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He is BAD. I used to come up with various excuses for these men until I realized "if they want it, they would" So if he cannot keep up with low effort communications, I don't think there is much hopes elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:22 AM
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Such an innocent boy looking for a nice girl gone bad.. 💯 BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:31 PM
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Seriously who believe in this? I rather spoil myself than be emotional and financial drained by these men. They definitely don't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:03 PM
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My boyfriend and I (Europe and SEA) watched both shows together and have similar observations. In the US shows, it a lot about lust, attraction and being a couple. I feel that they put too much pressure for the women to be intimated fast or a couple to say 'I love you'. In the season 2, I don't know who are going to make it. In the Japan show, they treated the pods as the place of vetting on both parties. I am impressed with the questions they asked and how they treated it seriously. I can see s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:51 PM
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First thing that jumped out at me too lol. Maybe they want 'real women' to be able to spot the big ego man who treat women badly from milesaway. And not let me start on the making bed..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:00 AM
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Definitely sarcastic. Otherwise, congrats you find the real gem! How this man exists, proud and delusional is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:23 PM
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Because these men things they can do it to us! I noticed that me and my tiny lady always get yelled at more than my male colleagues. I had men that yelling, screaming and gaslight me just for food orders far more than women would. Now my policy is customers ain't shit and most time they are wrong. So I am no longer be nice to everyone, just the one who deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:39 AM
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I always dress nicely going out whether it is a date or meeting a friend so I will keep my standard the same which involves dressing up based on where we going. If weekdays after work, of course work outfit and just refresh the make up. Day time coffee date, minimal make-up, nice casual outfit. Drinks and dinner date: dress up a little and perhaps gilter eyes/bold lips :) I usually have friends that adhere to the same rules and expect the same for my man. Knowing how to dress is important for me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:33 AM
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Guilty! I was her. In fact i was worst, I split first two dates, then the third date we went to an expensive place that he chose and when the bill arrived, he looked nervous whether I would pay. The bill was 120 and I had 100$ bill. He looks so pathetic that I gave him my 100$ bill and said no changes. He then gladly accepted it, put my money into his pocket and gladly put his card out. WtF! He is an IT guy which in my city would earn 100k++ lives in a nice place. I wish I stopped seeing him the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:28 PM
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Of course compared to other men, he seems not to be worse off as he started from a very low point. One thing I learnt from relationship is that being a care taker or dedicating your life to someone doesn't mean they are going to love you back. In this case she will be another person that do anything above and beyond but still no golden pot at the end. Sad story of many good women that wasting their life with bad people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:55 PM
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I seriously thought the same. Nothing in the story is making sense. Young, ambitious stucked in a financial abuse by a man who doesn't work. A dollar discrepancy??? But if this were a trys story, she should start investigate and separate assets as she should consider divorcing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:11 AM
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I thought your guys might be in DC lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:53 AM
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I don't expect a man to be excited to see me as much as my dog does but my boyfriend is more enthusiastic to see me the evening more than her boyfriend did after after how many days.... Nah sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:11 AM
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Obviously with all the 'convenient truths' she kept talking, surely she can handle this situation by continuing lie to herself. Go girl you CAN handle it! You don't really need other to convince you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:33 AM
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Good job girl! I remember my old dating day that I had one guys canceled on my twice before met for coffee and food. On third date, he was 30 mins late I texted and found out he was 1 hour away. He didn't inform me that he was going to be late as he would 'pick me up' from home so why I should make a big deal. I sent him a text saying no I wouldnt wait. He still had an audacity to be angry at me as he claimed that he was only 10 mins away - dude you were almost 2 hours late!!! And worst is it wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:28 AM
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I used most dating apps out there in 2019. I had over 40 first dates from that. None of which turned into a relationship. Last year I tried again with the same mentality as you, it works for my best friend so I gave it another go. Met a really good man and it has been almost a year. I don't know what future holds but yes the journey is extremely exhausting and discouraging. The problem that I returned on the apps was I don't have a good network where I live and almost impossible to meet people i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:07 PM
