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Who’s comment?
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:28 AM
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Or you get burnt out like me and reach a point where you literally turn down sex or ghost women who offer it to you. Or just can’t be bothered talking to women to the point where it’s painful to even think of responding
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:25 PM
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Lmao shut up. ‘Im A SoLiD 8’ you know how many times I have seen women overvalue themselves to insane degrees? I assure you honey you aren’t that special or pretty, just because you have regular dick and pussy access doesn’t make you a catch. Man the levels of self entitlement and narcissism is insane. No wonder you are single You aren’t high up the chain, you are so low down you can’t see how far down you are. But you keep dwelling in your delusion ❤️ You would be lucky to be a mid week smash f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:20 PM
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Ironically socialising with women makes a man very good at running off assumptions rather then spoken words of validation from the woman. Instead making calculated guesses based on her behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:18 PM
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You made a statement about neutrality. Here’s some for you. We don’t hate sluts. But we do hate women thinking they can demand what we do with ourselves you are NOT entitled. Run that through your head a few hundred times. You are not owed anything. If you choose to be a slut accept the potential massive negatives to your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:16 PM
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This is 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:13 PM
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Your are NOT owed or entitled to anything especially not a relationship or time or attention or marriage or commitment nothing!, do what you want but you do not deserve anything from a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:06 PM
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Oh fuck off men lack self control when it comes to sex, you arrogant cunt. I have literally had women get weirded out when I stopped everything the moment they said no because they expected me to continue. I have had women get really insecure because they couldn’t make me cum therefore they got all emotional. Just fucking stop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:01 PM
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This 100% big part of the reason I don’t really trust them. I have seen all their shades
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:55 PM
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My mistake is confronting the issue rather then moving in silence and keeping it to myself. I have learnt too many times that truth means nothing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:54 PM
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Yeah and you are absolutely entitled to your choice. We just won’t t won’t date you. And any man with a shred of self respect wouldn’t date you either or would run as soon as he found out the truth. Just know that every man that does stay with you is low quality and settling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:51 PM
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You are not ENTITLED to a relationship with men you do not DESERVE a relationship with men .You can do what you want to try and get one but it’s our attention our choice. We can decide who we want to date. And we decide not to date sluts. Doesn’t mean we hate them, we just aren’t dating them. Accept that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:48 PM
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No woman deserved anything. Men’s bodies or attention is not something women are entitled to. They can try their best to date but men are entitled to not date promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:45 PM
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Easier said then done I learnt the hard way you cannot treat them like male friends. They don’t want advice at ALL they just want you to listen to them complain. You can’t give them harsh truths they won’t take it they’d rather you keep things always fun and never serious or take things seriously.
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:42 PM
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You would but a lot of others wouldn’t and if they don’t find the approacher attractive they will take action. It’s happened to me I was almost banned from my gym and I’m just above average looks
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:16 AM
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I’m saying YOU as the person on the receiving end having CONTROL in a situation DESIGNED for you to lose control completely. Does that drill it into your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:16 PM
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I have been on both sides of the coin. As I used to be very much a relationship guy. It’s an interesting dynamic. I will say though be careful what you wish for, whilst a lot of the women here deny what I am saying I am telling you that if you take the path of a player you’ll learn about women and see a side of them that you CANNOT unsee
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:12 PM
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Okay???? Us men don’t owe you shit either. We don’t owe you orgasms time money or truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:11 PM
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It’s really not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:10 PM
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Bruh I don’t try to have porn sex man, I’m complaining about the stuff happening. Why am I the one with these fantasies if I’m complaining about it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:23 AM
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So if I approach and they immediately start giving me shit and emasculating me and saying eww or saying fuck off fuck off fuck off like a chant what should I do? Often I end up freezing just from the sheer absurdity of it. What would you do?
