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Am i crazy or is "sexual compatibility" hamster speak for "I'm an experienced slut"?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 11:56 PM
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He probably doesn't go to the gym because that would be blue pill because females are there. Duh.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 03:55 AM
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Speaking of rape, have fun getting divorced raped in 10 years. Good luck with the mutual respect thing. If you haven't been through marriage hell yet then you don't know shit about women's nature and should stfu.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:45 AM
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I clearly don't. Are we just going to sweep it under the rug so there's no civil war in the sub?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 06:02 PM
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Sounds like a great way to become a girl's BB.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 12:22 PM
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How long of going out to the clubs consistently did it take you to get to this level?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 12:16 PM
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Jesus are you looking for sympathy or actually want to get results? I'm so depressed just from talking to you online. So much negativity
/r/seduction25/07/17 06:15 PM
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Strangers or people you know? You're saying girls hate on you?
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:57 PM
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Yeah that's my point. Not all girls are shallow dude. Try this and it will change the way you look at rejection forever: go and talk to a bunch of random strangers throughout your day. Old, fat, men, doesn't matter. Notice how some will "reject" you and aren't interested in talking. But some will love that you are talking and talk back. Then realize that girls are people and act the same way. That's why we call it a numbers game. People don't always respond to someone being social, and girls do …
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:45 PM
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Because some girls are shallow and only pay attention to tall and handsome then all girls are like that? I guess all guys are pigs and only like models, huh
/r/seduction25/07/17 04:27 PM
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I have been running and doing push-ups for going on four years. I have a spare tire to get rid of, but otherwise in the best shape of my life. This is the fitness equivalent of once a week duty sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 11:24 PM
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So the sidebar doesn't work on most of the women in your circles, which is now admittedly a specific demographic of women 35-40. I'm having a hard time following exactly what you're trying to criticize about TRP
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:30 PM
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Inspiring. Congrats
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:58 PM
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I take it you hit your debt free goal w.o mortgage from last year?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 05:16 PM
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This was his brother, not some bro
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 08:15 PM
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Brutal indeed
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 01:33 AM
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As long as I played the dutiful beta, everyone else liked me in that spot. Wife saw me as useful. "Fuck everyone" has been going through my head a lot lately. Glad to hear that's normal. Pretty much all of my friends are sliding down into BP. Former players, doesn't matter. More of a lone wolf everyday. Which is actually freeing... it's all smashed my ego. I ain't shit. People think low of me. I make an ass of myself, the world goes on. I can do whatever the fuck I want next. Cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 07:11 PM
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Alot of us have kids, impending divorce rape, etc. I need something concrete to move forward without regret. I'm going through a divorce right now. My finances will be shit for a while, my wife has gained emotional rallying from MY family, my dad is religiously shaming me... If I never ran the dread steps I probably would've folded and gotten back together by now. The "stay married" crowd is strong in society (unless your a womans, you go girl). Knowing I've given my all towards fixing this ease…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 05:42 PM
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Anything in hindsight you could've done to avoid giving 50%+ of your paycheck away? Was there an adjustment to alimony/ child support when you doubled your income? Going through custody battle right now and while I don't mind being alone, the days are painfully dragging on until I can officially move out. Your words of encouragement are appreciated. All things of worth in life are a grind.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/17 03:11 PM
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I've got better things to do with my time than listen to her victim puke. Same.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:24 AM
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Great points, thanks
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:33 PM
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Sat down with lawyers today. They filled me in. Thank you everyone
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:32 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/askMRP22/03/17 06:52 AM
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Yeah she already mentioned plans to fly back in the meantime. Don't know if I have any legal recourse
/r/askMRP22/03/17 04:49 AM
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I made this mistake of shopping with her for myself once. End result: dad jeans that my buddy busted my balls about later. Didn't realize he was right until MRP
/r/askMRP20/03/17 01:24 PM
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Noted. Won't do again
/r/askMRP19/03/17 11:58 PM
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Let me reword that. "Shouldn't..." Doesn't happen to men whose wives respect him. Warmer?
/r/askMRP19/03/17 11:04 PM
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We're younger, mid to late 20s, so those kind of snapchat friendships are more common. But I agree with you. That shit shouldn't be happening. And they friended up after I had the situation 2 discussion. I had victim puked and deleted previously on askMRP about how they (BIL and her) had added each other on Skype around the date she landed and was visiting "home" (we recently moved from where we grew up, states away). I have limited vacation so I only stay a few days, shes a SAHM. General consen…
/r/askMRP19/03/17 10:34 PM
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Yeah, one.
