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You’re over inflating the idea of an attractive man to try and prove your point. I’m not talking about male models like Zac Efron, I’m describing 20% of the male population, 1/5 men. Make a profile of an average indian man on that app then come back and tell us your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:41 AM
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That’s not what I said, they probably are ‘talking’ to the odd few women, but there’s a gigantic leap between simply talking to a girl and actually getting her phone number, dating her, getting into a relationship with her, etc. Plus, you could just be matching with attractive men who are successful, in which case they’re not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:20 AM
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the guys I chatted to seemed to be doing just fine Based on what metric, that they claimed to be doing fine? Dudes aren’t talking to women and going “Ya I’ve had 0 dates for the past two years and any girl I talk to ghost me”, it’s not a very seductive or successful technique. Especially if they’re trying to get on your good side. Of course dudes are going to tell you they’re doing fine. Admitting their dating life is shit is social suicide. Lmao, let me just tell my 25+ Virgin friends that thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:16 AM
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A high body count means they’re fine with casual sex or even one night stands with strangers. You don’t see people who only have sex in committed long term relationships have high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:10 PM
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There was a woman who broke up with her BF of 3 years, she’s cute, smart, if I was single I would have dated her. Within a month she slept with a friend of mine, another guy, and give a stranger a blowjob in the toilets of the venue we were partying at (then proceeded to want nothing to do with that man). I immediately lost any and all interest in her. Saying the reason I don’t want to date her is because I’m insecure of my own sexual performance is laughable. No, it’s because I don’t want to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:44 PM
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Being fat, sure, but when you mention being muscular then you get the bluepilled people coming out and going “Well i’m not into muscular men.” or “it doesn’t make that much of a difference!” I even saw one dude post his “Progress” on funny, where he was a very muscular dude before, and after being married and having kids he just turned fat. He then tried to justify it by saying his wife “doesn’t care that I’m fat now because she loves me anyway”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:54 PM
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85 studies which link mental health or lower cognitive function with porn addiction - https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/porn-use-sex-addiction-studies/studies-linking-porn-use-to-poorer-mental-emotional-health-poorer-cognitive-outcomes/ I’d like to see anything even close to this amount of studies that links violent video games to actual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:03 PM
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Damn man you guys are lazy, you can’t browse a single website yet you expect me to believe you’ll read studies? There’s literally a link at the top of the page for “Research”, one button click away, https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/research/ This gives you a gigantic list of studies of porn, from how addiction forms similar to food/gambling addiction, to people having withdrawal symptoms, to having a poorer sex life, to desensitisation of real sex, etc. In terms of mental health specifically whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:01 PM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:52 PM
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There’s a bunch of peer reviewed studies on there that explain the effects that porn causes to people. That is exactly what you he asked for right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:38 PM
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There’s a massive difference between a porn mag or VHS vs the entire library of free internet at Ultra HD instantly loadable porn of any category, of any kind of woman you feel like, in any position you want, instantly. Porn nowadays is a ton more stimulating than a porn magazine. Especially when the exact millisecond you get bored of one girl, you can click a different video and be immediately stimulated all over again with another girl. It’s like comparing a tv show in 1980 to Tiktok and sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:32 PM
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Yourbrainonporn.com
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:26 PM
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Learning how to print “Hello World” isn’t knowing how to code. That’s like saying you know how to play the piano because you can play twinkle twinkle little star.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:17 AM
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They did a study on this, concluded that being funny does not make you attractive, but being attractive does help make you funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:39 AM
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1 man does something “WhY dO MeN Do tHiS??”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:00 PM
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1st post is true, I remember 2 years after going the gym my sister was asking me why I haven’t got muscles yet, because after two years of casual lifting and a casual diet, I didn’t look anything like her amateur boxer boyfriend who had abs you could grate cheese on. Saying some women are deluded about muscular standards is absolutely true, that’s not whining, it’s fact. 2nd post had nothing to do with deluded standards, if anything else it’s about Hollywood teaching men to try and be superheroe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:15 PM
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None of these show men saying they’re entitled or deserve women. The first post is about unrealistic expectations of men in Hollywood movies nowadays. That’s true. Second post is about Hollywood again influencing men to bend over backwards for women The 3rd post agrees with OP’s point of view. 4th post is dispelling the myth that ‘women only date Chad’s” 5th post is just giving humans an attractiveness scale from 1-10. And literally none of them have a dude saying he deserves hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:33 AM
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You’ve literally proven my point. You guys struggle to be happy and content in a monogamous relationship, and that directly stems from the amount of people you both have previously slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:52 AM
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Because statistically speaking it does, the more people you sleep with, the more likely you are to get a divorce, and less likely you are to be happy in a monogamous relationship. You anecdotal evidence doesn’t change this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:57 AM
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There’s basic friendliness, and there’s actively going out of your way to talk to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:26 PM
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Precisely, if you always feel like you have to carry a conversation, the simple fact is she’s just not interested in what you have to say. If she’s interested in you, she’ll do most of the talking, taking initiative, calling, pop up in your DM’s, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:09 PM
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Hahahaha no. I know a dude who’s a legit autist who everyone struggles to talk to. A woman I know is constantly trying to keep in touch with him only to get one word replies back (not because he doesn’t care, but because he has no idea how to hold a conversation). This dude has got women lined up to date/sleep with him. Women make it easy for him to talk because they actually put effort into trying to talk with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:21 PM
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Then why do blind men care less about physical looks compared to blind women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:04 PM
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Blind women find physical attractiveness as important as sighted women https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33851315/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:18 PM
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I’ve heard stories of blind women asking their friends what the guy “looks like” just to see if the man is still worth dating based on their opinion of him. So even if you were the perfect man personality wise, if her friends call you ugly it’s gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:20 PM
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Women liking sex in a committed relationship does not mean women like sex with beta men. That’s not the same thing. You don’t have to be a beta man to be in a committed relationship. Women marry men who they have bad sex with all the time. There’s tons and tons of stories of women who thought they wasn’t into sex until they met ‘the guy’ and suddenly they loved sex. Tons of these women marry men they’re not into and have bad sex with because the relationship itself is fine and she ‘loves’ him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:24 PM
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I disagree, all those ‘ForeverAlone’ subreddits and other similar ones had a huge over representation of non-white short people. Very rarely is a perfectly average white dude struggling in any significant way. And if they were, it’s because of very obvious issues like being shy or fat. Your perfect average 5’9 white man has a perfectly average dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:06 PM
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I keep saying this on PPD, but being perfectly average is not a bad thing. They’re overweight, they can just lose weight for a year and automatically be above average. $50k is respectable, enough to be financially secure. Save up money and you can buy a house. You’re not ‘poor’. 5’9 isn’t bad, 70% of women will happily date you at that height. Too it all off , average = white. You can’t get statistically get better than being white. Sure, women aren’t lining up to meet you, but you should live a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:56 PM
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Almost everybody I know has a job. Doesn’t mean they didn’t struggle trying to find one when they were unemployed. It‘a like that, but struggling 10x harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:15 PM
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Just because a man finally got a girlfriend after years of trying, doesn’t mean their past struggles just stopped existing. For example, I have a girlfriend now, that doesn’t mean my previous 8 years of struggling to find one stops existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:46 PM
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Damn, let me just tell half of my mates that their struggles with dating don’t actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:45 PM
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PPD isn’t a pro porn sub, so I’m not sure why it would be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:32 PM
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Anti-porn subreddits are, unsurprisingly, biased. This place will give you more varied opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:41 PM
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While it’s obvious being introverted will mean you’re less likely to get dates, it’s important to note exactly what makes a person become introverted in the first place. Odds are, a person who’s introverted is very likely to have had poor status since they were kids. Which comes from their ‘odd’ behaviour or by straight up being ugly and bullied for it. Which then only pushes him towards introversion. He’s not involuntary single because he’s introverted. He’s introverted because of qualities he …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:46 PM
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Reminds me of that video where a bunch of women were together at a party, casted their phone onto the tv, on tinder, and they all screamed with enjoyment when they matched with an attractive guy who only had one selfie photo. Meanwhile left swiping on normal guys with interesting photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:09 AM
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Don’t be obese. Be nice. Can hold a job. Mentally stable. Isn’t lazy. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:23 PM
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Why not go the /r/cuckold route and have 1 average husband + Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:42 PM
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Damn, it’s a small sample size, but it’s showing that woman with tall male family members are incredibly more likely to require tall boyfriends. Not to mention, one of the comments with a below average height father specifically states she wants a guy taller than her, not specifically a tall man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:25 PM
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• You’re not as ugly as you think. • If you are ugly, you make up for it in other areas like height, frame, or masculinity • Just because you haven’t been working out in 3 years doesn’t mean you suddenly become a twig, a strong dadbod still beats a fatty. • You’re in your late twenties, so she’s ready for a steady relationship over a rocky casual one. • You’re paying for every date, so you’re definitely falling into the ‘Beta Bucks’ category most men don’t want to involve themselves in. She’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:09 PM
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It depends on how the relationship is already going, if a man is happy with you and loves you and already does loving stuff for you, he’s only going to be more happy and more loving if you become more attractive. At the saw time, if a man is ‘tired of her shit’, then a nose job isn’t going to change anything. If he’s lazy and doesn’t do anything for her, being more attractive isn’t the answer to fixing that either. BUT if you used to be attractive, then gained weight and became unattractive to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:27 PM
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Umm excuse me! Where’s the negging, where’s the push pull technique, where’s the passing shit tests, you mean to tell me people just like each other and kiss?!? Preposterous!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:34 PM
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you are someone who is actually successful with women but don't deny that looks are important in attracting them More than just important, practically essential. beliefs that are shared with the redpill that attractive women don't have to do anything to get attention and validation from men? That’s a bit unrelated, but yes I personally believe that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:03 PM
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Almost, Blackpill is the idea that looking physically attractive is pretty much the only indicator of anyone being romantically or sexually successful. Personality plays little to no part in attractive women. The reason it’s usually paired with the ‘no point in trying’ group is because the men who come to the Blackpill conclusion are the ones who are rock bottom ugly that they’ve never had a positive sexual or romantic interaction with a woman before, despite their best efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:10 PM
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Yes, for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:51 PM
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Yes No, Redpill is ‘mostly’ Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:49 PM
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It’s clear she doesn’t care, that’s the point. If a girl actually liked you, she’d put genuine effort into getting to know you and meeting you, not ghosting you for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:39 PM
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I’m with everyone else here, if you haven’t replied in a day or two then I’d assume you’re not interested and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:34 AM
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You realise men also couldn’t vote for 90 years prior to when women could right? Like, in the entire US history, there was only a 90 year gap between when the common man could vote and when the common women could vote. Yet you dangle it over us like we locked you up for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:18 AM
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You’re worth exactly by what you are, no more no less. You might ‘believe’ you could be worth more, but you’re not. You either are or aren’t. A fat dude has the worth of a fat dude, he can’t turn around and say “Well if I actually put the work in and got muscles and a six-pack then I’d have a fit attractive woman”. Wether or not he could do that is completely irrelevant. The fact is he is fat right now, so he deserves whatever a fat man deserves. If he’s sad about the fact he can only attract fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:10 PM
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That’s not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:49 AM
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If it’s fiction then send me proof of something even vaguely resemble Jeremy Meeks case but gender reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:48 AM
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That’s not settling, that’s literally living the life you can afford. Settling is buying a $200,000 house and being annoyed by it, despite the fact you believe with all your heart that you actually deserve a $1,000,000 mansion with servants. But for some reason couldn’t get one. If you are genuinely happy with the girl you’re marrying, then you’re not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:25 PM
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Success rate is clearly very high, he’s getting all that money from somewhere. The woman said the amount of money he spent was no where near equal to the amount of money the other woman was giving him. He’s getting money from multiple sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:50 PM
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A cuck or a simp? Both of those men are pretty honest about the fact they let women walk all over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:43 PM
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There’s literally 0 women here who are saying money doesn’t matter. I don’t know what you’re trying to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:40 PM
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I’m not saying men don’t lie to women. I’m saying single men who claim “I want X, Y, Z in a woman” are almost always honest about that, and do search for a woman with X, Y, Z. Rarely lowering their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:37 PM
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I don’t know any men like that. I know men who clearly admit they would shag a woman is she had big tits regardless of anything else, but I don’t know a single man who claims to want X, Y, and Z, only to immediately drop them for a woman with big tits. Men are pretty honest about this. The men I know who have claimed to want X Y and Z usually stay single until they get them. Meanwhile, I know several woman who have claimed “I want X, Y, and Z” only to date someone with none of those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:44 PM
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I do not fault them for being scammed, what happened to them was horrible and I am in no way mocking them for what happened. What I am mocking them for, is how all their barriers that prevents them from getting a boyfriend completely disappear when a rich man enters the scene. If these women matched with normal men, they would never entertain “Hey I’m leaving the country tomorrow, come to my hotel”. Most would assume the guy is just looking to get laid before he leaves. But when it came to this …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:35 PM
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Netflix. Or you can read an article about him here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:52 PM
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I loved that show, literally all the red flags in existence couldn’t keep women away. The women are all “I’m looking for a serious relationship”, have over 1000 matches and are still single, yet this dudes pops up like “Hey I’m leaving London tonight, meet me at my hotel” and they drop everything to see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:42 PM
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Men see an attractive women and will make jokes about wanting to sleep with her and how her being a murderer makes it sexy. But that’s all it is, jokes. Meanwhile take Jeremy Meeks, women will actively spread his name everywhere, crowdfund his bail to get him out of jail with GoFundMe, follow his modelling career, then finally, even the daughter of a billionaire dated and had kids with him. He became rich and successful because he’s a criminal and women pushed him and funded his career to be suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:06 PM
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Reflective of today’s dating market, I know 10’s of skinny men + obese women pairings myself. I see 1 or 2 obese men + skinny women pairing. It’s almost non existent these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:25 PM
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Pretty sure OKCupid or match.com did one back in the day during April fools, it was a colossal failure, during the blackout they had an all time high engagement rate and people were speaking to each other on levels the websites has never seen. The second they put pictures back up, the conversations dropped like a bomb within 1-5 messages. Something like 90% of all previous conversations ended within 5 messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:07 PM
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Updated my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:58 PM
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Updated my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:58 PM
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Updated my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:58 PM
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Updated my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:57 PM
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Updated my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:57 PM
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Source: I got my original number from here - https://wearawhitefeather.wordpress.com/survivors/rape-culture-statistics/ Which then leads into this study https://time.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/repeat_rape.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:55 PM
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1 in 16 men are rapists (6.5%). These are just confirmed rapists who have been charged. I can almost guarantee more than 1 in 5 men have had the potential to rape, but chose not to because they’re not psychopaths. No. Most men would not rape given the chance. Source: I got my original number from here - https://wearawhitefeather.wordpress.com/survivors/rape-culture-statistics/ Which then leads into this study https://time.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/repeat_rape.pdf Honestly, I didn’t look int…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:58 PM
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Nah, it’s simply that women don’t want to date number 2, doesn’t matter when he shoots his shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:57 PM
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Is a nice ugly guy. Is a nice attractive guy. There’s literally no difference between these two besides the fact women want one of them but not the other. Trying to pretend they’re two entirely different type of nice guy is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:56 PM
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That’s a bit too vague and ambiguous for me, it doesn’t really explain anything. It’s like saying “Why does gravity exist” “because science”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:25 PM
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The belief that the only thing that actually matters in relationships is looking physically attractive. Which mostly consists of genetic factors out of your control like being tall, blond, white, with blue eyes, and a good jaw. But also includes some factors within your control like lifting weights, getting fit/strong, being well groomed, and wearing decent clothes. That all the “game” the Red Pill tries teaching people, passing shit tests, holding frame, negging, etc is mostly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:52 PM
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Looking for an attractive man not into casual dating is like trying to find a PS5 on Amazon. They’re all sold out, and the second they’re on the market they’re taken off and are sold out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:14 PM
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Your average man doesn’t get much positive attention from women. So when he finally does get positive attention from women, it must mean something! Then when the misunderstanding starts, this causes the women to be less friendly towards guys, which in turn causes men to get even less attention, which in turn means when they do get positive attention it must mean something! And the cycle continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:30 PM
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The author is saying it works. I’m telling you it does not, no ugly dude is banging a 10/10 because he held his frame and passed shit tests. That’s delusional. (Not without being a millionaire or a celebrity or something similar).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:33 AM
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Men are primarily attracted to physical attributes of women while women are less so. I highly disagree, women are primarily attracted to physical attributes just as much as men are. Women will not be interested in dating you if she is not physically attracted to you, and they do not give a shit about bad frame, low confidence, poor charisma, etc if they’re physically attracted to you. I’ve never once seen an ugly confident successful man regularly succeed in dating in my entire life, whereas I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:00 AM
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The second most upvoted post of all time there is about attracting and fucking literal 9-10/10’s by following his rules - https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5fihmu/how_to_get_laid_like_a_warlord_37_rules_of/ and I quote “women would rather fuck an ugly man with a strong frame than a handsome man with a weak frame” Load of Balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:54 PM
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You can, but it’s likely you didn’t unless you said or did something stupid/creepy. Women aren’t interested in you because you said the right things and pushed the right buttons at the right time, she’s interested because you’re a cute guy she imagines she’d like to date. And you making a normal conversation is enough to persuade her to trust you. Not because you did some magic push pull technique followed by a soft neg.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:40 PM
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Believing you can get almost any girl if you just play your cards right, and that if you wasn’t successful, it’s because you approached her wrong. In reality, it really doesn’t matter what you say or how you say it, if she’s not attracted to you physically then you can’t persuade her to suddenly be attracted to you. That’s not how it works. Edit: to those saying TRP doesn’t say you can’t get any girls, the second most upvoted post of all time there is about attracting and fucking literal 10/10’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:35 PM
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Everyone was lied to about how “Fat” is bad by the studies that were created by the sugar companies, meanwhile sugar was the real culprit all along. To this day we’re still feeling the effects of those studies, with people legitimately believing having a hamburger every now and then is bad for your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:59 PM
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Fact: The more people you’ve slept with, the greater chances you have of not being happy in a relationship, and a much higher chance of being divorced in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:54 PM
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95% Worse, 97.5% are between 3-7, which I find insane. 6/10 should be above average, 7/10 should be physically attractive, 8/10 should be model material, 9/10 Hollywood Model material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:09 PM
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I agree with the objective measures of attractiveness, I disagree with the way they handle the sub and how strict they rate people 1-10. One 5.5/10 could look so much better than another 5.5/10 but because of how strict the rating is there’s no room for variance. With only 2.5% of the population able to hit 7/10 or higher, they’ve locked out a whole 3 points worth of attractiveness behind a minority of a minority of people. There are more gay people alive than there are 7/10 people in existence.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:46 AM
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TrueRateMe is BS in my eyes anyway, the guide that they use put my personal 6/10’s at 9/10’s. Everyone is stuck between 3-7/10. It’s impossible to vote someone a 8/10 or higher without being downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:04 AM
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¿Tú hablas español?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:47 AM
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Some do, most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:47 AM
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When you first discover the red pill, you’re initial reaction is the rage stage which consists more of posting how women are bad and less about putting actual Red Pill ideas into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:01 PM
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The difference is wether or not you actually know that guy is a RP Man. If you know he’s only it in for sex, that he’d dump you the moment you placed any boundaries down, that he was also sleeping with 3 other woman at the same time, that he views you more as a child than an adult, that he spent 2 hours everyday for the past 2 years reading how to pick up women, then yes most women wouldn’t touch him. But that’s never the case, women just see a well spoken, confident, muscular guy with his life …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:22 PM
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It’s less about the n-count and more about their actions within a short time frame, and if it was casual or an attempt to get into another long term relationship. I know this girl, was in a long term relationship for 4 years, seemed perfectly normal, they broke up, within 2ish months she’s slept with 2 people and gave a stranger she just met a BJ in a public toilet. Having an N-count of 4 doesn’t make you promiscuous, but I’d definitely say her actions are. Meanwhile, a woman who’s slept with 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:32 PM
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I wish, no this is just the changes I’d like. We spend over £6bn on obese people yearly. This should incentivise people to get healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:51 PM
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UK, having a BMI over 30 which resulted from fat, not muscle, will result in you losing your right to free healthcare, if you’re currently receiving benefits from the government, your benefits will be reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:43 PM
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Nah, caffeine is just an addiction like any other. We just don’t hate on it because the consequences aren’t bad when compared to smoking or alcohol. Some would argue drinking coffee is actually a health benefit. The main issue is, just like any other addictive substance, your body gets used to the regular amount and requires more of it to get the same benefits you used to get. You start off with 100mg to wake up, then that’s not enough so you intake 200mg, then 400mg. Etc. I write this as I drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:21 PM
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Your first stat completely ignored virgins, which could greatly skew the result, it only included sexually experienced people The last two stats says a small percentage of men are sleeping with more women than woman are sleeping with men. Which is exactly what 20/80 rule is discussing. For example, you got 5 men and 5 women, for 1 man, there’s 4 women who have slept with him. Each of those 4 women now has an N-count of 1, while the man has an N-Count of 4. Meanwhile the other 4 men have an n-cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:03 AM
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You’re thinking of the mean, this is a medium. 1 1 1 2 2 3 3 4 6 9 Mean: 3.2 Medium: 2.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:53 AM
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Aah my bad, ya going to a poor country with a good remote job you’d probably be making 10x the average person there. Which would likely work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 PM
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Nah, you can’t match with women on OLD with your finances, you can’t attract women at a club because you have 0’s in your bank. Whenever you meet women, you won’t be able to attract them just because you wore better clothes than everyone else. They have no idea how much you’re earning. Not to mention, your job title is actually worth more than actually having a good paying job, if you tell women you’re an IT programmer, their pussy dries faster than the Sahara desert. The best way to attract wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:40 PM
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I’m Blackpill, not incel. I also live in the UK. My point is there’s more important things in life than just getting a girl. But that doesn’t mean being lonely doesn’t suck either and people should be allowed to vent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:10 PM
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“Why don’t you just pick up your things and leave, leave all your friends behind bro, leave all your family behind bro, ditch your career bro, who cares if you got a mortgage to take care off or stuck in a car payment contract, just move to an entirely different country who don’t speak your language all by yourself just to have a chance of touching a girl.” This also ignores the fact these foreign girls want white men, which is completely useless for the 50% of the LV men you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:04 PM
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Wtf is he on about, does he think chronic losers DON’T want a Chad lifestyle??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:12 PM
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I disagree, I think looks are key both out and in a relationship (again, assuming you’re a normal functioning human). If you ignore all the stupid/obvious reasons people split up (Example, abuse relationship, needy/clingy partners, high maintenance, constant lying, cheating, etc). The reason people split up is usually down to either being cheated on (or monkey branched), or someone starts getting lazy and stops trying to maintain a good lifestyle. Very very rarely do I see two normal attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:41 PM
2

