Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?

cyrusm_az · 2024-07-06T18:08:59+00:00

Don’t expect anything from it. Don’t pay for it. It’s a Hail Mary throw, it might happen, not likely

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-07-06T18:51:49+00:00

It's worth casting those lines out and waiting to see if something nibbles.

Don't spend money.

lildudefromXdastreet · 2024-07-06T18:32:14+00:00

Depends how attractive you are and what city you live in. I'm in NYC and a decently handsome guy so I get a lot of play off hinge, but if you're ugly or sub 6' I'd avoid because ur personally can't be involved

tedjoneskidd · 2024-07-07T00:51:32+00:00

90% of women are whores, so believe me it's not as hard as your mind is making it on you

NChSh · 2024-07-06T19:16:15+00:00

My profile is good and I do pay for Hinge. I can in practice have a new date with an attractive woman every week. I'm average looking but 6'1", have a dog, guitar, good job and politics women like. The problem is I keep going for the hottest woman I match with and they're all kinda listless

rocknrico666 · 2024-07-06T23:59:48+00:00

I had it for 3 months. Slept with ~20 women. But don’t be fooled. I paid. I matched with 100s of people. Sent tons of texts.

Put it like this. 200 matches. 100 respond. 50 carry a convo. 25 give number. 5 go on date. 1-3 have sex.

Good job and good looking guy. Was in late 20s. Can’t speak for others experience

Worried-One2399 · 2024-07-06T22:24:47+00:00

Unless ur a top 5% in the looks dept. Cold approaches will be ur best bet.

david-lee-roth- · 2024-07-06T21:11:34+00:00

It can work but it takes more time. Adding 2 steps by using an app. Swiping and meeting. In real life you skip those 2. I know a lot of people that clean up on. Same game. Different rules

cash_jc · 2024-07-06T23:56:59+00:00

It’s rough, but I only use it to exchange instas then play the longer game on there.

justmots · 2024-07-07T00:09:02+00:00

Of course, but it's what you do in the background. It's like sales. You have to get your email marketing campaigns in, and in this situation it's text message campaigns. You never know where the best option will pop up from whether that's online, in person, or overseas, etc.

TechGuy56 · 2024-07-07T02:31:35+00:00

It's mainly a strategy I use on the side. If it works, it works but don't expect much from it. I also lead with fairly blunt pick up lines that suggest we will be hooking up the first time we meet. The ones that are receptive of these lines, I'd say 10% go through with it. But with most things in this space, it mainly comes down to proximity and her and my schedules lining up which can be frustrating. Strike when the iron is hot!

Cipamanz · 2024-07-07T14:50:39+00:00

Alright mate, let’s dive in.

**Using Dating Apps for Practice:** Totally worth it! The apps are a playground for testing and honing your text game without the immediate pressure of in-person interactions. Each conversation is a chance to experiment with teasing, humor, and building intrigue.
**15 Matches in 2-3 Weeks:** That's decent, especially with just a couple of photos. Quality over quantity. Focus on sparking genuine interest and emotional engagement in the few conversations you have instead of trying to juggle too many .
**Improving Text Game:**

**Be Playful:** Use teasing and fun banter to keep things lighthearted.

```

Her: "I love sushi!"

You: "We might be soulmates... or sushi rivals. Buckle up."

```

**Create Emotional Highs:** Alternate between regular conversation and emotional spikes.

```

Her: "I love dogs. Do you have pets?"

You: "Yep, but they're more like fur-covered partners in crime. What's your doggo's superpower?"

```

This keeps the conversation engaging without putting too much pressure on either party .

**Maintaining Interest:**

**Be the First to End the Interaction:** Maintain curiosity and mystery by keeping conversations short and engaging. This also shows you're not needy .

**Improving Matches:** Enhance your profile with varied photos and a bio that sparks curiosity. Don't be afraid to show your personality.

Dates? Focus on honing your conversational skills, and hookups or relationships will naturally follow if that’s your game.

For more detailed coaching, hit me up

Comprehensive-Ad3016 · 2024-07-07T23:03:00+00:00

Hinge is legit, tinder and Bumble are trash. I get couple matches a day and you can move locations for free.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2024-07-07T02:33:43+00:00

Not really mang, they are dry asf these days

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-07-07T05:33:55+00:00

Certain demographic of women use it. I’ve recently re downloaded it and remembered why I switched to in person. It’s a Hail Mary if you’re in a new city and wanna try your luck.

Even if you pay tinder is a ghost town unlimited swipes for a couple matches

Hinge makes you pay for the hotties.

I’m about to re delete them and focus on day game.

Bumble still hit or miss.

videogames_ · 2024-07-07T05:38:55+00:00

I've paid for many years and used it. I absolutely maxed out my photos and would recommend Hinge over the others because it gives you a chance at a video clip and a voice memo. I have had 10 numbers, 6 dates, and 3 hookups this year with swiping almost everyone just by having a solid voice memo and maxing out my photos with fun, candid, traveling photos.

m2niles · 2024-07-07T14:55:01+00:00

I use it when I travel and have had good success finding girls for casual fun (tinder), when I’m back home I turn my notifications off and don’t think about it really.

TuneSoft7119 · 2024-07-06T23:16:29+00:00

no.

most guys will never get a like or match

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-06T18:22:09+00:00

You are successfully using it to achieve your goal of practicing texting and you're getting matches, so for you it's obviously worth it. These things are very individual. It's worth it for some and not worth it for others. So what you need to do is figure it out for yourself. Asking others if dating apps are worth it is completely useless because maybe it's worth it for them or maybe not. But you are not them - so knowing if it works for others is pointless.

Trust your own experiences over other people's experiences

Tan_fuker · 2024-07-06T19:48:22+00:00

Honestly the most you’ll get is a hookup once every 3-6 months n that’s coming from a 180lb jacked straight hairline blue eyes tan v taper lean im a solid 7 probably an 8-8.5 on a great day like dressed for a wedding. Unless ur gay then u can hookup date n fuck when ever n wherever as much as u want when u want with who you want lol.

dobbs1997 · 2024-07-06T21:42:27+00:00

why do you wanna improve your text game ?

Amazondriver23 · 2024-07-06T20:35:08+00:00

2024-07-06T18:19:47+00:00

If you are a toilet yeha or a tall man. I love beating up my whore mother as she made me 5’9” as a 5’2” toilet

Title	Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?
Author	gothbaddiewtf
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Date	July 6, 2024 6:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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