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Yea I'm possibly up for it. I was actually going to reach out to chuck for a phone call. So you know whatever is clever. I thought about the RP advice.. the 3 months.. I joined RP at 6ish years. Which puts me somewhere between 18-21 months. January 2019 to today is .. 12+9.. 21 months. Looks like I'm older than I thought.. Doesn't change anything for me, just means I'm more autistic than I thought heheh.
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 09:25 PM
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Hey man, it's nice to hear from another brother in the group. That's new advice. Perhaps you would like to help me navigate my experience and growth through commenting? I mean I understand there are guidelines, and there are 'grounds' which are basically nothing. As forgiveness reigns supreme.
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 09:06 PM
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Afternoon u/rocknrollchuck, tl;dr I'm in process of divorce but am not trying to be aggressive. I'm still open to learning why I can't build an emotional connection, because she and Chuck are telling me this is where I need to focus. If they agree, it's worth a consideration. An emotional connection for my wife is not about me listening to her pains about the nail in her head. It's her listening to my pains about the nail in my head. Additionally Chuck, has some claims of me being a nice guy, ha…
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 08:57 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck Update So Saturday I volunteered with some buddies. That afternoon we had a conversation about my vision for the marriage just to make sure we were on the same page, we were. She initiated intimacy though I could tell she felt dutiful so I rejected. I want her to not feel obligated to me, and I told her that. Earlier she had told me that she felt like all she could do realistically was cook one meal and clean one room a day. It felt low bar, but I'm not interested in the quality…
/r/RPChristians18/09/20 04:48 PM
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OYS #36 – month 19STATS: 6'3" | 210# 17% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 5RM ~ SQ: 240#, Incline BP: 205#, ROW: 190#, OHP: 135#, DL: 215# READING : Bible READ: whole sidebar RPC METRICS: Evangelism, Fellowship , Home ProjectsBible Study 9, Lifting/Running 9 , Parenting 9, Quiet Time 9, Home Projects 7, Fellowship 7, Diet 8, Mission 10, Scriptural Memory 9, Career 9, Relationship 8, Evangelism 7 I de-prioritized the garage, I'll commit to that to get my home score up. I de-prioritized fellowship, yet I still ha…
/r/RPChristians18/09/20 04:46 PM
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What I understood: Im doing Captain things but am in-congruent, because I'm too redpill and not enough humanity. Listen more to create emotional connection Question: Is her on board with the mission or is she doing it to comply. Her fear is her fear We aren't working together Im doing me she is doing her plan; sounds like two captains. She wants sympathy and care and not a nail. If I think that I will do contingent upon if she does.. then there is a power dynamic. Otherwise there is not. Slowing…
/r/RPChristians15/09/20 07:30 PM
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OYS #35 – month 19 STATS: 6'3" | 210# 17% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 5RM ~ SQ: 240#, Incline BP: 205#, ROW: 190#, OHP: 135#, DL: 215# READING : Bible READ: whole sidebar RPC METRICS: Evangelism, Relationship , FellowshipBible Study 10, Lifting/Running 10 , Parenting 8, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 7, Fellowship 6, Diet 8, Mission 10, Scriptural Memory 10, Career 10, Relationship 5, Evangelism 4 Decreased my 5k time by 8 min and improved my form to reduce pain and fatigue. Lost some strength and made commi…
/r/RPChristians09/09/20 05:42 PM
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What I read in that post: She needs a captain and guidance to know how to be of value. i.e "I value you for making our home nice, great food and the way you nurture our children. This is why I want you in my life" Let me know if that matches what you read It's written and articulated that we agree in what I aim for her to contribute. Rewards and distance are used when I see the value I want from her. Though what you said isn't wrong, "she sees her husband eager to put more and more distance". Th…
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 03:44 AM
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Barometer : Your woman will find every and any chinks in your armor and continually exploit them until she is satisfied that you are as strong as you think you are. She is the greatest teacher of your bull and ego because she knows you better than anyone. Consider this door squabble a real life example on how she will continually test your frame. It never stops. The captain never gets a break. I'm confused, by your two statements ( that she isn't my barometer, yet she is going to be there to cal…
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 03:20 AM
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OYS #34 – month 18 STATS: 6'3" | 204# 16% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 5RM ~ SQ: 280#, Incline BP: 205#, ROW: 190#, OHP: 160#, DL: 215# READING : Investment and Real Estate books, Bible READ: whole sidebar RPC METRICS: Parenting, Fellowship, Diet Bible Study 10, Lifting/Running 8, Parenting 8, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 9, Fellowship 4, Diet 7, Mission 9, Scriptural Memory 8, Career 10, Relationship 5, Evangelism 2 Evangelism : Not prioritized, in the past I would do this passively. In order for this to c…
/r/RPChristians15/08/20 07:31 PM
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OYS #33 – month 17 STATS: 6'3" | 204# 16% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 5RM ~ SQ: 235#, Incline BP: 195#, ROW: 165#, OHP: 155#, DL: 205# Lifting is getting back to pre-covid numbers. Proud of that. READING : Software books, NMMNG, Bible / READ: whole sidebar, let me know if you want a list PROGRESS FROM LAST POST: Back at it. Aiming to get back to my March Numbers SQ305/BP215/OHP155 by August. Aiming for SQ405/BP315/OHP225/DL405 by December.I already hit the OHP August goal. I probably will do the BP august …
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 04:22 PM
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It's difficult for men to identify covert contracts so I ask myself, "What do I expect her to do that she isn't?" And "Why do I think she ought to do it?" If my answer is she should X because I Y or want Y or deserve Y. Then we have a covert contract. If my answer is she should X because she said Y, because she agreed to Y, or she committed to do Y. Then it's not covert, nor is it a contract. Rather it's her opinion and ambition which she is entitled to. See I am making the mistake of being depe…
/r/RPChristians21/06/20 05:21 PM
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In additional reflection, id like to fast and dive deeper to strengthen the spiritual man and kill the flesh. It may not resolve my frustrations, though it will give me spiritual strength to walk in the light of Christ. This is my cross. I take it up. It is inaccurate to project my frustrations externally as it is a wickedness of spirit, an area to kill the flesh. I don't believe the trigger will be removed, but rather my spirit may be stronger so it does not harm me. U/rocknrollchuck
/r/RPChristians21/06/20 05:01 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck I appreciate you dropping by for your input. I admire the barometer of Galatians. I'll practice that and see where I am. Love,Joy,Peace ,Patience,Kindness,Goodness,Faithfulness,Gentleness,Self-control These are good measures of character. I think you were astute to see that it's a character 'flaw' that my mission is lacking. It matches my focus on this activity in NMMNG. I am willing to take a step back, even if it looks like 'mommy tell me what's wrong and how to fix it', if it…
/r/RPChristians20/06/20 11:15 PM
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OYS #32 – month 16 STATS: 6'3" | 204# 17% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 5RM ~ SQ: 205#, Incline BP: 185#, ROW: 135#, OHP: 135#, DL: 205# Back at it. Aiming to get back to my March Numbers SQ305/BP215/OHP155 by August. Aiming for SQ405/BP315/OHP225/DL405 by December. READING: Re-reading x3 NMMNG, RPC METRICS: Diet, Fellowship, Relationship Bible Study 10, Lifting 10, Parenting 10, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 10, Fellowship 7, Diet 5, Mission 9, Scriptural Memory 10, Career 10, Relationship 8, Evangelism 9 So…
/r/RPChristians20/06/20 03:17 PM
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Perhaps introduce texting instead of midday twirls. When you come home from work just do one thing sassy and aggressive. Just one, maybe just a butt squeeze.
/r/RPChristians07/03/20 01:42 PM
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I'm listening to real estate sales guys. But I'm not in the field or entrepreneurship. I'm a corporate guy spreading his wings. I was trying to encourage you, then walk through your trail.
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 11:49 PM
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I split out the specifics into my 5-3-1 year goals and tasks. I'm anal... I mean analytical when it comes to this. Spreadsheets apps the whole 9.
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 09:07 PM
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Ahh understood. I recall reading that a while back. Good for you man. Keep it up! I'll be watching! ​ I imagine weight loss has some complexity. Thought of swimming with the diet?
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 09:05 PM
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As I understand a cuck is one who knows their spouse is cheating and celebrates it. lol. So no that is not you.. obviously.. You don't have kids. That's fine. You didn't multiply so what. You just like ready made homes! :) You are taking care of all of these psudo-orphans and that is valuable and appreciated. Seems like the dynamic on how you are so present for your first set of step kids is complex. But that means you have more wisdom to share, so thank you. I'll have to go through your history…
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 09:04 PM
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That was a quick reply, must be bored at work like me. Coronavirus affected me too. I'm supposed to be out of state and I'm here at my desk. ​ It just seemed like an unnecessary confrontation to me. Seems like you made the right call though, I can see that in the additional details you posted. I respect and appreciate your opinion on the daughter situation. I'm sure they thought it was an unnecessary conflict as well. I have been a good boy and not been like, "Woman now do you see why I didn't w…
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:53 PM
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That's amazing. Have fun, don't forget the littles love tickles. I was asking though, how many kids do you have. I know of the two sons
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:38 PM
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which enid book?
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:22 PM
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yea, an artist for family mission statement. I started to do a family crest and values on a poster. Never got around to it, let me know how it goes! What do you do outside the house to keep you from validation (u/rocknrollchuck your in my ear lol). Not sure where you are in map or dread or whatever but solo dude time, or solo awesome stuff time is vital. If you check out the stages of dread you will see (unitl they get stupid), that alot of it is a roadmap for you to do you and build you. I find…
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:20 PM
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Memorization : John 11:35, it simply says, “Jesus wept.” I bet if you can evangelize and pray more you can bring up more of your other stats. Pray at events through the day. Evangelize by challenging yourself to do something uncomfortable that you know would be in the right in public. Bonus points if you tell those around you that you did it for God.
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:15 PM
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Hey man, with scriptural memory do you want to increase that? with business, are you reading sales and listening to business growing podcasts. Mindset and encouragement go a long way. Lifting - is dip your weight plus what you let hang? I've never seen it listed this way. Good job mate.
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:12 PM
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good job man, did you mean to say 155 squat? What program you running to get your lifts up? Pick a day once every other week and hang with your buddy. Just make it a thing.
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:08 PM
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How many kids?