Blue pill just means rejecting red/purple/black pill. Redpill says “hold frame bro”, Bluepill is “wtf is frame just be normal”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:02 PM
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I didn’t invent any straw men, all 3 of those platitudes are something I have been told directly. Me, a 5’7 50kg arabian skinny kid, was told to just be confident. Plus, I’m not just saying people are claiming “looks don’t matter”, I’m not saying people don’t give looks based advice. I am saying “Looks matter far more than people admit”. I’m trying to say that looks are by far the most important aspect of attracting women. Nothing else even comes close to mattering. So long as your a normal func…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:31 AM
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I’ll start believing that the day people stop telling men to “just be confident”, “just be yourself”, “you’re a great guy any girl would be lucky to have you”. And start giving actual worthy advice like telling men to go the gym, dress in stylish clothes, and to grow a beard to hide that weak chin. When that starts to happen, then I’ll believe people admit looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:41 AM
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I’ve seen Autistic 9/10 tall white blond depressed Chad having two women who are literally strangers grabbing his arms trying to pull him out of his seat just to dance. There’s only been two relationships I’ve personally seen where the man was the bad looking one, one ending in brutal divorce, the other they never have sex even though he wants it, because she “tried it once, and has no reason to try again”. Meanwhile she’s kept making excuses to talk to a particular bartender because he was hot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:33 AM
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The Blackpill really is that simple. “Looks matter far more than people admit”, that’s all it comes down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:41 AM
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If you’re attracted to someone because they look nice, you are not demisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:24 PM
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I’m confused why you’re confused. Wanting to talk to someone just because you find them cute/hot is something normal people do. You find them sexually attractive, now you want to figure out if they’re emotionally attractive too. A demisexual person would not want to talk to someone just because they’re cute/hot. They’d see them and just think they’re another person that exists. They literally cannot feel any sexual attraction towards the person until after they’re emotionally attracted to them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:53 AM
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If you see a cute girl and want to talk to her, you are not demisexual as you’re literally wanting to talk to her based on her looks. This is what normal people do. They see someone attractive and want to get to know them based of that alone. Someone who’s demisexual wouldn’t do this. They would see a person who they understand is “cute”, but that’s it, that’s just a characteristic they have. They feel no reason to talk to them or anything. No desire to strike up a conversation. It’s not until a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:26 AM
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Online dating is now the cause of over 50% of all modern relationships. Tinder and other online dating apps consists of the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:20 AM
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I’m not talking about cultural gap, I’m talking about racial preferences. People of difference races can still have the same cultural background.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:05 PM
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That’s like saying “nobody chooses to be racist”, with some actual effort you can move past someone’s skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:09 PM
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Difference is having racial preferences is almost guaranteed to be a learned thing. No one is born with sexual attraction to only white people, whereas people are born with sexual attraction to only people of their own gender. Racial preferences is usually stemmed from subconscious racist thoughts, there’s a obvious reason why white people are the most popular choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:03 PM
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Racial preferences are racist and nobody can convince me otherwise. Want racial equality? Then put your money where your mouth is, you can’t say you’re not racist then turn around and go “ew no I don’t want to date black people”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:11 PM
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This isn’t the first time I’ve heard this. Woman can easily get a tall attractive guy on tinder effortlessly for free. So if that same woman is paying top dollar for a match making service and spending all her time fixing it up/talking with them, they’ll feel entitled to the best of the best, because that $$$ should clearly give them a better man than they could find on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:11 AM
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Life is the longest game you’ll ever play, we all follow the rules of physics, biology, and chemistry. Humans are probably the most unpredictable/misunderstood things in the universe, but that doesn’t mean you can’t quantify them. Trying to understand ourselves is something we’ve been trying to do for millenniums. My autism is showing, but I’ve personally found trying to understand/study human behaviour to be one of the most interesting subjects I’ve delved into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:38 PM
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I’m one of the men who believe status trumps looks anyday. I mean have you seen how male celebrity singers/musicians are treated among women? They get crowded around, screamed at, stalked, etc, you cannot evoke the same reaction with looks or money (not unless their looks caused their high status, like in Jeremy Meeks case). In terms of what point looks takes over both status and money? I don’t think any amount of looks would work. An average looking celebrity with money will destroy any 10/10 b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:27 PM
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Changing who you are is quite literally the exact opposite of “just be yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:56 PM
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It was definitely mentioned before even /r/Incels was a thing, I remember reading about it, but it was usually in passing, mostly ignored, or a story about a short guy getting tons of pussy because of how alpha he was and why it shouldn’t bother other short guys. I specifically remember one story about a short guy who slept with a woman, and she kept bringing up how she ‘usually doesn’t sleep with guys like him’ (aka his height), she said it so often that he had to ditch her because it was getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:47 PM
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Dating someone too old/young would no longer be as much of an issue. No one would look at a 45 year old dating a 25 year old and think “ew that’s weird” since they’d both appear to be the same age. Older people (especially older men) would dominate the dating market thanks to their assets, who’s going to win, a 25 year old man still setting up his life, or a 50 year old man who looks 25 who also has an expensive car, house that’s fully paid off, much higher paying job, and has had 50 years to pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:10 PM
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It means you’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 PM
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Both are a turn off. Obviously the first one, but with the second one, I can’t imagine any woman feeling good about hearing “I’m worried you’ll leave me 😢”. That’ll give women the ‘ick’ feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:19 PM
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it’s because I respect everyone There are millions of people who respect everyone, there not attractive. You’re delusional if you believe that’s the actual reason people find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:15 PM
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I never said you were traumatised, but you’re clearly having a knee-jerk reaction to this place with no real argument to explain why this place is sad and stupid. If a specific argument is stupid, explain why, that’s the point of the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:11 PM
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You basically dropped yourself into the center of one of the largest controversial internet cultures, which includes but not limited to Redpill, PUA, MGTOW, Incels, and FDS. It’s like if someone wanted to start drinking alcohol, but they started by drinking vodka straight from the bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:04 PM
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Men’s and women’s rights? You’re in the wrong subreddit my dude, this is a subreddit about sex, dating, and relationships conventions. Not about men and women’s rights (although it does sometimes leak into here).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:58 AM
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Double on going the gym and getting muscles. But, No More Mr Nice Guy is BS and does not work for Incels. It teaches normal men how to stop doing “nice” things for no reward (and as a result, not get annoyed about the fact you’re doing nice things for no reward), it does not teach dateless virgins how to get a date. I remember reading it, and time and time again it was just examples of guys in relationships doing dumb shit and ruining it, It doesn’t tell you how to actually get into those relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:55 AM
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I tell people in real life that I work out for myself and to feel good. In reality, I work out to look good to other people, that’s 90% of the reason why I do it. Yes, it does feel good, and I like feeling strong and healthy, but if nobody cared and it didn’t make a difference to my social life, I wouldn’t be doing it. I like the respect I’ve gained from everyone I know, and I like when people give me compliments on it or notice the effort I’m putting in, and I like looking good for my partner’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:28 AM
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I don’t think this sub is for you. I recommend /r/relationship_advice or /r/dating instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:22 AM
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Because we don’t want to raise someone else’s kid. The reason this is ignored is because it’s a boring question with an obvious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:16 AM
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This, meeting a person once every 2 weeks will take longer to fall in love than people meeting twice every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:32 PM
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France. It’s illegal to get a DNA test over there to prove you’re not the father, even if you proved you’re not the father some other way (aka having a mixed race child when you’re both white) you’re forced to pay child support anyway. Forced by the law to pay child support for your wife’s boyfriend’s kid? That’s CUCKED.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:01 PM
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People like me, want to be around me, and seek out my company Definitely not enough, people liking you as a friend does not prove you’re a good partner in a long term relationship. Every single LVM on the planet is proof of that, they have plenty of friends but are terrible to date. Even losers who do nothing but smoke weed at their mum’s house has friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:32 PM
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If you have evidence, then the people you’re talking to are not seeing that evidence. Either that, or the evidence your presenting isn’t strong enough to warrant the confidence you’re making in their point of view. Without reading these comments for myself I can’t say which one it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:24 PM
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Confidence: The belief that you’re able to rely on yourself to succeed. Arrogance: an exaggerated belief that you’re able to rely on yourself to succeed, with no proof or evidence that you will. Arrogant people are confident, but the confidence comes from an exaggerated sense of self worth. For example, I was confident in passing my theory test, I studied for days/weeks until I passed several mock exams in a row. I know I could do it based on that experience. Meanwhile my friend was also confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:10 PM
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I’m not too sure myself. It’s like a study I once read where weaker men were more likely to use violence to solve disputes compared to stronger men. Just swap weaker men to women and it’s the same thing. Women are more violent, but at the same time, they’re allowed to be more violent because everyone knows it won’t hurt. It’ll hurt emotionally sure, but physically not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:32 PM
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It really is that simple, and it amazes me when people pretend it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:22 PM
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Everything besides the toilet paper is what I considered normal. You have to recycle by law where I live anyway. But how does the drying towels work, are you expected to just wipe your shit ass with a towel then clean it later? Edit: Makes sense using a towel with a bidet now. Then to answer the question, 1. no this is not high maintenance, and 2. Yes I would happily enforce this in my own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:50 PM
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Same experience here. I think OP is confusing porn categories with actual fetishes. Either that or men keep it all bottled inside while the women don’t mind talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:45 PM
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It basically means the same thing for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:43 PM
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Women might think that more men are attractive I’m not sure what you’re trying to claim, women don’t find most men attractive. There’s tons of threads on Reddit that asks women “what % of men do you find attractive” with the answer always being around 5%-1%. If a woman found a sexually attractive man on OLD, she will swipe right on them. It makes no sense not to. Which is why women only swipe on 20% of men or less on OLD. Whereas men are notorious for swiping on almost all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:25 PM
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Finding someone physically attractive is not the same as actively wanting to pursue a relationship/sleep with them. It’s very easy to just look at someone and think “ya they’re cute” and do nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:11 AM
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ideally, you’re able to have a decent talk and see if you can connect with other people. Ideally, yes, but nobody will date anybody if they’re not physically attracted to them. ‘Connecting’ with a person you’re not into physically is just another way of saying you made a new friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:57 PM
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Because I still think it’s the most accurate pill of the bunch. Redpill goes too deep into game, personality, shit tests, dread game, and becoming “Alpha” when none of that actually matters. Tons and tons of people I personally know had none of this and were able to get into relationships perfectly fine. The most accurate way to figure out if someone regularly attracts women, is to simply check if they’re attractive, their personality does not matter so long as they’re a normal functioning perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:59 AM
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that’s because the woman they date are terrible too Not really, even the sweet and kind girls also liked these men. Their ONLY positive traits are hard working and NOT a violent felon? They’re happy, fun, funny, pleasant to be around, have a good job and are financially stable, doesn’t live with parents. I’m happy with them as my friend, and in terms of personality they’re not lacking anything that people who do have girlfriends have. Like, in terms of personality, what do you actually want from…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:10 AM
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The whole post is a strawman argument though. Nobody is saying sex is just quiet missionary position with the lights off. When FDS is saying pornsick, they’re talking about men choking them, pulling their hair, immediately jackhammering, no foreplay, etc. I remember reading some pornsick posts on FDS, and even the most upvoted comment was a woman saying she loved giving her boyfriend blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:28 AM
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There’s literally nothing “passionate” about sticking it in the poo hole, that’s pure fetish material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:23 AM
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First. But personally, I’d keep growing it until it looks similar to this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:03 AM
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don’t they have Guy friends they can show their profiles too Guys, and Guy friends, don’t know what good photos are. Not unless they’re experienced in Instagram or photography. Most guys will see a full body picture of him holding a fish he caught and think “Nice photo dude!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:57 AM
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Because I’ve seen a bunch of awful men date multiple women without effort, the women who wanted to date them KNEW they were awful people, but couldn’t help themselves. Meanwhile my hardworking good friends who wouldn’t hurt a fly are virgins in their mid 20’s. Getting rejected by multiple women. Personality isn’t the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:48 AM
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Cheating is cheating, immediate split up/divorce. But I’m not going to lie, I would definitely be more mad if it was with a man. In a way, it’s like I’m far less jealous of being cheated on with a woman. If she cheated on me with a man then I’d be insecure, as her boyfriend/husband I should be able to offer whatever he’s offering, so I’d be thinking “what did I do wrong, was I not good enough?” Etc. But if it’s with a woman, it’s more “ooh, she wanted to swing that way instead, alright then”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:44 AM
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That’s cringe bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:32 AM
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I’m currently in one now, I reply to her anywhere between instantly or within a few hours, and we date every weekend. I’ve never once worried about wether I’m giving her too little/too much attention. I just reply when I can and we plan dates when we’re both available. And it seems to be working because we’re both pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:24 AM
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Fit and healthy as in someone who exercises regularly and eats healthy foods. Not just being average weight. The post is talking about women being “unattractive”. While you didn’t get much attention, that didn’t mean you were straight up unattractive, it just meant you were average. Whereas a guy can still look unattractive even while being fit and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:38 PM
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I’d say 5% of women or less have some form of physical issue preventing her from being a 7/10. From disability to recessed chin and everything in between. But generally you’re right, all a woman has to do to be attractive is to be fit and healthy. She can be in a hoodie with messy hair and no makeup but for as long as she’s fit and healthy, she’ll likely be attractive. The same cannot be said for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:02 PM
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Can do what you want when you want I can do that in a relationship too. So long as I’m not currently on a date with her. can fuck who you want when you want, enjoy flirting, dating with new people Not sure about you, but my single life revolved mostly around getting ignored by women and being a virgin. nobody questioning why you live the way you live or do the things the way you do Just tell them how it is, you like this because blah blah, get a partner that doesn’t judge you for silly things. s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:46 PM
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We’re discussing intelligence at the moment. It’s like people discussing if men like red or green apples, then someone comes in and says “Well i guarantee you require a tasty apple at the very least”. I like green apples, that doesn’t mean I’ll be happy with a moldy green apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:15 PM
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DIET IS KEY. The gym helps supplement a good diet. The gym is completely and utterly useless if you’re not on a diet. How much weight you’ll lose depends mostly on calories in vs calories out. Download “MyFitnessPal” and put in your height/weight and your goal weight, track all the food you’re eating. You should lose 0.5kg per week on a 500 calorie loss per day. If you want to lose 10kg it’ll take you 4-5ish months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:00 PM
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Successful happy functioning people don’t find this place. They’re too busy on Instagram DM’ing their partners. ‘Blackpilled pathetic sacks of shit’ are the ones googling “how to attract women” until they eventually find this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:53 PM
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Like a swimmer? 63kg ish Like a ripped boxer? 70kg ish Take a look at different professional sports (including powerlifting) and check the physique of the 5’6 dudes and use them as an estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:49 PM
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I’ve been banned from there on multiple accounts for saying obvious stuff too. They REALLY don’t like it when you say anything related to how men and women are in different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:47 PM
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Alcohol lowers your inhibition which lets you do things you were otherwise stopping yourself from doing. Before alcohol: “What’s the point?” “What will my friends think if I kissed him?” “He’s a bit weird I’d rather not”. After alcohol: “Fuck it why not?” kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:35 PM
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Yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:47 AM
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This, the Incels have no where else to go to discuss relationship stuff, so when the purge happens they flood the sub as it’s the only safe space for them left on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:43 AM
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So you fucked him, despite the fact he was a Redpilled. What’s was your point again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:40 AM
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Does it work Worked for me. And how much it works depends on how short and how ugly they are. 5’7 average dude? It’ll definitely help him and he’ll land a date eventually. 5’4 and facially ugly dude? He’s got an uphill battle and will struggle a ton to get even the slightest attention, he’ll rely more on luck than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:54 PM
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Happy to hear you’re doing well. Why do consider yourself blackpill Because I still think it’s the most accurate pill of the bunch. Redpill goes too deep into game, personality, shit tests, dread game, and becoming “Alpha” when none of that actually matters. Tons and tons of people I personally know had none of this and were able to get into relationships perfectly fine. The most accurate way to figure out if someone regularly attracts women, is to simply check if they’re attractive, their perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:49 PM
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Yup, in England, life’s going pretty good thanks for asking, how about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:04 AM
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Redpill is a mix of PUA, game, personality, and looks. The biggest looks thing being to lift weights and get fit. But they’re not realistic about it. For example they pretend short men don’t have a humongous disadvantage over tall men, and that personality/game trumps everything. Blackpill on the other hand goes deep into Looks, completely ignoring game, pua, and personality. Blackpill tells men to “Looksmatch” as much as possible, whereas Redpill just says to go the gym and dress good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:49 PM
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I called myself a vocel, despite having a house to myself, a good job, healthy body, “good” personality, fun hobbies, etc, the only women I attracted was a cocaine addict and a morbidly obese woman. I could have gotten laid, but not with women I wanted. Other single women would barely respond to anything I said. In terms of what I did, I got a fitter bigger body, cooler fitted clothes (that show off my body), grew a full beard that I keep groomed and other men to this day keep complimenting me o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:57 PM
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mostly white right-wingers No, surveys in incel subreddits show Incels were 50% white, 50% other. Compared to the average Reddit user which is around 75% white, Incels were over represented in non-white users. Incels were just labeled white alt right users to smear their image, it’s the same as calling people you don’t like nazi’s. it definitely does, I didn’t know this was a blackpill idea The general population will try to convince you it’s about personality, telling people relationships rely …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:53 PM
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I’m not worried about either, they’re both overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:33 PM
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No, Blackpill means it‘s all about looks. Like a good 80% of relationship success relies on just being physically attracted to each other. Incels believe in the Blackpill because as ugly men, they can literally see women completely ignoring them for men who’s only positive trait is the fact they’re attractive. Incels say “it’s over” because they believe they can’t improve themselves to the standards women want, either because they’re bottom barrel ugly, wrong skin tone, weird voice, short height…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:28 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/YouTube_headquarters_shooting Her life story is under Perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:44 PM
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She was very into equal rights, a vegan, and shot you YouTube because she thought they were being sexist, highly likely she was a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:43 PM
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I’m a Blackpiller that frequently browsed incel subreddits. I got a girlfriend after becoming physically attractive. Nothing else mattered, my hobbies didn’t matter, my online profile didn’t matter, my skills didn’t matter, my job didn’t change, my personality didn’t change, the only thing that actually changed was my physical looks. I went into Covid with nothing and came out landing multiple dates and had women in my extended friend group wanting to date me. Personality is only useful AFTER yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:41 PM
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YouTube shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:24 PM
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Their private forum on a completely different website which only the most extreme incels ever use and consists of less than 1% of all self-proclaimed incels? Of course you’re going to get extreme views. /r/braincels and /r/incelswithouthate had nothing of the sort and are a more accurate representation, having 40,000+ subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 AM
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That’s like saying it’s fine to be disgusted by feminists because they want all straight white men to die. Or to be disgusted by left wingers because they want your kids on hormone blockers and have their genitals cut off. You can’t judge an entire group of people by the few extremists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:00 PM
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Getting a handjob by someone else is better. Not because their technique, speed, and/or rhythm is better, it’s solely because it’s a woman giving the handjob. Getting an enthusiastic mundane handjob by a woman is 1000% better than any masturbating session.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:50 PM
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You must be attractive then. When people found out I was a virgin, it was instantly accepted, no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:27 PM
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OP doesn’t understand what frame is. Frame isn’t “You said no to anal? Ok I’m going to keep pestering you over and over until you say yes”. Frame is another way of saying be stoic, to not succumb to petty anxiety or anger. The kind of mindset where If shit hits the fan then everybody happily relies on you to fix it without worry. For the women in your life to lean on you believing you’ll sort everything out. A strong sense of self belief, self confidence, that you can always fall back on your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:52 AM
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No. Women find it hot when their man is attractive to other women, and the idea that he could be with any other woman, but he chose to date HER out of all of them. That’s what they find hot. As in, if a woman was clearly flirting with him, but he was having none of it and didn’t reciprocate, that would be very attractive. In turn, they will find their partner unattractive if they realise literally no other woman would dare to touch him. They do not find men who actually cheat on them more attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:36 PM
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“Would you date a lying manipulative man who plays games, flirts with other women in front of you, regularly makes fun on you, and never buys you any flowers?” “Eew no”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:28 AM
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Just biology playing it’s role, a woman’s orgasm isn’t needed to produce kids, so it doesn’t matter if they’re not orgasming during a one night stand. They’ll still get some form of pleasure from the experience regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:19 AM
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Sounds like you’re advocating for Blackpill here, not Redpill. The only thing you’ve mentioned here is that he’s physically attractive, tall, rich, and strong, as in that’s all it actually takes for her to fall in love with him. All of his non red pill actions are allowed because he’s attractive and rich. More than half of TheRedPill is all about PUA-like tactics, seduction, negging, dread game, passing shit tests, spinning plates, NOT TO CHASE WOMEN, etc etc. None of the men in these books pull…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:05 AM
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Exactly, this sort of mindset applies to a lot of things in life. Want more people to apply for the job? Raise the salary, but don’t hire the person who only applied JUST for the salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:41 PM
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I literally bought my girl one of these for Christmas after reading that exact post, she’s avoids towels on her hair because it makes her curly hair frizzy. Hopefully these microfibre towels work on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:12 PM
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Because the simple fact is shallow, and most women don’t want to be seen as shallow. And the simple fact is being nice isn’t attractive, being nice only works if it’s coming from an already attractive man. But obviously, telling the unattractive man that he can’t attract women because he’s ugly is mean. So they just say “oh just be nice!” to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:34 AM
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Women have normal conversations with men every single day. Women aren’t falling for men just because they had a simple conversation with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:08 AM
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Lift weights and exercise for a good body, Wear fitted clothes, if you got a weak jaw then grow a beard, get your shit together (clean house, stable job), gain genuine confidence, learn how to socialise with women (learn to flirt, tease, escalate, etc). The idea is to become an attractive man before you even talk to her. So when she meets you, you don’t need to “persuade” her to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:33 PM
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Men are asking for advice about how they, as an average/unattractive man, can do to become attractive to women. Women give advice about what they want an already attractive man to do to start dating them. So women give advice such as “just be nice and respectful to her, treat her like a human being, then ask her on a date”. If an attractive man did this, the woman would be ecstatic and would want to go on a date with him. When an unattractive man does this, he becomes her friend. This is the iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:26 PM
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This I believe is the biggest one. The “dating phase” should never end. Always be going on dates in 3 years into marriage and kids. Get a babysitter to give you time off the kids to go on dates together. Doing the same stuff you were doing during your first year together. I think the biggest problem a lot of marriages go through is once they settle down, a lot of people’s mindset changes. They put less effort into the relationship because they’re “settled”, the dating period is over and now they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:16 AM
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Always surprised to see women’s sexlessness go up. Out of literally every single women my age who I know, not a single one of them are virgins. Meanwhile I know like 9-10 23+ year old men who are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:59 PM
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I don’t understand, just get into a relationship with a man that’ll make you orgasm. You say this like it’s a “Gotcha” yet it’s the women who choose to be relationships with men who don’t make them orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:33 PM
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Got it from here - https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence Where did you get 33% admitted to rape without consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:07 PM
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You’re right. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:09 PM
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I see what you mean now. I agree that comparing AWALT to a loaded gun isn’t accurate. I wouldn’t compare it to AMALT either. More like common sense. In the same way you don’t aim a gun at someone’s head in the fear of it being loaded, you should never get into the back of a random strange man’s white van in the fear of being kidnapped and raped. AWALT simply means she always has the potential to cheat/lie/monkey branch, that doesn’t mean she will, it just means don’t be surprised if she does, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:38 PM
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A good women who just got given two orgasms by their man would want to make her man orgasm in return. I can’t imagine a relationship where you gave her two orgasms, and she does nothing in return, then gets mad at you for finishing yourself in the bathroom afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:13 PM
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Difference is percentage, men who rape account for 3% of the male population. Whereas something like cheating can account to 15%-46% depending on what study you’re reading. This is just cheating, it doesn’t take into account relationships where women will break up first before getting with the new guy they’ve had their eyes on for a while. The % in this case of “monkey branching” could be well over 50% of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:41 AM
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They’re not all that interested in becoming “High Value Women” themselves to be able to land HVM. They’re just expecting a High Value Man to fall into their laps when they’re offering essentially nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:34 PM
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most men on dating apps are average. But most men who women actually attempt to match with are above average. These are the men going to the party I mentioned above. The average and below average men? Immediately left swiped before the woman even looks at the second picture or reads their bio. What makes you think the attraction will change IRL Women get to actually talking to you for starters, so your wealth and status start to matter. In terms of height, most women have no idea what 6’ looks l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:56 PM
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If a woman is physically abused, it’s almost guaranteed to be by the very person they’re claiming will protect them from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:38 PM
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I have never once in my entire life seen a woman date a man based on the fact he “reads literature and studies art”. The men I’ve met with the most success with women all haven’t touched a book in 10+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:34 PM
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I’ve personally had better luck with Tinder and the absolute bottom barrels luck with Hinge. I assume it’s just dependant on the area you’re in. Hinge was 90% obese women, and I couldn’t even match with them even if I wanted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:13 PM
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That party was a metaphor for online dating. When you’re using online dating, you’re not just meeting the tiny amount of men in your social circle, you’re matching with the best men online dating has to offer in a 20 mile radius. Scooter around walmart Skewed towards 40+ year olds, irrelevant to 18-35 year olds trying to date. Gets it up without pills Requires a girl to get into bed with in the first place, irrelevant when simply trying to meet women. And irrelevant to 90% of people younger than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:51 PM
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I’m Blackpilled with hints of Redpill. Blackpill: Looks are the pinnacle of attracting women, your personality/actions/lifestyle/your entire being means literally nothing at all if they’re not physically attracted to you in the first place. Do everything in your power to become as physically attractive as possible, go the gym, groom regularly, get fitted stylish clothes with a watch/bracelet, if you’ve got a average/bad jaw then grow a beard, have a good posture, etc. Redpill: After looks it’s C…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:37 PM
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if you’re in a LTR I mean, the hard part is getting that LTR in the first place. Especially if you’re being compared to the dudes you find in Online Dating. If you’ve already got a LTR, then you’ve already passed the toughest part of dating. All you need to do now is not be lazy or an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:21 PM
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You’re not wrong, it’s hard, and it’s only going to get harder as time goes on. You just got to hope you can get into the LTR before someone better than you decides to intervene.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:19 PM
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You’re an average man, you’ve been invited to a party by your crush, you arrive and there’s 300 people there, 98% of the people are 6’ ripped attractive men. All of them trying to date your crush. Do you even stand a chance? You’re literally the bottom 10% of all men in the party. There’s no way she’s going to choose you. That’s basically what online dating is like. In real life, you’re invited to a party and there’s 50 people there, 50/50 split of men and women, half of these people are in rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:12 PM
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Not specifically this place, but the pills in general helped me understand the social dynamics of relationships/dating more than anything else in my life. I grew up being told by most people that women will like me for being “nice”. Picture this, a shy short skinny nerdy teenager trying to pick up women by being nice and kind to them. Ya that doesn’t work. These subreddits helped me realise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:37 PM
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I don’t think a post from 2 years ago with 24 upvotes by a deleted account is proof to decide what FDS is about nowadays. Compared to this post from just 2 days ago that’s currently the 5th most upvoted post this month - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qpdq5g/hookup_culture_is_a_scam/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:36 PM