/r/askMRP19/03/17 09:10 PM
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There won't be shit tests, there will be malicious attacks. A&A is for play, this is war.
/r/askMRP19/03/17 11:57 AM
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About rule #1: The body naturally gets rid of excess sperm by wet dreams. The average cycle for a 19 single dude is one every 3 weeks. You don't need to clean the pipes as often as people think.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 04:47 PM
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How far along MRP are you as you ask these questions? I'm not talking about the basic checklist-- gym, finances... I'm talking about internalization-- frame, shit tests, OI, stoic behavior... It's a bit special snowflake and ignorant to ask your questions until you've mastered these first. Feeling frustrated or slipping into her frame? Go to the gym.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:28 PM
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Start with the worst Integrity Company I was working at got bought out, prompting me to look for work. Entertained out of state offer to get salary leverage. Told my wife that was all this was. Ended up taking the job. Huge leadership fail in the sense I didn't keep my word. The move happened over a year ago and wife still feels resentment because she felt like she had no choice in coming here. She wants input on where we will live. I'm already pretty set on staying here. The move helped transfo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 05:09 PM
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In 15 months MRP journey you've read 3 of the sidebar books...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:43 AM
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There's a lot of wisdom in this comment. My takeaway is that achieving these goals (money, gym, status) making you look good on paper doesn't entitle you to shit. But if it comes out of your frame, then you find fulfillment and happiness from working towards these goals, OI to whether it makes you attractive to women. Which frees you to be more charming and social because you're not looking to fill a void by not being grounded in your "life frame". Which in turn can be attractive to some women. …
/r/askMRP21/01/17 02:05 PM
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No blood work but sexual side effects went away
/r/askMRP19/01/17 04:10 PM
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According to Symmetric Strenth, I was novice on all and intermediate on bench and ohp before my cut. Been lifting on and off for 11 years. Had low T for a few months when on certain medication. That was after I lost 15lbs and was around 170.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 03:05 AM
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Fantastic. Thank you, will do
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:52 PM
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Wife the other night: wow you're getting tiny Me: something to the effect of being pound-for-pound full of sexy Yes I guess I would be a featherweight. Though having big mouth doesn't equate to a strong jaw unfortunately
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:34 PM
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Hit the nail on the head. Have always been scrawny, imagine the frustration from gaining almost to 200lbs and having my arms stay the same size. That was with casual weightlifting 2x a week and not tracking anything. So, 0.75 pounds a week gain = 375 calorie surplus. Any other bulking tips? Exercises besides the big 3 to make abs pop later on a cut? Thanks a lot for the advice. 180# at 12%... goddamn that'd be dangerous
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:29 PM
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5'9" 154lbs. 27 yo Based on the pictures I'd probably say 15% but without the love handles
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:01 PM
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Hmm.. I'm not sure on the exact dictionary definition of manipulation but if the intent is to give the person an option to love you rather than force them, is it really manipulation? You're right interdependence is not altruistic at all, it's recognizing that people together can accomplish more than someone alone and utilizing that to assist getting your desires. A subtle but important distinction. I don't like the authors use of the word NEED to receive love from others. As if to imply that not…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 08:01 PM
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I catch myself checking this post hoping for upvotes. This is something I need to own
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 10:31 PM
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Like father like son
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 06:14 PM
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Any thoughts on hygiene down low? I've always just trimmed with a 3 and kept the happy trail grown out though I'm not too hairy. Wife says she likes the happy trail making me think maybe I should shave it. Any mini FRs about this lol
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 05:46 PM
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Doesn't strength training preserve muscle too? I noticed my numbers are obviously less but like you said during a cut you just want to preserve
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 06:40 PM
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Pros and cons to doing hypertrophy over strength during a cut?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 05:49 PM
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That's an excuse right there. A family alpha is responsible for handling shitty shit, that's what makes him a leader. At all times. Saying "I'm a good person so I can reasonably drop the ball sometimes" is bullshit. A family alpha should be stoic. It's ok to make mistakes, but own it. Don't excuse yourself or rationalize with your hamster, let the woman do that. The covert contract is that I'm a good person, so life should go my way. Also that I'm entitled to fuck up. Reality check: life never g…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/16 04:53 PM
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From your OP and comments. Let's try to make some progress. First, can you identify the GIGANTIC covert contract in your comment that I replied to?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 12:57 PM
