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Because it's irrelevant to the question.
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:52 AM
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Mottron’s most cited recent paper is “A radical change in our autism research strategy is needed: Back to prototypes” (Autism Research, 2021). Yes, he's walking back what he helped popularize in the first place. I'm not going to give him credit for trying to fix his own mess. Especially since he's not fully trashing the idea as he should but instead merely suggesting that autism diagnosis should be treated as a spectrum, effectively saying nothing of use. B3 says nothing about savants or superpo…
/r/seduction21/07/26 03:44 AM
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Mottron is a fucking moron who has been dragged by other people in the field for deliberately expanding the definition of "autism" in a way that not only trivialized the actual disease but was also deliberately done to try and justify his stupid ideas. The same goes for DSM 5's B3 criterion which has been widely criticized for causing a multitude of false positives in diagnosis of autism or falsely labeling heavily autistic children as not autistic because they understandably don't meet this dum…
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:02 PM
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As someone who has a fair amount of experience with autism in my work. Pattern recognition and getting deeply interested in things are not signs of autism. For the former it's the opposite. For the latter, there is no relation. Actually autistic people who possess positive traits would've had them even without the autism and the autism actively holds them back from their potential.
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:18 AM
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However, women get more emotionally involved, and it is very hard for them to move on. Literally every study and statistic proves you wrong. Women move on quite quickly and easy relative to men who can get hung up on their ex for months if not years. There are exceptions but those are not the norm.
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:12 AM
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It is questionable whether this type of behaviour comes from genetics It isn't. What the other guy is saying is absolutely unhinged nonsense. There are factors which are heavily influenced by genetics such as body structure but personality is not one of them.
/r/seduction14/07/26 10:47 AM
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This is the stupidest shit I've read on this sub in a while and that's saying something. It's the equivalent of claiming that if you're a great salesman who is closing a ton of lucrative deals then clearly you are doing it wrong and the deals aren't that lucrative no matter how good you are. The idea behind seduction should be to make the process of getting the kind of women you want to bang easier not to torture yourself with arbitrary metrics to impress some dipshit on the Internet channeling …
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:34 PM
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You are dating women in their late 20s to early 30s. I'm sorry to say but that really isn't impressive. You can pull them but so could a skinny 20 year old guy. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. You are not the first guy to find out that women's standards drop and they start being more interested in nice "husband material" men as they get older nor will you be the last.
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:28 PM
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Try expanding the places you hang out at.
/r/seduction05/07/26 07:09 PM
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Pleasant hot girls are way easier and nicer to hook up with too.
/r/seduction05/07/26 06:17 PM
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Why are you looking specifically for mean bitch kinda girls? There are plenty of hot "9 and 10" girls that aren't insufferable cunts.
/r/seduction05/07/26 05:20 PM
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It is very remotely true actually.
/r/seduction04/07/26 04:11 PM
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Been to Dubai recently, not really. A lot of them in South-East Asia though, especially Thailand.
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:12 PM
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What’s the point of being indirect with a woman, if she knows within the first few seconds-minutes whether she’s attracted to you or not? Well, that's the thing, she doesn't. The "women know immediately if they'll sleep with you or not and you cannot influence it in any way" spiel is false hence you end up with very attractive women dating not so very attractive men. Being direct saves time if you've got a lot of things obviously going for you at first glance that a woman can see (looks, wealth,…
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:11 PM
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Women want to be controlled Women want to feel "owned" It's a cringe worthy way to express the concept but being dominant does in fact work very well with women. All women, including self-professed equality warriors/turbo-feminists. Women don't know what they want / can't explain what they want Nobody can explain what they want, including women. It's just that with men, our attraction triggers are relatively simplistic so if you chuck a slender, athletic chick with nice legs, a firm backside, a …
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:26 PM
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Why are you here exactly, except to bitch about how it's too late for you or whatever? I mean if you genuinely believe that you are beyond hope then at least have the decency to fuck off from here and stop annoying others who are actually trying to get or give useful advice.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:04 AM
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You can't make a woman go from unattracted to attracted. You can but it requires consistent exposure and being able to demonstrate things about yourself that she might find appealing. It's not an easy task.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:02 AM
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This, it's just cringeworthy to read.
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:26 AM
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It really depends on whether you are good with women to begin with. There's way too many down-on-their-luck guys who think that a "change of scenery" will magically turn their fortunes around and then they get there and find that they still suck at getting girls and that no, women don't automatically find you more interesting just because you're a foreigner.
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:22 AM
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If you're socially experienced enough, you can sometimes tell unconsciously whether she is interested or not. That being said most of the time it's a complete crap shoot and you're better off testing the waters anyway.
/r/seduction08/06/26 02:15 PM
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You can bet she’ll remember that no matter how you say it. Or more likely she'll forget it after five minutes because a dozen other guys have given her the same variant of "OMG you're so sexy!" over the past month.
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:25 AM
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Miracles do happen, I actually agreed on something with you. How? Physically? Perhaps. Emotionally, intellectually, and socially? Not even close. I'd say even physically it's a stretch. I never realized the wisdom behind "old man strength" until I got older and noticed that I was effortlessly performing feats of physicality that would be very difficult for me as a teenager. And anecdotally, people I know were also like this.
/r/seduction21/04/26 03:12 PM
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The first time I heard of looksmaxxing was when people were making fun of these losers on the old Bodybuilding.com forums almost a decade back. And I'm reasonably sure the name itself was taken from 4chan (or was it 8chan) which coined the term to mock these guys. As for how much looks matter, being lean and being physically strong are the factors that in my experience make the biggest impact. If you're doing shit like worrying about your jawline being 0.2% out of alignment or something then you…
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:23 AM
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I am well aware of hybristophilia and Luigi Mangione among others, thank you. I'd never heard of that girl before so forgive me, oh great and wise one, that I'm not so read up on the minutiae of the Supreme Gentleman's life. "Damn cute" is pushing it but no accounting for taste I suppose.
/r/seduction20/03/26 11:12 AM
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but even then, Elliot Roger had a lovely girl in love with him. The fuck? No he didn't.
/r/seduction19/03/26 12:44 PM
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Which for a lot of guys, is never the starting point. No, they just don't see the women that are interested. Or if they do and they mess up, whether from hesitation or saying something blatantly stupid to offend her, they will often make excuses as to why it would never have worked out anyway or that she wasn't interested because she wasn't throwing herself at them. I speak from personal experience as someone who messed up many, many opportunities, even after I first started having success with …
/r/seduction19/03/26 12:41 PM
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Real answer is that women do approach but only men who stand out to their liking in some way. Very handsome or has high status, etc. That doesn't mean that no other guys stand a chance, more that you need to demonstrate other qualities besides visual that women find appealing. Which generally required you to approach first.
/r/seduction08/03/26 08:20 AM
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Well it might be because your initial assumption is wrong. You absolutely can ask without really escalating and it's usually easier too and leaves no doubt as to what's going to happen. "But girls get turned off if you do it like that!" Turns out, not really.
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:58 PM
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Have you asked her if she sees you only as a friend or something more? Kind of remarkable that not one of the bright minds commenting here has thought of this solution.
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:52 PM
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Talking to you is like talking to a brick wall so I imagine that anybody who tries to probe deeper looks like a troll to you.
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:02 AM
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Again, we are not talking about exceptions but something that is very common. Sure being an asshole isn't a good way to live but that's because it screws you over in life in general. Doesn't mean that women don't like it, in fact it massively improves your chances with women.
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:59 PM
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But we're not talking about exceptions. We're talking about something so common that there are entire novels, movies, shows, comic strips, stand-up comedy routines and anecdotes that have been around before you or me were even born about this trope. Whether today or 60 years ago, you will find no shortage of guys bemoaning the fact that a good girl he liked decided to give it up to some selfish asshole driving a 33 year old shitbox and leeching off her hard-earned money.
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:07 PM
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Women are attracted to traits in men that are correlated with an evil disposition. Yes, regardless of looks, charisma, status, personal tragedy or anything else. It's an unpleasant fact of life but a girl's first love will quite often not be a very good guy.
/r/seduction22/02/26 01:56 PM
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Yeah, no. Men of questionable character being appealing to women is a constant of history. Many of them aren't particularly handsome or sharply dressed individuals either.
/r/seduction22/02/26 01:52 PM
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A lot of these are wastes of money. Fitness programs are nonsense, there's a metric ton of info on fitness online and you can get to a fairly high level of athleticism just by following those since I'm assuming you're not training to be an Olympic athlete. Same goes for nutrition, you'll get a hell of a lot more use out of looking up some basic recipes, cutting out junk and experimenting with a wide variety of quality foods. As a bonus this also fixes your skincare problem as a good diet can mak…
/r/seduction17/02/26 12:17 AM
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“I barely knew what to talk about over text.” Why the fuck were you trying to have a conversation over text instead of inviting her out? No shit your friend got laid, he probably just asked if she wanted to have sex or something since you handed him a golden ticket.
/r/seduction12/02/26 03:56 PM
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And the odds for you responding with a passive-aggressive snarky comment befitting a teenage boy having a meltdown were 100% and what do you know, they were right on the money.
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:54 PM
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And of course in your bad-reading-comprehension-addled world, actually trying to understand what you are responding to is beyond your capabilities. Instead of non-sequiturs about G-spots and anthropologically erroneous statements about Neanderthals (fun fact - their brains were on average larger and they were one of the smarter variants of early hominid), perhaps try mulling over what was actually meant when I pointed out that women want traits like stability and kindness for long-term husband m…
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:08 PM
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You missed the point. No shit women want traits like kindness and stability for a husband. Men want women with good motherly instincts for wife material too. But this comes with the implicit assumption that the man in question is already someone that makes a woman’s vagina tingle not a “nice guy” without a spine whose only virtues are being kind and nice. Women don’t want to sleep with those guys save for rare exceptions or when they are getting older and are looking for a husband. And “nice guy…
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:10 AM
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It's astounding how retarded Reddit has become that 18 and 24 is now considered a huge age gap. You're pretty much in the same age group LMAO. It's not like you're 44 and she's 18.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:36 AM
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Because it's dumb reasoning? By OP's logic both 18 and 24 are young and still learning.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:32 AM
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First of all, there is a world of difference between an actual 10/10 bombshell who is naturally stunning and an Instagram model. Many of the latter are barely 8/10 with make-up and I'm not saying this out of some sour grapes mentality but from actually seeing one with her friends up-close. They were attractive but clearly way better in photos than in real life. Second of all, the latter run in expensive places. Not because of their looks necessarily but because they themselves are usually wealth…
/r/seduction01/02/26 11:54 AM
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I can read just fine grandpa, you just suck at saying anything worth a damn here. Still wondering whether you're an actual human being though or just one of those experimental LLMs that tech companies are trialing on Reddit.
/r/seduction18/01/26 03:21 AM
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You sure are shit at being consistent. One moment bragging how you wouldn’t approach even one girl that you’ve seen in infields and the next chewing out guys for passing up on girls that they aren’t attracted to.
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:53 PM
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Yeah you didn’t disprove anything I said. Women can’t really handle having multiple guys without negative psychological impact on average, men can. So it’s usually the woman that calls it quits. Also if you’re going for women in their 30s, well, there’s a reason they are looking for exclusivity. It’s called the biological clock.
/r/seduction12/01/26 11:00 PM
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Not really, it’s kind of a big deal for women but men in general can handle it just fine.
/r/seduction12/01/26 01:33 PM
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You also seem unable to differentiate between "different" and "analogous." There is nothing analogous in your example. There is no actual risk involved in taking what is sometimes less than 30 seconds to chat up a woman you find attractive and seeing if she's interested, respectfully bowing out if not, and following up with an extra 1 or 2 minutes and grabbing her details or taking her on a date right then and there if she is. Feeling a bit down because you got politely rejected by a girl you th…
/r/seduction25/12/25 08:24 AM
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Professional gamblers also run the risk of losing their money if they bet wrong. There is no equivalent risk in taking 1-2 minutes to chat up a woman. Two very different things.
/r/seduction25/12/25 07:31 AM
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Learning to read would be useful since you appear to have completely missed my first paragraph.