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Look at this strong and independent FDS woman filtering out the bad men for the good men - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pxqn6m/this_was_on_the_official_muzmatch_tiktok_page/hep67hm/ They are truly seeking only the kindest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:49 AM
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While at the same time hooking up with men and having ONS I don’t like FDS as much as the next person here, but this isn’t true, FDS women HATE the hookup culture with a passion and strongly advise every women on there that it’s a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:42 AM
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It happens all the time over in FDS. “All these scrotes are nothing, I’m dating a REAL HVM for the first time ever!!!” Then you look into it and they’re dating a deadbeat loser who eventually cheats on them 2 weeks later. Every man they’re dating is a HVM until they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:32 AM
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it’s not that bad RIGHT NOW it’s not that bad, 200 years in the future and the earth will be 6 degrees hotter globally and life as we know it will be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:02 PM
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Lmao get off your high horse and look at the world, of course it would be beneficial if we had less people on the planet. Global warming is a legitimate threat to our existence and having less people is one of the ways we can reduce the world’s carbon footprint. Farming less foods means less damage to the farmlands we have. Less pollution, less need for land (aka better chance for everyone to have and own their own home), less food created and consumed, less plastic being created, overall less o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:32 PM
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Just because we have food now that’s being thrown away doesn’t mean the population is sustainable for 100’s of years. There’s soooooo much more to overpopulation than how much food we need to consume. It’s such a vastly complex topic that can’t be condensed in a single PPD comment, from food to water to over-farming to over-fishing to resources used up to global warming etc etc etc. There’s no real reason why we need 13+ billion people on the planet at any one time (the estimated max population …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:36 PM
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above 35
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:33 PM
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The witchcraft is just roleplaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:11 AM
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“Lmao why don’t you just date girls bro just go to the girl shop and buy one bro lol”. The men are simping E-girls because they can’t find a girl to date, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:01 AM
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Straight people created TRP, FDS, and !cels because they want/tried to get laid, and go into writing full novels because of it. I really struggle to believe anything in LGBTQ+ dating could be worse that someone from these communities couldn’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:38 AM
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You actually think she’s 4/10 or worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:22 AM
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lets not forget what happens to alter boys and young people in religious schools I’ve read something that the amount of pedo’s in religion is about as equal as the amount of pedo’s outside of religion. The only difference is the priests and that get all the media attention compared to the weird uncle. So it’s made people think it’s more likely to happen in religious places, when the reality is it’s just more likely to be reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:24 AM
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That’s what this whole post is about. What “Left Wing” advice can you give to men to help them with dating issues. When dating generally involves treating men and women differently, something that goes against what it means to be Left Wing?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 03:43 PM
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Redpill literally have the phrase “AWALT”, “All Women Are Like That”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 03:39 PM
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I haven’t watched the video but my thoughts on it is that left-wing in general is all about equality, trying to create a world where both women and men are completely identical in every way except genitalia and pregnancy. So in general, left wing advice assumes men and women are identical, and that men should just “Treat women like human” and “Just be yourself”. Whereas the Redpill and PUA treat women like they’re cats on a string you have to entertain. Like they’re an advanced alien spaceship y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 02:59 PM
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Rapists know raping is bad, telling them it’s bad isn’t going to stop them. Imagine someone saying “Don’t tell shops to take precautions, tell people to stop stealing”, you’d be laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:31 PM
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4’11 is literal dwarf territory, nothing is saving that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:47 AM
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You can say the same thing about any pill. You pick and choose what works and what doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:27 AM
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Short term satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:58 PM
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Damn, there’s more black pill than red pill here. That’s pretty crazy. I knew there was a lot of black but wasn’t expecting a full 1/4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:58 PM
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It’s a skewed statistic by nature. Average/above average self proclaimed “incels” are more likely to post pics of themselves since they know they’re not actually ugly, looking for attention and validation. In a similar way self proclaimed “ugly” women post pictures online with caption of “I’m so ugly” fishing for compliments. Actual ugly incels are very likely to not do this. And when they do post pictures, they unsurprisingly get ignored and left in the “New” section because nobody wants to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:40 PM
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No such thing. Incel by definition is someone who cannot sleep women. The fact he slept with a women made him a vocel. Otherwise the alternative is claiming every human being on the planet was an incel before they fucked around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:26 PM
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They never get interest because they’re ugly. Literally nothing to do with their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:28 PM
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Incel Dates and fucks women Hmm 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:26 PM
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Buying is simpier. You’re going out to a public restaurant and spending money on her food/drink with no indication of anything happening afterwards. What have you proven to her? That you can spend $60 on food. Cooking a home meal means you’re inviting her into your home, mere steps away from the bedroom, all the while showing off your clean and lovely house and feeding her your own home-made food, showing off your cooking skills and hygiene. Plus it proves to you that she’s comfortable enough wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:23 PM
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It resonates not because it’s good storytelling, but because it’s a real life extract that a lot of men agree with and relate to. It’s one of the big reasons why TRP became so popular in the first place. But I’m getting off topic, my original point is that TRP isn’t just about internet anecdotes, and there’s a lot more to it than this one story by Michael. You’re right, If a man reads this and it resonates with him, then he’s going to continue reading, if it doesn’t, then he won’t. But that does…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:37 PM
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The biggest difference here is this guy isn’t taking writing classes and trying to convince people to continue reading, it’s just him venting about his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:17 PM
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I mean, it really doesn’t matter. I don’t think the guy sleeping with multiple women is going to care much when one of them stops sleeping with him when they find out he smokes weed and plays video games. He’ll still find plenty of women who smoke weed and plays games to have a LTR with them. Meanwhile there’s plenty of men who don’t fall under anything on that list yet are struggling to find a single date. My point is the stuff on that list is hardly a factor when it comes to attracting women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:38 PM
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I don’t know how it doesn’t. A ton of women change their tastes, hobbies, and even political ideology to fit inline with whatever their boyfriends/husbands is. They enjoy following his ideals. The boyfriend can do what he wants because she wants him to do what he wants. A man who doesn’t know what he wants to do and constantly asks for her opinion would be unattractive in comparison. Then on the off chance she has an issue with something then tells him about it, he can simply alter it to somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:26 PM
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Not really, TRP handbook is massive, this is just one of the stories near the beginning of it. Basing TRP on this one story is like judging a book based on chapter 1 of a 36 chapter long book.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:23 PM
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Nah, one “Chad”, most are above average normies, regularly say things like “fuck women”, if she’s even remotely slutty then she’s a hoe, then other more mundane stuff like simple Red Pill truths that most people would call sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:18 PM
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I think you’ve vastly overestimating how bad/addicting certain downtime’s can be. Yes, binge watching tv and playing hours upon hours of video games is unhealthy, but like any downtime event, everything is healthy in moderation. It’s especially healthy for a person who does have their life sorted and gets exercise in and meets with mates regularly to have a few hours of downtime per week, even if that downtime is TV/Video Games. It’s only considered an addiction when it gets in the way of more i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:15 PM
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It hits all the buttons because this was one of the pinnacle articles/life stories that started off TRP. It’s literally one of the very first stories TRP recommends you to read when you start using it, it’s been part of their handbook since they began. TRP didn’t exist when this was written. It’s not that this “Hits all the buttons”, this created the buttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:42 PM
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Ya this is a very unrealistic take. I don’t know a single person in my entire life, man or woman, who has a life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:33 PM
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This is sort of a none answer. I’m not asking what he should do outside of his house, I’m talking about when he has nothing to do and he’s inside the house, besides books what are you expecting him to be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:23 PM
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As far as I’m aware, 7/9 of those things on that list hardly effect wether a woman’s attracted to you or not. If you’re at a party then she’s not going to know how much porn you use, if you play video games, if you live with your parents, if your yearly salary is less than $50,000 etc. She’s going to see you, chat with you, “connect” with you, then want to fuck you based on that. The things on that list is hardly important in terms of attracting women. Want to attract women? Be an attractive cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:05 PM
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Got to ask, if not video games (and not tv/books), what personal hobbies would you like your man to partake in when home alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:50 PM
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Neither of these besides #4 and #5 are unattractive to women. Women don’t know how much porn a man consumes when she meets him. Same as 1, except Women play video games too. Women expect men to be living with parents until 23+, If anything it’s more that men aren’t as proactive in dating because they know they can’t bring her back home. Women also smoke weed, a ton of it, this isn’t unattractive. This is a massive bonus if you’re attracting women who smoke. Class/Money is basically a non-issue, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:21 PM
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Because she wants to do what he wants. She finds enjoyment in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:27 AM
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Nah, not true. My dad’s currently in a loveless marriage, he could do everything perfectly but no matter how perfect he is, she WILL find something to nag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:24 AM
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The men I know with the most success with women are often also the most sexist men I know. Someone’s views on women have practically no effect on women’s views on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:04 PM
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Left aligned, 25 blackpilled, scored -7. Not sure what that means beyond being slightly left leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:59 PM
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It just so happens that 50% of CEO’s are 6’ despite making up 16% of the population. It just so happens that less than 10% of CEO’s are 5’7 despite making up 25% of the population. Just a coincidence, they just had better social skills teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:07 PM
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“Blackpill” is literally just “women like attractive men”. It is a very very very easy thing to study and report on. Doesn’t matter who you are or where you come from, everyone understands this simply idea, so tons of people have worked to study it. When a study is created, it’s not a study on “The Blackpill”, it’s just a study on how people behave. Redpill is all about behaviour and how you can attract woman using confidence, passing shit tests, holding frame, etc. The thing about this is these…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:33 PM
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2.5/10. He has to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:27 AM
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As someone who hangs around the manosphere, I have quite literally never heard of this “Carnivore Diet” you’re assuming the Manosphere is telling their community to eat. Can you link us to a single instance of this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:37 AM
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If the opportunity presents itself, sure, but I ain’t seeking it out and I’d be fine without it. Male, 25, Blackpill, Virgin, lower-middle class. It would have to be with a mate I enjoy spending time with, but not necessarily want to date. More of a FWB situation. I detest the idea of a one night stand, at that point I’d rather just have a hooker for the night. I’d doubt something like a FWB would ever pop up, but ya if the situation arises I wouldn’t turn it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:51 PM
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It’s a list of things humans need and prioritise. Starting with the bottom essential layer of getting food, shelter, water, literally just stay alive. Then the next layer is safety/security, to secure your current life, this could be through finding a place to live, getting a job, getting money. 3rd layer is belongingness and love. 4th layer is self esteem (feeling proud and accomplished). 5th is self-actualisation (achieving your full potential). The next layer can only be fulfilled if the prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:38 AM
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Aah, I mean it all depends on context. Anything that resembles a man sleeping with a woman with no intention of dating her, the woman wanting to date, then the man leaving because of it, is a pump and dump in my mind. A FWB wouldn’t be a pump and dump if the woman had no intention of dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:07 PM
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She gives him her number the day after I imagine this scenario to be one where the women thinks sleeping with the guy will get him to stay. Which would absolutely be a PD situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:33 PM
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All of them. In every situation the woman wants something more but the man just gets laid then gets off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:01 PM
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This is my issue, great job, nice house, good car, nice body from 4+ years of exercising, healthy eating, etc. My league is obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:43 AM
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Good Morning Becky, I’m good thanks, how’s life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:34 AM
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I can emphasise with men and their struggles with dating. I can’t do the same with women who’s experiences and struggles are polar opposite to my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:34 AM
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I mean, that’s great in all, but what are you trying to say, talk to women like they’re human? What do you think majority of men are doing on PPD? They’re not interacting with women asking how many n-counts they have. They’re doing exactly what you said you did, just spoke and had chemistry with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:48 AM
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This is the “just be yourself” of advices. Random cute women don’t randomly walk up to just anybody and start talking to them, she found you attractive enough to walk up and start talking to you. To add to this “Chemistry” when she’s not sexually attracted to you is just friendship. You cannot negotiate attraction, she’s either into you or not, in this instance she was into you and took her shot. Sounds like you’re underestimating your own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:21 AM
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You’d be surprised at the amount of women who don’t have this mindset. Look no further than the controversy sex-bots/sex-dolls have among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:32 PM
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Don’t need to imagine, that was me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:53 PM
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Short Height is correlated with a lot of negative traits. For each inch of height you lose, you have a 4.5% increased chance of suiciding. - https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.7.1373 (2005) Each inch of height you gain is an extra $850 increased wage per year. - https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/10.1086/422566 (1995) (inflation increases this to $1,400) The taller you are, the more likely you were associated with positive aspects such as being healthier, smarter, h…
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:21 PM
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Funny because I know a 6’4 blond haired blue eyed “Chad”, during a wedding women were literally trying to drag him onto the dance floor while the rest of us were just sitting and watching the whole thing, 5 guys, yet multiple women we’re literally trying to drag him and hardly glanced at us. He also made a friend of mine open her relationship just so she could sleep with him. I’m not even friends with the dude and they’re both things that happened when I was around, I can’t begin to imagine what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:13 PM
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That’s where the famous “He was just being nice to get into my pants” line comes from. He was rejected for being ugly/short, but saying you rejected him for being ugly/short is shallow, so you make something up so it sounds like he was a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:05 PM
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You could say the exact same thing about the red pills way of dating. Nothing in that entire segment was genuine, you’re literally following a script of what you should do, how you should do it, what you do next, etc to gauge what he does. Do this, stand like this, wait for him to do this, ignore the bill, wait for him to open the door etc. Purposely praising their “HVM” actions while also dismissing their “LVM” actions is literally manipulating them into being what they want him to be. Meanwhil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:47 PM
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FDS doesn’t manipulate men into paying for dates Huh, Interesting, you say that, meanwhile their “Handbook” has this in it - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eqp7lo/practical_tips_mega_essay_easy_classy_ways_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:52 AM
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There isn’t. I’m replying to the original question of “6 year olds don’t know if they’re gay or straight” which as far as I’m aware from the gay people I know, is completely false for some people. I personally couldn’t care less if a kid liked a boy or girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:20 AM
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Ok. And I’ve met gay people who sorta always knew for as long as they remembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:41 AM
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I didn’t “decide” to have a crush on the girl in school when I was a kid, I just did. Same can be said for kids who had a crush on people of their own sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:20 AM
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Literally all of them, they’re Blackpilled not Redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:28 PM
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The only men who need to read it are “nice guys” who try to be nice to everyone even at the expense of their own happiness and well being. Beyond that, it’s an absolutely useless book. The first chapter was all about a man who got annoyed at his wife for doing something he agreed he would do. As someone getting into PUA/TRP shit, this was one of the first books people recommended and I found it completely pointless to continue reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:31 PM
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Because I can’t offer him anything useful beyond saying “Ya bro it sucks”. He’s in a crap situation with no obvious solution, mostly because I have no idea who he is or how he lives his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:25 PM
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He’s expecting some form of sympathy, pity, and advice. Instead he just got empty platitudes which is one of the last things he’s looking for. He’s not looking for some random dude he’s never met and has no intention of meeting him say “It’ll happen eventually!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:06 PM
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I didn’t say it was mean. I said it doesn’t help anyone, it means nothing. It’s like going to a random depressed comment on Reddit and going “You matter :)”. People only say it to make themselves feel good, it doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:58 PM
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Saying “no, you’re not a loser, it’s all in your head, it’ll happen eventually” is not nice, it’s not advice, it’s just virtue signalling to pretend they’re helping when they’re not helping. If a man is told to just keep living like “until it happens”, it will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:25 AM
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Your account is purely anecdotal, as will mine be. I’ve met ugly obese people who were the kindest people I’ve ever met. I’ve met gorgeous/handsome people who are absolutely horrible. At the exact same time, I’ve also met ugly obese people who are absolutely horrible. And gorgeous/handsome people who are some of the kindest I’ve ever met. Rarely does their attractiveness play a role in how nice/horrible a person will turn out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:27 AM
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There’s two major causes, your age and how attractive you are. If you’re still in your 20’s, you have no reason to BB yet. If you’re attractive, you have no reason to date someone not attractive. AF/BB usually applies to 30+ average/unattractive women who can’t get into a LTR with the remaining attractive men. Forcing them to “Settle” with BB’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:59 AM
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Ugly nerdy/geeky people are going to be on /r/askmen answering questions on an anonymous account on Reddit. Attractive successful people will be on Facebook/Snapchat/Instagram instead. When browsing askmen, just assume they’re the geeky office IT guy and you’ll likely be right most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:47 PM
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Just to point out, that’s not actually inceltear vs incel meet up. The incels are actually a 4chan meet-up, and the inceltear are actually a group of transsexual women video game speed-runners at GDQ meeting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:44 PM
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NOBODY looks better bald. Some people look great bald, but they still look even better with hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:39 PM
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Precisely, not just married or taken women, compliments from women who’ll never date them just aren’t worth much. If all your so called good behaviour and hard work only ends in a few extra compliments here and there, then what’s the actual point, was there any actual differences being made before and after you changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:34 PM
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It’s becomes a “guys night out” or “girls night out” if we invite everyone out and only guys or girls could make it. We never go out with the intention of making it a guys night out, but if the girls in our group can’t make it then it automatically turns into a “guys night out”. We never go out with the specific intention of it being “guys only”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:08 PM
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Usually you can’t, you get to know they’re a materialistic person after talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:15 PM
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I usually don’t like materialistic lifestyle in general, men or women, absolute waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:50 AM
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Your first mistake is thinking the people who hold these negative opinions wasn’t already a huge turn off for the opposite sex in the first place. Long before they held any negative opinions. Your second mistake is believing holding these negative opinions actually effect women’s opinion of you. Sure maybe some woman are, but some of the most misogynistic people I know regularly get laid and have girlfriends. Some of the most misandrist women I know easily get boyfriends. As far as I can tell th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:35 PM
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Seriously, let me just wear my 2 inch shoes with 2 inch height extenders. Take her back home, take off my shoes and drop 4 inches right in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:50 PM
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And they wonder why there’s a hikikomori problem in Japan. Why work your ass off when you don’t benefit from it? Same thing’s going to happen in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:47 PM
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It’s just biology. When we’re talking 15,000+ years ago, being with the strongest (Tallest) man around gave you the highest chance of success in terms of reproducing and having you and your kids survive until they’re old enough to take care of themselves. That’s all there is too it. If you have a kid with a 5’5 man, and a 6’2 threat shows up, your 5’5 man is dead, your kids are dead, and he’s kidnapping you to his house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:48 PM
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Lets not forget it’s a pretty common joke over there that men are their girlfriend’s/wife’s second wallet. So despite both the man and women working 70 hours a week, the woman still uses up the man’s money. Japan is just fucked from all sides, you can either not work, do whatever you want, and have no money, or work your ass off 70 hours a week and still have no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:39 PM
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It’ll take the edge off, but prostitution is just like taking a drug, it doesn’t actually fix anything, instead it’ll likely just be an addiction you’ll sink your money into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:36 PM
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I want to make more money and work more hours. The idea is to work 4 days a week while being paid the same wage. To add to this, during the industrial revolution people were forced to work 6 days a week 12-16 hours per day. Then the revolution created the 5 days a week 8 hours a day worker rights. Any and all arguments against this change was created to stop it from happening, from “people will make less money” to “companies can’t survive on only 5 days” etc. Turned out both of these were dumb s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:29 PM
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If you’re 25+ and mention your a virgin, you can see her respect for you disappear in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:09 AM
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I’ve seen multiple women literally attempt to drag a guy like this up to the dance floor to dance and he was having none of it. I know another woman who asked to open her relationship up for the sole purpose of sleeping with this one guy. To this day she still can’t really get him to talk beyond one word replies. Anyone saying “AcYuAlLY tHis dUDe woUlD StRUgglE” is lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:32 PM
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R.I.P to those who skipped leg day Relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:24 PM
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When asked on /r/askwomen the percentage of men they find attractive, most unironically went as far as 1% of the population (even when taking age brackets into account). 1/100 men. Meanwhile men will find any healthy weighted 20’s woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:12 AM
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Are you rich now because you’ve read the book?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:53 PM
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What specifically changed about your skin that you had/didn’t have previously?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:59 PM
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I’m going to need a lot of before and after pictures personally, based on my experience there’s no obvious difference between someone who uses a skin care routine and someone who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:54 PM
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Western women doesn’t mean white women. It means any woman who grew up in a western country. Any culture that moves into a western country will cease to exist a few generations down the line. A Muslim family who moves into the US from the middle east will find their grand-daughters to be growing up Americanised and likely atheists. Happened with my family, out of all of my cousins who grew up in a religious family, less than half are religious, I’m going to assume less than half of their kids wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:31 PM
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Skin care is one big meme. Unless you’re a major drug addict or have the worst lifestyle imaginable, how good your skin is relies mostly on genetics and luck. Not what skin care routine you have. I remember getting asked in high school what did I use to get my skin smooth, I ate chicken wings and curly fries almost every day and showered once a week. Nowadays as an adult I do moisturise, wash my face daily, and eat clean foods. But still, I’ve seen people try to put all sorts on their face every…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:07 PM
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Fucking yikes, imagine trying to sell scam books in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:44 AM
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16 BMI isn’t skinny fat, that’s just skinny. Skinny fat is when you’re fat, but look skinny in clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:34 PM
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That’s just called overweight, probably 2-3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:32 PM
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It’s possible, but as far as I’m aware none of them was suffering from any mental illness. Whereas all the women who I do know was suffering from a mental illness were not HVW. Plus there’s a clear correlation between someone who’s Low Value and mental illness. Someone who’s suffering from a mental illness probably isn’t going to be improving themselves to become High Value. The person improving themselves, getting regular exercise, eating healthy, drinking plenty of water, staying clean, keepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:40 PM
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How do you know they aren’t I’ve never met a single woman with a mental illness who was also a HVW. I have no reason to believe these people are any exception. Treated well by your dad. Your partner isn’t your dad trying to raise you. He’s your equal where you’re suppose to enjoy each other’s times with sexually and romantically. A very VERY different relationship from your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mha4ts/im_getting_so_frustrated_with_the_number_of/ The context is pretty clear, they hate those dates because they’re cheap and low effort. Literally isn’t any more complex than that. I don’t think the women on here want a picnic in a park, they want to be wined and dined in a fancy restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:19 PM
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That makes more sense, and 1 being fat blob and 10 being pro-athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:48 PM
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Nothing. I never said it was wrong. What I do find wrong is the women from FDS demanding that to be the only acceptable first date option. Completely disregarding men who attempt to create any cheaper forms of dates such as a coffee date. While also demanding to be considered equals at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:42 PM
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Perfect, doesn’t have to be specific, two questions is enough. “How often do you exercise/go the gym?” And “How long have you been regularly exercising/going the gym”. That way it’ll separate the people who just stared exercising from the people who’ve been doing it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:40 PM
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I think you’ve missed my point entirely. FDS is all about being a “High value woman” trying to date “High value men”. My point is that most of them are not high value women, and yet are calling themselves high value women, while expecting high value men in return. The issue is how FDS treat themselves and their entitlement towards what they believe they deserve, without putting any effort into actually making themselves someone worth dating. I’m not currently discussing how men should be treatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:37 PM
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Well ya that makes sense. But FDS want their first date to be at an expensive restaurant and it be fully paid for by the man. While claiming they don’t want to be equals. That’s the contradiction I’m pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:31 PM
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A man won’t be “REALLY” interested in you unless he’s already met you and got to know you. That won’t happen till the 2nd/3rd date. You get to know someone on the first date, before that you’re nothing more than acquaintances/strangers. The first date is specifically to get to know each other to find out your compatible. What’s the point of taking a stranger to a fancy restaurant when you barely know them and might be incompatible with them within the first 10 minutes of taking to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:26 PM
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I’m a straight man, I use tinder, bumble, hinge, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:21 PM
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Sounds more like you want your cake and eat it too. You can’t have equality in value but not in function, you either have equality or you don’t. You can’t both do the same job and earn the same wage, yet expect him to pay just because he’s the man. We don’t live in the 1930’s love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:18 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:10 PM
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Don’t know, never used Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:59 PM
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Delete account, delete tinder, reinstall tinder, make a new account and make sure you put “I am a man looking for men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:50 PM
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I literally just swapped it and it only showed men. Your app is broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:43 PM
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Your settings are wrong. If you put looking for men, you will only get men. Quit the app and open it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:38 PM
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The difference is FDS is out there talking about how they’re “High Value Woman” looking for “High Value Man”. When in reality 30%+ of them have some form of mental illness. It’s the entitlement that humorous. Thinking they deserve only the best HVM when they suffer from one or multiple mental illnesses. This is irrelevant to how we should be taking mental health seriously, for both men and women. This would be equal to a loser man with depression demanding only 8/10 women and no less. This is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:19 PM
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The absolute state of FDS. Eww no I don’t want “dominant” man, I want someone who treats me as an equal. What do you mean a coffee date? Pathetic, now take me out to an expensive restaurant and pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:13 PM
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FDS usually revolves around calling all men bad, then either discussing behaviours less than 1% of men actually involve themselves with, complaining about issues that in reality don’t actually exist, or men asking for the bare minimum of a woman, and getting shat on for it. If you go though FDS now, you’ll have women hating on men for wanting them to be able to cook food (a basic necessity every adult human should know how to do), ranting about a scenario that doesn’t exist (“Don’t talk to [name…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:57 AM
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Just want to let you know, you’ve made 3 identical posts, you might want to delete two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:52 AM
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Not really, as someone who’s part of that 13% of men who are fit, healthy, and have muscles. I can state for a fact it has changed nothing about my ability (or lack thereof) to get women. Meanwhile women around me are literally swooning over the men who probably couldn’t run a 5k. These men have literally 0 reason to go the gym when their lives are perfectly happy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:50 AM
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Middleclass, upper class is when you make money for entertainment and something to do, not because you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:28 AM
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Yup, without any question of “how often do you exercise/lift weights” there’s going to be no difference between the overweight dude with the floppy belly, and the overweight dude with abs. I say this as someone who already has a BMI of 24.2 and is still being told by a former MMA fighter to continue putting on weight and packing more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:25 AM
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What’s the name of a mental health illness that’ll cause someone to blame their looks for their dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:07 AM
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Dude, I’ve been in incel subs since way back in /r/incels days. One of our favourite users was literally called RippedRichAndIncel, the most famous gymcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:54 PM
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Someone who’s escaping the black pill, not so much going back to Redpill/dating, but more towards going monk, improving oneself and living in peace and harmony with oneself. If the black pill is Nihilism, the white pill is Optimistic Nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:52 PM
