Evolutionary psychology, men evolved to be alone and not be lonely, women evolved to be part of a conglomerate, marriage, monastery, village, female relatives. Without that they feel alone, lonely and desperate.
The men she wants have a 25 age cap filter on OLD, they will only see her if she pulls the „I don’t know why it says 24, when I am 38, hehehe don’t know to change that“
Dad and mom are like the bad and good cop, the bad cop can be good (works great) the good cop can not be bad (that confuses and irritates human being of all ages). So in a good family mam is there for the love and emotional side and dad for rules and discipline. Single dad as the bad cop, can be good and it works nice, single mom however as the good cop can’t be bad. Everyone has seen especially boy of a single mom behavior bad, and the escalating consequences she threatens never materialize and…
Easy, monogamy was invented by agriculture, in a hunter gatherer society it was pure hypergamy, the alpha hunters made all the babies, the beta got some bread crumbs and rabbits. The female collective raised the kids. Everything worked. Agriculture needed every man to do his share, monogamy got every pot a lid. Society controlled women and men. Now we are back to the original condition. The alpha (perceived, tattooed unavailable bad boys) make all the babies, the collective (wellfare) raises the…
There things I don’t like, e.g junk food, not really intimidated by it. But I get it, if you tell boss babe you feel intimidated she walks away with her crest high and does not get into a fit, as if you tell her you don’t like her.
That does not exist, older men just find ways to escape. I lived in italy for many years, went running Saturday, i always found a couple of little fiats park out of site, where grandpa alone with a relaxed smile listened to the game
There is no feeling so tragic, as wishing you had tried harder. Sometimes i am torn between laughing at them for their failure and incomprehension of the magnitude of it, or feeling sorry for them being lied to and now being desperate.
Great kevin Samuels, SIN Language: “shame insult and the need to be right”, this way she will not be wrong, if she finds a guy (unlikely) she was right, if not “no good men” she was also right!
Dudes, that is the classic preemptive denial, she knows there is no relationship on the horizon and writing the profile like that she can deny that fact to herself, “see there are no good man anymore” chad does not read that profile anyway.
Most HVM 50+ will, on OLD, set the women age filters to 30. Lots of women suddenly see their matches dry up. Some don’t even understand the reason, some understand and fraud “ohh I don’t know why it says 29 since i am 45, do not know how to change that, he he he”
A lot of HVM from 35-65 put age filters on OLD, <30. That means, once these women turn 30, suddenly their matches dry up. The ones a bit smarter start to play that “ups don’t know why tinder says 28, i am 48 don’t know how to change that”
That is a very sad truth, I dated a girl who came from an abusive family (I learned that on the go) after a while she left me, because i was nice and that was not what she was used to and familiar with.
Also the usual thing, if she does not want to be a single mother, why would any man go through that trouble and cost? If i want more children i marry younger, if I want a companion who does not whine for kids I can take 40+
Depends what you want, the muslim conservative part of java has its advantages (each island is different, Hindu Bali especially) the multicultural & religious nature of Indonesia has also charm, of course you stick out as a white guy, but no xenophobia as you see in countries where the population is very homogeneous. Again if you want a wife look for college educated women there, the local men don’t look at them.
Vetting, fat fingers on the phone, i am in Indonesia mostly. You have to have lived outside of the USA and understand how things are done, work, or especially not work in southern countries. First time in SEA or NEA and wife hunting will be difficult
I didn’t see it, did she mention her physical appearance or weight?? She only talks about her character or accomplishments, 50$ that she is, how to say? Gravitationally challenged? Even chad does not want to be seen w her in public
😉 i had one tell me she wants to be a sugar baby after talking w me for a bit, so i smashed it down on her. how much do you want? 2k/month. ok but for 2k, sex is on tap for me, i get horny at 2am, i call and 15min later you are at my house! No I can’t do that, i need a babysitter for jonny and sue, so only Friday/Saturday afternoon from 1-6 Oh honey that’s only 6% of the week, so we are down to 30$ but we still do what I like bareback anal, oral, kink! But but, i do oral only w a condom oh oh no…
Oh but it’s fun to take the piss out of them, our little „sex workers“ really don’t like you to call them by the traditional name of the profession „so you are a whore“ riles them up good.
Most guys don’t WANT to handle it, they always turn our position of strength into a weakness. I don’t WANT to date fat, boss babes, single mothers, OF whores. I can handle it, but I don’t want to to, like dogshit, I can handle it, I just don’t want to
🤣 in 53 years i met 2 women who could run with me on any topic. I met very smart educated women, but their field is always very narrow, the MD can only talk about about medicine and nothing else.
I put on i think ok cupid, that tats are ok, but have to be covered when we are in public, even at the pool, funny messages 🤣 but you know, that you take FLAK if you overfly the target.
I offered any single mother a contract signed by her, that i get full authority over her child, to discipline it wherever, however and how long i see fit and she will just watch. No takers.
Dude, very true, now look at most single moms, especially with boys and you see the same effect, no leadership and discipline. “Jonny if you do that there will be consequences” jonny does not care, he knows there won’t or there will be some screaming and he is back doing what he wants.
The world would be a better place with more plagues!! I think she got her wish, but obesity was the major co morbidity killer with the china virus. Wonder if she is still around?
Yeah and in my case i can also take not just dish out and i am very quick. With most women, what they call sarcasm is just being insufferable and of don’t you dare to do the same. Try the answer to “do these jeans make my ass look fat?” “These jeans don’t” put on kevlar first
It is so delectable to see them coming so close to the truth and seeing the light and then go “na can’t be me, impossible”. I really like to cheer them on “go girl, the truth is there you nearly made it” but then again….
Yeah, his stick is funny, but that got me banned from nearly all dating sites, apparently “honesty is harassment now” does not matter I went south East Asian anyway
None of these girls think ahead, if she would be an escort, that could be hidden, but the OF will come out for any employer (🤣 ok who am I kidding, un employable) husband of any value (again who am i kidding) and especially her kids in school (he franky, like to see your mom naked!)
