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lol, and this is why fuckboys aren't going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:04 AM
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while morality is good for society as a whole, it's bad for the individual and you're best off acting immorally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:04 AM
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bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:02 AM
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Let me see if I have this right. I as a woman if I want to date I have to give it up to anyone who asks because if I don’t it makes men lie about their intentions. nope, I'm saying fuckboys behave like they do because it gets them more of what they want (sex). If women want to stop men from being fuckboys, then stop fucking fuckboys. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:01 AM
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i'm not assuming they *would* act unethically, most people won't. However there are strong incentives to act unethically hence why some people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:59 AM
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What's the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:57 AM
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fair, I think honestly most people want the first though, whether or not they'll admit to it (or are even aware of it)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:56 AM
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Fuck boys exist because everybody allows them to keep doing shit. ding ding ding, we have a winner folks. This is exactly what I'm arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:31 PM
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the cost of enforcing that morality on men should be covered by women. I'm not saying anything "should" anything. I'm describing the world, not prescribing how it should be. I'm just saying an effective way to make men more honest would be for women to incentivise this by fucking honest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:03 PM
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he’d say that he’s very happy in the absence of a more objective way of measuring happiness, we have to take people on their word here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:15 PM
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yep, they're irrationally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:08 PM
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I guess because the best result overall is to both cooperate, but on an individual level, you're incentivised to betray your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:53 AM
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I think fuckboys are very upfront. I was talking mostly about the guys who act like they're interested in LTR but then just pump and dump. this seems to be mostly what women are railing against - cause it works. I meant fuckboy as in a manipulative hot man, not just a hot man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:50 AM
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most fuckboys will want to get married eventually, and treating women like shit before won't lead to a healthy relationship after. wow are you a mind reader? even if true, they can just change their strategy and start being nice when they're ready to settle down. some fair points made though, being an asshole might be bad for your psyche and self-wellbeing. there are still strong incentives to do it tho IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:45 AM
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yep, prisoner's dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:41 AM
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fair point, most people seem to have moral instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:46 AM
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it might help you if all you want to do is fuck. exactly my argument. someone with incredibly low standards might find their perfect life partner like this. what if they don't want a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:45 AM
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don't agree, women choose to be pump-and-dumped by Chad while receiving nothing from the bargain. Definitely sounds like they have a sex drive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:28 AM
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women evolved to be intrinsically two-faced as a survival mechanism. They sell men a dream like a sleazy car sales man sells up a worn down, used up 2001 Honda. bingo, and men reward that behaviour, so they keep doing it. This is why they like toxic men so much wouldn't go that far, I think the "toxic" men are the guys that use manipulative tactics right back at them, and women are just as susceptible to these.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:26 AM
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lol sure, but in the context of an existing society, my individual actions are going to have minimal impact. So I might as well take all I can from society instead of giving. As someone else said, the best situation is when everyone else acts morally but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:23 AM
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but antisocial/dark triad traits still exist in society, so clearly evolution is not selecting against these traits? You might have a point that acting immorally is bad for one's psyche and long-term happiness, even if you externally get what you want. So !delta for that. I'm still not sure that behaving "well" helps you in dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:21 AM
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Otherwise society would have probably fallen apart ages ago. Agree, but it doesn't benefit the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:09 AM
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I'm not calling for more morality in society. It's just a response to the women that say "why won't fuckboys be upfront with me" - I'm saying to those women, maybe try incentivising honesty and rewarding (= fucking) honest men? But the same goes with the genders reversed. Men complain about women using them for money, etc - well, stop giving your attention/commitment to women who do that. Judging by your first para, we're on the same page here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:08 AM
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https://www.psypost.org/2021/05/new-study-provides-insight-into-how-people-with-dark-personality-traits-think-about-happiness-60785 Looks like Machiavellianism and psychopathy are associated with lower happiness, while narcissism is associated with higher happiness. So maybe it depends on your definition of "asshole".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:01 AM
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Assholes tend to be pretty unhappy people for it, and lead miserable lives. It's all short-term benefits and then being shafted in the long run, you might be right about short term vs long term, I'll have to see if I can find any research on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:56 AM