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 08:06 PM
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U /rocknrollchuck Here you go: Mission Umar_Neo presented knowledge that makes it easier for billions of people to move closer to God. He actually helped billions of people take that step. His prayers became almost legendary in the eyes of the people. His joy was seeing the face of light in others eyes. He produced children as a way to see that light grow through decades. As a wealthy man, he gave all of his wealth to uplift others and God replenished him relentlessly. He will be remembered not …
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 07:55 PM
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Thanks Chuck. Mrs. Neo didn't sleep the entire time she was with her sister. There was alot of depression and animosity going on. My daughter didn't need to be exposed to that. What made you think keeping her back was a bad idea? I appreciate the perspective. As for the faking the funk stuff, yes. Bible reading mentors, and uncles. That will be this week. Thanks for calling me on it. Valiation seeking is in fact what it is. And you decomposed it to being validated by God which I can appreciate. …
/r/RPChristians05/03/20 07:46 PM
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I posted, but my numbers on it won't change. My OYS is my 3RM. Yesterday I threw up Squat 265 2,2,2 Incline Bench 210 2,2,2 (I had been on 200x3x2 for like a week) instead of deloading I just wen to 205. Then I went to 210. Row (crap don't ask) couldn't even pull 200 for some reason. Dips irrelevant pull ups irrelevant
/r/RPChristians04/03/20 05:04 PM
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OYS 31# - month 12 Stats: 6'3" | 198# 13% | 8y 3 kids 3RepMax: SQ 305# Incline-BP 200# Row 205# (+5) OHP 155# Reading : "Never Split the Difference" Chris Voss RPC Metrics - Social, Diet, Sex Bible Study: 8; Lifting: 10; Parenting 8; Quiet Time 8; Home Projects 9; Fellowship/Social 4 ; Diet: 6 ; Mission 8 ; Scriptural Memory 7 ; Career 8; Relationship/sex/kino 6; Evangelism 7 The point of this post is to own my failures, challenges, and define course corrections for myself with feedback from the…
/r/RPChristians04/03/20 04:51 PM
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double posting mrp? I used to do that. ​ I responded on mrp. But again keep it up bro! I'm making progress towards 1000
/r/RPChristians04/03/20 04:13 PM
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I'm being who I am, and if the marriage works like that, great! If it doesn't, great! Who I was, created anger at myself. So we focus on building a new me. There is no strategy, roadmap (aside from the MAP/DREAD which is more like a toolbox then a map), destination; it's an adventure and you never know where you will end up. That's how this experience has been for me. I've seen guys who were arrogant, but often they had the latent anger you were talking about and burned down everything to prove …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 04:03 PM
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Yes. But as I'm sure you plan to see this rp through. All of your frustrations will subside. It's as if someone told you that to be strong you need spinach. Everyone is unemployed because they are weak. Then you learn about the gym and your like wtf. Eventually you are too busy getting strong and building a habit to be angry. Eventually you just become mad that you never realized the sign above the door said gym. And the time you could have been more productive. Follow the map, don't create chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 11:18 PM
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Abundance for me comes from having sales options. I don't have to buy, I don't have to make an offer, I don't even have to do a pitch; I just need to see that there is potential. For me this is a double edge sword because it triggers my validation, but it keeps me feeling pretty abundant. For work I keep myself open to get calls from recruiters and I just see how much they can offer me. For women, I just smile and speak first and then the flirtatious smile is usually enough. That can be a slippe…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 09:15 PM
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This is refreshing to read. I remember this feeling. ​ FUCK YOU for teaching me to doubt myself and my desires and my motives. This .. this.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 09:01 PM
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Great, but kinda fucked up breakthrough! Your mom told you not to marry me, but you were headstrong and stupid.” Not sure that's a pressure flip, but it sounds like she likes it rough. She wants you to be aggressive, strong, bossy and demeaning. That's why she wants you to whip your son. She is likely bossed/fucked lol just joking by A-Type executives at work and feels like it is manly since all her co-workers are men. You on the other hand like to be kind. I'd say you have left behind alot of n…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 08:52 PM
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That rejection hurts because she is rejecting you. Don't take it personally, just know it's all one equation and stick at the work. I won't say use it for motivation because as you know it's the wrong type of motivation, it't the motivation that will feed your need for validation. So just say to yourself oh, I get it, I'll still TELL you in a fun way to blow me tomorrow and go work on that 1k# so you don't lose. Oh, by the way, your fat lololol. Keep it up bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 08:34 PM
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Understood
/r/RPChristians03/03/20 07:59 PM
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I'll try the techniques, I like them. Especially the think it through and walk it to the end. Reminds me of something I learned about managing anxiety. I'll practice these.
/r/RPChristians03/03/20 06:54 PM
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chuck, I don't have a response about Mission. I would just DEER. As for the kids, I like the approach. I can easily do that and stay at it, I can get her on board so I like that. I am surprised that this could work because these awesome little rugrats are formidable lolol. I'll let you know how it goes. Starts tonight. FYi, I'm back in the bed as I missed my wife and bed as of Fridayish.
/r/RPChristians03/03/20 06:53 PM
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So I believe that there can still be scenarios where if we really wanted to, we men could live lives where the women in them still run on this natural born desire that derives from the mystery of the unknown you create and maintain. You could do this either from continuously keeping one women in the dark about who you are, or you could, over time, keep multiple women in the dark by switching whenever things started to get too familiar (playing the field). ​ This resounds clear. It validates what…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 06:43 PM
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Are you going to have time enough to get ready at this point? Yea I'll be fine. It's not an ego competition, it's for the love of it. My goal is to find my time and beat it next time. ​ So what DO you want, exactly? What should I do differently?" That's the plan. ​ We all want to be seen by others as attractive, no doubt - it's human nature. But when you focus on it as much as it seems like you are, then it becomes a Validation issue. Addiction to feeling attractive is a Validation issue, becaus…
/r/RPChristians03/03/20 06:10 PM
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I thought this might have been you trying to bluebeta prepare yourself for when you have to write it for real!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 05:56 PM
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Probably a member who lost a bet, right /u/redirectedfs?? lolol
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 05:53 PM
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HAHAHAH Yea...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 05:52 PM
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My techniques on productivity. Keep a list of tasks, journal to help me identify more tasks, create daily and weekly habits to balance things. Prioritize and figure how long you take for the most important tasks every three days. Best thing I read about getting her out your head is fill your head with your passions. That's all I got. Hope it helps.
/r/RPChristians01/03/20 02:34 AM
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Ideal job is that one that you like the comp and responsibilities. Where would you like to be?
/r/RPChristians28/02/20 09:07 PM
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Python is lucrative! Keep at it! Have you picked your next ideal job yet from indeed? Why is being honest difficult?
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 06:33 PM
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I get your mission. I get where you are trying to go.. but what do you really want? Like who are you going to be in 2021, besides the loser to Umar?
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 03:46 PM
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Seems like your killing it, what is there to own to grow in?
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 03:43 PM
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You sound pretty solid, what do you want to work on? Cursing and anger are self frustrations. What you mad at yourself about? Sovereignty isn't something I've heard argued. You have a belief, isn't that good enough for you?
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 03:42 PM
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How's python? You a developer at current job? What's the challenge with women?
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 03:39 PM
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OYS 30# - month 12 Stats: 6'3" | 198# 13% | 8y 3 kids 3RepMax: SQ 305# Incline-BP 200# Row 205# (+5) OHP 155# Reading : "Never Split the Difference" Chris Voss Podcast: "Respect the Grind" Stefan Aarnio Watching: Doctor Who RPC Metrics - Diet, Fellowship, Sex Bible Study: 10; Lifting: 8; Parenting 8; Quiet Time 8; Home Projects 9; Fellowship/Social 5 ; Diet: 6 ; Mission 10 ; Scriptural Memory 9 ; Career 8; Relationship/sex/kino 5; Evangelism 7 The point of this post is to own my failures, challe…
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 03:18 PM
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Hahaha yes. I'll be there under dog!!!
/r/RPChristians21/02/20 09:35 PM
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I read the links, of u/man_in_the_world and all the links that were in that link and those sub links. I'm humbled. I don't say this lightly, and I look to you respectfully for affirmation or redirection given your wisdom on the subject. I think I'm addicted to the validation of being attractive. I've also reached out to u/resolutions316 to see how he has matured over the year given that advice. I have more to say, but I want to take some more time to reflect on this before I respond fully.
/r/RPChristians21/02/20 02:40 AM
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Join us skim! I need another victim
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 03:18 PM
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Lol
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 03:17 PM
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Incremental targets lol. And keep the 1000# target
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:31 AM
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Yea man
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:29 AM
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You know we are working towards lifts and not fat right?
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:25 AM
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Yea I can do that! That would be fun! Let's make that a 950# target!
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:21 AM
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Wow old school u/rocknrollchuck.. I assumed you have been through our journey, but I've never read that far back. It appears even angry you can go to pound town 😂. I hear you though. It's a relative statement.
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:16 AM
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I don't usually gamble, but I like the idea of putting some skin in the game. How about...$100 to u/rocknrollchuck charities.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 11:11 PM
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3RepMax: SQ 305# Incline-BP 200# Row 200# OHP 155# I am at a distance because I don't deadlift. Try not to think of it as a excuse, but rather further humiliation when you lose. Don't worry I'll forgive your weakness, because that is what we do. Forgive.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 11:10 PM
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OYS 29# - month 11 Stats: 6'3" | 198# 13% | 8y 3 kids 3RepMax: SQ 305# Incline-BP 200# Row 200# OHP 155# So I'm writing this post different than those in the past. I'm writing specifically for feedback on areas where I'm facing challenges. So I'll be leaving out some of my usual details. Had the flu for two weeks, and hitting the gym I can only lift 85% of my usual 3rm, therefore I'm deloading. Even still I'm exhausted after the lift. I haven't done any cycling, swimming or running. I'm also try…
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 08:18 PM
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5 miles a day? I would think the fat would melt off at that rate! I've done some dating to get weight down, that's helped me to. Best wishes on your son's travel and your countdown. Take care of you first brother! Sounds like changes are coming, and I want to see that you have the quiet time and support system to catch you on 'those' days bro.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 06:47 PM
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Bro, I'll complete with you to the 1000# club. #accountability Game? As for sex, I'm glad you actually identified this. Alot of guys claim sex whenever they want, though I can't even imagine walking into her job pulling her into the bathroom and just getting it done; whenever I feel like it. Maybe once, maybe even monthly if I'm really OMS. But whenever feels a bit grandiose. I wonder what each guy means when they say that. I can have sex when I want, as long as she isn't really sick, in meeting…
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 06:44 PM
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Where are those blogs?
/r/RPChristians11/02/20 10:05 PM
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Hahahah Now I understand why you work so many hours.
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 01:43 AM
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Your not old enough to be uncle Ben
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 12:33 AM
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Welcome
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 12:32 AM
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For OHP an Olympic lifter told me that it's ok to bounce the weight to your chin and then push. This got my numbers up higher. For pull up, how much weight are you adding and how many reps? As for sex relieve her from the burden of figuring it out and own it as the captain. You can fix it man, I know you can. As for her not excited before sex and you too excited before sex. Stop the foreplay. Increase the all day flirtatiousness. If you are really excited, wait a few hours, then jump in like col…
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 12:32 AM
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I second the hit it in the morning, it's absolutely the best time for energy, variety, dominance, and immersion. You did Deer, but you also learned. Good job! Swap those carbs for protein and you'll likely lose quicker!