😂😂 like my ex wife asked for a divorce (was fine w me, i hung in there for the kids only anyway) she lived in my house until divorce was finalized, one day she complained, that i left my used coffee mug out, me “if you don’t like it there clean it up” She was “you behave so different” “honey now I am room mate not husband anymore, as a room mate i don’t take shit and don’t kiss your ass” she got a house a week later 😂
She loves to travel and food I guess, yes also I am known to consume sustenance and some oxygen on occasion. “Let’s go to Hawaii honey, what do you mean you don’t have the money and I should pay your ticket?”
There is a solid theory, that one reason for the significant drop in crime the last 30-40 years is actually abortion, much less low IQ people being born (unwanted pregnancies are correlated to low IQ) The left crowd does not like to her, that I support abortion because of that 🤣
Do they ever proof read their profile and say “yeah that’s great, that will get me lots of matches” or is it the usual anticipation of rejection, means she knows deep down, that her value to men is less than zero and that profiling will allow her to justify to herself and the sisterhood, that there are no good men out there.
hahaha. hehehehe. hohohoho. ыыыыыы. 哈哈哈哈哈哈. 하하하하하하. ههههههههههههههه. ฮ่า ๆ ๆ ๆ. हाहाहा. هاهاهاها. ဟားဟား. ハハハッハッハ. හහාහා. האַהאַהאַהאַ. She is funny, you made the bed, now lay in it. I had a secretary in my company, blond overweight mid 40s talking to me how her sperm bank son has morning wood and she can’t explain or help, i came very close to telling her what piece of shit she is and how messed up her son will be as an adult.
Ok if 27 is a child, frontal cortex not developed or other “sounds scientific, but don’t ask me more about it” then she should not vote drink or have children, right???
Yeah but the fun part is to date her and the first time she wants you to pay anything for her kids, you say „No honey, their father pay for that“ and then watch the face 🤣🤣
And she is 5’10” so you need to be at least 6’6” because she likes to wear heels. But honestly with 4 kids (all by any means under 10), apart from FWB what relationship do you get out of there.
😁 look what they exclude, that’s what they date. Oh I did that on a site, just for trolling, took my picture and name off. Much fun, all the angry messages. If I don’t put an age filter I get a lot my age and I have no interest in old women and let them down actually gently (sorry not age and type I am looking for) short hair overweight divorced single mother Karen. And they go nuts, never been rejected since they got married in their 20s. Funny
Yeah the 6 cylinder was my addition 😆 to round it up, but remember you need a nice car, if you pick her up in a beater, not going to work. But once you are on OLD long enough you see it all, accept, adopt my kids,have all your teeth… I have made up a 4 x zero requirement for them, Size 0 Tattoos/piercing 0 (earings excluded) Children 0 Loans [CC or student] 0 Always fun
😁 I male 53 payed for okcupid, apart from being 5 7 i tick the 6x6 boxes and got in 2 years 1500 likes, 1300 from Afrika and 200 from the slums of Manilla.
Right, we see men walking away, but women realizing and vocalizing, that they fucked it up, is still very rare and with the current snowflake education even rarer. I did recruiting on the side in a multinational and when the millennials came, i quit that part of my job, 25 year old obviously never been told NO in their life. The “participation trophy” generation was created by the over emotional feminized society, where we can’t have someone feel bad in the moment, however the future outcome
I was at work at a birthday party and talked with one of our 40-50 years old secretaries (blond short hair overweight) and she told me of her IVF son who has morning wood and she can explain or help. Took much self control to not tell her what stupid fuck she is and how she will screw the boy over.
Yes they are, but on the other hand they are feminine caring and keep in shape and don’t pull out the duck the whole time. Try dating a female lawyer ox executive in the USA
The best was an Indonesian girl, who adopted a child from a single mother 🤦🏻♂️ turned herself, especially in a mostly Muslim country, into an unmarriable single mom. She had no idea what she did.
I would recommend Indonesia or Thailand. And look for highly educated women. But you have to be a man of the world, these are different places with different customs
Stay down there, weather beach and food is great, also then there are no “my feminist neighbor says” and “get greencard and divorce” or “lets get all my family here” issues
🤣🤣 yes I love that discussion, I am happily married, but 2 years ago OLD was fun, I offered single moms a contract to sign, I get full authority over the child, to discipline him/her any time any and as long as I see fit and of course I will not submit a request first… no takers ever.
I rejected some, short hair overweight freshly divorced 50+ year old Karen’s with a simple “sorry not the age and type I am looking for” the screeching was epic, they all think the game restarts at 25 years old
Shall we do the red flab bingo? Morbidly obese, dressed like a grandma, colored short hair, visible tattoos, 11 year old (you are not my dad) cockblocker, high school only, so no real job, trashy attitude, what did i forget?
Yes, but men are poor, content and then don’t pay taxes. Whereas women, waste their incomes get poor and then ask for bailouts, but if enough men don’t pay taxes, it will get nasty.
I hear you, but as a shorter man 5 7” I have a huge collection of rejections. Now the shoe is on the other foot and I see, that most women have never been rejected. Better they divorce after 20 years and think, that they get the same attention as overweight short haired single mother as they did as 20 years old. And get quite aggressive and nasty even if my rejection was cordial “not the age and type I am looking for”
🤣 that’s why you set an age limit 15 less and if some slips through “ I don’t know why it says 30 although I am 50, I can’t change that, hihi” you make fun of them and tell them, that they have no value to you!!
I just don’t understand, that they don’t get, that 200 years ago her kids would have been an asset, go hunt boy, milk the cows girl. Now they are a liability, i told single mom’s, that when we are together, that i will never pay a dime for their kids! Vacation their dads pay, eating out, dads pay, Christmas, their dads……
😎I asked single moms perusing me hard, a signed notarized contract, i get to discipline her child any time, any way and as long as i see fit and she will just say “give him more” no takers so far
Ok still female Homo sapiens sapiens, but Muslim, way more conservative, my role, her role! Feminine, caring, submissive… of course I will go down there.