/r/seduction23/12/25 01:08 PM
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A quality woman in her 40s could be more difficult. Confident and accomplished women over forty aren't low on options and often know what they want. LMAO.
/r/seduction23/12/25 12:16 PM
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If you're here to vent then vent. If you're here for advice, you haven't provided nearly enough information to get anything useful in return. My guesses are a) your "glowup" isn't nearly as substantial as you think and b) you're doing something very obviously wrong when texting, likely by being too boring. As for "women don't ever show signs of interest in me", I can only say that most guys are completely blind to women's signs of interest 90% of the time and you're likely no exception.
/r/seduction23/12/25 12:07 PM
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Autism is basically playing on hard mode when it comes to dating because it's virtually guaranteed that you have been doing something to unintentionally offend the women you're going on dates with. Maybe try to be more upfront about this and ask the girls to let you know if you said something stupid and didn't notice because being autistic, well, trying to play the smooth-talker isn't gonna work. You need to be bluntly honest.
/r/seduction21/12/25 04:59 AM
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If you want Ws then you're gonna have to take some Ls along the way.
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:17 AM
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Some prefer them but it's more accurate to say that most don't give a crap unless you look like total shit. A guy who let himself go at 30 ain't scoring with 18 year olds while a fit guy who looks like Johnny Sins' doppelganger will have them on their knees saying "daddy". They aren't as sensitive to it as men on average in my experience.
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:37 AM
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I realized the kind of environment you’re talking about and the cultural level of those girls… You mean girls from well-off families with good educations? The girl who told me to cut that wishy-washy crap was a professional competitive athlete and works as a lawyer now. If you're insinuating that she's some trashy, stupid whore then you really need to meet more people from a wider array of backgrounds and also learn how to come off less like a judgemental asshole. In the league I play in, people…
/r/seduction12/12/25 06:24 PM
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but what if you get mixed signals and you’re not sure what’s happening (as it is in most of the cases)? Then you ask. Trust me if she gets turned off by that then she wasn't going to sleep with you anyway. I used to try and play coy and it literally never made a difference. In fact it was a girl that made me drop that stupid shit by interrupting me when I pulled the "come over and see some paintings that I have" spiel and telling me that if I want to fuck, I should just tell her. Women aren't st…
/r/seduction12/12/25 04:46 PM
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Indirect is understandable when you're approaching a girl who is a stranger but when you're on a date and you sense that she is down, you don't need plausible deniability. Just ask if she wants to go somewhere private, your place, her place, whatever. If she wants to have sex, she'll say yes. If she doesn't want to, couching it in deceptive terms won't change her mind.
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:04 AM
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Are you seriously comparing age gaps with abusive relationships? Christ you people are weird.
/r/seduction08/12/25 11:05 PM
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Already covered that in the comment, buddy. In this case it's unlikely to be any of the latter and it's worth noting that if someone is an asshole to you while drunk, they are probably an asshole in general and thus not worth trying to act nice to. If they wanna patch things up afterwards the onus is on them to apologize for their drunken behavior.
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:03 PM
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I feel like going along with it too much makes you look like a pushover, whereas if you don’t react you can look humourless. Is there a way to react that makes you come across the best way possible? Yeah it's called having a spine and telling him to go fuck himself/mock him back. Dunno where this idea of non-reactivity came from but its goddamn retarded and virtually never works except in some very specific situations like a bunch of gang members trying to get a rise out of you in which case avo…
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:44 PM
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Seems like anytime I check this sub's threads now, I inevitably see a comment of yours in at least one of them. And it's usually one I disagree with. "Only approach such a woman when the circumstances are in your favor." "Only approach such a woman if you are confident that, given a chance, you can impress her..." "Only approach such a woman if you have some measure of conversational skills that can put you a cut above 99% of the competition." That's essentially saying if you aren't 100% or almo…
/r/seduction29/11/25 12:30 PM
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This seems like pretty flawed advice, you are essentially saying that if circumstances aren't 100% in your favor then don't even bother. Except most women you meet in your life that you really want aren't going to be under ideal circumstances, sometimes you might only see her for like a minute at a pastry shop before she leaves or you might have not had time to shower that morning, etc. And women's signals can be difficult to read, I've had at least one example of a girl that I thought hated me …
/r/seduction29/11/25 10:21 AM
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Oneitis isn't when you're involved - it's when you're pining after a girl who is not interested, thinking that you can get her to love you if you just hold on long enough while she's off merrily banging other dudes and not really caring either way and maybe, possibly, one day getting to enjoy some sloppy seconds if she gets bored and decides to throw you a bone in a moment of boredom. And in those cases it's absolutely good advice to go and seek out other women to enjoy intimacy with instead of …
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:03 AM
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that the cure for the disease of “ oneitis”—commitment to one woman—is promiscuity That's not what is meant by oneitis. Oneitis is when you are obsessed with one single woman to the exclusion of all others and 99% of the time don't even get her. And in those cases, focusing on meeting more girls to alleviate that obsession is a very good thing. that in the name of “escalation”, it can be a winning move for a guy to put a woman’s hand on his crotch, draw attention to his erection, and even expose…
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:07 PM
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Yeeeah no. Having a shitload of random likes on a dating app isn't "a plethora of options" it's a bunch of background noise that overwhelms most women. I'm indifferent to cold approach but when you walk up to a woman IRL she isn't comparing you against a bunch of profile pics online - to her those guys except for ones that REALLY piqued her interest don't exist in that moment. Same reason it's much easier to get a date with a super-attractive girl IRL that trying to hit her up on TikTok or Insta…
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:36 PM
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Then, too, if a comment is posted for three or four hours and no one seems interested in it, why not delete it? An odd view to think that if nobody reads what you have to post within a few hours then clearly one should delete it because nobody could possibly read it in the future. But noted, you backed up the talk with the walk so that is to be commended. I have time to kill so might as well use it to peruse these founts of information you've posted. And if you're referring to me, I don't recall…
/r/seduction17/11/25 08:49 AM
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So why'd you delete the comment linking the study? Also, was it corroborated or was it one of those one-off things whose results were contradicted later on?
/r/seduction17/11/25 06:46 AM
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A bit of column B is probably a healthier approach. For example if all your dates keep failing after you start rambling on about a race of super-crocodiles that secretly rule over America and live in a diamond city beneath the Mississippi river midway through conversation, it might be a good idea to cut that shit out. An extreme example but you get the idea.
/r/seduction16/11/25 07:08 AM
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Hit on them and flirt with them. The only thing that experience has taught me is that there are no guarantees in dating and the only sure-fire way to get girls is to make a move. Trying to attract extremely beautiful women with wealth or status is usually a losing proposition because a lot of those women usually have that in spades themselves and they don't really care to have more of it.
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:49 AM
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The majority of women are attracted to men with money, power, and status. Out of those three, only power actually comes close to being something you are correct about. Money, LMAO. It's worthless when attracting top-tier women, only gold diggers in general. Status, ehhh. It can be more of a benefit but it really doesn't make as much of an impact as you think. Power is the most important of the three but it can be expressed in many different ways.
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:46 AM
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Another day, another piece of useless, zero context advice on this sub.
/r/seduction15/11/25 04:59 AM
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You didn’t even hit on her WTF.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:47 AM
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This sounds less like a question and more like a very poorly-veiled humblebrag.
/r/seduction17/09/25 05:01 AM
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Gonna briefly give you the benefit of the doubt and assume this isn’t fake as shit. You basically got a girl horny and ready to fuck and instead of telling her to come somewhere private you left her for the big guy to take over and bang her brains out assuming he doesn’t fumble. You lost an easy lay. She’s the big guy’s girl now and probably forgot you.
/r/seduction23/08/25 12:21 AM
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Depends how old. Pushing or over 40, your options will be scarce on the ground unless you’ve got that silver fox appeal. Between 27 and about 37 depending on how well you look after yourself and you’ll be surprised. It’s that factor of being still not quite old but also not quite young I suspect. I also doubt it’s daddy issues because I’ve seen it with girls who have quite healthy upbringings multiple times.
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:30 PM
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You haven’t approached because you know it’s a guaranteed rejection? How? Can you see the future? What are next week’s lottery numbers?
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:48 PM
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Craig Ferguson’s shit is scripted despite people telling you it’s not and anybody who actually bothered to read Casanova knows that he was a morally abhorrent degenerate and liar who actively abused his wealth and influence to blackmail girls as young as 12 into sleeping with him. You don’t really have to like or love women to be good with them but at the bare minimum you have to understand them. Which comes easier if you appreciate women for all their flaws. Actually that goes for being social …
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:40 AM
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If you are an attractive girl, you have no single male friends that don’t on some level want to get into your pants, just guys who repress it. Also “recommendations” are such bullshit LMAO. The only time that happens is when a dude bangs a girl’s brains out and she brags about it to her friends so they want a piece. You never get a guy who is a platonic friend who gets recommended and you are fully aware of this OP.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:29 AM
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A lesson that needs to be regularly drilled into some guys' heads. And to dudes who keep freaking out about harassment or whatever - if you tried to make friends or hit on women ever in your life, you have likely been "creepy" at one point or another. If you are genuinely pushing it, rest assured that she WILL let you know in no uncertain terms that you understand. There's a clear difference between a girl being shy and a girl telling you that she isn't interested and to please go away that even…
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:21 PM
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This, it's way easier to try, probably fail a couple of times (although you are also very likely to succeed just by trying too) and then seek advice on how to fix your sticking points.
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:12 PM
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Yes, this is why many guys can occasionally pull off smooth approaches if the stars align for what they perceive as the “perfect” moment and situation. But counting on those to get the girl of your dreams is only slightly less stupidly optimistic than expecting to win the lottery.
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:54 PM
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Not really true at all. Men actually have a much smaller radius of preference when it comes to features in women (mostly looks) but many will sacrifice standards out of desperation. Women’s preferences tend to be wider in scope. This goes double for girls who crow about “must be tall, ripped, make six figures, etc” shit. Girls who do genuinely only want those don’t yell about it from the rooftops, they just quietly date them. But I expect this to fall on deaf ears given your blackpilled beliefs.…
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:47 PM
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People misunderstand what that means. Be attractive - don't go out looking like an unwashed, fat hobo. Don't be unattractive - avoid doing stupid shit that will turn girls off.
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:48 AM
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More of them than you realise are open to dating older men as long as you’re not a slob.
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:43 AM
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Buddy, people can barely remember what they said to the cashier in a check-out line yesterday, you seriously expect a play-by-play of people out at night and lightly buzzed? Not to mention that 90% of that shit is non-verbal cues that people aren’t even consciously aware of and what line worked for one person won’t necessarily work for another.
/r/seduction22/04/25 04:31 PM
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What answer do you want? The real response is that nobody here fucking knows because we don't know this dude, we've never seen him or his wife. We're getting information from you second-hand filtered through your obvious jealousy bias. Shit for all we know his wife is actually pretty dogshit ugly and/or plain and you're just building her up in your own imagination because she's your oneitis or something. I've seen beautiful girls dating tall pretty boys and I've also seen beautiful girls dating …
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:41 AM
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To be fair, he did approach a Slavic girl. Assuming you don't get a sociopathic whore, those tend to have standards that are basically in the gutter when it comes to men. Whenever I see some pale European chick with some mystery meat genetic deadend, 99% of the time it's a Slavic woman.
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:46 PM
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1 is total nonsense. I've used both travel and non-travel photos and they make roughly fuck-all difference. I would certainly not believe a single word out of a study by Hinge because they have a vested interest in giving their clients useless advice that'll keep them on for longer. Especially the claim that only 3.4% of men include travel photos, try creating a female profile and then scrolling on some male profiles. 2 is good advice but it's really just a case of stand tall and showcase your g…
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:03 AM
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Might help if you stopped thinking of them as stupid. Intellectual elitism is not an attractive trait in a man, neither is being an asshole.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:52 AM
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Honest question - are you asking out all kinds of girls, including other Indian and Asian girls or are you just zoning in on white girls? Because I'll be honest, vast majority of Indian dudes who struggle with dating in the west seem to have problems mainly because they are obsessed with getting a pretty European girlfriend. Combine that with the almost universal reputation that Indian men have with being socially awkward and very creepy with a lack of awareness of personal space and a lot of We…
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:50 AM
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If you're attractive, women will come to you. If that were true, life would be a breeze. It rarely works that way.
/r/seduction21/01/25 01:46 PM
3