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 12:17 AM
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I'm happy and excited for you
/r/RPChristians30/01/20 12:13 AM
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The little I know about software, I know that each component or api needs to be testable. It must meet expectations again and again, on numerous levels. The data is defined by the api if done efficiently. And most importantly the api must provide actual business value. If you have the sidebar, how do you make it testable, or at the very least understand the value flow so you can adapt the data appropriately to support the api to deliver value? Without an intended measurable outcome, every data c…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 12:12 AM
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OYS #28 – month 11 STATS: 6'3" | 204# 15% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 3RM ~ SQ: 295#, Incline BP: 200#, ROW: 200#, OHP: 140#, I was going for 305 for two when the gym strong guy came over to stare at me lifting all those plates, I saw him on my way up on the second rep and started laughing and missed the rep. I'll get it Friday. It's nice to be in the 300s. I'm the one getting stares in the gym now, I didn't expect that. READING: Books for work RPC METRICS: Relationship, Memory, Evangelism Bible Study 10, …
/r/RPChristians23/01/20 02:29 PM
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Hey Chuck, Yeah for my son, I have general principles I want him to pick up I'm not holding him to milestones. The benefit to my employer for me staying is best articulated by them, though of only nominal concern to me. They want my skills, my knowledge of the platform, and my ability to call the contractors in thier stuff. Stating my intention to stay for educational purposes communicates a very real reason for me to be invested. It's important. It's like in RP when we tell the woman she is att…
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 10:15 PM
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Negotiate by opening. This is an interesting concept. Usually, especially with recruiting agencies, I'll say , "This sounds amazing, I think this might be something I'm looking for, to level set I'm looking for $200k/annual" then I wait for thier response. Sometimes they ask if I'll accept 120, other times they say we can do that do you have bonus expectations. Though the latter is rare. This happens on a frequent bases. Only one has led to an interview as the rest require relocating somewhere i…
/r/RPChristians18/01/20 10:45 PM
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Ok. I hear you. As I imagine ways to explore my mindset in greater detail, I am unsure of what steps would be taken to dig deeper. Until I can do that, all I can do is just hear you and reflect on it.
/r/RPChristians18/01/20 12:29 PM
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Most leads for jobs I get are 10-20k under my base currently. Leads above my base are apparently rare, so I'm telling all recruiters my target which is 20k+base. I apply to everything, sometimes I build my network, sometimes it's just email exchanges. Abundance is hard to maintain when every lead is below my target. My bosses boss is making promises that can't be kept. I will continue to be clear that new decisions are made and I support them because I don't argue with the master, in this situat…
/r/RPChristians17/01/20 05:11 PM
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​ Ok, this is awesome. But it's also mighty ambitious for a 6th grader. Are you sure he won't be overwhelmed? What are you doing to set him up for success in these areas? What metrics will you use to evaluate his progress in each area? Perhaps it is ambitious for a 6th grader. Yet we will celebrate milestones and pick ourselves up together on failures. Lifting, scholastic, boy scout friends, and ju jitsu shouldn't be difficult. I'm not aiming for any concrete specific goals except in scholastic.…
/r/RPChristians17/01/20 04:15 PM
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I'm going to look into that living Waters program
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 04:52 PM
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Understood. Respect!
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 04:50 PM
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OYS #27 – month 11 STATS: 6'3" | 206# 18% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 3RM ~ SQ: 280#, Incline BP: 200#, ROW: 190#, OHP: 140#, READING: Books for work RPC METRICS: Scriptural Memory, Home Projects, Fellowship Bible Study 9, Lifting 10, Parenting 10, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 7, Fellowship 8, Diet 9, Mission 9, Scriptural Memory 7, Career 10, Relationship 9, Evangelism 8 Success Decided I'm done at the current role; ive been searching for months consistently anyway, so no action items lifted, swam and bik…
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 03:55 PM
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how is the healing going? when do you think you'll be fully recovered? ​ Evangelism: have you built a curriculum yet? Wing it? Kino: So interesting I find that kino helps game her, but when I withhold it I also get a bit more enthusiasm. It's like she missed the touch, or better yet I'm focused on me too much to be touching her all the time. Like I'm needy. I tend to do less kino because I am busy and gaming isn't a priority, but a pass time. ​ Parenting: when he snapped, you deer'd no? Perhaps …
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 03:46 PM
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Interesting read. It feels like Georgia's Dad and Bob could be brothers, two sides of a similiar coin. Sounds like Amanda and Georgia may be close, except Amanda was cuter but wanted to get more. I'm surprised Bob doesn't have boundaries set for Betty, it seems Fiona has some sense of home, unless it comes from her husband. Did I miss that Betty is trying to divorce Bob over his inability to 'support' her whims. She already sent the furniture to the new guys house, lol? Obviously, I'm most curio…
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 03:32 PM
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Wow you remember that! Lol Yea, change and growth.
/r/RPChristians13/01/20 01:07 AM
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I recall this post. Interesting. I saw my relationship as following some historic alignment of genders and finding balance. Though it seems you see a removal of score keeping on both sides. What makes sense is that she kept score and I was anxious, then I learned to keep score and she was anxious. Now perhaps niether of us are keeping score and we are finding peace. What I don't understand is why niether of us is keeping score any more. Perhaps because we each feel we have our own places to exis…
/r/RPChristians12/01/20 10:54 AM
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thanks u/rocknrollchuck, My workout is more important than libido right now. Work stress, I have to adapt to my new role which I don't like or want. Although, I'm still grateful for the provisions. So I take matters in my hands and search for better opportunities while walking lightly here. I'm re-reading 48 laws of power.. I'm lying, I'm watching the summaries on youtube lol. ​ As for Dad, it may not be best for him to live with me. But I couldn't live with myself if i didn't try my best. I'll …
/r/RPChristians10/01/20 02:45 PM
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OYS #26 – month 11 STATS: 6'3" | 208# 18% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 1RM ~ SQ: 285#, Incline BP: 225#, ROW: 262#, OHP: 153#, READING: Books for work RPC METRICS: Scriptural Memory, Bible Study, Fellowship Bible Study 7, Lifting 9, Parenting 8, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 8, Fellowship 7, Diet 9, Mission 8, Scriptural Memory 6, Career 9, Relationship 8, Evangelism 7 REFLECTIONS Bible study and memorization is a part of my habits which have been off because I didn't prioritize them. The fellowship is less …
/r/RPChristians08/01/20 05:05 PM
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Wrote this Monday, since then.. Had a convo with wife about dialing back my career to make sure I have time to make sure we have meals, meal plans, kids take naps and they sleep on time. She pushed back, made excuses, told me she would rather me fix or build something around the house anything but that really. I told her I want her to see that a priority of mine is not being addressed so I need to make changes. She started down the path of there is always something wrong, we are never content, e…
/r/RPChristians18/12/19 04:30 PM
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HAMSTER Fellowship has been difficult. And I think I may have figured out something to help. I'm doing fun guy stuff on my own or with the guys sometimes, but I haven't really internalized it. Fun stuff is something I do, but it’s more than that. Nothing is who I am, maybe who I am right now. OYS is something I do, like brushing teeth. Lifting is a deeper part of my identity, no not my identity, a core value in my life. Doing fun stuff is currently something I do, it's not a core value in my lif…
/r/RPChristians18/12/19 04:29 PM
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OYS #25 – month 10 STATS: 6'3" | 208# 18% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 1RM ~ SQ: 285#, Incline BP: 195#, ROW: 262#, OHP: 146#, READING: The World’s Fittest Book RPC METRICS : Home, Relationship, Fellowship, Diet Bible Study 8, Lifting 9, Parenting 8, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 5, Fellowship 6, Diet 6, Mission 7, Scriptural Memory 8, Career 9, Relationship 6, Evangelism 7 REFLECTIONS Success · Took it easy this weekend when I was sick, though it allowed me to fall behind on my studies, home projects, and d…
/r/RPChristians18/12/19 04:29 PM
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Always great to see you living your best life and striving hard!
/r/RPChristians04/12/19 11:26 PM
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God doesn't live in church, he provides and sustains the church. so your priorities are God, self, mission... blah blah blah.. So balance your mission! If you still refer to the relationship as terrible it feels like you may not have moved on. Move on by dating or connecting, or whatever you need to do but that space that was occupied [the mural on your mental wall] has not been replaced nor are there other murals to distract you from it. Yea I taught sunday school like 5 years, then had an outd…
/r/RPChristians04/12/19 09:41 PM
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Hey Bro, she is 17 you are 11 years older. If this was 100.. no 70 years ago I would just say wait a couple months and marry her, lol. Jk. You are single, all of your energy is on the church. I love your passion for the community. Though you are single and 28. Stay in the church, please don't get me wrong. I don't want to pull out scriptures and examples for you, but my point is you have to embrace more challenge and risk. Your mission, which I haven't read recently, is likely to grow lead, have…
/r/RPChristians04/12/19 04:57 PM
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Apply external bro. I never increased by getting promotions or new internal jobs. My wife is applying for a job twice her income, I'm supportive and encouraging and giving her advice; though if I were the hiring manager I would question why the company should hire you to do so much if you were doing less before. It's like did we miss judge you originally, no we could never have done that! I applied internally and they wanted to give me a 5k raise, and were excited and happy for me. They said we …
/r/RPChristians04/12/19 04:38 PM
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OYS #24 – month 9 STATS: 6'3" | 205# 16% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 1RM ~ SQ: 274#, InBen: 181#, ROW: 262#, OHP: 146#, READING: The World’s Fittest Book RPC METRICS : Home Projects, Diet, Relationship Bible Study 9, Lifting 10, Parenting 9, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 7, Fellowship 8, Diet 7, Mission 8, Scriptural Memory 10, Career 10, Relationship 7, Evangelism 8 REFLECTIONS Success · Lifted squat 255# for 2 and OHP #135 for 2. These are lifetime PRs. Very happy about this. A buddy suggests I switch to …
/r/RPChristians04/12/19 04:33 PM
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OYS #23 – month 9 STATS: 6'3" | 205# 16% | 8y w/ 3 kids | 1RM ~ SQ: 274#, InBen: 181#, ROW: 262#, OHP: 146#, READING: The World’s Fittest Book RPC METRICS : Diet, Relationship, Mission Bible Study 10, Lifting 10, Parenting 9, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 8, Fellowship 8, Diet 6, Mission 7, Scriptural Memory 10, Career 10, Relationship 6, Evangelism 8 REFLECTIONS Success Getting my strength back post injury. Increasing by 10# instead of 5# also taking an extra day rest to accommodate the jump Bui…
/r/RPChristians27/11/19 03:45 PM
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Damn that's a lot to reflect on. I will reflect and respond in a few days. With this knowledge I need to identify my current state and what is realistically the best path for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/19 12:30 AM
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Horns, do you have a resource I can check out regarding negotiating for equity or sign-in. I haven't yet been offered more than salary and want to diversify my comp to negotiate more. I'd also like to talk about how one could get into private equity. I'll research that so that we might have a useful conversation. Currently I'm looking for executive $220k+ roles. Executive Head hunters are hard to come by though.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 12:09 PM
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If one a week is minimum, then I would say take bad sex weekly, anything after that expect good sex.