I have a science PhD speak 4 languages and am kind of a renaissance man, i know many men, who can run with me on an intellectual level, only 2 women in 53 years
Challenge her, easy! Honey let’s see how fast you can clean the house, do the laundry, prepare a nice meal and give me head afterwards!!! That seems to be an enormous challenge for the modern women
I would love to like the fatties, but that’s an antiviagra for me. A flat tummy and visible collarbones and I can throw her around like a doll, that’s better
Have. Ot used that for a while, hahaha. hehehehe. hohohoho. ыыыыыы. 哈哈哈哈哈哈. 하하하하하하. ههههههههههههههه. ฮ่า ๆ ๆ ๆ. हाहाहा. هاهاهاها. ဟားဟား. ハハハッハッハ. හහාහා. האַהאַהאַהאַ. Sugardaddy and no fucking, that needs to be a supermodel Nobel laureate who speaks 10 languages Su
Because until the wall or the 30 year OLD filter many men of value have hits, there was no need to understand us. The queen has no interest in the desires of her subjects….
Ok single mom is a default left swipe, but the “my daughter is my best friend” solidifies it. It means there are no rules, no discipline, the kid decides. I will not give authority to a child.
Language exchange is usually as funny as love to travel, but has not left the state yet. They also get a bit agitated, when i say lets go to the Bahamas and book only one ticket for me!!
How many times have we heard the stories of the “settled for guy” to discover, that the starfish sex he gets is not what she did for 15 years, but “that is not her style anymore”
I find it always very amusing, the want us to commit and if we (or the desired men) don’t want to, they don’t know how to react, “i have always gotten what I wanted”. Much like a spoiled child, who never learned to behave to get what they want, just to throw a tantrum. And honestly that sounds just like that “it does not matter at all, that i have just eaten a box of cookies, i want another one!”
Is that supposed to be reverse psychology? I mean i read some sob stories from scammers ( husband cheated and left her w 3 kids and shit) but that damage at 41!!
Dudes there are 2 theories why we get much older then mammals our size, one is grandparents hanging around or man choosing younger women. That has been so for 800000 years.
No no, right now she says she is doomed, like she says „I am so ugly“ it will take 10 years more for her to have a vague idea of reality, but she will deny it (I have proposed before, that we should apply the 5 phases of grief to aging postwall women, „denial, rage, bargaining, depression, acceptance“
Sure let’s travel honey, here is the link where you can buy your ticket. Oh wait you want me to pay for your tickets as well, 🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh you are serious, but you are a strong and independent woman
I lived 10 years in Italy, the city girls are mind bogglingly arrogant (the italian dudes all think they are chad) just outside of the cities, they are engaged since 18 and married mid 20….
Shaming does not work if you are mature and not interested in the first place. The same for all the …..phobic, i compare that to dog shit, i don’t like to step in dogshit, but I am not dogshitphobic, just don’t like it.
Yes, but again, the top level guys she likes to have do so. I am 52, reasonable well off and on shape and there is no reason what so ever, that I would date a 52 year old. I have gotten the usual „you just like children“ crap, but since a 50+ has no attraction for me at all her shaming attempt went wide
I find it amusing how the article is kind of on the truth until they do the usual „we have to give them hope“ Immelmann turn, (young man go after old women for their maturity) 🤣 they are desperate and an easy lay, kind of what the fat girl was before their ego soared
Easy, no visible collarbone, no date. Hell why not ask for the latest craze from China, she needs to be able to reach around her left side and touch her belly button with her right hand
I am 5’7” but know more the well off 50 silver fox and not thirsty, so if the tall girls throw out weight requirements I am verbally bitch slapping them “6ft, on your knees in front of me your height is just fine”
Dudes, that is the usual, “suddenly my matches are gone” and now she goes for plausible deniability, with these requirements she will pull not much, so she can believably say, “there are no good men”
Oh I think they know, but let’s be honest even the worst female profile gets some pull, so they don’t do more than a half assed attempt for a decent profile. Once they turn 30 or 35 suddenly the matches drop hard since on OLD many men have an age filter. Then either they put in a wrong lower age (I am actually 47 hehe, don’t know how to change that) or start putting more effort in a profile, but usually not with a previous market research “what does the consumer want”
Interestingly, it takes usually a decent stint on OLD and getting P&Ded for ever for a single mom to start to realize (not accept, that takes much longer) that their value is very low. Do they follow the five phases of grief? (Denial, Anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) what age ranges do these fit in 🧐
That’s why we need a cunt fax. 50 years ago she could whore herself out in NYC move to California and with good security start a new life. The internet has killed that. How often do we read on here men discovering their wife’s spicy past. When I was in college anything in a not perfectly lit bedroom stayed there. I told a girl, that being a street corner whore would be safer for future prospect then OF.
I had a girl coming out to be a wanna be sugar baby after a day texting 😡 so I asked how much she weighed, “why is that important” told her more than 120lbs at 5 4’ and she pays me, “oooohhh”
Mao got the women into the work force, same effect like in the West, women working are not home making babies, increased labor force prevents rising salaries, so you need 2 salaries. And the CCP is nothing but another chinese dynasty, with less ancient culture and more brutal
The chinese girls are all in the cities and the dudes all in the country, not going to work, i (52 in the US) can more easily pull a 30 year old chinese girl than chinese dude
I put on my OK cupid profile “no visible tattoos”, every now and then still chest tattoo girl pings me, i reply, that if we are out in public her tattoos need to be covered, even at the pool. Usually gets a nice blabbering in response.
Dudes, she is not 34 by any means, the bit we see from her face, with the aunt Mary make up… not talking about no collar bone visible at all, chest tattoo and nose piercings, and single mom of two 8 year olds
I get that I stayed w my crazy (clinically diagnosed) wife for the sake of my kids, but she left, kids grew up w me happy. I still have to thank her, I am dating 20 years younger now 😂
Many women just project, i like tattoos so men will, i like a man with a career so men will, i love my child, so men will…. I have had single mom’s figuratively trust their child in my face “isn’t my child beautiful and smart and sweet” and if i reply, that it is not my child, they really don’t get it.