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:22 AM
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A society without morals leads to chaos. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:20 AM
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You don’t need alcohol you need to control your mind consciously. Decide in that moment that in 5 years or more this isn’t going to matter so fuck it go say what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:26 AM
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It’s very hot cold with me. I’m bold, but 5’7 women can either be open or extremely brutal to me I have coped a lot of shit over my height unfortunately. You are right though
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:25 AM
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In the US??? Man I’m in the wrong country then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:24 AM
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A few of the girls I was with definitely came from that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:23 AM
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Ofc I’d love a girl like that. It’s the opposite here, I come across more women that have these crazy kinks. I’m not sure if it’s different overseas. I’ll find out when I go to Europe or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:22 AM
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Yeah I’m autistic because the idea of rape being terrible but let’s act it out for a fantasy makes me think wtf. Your not better then me, and if I hadn’t said I was it wouldn’t be brought up. The only reason I did is because there’s a lot of them on here who don’t get anything so I’m giving them a little hope. So take your smooth brain ass out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:18 AM
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Here in Australia the media aggressively portrayed men as violent in the bedroom and violent porn consumers. That was really drilled into our heads. Which was why I was shocked when I lost my v card and the girl wanted me to be rough. Actually shocked me. I was going soft and sensual but nope slap me around daddy bs. You’re right about the statements vs questions. I find women do not respond well to being asked a question or permission seeking. They prefer statement/suggestion or assumptions. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:16 AM
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So you say. If you have any experience with women you know they fluctuate emotions on a dime
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:12 AM
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Yeah that is definitely possible. Still weird to me that women gravitate towards this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:11 AM
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The whole act itself is about you losing control so I don’t know how you have control over a situation where you act out your complete removal of control
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:10 AM
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There was a guy who consented to that in Germany funnily enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:10 AM
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It’s pretty shocking tbh. At this point I go in expecting it. I have to almost wear a mask and not be my real self
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:09 AM
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Yeah damn right you don’t. And that’s why society is going to shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:56 PM
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I understand plenty. It’s just immoral and has a heavy chance to go wrong if executed poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:12 PM
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I didn’t I mentioned women I had been with telling me their kinks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:11 PM
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I’d love to meet those women who aren’t into that would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:10 PM
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Violent video games are on a screen. And obviously fake. Acting out things in the bedroom is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:26 PM
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People don’t want to see a list of what you don’t want on a bio. It’s not fun I understand the intent but it won’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:23 PM
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Generally not agreeing with their kinks or finding them repulsive will end things with them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:18 PM
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I didnt say every woman. I said the women I have been with or got to know in a sexual/romantic way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:16 PM
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All good man. Those things all helped me and I went through a lot of pain to learn them. I think being low inhibition is absolutely huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:15 PM
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Because I got them comfortable when talking kinks? I’m a freaky guy and women generally open up more about what they are into if you mention your kinky in a chill way acting like it’s not big deal. You’re a woman and you don’t know this? This is not an uncommon thing. Being bold and direct does things. You can deny as much as you like. Any guy here who has experience is agreeing with me and there’s already been quite a few in the comments who have
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:17 AM
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I’m in Australia. It’s a very left leaning country. And as others have stated I may attract particular kinds of women. I don’t know they like this shit till they tell me. Trust me I’d like to meet women who don’t want this or maybe would appreciate a soft dom instead. It’s not easy to find
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:13 AM
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Bro I have no reason to lie 😭 it just astounds me how many of you don’t want to believe this. I have endless screencaps I have taken literally showing this behaviour so I don’t fall back into a bluepilled state thinking girls are all sunshine and rainbows. I assure they aren’t all fatties. That optometrist chick who wanted CNC was a 8-9/10 drop dead gorgeous and very petite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:01 AM
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A lot of it is energy. Right now I’m not in the best mental state thinking about this stuff puts me down. So wouldn’t do well right now, but if your energy is good it’s a different story. But you need to be able to walk in a room or talk to girls like you own the place. Be playful flirty bold and fun. Realise women want sex and have insane kinks (obviously) so you shouldn’t feel inhibited in escalation with her whether by touch or words or both. Obviously not 0-100 but putting down your intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:51 AM