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 11:38 PM
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That's great advice. I haven't though of the implementation that simply. I always think of Jehovah Witness or Mormon style GO OUT AND GET THEM. But a tract is easy. I used to pass out party fliers so that would be easy for me. I'll reflect on this and implement when I'm ready. But I find your words motivating.
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 09:58 PM
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My position is that they are irritating and disrespectful. I will not reward disrespect or be an unconditional supporter; that's been one of my big problems. I'm willing to consider other perspectives; but I don't see that in this case. Agreed don't reward or support. Nip it in the bud, though realize she is acting out to address a need or deficit within her. A Deficit that needs leadership and building. As for the church, sounds like the issue is her still would have gone. If you changed the ti…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 09:55 PM
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OYS #21 – month 9 Been a while since one of these. STATS: 6'3" | 205# 17% (got to get back to my glorious %15)| 8y w/ 3 kids | Lifts Recovering Maxes not calculated READING: The World’s Fittest Book RPC METRICS : Diet, Relationship, Evangelism Bible Study 10, Lifting 9, Parenting 8, Quiet Time 10, Home Projects 10, Fellowship 6, Diet 5, Mission 9, Scriptural Memory 10, Career 10, Relationship 5, Evangelism 5 REFLECTIONS Success · Building strength back up after injury. · Working to protect an or…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 09:48 PM
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Evangelism. what are you doing to meet your 8? I'm interested in growing. Social: I'm not busy this weekend, let me know!
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 08:23 PM
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strong, bulky, and shy. Am I right? Perhaps try some stranger approaches to build up the confidence. That way when you initiate and escalate you can be less timid and more assertive to have a more successful outcome. Fellowship,memory, evangelism.. start small.
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 08:20 PM
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good luck with the job
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 08:16 PM
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Sounds like she needs more appreciation in regard to the wigs. Find other ways to appreciate. Flowers, whatever. Feminity grows with appreciation. My son was staring at flowers the other day, I asked if we should get them for Mommy. He said yea, I said ok. So I got them for her and bang femininity grew. Yea you messed up with the two hands joke, though I’ll give you it was funny. Just not amused Mastery, more like Amused attempt. You ignored the tantrum. Although it makes sense RPwise, it could …
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 08:14 PM
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Congrats on hitting all those targets! Why change churches for her? I mean sounds like it’s not the church that is the problem, any more, but rather the desire. She doesn’t want to go. She is going for you. What stood out to me was why you didn’t just go earlier. She obviously does not really want to go, and was willing to commit to a different time for you. Your context said I don’t need you to go, go ahead and be with your orbiter. Not your intended statement. Not sure if the Our statement was…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 07:13 PM
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Good thing it's hunting season, because this has DEER written all over it. Next time something like this happens, pressure-flip it: HAH
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 07:00 PM
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· First great job moving away from talking about her, and focusing on you. That was your goal and you met it. · How do you like the 50 Cent book, does it change significantly from the 48 LOP? (I assume you read that already) · I am still on 5x5. How are you liking 5/3/1 I’m excited to get to it. · As for all your missed on Physical… get it done. Deprioritize other stuff even very important other stuff, we are looking to hold our brother accountable. When you deprioritize other stuff for what you…
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 06:57 PM
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Great post! I can't wait to reply or later!
/r/RPChristians13/11/19 04:55 PM
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Slow and steady. I respect it. Sometimes there act of oys and enduring gets mundane. I thought maybe some energy or excitement might give you some juice.
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 11:49 PM
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That's great! How will that make you feel? What will that mean for the Alan of 2020? Does that get you pumped and excited!!!!
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 08:58 PM
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Hey Alan, I see things are coming along. What do you want to achieve RP related by new year's?
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 01:49 PM
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Chuck has great advice, he is my guru (or Yoda) as well. Though I'm going to throw some other advice, just for diversity. dial back the A&A. Without the SMV it may come off as attention seeking. Try the about your business approach, just until she starts INITIATING sex. aside from evangelism, make some friends. Hang with your friends, prioritize your friends. Dread isn't just other women or bauristas, nor is it just clothes and working out. It's YOUR time, and HER PRIORITY in your life. I've ove…
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 01:45 PM
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I've found with the masculine wife, funny just putting those words together, it's best to let them try it. Then smile and encourage. It's a fine line between patronizing. If they are successful be genuinely happy and supportive, delegate and prepare for potential challenges in the consistency. If they don't succeed step in and let her down easy. This exercise tends to show appreciation, validation, and empathy which empower the feminine, ironically.
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 01:26 PM
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I second u/ride_the_thunder A servant you are. Though you are also a contemporary man who likes refinement. Growth is the cycle of stress and rest. Impress us with your rest to brother! Chuck says," I sat and watched the sun set them reflected on my blessings for two hours in the moonlight. Wife and son came by and I said later. It was a good night" Then back to the grind oys style.
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 01:19 PM
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Great post
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 01:16 PM
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Talking with a buddy in real life, I gave him this advice. Figure out your dealbreakers, know your boundaries. Know if you can defend your boundaries and what really matters. Minimize that list to what you consider a small number. When she/anyone does something that bothers you that is not on that list, which you have a response already prepared for, realize you have to much free time worrying about bullshit and get busy doing awesome shit, take more risks, or stop being around women so much bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 08:36 PM
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Mayor Game. Good Read. How did you come across it? It feels alot better than the cheesy go game mentality. It's basically, I'm always gaming, you didn't notice, here is a cute friend for you to talk to. lol
/r/RPChristians09/10/19 08:08 PM
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OYS #20 - month 8 STATS: 6'3" | 205# ?% | 7y w/ 3 kids | Lifts Unknown READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, Unchained Man, Sampson and the Wizard, 48 Laws of Power READING: The Subtle Art…
/r/RPChristians09/10/19 08:03 PM
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Thats good comfort!
/r/RPChristians30/09/19 08:44 PM
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That's an inspiring story about how you quit drugs and got married. God does guide those he chooses. What is the story about how he guided you in regards to your job?
/r/RPChristians28/09/19 02:41 PM
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Happy birthday sir
/r/RPChristians11/09/19 04:41 PM
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Taking risks is great, and contracting with a 4 year old is risky. You wouldn't want to have a lull or bad quarter to affect your income. 40k really won't feel like allot after taxes but it's great to have options. Without knowing what field you are in it's hard to make suggestions. If you are a developer, which I think you are, the advice would be different than if you are in finance. If you are in tech, I would suggest you pass. Getting 180k even outside a metropolis isn't difficult at a large…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 01:13 PM
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Oi is good, but please do the pre work before initiating.
/r/RPChristians22/08/19 05:00 AM
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So her complaining about you being rough could be Rambo.. or it could be her fighting to force your submission back to betaland. I'm discipline a brother now and his wife is doing the same thing. Our wives and us will start meeting so I can help, with my wife, ease the transition for her. It's hard for a woman to accept a chump, dislike that chump, accept this is her life, find the positive in her chump, and then lose the positive in her chump because you want to finally grow up and be a man. An…
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 06:48 PM
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Lol at 15s. Cool. So, had you gave her a heads up before you started would that have mitigated her approach? I don't think I see this interaction as a martial interaction, just seems like to humans with a somewhat shared space.
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 06:34 PM
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It's good to see what people are going through, so thx
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 01:14 PM
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Sounds like you have a hold of it! Since you have your hobby list, will you challenge yourself? Instead of reassuring her, can you distract her? Take her to fireworks and flirt. Take her fishing and flirt followed by seafood dinner in case she isn't the outdoor type. You know game and date her instead of reassure her?
/r/RPChristians14/08/19 11:19 PM
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read a little of your history and you know some of this stuff already, no newb here. Why just the OYS #1? ​ Goals?
/r/RPChristians14/08/19 10:08 PM
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Great work champ! Add an extra friend when you go out next time! Also challenge yourself with your outings, take some kind of risk even if minimal. ​ As for wife, please don't let her complain to you. WHATEVER you have to do. Laugh it off, make jokes, tell her not to complain, just leave, or just make believe she has some disease and laugh at the ridiculousness of your disease. Heck, make believe you have a disease and the complaining makes it worse. Just don't tolerate it. The less you tolerate…
/r/RPChristians14/08/19 10:06 PM
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Do you have interest in other hobbies? Like what? She is restless when the kids are behaved because, quite possibly: She is accustomed to it with a previous beta husband and hasn't adapted yet She feels purpose with managing them, and hasn't adapted to you OYS She is boring and doesn't know what to do with her time She likes chaos and hasn't adapted yet. I'm eager to get to that 300# squat.. jealous.
/r/RPChristians14/08/19 09:57 PM
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Cool to see you are hanging with your friends for your desire to hang with them and for your boundaries! As for the evangelism, an invite to church is a big close and a bit daunting. Why not show your leadership, your fun, and you. Don't invite, cause that's like saying you need her for something. But rather, say we need chips at our game night with friends from church. Bring them Friday at 5pm. Not a request, but a clear 'hey you, do this and join my awesome funness' because funness is now a wo…
/r/RPChristians14/08/19 09:53 PM
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Thanks. Thanks for the reminder about a kind word. There concept about the chase is ultimately boiled down to being the prize. I'm just digging deeper. For the habits, I think I'm going to set distinct times to get things done, and then if I miss it I just catch up later in the day. I'm not going for perfection, just improvement.
/r/RPChristians10/08/19 11:31 AM
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I'll add it to the list. Thanks
/r/RPChristians10/08/19 01:52 AM
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Thanks for the link. This is exactly where I'm at. Action and Words. But the result is not what is expected. I try the same method with colleauges, direct reports, non-profit members, church volunteers and have much better success. I'm going to reflect on your words and maybe get inspired to a weakness or assumption I have with my wife that I may not have with these others populations.
/r/RPChristians09/08/19 02:42 PM
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I've read through alot of the comments and what I didn't see was how to deal with losing your kid. That seems to be the crux. Yes you could do better mananging the whirlwind, yes you could RP her into some fun submission in time, yes her divorce talk is mostly bull and you kinda fell for it; but at the end of the day she doesn't matter. What matters is what you give value to. You give value to your kid and your work, and your work is rocking. Your kid is rocking from what you said. But the fear …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 02:35 PM
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HAHA 10/10 would do it again. This is like that skit where Rick James says,"What kind of man would stomp is feet into someone's couch. Yea I remember jumping on Charlie Murphy's couch" upvote just for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 02:10 PM
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In discerning between quality and lazy I have trouble. She is busy and hard working in some things that seem to have little strategy. How do I express this... She may fold one child's clothes half way, then start to cook dinner, then read a story to kid2. None of these items will be done to completion and quality. So I don't see her as lazy, but I also don't see quality. As you know I've been trying tactics for a while, and see moderate progress, though I feel the deficit is in my leading her to…
/r/RPChristians09/08/19 01:23 PM
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/u/rocknrollchuck ​ Then demote her temporarily for the next few days by doing a bunch of stuff she normally handles, This part of your advise stood out to me. I had the same thoughts for Alan as you wrote them until you got to here. I naturally would do the stuff she normally handles the next few days, because my faith was lost and I want to get it done. Then eventually I would stop becuase it's difficult to maintain my responsibilities and hers synchronously. But from what you said I think my …
/r/RPChristians08/08/19 08:31 PM
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/u/Rifleshoot Caveman means to have (not sure which words I can use in the forum) intercourse, without concern for foreplay, compatabiltiy, moods, immersion, emotions, location, speed, tempo, or any of the usual stuff that occupies men and womens brains.