It was always dumb, stupid advice but the issue is that most parents/guardians don't really consider their children's sex life or lack thereof to be a priority. So they will talk about working hard, making money, getting your affairs in order, all that crap, because that's what they consider important and just assume that their sons will figure out girls on their own eventually so might as well motivate them to maximize wealth by BSing them that it gets you babes. That's how you end up with dude…
/r/seduction23/12/24 10:50 AM
1

You asked me nothing. Early onset of dementia there, gramps?
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:37 AM
1

I made no assumptions, I saw a wrongful statement and went to correct it. Your very first sentence operates on the assumption that our ancestors were all mangina suckers who could afford to behave like that and get away with it because societal mores or something, when even a brief familiarity with history will show this to be false.
/r/seduction24/07/19 05:01 PM
10

You operate on the assumption that our grandfathers didn’t know this shit and weren’t being playful dicks to women throughout history. Game has not changed for centuries and neither have men or women.
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:06 AM
1

If I were trying to win the lottery for 27 years and have never been able to do it at Agatha point should I consider that I can't do it or it hasn't happened? The latter obviously. It's not a valid answer, because people will rightfully point out that you can't know if you will win the lottery tomorrow or in 5 years based on your luck today. There is nothing actually stopping you. And the odds there are far worse than getting a girlfriend. Believe me if I did have a woman consider me attractive …
/r/seduction07/06/19 06:42 AM
1

I quantify it mostly by the fact that it's never happened before. That's a circular answer that answers nothing. "I can quantify that I can't win the lottery by the fact that I haven't won the lottery." As in out of all of the people I've met I've never had a woman consider me attractive enough to date before. Have you checked with every single one out of the hundreds of women you've ever seen? Or just cherry-picking from about 10 or so? Are you sure the ones you asked didn't find you attractive…
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:43 PM
2

I’m confused as to how you can even quantify “never happened to me before”. Can you read women’s minds as they walk past you? I know that when I was in a similar mindset, I also assumed no girl was interested and in retrospect and even asking them later, it’s amazing how blind I was.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:08 PM
1

Fundamentals of male/female attraction: Men's attraction is primarily physical. The good thing for girls is that they are all predisposed to have breasts, nice butts, curved physiques, generally feminine faces, etc. This is why the stereotype of ugly duckling to beautiful swan exists in all those cheesy teen movies. So any girl, with some exercise, hygiene and looking after her looks can get a guy she likes, because men's overriding instinct blinds us to stuff like personality. Women's attractio…
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:36 AM
0

Why does everything you just wrote feel like it came straight out of a Hollywood script?
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:54 PM
2

That seems like her acknowledging the possibility while simultaneously trying not to seem like a slut but whatever. I would’ve gone for it but you do you.
/r/seduction13/11/18 08:22 PM
3

Good effort for boldness, should’ve tried for a threesome anyway but eh, good friends and all.
/r/seduction13/11/18 07:52 PM
1

Not caring about friendzoning is good. What happened, happened. Move on. Purposefully friendzoning yourself is moronic.
/r/seduction29/10/18 08:32 PM
1

Ah, so you were referring to physical fitness. OK. Mea culpa, my definition of looks tends to refer to stupid shit like face structure or whatever because it's an easier definition to separate from other appearance-related traits such as getting into shape. In that case, yes, getting in shape will definitely help you when aiming for the hottest girls.
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:29 AM
1

Big noses are not an unattractive trait (hell, the Romans considered it the opposite, just for one) and a "non-existent" chin can be remedied with appropriate exercises to strengthen your jaw. But either way, your face matters very little. As long as it's lean and you are in good shape, you are attractive and good-looking. So, no. Good looks have very little to-do with traits that are unchangeable. Most people just don't want to put in the effort. I certainly wouldn't have gotten super-good resu…
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:24 AM
0

I find that women are willing to give pretty much every guy a shot but you still have to charm her with that shot, which is where most guys fail.
/r/seduction25/10/18 01:04 PM
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“To play the game at a higher level.” It’s not. It really is not. I know it’s hard to believe this but looks contribute a MAX of 5% to 10% to a man’s appeal. You can look good and still no woman will ever glance your way.
/r/seduction25/10/18 08:41 AM
-1

“You wouldn’t give it to him.” It’s comforting to think that right up until you suddenly realize that the charming badass you gave fifty bucks to six hours ago was actually a homeless bum with crooked eyes. And then realize how easily human perception is manipulated. Women have a ridiculous amount of different angles that dudes can leverage to get the best of the lot while lacking in other ways. Believing otherwise is how you end up on Bodybuilding.com lamenting how all the hot chicks are going …
/r/seduction25/10/18 08:36 AM
1

Realize that becoming “good-looking” is as easy as getting into good shape, grooming and hygiene and practicing charisma. And the last one is the most important of all. I learned that the hard way. You too can be like him but it will take work.
/r/seduction25/10/18 08:23 AM
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I’ve never seen attractive men (if we go by objective looks alone for the purposes of simplifying male attractiveness) get nearly as many freebies as attractive women. Hell, it’s basically 0. You need to work for that. Women don’t. And looks really won’t get you a leg up in the foot-in-the-door department all that often. Behavior and personality outweigh it way too often for men.
/r/seduction24/10/18 11:10 AM
1

That advice works fine, it just depends on whether you want to put it into action. Judging by your attitude, I suspect you simply don't have the mental fortitude to push through.
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:36 PM
2

You gotta know that young people who aren't social outcasts always go in groups. Always, always, always. Young people like me are pack animals. They stay close to their groups and don't let anyone else in for fear of any unwelcome changes to their own little world of cool, smart, young people they've created for themselves. Not everyone is you. I've had some eye-opening experiences on how many people go places by themselves and are happy to have new friends. There are ways to ingratiate yourself…
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:32 PM
1

If I knew how I would have already done it. Good thing you're on a subreddit dedicated to teaching you how, not a subreddit showing you how to hire prostitutes. no woman wants an inexperienced shit Have you spoken to every woman in the world about this and got an honest answer out of her?
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:24 PM
1

Not really true but you have to use a bit of brains when picking social activities to meet girls. For example, there's a reasonably high-chance that your local knitting club isn't going to have hot babes in it. Try festivals and all the good stuff that young people go to.
/r/seduction21/10/18 11:17 AM
2

To get a decently attractive, clean one for a decent amount of time, it seems around $700. It's easier and cheaper to just ask a girl out and the quality of girl you get will be substantially higher. But hey, a fool and his money are soon parted and all that.
/r/seduction21/10/18 11:12 AM
2

This is my own two cents, so take with a grain of salt, but I once met a guy who worked in chemical engineering after getting his shit together post-release from jail for several attempted robberies and drug dealing and when I asked him how he dealt with people not willing to give him a chance based on pure prejudice, he said that when applying for a job or a loan or buying a house or anything, he always tried to make small talk for at least thirty minutes and come off as normal as possible. Jok…
/r/seduction20/10/18 04:59 AM
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Some of them are but female perspectives are still something useful to take into account. Just take it with a healthy dose of skepticism, as you would anything else.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:22 AM
0

Oh, I understand what you mean, I’m just trying to explain how most virgins here MIGHT feel. I’ve been through this phase as well and logically explaining it does not help. It certainly didn’t for me until I started actively hitting on girls and got some positive experiences out of it that blatantly contradicted what I believed earlier.
/r/seduction17/10/18 12:51 AM
2

On one hand, I suspect that most virgins are virgins simply because they haven't actually bothered to try and get a girl while playing to win i.e. not giving up after, like, one not-so-good moment, but on the other hand, I heavily doubt that most virgin anxiety is caused by society. The human sex drive is an insanely powerful thing and not having it satisfied can effectively drive a man semi-insane, so, yeah. If you've had it once with a girl of her own volition, it snowballs - you know, in the …
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:17 PM
10

Fuckboy is a label that's given to anyone that sleeps around with lots of girls without actually committing to any of them. Similar to manwhore. It's meaningless. I got called a fuckboy after having one-night stands with only 2 girls in a row. It was hilarious and not at all accurate. So as another commenter said, don't aim to be a fuckboy. Aim to be a confident dude who carries himself in a self-assured manner.
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:09 PM
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Yeah, no, Conor McGregor is a prime example of shooting your mouth off to be an asshole for no goddamn reason. You really don't want to be like Conor McGregor, unless you want a high risk of getting your jaw broken twice in one night.
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:04 PM
1

They should but the average woman generally carries her alcohol worse than the average man. The point is a good one, alcohol can be a much more powerful influence on your system than people assume.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:00 AM
2

Feels like I’m talking to a brick wall, but let’s try one more time. Boldness is literally the willingness to take risks and act out of your comfort zone. So, yes if you want to catch up to a woman to ask her out, that is, in fact, the case. If a woman makes it very clear she isn’t interested, you bid her good day and go your separate ways. Before that, you act relaxed and make her feel at ease about the approach. Understand? You are going off on a tangent talking about acting like a quasi-rapis…
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:25 PM
2

That’s not optimistic mind-reading though, that’s reality. There are girls who really like a guy and there are those who don’t. It is near impossible to genuinely know the difference without going for it. Boldnesd has been proven over the course of literally centuries as a key to getting women. This dude is suggesting nothing close to harassment aside from maybe 2 seconds of weirdness. You are basically suggesting to sit down and overanalyse instead of taking action. Everyone knows the hard limi…
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:13 AM
1

This post feels like a perfect example of that other post talking about disregarding your own happiness and the happiness of girls who want to talk to you in order to avoid taking two seconds of time from a girl who doesn’t give a shit about you.
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:21 PM
3

I wouldn’t wish being a male feminist on anyone so I think he’s fine.
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:15 PM
1

Looks matter much, much less to women than other traits in a man. And certainly WAY less than they do to a man. But, they are an easy excuse to blame rather than admitting you suck in other ways with women that are not so apparent. Also, feelings are everything. It’s no coincidence that all seducer archetypes are focused first and foremost on passion.
/r/seduction06/10/18 04:49 PM
2

It means her weekend is busy. Try another time. Not every girl is going to offer to reschedule, sometimes it just doesn’t occur to them. You give up too easily. Try and be persistent next time. Or don’t and stay miserable.
/r/seduction05/10/18 12:07 PM
1

There is nothing on the next sentence about Saturday and stopping after a soft “no” is exactly what I’m talking about with you giving up. Don’t be surprised when you barely try and barely get anything in return.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:33 PM
2

I am confused. The girl said she has a family event and you didn’t offer another time and persist a bit? I’m sorry but what kind of results do you expect when you give up right at the finish line?
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:37 PM
3

The NYC video has been royally mocked and parodied all over the Internet for being incoherent horseshit so you have nothing to worry about. And so what if you hit on a girl and she’s not feeling it? All she had to say is “No, thank you.” and off you go your separate ways. Less than five seconds. You are getting downvoted because you posted generic anxiety-ridden stuff that every newbie had and expect it to be some profound dilemma when the answer is obvious.
/r/seduction03/10/18 10:18 PM
2

But life actually makes sense unlike OP.
/r/seduction02/10/18 10:36 AM
1

Your definition of “manipulate” seems like it was taken out of mid-2000’s anti-PUA material. By that definition, all social interaction is manipulation. When someone manages to make a good impression on you, they are really just extremely good at playing you for a sucker.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:53 AM
2

That’s what I was referring to. The two halves of your post contradict each other. Either you are fucked for life or perhaps women genuinely don’t give that much of a shit about looks.
/r/seduction02/10/18 03:36 AM
2

I don’t get this post. You go on a 4 paragraph sob story how Tinder sucks and genetics make or break you then you point out that you got with quite attractive women in real life anyway. So you just defeated your own point, unless your point was just that Tinder sucks, in which case you are correct.
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:33 PM
1

What you’re describing doesn’t sound particularly complex or mind-blowing. I assume that everyone can turn their brain on for five minutes to notice what kind of earrings a girl is wearing or what color her eyes are. I realize that we live in an age where technology has fucked with people’s attention span but this shit really isn’t any more complicated than paying attention while using a knife so you don’t chop your fingers off.
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:12 PM
1

Have a drink. Don't overdo it but unless you're the designated driver or have some other reason not to drink, I think a bit of liquid courage to loosen up is fine.
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:09 AM
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This is the dumbest comment I’ve seen on here all month. Congratulations.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:16 PM
1

Worst case scenario, they might possibly be having sex behind your back. Just because he seems like a needy bitch does not preclude this possibility. Depends on what kind of history they have.
/r/seduction25/09/18 08:13 AM
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The difference between men with little success who are good with women and men with little success who are not is that the former try to interact with women to improve their skills and their chances and capitalize on opportunities that are given to them, aren't constantly negative and assuming the worst of themselves and everyone else and aren't constantly whining about their lives. You've had women find you interesting and give you approach invitations before or even initiate talks with you, Ae…
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:58 AM
22

