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Sillkentofu/r/RedPillWives03/05/22 12:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONSillkentofu/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:38 PM
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Yes I definitely have! I have pics too for reference but for 240-150 pure CICO. Used a food scale and tracked everything in my fitness pal or Cronometer. I lifted 6 days a week which in retrospect I feel like halted my progress bc I was so hungry all the time. From 150-120 I used ozempy LOL. I spent years at 150 I couldn’t figure it out past then. 5’6” and 25 if that helps at all I really like healthwithamandaa on tik tok she has awesome fat loss tips!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 12:37 AM
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My monkeys paw curse is looking good in most clothes I try on, having enough disposable income to be able to buy it, but being way too anxious to wear anything that looks good in public
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:39 AM
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Her quads are nutttttzzzzzz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:01 AM
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I love quoves I don’t find it suifuel. I think it’s good to know where to improve and what I can work on. I don’t think their personal readings are the most accurate though and I’m planning on just finding a surgeon I want to work with for my own hardmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:44 PM
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I agree I love it I take the pills now but the liquid w the mint flavor they sell at Whole Foods is the most effective for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:18 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/p3f7s2koljxc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4c2a23d6310eb7e6ce413673abd4b4fc5a304aff Quarterly pho restock. Into the freezy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:16 AM
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I’m on here bc it’s the most active posting forum except the men on here are mostly sexless you can’t post anywhere else in the Dalies without someone trying to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:08 AM
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Please delete this I’m starting a mid bitches stay winning campaign
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:34 AM
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I’m not that skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:33 AM
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Girls vs boys feuds are permitted if they start on equal footing!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:03 AM
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Crushcrushcrush
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:01 AM
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Yeah my job provides a housing stipend that is a large part of why I won’t be paying bills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:00 AM
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Don’t be mean to women please!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:53 AM
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Honestly I’m excited for next month bc bitches used to discount my opinion bc I was 50/50 but now my bills are paid bitch what you gotta say I’m KEPT!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:52 AM
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Me too but as a person older than you, you will learn to Love it for what it is! Life has a lot for you, regardless of how far behind you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:46 AM
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Me when I’ve never been to a party before
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:44 AM
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At da house listening to paramore <4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:43 AM
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Most guys in here consider me below mid and I just have to laugh considering their options. It’s whatever bc my bills are already paid but I just chuckle to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:29 AM
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So true bestie MID BITCHES ON TOP WE STAY WINNINF #weup!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:17 PM
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My worse trait is that I waddle like a fat person when I walk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:10 PM
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Honestly to solve this we should arrest all the John’s for being simps or whatever :-) buying sex should be a crime!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:00 PM
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Doing the Sabrina carpenter espresso makeup today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:34 PM
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I consider truerateme a self harm sub it’s not even about looksmaxxing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:49 PM
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Honestly ever since I was chemically castrated by birth control I’ve felt like sexual desire was one of my biggest flaws. I could be flat like a Barbie doll down there now and nothing in my life would change. My focus is incredible now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:43 PM
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All of the looksmaxxing subs kinda suck but that one is the worst of all Vindictarateme is just getting glazed and no real advice and that one is OF girls and people stealing tik tok teenagers pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:40 PM
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Wearing clothes that aren’t XXXL feels so try hard and embarrassing I tried on clothes today and I thought I looked so good but I just can’t imagine wearing any of it in public
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:28 PM
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Some people are just fearless with the water!! It’s so scary though bc it’s so unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:13 PM
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Todays goals: Buy a t shirt Eat some yummy food Drink a sour beer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:54 PM
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I will never let my bf live down that his parents tried to kill me. They didn’t directly try to kill me but they tried to take me sailing on a day where the marina was literally empty and 3 tourists had already drowned bc of the rough water. Ik they were just excited to sail and we had a limited time in the country but what the hell!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:11 PM
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Hoping to one day walk into a plastic surgeons office with a photo of Sundai love and leave with her face superimposed onto mine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:39 AM
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Madison beer is one of the prettiest women ever to me I just want her to stop doing stuff to her face until she gets much older
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:09 AM
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Pinheadmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:13 AM
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Early morning gym and late afternoon errands tomorrow or late afternoon gym and early morning errands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:32 AM
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You’re right! I thought this was another post on the DB subreddit with a person acting willfully obtuse towards the LL partner.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 11:30 PM
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Because this is frustrating and annoying. If he had to bend over at his partners will and let them go inside of his body he’d have a different tune. This isn’t like doing the dishes when you’re tired or taking out the trash when your partner forgets, it’s literally letting someone inside your body
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 11:20 PM
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Ok we will just bend you over and impale you when we feel like it and see how you like it
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 11:09 PM
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Happy last month paying bills 💸 woo wooo!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:19 PM
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I am certified mid but my boyfriend is hot and has money he’s just autistic but I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:12 PM
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I honest to god hate being naked and touching my body and usually to get to that you have to do both of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:55 PM
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This is going to give a little insight into what a horribly uptight person I am but I literally hate doing all of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:57 PM
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I am 25 and not ready now but I definitely will be in 5 years. My married friends have started trying + buying houses so I know I’ll have a good support system when the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:10 PM
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Mid bitches stay winning #weup ladies!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:59 PM
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That’s for old guys, they have to pay 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:14 PM
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Reverse physiognomy truly single cellular thinking going on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:09 PM
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I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:31 PM
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Depends on the problem. I would say it’s an outright no for me if you have mental health issues that affect your ability to sustain yourself socially (like BPD and severe depression). The ones that make you scatterbrained or too much into geology are like fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:41 PM
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I wear them all the time but I am also black southern and work in corporate. I don’t wear them to the grocery store or anything but in the summer I try to wear a cute sandal or flat. Dinner, bar, any outing after 6pm is heels. I only wear athletic shoes to the gym and my maintenance appointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:49 PM
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The difference in me with and without makeup is pretty minimal. I’m not that good at it so I only wear concealer and blush. I think it’s probably just a skill issue here and I need better products/technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:08 PM
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Sometimes I feel like people are nicer to me and talk to me more when I don’t wear make up. Which I strange because I don’t have acne but I do have some mild scarring and general under eye darkness so I definitely look better with makeup. My face in general is pretty low contrast so the added color and dimension definitely makes me objectively more attractive and I don’t add anything like eyeliner that would make me lean into the low trust category. Maybe my makeup is worse than I think it is, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:20 PM
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This is common sense and actually helps most people not even just men. I wouldn’t recommend looksmaxxing communities like vindicta or anything to other women because I don’t want people to be obsessed with getting surgery like I am but I think eating clean and working out would change a lot of depressed girlies lives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:02 PM
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Attention is just a byproduct of social privilege. It’s really not about men or women at its core, it’s about being perceived as nicer, more competent, smarter, etc. the advantages you receive and the deference people give you. My endless pursuit of being attractive is not about one on one interactions with men or women at all, but the places that being attractive can get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:47 PM
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It’s finally getting warm enough to go run at my fave park! I used to go all the time when I lived at home but now it’s a town over :-( but I try to make my way out there to visit my mom every once in a while so it’ll be a good motivator to go visit as much as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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I know the right answer to what I should do with the extra money once my partner moves in is like pay off high interest debt and save more but the right answer definitely feels like bullhorn lip lift
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:11 PM
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Yeah I put an Etsy curse on my ex boyfriend when he broke up with me. I also do very lukewarm magic related things on my current partner like putting his name in the freezer when he’s upset or doing a sugar spell when I want something He knows this and doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:55 PM
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Right like I live in a shithole I’m on guard when anyone interacts with me who isn’t a child or elderly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:58 PM
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This actually sounds really good! I love salt or tajin on watermelon and this sounds like a similar vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:50 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/rlzzo2a2d9wc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4643e6a02831ca7f8d4221e6ea5362b85584c2e9 Comical amount of guac
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:45 PM
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I go to the gym because I wanna be hot and work on my body literally no other reason. I agree it could maybe be a good supportive and social spot for men and I do wish you guys had your own spaces. My Pilates class is very social and it’s all women. Hopefully more are created for you guys in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:51 PM
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“You cannot interact with these people” is not an inherent negative. I actually think leaving people alone at the gym is probably the nicest thing you can do, bc people wanna focus
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:27 PM
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I understand that though filling up on the carbs is easy! My bf is Caribbean so we eat rice with almost every meal. Normally I will just shred some cabbage for myself on the mandolin and eat it as my rice. I always try to sub some of my carb for a veggie. Fruit is just not my vibe though it’s sweet but not in a good way ??? Idk I’m not much of a sweet eater though I prefer salty snacks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:54 PM
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Do fruits and vegetables do the same thing nutrition wise bc I try to eat vegetables with every meal but I can maybe force down fruit once a month and that’s by FORCE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:43 PM
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I’ve been doing a ton of hair treatments bc I do wanna do the highlights I posted on here the other day but I need my hair to be healthy first. I think a large part of why my hair has been so ratty lately is that I’ve been air drying it but it hasn’t been hot/dry enough to air dry it quickly so it’s just turning into a bird nest. I just need to make time to blow dry it when I do wash it so I’m trying to be more intentional about my hair care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:34 PM
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You don’t understand the concept of girl dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:29 AM
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I’m honestly not pushing a ton of weight I’ve thought in the past maybe it’s my conditioning so I’ve been trying to add more cardio in the afternoons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:10 PM
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I’ve been doing a beginners linear progression program since I started lifting when I was way heavier (PPL) and made not a lot of progression at first then a lot more when I worked on form more. I’ve never had a training partner or anything so maybe there are some form issues I’m not seeing, but I don’t think I’m lifting poorly or in an injurious way (except on step ups but I can’t figure those out for the life of me)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:03 PM
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My body is a terrible responder to weight lifting. No matter how I train I feel like I just become progressively more weak sauce. Like rn I’m at a 65lb squat which is half my body weight but I’m not progressing at all, I at least want to get to a body weight squat but even adding 5lbs a session, I end up back at 65 once I actually start doing my reps it makes no sense I know this is most likely an issue of the mind but what givessss. Even when I was like 150ish I topped out at like a 95lb squat …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:44 PM
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There is not one food on this list outside of my literal medical allergies that I would even think twice about. These are everyday foods except escargot but I eat snails prepared the viet way all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:35 PM
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I am pretty open about being a solid 4 and if my bf had the unmitigated gall to rate me anything less than a 10 in public im embarassing him right there bc what the hell!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah no chance embrace it or die mad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:53 AM
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People look at me so stupid when I say I’m going to law school once my kids are in high school… people always ask me “oh why don’t you go now!”… because I don’t want to… I can and I will when I want to… you could never be a Juris Doctor bitch I don’t want your opinion!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:25 PM
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I feel like if I am too warm I get perceived the wrong way so I would just rather be off putting than thirsty I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:22 PM
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You probably aren’t that off putting if you are people will tell you 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:21 PM
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I know the final part of my self improvement journey will be like becoming a warm and inviting person but I love being deeply off putting. I love inspiring cringe. I love the negative energy that radiates outside of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:02 PM
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Common sense ain’t so common friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:03 PM
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Being extremely regimented is the only way I can cope with life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:16 AM
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I think if I am here admitting that I’m not particularly physically attractive I can admit that I like other things about myself without seeming like I am bragging lol & on the second half I was just making a joke I know it’s an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:16 AM
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Starting your day like 15 minutes late is the worst feeling ever literally unrecoverable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:01 AM
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It is a thing that make my partner feel cared for, I could eat chicken broccoli rice for every meal for all I care, but it’s a way for me to nurture him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:59 AM
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Can’t believe my bf went through his whole life without a curly hair routine before me. He gets compliments on his curls all the time now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:54 AM
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Ok so my partners with me because I am lucky then, either way idc I’m just happy to be along for the ride!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:51 AM
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I started going to boutique heated Pilates instead of old lady Pilates at the Y recently… when I tell you it KICKED MY ASS. A whole new world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:36 PM
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I am funny, I know how to cook, and I know how to fuck. He can excuse that I’m not an 85lb blonde due to the fact that he loves me for other reasons lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:35 PM
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Right now my education (work trainings and certificate stuff) and my fitness are the main ones. My fitness time is also my personal time so maybe I over dedicate to that but I’m also trying to be a good friend whenever I can and stay active in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:09 PM
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Not really but I go first thing in the morning and it’s my only real alone time so I cherish it. And since I go so early in the morning I would just end up sleeping in or cleaning instead anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:27 PM
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He definitely would. We’ve been trying to watch a particular movie together for a while so it would be nice to intentionally plan a movie night instead of having dinner and watching tv like normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:18 PM
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My regular 9-5, Gym in the morning, Pilates 2-3x a week (once after work once on the weekend), once a week training program for land development stuff (for my job) and I also started a certificate program for myself (self paced which helps). I am normally super motivated in the summer and spring so I tried to habit stack this one so I would come out of the other side a better me! It’s just hard because I have my own friend group and his friend group to make time for as well, I have beauty mainte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:54 PM
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He’s a first responder so his weekends are spotty but weekends are our best time for sure! They just go by so fast and most of them we only have one day together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:48 PM
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I feel like in the pursuit of trying to be better for my partner (and obviously for myself but he’s a great motivation) I literally never have time with him anymore and the time I do have with him I’m so tired. But I want to give myself a better life and in turn have him be able to experience it with me so it’s all a sacrifice but ya girl is TIRED I just wanna be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:25 PM
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This is what I’ve been trying to do lately but I also smashed my portion of a 15 piece honey hot with season fries yesterday so it’s not going as well as I’d hope 😭😭😭 it’s all discipline at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:19 PM
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I am losing weight again (finally) but it’s hard with all of the May events coming up for my friend group. Bfs bday was last weekend and it feels like next month it’s something every weekend!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:50 PM
