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Siyuen_Tea/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:54 PM
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How about a compromise. Instead of trying to fuck the ones in your neighborhood, try to be their friend. No harm in just being friendly with the letter in your neighborhood right?
/r/seduction23/07/26 05:43 PM
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If you actually get a girl, where the hell are you going to take her, to fucking Arby's? I get the whole " dont eat where you shit" mindset but if you plan on having sex with her, you're taking her to your home. To that extent, it doesn't matter how close or how far she is from you.
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:03 AM
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I don't
/r/seduction17/07/26 05:16 PM
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Yeah, this is the best advice here. I think the opener sucks but you were walking away as soon as you finished it as if the task was complete. You didn't even give them the chance to like you. Im glad you posted the video because i definitely would've blamed the opener again. Take a step back. No more negging. You are still insanely nervous. I know your goal is to get a girlfriend but your nerves are still torturing you. Next time you go out. Don't go with the intention of flirting, go with the …
/r/seduction17/07/26 05:08 PM
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Opener needs work. Nothing about it continues conversation. When they answer, you have to consider what it implies. They say they prefer long, don't ask them why, make a guess why. Let them tell you and play with their answer. " You just like men who look like women don't you". Let her correct you or joke about your answer. The " general rule" is question, question, implication. Ask 2 questions, make an assumption on the 3rd. Instead of asking her age, assume it. You don't have to explain but ob…
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:12 PM
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A neg isn't an insult or a compliment. A neg is saying " you have X but i prefer Y". Really there's not enough information here to say anything. A laugh can be that was funny or this guy's a fucking idiot. If this is where the conversation ended, it was the latter.
/r/seduction15/07/26 11:55 PM
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Actually, she probably told him to go home because buyer's remorse. He needs to frame it like he's the one who feels slutty and wants to step it back. It gives her a chance to feel like " oh, we were both just caught up in the moment" and let's her put her shield down.
/r/seduction28/06/26 07:21 PM
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Look up canned openers. There's millions of them. As to what makes a good one is largerly subjective. One i used to use near a college is very simple " what's the first thing you notice about a guy?" I would give a reason like , psychological study or if I'm feeling particularly lazy id just say im trying to figure something out. Based on how they'd answer ( not what they answered). I may probe them more, tease them , call it a fetish, act ontrigued etc. It worked better in groups than it would …
/r/seduction24/06/26 07:40 PM
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99.999% of the time. That be yourself shit is bullshit. This is one time I'd recommend it. There's no reason for you to be separating content creation and your dating life. It doesn't even have to be dates right now. Just be friendly with women for now. Get comfortable talking with them, both about them and yourself. What you're doing right now, many people will find interesting, men and women. When you want to make getting women a greater focus, come back here. For now, just invite them to your…
/r/seduction24/06/26 03:46 AM
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Airport lounges is a good place to start. If a woman is rich and single, it's typically because she travels alot. Next best spot is at the register. Rich women don't typically work the register but she's going to own her own business. Ask for the manager. Show an interest in her business and she'll show interest in you.
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:22 AM
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Threesomes are alot of work so try to get her doing alot of the easy work. First bring up the idea and fantasy and get her into it, then go out with her and have her find some women she's into( if she's finding ugly women she might be catching a little oneitis. ) after she's opened the girl up for you, you get to know the new girl. Generally, you need to approach it as 2 points. 1. This is going to be fun for all of you. 2. This isn't something you do with just anyone and the invitation is a pri…
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:21 PM
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It's not hard and true but have you ever heard the 8 hour rule? You need to spend a cumulative 8 hours with her to generally get her. So if you meet her, hang out for like an hour , then bounce somewhere to eat and hang out for like another hour, thats 2 cumulative hours. Generally, if you're going to bang her on the first day, you want to meet her early. Knock out practically a weeks worth of dating in one day and then end the night with her. Again, not a hard rule. If she's drunk, horny and ma…
/r/seduction19/06/26 04:22 PM
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Doesn't matter how well you build the fishing rod or how good the bait is if you don't go fishing
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:18 PM
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What you're actually looking for is called sales techniques. You are learning how to sell yourself. The overlap is much larger than people would first think
/r/seduction17/06/26 07:04 PM
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Some small modifications. 1. Don't say sometime, choose a date. " I'm busy tomorrow but why don't we grab coffee at la bellas on Friday" Test ;: she says I'm busy Friday: . If she doesn't either A. Offer another day or B. Ask you to offer another day, she's most likely not interested. Keep the conversation going for a few minutes after that date set up. Then you exit with mentioning it. " This was nice but i gotta go, I'll see you Friday". You can play dumb and act like you forgot what day you s…
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:00 PM
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This sounds incredibly stupid but also kinda fun.
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:14 PM
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It works as a sarcastic tease, not so much a compliment to anyone beyond a literal child that doesn't like being called a baby anymore.
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:53 PM
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For a foundation. Look up a book called the mystery method. Alot of his techniques are dated but the breakdown is something of a must know. Learning how to create conversation, and escalate the conversations are paramount. Another book i recommend is called rules of the game but NOT the whole book. The beginning is all you need. It gives a good breakdown of how to organize goals and learn how to properly journal progress. I'm sure other books have that technique but i don't know what it's called…
/r/seduction14/06/26 09:13 PM
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Gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss. Throw away all her stuff and make it look like it's her fault. Send her a text to pick up her stuff and don't respond to anything until you can meet her in person
/r/seduction14/06/26 08:56 PM
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No one can give one real answer. You don't know what a relationship needs until you're in one. I can give you some basics. Remember to show love. As the relationship goes on and becomes routine people forget about going on dates being flirty and having fun. The person you are/ they are changes as the relationship grows. You may have read " show love" as going on dates like you did at the beginning but now you have new jobs, you have kids, you have a house and your responsibilities have changed. …
/r/seduction14/06/26 05:00 PM
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Social circle game is the best approach long term. Short term, bars, clubs, and if you're in a major city, meetup groups. The important thing with social circle is making friends so i generally recommend indirect game. Make friends with women. Flirt and tease regularly but don't always feel the need to close the deal, it's exercise and more importantly, its fun.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 09:55 PM
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You need more than a break. You need to learn to talk with women in more places. 2 years of no results, unless you're rarely going out, means you were doing something wrong and didn't learn, you just brick walled and didn't learn from your experiences.
/r/seduction03/12/25 01:49 AM
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When i was young, foreplay sucked. Its like dripping water on to the tongue of a person who was dying in the desert. Just give me the fucking water. When you've had sex enough times with enough women the sex itself starts to mean less and the foreplay means more. If i can get water anywhere then I'm going to want water with the best flavor This water has a hint of strawberry, this water likes to suck on my toes etc.
/r/seduction02/12/25 09:49 PM
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You ask her hobbies. You say, " personally, I'm really into rock climbing" either she says her hobbies or asks more about yours. You say " what do you do for living? " You then say " I'm the worlds greatest detective, my mom says so". You don't have to be serious about your answers all the time. It also let's them know they don't have to be so serious either. You say" what kind things do you find attractive in a man? Personally, i got a huge weakness for redheads" ill generally say a feature the…
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:49 PM
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First. You need to understand why she puts up her shield. Your questions are making her uncomfortable. So now, why is it making her uncomfortable. You have 3 paths 1. It's too many questions, 2. Its too personal of questions 3. Its token resistance. You have a few options and you'll use all of them in conversations. 1. Make assumptions. Little assumptions sprinkled between questions makes questioning feel less monotonous and could help teach you to be more observational. Answer your own question…
/r/seduction02/12/25 04:24 AM
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Depends. I try to do things where I'm not relying on her being there at the beginning. So if I'm taking her out to eat, it's somewhere i would've gone myself anyway. Same for going to club. The only thing I'll do is have her set up the next thing. Only 2 requirements. One, i want to do it myself anyway and 2 she's setting it up within my timeframe. Basically, make it her turn to put a little effort, it's not that complicated. The idea with it being things i want to do means i can peel off if I d…
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:05 AM
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Well i see 3 options. You have the morally right option, which is break up. The morally wrong option, which is cheat on her and leave when you find something better. And the morally just option which is stop being a pussy and letting her walk on you just so you can fuck her. Don't reward bad behavior, call her out on her shit. Treat her like a child, reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. If she acts bitchy, call her out, get mad, maybe even leave. If she wants to eat fancy, treat her whe…
/r/seduction27/11/25 03:05 AM
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It's a gamble. Generally, after is better for you but sometimes if you establish it early, you give her time to accept it. If you keep at it and she likes you AFTER you've established your intentions then she'll find it easier to accept the next day. She might even take it as a challenge to win you over When you do it after, they feel like they were used. Like you strung them along, got what you want and now want to toss them to the side. Before can result in more rejections depending on how com…
/r/seduction24/11/25 08:29 PM
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It's not your job to reject you, it's her job. You might think she's uninterested when she's just horny and waiting for you to make the next move. A " no" is a rejection. A " leave me alone" is a rejection. Not holding conversation is NOT a rejection. If you honestly feel it's dead in the water but she hasn't actually rejected you, then just say whatever you want at that point. " Trump is actually the reincarnation of the Virgin Mary" or "i gotta leave soon so let's go fuck in the bathroom real …
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:29 PM
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The reason you don't see people recommend them is because they require you to be comfortable speaking. Most people who ask for opener advice cant think of anything anyway. Canned openers are not the best but for people who need to either A. Break through approach anxiety. Or B. Not good with coming up with things on the spot. Situational openers would be like " level 3" of an opener. 1 being canned and 2 being observational.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:29 AM
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The solution to this is drugs and therapy. Think of the personality like a PTSD response and the thing they want triggers their PTSD. They would need to want to do both for change to even begin to happen but some people are comfortably broken and there's nothing that can be done about that. Not responsibly at least.
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:36 PM
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If you end at the number, you fucked up already. If you use an opener and she's open to conversation, the opener is done. You now need to get to know her and get her to want to know you. No one remembers how a conversation began, they remember how they felt before you left. Now on the number. The number is a tool for you to bounce somewhere else. If you are getting her number, you should already be establishing the next place you're going. For a beginner, just getting a number is fine but after …
/r/seduction19/11/25 12:44 AM
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Openers don't actually matter, especially if she gives you her number. You are right on the 2nd part though. Take note this is only day 3 as well
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:43 PM
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AI won't make up for shit game, once you're in person it's all on you. Although, I've tested Google's AI and had good results. You still need to understand what impression you want to give and can't just ask " what should i say. " On the other end, there is an AI app that lets you practice but i don't remember the name.
/r/seduction16/11/25 06:11 PM
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Don't end on the number. Also, with the group there, you should still flirt and tease a little bit. You can isolate by asking to dance or inviting them with you to go grab a drink ( at that location, not somewhere else).
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:27 PM
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It gets a lot of hate and it's pretty old now but read this book called The mystery method. Foundationally speaking, it's very useful. You don't need to copy the lines but whenever i hear someone say they can't flirt it usually means they don't know what flirting is. You probably flirt all the time not even meaning too but you don't close the deal. Give it a once over, there might even still be the audiobook on YouTube but a pictures worth 1000 words
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:05 PM
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Yes and no. This is why they correct and say practice doesn't make perfect, perfect practice makes perfect. You can get really good at doing things the wrong way, digging deeper and deeper into doing things wrong. It's like , yeah, eventually you can punch that nail in but if you stepped back you would've seen the hammer. People with good studying habits will have greater success in general but some people are brick wallers who do but don't think. They have one success because she was drunk and …
/r/seduction15/11/25 04:58 PM
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I get what you're saying but what do you think is creepier, a person who talks to you in the tram or a person who follows you off the tram? Sometimes, the solution to a weird situation is just to address that the situation is weird and then continue. I'm not sure what the simmer time was but making eye contact and not saying anything might've just made her really anxious. Honestly, and i know this sounds weird but i wouldn't really change anything. I think your approach style shouldn't make you …
/r/seduction14/11/25 09:59 PM
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The worst part is spending 11 years doing it wrong means you're going to be really good at doing it wrong and will have a hard time fixing the issue
/r/seduction06/11/25 12:14 AM
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Can't say how to do it in social media but it's literally what canned game was made for. Pretty girls are just going to test you more because more men have tried on then. 90% is just learning how to pass shit tests
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:01 PM
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We climb mountains not for what's at the top but to show ourselves the strength and resolve of our spirit 😤. Then we leave to climb another mountain.
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:06 PM
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Weirdly enough, i used it to make friends for awhile. Straight up, i was socially retarded 😅. I couldn't talk about the shit i did find interesting, let alone talk about random bullshit. Alot of the fundamentals are basic social skills. The difference between seduction and socializing is basically whether or not you push for it. Being a tease and being playful is just making things sexual vs making it funny. The friend zone is as much a place you can end up in as it is a place you can put people…
/r/seduction01/05/25 06:47 PM
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I'm here for my satisfaction and the love of the game
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:27 PM
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This sounds incredibly stupid and that's why it works. 😂
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:29 PM
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If they're cock blocking you, it means you didn't make friends with them. When you learn to work a group, the " protector" friends will be the one pushing you to going out with their friends.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:56 PM
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Yeah, if you can work a room people won't even realize you're alone. If you got the moxie you can even introduce groups to each other and each group will think you came with the other.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:54 PM
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If you can't hold a conversation with her that's unrelated to her work, consider it dead. Otherwise go for it
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:39 PM
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That's the difference between " monk mode" and self isolation. One is done with the explicit purpose of improving other aspects of your life. The other is just an excuse for people to continue bad habits.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:21 PM
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...so inner game and holding frame....
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:23 PM
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New challenge, start a threesome. Imagine the thrill of convincing your girl to get you another girl. Or you can start wingmaning and see if you get any thrill of trying to help your friends get a girl.
/r/seduction31/01/25 08:31 PM
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Don't reject yourself on other people's behalf. Basketball is a great analogy for seduction. You can play it alone but having friends helps. You don't always have to shoot your shot, you can pass or you can go for the assist. If your friend misses,you can go for the rebound. If the games over for the night, you might as well go for that half court buzzer beater. Sometimes you'll have people blocking your shot, people trying to steal your shot and people trying to check you for thinking you can j…
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:22 PM
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Shouldn't. Whether they do or not only you can tell. I can say with certainty, some guys are not built for orbits.
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:46 PM
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You didn't make her comfortable or you didn't establish your purpose. You either A. Need to make it more obvious why you're talking to her. Or B. Create plans with her so you actually have a reason for her number. A general rule for comfort is doing plan b and asking in the middle of a conversation. With plan A you can ask at the end but you can't be subtle about any of it
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:30 PM
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I think the old terminology for this was " slut shield"? Basically, she was drunk. You got too close to her too fast and now she's feeling like she was too easy and a slut. I would drop it now, odds are you've already said more and now her shield is all the way up. The general consensus for this situation is playing like you had too much too and saying that you need to start over and she needs to not take advantage of you again. You're just trying to make her comfortable enough to go out again.
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:35 PM
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Ime, you don't go to ny to fuck nyers you go to fuck the tourists that came to visit. That's why NY is better. There's more tourists.
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:16 PM
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I don't know you but i can't tell you the amount of times I've heard this as an excuse to just not approach.
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:10 PM
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The hissy fit is more about people thinking race is an end all be all
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:08 PM
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Communication skills. Vocal preferred but not required
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:16 PM
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Actual NYC women are the absolute worst. You couldn't find people with their head further up their ass if you were inexico with the cartels. For both, L.A. and NYC you are looking for a specific group. Tourists. The reason big cities are recommended for seduction is because specifically tourists having fun. Same for Miami. In the end I actually would recommend NYC. Locals mostly can't afford to live in the city( Manhattan) so it's filled with tourists and expats.
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:32 AM
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No matter how much porn you watch, it won't compare to pussy. I'm not saying the Internet hasn't changed social dynamics, I'm saying it has less influence than you might believe. An increasing amount of people have become socially inept because of the Internet so having basic skills means more now. No matter how much attention she gets online she can't feel them, she can't touch them, she can't express physically with them. AI will change things as it will adapt to play the game and not just giv…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 09:23 PM
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The part you got wrong is the nowadays. This is how it's always been, the thing that changed is where they get their entertainment. Look at the 70s and 80s The beach party, the joyrides, the drugs. Nothing's really changed.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 05:42 PM
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The core of game hasn't changed. The way to think about it is like this. Who are you more likely to listen to a person who seems like they have to think about everything they say or a person who sounds like they know exactly what they're talking about? So moxie is still important. Who would you rather hang out with, a person who sounds like they are reading you a contract or a person who tells a story so captivating it sounds like a blockbuster movie. So storytelling is still important. Those ar…
/r/seduction06/02/24 09:29 PM
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Not true at all. Confidence and moxie are the same. If you act long enough, you become the character.
/r/seduction06/02/24 08:31 PM
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Start shopping in different countries.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 04:14 PM
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Anyone else feel like there's been a weird push in media lately to have kids? And I don't just mean social media, it seems like movies have been pushing it as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 04:12 PM
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The guy used to wear a feathered hat that look like some shit you'd find on a Halloween costume....
/r/seduction01/11/22 02:50 PM
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Dressing like clowns. That's a habit people picked up from mystery. He used it to catch attention as women who are willing to say something about it are generally more receptive. Not a good idea for pua starters as you don't know how to take advantage of it. Spam openers There's 2 parts to this. 1. You are teaching people who are afraid to approach women to stop being scared. Same for why the wing is there, purely for help with anxiety. 2. Mostly concerning direct game, they just spam women till…
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:49 AM
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Yeah, that's exactly what I said. The important part is the network. Another benefit of college is you don't know what you need to know. Googling how to start a business can give you very vague, generic and sometimes useless results. Having a broad spectrum of knowledge plus having a place to advertise yourself and network is fairly hard to beat.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/22 08:44 PM
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If you want to be an artist, you should study business, art more than anything is about advertising yourself and building a network
/r/TheRedPill24/10/22 12:59 PM
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Honestly it's a great exercise. You can get really good at picking up women when your life is on the line.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:42 PM
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So basically we need to find a way to rebrand TRP the way they did to that pepe meme.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 02:58 PM
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The second part you mentioned is indirect game. What are your numbers direct vs indirect. The thing with indirect game is that it's a crutch. It's NOT bad, but you need to learn to adapt so you can come up with material that is more relatable to the situation. For a beginner I wouldn't worry about this fine tuning.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 02:40 PM
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I recommend conducting a study of your own. Remember , he talks about his experience. Not what he believes or what he felt. So, try to find random women with no relation to you and ask them. Do they think most other women play hard to get. Or do they like a guy who tries hard to get them. The general consensus in my experience was that women play hard to get because they don't want to be seen as easy or a slut. Now, there is a difference between being persistent and harassing someone. That requi…
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:14 AM
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You're the only black person who believes that 😂. Seriously go be wallflower at a club and say I'm wrong 🤣.
/r/seduction27/08/22 09:17 PM
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I know that sometimes the fish can jump out of the water into your boat but you can catch more and potentially better fish by going fishing. If you're that terrified of approaching, try indirect approaches, it's a good way to build up comfort and social skills. Not all that good at getting women but you don't give a little kid a fisher price fishing rod and tell him to catch a shark. Once you've gotten comfortable just being a human you can move on to being more than an NPC in your own life.
/r/seduction27/08/22 09:16 PM
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The hard part is knowing what's a mistake and what's just " right key, wrong door"
/r/seduction27/08/22 09:06 PM
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The big thing to understand is that " nice guy" like "Chad" or "alpha and beta" and " incels" are just definitions to stereotypes. Stereotypes exist because there are at least a noisy group of people who really fall into those categories. There's an actual benefit to defining these categories. People are usually slow to change unless they get called out. If someone can just belt off all your personality traits into a stereotype, it makes it easier to see what's the problem.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:20 PM
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That's the difference between nice and good. A good guy is nice because it's the right thing to do. A nice guy is good because it serves a motive.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:10 PM
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You SHOULDN'T want her but there's lots of guys who still get oneitus. Some people believe you when you tell them fire is hot and some don't learn until they get their hand burned
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:48 PM
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The opener is important but not that important, especially in direct game. To put it in perspective think about the first thing your friends said to you in a conversation. Odds are you don't remember it at all. You probably remember a funny or crazy part of the conversation at most, the biggest thing you'll remember is how you felt hanging out with them. This is the same for women. She won't remember too much of what you said, it'll just come down to " he was funny, cute, weird., Hot. "
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:22 AM
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This is the main way but not the only way. It's the same way you get out the friend zone . You leave them alone while you get your shit together and if you've actually improved game wise the circle might bring her back.
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:12 AM
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You can't catch fish if you don't go fishing. There's actually a terminology for what you said, it's called a " limiting belief". It's when you find reasons to believe you'll fail before you even try. If you want to succeed, you have to approach. I won't sell you on the " be yourself" bullshit because every day you are " yourself". Be better, incrementally.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:25 PM
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" You can grow the best peaches in the world but some people just don't like peaches"
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:38 PM
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Social skills> looks> money.. if you want to work on anything you should be working on your communication skills. At the vague level, you should be working on getting friends, most people meet women through a friend who introduces them. If you don't already you should be going out when you can to just work on your communication and flirting skills. No women want boring men and the ones that say they do, usually cheat. Make yourself fun and interesting.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 11:00 AM
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Yes and no. The problem with hook ups is that most are hit and runs. You still need social skills if you want to hook up with her friends or find something you want to plate long term.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:31 AM
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That's the same thing. They are both about putting an appealing front [ frame] and catching their attention [game]. Game and what made it so good back then is that they didn't concern themselves with logic. They concerned themselves with function. Vetted tactics; what actually works. What you call cheap tricks is what used to be canned openers and practiced stories. What you call click bait tactics is what they called style and wingman's. The game hasn't changed.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:29 AM
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Indirect I thought was better but I understood the negative. It's putting a lot of energy into a maybe. I didn't use much social circle game but indirect works for that as well.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:22 AM
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All 9s are high maintenance. Game is good but you get tired of playing that shit after awhile. A 6 is a girl you don't have to worry about. You can learn to catch a 9 but keeping a 9 takes a lot of work. Remember this. 6-7s are born 8-9s are made. For her to stay a 9 she has to work on it. And for you to keep that 9 you have to work on it. 9s don't retire.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:20 AM
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I would add canned openers and lines are safe responses. Let's say you blank on a conversation, you will still have these fall back pieces.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:14 AM
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Yeah, the sucky-Fucky 9000 is amazing 😍.
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:32 PM
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I know, I'm pretty amazing 😎
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:27 PM
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hate small talk. We went into talking about our days, our values and banter about our zodiac signs .
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:56 AM
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PUA coaching is like fitness coaching. A person can give you a routine and you need to practice it all week then come back for updates. You don't to your personal fitness trainer every day. The results are meant to be incremental. Everything you need to know can be learned online
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:18 AM
0