Woman lurker comes in, sees some dudes being awkward as fuck with their posts, imagines getting approached by them and posts accordingly. Catcalling is not promoted here. Cold approaching is and and woman again focuses on the creepiest dudes doing it. News at 11. Additionally, woman lurker appears to have strong anxiety problems and strict religious upbringing coming into play when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex judging from her post history. There is a degree of control taking aw…
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:50 AM
1

If they exist, then they already are successful with women. That’s what I was asking and you agreed with it. Actually, saying it is impossible is exactly what you were doing. Now you’re backing down because you probably realize how ridiculous your ideas sound when put in context. Whenever a dude says he sucks with women because of unchangeable factors you can be sure that he’s probably got a mentality problem. You certainly seem like you do.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:17 AM
3

And what about men who have any one or combination of these factors “working against them” and still succeeded? Do they not exist according to you? Were they all just lucky? Are we going to play “No True Scotsman” with them? Or is it possible that this worldview is bullshit?
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:17 PM
1

No, it’s the correct mindset. Asking for a girl’s number and getting rejected is basic stuff. Any dude with a decent amount of alcohol in them can do it. The hard part is actually moving the interaction into a place where you can get intimate with a girl. This mentality of giving every guy a pat on the back for doing the bare minimum is unhealthy. It’s the equivalent of a participation trophy.
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:57 PM
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Congratulations. Next time, post when you get to the point of sleeping with a girl of her own volition. Any fool can get rejected but the aim should be to win.
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:33 AM
2

He always felt like a discount version of Roissy but whereas Roissy is angry at women, Rollo seems to be terrified of them.
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:10 PM
1

It is incorrect. I got laid for the first time when I was still struggling to get by. Improving my life just made it easier to get even higher quality girls and not live like a homeless bum. You are not as stupid and incompetent as you are constantly trying to prove, Aeon, as can be evidenced by your posts. All you need to do is get off your ass and start trying to get better with women. Or you can just die miserable. It’s easier and also more agonizing.
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:44 PM
1

I did answer it, Aeon. Read the first goddamn sentence. This sub is full of guys who refuse to take basic advice. Putting in the effort does not mean just blindly taking numbers and doing a job interview with a girl, it’s doing whatever the hell you want. There is a common thread between every single post here about sucking with women - guys acting like robots with women.
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:39 PM
2

You ever notice how there are some girls that you’d bang but not top of your list? I’m not talking ugly chicks, I’m talking average for your level of perception (because naturally each dude ranks women differently) so you don’t feel too cut up if it doesn’t work out. Forcing your mind not to care is very difficult but in this case? You genuinely don’t care! You don’t have to fake shit, your mind forgets this girl in like 40 seconds flat. You can grab numbers off twenty or thirty of these girls, …
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:32 PM
2

Women are much more subtle with checking out men that men are at checking out women. It's very common that a woman may pretend to not have noticed you to not seem too eager, particularly among inexperienced girls. See if a woman immediately turns her head as soon as you look directly at her face and pretends to be checking out the window or something. It's likely she was looking at you and is now trying to pretend otherwise. Either way, you should be approaching regardless of eye contact at some…
/r/seduction12/09/18 10:15 AM
1

Escalate, escalate and make small talk first. Got it? Good. Coming from a guy who has yet to talk to a single woman in the real world but has endless time for complaining, that’s hilarious.
/r/seduction12/09/18 08:21 AM
1

Unless you are literally deformed to the point that you barely look human, yes, it is overblown. Whenever someone posts “something, something, my face won’t let me get girls”, it’s always something else that they are doing that screws them up but they stubbornly refuse to see, like not escalating or being afraid to make some playful banter with the girl. Women’s expectations are no more ridiculous than they have ever been. What has changed is dudes making it harder for themselves by trying to co…
/r/seduction12/09/18 08:14 AM
1

You don’t. You do it so you have a better baseline and have to put in less effort to get the hottest girls. You can be perfectly average and get a perfectly average looking girl or even decently above average looking depending on how you play your cards, assuming you try. If there’s one thing that actually getting girls taught me is that the difficulty level of doing so is way overblown. You need to try but it shouldn’t be a herculean task.
/r/seduction12/09/18 03:22 AM
4

That 40% myth was disproven, in reality it’s more or less equal percentages.
/r/seduction12/09/18 03:12 AM
2

Faking it does work but the trick is to fake being the best version of you. If your ideal self is a master of parkour, pioneer of quantum mechanics and champion of jazz who dresses in stylish overcoats and top hats from the beginning of the 20th century, you’ll find it much easier to fake it because these are things that you already like and are working towards achieving.
/r/seduction08/09/18 07:00 AM
1

Faking it does work but the trick is to fake being the best version of you. If your ideal self is a master of parkour, pioneer of quantum mechanics and champion of jazz who dresses in stylish overcoats and top hats from the beginning of the 20th century, you’ll find it much easier to fake it because these are things that you already like and are working towards achieving.
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:06 AM
1

While I would agree with others that hitting on a hired gun needs some small-talk first, the manager’s reaction certainly seemed over the top. I actually find it a blessing when idiots like this react so openly hostile to you for small things. It puts you in the moral and legal right and gives you leeway to undermine them very easily, all because they were too stupid to react politely and put themselves in the line of fire.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:34 AM
7

That is one of the most hilariously stupid over-the-top scenarios I’ve ever read. You might as well bet on getting run over by a truck while walking through a parking lot at a supermarket. It’s also one of the types of bullshit listed in the OP as “intellectualization”.
/r/seduction04/09/18 09:20 PM
2

A lot of those are not useful on the sexual arena. Most of them aren't in fact. Me being good at say writing, swimming or playing Rainbow Six Siege sure as hell doesn't translate into the sexual arena because no one cares about that. Especially women. And like I pointed out to the other dude, they are. They directly translate to your status in a girl's eyes. Take "power", for example. How do you think that is defined in a girl's eyes? It's probably not the way you think. Being a great swimmer is…
/r/seduction30/08/18 11:32 AM
1

In this case, it does. The only thing that being above average contributes too is looking better than someone else in a specific arena. Women judge men based on what they can do. Leveraging your chess skills in the proper arena can translate into "alpha" status, which leads to girls being interested. That's what OP really meant by being "above average" anyway.
/r/seduction30/08/18 11:29 AM
41

Above average really can mean a billion different things because everybody is above average in some way. One may have an exceptional mind for mathematics. One may be a fast runner. One might have perfect vision. One may be able to imitate other voices to a degree where you can’t tell the difference. One may have a great singing voice. One may be extremely flexible. One may have unbreakable willpower. The great thing is that everyone has something going for them in the sexual arena and as long as…
/r/seduction30/08/18 03:17 AM
1

Which... explains absolutely nothing and is in no way a counter-example that persistence isn’t always bad. I don’t think you’re understanding what we’re discussing here.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:47 AM
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Eh. Whatever you say. I’d suggest you try it and you’ll be pleasantly surprised but you seem pretty set in your ways.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:31 AM
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Nah, you can totally persist and score, but it requires a bit of social dexterity. No girl that I’ve ever seen didn’t enjoy a bit of stubborn persistence as long as you did it in an easy-going way.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:19 AM
2

If you talked to one woman for each post you’ve made on this sub for the past year, Aeon, you’d have been laid more than three dozen times already.
/r/seduction26/08/18 07:04 AM
1

More than a year ago actually (a year and five months as I recall). But apparently your logical reasoning isn’t the strongest since a year ago person = current person according to you. But please, go ahead.
/r/seduction24/08/18 08:39 AM
0

Who said I don’t fuck hyper-attractive women? The dudes who get the best girls don’t give two shits if their nose looks crooked. That’s for metrosexuals. A good body plays a role, which is just about the only thing I agree with you on here. And even then it plays into the power perception which is why a lanky guy who can hit like a freight train will pique a hot girl’s interest all the same.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:06 AM
0

You’ve got the causality backwards. Girls flock to violent thugs all the same regardless of their looks. You can see it all the time with dudes who get zero attention from girls while they’re average schmucks and get flooded with interest once they shoot somebody. What attracts women is the perceived hyper-masculinity of being a violent asshole. A pretty face is not important for men and is a minor contributor at best. This is something that was understood on Seddit for a long time until we got …
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:34 PM
2

It is, though. OP basically straight up said that he straight up dropped getting girls to focus on other shit. Then he tried to to write some weasel-word bullcrap on how you should focus on things you want to do, which, strangely enough somehow excludes getting women. No shit, most of the guys here are going to post about putting energy into getting girls - that's literally what the sub is about and what they want to have. If they are on a sub about yoga, then 99% of their posts will be about yo…
/r/seduction21/08/18 10:41 PM
4

These posts pop up usually once every few weeks with guys who either don’t get laid at all or put too much effort into getting women which is basically counter to the #1 rule of seduction and then post this feel-good shit about how you should enjoy life. Gee, thanks genius. It somehow doesn’t occur to any of them that you can have a fairly happy life and still want to chase after lots of women, it’s not an either/or deal.
/r/seduction20/08/18 10:18 PM
3

You didn’t escalate properly, that’s why. Girls usually need a bit of warming up before shit happens. You probably waited too long and then haphazardly tried to go for it. Girls don’t just invite guys over at 11 PM in the evening.
/r/seduction19/08/18 07:46 PM
1

If you don't enjoy talking to women, why do it? Put some joy in your life, man. Look up some local fun events to go to and then talk to everyone there. Don't know how? Here you go: 1) Groups - Walk up to the group, smiling and walking confidently and looking friendly as fuck. People see you looking friendly, so they'll move out of the way to let you in on the conversation because people like hanging out with friendly, happy people. Wait for a brief pause and contribute to an on-going conversatio…
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:50 PM
2

You can totally fake it but you have to actually put in the effort to be a somewhat decent actor. Contrary to popular wisdom, women's bullshit detectors can be hilariously off-base, hence how you can get broke, homeless dudes who haven't shaved in days still managing to bang quite hot chicks.
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:42 AM
2

Looking at your post history (I thought I recalled your username around here before), I'd say it's just your particular neuroses coloring your perception.
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:00 AM
2

Oh, I see, you're another one of those. Well, I'll bow out of this conversation then. It seems like you need to work out some personal issues and trying to be "friends first" won't fix them or get you anything.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:50 AM
1

Hating rejection is one thing but you talk like you're going to get rejected no matter what without even approaching and I bet you come off the same way. You wouldn't go into a job interview or a sports team tryout defeating yourself with such mindsets, why the hell do it when you're trying to get a girl?
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:48 AM
1

This is a stupid question because it is obvious what you mean by handsome is “does she get excited seeing you and think you are desirable without you communicating with her in any manner?”. She could be excited by any number of reasons even if your jaw is busted and arm is deformed. Maybe you have scars. Maybe you just performed physically or intellectually impressive feats in front of her. Maybe you ooze charisma in the way you conduct yourself. Female attraction does not work the same way male…
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:51 PM
1

Soo, introverted girls don’t exist? Or extroverted girls who like introverted guys?
/r/seduction15/08/18 03:25 AM
1

I don’t understand what you are getting at, your logic is jumbled. Dates can only be high-pressure if you make them so, otherwise just relax and enjoy. If you can’t stand a girl, cut the date short. If you enjoy being with her, escalate. The way you talk it’s like you already think you’ll get rejected regardless of what you do. That is the mentality of a coward, for lack of a better word.
/r/seduction15/08/18 03:22 AM
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Girls do that sometimes. She probably likes you a lot but tries to play it off by acting aloof. She might genuinely dislike you but people are generally way more hostile in that situation than she appears to be acting. Like, openly act like assholes/bitches to you in an attempt to scare you off not just roll their eyes at you. Granted, this is usually something teenage girls do, not young women in their 20’s. Maybe she’s just a bit socially inept or something.
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:13 AM
2

No, the “keeping the pressure off” comment gave it away. You’re basically trying to weasel out of fully expressing your attraction to a woman, which is a 1-way ticket to Friendzoneville. You always, ALWAYS need to make it clear upfront that you like a girl. There’s absolutely no reason a date can’t be a relaxed affair between two friendly people who also would be down to bang. The only time the friend-route works is when the girl is nursing a crush on you and is waiting for you to make a move. A…
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:05 PM
2

Seems more like you’re just being cowardly at this point.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:12 PM
7

The “leading” section has some of the dumbest shit I’ve ever read on this sub.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:40 AM
2

It’s not really pickup coaches, it’s general male wisdom throughout the ages. The more you get better with women the more you begin to realize the diminishing return on investment with looks unless you have literally nothing else going for you.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:36 AM
2