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I always dress up for anything, even going to supermarket! So yes I always overdressed comparing to most men and that is ok. They would compliment that I look.nice and I just take it. My go to is I don't care what men things how I look. If they are flattered, I feel sad that they didn't experience dressing up much. So I would say, take the compliment and leave it as that! You dress up for yourself and you know it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:05 AM
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OmG this is spot on! I dated a guy with all these attributes in one. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:55 AM
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That is very fair. I trust short man energy would also reveal itself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:30 AM
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After the third text, I would answer I would rather be alone and happy than dating an insecure short guy whose the longest relationship narrative he ever has is a paid porn episode. Enjoy strip clubs and porn! It suits you more than a irl relationship would ever be 👌. Then block of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:33 AM
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My heart is will all the Texas women who don't want kids but cannot move out for any reasons. Make sure that you are Have a long term contraceptive methods in place, plan B in the cupboard and familiar yourself with any sources of mail abortion in case you ever need it. Don't have sex with a man unless you are certain that you are OK with having a baby with him Learn how to shoot and own a gun. You need to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:20 PM
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Reading this make me gag! And it wasnt due to excitement of the possibility to be slave (literally what he asked for). Seriously women we know better! Having kink doesn't mean you need to deprive yourself like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:02 PM
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I would say yes to threesome as long as I can pick hot male to do it with. Again same as dildo I would ask as long as he enjoys it up his ass then I do t mind he picks. May be starting with chilis? I am certain that this guy will throw the biggest tantrum and show how a loser he is. Nah sis, he ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:20 PM
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I sincerely hope this is fake as what in the world why she want to fix this? You love a man who disappeared into the thin air after you got married and get replaced with lazy ass man who obviously doesn't care about you what soever. If she really wants to try to 'fix' the situation Stop enabling him by don't pay his mobile phone bills. Stop internet at home, telling him you cannot afford it. Step down from the relationship. Talk to him that you want a husband not a parasite. No more cooking, cle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:09 AM
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Seriously the amount of horrible situations causing by LMM in this forum set alarm in my head how we, women, would take sh*t from these men. We need to promote woman empowerment and selfworth. It is much better to be alone than being with these appalling men. In this post, I don't know why she still with him. I personally would go to the police to report the crime. Asking lawyer to sue these 2 for giving me bad name, harassment and get restraining order. Then living alone happily ever after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:33 PM
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I cannot discuss at length about the shooter since I don't have enough knowledge to make a judgement on anyone. BUT sir, one of the victim was a 3 years old toddler!!!! The fact that he only killed women and a baby is not because they were female but they perceived as weaker and he needed the satisfaction of feeling superior! Someone and somethings he can blame on. And this man has the audacity to say it is a 'women false'. Just reading this makes me feel disgusted whether I am a woman with high…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:56 AM
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At this rate, I rather shop alone and use it just for me as it seems this guy cannot see the difference in anything anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:19 PM
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If this is his logic, instead of thinking how women can be 'hoe', he should spend time on calculating the possibility of how many women he needs to approach to get laid. My wild guess is 1 in a million. Good luck boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:18 PM
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I always insist on a my ex used condom as a form of the contraception as I don't want to use a birth control myself. It worked in the past and my ex partners are ok with it. However since I moved to US, I found that lots of men want to go raw which I said no. I rather have no sex than going raw on casual sex. Weed out LVM and the possibility of bad sex really. Win win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:47 PM
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Girl, just DONT. How could this man offer to split half? I was in similar situation and gave him another chance, biking...yet the dissapointment continue. Lesson to self: if the guy can't offer to pay when he picked and clearly enjoy the food, RUN! This man isn't about equality. In fact, he would try to take advantage of you in any chances possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:34 PM
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Is this real??? I cannot believe this guy can be so selfish and stupid. I hope I am wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:52 AM
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Oh boy, jealous much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:56 PM
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Well he is 5'10 and Scorpio so it is a no for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:27 AM
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Yes and thank you. I am no longer at home. I think he still doesn't understand why his children all lives far away and seperate. We are just a stranger now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:51 PM
