4 or so, I'm not sure you need to bother with all of this | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 09:56 PM |
| 17 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Volunteering for what? I've volunteered for all kinds of shit and it's never been even a copper mine | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 04:14 AM |
| 308 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badThe biggest differences are both annoying. They are as far as I can tell: 1.) Everyone is way more vain because of social media. People with attractive faces now out perform everyone and both genders over select for how someone will look in their Instagram feed. A 5'9" guy with a handsome face who writes he's 6'0" will crush on a dating profile 2.) I have a wide social circle in a major city. The 5 most beautiful women I know that are single have not dated anyone in at least year and none of the… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 11 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?The very fine women want men that are literally better than them (morally/ethically). I've been joking about staging a photo of me in a tuxedo reading Little Women in a nursing home to a bunch of grandmas for my dating profile but I might actually do it now | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here have a 10/10 girl in a 5+ relationship and recover when she is living the rich life?I'm 41 and have been single after a long term relationship multiple times. This does seem like the worst time to be single ever but I'm still getting dates and there's some seriously hot single women out there. It's frustrating right up until you're having new relationship sex every day with a super hot woman. Keep your eyes on the prize | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 11:27 PM |
| 112 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkThe most effective use of physical touch I’ve used the Princess hand hold. Place your hands under hers during conversation in playful manner. Some guys are uncomfortable doing this at first, so you can compliment her nails or piece of jewelry. Personally I think it’s best to just be confident and go for it. Ask if a ring she is wearing has some special significance, it's a good way to start this | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Libido & Stamina!Stamina is cardio + kegels | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 08:23 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys lick the pussy of every girl you get laid, or you choose some of them?Call me Michael Douglas | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 18 | Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to beI'm dating one now and the taking photos constantly is annoying. We're having a good time and then everything is derailed for 10 minutes | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Your self esteem will take a hit at first but just bear through it. For reference, a decent picture of me smiling with a nice background gets a 3.9 on there and a picture of me with a guitar is an 8 | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?I hired one and can only use 1 of the pictures. I am not ugly but I'm not handsome and I look like a complete dork in most pictures. Try slightly changing your expression every shot and use Photofeeler with the money you would have used on a photographer | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Don't! Get a tripod and clicker on Amazon. You need like 40 tries per picture a photographer won't sit there with you | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?You went into my comment history for ammo and that's all you got? Literally all I do all day is seek validation. You don't even get it | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Um ok killallwomen98, I'm sure you get way more pussy than me lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 08:16 PM |
| 9 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Every photo should have a gimmick like a dog, guitar, traveling, etc. A picture of just you standing there is not going to make you stand out | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 08:16 PM |
| 17 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?My profile is good and I do pay for Hinge. I can in practice have a new date with an attractive woman every week. I'm average looking but 6'1", have a dog, guitar, good job and politics women like. The problem is I keep going for the hottest woman I match with and they're all kinda listless | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere?Women seem to get way less attention on Hinge vs other apps, I'm having way more success with it than Tinder | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 08:28 PM |
| 11 | Why we like MILF's ?Women get super horny around 35 and hit their sexual peak for about ten years. They often cheat and go crazy around here. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 04:04 PM |
| 15 | Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inactionI'd love to see a dating guide called like "BPD Method" lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Hell yeah validation | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 02:54 PM |
| 7 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.It's here | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?He was a legend in the community and also the former Chair of the Ohio Utility Agency. He used to pull like crazy | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Sam Randazzo | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 22 | I’m addicted to female attention.The fucked up thing is i don’t mind not fucking these women as long as they give me attention. I’m literally becoming a woman. This comes off as a little nuts. Validation from women is great obviously. You do not need to sleep with everyone. A better way to think about women is that they have standards. If I go to a party and I look around and don't really feel any kind of way towards the women there, but would talk to one if they approached me to see if they were interesting but otherwise would… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 13 | I don’t get this cuck stuffPeople have been doing this forever though. It's just more deranged rich guy shit | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 10:04 AM |
| 0 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?Dude my man over there is spitting facts. There are billions of people and some of them are like her and some of them are like you. You can't change this woman through strategy or pleas. The two of you are not a match. You are emotionally attached to her so you're having a hard time letting go. There's other women out there and you will almost certainly find one who is a better match for you than her, and when you find her you will wish you had made yourself available sooner. You're like 24 or s… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Something that isn't talked about nearly enoughEat them out and do kegels | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 05:46 PM |
| 11 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manYou can in the flow of a conversation brush a woman's arm or make a lot of eye contact which will build physical chemistry. I am friends with some beautiful women that are also on the apps and matching with guys who have great profiles and seem to have put together careers. These men do things like stick their fingers in the womens mouths when they go to yawn, literally honk their boobs on the second date, try to guess where they live to pick them up to surprise them about how good they are at u… | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?You move the reservation and offer the new date. I also have used a burner email to make 2 reservations there to give a backup date. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 03:37 PM |
| 23 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?Make the reservation first! Then ask. If you ask and can't get a reservation you look like a choad | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 05:18 AM |
| 22 | Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ?I have money and even in a vaccuum, there are free dates that are fantastic. But I often see bad advice, like let's walk around a park (kind of boring) or let's go on a hike (freaks some women out for being secluded). The best ones are bullshit women want to do anyway like an art walk or some kind of holiday light show around Christmas. Look for the website for the biggest park near you or a downtown civic organization and see what events are going on like that. It makes you look really put toge… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 06:40 PM |
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