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?!? Did we visit the same subs? Fat people were called out and we had the famous saying of “Fatcel = Vocel” IE you couldn’t call yourself an incel if you were fat, because for all you know you could be handsome underneath it all. Was actively told to leave the sub and lose weight, usually was never considered a true incel. People who self improved and went the gym were called Gymcels are were pretty well respected. The people who were laughed at was the ones linking “Charisma” YouTube videos, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:46 PM
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How fat? Overweight is fine, obese is when it’s too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:36 PM
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The black pill is only something you accept AFTER you’ve already tried everything else. You should be going from Blue Pill —> Purple Pill —> Red Pill —> Black Pill —> White Pill. Not straight to black pill, especially if you haven’t even bothered to self-improve yet. if you’re not 6’3 8/10 it’s over That’s just memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:29 PM
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Adding to this, I’m seeing a bunch of people who are claiming they’re perfectly happy being single and aren’t looking for a relationship on here. So... why are you on a relationship debating subreddit every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:22 PM
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Has he tried putting on weight and lifting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:10 PM
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You grew up during a time when men were getting laid the fairly often and fairly easily, back in the late 90’s early 20’s. When sexlessness for young men was close to 13% or even less. (If you wasn’t getting laid back then, then you literally wasn’t trying). Online dating was very very niche, no social media, most people still didn’t own a computer. Your experience is in no way accurate to dating as a young man now in 2021, where sexlessness in young men has almost hit 50% for uni guys. Where OL…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:08 PM
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Women find attractive men funny. Funny men are not more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:20 PM
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But her instincts don’t understand that she’s not stuck. And that’s what matters. Her instincts are under the assumption she would be stuck if impregnated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:37 PM
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What’s considered polyamorous, is it an open relationship where they regularly swap out the 3rd person. This would be casual. Or is it just a constant 3+ way relationship? This wouldn’t be casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:16 PM
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Don’t know what to tell ya bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:15 AM
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I never said it was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:08 AM
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Men aren’t hypergamous, that was the whole point of my comment. Men are polyamorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:00 AM
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Because women’s hypergamous nature doesn’t benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:53 AM
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Biological instincts don’t just disappear overnight just because abortion/pills was invented, your instincts are still there. That’s million of years of biology you’re dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:37 AM
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We live in a monogamous society where most men struggle to attract multiple women. The reason it doesn’t happen is simply due to the fact it’s hard to do it, plus a bunch of barriers preventing it from happening such as expectations from other people. Most men are happy being in a monogamous relationship, thanks to a mixture of their own morals and a lack of options. But if there was no consequences and limitless options, then yes most men would have multiple FWB’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:40 PM
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Yup, I remember reading the study done on mice. After a while the male mouse will get bored of the female mouse. Until a second female mouse was added to the cage, then he got excited for BOTH of them again. I’m absolutely certain humans would act the same way if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:01 PM
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Question 5. Define “Hypergamy”. You got two minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:32 PM
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Yes. https://psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success Going to be completely honest here, I’m not smart enough to read and understand your paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:21 PM
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a woman that provides for herself is much less concerned with status. Status = how popular you are. A independent woman still absolutely still wants to date the popular man compared to the unpopular loser any day, irrelevant to how much money she makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:39 PM
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Yes, they’re happy “sleeping down”. Because a 6/10 woman is still considered pretty attractive to a man. Regardless of the fact he’s currently dating someone better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:11 PM
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Money, status, and looks are things women look for in men. How much they value specific ones is up to debate and depends on the individual woman. I neglected to mention money to save reading time and my time writing it all down. This is all theory, so I can’t “prove” the women wouldn’t date the 6/10 man, but I’m very certain of myself that she wouldn’t when the 10/10 guy is available. This is all assuming they make the same money and have the same status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:05 PM
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So, you agree, men would sleep down, given if he doesn’t have options to sleep up. Hypergamy is about sleeping or dating up. NEVER down. A hypergamous person would NEVER sleep down while currently dating a better person. That is not what hypergamy means. Thus, men are not hypergamous by nature, given the fact they would sleep down if there’s no opinions to sleep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:56 PM
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They would also sleep down given the chance. Which isn’t hypergamous nature, which makes OP’s statement wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:48 PM
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Rockstars have the option to always sleep with several 10/10’s, every day. So they’re always going to sleep with 10/10’s. Using a literal top tier man with unlimited options isn’t a valid argument. If the only women a man could possible have available to him was a 6/10, a 8/10, and a 10/10 woman, a man would want to sleep with all 3 of them, then marry the 10/10 woman. A woman in the same situation would only sleep and marry with the 10/10 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:44 PM
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If the definition is wrong. It’s wrong. It doesn’t matter how some people in PPD use the word. Hypergamy has never been about picking the 10/10 person from a list of people. It’s always been about “Dating Up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:37 PM
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Sure, if we’re talking about a stranger or a girl you’ve never slept with. But a girlfriend you regularly sleep with? I doubt she’s going to care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:29 PM
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OP’s got the definition of hypergamy wrong. Because that’s not what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:25 PM
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That’s not hypergamy, that’s simply picking the best of the bunch. If you line women up 5/10 to 10/10 then men will pick the 10/10 woman every time. But when dating the 10/10 woman, they’re still going to find the 6/10 women attractive enough and will still want to sleep with them. Hypergamy is specifically about “Dating up”, like climbing a ladder, Aka you’re dating a 6/10 woman, you see a 8/10 woman, you ditch the 6/10 woman for the 8/10 woman. Then you meet another 6/10 woman and you basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:21 PM
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Younger generation I have no idea how you’ve pinned this issue to our generation, people of all ages can be hypocritical, this isn’t limited to my age group. There’s nothing particular special about my generation compared to others when it comes to hypocritical behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:14 PM
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Theoretically and biologically speaking, men don’t just want the hottest women, they want every attractive woman. A man’s job is to spread his genes as much as possible as it imposes little risk for him, he risks 30 minutes or less of his life for it, so he goes for as many women as possible. A woman doesn’t have that flexibility, once she’s pregnant she’s stuck for 9 months, possibly more if you count raising the children, she’s risking so much more, so it’s her job to pick the best man she can…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:04 PM
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It doesn’t, it has to do with opportunity. A good looking man will have more opportunities to cheat, and thus will require more effort to resist cheating. Compared to an unattractive man who’ll rarely have any opportunities to cheat, so he won’t cheat for the simple fact he’ll never get the chance to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:00 AM
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This, I can absolutely put my life on the line and confidently claim “I will never cheat”, because I’m going to assume I’ll practically have no chances of being able to cheat, not without a huge amount of effort on my part. Plus, even if the opportunity does arrive, I’m pretty sure of myself that I won’t take it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:55 AM
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Is your girlfriend really going to be annoyed that you slept with her drunk after she literally asked for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:48 AM
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He’s saying “if you were a 5’5, average build male”, not an average male. Aka a 5’5 man who’s a healthy weight and average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:37 PM
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FDS = MGTOW FDS basically has nothing redpill about it, 90% of posts are just women ranting about men. Which is equal to how much men rant about women in MGTOW. Femcels = Incels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:21 PM
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There we go, I googled everything related to it and couldn’t find it. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:01 PM
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True, but if it was as simple as that then your man would enjoy being pegged too, which I’m going to assume isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:25 AM
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Just doesn’t follow what I’ve seen in reality at all. The average dude I know with amazing charisma in my friend group eventually had to settle with an very obese woman because he wasn’t attracting many women. Another settled with an overweight woman that opened their relationship up so she could sleep with other people. Both these dudes were white, 5’8-5’10, charismatic and nice clothes. The most successful dudes I know had both charisma and looks. Even then it was only an N-Count of 20ish. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:11 AM
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That is my point. Men like dominating submissive women during sex. And women like being submissive, hence is a reason why anal feels so good for both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:50 AM
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Anyone got the picture of the Facebook post of the 4 panel comic where the first 3 panels she’s listening to music objectifying women, getting cat called, etc and she absolute hates it all. But then the 4th panel she’s basically being used and owned during sex and she’s loving it. Then all of the comments are just women agreeing with the comic and saying how that’s literally them. Then one whiteknight pops up and asks “Surely you don’t see yourselves in the 4th panel right?” and just gets replie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:48 AM
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Women like being submissive during sex, it turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:38 AM
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There isn’t a single sane man on earth who’ve claimed they prefer women without pores. Any women falling for that crap is entirely on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:21 AM
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Animals don’t have access to unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:07 AM
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Anal is the most submissive thing a woman can do for her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:57 AM
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This dude posts in teenagers and is trying to convince us he knows an Indian dude who told him he’s slept with 50 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:25 AM
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The average height guys aren’t the ones complaining about women’s preference on height. Short guys are. Most women will date a 5’9 guy, most women would not date a 5’6 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:02 PM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:45 AM
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You replied to a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:44 AM
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Nah, rich men are happy dating poor women. Rockstars are happy women working in retail. The opposite is usually never the case. You’ll very rarely hear a situation of a rich women dating a broke man for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:44 AM
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Just reply with “if it was rape, why were you wet”, then prepare for the backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:52 AM
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I’ve never met one, but you can find plenty on Twitter, usually the blue check mark people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:58 AM
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Sounds like someone didn’t even attempt to read any of the links he provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:45 PM
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I don’t know what you mean, I don’t really tend to hang out with these people. If I noticed these traits on a person, I usually don’t become their mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:53 PM
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It’s not really something i can address in a small paragraph, there’s hundreds of ways to measure it. For example; someone constantly talking about themselves and never asking about other people’s lives, showing overconfidence in a task they’re highly likely to fail at (then proceed to blame everything else except themselves), doesn’t believe they have flaws and aren’t willing to improve themselves (think obese women thinking they have beautiful bodies), unwilling to change their opinions, etc e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:43 PM
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Pride: noun. 1. a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:25 PM
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Definitions of ego; noun: an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others synonyms: egotism, self-importance Aka if someone says you have a “big ego”, you’re saying they perceive themselves to be full of their own importance, often associated with narcissistic tendencies, superiority complex, and being self absorbent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:11 PM
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It’s a ego thing, they want men with good bodies. At the same time they don’t want men who have a big ego and are showing off their bodies trying to say “Look at me I’m hot”. It’s why they hate mirror selfie’s, but are perfectly happy with a swimming pool/beach picture, despite them both essentially being the same thing. One just appears more “candid”, even though the guy chose that picture for the sole purpose of showing off his body. These men still get matches, much more than the average dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:35 AM
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This is more of a you thing than a thing obese women in general go through. Your average obese women isn’t going to be sleep eating. So all they have to do is eat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:43 AM
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https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ 39% in 2017 with no sign of slowing down. I can only imagine it’s hit 50% in the time of COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:22 PM
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Obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:39 PM
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If you go into a pub and meet women, they’re not going to see your drawing or guitar skills, that’s my point. Will it help in the long term? Definitely, it shows your a motivated man with hobbies that extend beyond watching Netflix. Will it help “Attracting women” like OP is asking, probably not no. Not unless you’re in a particularly specific circumstance where you get the chance to play the guitar or draw. No women is going to see your skills until they’re already inside your house. At that po…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:10 PM
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It’s a combination of aspects. Cons • Less attractive (exactly how less is also important) Pros • Stable, Marriage material, good father, if stable then possibly good income. The pros outweighs the cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:57 PM
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I’ve been trying to tell people on PPD for a while now, Tinder IS NOT just a “hookup” app anymore, lots of people I know have gotten into relationships thanks to Tinder. 90% of people I know use Tinder in the hopes of getting a relationship. 50% of all new relationships start out with OLD. Very rarely do I meet someone who uses tinder for casual hookups anymore. Yet I constantly have millennials on PPD try and convince me Tinder is a hookup app and isn’t used for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:54 PM
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Yes. Hypergamous is any “date up” situation. Not directly related to their looks/appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:41 PM
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That’s called nature and it smells lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:39 PM
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I am talking about all areas. In terms of things you can control in your life, having a good job and a uni degree has such a significantly small impact on a man’s ability to attract women that it’s quite literally not worth mentioning at all. Charisma and physique are so much more important, trying to claim the reason some men aren’t attracting women is due to their paycheck at the end of the month is laughable. Especially when you consider the fact that women will have decided if they want to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:42 PM
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Most of this doesn’t really matter. Lesser educated men get laid at a much higher rate than educated men. Your wage isn’t going to get you laid, not unless you’re considered “rich”, and depending on your job it could be a complete turnoff, no woman gets excited over a computer programmer for example, despite the fact they earn more than the average person. Weight/Exercise is the only thing on that entire list that you can reasonably change and is actually helpful in attracting women. If you‘re s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:29 PM
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Sure, but that’s not what OP said. I feel like people in this sub take what people say to extremes to try and make a point. The other comment also talked about collecting anime figurines which is also not what OP said. You can have multiple hobbies running at the same time, you’re not on the clock 24/7, you’re going to have some downtime when you get home, finish cooking/cleaning, and have nothing else to do. What you do at home when your alone during this time has practically no relevance on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:20 AM
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Do you think you’re date worthy Yes. If you were a woman, would you date the male version of yourself Yes. Are you actually a man that woman would want to have sex with? No. Can’t fix autism, height, and skin colour bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:44 PM
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OP never said anything about collecting anime figurines or Gundam models. There’s a big leap from liking anime casually to collecting anime figurines.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:55 PM
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Nobody is going to know you play games or watch anime, unless you tell them you play games and watch anime. A women will decide if she wants to sleep with you loooong before they even know you play games or watch anime. It honestly does not matter in the slightest. Sure, eventually any women you date is going to find out, games is usually passable, anime is going to be looked down at most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:39 PM
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This is why - https://youtu.be/KsWTFeP1hno At the end of the day, a 5’5 Asian man is always going to be a 5’5 Asian man, regardless of how much they may go the gym, wear nice clothes, eat right. No matter what they do, they’re always going to be competing with the average 5’10 white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:54 PM
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What has this got to do with OP’s question? And he never said men can’t settle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:17 AM
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I wouldn’t say he’s expecting government mandated girlfriends or that men are entitled to sex. I think he’s just tying to point out that a societal collapse is coming as people’s needs aren’t being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:38 PM
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That’s the same comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:24 PM
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Well would ya look at that fine specimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:04 PM
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If he’s a 6/10 then we’re all fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:03 AM
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I used to hang around !ncel subreddits back when they existed. Even I have never heard anyone say what you’re claiming some are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:47 AM
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Hello, beta orbiter here. Positive validation is better than no validation. I’d rather spend time hanging out with a friend rather then sitting alone at home doing nothing productive. As long as I’m not being used, what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:33 PM
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By fucking them you are validating them. You are literally risking becoming pregnant just so his dick can be in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:17 PM
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Trying to appear confident and dominant, How can you tell the difference between “appearing” confident and dominant, and just a man being confident and dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:12 PM
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Most men aren’t crackheads, or anything close to a crackhead...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:07 PM
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Women get off to erotica precisely because they’re not interested in your average male body. Erotica let’s them use their imagination instead. And most porn isn’t designed for female viewers in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:14 PM
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It depends how the stats for that was done. Are thousands of women opening an onlyfans, posted a few things, and hardly advertised part of that %? Or does it only include those who put effort in and have attempted to make something from it? It’s like saying less than 1% of youtubers make it past 10,000 subscribers. Are the youtubers who aren’t trying (like a good 90% of them) part of that statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:48 AM
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Chad Thirst. Did everyone hit their head and forget that women do indeed also like men and thirst over them?? https://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2014/06/19/mug-shot-of-convicted-stockton-felon-goes-viral-handsome-looks-attract-30000-facebook-likes-model-jeremy-meeks-operation-ceasefire-crime/?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:12 AM
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Therapy is great for ACTUAL mental health conditions, like schizophrenia, panic attacks, Body dysmorphia, dissociative disorder, drug or alcohol addiction, “hearing voices”, Psychosis, etc. You do not go to therapy because you’ve noticed women like big strong aggressive men instead of weak small passive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:01 AM
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You’re 19 who’s never had a gf, trying to tell a bunch of adults with actual life experience that they need therapy? Interesting deduction. What makes you think these people are wrong about their ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:57 AM
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I should’ve added “In your age-group” in my comment. You can always date 21 year olds, but at some point it’s going to look weird and you’ll get looks from practically everyone when you end up dating someone 10+ years younger than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:50 AM
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When you’re a 30 year old man, fat women and single mothers are 80% of your dating options. It’s no surprise they are brought up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:23 PM
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What standards do you look for in a man that they’re not currently meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:19 PM
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Back in 2017 it was 39% and shooting up like a rocket - https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ I can only imagine now during the time of COVID, it’s hit 50% or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:14 PM
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Fat woman: Fuck fatphobics I can do what i want when I want, I’m going to eat this cake and enjoy it! Skinny woman: Woo you go girl! Meanwhile the same skinny woman is keeping track of the calories so she doesn’t get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:45 PM
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Loved that Gillette one, as the very next day after releasing that video people just started throwing all of these photos out and other similar ones - http://www.shadolsonshow.com/2019/01/19/after-man-hating-tv-spot-gillette-caught-using-hot-female-ass-to-sell-razors/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:42 PM
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What counts as “Has always been happening” then? Because the stats clearly show that the bottom 15-50% of people were doing perfectly fine before. And now those exact same group of people now aren’t. Obviously something has changed, the same thing can’t have been happening, because if that’s true then nothing would change. It is not the same, whatever was happening 25 years ago is not continue to this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:07 PM
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Sexlessness rates have tripled from 15% or lower 25 years ago to almost 50% from a recent study. Online dating was practically non-existent. It is now the start of 50% of all relationships. Dating has absolutely changed and gotten much harder for everyone involved. There is no question about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:00 PM
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You’re either independent, or you want to be dependant on a man who’s a provider. You can’t do both. If you tell a man who wants to be a provider that you’re independent in every way, that’ll more likely turn him off than anything else. If you want a provider, then you’ll have to stop acting like an independent woman and let him take charge in most thing. Despite what Redpill and shit PPD says on here, letting a man wait for sex is fine so long as you’re actually a woman who does make ALL men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:55 AM
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”Partnered meaning married, living with a partner, or in a committed relationship.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:24 AM
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I can’t stress this enough, women really really just don’t care about money. Quite the opposite in my experience, if you tell women you’re a programmer it dies their pussy up faster than the Sahara desert. They care more about if you have a “high status” job, than what the job actually pays. They only care about money when you’re already somebody they want to date, when they’re ready to settle down, or you’re a millionaire. You attract women because you’re 6’ and 7/10. You could be wearing t-shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:56 AM
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You’ve just created an entire post that practically boils down to “just talk to women bro, just be rich bro, just exercise bro”. It’s the absolute bare bones bottom tier advice anyone could possibly give. It’s almost on par with the generic “Just be confident bro”. Too add to this, when you walk into a club, a woman isn’t going to know how much money you make or if you’re rich, she’s decided if she wants to date you long before she actually finds out how much money you’re worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:03 PM
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Alright. But the same stats also have to apply to women. The top 20% of men in their age group means 2% of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:02 PM
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I got mine from my mum who said to be nice to girls and buy her flowers. So...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:01 PM
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26, so I’m happy with 19-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:49 PM
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It’s not wrong. The data is just a full selection, from 18-50+, of what age group they find attractive. Regardless of the age group men are in, they all unanimously agree young women are attractive. Men aged 18-24 will only find 18-29 women attractive. Men aged 25-31 will find 18-34 women attractive. Men aged 32-39 will find 21-43 women attractive. Etc. So the data looks like men only like young women, and start hating on older women. In reality, it’s just that while every man likes younger wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:25 PM
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Alright, What’s your point? When I get older, my tastes for women will mature and I’ll gladly want to fuck 30-40 women too. It probably won’t be 80% anymore, but more likely 50% or so. If we take the ENTIRE population of women, then yes I’d only be interested in like 10% of women, the women of my age group. But you can say the same thing for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:57 PM
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I would fuck 80% of the women my age that I know. No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:37 AM
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Because it’s another way of shaming women for sleeping around. And the women who sleep around don’t like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:27 PM
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The higher your N-Count is means; More likely the relationship not working out. More likely you are to cheat on that relationship. More likely for a divorce. Less likely to be happy in the relationship. More likely to suffer from mental illness. And a few others, the main thing is higher N-Count is correlated with only negative traits, never positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:20 PM
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That’s like saying I’m not allowed to be hungry because starving Africans exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:09 PM
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Contrary to my profile, outside of anything related to “dating” I’m living a pretty successful life, got a good job, cosy house of my own, great group of friends I meet up with, going gym 3-4 days a week, eating healthy, and before COVID stuff was happening, I was going MMA and hiking regularly. I’m getting out and living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:07 AM
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$15 a month is hardly a “money drain”. In the UK, the average women spends £112.65 ($160) on their appearance monthly, £53.87 ($76.20) of that going onto her face alone. Source - https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/average-british-woman-spend-ps70000-appearance-lifetime-cosmetics-beauty-products-groupon-uk-a7623201.html?amp That to me is an absolute waste of money. Especially for the people who are claiming they’re living paycheck to paycheck. There’s one thing to spend money on som…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:54 AM
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According to new data, almost 50% of men in university are virgins. And you’re trying to claim the average man does pretty ok for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:43 AM
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My mom couldn’t care less My mom absolutely cares, she’s terrified that she’ll never be a grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:40 AM
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It is very rare for even an average dude to ever find a girl who’ll indicate that they like him. A 5’6 guy getting one from a taller woman? In my entire lifetime I’ve never heard of a single instance of this happening in my social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:37 PM
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That never happens though. It’s like asking “average guys, why don’t you just date girls who like you?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:35 PM
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No. It’s because after 30 women’s standards start lowering and they’ll start settling with average men who they wouldn’t have ever dated in their 20’s. What he has to offer has practically nothing to do with it. If that was the case then men who are stable in their 20’s would have an easy time dating, but that’s not what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:53 PM
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porn It’s free and instant access, why would anyone care? Sex phone workers and can girls Most do have an issue with guys who pay for these things, it’s pretty close to only fans level of pathetic. Onlyfans The bigger problem with only fans is that men receive what... a bunch of pictures and videos? You can get that with regular porn, for free. Without needing to pay money. When you already have unlimited access to porn. It’s an absolute waste of money. Strip Clubs The benefit of strip clubs is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:25 PM
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I’m 36 years old Enough said, the 80/20 rule is most relevant in the under 30 category. Beyond 30 years old is when dating becomes significantly easier for men to the point the 80/20 rule doesn’t really effect the average man all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:18 PM
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Because I’m not trying to date women who are dating older guys. I’m trying to date women who are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:28 AM
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Black thinks it’s a good 60% or more. Red thinks it’s closer to 20%-30%. Blue’s can be anywhere from 0%-20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:27 PM
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Majority of mass shooters are caused by regular everyday criminals with no political agenda to speak off. They happen almost daily. The ones you hear about on TV are just the special cases that happen. Which is usually related to school shootings or someone having a political agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:29 PM
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Wether you think it makes more sense for women to be more selective is irrelevant. Women become less selective, that is the simple fact, and it’s why men claim it’s easier for them to date in their 30’s than it ever was in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:23 PM
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Cool, that brings it from 0.001% to 0.009%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:36 AM
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That’s like saying being in the sun is the same as looking a picture of the sun on your computer screen. The difference is on a chemical level. Sex releases a bunch of hormones which activates chemicals like oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine, testosterone, etc. Masturbating doesn’t, it’s just a dopamine boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:50 AM
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I really couldn’t care less about the obese 45 year old woman on a scooter in Walmart is dating an obese 45 year old man on a scooter in Walmart. I care much more about what I, and my close friends, can realistically achieve within our own age group. Go to a grocery store, go to a restaurant, go to any social environment that attracts a crowd. You know what you are going to see most of the time. In my age group? The couples who are holding hands usually has the guy being a minimum of 5’10 while …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:35 AM
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Incels have been the cause of 0.009% of all mass shootings in the US. They’re over represented on the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:27 AM
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Not true, incels have caused 3 27 mass shootings since 2013, there have been over 2900 mass shootings since 2013. Using this, we can determine incels have been the cause of 0.001% 0.009% of all mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:25 AM
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Nah she’s right, look at your own group of male friends, most have had sex, most of them are also average. Sure some aren’t dating right now, but 1-4 years down the line they’ll find a new GF. They’ll be on a years long dry streak, but eventually they’ll get a a GF. Considering “average” is actually a 5’9-5’10 white guy, average is still pretty good. The ones that are virgins do indeed have something specific about them that’s stopping them, in my friends cases, one’s basically dropped out of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:52 AM
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Then those men have low standards. That’s all that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:16 AM
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Successful, fit and healthy, beautiful, kind, compassionate, basically every positive trait you could give a woman. For example, someone who’s considered 10/10 in her looks, but is a complete and utter asshole to everyone, I would absolutely not consider to be 10/10. And a 10/10 guy is not going to be with a complete and utter asshole, no matter how pretty she might be. Same sense, a 3/10 guy in looks, but is very rich and very famous, is no longer just a 3/10 dude because he’s got status and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:13 AM
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I never said anything about looks...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:01 AM
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When I say 5/10, 10/10 etc, it’s more than just looks, it’s taking everything into account, including personality. Maybe the 5/10 women does offer something, but it has to be something substantial that every other women more attractive, smarter, nicer, etc than you can’t compete with. That 5/10 woman really has to ask herself “What do I have that every other woman in this club doesn’t have for him to want to date me and not them”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:01 AM
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If you’re a 10/10 women asking for a 8/10 man or better. I would absolutely not call that high standards. If you’re a 5/10 women asking for a 8/10 man, then it is absolutely considered high standards. To me, something being high standards or not entirely depends more about who the person asking for those standards, rather than the standards themselves. A 10/10 women looking for a 8/10 man isn’t really “high standards” as she can very very easily get that with no effort. It’s actually pretty low …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:27 AM
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Depends entirely on what you’re considering is “high standard”. Are they unreasonable or reasonable, that changes how valid the complaining is, but will also change how “high” those standards actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:17 AM
6