Oh just try to be a decently successful and interesting man at 52 and you have to beat of single mom or older women all the time, and oh boy do they not take rejection lightly. I once for fun signed up on a Christian dating site, the most rude and angry harpies ever. I put in my profile 25-35 and got several 50+ sending me hate “so you like children”!
Yeah, i knew a guy, once he knew the wife was cheating he slowly emptied the savings by buying gold coins, then left his job and while was looking for a new one divorced the cheater and she had to pay, because he had no income. Mythical
🤣 single mother with a toddler wants to be a sugar baby, had that offer several times. she wanted 2k/month, so I told her, that for that money I want her on call with 15 min to satisfy my needs, day and night. “but but, I don’t drive” ok 1k, “but but I need a babysitter for little Johnny” 500$, “but but only in the afternoon because of Johnny” 250$, “but but I only do BJ with condoms and no anal” ok honey now we are down to 2.50$/month
Oh this is actually delightfully funny, divorced or about to be, post wall women, has children (the want more is even more funny). I 52 male (apart from the height I can rock the high value) get approached by this kind of women all the time and they automatically assume, that nothing has changed since they had been the 21 year old long haired childless hottie, she feels the same.. then she gets very salty to the fact, that a 41 year old overweight Karen type short haired single mother has no att…
Most of the time chinese girls, who know, that they are zero in china and try with westerners, so they don’t react that strong, since they know the truth. And chinese divorce law most of the time gives everything to the husband (also the kids). If they insist I offer a signed contract, “i get the right to discipline her child anytime anyway as long as i want” but my boy does not need that…… ok on one US site i have no single mothers and one mother of 4 boys contacted me to bitch. Saying she woul…
Ok i never swipe right on single moms, but had several not mention it and then come out with it after 2-3 days of texting. In that case the gloves are off and i lay it down Kevin samuels style, “leave your kid(s) with the father and come to have more”.
Dude, at 5 7” i am no chad heightwise, the rest of the 6 is there and my ex wife left me and the kids, so i jumped right in again and after a couple of tries I went to 15-20 years younger, your value has increased much since you last dated, it is great. Still have to write my ex and thank her 🤪
Did you also have empathy for the SS, they just bought into that shit. I have a hard time excusing adults to not think, but blindly believe an ideology. I tend to ask them 5 whys like you do with children, wage gap, why? Why? Why?
Just a question to OP do I look at her frontside? If so, A) these titles are pathetic and B) I have seen full demented grandmas with better clothing taste
The older and (I hope) wiser I get, the more I understand, that humans need religion (I am an atheist). Since we in the west po po the traditional religions, people (especially women, more agreeable) turn to new religions with being part of a greater cause, dogmas, chanting, holding hands and hating non believers. Marxism, Feminism, BLM, environmentalists, extinction rebellion….
Women with higher education much more than men tend to be narrow minded, every female MD I dated knew only her narrow field, world science history politics geography zero. Ok without being to arrogant in 52 years I met only 2 women who could run with me intellectually.
I have a war time P38 and I’m a steel match I aimed the first run and due to sweat in my eyes just pointed the second run, I was better, so I looked at the p38 to see if she wanted to tell me something
Just imagine taking “this thing” to meet friends or coworkers, to remove the shame you will not even allowed sepuko with a sword, you have to run yourself over with a steamroller
I sometimes after talking with divorced single moms they really believe the lie and are 100% convinced their value is like when they where 23, 60lbs and 4 kids earlier and they then seem genially surprised, that this is not the case
Yes I also have PTSD from the paper cut today. When will these idiots learn, that applying strong words to everything blunts the word and hurts people who really got hurt.
I have a bunch of friends with whom I can run intellectual conversations. I have in 52 years only met one women, with whom that is possible. I know many highly educated women, but they are mostly very narrow in their thinking
Ok I was once with a real big buddy (ex college football player) at a mans clothing shop, the owner pulled out a pant size 72” I got into one pant leg easily
Sorry honey, my dr says I should not lift heavy things. Actually i have an airplane with ferrari bucket size seat, you do not fit comfortably we don’t leave. I am still tempted to put a “no fat chicks” sticker on it
Medicine is low science, many articles will not pass muster, low sample size, no statistics, no control, not checked for placebo, no long term effects…
Shall we do my beloved “let’s get your c…. Fax” Single mom -2, green hair -2, visible tattoos hand and chest -3, face piercings-2, crazy -2000. And the final tally is 🤣
🤦🏻♂️ 100 years ago grandma would have take her aside and slapped the shit out of her and everything would have been good, because back then the women around her actually cared for her.
I have to kids and would not mind more, but only my own blood. The amount of single mother, who think their kids are assets 🤦🏻♂️ “isn’t she smart and cute” SHE IS NOT MY CHILD, I DON’ T CARE. “But she is my world” they don’t even listen and still stick their fuck trophy in your face
Ok, English is not my first language, but either she is not so smart (the astrology is a hint) or she didn’t care to proof read the profile. Ok the first
As the Bible says “you should not lie with a man like you lie with a women” “does this jeans make my ass look fat? Of course not honey” where as if you male friend asks that, you will tell him, that he is a fat fuck and needs workout
Yes, 1900 house wife and mother of a bunch of kids was hard work, and then we made it easier and easier… any 1880 house wife would be estatatic to be one these days.
Date them a bit, they will talk about “vacation” together “Paris is so romantic” then watch the face sour, when you book 2 tickets 🤣 “but but but, my kids!”
No fixing that, a nice gentle relationship is not what she always experienced, “not normal”. Like trying to persuade teenage kids from dysfunctional families, they expect the belt!