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I cannot tell you how many times I got approached by these drivers. I love having conversations but when it cross the line, it is just plain creepy. "If I am 10 years younger, I definitely would show you a good time in the city" - definitely over 60 years old man "I can take you to the best Morrocan place in town, is this your house" - Nah my husband family home, I am getting my boys before heading home. "Can you do Thai massage? I am looking for one right now" - a man presumably that all asian …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:24 PM
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Does he think he would get a pat at the back to say 'oh no no no you are doing the best as you could .....' when he wrote this? I hope that girl doesn't get trapped into his BS for wanting to be called a 'dad' but doing an absolutely lower than bare minimum. $8 per hours to work? So generous while you can get the master degree paid by his parents. Basically he just wanted to have fun, no responsibility and now after living outside and cannot manage to attract any women, he started to want that p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:03 PM
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I was always taught to listen and do exactly what my dad asks me to do and only say 'yes'. Once he hit me super hard as I asked him why I have to follow his order in front of his relatives as what I did make it seems like he cannot control me and 'lose face' in front of them. He forced me to do things, household shore while he never lift his finger and only brought trouble to our family. I want to work in particular organization but he said I cannot do it as woman always cause troubles and bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:01 PM
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Congratulations on your new beginnings!! Don't look back and enjoy what is coming your way. After the divorce I feel so liberated that I stay single and not looking at all for almost 4 years. You made first big step so now enjoy the journey! It would take sometimes to get rid of all the toxic but trust me, the facts that you walked away is a good sign that you now think of yourself first. Way to go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:56 PM
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Yes and yes and yes. I met a guy, high flying career etc... Have 2 phones and checked his phone at least once during our dates in the evening for work but can go MIA for not answering me for few days as he was too busy. His excuse might be true but it also shows his priority. And I may not in the top 5 where I gave in my top 3. If this at the very start of courting then it is better to move on as it highly unlikely that his interest will increase over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:51 PM
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I moved to US in 2018 and started dating 2019. I was naive in a way that I was super excited and always think the best of every man I met and it has been the worst dating experience that I had. It took me a while until I realize that I have too high hope for those men and I need to vet and remove myself as soon as 'red flags' appear. I had around 40 first dates - all from OLD. Some of red flags are Doesn't seems to be bother turn up on a date - you don't need to wear suit but at least wear somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:09 PM
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Wow I am so surprised. These men met good independent woman and cannot handle it so they have to blame women for their inadequate abilities to sustain a healthy loving relationship. What a typical sore loser reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:07 PM
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I read the post about woman broke off with her ex and found out she was pregnant. Since her ex is literally stalking her and controlling, she decided not to tell him and raise the child alone. Sadly he found out and demand to be in the baby life. She is obviously scare and didn't want to but the response from her post is to give her ex a chance to be a 'dad' as it is his right. I actually think it is extremely difficult regardless what decisions she makes. I just hate that the baby would have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:02 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story and you have been through so much. Big hugs and hope lots of happiness to you and your kids. I am choosing to be child free by choice and in the past I felt sick when I thought I might be in a 'situation' when I might be pregnant by a low value man. Even on the Reddit, there are posts that the woman ran away after found out she has a child with him and he found out. These women would get lots of hard time for not telling those men that they pregnant. These men want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:55 PM
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Free use??? What kind of bet is this? And he shared the bet with his friend? I feel very bad for this woman. The fact that a) she has to ask whether this is abuse and b) to call this awful human being as her boyfriend. I hope people you respond to her can show her some lights and encouragement to get herself out of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:59 PM
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I have so much cringe watching the show and was super happy when Rose breakimg it off with him. The way he talked to her is highly condescending. He acted as if he is the greatest catch of all time when he is an old man, lying about his height and vacectomy to get Rose. And of course no love involved from Ed"s side. He pretended to be a victim of a gold digger and feel entitled to treat Rose poorly as he did. I saw his face when Rose broke it off. He was so surprised despite talking her down all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:15 AM
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Say nothing at all in his profile. Or one sentence on something like 'under construction' If he cannot even make an effort to even present himself 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:49 PM
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100% accurate. I dated a guy claiming to be introvert. His introvert is playing games while sitting with me, eating on the lap and doesn't like to go out. I didn't realize then that he just low effort guy. Took me a month. Never make the same mistake again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:50 AM
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