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Recently become annoyed with all the softmaxxing posts on vindicta forums. There’s only so many ways to say workout and wear makeup. Just save the post unless it’s about hardmaxxing, let the real adults do adult things here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:01 AM
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Girlbossed too close to the sun and now I have to send whenisgoods to hang out with my friends 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:10 PM
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Face card declined
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:24 PM
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Dis what I made <333 thanks everyone https://preview.redd.it/gb3vposarquc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=734f0720fa4ba9e85db9d058193514875decf17d Honey glazed garlic salmon, Parmesan lemon risotto, radish/spinach salad, roasted veg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:09 AM
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Yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:53 PM
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What’s for dinner today everyone I have some extra time, needing inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:38 PM
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Seriously I feel like if you are truly deeply introverted an extroverted partner (to a degree) will add to your life. I’m out of the house every weekend and now I have a friend group that treats me like family (dinners, helping each other move, spa days together etc) when before I had been depending on the same 2 people for the entirety of my social life and social needs. It really does take a village and I feel like I have one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:34 PM
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I’ve always said I got the most attention (and harassment) at 150-165lbs. I’m in the 120-125 range now trying to get to 115ish and I rarely get attention in public now unless it’s overtly negative or an old person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:06 PM
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My bf is from the Caribbean and I could definitely see myself living there forever. We love it here and our entire financial life and stuff is here but we talk about running away there all the time as a joke. Beach life, fresh nutritious food, music, family centric culture, friendly people, it’s just everything I thought life is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:13 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/24 03:55 PM
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I wanna do it all the way, no drinking will help the shred and the reading will give me something productive to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:55 PM
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Has anyone done 75 hard? Thinking about starting it Mid May but I want to know if ppl felt like it was worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:30 PM
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Right! I use them even when I don’t have nails but I guess it’s not super common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:12 AM
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Yess! Easy to make and satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:11 AM
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I have an under the nail scrubby brush
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:01 AM
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I am 120lbs and trying to lose weight, with the totality of everything else I ate today, I’m probably in a surplus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:00 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/wiom8829qqtc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3f3043b34bd2e790aa1cdab79f08562a16d03ef9 Tonight’s dinner!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:57 PM
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This part. I’m like an in practice 4/5 but I’m 120lbs with good hair and mostly straight teeth I’m an on paper 8 😭😭😭😭😭 LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:44 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hqdjq8rprgtc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca46617041ce281fd2bdf448b1828e326930e9b7 Groovy nails this week! These were fun to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:27 PM
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Same it’s helped so much with not feeling self conscious in public
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:04 AM
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Honestly I don’t do it to be more attractive and I have a serious partner I’ve been dating for a year who I met wayyy before I started dressing more modestly. I think it has helped me on the validation aspect or whatever it makes me feel better knowing all the work and time I put into my body isn’t being judged by anyone else bc they can’t see it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:02 AM
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Since I’ve been dressing more modestly I have definitely felt a lot more confident and empowered!! Also I feel like people are more respectful of my space and time when I’m in public. It could just be my own perception but this has been rlly good for my confidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:25 AM
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I wore a t shirt and jeans it was very unassuming
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:39 AM
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Honestly it’s crazy to me that people go to the club to fuck because I’m so locked into dancing I don’t even pay attention. Like when I tell yall I’m fr dance battling and shit in the club I take it so seriously!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:51 PM
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Vickielo is so deeply unserious I’m so obsessed. I think this is why I get along so well w Carribean people. Caribbean + creole is a lifetime match
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:09 AM
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What is the body type where you look godly when you flex and like the fattest piece of bacon at the market when you’re normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:56 AM
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This is an academy award winning film it has nothing to do with the alcohol in my system!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:45 AM
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Talking about some higher education, you’re a DUMMY BITCH! Don’t nobody want you don’t nobody NEED YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:32 AM
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Imma get there friend just not soon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:28 AM
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I have been getting ready for like 2 hours but atp I get there when I get there if I even get there at ALLL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:11 AM
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Real friends are the one who will pour the drink on you during pour some sugar on me everyone else is just fake and doesn’t want you to shine!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:07 AM
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This is not #passportsis content I promise but I sleep soundly at night knowing I was a Caribbean 10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:02 AM
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Drunk face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/vfminv3ebzsc1.jpeg?width=1636&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e0f857ca57c79fa459a7b7557d15ca0a21e8986 Wearing my femcelcore to the club tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:45 AM
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Tbh i keep it low key wanna be a positive force whenever possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:40 AM
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I am based and skinnypilled still I promise!! But I honestly miss being thick I was trying to act like a bop and take mirror pics and forgot that I’m fucking FLAT NOW THIS IS SO EVIL 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:13 AM
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Anyway. Bend that ass over, let that coochie breathe, shake that ass bitch, hands on your knees 📢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:44 AM
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I have so many hot takes in the tank rn. But I will leave them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:37 AM
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It’s Saturday girl we r OUT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:27 AM
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More motivation to get to my goal weight then 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:27 PM
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Motivation to lose weight I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:25 PM
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I appreciate all feedback! I can post a picture later but I’m almost sure you’re right about the weight of the fabrics. I bought some cheap Amazon stuff bc I didn’t wanna splurge on nike and not like it and it’s pretty thin. And I went thinner because I like to dress like this for the gym too and it gets hot!! But I feel like if I got a thicker brand it would keep it from clinging to my body if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:56 PM
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It’s lowkey not interesting at all to me I’m entering my asexual amorphous blob era I don’t want to have sex or be perceived sexually in any way anymore it all disgusts me 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:52 PM
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Ik i have weight to lose but I don’t feel like im that big 🫠🫠🫠 I’ve seen women bigger than me rock oversized clothes with a similar look this was just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:51 PM
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I don’t have any boobs whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:04 PM
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Honestly I feel skinny enough that this should work for me I’m normally between 120-125 at 5’6”, but working on losing a little bit more weight. I have wide shoulders but a narrow frame. Body wise I feel like I’m one of the few people this should look good on, but it doesn’t give me that same effortless feeling for some reason. I think one of the issues may be the quality of what I bought bc I just bought some sweats and a sweater from Amazon to see how it would look on me before splurging on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:04 PM
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Q for the fashion girlies? How are we rocking oversized clothes/what am I doing wrong???? I love oversized/the Korean fashion look but I never feel like it lays right on me. I want my oversized look to be more like this. But it’s not giving me the right shape? I feel like I still look chunky instead of loose, even if I wear XXL. I’ve been typed as a FN too which means oversized and shapeless is supposed to look good on me but it always looks so weird!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:41 PM
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Tinder is garbage for the over 21s if she’s actually being serious (I doubt shes looking for anything meaningful because this would be moot) then she needs to get on hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:29 PM
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Yes I am black
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 PM
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I totally understand that and that’s really polite of you. Bad dates do happen but I just want you to feel like you have some agency too! You can take her home still, it would have been an awkward car ride but your boundaries would have been in tact
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:09 PM
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I drank for the first time since st pattys on Monday then I had an entire smoked salmon loin last night which was full of salt 😭😭😭 so I have definitely done both. Hopefully I can lose some of the water soon I feel like a sponge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:04 PM
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Now you know for next time! In the future I encourage you to establish boundaries and pick up and leave the moment you feel uncomfortable. It can be as sweet as “hey I am not feeling the direction of things currently, I am going to pay for (whatever portion of the bill yall agreed upon) and go home. I appreciate you meeting me.” Or you can even just privately tell the waiter you’re paying your portion of the bill and tell her you’re dipping. Don’t honor anyone with your time who does not honor y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:01 PM
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Probably not 😭😭😭 Brb chugging water today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:46 PM
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I generally eat pretty low carb/high protein but I’ve increased my training volume which was already making me retain more water and I ate an entire loin of smoked salmon with capers last night so it was a huge salt bomb. I may do sashimi for lunch instead of what I packed though just to keep the carbs down more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:45 PM
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How do yall get rid of water retention/bloating? I’ve been tracking my calories so there’s no way this is weight gain and my face is so puffy. I feel like shit what do I doooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:39 PM
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My bf says all the black guys are cool with him at work now after seeing me. We live in a super diverse city but his career can be segregated at times so it’s nice that they are cool w him and look out for him now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:24 PM
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I do those a lot but I’ll reel it back in in the middle somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:34 PM
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I tend to be one of those people that goes off the deep end when I become interested in something so I wonder how long it’s going to be between “I want to dress more modest” and “I can’t leave the house without a head covering” LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:24 PM
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He is Caribbean! I can pm you if you want specifics but I feel bad telling his business on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:31 AM
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Unironically all of my serious bfs except one have been first gen American but im not even doing it on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:43 PM
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My bfs ESL moments provide me a lifetime of entertainment. He was googling zanzibar and I look over and his Google bar says “San Sibar” ?????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:49 PM
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I always embarrass myself when I talk to the CEO but I genuinely love what I do so I love talking to the person who is in charge of it it’s so embarasssssssssing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:47 PM
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I eat no more than 1500 calories a day and I sleep in blinks in addition to training like a weenie so it’s probably all of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:08 PM
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I am!!! Not nervous because he stays at my place mostly anyway so it won’t be a big transition at all. Itll be really good for us financially bc I have a housing stipend bc of my job so it’ll be a huge benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:07 PM
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Yes they will love it! I have “fancy olive oil” I use for special occasions I got from Tj maxx ages ago. They come in these huge tins and they aren’t that expensive but I have no idea what I paid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:05 PM
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Yes!! It is so easy, I brought one to an Italian night w my friends. It is pretty dense and rich because of the oil but if you get a good quality oil you can still taste the flowery notes it’s so good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:55 PM
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Not thinking of getting anything crazy just hiring a family friend for a biweekly touch up but the house has been bananas since he’s been here and it’s so needed 😭😭 We are moving in together but he just broke his lease so we’ve got almost 2 more months! We are talking about marriage just NOT YET 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:51 PM
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Srs ive been playing around with variations this but i feel like im being regarded: BSS on first leg day B stance RDL on second leg day Also added step ups on both leg days because I fuck off calf raises and have extra time Will add deficit rdls in the mix for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:41 PM
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This is me with cleaning :-( I’m hyper organized with everything in my life except keeping house. I feel like a shit homemaker but I’m leaning on the fact that as long as I keep my current salary I’ll be able to afford to outsource it once me and my bfs incomes are combined. I’m terrible at that kind of stuff, even cutesy crafts and holidays are lukewarm with me, nothing like my mother in that front 😢😢😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:25 PM
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Thanks I’ll give this a try. I’ll have to add some accessories to make up for the lack of volume for arms for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:21 PM
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Raw and relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:20 PM
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Its an awesome program I just find it incredibly cumbersome with the weekly splits and I’m never going to make a fool of myself by attempting any version of a cable kickback lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:13 PM
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I don’t do enough studying to design my own program it wouldn’t be [jeff nippard voice] optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:11 PM
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I literally cannot find a program that’s as simple to run as PPL like literally nothing else makes sense to me. I’ve tried everything bc I really want a more glue focused program but I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:04 PM
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I have no opinion about the height filter but a weight filter would be pointless imo bc of how weight interacts with height. Also some people are just more dense or flabby than others. I’m 125 5’6”, most guys would expect a skinny girl at that weight but I’m pretty solid compared to most my size. Weight is just weird that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:25 PM
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Ooohh this is such a good idea! Most of my clothes are throwaway because I’ve lost a lot of weight recently but I have some really nice pieces from when I went out of town that I didn’t wanna get rid of <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:31 PM
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I agree! I bought some modest gym clothes today just to test it out and if it feels good I’ll slowly reframe the rest of my wardrobe too! I already dress a little bit more modest than most but I really wanna lean into it lately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:19 PM
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Recently getting into modest dressing. Not for any religious reasons just interested to see if I’ll feel better out in public more covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:07 PM
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I guess. I live in the south so it’s literally CONSTANT here I feel like it does get annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:55 PM
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Same I think I just get annoyed when it’s strangers. Me and my mom yap all day about nothing and I swear it doesn’t bother me but something about strangers just makes me angry??? Like ??? You don’t know me at all why are you telling me your life story
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:24 PM
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DAE get viscerally annoyed when strangers tell you more information than you need to know. I was explaining to the Amazon guy where to drop off packages and he went on this whole tangent about how he’s been doing this for years but this area of town is so confusing and I’m just like ?!?!? I’m not your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:17 PM
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They’re probably going to tell you to move this to the looks thread friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:13 PM
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Ok I’m shopping again today! The goals are a more feminine wardrobe but nothing too sexy or too grandma. Generally I just want some nice dresses I can go out with option 1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:32 PM
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Seriously. This is the main goal. Looksmaxxing is like my #1 hobby and it’s because I want the privilege associated with looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:14 PM
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Being incredibly thin is difficult to maintain if you dont have the genetics for it. I have very strong hunger cues and could only maintain below 119 for a couple weeks. I’ve been between 125-130 since then and I’ve felt more emotionally stable, my sex drive is back, I have energy and I don’t have headaches all the time. I’m 5’6” so those 10lbs are really the difference between me looking thin and looking average and it truly affects your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:07 PM
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Any reason you don’t like chemical sunscreens? The Neutrogena hydroboost is really good and doesn’t break me out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:39 PM
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Woo!!! Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:22 PM
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Root vegetables? Have you ever tried them fermented or stewed to break them down a bit? Like Kim chi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:04 PM
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I use Cronometer highly recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:02 PM
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Caribbean food is so nutritious no wonder all the girlies there are so pretty and glowing!! Root veggies and fish does the body good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:58 PM
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Ugh you have amazing taste these are stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:07 PM
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I’ve never understood this paradox of like be a career woman or be a family woman because all of the women I know with good jobs are married like you say. I guess if you are successful in one arena it’s easier to be successful in the other. I work a pretty normie real estate job and I am not married and it’s pretty common for my coworkers to be unmarried. I feel like all of my lawyer friends are married 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:56 PM
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I have pictures of myself on here but I have never claimed to be anything but average. I guess I don’t mean pretty, I mean satisfied with how I look because it’s really not gonna change by much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:17 PM