What an idea, we need to invent such a thing, now that we have agriculture and everyone needs to do his share. Ok that was the idea 5000 years ago in Uruk
That was very annoying, ok the option of sex was on the table, but i am a kind of high value man and don’t live in a trailer and it was a Saturday afternoon lunch. The next day i got a message to effect, “i was not ready so I brought the kids along” I didn’t even reply to that.
Anybody who has been cock blocked by little 7 year old jaden knows the annoyance. I dated a single mom, and for the first lunch date at my house she at last minute (like “we are coming”) brought the 5 and 7 years old along as chaperones (admitted it next day). I was furious and never talked to her again.
European here, living in the USA for 10 years, i took the local women off my menu, either too heavy, with children or arrogant, demanding, grossly overvaluation….
Other mens kids had value in the 1800, “go milk the cows, clean the stable, split the wood….” Today raising a middle class child to 18 costs 2-300000$. And as much as they tell you “i take care for my kids” the first time you go out with the kids, try to pay only for yourself 😂. I proposed a vacation once, me and her in one hotel, her kids in another and she pays for them 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ok I take control, you sign a notarized waver, where you give full authority over you and your kids to me, as if 100 years ago, monetarian, disciplinarian and I fix your life.
Shall we really go there honey, ok ok I hear you, you just want to know, single mom -2, overweight-2, visible tattoos-2, dress like a man -1, look post wall -2. Sooooo, final number right about a -3/10 i gave you a 6 before .
How often did i read, “sapiosexual” or need “stimulating conversations” just to find them with an IQ at RT (in Centigrade). Educated many, smart fewer, able to discuss a wide range of topics, very few.
For me yes, actually only very few will complain. Come on it is like if i put on a nice suit and go to the porsche dealer, I don’t get offered the 1999 camry..
Modest requirements, i must say. I 52 have on my okcupid profile, that she must be fit, in childbearing age no visible tattoos and i state that I don’t take single mothers. No ban and i get what i want… brothers we are still to nice, just lay out what you want. I got 2-3 bitchy single mothers and that was it. We are all underselling us, ok don’t ask for the 19 year old virgin, but putting a reasonable price is not wrong.
Ok she brought it on herself by not thinking ahead and planning, but its still a bit sad seeing failure, which could have been avoided so easily, like watching a car crash in slow motion
I started to ask why did he cheat, when women tell me the sob story. Actually very amusing to wait for the response. They are so used to being catered, if you lay it down kevin samuels style, they don’t know what to say.
I hear you and you are right, but also consider how much harder pregnancy and running after a toddler is in her late 30. As a scientist I always get a bit (ok a lot) pissed by the usual female use of anecdote as data (one 45 year old celeb who got a child means little) ok 2 can play this game, i have several friends who tried to get the mid 30 wife pregnant (ok first pregnancy i know) and spend over a year and 100k to get her to conceive. As you say geee, it seems, the baby factory works best wh…
Did you ever see a female profile with an interesting engaging hobby, always this boiler plate stuff, food music movies (ok drinking and partying is really no hobby)
Don’t forget she obviously has the fashion sense of a demented grandma, that role of 1950s curtain combined with a jeans jacket, 40$ she sports an appealing Karen haircut.
The amount of single mothers who tell me, that their kids are in he best, brightest and most beautiful… I remember my own mother telling me, she hates other peoples kids and honestly my own kids poop didn’t really stink. So I have to tell single moms, that their kids are great, but they are not mine.
Or propose a notarized contract, “you give me full disciplinary authority over your child, I can discipline him anytime anyway and as long as i want and you will just watch” <<BUT BUT my jaden does not need that>> “ok bye bye then”
Ditto, i am a single dad and I don’t even date single mom’s, in my target age range the kids are small and if you ever have been cock blocked by a 5 year old, worse than the usual little doggie 😡
Same as for girls who talk a week and then declare themselves a sugar baby. No mercy no pity my children! I told one of these after she proposed 2000/month, that that would involve her being at my service anytime i call within 10 min to do any act I want raw… “but but I am a single mom, I can’t leave jonny alone in the night and I work during the day” ok 500$ and “but i don’t do that, I only to BJ with a condom” ok honey now we are down to a cheeseburger/month
I got it, they are so fat, because if they stop eating, the internal gas pressure will not prevent them anymore from collapsing under their own weight, like a black hole.
5ft7 I usually tell the obnoxious 5ft10 girls, that on their knees in front of me, they would have just the right height. Or I take them flying and switch them off at 3g 😎
Oh actually that was an Italian therapist, payed by national health service, she was way more honest, than a therapist here in the US, where making money is kore important than being honest to the patient.
🤣 my ex after a couple of sessions (she asked for, 2 month after I came out of 1 year of cancer treatment), li don’t want to go there anymore, they only focus on me”. Ok i was still very blue pilled, i wanted to say “maybe you are the nut case not me” but didn’t.
I have to find the study again, but there is clear evidence, that if the baby factory has been used before late pregnancy is not so difficult to achieve whereas first child at 39 naturally is difficult
Not only the money will run out, but the internet forgets nothing, so expect more “oh my god my finance found the pictures I did when I was young and needed the money”
😎 i dated a single mom, one of these I love to travel “does have a passport, never left the state” and after some month she tries to pressure me for a vacation “Paris is so romantic”. She was not amused, when she saw me reserving 2 tickets 🤣🤣 i wanted out anyway and vacation in Paris with jaden, sally and little mike is NOT romantic.
There is a comedian who did a stand up and said he likes short, stupid and poor girls and all the women where flipping their shit, so he asked them, “you all want taller, smarter and richer guys!”