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Might be how I look. I’m bold in approach and I escalate quickly. Otherwise I’m not sure I can send a pic of what I look like if you dm me. If I put these preferences in my dating app bios I’ll get banned for explicit stuff or nope’d on because no one wants to see a list of what you don’t want on a dating app bio
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:39 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of women especially are defending rape kinks and other things like it. Or outright denying my experiences and invalidating me. Quite funny. I have almost 4x the average life experience of a man in this stuff and yet somehow my experience is bs? Appreciate the support. I think this topic needs to be spoken about and these things not supported, even shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:31 AM
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It’s not even close to being a similar level fantasy. Play acting rape is cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:30 AM
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Don’t take things literally when you are talking about a serious green light red light type of play. Come on bro? Where’s fucking line
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:27 AM
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Hey buddy some of the funnest women I have had in bed were autistic. Stop knocking it, you are not better than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:26 AM
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They often do walk later on if you don’t do the kink. They feel shame. Yeah I probably need to move cities or something maybe even countries. I’m in Australia there is a pervasive mindset amongst them here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:24 AM
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You can’t be serious. Okay then. God women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:21 AM
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A lot are just saying none of what I’m saying happened and I’m a liar. Really cool to be invalidated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:14 AM
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I’m aware. Iv done that. I’m very inline with checking in my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:14 AM
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What guy is fantasizing about dying in war 😂 last I checked men are trying to escape being dragged out of their homes and sent to the frontline in Ukraine by force
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:13 AM
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Yeah it did, she was pretty hot too. If you aren’t going to put down anything constructive gtfo here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:12 AM
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Its fine. It’s the duality of it. It happened at a time when universities were enforcing the consent cards and I was trying to be safe. At the same time it’s not hot at all for a woman to have consent recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:10 AM
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They are generally accomplished high achieving women yes. Usually smart in some way. I don’t attract halfwits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:08 AM
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Yeah I’m so dangerous even though 100% of the requests have come from women. Are you retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:06 AM
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And why do you think I don’t like women? Then I’ll give you a answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:05 AM
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I asked it because I wanted to know if I’m right in thinking this. It’s part of the reason I put up this post. Yeah bro it’s all fake 100% I’m just a liar. Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:04 AM
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Yeah this women literally abuse me if I’m in a bad energy state but it’s completely different if I’m chipper
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:03 AM
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He’s learning cut him some slack
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:01 AM
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If I watch porn 99% of it is lesbian. So wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:20 AM
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Because it’s messed up. It’s playing with fire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:20 AM
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What??? I’m not the one asking for this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:20 AM
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Unfortunately for your prejudiced mind it isn’t fan fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:19 AM
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Because it was a year after my first girlfriend took me to court on false charges after cheating on me with a girl and then a guy. I was still pretty traumatised and wanted to be safe. I only did it once and haven’t since, I just ‘read the room’ now. I don’t think that way at all for me if I girls not wanting it I’m not either, no means no for me. I do not fuck around with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:19 AM
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I don’t actually. Never really been sure where to meet goth girls. I have only really seen them at nightclubs never really match into them on apps :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:17 AM
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And this is what throws me off and confused me. Led me down to a point where I’m a bit jaded. It’s a very say this do the opposite situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:14 AM
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If I didn’t I wouldn’t have any experience whatsoever. We are in a hook up/casual/fwb focused dating market. Not participating limits my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:12 AM
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Hey mate I’d love to experience what you have with chicks unfortunately I haven’t. Doesn’t mean it’s made up. Best of luck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:09 AM
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From memory these things appeared before I even started looking for kinky women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:08 AM
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That’s my fear. I have done CNC once and even though she liked it I don’t want to do it again because what if it goes wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:04 AM
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This is possible. However as most women I have met were complete strangers none had links before. Still I might appear as a particular type even if inside I’m a geek who paints miniatures. There is a definitely a lot of them who had ADHD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:03 AM
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I’m all open to finding women without insane kinks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:01 AM
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Kinks are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:59 AM
