Time to Give Up or do Something Else?

DreamShort3109 · 2025-05-26T14:19:41+00:00

I’ve never dated, and yet I see that it’s really not worth ruining your life over. You go live your best life on your own.

ToxicRocketry · 2025-05-26T14:48:02+00:00

You haven’t approached because you know it’s a guaranteed rejection? How? Can you see the future? What are next week’s lottery numbers?

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-26T14:51:05+00:00

Work on your confidence and happiness. No one is attracted to a person whose world is upside down.

Silver_Standard_3693 · 2025-05-26T16:28:14+00:00

I have barely ever been approached but I have success from being the one to approach

Sendittor · 2025-05-26T14:13:54+00:00

Another thread said Naples Italy was a terrible place to go for women because the men there are a bunch of creeps so take that for what it's worth

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-05-27T00:56:50+00:00

So you give up because you refuse to learn how to approach women. That problem is the result of your choce to avoid learning and growing at all costs, not an irreversible conidtion that cannot be fixed. You want life on easy mode, and that's just not how life works for the rest of us mortals who have to put the effort to learn, experience pain, grow from it and improve our skills. You are hopeless, because you choose to be, not because hopelessness is something that's happening to you by an external circumstance. You are way too used to being privileged if you were hoping that women kept being the ones to take the initiative. Time to grow up now. Sorry for the harsh tone, but I'm simply not gonna sugar coat a truth that your own father should have taught you.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-05-26T15:37:22+00:00

Well the suggestion is to not give up! See my post on "how to break out of depression", ironically enough, someone under the post said "this is not related to pickup" haha! How ironic.

Cineswimmer · 2025-05-26T23:02:59+00:00

Dude, Italian women are super reserved in clubs/bars. I had a hard time there other than on the streets and American bars, and I typically get approached a lot everywhere else.

You said yourself you’ve been approached in the UK and Germany, so you have something.

Don’t beat yourself up too hard, just get out there again and have fun on your own. We all go through periods of not much action.

Commissar_David · 2025-05-27T02:43:29+00:00

As someone who's also seeing issues with apps. I've been noticing that a lot of women aren't active on the apps anymore. Even if you get a match, it's rarer and rarer for them to respond no matter the level of text game you have. I'm not 100% sure what it is, but regardless of the reason, your best bet is to cold approach. The worst they can do is say no.

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-05-31T19:37:05+00:00

Either quit, or sort your inner game out.

Better than being half in and half out.

Or transmax, and let a man lead you so you don't need to take action.

Title	Time to Give Up or do Something Else?
Author	Feisty-Nerve-2800
Upvotes	2
Comments	43
Date	May 26, 2025 2:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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