SinglePlayerOnlyPlz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	10 years together and she did it through text.	Need Support	SinglePlayerOnlyPlz	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/24 08:54 PM

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3	M[37] “blindsided” with divorce from F[39] We're literally hard-wired to fix problems when we hear our spouses complain about something so they have one less thing to think about. You never "just sat with her in it"? You mean listening to her complaining for the sake of complaining and doing nothing to fix said problem? That's retarded. You have to have the talk of "Are you just venting, or do you want my advice" conversation with who your with, because alot(not all) women don't realize they work off of child mentality. We all complain a…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/26 02:39 PM
16	My attraction to my wife has gone away almost completely. I wonder how different your tone would be if the shoe were on the other foot, and HE was the one being out of shape and unemployed... He's shallow for wanting an attractive wife? Sure lady.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 03:46 AM
2	Why rush back into a relationship? What is wrong with living single I enjoy not having to answer someone for why i enjoy the way i continue living. However: i felt like i was finally worth something when i was with someone by my side. The title of boyfriend or husband fills me with great honor, pride, and self-assurance... As well as confidence. Being loved is the greatest feeling in the world, no question. No amount of money, material posessions, or enjoyment with hobbies will never fill the void that remains when you are single. Unfortunately love is a double-…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/26 11:09 PM
14	Marriage is love. Divorce is business. I love how this could be broken down to you glazing women for being independent and smart about their options, without even going into their deceptive non-answers and manipulation tactics. Then assuming and shitting on men for simply not getting it. They don't talk about anything that needs to be fixed because they say that "everything's fine" when we, as men, ask. We believe that our other half will be honest and up front with anything on their mind, regardless of how much it hurts. We feel som…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/25 12:24 AM
5	My wife is whoring around Your "big yikes" is enough to disregard your clearly not thoight through opinion/mentality. I found one for 10 years. I no doubt will have one again. Hopefully lifelong. As it's the only thing worth committing to imo.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 04:24 PM
8	My wife is whoring around You're opinion is dogshit and absolutely mental gymnastics to claim it's anything else. You SHOULD judge people for their actions, it's literally how we measure "good" from "bad". His wife's having a fucking breakdown and trying to validate herself with as much dick as possible trying to convince herself she's not destroying her own life and "still has it". Woman being a whore? Deserves to be called one. Deserves to be shunned and ridiculed for. Same if a guy does it. If she didn't pretend to be…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 03:07 PM
4	Regrets? You cheated. Respectfully, if you lose her, you deserve it. You deserve the remorse. To live with regret. To live with the thoughts if what could've been. Be better in the next one. I'm sorry, but i, nor do others, have alot of empathy for that kind of thing. Do whatever you can to prove to her you still want to work things out. But if she doesn't see it happening, accept it and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/25 05:28 AM
5	Just told she wants to be separated I hope she gets cheated on.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/25 01:27 AM
11	Those of you who had wives who “changed” after marriage or children. I was the convenient guy who took her as she wqs and never asked for more than that. The old addage is true. If they get weight loss surgery(stomach lapband), it isn't for you. Even with questions from her such as: "are you sure you'll still love me after?" She was 350lbs with asthma. Not sure if it was an excuse, but i will say i rarely saw her use her inhaler. I found messages of her and another guy i TOLD HER i was uncomfortable with because of how "close" they were getting, and how little at…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/25 02:20 PM
1	To divorce or not I know that my comment is going to seem like spam, but I promise it's not. There's hope to help her see, but in the end, it IS her decision whether she wants to see or acknowledge how you feel about her being set in her ways. Maybe this channel can help you, idk. Do NOT go to marriage counseling. The only thing that happens is 2 people gang up on you and make you feel like you're the one at fault no matter what. That was my experience anyway... If she is making the decision to not go herself whe…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/25 07:18 AM
1	Her phone I did. What i said in my previous comment is what ensued.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/25 05:22 PM
4	Her phone You have every right to protect yourself, but top comment with all the legal advice is sound. "Invasion of privacy" excuse just serves unfaithful people. If you're significant other is acting strangely, distant, etc. and assures you everything is fine despite you having a gut feeling it's not... Do it. If you go through it, and you find nothing suspicious, don't do it again. If you constantly have that urge, you need to work on yourself. But there's no reason to be defensive about a phone unless…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 08:40 PM
1	What are your 2025 goals post divorce? 1.) Stop dreaming about her. 2.) Pay off the mountain of debt she put me under. 3.) Keep going to the gym 4-5x a week. 4.) Find a "real" FT job.(i work 8 hours short of FT on a good pay period, 24 hours short on a bad pay period. 5.) GTFO of living with my Dad who is honestly a terrible perspn. Grateful and everything for letting me live with him and let me use his credit score to get me a car that i pay for, but holy fuck is he a miserable, sexist, ignorant dickhead. Chose an abusive women over…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 02:48 AM
1	10 years together and she did it through text. I think the most violent fantasy I've ever had about an ex(now 2...) is tying them up in a sound proof room and drugging them to tell me the truth of why I wasn't good enough, or why they didn't think it was worth working out. Then erasing their memory somehow and letting them go. Killing them wouldn't do anything for me, but knowing why they left might help me in the long run. If it was because they fell for someone else, or any other selfish reason, then I fall out of love for them rather quic…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 02:34 AM
1	10 years together and she did it through text. I'm not going to torture myself in looking at those logs, she just removed herself from the account recently, so i couldn't check if i wanted to. I've come to the conclusion through self-discovery and meditation, as well as talkimg to the people around me, that she was a narcissist. How i felt myself being neglected and her trying to convince me that it was my own fault for feeling that way... it just rang WAY too true. You can't convince a narcissist they are one, because they refuse anything i…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/24 02:11 PM