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I have actually been feeling really pretty lately I definitely feel like I needed to grow into my face. I’ve always had a round face and wide features but I find as a get older my facial fat has been slimming down and my nose is looking slimmer as well. My main issue is volume loss in my lips and needing some facial balancing but that’s way more affordable than a nose job and full facial surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:13 PM
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I have actually been feeling really pretty lately I definitely feel like I needed to grow into my face. I’ve always had a round face and wide features but I find as a get older my facial fat has been slimming down and my nose is looking slimmer as well. My main issue is volume loss in my lips and needing some facial balancing but that’s way more affordable than a nose job and full facial surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:43 PM
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Being in several serious relationships I realized a LOT of men care about their wedding too, not just women. My current partner is moving in with me soon so we’ve been having a lot of talks about finances and timelines and he always brings up time to plan our wedding and I am just like…. If you can figure out how I am going to get my 2024 Subaru forester and throw an international wedding in the same year then fine but I need the new car 😭😭😭😭 we don’t need the wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:19 PM
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This is so obvious to me looking at how girls dress for my Pilates class compared to how girls dress for the gym. Even for myself, At Pilates I wear matching bra/leggings sets and at the gym I dress as baggy and homeless as possible. Normally I wear a huge FD t shirt and sweatpants or leggings with a jacket tied around my waist. There’s like one girl at my gym who wears matching sets and I feel like I can feel people staring at her and it feels so gross. She’s tall and jacked through so I doubt …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:13 PM
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Wishing you and your little girl a lifetime of fun and friendship!! Good luck girl be safe!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:25 AM
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Basque cheesecake UGHHHH 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:24 AM
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I really don’t have much boobs at all I don’t wear a bra most days unless my top is skintight. I’ll def keep looking though!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:04 PM
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I’m a beanpole I have no t or a lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:45 PM
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This is cute but I would look like somebody’s mom in this fr
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:33 PM
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I wear so many sundresses but I have not gotten good feedback on my choices 😭😭😭 and I feel like the sundresses this season suck, I look boxy unless it’s slim fit or has waist emphasis and I don’t feel like that’s in style rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:32 PM
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Maybe this is a southern thing or maybe it’s bc all my friends are married but I literally don’t know any women who can’t cook. When me and my bf met I immediately learned how to make food from his home country bc I knew it was important to him. It’s how southern girls show love we have to know how to cook SOMETHIN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:27 PM
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Trying to work on my wardrobe and really struggling the line with dressing feminine, not dressing like a grandma, but also not dressing in an overly sexual way. Like I wanna be fun fresh and feminine but not sexy but also not granny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:13 PM
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Literally me and my current bf talked about marriage and our perspective on it during the first date. I do regular check ins just to see if his mind is the same or if he’s gone through any changes as well as asking him about the future of the relationship and check ins on just his general happiness and relationship potential. I feel like it’s very normal to talk about these things often if it’s a priority for both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:31 PM
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I think my bf would agree with this. So true! I’m going to reach out to ppl today and see who can come!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:19 PM
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Top golf or a nice Lego but this is what my bf likes and I didn’t want people to pick top golf based on like not liking legos or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:12 PM
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Q4M who touch grass: Would you rather your girlfriend book you guys an event to do together+with friends or get a physical gift for your bday? We are already getting dinner!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:07 PM
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Some men like to cook. My bf loves cooking even though I prefer to do it, it’s not a chore for him to a creative activity. Also some people are with their partners for who they are not because of the services they provide 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:49 PM
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Men don’t understand or know the experience of truly average looking women because they literally don’t even see us. Like you said, to them we are invisible. Which is fine by me, I get left alone in public unless it’s an old person trying to make conversation with me, but when they say their standards are low they mean the women they actually see as people not the invisible ones
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:23 PM
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Life is so busy when all your friends are married I can’t imagine what it’s like when you have KIDS. 😭😭😭 I’m tired friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:20 PM
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<image> Pollo guisado no further questions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:51 AM
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It is officially sunglasses in the store season 💖 time 2 run my errands without having an absolute conniption bc the store is crowded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:07 PM
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Omg I can’t dress at all in the winter I wish I had the aptitude to layer!! I love summer fashion, simple easy and colorful <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:50 PM
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My city is also pretty big and diverse and I also see lots of black women get varied attention but I’m just speaking from the perspective of just an average looking BW (edited the post to detail this) based on how she rated herself. If she’s above average (a true 6+) she will get attention from a better quality of guy most likely. & this is true I’m also a bit older than most people here so my advice comes from a mid twenties perspective. She may not even want kids or be young in which case my a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:22 PM
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Honestly though if she is black she is going to have trouble just being approached by a non-hood guy in general. If you aren’t in college (already graduated) and you want a college educated guy you will just have to explore different avenues I’m sorry. Why play on hard mode when your fertile years are on the line???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:06 PM
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Srs not a man but you can DM me. I’m average and currently dating a really amazing guy beyond what I could have dreamed. I dated pretty strategically and implemented boundaries + general delusion. I’m the same, like a 4-6 depending on who asks, thin (bulky but physically light), sterotypically feminine, dresses girly, etc. Do you mind me asking, are you black? Because you do not need to settle for hood guys because of that!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:39 PM
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That part. Honestly my standards were on the moon when I looked for a partner after my last breakup (in part to protect myself) and I found a partner that met all of that despite that. I will say none of my standards were “toxic” but they were definitely beyond what men on here find acceptable for an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 05:40 PM
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I feel like doing this is logistically and morally much worse when you are over 25 and wasting a woman’s time who likely wants a family and kids and under 25 when a woman probably doesn’t even have a pot to piss in on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:08 PM
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[angry posting because a fat chick doesn’t care that I don’t want her]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:06 PM
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I’ve never found any truly good resources on how men assess SMV and RMV. And this is from someone who considers themselves more traditional. Even in the RPW sidebar it’s like “go to the gym and shower :)” which is regarded for people who have the common sense to be doing that already and want to make genuine significant improvements
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:44 PM
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The crazy part is your standards can be as unrealistic as you want them to be though . Especially bc you don’t mind being single so what’s the issue with people???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:34 PM
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Same here not to sound like a crazy new agey person but I made a list with all his physical characteristics (hair type, skin color, build), job type, disposition, etc. and my partner happened to fit every single thing on it. No lines missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:32 PM
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Yes. I make sure that my partner is dating for marriage within the first few dates, and it’s something I reiterate all the time. My college bf and I ended up just growing apart before graduation, we couldn’t get along for some reason. My after college bf cheated on me. My current bf does not even bring up marriage unless I bring it up first.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 02:42 AM
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I would love to be a part of that separate space for sure. I am super familiar with communities where harsh critique is encouraged (I am a 5+ year vindicta user) and I am constantly self auditing but this is my blind spot. I don’t even know what I’m doing wrong. Going to work on that new account today
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 12:02 AM
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Thank you so much!! And reading it was really helpful! I’ll hunt down the more detailed post for sure. It’s so frustrating being good enough to date for years but not marry. I want to know what I’m doing wrong 😑 lol! Thanks girl!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 08:55 PM
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How do you even know if a guy is below your league or not? I think I am a catch but I also understand that I haven’t inspired a proposal so that’s probably not true. But honestly anyone less than my current partner I would really struggle to be attracted to. How do you find the sweet spot of someone below your league and willing to marry you but that you’d also want to marry?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 04:51 PM
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Actually you’re totally right I’m not sure! I don’t post here a lot because I like to delete my posts because my boyfriend and I have an open phone policy and he knows about my Reddit but I could be interested in doing it on a second account for sure. I just think it’s kind of lame for him to use my phone and see me posting about ways I can attract him 😭😭😭
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 04:44 PM
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Unrelated but as someone who just read this post and is interested in it I wish there was a separate sub about improving your SMV/RMV and getting better girl game. I’ve been in several long relationships (and currently in one now) and never been proposed to and I would love feedback
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 04:34 PM
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Seriously I’m a woman but I feel like being on birth control has effectively chemically castrated me. It’s not even the same as when I got put on anti depressants in college because at least then I still felt attraction and stuff. Maybe when they invent birth control for men it’ll be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:21 PM
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Just checked post history be serious you’re in CA it’s easier than getting weed there go to a med spa?????🧖‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:57 AM
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It’s not the same! I swear and this is as someone who abused drugs to get below 150 5’6” for years. I can rec you some subs if you’re in a country where they will send it to you legally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:16 AM
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This is terrible thinking. Where do you live and do you have access to ozempy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:50 AM
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Unrelated but reminds me of a time me and my ex bf went on a date to the zoo and a little monkey almost killed himself on the netting trying to attack me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:50 AM
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Honestly I put that song specifically on the aux all the time bc it’s objectively good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:38 AM
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https://open.spotify.com/track/49dFv4gH1SeY90FySDOwCE?si=zUG_CJPJQZ6yoILBxsyHuQ And sheeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:22 AM
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My schedule this weekend was literally DRUNK yoga DRUNK imma married womaaaaaannnn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:10 AM
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These are the kind of guys who hit on me in my city and I’m supposed to take it as a compliment instead of a threat for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:02 AM
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These are the kind of guys who hit on me in my city and I’m supposed to take it as a compliment instead of a threat for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:02 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/3jy9dyggzloc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b056141e9868ca2e0787abb35e91b6b263a01995 The result
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:39 AM
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Already taken 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:25 PM
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What should I paint on my st Patrick’s day tee??? Nothing too wordy it’s a baby tee
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:09 PM
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Slore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:19 PM
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I don’t argue with neurotics on here I just post my thoughts and rambles like twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:27 PM
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That is the aesthetic I’m going for here I love it. They also make them in metal shirts but they’re hard to read
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:00 AM
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FWIW I went searching for the off brand stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:54 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/i0zm813yzdoc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5019779ab7478e36ba998781f4464675fe105211 Or my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:47 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1lq3jkiwzdoc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=24223da749c4a3e9dfe888f35e2238cbebf120f1 Da boys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:47 PM
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Help me pick my pump cover (gym safety blanket)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:47 PM
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Did a little mat workout after work, I had 2 slices of pizza today so I was maybe a 2/10 on the nourishment but I did at least get a workout in!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:26 PM
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Seriously! Like once I get a boyfriend I’m supposed to shrivel up and become a hag?! I want to KEEP him not just get him 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:21 PM
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Hazi videos are so motivating I wanna be her so bad 😭 how are you faceless and the most enviable person on the internet it’s so impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:47 PM
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Few people will know the pleasure of their maximum potential in this lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:07 PM
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Looksmaxxing is not about getting a partner at all. And even if it was, do you think my boyfriend would prefer an average girlfriend or a gorgeous one? It benefits everyone around me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:01 PM
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What my looksmaxxing journey is starting to feel like this year. Let’s hope Q2 is kinder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:53 PM
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I miss frenemies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:38 PM
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Awww I saw so many of my friends in here! Maybe it was the rose tinted glasses of college but I always felt like the boys at my school were really cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:38 PM
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I live in a shithole but I went to college in STL Missouri!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:12 PM
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Literally every guy at my college looked like this I feel like if you’re anywhere that isn’t bumfuck a lot of guys look this good!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:20 PM
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Yeah I agree and I think this is why I struggle to even make male friends. It’s not out of a genuine desire to be around them it’s more like social signaling to say “look girls AND boys like me :)”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:17 PM
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I binge so much when I am weight training for some reason it makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:44 PM
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Do a girls trip to a beach town! If it’s like 4 of you you could do it for really cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:07 PM
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Awww 🥰 knowing me the cat would fly out of my hands lol During Covid I used packs of water bottles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:57 PM
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Dude same my pool opens Memorial Day weekend and I’m literally soooo ready
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:53 PM
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No heavy stuff at home
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:27 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zu4hvrf395oc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dce29eea65a336454099bb39a45cc8c3c53d46be Current hair like 4 months ago. I have been thinking about wearing it straight more but ik the chunky highlights would look crazy straightened so I’m all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:24 PM
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I can’t get braids or extensions my hair is too fine, I have thought about coloring it though!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:08 PM
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Yes 😭😭😭 I want to do something like this but I feel like I would have to get a professional to do it!! https://preview.redd.it/xpqwd73v45oc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=178e7760c903d392e5373133d87706debabcdf0c I think this is so cute I just worry it won’t fit my vibe bc this is giving beach bum and my vibe is more “done”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:02 PM
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I want 2 drastically change my appearance but I don’t think I want a haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:42 PM
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Is this a red flag? I saw my boyfriend after work today (I dressed up) and he was like “you look classy :)” like it irritated me so bad am I that fucking ugly you can’t just call me beautiful or pretty or anything
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 11:56 PM
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I don’t think it’s out of no where. It’s expected that you’ve had conversations about what you want and need but it’s okay to just be like you can’t meet my needs and give me security and clearly I am not meeting your needs enough for you to want me to feel secure so maybe it’s better if we find someone more compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:21 PM
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I don’t think it’s right to make it an ultimatum. And nobody wants someone to marry them by force. It’s better to just know in your head and walk away when you’ve had enough. I love my partner too much to force him to do something he doesn’t want to do even if that thing is being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:16 PM
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I will always be jealous of strong women I literally can’t even function when I am sad. I hate that my life stops when I’m feeling shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:22 PM
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We got together July 3rd of last year. In terms of the date I’m waffling on it. I want it to be year 2 but thinking about leaving makes my chest hurt. But by year 2 I’ll be 26 almost 27 and if I’m not at least engaged by then I know it’ll be time to double down and find someone who does want to marry me before the dating pool gets much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:58 PM
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Talking about my walk date honestly does just make me sad because I feel like I’m choosing between my dream of being and wife and mom and being with the love of my life for longer. It’s so tough to think about but I’m going to hate myself if I squander my dream on someone who is not sure if they want to marry me or not when I know I could find someone who is sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:44 PM
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I would like one but I wouldn’t be mad if we didn’t do one. My bf and I have talked about having a little wedding in his home country to keep people count and costs down, but I don’t think we would ever do a big American wedding. We are in a unique position to save (I get a huge housing stipend for my job) but we want to focus on saving for other things, so it’s not huge for us. Either way we are spending time in his home country and having a party to celebrate, because that is important to me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:49 AM