Lucky 10,000. Everytime you come back here, there's 10,000 new people who've never heard of it.
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:14 AM
33

Imagine going to a reading forum that's explicitly about getting women and then complaining about women.
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:40 PM
50

Imagine going to a car show and being like " who cares about cars".
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:30 PM
4

Look up an old book called the mystery method. It gives a good way of opening up to groups of people. It's old so don't copy it too literally.
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:55 PM
1

When it comes to the saying " don't eat where you shit", you need to ask yourself what things going south would cost you. A girl who works at a gas station isn't a big loss. You can go to other gas stations or more so get over rejection. This is not like at work which would cost you your job or maybe the only good gym in the area.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:57 PM
1

If you rely solely on the app you're playing yourself.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:57 PM
1

I think you'd still have significant results if you follow the filter mentioned before. If all photos are group, swipe. No full body, swipe. The hard part will ironically be identifying fat chicks. I'm sure tuning for double chins would be easy but that really only covers the super fat. You don't want it confusing a girl with big tits for fat.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:19 PM
2

There are those so bound to there delusions that to break it would mean death. An important thing to understand is that sometimes the illusion is the foundation for most people. The illusion is what makes some people successful. In business, relationships and in self fulfilment. Another thing to understand about these illusions is that they're frequently used as scapegoats. A terrorist in there cause, a physiologically broken person and their coping mechanisms, or a girl trying to explain to her…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 07:34 AM
6

Social circle game. Go to clubs, make FRIENDS and then start looking from the pick of the list of there friends.
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:56 AM
21

I ignore everyone's advice and make no efforts to change and don't talk to women. What am I doing wrong?? 🥺🥺🥺🤤🤤🤤
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:24 PM
3

Incel means involuntary celibate. You think that guys not getting pussy?
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:22 PM
4

You're a 30 year old virgin. You've already embarrassed yourself, might as well go in a little more and get something out of it.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:20 PM
2

Don't follow your mind, it's lead you the wrong way for 30 years
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:19 PM
4

I can tell you this is actually good advice for multiple reasons. Applicable examples. You could easily test this in a low pressure environment with friends. PUA's and social teachers do this. Look up books about indirect game. You will find alot of this stuff is common in multiple books. I've actually applied this. All of this is advice to opening a person up. It won't get you pussy but this opens the door, it gets you the date
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:37 PM
5

Lol this motherfucker really just pulled the " Be Yourself"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 12:46 PM
14

The real issue is you have zero fucking game. You should've been able to transition to regular conversation then walked away
/r/seduction27/08/21 11:13 AM
0

Like I said, it's about how it's said Making friends to get women vs using people to get women. Functionally, everything is the same, the only difference is purpose. You still will at a certain way and do certain things. One does it because they like people, another because they have an end goal in mind.
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:46 PM
2

You don't see what's manipulative about using people?
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:39 AM
1

Being manipulative is not socially healthy. But if you just " happen" to say or do things that "happen" to work out in your favor, that's socially healthy
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:56 AM
0