I’m confused. Why don’t you become friends while you’re on a date? That’s what dates are for, you ask a girl out and then get to know her. If her personality turns you off, you can just say you’re not feeling it and cut contact.
/r/seduction13/08/18 03:15 AM
1

You got your answer several times over already. Why are you still here?
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:29 PM
2

Didn't you already post the same question like 5+ times under different accounts here?
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:22 PM
1

Exercise, do basic grooming and dress decently. There, you are now a good-looking bloke. Now focus on shit that ACTUALLY gets girls like being competent, driven and bold and leave fussing over beauty to women. It matters for them immensely.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:49 PM
1

Daygame and nightgame are quite easy with decent charisma, looks only get a bump in online dating because it’s the only thing girls can immediately see. I’d recommend against social circle game, you can make it but you are competing against other dudes in that same circle and the coolest guy usually has his pick. Better to be the guy that bypasses all that social etiquette garbage and goes straight for the girl.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:46 PM
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Yet another ‘work on yourself and girls will come to you’ post. Yawn. Look buddy, working on yourself does one thing - it improves your baseline. It’s similar to martial arts - higher level of physical fitness will make it easier but you won’t kick a black belt’s ass without actually learning the art. With girls, this involves actually communicating with them in a sexual way. You don’t even have to be the best version of yourself to get girls, however much this gets bandied about here. Trying to…
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:58 PM
1

You just described the “nice guy” approach to trying to get girls - indirect and deceitful. First time I’ve seen a beginner come in and try to claim that it’s better, though.
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:48 PM
1

Oh, so it's "getting the basics" now? What happened to "seduction isn't the end goal"?
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:35 AM
3

"Seduction isn't the end goal." Subreddit is literally named r/seduction and designed for the sole purpose of helping guys get girls. This is like going into a subreddit about physics and saying that you should focus on mathematics to understand it better as an end goal. Yes, it helps, but the sub is for a specific purpose, namely physics. How are people not self-aware enough to think before they post stuff like this?
/r/seduction03/08/18 11:28 AM
1

If you want a family, then pursuing a woman is inevitable. And yes, people can be horrible. Congratulations, you just graduated Basic Humanity 101. There are also people that are not horrible. You don't seem to see that, so I take it back, you failed Basic Humanity 101. Back to class with you.
/r/seduction03/08/18 11:25 AM
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Maybe actually go out into the world and try a few things instead of coming to uninformed conclusions and giving advice you have no place giving. Says the guy that seems to have completely missed the part where OP confesses to not being a social guy and then shits one of the easiest avenues for the guy to get results, namely cold approaching (and then saying that everyone on this sub recommends it, despite social circle being pimped here 80% of the time). Social circles are great for building so…
/r/seduction03/08/18 11:23 AM
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So...in order to help the guy find ways to get girls for his personality type, you are suggesting he build social circles where he’s almost guaranteed outcompeted for a limited number of girls by other guys who are better integrated? Great advice. And nice generalization too, BTW.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:29 PM
1

What this poster said. The best cure for getting over a pretty girl is meeting other pretty girls. It might not instantly cure your obsession but it will go a long way towards lessening it.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:15 PM
1

It'd be nice. It happens occasionally. Will sitting around and complaining about it on the Internet make it happen? No. If you are asked out by a girl, embrace it. If not, ask her out. Alternatively, join the Freemasons, get to 33rd degree and then at their next world domination meeting, put forward a twenty-step plan on how to recondition women to approach men instead of the other way around and then wait a century and a half to start seeing the fruits of your labor potentially pay off or strai…
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:50 AM
1

It's not just here, it's pretty much them trying to shit up everywhere. It'd be fun to troll them back on their own subreddit.
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:39 AM
7

Incel invasion in full swing, I see.
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:35 AM
0

Make one up. I'm serious, just sit down, try and think up some cool one-liners and go from there. Or train improvisation and learn to make shit up on the spot. The thing is, it doesn't matter what you say so much as how you say it but it will be far easier to say something confidently and charmingly if you believe in it, rather than if you deliver a canned pick-up line while internally cringing at how lame it sounds. For example, I almost never use the "Excuse me, I saw you and I thought you wer…
/r/seduction26/07/18 02:04 PM
1

Oh, it will improve your facial structure quite a bit. Most facial "ugliness" is a compound effect of everything else about you being out of desirable shape. And facial structure, at the end of the day, matters exactly zero to 1%. Trust me, when chicks are going gaga over a "hot guy" they aren't looking at his face, anymore than guys who drool over girls with knockout figures are paying attention to her face. I have seen dozens of people, guys and girls, who could justifiably be called ugly if t…
/r/seduction26/07/18 01:59 PM
1

Of course you can. This even goes for women and for them looks are far, FAR more important than for men.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:18 AM
2

Not sure what you mean by girl of my dreams, but I've never really had ant woman be attracted to me before so if you're talking about romantic interest then that's never happened for me before and that's kinda the reason I started to change/focus on self improvement to combat that. Going by your other comments, especially with your repeated interactions with recyclablebanthas, I'm guessing that this is horseshit and has everything to-do with your self-esteem and refusing to see opportunities. If…
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:54 AM
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This seems like such an odd thing to post. Like you’re leaving an old job for a new one and saying goodbye to all your old co-workers. It’s an open forum, where you’re supposed to jump in, read the important stuff and then jump out and start practicing. What if you meet the girl of your dreams tomorrow and have a great interaction with her? Are you going to forgo asking for her number because you’ve “moved on”? Yeah, right. I support your decision to stop reading. I’d also advise you take the op…
/r/seduction24/07/18 08:06 AM
0

Don’t know about the UK but women are incredibly friendly in Australia.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:22 AM
2

Come on if it really were that simple this sub wouldn't exist. Actually, it is. This sub exists because the guys who are unable to get girls literally don't understand the concept of approaching girls and escalating sexually. And those who do understand but don't get girls, are stuck with some kind of bizarre belief that makes them too depressed to take action. Either that or they are cowards who don't have the guts to let a girl know that they like her directly. I should know, I was all 3 of th…
/r/seduction21/07/18 08:40 AM
1

Welcome to the world as a non-powerful man. People say that our lives in the modern age are less hectic than in the past. This is bullshit. The modern age has brought such ridiculous work hours and had them normalized by surreptitious lobbying that our ancestors would look at us and think we had gone insane. 9 AM to 5 PM isn't normal and it isn't healthy. If you value living well and having the free time to be your own master instead of slaving away for someone else, consider freelancing.
/r/seduction19/07/18 09:50 AM
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I don’t know, OP. Do you like girls? Do you have a sex drive? You sound like you are not making any effort and want someone to give you an excuse to rationalize your inaction away. You speak of sacrificing having a fun time with women in order to become super-succesful which tells me that you are far away from achieving either of these things.
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:18 AM
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I personally always felt this to be a stupid rule because it puts you into a mentality where even the slightest hint of disinterest from the girl can fuck up your entire emotional setup. I prefer "it's good to be optimistic but make no assumptions when going into an interaction". Which, come to think of it, is basically the same what most PUAs seem to actually mean when they say "assume attraction".
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:06 PM
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Or perhaps just don't jump to over-the-top conclusions. That helps too, I hear.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:56 AM
3

What does the 20's have to do with it? Unless you live in an incredibly cold and stiff society, it's fairly common in the Western world to smile when you make eye contact and even greet the other person with "Hello!" or "Hi!" or "Good morning!" or something like that. Might be a bit less since about a decade ago when I saw it all the time but it's still a thing that people do.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:55 AM
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Congratulations, you realized one of the basics of flirting with girls and felt good because a pretty girl smiled at you. Now consider, if she had an indifferent or hostile expression instead of a smiling one or you were repulsed by her, would you have felt this good? Probably not. She might have smiled at you because it's polite and she was a well-raised girl. She might have smiled at you because she thought you were cute. Do not assume anything. I fell into the same trap early on and my expect…
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:32 AM
2

Just re-read the comments and am astonished at the incredible concentration of cretins that this one post has brought out. As one commenter stated, this sub has gone downhill. Just not for the reasons that you think. When actual, immediately actionable advice that is not all that different from some of "best of the best" posts around here is being dissed, while people salivate over generic "inner game" posts that are a dime a fucking dozen and easy, you know something is fucking wrong. Also, LMA…
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:19 AM
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Actually, you can. Exactly the same way that people can work out specific parts of your body. Not necessarily true with the face, since facial fat is lost as a result of general exercise, but still doable.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:15 AM
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This actually has some very good advice.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:43 PM
1

Actually, "fake it 'till you make it" is pretty damn good advice and has been observed to work in many other fields and disciplines. If you force yourself into pretending that you are confident, your brain actually eventually adopts that mentality and starts taking subconscious steps to make it come to fruition. Not to mention, people's ability to perceive bullshit is vastly overrated. If people were as good about detecting horse-crap as is claimed, scam artists, con men and liars wouldn't exist…
/r/seduction15/07/18 12:29 PM
4

My guess is that your mate is trying to run "cool guy" game on her but has gotten so deep into it that he doesn't know how to stop and actually reel in the fish once it's on the hook. Giving her emotional highs and lows, ignoring her, flirting with another girl to get her jealous, etc, without realizing that he's at the fucking finish line already. You need to wait for her to cool off him first and do your own thing in the meantime. THEN, you start making moves. That's assuming he doesn't wise u…
/r/seduction15/07/18 12:12 PM
1

I’d say the importance of looks really get overplayed by you at times.
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:51 AM
0

Looks on a man are like a rear-view camera in a car - a nice-to-have. Mostly, they are irrelevant.
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:51 AM
0

3, that I know well. Countless others that I’ve only met or spoken to briefly. If you keep asking for examples and not doing shit, you’ll get nowhere. What does it matter if 5’3 Jimmy Whatshisface from Bumfuck, Nowhere, can get girls despite his height? Why the hell do you care?
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:17 AM
1

What people mean when they say "dress well, groom yourself" is basically, don't be a slob. Cut your nails, be clean-shaven or have a neat beard, brush your teeth, shower and smell nice, have good hygiene, get a decent haircut and don't wear torn clothes. Basically, shit you should already be doing as a normal human being and not a shut-in who likes wallowing in his own filth. It's really easy and it kicks you up a few points without having to do much at all.
/r/seduction10/07/18 10:29 AM
2

Not whining about his height, getting fit, grooming, good body posture, charming demeanor, dedicating himself to a discipline or hobby and getting good at it, actually fucking talking to women instead of sitting on the sidelines and going to himself "wah, wah, women didn't look at me when I could see it, I have no chance at all" and then wondering why women won't drop into his lap. There are a hundred and one ways that short guys get good-looking girls and those that do have one thing in common:…
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:43 AM
-1

In your imagination.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:23 AM
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Whenever I read one of these posts, all I can do is roll my eyes and remember that one scene from That 70's Show when Jackie feels down about being lonely and Donna feeds her the usual "you gotta love yourself" line, to which Jackie responds "Donna, I already love myself, I just want to French someone!". Dude, if you putting way too much effort and getting less results, the solution is to think it over like a logical human being and refine your approach to the task, not to sit back and say "well…
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:45 AM
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Oh please. I scroll through your comments section, you’re nearly on the verge of crying. Keep your incel/wizardchan BS to yourself.
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:48 AM
2

because once he discovers I’ve never had sex, he’ll probably lose interest... Quite the opposite, actually. The average guy really enjoys the idea that the girl was his and only his, especially if he himself is a virgin. Women are generally the opposite.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:52 AM
1

If she actually wanted to go with you, she would've suggested a different time and and "asking" (which you did anyway) or not would have made zero difference.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:14 AM
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Nope, you're not. Posting after nothing at all? Troll, clear as day. And nobody's selling shit. All the info is free and in the sidebar. Why are you here? For the company, really. And to make suckers like you cry like little bitches.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:11 AM
1

Then why are you here? To spread your pathetic mentality?
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:50 AM
1

The sub is literally called ‘seduction’, what do you think it’s about? Guys don’t come here to get told to stop trying to get girls, they come here because they want to get girls, can’t get them and want advice how to get them.
/r/seduction07/07/18 02:38 AM
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Two points: 1) It seems to me that you subconsciously believe that these guys WERE superior to you. Stop that. Nobody is superior to you. You are always better at something. Leverage your talents and let your rage at this bullshit drive you to push out the competition and keep the girl’s focus on you. 2) I wasn’t there but I suspect you stopped talking as soon as the other guys showed up. Stop that too. Don’t get too aggressive but be sure to keep in the conversation all the way through. Again, …
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:41 AM
5