Someone tell her, that the happy meal does not come with a kid, but is for kids. So I would take her without kid. No just kidding I don’t do American women anymore
I offered a single mom of 4 a vacation, but the deal was she pays for her kids flight and hotel (a different one from ours), that was not what she had in mind 🤣🤣
Dude, 4x1.5 makes 6, she is pregnant since 17 or so, what education you think she got, i am sure she did also not get what would make her valuable for “bare foot in the kitchen”
I am saying all the time we need a cunt fax, mileage, accidents, drive reports from previous drivers. I am running a complete internet search, reverse image search, Facebook IG on any
😆😆 like any American women in her 30 tells me she is a home maker, “oh honey, I can clean and cook dishes of the world, Kraft Mac cheese is not cooking”
I told a girl on bumble (not my type) after her “Hi” that since this would be bumble, I would wait for a good pick up line! “But that’s what you need to do”
Yes that worked until we discovered agriculture and everyone had to work hard, we invented monogamy so that Beta got his share and motivation, right now society has reverted back to hunter and gatherer mode, where Alpha and most women are not reigned in. This will work, until serious changes force a change in society again.
Look, maybe we are a bit harsh, but a never married single mother of 3 has no relationship skills and definitely no time for a man. Try to be a stepfather, it is a shitty job, responsibility with no authority
Oh you can bet your ass on the fact, that if I am ever on a sinking titanic, i am going to pull the pink haired out of the life boat and she will drown with us, women and children first does not include them. (By the way 80% of men died and 80% of women survived the titanic, so much for patriarchy
If you research, there where very vocal female opponents of women suffrage, some pointed out, that the emotional nature of women will lead them to vote with their feelings instead of rationality (look where we at!) and also the vote was connected with responsibilities, fight and die for your country uphold the law and more.
POF is awful, first the owner limits your age preferences. I (51) have no interest in 40+ women at all. But the ones one there, who contact me are rough, very rough. I will not sit at the bar and the bar tender telling me, that’s it’s so nice, that I took my mom for a beer
Yes, and i have to admit to the great pleasure i take in writing “sorry you are not the type and age I am looking for” i also wrote I (51) want more children so please be of childbearing age (ok then I still get 45 year old telling me they froze their eggs 🤦🏻♂️, i think i have to be more direct).
Yeah honey i am so glad you can be that honest, that makes it so much easier for me to confess, that i love the 10/10 girls but they are so hard to keep, an average bland girl is much easier to keep.
No no zooks is a greater laugh, i left a anonymous profile with my requirements (slim young no tattoos and so on), still get contacted (rough ladies, rough)
Ok, the wheel of fortune turns endlessly, there will be a conservative backlash also due to the fact, that the libtards and feminazies don’t have children. The lefty side will go to ever greater madness, this is a religion and they need to show their devotion ever more. Globalization is over, big changes are coming, but remember it is darkest just before the dawn. Study history and you will see, this was already here countless times, fall of the Roman Empire, the Black Death….
😎 thanks, it’s still a dictatorship and my son is 18, but the last 2 years I treated him like an adult, I have friends (male) over we discuss anything we like and he takes part. After puberty boys should be treated like men, that’s how they grew up the last 400000 years
Its here already, i did recruiting for a multinational and stoped to do that 7 years ago, the candidates started to get absurd. 24 year old, who obviously never heard the word NO in their entire life with unworldly expectations and no humility at all.
And as a single father i can tell you, much easier. Being the bad cop and then being nice works well. Most single mothers are good cops trying to be strict. Even when i was still married my ex need 1.5h to get the kids to bed, when she was not in the house 5 min (to bed sleep now). With the dad the kids know there are consequences for bad behavior. I also tell my kids on occasion, that I have to love them, but not like them. My kids are not “my best friend” this is not a democracy, this is a ben…
I don’t know how often i had to tell proud baby mamas, who send me endless pictures of their children, that these are not my children. 100 years ago it would have been fine, more hands to run the farm or hunt and my authority would have been without question, now i have to pay and have no say, no thank you madam. On one hand women say they live in the 2021, but their feels live in the 1600. In the 1600 yes your son is strong, great, here is the plow go for it boy….
Sure honey, give full custody to the childs father and leave the kid with him, and we make a new family. Oh you don’t want to do that, because he is your world, news for you, he is not my world!!!
I am 51 but my cut off is set to 34. The wannabe sugar babies are funny (laugh at them, not with them) some are single mothers of multiple children. Others I did tell, that I would only pay up to 110lbs, more I told, that she would have to pay me. 🤪
🤣🤣 I don’t do sugar daddy, I consider that prostitution. Some times on dating sites girls come out with the “I am a sugar baby” later. With the last one I was a bit pissed, so I offered conditions, monthly allowance, but she will be on call 24/7 anytime I call, she needs to be at my house 15min later and we do whatever I want, raw… “but but but i only do BJ with a condom and by the way I am a single mother, so I can only be available 2 days a week during school hours!!” 😂😂😂
Ok honey, I fix stuff, but I need responsibility, you sign me over full guardianship for you and your kids and I fix it. Oh what do you say? I have to fix it without being able to say how, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 NO
Look just think historically, for 80000 years her kids where an asset, more hands to run the farm to hunt. Of of course also hid authority. The last 100 years they turned into a liability costs with no authority and no return on investment
I talked with a single mom in China and she was complaining, that men only use her for sex, and since I didn’t want to get into her panties I laid the truth on her. 😆
I wrote on a couple of dating apps, “no single moms” ( i am a single dad) always fun, when I get push back, obviously my 18year old A+ son is the same as her uncontrollable 5 year old. I then offer my usual contract, “I get full disciplinary authority and she will just watch” but my Johnny does not need that, (exhibit A)…
Projection, projection, i woman like a hard looking tattooed guy, so guys have to love that, right? I like a man with a career and education, so i lead with my degree. I like a tall guy so i put my height in my profile….
Yes as this faithful summer day in stockholm years ago, full of beautiful blond 6ft girls, unfortunately they don’t even register a mortal 5’7” man 😫 however if i now invite 6ft to come and fly with me not NYC in my plane….