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we're coming at this from different values. You have an intrinsic sense of morality and I don't, I'm just thinking of this in terms of "economics".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:50 AM
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The average or below average guys that are desperate for sex almost never succeed That's fair, this only works for attractive guys that can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:43 AM
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acting like a fuckboy helps you get women that are receptive to fuckboys. Sure, but if I just want sex, I don't care what type of woman I'm dating really. Most self-respecting women that have any shred of intelligence aren't receptive to fuckboys don't think this is true, but even if it is, I'm not trying to appeal to "most women", just the ones that are open to casual sex. My point is: acting like a fuckboy is the easiest way for an (attractive) guy to get laid, so these men will continue actin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:41 AM
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Exactly, but why wouldn't they? Men reward this type of behaviour. TRP definitely warns you about women doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:26 AM
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Maybe, why?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:41 PM
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Bet you're fun at parties...
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:07 AM
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E.g. what if you meet a chick on Tinder / at a bar, get to talking, and she says "I'm an X student at Y college", while I teach Z at Y college. Proceed or no?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:25 PM
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Chill dude, I'm not talking about "use your power to influence any student to sleep with you". I'm talking about sleeping with chicks who may happen to be students at the university at I teach (not in my department, not under my supervision, we didn't meet through university, etc). From my perspective, it shouldn't matter what our day jobs are, though obviously others feel differently, hence why I am asking what women I should rule out to protect myself.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:24 PM
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Clearly banging your own students is not a good idea. My question is if it's alright to bang students in "other colleges or departments", or whether this could end badly too.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:52 PM
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Obviously my own students are a big no-no. You reckon avoid all students on campus (even if I have no academic contact with them)?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:41 PM
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It does, thanks for your help!
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:29 PM
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I know. What counts as "shitting where you eat" in this scenario?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:24 PM
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Absolute fuckin legend. Waiting for it to get pulled down, but hoping you prove me wrong
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:31 AM
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Yep, definitely won't get banned for posting about dating 20-year-olds...
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:22 AM
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Think you misunderstood my post. I don't need to know how to attract women - I need to know how to fuck with younger women while keeping myself safe from sexual harassment allegations, since I could easily be accused of such a thing if I'm not careful.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:20 AM
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Okay, not sure if that could still go badly though. I see some universities now ban all relationships between students and faculty (e.g. Penn)
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:39 AM
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Lol. The point is I want to not shit where I eat, without limiting my dating pool to post-wall hags
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:38 AM
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No, why
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:34 AM
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Tbh I can't blame her tho. I would (encourage my girl to) do it for that kinda money
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:41 AM
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👏 THIS 👏 IS 👏 WHY 👏 YOU 👏 DON'T 👏 COMMIT 👏 TO 👏 MODERN 👏 WOMEN 👏
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:40 AM
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This is the true woman red pill. Your colleague is plating her fiance so hard
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:34 AM
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hanging out with said friends And you initiate these hangouts via your plate? e.g. "come bowling Friday night, bring your friends" a playful suggestion What does this mean? Three of my many threesomes OH SHIET WE GOT A POOSY SLAYER OVER HERE
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:21 AM
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Overall, Talk to her friends IRL. Group hangouts make it more casual. Gauge their interest and say you find them interesting and like to know them better. I suppose you can do this with any female friends of friends you have - doesn't have to be friends of a plate (though that would help with preselection / reputation / etc)
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:04 AM
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Legend, thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:03 AM
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old plate of mine got into an LTR and I asked her to introduce me to some friends Yo that's a good one too, if she goes exclusive with another guy you can ask for a "referral"
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:02 AM
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Thanks for the offer Harambe
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:29 AM
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Nice dude. Personally I don't use social media, so how else could one establish a "direct line of communication"? Sounds like I need to work on my sex game too haha I ended up dropping her and plating her hotter friend why not both tho?
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:28 AM
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Cool, so let them do the kiss-and-tell. Then how do you get this Hang out with her friends and get their numbers. to happen? E.g suppose I met her online / via cold approach and she's not in my social circle, so I may not know her friends. Could just invite her out sometime and ask her to bring friends along? Her friends would come to me first So I guess this is the ideal - your girl talks you up and her friends make themselves available to you. But I suppose you can't always rely on this happen…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:26 AM