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Must be unfortunately. I really don’t want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:58 AM
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I understand that. It still doesn’t change the fact that consent can be withdrawn or facts manipulated later. Have you not heard about false court cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:57 AM
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Did you not read above that she said I’m the man figure it out? That’s me being shamed for being considerate. Saying it’s a fantasy is pretty funny though. I have literally 0 reason to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:52 AM
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Yep. I read something interesting a while ago that said 65% of violent porn and gangbang video consumers are women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:39 AM
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32 is minuscule? Damn you must be really living up to your name. Oh it’s very real. I’m not showing you though out of respect for the girl. Idc if you believe me or not, toodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:38 AM
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If a woman cries or looks sad I seek to comfort her generally. I don’t want to do nothing with an unwilling person. I think the majority of men are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:36 AM
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Hey I’m down to meet more general population women, I guess I don’t attract basic people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:34 AM
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She was westernised Lebanese might have something to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:31 AM
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I understand that but I’m not some boisterous dude, I’m a nerd with glasses who goes to the gym and is southern European looking. I don’t think I look or act like the kind of guy that would want those kinks. Though because I’m 5’7 I have to approach to get anything so perhaps because that’s bold and risky they assume im into rough stuff possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:30 AM
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Funnily, a lot of the ladies are downvoting this post and trying to justify rape kinks and fantasies. Really wild to see in action. Do they not feel weird about it? Definitely made me feel weird and concerned when women told me about it and wanting it from me If it’s more soft in the other societies perhaps I should try dating over there instead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:27 AM
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This has 100% been my experience as well. I once asked a girl to record consent before we began and you could see she was not happy about it. I think guys like us with experience in the real world fortunately or unfortunately see the unbridled truth and it’s conflicting with what we are told. Even though I’m 5’7 the majority of the women I have been with were 5’9-6ft. I tend to attract tall women for some reason, not complaining cause I like them. Funnily though they are still completely submiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:25 AM
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Video game also isn’t going to change their mind if their emotional state and feelings get altered in the future that’s a real fear when doing these kinks for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:19 AM
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Not sure what I’m doing then considering my kink is being a pleasure dom/giver not a mma fighter in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:16 AM
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It does make me sad, but it’s a consistent theme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:14 AM
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How would you like me to present it to you in a way that would make more sense for you. Not all 32 women had the same kinks but most of them had similarly aligned kinks, some more extreme then others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:13 AM
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I’m not sure how to prove it to you then other then showing you literal graphic home made pron. your going to just have to take my word for it, if you can’t handle that and the realisation that this is how a lot of women think then tough luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:12 AM
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She was an anxious avoidant type so maybe that played into it. But considering how many women who aren’t like her and had unique personalities had similar requests, yes I do think it’s a fair generalisation. I literally asked a girl I was talking to last night whether she would prefer me go down on her and make her orgasm before giving forehead kisses, or throat pound her and have her do as I say in a rough way. Take a wild guess at what suggestion her eyes lit up with and a smile broke out acro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:10 AM
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Yeah awesome. It’s still a rape fantasy. And that is so wildly confusing and contradicting to literally every man out here trying to be careful dating. You can have that fantasy fulfilled and turn around the next day and claim real rape. I don’t care if it’s a fantasy it’s still acting out something depraved and heavily punished by society if you haven’t caught onto that yet. You are literally defending play rape. Do you not see how that looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:07 AM
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I like kinky women who are open minded but don’t want to enact something so borderline fucked. You wouldn’t expect the women I’m talking about to look the way they do, very unsuspecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:01 AM
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Everywhere, cold approach, discord, reddit, dating apps irl. I have literally been shamed if I’m considerate crazy right hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:00 AM
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No idea where to find them tbh. All the naturally attracted women I come across end up being the wrong kind of freaks I’m open to suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:00 AM
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There was one girl I was seeing who was a master optometrist. Very smart girl cute and petite. Innocent looking. She wanted me to choke her out and slap her in the face while spitting on her. Anal pound her and carry her up the stairs ‘against her will’ ofc in consensual play. I dunno man it I have had some nuts requests or desires revealed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:59 AM
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Why are you defending rape fantasies and play rape? Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:57 AM
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Ones a video game that is clearly a game the other is having a green light of consent before I literally act it out completely as you would think it’s acted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:56 AM