/r/RPChristians08/08/19 08:13 PM
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OYS #20 - month 7 (to match 7 years married) STATS: 6'3" | 196# 15.0% | 7y w/ 3 kids | SQ 245#x5, OHP 120#x5, ROW 225#x5 {Officially Intermediate with 5 lifts on symmetricstrength.com!!} READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Bang, 16 Co…
/r/RPChristians07/08/19 09:38 PM
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Great lifts man.
/r/RPChristians31/07/19 09:50 PM
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OYS #19 - month 6 STATS: 6'3" | 198# 15.8% | 7y w/ 3 kids | SQ 235#x5, OHP 110#x5, ROW 220#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, Unchained Man, Sampson and the Wizard READING: The Subtl…
/r/RPChristians24/07/19 06:58 PM
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The app is Android. It's called habit. Thanks a ton for the links. I'll explore them in the morning. Good to see you sir!
/r/RPChristians20/07/19 02:32 AM
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OYS #18 - month 6 STATS: 6'3" | 198# 15.8% | 7y w/ 3 kids | SQ 225#x5, OHP 110#x5, ROW 210#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, Unchained Man, Sampson and the Wizard READING: The Subtl…
/r/RPChristians18/07/19 04:10 PM
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Unchained man offers insight into time management, a true abundance in women, a tactical approach to legal preparation for marriage or children, parenting, and forging a career that caters to one's independence. It also ties the values we learn with RP into sales and marketing for business benefit. You asked about my leadership process, going from no boundaries to boundaries. First I had to have the awareness that I dislike a thing enough to defend it. Then I had to plan my defense so i can make…
/r/RPChristians07/07/19 01:23 AM
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I'm looking forward to 531. After I do 3x5 and 3x3, then I'm on to 531 or madcow. I love talking about lifting! 2" washers that sounds fantastic, so what's that 1#?
/r/RPChristians04/07/19 01:44 PM
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She noticed, she just doesn't want to acknowledge your SMV disparity change. Or she thinks you are too touchy feely and supportive to match what your body looks like. ​ Question: OHP for me is in my second deload and I haven't passed 110#. Adding 1# plates or chains is not fun. I'm thinking of adding front and lateral raises to increase strength. Also, I want some bicep curls besides the 2x8 reps that the 5x5 app suggests. Curious about your take on that. I'll be doing some research after work a…
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 07:50 PM
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Your son has a cool job. Prays for mom. Career, what are you doing while you wait? I may have missed the answer to that in the last OYS. Home Projects, eveyone deserves a weekend... just not two! Glad to see Social is doing well! I was about to road trip to see you with some guys and kayaks on that! Fellowship sounds like it's what you want. Are you not satisfied with it?
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 07:40 PM
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lol yea. It's cool if she does it. If not, which is usual, then I just get up myself and oil it myself.
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 07:06 PM
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OYS #15 - month 6 STATS: 6'3" | 192# 14.8% {180# would be 12%) | 7y w/ 3 kids | SQ 225#x5, OHP 110#x5, ROW 200#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING: The Unchained Man, Models, …
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 03:49 PM
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things are calmer, some new fitness tests that I learned how to recognize that I wouldn't have before. Boundaries are being built and I'm deciding how I want to defend them. Nothing really to report except some failures, just getting myself back together.
/r/RPChristians21/06/19 02:29 PM
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have a kid that would only eat a couple things.. It passes. comfort amusement and don't worry about it. Lean on the protein type food so the kid doesn't act on on just eating carbs/sugar. ​ good post man
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 07:37 PM
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OYS #16 - month 5 STATS: 6'3" | 192# 14.8% | 7y w/ 3 kids | Dread 1 | SQ 225#x5 {PR!! TWO PLATES}, OHP 110#x5, ROW 195#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Day Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING: The Unchained M…
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 06:18 PM
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Hey friend, I re-read the end of your post. I noticed you talked about her boundary but not yours. At first I thought you were saying not smoking is your boundary and you wanted your friends to respect it, then I realized it's her boundary and YOU want YOUR male friends to respect HER boundary. Is that right? ​ Looks like you have been at this for 2-3 months. The intimacy has gone up, I assume because you stopped sharing all your feelings and reserve your butt-hurt words, am I correct? ​ Is benc…
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 06:09 PM
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Hey u/lololasaurus, Appreciate your response. So much to unpack here. First I read the boundaries post. You and u/rocknrollchuck made the course clear "separate and lead her to self-help". I respect you have an understanding of the fear and feeling. You and u/AlanNoles are helpful in that way. ​ Regarding me being in her frame: maybe I'm in multiple layers of her frame. . To understand your boundaries, you have to self examine, swallowing your ego, and really understand what you control, and wha…
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 07:12 PM
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Chuck, I told her I'll give up my infrequent salsa dances but expect for me to drag you on the dance floor more, smirk. She took my hand smiled big and said ok! I'm not interested in this concern right now. I don't need to dance. I need to address the abuse. You said "she needs help, lead her there". Rp has helped me learn to lead, though I don't know the destination for this... Situation... I hear you on make it work or else 'what if'.. but a part of me is saying what of the billions of others …
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 12:26 AM
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Power to you sir!
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 11:58 PM
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Good to see things are coming along. What do you want most? Job, social, son bonding? Doing awesome with your mother's consistency.
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 09:25 PM
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Hey Chuck! I moved her plants because people would be tripping over them and possibly falling down there patio. It's location was unsafe. Like I said, this is an ongoing challenge we have! Beating is violence, yes. It may happen again, it's not likely and it's not even remotely normal for her. It would be first to say this is really a first. The only other time was when she was 6 months pregnant. But it only takes one bad turn to change our lives. My plan is to either divorce or walk out the hou…
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 09:22 PM
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Progress is good bro. Sorry to hear about the accident, glad no one was hurt.
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 06:13 PM
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Thoughts Fitness Tests - The contrast of types of tests is confusing and leads a lot of people to Rambo. To calm down I'm not going to really worry about tests which aren't comfort. My sex frequency may drop from 3-1 a week, but that's worth it while I learn more about calibrating. Divorce – divorce takes time, money to be saved, negotiations, counseling etc. Even as I'm more confident that is the path I wish to take, my go stay plan is ironically still the same. Think of it this way. If there i…
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 03:31 PM
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OYS #15 - month 5 STATS: 6'3" | 192# 15.5% {180# would be 12%) | 7y w/ 3 kids | Dread 5 | SQ 210#x5, OHP 110#x5, ROW 180#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Day Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING: The Unchained…
/r/RPChristians12/06/19 03:31 PM
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That second picture was funny. This is a good representation of the experience. It also explains how men drive for tingles, fuzzies and argue over them, and why the tingles conversation wins. But the real truth is to push both as far as you can. I personally need to work on fuzzies. I'm already seeing myself in the second grey zone.
/r/RPChristians11/06/19 10:25 PM
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Interesting, something to reflect on. Not actionable but food for thought.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 06:16 PM
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indeed
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:47 PM
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Hey man I respect that. ​ I reflected on what commenters said, what she said, what my IRL friends have said, what my lawyer said and most importantly what I want. I appreciate it all.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:17 PM
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Yea, I am a joy when I'm not woken at 4am for cheating with a viscous angry wife! ​ She was in a very VERY bad emotional state that I put her in. ​ Yea I met and continue to meet lawyers. One good parent. I hear you. Though most comments here make it appear that my custody would be unlikely.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:15 PM
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Thanks man. Not sure I want to be in the situation. But that was real. After the other comments here, I see the emotional fortitude required to lead. Now to read 'subtle not give fuck', comfort and lead, and lawyer up.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:13 PM
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understood
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:10 PM
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Hey, I don't know if I want to be in the risk of violence and this legal system. Though outside of that one point, this is a one off situation that I caused by pumping her from Dread 0-5 in 3 months and then jumping to Dread Level 10 with no reason no warning and not even an acknowledgement that it was Dread Level 10. I basically was ... hey our marriage is ok.. hey look at me.. hey you like this good dick.. fuck you I'm going to pickup some new chicks.. So I'm not sure this qualifies for BPD, I…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:09 PM
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A ton, I am going through and commenting on each person who took the time to write something. Be more in tune with the wife (even if it does sound blue) Add comfort and be real about it (even if it does sound blue) get a lawyer
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:06 PM
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She totally thought it was in spite of not getting the hotel room. Maybe your right, maybe I had some resentment somewhere. But I have reflected on it, and was hard to find it since we had rescheduled the hotel trip for July anyway. ​ I did escalate the Dancing issue, it wasn't intentional but I was just an ass. ​ You are right though, I am here for validation that my approach was sound or not. IT WAS NOT. Though I am not looking for emotional validation from internet strangers. Atta boy's can b…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:04 PM
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I hear you
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:58 PM
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Your first paragraph is right on. I fucked up. I also knew I couldn't deal with it if she is acting like this. She never before acted like this. I like what you said about 4am snuggles and huggles. But my wife was a fucking grizzly she was so mad. I'll have to reflect on all the ways I escalated. The only thing on my mind at the time is ,"this caffeenie crash sucks, it's 4am, she can't drive anyone like this, and we can't talk if she's this mad". Any escalation was my dumb crazy self. ​ Your rig…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:58 PM
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Perhaps, game and fun weren't on my mind when she wakes me up cussing. ​ Really I shouldn't have gone dancing, if that was going to cause her all of that jealousy.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:53 PM
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This comment shook me. Thank you. ​ She went crazy, true, it was my fault. I should have left the house when she went irrate, waited for her to cool off; then no battery or kidnapping. First time she responded like this, that's what happens when you push a main event. Didn't mean to do that.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:52 PM
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comfort given
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:48 PM
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I should be on 5. It was 10. I thought it would have been nothing. Wrong. ​ Rambo? Autist? Both? I own it.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:47 PM
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Hey Sapean, I saw your FA post a while back took the test, read your comments the whole nine. She didn't register as such. I think what happened was I just fucked up reading that going dancing would take her to Dread level 10 when I was only intending to be on DL5. I was ignorant. It is good to hear that this happened to someone else. I have alot to figure out ahead of me, but she recognizes she was way out of character because she was afraid of losing me and what it meant for the family and how…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:47 PM
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Hey coach, 2 hours of fogging over plants is crazy right? Yea, sex may have been the answer. So it wasn't an argument, fogging is me just saying " yea maybe you are right". Makeup sex is cool, just didn't have anything to make up for on Friday. Sometimes I wonder if we need a "Sperg's Be VERY VERY careful when using MRP" warning label. Honestly, clarity on shit tests vs comfort tests seems like it could help alot of guys, just my opinon. #ReduceRambo not doing housework >Why do you care? It's my…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:40 PM
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I'm not sure, if it wasn't for the violent risk I would say yes. I love my kids, I love our life, she was (pre-fuck-up-main-event) following my lead and hanging on every word I spoke. Things weren't perfect but I was enjoying the challenge of improving them. ​ I'll say this, if we didn't live in the current society that we do with the dangers to men in these violence situations, I'd stay. If we were in a different country or a different era I'd stay. ​ I didn't let her take the kids, and that wa…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:24 PM
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u/man_in_the_world I appreciate and respect your response. I am trying to apply the RP principals best I can and then make mistakes and adapt. It's refreshing to see you articulate my ambition to see if I applied the rules correctly and how to fix any faults I made. Navigating my growth, her emotions, thousands of pages of books, and posts to change one's life can cloud clarity; I have respect for those of us who even try. Whether I stay or I go, I have to learn and grow up. ​ I didn't realize W…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 04:18 PM
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What is my misunderstanding?