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I have good frame but not sure about SMV
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:45 AM
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How do you approach this with your plates?
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:40 AM
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Got catfished a little but hey, she was already at my house and I was horny, so... Ain't it cruel that fat/uggo girls suck dick the best
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:56 AM
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Minox is a vasodilator - it widens your blood vessels. If you have inactive / underactive hair follicles, it will increase hair growth by pumping more nutrients to them. So it depends if your eyebrows are thin because (a) you don't have many hair follicles; or (b) your follicles aren't doing their job. In any case, I really wouldn't bother with eyebrows
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:29 AM
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Read wayyy too many horror stories about it man. Look it up. I would avoid fucking with your hormones unless you absolutely know what you're doing
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:23 AM
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Dude no-one gives a fuck about your thin eyebrows ahaha
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:22 AM
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Make it disciplined. Make a schedule of when you will go out to socialise (e.g. every Friday and Saturday night), and set yourself goals to achieve (e.g. talk to 1 guy -> talk to 3 guys -> talk to 1 woman). As in the gym, it's about progressive overload.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:29 AM
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Next time try inviting him to an actual event or something. As I say, no point burning bridges. Doing something like If we ever stumble into each other again, I wonder if I should just tell me that our friendship is over for good is going full retard. Just move on and stop trying to initiate contact, but stop being so bitter about it. Maybe one day he'll reach out to you again
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:16 AM
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Got laid once off Tinder with a fatty. If you have really good pics and good text game, you can probably clean up. Personally, I hate texting and there are no good pics of me in existence, so it's a waste of time. Most girls are there for validation so you gotta be real good at filtering the wheat from the chaff
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:21 AM
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Don't worry man, not all of us have such a superiority complex. Honestly what you say don't matter that much. If she wanna fuck, it'll happen, otherwise it won't. Just be witty, daring, etc. Don't overthink it. The first thing that comes to mind is probably fine (assuming you've internalised TRP).
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:18 AM
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Wow, what a big man with your swear words. Did I hurt your feewings
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:15 AM
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Yup this is the sheep that Millenials / Gen Z'ers have become. Just move on
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:14 AM
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If you're banging her, you can't be orbiting. You've landed
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:13 AM
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I don't respond to racist epithets Okay snowflake.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:11 AM
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No point burning bridges man. And I was staying here the whole time and not even once did he ask me to meet up. I have the feeling that he thinks he can just ignore me and take up our friendship whenever he wants(if he ever wants). Because I really feel left behind by him. I was there for him when he needed me, but he wasn't when I needed him. Did you actually ask him for help / advice / company / anything during this time? It sounds like you're making no effort in this "friendship" and expectin…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:10 AM
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When you start spending large amounts of time on/with/texting her, or do her favours, without her wetting your dick. What are your intentions if not "fucking or trying to plate" ?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:06 AM
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I am cautioning men, not to lose the positive. Okay but this puts her on a pedestal is not what I'd call positive. My post, is about how you should manage yourself. Ok bro, but this is askTRP, not tellTRP. You broke the first rule of askTRP (check sidebar)
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:03 AM
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Love Motivation - when a man loves a woman, he puts her on a pedestal, imbues her with his values, and is judged by his mental image of her. Young healthy women represent our future. Love motivation gives purpose to your hard work. It soothes the pain that must be endured in the pursuit of excellence. It's a long lasting, even keel energy that will take you to the finish. It inspires long term thought. This is NOT what healthy love looks like. Sounds like BP ideation. Do you have a question?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:19 AM
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Challenge your beliefs. Why does having a social life make them superior? They're just succumbing to peer pressure and doing what's expected of them. Where do you think all their so-called "friends" are gonna be when they actually need some? Hot women honestly get very bored with their lives. Be the escape and you'll do well
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:17 AM
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Honestly, men these days are so hopeless that anyone can get into the top 20%. You're just starting the race further away from the finish line - doesn't mean you can't still get there. Look at fucking Danny DeVito - he's shorter and almost certainly uglier than you, but I betcha that dude slays The main problem is your self-limiting beliefs. And yes, ABSOLUTELY LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. They're all pink on the inside
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:14 AM
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NEVER DO FINASTERIDE. Fucks you up. Look up the side effects. I wouldn't even bother with minox because you have to keep using it for the rest of your life, else your hair will fall out again. Just shave it off and grow a beard (look into minoxbeards if you can't). As for ugliness, just get jacked and go for "caveman" look
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:07 AM
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Not me, but a good friend told me about the first time he cold approached - he said something like "you are the personification of absolute beauty"