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I know a guy who is extremely abusive to his girlfriend. And she’s been loyal to him for 6 years and will defend him if criticised acting like his innocent. He literally talks shit about her parents to her to turn her against them and has screamed at her in public. I have never seen such loyalty given to a kind man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:54 AM
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Are you thick? I’m very aware of what consent is. I have literally lost women because I took no means no literally immediately and backed the fuck off. They looked at me confused why I didn’t continue. So don’t talk such shit. There should be limits and the fact that you seem to think it’s fine and moral to act out play Rape for a depraved fantasy is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:52 AM
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I have slept with 32 women. But I have experienced these things from many women that I didn’t sleep with. Learning dating was hard for me but if I had to guess it would be somewhere in the 45-60 range of women I have met and escalated with in some form mentioned these
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:49 AM
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Why the fuck would I come on here and type out how I’m feeling just to lie? What the hell is your problem I offered you evidence and you just swat it away I have proof from a variety of apps plus screenshots from social media showing how they act I recorded a lot of it to remind myself for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:47 AM
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Uhhh… yeah there really is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:46 AM
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Vast majority of the women I have met had no relation to any social circle they were strangers before I met them. So no nothing to do with social circle. My 100% attracted type doesn’t like me (goth/alt girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:46 AM
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No they specifically told me it’s their fantasy/kink and they love it. It’s happened so much. Yes it’s consensual but it’s still play rape and hyper aggressive. Sorry but I’m getting a little bit tired of that, where does one draw the line??? Do murderers pretend to consensually murder others to act out their fantasy of murder but with consent??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:41 AM
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It doesn’t matter if CNC is pretend don’t beat around the bush of what it is. Play fucking rape. It pisses me off to no end hearing about how bad rape is and then being told she wants to be taken completely with no choice that’s her fantasy what the hell???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:38 AM
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I’m not vanilla. I’m just not into or want to do extremely aggressive violent play that could land me a court case if they wake up the next day deciding I’m not it anymore. There are plenty of non vanilla things you can do that don’t involve me belting you on the ass purple or throat pounding you while I pull your hair hard, not to mention literally pretending to kidnap you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:37 AM
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There’s a bit of a difference between a fps video game and acting out play rape
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:35 AM
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If you want proof feel free to dm me and I’ll show you whats on my tinder. It’s not that they don’t know what to eat it’s that they don’t want to DECIDE. I as the man am expected to lead completely and make all the decisions while they don’t think. Not sure if that’s something you can comprehend in your head but this is real world experience im having. Lots of them claim to be feminists too. I have only been to two kink conferences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:31 AM
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My type isn’t into me. I look like a decently masculine portugese/spanish guy with a fade. My type is goth girls with tattoos and piercings. What I attract are women who look innocent but definitely aren’t. Or women who are high achievers. I’m not sure why it’s this way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:29 AM
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Where can I find women like you then. I don’t want aggression in sex or being extremely rough to bdsm levels. I have done it a lot for the woman’s enjoyment but personally I don’t like it at all and it fucks with my moral compass like I’m battling what I was taught since an early age. I understand those other factors you mentioned, but having experienced this so much from women whilst simultaneously told about rape culture makes me frankly confused and a little upset tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:27 AM
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That they are into fucked up stuff like CNC and want it despite constantly talking about rape culture and how men are abusers. It’s just so disconnecting makes you really step back and think what the actual fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:23 AM
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I’m a freak yeah, but I’m more a pleasure dom side of things I’m into making women feel good. IDC much for myself. I’m not out here saying I’m looking for those crazy things they just keep happening and being revealed to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:21 AM
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Met them everywhere. Bars, discord, reddit, dating apps of all various types. Even cold approaching in a mall when it comes to escalation it eventually comes out. I guess I make them feel comfortable revealing their kinks? They almost ALL like rough sex and the vast majority I have been with have those kinks yes. It’s absolutely mental And that’s you. I have had more then enough women give me shit for being equal and asking their opinion. It’s like they expect me to control everything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:19 AM
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I like this
/r/seduction17/09/25 05:04 PM
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As a 5’7 man I have coped tons of shit over height from women usually they are my height or shorter then me though
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:31 AM
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It’s not easier
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:30 AM
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I feel awkward making noises so I don’t tend to do it. In my experience I have made women orgasm way more then they have made me orgasm so dunno if it’s linked
/r/seduction08/09/25 06:01 AM
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Dm me and I’ll show you what I look like then. I have a very small amount of Asperger’s so that’s probably why I don’t
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:25 AM
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God you are a asshole. You are sorely mistaken and they do if they don’t know you’ve got something. I look pretty good I’ll tell you that much. You definitely seem jaded af that someone who has to struggle harder then you can do better.