I got liked by a similar one, mind I would never marry a woman who’s actions convey an IQ just above RT (in Centigrades), but just for trolling sake I offered she could give up her kids for adoption and start anew. The screeching
I wrote that before, but just think back 100 years, men had a position of authority, therefore we could be nice and gentle because she knew that we could put her in her place anytime. So we extended the hand from above as a superior. Jerks where just jerks, most women got their submissive part automatically. Now we have no authority anymore, so nice guys appear weak, you extend the hand up, where as Jerks suddenly are interesting since they provide the dominant attitude. Add to, that society has…
Thank you very much, but your are not age and type I am looking for (under my breath, I don’t date 50 year old, overweight karen haircut single mothers)
Yes but it does not take me that long to read 6 lines, can i nut when I am done reading. This is like the old times, before cell phones, when you forgot to bring your book to the restroom and had to read all the shampoo ingredients (ok I am a chemist mildly interesting, more than her daughter dribble)
Yeah yeah, as if she would want the male virgin, who is not desired by any woman. Driven by emotions and then trying to rationalize the outcome never works.
Had a zoosk profile and could not delete it from my ipad, so i took personal info off and use this: Younger than 35, less than size 4 (no average figur, a few pounds to many or other euphemisms), no smokers of any kind, no single mothers, and certainly no grandmothers. Get a lot of messages 😂 not from my target audience i might mention.
I used this for fun : Younger than 35, less than size 4 (no average figur, a few pounds to many or other euphemisms), no smokers of any kind, no single mothers, and certainly no grandmothers.
A dairy cow needs to give birth regularly to produce milk. 24 with 5 kids, she got pregnant again as soon as biological possible. For the platonic sugar babies, i told them i would send them pictures of dollar notes.
Yeah 52 and some status, tinder is 1/3 dairy (24 and 5 children) 1/3 meat (200lbs+) and 1/3 wannabe sugar babies, but not Swedish supermodels, overweight unemployed single mothers 🤦🏻♂️
I consider sugar baby prostitution, so just to troll hard every time one comes up and declares to want to be a sugar baby i offer a contract, monthly allowance, but I call anytime of the day, 10min she is at my house and any sex I want, anyway I want. “But but but I only do oral with a condom”
The European myth are full of mean stepmothers, no stepfathers. I am a single father, no chad (to short) but high value and Single mother is a deal breaker. I am nice, I only bring down the wrath of hard rejection, when she concealed the kids.
Good parents are the “good cop, bad coop” couple. Mom provides love and caring, dad rules and discipline (exceptions confirm the rule) Most single dads I know are more the bad cop, whereas single mothers are the good cop. The bad cop can be nice, works great. The good cop can’t be hard, it just doesn’t work.
Think of it as stone age behavior, men are the hunting group, cooperation leadership is key and a rank order is established in minutes. Women where foraging and keeping the camp, no rank order needed, so there is a constant cat fight. Any man who worked with a group of women (20-50) will see that develop.
I am a single dad and I put on dating apps, that I will not date single mothers. The ones complaining don’t even see the difference between my teenagers gone in 3 years and her 2 toddlers. Also the amount of pictures of her children I get sent....
Because the feel and don’t rationalize. I have a 41 old single mom chasing me, sends me constantly pictures of her daughter (i love my child so the man has to also love my child) i don’t care about some other mans child! She is rich (again don’t care) overweight and dresses like a demented grandma.
There are some theories, that the polynesian tend to obesity, because if you are fat and get lost on the way to the next island you arrive slim but alive.
Chest tattoo, really? I told one lady with chest tattoos (and more) pursuing me hard, that i would be good, but every time we are in public the tattoos have to covered, even at the pool, she was not ok with that.
Friendship between men is mutual ( you help me, i help you) friendship between women is sugarcoated hate and competition (never heard of women helping their friends), friendship between men and women does only exist as he wants her and she doesn’t and he has not understood the futility yet. I had several girls who dumped me with the “lets stay friends” and supposedly (from common friends) where very surprised, that I cut off any contact 🤪 you don’t want my love, you don’t get my friendship.
Not shocked (4 lingual german here),but most people will say “i am also german”, meaning their great grandparents came from Germany and they know no german at all
I have an ok cupid profile, stating max 34 (i am 51, single dad) because i like another child. No nasty comments there. Ok i got some for stating, that I don’t date single mothers (from one woman with 4 boys 1-16 years, saying she would make time for me 🤣🤣)
The only female friends I have could be my mother and I talk with them like they would be my mom. I only met one woman in 51 years who was a great intellectual companion (unfortunately I was married then)
I just chatted with a chinese girl (in china) after 4 days talking she brings up her child) she can’t find relationships in China every man just wants sex,( chinese men of any value don’t consider divorced or single mom’s) i was a bit pissed, my profile states no single mothers, so i asked her why she did not abort and get a kid from a worthy man (figure her family pressured her in doing so, but she wouldn’t). I laid the truth on her and she did not like it. I nearly gave her a kevin samuels “ b…
If not for children why should a man marry, a dog is a much better companion. And honestly i have met very few (actually 1) who are intellectually rounded and interesting to listen to, most, especially pretty ones are not good intellectually company.
Honest and real, sure! Honey your are disgustingly fat, the trashy tattoos and you children make you undateable, 🤨 AAhhhh, not that kind of honesty, I see.
He who shaves for pussy, deserves neither beard nor pussy. Had one girl ask me to shave my beard, full beard! I agreed on the premise, that I get a monthly threesome. 😎 that was the end of it.
You forgot, that i love visible tattoos, colored short hair and lots of piercings. Of course am also ready to pay her student loans and all the vacations for the extended family and only ivy colleges for her kids and i will always keep my distance and never discipline the kids.
Yeah, but we also discussed the bond between to very fat ones as a complicated or simple bond, anything else but a cowgirl and doggy seems not feasible.
This woman, i came across so many “my boyfriend husband cheated on my while i was pregnant” “so why did you not abort and get a child from a worthy man” “but jaden, thomas... is my child” “half”
I just fly prop planes for fun and as a beginner in formation flying my eyes where glued on the lead to keep formation and if he would have flown into mountain I would never know. A good wife should be a prefect wingman, your eyes on me, i lead and you follow exactly, i communicate, you stick to me. This is actually a great analogy.