Well I don't know about that 😏
/r/seduction11/08/21 08:52 PM
5

Social circle game is a functional form of a pyramid scheme.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:04 PM
0

Not that this isn't true but most couples grow out of there friends
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:55 AM
0

Real talk. I'd recommend an indirect opener. You can talk about shrinkflation and your favorite foods disappearing. Observation skills will get you far.
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:35 AM
2

Know your place in the heiarchy. Socially inept Omega: make friends with girls, you need to learn their language. Socially awkward beta: stop being friends with girls , stop being a pussy and start getting pussy. Socially competent alpha: make friends in general. You can fuck the girls you are friends with and if your confident enough, have a girlfriend who knows the you're friends with girls you've fucked. At this level testing boundaries is the name of the game.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:57 PM
2

Body counts are a concern for people with insecurities. Which is most people. Alot of people would say it doesn't matter but say the wrong thing and suddenly it will. Think of it like meeting a celebrity. Most people will concede they're just a regular person but if they met them, there excitement would say otherwise. More so, if you say you had sex with a celebrity a person may be insecure because they glorify there importance, even if to you they were a regular person.
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:27 PM
1

It's called institutionalized combined with the sunk cost falacy. When you are forced to do something one way, even if you don't like it, you'll get used to it until your broken and the thought of change becomes scarier than the thought of continuing to suffer.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:39 PM
1

Indirect openers are great but most people don't know how to blend flirting in and it just falls flat when they do
/r/seduction31/05/21 01:43 PM
4

The trick is to create an image. You need to be the kind of person who leads. Most people who are " good" at club game use indirect. They make friends with a group, they then either pick someone from that group or simply use that group as rapport.
/r/seduction31/05/21 01:34 PM
1

No, women get the itch when they're bored. Not because it's one guy. If someone else is funner she'll jump to that
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:14 PM
4

This is good to an extent but the thing with talkative women is that they'll project there personality on you. If she finds what she's talking about boring, her mind will say it's because you're boring. You don't need to do all the talking but you need to be able to switch the topics
/r/seduction20/04/21 08:01 PM
2

How do so many people forget the tried and true classic of talking in the mirror. The main reason people have a hard time talking is because they feel an instinctive desire to censor themselves. Talking in the mirror allows you to speak uncensored, it allows you to make eye contact, it makes it easier to imagine a secondary person. Some censorship may be necessary in real life but until your comfortable throwing things out there, you won't be able to learn how to sort.
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:58 PM
3

The good news is, if you think they look like shit, it means you do have a fashion sense. If you have a sense, you can experiment. Go to a mall or more relevant now, go to a site like stichfix and get some outfits. You can also use this as an excuse of a conversation starter with women. Try a couple styles take a couple pics ask for judgement.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:16 PM
3

The right fit can do alot for the unfit
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:09 PM
1

Don't you have a job? It's the same shit, learn to classify it as such
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:11 PM
4

If I had to bet, she just loves the chase. Once you give in, the chase is over. If you give in. Make sure that you keep up everything else the same. She wants to change you but likes you as you are NOW. You can change definitions but but overall how you act shouldn't change.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:53 PM
1

In TRP, or really all human existence, needs to learn to live in a paradoxical state. You need to never think of yourself as good enough but be happy with what you are. You need to let go of your need for women to get women. You need to act confident when you're not and be more reserved ( socially calibrated) when you feel confident. The only universal piece of advice you can give to a TRP'er is don't look for advice on issues you don't have. You don't need to change shit on your inner game if y…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 01:33 AM
1

You really want to succeed at red pill? Stop reading all this shit and start doing. Learn the way you are taught in school. You are fed a small bite of information. You then practice that info, then you test it. A good book, Like How to win friends is a good start for learning how to communicate with people around you. You take each chapter. Then apply it in real life. This both helps the knowledge stick and helps you spot both your hangups and the advice hangups. All people are slightly differe…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 09:33 PM
1

Yes lifting and fixing your hair and dressing well could also be seen as insecure. You can dress up as a homeless man and still pick women up but the goal is to have more factors in your favor. Play to win.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 09:30 PM
-1

Men can put makeup. If Elon can pull the hair off his ass and put it on his head to look good. You can put makeup
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 07:22 PM
3

People don't mention swimming because it's one of the most limited options. Finding a pool open all year is hard, finding the one that is open and not full and reserved is even harder. Swimming at the beach is a bitch unless the weather is nice. The beach is by far the best since running on the sand is good training too but it's highly limited
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 06:27 PM
3

I don't know you or your friend. You need to know someone , or at least there situation. The closest thing that might work is asking for relationship advice. you need to ask advice as if you were him and ask him to help you figure it out. It can't be obvious you're talking about him, not at first.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:13 AM
9

That won't help. When you give him TRP be will take the first thing you say that's wrong and call it all wrong. Some people are like children, they won't believe the stove is hot until they burn their hand. Hints in general don't work on men, advice conflicting with a person's ideals doesn't work on anyone. If you want him to reach your conclusion you need to ask him the questions that will bring his mind to that answer.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:55 AM
1

This is a signature trait of a psychological disorder ( don't remember which). It's called love bombing.
/r/seduction03/02/21 09:08 PM
2

It's starter advice. What you need is social calibration but you can't calibrate if you don't know the standard. Right now, your " style" is like you teaching the controls of a game you never played. Letting the girl doing the rejecting instead of you rejecting yourself is teaching you 1. How far you can really go 2. How to handle rejection. 3. What you think you see from people is not necessarily true. Letting them reject you is like playing a game until something kills you. Also, when you get …
/r/seduction21/01/21 08:24 PM
1

IME these are all pieces of advice that can't really be given. There are certain mistakes and roads that we all just have to cross in our lives. Women are important, until there not. Only be concerned with yourself except when you find someone else to be concerned in. Happiness shouldn't be the goal unless your unhappy. The reality of it is, the human psyche is too complex. The advice you need is about what and when you get it. Telling a fit guy and/or depressed guy he'll get girls by lifting mi…
/r/seduction19/01/21 02:55 AM
5

How can you say you didn't do cardio but you cycled 20 km daily
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:43 PM
1

First guy is right. For body comp. Cardio comes first. It burns more calories than weight lifting. But it's more important that you actually go to the gym. The most important thing to remember is that weight loss is calories in vs calories out. There's no special trick, diet or secret that gets around this rule. Eat accordingly.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:42 PM
0

Alot of men who lack fear also lack social calibration. Since they don't feel fear they miss the social norms and scare women away. Clothes, friends and vocal presense are all 3 very powerful tools concerning beauty.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:59 PM
1

Results. People don't avoid alphas, they avoid assholes. They avoid people who are overbearing. That alone is not enough. An Alpha brings life. That means when you say you're leaving, people tend to leave with you. If people not following you or people avoiding you really bothers you. You have a fragile ego, independent of wether or not you come off as alpha. These are just some of the more publicly noticeable aspects of an alpha.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:56 PM
6

All groups fall under the power of confirmation bias. It's not evil, it's a natural process of being human. This is why you should treat lifestyle changes as a science. Anything that applies to the psychology of humans can not be used universally. There's too many to say that there is one reliable tactic. Even the reliable tactics are going by an average perception of beauty and/or social skills. Most people who come seeking TRP fall into 2 categories. Socially inept or spiritually broken. Both …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:46 PM
2

You are correct to an extent. Think of it like this, you have to spend money to make money. Power is like money. You need to be willing to give some power away in order to gain it. Like stocks, it's all about where you invest; who you give what power. A king is only king because the power shared with his lords and the will to give and take as necessary. No one gets to the top by ONLY taking. Be selfish, and help those with a similar goal. Even sales is about selling a product the customer wants.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 01:19 PM
1

No one cares about the marble. They care about the michelangelo carved into it. It's not the process they like, it's the results
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:22 AM
1

The difference between seduction and sales is in seduction you are the product. Direct vs indirect is the difference between phone sales and selling to a friend. A club is like when you go to a convention, you're showing off to generate interest in your product. Having girl friends is like having investors, it shows others are interested in your product. Flirting is when you show interest in the buyer, you show interest in the buyer so they can know how the product will improve there life person…
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:20 PM
-1

Do you want kids? No? Then who gives a fuck. Yes? Read a book called "How to win friends and influence people" The first step is for her to believe you're on her side, you need to be willing to talk about the merits of being anti vax. If you just say she's wrong, she'll treat as an attack on herself instead of an attack against anti vax. There's also a coldhearted option that I don't recommend. Have a kid with her, get the kid sick( tetanus is a pretty easy one) let the child die and blame her f…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:06 PM
10

Doesn't matter. If she responds emotionally, then it might help you. If she just says, " oh, that's nice" or something similar, it most likely means " I don't care". If you're buying a motorcycle just to get pussy, it's not worth it as 1, the majority don't care. 2. You still need to win her over to get her on it. 3. Making it a bragging point, unless you've won competitions, just makes you look low value. The appeal is usually in the fear of it. Scare her? Show her it's not scary? Excitement or…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:41 PM
1

The only thing I disagree with is the sense of superiority. So many men talking about being bitchy and emotional while being all bitchy and emotional. There's a reason pick up and sales are so close. Both are emotional creatures both do shit tests, both don't consciously realize they're shit testing. There's always exceptions but if you know anything about TRP is that nothing is 100%. It's the 80/20 lifestyle.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:29 PM
1

It's not sex, it's a side job
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:56 PM
1

The only time you know is when you're told off. It's not impossible she's just dressing comfortably, intended on picking something up real quick, having a lazy day, or she's depressed. Hell, it might even be her style. There's also the chance she finds you intimidating if she looks like shit and you're dressed to impress. Clothes give you an idea but it's not the know all answer. Thinking jogging pants means a girl isn't interested is like thinking a girl dressed professionally can't also be slu…
/r/seduction06/10/20 06:13 PM
20

Ask a question you can answer. It could be simple like, what do you do for fun? Answer it yourself before she answers because 85% of the time, her answer will be IDK. Usually when you answer she'll be thinking of her own. Whatever she answers, tease her a little bit on it ( it'll be a good way to gauge her confidence but you'll learn that with practice). If you get too " interview-y" instead of asking the question, imply the answer. " You look like someone who once an emo phase" it doesn't have …
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:30 PM
1

11% is a little more than 1 in 10. That's higher than you think. Also take into account that the biggest aspect in cheating is availability. Bigger cities will skew the numbers for other areas. You also have to divide malicious cheaters and opportunistic cheaters. It's an important distinction when understanding if cheating is because a dead bedroom or because the guy got game ( or the girl is easy)
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:00 PM
1

Don't complicate it. It's all a game. Any game requires practice. Most guys wont even know what there own boundaries should be let alone what to enforce. Tell yourself whatever you need to to get out of your head. Play some games and keep yourself entertained. Push/ pull isn't hard. If you have a hard time saying no, or always say no, then it will be. Push/pull is simply saying yes and no as need be
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:53 PM
4

This isn't foolproof either. As all things, there needs to be balance. Having too many rules and boundaries is just as bad as having none. What you want are a few hard boundries but you also want a few rules and qualifiers that a woman can feel like she can break. This is a small part of push/pull, if she feels like she can win you over, she'll become more invested in you. If you're too easy, she gets bored, too hard she gives up. The biggest part of stepping your game up is getting the women to…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:52 PM
1

Alot of them are men who've been broken by women. To have someone break you and see them as anything else but the enemy is difficult. What can make a weak person feel stronger than breaking the people who broke you. It's kinda like the pedo cycle.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 12:59 PM
1

You got her number, she's already invested. For your " salesman ' issue look up impostor syndrome. That's all that is. Follow up on the numbers, go on a date or 2 THEN discover what the real issue is. Trial and error
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:21 PM
2

It's a byproduct of society I believe. Its possible that both blue and red are aspects of human nature. Your bloodline may have meant to been blue. Humans are animals. In nature, it makes sense for both to exist. A hunter and a caretaker. One whose goal is to breed as much as possible, another whose goal is to breed and protect the offspring. You might think because you don't want a kid that you're above this but you're not. Sex and companionship are animal desires. We just have the technology( …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:35 PM
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Really, there's only one way I know to pull this off and it's functionally gaslighting. You find a girl you like, knock her up. If she's not already crazy you need to start making it look like she is. If you can prove in courts she's an unfit parent with video and pictures. The kid is yours.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:51 AM
4

Huh. Funny enough. One of my best friends actually started from them trying to steal my shit. I kicked his ass, we joked about it and that was that.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:45 PM
1

On average? About 2 years. This is assuming you learn to calibrate, develop a group and develop yourself. It's not just about approaching, its about learning yourself and what works with your looks and personality. I personally recommend Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss. The book is a good starting ground in learning what you want, what works for you and what your strength and weaknesses are. The book is only a starting ground. It'll give you a solid foundation and solid fall back to build off …
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:23 AM
9

That's where the passive income comes into play. That's also where having them share in the passion can be vital.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:50 PM
2