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:17 PM
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Never been with prostitute or paid for one you sound jealous, must be so painful knowing someone on the spectrum can run rings around you in game?
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:03 PM
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As a 5’7 guy. Who has been with over 32 ladies almost all of them were 5’9 to 6ft. Only 5 were shorter then me lol
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:30 PM
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Could say the same the other way around buddy considering the vast majority of men get close to nothing
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:28 PM
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I have been with 32 women. At this point I find women boring and can barely form a emotional bond with them. I have ghosted so many it’s not funny
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:28 PM
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I’m still wrapping my head around it. There’s always something to learn and i am always still making mistakes. For us it’s like learning via notebook when you have a textbook from birth. This coming from a guy with 32 body count 3 exes btw.
/r/seduction18/08/25 05:30 AM
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I love this subreddit so much good advice
/r/seduction18/08/25 04:29 AM
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This 100%
/r/seduction18/08/25 04:28 AM
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This
/r/seduction18/08/25 04:27 AM
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Doesn’t come to us naturally though. Trial and error it’s arduous
/r/seduction14/08/25 07:50 PM
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You need to not give a shit and not care if you lose hwr
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:45 AM
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Yeah I have had the same experiences. When I wasn’t direct I got nothing when I was I got women
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:44 AM
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I disagree if you talk kinks that gets their mind on it
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:44 AM
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I disagree I have literally had women say that to me
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:43 AM
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I’m autistic and have been with 32 women. We can learn lol
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:42 AM
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This is good
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:39 AM
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Fantastic post!
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:27 PM
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That’s barely a approach let’s be real it could easily just be talking or being friendly
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:56 AM
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This 100% got loads of rejections till I specifically opened the sexual door. And I’m 5’7 then my luck changed you can’t be too full on about it though
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:17 AM
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Who’s the book by? I can’t find a book called how to be fun
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:12 AM
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How did you meet them?
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:11 AM
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Saying they will approach you is cap. I have been approached 4 times in my life. I’m 29
/r/seduction07/07/25 01:34 AM
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They hate insecurity. Being an open book and low self esteem. Or a guy who hesitates doesn’t take what he wants or looks for validation in women. You need to literally not give a shit if you lose them at all and not be afraid to say what you want. Try to have fun with the challenge of getting them and making it all feel normal. Sex should be normal to you because it’s very very normal to them.