There may be billions of girls but not all of them are a man’s cup of tea or equally hot/pleasant to be around. Helps to keep a balanced perspective.
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:12 PM
3

Yadda, yadda, my poor skinny arms, yadda, some people hate my look, yadda, yadda, yadda... Look Aeon, until you can post until one field report or describe your attempts to actually approach women and improve your fitness/lifestyle/etc and what worked and what didn't, all your mental masturbation on this sub is just useless filler and annoying. I have no idea why the mods haven't banned your ass from this sub yet, since it seems less and less like you're here to seek help and more and more like …
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:54 AM
1

Models does offer some technical advice on how to get girls if you are completely hopeless but it’s kind of useless beyond some basic shit. I’m firmly of the opinion that no book can fix “inner game”/psychological issues in guys, that’s something that can only be done by you since nobody can read your mind and manipulate your thoughts/emotions like some kind of telepathic X-Man.
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:41 PM
7

As any guy decent with girls will tell you, it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
/r/seduction30/06/18 12:12 PM
4

Facial appearance makes roughly zero difference for a man. There's a reason that most guys around here that harp on about looks are also commonly the ones that have issues with self-esteem and insecurity about their appearance, that would be much more logical as the reason for why they don't succeed that well where they want to with women but this very simple and logical deduction somehow manages to escape their notice every time. Physical fitness is a different ballgame but for women, a man's t…
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:05 AM
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There are several crucial flaws in this post: If she cares so little that she won't respond to your phone call, then she sure as shit won't be wasting time scrolling through your Instagram. Same as number one, unless you are updating your IG, like, every one or two days AND she actually cares enough, she won't waste time on it. This is a ridiculous claim. Phone numbers with women are like candy, they'll hand them out to almost any normal guy that asks. If you're behaving creepy enough that she d…
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:13 PM
3

No, you genuinely did miss the point here. Read again and try not to jump to predetermined conclusions.
/r/seduction27/06/18 11:39 AM
1

I'm actually of the opinion that you sorta did the right thing, contrary to other commenters. Getting twitchy over harmless comments from strangers is stupid but a close friend who says shit like that about kids? Contrary to conventional wisdom here, there is a point where you have to step in. Not reacting to anything just sends two messages - a) your girlfriend is not that important to you and b) these are just innocent comments. The latter is especially dangerous because at that point the offe…
/r/seduction27/06/18 11:12 AM
2

I’m honestly more and more convinced that Aeon over here oversells his disability card quite a bit, the more I read him posting here.
/r/seduction26/06/18 12:31 PM
2

See my response to Ballsortahard.
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:24 AM
2

Basically, treating a girl like you want to make her into a long-term thing from the get-go and she's not willing to be your plaything for a few hours, to put it crassly. This has the effect of creating pressure on yourself not to be "too much out there" , whereas if you just want to find a girl to bang, you tend not to give a shit about being too forward. Once you've gotten more advanced, you can afford a bit of romantic leeway but when you start out, cut that shit out and adopt the mentality o…
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:24 AM
2

If I had e-books to sell... It’s mostly just common observation. I was just as stunned as anyone else when I realized this but it seems to be a pretty recent phenomena. I certainly see a lot more computer nerds going out with hot chicks than before.
/r/seduction25/06/18 03:32 AM
1

SSSniperWolf and her boyfriend. Or you know, take a walk down a local university. Better yet, try Google and you will be swamped.
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:03 AM
1

Men are generally attracted to women who behave in a demure, soft-spoken, gentle manner and physical appeal is pretty much 90% of it. You will be hard-pressed to find a woman who is genuinely attracted to the same kind of male. You are more likely to hear the word "faggot" lobbed in the direction of such a specimen. Women are generally attracted to men who behave in more bolder, loud-spoken, aggressive manner and whether he looks like Willem Dafoe or Ben Barnes carries maybe 5% relevance, if not…
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:59 AM
1

One look into the real world is enough to prove this notion wrong.
/r/seduction18/06/18 01:37 PM
1

No, not really. There are some similarities because both are human beings but both are also wired very much differently and respond differently.
/r/seduction18/06/18 01:36 PM
2

Because it is a lame-ass opener. It’s good for starting out but the general idea is that you eventually get good enough to come up with better ones.
/r/seduction18/06/18 01:34 PM
1

Yeah, eye contact is a definite winner. Losing it is also a good way to dodge unwanted attention. Happened to me once with a girlfriend of a relative. I was really just being friendly and my usual self until she started getting a bit TOO friendly and I spent the rest of the evening avoiding her gaze. At most, half a second of acknowledgement just out of common courtesy. It’s a nice way of easing the tension in a polite manner.
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:53 AM
2

I don’t wanna be a party pooper but I now think that posts like these have the negative effect of encouraging newbies and guys who have never managed to score with any girl to live vicariously through them rather than encouraging them to take action. Good on you but just sayin’.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:21 AM
1

My advice: don’t. It’s not decent and has the potential to go to shit really quickly. I’ve done it once before and it was nasty. And I was lucky too, it could’ve been way worse. That being said, if you are still intent on learning the hard way, all of those options suck. Number one rule of getting a girl with a boyfriend is that YOU. DON’T. MENTION. THE. BOYFRIEND. Keep the memory of him to a minimum when she’s with you. The intention is to make her focus on having fun around you, not make her f…
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:37 AM
2

I was visiting from out of town so I really wanted to pull through and wingman for my friend. 6 hours later the hot girl and my best friend are pretty much in love making out like crazy outside the bar at 2:30 am. This is kind of a core point you left unmentioned. You, I'm assuming a pretty socially well-attuned guy, helped your buddy score a 10. You mentioned he's not particularly good-looking in the comments but from my personal experience looks, tend to rank somewhere from 5% to 0% relevance …
/r/seduction31/05/18 11:57 AM
1

I thought standing up for yourself was basic How To Human 101. It’s not about girls at this point, it’s about making sure you don’t get screwed over by malicious people. And there is A LOT of malicious people out there.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:06 AM
1

To sum it up, he played the aloof asshole who didn’t give a shit. That’s the most basic form of game and it doesn’t help that he’s older than you, which helps immensely with younger girls during your twenties and teens. If I had to guess, to an outside observer you probably looked like the “nice guy” trying too hard and the “jerk” not trying at all, though that is obviously a major oversimplification. Next time you are out, try copying some of his more asshole-ish traits as an experiment. Don’t …
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:01 AM
2

I don't like your analogies though, even if my behavior warrants it. I think everyone needs some kind of security blanket. From an autistic point of view, this would be "order" or "rigidity," in the abstract. Resistance to change, is another way to put it. That's probably what you're reacting to. Resistance to positive change is never a good thing, which is what you are doing. For normals (non-autistic) I tend to see a lot of reliance on things like alcohol, group identity (affirmation) and many…
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:55 AM
2

Most literature ESPECIALLY "Book of Pook" suggests the duality of "status/money"; without one, you need the other. No, it suggests that you need to get off your ass and take some risks. I already gave you all the advice you needed ages ago, Aeon. I have no interest in repeating it. You want results, get off your cowardly ass and take action. Your Asperger's is merely an excuse that you cling to as tightly as a child clings to a favorite toy. It's your safety blanket and as long as you refuse to …
/r/seduction25/02/18 08:31 AM
1

Reminder that if you took most of the fit guys that incels decry as blessed with handsome and took away their fitness, diet and hygiene regiment, they would look just as "ugly" as the incels see themselves.
/r/seduction24/02/18 05:37 AM
7

The thing about seduction is that everything you ever need is in the sidebar. I was lost for ages until I just decided to go with the basics and developed my own style from there. I wanted to post a huge guide here at one point. Even posted a very tiny one. Then I realized that almost everything on it was basic shit that you can get from the Book of Pook, with my personal style mixed on top, which may not work for others. My best advice for a beginner is to get started on fundamental stuff - get…
/r/seduction24/02/18 05:08 AM
1

I never said that if you didn't have a good facial symmetry you don't have chances with beautiful women, ad i don't appreciate people twisting my words. If you can't present a valid, well crafted, counter argument to what i say, maybe it's just better for you not to say anything at all. Here, here and here just for starters. And lest I forget our own previous exchange, here. I know people wanna believe fairy tales. For some reason, it makes them feel better. It gives them more hope about their f…
/r/seduction04/11/17 05:58 AM
1

My purpose in pointing out that it's not just a list is that it goes beyond that. Your mindset makes a difference. You could knock down all the steps on your list but if you're mindset isn't right, it's not going to change anything. In fact, it could even make matters worse. Mindset can be fixed by taking action. I've never been a fan of "just try to avoid thinking about it" or "see a therapist or take pills for it" when it comes to issues of motivation and low self-esteem. I find that the bigge…
/r/seduction01/11/17 12:48 AM
1

I mean I get the sentiment you're going for here. Take actions and you'll see your behavior start to change. It's not always that easy. You said it yourself, depression is a real thing. Low Self Esteem isn't necessarily something we can just get rid of even if we are logically aware of it. Real problems exist, it's not as simple as just following a list. This post is for the people who are sitting at home, lost, haven't achieved much and don't know where to begin. I'm giving them an easy startin…
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:45 AM
2

No, no, no, you'd need to throw pull-ups in there somewhere.
/r/seduction30/10/17 02:30 AM
1

Actually, I just wrote it up as what I figured would be possible for the average couch potato/string bean who has never exercised in their life. I only realized the OPM similarity later, LOL. For the average guy who is reasonably fit, sure, I'd recommend 50 of each as a starter and maybe 10 pull-ups. If you're way below average, this is a good starting point from which to gradually increase. Pull-ups can come later, because if you're too weak to do 10 push-ups, you sure as shit won't be able to …
/r/seduction30/10/17 02:29 AM
2

Dancing, archery, rock-climbing, martial arts, chess, ping-pong, hiking, nerdy stuff like cons and E3, PAX, Gamescom, whatever, if you're in college/university, join any and all student societies you can. Attend every social gathering they arrange. In short, just get out of your house and away from your computer. Hell, make some friends on Steam or something, if you can't do that too much because of extreme social anxiety.
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:33 PM
2

I too think the sidebar should be updated or at least re-organized. It seems a bit of a cluttered mess right now.
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:29 PM
1

If you suffer from chronic laziness, sure. Once you make that first step, it becomes waaay easier. Like that Bojack Horseman clip that I see making the rounds every now and then.
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:29 PM
2

It would be nice if being a failure in life and having low self esteem could be solved with push ups and job applications. Low self esteem goes way beyond that and can be attached to a vast number of problems. Sometimes your brain is just not working right, and no matter what you do you always feel bad about yourself. This is a serious issue to a lot of people. I've known girls who had no reason to have low self esteem but they just couldn't help it. There are people who suffer from serious depr…
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:27 PM
2

An asshole for observing a pattern of people coming in with the same problems and offering some basic solutions to get them from 0 to at least 3? Truly, I am a monster of the greatest kind.
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:22 PM
2

Text messages can be surprising too, you know. And up until around a decade ago, calling someone was a perfectly valid way to get in touch. It still is, unless you have a phobia of talking to people. Take my advice, skip the bullshit and call the girl straight-up. She'll appreciate it more and respect you more.
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:28 AM
1

I have a question. What's the point of calling someone if you're just going to text them beforehand? Why not just say what you have to say over text? Alternatively, why the hell don't you just call her straight-up with no preliminary bullshit?
/r/seduction28/10/17 01:23 AM
3

Well, not to get pedantic, but racism generally carries the connotation that one holds the belief that one's race is superior in general to another, at least according to official definitions. What you could accuse me of is stereotyping with this sentence: "Hell, it's probably not even exclusive to him. I've been involved in social circles with a lot of Indians and they have some weird mix of fascination/loathing for white girls." Come to think of it, my original usage of the word was also incor…
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:26 AM
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Even my new FWB, who is from India, thinks I’m sleeping with him only for his money and his engineering degree he’ll earn soon. With all due respect, you might want to consider the possibility that he is the one being racist here. Hell, it's probably not even exclusive to him. I've been involved in social circles with a lot of Indians and they have some weird mix of fascination/loathing for white girls. Hell, for all you know he might be projecting and he's boasting behind your back to his buddi…
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:06 AM
1