When you get tired of 8-9s high maintenance bullshit people will typically settle with a 5-6 for all the reasons you mentioned. High maintenance 5-6s do exist, as well as low maintenance 8-9s but each is a rarity of it's kind. If you're bored and the only issue is she's chubby, you can start working out with her and molding her a little bit.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:21 PM
1

Humans are animals. It's that simple. We have an innate desire to breed and use the women who can best pass on our genes. Condoms, masturbation and the nature of the courtship are all " logical " modifications by humans.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:31 AM
6

Congratulations, you're finally almost there. Depression is a good sign. It means you finally understand the nature of the animal. You are almost ready to accept it. Now you need to look inward and understand why you ever wanted a women in the first place. The answer, you're an animal too. The reason you don't jerk off or get hookers is because hookers are rip offs and they should be paying you. You don't jerk off because the animal brain still hungers for the skin contact. It's all a game and t…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:37 PM
1

Define slut. Some guys are so blue pill Stockholm'd that they think a woman putting out is a slut.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:43 PM
6

Generally speaking, man or woman, they don't care about you if you help them become better people, they just gain more freedom to achieve their goals. Alot of people on TRP only help because they don't like seeing who they once were ( or still may be). You helping her may help her achieve more of her goals, what those may be is anyone's guess. If her goals relate to you, it will help. typically, the goals wont concern you and it'll change her personality entirely. There won't be a major backfire…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:00 PM
58

Why make it complicated Women lie because a lock opened by many keys is a shitty lock but a key that can open many locks is a great key.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 06:16 PM
2

Pronunciation or projection. Each can be Googled. Pronunciation you'll need to Google as the best practice is tongue twisters and practicing your weak letters. Projecting is better on YouTube because the visual representation will help a ton. You have to " say it with your chest". Breath in so that your stomach rises but your chest does not. Project your voice the same way, it should feel like its coming from your chest instead of your throat. When talking to someone far, tilt your head up as if…
/r/seduction04/08/20 12:41 AM
5

Its really more of a biography than a lesson
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:07 PM
7

Having things in common < being interesting
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:30 PM
4

Women prefer definition over size. There's actually a study that was explicitly done on this.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:29 PM
2

You should notice some improvement. Socializing is an exercise and sometimes a rest day can do you some good. But then it becomes a matter of discipline. Working on vocal projection is kinda hard. A friend is better than a phone. With the phone, stand about 6 feet back and speak from your chest. You shouldn't sound like your yelling, it should sound similar to raising the volume on a tv.
/r/seduction31/07/20 04:51 PM
1

Diesel seems to get a few compliments.
/r/seduction29/07/20 08:54 PM
6

Then you're not red pilled, you're blue pilled
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 01:50 PM
1

Play the rating game. With a girl, look around and rate people. Get them to rate your friends while they hang out somewhere else. 7 or above means good. 6 and below means something specific they don't like. A girl typically gives trash advice but are fairly honest judges of appearance. This isn't the best way to go about it but its a fun way. Odds are it's not as simple as appearance. It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:41 PM
4

The 3 stages of red pill. Stage 1 : get pussy Stage 2: get money Stage 3: get away
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 12:58 PM
26

That's not true. You're forgetting ASD. Anti slut defense. She might be there for sex but her mind needs plausible deniability. There are some girls that don't care but it's not the norm. You're taking a logical approach to emotional creatures. Now you're right on the comfortability part. But if she's ok with you, then the deniability is enough.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:49 PM
3

When you say America, where do you mean? I can tell you now, about 80% is trash with specific meccas like NYC, San Francisco and Miami being the exceptions. Most of it is equally as bad as any other place in the world. Important note. Most HB8s and up are self made, ie a 5 with great make up
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:06 PM
26

Before 2020, it was pretty easy to spot a troll. Now I don't know what's real anymore
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:26 PM
16

Be wary, women tend to find themselves boring and will instead project that on you if you let her talk too much. If she's not smiling ,laughing and/ or touching you. There's a very good chance she's bored and just venting on you.
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:50 PM
25

Watch out with that, just like " good Christian girls ". The more suppressed a person feels, the more likely they'll do it. If not out of spite, just to enlighten there ignorance. I can't say I have a solution but hard suppression is not and historically has never been the right answer.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 11:46 PM
20

I've always found this logic to be so backwards and beta. Imagine some guy moves into your house and starts fucking your wife, you're basically saying, I'm out, I don't want to deal with this shit. You now gave this guy who just fucking cucked you, your house. All you're doing is saying, " I'm a pussy and I can't raise a man to survive and thrive in chaos. Let the real men run the world " giving up on kids because the world is filled with idiots is just making sure the idiot population grows. I …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 11:40 PM
2

Usually, yeah. It could be from numerous things. Not getting horny as often. not finding a girl worth your time/ having other priorities. Being ok with what you have. Being tied to social norms and not finding girls in your range fun/attractive. More often than not, it's just laziness. You marry some girl, say good enough because you don't feel like going out anymore and then settle down. At that age, most realize pussy isn't that important but it tends to be the point where lots of guys go beta…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:37 PM
1

You know how many times girls get knocked up in the heat of the moment? ; How many guys they kiss and fuck "accidentally "? Get a mask with style, add it to the repertoire and keep pushing. At the end of the day, women, like men, will still get horny. Tinder is still attention whore trash, sorting through waves of bullshit is nothing new. You just need to either keep at it or be willing to talk to the few people who are outside.
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:08 PM
1

Every body come on and ride the slide!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 02:25 PM
0

The opener isn't inherently bad. It does narrow the group but really, any girl whose receptive to it can be considered interested. Street approaches is the challenge, it's the name of the game he's playing. Its not easy but it is the challenge. I don't know what advice is being given and there's not enough detail to say if he's following through. I do agree on fashion and hygiene. I think the best thing that can be done is instead that others giving the advice start going out and doing field rep…
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:03 PM
14

You'd think that but no. Look at the progress. A month ago he could barely get them to talk. Now he's got them opening up to him. It's a big first step.
/r/seduction07/07/20 02:51 PM
28

The fact that 1 guy was pulling 6 girls tells you it works. There is no bait that catches every fish but there is the right bait for each fish.
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:52 AM
2

More political trump bullshit
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:20 PM
18

Isn't this basically keto
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:25 PM
8

You're projecting your self hatred on to other people, they remind you of what you once were and it bothers you. Take a minute and reflect, how did the advice of others effect you. Were you ready to change the first time you heard the advice or did it take time to accept. When you first heard the advice, did you genuinely believe it as true or was it a reality you learned to accept. Don't be too mad, all our minds have been broken in different ways. You can keep throwing the advice out there but…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:26 PM
8

It's not easy but I can give you advice I got from a book that I found useful. The first thing you do, is put the goal on paper. It can't be vague, but it can be simple. Let's say you just want a girlfriend. Then you'd set a time frame you have to do it.You'd write 3 ways having a girlfriend would improve your life. Then you'd also write 3 things that are negative, these are 3 things that will happen or continue to happen if you give up. That might look like a lot to write down but it's importan…
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:17 PM
10

This has been the best approach method since at least Mystery was around. It still won't get you with 100% of the girls you talk to but being able to take it piece by piece is literally the way we are raised to learn. Imagine if they tried teaching addition and algebra in first grade
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:04 PM
4

That pillow is a cuck, it used to just watch when I'd fuck loosey
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:01 PM
6

This is why I recommend the book " rules of the game ". If your game is bad, this book gives you a whole step by step process. Plus, if you're writing down how things are going, you can figure out the answers that the book can't tell you.
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:00 PM
2

It's extraordinarily rare to find someone who is both an "incel" and doesn't watch porn.
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:04 PM
1

Post a picture of your ugly ass face. You're too young for your beard. Face modifiers are mostly (sun)glasses, hair and hats. Unless you're willing to wear makeup or do surgery. Even then, willing is not the same as able. The easiest to play with is hats. Beanies, berets and caps can all change your look pretty drastically. Glasses have a greater effect but cost more. Weight gain and loss have the biggest effects but I'd bet you're about average weight. Clothing won't make your face pretty but a…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:15 PM
2

Insanity. Literally seak attention from yourself. Sing to yourself in the mirror. Take a picture of yourself , talk shit about yourself and flirt with yourself. Give yourself attention as if it was someone else.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:45 PM
5

I'm not going to knock your game but reading this, it sounds like you're starting to burn out. Take some time to have fun with it.
/r/seduction16/06/20 05:31 PM
3

What are you using to block the porn?
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:19 PM
6

It would say one man's trash is another man's treasure. OP still has a crush on her and the hint of jealousy is making him uncomfortable. Probably just needs more friends or another girl so he doesn't feel like a 3rd wheel.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:56 PM
10

I know a lot of people who are poor and have the same thing, minus the wife
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 05:31 PM
2

It's a drug addiction combined with a biological need. The cuddling and bonding fills your brain with oxytocin. The same drug in MDMA or E. Then you follow it up with sex which spikes you with dopamine like fucking heroin. That's the actual danm science, you're a junkie looking for a hit. Go get a hobby, find some friends to fill you with oxy then another girl to get doped off of.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:45 PM
2

Let's not forget more attractive and a greater diversity.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:07 PM
0

God danm this is true
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:05 PM
2

I'm hoping this means you don't jerk off as well if you do, then it's not that you don't like sex. You're just a cuck. For sake of argument, I'll assume you don't. Sex isn't the only part but it gives the biggest dopamine hit for both parties. Women enjoy sex a lot. You can hang out, kiss and do all the other shit outside of sex. Women can masturbate as well.Just do all the relationship things and if she starts pressuring you for sex. Dread or drop.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:44 PM
33

Her rationale Don't logic women or you'll be driven to insanity
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:08 PM
5

Count the calories. You can get an app like my fitness pal. For workout, it's good but won't lose you much weight. If the calorie deficit is correct, Don't go too hard on the workout If you can't jog, get a bicycle. Swimming would be best but that's fine. If you can't do that. Shadow box. If not that, look up low impact cardio. If you can do squats and pushups , you can do burpees. Last thing, this is a more personal recommendation. Do ab work. Not for appearances, in my experience. Hard ab work…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:33 PM
2

emojis are childish. girls use them everywhere Its rp 101 that women are childish. Use it but don't abuse it. Keeping it short is still the go too. It conveys emotion, which is the whole point of face to face. Treat it as typical text game. They text, you text less. They use emojis, you use it less. The most beneficial part of emoji is eliminating misinterpretation. Example Hey. Hey 🙂 Hey 😍 Hey 😔 You slut. You slut.😜 You slut 🤬 One little face can vastly change the inflection. Don't leave it up …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:35 PM
1

Baby talk. If she's telling you then either she's already spent a long time thinking about it if not already pregnant.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:52 PM
1

Some guys get bored of sex. Especially when you can have it regularly. They either find themselves a fetish to keep it interesting or settle down.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:54 PM
1

As a general martial art I always reccomend muay thai but as far as getting your head on the level, you're right, BJJ is the way to go. Nothing will pull your focus faster than having someone inches from snapping your arm like a twig, on that same note, nothing will make you feel as confident , knowing you can snap an arm like a twig.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:16 PM
1

Really, that's on you. On average you stay just long enough to find out if it's a one off or she's crazy. You've clearly established that she's crazy. You stay because you are also crazy. If you enjoy her crazy, then just keep doing what you're doing. You can tell her to go on some meds but you'd probably not like that since she'd become boring for you. I wouldn't recommend exclusivity but I say keep playing until one of you gets bored. You're not exclusive so you've got other plates in the mean…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:39 PM
7

This is the real truth. Hiding faults is literally the nature of the game. That's why you dress up, that's why you drink, that's why people shit test. This in short term, is just mating strategy. Everyone does it. In the long term you need to admit to who you are.
/r/seduction28/04/20 09:14 PM
1

There are leagues but the playing field is balanced by looks not by money. Its called the rule of 3. A girl who's a perfect 9 would go out with a guy who's a 6 in looks. There's lots of compensational factors but this rule of 3 was proven by ( can't remember witch) either nat geo or discovery. Attraction alone won't get you the girl but if you're within the rule of 3, odds are she will give you a chance. That's when you're power and influence come in to play
/r/seduction22/04/20 04:13 PM
1

Let's put it like this, look at celebrity you thought was hot when you were young. If you looked at her old picture, would she still be hot. My bet is yes. College is where people are having fun and being alpha. Why would you want to stop having fun? Why would you want to stop fucking sexy people? Everyone will get tired of dealing with unstable people but they still want to have fun. You die all the same, might as well enjoy it.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:56 PM
1

Best part about blue collar is you if your good at it, you can make 60k and if your smart, 100k. Even the biggest pieces of shit can find work in blue collar because no matter what there's always work. Your job can't be written out by a program ( give it another 20 years and maybe). And the holy grail of blue collar, you work for a school or something like it and you can get paid to basically chill out 4 out 5 days. Plus whatever benefits they might give ( college tuition, shit ton of vacation t…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:19 PM
2