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:25 AM
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Yep legal in my country (possibly questionable but anyway...)
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:34 AM
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Lolwut
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:08 AM
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On Tinder or what? Just make it look candid, e.g. you playing volleyball, not a gym/mirror selfie
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:59 AM
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Ignore. Better things to do with your time
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:52 AM
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I'm pretty bad at cold approach, but I fear that using Tinder would cause me to put less (or no) effort into it, so I wouldn't develop my approach skills at all. Honestly I have no concept of how good-looking I am haha
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:52 AM
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You shouldn't be "trying to make your move" This is another problem I have. It always feels like a huge jump going from semi-intimate touching (e.g. arm around waist) to kissing. How do I smoothen that transition?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:02 PM
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Don't think so. Frame is everything. And as Rollo says, you're always better off developing new prospects rather than fishing garbage out of the bin
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:58 PM
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Wow this totally blew up, thanks for the advice everyone!
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:55 PM
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Have you ever, in all the history of male advice to men on getting laid, ever seen or heard ANYTHING.... EVER.... that suggested hand stroking? Nope haha, see comment above. I started doing it to buy time while I summoned up the guts to kiss her
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:53 PM
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I would have thought so too (esp. since we had an ONS in the past), but from the conversation we had, it seemed like she had no idea... Anyway, that's probably an issue with me showing intent
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:52 PM
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full "rape crisis" mode Can you clarify what you mean by this?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:48 PM
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Awesome insights. Thanks man
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:41 PM
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My house is cleaner than any bitch
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:34 AM
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Yep, stroking hands is what I do when I want to kiss her but pussy out... Thanks for the solid advice tho
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:33 AM
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This shit looks dope. @mods can we put this on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:31 AM
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I have hard-nexted her (or she hard-nexted me I guess), so it's just for future situations where this might come up with another girl
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:55 AM
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Yeah I do need work on my frame. It was the way she said it, kinda like "wtf are you doing". I just didn't have a response and then everything kinda fell apart. So what would be something to say there?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:54 AM
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The whole point is do what you want to. By nature, plates will drop eventually. Start spinning some more
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:04 AM
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Never talk it out. Soft next for sure - you're in her frame and need to get back into yours
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:02 AM
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Go for it. It can only help with preselection (assuming she's not butt ugly)
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:00 AM
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Yeah I'm the same really. Only have FB and only use that for messaging / organising chit. Supposedly it's a good thing as it makes you more mysterious
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:00 AM
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Oof
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:56 AM
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Until you stop progressing. Not earlier
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:37 AM
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How did you find friends who were keen to do this? None of mine seem to be into game...
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:30 AM
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Both, ideally. If you have to pick, work on your weakest skill. Martial arts if you want to build your frame, dance if you want to develop a sexual vibe / seduction skills P.S. An extra bonus with dance is that you will probably meet more hot chicks
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:28 AM
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Yep fair point. I'm struggling with social circle - I've made quite a lot of friends recently, and think I'm fun to hang out with, but at the same time, no one ever invites me to parties. Not sure how to change that. And how do you get a steady flow of new girls into your social circle, and avoid it getting stagnant? i.e. keep it growing / changing
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:25 AM
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Next, and spin more teeth
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:43 AM
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Chicks (esp. the forward ones) are on Tinder / Bumble cause they want to get laid ASAP. Remember they have options, and the dude they're gonna fuck is the one who doesn't fuck around and gets to the point
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:20 PM
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Why the fuck are you on Bumble at 9 in the morning? Don't you have something better to do? And yes - invite her over that evening, or that day if it's a weekend
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:18 PM
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As soon as you get it I'd say - while they're still in a conversation with you. That way you can know if they gave you a legit number. Give them something to respond to later - else you can follow up in a couple hours. Attraction has an expiration date
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:16 PM
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Invite her over ASAP
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:14 PM