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It is God blowing kisses 🫶 [southern evangelical voice]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:12 PM
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Being in a situationship is the female equivalent of being a total loser to me. Like it has to be mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:51 PM
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That makes sense, I understand! Since I started birth control my sex drive has been in the toilet 😞 good luck girly and wishing you good health!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:15 PM
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The idea that these guys “don’t commit” is silly too. Like just because if you were 6 feet tall you’d pump and dump women all day doesn’t mean that most guys feel that way. My bf is all of the listed traits (which are not why he’s attractive, especially not because of his freaking race) and when we met he told me he was dating in order to find an LTR and eventually marry. Up front, from the beginning. And he behaved that way too. The issue is women will waffle with a guy who has wishy washy inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:14 PM
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Are you long distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:07 PM
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Rip I deleted the last comment bc I didn’t want to get brigaded for no reason but that is literally so funny I’m going to have to add it to my arsenal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:01 PM
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Whenever crusty old guys approach me I ask for money. Immediately. Like I need 1000 dollars right now. I have been working on my resting disgusted face but geezers have no shame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:58 PM
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I think this is one of the things my friends and I miss most about college. Literally the most fun part was putting on our makeup together and splitting a bottle of wine, leaving clothes all over the floor while we tried different outfits. There’s like a solid 1 hour of dancing that’s fun when out but the really magical part is getting ready
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:42 PM
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I don’t eat but looks like it smells great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:07 PM
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Honestly not anymore imo, especially not halfway. Maybe if it was down to the crack
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:07 PM
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I don’t feel autistic until it comes to making male friends. Then I start counting interactions and behaving like a fucking AI. It’s just puzzling to me like I feel like my bf thinks it’s a red flag and I kinda feel like it’s a red flag too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:39 AM
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My old manager (catholic) with like 8 kids and wife was a project manager/supervisor for a real estate company
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:10 AM
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<image> Did my nails today!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:21 AM
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Honestly just gimme the kid atp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:25 PM
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True it’s better to be safe. When I’m water fasting I will have a little bit of salt though bc it helps with the headaches/fading feeling for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:56 PM
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No but my blood pressure is always on the lower side usually when I’m at the doctors they have to take it twice because the first reading is low not sure if it’s related (I did not go to school for anything medical)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:44 PM
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Srs if I don’t have enough salt my vision gets black when I stand up and I get headaches. I know the salt isn’t good for me but I crave salty foods and vinegary foods constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:21 PM
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I’ve literally been posting an hour by hour of my day today 😭😭😭😭 like I was just talking about my lash appointment and my morning stomach ache half an hour ago they are tweaking for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:40 PM
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Yeah, keep it clean shaven! Your hair is wavy so I would grow it out a little bit more to show off the waves/curls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:38 PM
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Honestly no I don’t you probably just don’t pay attention to my posts unless I’m talking about a male but I spend way more time talking about my hair/nails/weight/outfits/whatever on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:34 PM
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Auntie Sam gets it on the front end
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:33 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/nny117m4mdnc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e7864cbeb88a0ed503a6a9b1148d1cf82270649b My peace offering for my bf knowing I’m about to wake him out of his sleep, ask him to do me 10 favors, and make him go out with me tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:27 PM
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Honestly I have pics of how I dress on here it’s pretty normal + a lil extra — like business Barbieish, professional but in a juvenile/extra way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:21 PM
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So true good thing I am a Barbie and not a person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:20 PM
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I feel so pretty today!! I just got my lashes done and she did a really cute short cat eye, when I normally go for longer. My aesthetic preferences definitely lean stripper so I was a little sad they weren’t long at first but now I really like them because the natural lashes look so much better on my no makeup days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:09 PM
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[passport sis voice/sarcasm] i feel like this is such an american phenomenon because in the Caribbean the guys would literally dress up and get a haircut to go to the bars. I went to a college w a high international population and the East Asian guys were always dressed better than me for class. My bf isn’t from here and whenever we go out with friends he’s always the only one in chinos and a button down and his friends are dressed like truckers. It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:23 PM
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So true. I lov a little stubble on my honey but he has a baby face down to the dimples and everything. Nothing too crazy but that two/three day grow out is chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:13 PM
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I had some mashed potatoes and now I’m getting ready I was so brave today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:12 PM
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My ex was 5’6” my current bf is 6 even I have no height preference as long as he’s handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:17 PM
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I live in a huge city even the guys get matches here. My bf was actively dating more people than I was when we first met, all from the app
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:39 PM
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The filters work as long as you set them as dealbreakers. I met my partner on hinge really quickly, I will always advocate for that app! I was on it for less than a month and I was really only actively swiping and going on dates for like 2 weeks. We’ve been together almost a year next month <3 Dealbreakers and never swiping through the stack (only through your likes) were my strategies on there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:34 PM
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My tummy hurts so bad today but I have a lash appointment I really can’t miss… womanhood is so hard 😭😭😭 something something hardest battles strongest soldiers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:31 PM
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I wish I could shake you by the shoulders and scream that you have time and you need to stop panicking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:55 PM
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I think a lot of this is area dependent but I’m 25 and my bf is 27 and he’s definitely on the tail end of his friends to settle down We are in the south though so people marry earlier but I’ve made it clear to him and myself I want to be settled down before 27 (for myself) and he feels the same about approaching 30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:43 PM
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Being chronically online never stopped me from getting hoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:13 PM
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We may be decorating shirts so I’m mostly looking for bottoms and accessories recs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:22 PM
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What are we wearing for st pattys ladies!! My cities weather is high 50s that week, goals are parade and a small concert that night!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:21 PM
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Those are the main looksmaxxing things why are you counting them out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:49 PM
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That’s true I just ate a bunch of foods that notoriously make me bloat and turn me into a balloon person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:30 PM
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I ate like shit yesterday but woke up looking absolutely fucking peeled out the tree what’s going awwwwnnn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:48 PM
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Yeah I think the objective analysis just gives you something to shoot for and work on in my experience. Like there is no ideal most objective attractive face but it’s easier to look at my own face and see what is objectively unattractive so it can be fixed or whatever. But you gotta see the forest for the trees and chase balance. For example a rhinoplasty may not work on me because while my nose is larger than what the ideal would be for my face, I have a large lower 2/3rds and a smaller nose wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:45 PM
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Braincels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:14 PM
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The girls at my school were daughters of millionaires there were like 100 average ppl in the whole school
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:19 PM
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These guys ran through ABGs at my college and they all drove cars that looked like batmobiles it was insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:00 PM
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Srs one time I thought I saw a study talking about how a lot of Asians could be genetically taller but they grew shorter bc of childhood malnutrition or whatever. My ex and his sister were way bigger and taller than their older brother who actually grew up in Vietnam but idk how much truth to that there is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:40 PM
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I forgot looks posts were banned but I stand by what I said!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:25 PM
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Honestly I am pretty open about what I look like on here but people calling me ugly doesn’t move me because I literally ask for critique. I’m lucky to be in the position I am and I can afford to fix whatever is wrong so I either apply it or I just move on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:09 PM
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I guess so. The influencers are hotter???? Addison Rae mogs her 10 times over and is way heavier than her. There’s no demand for facial beauty in Hollywood anymore 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:43 PM
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I post face and body on here friend but even if I didn’t I really don’t find her facially more attractive than the majority of women I see out and about in the grocery store. I’m not talking about her body at allll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:32 PM
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I never claimed to be anywhere near a baddie I just don’t think she’s anything special except for her boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:27 PM
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I wouldn’t say I look significantly better I just think we are both in a variable 4-6 range facially. I wouldn’t be afraid to go to a bar with her except for the fact that she has huge boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:26 PM
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No we’re both just mid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:21 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/v8r2tswwvwmc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c2bb3cf63895ac48920d25b63f4db57dc52f0871 I feel like nobody can see past her boobs she looks normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:11 PM
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Idc if it’s copium I truly do not find Sydney Sweeney more attractive than me from the neck up. She does nothing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:58 PM
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I’m not trying to debate friend I was really just trying to commiserate. I don’t give out any advice on here to men at all so I’m not telling anyone to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:42 AM
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Wow cute!! I will show him these!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:20 AM
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I’ll show this to him in the morning he will be entertained (this is beyond my scope of understanding)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:26 AM
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<image> Pew pew
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:59 AM
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Do y’all wanna see my boyfriends Lego truck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:58 AM
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I feel like you should just break up with her tbh. If you’re willing to dunk on her online one day you’re going to start resenting her. I think it’s normal to vent and ask for advice but you’re already tired of her friend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:19 PM
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I found my screenshots from when I first met my bf and I was screenshotting his hinge profile to send to my friends. I feel like he is so much more adult now, I have aged him LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:05 PM
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How do you have so many stock images of fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:19 PM
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I guess. I am pretty steadfast in the fact that this is something men will never be able to understand bc their sexual needs are different. Yes she would have if she wanted to but it’s way easier to not want to than to want to. Sex can be a huge mental/physical task for a lot of women. I am one of those people who will just acquiesce and do it even if I’m not in the mood but I can’t fault women who aren’t the same way because it is kind of violating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:49 PM
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I mean if it makes you feel better women who didn’t develop a lot of male friendships in college have a similar plight. I’ve been trying to make more male friends post college for a while now and failing. I’ve come to the conclusion some people just get along better with their same gender and I am one of them. I’ve always had lots of female friends so idk what the hang up is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:35 PM
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Honestly not to be a womandefender or whatever but if she genuinely did not want to have sex I doubt she would have been upset about the toy unless he was genuinely insulting about it. Honestly after days of a partner pawing at me and asking for sex I have genuinely thought to myself that I wouldn’t care if he cheated on me because at least then I would have some peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:23 PM
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Hime cuts r so cute!! I wear my hair curly like 99% of the time so I couldn’t do dramatic layers like a hime but I’m thinking about getting my old layers back and switching to a warm dark brown? https://preview.redd.it/ysm6j92wbrmc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e5fe1656aa7789fd9f52bca3c55c58c3c4fd8c6b FWIW this is like 4-5 inches shorter than my hair currently is so it would be a huge transition but I miss the way it looked when it was straight here!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:30 PM
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Srs sometimes I’ll come on here to post whatever my ramblings are for the day and I’ll see a violently misogynist post and I’m just like ????? Then I remember where I am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:10 PM
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I kind of want 2 cut and dye my hair but I also feel like I should think it through first, this is the longest my hair has been in like a year! But I think if I cut it now it’ll be long again by summer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:26 PM
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I have plenty of bad takes I just say them IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:14 PM
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Curly hair on guys is such a cheat code. I don’t think I could ever date a guy without curly hair. Obviously Asian guys get a pass here but otherwise curly hair is king
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:10 PM
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Dude same <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:41 PM
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I’m patuda so I won’t comment but…. This was appalling to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:36 AM
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Preaching to the choir friend, old school vindicta had a consensus on 18-18.6ish BMI ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:39 PM
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The cas is amazing!! Honestly if you use custom content and have a lot of packs the cas is even more fun than playing sometimes. I love making my own worlds from scratch including all the sims so I’ll have entire quarters where I’m just in cas and not playing the game at all. Super fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:35 PM
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Adult life? Sims 4 and cities skylines. I have over 1k in both games but I’ve been playing sims 4 since my freshman year of college and cities skylines all of high school through college and a lot more now since my job intersects with it so much I’ve been putting more time in lately. Child life? I had like 5k hours in sims 2 at one point but part of that was due to letting the game run overnight when I fell asleep playing it and I had been playing it for over 10 years, with some years playing it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:29 PM
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It doesn’t even need to be that dramatic bc there are spaces for people who want to use looksmaxxing as self harm but that’s not even the point of vindicta Literally the other day on there I asked for hardmaxxing advice and someone recommended therapy. Like isn’t this subreddit the place for hardmaxxing advice like it’s literally in the sidebar what are yall ON
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:31 PM
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Vindicta has been run into the ground. It was the first subreddit that made me actively use Reddit and now all the advice is feeel good kid gloves advice. It’s getting sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:59 PM
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Yeah I get you girl but that’s not the case for me! I am super fleshy especially through my hips and thighs, I could stand to lose 20 more pounds without looking “skeletal” due to the fleshiness of my frame. Here’s a pic of me literally last week girl I promise I have flesh to lose! lol https://preview.redd.it/ym2gh9nw0kmc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea1669d67b07efe01a2ce5b5330a3155222fd0dc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:55 PM
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Chasing objective beauty is a hobby of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:25 PM
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No guys get their CDL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:23 PM
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Between 5’5-5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:38 PM
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For sure! Right now the plan is to get to my goal measurement/size via weight loss then maintain with recomp even if it’s a higher weight as long as the measurements are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:38 PM
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Honestly I feel like I lowkey got treated better by men when I was like 150 and now I feel pretty invisible but I think more highly of myself the thinner I am and I know it’s objectively better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:35 PM
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Like 115 but I would be ok with being at a higher weight if my pants size was consistently 0-00. Right now I’m a solid 2 which I am not super happy with. I’m also hippy and bottom heavy so I hope the last few pounds along with some recomp will take care of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:34 PM
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Trying to get fit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:11 PM
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I like him he gives good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:08 PM
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Ooohh I’ll have to look into this! Lately I’ve been doing the home Pilates work outs when I’m strapped for time but I always walk away bummed that I didn’t actually get to lift weights so this would help a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:05 PM
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Ya girl saw double ones on the scale today…. Nothing crazy literally 119.8, but it made me so motivated I could cry 😭😭😭 we’re getting so close girlies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:04 PM
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I totally agree with this and I think this is a big thing that made me take my looksmaxxing more seriously this year. I am not happy with the types of guys or the amount of guys I normally attract so I’ve been investing all of my free money into myself. I will never understand the people who sit and lament about attracting uggos and blame everyone but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:55 PM
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It’s been so hard to be consistent in the gym lately with my work schedule changing so much it’s so annoying!!! Maybe I should just enjoy the break until things are more stable but I thrive on routines