You're always working for somebody. Just in some cases you get to choose your boss( the customer). If you have a shit boss you just need a new a job. Right now, you're probably looking for something that matters and finding nothing does. You need to choose something and make it matter to yourself. There was a book that gave me a good idea on how to do this. Write down 3 things you want to change or improve. Be specific , not something vague like " I want to be happy or I want to lose weight." It…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:00 PM
0

I was working 60 doing blue collar. A 9 to 5 is a dream come true. After 5 you can still hit the gym. The weekend is still yours, and even if you get fucked up on a weekday you should still be able to get 4-5 hours of sleep. Which is much better than none. A 9-5 is no different than continuing school. Now don't get me wrong, having more free time is better but usually more time means less money. What exactly are you trying to do that requires so much time?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:46 PM
1

Read a book called the rational male by rollo tomasi. I think you might find it relatable.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:08 PM
1

Never heard of someone falling in love with the stripper?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:00 PM
3

There's a book by Robert greene called rules of seduction that kinda covers this. Each personality is like a base specialty of seduction.
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:09 PM
2

A ring around her finger is a noose around your neck. If you married in general it's because your beta blue or an idiot.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:49 PM
13

The red pill is like the bible. Everyone is reading the same thing yet interpretations are wildly different. Some say red pill shows all women are sluts, some say red pill is a strategy to get women, some say it's a way to show you don't need women at all and some say it's all about improving yourself. What I don't know is when it became political.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:54 PM
1

You do need a reason, not for pussy but for yourself. There will always come a time when you question yourself. When you do things for a reason; when you do things that matter to you, it'll hold your frame together. The important thing is that it must matter to you and not just be something you think matters to someone else. Best example, working out. People commonly try to get fit for pussy. Yes, it can make getting pussy easier but if you do it for them, you'll usually give up because all the …
/r/seduction06/04/20 06:34 PM
3

Make time to NOT be productive. The most productive you can be is by making a schedule on when and what to do with your time. Your schedule needs to include down time. Most people collapse from the pressure because they feel overburdened by the need to do something. Making time to do nothing will help you Immensely.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:19 PM
9

The secondary issue is thinking attractive is benching 300 with 3% bodyfat. Men will find this more attractive than women will. Be fit, you don't have to be ripped ( not that it doesn't help) A lot of attractiveness can be fixed the same day. Stylish clothes, clean hair and beard style. Improved posture. Talking clearly and confidently. A bluepilled ripped guy is " the gay friend ". Ugly people can get pussy if there game is spot on but the better you look, the more leniency you'll get.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:20 PM
1

Fuckin bail beta bill. You're about to get strung up
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:56 PM
1

I think it's chemicals and has something to do with testosterone. Or your body is suppressing it the same way it suppresses your desire to sleep when you're scared( adrenaline).
/r/askTRP21/03/20 05:27 PM
28

R bodyweightfitness. Put a stick through some milk or water jugs
/r/askTRP21/03/20 05:22 PM
20

It's all about what side of the blade you're on. Oil wars? Cheap gas for one, lost jobs for another. Apocalypse panic? Great for grocery stores, terrible for restaurants. Stock market tank? A good time to get in, a bad time if you were already in. The full recoil of this situation hasn't been felt yet. Depending what you do, you might find yourself out of work in a few months. If you own a house, you might find property values dropping or renter's moving away. The panic has only just set in. Giv…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:26 PM
3

That doesn't even get me hard anymore. If it's not a 100 midgets in suitcases being dropped from planes and carpet bombing ssbbw's then is it really even porn?
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:55 PM
3

That's what I said in the 3rd. It supplements fighting skills, especially when body weight is not enough anymore
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:10 PM
7

Fight. Fighting will make you lean. It'll also, generally, make you more alert. Fighting also gives you a potentially useful and,if you get good enough, marketable skill. You also can train practically anywhere, no excuses. Weight lifting will make you strong and will give your body a defined look. Weight lifting is not really useful outside weightlifting. Its more about vanity. Best thing is martial arts now. As you establish a foundation and body weight exercises become cardio exercises transi…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:31 PM
2

Your supposed to feel uncomfortable. Just like exercise, that uncomfortable push is how you get stronger.. Also, that IS an excuse. If you need structure. Look up a book called Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss. It's supposed to help get you a girl in 30 days. I want to clarify, for you, it will take longer than 30 days. You have a bad mental foundation that you need to work on. More so, you'll probably give up at your first wall. The " trick" to it is to balance your uncomfortability levels. Th…
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:33 PM
1

If you're satisfied with that, why not? The reason you won't want to do that is because your game will rust and it'll be hard to get when you do want it.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:29 PM
1

Get a bag, practice boxing( shadowboxing)or some martial art. It'll give you something to do in your free time that you can do practically anywhere. Done right, it should also sharpen your mind a bit. Let the muscles rest. Go too hard and you'll hit the plateau, quick.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:41 PM
3

Oh yeah, no question. No matter what, its more important that you get your shit together than getting pussy. Pussy don't make your life good, it just adds to what you got. Average person doesn't have single digit body fat. They also don't have there shit together, ( ie money, home, general things). They can still game and get pussy but they need to play up any advantages they can get if they want to fuck actual pretty women and not what's just available.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:31 PM
2

There's going to be different social norms in different places. That difference concerns more about opening and appearance than actual game substance. If you want to game internationally, look for the hottest tourist spots. Tourist are typically more open to new people. More importantly, your game improves when you are open to talking to people. If you go somewhere, ask people walking around. If you must, call it 'indirect game". You can usually trust the locals when hunting for a good time.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:07 PM
1

I think you're missing the point ( as far as pua's go). The idea is to go to the most saturated cities with the most women who make efforts to look good. In the USA for example, I wouldn't see even a quarter as many women in Nashville as I would in Vegas, let alone attractive women. Atlanta has pretty women but New York has them by the dozens. I'm sure Toronto will have more than Quebec. More so , the greater female to Male ratio, the easier it is to game.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:57 PM
0

If you did it right early. Your 30's are prime. You've got a good job with people you like and you've gone up enough to be able to do as you please. If you want to see if it's true, go to the clubs. Go to the spring break hot spots. The younger crowd got there money from their parents. The 30's crowd is when you got it all your own. Ime they don't have a lot of friends. The majority are more or less acquaintances that they invited and then they have there core of about 3-4 friends. There's alway…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:58 PM
1

It takes time to learn multiple arts. Better to be okay at one than shitty at 2
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:54 PM
1

I'd say keep at it but don't be shady with it. If you ain't getting pussy you can still go out and flirt to keep your game tight. Some girls won't give a fuck, some will.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:19 PM
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Boxing. In IRL fights it's been shown to be the best. It teaches you to move fast, strike fast and run away fast. Muay thai is good but it focuses more on eating hits than getting away. If it was pro vs pro thai would be better but in the streets, you want getting away to be the priority, not winning. BJJ is the absolute worst. It heavily focuses on the ground. In a street fight, you NEVER want to go to the ground. BJJ is great at incapacitating 1 person but it's rare that it's just one person. …
/r/askTRP28/02/20 01:43 PM
1

You should try indirect see if your results improve or worsen
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:20 PM
2

You should delete. The ones who grow not to care 1. Have another plate already or 2. Never cared in the first place. Or 3, they get addicted to another girl.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:29 PM
2

Take a moment. You need to understand the relationship is dead. Mourn it. Appreciate what it was, think about what you liked and what you didn't like. Then take a deep breath and move on.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:36 PM
3

If she's down for another date, then you still have a chance. On the other hand, if you been buying her meals. Then you're just a meal ticket. The first few dates are building a character. In a few cases, she's made the choice before you've even opened your mouth. If you feel like you fucked up already then you should take that moment to have fun. Say something you never would say, ask a question you never would ask. Dates don't follow such a tight structure. Beta and alpha is a spectrum and you…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:32 PM
2

How's this a women thing? If a girl looks like fucking majin buu I'm not sticking my dick in that. When she slims up then I'll get at her. The difference between men and women is that she's trying to rationalize it, making herself look good. Guys don't make those excuses to other guys. she was ugly and had no confidence, now she's hot and likes to have fun
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:24 PM
2

There's a lot of power in definitions. She's your fwb, keyword being friends. The reason you don't introduce her to your friends ( and vice versa) is because you've already got an " exclusive " mindset. You're worried about her hooking up with your friends. Otherwise introducing a friend to other friends wouldn't be a big deal. The only point im trying to make is that calling it a relationship will fundamentally change things.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:15 PM
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If I was 38 and she was 20 I'd still fuck her. Don't give a shit what other people think.
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:06 PM
1

Don't just trust a coach, trust the common ground. There's certain things that will only work for certain people. Those things are learned by experience. The common ground is the universal truth, it will work for everyone if not the vast majority. Think like stretching before and after a workout, dynamic vs static. Etc
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:32 AM
1

Depending how fucked it is , that scar could make a fun story to just bullshit out.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:26 PM
1

The older mother daughter set I'd recommend still approaching, especially with your " shooting the shit" game. Woman are usually in groups. when talking with groups you talk with everyone. Personally, when it comes to groups, I use a canned opener. The botched opener I used last time was something like " hey , I know this is weird but I got to get this project done( I had a little book so I can work on my observation skills) , when you see a guy, what is the first thing you notice about them? Fi…
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:10 PM
7

In terms of influential strength. Face to face Speaking over phone Texting. All 3 can work but In person will always work best. Being able to show expressions in your face and body adds strength to your voice and tone. Text is virtually expressionless. Good example is sarcasm an eye roll with a smile may give a playful vibe. Just voice may come off as playful or slightly insulting. Text may come off as literal. Emojis can be a saving grace. Flirting, chatting or even taking business; Being able …
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:05 AM
5

Definitely give him the book. He's probably never even considered getting out an option. Truth be told, he'll probably hate you for giving him the book ( domesticated animals fear the wild). There's also no promising you'll like the person he becomes, assuming he does change. Still, I'd say better late than never.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:35 PM
8

Look up xkcd lucky 10,000. That rule is why ancient canned openers still work. That rule is why game, despite people knowing about it, still works.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 06:01 PM
1

Alpha, beta, omega. If you aren't talking to girls at all ( omega) then go blue pill,( beta). Being a pushover and won't get you pussy but if you're so fucked you're not even talking, then fuck it, be a " nice guy". The only thing worse then slow progress is no progress. Get comfortable talking. Once you can comfortably talk with strangers, start your red pill journey. You can start small by simply calling out shit tests. You can play around and tease just for fun. Red pill is really just not le…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:01 PM
1

I figured everyone knew the power of social circles. The majority of people meet women through a friend of a friend. The issue for most here is they don't have that initial friends group. The lack of skills with women usually comes from a lack of social skills in general
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:29 PM
1

Your friend is the perfect wing, it's too bad his game sucks. Stick with him. He should've brought her home. She's saying no because slut defense, if she was already there, she'd be way more receptive.
/r/seduction09/01/20 03:36 PM
2

Really depends. Is that all you've ever worn? Black is easy and safe. You'll want variety to attract other women. Make sure you wear extras. This is like rings,watches and shoes. You'll want at least one thing that makes you stick out. Something that makes you memorable. If it's something you can really talk about, even better.
/r/seduction07/01/20 07:12 PM
1

You can try setting some routine so that when you do it, it means it's game time. Big issue here is that your game won't be 24/7 and it only works if you actually follow through every time. There's always going to be good and bad days, that's life. Just keep doing your thing, keep being out there. If you're getting lots of one nighters, it can be anything. Normally it's people fuck drunk girls and she don't really know you. Try instead of F-closing, going for a date. Take more time building comf…
/r/seduction06/01/20 10:02 PM
2

All clothing creates an image. To hit the broadest, just make sure it's all form fitting. With enthusiasm, it'll take practice. Initially , you want to try to match there energy, or be slightly above. Acting energetic tends to make others feel energetic. If you come in too strong, too early, it'll be shocking and annoying. Too weak, they'll feel as if you're draining them. Gradually raising it as they get comfortable makes them feel like they're having fun. It's complicated to explain but the be…
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:03 PM
2

Pirate them. That's what I did back when I needed them. If it helps, then buy them.
/r/seduction05/01/20 08:58 PM
4

Failure is when you don't approach. You do programming, you should know better. it won't always work the first time, even when you do it exactly as you should've. If you actually did boxing you would know there's a lot to be learned from losing and nothing learned from a forfeit. Boxing is a think on the spot sport. I know lots of women who are into psychology and a few into boxing. Read those books, work on your observation skills. There's always stuff going on around you. Most importantly, con…
/r/seduction05/01/20 08:50 PM
7

Well first off, your mindset is wrong. You've imagined failure before you've even started. You WILL get rejected, that's a part of the process. You need to learn to stop limiting yourself. Why are you approaching her; it's because you find her attractive, then say that. Have nothing to say? Say that. Ask them about that, get out of your fucking head and talk. 2nd. If you need some openers, it dues you no harm to keep 1 or 2 in the pocket. Look up canned openers and read a book like RULES OF THE …
/r/seduction05/01/20 08:04 PM
6