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You've got oneitis. Forget her. Move on to other chicks. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:11 PM
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Sidebar. Comfort tests
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:27 AM
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You're fucking dumb girls hahaha
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:16 AM
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Thanks bro, needed this
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:35 AM
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Whoops, meant this year - still in 2018 mode. Fair point tho
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:34 AM
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You do you man - who gives a shit what others think.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:32 AM
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Fuck who you want dude. I would say you're missing out tho - why do you care so much? Its tough for me to feel anything at all if I don't connect with her It's a hookup, not marriage - you don't have to feel anything except sexual desire. Don't conflate that with love / admiration I've seen a lot of STDs going around Wrap the fuck up yo. But honestly, if you don't want to fuck sluts, then don't. TRP is about shaping your life to be the way you want it. Nothing wrong with you - just different des…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:27 AM
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You need a mission dude. If you feel like you are "grinding myself down for the next 30 years until retirement and then 25 years of aging decline until I die", then you probably are. Find a greater purpose for your life and work towards it.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:22 AM
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You need a better gym. Full stop. If there are no alternatives, look at getting your own high-quality bar and weights for a home gym. Increasing the number of reps will not do what you want - look up "rep ranges".
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:13 AM
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Yes of course. Honestly I don't give two shits if things get awkward - it's just whether anything bad could happen from her / the clinic's POV
/r/askTRP16/02/19 09:25 AM
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Okay bro, just want to know if hitting on your dentist is a bad idea or not
/r/askTRP16/02/19 08:49 AM
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Just don't. Search "Donny" on the main subreddit. Trying to redpill your friends is a bad idea. TL;DR: your mate Mike's got oneitis, and this girl is now more important to him than you are. Any attempts from you are just gonna result in him despising you. As painful as it is, you need to let him suffer and discover that truth on his own.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:57 AM
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How do I escalate with a girl? If you're really clueless, look up the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. At some point you get a feel for it Do I need to show desire in her? Big yes. Sexual intent will get you far Touch her? Big yes Compliment her? No. If she's already naked on your cock, maybe How do I know that she is interested? IOIs. Refer to sidebar How do I arouse her? Game. Refer to sidebar Men are always ready to have sex, but what does a girl get wet from? What makes her horny? Dominant, attrac…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:51 AM
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If you've changed noticeably since then, you might be in for a shot. Otherwise you'll certainly be in the friendzone
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:39 AM
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Speak exactly as much as necessary, and no more.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:37 AM
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Quiet and mysterious = sexy
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:36 AM
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I think you misunderstand orbiting. If you were orbiting her, she would be lapping it up and would have no reason to "kick you to the curb". Be more sexual with her, make yourself less available, flirt with other girls in your sports club in front of her, etc. That will get her hamster spinning
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:31 AM
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Don't bother - just stop engaging with her and move on. If she tells you she's interested then you can tell her
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:25 AM
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Of course. If nothing else, it's practice for Europe. Just hook up at hers / in public somewhere
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:23 AM
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Of course you do. Firstly, there is no one way to be "alpha" - it's a mindset and way of life, so there are different ways to realise it. Yeah, you got it tough, but we all do in different ways, and sulking doesn't help anyone. Firstly, realise you have physical advantages that other men will never be able to compete with, and secondly, you've already racked up twice as many lays as the average guy does in his entire life. Don't worry about the social stuff too much - it's mostly a mindset thing…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:22 AM
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As others have said, you'll never be satisfied if you are always looking for this ideal. Just enjoy the women that the world has to offer - if you find one worthwhile and she asks for your commitment, then AND ONLY THEN do you go LTR.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:45 AM
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No
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:43 AM
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drive to a dunkin donuts parking lot MY MAN. Fucking classy dude. Love it how do I escalate in a car? Bring a blanket. Pull over somewhere secluded. Sit in the backseat next to her and put the blanket over both of you. Start chatting, arm around her and then go for the kiss. Once she starts kissing you, pull her onto your lap so she's straddling you, start groping her, etc........ you can take it from here. Also, you can lean the front seats forward to give yourselves more space. Also how do I a…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:42 AM
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Sidebar dude. Practice talking to chicks until you don't feel a thing. For now, get over yourself - her tingles aren't gonna last a whole week, so capitalise on it now.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:35 AM
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Yep, this is still one of the hardest things for me to accept - Dark Triad types are really attractive to women. Still blows my mind. "Stop talking and fuck me" Wow, I would not have put up with the attitude on this one. You need to "punish" her for disrespecting you - she'll eat that shit up. On a side note, work on your dirty talk game haha. Good shit tho
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:33 AM
1