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It's the kids fault he's an asshole. It's my wife's fault she hit me. It's MRP's fault they won't tell me I'm right. I'm a special snowflake. I've clearly internalized the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 10:04 PM
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I don't know how popular this opinion may be, but I love my new gas guzzling pickup. 4 doors and could fit 3 kids in the back and technically 6 people total, the bed is good for coolers and fishing rods and as a lunch table when traveling outdoors. But it's always been my personality to like loud V8's, milage be damned. I've driven an old beat up and quiet V8 and it's just not the same good feeling getting in. It's not that I need it to be confident but it's just nice. It's my way of treating my…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:29 PM
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Engaging in her hypotheticals is a lose lose. Refuse to answer hypotheticals or else it will turn into an argument in her frame. STFU or fog and don't DEER.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 06:07 PM
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Oldest teenager of the house. Family finances are so much better for us with split accounts and an allowance for her (SAHM). She buys groceries and her (excessively expensive) gym membership, I pay everything else. I tried the joint checking, countless budget meetings and adjustments (the Dave Ramsey method), giving her my vision and dream for a financially free future with a comfy vacation cabin, etc. Dividends and compound interest glaze her eyes and dry her pussy. O well. Shits on lock now, e…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:20 AM
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About how much should I save for a retainer and initial consult per lawyer? I'm seeing information online warning about "low down payments" where they demand more later/ after the retainer. Anyone have experience on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 01:07 AM
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Probably not. If she's helping plan she hasn't told me
/r/askMRP13/10/16 09:35 PM
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Got it, thanks
/r/askMRP13/10/16 07:24 PM
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I'll definitely keep an eye and ear out more carefully and keep the car maintained. Hopefully I didn't get a lemon, but at least new cars are quickly available these days with a little effort.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 06:14 PM
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Halfway through bang, day bang is next. Talked with 2 lawyers on the phone, nothing in person yet. It felt like they wanted my decision to be already made and/or wanted payment to meet in person? My schedule currently is 2 days flag football, 3 days gym, the rest is working on my side business and having fun with wife and kid. Were the family time to be lost, I'd replace with a MA, prob Krav. Isn't fuck off fund discoverable in court? What would this entail?
/r/askMRP13/10/16 06:09 PM
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Divorce, martial arts, day and night game PUA
/r/askMRP13/10/16 05:33 PM
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Tracking wife's ovulation is in MMSLP. She only uses Skype to video chat her mom or video chat me when one of us is out of town. A Skype add isn't like Facebook, most people don't just add everyone you know. It's usually for a specific purpose. Skype is a loaded gun because you can delete conversations and calls, unlike cell phone records which can be looked up.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 05:29 PM
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Fantastic idea, thanks
/r/askMRP13/10/16 02:11 PM
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Spot on
/r/askMRP13/10/16 02:11 PM
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My ego wants to believe I'm a RP alpha, but this post shows I'm good at the "fake it" part. I have a history of being paranoid. In hindsight about 50-75% of red flags I was worried about turned out to be unsubstantiated. I'll still never know if she did ever cheat, but I'm worrying alot on what I can't control instead of what I can: killing the beta. I don't think Chad would ever trust, but verify. I think he'd more fuck, but then fuck a new one if he found out his girl was unfaithful.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 11:51 AM
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I took 12 days off. Deloaded my lifts as is standard for Stronglifts with missed time. Luckily arm felt fine after that. Diet was just: ~2,000 cal and 175g of protein per day
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 07:36 PM
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One of those handheld devices
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 06:50 PM
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My coworker did Keto and lost a ton. Why not do both?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 02:53 PM
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Formatting is shit. On mobile. edit: fixed
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 02:53 PM
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Do you know of specific courses or certifications someone should take if they want to be upper exec one day? Particularly someone with a STEM degree
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 02:52 PM
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You're right. I'm buckling hard and she's gotten away with it every time. For having read NMMNG I did a real shit job at applying those lessons. The IUD thing and violent bursts are a no-win situation. For some reason the IUD thing infuriates me way more than the violence. Can't believe I didn't realize what happened. She even had the standard "Mirena crash" which is pretty common after taking it out. I completely agree that her physical attacks, though harmless, are unacceptable and I'm being a…
/r/askMRP02/01/16 02:32 PM
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Wow, what you said is exactly how she's reacted. She says I'm too hellbent on proving that I'm the alpha and enforcing consequences, that I'm too black and white and not emotional enough for her, and THAT'S why she's crazy. Like you said, then I got called an asshole, got a list of things I did wrong, and how can I act like this when she sacrificed everything so I could pursue my dream, even quit the job she hated (and hasn't made a real effort to replace though that's what we agreed upon before…
/r/askMRP02/01/16 02:19 PM
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