/r/askMRP09/06/19 11:31 AM
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Thanks for the response. That's the second statement about it not being an attraction issue. I'll experiment with the external vs internal approach.
/r/RPChristians07/06/19 05:21 PM
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I took FPu but never read the book. My problem is that I don't consistently budget and stick to it. Fundamentals. I want to envelope but everything is digital and breaking that trend will mean MANY trips back and forth to the bank. Solution, bite the bullet and do the work.
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 12:11 PM
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K thx, I'll know for next time
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 12:58 AM
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Did I used profanity somewhere? I got an auto mod message.
/r/RPChristians05/06/19 10:24 PM
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Hey, thanks for the reply. As for this I didn't do it last week so here I am again. I need to envelope and haven't. As for the opportunity search it's ongoing. I had some conversations with some folks and got some new thoughts but nothing actionable. So research research research. Thanks for the info on multi orgasmic, I'll experiment with that. Thanks for the link. I'll check it out!
/r/RPChristians05/06/19 10:24 PM
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Glad to see all your numbers are high! I'm going to come take you for laser tag to get that Social up! Glad to see you are into the lifting again, your best is 100% even if it's 30% of the past targets! ​ Great to see you at it Bro!
/r/RPChristians05/06/19 05:31 PM
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OYS #14 - month 4 STATS: 6'3" | 192# 15.5% {180# would be 12%) | 7y w/ 3 kids | Dread 5 | SQ 210#x5, OHP 110#x5, ROW 180#x5 READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Day Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING:The Unchained …
/r/RPChristians05/06/19 05:28 PM
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Thank you. I'll read up on the article. As far as cuddling. I don't want to get back in the habit of doing things that I don't find interesting just because she wants to. First, what do I want to do, second what do I not want to do, third anything is fine. It didn't fit my second criteria. Thank you for the comment about Jesus. I am selective in my kindness so that my kindness is a prize. I know that to her my parts, body and touch isn't quite the prize because women don't focus on sex they focu…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 08:26 PM
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OYS #13 - month 4 STATS: 6'3" | 192# 15.5% {180# would be 12%) | 7y w/ 3 kids READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Day Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING:The Unchained Man, Models, 48 Laws of Power READING LIST: Su…
/r/RPChristians29/05/19 05:59 PM
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Exactly
/r/RPChristians23/05/19 01:34 AM
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Awesome!
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 11:11 PM
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Yes everything you said I agree with. More ownership so that it can't be sabotaged. It's a point of growth because I don't fancy the dynamic where she struggles to do stupid things instead of asking for help, but simple things she should be able to do aren't. drags a five pound bag of dirt, struggling, to the front yard for her project while I'm playing with the kids can't complete a whole load of laundry by herself. Lol ,#keepsMeonMyToes ,#alsoQuicklyDecidingMyFrame
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 11:10 PM
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Sounds like you are doing very well relative to your challenges. #proud. Mother still in prayers! How can we turn that fellowship to a 7?
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 09:38 PM
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Thanks! When I took the lead at work others pushed back, but I started form, made allies and eventually just said this has to happen either we can leave or you can. They left and my team was very happy that they did! As for the sabotage Saturday it was about her leaving with the kids when I told her I'd need her to stay and help me clean the house and get everyone to nap so the kids can sleep and her arthritis won't act up. She took the kids to the library anyway while I was napping with the you…
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 09:36 PM
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OYS #12 STATS: 6'3" | 192# GW: 180# 15.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids | SQ 210# IBP 160# OHP 110# ROW 170# READ: Redpill Christian 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan (MAP), The Way of the Superior Man (TWSM), Book of Pook, Sex God Method (SGM), Day Bang, 16 Commandments of Poon, redpillhandbook, READING: The Unchained Man, Models, 48 Laws of Power…
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 03:29 PM
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You answered my question "with abundance", logical. Scared insecure, I can be at times. Haven't noticed a theme though. If you have noticed one, voice it... Otherwise thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 06:47 PM
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Thanks
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 05:51 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 05:16 PM
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https://www.gnc.com/shop-all-nugenix/452317.html?cgid=shop-all-nugenix Should I be concerned about the side effects.. this is a new thing for me taking supplements like this. Can't be sold in Canada.
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 05:12 PM
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I know you oys, alpha and doing big things. Admirable. You also don't care to change her because she is her own person.. and wanting her love would be seeking validation right? But don't you desire it still though?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 05:05 PM
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It does. It's been a week. Focused Less mental talk.. hamstering longer erections more power, chi, or something in my body less affected by external opinions that usually cause my to seek validation
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 05:02 PM
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So obviously I'm a little paranoid about, "What if she did slip off with a dude one day". There is nothing I can do about it, I wouldn't think I would know, I still have to live my best life and do me. There are more women in the world, so it's not the end of the world. But how does one really accept that "this could be a possibility, oh well, I'm still going to live my best life."
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:12 PM
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I started on nutrigenex
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 04:03 PM
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gotcha
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:01 PM
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HAHA, yea that shit stings.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:00 PM
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small talk. cool
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:59 PM
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Sounds like you OYS and have your priorities straight. Why has it been so long since she said she loves you?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:39 PM
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Great job bro. Inspiring
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:26 PM
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How was the ironwood collection of Alpha moves?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:20 PM
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faaccckk that shit hurt. I'm married 7 years, we are 35ish, she was a virign.. Do I know you? lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:15 PM
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Looks like you are off to a good start. As far as the ex u/SBII is absolutely right, punch him in the face or steal his girl. Seeing as how this may be difficult for you to pull of right about now, you have to realize you just don't hold the attraction enough to compete. Fuck, reality hurts and sucks. Sooo.. ​ You are having more sex in the last couple months then in the last year. Bump up the numbers, get rough get raw, be a jerk. That you are more likely to be able to do. The idea is that you …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:11 PM
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What's the elderly opener? lol What about your mission is pickup? is this to build an abundance mentality, or establish dread?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 03:02 PM
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I liked your post. I could relate to it. Especially the debt payoff at 2k. I'm also on 5x5 , same age, same weight, different height. I can appreciate you taking more responsibilty with the kids, thats what really stood out. IT's difficult when you may be used to or there are general expectations for her to do that stuff. But to lead we have to really be invested. ​ As for the sex, your post is limited on D (omination), maybe keep eyecontact the whole time. And ease her insecurity with complimen…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:48 PM
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this will be a tv show in 5 years, written by a lurker of the sub. ​ I do feel sorry for the guy though. Wish things would get better. Wow, I'm emoting like I'm watching a soap opera lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:41 PM
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What did you get out of Co-dependent no more?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:38 PM
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CONS I'm butt-hurt : Wife was gone for a week. I sent a long sexy and comforting (#sharkWeek) email last Friday. It was in reply to a question about her traveling in June. She later acknowledged the response I had to her travel but not the comfort or sexiness. I wanted to be validated in that she saw it and had some feeling. Her friend's shit test: At dinner last night her friend came to visit, after talking with her teasing her a little and getting her to emote about her stories with work and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:33 PM
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REFLECTIONS This OYS Reflections The person you are is the man of your dreams. Then do the actions that make you him. You will change your perspective of yourself with each action. Also others will see your value differently. You are who you are becoming. Freedom allows you to make mistakes.. enjoy the mistakes as a sign of freedom. Do not concern yourself with securities, strategy and the like which limit you from the sign of freedom. Live spontaneous and active appreciating what people call mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:33 PM
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OYS #11 - week 16 Stats: 6'3" | 192# GW: 180# | 7y w/ 3 kids Health: I'm lifitng more than my weight in 5x5. I have to deload on the 110# OHP. I dropped my bench from 170# to 120# so I can do an incline bench and close grip. I've been told by a few women and my wife that they notice changes, to which I try to ignore. I feel stronger, more balanced, and less fatigued in different activities. Read : Lots of Sidebar | currently reading: Book of Pook, Sex God MethodBook of Pook speaks to many differ…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:33 PM
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Gotcha thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 11:59 AM
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Thanks. I was lost in your.. "or not".. comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 09:14 PM
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I can remove my anonymity, hell I'm still virtually anonymous anyway. I'll reflect on a potential covert narrative. It's not obvious as of yet. I'll specifically reflect on what narratives I've pitched which are inconsistent with my expectations. Ahh... my narrative is no pressure, yet I do intend to apply slow pressure over time (we can't expect RP change overnight). True, I see the inconsistency. ​ I'm reading Book of Pook and there is a passage about securities vs mistakes vs spontaneity. Tel…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 06:24 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:12 PM
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OYS #9 - week 15 Stats: 6'3" | 192# GW: 180# | 7y w/ 3 kids Health: 5x5 Squat at 185# today. Switched Bench to incline close grip so I lost some power, working on building it back up. Read : Lots of Sidebar | currently reading: Book of Pook, Sex God Method Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Goals Goal 4 (May 31) Squat 2 plates, get wife to do some flexibility exercise, get wife to help wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 03:27 PM
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Love the Kanye reference lol
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:50 AM
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Until she admires with {traits} you. Until she admires you.
/r/RPChristians29/04/19 01:16 AM
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Oooohhhh.. so the reward is already earned!! I thought you meant through compliance!! Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 08:46 PM
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Hey, so if you really love hitting the gym / or sex / or golf.. you do it because you love to. But with sex it's a reward for her. How do we compile something we love to do with reward? One has to out weigh the other doesn't it? Also, can you give an example phrase of 'how much she needs me'. Anything I think of sounds forced.. you need me so much, that's why your excited for this loving. '
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 08:40 PM
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Hahaah. Yea sidebar! I'd say that femininity is beautiful and delicate, that it requires relief, direction, and space to grow wild with emotional and mental complexity. If say that brotherhood and fellowship is the single most important social commitment I can make, and marriage is a garden of love, and encouragement for me to manifest and mature in my masculinity. Id say everything I thought I knew was wrong and there are too few sources to correct my thinking. To younger me: STFU, fog, negativ…
/r/RPChristians28/04/19 04:14 PM
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Where, may I ask?