That's still planning what to say. The best thing you can do is remember 2 easy conversation starters and keep them in the back pocket. The rest is infield observation learning. You can't watch conversation and learn to have it. No one escapes the awkward phase.
/r/seduction05/01/20 06:01 PM
2

It's because your being good not nice. A nice guy collapses under shit tests. They tell you right there " not sure if your a sweetheart or an asshole " . If a beta was watching you, he'd call you an asshole for not taking her seriously. People say don't compliment because most betas think compliments get the girl. They don't, passing the shit tests do. When she starts working to win you over is when you start complimenting her. The compliment should be a reward, not a gift.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:15 PM
4

I think your taking it too seriously. Don't talk about equity and mortgages just joke about it. Tell her you sell luxury porn studios with only the highest quality sex dungeons. Completely make up a bullshit job. Have fun. If you want to tell her, tell her after or better, throw the question back at her. You could simply say, " I sell houses ;you?". Now you can jump to a million other topics. Tbh, if your not getting girls. It's not because your job. It's because A. You talk too much about it an…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:38 AM
1

Neil's style was to walk in there direction. Walk past them then turn his head back as if something just came to mind. He would give indications that he's about to leave so they don't feel like they're stuck talking to him. Then use his line. If you want to approach them aggressively, you can keep using Tom's way. Great for touristy towns. If you want to cushion the aggressiveness, you can add some statements of empathy ; I know this might be weird but ", I only have a minute before I have to go…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:00 AM
3

He uses indirect. This guy probably does the Tom torrero style. Direct, you block them off and compliment. Neil's style would still work for the fact that it doesn't start with flirting. It's pretty much just making conversation. It sucks they removed his videos, I'm sure his fuck ups would be pretty obvious.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:23 PM
3

No, just go indirect. If you still want to go direct you only walk with them at the beginning then stop and keep talking. You don't follow them. Even when you do walk with them, you're generally told to be ahead of them so it's them following you, not you following them.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:18 PM
3

Helping a friend without losing them. If he tells him the wrong way, he can get defensive and push his friend deeper in the whole. 2 important things to know. 1. Men can be just as irrational and emotional as they claim women to be. 2. Some people are pretty good at manipulating and tricking people. Same way you wouldn't want to be tricked or manipulated, some people want to help there friends avoid that fate.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:51 PM
2

Is the only one I really disagree with. Beauty can be complimented at any time. Its not what you say, it's how you say it and how you lead into it. Saying nice tits or nice ass usually won't get what you're looking for. You can still say the girl at the bookstore looks cute with the glasses. You can tell the girl at the courthouse she radiates confidence, you can tell the drunk girl at the club she's sexy and got a nice ass. A compliment won't get you the girl, its more of a conversation excuse,…
/r/seduction09/12/19 05:40 PM
1

It's meant for bars. No advice will ever work for you if you're not a critical thinker. Neg is basically a soft tease. Good for women who get bombed by blue pill compliments. Kino you actually should use. Its common sense that a person who is comforted with your touch is comfortable with you. Bitch shield usually concerns girls who have been hit on by way to many men. They fucked up her night and you need to come in in a way that seems like your trying to hang out and not just get your dick wet.…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:13 PM
2

The issue is they know you. You need to be the leader, for awhile, start inviting them places, make new friends, and the ones who actually go out and do shit will start inviting you.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:18 PM
4

I disagree with this in the case that you're saying you need her. The man who can fish never goes hungry.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:12 PM
2

The best way I'd describe game now is , the door was changed but the locks are the same.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 01:32 PM
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You don't seem to understand the purpose. Now don't get me wrong, that's extreme peacocking, even when mystery did it, he had an attractive social circle to balance it. The point of extreme peacocking is to get the girl to approach you, simple as that. Once the girl approached him, she just opened herself for him. From there, he would twist the script like she's the weird one. He would get her chasing him. Then when he talks with his attractive friends and other attractive women it draws even mo…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 01:30 PM
2

None of that is new or different. Canned lines and peacocking is still valid, people are more attention seeking than ever(or is it just more noticeable). Trp is not ALL about game, its more about being happy with yourself. Being fit is a form of peacocking and abundance mentality is just another word for "frames" trp is self care with pussy as second priority. What you're talking about is normal old game aka the indirect approach. The same thing styles used. If you stated your attraction first, …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 01:16 PM
2

Not true; well not exactly. Night game is abundance. You can still wife her up. Its simply making approach easier by preemptively putting her in a good mood. A ONS is a byproduct of rushed(not bad) game. Good night game will have her like you, even when she sobers up.
/r/seduction27/11/19 12:56 PM
1

Try r/fpua Imho a guy knows what he wants as well as a woman does. Fpua should have advice other women have tried with success
/r/seduction27/11/19 12:27 PM
1

Just another reason to day game. Everyone needs to make a living and everyone is having fun somehow. It's time to make some friends and build a network. When there's not a party going on, you'll have to make some happen. Going to the big cities is a good secondary option. Not sure how popular meetup dot com is there but you can try making groups and get a couple bars and clubs to sponsor you. I know all of that is not easy but it's good to have ideas.
/r/seduction22/11/19 12:53 PM
8

No one wants true equality fuck that commie shit. In all seriousness, no one really wants equality because a personality is too complex for it. The salesman who hates socializing, the " princess" who's a slut, the CEO who's a cuck. The fat butch who wants a mr suave. The 6's who want 9's. Equality is less real than Santa claus.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:58 PM
1

What's your goal? When do you make time to socialize? It sounds like you are already in monk mode. You've built yourself but forgot to enjoy the fruits of your labor. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. You need to do the opposite of monk mode. Find friends, get pussy and find something that makes you happy when you do it alone. Talk with your buddies at the gym. Maybe compete in an event. Give your life purpose.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:49 PM
3

Depends. Did you have strong feelings for them? Did they feel like " the one"? Delete, block, ignore. Otherwise you'll think about them all the time and get suckered into trying again. Random girl who was " into you but not that into you"or was " hit and run" material just make her low priority. Focus on other girls and maybe if she's pretty enough, just keep her face on your social media. Hot girls have a love/hate seeing you associated with other hot girls.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:03 AM
5

A personal recommendation. Don't logic a women's feelings, you will torture yourself. This is called a shit test. Women do this because they want to FEEL something or rile you ( get you feeling). This is another version of " do I look fat in this dress". Answer truthfully, and when she gives you an emotional response, refer to shit tests 101.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 08:43 PM
2

It would be hilarious if she's just head over heels for you and just to nervous to reply
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:26 PM
1

If I had to break this down the m3 style, I'd say your missing comfort. Try teasing the kiss but not actually giving it, like noticing something on her face or saying things are going too fast in a teasing way. Make them earn you a little more.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:15 PM
2

Stop jerking off for one. If it's an addiction, keep a book and make your intervals ( when you relapse) longer each time. Until you get pussy, keep it down to once a week. With game. Get a book and learn to appreciate the process. Break it down into bite size pieces until that part becomes natural. You'll want to try everything once ; kino, dhv, passing shit tests, but you need to learn to make each part a part of you and not something that looks scripted. That means learning timing and being ex…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:06 PM
1

Look up the art of seduction by Robert Greene. In seduction the foundation doesn't change but it can be shaped to fit your personality.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:34 PM
3

I'm going by " The Blueprint"
/r/seduction04/11/19 06:15 PM
7

But if it's not getting you results, isn't that all useless? It's all feel good bullshit like finding " the one". Learning about frame and attitude is only good if you're actually putting yourself out there. In the end, what matters is your results. Results doesn't mean sex, it means progress; from jerking off to making small talk, from small talk to flirting, from flirting to fucking, etc. Mindset matters but not in the way you might think. The person you are and the person you want to be are u…
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:07 PM
3

What results have you gotten from them? Or do you mean they're just entertaining?
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:28 PM
19

What shit company do you get your card from. Call them, tell them it's a fraudulent charge and that should be it. It is true for bank of America, Chase, capital one. Cancel/ freeze your card and get one of those 3 at minimum
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:19 PM
1

When guys end up in the freindzone, they usually stay the girls friends. They hang out and listen to her talk about her bf problems They spend there time like a vulture waiting for her to break up so they can sweep in with the rebound. This usually won't work because you are her friend and she doesn't want to lose that. Ie friendzone ™. But there is another option. Women also have other female friends. You can hang with her ( not talking her bf problems) and try to hook up with her friends.She m…
/r/seduction30/10/19 01:23 PM
4

That was a pretty bad move on your part. Let's put this in perspective for you. Imagine you tell a girl your single, she starts talking about another guy she was trying to get with. How would you feel? The lesson here is, don't talk about other girls you've tried to get with. There's very few times you'd even want to mention an actual ex. You might've already played yourself on that one but I'd say keep trying anyway.
/r/seduction30/10/19 02:17 AM
2

Sounds like you rushed her/ got needy and she got scared. TBH it's hard to tell what's going on unless it's in the moment. She could've easily just been playing with you and you took it too serious, ie you were in the freindzone from the very beginning / you got lead
/r/seduction30/10/19 02:04 AM
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What's so bad about that? Imagine it before, constantly thinking about her, letting her haunt your mind. Now it's done, you don't have to think about it anymore, you can finally move on. You should actually be happy she drifted away. Lots of men get told no but the girl keeps hanging with them and they stay in this deluded state where they still think they can get her. Instead she leads them and teases them and they won't even see all the other opportunities that passed them right by. In the end…
/r/seduction30/10/19 01:55 AM
1

In daygame, you don't know what's going on in anyone's life. Headphones on- just likes music Walking fast- city girl with a city pace. Bad mood- resting bitch face. You don't know they're story. Find the truth, learn there story. If they don't want to talk, they won't stop. Don't reject yourself for them, let them do it for you. Especially in direct, the time loss is negligible. I'm not saying to chase them down till they tell you to fuck off, I'm saying approach and see what happens.
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:18 PM
2

Thats called a statement of empathy. Another one that's popular is " I know this is kinda weird but". With indirect, people also use a time constraint. Because when people don't know you they may wonder how long your going to hold them up for. You can use it in direct too but I would say only in those times where you're walking with them instead of stopping them. Or if you want to lead it into a stop. Direct is more about fast sorting so despite it's usefulness , I wouldn't recommend a time cons…
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:08 PM
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Here's the thing suggest she start dating him since she likes him so much Tone of voice is everything if you say this. With no voice on the internet, this sounds like jealousy. If you sound hurt then your frame just collapsed. In OP's case, he's hurt. What you said translates to" that man sounds like he's better than me, I need to fight him for you to prove my worth".
/r/askTRP28/10/19 06:45 PM
1

No harm on enjoying the lake but if you're hungry for fish. Go fishing
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:51 PM
2

How do you feel about getting rejected,? If you don't want to be a robot start being a smart ass. Have fun, be willing to get rejected. Be sarcastic when you feel like it. Learn some calibration. TRP is structured but game is fluid. Take some time, go out and intentionally get rejected. Say a cheesy pick up line. Tell a girl she reminds of your mom. Tell them your only attracted to women that let you use there ass as a bongo. At the end of the day, what does all this shit matter if your not enjo…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:39 PM
1

Even if your not that guy. There's plenty of guys with girlfriends already. They just didn't do the direct approach. There's more than one type of fish bait.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:18 PM
2

I recommend for any one to actually talk with some friends. Ask them how they got there girlfriend. To put it simply, start talking to women. In a year or 2 your rep, those people. They'll all be gone never for you to see them again. Your rep won't matter. If you must, approach indirect. Start making conversation with everyone . Talk about classes and teachers, school is flirting on easy mode. You already have huge amounts of common ground. Don't eat where you shit only applies to places where r…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:15 PM
2

Ime in LTR's you get bored of each other. Eventually finding petty shit to fight about. It's easier to just keep yourself independent.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:58 PM
2

As he gets older, your child will learn from your actions not your words. Make sure your social skills don't rust too much. The problem with buying women is that they'll say what they think you want to hear.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:36 PM
0

Hire a babysitter. Not for everyday but you can definitely free yourself up some time. You've got the resources to have more time. Take advantage of it. Buying pussy is fundamentally blue pill but only an idiot doesn't take advantage of there resources. You just need to do some reallocation. Pay more now to pay less later.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:44 PM
1

I think you can do better. Try to take these girls on a "date". Your goal is to use them as social proof so you can go out and fuck bitches for free. Maybe ad some of those girls to your tinder pics.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:36 PM
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Really, the whole no fap schtick is only for people with anxiety ( ie not approaching women). The hornier you are, the more inclined you are to approach. One of the weaknesses of the internet is not knowing which advice applies to your situation. It's like telling someone to not give a fuck about what people think. Good advice if your nervous all the time. Bad advice if your beating your kids.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:56 AM
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I'd say practice if you can. Intentionally give too much and look at their facial expressions. Women prefer much more eye contact than men. Especially when they are talking.
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:16 PM
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What you're doing is fundamentally correct but once a week may be too little. By the end of the week, you'll forget the progress you made. Remember, you're overriding an emotion . I also recommend keeping a book on you . You write down your successes , and rate how difficult it was. The reason you rate it is to both understand yourself and to remind you to push yourself. You're most likely going to freeze up on women you find especially attractive. Make sure in your progressions that you learn t…
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:06 PM
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No pic
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:05 PM
2

r/fpua Girls game too. The girls usually play with there sex appeal. Make up and style goes a LONG way. The ones who understand ( and maybe abuse) that power might be a stripper or a ' gold digger'. They game too but the skills are a bit different.
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:20 PM
1