Sweet as dude, that's what this sub is here for. Let us know how it goes
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:29 AM
2

Okay, that changes things. I'd say punishment (e.g. no contact) is only effective when the person being punished has a clear idea of what they did wrong. Hit her up tomorrow (edit: or whenever you are over your anger towards her) and explain clearly and calmly what it was that disrespected you (and why that's an issue. If she is totally remorseful and caves, offers to make it up to you, gives BJ etc - great, problem solved. Otherwise, feel free to kick her out and go NC until you feel she has le…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:44 AM
1

Rereading your post, it seems like she doesn't even know that she disrespected you - is that the case? ​
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:22 AM
1

Keep spinning until you find one that you just don't want to let drop
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:19 AM
1

Don't kid yourself man. We all have regrets about shit we didn't do in our lives - men included. At that point, you need to have rock solid frame and calmly explain why she made the best choice.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:18 AM
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On your second point, if this is a serious relationship, just sit her down and calmly explain why what she did was disrespectful. Make her apologise and make it up to you, but remain level-headed. Remember abundance and outcome independence - don't be afraid to pull the plug if she is not fully remorseful. For a plate I wouldn't bother - just next her.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:11 AM
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Soft next = don't initiate for a certain period of time (often a week) Hard next = no contact Just go out and game other women, and respond exactly when you want to respond. No sooner, no later. Once you're done being angry at her, I guess. NC from you will just get her hamster going
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:09 AM
5

"I don't", with shit-eating grin on your face. or along the same lines, "What makes you think I like you?"
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:04 AM
4

That's why TRP says text for logistics only. These days tho, I find some text flirting is necessary cause millennial / Gen Z women are glued to their phones
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:03 AM
3

This. Women with masculine features = more submissive
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:01 AM
1

Having lots of friends is a big tell for me. Apart from that, regularly posting pics of herself.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:54 AM
1

Move the fuck on and start spinning plates
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:52 AM
1

Just ghost dude. If she gets in touch, try to hint that you've been seeing other girls. Not explicitly, but in a way that gets her hamster going.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:51 AM
1

For most people, it does. Your social life is 90% under your control however - you get out roughly what you put in. Bars, meetups, work, parties, mutual friends are a great way to build social circles post-college.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:44 AM
2

Do it man. Be realistic, but do it. Surrounding yourself with others who also believe in the mission is an important step.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:42 AM
3

Yeah, cause I'm not a cheap-ass. Who cares dude. Just take her somewhere else afterwards and tease her about paying for that. In my experience, in these post-feminist times a lot of younger women will actually feel guilt and offer to pay for the next thing. (Yay equality!)
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:40 AM
2

Who gives a shit bro - just enjoy it. a) [game], b) [looks] and d) [status] are the traits that will get you casual sex.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:37 AM
9

There's consensus that keeping any sort of long-term arrangement (plate, FWB, LTR) with a woman requires some level of "beta-ness", so to speak. If you are 100% Chad, most girls will realise you're never gonna commit to them, and cut their losses by dumping you. Being more vulnerable can be a good thing if you want to keep her around - sure, Robo-Chad is good for a fling, but even for a guy they only fuck once a week, they want to connect on some kind of emotional level. Just try and strike the …
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:32 AM
2

Don't be so stingy dude. There's a difference between being her betabux and spending a little cash on a girl you like. That said, there will come a point where most plates just want you for your money, at which point you should drop it like a hot potato.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:27 AM
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Women like this exist, but they are VERY few and far between. You have to find them young before they've ridden the CC, and possibly train them to be this way. Sounds like you're religious, so church could be a good place to find suitable girls. that thinks sexually only to me Come on, this is a pipe dream. You can't control her sexuality - you just have to be her best option at all times. If you're new, consult the sidebar. Start spinning plates until you have plenty of experience with women, a…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:23 AM
1

Self-improvement's always good - gym, practicing game, etc. What are you studying? It could be worth working on anything that could help you in a future career - even a part time job. If in doubt, sidebar
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:19 AM
1

As others have commented, I think you are seriously desperate. You need to fix this first and foremost, as it will show through in everything you do. If you want to move out of Adelaide, then do it! Just make sure you have a legitimate desire and reason to do so. Chasing puss is not a good reason (unless you're living in a town <100). In a city that size, there's gotta be lots of fresh young pussy - you just need to work out where to find it. Cold approach should always be fun and light-hearted,…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:23 PM
3

To clarify, I mean allowing other people to walk all over you, and putting others' needs above your own. If you want to do this, you might have self-esteem issues
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:58 AM
3

Probably best off going to one of the fitness subs to ask this type of question
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:56 AM
3

Spin plates + mission
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:55 AM
2