Doesn’t RPW only advocate to date men who have their shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:08 AM
60

You can have high standards. Just stop complaining about people not meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:04 AM
7

She’s posted pictures of herself on her profile. She’s cute, but not 8-9 tier. She looks like every other girl you’ll find in a night-club at 3am. She really has to ask herself, why would a literal 9/10 model tier man date and settle for specifically her over literally any other girl in the night club.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:28 AM
6

This. If she doesn’t look like her face can be on a giant billboard for the next in line beauty product, then she’s not 8-9 material.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:10 AM
12

It just so happens that the amount of young men having a dry spell has doubled in the past 20 years from less than 14% to almost 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:24 PM
1

????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:42 PM
2

That is considered a relationship issue. Relationships include everything from friends to family to partners. Hence the “losing loved ones” part of my comment, that includes losing close family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:50 PM
2

There’s nothing inherently unique about it, men on average are more likely to suffer from loneliness than women. And thus you’ll hear more stories of men dealing with loneliness than you do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:49 PM
2

Found one source - https://www.amhf.org.au/research_confirms_5_uncomfortable_facts_about_young_male_suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:47 PM
12

I know a good 70-80% of suicides are directly related to “relationships”, this includes recent divorce, cheating wife/girlfriend, losing loved ones, being single, etc. The rest of the 20-30% are stuff like losing job, losing you savings, being homeless, health issues, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:23 PM
20

Humans are social creatures, they thrive from social contact, being loved is healthy for humans. Being unloved isn’t. When a human goes their entire life without being loved or validated, it’s a huge mental toll, hence why being “lonely” is such a bad thing. It’s not just men, women also suffer from loneliness. Just check the /r/foreveralone subreddit for proof of that. Trying to make this a “Man only” problem is ignorant. Anybody can suffer from loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:11 PM
26

He just did, attractiveness values in men and women are almost identical. The only difference is women find 7.5/10 guys unattractive while men find 5/10 women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:37 AM
3

Ooh. I‘m not saying men should look like bodybuilders, just saying to be lean and muscular. Not like a boxer or a power lifter, just look like you‘re fit and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:46 PM
5

Rejecting people still makes those people options, they’re just options you didn’t choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:41 PM
4

So you’d be happy with a regular sized guy who didn’t exercise but still ate healthy, while you work out and go the gym every other day? If that’s right, you’re quite literally the very first women I’ve ever seen say this, most women who workout tend to also want their guy to workout too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:29 PM
11

30 year old women have less options than they did at 20 years old. 30 year old men, ESPECIALLY the ones that didn’t let themselves go, now have substantially more options than they did at 20 years old. But 30 year old women still have more options than 30 year old men. That has never changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:28 PM
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No one said they don’t have options. They just have less options, and the options they have are arguably less attractive than the ones they used to have. That’s what us meant by the wall. No one is claiming women never have options, they always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:10 PM
12

Most women in their early 20’s aren’t looking for Drs, Lawyers, Engineers, etc. They’re looking for hot attractive men. The idea is when women get older, they’re less likely to attract the hot attractive men, so they settle down with more stable men like Drs, Lawyers, and Engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:42 PM
13

The thing you’re looking for is Status. A person who got strong through football, soccer, or some other sport, is usually correlated with high status at the same time, you don’t become a great football player and have low status at the same time. If you become a great football player, you become popular with the team, which in turn makes you well respected by other well respected people, aka high status. Everybody loves the guy that everybody else loves. If you’re in a football team, that gives …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:38 PM
15

They want someone to be naturally lean and muscular. The opposite conveys 2 things You actively work out and have a healthy lifestyle, which is very offputting to people who want to be healthy but don’t have the willpower required to do it. You talking about how much you workout and keep healthy is just another way of telling other people how they could have worked out and be healthy, but of course they didn’t so they resent you for that. Women don’t want a man who’s strong and lean due to hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:02 PM
5

Men respect other men who have put in the work and effort required to obtain those muscles. They might not “respect” a women with muscles for a few reasons, maybe they themselves find them attractive, but unobtainable (out of their league), so they say nothing. Or maybe they don’t like women with muscles so they don’t compliment them. Women don’t really care about muscles unless it’s attached to someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:58 PM
2

A woman has never bought me anything, ever, even including birthdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:33 AM
22

There’s basically nothing a 5’5 balding man can do to look hot unless he already had a handsome face to start with. If he wasn’t born with a handsome face? He’ll still be a 5’5 bald dude, only difference is he’s now ripped and an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:31 AM
12

Same. Multiple times I’ve heard “I’ve only ever been with tall guys” too. Sure, they’re not saying they won’t date short guys. But the pattern is there and clear as day, and I’ve also never heard a women say “I’ve only ever dated short guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:28 PM
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Usually the person who falls for the scam gets blamed for being dumb enough to fall for the scam. Ya the scammer did illegal shit, but the blame still falls on the guy who fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:43 PM
2

Never in my life have I heard someone blame the scammer for scamming people. When someone gets scammed, the blame Immediately falls on the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:40 PM
2

If I get scammed and lose $1000, who’s responsible for that? Me or the scammer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:50 PM
2

I just read the title then assume everything based of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:04 PM
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Women are likewise attracted to young beautiful men Unless they’re cougars, that’s not the case, women usually like men their age or older, whereas men usually prefer young women regardless of their own age. The rest of your text goes on about how men are “aiming for the top” or other stuff that simply does not exist, I feel you’ve greatly misunderstood the struggles your average straight man goes through and are casually blaming it on their own standards without bothering looking into things. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:33 PM
2

The red pill DOES NOT tell you to orbit a women for a full year 3 months until she settles into you. This is absolutely not Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:44 PM
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’Status’ (whatever the fuck that means) Basically popularity, how popular is he outside of your friendship/relationship, do a lot of other people like him? Do other women find him attractive? Do most people want to and are excited to talk to him? It’s basically how much people like them in general, someone with low status is that guy who sits on the couch alone while petting the dog in the middle of a house party. Someone with high status will be the guy everyone wants to talk to and probably th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:28 PM
3

Young and physically beautiful. These are not attributes you become. You are either physically beautiful, or not. 9/10 times, the only requirement needed to fulfil becoming “physically beautiful” is being a healthy weight and good makeup. And even the good makeup part is debatable. It is very very rare to actually find a fit women who’s also ugly at the same time. Unless you’ve massively lost the genetic lottery, simply being fit is enough. Being physically beautiful is absolutely possible to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:43 PM
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There are no fat slobs getting laid left to right just because they’re tall Hahahahaha, this is funny because the biggest slayer I know who’s n-count is well over 15+ now is obese. Granted, 50% of the women he’s slept with have also been obese, but that still leaves the other 50% who aren’t. Why? He’s charismatic and 6’2. There is NO chance he’d have the same results if he was 5’6. Absolutely 0 chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:38 PM
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A man’s worth is defined by other people’s view of him. If everyone woman thinks a certain man is low value, then he is low value. Regardless of what he himself believes his own value to be. If I feel myself to have good value, but no one else agrees, then do I actually have good value?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:30 PM
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You’re proving my point without realising it. Mark Zuckerberg can get women, not because he’s a talented programmer, but because of his money and status, nobody cares if he can program a website. They care that he’s famous, rich, and high status. A Mark Zuckerberg who ended up getting a normal programming job, but still worth millions, would not attract women in the same way he could now, solely down to nothing more than his status. Looks does not give status Halo effect. Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:49 PM
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It really doesn’t. If a person is low status, they’re low status for a reason. Wether it be due to bad looks, awful charisma, or something just wrong in general. You can’t have low status, and be an attractive charismatic man who gets along with everyone, at the same time. No Women aren’t horny for the nerd playing the violin, just because he can play the violin well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:08 PM
3

Disagree. Someone with high status but no talent, over the talented violinist with no status. Who would win? One has such a higher chance of getting women’s attention than the other. Due to their status, not their talent. Money + Status faaaar over Money + talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:50 PM
11

5% body fat and a douche nozzle gets 100x more women than the 50% fat ALL DAY LONG it’s not even a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:44 PM
2

According to the replies I’m getting, yes. Meanwhile a girl just has to... be nice. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:44 AM
2

just know 15 women that’ll show up to a party you host bro not hard bro You’re asking for the impossible. Someone who’s not good with women will not know 15 women who’ll join their party. Someone who’s already good with women will, but they’re already good with women so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:36 AM
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Same, I’m in perfect shape, go the gym, eat healthy. If I’m competing against men with that “average” women. I’m dropping out the dating scene entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:24 AM
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That’s exactly my point, average is not good enough, they have to be everything you described and more. Your average man has to be attractive and have an attractive personality. Your average women does not. Yet it’s your average women who blames men for not being better than average for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:56 PM
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Which sorta proves my point, if women don’t like average men who talk to them averagely, then by extension, their standards are higher than the average man is. Being average, and treating women like normal people, simply isn’t enough. You have to go beyond that and “push their buttons” like TRP suggests. Which in turn must mean they have high standards which is blocking out your average man. Do men have these same standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:45 PM
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Average men are average at talking to women I.E not impressive You’ve just proven my point. Women don’t want average, they don’t want normal men, they want above average men despite being average themselves. Then whenever I point out this contradiction, it’s actually all men’s fault for being average and talking in a regular fashion. It’s men that have to go beyond that and do better just to attract your normal average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:36 PM
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What exactly counts as “good at talking to women”. Almost every man I know can speak to women just fine. They’re just human, women aren’t these mystical aliens you where you need to say the secret code to unlock their tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:25 PM
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What’s more realistic. Almost every man you meet being an awful partner or an abuser. Women’s standards being high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:23 PM
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Nah, you’re absolutely right. Most men I meet are perfectly normal human beings. It’s very rare for me to actually meet an asshole, and when it does happen, I basically stop talking to them and move on with my life. Yet I come onto the internet and single women everyone push all of the blame of being single on all of these asshole men they meet everywhere. It’s simply not the case. The perfectly normal men just aren’t good enough for them, that’s all it comes down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:06 PM
3

Seeing as we have a population of almost 8 billion now, I’m absolutely fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:53 PM
5

Because it’s easier to say “I’m fine dying alone” when you’re 26 and are you’re still getting tons of attention from men every time you go the club. Because they don’t actually believe they’ll die alone, they’re very confident they’ll find a man with those requirements. It’s easy to claim that you don’t care about the bad thing happening to you when you know for a fact that the bad thing will never happen to you. Do you think they would be as confident as they are if they were getting basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:40 PM
3

The issue is how vague everything is, it can either include most men, or no men at all, solely based on how someone reads it. Similar values, likes pets, can make compromises, emotionally stable, supportive, honest, caring, patient to my quirks Safe to say, most people have this. The rest are vague enough where it’s hard to gauge exactly what she’s looking for, is she looking for something unreasonable or an absolute minimum? Take “cares about environment”, what does that actually mean, does she…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:34 PM
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and if you’re ok with that 95% of people are not ok with never dating anybody and dying alone. It is not a win/win situation. That’s when you end up with the “crazy cat lady” or “cool wine aunt” stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:11 PM
1

HIGHLY depends on the country you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:14 AM
5

Anything positive about a women will increase their chances of a LTR. Is it required? Not really, she doesn’t need to make jokes or be funny, she just needs to have a sense of humour. But it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:16 PM
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She gets all of that regardless. It’s like telling a rich person they’re not entitled to money...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:36 PM
7

It’s OK to simp over a person who you love, and who also loves you back. It’s NOT ok to simp over a person who doesn’t love you back. It’s NOT ok to simp over a person you don’t love, but are just horny for. Sadly. There’s too many people in the 2nd and 3rd category that ruin it for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:13 PM
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That’s because 80% of men are seen as below average when only 50% of women are. So if an actual 6/10 man dates a 5/10 women, the women is still seen as more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:39 AM
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For those who don’t know, this is a copypasta - https://imageproxy.ifunny.co/crop:x-20,resize:640x,quality:90x75/images/2c833f69526021ea7f6f928cd1aeca9f6babfbc8589ccf7cb929639c9ece730e_1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:50 AM
4