Yeah, you got some self-esteem issues there, buddy. I'm not gonna debate that there are exceptions in the world. But this idea that you can be an unattractive guy and simply learn how to be attractive and bang beautiful women is just false. It won't happen, unless the source of your lack of success with women can be something easy to correct. Being pretty DOES. NOT. MATTER. Even if we did assume that women are just as visual as men, which is something anyone who does extremely well with women ca…
/r/seduction23/10/17 01:20 AM
1

I would disagree to an extent, since I work in a heavily mathematics-oriented field and how seriously people will take you can take a hit if you cannot demonstrate good knowledge in a given area. Anyway, we're getting off-topic. According to your own metric, your post still doesn't pass because you haven't tested it and thus cannot tell us if it works or is true. That was my original point, which I got sidetracked from. Especially when it comes to women, where the low threshold for understanding…
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:37 PM
1

Scientifically sound =/= actually works. An academic putting forth an idea must have tested it beforehand, otherwise he will be laughed out of any proper scientific circles. And his background is important because it is an immediate identifier of how well he is familiar with the material at hand. I don't know what kind of academic circles you run in, but in mine this is basic common sense.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:07 AM
1

Yes, Robert Bunsen. He's got some good stories from friends and family about coming in smelling like garbage from all the experiments he was conducting and still being a charming man. Fat is fixable, but not being fat doesn't make you attractive. A bad personality can turn women off, sure. That's not exactly a revelation. Being bald is a disadvantage for most guys. I can guarantee you most girls aren't into bald men, unless the man in question has some other amazing physical attributes. You'd be…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:52 PM
5

For every real hooker there are a 100 fake ones who are fat, ugly, smell bad and are awful in bed yet charge you out the ass and have the gall to get pissed off at you when you decide to back out because you got lied to by her online profile. And that's assuming you're lucky enough not to get one associated with a criminal gang, in which case you are REALLY up shit creek if you don't cough up the cash. Legit ones are expensive as hell, frequently dead fish in bed who won't put in the slightest a…
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:31 PM
0

fat Fixable. bald Easy to make an advantage. short Somewhat of a disadvantage, but also surmountable, there are plenty of short men who pull ridiculously hot women. pretty Being pretty is just about the least important attribute a man can have. Get brains and brawn and be as outrageous as Eric Cartman and you can walk around like an unwashed hobo smelling of vodka and still charm girls. Just ask Robert Bunsen. Perhaps r/incels might be more your speed.
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:23 PM
1

The only benefit I can think of to texting is that it gives you enough time to try and craft witty responses. The downside is that it encourages you to behave artificially, plus all the anxiety that comes from "She read my message? Why didn't she respond?" kind of thoughts. Plus, if you have extreme social phobia or autism, it pretty much makes you stick to your safe zone. I pretty much decided at some point to stop texting and start calling people. Yeah, some of them may feel confused by it but…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:07 AM
2

That's nonsense. When you push an idea in academia, other academics (at least those who actually follow proper scientific methodology) will actively scrutinize your credentials to a ridiculous degree to see if you actually know what you're talking about and will question you to the point of redundancy about your chosen topic. This is like me talking about the household applications of TNT when I don't have a background in chemistry and have never done any experiments with trinitrotoluene.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:16 AM
1

I believe the vast majority of men never have a girl actively interested in them. But I'd be willing to actually bet money that this (or something along those lines) has never happened to me. Like I said, keep believing that you're a special snowflake and extrapolating it to everyone else. Not to worry, though, I've met quite a few angsty virgins who believed the same and was the same for a long time. The good news is that this bullshit mentality doesn't last long unless you actively try to prot…
/r/seduction15/10/17 10:46 PM
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You've never seen it because your brain has been calibrated that way. It's hard to explain, but your mind is literally incapable of seeing simple indicators of attraction. Trust me, once you get rid of the "no girl likes me" mentality, you'll start seeing indicators of interest EVERYWHERE. Just like you can go out onto the street and find at least 5 to 6 girls in the span of half an hour that you'd like to bang, there's probably 3 to 4 girls that thought "I'd like to have sex with him".
/r/seduction15/10/17 01:57 AM
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Aren't you the special snowflake? This post is talking about you. There's a girl who saw you on the bus one time and sat close to you, tried to play aloof so not to seem too eager, you sat there moping and then you got off. And left a disappointed girl behind.
/r/seduction15/10/17 01:54 AM
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I would like to refine this piece of advice: Just because she's not interested in you NOW, does not mean she won't be interested LATER when you've moved for greener pastures and have changed somewhat for the better. But for now, try someone who is already down to play. For me, girls are either interested, sorta interested or not interested right now.
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:48 AM
1

This is nothing new. This was generally accepted knowledge for thousands of years. Modern attempts to subvert this with bullshit such as "gender is not sex" and "toxic masculinity" and whatever else have failed abysmally at doing anything other than reinforcing the true nature of things. Evolutionary psychology tried to put a science-y twist on what should be logically observable with your own two eyes.
/r/seduction14/10/17 06:17 AM
1

Fourth paragraph and she immediately references that asinine walk video that's been debunked to hell and back all over the Internet. That was pretty quick for a red flag to pop up. Also, you're reading ASKMEN. Even before I got into this community, I realized they were full of shit.
/r/seduction14/10/17 01:03 AM
1

Try to focus on other fun things to do. Don't try to bury loneliness with meditation/indifference/whatever, because it doesn't work. I find that when I'm in a happy mood, thoughts of girls tend to go by the wayside and you can talk to them easier. Suffering is something you should learn to bear, but there's no reason to try and do everything the most painful way possible and not easy your journey.
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:50 AM
1

Your stuff should be put in the sidebar. It is quick, accessible and mostly helpful advice.
/r/seduction12/10/17 10:18 PM
1

I understood the point, I just disagree. Accepting and moving on from losses is good, looking forward to going through a whole heap of torment to get to expert level is not. If you're good enough to get to expert level by skipping many levels of bullshit, take that option. I consider myself a pretty great coder, yet I never enjoyed reading through massive tome after massive tome on assembly languages and discrete mathematics. Seeking expertise is good, seeking pain is not.
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:52 AM
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This is a foolish mentality. Don't look forward to losses, just accept that they will happen. I don't look forward to getting rejected by a girl I like to teach me to not say stupid shit, anymore than I look forward to getting punched in the mouth to teach me to keep my hands up. This is the kind of mindset that doesn't help you get better, it just makes you more accustomed to being a loser who can't get a girl.
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:34 AM
1

Sure, why not.
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:21 AM
1

Just do what you want to do. I once invited a girl to go to a theme park in another town. She was gushing about me being such a fun, creative soul when it came to dates. I decided not to mention that she was just my excuse to visit said theme park without my parents yelling at me about wasting money.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:34 AM
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Just do what you want to do. I once invited a girl to go to a theme park in another town. She was gushing about me being such a fun, creative soul when it came to dates. I decided not to mention that she was just my excuse to visit said theme park without my parents yelling at me about wasting money.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:33 AM
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"Don't get me wrong, I know a lot more about seduction than he does." Judging by the rest of your post, clearly not.
/r/seduction25/09/17 06:00 AM
3

Hey, I ain't the guy who gets butthurt when people disagree with him. ...oh, I see. You have some major issues with seeking validation in your post history.
/r/seduction25/09/17 05:47 AM
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I find social circles overrated. My success with girls actually got better AFTER I stopped trying too hard to make friends. Yeah, I know people and can talk to strangers just fine. These are useful skills. Doesn't mean I want to go through a hundred people I don't like to get to a girl I do. Cut out the middle man and skip to talking with the girl.
/r/seduction24/09/17 10:59 AM
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TL;DR. 1) Women, like men, have a perfect ten. 2) Like men, this can vary wildly from girl to girl. 3) Like with men, to make yourself more attractive in general to women, pursue general improvement strategies such as fitness and learning how to be charming which have been recited as advice over and over as long as humanity existed. 4) And just like men, women will have sex with plenty of dudes who are not a perfect ten, much like that cute, thin barista might be only a 7.5 to me, but I'd still …
/r/seduction21/09/17 12:43 AM
2

It's college, not a workplace. Asking out classmates is kind of expected. Additionally, for your scenario to happen, a guy would have to be actively trying to fuck up in the worst way possible. In short, your advice is awful.
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:50 PM
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Maybe the source of loneliness is...oh, I don't know, being lonely? It's not rocket science, being miserable because you don't have a girl has nothing to do with being happy or unhappy in other aspects of your life. How to fix it? Get a girl. No more loneliness.
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:50 PM
1

26...4 girls...little experience...too old for casual sex... Wha...? How did you even come to this conclusion?
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:27 AM
1

Different day, same question. Isn't there a sidebar link for this? For women: Yes. Fortunately for many girls, most of them, provided they try to keep a minimum standard of good health, pass this threshold quite easily. For men: Not really. Fitness, intelligence, boldness and determination trump them by miles. Facial attractiveness or whatever FA guys go on about all day? Not in the slightest. You should be more worried about what's INSIDE your head than the shell surrounding it.
/r/seduction22/08/17 12:16 AM
1

No shit they have a "she told me I was cute" in there somewhere. When a girl thinks you're hot, she's not gonna say you're ugly to fit your mistaken perception of yourself.
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:30 PM
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Really? 'Cause I see a lot of single hot girls. Like, girls who are downright desperate in their private moments. I do agree that girls who stand out tend to just dress better. One of the first girls I went on a date with was a cute but kind of awkward Latvian exchange student. Normally, she was pretty but in the "dime a dozen" kind of way. Then came time for the date and whoa, mama...she really wanted to impress me and it showed.
/r/seduction18/08/17 10:27 AM
1

Yeah, I was wondering the same thing. Dinner is for when you want to get the girl to the point where she wants to bang. If she's already down, what the hell are you doing?
/r/seduction16/08/17 10:56 AM
2

I think this is one of those "speak for yourself" kind of things. While I agree that confidence is kind of important to have, in my experience a little lack of self-confidence in a woman can be pretty cute and rev up those "protector" instincts in a man. Similarly, I've known dudes with barely any confidence in themselves score with some great girls. Confidence is one of those things that is kind of overblown around here, IMO.
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:44 PM
3

Harvey Dent, is that you?
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:27 PM
1

Knowing ThrowawayPUA, there has to be some larger point buried here that he is getting at which is relevant to seduction. Nonetheless, I'm at a loss as to what. That women like control from above and firm leadership that nonetheless is soft enough to whisper sweet, sweet declarations of freedom for them that enables them to completely let loose and become the sexual vixens that all men secretly dream of? Or that our dear lead moderator thinks that socialism rocks?
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:18 AM
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Just because she likes all the good stuff that 90% of human beings on the planet do, does not make her not intelligent. It just means that, much like 90% of the human population, she leaves work to work and play time to play time. At work, she will work out physics problems like usual. When she goes on a date with you, she expects to have a good time, not get into deep questions. This is something that I find kind of puzzling about "ask her about her passions, dreams, etc" advice. Dates are supp…
/r/seduction13/08/17 09:52 AM
1

I've had a few girls last night be dancing close to me then suddenly take of and go the other other part of the dance floor and walk in front of me. facepalm Yeah, you've got a bad obliviousness problem. Hmm, so I may need another set of eyes. Unfortunately I don't have anybody. You don't need another set of eyes, what you need is the balls to approach a girl and ask her to dance. Or make a hand gesture or something.
/r/seduction13/08/17 09:46 AM
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Sometimes, women will be too afraid to make eye contact or they'll try to use that old trick of "let's ignore him and maybe he'll pay more attention to me" which almost never works on men as far as I've noticed. I remember when I was feeling down about being ignored by girls at a festival and my friend responded that he saw at least three different girls blatantly checking me out in the last five minutes when I wasn't looking in their direction.
/r/seduction12/08/17 11:16 AM
4

Eye contact is the one thing I never really had a problem with. In fact, I had/have the opposite problem where I hold eye contact too long and intensely, which has worked wonders with girls. Once you can catch their eye and start talking, it's like hypnotism in a way as long as she holds it or keeps coming back to it.
/r/seduction11/08/17 08:52 AM
1

Damn son, you every "nice guy" cliche straight on the fucking head, congratulations.
/r/seduction10/08/17 10:57 AM
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Indirectly. Make her laugh, make small-talk, throw in some relaxed, sexually-charged banter. If she bites, you're golden. If not, ah well. Try another girl.
/r/seduction08/08/17 02:45 AM
2

I recommend Herman Hesse, H.P. Lovecraft, Oscar Wilde, Aristotle and Leo Tolstoy.
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:22 PM
1