/r/RPChristians26/04/19 01:43 PM
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Video chat isn't fellowship? Is it more valuable to you than fellowship?
/r/RPChristians24/04/19 09:59 PM
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Can you ship the gym one day a week and hang with the guys and eat out??
/r/RPChristians24/04/19 09:10 PM
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Congrats on the final dollars for Australia! ​ Happy easter brother! ​ As for Fellowship I'm tired of seeing the 2 for a few weeks now.. I'm going to drive to come see you myself if I have too!!
/r/RPChristians24/04/19 05:47 PM
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Love that you kept your routine on vacay. Bravo! How was Evangelism with your crew in distant lands?
/r/RPChristians24/04/19 05:37 PM
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OYS #9 - week 14' Stats: 6'3" | 192# GW: 180# | 7y w/ 3 kids Health: Lifting.. stalled at 175#, Question... if my PR is 250# but it was 3 years ago, does that make 180# a PR ? or just a PR for this year? Read : Lots of Sidebar | currently reading: Book of Pook, Sex God Method Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Goals Goal 4 (May 31) Squat 2 plates, wife flexibility exercise, wife meal plann…
/r/RPChristians24/04/19 05:34 PM
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Hey with similiar height, weight and lifts, I was inspired to comment. When you say she does duty sex but it's starfish, yet she gives you BJ and makes out; I get confused. I know each wife is different but AWALT. Plates are good to fight oneitis, but it sounds like you really want your wife to be your slut. I may be going on a limb here but it sounds like she wants to be your slut as well. As I'm not MRP Approved, I'm eager to learn how my advice can be critiqued but here it is. ​ Sounds like y…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 02:50 PM
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Why is there a distinction between true and false Christians? Can you share a link on the subject? Thanks
/r/RPChristians21/04/19 11:37 AM
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How was book female psycology? As for the son and friends, when the other kids get home from school send him to their house to play for a couple hours. That's what we did as kids, homeschool doesn't have to make that different.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 06:24 PM
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OYS #8 - week 13 Stats: 6'3" | 192# (-3 lbs) GW: 180# | 7y w/ 3 kids Health: Lifting next week I want to report #180 Squat 5 x 5. Read : Lots of Sidebar | currently reading: Book of Pook, Sex God Method Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Goals Goal 4 (May 31) Squat 2 plates, wife flexibility exercise, wife meal planning, habit cooking and cleaning together, read tao of sex/bang/SGM/BOPook,…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 02:31 PM
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I'm glad your mother is moving in the right direction. Congratulations brother. Some say a care for our mother is the path to heaven. May God continue to bless you. ​ What's happening with Career? Anything we can do to help? ​ Congrats to your son! ​ When you say on Fire, what do you mean? I'm curious to see what I can add to my own repitoire.
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 04:00 PM
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Male Friends So we do VR, axe throwing, discuss faith, talk about wives, and hang out 1 on 1 sometimes for different things. It's good, a great asset. I'm expecting too much though. I wish I could talk to them about faith the way I live it, or RP, or my transformations. Oh well. I'm grateful for what God gave me in these men. SEX My rule #1 : sex, body parts, acts, roles, toys, places, language are all healthy and permissible. I am still getting used to saying what most would call vulgar things,…
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 03:53 PM
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Reflections I would say I'm an active drunk captain. I'm active in taking care of kids, playing with kids and encouraging their homeschool, paying stuff, fixing stuff, improving stuff, active in my hobbies and with my friends, initiating sex, paying off debt, coaching her career, advancing my career. But there are areas where I'm drunk : childcare, enforcing cleanliness, enforcing mothering, staying on top of things that slip others responsibility at home and at work, knowing how to do my lawn, …
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 03:52 PM
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OYS #7 - week 12 This marks my three month anniversary of RP. 🙂 Stats: 6'3" | 195# (+8 lbs) GW: 180# | 7y w/ 3 kids StrongLifts : Haven't lifted in 2 weeks. Today in the gym : DELOAD Squat 145#x5x5, OHP 85#x5x5 (Though I may not fully deload) Last Lifts : 175x4x1, OH 95#x5x5, Bench 160#x5x5, Row 160#x5x5 Considering getting back into swimming for cardio.. I coached over the summer, and I might join a masters swim team this summer. Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Myste…
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 03:51 PM
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Good to see you on this sub, first time I noticed you in here. This sub fills a lot of the gaps that the other will often leave us with. Both are good, but brothers here tend to be a bit more forgiving. I hope you find your way bro.
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 01:43 PM
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I'm proud of you, brother.
/r/RPChristians10/04/19 01:36 PM
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Read this and thought of you.. The most loving women are the women who will test you the most. She wants you to be your fullest, most magnificent self. She won’t settle for anything less. She knows it is true of you. She knows in your deepest heart you are free, you are Shiva. Anything less than that she will torment. And, as you know, she’s quite good at it. Yet, if your purpose is to be free, you wouldn’t have it any other way.
/r/askMRP29/03/19 06:29 PM
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Hey bro, My understanding is Comfort if they look vulnerable or near menstration. Ignore if it doesn't make you happy or feel loving. Otherwise encourage her to talk to her friends. If she doesn't have friends create play dates with other women so she can at least develop aquaintances. These likely should be done in this order to avoid Rambo or autistic. It's ok if they feel abandoned or cheated on, as long as you make her, like your children, as a family a part of your mission. Sex, dates, talk…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 12:10 PM
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Yea maybe I was taking it too serious. Obviously I was taking it too serious, as I mentioned. I never would have guessed that she would loosen up to actually dance. That was great in hindsight. I was angry that I was wrong about her and the change shocked me. I never expected her to be on board, I was just pushing the envelope here. Getting her to dance is no longer an issue, not it's exploratory time!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 11:58 AM
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OYS #6 - week 10 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids ​ StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [175#/250# @5] OHP [100#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[120#/200#@5] ​ Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan currently reading: Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man ​ Mission : To lead my house, family, and…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 05:56 PM
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Hey Persaeus, how's it going man. Thanks for taking the time to read my OYS. I read; 5 books in 9 weeks is a lot I guess. But it's easy when you can relate to them. I really enjoyed three of them. As for lifting I've been doing strong lifts since 2014 off and on, so I chose not to start at the bar this time. I pushed #165 yesterday in squat 5x5, eager to get back to #250. I like lifting. I would like to think I'm in an anger phase, though I've been angry/frustrated about the domestic side of mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 01:44 AM
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What have I said that expressed any guilt?
/r/RPChristians21/03/19 09:49 PM
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Bravo, keep up the hard work brother
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:13 PM
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I'm going to make it clear to the family that they will not be attending those events until the house is clean. The kids will know, she will know and if she tries to push forward I'll take my car keys, I'll stand and let her fuss and yell, I'll put on a movie the kids like so they can watch and she fuss or clean. Whatever it takes. I've been here before for more substantial matters. I'ts interesting what you took out. I see why you changed from my to our, even though I prefer the former. The 'fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:41 PM
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You don't? Your wife does! Lol No but seriously, setting a sanction was advice sorcerer king gave me. So I'm doing my due diligence. What advice can you share?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:59 PM
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u/SorcererKing I was thinking about what sanctions I could administer if my expectations were not met. Being that I tend towards passive aggression I want to be careful here. The only real motivator I could think of as a sanction would be like this. "Babe, if you have trouble picking up you stuff when you are done using it, then cut out some time at night to do it. If you can't keep my house clean for the family, then Im going to need you to not go on these adventures like girl scouts, farming, …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:45 PM
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Work is fun, right now we are talking about hunting and the one woman we work with is all save the animals. We just finished a convo on tattoos. Work is also fun as we create new processes and culture in the company. Tonight I'm going to Virtual Reality with 5 of my friends. I'll probably sneak in a happy hour before that, that should be fun. This morning I wrestled with my daughter and son. Then we played tag between all the rooms. Last night I visited some friends to talk about faith, getting …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:35 PM
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Hey 4%! Thanks for the comment. Lead and raise the bar, I'd like some links or resources here. She is aware of expectations though years of beta whining on my part. Lifts are equal because bench feels lite and I don't want to bench lite. I've been off and on stronglifts for years so I feel comfortable skipping ten pounds instead of 5 some days. If you are giving me crap because my chest is stronger than my legs.. crap taken.. 😂🤣
/r/RPChristians21/03/19 11:25 AM
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Thanks for the reply. You are right it was hella passive aggressive. I realize that now, I should have been able to comfort and do what I wanted to do. I think I'm really pissed off inside and don't want to express it. I'm not a dancing monkey, I'm not a clown like rooshv described himself. I spent a while reading through the link you shared, and the links it had, and the background of some of the OYS that it linked too.. probably more time then I should have spent and enjoyed learning about thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 11:19 AM
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Hey I found you from a link shared on my oys. The post I read was there one about you driving off after the toys arrived and you decided to divorce. I was really moved by that post, I was wondering how things went over there past year.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 11:00 AM
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After reading this, my first officer isn't a team player nor following the lead. I have not set ramifications. I honestly don't know what ramifications to set besides "I have better to do then get you to do what you know you should be doing, and I'll do my self cheerfully". In my more beta days I would explain the necessity, demonstrate the craziness in her lack of responsibility, make her feel bad, do it resentfully.. you know all the dumb stuff. 10,000 foot rope right?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:00 AM
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I am hesitant to define desire(want/expect); I'm aware that I can't change her therefore I blind myself from my expectations towards her behavior. What value does she provide: collaborates with nanny to provide acceptable child care, watches the children when the nanny is unavailable as she works from home 30 hours, intermittently provides food for the children, cherishes them and loves to enrich them with academic experiences (museums, libraries, etc), enthusiastic about soccer/girlScouts/Sunda…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 01:46 AM
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Thanks! I started to read and will read the comments after.. chores for today. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:45 PM
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What does that answer provide me?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:43 PM
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​ Reflections Teaching others As I read on about all of these concepts and values I desire to discuss them. On the sub there is not alot of people who want to discuss them. So I end up finding interesting ways to teach my friends. It at least gives me opportunities to recite concepts of abundance, quantity over quality, assertion, command, humor, and fellowship. These are the six principals I have been focusing on, perhaps they are emphasized in the books I'm currently reading. ​ Using it at wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:36 PM
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OYS #5 - week 9 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids ​ StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [150#/250# @5] OHP [90#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[120#/200#@5] ​ Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) , The Mindful Attraction Plan ​ currently reading: Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man ​ Mission : To lead my house, family, and…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:36 PM
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TL:DR; I really like RP, I'm teaching others and finding ways to use it at work. I've been feeling mushy lately, likely because my OYS is overwhelming and I am consistently just out of reach, but I keep trying. I'm more interested in OYS than I am my wife or sex. I expect comments about your doing to much, make her do more, or just relax. But this is part of my mission sooooo.. :D ​ Scores: 78% Career 10+ : better than I thought Lifting 5 : want to lift more but mindful of travel and sickness re…
/r/RPChristians20/03/19 09:30 PM
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Reflections Teaching others As I read on about all of these concepts and values I desire to discuss them. On the sub there is not alot of people who want to discuss them. So I end up finding interesting ways to teach my friends. It at least gives me opportunities to recite concepts of abundance, quantity over quality, assertion, command, humor, and fellowship. These are the six principals I have been focusing on, perhaps they are emphasized in the books I'm currently reading. ​ Using it at work …
/r/RPChristians20/03/19 09:29 PM
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OYS #5 - week 9 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids ​ StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [150#/250# @5] OHP [90#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[120#/200#@5] ​ currently reading: Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man ​ Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. ​ Plan : STFU, Lift, Read, Lead, Pray, and take care of me. (Hasn't changed)Goals - summarized because it's …
/r/RPChristians20/03/19 09:29 PM
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MAP ​ STOP ASAP stop slacking off on exercise stop eating grains stop eating sugar stop eating processed food stop wasting money - eating out breakfast and lunch stop ignoring broken items - fire alarm, basement leak, stop being lazy - cleaning stop fake relaxation ( screen time) - 20 more minutes a day Quite time. YELLOW WORK ON get control of your time discover covert contracts start passing loyalty tests control the technical devices discover the 30% that works take turns GREEN WORK ON be in …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 03:22 AM
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I hear you. This was my first emotional throw up in 2 months of rp. Just felt I needed some feedback from someone who understands. I added it to a comment of this last week's OYS
/r/askMRP09/03/19 04:44 PM
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Yea.. so I don't do FR.. until today. Must be menstrating.. u/red-sfpplus had some feelz and baited an argument, so I'm giving my excuse to write this as his fault. :salute At least I'm in the right sub writing this. ​ So last night sex (first mistake) wife says you have really been wanting me lately, you really love me and want me huh? To that I just said yes and kept going. I experimented with some you are sexy I like the way you feel, and some other stuff I made up in the moment.. often I was…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/19 04:55 PM
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So we do multiple oys a week?