Despite the fact white people encompass 75% of all reddit users, only 50% of all incels were white. That sounds underrepresented to me. Almost every mass shooting has absolutely nothing to do with sex or relationships. Here’s a fun fact, you’re more likely to commit a violent crime if you’ve had sex over people who are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:10 AM
1

That’s like saying men are either chad or virgin. That’s now what that meme means, that meme is just a stereotype of two different women, from a list of 100’s of different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:52 AM
3

Going the gym, climbing, hiking, playing an instrument, dancing, archery, baking, volunteering etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:47 AM
2

!ncels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:43 AM
3

Same. The thing is, he would look really good if he was on a cut. Suddenly it’ll go from “He barely works out” to “Wow he’s got a swimmers body” just by losing 10kg of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:08 PM
5

Being skinny makes you look skinny, not a like a swimmer. Source: I was 50kg at one point in my life as a 5’7 man, my body WAS NOT a swimmers body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:58 PM
2

He’s not below average, you do know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:44 AM
5

You’re lying to yourself when you say you were below average. And I would never ever consider you short, you are quite literally 1 inch lower than the National average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:28 PM
14

You’re a slightly above average guy who improved to become very above average guy. I get hit on quite often in school and work This is not the normal male experience. You are a top 30% man trying to tell the bottom 30% of men how they’re crap for not improving themselves. Despite the fact most of us are improving ourselves and still haven’t had any success. Doesn’t matter if you’re poor, awkward, no education, not taught how to be social So what matters is looking good, which is out of most peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:23 AM
2

I play a bit of tabletop, I love it, gives me an actual reason to leave the house and speak to actual humans face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:10 PM
12

Exactly, I tried quitting gaming once, I just ended up watching movies/tv shows instead. Nothing changed besides the fact I just didn’t play games anymore. You have to quit for a reason, quitting games (and even porn) just for the sake of quitting it, isn’t going to do anything at all except make you more bored than you already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:36 PM
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Most men aren’t simps. But there’s so many obvious simps out there that it feels like most men are simps. They’re more like the loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:17 PM
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I never mentioned casual sex... Relationships exist as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:11 PM
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Most dating apps now have racial and height filters. If a woman really wanted to, she could literally only look for 6’1 or taller white men, that’s that done, for the rest of her dating career she doesn’t even need to glance at anyone else. Why would you ever, ever, choose an average man, when there’s streams of 6’1 white men ready to match and date you with the swipe of your finger? Nah, it’s those pesky porn and video games that are making more single men!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:03 PM
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I can tell you right now I would not be sitting around playing video games if I had a relationship. I quite frankly wouldn’t have the time to and it would be the first thing I’d drop to make more time. I sit around and play video games BECAUSE I’ve been plenty unsuccessful with women, have literally nothing better to do with my time. Especially during this pandemic. I still make time to go to every social situation that exists. Video games, and other similar stuff, are an escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:18 AM
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Most single men I know aren’t fucking. At all. For years on end. That’s what is meant by undesirable. No, that is not normal, that is very abnormal. While technically by definition they’re a minority, they still represent a good 20-30% of all young men which is a huge amount. That’s almost every 1 in 3 guys you meet are sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:58 AM
3

If he’s interested, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:05 PM
1

And drugs is one of the largest industries in the world. That doesn’t mean drugs are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:08 PM
7

The higher your IQ, the more likely you are to be sexually inexperienced. http://pepsic.bvsalud.org/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S1413-389X2012000100004 Specifically, the likelihood of being inexperienced drastically increases above 120 IQ. High IQ is not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:26 AM
5

There’s not many women looking for short foreign balding dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:47 PM
3

Gay people exist. Doesn’t mean men can live their lives ignoring women and fucking guys. Being asexual is a massive outlier that it should be completely disregarded when it comes to normal relationships. You’re basically saying “well, people with 0 libido exist, that means you can exist with 0 libido too”, it doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:29 AM
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If sex was important people would hire hookers. They don’t want sex, they want validation for their existence from a person they’re attracted too, who is also attracted to them. Sex is just the greatest validation a man can receive from a women they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:27 AM
3

Having a shit life is even worse for your mental health. Almost every person I know who suffer from some sort of mental illness all have the exact same lifestyle choices in common, rotting in a room eating shit all day and getting fat. I know they exist, but I’ve yet to meet a person who does exercise, stay healthy, eat good food, and gets out in the sun regularly, to also have a mental health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:19 AM
1

Requires a ton of hard work and discipline, something most average men don’t have. I’ve tried my best trying to get friends to go the gym and they just don’t care, they’d rather sit indoors getting fat eating ice cream than ever go the gym again. All I get is “Nah that’s not for me” or just a simple “I hate exercising”. How do you convince someone to start doing something they hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:16 AM
5

You’re comparing an individual opinion to a generalisation. To the general population, as in just asking random people on the street, a 30 year old who owns action figures, reads manga, watches anime, and plays video games, is undoubtably seen as a man child to the general population. You personally seeing him as an adult doesn’t change this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:47 PM
1

According to tiktok’s “What do you want in a man” trend, “Tall” was literally on almost every women’s checklist. This is absolutely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:05 PM
2

People tend not to ask because they’re afraid of the answer and rather live in ignorance. If it really, truly was of 0 importance and nobody “cared”, then it would be no different from asking what’s your favourite colour or if they’ve ever been to Spain before. But instead, almost everybody doesn’t know their own partners N-count and they’re too afraid to find out the answer to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:30 AM
1

If 1 in 100 men send every women a dick pic, then every woman has received a dozens of dick pics. This makes women think most men are sending dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:25 AM
3

Same, at the end of the day I’m still a 25 year old playing games, watching cartoons, playing make-believe, and having no girlfriend. Doesn’t really matter if I have a successful career, eat healthy, go the gym, stay clean, etc etc. Anybody who isn’t into these hobbies is still going to think “he’s a man child that hasn’t grown up yet”. No one has ever lambasted my hobbies or interests except for one girlfriend I had She’s just the one brave enough to say anything. Doesn’t mean others aren’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:20 AM
3

Porn has its own set of issues such as porn addiction, it definitely warps what they were originally expecting from a relationship, but it doesn’t increase their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:24 AM
1

Women’s requirements: I want a man with genetics that only 15% of the entire male population is born with. Men’s standards: ya if she’s healthy, shaves, and has a trait that applies to like 95% of all women, that’s cool. No, they’re not the same, stop being obtuse on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:15 AM
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Short or long term, looks matter more. There is no “long term” if you can’t get your foot In the door in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:44 PM
3

We surround ourselves around people we’re similar to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:23 PM
5

Personal antidote, I know 3 women who have cheated, and 0 men who have cheated. This is coming from a guy who knows well over 100 men my age and probably less than 25 women my age. Mid 20’s. If the men do cheat, they’re good at keeping it a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:12 AM
1

When you can have any pussy you want, you no longer care about any of them, it gets boring after a while. So you start seeking an actual partner, something more than just another pussy to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:03 AM
9

Makeup and fashion is one of the biggest industries in the world. How are they going to sell if they don’t brainwash women into thinking they absolutely need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:35 AM
3

Can confirm, the women who I know that loves tattoos is also mentally ill and a drug addict. The other woman flirts with other men when her boyfriends not around and is trying to open their relationship. The correlation I’ve noticed makes me hate tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:28 AM
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I also wouldn’t date Megan Fox. This means literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:51 PM
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Sure, instead of 99% of women happy with your height, it’s now 80%, 70%, 50%. Meanwhile 5’1 dude is trying to find the 2% that are happy with his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:48 PM
2

You sound like you came straight from /r/ihavesex I’d say 99% of people here aren’t trying to fuck as many women as possible to fill a hole. Most are just looking for a relationship, others just fuck for the fun of it. Most people understand this, then you come out of no where with a throwaway account going “guys I’ve had sex with tons of women!!! But don’t do it it’s not good”. Why throwaway anyway?
/r/seduction07/05/21 12:50 PM
8

I think he’s trying to say, in the past women had to AT LEAST have connections with other rich people/celebrities to meet these celebrities, having connections like that is part of what made them a high tier women in the first place. As in it’s very rare for a girl who works as a cashier in Walmart meeting and fucking celebrities. Nowdays, any random women, as long as she’s hot enough, can match and fuck Ben Affleck himself, regardless of who she is, who she knows, or what she does as a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:21 PM
4

What part of his views do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:51 PM
34

He’s not red pill, he’s not blue pill either. He’s lobster pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:52 AM
2

It’s fun, because we’re biologically wired for sex to be fun, because biology wants us to reproduce. We have not and never have evolved past the animalistic instinct, and it’s laughable to believe we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:50 AM
4

You’re absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:30 AM
1

That’s average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:24 AM
1

No it’s not, it literally originated from the fat rights movement as a reaction to other people making fun of fat people. It was created with the main purpose of stopping other people making fun of fat people. It then evolved into body positivity to allow anyone of any body to participate. humans have evolved past the animalistic instinct to reproduce at all costs The only way I will EVER believe this is if people stopped fucking. Or in better terms, stopped looking for a relationship entirely. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:18 AM
1

To start with, the heights are wrong. 165 = 5’5, 170cm = 5’7, yet it’s claiming 171cm = 5’6 and 165 = 5’4. So they’re not as small as they’re pretending they are. Secondly, the 9th smallest k-pop singer in the entire industry is above average height for their county. Which leaves every other Male k-pop singer in the entire industry to be above average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:09 AM
17

and men find other men just as unattractive Ya I’m gonna need a source for that. Because from what I know, this isn’t true in the slightest. Women just have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:25 PM
1

I feel like it’s literally just an American thing, I’ve never heard of anything like it happen in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:23 PM
4

Waaa I’m forever alone, my last relationship was years ago and I’ve been on all these dates with all of these men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:19 PM
11

Waaa I’m forever alone, my last relationship was years ago and I’ve been on all these dates with all of these men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:19 PM
18

Women rate 80% of men unattractive, That’s literally the only reason you believe the women is often more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:17 PM
36

Reminder that /r/detrans is 95% FtMtF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:10 PM
1

Not really, i know multiple women like that. Not that rare...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:39 AM
6

This, basically all cuckold relationships is one women with two men. It’s almost always the women that want to have an open relationship. The men having multiple girls is mostly just a casual dating thing. A man actively dating and marrying multiple women at the same time is pretty rare if we ignore religious marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:21 PM
11

You only need 4 women for every 1 Chad for 80% of women to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:17 PM
1

So... you’re not dating a broke man. You’re just dating a man who makes less money than you. How are you a unicorn again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:06 PM
1

I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:44 AM
1

I don’t, I never said I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:43 PM
15

It’s this simple, close this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:22 PM
4

It doesn’t matter if you, yourself, is happy. The simple fact is the average women is unhappier now more than ever, both in terms of general happiness and suicide rates. Wether that’s down to having financial freedom, capitalism, dating market, relationships, or some other reason, they’re becoming more unhappier at a record pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:16 PM
1

This doesn’t mean you don’t look for looks. This could very very easily mean you look for both looks and personality, we don’t know who your crushes are/what they look like, so we can only take a wild guess and come to the conclusion they’re probably not short, foreign, and ugly. And if they were short and ugly. They suddenly wouldn’t have been one of your crushes, despite his personality being the same, because he’s no longer attractive enough. This is what we think when we hear a woman say the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:33 AM
2

Men‘s dating problems stem mostly from women rejecting them, thus men think women’s high standards are the issue. Automatically, they think YOU are part of the problem, regardless of any sympathy you try to give them. Your sympathy means nothing when it’s believed that you’re the cause of the issue. For an extreme example, imagine a billionaire talking to a homeless man and saying “you’re right, it sucks for poor people”, then getting into a helicopter and flying away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:59 AM
3

“Where are all the good men” women are rejecting majority of men due to their high standards. “Nice guys finish last” guys are getting rejected by majority of women due to them not being attractive enough to women. They’re two completely different problems with two completely different solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:53 AM
1

You make it sound like finding someone who won’t rape you is almost impossible without FBI level of investigation. It’s really not that hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:04 PM
2

That that point it starts to depend on face more, is she still cute even at that weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:14 AM
1

Even 35% is alright for me, 40%+ is too much though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:10 AM
16

Fat single mothers still get sex and relationships. Incels are in a league of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:08 AM
2

The men pressuring women for sex aren’t the same as the lonely beta men who just want to be loved and validated. The one pressuring for sex mostly just wants sex with a girl he personally knows, as some form of accomplishment. You’re comparing rebel Brad around the street corners to poor innocent Wilbert who bought a girl flowers. Two completely different men with two completely different outlooks on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:03 AM
8

True, and we avoid being stabbed by our partner by simply not dating people who stink of red flags. I fail to see your comment as anything other than paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:45 AM
7

I remember that one, she ended up with a 6’+ tall dude because she purposely swiped left on any guy who didn’t have 6’ in their bio. Meanwhile the average man gets 1 match every 10 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:43 AM
11

Fucking hell, and how many people do you personally know that we’re murder victims?!? It’s like me saying “Nearly 80% of people who get attacked on the street are men” and using that as proof that men should be scared of walking outside. It’s such a statistical unlikelihood that it’s not even worth bringing up. It’s like being scared of getting into a car crash, yet you manage to drive a car everyday just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:23 AM
5

It’s more of an average comparison thing. 5’10 with broad shoulders or 6’1 with small shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:12 PM
1

Yes, they are? What kind of reply is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:45 PM
4

Religion was simply humans natural reaction for the question “Why do we exist, what happens when we die?”. Even uncivilised tribes had the “River spirit” as the cause for pregnancy. Overtime it became the building block to control the population and easily create laws/culture for the country. For example, it’s easy to get an army to fight your battles if you just tell them you get to go to Valhalla if you die in battle. But nowadays we can take the moral and ethics and still leave the religion b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:08 PM
5

Nothing. The west is already full of atheists/agnostics and they’re doing fine. And even in a world where people believed in a god there was still a fuck ton of crime happening, so it’s not like people don’t commit crimes in fear of a god. There would be a few suicides but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:41 PM
1

Christina Hendricks She’s looking good for a 45 year old, 9/10. Billie Eilish Not my type in the slightest, 4/10. Kate Upton Another 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:16 PM
2

Do you die if you don’t have any friends or family?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:43 PM
2

Being a “strong women” isn’t about physical strength, fuck 70% of women are overweight I highly doubt most of them care about their physical strength. Being a “Strong independent women” is about having a competitive personality which allows them to do what they want to do without the fear of sticking to feminine gender norms. It’s not about trying to physically overpower a weak man, it’s about portraying that she’s a better person than him and she’s out of his league. Hence why height isn’t an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:41 PM
3

Ya never heard of Oxytocin before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 01:41 PM
1

I personally feel happier after a shower/haircut/nice clean clothes. But that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 01:40 PM
7

Weak men Weak men, Betas, LVM, any men that women don’t get sexually excited for. Did they grow up as little girls hoping they don’t grow tall. No, they just hope to find a man bigger/stronger than them. Regardless of their height. How does inferiority play out if a bigger man comes along Hypergamy, they will either cheat on the husband or they don’t, depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 01:36 PM
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They want to be stronger than all the weak men, but weaker/smaller/submissive to their boyfriend/husband. It’s that simple, don’t overthink this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:55 PM
3

I chose 5’5 for men and 4’11 for women as they’re both equally as likely as each other. Yet one wipes out 80% of all potential partners and the other doesn’t make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:51 PM
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Facial features Barely matter, give me a healthy weight girl with a meh face and I’ll show you 100’s of equally unattractive men who’ll line up to date her at a drop of a heartbeat. Size of tits ABSOLUTELY DO NOT MATTER IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM. There are tons of men that actually prefer small tits. /r/tinytits doesn’t have 670,000 subscribers for nothing. Height proportions Unless your girl is in the extreme ends like 6’2 or 4’5, most men don’t care too much about height. Sure, both men and women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:33 PM
29

I think I can explain this a bit. It lingers around the blue pill mindset. Aka for the “Betas” of the world. It’s no so much “young love” or “highschool” specifically that makes you feel like you missed out. It’s the fact that high school/collage is really the only point in your life where women would be dating you... for you. She’s not dating you for your job/money, she’s not dating you for finance, she’s not dating you so her kid can grow up with a dad, she’s not dating you because you’re that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:41 AM
4

The people who say the bar is set low and ARE NOT joking, are the same people only looking for the top 5% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:13 AM
2

I remember hearing a story where an MMA instructor told men of similar size to grab and hug the women, and the women to do everything in their power to escape. None of the women could even hope to squeeze out. His point was to teach the women to be realistic with what they could actually achieve, despite multiple years of training MMA, the average women there couldn’t even escape the arms of men of similar size.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:03 PM
4

You sure it’s your shyness putting men off and not literally anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:42 AM
15

If you’re attractive and the girl wants to date you, she’ll make it extremely easy for you to date her. You do not need any sort of texting game to set a date with a girl. All he has to say is “Coffee this Friday?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:38 AM
1

I’ve been on this subreddit for over 5 years now, I already know nothing of the sort exists. Nobody here in this comment section has said it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:49 PM
2

Please link me to ONE single comment in this entire subreddit that’s been upvoted, that states men will never reject a women. If that’s the common sentiment, then it shouldn’t be hard to find one upvoted comment that says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:32 PM
2

There’s no point to be made, nobody has ever claimed “No men would reject ANY women”, nobody has ever said women can’t get rejected, nobody has ever said men don’t have requirements. The common sentiment is “most average men low standards to the point they’re happy with any healthy weight normal women.” And if you saw her other comment, even with her being alt, pink hair, mental illness, she still had a 50% success rate in asking out men. With the other 50% including men already in relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:24 PM
3

Not really, the men getting plenty of casual sex, or are looking for casual sex, aren’t your average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:20 AM
3

I don’t know how to say “You’re not normal” without it coming across as douchey. I don’t mean it in a bad way, she’s just not what comes to mind when you think average normal women, being perceived as “different from normal” will turn off men, which was the point I’m trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:24 AM
1

Your post suggests you’ve only recently went back to dark brown hair after having it pink for possibly over a year. There’s also nothing shallow about not wanting to date an alt girl, in the same way most men don’t want to date emo girls. It’s a culture that they may not be able to interact well with. My bad on the BPD, they’re two very different things, I retract my statement about that. I don’t understand why you’ve snapped at me for saying something wrong, if I’ve made a mistake just say I ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:18 AM
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It’s about pretending to be, which is the same difference. “Fake it till you make it” comes to mind. If you want to be confident, you have to start pretending you’re confident until you eventually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:35 AM
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When we say men’s standards are low, we mean most men are happy with a generic kind average women. Your profile suggests your an alt girl with pink hair and bi-polar disorder, I wouldn’t call you a normal woman personally. These three things alone will turn off a lot of men, which is good for you as it means it’s easier to find a guy you’ll be happier with in the long term, but it does mean you’ll be getting rejected more than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:30 AM
8

Height has no meaning beyond being tall or short. Doesn’t tell you who they are, what they’re like, what actions they’re willing to take, how charismatic they are, how secure they are, how much work they’re willing to put in, their diet, their morals, their ethics, etc. It’s literally just the difference between a few inches of bone, any person willing to disregard an entire person for something like a few inches of bone difference is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:31 AM
1

This. Being over 30 didn’t change anything, HVM pump and dump, regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:26 PM
6

Being skinny and eating fast food is still healthier than being obese and eating fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:04 PM
3

Men date overweight women. It’s obese women they avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:21 AM
1

Is there even that many people here? There was a thread on PPD the other day about how men and women can’t be friends, and almost every single comment basically boiled down to “No you’re wrong”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:17 PM
1

What would you rate Tom Cruise out of 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:37 PM
4

most women would be more attractive with bigger breasts That’s your subjective viewpoint. There’s hundreds of thousands of men who’d prefer smaller tits, for example NSFW /r/tinytits NSFW and the likes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:27 PM
7

There is no equivalent. No matter what traits you pick from a woman and try to compare man’s height, you’ll find countless men who just don’t care as long as it’s not too extreme on either end. Either you’ll find countless men who don’t care about the trait, or the trait in question is changeable (such as weight).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:22 PM
7

Being attracted to a woman doesn’t mean you’re down to dating and fucking them. You can find other people attractive and be monogamous at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:06 PM
1

You’ll end up in a /r/niceguys situation where men who know how to tease and flirt with women will get the women while the guy trying to be nice and respectful isn’t exciting or fun enough to date. You’ve have better luck getting with women by being an annoying tease than you would being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:40 AM
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LVW’s are usually just obese women with nothing going for them. That’s about it. What is there to talk about? 90% of LVW could lose weight and suddenly jump up to 6/10, that’s all it would take. It’s not as interesting to talk about when compared to LVM, who could seem to have their whole lives under control, but still fail to attract women due to controversial topics that seem to get red pilled men, FDS, etc hamster balls rolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:08 PM
1

If some heavy physical labour is needed, I’m going to choose the average man to do the job over the average woman every day. For the fact that he’s a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:34 PM
1

I was mainly focused on the guy you originally replied too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:25 AM
1

Of course, but we’re talking about putting on muscle. With the assumption we’re already at a healthy BMI, no weight to lose if you’re not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:02 PM
1

Over 6’1 and white, understandable have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:53 AM
1

Wait until I’m over 30 years old so my dating pool has expanded to the point I have a good chance of meeting someone who’s into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:58 PM
7

Exactly. The guy you replied to literally says “being fit doesn’t mean you’re good looking” as a reply to Lillth’s “how they’re super fit and get keep only attracting fat women”. Then you started talking about the average man. Being fit, by itself, doesn’t make you attractive. He is 100% correct in his statement, wether or not the average guy can become attractive by being fit isn’t what he was trying to tell OP. He’s trying to say the reason these super fit men are getting attention from only f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:23 PM
1

Then my sisters dogs are taking turns and raping each other for dominance every few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:52 AM
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if you take the average guy You’ve missed the point, the guys who are Fit and are saying how they’re not getting any attention are not or ever were average guys. Muscles are a multiplier to your overall current attractiveness, if you’re already short, brown, and ugly, muscles aren’t going to help all that much in comparison to a 5’10 white average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:49 AM
0

Sex, height, and race? I’m in his position, always skinny, went gym, put on gains, got good shirts/jeans that fit, and nothing is different. In terms of dating, literally nothing changed. My male friends compliment my physique but that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:40 AM
0

STD’s and Starfish. They’re very rarely going to experience sexual violence. And basically never experience pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:19 AM
0

“Dads who ask for custody” Only if the mum DOESN’T want the kid. Which is very rarely the case. If both the mum and the dad wants custody of the kid, it’ll go to trial, only to be given to the mum anyway assuming they’re both equally as fit to raise the child. Knowing this, dad’s aren’t going to waste thousands on legal fees just to fight and ultimately fail, If the mum didn’t want the kid, she would have gotten an abortion, meaning there is no child to give to the dad. Whereas if the dad didn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:39 PM
1