The tough guy image sounds like a pretty dumb excuse but there is plenty of fish , like they said. If it feels like it's too much effort, yeah, drop it.
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:14 PM
1

I think we all learned it somehow. Some learned from watching their parents. Others had brothers or sisters. Others practiced in school all the time because it's what they wanted from the beginning. I don't think true naturals actually exist. Again, no one cares how you get there, they only notice when you do.
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:01 PM
1

That's like an artist feeling bad because he went to school instead of freehanding as a child. Seduction is a skill. For some, it comes naturally. For others, this is the guide book. The trials and errors of other men's mistakes. Right now, what you have is called imposter syndrome. That's a limiting belief that you don't deserve to have it good. Truth is, no one deserves anything, you worked for what you got now. No one cares about the man who used to only bench press the bar. They only care wh…
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:24 PM
1

She's scared of you. Although she enjoyed the initial invitation, she got scared of the idea of meeting with a random stranger. You put her in a high pressure situation and she buckled. Good approach but you missed out on the substance. The good news is that she actually told you what the issue is. coz she doesn't know me but she gave me her insta. What this says is that you didn't spend enough time taking to her. You could also treat that as a shit test if you don't just end the conversation wi…
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:09 PM
1

All they told you is how to meet them. The important part is what are they actually doing. That's the part you're missing.more so, no one tells you how many times they failed to get where they are. Don't compare. How many have you kissed. How many have been actual dates. How do you dress. What shape are you in? When talking, how often do you agree vs disagree with them? How often do you tease them for something they say? How often do you compliment them? How much do you touch them? What do you d…
/r/seduction09/10/19 01:44 PM
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Functionally, not much. Here's the thing, if you don't have sex relatively soon, you will be put in the friendzone. Keeping it vague will keep it interesting to her but most people will eventually gravitate to a label. Whether that's bf, fuck buddy, casual fling, really depends on her personality. Flirting for fun is good practice, it'll especially help you learn about shit tests. Do it with multiple women not just one.
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:56 PM
5

I've actually never seen this before. Thank you.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:00 PM
2

This is called mental masturbation. Just like masturbation, don't do that shit all the time. Give yourself a couple goals. Treat this shit like school. Read, then apply it. Read more, apply more. Lifting? Write down what you do, and improve each day. Hit the wall? Read then apply. ( What you'd be reading is about a deload week). We spend a good first quarter of our lives in school. The most important thing you could've learned and should've learned was how to learn. You read it, the teacher talk…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:33 PM
0

Here's the thing. Dread only works if it's a subjective disinterest. If he spends less time in general instead of punishing/rewarding certain traits and attitudes. She'll just find another person to give her excitement. The biggest part of dread is like the quote said. You don't have time for a sexually disinterested ,annoying or angry wife. You should always make me time. I'm not saying he shouldn't. The point I'm making is that this isn't dread.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:07 PM
1

Here's a book I recommend. It's called " rules of the game" by Neil Strauss. Pirate it, buy it, whatever. The reason I recommend this book is because it does something simple. It teaches you to game as if you were in school. You don't read a whole textbook then take tests all year. You read a part, practice it, then move on to the next one. The book says it can get you a date in 30 days. The average person, it will take longer. The important part is using this to find your weakness. You can get …
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:05 PM
3

If you're fucking girls from bars and clubs they could've just sobered up and feel like they fucked a " stranger"
/r/seduction04/10/19 05:55 PM
10

I recommend always approaching. The game doesn't change that much between ugly and pretty. You can still practice flirting and simply not close.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:40 PM
1

No on the prostitute. will still want to dial back, if not abstain from masturbation. At that age the anxiety wall is usually not that high. They'll both help a little with dating but should help significantly with anxiety. You'll still want to read books like " how to win freinds and influence people" but being social will help in general.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:41 AM
1

It is and it's not. The opener is just to get you in. It's a small part people make a big deal of. It just may take practice for it to be natural. Some people are natural socialites but there big hang up is just groups. The trick to a groups is just to let them feel involved. It can get very complex when it comes to adding substance but it's best to take it piece by piece. Imagine if the teachers gave you the whole textbook. Made you read it all in a week then tested you on everything. Your brai…
/r/seduction02/10/19 03:15 AM
1

This is more a r/relationship problem than a r/seduction problem. If you mean what seduction mechanic this concerns it's push/pull. His indifference is what kept her coming back (push) but he pushed to much to the point she left. If every time your dog went for food you pushed them away, what do you think they're going to do? They're going to look for food somewhere else. The cheating isn't her hating him, she's just hungry. Cheating is an act of cowardice but that's how some people are. Man or …
/r/seduction01/10/19 12:48 PM
1

Indirect approach. Use an "opinion opener". This will allow you to talk to all of them. After you've been taking for a while ( making sure your targets involved in the conversation and periodically teasing). You say something like " hey, I'm going to take her real quick, I'll be right back" and now the fun begins. Once you've isolated her, you just follow the conventional rules of game.
/r/seduction01/10/19 12:21 PM
1

Yeah, the issue is you. Your an artist looking for marble and expecting to come precarved. Do you see how stupid that is? Shallow people are those judging purely on surface and yet you are one of them. I don't know how many women you are actually approaching but reading this tells me, not many. To actually answer your question , you can find nerdy girls in nerdy things like dnd and anime clubs n shit. If that's your top priority. Hook up with the fat chick and join her in losing weight. If she's…
/r/seduction01/10/19 12:08 PM
1

Yes but also no. You would have to seriously lower your standards It would take an iron will. First goal would be to lose weight. That would take about 2 years, on top of that. You need to get a job in sales even if it's some door to door crap, this will teach you how to interact with people. You'll also need a ton of money to get that skin tightened. Also during this time, you'll want to start going out. Doesn't have to be everyday but you'll need to get into some social hobby. Make freinds in …
/r/seduction01/10/19 11:47 AM
1

It does. The first one of the day always sucks. It should never feel impossible but it should almost always be a little uncomfortable. Having a goal makes it easier too. i started off actually using a book called " rules of the game". It's supposed to take you 30days but it admittingly took me a bit longer. I've backtracked and burnt out a few times too.
/r/seduction01/10/19 11:28 AM
1

Only if you plan on going into sales. Seduction is basically getting a person to like you . You don't have to go to bars and clubs but that's just the easiest way. When you're good, you can just walk up to a person in the street and start gaming. You can get into whatever hobby your into and just talk to the people there. If you have a healthy libido and not pursuing , you've probably dulled yourself from jacking off. There is exceptions for a few but the desire for sex is an animal desire not a…
/r/seduction01/10/19 01:53 AM
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If you're a virgin, yeah you should buy some pussy. You need to get all these labels you put on yourself out of your system. A better investment would be going to a stylist to clean yourself up. Looks aren't the only thing but they are important.
/r/seduction01/10/19 01:38 AM
2

This shit was difficult for me too. I think it's a fear of rejection. 2 ways worked for me. 1. Setting an allotted time to do something. The 2nd was starting indirect. Conversational momentum is a real thing.
/r/seduction01/10/19 01:26 AM
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Trash at it but yeah. His method is the fundamentals to practically all methods. It's one thing to understand it, another to remember it and another to naturalize it. The only thing that changes is pretty much indirect vs direct openers.
/r/seduction01/10/19 01:17 AM
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Group I tried direct on literally just laughed as she walked away. I was like damn, that stung more than it should. Beyond that I've never actually had a crazy one.
/r/seduction30/09/19 06:56 PM
2

Here's what I've noticed, there's not many bad jobs. Just many people who make a job bad. It's rarely the work that's killing you. It's either a boss who's a dumbass, a co-worker who sucks the life out of you or sometimes the standards you set for yourself ( commission jobs )
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:50 PM
1

It's not yours, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP30/09/19 06:45 PM
0

The goal is perspective. It's also a fun experiment with the scientific method. You want to do X , girl says to get X you need to do X. You do it. it doesn't work. Now you're on TRP so you ask again. Now you here to get X you do Y. You do it and it works. Now you're learned 2 things how to get what you want and what it means when she says what she wants. It'd be a good thing to do if a person is doubting the methods or if your bored and want to play around.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 05:34 PM
2

Yeah. It's like that " be yourself" bullshit. You can have your interests but you will need social interests. If you aren't interested in socializing or trying new things. You will stay exactly as you are. If that's content or miserable is on you.
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:53 PM
1

You don't fish in the desert. More importantly stop trying to fuck your reflection. No one will like all the things you like. You can try to meet people in your interests that next to no women share but the competition will be high and odds are, the quality low.
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:51 AM
1

I've yet to hear of any method that makes snap good. Snap is like beta in the back pocket.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:08 AM
1

That's exactly the point I'm making. Your more likely to find woman in a club than at a chess tournament. If you don't want to go to clubs, that's fine. Just don't expect to meet anywhere near as many women. On another note, the less woman you see, the more important it is for you to take the initiative. You can have an abundance mentality but you still need to approach.
/r/seduction23/09/19 12:57 AM
1

And not everyone finds women attractive. You need to play to the majority. You can entertain your hobby of collecting stamps or playing chess but be aware that the men far outweigh the women. Some spots, like volleyball or soccer have a good amount of women. Then there's dance but if you're doing that, you might as well go to the club. Certain musical hobbies may attract women but you still need to find a place to play. If you're into books, you'll find more homeless men than women in a library.…
/r/seduction22/09/19 09:15 PM
1

Sure, Money is important. Look around. You might find a place with more money and/or less hours. Best time to look for a job is when you already have one. There's nothing wrong with just going out on the weekends but you still got 5 other days where at minimum you need to take care of yourself. If after that 12 hour day, all you do is go home and Reddit/Facebook/watch porn/watch TV/Netflix. None of those improve your life.(usually) If at minimum you were studying to move up in your field, you ca…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 06:16 PM
1

12 hours at a computer are where neckbeards are born. But seriously, 12 hours staring at a screen will leave you mentally exhausted. Then the work culture will start to infect your way of thinking. Odds are you only spend a few hours actually doing anything then spend the rest bullshiting. That down time degrades your mind. I'm not sure if Uber eats is a euphemism but if it's not then you can see how your job is killing you. I'm in no way telling you to quit. My point is that the major change in…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:14 PM
1

Your job didn't leave you burned out? Did you still even have time for your plates? I'm sure the plates broke but if I had to bet, it was probably before the significant weight gain. I don't think the weight broke you, I think your job did. You were too tired to play with your plates. My bet is your personality changed and then being too tired to put in effort, you got fat.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:02 PM
1

Are you sure you haven't changed? I'd assume what kept you in shape was an active lifestyle. I'd be more inclined to assume you became unrelatable than fat. Were you still gaming as you put on pounds? What happened to the plates you had during the transition. I know being fat knocks points off but if you were still spinning plates while putting weight, the other women will validate you. I definitely think there's more to the story that you're leaving out
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:31 PM
0

It's not blue pill but that guys content with what he has. He's not spinning plates. He doesn't have a nice place. His life is for survival while for us, it's pleasure. The people who I usually hear doing this are consumed by paranoia and isolate themselves from all society ( ie the ultimate incel). Back in the day, you still had a community, validation was had in the quality of your work, hunt or what you found in your explorations. Social media is what the explorer was. Hunters are now hobbyis…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:23 PM
2

The trick to this is friends. Having a small group of friends that you can shit on and be shat on without it becoming personal. That best friends group will help you get validation without having to go to far outward. It's difficult and requires you to self validate at least at the beginning.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:01 PM
4

The culture here is club culture. which, I'd say, pretty much every country shares. Besides the select few that ban alcohol.
/r/seduction22/09/19 01:38 PM
2

The second thing is observation. Look at what a person is doing or wearing and make assumptions. Look at the world around you and get there opinion on it. Imagine yourself at a club. The music is blaring, the place is crowded, some guy is doing the cabbage patch, some girl with colorful hair looks like she's rolling out her mind. The girl your checking out has an apple watch , hair in a ponytail and darts her head away when you look at her. There's so many details you can use to get the conversa…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:55 PM
9

Practice. I can think of 2 things. First. Learn a " run on" conversation. I doubt your very confident so practice in the mirror. The goal is simple; talk for 5 minutes. Level 1 For those 5 minutes , you will talk non stop. This can be one topic you know well, it can be about the last porn you jerked too. It can be just talking about something you know nothing about.As long as you keep talking for 5 minutes. Level 2. Same as one, with the exception that you must switch topics. If you spent those …
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:44 PM
8