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:04 PM
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Walk into the nicest Italian restaurant in your city and hope the manager is male. You’ll be employed in like 5 seconds just ask if they’re hiring (they always are)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:55 PM
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You only regain the weight if you eat normally. I used it and went from 155-120ish. I’m back on it now to get to 115/110 but I didn’t regain in my off period
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:52 PM
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Fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:51 PM
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I don’t do well without like written programming for some reason I wish I could wing it. Pilates body is so killer but I just don’t have the muscle mass to sustain that rn I need to be actively training
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:53 PM
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Intermediate!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:31 PM
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Yes please tysm!! I’ll look at the alive app too <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:19 PM
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QFW: are we using the hevy or strong app? Also what program is everyone running? I’ve been running a modified PPL M-F like L,Pl,P,L,Pl, but I think I want something with 3 leg days and more glue focus. I am switching gyms soon so it’s a good time to switch up the program!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:11 PM
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Unironically same here girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:38 PM
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Srs entered her post history because I had to see what kind of person was saying this and I honestly felt sorry for her and decided not to say anything bc… wooo girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:17 PM
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I have no idea what colors look best on me. Recently I ruled out winter colors and muted colors. Maybe autumn but I feel like I look washed out in brown? I def prefer bright spring colors on me but it’s so hard to make a cohesive adult wardrobe with those
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:36 PM
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Same!! I wanna buy some in some spring colors bc all I have is the cool silver
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:34 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:34 PM
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Yes!! The flash makes the reflect-y effect its similar in the sun!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:33 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ztgc7suftcmc1.jpeg?width=1736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6aeca3a1cf201a74373a7d465209fb04ae5cd27e Nails of the week! Still getting the hang of the cat eye thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:41 PM
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Literally this. I had to make a burner account so that I could book with my lash tech/see the menu for a new bar that just opened/keep track of my apartments discounts it’s like everything is on there!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:10 PM
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I literally hear tubas everytime this guy comments the fixation on it is INSANE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:15 PM
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Dude same. People cringe when I say I wanna be 18 BMI but im so bottom heavy it just looks so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:14 PM
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I’m out shopping today and I wish I had brought headphones I wanna have a boozy lunch but sitting at the bar with no entertainment is so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:38 PM
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I go to get piss drunk but that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:09 PM
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Me but starving myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:25 PM
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My bf said I was looking more toned today. I don’t see it but I appreciate him gassing me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:54 PM
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Yeah I don’t disagree. I fucked up and fell in love in the meantime so I need a boundary for my own sanity. I can’t just pick up and leave and find someone who does want to marry me but I think developing a firm boundary will empower me to do it when the time does come
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:03 AM
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I agree for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:28 AM
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That makes total sense. I’m 25 now and met him at 24. I think if it’s not by next year I’ll have to walk, just being sensitive to time and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:28 AM
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Yeah I could see that if I were younger. I want a few years to enjoy my husband/marriage without kids in the picture but I also want to prioritize having children so it’s just UGH!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:22 AM
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Married ladies/ladies over 25 who want to be married: what was your walk date for no proposal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:56 AM
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Chopped up chicken pieces really small in my lunch so I could get some protein and somehow managed to pick around all the chicken I just can’t anymore it’s so 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:52 PM
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Srs my mom completely flipped the script on me and would tell me everyone’s just jealous and that’s why I wasn’t popular Now I’m an adult with common sense and I’m realizing that’s insane but I’m just giving my moms answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:51 PM
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Srs what will happen if I never do squats again. Like I keep everything in my programming but squats what happens I’m running PPL rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:06 PM
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Dude am I your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:49 PM
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My parents are poor and they still beat me wth kinda deal is this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:46 PM
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My obsession w her is never ending tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:58 PM
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Based and pocpilled I agree they are outside animals ONLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:50 PM
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Sublime
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/bgan72ww3jlc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=564124717154337d08db3ebde86e4431fad2f773 TIME 2 PLUG IN
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:46 PM
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So good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:46 PM
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Equally yoked his hairline is in his ass crack
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:41 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gmrktulfzilc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b70a72c111a69bf6e8654a9cddab8eb6f81abd7a Happy pull day let’s keep it spicy girlies <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:21 PM
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Yummyyyy the egg will help. Tofu is one of my favorite foods in the world <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:38 AM
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I made chicken and dumplings today and I ate so much I feel like a big fat burger
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:06 AM
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Yeah I think that in blackpill communities a lot of time it’s so intertwined with their ideology they can’t see the forest for the trees I think for me it’s easier because a lot of it is just simple self care. I stopped seeing ROI on my looksmaxxing a while ago but I still do it because even seeing minimal improvement is fun. It’s like grinding a video game or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:47 PM
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I don’t find it deranged at all. What’s deranged is completely externalizing your locus of control and blaming others for having an unfavorable opinion about your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:29 PM
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I feel like I’ve lowkey gotten to the point where lookmaxxing is my main hobby like all of the content I consume is about the areas where I could be making improvement. It kinda gives me a sense of control like i am always finding new places where I could be doing better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:22 PM
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Yeah sorry I should have clarified I mean it’s a good sign! I will say I have had (male) coworkers before where I felt like I have been to friendly to them and now they want to talk all the time. But unless you get the feeling she is trying to distance herself it could be a good sign!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:36 PM
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Yeah sorry I should have clarified I mean it’s a good sign! I will say I have had (male) coworkers before where I felt like I have been to friendly to them and now they want to talk all the time. But unless you get the feeling she is trying to distance herself it could be a good sign!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:35 PM
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I feel like most women have been trained out of this if they’re mildly attractive. I don’t even consider myself attractive (but I definitely look friendly) and I’ve completely erased all approachable aspects of my personality because if I go in the store with my normal resting face multiple people will stop me and make conversation. Like I am not friendly I just look that way and I don’t want to talk about which conditioner you should get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:10 PM
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Seriously this is what happens most the time. A woman is backed into a corner with no bargaining chip and thinks giving it up is going to change his mind. It’s like a last ditch tool to convince a man to commit to you it’s very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:01 PM
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Seriously this is what happens most the time. A woman is backed into a corner with no bargaining chip and thinks giving it up is going to change his mind. It’s like a last ditch tool to convince a man to commit to you it’s very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:01 PM
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<image> I need the bag on the regulaaaaaa TUH!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:03 PM
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<image> Let’s push it today girlies <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:58 PM
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Srs I tell my bf all the time that if we ever break up I’m going to live out the rest of my life as a widow I’m so not interested in dating again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:02 PM
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Who we naturally are is who we want to be friend 🫶 I am not a naturally outgoing or honestly caring person but I make notes to check up on my social circle because that’s the kind of person I want to be. My friends often describe me as a really thoughtful person and I don’t think I am any less thoughtful because it’s something that I /try/ to be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:51 PM
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I think more BW could do well in IR dating if they let the sjw tendencies go. People are spreading “bw are undesirable” propaganda in the comments but in practice is really just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:40 PM
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I am an overrater too I just think everyone is a hottie <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:20 PM
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I am going to zero in on this outfit because I find it super cute and easy to do for everyday. I would keep the blue knit body con mini! I am 25 and I would probably go for a midi but I am old. I would replace the cropped cardigan with a white oversized cardigan. This will give you that more adult and less baby slut look. I always accessorize with oversized silk bows because they’re actually on trend right now so it gives you that youthful pop but a lot of older girls are still wearing it! I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:53 PM
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Hey girlie do you want serious advice about how to incorporate a cutesy-frilly Lolita core into everyday style or are you interested in a cheerleader rn? Bc I’m always going to support wearing whatever you want and I love this style but if you’re interested in making it more everyday appropriate I can help with that too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:34 PM
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What is particularly despicable about a community that encourages women to be as attractive as they possibly can? I thought men liked hot women? And it’s not far fetched to have one just for women of color, for example I have long curly hair, advice on blondemaxxxing is irrelevant to me as it would probably not increase my attractiveness. Even advice about color seasons makes less sense for a lot of brown women because even if you are cool toned, your skin may favor gold over silver because of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:30 PM
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I guess. Maybe it’s that I am an old school vindicta user and cope is (was) banned in old school vindicta. Also I hate the implication that every other black girl is struggling bc being black is just so bad bc that’s not my experience. There are tons of black girls having success, SHE just isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:25 PM
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It was clown behavior. There comes a time where you have to stop blaming your color and start blaming yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:16 PM
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<image> Good morning ladies let’s keep it sexy today!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:20 PM
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Good morning. Woke up to a permaban from vindictapoc for telling a weirdo that I didn’t care that she hates being black… okay anyway 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:30 PM
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I remember when I was little and I behaved like a loser I got my ass beat. Maybe it’s the nu-parenting or whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:15 AM
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I am sorry that you are traumatized friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:11 AM
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This is where the vet ruthlessly part of the message comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:10 AM
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For sure! I always tell my bf I think men are capable of anything and he understands my pov even if I think he will always be kind to me/others. Just gotta watch your 6
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:58 AM
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I would assume from this you are probably younger but I think the fear of having your value ruined will drop off with age. It’s not real 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:52 AM
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I like to think they’re not as common as we think we are. Ofc you have to stay vigilant but woman’s intuition is stronger! Just vet ruthlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:51 AM
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Seriously I rarely post about men in general. I like talking to other women about relationships but from the male end of things I just watch 👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:50 AM
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Q4W: has being on here affected your opinion of men? Honestly before I joined this forum I didn’t know so many men felt so severely about women… especially bc the men in my life don’t really have trouble with women. I just didn’t know this was the state of things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:31 AM
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They find average looking women attractive enough to use while they fantasize about being with a woman they actually find attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:29 AM
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Where did you guys live in the Midwest? I went to school in STL and at 5’6” 150lbs I was treated like a fat piece of bacon 😭😭😭 I was like a Midwest 2 back then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:19 AM
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I did recently-ish graduate (I just turned 25 and graduated at 22) Personal/looks: Get to 115 Have my looks be at a place where I feel like they are to my advantage Physical: Learn how to swim Get better at my 1 foot jumps on skates Move up to the 2 level Pilates class Mental: Get promoted into a director position at my job or move into a city job (just got my first promotion this year woo!) Financial: Buy a new car and ditch my beater that I’m in love with <3 Social: Become a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:46 PM
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Body weight transformations always go crazy for sure. I’m trying to get down to 115 for summer or at least by January but when your weight is already relatively low it’s an uphill battle. Gotta have a talk with my bf about tracking my dinners and eating healthier on my end and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:24 PM
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This is a really good transformation! Thank you for posting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:18 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen that before. I am like 10 years post puberty so that ship has sailed I’m looking an adult woman’s results
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:44 PM
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Oh wow, congrats!!! It sounds like a long recovery though I honestly don’t think I’ll qualify for anything like that, my jaw development is pretty decent and where it is insufficient could be fixed with mild fillers I think. I am more so looking at an average person who becomes conventionally attractive via elective procedures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:37 PM
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For those of you who frequent looksmaxxing forums: Are there any posts of someone who went from about a 4/average to conventionally attractive 7-8? Like a detailed post with what they did and prices. I can even look up prices myself I just wonder if it’s possible to push past your genetic potential and get out of the average range once you’ve fully softmaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:18 PM
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I do not work with my bf he is a first responder and I work on one of the biggest thoroughfares to the hospital!! I just see him all day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:43 PM
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Hehe I love it when my bf passes my office at work ❤️ being away from him for long shifts is hard but it’s cool to see him on his way to save lives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:07 PM
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The glazing is definitely a two way street, I can’t even find good advice on vindictarateme anymore and that’s supposed to be the no glazing 100% honesty sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:35 PM
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I won’t bc my preferences aren’t really the end all be all if someone is attractive or not. Plenty of people on here probably find me unattractive too, I just think it’s funny and it happens a lot on r/ dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:34 PM
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I love them, but I feel like most people wouldn’t like them unless they already like canned tuna. I like them w hotsauce or mustard <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:18 PM
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Srs when these guys post face in the dating sub a lot of times it ends up being a guy who is not attractive at all and the guys in the comments are glazing the hell out of him 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:17 PM
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I packed sardines for lunch but now I really want hot food :-( trying not to eat out as much is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:42 PM
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Bc that’s all they qualify for. Or they view women in the 24-26 BMI range as disgustingly obese. None of my friends are obese either, but I will say my comfortable weight is at the top end of a healthy weight like 150lbs or so and men treated me a like a hambeast then lol. I was literally a size 6 with a 27inch waist it was crazy especially because I didn’t feel fat at all tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:04 PM
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I honestly think a large portion of this rhetoric comes from men who are near virgins and they expect the women they are into to be the same (despite being largely more desirable than they are) Me and my current bf both have n-counts that I see people on here put in the “eww I would never touch her” range. But Tbf I have never had an issue with securing commitment from men at a similar range. By 25 even a long term relationship every year since 18 is going to rack your body count up, and that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:30 PM
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Just a garbage human throw him AWAYYY lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:57 AM
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I thought looks posts were banned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:27 AM
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Looks maxing doesn’t automatically make you hot there are a large portion of us who do an extensive amount of looksmaxxing to be average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:12 PM
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I couldn’t imagine a guy that sucks at everything 😭😭😭 like even at work you suck wth???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:06 PM
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Ik im just trying to hurt my own feelings but i would love to see pictures of the women they rated as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:20 PM
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I consider myself tall at 5’6”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:03 PM
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It was for me too :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:40 PM
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PPL is one of the most recommended programs on here tbh. I still run it in my third year, just with one push day now. also GZLP(or another user I can’t remember) has been training every single day for like 5 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:26 PM