I don’t think anybody has claimed single men get more sex, who have you been talking to? The general census is half of married men years into the marriage eventually get to a point years where they stop having sex, usually followed by a divorce shortly afterwards. The other half? Probably doing fine. Thanks for the source though, that massive jump from 18-24 to 24-34 is staggering to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:12 PM
2

”most men, over 50%, got weekly sex” Source? Even literal chads I know don’t even get weekly sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:42 PM
1

That’s just something people used to say to explain away why male mammals fucked each other so they didn’t need to accept that bisexual actual exists in humans as well. “Being bisexual isn’t normal and doesn’t exist” give them a billion results of it happening in the wild “They’re just dominating each other sweetie, they’re not actually bisexual lol 😂”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:46 AM
0

Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:34 AM
-1

Almost every mammal in the animal kingdom fuck their own sex, you rarely ever see a “straight” mammal. Just look at dogs, put two Male dogs in a room and given enough time they’ll start fucking each other. We, as straight men, were never brought up in an atmosphere where being “gay” or “bi” was ever seen as normal or appropriate. Comparatively, the ancient Greeks did, and we know a large amount of them was pretty bi due to growing up on a culture where it was normal to be bi. So we never really …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:56 PM
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I’ve been saying this for years, most women want women in media to be sexy, they want to relate to the sexy but also strong woman. The only time this isn’t true is when you got overweight/obese women complaining about “unrealistic beauty standards” or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:36 PM
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Because she’s not actually happy and was just told to smile for the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:33 PM
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Women like muscles, just not on a random dude in the middle of the street they’ve never met before. If they met a guy at a party after the guy walked up to her, then she’ll see the muscles and think “he’s (more attractive than he would have been without muscles)”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:27 PM
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Are they? He’s just a guy, who is also muscular. Why would they peek? I can promise you, as a guy with muscles, women do not care if a random guy has muscles. Which is the entire point of the comic. Yes, women do like muscles, but they like it on attractive men or men they want to date/sleep with. They do not care for muscles on a random dude in the middle of the street. Nor will women flock for a dude who happens to have muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:24 PM
2

Or you could look like a frat collage fuckboy, there’s 1000’s of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:12 PM
7

Confirmation bias, you never spot the ones who hide the fact they’re desperate. At the same time, you’ll think “he’s desperate” when they never were desperate. Since you can neither confirm or deny if they’re desperate or not, you just assume you’re right about the fact. People like to think they can read people like a book, but at the same time you could slap them in the face with red flags and they’d think it was green.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:27 PM
21

For every man you spot and go “he’s desperate”, there’s plenty of men who are desperate you don’t spot. The opposite is also true, for every non desperate man who may also be socially awkward, you’ll label him as desperate despite the possibility he may not be. But because we can’t confirm or deny wether or not they’re actually desperate or not, you just assume you have 100% accuracy on spotting desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:14 PM
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Women will naturally like you because you aren’t desperate Yawn, this meme needs to be put to bed already. Women don’t magically understand your inner thoughts to figure out if you’re desperate or not. Go gym, get gains, get hobbies, get interesting, be attractive and charismatic, but wether or not you care about getting women will not change how much women will want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:59 PM
3

Half/half, some women I’ve had good debates with, but I hardly ever remember them. The bad ones however stick out like a sore thumb and are hard to forget. “1/3 men have been sexless the past year”, “it’s became men are disgusting man babies who cry everyday”. No that’s not a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:26 PM
24

That’s like saying there’s no such thing as an highly attractive man...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:00 PM
7

Almost required: - Between 19-29 years old. - Not obese (overweight is still fine). - Kind. - Loyal. - Doesn’t smoke. - Doesn’t do drugs. - Only drinks alcohol on special occasions or nights out. Preferences: - Partakes in an active hobby, climbing, gym, dance, etc. - Wants to spend time outside in the sun rather than indoors. - Wants pets. - Cutish face. - Healthy BMI. - Low N Count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:37 PM
6

WOMEN’S FAULT I never blamed women, actually I specifically said below because men are so desperate for an ounce of attention from these apps that they’ll swipe right on practically anything. Aka men are also at fault, if men became more picky things would be drastically different, it’s both men and women’s fault. So stop putting words in my mouth and trying to claim I said something I didn’t say. it wasn’t the main thing to look at, it was the picture Tinder isn’t the only dating app, it doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:59 PM
8

based almost purely on appearance No way to show your personality But, you’re wrong, you’re not getting a front pic, left pic, right pic of a persons face, see their height, and then swiping left/right based on that information alone. There’s an entire biography area to write down who you are, aka you’re a sarcastic person with a carefree life, or that you’re a bubbly happy person looking for a lifelong friend or some snappy funny comment to go with it. With Most apps there’s an section area to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:07 PM
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The story about how I became rich Be born rich
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:29 PM
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But that wasn’t the question. The question wasn’t “would you date a tall handsome man with a high n count, or a short ugly man who’s a virgin”, the question was “would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable”. Aka “Would you choose a tall attractive High N-Count man, or a tall attractive Low N-Count man?”. That’s the issue with questions like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:53 AM
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You’re right, but no mother should be telling their kids they need to be nice to get women either. This is why boys need a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:47 AM
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No, /r/femcels got the ban hammer. What you’re thinking about is the time they made a rule against people asking them out, which is an entirely different event.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:18 AM
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Different men have different tastes. There’s plenty of tall men who pretend to be short to weed out women who only want tall men. There’s also plenty of tall men who brag about how tall they are and would happily enter a relationship with a women who only liked them for being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:18 PM
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How can red pill spend 99% of their life improving themselves for the sake of spinning plates and getting poon, then turn around and go “nah, poon isn’t valuable” despite the fact almost all of their actions have been done to increase the success rate of getting poon? The most upvoted posts of all time on TRP subreddit is directly related to how to get poon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:12 PM
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Nah this is shit. I want a relationship, not a fuck toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:08 PM
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one thing that works on women but does not work on men Be a fit and healthy 5’3 person, go to the club at night and flirt with a person of your choice. I guarantee you the 5’3 women will have astronomically more success than the 5’3 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:48 AM
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It won’t stop, there’s 0 incentive for anyone to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:02 AM
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The issue is, because compliments from women are so rare, the moment you start complimenting them, they’ll take it as a sign of you being interested in them. Which is exactly why women don’t compliment men. It’s a crap win lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:17 AM
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Your whole argument is crumbling into itself the moment you said he’s a bit ace and you haven’t had sex with him 1-2 years. Your average man would never enjoy this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:00 AM
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When you come across an statement you can’t argue against because it’s right, but you hate it anyway. “Eew incel” Works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:56 AM
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I was thinking the complete opposite. The women no longer cares about their partners bad behaviour because she’s already in the process of breaking up with him for the attractive man. Whereas a women not ready to break up with their partner will be harder on him because they have higher expectations of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:40 PM
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The economy would be in shambles. But realistically what would happen is most of those 30% of men will still work if it means they come back home for porn and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:31 PM
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Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:24 PM
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You need to separate the conscious and subconscious parts of the brain. Your brain is a finely tuned machine that’s been developed over billions of years for two purposes, survive and reproduce, just because it developed consciousness doesn’t suddenly mean it’s not trying to “reproduce” anymore. And your subconscious brain doesn’t know the difference between having sex while on a pill, and having sex when not on a pill. To it, it’s the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:46 PM
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And I strongly disagree. That’s an insane viewpoint to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:54 PM
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Your brain doesn’t know the difference. So as far as it’s aware, it is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:48 PM
2