You're in the depression phase. You haven't quite accepted it yet. You now understand how little women really matter but your inner animal will still make you crave it. When you've accepted it, you'll find things and people who make you feel better and people who try to drag you down won't really phase you no more. The world hasn't changed too much, it's the same kinda fucked it's always been. If you truly understand the nature of the beast you'll find a way to either ignore it or use it to your…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:57 PM
1

After you've spent some time talking, yes. If they say no to the number, it means they haven't quite warned up to you yet.
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:23 AM
2

Snap is bad. It's impersonal like Reddit. A girl will give her snap to anyone who will give her attention but her number only to people she likes. Nothing fundamentally wrong with snap, it's just worthless as far as sedduction goes. A girl giving you her snap doesn't mean she's interested. It just means your not a creep.
/r/seduction20/09/19 01:28 AM
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It sounds like you need more substance. It looks like you got passed opening and now you need to get more pull in. If they are giving you they're real number it means they like you a little at minimum. If I had to shoot a guess you probably need to add some more teasing in. They need to still feel like they had to work to get you. Once the rush of being appraised wears, they'll just forget about you. If they felt like they had to invest in your approval, they're more likely to continue because t…
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:56 PM
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The biggest part of sedduction can't be taught. It's all about reading the situation. Gauging reaction and directing accordingly.
/r/seduction18/09/19 10:53 PM
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Ime after trauma people change.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:10 PM
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This is the only one even close to a good response. Don't take it seriously. Call it a shit test and have fun.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:49 PM
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Should've said you were too 😂
/r/seduction10/09/19 05:37 PM
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It's really not. An exaggeration sure. But in the same way people will have race preference or height preference there's a body preference. Each little tick on there preferences makes it that much easier.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:20 PM
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You want r/fpua
/r/seduction10/09/19 02:53 PM
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For groups, you should keep one in the can. Practice asking a question that'll get them all talking or look up opinion openers. You don't need an arsenal, it's just one for those days you can't come up with anything to say. Some small intricacies: if you look like you're about to go or in a rush and tell them, your about to leave. They'll generally be more receptive because they don't feel like they're stuck with a stranger. This is just a small detail that makes it easier to break into the grou…
/r/seduction10/09/19 02:47 PM
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Yeah but think about it like this if you weigh 500 lbs or your face is deformed , it would take your best just to get laid every once in a blue vs slim and fit who's allowed to make more mistakes. Game is a big part but no one cares what's inside a house if the outside looks like a crack house.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:21 PM
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Wasn't there a study done recently that said women prefer lean over buff? They preferred a Mayweather over a Dwayne Johnson ( as far as body types went)
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:56 PM
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Women isn't the main goal of TRP it's just one of the biggest hurdles. TRP is about being the best you without being sold the be yourself bullshit. Now the difference between monk social and normal social is where you go. Most go to bars and clubs with pretty much the sole purpose of gaming. Others reserve a couple hours a day to focus purely on gaming. When you monk you don't go out of your way to meet women. Optimally you'd still talk with people that happen to cross paths with you. This isn't…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 10:04 PM
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It only works if there's a goal set. Like if I started going to the gym everyday instead of 2-3 times a week and eating right and cutting all the garbage foods. Monk mode isn't lightening the load. It's putting 100% into 1 goal. It may be weight loss, muscle building or developing some skill but must test it as a deload and take it as a time to be lazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:51 PM
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I like the idea of monk mode but I think most just use it as an excuse to stop gaming. Monk mode is great but you need to go in with a goal, not just an idea. It's saying "I need to improve" vs "I'm going to improve X"
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:46 PM
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I was looking for this road rage video but couldn't find it. This guy is raging while smashing on this guy's window while the driver stairs out the front as if frozen. He only even glances at him when the crowd comes by to pull him away. Body language is the difference between standing your ground and being afraid to move. The rager was a jackass and the driver was a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:21 PM
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Ignoring and just standing there and taking it are 2 different things. Ignoring means you continue doing your own thing ( like a back turn and changing subject).
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:20 PM
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It's been shown that men find women more attractive when she's ovulating. They figured this out by having men basically smell a deodorized bucket of piss. All there ratings of the women went up a point or 2. They technically smelled nothing but it had a noticeable physiological effect. Can't remember if this was nat geo or Discovery.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:20 PM
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Psychologically , we're closer to monkeys than rats. The experiment will need to be conducted on them for it to be considered reasonably relatable to humans.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:16 PM
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To stop getting jealous you need to not be afraid to lose her. The jealousy comes from believing that another man can take your wife away from you. If you actually believe what you've been saying that this really is no more than sex. Then repeat that back to yourself. The jealousy comes from your doubt. The gut instinct telling you that your wife may leave you for another man. Why don't you give yourself even more comfort and find the man for her, that way she can have sex with a man you qualify…
/r/seduction09/09/19 05:02 PM
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So the most passionate sex you've had was after you slept with another women? If so, then this proves what I said on 4. Sex can be separated from love but for most people, it's difficult. From what you say here, your relationship sounds comfortable but she desires exciting. You can try to make this work. I'd like to be wrong and say this is simply a sex fetish. Maybe this relationship is the exception to the rule. But my bet is she's bored and looking for an out. You can continue raising the kid…
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:35 PM
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I only read the TLDR. Theres a good chance your relationship is dead already. She's using an open relationship as an opportunity to cheat on you. To stop from feeling jealous, you need to get with more women. Go out dating. Flirt with women. She more than likely doesn't actually think you can get another women and will be jealous when you do. The relationship is dead already. You want her to be happy, let her go. Maybe she'll be happy once she gets jealous but then you'd have to constantly make …
/r/seduction09/09/19 03:58 PM
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This sounds more like you fucked yourself. If your job want miserable before, I'm sure it is now.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:39 PM
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This is the most blue pill bullshit. This isn't emotional control, this is emotional suppression and will leave you socially retarded, stressed and depressed. You need to calibrate before you can control. Showing no reaction is a sign of fear, especially if you just stand there and take it. His situation is more of a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:36 PM
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Look up " shit test". That's what this is. You've got a long way to go in life. I'm guessing this is your first job?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:25 PM
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A science based red pill would be nice. This place slowly seeps into black pill. Rollo tonasi was one of the most notable to take a genuine scientific approach to it. I think mystery's method worked with that in mind. A breakdown of what, when and why. The problem is always not seeing the full picture. He only knows his circumstance as I only know mine. The internal workings vs what's actually said vary greatly. This is not just for women but men too. You'll see the most popular comments usually…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 08:53 PM
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Where's your friends at,?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:08 PM
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I couldn't imagine people willingly giving away there whole private life yet here we are with social media, camera's everywhere and GPS. Sex bots will definitely become a thing. Combine that with VR at minimum you got a virtual prostitute. If they put a sex bot on a payment plan i can see incels and any guy after a bad breakup buying one.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 07:09 PM
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On one hand If she's DTF you'd be doing the guy a favor by fucking her. If you don't fuck her, someone else will. He's still going to get cheated on. Kill it early. On the other hand, getting your ass kicked for pussy is rarely worth it. The guy will learn a lesson but you don't have to be the teacher.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:37 PM
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My favorite quote " There is no logic in this place"
/r/seduction06/09/19 01:39 PM
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You ever read the mystery method? Alot of what you do is very similar. He used indirect openers because it allowed him to hit on girls who are with friends ( as they usually are).
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:28 PM
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All the ones I've read say to shift focus between each eye.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:19 PM
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Forgot to mention something not covered. . In general your voice shouldn't raise at the end like your asking a question. It makes you sound unsure of yourself.In tonality sarcasm should be clearly distinguishable. If your teasing sounds serious, it will be treated as serious. Each feeling your trying to convey should be distinguishable in body language and voice.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:11 PM
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Here's what I learned from style. You can go about this 2 ways. With a phone or with a friend. I have no friends so I used a phone. Stand about 6 feet from your phone and say " I can speak loudly and clearly and still be heard". The goal is to hear your voice, loud and clear, without actually shouting. Read a book called rules of the game by Neil Strauss. The first week is pretty much all about fixing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:02 PM
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This sounds a lot like the mystery method
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:07 PM
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What I mean by limiting is giving exclusivity. If you want to have a kid, sure but if I were you, I still wouldn't sign the noose contract. Have the kid, stick your dick where you please and have your life together so no one can leverage shit on you.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 04:54 PM
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OP I know everyone else is saying to next but I think you should instead use this as a learning experience. It's a good time to practice dread game. It's time for you to blue ball her. Make her Chase you. Let her text you and when you guys go out, get that practice in. Use negs, and disqualifiers. Example, she wants to hold hands in public, teasingly say " eww, why's your hand so sweaty". Whatever her answer, laugh it off. Then do a compliance test. Something simple that you can tell her to do s…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:09 PM
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Usually , yeah. LTR is usually a blue pill concept. In the end, you should be concerned with 2 things, interest and compliance. Is she any more interesting than a cock sock? Am I leading or am I being lead?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:39 PM
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I will always find LTR and marriage to be fundamentally blue pill. Exclusivity is just limiting yourself. I understand the pursuit can be exhausting but if you have to hide yourself and be fake, how is that not blue pill. I can understand doing that in a company to move up ( an attempt to gain power) but in a relationship , you should already have the power..
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:29 PM
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What doesn't make sense? The one who has the most power in a relationship is the one that cares the least. The guy controls the relationship by most likely a show of power. She's being led by him.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:56 AM
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Since no one else seems to have mentioned it. Seduction is a game of practice more than theory. Reading a bunch of books ( mental masturbation) will not help your game as much as going out in the field and learning what your weaknesses actually are. Learning how to eat pussy like a god don't mean shit if you don't talk with some women. Yes, you should read but only small bits. In school, you spend all year learning a concept and expected to only remember 75%. How much do you think you'll remembe…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:19 AM
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An unethical pro tip. Go get a consultation from all the best lawyers. That way if she hires one it's a conflict of interest
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:02 PM
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Some girls feel they need to escalate from there and, so put up there " slut shield". They don't feel comfortable enough with you but got lost in the moment and feel like the next meet up will be for sex. Too much too fast. Try these 2 things, 1. Playfully Act like she's the one who pushed on the kiss and that things are going too fast. ( This needs to be done in the moment, not later on text.) This is the push pull tactic. Try to close that same day after that kiss, if she's lost in the moment …
/r/seduction29/08/19 08:53 PM
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Your like a fat guy trying to run a triathlon. Slow down, stop trying to think about 1000 things. Of all these problems which do you deal with the most. Keep up your regular game but focus on one weakness. 1- having a song that gets you in the mood isn't a bad thing. Pavlov will help you soon enough. Also with approaches, the first one is usually the hardest as you need to get yourself in a social mood. 2- if you feel questions are boring ( ie what's your major) rephrase it. Don't just ask a que…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:00 PM
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Mine is the same if I let it get passed the ugly phase
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:48 PM
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Daygame or nightgame? Most likely daygame. You're getting cold feet because you're expecting it to go a certain way. Take a breath, talk to yourself for a minute, I want you to honestly think about the worst case scenario of you approaching. How bad is it? Would it effect your everyday life? Are you going to die? Now think about the best case scenario, how do you feel? How does your life look now? How do you feel your world would change? Now ask yourself, would you be willing to go through the w…
/r/seduction29/08/19 01:03 PM
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You forgot the shovel
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:17 PM
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Think of flirting like a road test. The fitter you are the better condition your car. In the end, if you don't know how to drive, you'll still fail but the better the car, the easier it'll be. Fat and sloppy people can still get women the same way you can still drive with overinflated tires and cracked windshield but it doesn't make it any easier. There's physical fitness and mental fitness. Don't neglect your mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 06:48 PM
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I go to it. Still wanted to capitalize on the chance I got here. I'm trying to not switch jobs since this one gives me time to approach and gives me consistent hours which means I can practice night game on the regular.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:31 PM
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Some people need a blade, others just want to sharpen it
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:13 PM
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He could've told her and been fine but the thing is, for him, it was still a fact. It's saying " I tricked you" vs " this is the new me". I can almost promise you, the moment he told her he was already going back to his old ways.
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:36 PM
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Personally I practiced a script. I'll improv when I can but spending time learning the script made easy fall back points. The real issue here is not necessarily the info but not using it. We spend 10-14 years in school, yet don't use the most important detail; how to learn. You don't read the whole textbook. You read a chapter , write it, then practice it. Too many people are reading only. Not even writing. Even in school your taught to write it in your own words. Your taught to use the informat…
/r/seduction14/08/19 03:34 PM
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How beginner freindly are the groups?
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:06 AM
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We have " alpha" but that got cannibalized and people still compare it to wolves.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 07:35 PM
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I figured athletes get pussy because they're celebrities/ leader of men. The question is how much pussy does a competitive bodybuilder get over a 5k competitor. How much pussy does a strongman competitor get over a CrossFit competitor. Those are the real numbers that need to be researched.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 12:41 PM
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