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I found some cute pink ones on Amazon I hope they make some ppl smile :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:18 PM
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Does anyone else write thank you cards? Any cute custom ones on Etsy? Im in my professionalism era!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:10 PM
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I honestly feel like this is why you can’t even get good advice from Vindicta anymore. There’s no where to go to get quality critique from another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:07 PM
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I was a 150-160lb female for 2 years I know what the dating market is like that that weight for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:13 PM
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I was Whitney like 2 years ago except I wasn’t widowed lol I still don’t rlly like animals though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:10 PM
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If I wanted to get my ass beat by a man I would just go around telling them all what I really think about them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:09 PM
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I am working on abs this summer maybe I’ll get boobs next time I get a promotion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:03 PM
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Literally have no idea how women keep a low body fat and boobs. I’m 19/20 BMI with weight to lose and im flat as a board. At least buying tits is like an easy 5k but I lowkey prefer not having any even though ik its objectively less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:29 PM
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Srs I see the red flags for ME PERSONALLY but I don’t wanna be mean and give unsolicited critique but I’m sure there’s someone for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:10 PM
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Also I feel like fit women don’t actively search for fit men. I’m on the fit side but not a model (5’6” 120ish) and when I was dating I was not factoring in fitness at all. If anything I actively swiped left on gym guys because my comfortable/easy weight is somewhere around 150 and I currently have to watch my diet like a hawk to maintain where I am at. Life gets in the way sometimes and I didn’t want to be with a partner who would lose attraction because my 2s are getting tight. Also fitness ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:58 PM
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Omg do you wanna be best friends I’m OBSESSED WITH THE COUNTESS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:49 PM
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Thank you! I’m nosy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:42 PM
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Omg who is the user I have to know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:16 PM
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Ugh that’s a good idea I wanna make this with mashed yucca one day. I may make it this weekend since it takes a bit longer. I don’t have an instapot YET
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:30 PM
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What should I make for dinner tonight? My bf has had work and school all week so I wanna make something nice No steak, pasta, or salmon pls :-) or Asian food bc I make that all the time I was thinking about a nice southern meal but idk if I wanna eat something greasyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:20 PM
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Never understood why not both. I could support me and my bf on just my salary and he makes way more than me. After a year of saving you can have a nice ring and your down payment it doesn’t have to be one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:54 PM
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Both. They both suck that’s why they like each other. My mom gets a pass though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:42 PM
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Just not witty at all. No sense of observation or pattern perception. Just npc like behavior. Gotta be a little sassy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:29 PM
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I couldn’t imagine 10 people telling me I didn’t look like my pictures. That’s bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:23 PM
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Will-o the wisp babe Oh baby it’s blue flame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:28 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/etz4q0c27ckc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d4729826638e8314ee2c389a9b23f18d0c5e8e5 This mornings mothering
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:27 PM
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They honestly don’t. I’ve been getting my nails done since I was like 15, the only time I had to take them off is when I was a server, they would pop off and get caught in things all the time and hurt Now I have a desk job and a dishwasher so they don’t really bother me also they aren’t as long as they look tbh here’s the back https://preview.redd.it/z6g6j0vh5ckc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f012df9bc49b75101b5b5a80ecb10e63796b9cd9
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:18 PM
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I agree I need a pinker base! And the rings too they’re somewhere in the bottom of my purse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:30 AM
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I did as a child and I was told that by my piano teacher but I didn’t stick with it I preferred art/dance over music
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:20 AM
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Ooga booga 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:19 AM
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I like the lighting it’s pretty and decorated like a rosebush https://preview.redd.it/9zg4zw2xg9kc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=621e4e4e039cfffd833a73fbd63d7cb2b3fb16d6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:17 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/rcnc8ofrf9kc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=60af91acec1eab2552746324f4020bbee2e8d885 Idk it looked different in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:11 AM
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I just did my nails but I don’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:10 AM
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I love a tastefully done lip filler moment but I am also aware that my aesthetic leans a little bit more “done” than most. Like obvi not the fake look but I’m not a clean girl natural aesthetic girl AT ALLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:54 PM
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Srs I did this got my bf right off of a broken engagement. Shot several points above my league that way <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:07 PM
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Does she at least carry it well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:53 PM
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Srs men treat women that are a 6 the same way they treat 22s anything over a 130lbs is a beast to them and even 130 is pushing it 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:46 PM
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I’m not poor (idk maybe I am but I don’t feel poor or live paycheck to paycheck or anything) but I’m also a bumpkin so my idea of poor is different than most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:37 PM
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I think having big boobs looks classier than having a big butt but since I have a big butt I don’t think I want to have any boobs at all bc then I would look whorish lol But once I reach my GW I think I would want a boob job
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:13 PM
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Preferred form is Pilates when I can catch a class or roller skating but I don’t always register for class in time and sometimes the weather is bad so lately I’ve just been running bc it’s easy and fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:11 PM
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Some purchases I’m considering duo corset cami in Rosie it knit skort in frosty cream ruffle maxi in cream floral My frivolous spending has been out of control but I feel like these are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:41 PM
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Annahaysayeo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:33 PM
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I’d rather be the hot one but my bf is definitely conventionally hotter so sometimes it just turns out that way I can’t choose who chooses me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:26 PM
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I refuse to concede to any of these claims that women make that men are clueless or dumb or simple. Men know they always know!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:22 PM
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I just agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:14 PM
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Hey im not overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
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Yeah that’s big ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:32 PM
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What do you consider fat jw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:04 PM
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Literally so obsessed with this song years later it’s insane how good it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:27 PM
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<image> They mothered so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:08 PM
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My bf is a fireman so he has a 70s sweeper (for some reason they all have it) and it’s so sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:46 AM
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Ohhhh what is it! I need one for summer I’m planning on doing only the essentials during pool szn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:04 AM
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Hit 19 today so I am going to brag a bit since we are BMI posting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:39 PM
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Aren’t u the guy with the huge wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:36 PM
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What should I buy today I want 2 make a purchase (preferably something beauty or fashion related)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:51 PM
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Gym 5 days a week, got a promotion this month and still feel like shite :-( thanks anyway friend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:42 PM
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Srs someone said this earlier but the rating for whether you’re hot is not judged against the population it’s judged against other hot people. I’m 19 BMI (new low weight today :-)) w/ decent facial symmetry and a vindicta 5/6 — but literally so few people are 19 BMI or less
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:39 PM
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drama is exciting when it happens to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:55 PM
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Rate my thit ko game <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:35 PM
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Idk I feel like Texas is liberal. Either way I feel like it’s just how I was raised. Especially more Baptist people. It’s just the expectation. Heels are everyday wear. Like for a shopping day it’s not uncommon to wear a block heel, blouse, and a jeans. Or a sundress and sandals. Whatever as long as it’s presentable. Not fancy just look nice. I will say younger ppl are less like this though and I’ve gotten more strict about it as I got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:21 PM
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My dad is low iq too they probably got along
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:06 PM
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My ex was like 5’5” and I wore heels all the time. I’m southern I literally wear heels to the grocery store a man being shorter than me is not going to stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:59 PM
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When me and my ex broke up my dad said he would help me out and set me up with an extremely low IQ wanna be gang banger he met in an Uber. Literally would rather die alone than enlist my family’s help again. Luckily I started dating my current bf weeks later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:57 PM
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I barely work chest push day is another rest day for me 😭 I do ab work on that day to pad it though. Legs is always tough for sure. I think my pull days are garbage bc I’m in a shitty apt gym but when I was in my university gym they flew by bc I could actually deadlift which was most of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:08 PM
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DAE feel like pull day is never ending. Recently added pull day twice a week bc my back is lagging and I feel like it’s making the whole week longer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:02 PM
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Obviously doesn’t count. You can have big boobs from implants and still be super skinny but you will only get a big butt from being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:47 AM
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Honestly depending on age for commitment too my bf is 27 and he was ready to settle down quickly w me we were official and exclusive on the 3rd date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:45 AM
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Chad’s r easy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:41 AM
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Not to bring discourse from another sub over here but having a small waist with a big ass is still being fat sorry 😞 just because your proportions are favorable doesn’t mean you aren’t fat 😔 this includes myself ladies but we have 2 stop coping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:38 AM
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I post face but I also don’t LARP about being attractive on here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:34 AM
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This is jokes but I do lowkey feel like my bf is trying to turn me into a fat piece of bacon sometimes we eat steak and potatoes with cheese n butter n stuff everytime he cooks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:59 PM
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Same. I’m truly disgusted w people with an external locus of control. Everything that goes wrong in my life I think about what I did to cause it and what I could have done better. I couldn’t imagine being a flaccid pansy who flops around depending on which way the wind is blowing. Eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:17 PM
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Why does it matter when men have control of commitment (what women are truly vying for). Whether or not women find men sexually attractive is pointless because most quality women are not seeking sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:14 PM
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I don’t pay for half of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:45 PM
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We love a GJB def my type of choice in college. He looks a little too old for me but he’s def handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:57 PM
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He is so babygirl I have to laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:06 PM
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This is unironically my Pinterest except in between the crash diets there are wedding ideas and instead of young Al Pacino it’s young Keanu reeves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:05 PM
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I don’t really give advice because I am not really concerned with the success of men on here. Really a 10 minute sit down with your friend who is in a successful relationship would provide more insight than 500 women on here giving you advice so I don’t participate in the BS I really come on here to talk about girly things n looksmaxxing anyway I treat this as a casual conversation Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:04 PM
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I feel like this is just optimizing the part of having a boyfriend that sucks I love my bf and I love going out with him but I hate when we have to communicate about stuff via text a lot of times we save stories for each other for when we’re in person so this is just the shitty part
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 PM
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I read a post on here earlier about a guy being upset his coworker didn’t want to make small talk with him. This is something I’ve actually been meaning to talk to my boss about (she’s my friend) but what’s a good way to tell your coworker that you literally do not want to sit and small talk all day. I have a coworker who will come sit in my office and hang out (my office is like an open air lobby so it’s not that weird) and sit on his phone and make small stalk with me and I’ve started to get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:30 PM
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Thank you for this! I also sent you a message as well. My bmi is healthy but not low. I’m between 19-20 right now working to get firmly in the 18 range. I’m working on my body shape via lifting but it’s hard to keep my bmi low and lift simultaneously but I am on ozempic to help with the appetite issue. I should be there by the end of this year. I’m decently muscled because I’ve been lifting for almost 3 years now! Skin is not flawless due to hyperpigmentation but I wear makeup daily and Im decen…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/24 05:06 PM
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I need advice from you then 😭😭😭 I feel like I always screw up with men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:46 PM
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Most women don’t want sex they want marriage. Only women obsessed with sex are the ones who can’t get validation via commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:58 PM
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Srs for some reason I think men have an invested interest in keeping you fat. I even posted a physique critique in the FITNESS subreddit and a guy on there said he preferred my physique at 155 and a size 6 (like a 24/25 bmi for me). I’m currently 125 and like a 20 BMI trying to get to an 18 bc men truly want us to be ugly for some reason I think they find it more attainable!! I got approached way more at that weight too but I think it’s bc I’m pretty curvy and low value guys sexualized me then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:56 PM
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The side effects are so scary to me! I get my eyelashes done professionally bc I just can’t deal with mascara every day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:49 AM
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Non surgical things 2 look better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:48 AM
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Bc they talk about degeny things on here. Everyone irl knows I’m obsessed with being skinny which is all I talk about online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:23 AM
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What r some softmaxxing things ppl often forget?! Im feeling like im missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:18 AM
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Yes ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:16 AM
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Only the brave post face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:15 AM
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Literally so gross 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:43 PM
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Worth it? Literally whatever I have. How much I would actually spend in practice? I would probably be willing to spend about a quarter of my salary if I had a really really good commission year
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:40 PM
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Srs the only woman who would have to debase herself enough to be thirsty in a man’s comments is probably deeply below average. It’s cretinous behavior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:38 PM
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Been with my Chad for almost a year now <3 chads need love 2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah but who cares. Women don’t desire men for sex we desire them for commitment. Men control commitment and women control sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:58 PM
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I can’t say on average but I will say it has helped me for sure. It gave me access to the men I wanted! - I have always worked female dominated industries (childcare and now real estate) so I didn’t have access to men my age. My college boyfriend and I split post college so I didn’t meet the LOML there. Better men were interested, for long term not just sex - generally, in my city, the only kinds of men who approached me were homeless or gang bangers. Once I started dating online I was getting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:18 PM
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Need 2 go to the gym today but I am lazyyyyyy. At least it’s pull day <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:04 PM
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This sounds so good wait!! We don’t have jarrah brand in the US but the nestle should work fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:58 PM
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Ughhh I know that feeling 😭 Godspeed girl hopefully this summer shred is kind to you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:36 PM
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<image> Easy peasy! The caramel shifted in the oven though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:35 PM
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Yeah I’m working on leaning out. I’m in the range now where I can see my 11s but no real ab definition. I think if I were to get down 5 more pounds I could see more but I feel like I have to focus on my nutrition more. My bf has been into cooking more lately but he makes super high calorie foods
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:28 PM
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Honestly a lot of women don’t respond to lifting the way men do though. To get a lifters body takes a lot of work as a woman while a man can be soft (body fat wise) + strong and still look built. If you’re built + soft as a woman you’re just going to look fat I’ve been lifting for 3 years but my physique is pretty regular a lot of the women with ultra lean gym bodies have done an amount of work I physically can’t comprehend is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:21 PM
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Made cheesecake dulce de leche bars to take to my bfs station tonight for their midnight snack. The recipe only made a 9x9 I thought it would make more 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:18 PM
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He’s atheist so it doesn’t bother him I have done things as simple as writing his name on paper and freezing it when he’s being sassy with me and as extreme as blood rituals it’s whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:02 PM