Then of course you did the right thing. Keep up that mindset.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:55 AM
5

Think less and do more. It's the hardest thing, but you just have to push through it. Set yourself small achievable goals which lead you towards those bigger end goals
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:54 AM
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It's not about treating her like shit - no one likes that, obviously (except damaged goods, as someone pointed out). It's just about being confident and not allowing anyone to walk over you (which to a beta might seem to be "treating her like shit")
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:52 AM
1

Sidebar. Always keep spinning plates until a) you're Chad b) you find a girl worth committing to And don't be so thirsty - it will show.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:49 AM
1

I can't join many clubs and societies Excuses. If this is important to you, you need to make time for it. Apart from cold approach, that is. Which is pretty ineffective, tbh. It's extremely effective - you're not doing it right. Keep working on that. Please, this is my last chance in life to be around young, smart, cute girls. Patently false. Look at some of the guys on this forum in their 40s and 50s, who are still slaying early-20-somethings like it's nobody's business. Bet you some of them ha…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:47 AM
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Did you want to go? If no, you did the right thing. And stop worrying so much about whether or not you "did the right thing" - just do what you want to.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:41 AM
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Wrong mindset. You live a badass life, and do what you want. If you want to talk to a girl cause you find her sexy, then you do it. She can either see your value and decide to tag along for the ride, or if she doesn't - well, that's her loss, no hard feelings.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:40 AM
1

Yep, don't push it too hard basically. If she feels that she's your only option, then you've lost the relationship. Go radio silent for now - maybe invite her over again in a week or two / once her exams are done. If she is interested she WILL reach out to you.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:19 AM
2

Nope, that's way too needy. She'll come around if she's interested. Otherwise, continue to game other women
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:11 AM
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Also be super careful about spermjacking
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:39 AM
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Alpha = do what you want Beta = supplicate to others So the "alpha move" here would be to do exactly what you want with your semen. If you really want to limit your sexual options so you can splash it all on this one girl, then do so. I don't think that's really what you want, though.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:39 AM
1

Nah, monk mode is totally devoting yourself to self-improvement indefinitely. It's good for when you're starting out, want to raise your SMV quickly and may not have the energy / skill / etc to game women with much success
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:33 AM
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I’m not gonna give specifics Yup, don't doxx yourself. I feel like I’ve achieved industrial level IDGAF-attitude and mastered frame. Sounds like you've still got a chip on your shoulder tbh - if you really have, good for you, but then why would you feel the need to say this. life generally feels really tedious You need to find your mission. Sounds like you've improved yourself - congrats, you've reached a point where 90% of guys will never be. Now you need to find something to occupy your life: …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:25 AM
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Kick her out. Or better, fuck your plate and leave the girl from bar out - guarantee she'll come running back for some action
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:14 AM
2

You sound thirsty. Just go and talk to them - not because you need sex, but because you want to talk to them, and see how it goes from there. Standard game applies etc
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:12 AM
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Chill dude, you just failed that shit test. Totally possessive, which shows you have no abundance -> unattractive. Best response is to be totally unmoved - your suggested alternative response sounds good. Just work on yourself, start gaming other women and you'll realise she's nothing special - then you won't be so possessive when you know you have other options.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:10 AM
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Start reading up the sidebar and TRP posts on game. Talk to her about music, pop culture, travel, her passions, her family, etc. Talking about the "boring stuff" can be fine as long as you do it in a cocky, funny, teasing kind-of way.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:06 AM
3

In general, letting her walk all over you. No one likes doormats. If you'd do anything / let her do anything / treat you in any way that you wouldn't allow from a guy friend (or that Chad wouldn't allow), then you're a NiceGuy™.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:37 AM
2

Don't think this was a shit test - she probably just wanted to know. You'll know when you first get one as it will probably knock you off guard. I haven't really received any yet either, so I think they only come once you reach a certain level of attractiveness, where girls need to test your mettle and make sure you're not a beta in disguise.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:26 AM
1

I'm constantly lying to her No need to lie - just don't give her the whole truth either. If you get the "are you seeing other girls" shit-test, the best response is A&A. Option 3 is easily the best for you. You say you have only recently gotten successful, so you are best off continuing to spin plates and work on yourself. Don't even think about an LTR or OLTR until you are Superchad and can find a girl who is 100% worthy. Options 1 and 2 will just result in you falling into her frame, then she'…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:15 AM
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