After a bad experience i will not date single mothers. Ok i told some after they asked what they would need to do for a relationship to put the other mans kid up for adoption, did not go well, the screeching intensified.
No I like and respect my dick, he same been with me through thick and thin (ok scratch the thick) he only gets fresh. These ladies also would not give old and stale food to their cat or poodle.
Ok ok, I never considered earrings piercings, so these are good. Of course not the huge in earlobe rings, with these I always want to take a two padlock and a small chain, click in and run.
When I was a kid in Germany, there was the joke: woman asks a Dr friend, if she wants to shot herself in the heart where should she aim, answer “3 fingers below the nipple” she shot herself in the kneecap
I still have to make a profile, where I list basic life functions as hobbies, but then again, can ensuring, that my genes pass on be considered a hobby, “sport fucking”
Oh I did that on Zoosks (worse than POF) i took my picture and personal info off, and wrote my ideal date, 6 x 0, size zero, zero tattoos, zero kids, zero student loans, zero smokers, zero piercings. Then I put on the kevlar and took the bullets, it was glorious, a man having standards, the screeching....
🤣 wasn’t counterintuitive for 15000 years. When we where hunter and gatherers the Alpha hunters made all the babies, then we invented agriculture and you need lots of people and they all have to do their max, so marriage got invented, so that 80% of the guys who would have gotten nothing are involved. We are back to the starting point. 😂😭
Not only women themselves, talked with a (ok female) match maker and said that my cut off is 34 (me 51) “but why there are so many gorgeous 45 year old here” i tried to explain, that i can pick up 45 year old from tinder 3 per day. And I honestly want another child, so 34 max. “But women can have children at 44” and all my data, that beyond 35 a pregnancy is a bad idea ( the medical community calls every beyond a 34 year old mother a high risk pregnancy) was ignored because she knows one woman w…
Same here and then I get the “my husband cheated on me while i was pregnant” a couple of times I replied, why then did you reward him with a child, why did you not abort and get a child from a worthy man.
Yes, yes 🤣 how tall are you? Counter question what do you weigh “screeching, why is that important” because I want to fuck the Kama sutra up and down without be squashed to death..
I know, I was always to nice. 70 years ago as a man we did not always have power, but authority. So the jerk was just an author active jerk and the nice guy was nice from a position of power. Now he have no power or authority so we have scaled down, the nice guy is weak and the jerk attractive
I offered a single mom to offer her children for adoption, since they obviously where conceived by an unworthy man (her words) and have some w me. 🤣🤣 no takers
I start to think this lousy grammar is intentionally. I read, that the Nigerian scammers write very bad English and their scams are super evident, so that they only get the most gullible. Could be the same!
I now offer single moms, who want serious, a contract to sign and notarize: I get the right to discipline her kids any time, anyway, as long as I want and she will stand there and say “go on”. No takers so far. 🤣🤣 no responsibility without Authority
No no, the checking in is a protection, “that was great yesterday, lets do that again”, she replies positive, save the message and delete her contacts. If she changes her mind, you have a positive message of hers to cover your lower backside..
I think further on I will reply to these girl, that I give them, what their father didn’t, spanking and discipline (no you don’t need a new handbag and you don’t deserve it) 😆🤣😂
Oh my, first place my airplane, my motorcycle, my car, my other hobbies... honey I can slot you in at 7th place, but you have to be available at moments notice.
Yes, nothing more enjoyable then to reject a 50+ “a few pounds to many” karen hair cut single mother with a crisp “not the age and type I am looking for”. The rage and salt 😂
Of course they don’t know, because in their 20 they are in a sellers market, so they don’t care. In their 30 they are in a buyers market,but don’t know how to sell.
Hilarious, lately the girls put their height in their profile, not their weight. Set your tinder location to hong kong and the chinese girls put weight in there, because that is what we are interested in.
🤣 buyers market over 30, if I like a mustang I will not take a Camry. I like slim and long hair, not “terribly” slim and karen hair cut, I am not buying (not mentioning jaden and suzy).
51 and no way, single mothers are off the menu, only if i get the contractual right to discipline the kids any time I want anyway I want as long as I want and she will support it.(no takers)
Of course accidentally, like i am 7’5” and a CEO, accidentally. If she is 20 and tinder says 24, she signed up as a minor. If she is 45 and tinder says 30 she wants to unhinge the age setting of the man of value
They try to change reality by changing language, what’s next “mobil undocumented pharmacist” “terminatory service provider” “post natal abortion (20y later” “organ harvesting”
i see that as “i will leave immediately” offense. She took the most intimate we can share and offered it to anybody with internet access, like a 7 billion N count. And lying about it. Also i refuse to take part in this “lets change the language to change the mind”. She sell sex, she is a whore. Sex worker! What is next the mafia killer is a “terminatory service provider”
I Like mentioning music and reading as hobbies (ok with some on here the one book they read in their life does not count) I told a woman once, that are things i do while crapping.
Yes and that’s why as a dad i need the final authority. I am now offering single mom’s a notarized contract, [she will give me authority to discipline “jaden” whenever, however, how long I want and she will support me] . “But that’s not necessary, my “Jaden” is sensitive good boy” yeaaahhh right. Remember responsibility without authority is slavery.
Ditto, dad is the bad cop and mom the good cop. Single dad works, because as the bad cop you can be nice, works very well. As the good cop you can’t get hard, does not work at all. 99.9% of single moms think, that “mommy loves you” is education. 99.9% of single mom especially sons I met are miseducated future inmates.
I have kids living with me, still will not touch a single mother. My kids are well educated well adjusted and successful in school, i have yet to see a single mom with a educated, polite and respectful child. I offered some pushy single moms a possible contract signed & notarized. In which she will give me full authority to discipline her child anytime, anyhow and anyway I see fit and she will only watch. No takers so far.