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I’ve been telling my bf about the witchcraft I do on him since I met him he doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:27 PM
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I struggle to lose weight I’d give up food forever tbh if that meant I can be 18 BMI without the hunger feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:15 PM
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I wish I hated eating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:53 PM
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Would you guys give up food forever if that meant you could maintain your ideal BMI for the rest of your life with no effort. 18 BMI for life, no hunger, but you never get to eat again (you can have liquids and get drunk or whatever just no food)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:30 PM
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If fear is insatiable desire to be skinny then yes. I wish I could stop desiring food forever if that meant I could be thin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:06 PM
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A bmi of 20 is truly not that thin. Im 20 and still considered chunky to a lot of ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:24 PM
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I’ve been running PPL 3 years for mid physique so def not that despite my addiction to it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/it0920e34tic1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=11b01b350c38b28a859df211b9b1a81e76f18d00 Emerald for my hand personally. Emerald if you wear square nails oval if you wear almond!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:13 PM
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No I only have 10 or so lbs to lose and my app tracks my progress for that, I just mean like a spreadsheet that tracks when you did certain procedures Eg Chemical peel/ type / date / notes, maybe conditional formatting so that it’s in red if it’s been x amount of days since proceedyres I may start working on one today and share it I have time to make a spreadsheet today
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:29 PM
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Mirror palais everything. Def getting my wedding gown from them <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:20 PM
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Does anyone have any cute xcel spreadsheets for looksmaxxing stuff. I love keeping track of everything in excel so I wanted to see if there were any before I made my own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:19 PM
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Thank you! I’m not OP but I’m following the thread bc I’m going through something really similar so I figured I could use the feedback as well. Regarding your last two paragraphs, if you are someone who has accepted that if you have to question your beauty, you are likely not that beautiful, where do you go from there? Especially if you have already worked on “glowing up?” I have been on vindicta for years and work on my appearance constantly. I never really get approached or complimented so I a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 01:27 PM
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Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:03 AM
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DAE Chad work 24s/48s?! We moved our Vday to tomorrow 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:54 AM
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My goal is to start surgical intervention by next year. My Invisalign will be paid for by year end but I def don’t have enough to pay for surgery yet This is part of why I’m focusing on looksmaxxing so much bc I work in sales and eventually I want to save up enough to get the necessary surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:23 AM
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I do go out but I do notice my friends don’t love going out as much anymore. Considering doing more stuff on my own bc I live in a huge city so there are always events and live music and stuff and I’m not a home body at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:59 AM
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I’m working on it friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:56 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:51 AM
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Yeah I know that I’m not really looking for a man I have a bf I love dearly I am just wondering what a good mechanism is to quantify where you stand attractiveness wise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:45 AM
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Srs I promise I’m not trying to get glazed here I guess I am just trying to figure out where I stand physically? I don’t have a lot of the quantifiable things that people often associate with beauty (approaches, pretty privilege, free stuff, job offers, etc) so it’s hard for me to know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:44 AM
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I haven’t been approached in like a year I’ve been really working on my looks this year and I feel like I don’t have any results or evidence to show for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:29 AM
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I can def see this POV and I feel like most men would be intimidated approaching an extremely attractive woman for sure. On the flip side I feel like it’s more likely that men aren’t interested rather than you are just so attractive that men won’t approach you at least for the average person. It’s very hard to become overly attractive for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:28 AM
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I guess that’s true but I find most red pill (RPW) and pink pill (vindicta/splendida whatever) kind of agree that attractive women do get approached and get privileges bc of their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:20 AM
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I haven’t ever moved for dating but I moved for college and it was so different. More options in my home city, way better options in my college town. If I wasn’t already with my current bf I’d def move back to my college town (if I got a job there)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:12 AM
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Srs if you’re a woman who never gets approached is it over. Is it time to throw in the towel and accept mid-dom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:10 AM
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Ouch. Huge reality check in the first paragraph. Thanks 😅😅😅 I needed it
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 11:38 PM
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I think I’m undergoing a similar problem I’m really working on my looks this year. I’ve had multiple multi year long LTRs but I almost never get approached. It makes me feel so ugly sometimes. I also don’t get any of the pretty privilege benefits others talk about. I’m working towards getting to at least a 6-7 this year or at least being to the point where I’m considered attractive by men. It so hard because I put a lot of time and money into my appearance. I have a boyfriend who I love but I wo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 11:38 PM
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Idk. Really. I will say my ex and my current bf are both first generation American. And I preferred dating them because they had more traditional ideals. It really didn’t have anything to do with looks, and I didn’t support either of them. We just got along better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:21 PM
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And most masculine guys are not terminally online in this way. My bf is a traditionally masculine Caribbean (not American) guy. He is the red pill “666” fantasy (working on the financial 6, as he is close to 6 figures but won’t reach it until hes completed some training for his job this year) and Im not feminine, I swear, call him bruh, watch star wars with him, am loud, funny, vulgar at times, am not always put together, I don’t cower around men, etc and he still chose me over a meek 18 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:38 PM
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Thank you! I totally understand OPs bc I was the same when I was 20 but lowkey still struggling haha! Appreciate the advice
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 03:54 PM
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I was in college improv and radio, so I’m pretty comfortable having a conversation and talking to strangers. I think I’m super fun! I love to dance and go out. Generally I like to keep things light, negativity is one of my pet peeves.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 02:50 PM
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Supaaabowl Sunday what are all the girlies cooking?! Wanted to host this year and show off my new apt but my tv is the size of a desktop monitor so we are going to go to a friends house! My bf is making buffalo dip, any ideas for what I should make? Sweets, chicken tenders, cheese dip, and cupcakes are covered! I’m thinking homemade pretzels with beer cheese?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:57 AM
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I’m struggling with something similar, and I’m 25. I’ve been working on my looks since I was about your age and I still haven’t ever dated a traditional provider or anything. I haven’t ever had the poor treatment that you describe but I’ve never had a guy think of me as his dream girl. And I have always considered myself worldly and well developed, I used to work in childcare before real estate development (current job), I cook often and well, and I have lots of creative/nom traditional hobbies …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 11:45 AM
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Filet wild rice and a bacony avocado spinach salad (idk what it’s called but it was so good)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:57 AM
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Ikr! They are pretending to not understand this part lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:17 AM
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Budget bytes when I was first learning how to cook, then Pinterest/YouTube as a got more comfortable, followed people like internet Shaquille and Adam ragusea to learn the systems that would make me a better cook, now i do not use recipes but if I am I almost exclusively use recipes from the bon appetit space (samin noserat, Claire saffitz, nyt cooking, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:14 AM
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10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:00 AM
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Daily I love my boyfriend post: he made the best dinner last night ❤️ so excited for him to get off shift I feel like a puppy waiting at the door lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:59 AM
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I’m sorry :’-(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:57 AM
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I live in a huge city and went to college in a decent sized city as well I can’t speak for people who are dealing with a smaller pool of people Also edited to include that I can’t help that men literally swipe on everyone that is not something I can control lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:44 AM
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I did not get a ton of likes on hinge (1-7 day in your range) but I also had lots of dealbreakers on, as I was not interested in seeing anyone outside of my preferences whatsoever. I also never went though the stack, I only made matches from my likes, so I have no idea how many matches I would have gotten if I went through the larger pool Hinge does produce quality though, despite the lack of quantity, found my bf on there within 2 months of being on the app. Hinge algo is just different too, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:35 AM
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So glad I found a desperate simp to worship my hobgoblinnery <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:40 PM
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My bf and I were both going on multiple dates before we were exclusive! He was actually going on more than me, so I guess if that’s the definition then we were competing for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:18 PM
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I can agree that for women being healthy (or as close to underweight as you can sustain, depending on your fat composition) is necessary but for men you do get a little more leeway if you have a good build or face. My bf is 6’ and 230, naturally built from having a hard labor job, and when we met he was going on more hinge dates than me!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:09 PM
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True if the average woman is older I’m just saying it doesn’t represent the average in a certain age range, it’s the average across all age ranges
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:00 PM
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No not really. Compete how 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:12 PM
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My bf is 6ft with a prominent brow ridge/barrel chest and his sister is 4’11 gorgeous and petite you just roll the dice with genetics you never know!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:07 PM
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I think it depends on the age demographic though. For my age range it’s more like CITY + YOGA/PILATES. 25 year olds aren’t doing Zumba, it’s for middle age women (love middle age ladies btw not a dig)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:49 PM
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I will count every grain of sand on the beach with a pair of tweezers before I propose to a man. What next, you want me to bend him over and f him too?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:30 PM
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I can’t get the hang of fasting for some reason. I need my snackies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:26 PM
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Awww ty girly 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:38 AM
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Also on this hand I would love some level up/self improvement girls that aren’t sprinkle sprinkle types. I’ve already gotten my ass ran through on here for my bf not providing for me and I don’t need that negativity when I’m trying to improve myself so that I /can be/ the type of girl a provider wants one day.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 09:08 PM
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Oh my god this part! I’ve got a list 20 miles long of guys I would never date but I don’t make dissertations about why because I just don’t date them 🤷‍♀️ not my ministry!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:51 PM
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I don’t think presenting my best self makes me miserable in any way. I think looking and behaving my best everyday is a nice way to honor the people around me ❤️ Regardless of my personal values I literally work in sales so presenting a good image helps me make more money too! Win win
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:49 PM
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LOL this is a really good question wrapped in a shit sandwich. Especially because I’m personally interested in being the highest value woman I can be and to present the best possible representation of myself every day, it’s good to know what others thoughts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:55 PM
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I say this as a 25 yr old woman who has dated older men before, never again 😭 especially now that my bf is my age and making a decent salary, there isn’t even a financial incentive to do it, men my age actually have money now!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:41 PM
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I’m just trying to cut fat, not even build muscle honestly but summer is around the corner and it’s already hot where I am so that’s motivating me!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:28 PM
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Why is it so hard to get to the gym lately!!! Gotta do it though. Ugh summer shred sznnnnn 🤙🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:22 PM
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Thank you girl! I’m from a large city there are lots of attractive people here which skews things!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:08 AM
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I live in a large city so here I’m pretty middling. Maybe everyone here is just from BFE idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:32 PM
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Yeah I will say a lot of my friends met partners in college/high school. Me and my bf are the only ones who met online really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:46 PM
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Ty girlie 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:31 PM
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I would say we are all pretty average. My bf is definitely a hottie above normal but that’s it. My brother looks just like me. I think it’s kind of exaggerated on here, another poster said this place has a higher concentration of people who struggle and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:27 PM
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I have a pic of me and my bf on here (albeit with his face blacked out) everyone else I don’t feel comfortable posting bc that’s not fair to their privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:17 PM
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I mean I find this even the case with my male friends. One of my male friends recently went through a divorce and had a new gf before everything was even finalized. My current bf was going on more hinge dates than me before we met. All of my other guy friends are in LTRs with my girl friends? I just don’t know a lot of guys having terrible luck. Even my own brother has a new gf like every 30 business days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:10 PM
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I guess so, most of my friends are married or in LTRs, the friends I have that are chronically single are playing the field or bitchless by choice. I don’t get it I guess I could understand if everyone on here was older but I frequently see under 25s with dating issues
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:00 PM
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25 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:48 PM
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DAE find it weird how many people on here claim to have an extreme issue with dating and finding partners? I have never had that experience and neither have my friends (male and female). I’m pretty mid too so it’s not even about looks I am just surprised. Even in high school the anime obsessed people who smelled bad dated each other so where are all of these partnerless people coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:38 PM
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Omg yes they do work! Found my Prince Charming on there in less than 2 months!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:36 PM
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Honestly I wouldn’t bother with any other app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:35 PM
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25 and I met him on hinge ❤️ best thing that ever happened to me but previously I was being set up on dates by friends/family but nothing ever came of those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:04 PM
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Dating guys below your league because he can’t do better is terrible strats. Most girls have gotten played by an ugly guy before bc all it takes is one hot weird girl to give him attention for 5 seconds and now he thinks he’s the man. You date a hot guy and he gets attention from hot girls all his life it’s just Tuesday for him. My bf gets extremely annoyed when girls hit on him (been hot all his life), my ex would talk about how it made him feel good for weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:19 PM
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As someone who works a non boss babe job, we do not make enough money to look as good as the girls with boss babe jobs. Especially women like nurses who have access to the best injectors, know where to get medical level beauty treatments for the cheap, etc. We really make enough to live and that’s it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 12:09 AM
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Honestly I’m 25 and ive been dating to marry since I was 19 and im still not married yet! For some of us it takes longer lol.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:02 AM
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These guys beat their dicks to teen porn until their dicks are the width of pencils then come online foaming at the mouth about how even bottom of the barrel barely legal pussy is better than an age appropriate woman. Pornsickness is an ILLNESS LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:33 PM
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There really isn’t competition. If that were the case girls your age would en masse date old farts for security but instead risk getting their hearts broken by guys their age over and over because women mostly want to date their peers. I’m 25 and the only reason I would date an older guy would be if I didn’t have enough value to secure commitment from a guy my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:30 PM
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No not at all. honestly I just started feeling this way when I started BC
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:49 PM
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It’s not him I’m disgusted and annoyed about it’s just sex in general. You’re dragging it, this is a playful vent girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:11 PM
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Free from what? I love him endlessly it’s not his fault my sex drive is low, why would I punish him bc of my feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:06 PM
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A mild annoyance to make my bf happy is really no skin off my back I’m just complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:33 PM
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Anyone else completely disinterested in sex lately? The idea of fucking honestly makes me gag. Like I still do it but I just UGHHHHHH I DONT WANT TO lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:57 PM
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Hinge has filters which helps narrow down options and I’ve noticed the guys on there are a lot better quality and more serious than tinder. Bumble is the trash in my opinion, I think the way the app is set up it attracts guys who aren’t willing to make any moves. Tinder is notorious for hook ups so I stayed away from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:11 PM
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Sol de janiero owns my life. All I’m missing is the body oil and hair oil. But I have the lotion, body wash, deodorant, lip balm, and body spray. I want to try the shampoo and conditioner but I have unpredictable curly hair so I’m afraid to try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:54 PM
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I think people see me and my bf as a hot guy/average girl combo. I don’t think I’m butt ugly but my bf is definitely way above average. Which is so crazy bc in his home country I was definitely considered the hot one, but back in the states he’s considered more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:52 PM