If you managed to go to prom with the best-looking girl in school, you clearly did something right. And 17? Christ, you're a baby. Quit the whining and start making moves.
/r/seduction05/08/17 09:36 PM
1

It's a TV show. It's not real and subject to the whims of the writer. A guy can run the worst game in the world and still get a girl interested in Tee Vee land. Nothing of use to be found here.
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:46 AM
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Being an alpha male isn't even an optimal strategy for getting girls. I remember reading an article years back that among chimpanzees, for example, the alpha male spends way too much time competing with and fending off beta males to pay attention to the females. And dying in the process as another beta takes his place and faces the same issues. The end result is that the ones who actually mate with the females end up being the most cowardly and weakest of the lot - the gamma males. Now what does…
/r/seduction03/08/17 12:19 PM
3

No age, as long as you don't let it get to your head. EDIT: Coming back to this thread and looking through your profile, I see now. You're a virgin in his early 20's who's freaking out over not getting some and want some affirmation that being a virgin is totally to blame for your predicament. That is not a good way to go about trying to lose it, buddy. Neither is it true.
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:17 PM
1

Absolute nonsense. I have decent facial attractiveness, yet I can tell you for a fact that in-shape dudes with uglier faces used to be my worst enemy when it came to girls. It doesn't make sense either. Would you rather bang a girl with an average face and a smokin' body or a flat twig or obese landwhale with a model face? Yeah, I thought so.
/r/seduction30/07/17 10:15 PM
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No, it's not. If there's one thing I hate about seddit, it's the endless "stop thinking about it and do other shit" platitudes. Half the time, this kind of advice is completely useless because the guys that it is given to are already pretty decently off by average guy standards and contrary to PUA wisdom, quite commonly not having sex/having a girlfriend/being a virgin/kissless virgin really can make you miserable even when the rest of your life is alright.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:35 AM
4

No. Everyone has different preferences. One woman's trash is another woman's treasure.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:02 PM
21

It doesn't fucking matter. Never did. checks profile Indian, how expected. What is it with you guys and insecurity? Shit, you're not even close to the ugliest dude I've seen get girls.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:42 PM
1

95%? 60%? Female? Do you go to an arts school or something?
/r/seduction24/07/17 09:19 PM
10

I think the issue here is that most guys that really need cold approaching to succeed don't have any hot lady friends to begin with.
/r/seduction24/07/17 04:34 AM
2

Something that I like to repeat to myself over and over: "It doesn't matter what you think - if he's getting something and you're not, then he's clearly doing something right and you're not." From personal experience, looks alone won't get you that far. Try to see what else he's doing right.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:31 AM
2

The foundational pillars of being truly masculine is whatever the hell you want it to be. You can achieve your ideal position in life where you will feel fulfilled and stay there. People who tell you that you're not living up to some ideal are welcome to go fuck themselves.
/r/seduction08/07/17 10:27 AM
0

5 minutes? Could've sworn I heard that one before. Anyway, I disagree. A good first impression is fairly important, but it won't necessarily break your chances if it's not a good one.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:13 AM
1

1) Yes, I have and you have nothing that is insurmountable. By your own admission, the worst you have is a concentration issue, which hundreds of other people worldwide have and still manage to get through. 2) You have no good reasons, only excuses that I have repeatedly refuted in our previous exchanges. You just need to listen for once. 3) So you're an ordinary introvert. Easily fixable, do social activities that you enjoy and try your best to socialize with people there plus leave your envy a…
/r/seduction04/07/17 11:48 PM
2

I thought explicitly telling her that we are just friends would have the same effect. No, that's just subtext blatantly telling her "I'm not interested, move on." as opposed to playing aloof, where she thinks she's losing your attention and investment and subsequently gets more invested in you. Or maybe saying that for now we are just friends. Then the subtext implication is "I am interested in you." and thus the move doesn't work. Adding the "for now" is just telling her that you're bullshittin…
/r/seduction03/07/17 10:07 AM
1

Then what you're referring to is "playing aloof" and focusing on other things besides the girl while keeping your options open. And yes, I know it works, because I've had it happen to me, just recently in fact. This is very different to friend-zoning a girl, where you explicitly make it clear to her in some way that you're not interested, even if you are and are doing it to play her. In that case, she's just going to write you off entirely and move on.
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:55 AM
1

I kinda hate the word "incel". It's short for "involuntarily celibate", but unless you're castrated (in the classic sense), are heavily physically disabled, locked up in some human trafficker's basement, etc, then you are not "involuntarily celibate". Especially for most of those guys, where their fate lies in their hands and their hands only, they don't have any obstacle physically preventing them from getting some. They are "voluntarily celibate".
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:43 AM
1

You're still building the attraction Then friendzoning is counterproductive, because you're just indicating that you have no interest, so she moves on. there is some obstacles between you And how does friendzoning a girl help here at all? her interest is waning Because you've screwed around too long instead of going for it. Friendzoning her is just going to kill your chances entirely here. you started off strongly flirtatious and want her to think she hasn't hooked you yet If she's reciprocating…
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:38 AM
1

I find it kind of weird that when you listed problems when she asked you to kiss her if you wanted, you didn't list issue c) she has a boyfriend.
/r/seduction30/06/17 02:57 AM
2

I would just like to say - being socially challenged can be fixed the same way as anything else. By doing, that is, by actually talking to people. People who think that being socially awkward and bad at reading cues is some insurmountable obstacle are wrong. I apologize for the bluntness, but you are simply wrong.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:34 AM
1

This is...tricky. As long as you're not an asshole about it, but still honest, I think she'd appreciate it. There are a lot of chubby girls out there who want to lose weight, but don't really have the motivation, so being her motivation will give her a hugely needed boost in discipline and sticking with it. On the other hand, she could be one of those super sensitive special snowflakes, in which case this could badly blow up in your face. Trying to discern which type she is first before starting…
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:29 AM
2

Fascinating...
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:37 AM
3

I like it. Helpful stuff. Though I do wonder where the "Life Uncivilized" title came from.
/r/seduction12/06/17 12:43 PM
21

If you're attracted to her, do it. If you're not, don't. Other people's opinions should make roughly zero difference. I used to care, it got me nowhere.
/r/seduction12/06/17 12:41 PM
1

I wouldn't recommend this. I mean, approaching is great and all, but it won't make a girl sexier. It just doesn't work that way for girls. Sorry, OP.
/r/seduction08/06/17 01:20 PM
2

Because being good with women and being successful at other things are two different concepts? You ever consider that? OK, enough. I know what happened the last time I got dragged down the rabbit hole of trying to argue with your stubborn ass, so my only advice to you is - get moving.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:53 AM
3

I'm gonna give you the most helpful advice my father ever gave me: "If you spent half as much time doing something as you spend complaining and procrastinating, you'd be Superman by now." I've seen way too many genetically disadvantaged dumbasses become champions, and by your own admission you aren't even intellectually impaired. Compared to shit I've seen, having a hard time concentrating is positively minor. Also, start talking to women. Seriously. Nobody can tell you what's going to happen, a…
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:52 AM
2

Pretty good post. I see there are already a few people here who missed your main point.
/r/seduction24/05/17 12:59 PM
2

Much better to be like you than some "handsome Super Alpha talking about his law degree and athletic ability," there's only one loser in this matchup and it's not you. Man, dude, you really need to work on that irrational jealousy and hatred. It's going to give you a miserable life even if you do work hard enough to become awesome like Mr. Handsome-Super-Alpha-With-Law-Degree-And-Muscles. Also, there is no lottery. Just those who climb and those who give up. Guess where you fall?
/r/seduction24/05/17 07:45 AM
2

What about when you approach a girl, she politely lets you down, and then shows signals of interest? Happened with a really hot girl at my college, I asked her out the same day, she told me she had a boyfriend, moved on. Thing is, we both study at the library during the same hours and same days every week and I've noticed she appears to sneak glances at me and tries to be in my proximity quite a lot, plus the usual girly stuff like playing with her hair and shit. What to do?
/r/seduction23/05/17 01:40 AM
1

From what I can tell, most of recyclablebanthas' advice is basically slightly modified Models. Plus praising the virtues of dancing, which I very much agree with. Not that he isn't very helpful, I just wonder how much truly new stuff he could give. That actually goes for most guides to getting women. Nothing new under the sun, as they say.
/r/seduction10/05/17 02:18 AM
9

Do things that scare you. Doesn't have to be approaching girls, doing things that scare you will build your reserve of courage and your ability to push forward regardless of fear. Could be something as simple as turn the water all the way down to freezing cold during a shower, and then braving it for several minutes. I can't help more than that.
/r/seduction10/05/17 02:15 AM
7

None of those books will help you. What will help is cultivating courage.
/r/seduction09/05/17 10:26 PM
2

As Darth Sidious said: "DEW IT!" I'm far from amazing with women, but if you want to go from 0 to something, make a move.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:52 AM
1

They can be useful if you want to. It's your choice. I got quite a bit of mileage out of reading random chick erotica novels that I got for free off iBooks. In terms of actually being entertained, don't expect much. Most of them, to a straight guy, will be like trying to ram a twelve-inch, rusty nail through your forehead. You need to read between the lines to actually learn anything useful.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:14 AM
4

And this is why you use a rubber, gents. Or at least some form of protection. Otherwise you end up with a kid when you're not quite ready for it. And now you're responsible for two, not one.
/r/seduction16/04/17 06:27 AM
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Again your own arguments further strengthen the videos points. Firstly, as I pointed out above, that wasn't what the video was arguing, that was what you were arguing. Secondly, employing the "I don't know how to counter your points, but I'm going to pretend that you're just proving my point" technique doesn't work with me. Please do point out where I supported the video's points. Bro! You have STRONG confirmation bias. You mean you have strong cognitive bias. Statically the odds are overwhelmly…
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:12 AM
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Good points but what about the door to door or the street salesman. That's not the argument the video was presenting, so I didn't address it. He has the face to face contract and like cold approaching as you’re more likely to catch people at their time of leisure. People are at their house, what do you expect? When I'm at my house, I'm chilling and relaxing, not out on the prowl. You don't cold approach girls in their homes, do you? And even then there are exceptions - if a person makes a good i…
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:02 AM
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Sure. The most obvious difference I can think of is that cold calling does not afford you the opportunity of face to face contact. People are much more disinclined to listen to somebody over the phone that they never met before, plus there's the issue of lack of eye-contact, physical contact and other visual cues or hints that a girl WANTS you to approach or the other obvious point that one is people trying to find someone to have a jolly good, sexual time with, the other is business shit that n…
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:22 AM
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Kind of stopped taking this seriously after the guy seriously tried to compare cold approaching to cold calling for customers. That's just a failure of Logic 101. It got worse later on when it seemed his definition of cold approaching seemed to differentiate from what basically everyone else says, maybe even on purpose to paint cold approaching as worse than it actually is. Cold approaching isn't always awesome, it is difficult and has its challenges, but this video doesn't really do a good job …
/r/seduction07/04/17 01:55 AM
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I'm a bit confused on what exactly is the difference on advice and opinion in this case. It seems like in both cases you're causing the person to retreat inwards to think about their response and takes the focus off you. In the case of an opinion, you're basically asking them "if you were in my shoes, what would you do?". In the case of asking advice, you're...also asking them basically the same thing. I'd also think that asking advice from a girl rather than an opinion would be a bad move becau…
/r/seduction02/04/17 12:59 AM
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I tried a beginners course, which was mostly salsa with moves from a few other dances thrown in and designed for people who basically couldn't dance without tripping over their own two feet. There was another class fully focused on salsa that I originally wanted to try, but I couldn't fit it into my personal schedule. I live in a small, country town and go to college in a big city around an hour away by car. Sorry I can't share any more details, but I had a pretty embarrassing experience a coupl…
/r/seduction31/03/17 06:28 AM
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I tried it for a while, but the place I went to only had late-30's up to 50's-aged men and women, most of whom were couples looking to have fun. Plus my schedule was terrible for it. :-( Maybe bigger cities are better for it, I don't know.
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:22 PM
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How about stopping being a dick? It's OK to crack the occasional joke in good nature about someone, but keeping it clear that it's nothing personal, it's just banter. This: I do suppose that's a reason as to why I told one of my coworkers her teeth looked weird and she was fat. Honestly speaking she's quite attractive but I said it anyway because... well... it gives me a chuckle. Is being a straight-up unlikable asshole. I wouldn't be surprised if she never wanted to speak to you again, and prob…
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:12 AM
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