You don’t need your friends and family, you can be happy without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:52 PM
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Shaolin monks have been doing this for thousands of years Shaolin monks are allowed to have sex and marry. In fact, many do, and a large portion of Shaolin monks were introduced into it by non other than their own fathers who are monks at the temple. Sexual relations is simply forbidden while training in the temple, that’s their only real rule. Soldiers would go for years in the fields, sailors would go to the sea, cowboys would go on cattle drives. With the hope and belief that they’ll make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:47 PM
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Caster Semenya was born and identified as a women from birth, grew up identifying as a woman, and to this day advocates for women in sports. She is uncontroversially a woman. There has never been a question about what gender she is. It was only when she took a doping test that they found she had an intersex condition which basically makes her produce more testosterone than a normal woman. But how is this any different from Eddie Hall or Hafthor Bjornsson being born with an insane amount of testo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:23 PM
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Every women could, you’re right. But it means being in a loving relationship with a low value man. Which isn’t appealing to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:18 PM
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Again, you’re the guy who started fasting telling the hungry African kid food isn’t everything. I will basically never take anything you say about this stuff seriously. I’ll happily change my mind if I meet even one single person in the entire world who receives no positive validation from a potential partner and is perfectly happy with life regardless. Currently, I haven’t met a single person like this. And there’s an perfectly obvious reason for that. There’s literally 0 people I have met who’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:13 PM
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You can obviously find meaning in other stuff, but you can’t just become an enlightened monk by yourself and expect to be happy. Validation is incredibly important, not to the point you NEED those tiktok likes or instagram likes. But enough for you to believe your existence is important to the people you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:35 PM
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I’m not saying we should change it, or that it needs to be changed, or anything like this, I have never once said this. You’re putting words in my mouth. All I’m saying is there’s a humongous flaw in your post. Which is that you yourself do get validation, yet try to pretend and preach how you don’t need it or that other people don’t need it. It’s incredibly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:23 PM
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Literally nobody does. And why should they, who the fuck thinks “I want to date women, and to do that I’ll play this offline single player game alone in my room”. What goals does biology/evolution have for us? “Survive” and “Reproduce”. All of our actions exist to solve these two problems. The issue is, we live in a world with video games, junk food, porn, social media, these are all messing with our brains and giving them a false perception of what we’re achieving. And giving us their own versi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:17 PM
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Men definitely. Women just see a “Chad” and want to fuck/date him, then if he pumps and dumps the women will hate him. Men however are not only impressed by how easily he can get women, they don’t really care that he pumped and dumped, they’re too impressed by the fact he can easily do this multiple times with seemingly no effort. Then try to replicate his actions to try and get the same thing he has. They’ll even pay him money to teach them how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:52 AM
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No, his babies still need to grow up, to learn how to “survive”, learn how to “reproduce”, and they do this by copying their parents, aka the mum and dad who’s hobby is video games. They’re teaching their kids how to socialise with other people, which in turn is teaching their kids the correct path to “reproducing”. This doesn’t stop just because their kids hit 25 and have their own kids either, now they’re grandparents and need to continue teaching their grandsons and granddaughters have to soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:44 AM
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But this line of thinking is no longer applicable in 2021. Humans are not meant to be alone. Humans need some sense of belonging, I don’t mean in terms of sexual relationships either, I mean in terms of all relationships, friends, family, and partners alike. Back when Buddhism was created and thriving, you were very much part of a large community of people you practically lived with. And we’re useful to that community, this is where people got their validation for their existence from. People we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:41 AM
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Men play warmhammer and magic the gathering because they want to attract women. Makes perfect sense. It’s not that everything people do is for the sole purpose of sex, it’s that everything people do, is all connected to produce a higher chance of ever having sex/babies. The man isn’t playing magic the gathering because he wants to attract women, he’s playing magic the gathering to have an excuse to do... something, anything, which will give him the excuse he needs to leave the house and mingle w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:14 AM
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Nothing turns off a woman more than telling her you’re a programmer, a janitor, a engineer, a plumber, etc. Despite the fact they all make pretty good money anyway. Women do not want men with jobs, they want fun, interesting, high status, and attractive men who also has a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:01 AM
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You’re missing the elephant in the room. Of course It’s easy, fun, and enjoyable being single if you’ve already been in multiple relationships, then choosing of your own violation to be single, then whenever you do want a relationship again, you can just go out and find a relationship like it’s nothing. That’s freedom, to go out and do what you want when you want. Anyone will be happy with that. A lot of people who are frustrated from being single is because they do want a relationship, but can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:59 AM
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A. Parental divorce (no trauma from this), and bullying as a kid. B. No. C. No. D. No. E. The only obstacle is loneliness, and yes it would solve that. F. No, I see a higher N-Count (or ONS’s) as just another form of masturbation, it means nothing. G. Yes, to get a girlfriend I need a single women to react positively to my advances, which requires a change in their behaviour. H. Yes, In the same way I have positive worthwhile relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:21 PM
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In terms of the amount of misogyny and misandry? Ya there about the same. In terms of pure content? Fuck. No. TRP is all about self improvement and learning how to sleep with girls, they have people writing paragraphs and paragraphs of details into how to sleep with women, what to do, when to do it, how to do it, why you should do it, what to focus on, etc. FDS is a bunch of “yess queen SSLLLLAAY” memes. They’re two completely different subreddits. The only connection is they’re both about relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:08 PM
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Of course the idea of a person owning a home on paper makes them appear more attractive, I will never deny that. I’m saying it doesn’t turn an unattractive person into an attractive. Also, currently stuck in a lockdown, dates are illegal. Plus, the study you mentioned showed 20% of homeowners are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:07 PM
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Unless you’ve read a study or topic which shows men with houses are more likely to find dates compared to men without houses, there is no outlier taking place here. Unattractive Men aren’t suddenly sexually attractive because they own a house and have friends. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:39 PM
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Decent house, job, family, friends, and no I can’t find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:31 PM
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What’s considered “not too short”. Because If what you’re saying was true, then 5’5-5’6 men wouldn’t struggle anywhere near as much as they currently do because there’s plenty of 5’0 and 5’1 women to go around, but that’s not what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:45 PM
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If more men were more attractive, the standards for attractive men would be raised. Nothing would change. If the average height of men was 6’0, the attractive height for men would be 6’5. Your frame and height isn’t dictated by your testosterone levels either, if that was true then men would have been taller in the past, they were shorter despite the fact they had more testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:31 PM
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The reason the average man is failing to get matches on dating apps has very little to do with them having 20% less testosterone compared to 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:13 PM
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She has no clue how the world actually works. No, women aren’t getting wet and wanting to sleep with me because I have a job and own a house. That’s not how women work. I mean fuck, their pussy dries up faster than an oven the moment they hear I’m a programmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:01 PM
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Lmao what was you expecting her to say “no I also date ugly men I’m not attracted too!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:34 PM
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I always laugh when people who can get relationship and sex tell people who can’t that you don’t need it. No, well over 95% of all people do need relationships to function properly, no amount of hobbies or working out will fix loneliness, stop pretending that people don’t need some form of validation to live happily. ESPECIALLY when it’s coming from someone like you who does get validation from people they sleep with/have relationships with. It’s like a rich person telling a poor person money is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:55 PM
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Can confirm, I am a stoic strong kind man with a good career who has everything in their life under control, never caused any drama, or cared about any bad luck I’ve had, and is able to deal with problems as they come. Women just see a short awkward nerd who’s sweet and nice. You can’t be seen as a traditionally masculine man unless you look the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:31 PM
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But you’ve just proven here that women can’t come from JUST PIV, and that they need more help like a bigger penis and a bigger man. Just as an example, It’s like saying men can’t come from just PIV, but they can if the girl was fitter, prettier, had a tighter vagina, and didn’t starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:16 PM
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That’s the kindest thing anybody has ever said to me <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:21 AM
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Your title is meaningless. Read your own post. You’re title says “whining about not having sex as much as other men is a form of entitlement”. Which, yes, is true. I’m not denying that. But then your post starts talking about the sexlessness epidemic, which is a different problem entirely and shouldn’t really be grouped up with the people your title is referring too. And is an actual problem that needs to be addressed sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:52 PM
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Please quote where I said it was about sex. Since the very start I’ve been saying it’s about relationships and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:48 PM
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Stop saying not entitled to sex, it’s like putting your fingers in your ear and going “la la la can’t hear you”. Imagine if a black person was complaining about racism and you just kept parroting “you’re not entitled to people’s respect”. Or a kid complaining about how he can’t make friends and you go “you’re not entitled to friendship”. It sounds so stupid. most people don’t have this problem Huh, could have sworn most people were in relationships with people similar to themselves. because more…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:35 PM
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you’re not entitled to sex No one said anything about entitled, I said it’s disastrous, if a large population of people had no friends, that would also be considered disastrous, nothing about entitlement was mentioned, nobody anywhere here has ever claimed to be entitled to sex or a relationship. It’s been made it up to ignore the issue. That’s fine, what’s the issue Being with drug addicts or people with a wildly different lifestyle to your own doesn’t make for great partners, they’re incompati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:07 PM
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Dude, I go to a martial arts club in university and hang out with everyone there, I know exactly how college freshers act. Sure, you got some horny fuckers who go out and fuck a lot of men, but they’re the loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:44 PM
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girls who go out clubbing I said AND SLEEP WITH A NEW GUY EVERY MONTH directly after it, don’t take half my sentence and claim that‘s what I said. I go clubbing, my friends who are girls go clubbing, my friends who are girls who also have boyfriends go clubbing, with their boyfriends. They’re not bringing home a new guy home every time they go clubbing, I can count on one hand the amount of men they’ve actually met and kept talking too after a night clubbing. ideal number of partners IN YOUR LIF…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:17 PM
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I could say the exact same thing to you, go outside, most women are... normal, they have a few boyfriends who they date for months/years at a time, maybe have 1-2 flings that didn’t go anywhere. Half the women I know are in regular ass relationships that easily last multiple years, definitely with n-counts less than 5 unless you’re claiming they’re all cheating. A girl having a new boyfriend every 6 months for 5 years, or a new boyfriend every year for 10 years is insane, I’ve never seen anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:11 PM
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90% of women? Come on, don’t make shit up now just to sound edgy and cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:24 AM
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30% of young men are virgins That’s... pretty fucking disasterous, it’s never been this bad in modern history. 40% to 45% are virgins by choice That’s like saying I’m a virgin by choice because, as a fit healthy man, I didn’t want to date obese women or drug addicts. hookers It’s not about losing your virginity, I’m tired of this meme, it’s not about having a “harem” of women, it’s not about chad or stacy’s, it’s not going to be solved by renting a prostitution. Most men just want one single lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:18 AM
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No one said men can’t have friends. He’s talking about loneness from a lack of having an intimate relationship with women. This isn’t something a Male best friend can fix. He also wasn’t asking women to fix this problem, it’s just a “pick option A or option B” question. Would you choose harassment and intimacy, or no harassment and no intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:38 PM
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I wouldn’t call that a halo/horns effect. The point of that effect is when an attractive dude does something, it’s good, when an ugly guy does something, it’s bad. This is unrelated to trying to act big and tough when you’re small and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:23 PM
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That wasn’t what we were discussing, I’m directly replying to your comment about how femanists care about men being raped. They don’t. This is just one proof of that. Men also don’t care, I’m not going to pretend they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:32 AM
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You’re right, I went back 4 months ago and it only had 800 comments. Wonder where this burst of people came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:40 PM
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That’s not a black girl, that’s a highly fake tanned white girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:37 PM
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To have a post on this subreddit, your post needs to be somewhat high quality and high effort that will create a lot of discussion. Most people just want to throw their random thoughts out here and see what people think, without needing to make a “high quality post”. So this weekly thread turns into the chat room, while the rest of the subreddit is for high quality posts only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:24 PM
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He literally can, have you not seen chad fishing stories/screenshots? Be a 10/10 guy on Tinder and you can say whatever the hell you want, women will give you their number and set up dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:55 PM
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For anyone reading, when working with averages. If there’s 10 women and 10 men, if all 10 women slept with the same 1 man, the average sexual partners would be equal for both men and women (aka 1 partner each). If I say the average amount of partners is 7, it makes it sound like each man and each women is, on average, sleeping with 7 people each. When In theory, you could have 30 men and 30 women, if each women only fucked the top 7 men out of all 30 men, that would mean 23 men have an n count o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:31 PM
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50% of all relationships start on OLD now. OLD is reality now, it’s not a Incel meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:28 PM
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Over 95% of rape therapy classes in the US do not allow men to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:02 PM
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That’s another way of saying you know plenty of dudes who’ll date 85% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 12:50 PM
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What kind of adverts would appear when the blackpill is in their algorithms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:55 AM
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My bad, never heard of that joke till now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:48 AM
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Men usually want advice about how to make a women, who isn’t attracted to him, to become attracted to him, and keep her attracted. Women’s advice usually falls under the assumption that they are already attracted to the man. NOT how a man they aren’t attracted to can do something which makes them more attractive to the point they want to date the man. The better question would be “See Mark over there, what could he realistically do for you to be attracted to him and want to date him?”. then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:40 AM
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That doesn’t make sense. He’s saying the PPD survey suggests 25% of men here subscribe to the blackpill, and 30% of all men here are virgins. How is that compareable to saying 1 in 4 men masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:32 AM
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You can thank TikTok for blackpilling the younger generation. You can’t use the app for less than an hour without bumping into a women measuring herself next to a 6’2 stick or throwing 20 pictures of “men of her dreams” which are all just 10/10 tall white attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:17 AM
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Atheism and agnostic isn’t any belief or ideology like religions, it’s a word used for a lack of religion, the only difference between them is one is sure gods don’t exist and the other is unsure. But they both fit the category of “no religion”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:07 PM
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What would you consider /r/blackpillscience to be? And before you say “cherry picked” they made a /r/bluepillscience subreddit and they can’t find anywhere near the same amount of cherry picked studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 12:55 PM
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Most people put them in the same category, they’re both “don’t have a religion/don’t believe in any” group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 12:53 PM
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They don’t believe traditional women still exist, hence their motto “enjoy the decline”. They’re not expecting things to get better, and most aren’t expecting to find their trad wife, if they do, great, they’ll clean themselves up and start a nuclear family. But I’m their eyes, there are no trad women anymore, so they’re just doing what they find most fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:11 PM
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“The wall” is a meme and I have no idea why people still cling onto this concept, almost every somewhat-decent women who wants to find a man above 30 will find a man above 30, the only time I’ve seen them struggle is, surprise surprise, when they’re obese or have too high standards. Which is less hitting a “wall” and more them just needing to put a bit more effort to get a man than they previously would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:08 PM
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Telling others about an observation of human behaviour is not shaming...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:17 PM
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There’s always been inceldom, there’s always been a niche group of men that were unsuccessful with women. The only difference now is the amount of men it’s effecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:08 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Kiran-Amin/publication/233338931_Internet_Pornography_and_Loneliness_An_Association/links/0a85e530fad9887340000000/Internet-Pornography-and-Loneliness-An-Association.pdf?origin=publication_detail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:09 PM
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Pretty much never. “Not like the other girls” has the hidden meaning that there’s something generic or stereotypical about “other girls” that this women doesn’t fall under. No matter how you try to say it, it’s just different ways of claiming “other girls” are a stereotype of some sort which is considered offensive to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:20 PM
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Most men lose their virginity between 18-21, so this makes perfect sense. If you can’t get a girlfriend while in collage surrounded by tons of women, you’re in a bad position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:09 PM
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This is still a better problem then what most men currently have. Aka rather cry in a Lamborghini. Or in this case, rather be wanted for sex than never wanted at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:30 AM
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Jerking off to porn generally increases loneliness in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:28 AM
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That’s illegal where I live...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:27 AM
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It’s a website
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:42 PM
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HS social dynamics barely reflect the real world Absolutely not. I don’t know much about America HS with their “jock” and “nerd” clique. But at least in the UK, social dynamics are almost identical to real world dynamics, the only difference I can find is People/Groups in HS are FORCED to participate and engage with other people/groups of wildly different culture and values. Teenagers are more brutally honest than adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:09 PM
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Genuinely confident is like 1/10 of the whole process, confidence is useless if it’s making you a confident creep. That’s where “game” or “Charisma” come into it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:59 PM
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“Game” is just an excuse to get men to talk to women and entertain them. A guy with good charisma has good game. A guy with no charisma has bad game. That’s all “game” really boils down to, a person who can naturally speak to women never needs to learn game, a guy who has no charisma feels the need to learn game to cover for the fact he has no charisma and can’t entertain women. Going any deeper than that is going into PUA territory, which is more akin to pretending you have good charisma when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:00 PM
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Average nowadays is overweight. She’s not average, she is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:52 PM
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Tinder hasn’t been “hookup orientated” for multiple years now. Plenty of people are starting relationships on there. Any proof it’s gotten worse Despite having more access to dating apps, being celibate in the past few years have almost tripled the amount it was 2008, from 10% to 28% of men not having sex in the past year. - https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:00 PM
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I remember reading a story here on reddit about a lesbian who one day developed a huge attraction to a “6’5 handsome muscular man”. Out of every single man on earth she had ever seen, she developed a crush on the top 10/10 man that could exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:35 AM
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Look at /r/detrans, tons of FtMtF women there explain how they wanted to be a man simply to gain the masculine traits they feared they couldn’t gain as a women or in womanhood. They felt like they didn’t fit the traditional feminine figure they felt like they had to abide by, so that naturally led them to thinking they’re men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:30 AM
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Wrong. I’ve met a guy once who was a depressed miserable 10/10 chad, no matter where he went girls were constantly trying to talk to him, despite being constantly self deprecating and making jokes where he just wanted to be dead. When you’re attractive you don’t need game. Game is for average/above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:23 AM
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when they’re pushed to their limits From my experience, this isn’t usually the case, most of the time it’s just the women getting bored and not being in love with the guy anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:04 AM
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If they weren’t perfectly acceptable to begin with, then they shouldn’t have had kids, that’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:02 AM
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You don’t have a random probability of dating chad, that’s not how it works. If there’s 80% bananas in a box and 20% of apples in the box, and I’m specifically looking for apples, 100% of the time I’m picking apples out of the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:58 AM
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Just think, this was 11 years ago, iPhones were just being released, tinder wouldn’t exist for another 3+ years. It’s only gotten worse since. Back then, it was reasonable to have multiple paragraph bio describing yourself, and people usually read it and gave men they found unattractive a chance. Now we have Tinder where that doesn’t matter and only your pictures matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:51 AM
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My Cupid data was the very start of it - https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/ Ever since then, it’s been replicated and repeated by tons of other dating website and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:30 AM
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Japan still have a healthy amount of people reproducing, they just also have a large amount of incels. But nobody cares, life goes on, the incels die, others have kids, the only thing that changes is the drop in population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 04:25 PM
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I hope she reads this bro and sees how much of a gentlemen you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 10:52 AM
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A uncanny valley like robot that spouts out artificially generated responses based on a learning algorithm isn’t what anybody is looking for, ever. AI and robotics now is absolutely no where near the level it needs to be to replace an actual girlfriend, but in the year 2075? 2150? It’ll be an entirely different story. We’re talking “ex machina”, “Detroit become human” like technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:38 PM
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Absolutely not, average height but 7.5/10 face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:44 PM
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When people say a man’s “prime fucking age”, they neglect to mention where that data came from. It literally just means the age where a man will get the most attention from “women in general”. Aka men peaking at 45 means they’re getting the most attention from women who’ll most likely be between 38 and 50. I personally wouldn’t say that’s anything spectacular to look forward too. Men, especially young 20 year old men, want to fuck other young 20 year old women. Saying there isn’t an issue becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:40 PM
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I don’t know, you’re the one who made this post and said there’s an issue with PPD, I personally haven’t found anything wrong with PPD so I don’t know what better looks like, but you have a problem with it, so it sounded like you knew what a better version would look like. I don’t know what better looks like, that’s why I’m asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:35 PM
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Promiscuous Women means a women who dated a lot or has had a lot of casual encounters with people she found attractive. But the moment she’s in a relationship she’s monogamous and will stay with you. A prostitute comes home after a 2 hour session of being destroyed by an ugly fat sweaty man for nothing more than a few hundred dollars then come home and get into bed with you, but this is every night, for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:33 PM
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A man getting the most attention from women at the ripe age of 45 DOES NOT MEAN being 45 is a man’s prime age. That’s ridiculous red pill shit. A man’s prime age, just like a woman’s, is being in their 20’s. They’re at their healthiest and fittest time in lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:22 PM
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Incel revenge fanatasy It’s less revenge fantasy and more “My life is shit I just want companionship, can’t wait for advanced AI sex wife robots who’ll give me that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:15 PM
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Do you have any other subreddits to compare too that you think does debates better than PPD in a general sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:13 PM
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The 1980’s where kids were just weird, hyper, or social outcasts. Now in the 2020’s, where kids have autism, ADHD, or anxiety. Nothing’s changed except the labels we give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:58 AM
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This, asking /u/groupme_throwaway to name one other subreddit that had debates that were any better than this place. Or one subreddit you wish PPD was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:55 AM
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I’m disappointed in this sub. There is a biological incentive for men to fuck ugly women that nobody here is saying. First and foremost beyond anything else in the world, humans want to survive and reproduce. Women only fuck attractive men because there’s a great sense of risk and investment involved, if a woman fucks a man then she risks a 9 month pregnancy and even more years of raising a kid, meaning women have to be picky choosers to make sure they aren’t spending 9 months raising a genetica…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:37 PM
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Being extremely preoccupied with a perceived flaw in appearance that to others can't be seen or appears minor My height and race has been scientifically documented to be unattractive to most European women. If others are unwilling to date me for something perfectly normal that I was born with then that is not a minor thing. Belief that others take special notice of your appearance in a negative way or mock you Type in “short man” on Twitter, or google heightism, it is not a belief, it is reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:33 PM
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Trust me, they’re not happy about it. In their mind, 300lbs coochie is better than no coochie at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 04:57 PM
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My mates, for one. The weird guy I met at a wedding. Married men who’s wife put on 150 lbs. The strangers in clubs. Etc etc. They’re just the ones I’ve witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:40 PM
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Rent is dropping solely because of covid. When covid is over they’ll go right up again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:35 PM
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In reality, the opposite is happening, women now are more depressed now than they’ve ever been in any other previous study on women’s happiness. Aka despite them able to persue short term relationships and join careers, they’re unhappier than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:33 PM
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People who have sex are statistically faaar more likely to cause violence and death than Incels. several mass murders There’s been what, 2 Incel attacks in existence? And practically 0 Red Pill attacks. What are you on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:24 PM
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I’ve never liked how people believed that’s how kids would actually act in an actual lord of the flies scenario, it’s just a book written by school teacher. But I wouldn’t really compare the real life counterpart to the book, you’re comparing 16+ kids who’s only thing in common is being in the same class with 6 friends. The former is bound to have school bullies who could have the potentially to murder, the latter not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:12 PM
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You can be both 9/10 and be homeless man on the streets that sleeps with other women to find a bed and shelter. You can be both 9/10 and be a nazi pedophile that sleeps with SJW women. In both circumstances, women will want to sleep with them, but won’t want other people to know they slept with them. Why does this not make sense to you? Do you think women share details on every guy they’ve ever slept with, if that was true then women lying about N count wouldn’t be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 12:13 PM
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True, but I was of the opinion that was all a given. She never mentioned anything about sleeping with ugly dudes, just dudes she doesn’t want other people to see her with. Which includes the massive drunk, the weirdo, the slightly above average nerd, the loser with nothing going for him, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 12:04 PM
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I’m sorry, it’s still flying right over my head. It does just sound like she’s saying she’s had experiences where she’d sleep with a guy if nobody knew she slept with him, his feeling towards her are irrelevant to the topic (he could want to date her, or just see her as FwB). Which is a different issue from wanting to date a guy you’re just sleeping with because he won’t commit. There are definitely women who’ll cut of their left hand to date the guy they’re sleeping with (I’ve personally witnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:41 AM
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It’s not revenge, men people are horny as fuck and will fuck most women, including women they wouldn’t want their mates seeing them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:49 AM
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Media is successful because they cater to the wants and needs of your average person. 50 shades of grey wasn’t the best selling book of all time just because it was a fun read. I mean, it was, but why was it. That’s what OP is trying to ask here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:44 PM
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The main component of the movie is that Women are projecting themselves onto the average women becoming a princess. This is the key part of the story everybody loves and wants to be. The other side of the story is a women who’s locked into a purely posh personality and a somewhat arranged marriage with no proper freedom to be herself, then she escapes and is able to be herself and date around without needing to be proper and posh all the time. Women aren’t projecting themselves as the princess, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:37 PM
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If a dad absolutely didn’t want a daughter, it probably means they want a masculine boy who plays football, boxing, and is rough and tough. They’d be just as sad if their son hated sports and wanted to stay in on his iPad all day. They don’t want a kid, they want a mini version of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:12 PM
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Your average women having the chance to be a princess for a few days while being romantically pursued by a tall attractive man who they have a crush on. Sounds like every woman’s dream. How does this challenge RP/BP exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:09 PM
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But... why? What do you gain from leaving her on read compared to just texting her back like a normal person? Is it because a LTR breakup deserves to happen in person rather than through a text?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:08 AM
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I just wanted my first time to be with someone also experiencing their first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:38 PM
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I’ve never dated, period, women care about other traits much much more than simply being decent and taking care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:22 AM
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It’s not an direct indicator of current physical fitness, sure, but it is absolutely an indicator of potential fitness which is a much greater component than simply having fitness. The possibility of your offspring being strong enough to take care of itself is a component involved in any mating strategy. Thus women will more than likely pick a 6’2 weak inactive man over a 5’4 strong fit man, because the potential for the 6’2 weak inactive man’s offspring to become much stronger and faster than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:35 PM
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Being tall is an indicator of being more athletic, stronger, faster, etc. Perfect for hunting animals and defending yourself and your family from other humans and animals. Your a women, who are you going to have to protect you and your future children, the 5’4 man or the 6’2 man? Being handsome is partly about being symmetrical, the more balanced a person/animal is the better chance it has of surviving. A non-symmetrical face could show signs of bad evolutionary design. To add to this, if we ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:56 PM
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Look at the fortune 100 again. Despite making up 15% of the population, 50% of fortune CEO’s are over 6’0. In instances of being a CEO, Attractiveness isn’t necessary, but “looking like a leader” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:49 AM
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One theory I have is your childhood development and health have massively implications on your looks. Being attractive is proof of a healthy childhood. For example, there’s an idea going around where breathing through your mouth as a kid will develop a weak jaw, compared to breathing through your nose. In this instance, having a weak chin proves you have a poor immune system. (Breathing through your mouth all the time = blocked nose all the time = weak immune system).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:47 AM
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People writing poetry has been romanticised for centuries, do you actually believe singing a poet you wrote to a women nowadays will win her heart? Edit: The reason poetry, writing, artists, etc were romanticised for centuries isn’t because they’re interesting, it’s because it proved you came from a middle/high class society where you were educated, in a time were most people were traders, farmers, and fishers, to the average person you were high status for that reason alone. Times change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:23 AM
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Sleeping with a bunch of women is vastly overrated, as stated by quite a lot of players who sleep with a bunch of women and feel empty from the experience. It’s glorified masturbation. You can sleep with prostitutes and get a better experience, still crap, but better than bringing a girl back home only for her to starfish you. Find that one girl that loves you and you can love back, that’s where you’ll find actual meaningful experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:11 PM
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Have you ever seen a group of men do this before?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:36 PM
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Same reason men don’t respect women with high N-Count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:17 PM
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Rationalising wants and preferences helps with self awareness and our own understand about how and why we like the things we like. Imagine if all of our arguments just boiled down to “I don’t like it, because I just don’t”. It’s not useful or helpful for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:46 PM
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Because it means dating a boring short cubby balding guy who programs for a living. Surprise surprise women won’t want to date that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:30 PM
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Having high income, stable, and a romantic absolutely does not make you a top 10% man. a good beta bucks fits that criteria and women are rarely fighting for those guys. Would you really consider a 5’4 Indian programmer a top 10% man just because he has a high income, stable, and romantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:24 PM
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Aww, did someone bring up a valid argument and you had no counter to say so you insulted him? how adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:50 AM
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Is it “I Love You” with a capital L or “hehe I love you” with a little l.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:46 PM
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It has almost nothing to do with the sexual dynamics of humans, it’s just about people sharing their sex stories. Plus it has 1.6 million subscribers, compare that to PPD’s 60,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:45 PM
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As a man, by saying the L word first long before she ever thought about saying it, you’re basically saying “I‘m committing to you and only you from now on, please commit to me too, there are no other women who’s giving me attention, it’s just you”. Women just want to have fun, and clinging onto you is one way of having fun, but the moment you say the L word you’re forcing her into a position of being committed despite the fact they didn’t want to commit yet. And in her mind, she’s not in love wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:23 PM
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He must have an amazing personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:15 PM
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Normal people don’t go into a subculture of reddit discussing the sexual dynamics between humans. It takes a special kind of internet nerd to find places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:09 PM
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Social validation and positive reinforcement usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:26 PM
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I’ve been going the gym for several years and have a great body. Can’t change being 5’7 and Middle Eastern. That just leaves socially inept loser. How do you cure autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:14 AM
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I’ll take Chad’s height please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:50 AM
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complain about how women these days are fat and unattractive Bottom tier women 20 years ago were hardly fat and unattractive, overweight/obese rates have skyrocketed. A man’s only requirement could be “don’t be fat”, 20 years ago that would be fine, you’d date a below average looking women, have kids, get married. Nowadays you’re dropping 65% of the entire dating pool for not wanting to date an overweight women. Even if you didn’t want to date just obese woman that’s still 30% of the dating pool…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:47 AM
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The blackpill is fine to talk about here, I’ve been on this sub for years talking about the blackpill and I’ve never been banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:21 AM
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She’s always seen wearing baggy clothes, you’ve pretty much never seen her body before now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:31 AM
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Side profile - https://i.imgur.com/9Jhf7Qi.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:41 PM
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6’2, white, strong brow, defined jaw, full head of hair, despite being 36 he looks like he’s in his late twenties. Turbo ugly my fucking ass. https://i.imgur.com/62E807a.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:15 PM
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I’ve never seen this. Never. Not once in my life have I seen a short ugly dude have crazy game and pull and fuck hot chicks. I’m actively trying to remember at least one instance where a short ugly dude has pulled at least 2 chicks within less than a year and I cannot for the life of me know any one guy who fits that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 02:29 PM
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That’s like saying “people who do drugs are just having fun” and not a symptom of a deeper neurological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 02:14 PM
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I can see that a women is attractive without being attracted to them. Aka I’m not attracted to an attractive women high on meth and drunk as fuck. Nothing could get me to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:49 PM
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Watermarks are part of the humour, they’ve been a staple in memes for 6+ years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:36 PM
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5’7, 65kg, I could bench 85kg before lockdown started. Used to have visible abs but now I’m bulking so now it’s barely visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:15 PM
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This whole video and post boils down to “high value men with lots of options are high value men”. He goes on to say how asking for exclusivity is manipulative, yet playing these games and following all 16 of these lessons isn’t? The only thing you can reasonably take from this is, don’t ask for exclusivity first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:08 PM
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Height, race, and what do you think caused your inceldom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:41 PM
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The only incel I’ve ever read from admitted that his standards were high, he could easily go on Grindr and get tons of matches, but didn’t want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:39 PM
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Honestly, his message was fine except for the part where he was still suggesting to take her on a date, even after all of that he would still put up with her. They’ve exchanged 10 messages, that should have been a red flag for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:37 PM
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Is there anything wrong with “Men going their own way?”, no. That’s perfectly within their right. Is there something wrong with the /r/MGTOW subreddit and people who use it? Absofuckinglutely. I’ve never seen a greater hypocrisy in my life, they claim they’re men who are separating from women and choosing to live life without the agony of dating/relationships/drama. Yet they cannot shut up about women for 1 day, every other post there is about how women are bad and how great they are for not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:31 PM
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It is one of the main needs in Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. If someone isn’t getting their needs, it becomes the most important thing in their life to find. A homeless man isn’t going to care about his hobbies, status, self-reflection, or reproduction until he finds food to eat and a place to sleep. A poor African child isn’t going to brush up on his dancing skills until he finds some clean water to drink. An Incel, even when he’s doing self-improvement and having a creative outlet, will still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:57 AM
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Wether jack is happy or not is irrelevant to his SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:28 AM
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How is jack getting laid if everybody thinks he’s low value? Why would a women knowingly fuck a low value man when she’s free to fuck a medium valued man? Paying for prostitutes doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:12 PM
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Valerie Solanas on femcels from back in 2020; To call a woman an animal is to flatter her; she’s a machine, a walking fleshlight. It’s often said that women use men. Use them for what? Surely not pleasure Eaten up with guilt, shame, fears and insecurities and obtaining, if she’s lucky, a barely per-ceptible physical feeling, the female is, nonetheless, obsessed with being screwed. She’ll be screw by a man she despises, any snaggle-toothed hag, and furthermore, be payed for the opportunity. Why? …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:40 PM
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This applies to both men and women. When you meet someone, you instantly put them into 3 categories solely based on their looks: Yes, Maybe, or No. No: Anybody in the No category cannot be increased to maybe or yes, if you end up dating them it’s for security/money/other non sexual benefits, not because you’re attracted to them. These are people who could be the sweetest, caring people who has succeeded in almost every aspect of their life, but you just could not imagine yourself ever dating the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:25 PM
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This is wrong. If everybody calls Jack a low value man, then he is still a low value man, whether Jack cares about that or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:02 PM
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I’d consider a basic adult thing something that’s everybody expects every adult to do, like be financially independent, staying hygienic, having a job, etc. If only 15% of the population exercise, then I wouldn’t consider it a basic adult thing, that’s a special thing you’ve done to improve yourself with. Like eating healthy or meditating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:31 PM
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Incels don’t want random hookup in a random Asian country, they want to be loved and get into a relationship. Plus it only really works if you’re white.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:20 PM
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You say it’s basic grown adult things, but from the top of my head, about 10% of adults I know actually exercise or go the gym. It’s not a basic grown adult thing, there’s a reason only 70% of the US is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:39 PM
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You’re in a “incel, feminist, and FDS” thread. What were you guys expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:56 AM
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To some people, being with somebody you don’t find physically attractive is better than being alone. the vast majority of these “subhumans” are average The ones posting selfies for the internet to see are generally going to be the ones comfortable enough with their appearance to post their faces on the internet for people to see, aka they’ll be skewed towards better looking incels. Plus, average in who’s eyes, yours? Or the average women’s? Because it’s pretty common knowledge around here that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:31 PM
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The dating scene has had a massive cultural shift over the past 12 years. Young men and young women have vastly different dating pattens nowadays compared to 15 years ago. Average heightened 18-29 women will almost certainly not date a man with dwarfism. And I’m willing to bet almost every 18-29 men with dwarfism will be single or with extremely low SMV women. Looks absolutely matter to young women nowadays and the fact that a whopping 45% of all relationships start from online dating apps suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:52 PM
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The Blackpill understands personality can matter, but more importantly it‘s pointing out how Important height/looks actually is, to a degree most people are uncomfortable accepting. In reality, for someone to even think about dating you, you need to pass a looks threshold, a “you need to be this good looking to ride this ride”. After that your personality determines how long you stay. Incels just think if you’re ugly and short enough, you can’t get past this looks threshold that almost every per…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:08 PM
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“Lower your standards” is definitely “date people you aren’t attracted too” and that is further cemented if your standards are already pretty low. Which means men who’s only standards is “I don’t want obese women” are now being told to date obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:44 AM
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Then you’ll figure that out during dates and find you’re not compatible, so you breakup and look for somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:40 AM
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How so? Looksmatching is just matching with someone of similar attractiveness to yourself. In a looksmatched world RMV willl be unrelated to your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:19 AM
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What does Marxists or this video have to do with the blackpill? And how is it pseudoscience Blackpill 1: “looks matter, here’s studies showing looks matter”. How to disprove it, show studies looks don’t matter. Blackpill 2: “height matters, here’s studies showing height matter”. How to disprove it, show studies that state height doesn’t matter. There’s no win win here, just show us looks or height don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:13 AM
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You’ve never heard “lower your standards”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 09:41 AM
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Please explain, Why do you believe some form of physical attraction is not needed for a relationship to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 09:34 AM
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Calling a female a female is fine. Comparing men to females is weird. It’s either men and women, or males and females. OP mentioned “men and females” multiple times instead. It is weird, but reddit gains an absolute hardon for it whenever it pops up and screeches at whoever dares call a women a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:47 AM
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I won’t LTR someone inferior to me How successful has this mindset been? I thought it was common knowledge that women tend to date up while men date down, asking for a women better than you is like asking for a women who’s ready to drop you for a man better than her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:06 PM
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stop wasting your time and energy worrying about other people Other people are required for a relationship to exist...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:54 AM
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Him: “Men actually don’t mind most breast sizes” You: “REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE” Yes, most men will not reject a women because she has B cups instead of double D.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:02 PM
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Same with men, most don’t want their dick wet, could most men get their dick wet from some drunken obese single mum in the club? Sure. Do men actually want to though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:34 AM
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The amount of nutrition you need is dependant on the amount of calories your body burns daily. If your body burns 1,300 calories daily (which I doubt btw), then the amount of nutrients you need is based on that 1,300 calorie intake. Scared of going down to 900 calories due to lack of nutrients and vitamins? Only eat good stuff, take multi-vits. Truth is, your body probably burns 1800 calories, and you eat and drink like shit which keeps you fat. If your body is burning at 1,300 calories, go to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:13 PM
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Then eat 900 calories a day. What’s your issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:02 PM
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It’s been proven offsprings aren’t negatively effected through cousins. Yes you overreacted.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:48 PM
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Because to someone who’s just glancing at the subreddit... it is. You regularly see men in there calling women children and to treat them like children. They talk about how all women will cheat on someone better than you. How simple honest women (aka unicorns) don’t exist. How men should ignore women who say no. How their problems aren’t as bad as men’s. Etc. At the very base level TRP and the users in there are “misogynistic”. They aren’t going to trust or study anything TRP has to offer if one…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:25 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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