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I don’t know where the manosphere allegations are coming from. I have a boyfriend so this isn’t with the goal of getting a man. I’m just trying to improve myself and be an objectively better human than I already am! Both men and women subconsciously assess your value when they meet you, so I value the opinions from both sides :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:43 AM
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I’m 120lbs which is part of it. I do lift but I have an office job and my only cardio is an occasional workout class
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:26 AM
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I would date an older man (5+ years I’m 25) if I had absolutely no luck with men my age. Luckily I’ve always had decent luck with being able to get a good guy around my age so I don’t have to lower my standards that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:16 AM
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It’s not even just short women either. I’m 5’6” and my TDEE is around 1500. I have to eat 1200 to lose weight too and it goes super slow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:55 AM
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Awww definitely. I live in a total shithole city so I have to look unapproachable for my own safety rn. I definitely miss being in college and being able to smile at people while out walking and just generally being friendly! It made it so much easier to lean into my femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:29 PM
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What do you guys think are some essentials in your hvw glow up journey? I already eat right and workout. I’m working on losing more weight but I’m consistent in the gym! I’m working on refining my style and dressing for my body for sure. I definitely am slacking on the careermaxxing but I’m working on that this year. What else do you guys think a woman should do for self improvement, taking opinions from guys and girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:12 PM
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Srs people do this on the vindicta sub all the time. Or when they do have pics up they’re very average looking. I have pics up but I also never claimed to be a 7,8,9,10 like these people do 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:00 PM
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You forgot legos 😭
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 06:59 PM
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Girl I’m trying I’m in the process! Hopefully I’ll be 115-118 soon. I’m 5’6” 125 now and struggling
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 12:54 AM
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Congrats! I’m jelly lol!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 12:14 AM
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I am slimmer but I also have the issue of being thicker despite being at a lower weight for my height. I’ve been working my ass off trying to slim down more and I’m also in the gym pretty often. I went to an elite college and I do my beauty maintenance (hair, nails, lashes, etc) weekly. I work in sales so my image is super important and I take care of it. I’m just not getting the same results as everyone here and I’m not understanding what I’m missing I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:51 PM
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21 is still honestly pretty thick for some. I’m BMI 20ish and I’m still “thicc.” I’d probably have to lose about 20 or so lbs to be rich guy skinny
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:43 PM
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Many people refuse to accept where their league is. My boyfriend is honest to god a catch. His roommate is fatter than him (with peace and love), not even half as funny, lazier, and has the baggage of two extremely poorly behaved dogs. My bf is 26 and this guy is in his 40s. He almost exclusively hits on women younger and hotter than me and wonders why he can’t get a girlfriend. I was telling my bf that he probably is just content being single if that’s his league but according to my bf he’s gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:46 PM
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I’m not even dark skinned, I’m just not light skinned, and dating for me is more difficult than my fat white friends. And I’m 125 lbs at 5’6”. It is what it is, people have preferences and most of them do not include black women. Especially considering most black men don’t even prefer black women. I’m not single but I recognize that it would have been easier to find my man if I were of a different race. It’s not impossible though which is why I always encourage other BW to be proactive in dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:37 PM
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Have you tried trying? I used to be heavier than you and had boyfriends even then! And I just looked at your profile and you aren’t ugly at all. I will say I had a lot more confidence and power when I improved my looks. But I knew deep down I wanted to look better! And I still want to look better. I am extremely open about what I look like and what my progress has been on here — you can literally go in my profile and see. There are no ugly women just women who don’t try! And my natural state is …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 12:04 AM
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Give yourself some time to think and work on freezing your eggs. At least that would be my plan. Maybe take a few days to read the book in the link and see how you feel.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 10:55 PM
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For the same reason I don’t bend him over and f*ck him 🙄 be serious dude
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 03:11 PM
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I agree with you. This is just so frustrating. I came to point 1/2 on my own this month and decided that I wouldn’t go back to his home country with him to avoid developing more connections with people in his life and getting more attached. He threw a huge temper tandrum about me meeting his parents and his friends and seeing his life. I even offered to pay for my ticket so we would be even financially and he was still extremely hurt and upset with me so I just decided to go. I figured it was ea…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/23 03:16 PM
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I do them because I love doing them. I love to bake but I can’t eat my own sweets because I’m pretty diligent about my weight so I normally send them with him and he takes them to work. Since they get them so regularly they request them sometimes so I really do it to make them happy. I didn’t really do anything to try to impress his family, we just got along. I brought some books as gifts when we went to his home country but that’s because I knew his mom would like them (and he bought them so th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/23 02:51 PM
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I feared this may be true. About 7 months
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/23 02:47 AM
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I hate to sound defensive so stop me if I am but I am extremely gracious to him. Every time he gets home from work I make sure to tell him that I’m grateful he’s home and I help him unwind (he works a dangerous job). When he takes us out, I always make it routine that at the beginning of our meal I thank him for his time and at the end I always thank him for taking care of us. I keep my house clean for him and I will do our laundry when I’m at his house. I never tell him no, except when I was ha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 02:21 PM
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People just say anything, lol. I can’t say whether this is true or not until it happens.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 05:16 AM
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I work for a real estate development company. 45k base, ~10k commission (I worked a lease up this year and next year, 5-8k is average for my market), 10k housing stipend. Not 6 figures or anything but in the dirty south it’s good money for me! Especially when I have super minimal loans (less than 200 a month) and no car payment!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 05:14 AM
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fascinating womanhood and empowered wife
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 08:37 PM
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I honestly love reading them because they do help me! Especially when it comes to letting things go and being more present because those are my biggest struggles and I can feel him relax more when I choose to be relaxed instead of my natural state of neurotic harpy 😭 lol. We’ve been official for 7 months almost, but we dated a bit before then. Another comment mentioned that I need to analyze if i am okay with going at this pace, because the envy may be blinding me. And I definitely agree with th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 08:03 PM
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Thank you for all your help by the way! I’ve been trying to keep this general because I want perspectives but it really did help seeing your input on this individual situation. I can’t even ask my girl friends about this because they’re married to his coworkers and I would hate to be messy like that. So I’ve kind of been agonizing about it on my own.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:41 PM
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Definitely! I’ve made my terms clear on him moving in because I was even wary to agree to do it without an engagement. He has agreed to take on all household bills if he does move in and to add me to his car/health insurance. I am an introvert and I love living alone so he knows I’m extremely serious about this. That’s why I am not that married to the idea of him moving in because I haven’t really seen a desire for him to want to provide for me yet and I am not the kind of person who expects peo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:39 PM
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We have some long term commitments. Recently he took me to his home country to meet his parents — when we came back his God father in the states said he was shocked I didn’t come back with a ring. I think this is why I’ve been so triggered lately I’ve been shook up since he said that and wondering what I’m doing wrong. The other is that he plans to move in once his lease is up — but that’s all the way in September so I really can’t tell if he’s serious about this until we’re closer to the date.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:25 PM
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I can see this perspective. We actually bonded a bit when we first got together about the fact that we were both cheated on out of the blue during “perfect relationships.” I do try to keep my locus of control more internal than external — I want to exhaust all avenues that I can to improve before blaming my problems on someone else lol. I just want to do everything I can. Like I said earlier, I live well on my own so him not being a provider isn’t a dealbreaker. It just hurts knowing everything …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:22 PM
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Okay! Can you elaborate a little? Are you saying this is a wash and I need to start over?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:16 PM
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Thank you so much for this perspective! I definitely try to cook for us on a regular basis. I prefer to bake so I keep treats on hand in the house and send some to his job at least once a month and on request! It seems like I should be focusing on the areas that would allow him to have a smoother life? I appreciate the input.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:15 PM
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Here is the comment chain that’s inspiring this post. I understand this may be a simple case of “he’s just not that into you.” And if so I understand that — I would still like to hear some strategies and how you guys carry yourselves.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:42 PM
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Here is the comment chain that’s inspiring this post. I understand this may be a simple case of “he’s just not that into you.” And if so I understand that — I would still like to hear some strategies and how you guys carry yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:41 PM
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How can you even inspire the masculine men who want to provide to provide? My boyfriend provided for his ex girlfriend fully — put her through nursing school, bought her a jeep, paid for them to live in a luxury apartment etc. he pays for our dates but realistically has no desire to provide for me. From what I understand, she wasn’t even the most feminine girl either. She used to start fights with his coworkers and even BOSSES while drunk. She didn’t engage with his coworkers wives (who are now …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 05:51 PM
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I was too!!! I used a combo of CICO (from 160 to about 140) and medical intervention for the last 15. I still have about 10+ to go. I really recommend Pilates/yoga/barre! I recently started supplementing with a little bit of weight lifting. Some recommend walking (and I’ve lost a lot of weight with walking in the past) but I hate walking lol. I understand the struggle girl I’m truly following this thread because I’ve done a lot of work to try to bag a provider as well and I still don’t qualify. …
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 07:17 PM
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Be skinny and have no feelings. I’m jk mostly but shera7seven is a good resource. You will have to go older. The reality is you may have to trade years for a true spoiled girl jet set lifestyle unless you are just insanely beautiful and thin. I’m about 125-130 5’6” and I probably still wouldn’t cut it for most providers. My bf pays for dates and we don’t go 50/50 when we are together but I still pay for my own bills and stuff. I love him and I’m satisfied with him but I know if I wanted more I w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 06:21 PM
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I would literally rather die barren and alone than with an old guy but the rest of it is important. In a place where I’m having to reevaluate my current relationship due to lack of commitment and it’s killing me
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 07:38 PM
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I guess because it’s the only thing in the list outside of my control/dependent on my perception Smile and acknowledge men. I am always super friendly and say hi Participate in the group activity with enthusiasm, whether it's charades or yard work. im usually the first person to volunteer when we are playing group games like cornhole Take an interest in what they have to say, and who they are. I do this with everyone If they offer complements, politely thank them. I’ve barely gotten more than a …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 11:13 AM
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I wish I could actually do what’s in the post you linked. My boyfriend has a lot of male friends due to his job and I feel like they avoid me like the plague. I became really fast friends with all the wives in the social circle and we all hang out frequently but the men act like I’m not there. I don’t even understand what I’m doing wrong because the wives are all close to my boyfriend and I feel like the lack of relationship the other way is hurting my social status with him. I don’t think I’m u…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 10:54 AM
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Normally I don’t comment on this SR but I feel like I can speak on this because I am a black woman (medium tone) and with a traditionally masculine firefighter (lol). All I can say is it sounds like you are doing all the right things and you can’t beat yourself up while you’re in the progress phase. There are men who will see past the color of your skin and see you for the woman you are. My bf can acknowledge that I’m a little neurotic and excitable at times but he’s never ever even insinuated t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 10:13 PM
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Examples of who I consider to be absolute 10s Examples of 8/9 with 10+ personality Example 10+, if he was a customer at my job I would refuse to interact out of fear of embarrassing myself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:07 PM
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Bts is the biggest boyband in the world what are you on about. I’m in the middle of the Midwest at a t20 university and I could throw a stone and find 6 bts fans in any given lecture hall; it’s really not like some underground anime club you think it is. This feels super anti-Asian honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:32 PM
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What?! You don’t have to be above average to date out. I’m a 3-4 and I’ve never had to date inside the community and I DEFINITELY never had to date men with kids. You are in a prison of your own design and you can turn the key and leave whenever you feel like it If you want to dm me I can help
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:07 AM
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LOVE hazi omg I didn’t include her in my list bc she’s pretty apolitical but she makes gorgeous content
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:43 PM
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You guys are acting snarky in the comments but I’ll bite: The universe guru (or sheraseven depending on your personality) Mrs Midwest Jasmyne theodora Kassie west Gwenvo Melanie king Karine alourde Books: Fascinating womanhood The surrendered wife Men love b*tches You also learn all this information just by going to church and talking to older women but in these busy times I like having these videos in the background. There is a lot less long form content I will admit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:31 PM
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Girl 6 isn’t even small enough you should see how they dragged me and I used to support him because I thought he promoted traditional values but he’s just a fraud who is mean to women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:34 PM
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Yes he did dude you’re being obtuse. In one of his videos a girl my same height and weight got tuba horns. I also constantly got called fat and LV on his subreddit whenever I didn’t agree with the men there. This broad is pushing two hundy and all of a sudden “no he didn’t mean that!” You guys are LYING.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:51 PM
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Do you want the light feminine answer or the toxic one? Because I have two solutions tbh. This is extremely common and honestly way more common than most people thing. You can go to the RP men sub FOR FREE and watch them talk about how to spin more plates and how they will drop women for not giving it up. The right answer is to just hold out for someone who shares your values. Find another low n count man who won’t pressure you to be intimate with him early. Get to know his past relationships an…
/r/RedPillWives07/05/22 03:02 AM
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Ok girl whatever good luck out there 👋
/r/RedPillWives07/05/22 02:53 AM
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You’re paying for Uber rides for narcissists in your post history so clearly this is a lot of projection going on here. Whatever was going on in your relationships isn’t going on in mine mama. My boyfriend is 21 and works extremely hard overnights and I’m proud of him regardless of what he gives me because nobody really owes you or me a damn thing. I would never call what he gives me “chump change” because I’m grateful to have it, especially considering that he pays for bus tickets to see me acr…
/r/RedPillWives07/05/22 02:48 AM
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Now y’all are getting weird. If I wanted to flex on the money my boyfriend sends me, weekly, I would. But that’s shallow as hell and says nothing about how generous or thoughtful he is. This is one of the rare occasions where I tried to get HIM a gift and he returned with something for me. That’s meaningful to me. THAT shows that even when given the excuse to be selfish my man will be selfless. Not extravagant gifts. It’s about habits and behaviors.
/r/RedPillWives07/05/22 02:37 AM
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Sending healing energies to you and praying for your health!! Immune issues are the worst ❤️‍🩹
/r/RedPillWives04/05/22 07:04 PM
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I told him to get something for himself not for us… as a gift for doing me a favor. Also it’s whatever I tell my boyfriend I’m thankful for him several times a day every day. No harm in expressing that gratitude to others. Gratitude is like prayer the more people involved the more it multiplies. Happy to hear you have such great coworkers!
/r/RedPillWives03/05/22 10:03 PM
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Same. Blessings and protection over your union 🦋
/r/RedPillWives28/04/22 02:13 PM
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Is just me or do you have a different level of appreciation for your man after reading what RP men are up to online? Literally I’m darn near kissing his feet at this point just please don’t let me back in this dating market it’s horrible out here 😭😭😭
/r/RedPillWives27/04/22 08:08 PM
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Oh wow this was a lot of valuable advice. First and foremost thank you. I would be lying if I didn’t say my first instinct was “15 years?! I don’t have 15 years?!” But upon further reading I saw a lot of myself. Especially when you talked about negative emotions. I know at the end of the day I’m not mad at him I’m just mad at myself bc of what I think my body says about myself. Thank you so much for this wow you have no idea how much I needed this perspective. Total breath of fresh air
/r/RedPillWives25/04/22 02:32 AM
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Yeah I’ve been on lose it. I was about 165 when we first got together maintained at 160 for a while now I’m at 156.5. For my height that’s nearly the healthy BMI (about 2 pounds off) so losing is hard for me at this point but I’ve been weighing and tracking everything. Still my health was good with every weight bc I was weight lifting 6 days a week for a year, but losing has helped me get my mile time down a lot — from nearly 14 min to 11:30. I honestly haven’t even thought about losing weight f…
/r/RedPillWives24/04/22 01:15 PM
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Can anyone give me some advice on how to stop sabotaging my relationship because of my weight? I am a big girl and I’m trying to lose weight because I know I need to for my man but I’m struggling with the emotional element Lately I’ve just been getting so angry at him and honestly cringing when he says he loves me and tries to be romantic because I get mad because I feel like he’s lying He tries to convince me he likes curvy girls but I know men are visual and that they will lie to keep their wo…
/r/RedPillWives24/04/22 02:45 AM
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Prayer and minding my own business is saving my relationship right now. My boyfriend is finally getting sober. His drug use did bother me and I have expressed it in the past but I knew it wasn’t my place to order or make demands when I had my own vices. This week his brother intervened and told him that he had to stop or he would make sure there were consequences. It really knocked him into shape. And my boyfriend actually let it slip that his brother mentioned concern for his (our) relationship…
/r/RedPillWives20/04/22 02:49 PM
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