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:17 AM
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Exactly I have literally had women say they want their butts pinched and spanked made me shocked
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:11 AM
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Brilliant post! Love your stuff
/r/seduction18/06/25 05:52 PM
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You are a legend I’m following you :)
/r/seduction07/06/25 06:54 AM
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When I am down inside women treat me like utter garbage and attack my height. When I’m good inside they treat me much better
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:13 AM
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Bro walking the dog?? How did you make that sexual and make her think of sex bro
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:35 AM
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I’m decent looking. Barely ever been approached in my life
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:32 AM
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You hooked up at a workplace party!? Sounds risky af
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:32 AM
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Were you sexual on the cold approach and ask for dates? Or same day try and pull and use innuendo and body language to sexualise
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:31 AM
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Good mindset
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:29 AM
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Yeah but chicks do it to guys all the time with 0 remorse I say he should do it
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:31 AM
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Do a post on being rusty and having lost your game and getting it back
/r/seduction03/06/25 02:44 PM
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Hahahaha. Not every day we pedestalise the bros hey?
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:01 AM
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Some girls are okay with them but I haven’t met a single one that specifically goes for us lol
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:40 PM
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A onlyfans model drunk on power and arrogance tbh
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:40 PM
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The dating apps are brutal to guys you gotta be really careful. For example a strategy I had was to unmatch before and after a date or smash because if they changed their mind or it went bad
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:39 PM
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Yeah man it’s harsh it’s why I think it’s best to not argue or hit back but instead unmatch if you feel hostile energy
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:38 PM
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Yikes man sorry to hear that. This is why I want to get back on the horse and get my groove back
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:03 AM
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I think to them being weird is being logical. I have found women just don’t want to hear truth it’s all about the feeling
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:02 AM
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New number new photos new sim new location new birth date new email. A lot of stuff can’t connect to the same wifi etc
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:01 AM
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Right so tonality of voice and moving in slow motion as well, basically calm and relaxed and chill. I definitely have noticed this worked in person in the past. More difficult to convert through text but perhaps I should be sending voice notes or FaceTiming quickly to get that relaxed nature across. I’ll have to delete my dating apps and do a hard reset on hinge to try this out. Thanks for your advice man it’s really great I gave your profile a follow :)
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:51 PM
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That’s great advice. Thank you. Definitely a frame I need to readopt. It might have never been that solid after all from what I’m seeing.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:45 PM
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Yeah she messaged me saying “I’ll be bringing a tape measure to check your height not your length” I responded with “I’ll bring a scale x” Banned permanently 15 minutes later. The apps have heavy woman favoured bias. I should have just unmatched instead I hit back, probably because I was I was early in my dryspell and semi frustrated
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:40 PM
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I’m autistic. I have been with over 30 women and ones I meet and sleep with often want to date me. So I’m doing something right. Anything else?
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:34 PM
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I have barely ever been approached but I have success from being the one to approach
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:28 PM
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This is really great insight actually thank you. And it makes sense that they do. When I’m not feeling urgent I don’t care about the outcome and I’m more likely to message them in a fun way where I don’t give a fuck or even be very bold and direct. I was a pre selected man. Perhaps I still am I just have to fix the jammed off switch in my head which made me a dating recluse. In your opinion what are some behaviours a man who isn’t urgent exhibits?
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:24 PM
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That’s a good point. I was definitely at one point sleeping with women to prove to myself that I was good enough honestly. It shouldn’t be something I do but it’s what I did at the time. Honestly now if I was to go on a date like that again I’d just get up and leave immediately I wouldn’t take that disrespect. Unfortunately it wasn’t just one careless remark she filmed me for her Snapchat story brought other women in to mock me and then asked me how big my dick was after telling me I’m not a rea…
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:19 PM
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She mocked me pretty good man even brought other women in to mention my height and Snapchat filmed me. Then proceeded to ask how big my dick was. It fucked me up pretty good. At first I thought she was just shit testing me and I let it all slide but then at the end I felt like something was very wrong. As beforehand I had drilled it into myself to get past shitests. I don’t think this was a shit test, she was genuinely being disgusting. Currently changes definitely stopped talking to them and go…
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:13 PM
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Define weird guy?
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:06 PM
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Women actually appreciate a man being sexual initiating touch and saying what he wants to do
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:16 PM
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I’m actually curious about this. I’m into goth girls and nose piercings plus tats but I attract like 19 to 21 year olds or very put together intelligent women who work high skilled jobs. What’s up with that??
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:10 PM
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