/r/askMRP08/03/19 04:53 PM
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Does bang and day bang teach game or sex... Or both?
/r/askMRP08/03/19 02:49 PM
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So in all the archived posts, guides and other text about gaming your wife.. which sidebar book actually teachers us game? Mystery method taught game but that's old and not on sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/03/19 02:48 PM
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Thanks. I read that book second as part of the pre reqs
/r/askMRP08/03/19 01:47 PM
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Understood. I'll circle back and share my thoughts when I finish it.
/r/askMRP07/03/19 11:51 PM
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Nope, just excited to get to read them as I have yet to see a book on how to game my wife which I'm eager to do. Also I never get to talk about these books with anyone, I'm just eager to talk about books that I like. How about you? Want to talk about some books??
/r/askMRP07/03/19 11:39 PM
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Thank you. This was a long reply and I want to give it the full respect. Though I won't right now. I read the mission stuff and added my mission in the op. I read series 100-400. I like how you pair the secular to the truth, so we can contrast from different perspectives. Your info on redpill at the bottom makes me think about what I think red pill is and challenge it. Love that portion. The irrational confidence section is hard to chew. I want to grow here because it's difficult. Hopefully I wi…
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 10:25 PM
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Thanks for the reply. When I think she looks good I tell her. I am just honest about it, I don't exaggerate or down play. Haven't felt the need to. I reflect on this and ask the brothers in case I need to adjust. It appears I don't. Salute sir Also I keep in mind the 100 series. Tell her she is sexy and I want her sexually so that she will feel sexy. This is different then beauty, but I thought it worth mentioning.
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 10:21 PM
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My lessons learned. be more bold have fun with my confidence no need to say sorry often, just state improvement plan.. not in a DEER way though. explore viewing myself as the prize, not just by DHV but in my attitude. as for 2/3rds.. I'm looking forward to when she initiates more than I do. I'm not getting rejected (then again I don't initiate when I'm confident she will say no also) but her initiation will really feel like I'm loving this rule.
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 12:51 PM
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Great insight and balance. Thank you brother
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 12:37 PM
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lol
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 06:18 PM
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Great read, you put in a lot of hard work. This is the first I've heard of hystericalBonding. Is it from one of the sidebar books? 21 days later, do you feel what the other guys said was correct about the leader of men quote you had? Main Event seems like a catchphrase also, is that in the books or is it just a MRP term from the sub? ​ Inspirational man. What I really like is that you went your own dread way. You didn't wait until month 6 to fix your style, you fixed your style because you wante…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 04:42 PM
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haaha
/r/askMRP05/03/19 02:46 PM
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u/HornsOfApathy Great read mate, When did the shift occur from her accepting your initiation to her initiating? Also, was the training on how you want her to initiate a difficult process? I am looking forward to reading Book of Poon and Commandments, and Sex God to navigate those waters. Was dread a tool that you used much? ​ Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:33 PM
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Hey so when it comes to her attraction of you sounds like you are a little chub but strong and tall. Are you happy with your style, your social group, your leadership outside the house, your career progress? If you are happy with all of these things, then she may need to see that you are the rockstar in these things. If she sees you are happy in these things, then she may need to see that other women see you are a rockstar in these things. IF you are not happy in these things, then maybe sex wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:25 PM
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OYS #3 - week 7 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [150#/250# @5] OHP [115#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[125#/200#@5] Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), Mystery Method, The Married Man Sex Life Primer (MMSLP), When I say no I feel guilty (WISNIFG), The Rational Male (TRM) currently reading: The Mindful Attraction Plan Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, impro…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:17 PM
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10k ft rope. Me first!!
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 11:42 PM
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Sick You're right (practicing my fogging lol) , I should take it easy on myself. Tomorrow is a new day! Colognes burberry touch (hanging out), burberry brit (sex), nautica Voyage (work); already owned Sauvage (which was all-purpose but I don't wear much now) ​ Wife clean She doesn't clean, if she works or not. If you really want something done, do it yourself and don't moan and B***H about it. Be a man and OYS. ​
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 08:30 PM
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OYS #3 - week 5 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [150#/250# @5] OHP [115#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[125#/200#@5] Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, NMMNG, Mystery Method, TMMGSP, WISNIFG, currently reading: The Rational Male Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Plan : STFU, Lift, Read, Lead, Pray, and take care of me. (Hasn't c…
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 12:40 PM
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OYS #3 - week 5 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:187# GW: 180# Keto | 17.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [150#/250# @5] OHP [115#/130#@5] Bench[145#/220#@5] Row[125#/200#@5] Read : RpC 100-400, The Game, NMMNG, Mystery Method, TMMGSP, WISNIFG, currently reading: The Rational Male Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Plan : STFU, Lift, Read, Lead, Pray, and take care of me. (Hasn't c…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 12:38 PM
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Interesting approach. As a newb I'd rather not die on this hill, for fear of DEER, manipulation, or expectations of her understanding.. in other words covert contracts. I appreciate your input. I'll stay the course, read and practice.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 10:40 PM
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Food in the bed can't be defended right now. This it's not my boundary. Ok
/r/askMRP04/02/19 03:04 PM
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I haven't heard the terminology Hill to die on. I assume it's sidebar. It's not my Hill to die on. So I'll clean it and move on.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 02:34 PM
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I understand now. It's like martial arts.. Learn some kicks and punches and don't be a tool and think you are now Bruce Lee. Try it out assess , adapt and let experience be your teacher.
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 02:32 PM
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That was my response the first two times she did it
/r/askMRP04/02/19 02:17 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck I just read a post of a guy who was rp for a year or more, Rambo his way into divorce, theoretically stuck to rp, started a LTR and then started punishing her behavior... In the comments I saw lots of replies to say never punish just move on to what doesn't annoy you. This skill set of tools, RP, feels like an expensive (time consuming) box of tools without real application manuals. Seems easy to mess stuff up if we don't know what we are doing. Feels like a big liability. On th…
/r/RPChristians02/02/19 06:55 PM
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Got it
/r/RPChristians02/02/19 02:27 AM
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Understood
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 11:14 PM
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Do you have any other posts you will pull from to create #8. I'm surprised that Discipleship is about family dedication I would have assumed it would be about teaching others to follow the basics. I look forward to reading
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 11:13 PM
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Thank you for the clarity
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 11:10 PM
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The text says, "Prayer: relate: Tell God how your day was, all about His, make Him laugh and let him make you laugh; share something you learned; practice every level of your conversational artistry." I really enjoy the thought of this. But the implementation seems difficult. For instance when I ask God how was your day... What happens next? I'm confused. Like it would be awesome.. maybe I'm taking it too literally. I don't tell my SO what I pray about. Just like your daughter doesn't tell your …
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 08:22 PM
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I said I can fake it. Didn't say I will. I said I can fake it but I'd prefer mentality shift
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 07:14 PM
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Acts 16:17 & 18 where Paul yelled at the slave that had an annoying spirit. That's not really a sin either. He got his point across, by yelling at her and commanding her to change her spirit. My understanding, please help me here, is that an Alpha Positive would have been more of some affectionate disarming. I'm reaching here, but ' An arm on the shoulder, saying "Don't you want to join us!" '
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 06:45 PM
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Ahh... Graceful and forgiving. I see. That touches my heart. Gotcha
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 06:37 PM
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Acts 16 Sung so well the earthquaked! ​ When she tries to distract you from you mission, don't you get annoyed like Paul and hold your tongue, through neutrality, instead of yelling like Paul did? It's in these situations where I wish to work on Alpha Positivity. ​ I also try not to be sarcastic in neutrality. ​ This is all for me to reflect on with quiet time later today.
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 05:17 PM
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thanks
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 05:03 PM
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Wouldnt' that imply you never reprimand? That you let the first mate ( from a book I'm eager to read) do things without consequences? Be the kitty kat , perpetually? I don't get it.. I'll mull on that... likely for a few months lol. Also, as an aside, I'm thinking of making a post on 304 regarding Evangalism .. and how it is Game turned on it's head.. I have questions of this amazing transformation.
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 04:29 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck Thanks again for this talk. I respect that you take the time to help so many strangers. ​ I did not know she went to the dentist and took medicine. I found out, she mentioned it, the next day while I was reflecting on your post. What I believe I left out of the OP was that this was a first time - isolated - incident, and that she was deathly cold upon return. Leaving that out, I take responsibility for. ​ Thanks for the feedback. My takeaways Grow into managing responsibilites a…
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 03:40 PM
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Calling Value : Worship, kindness, perseverance, usable knowledge Characteristics : knowledgeable, loving, brotherly, reverent, fatherly, wealthy, charitable, inspiring, competitive, God-conscious Interactions : Instruct, comfort, embrace, lead, nurture, give, share, challenge, resolve My life purpose is to use my God-Consciousness and competitiveness to become someone who worships and leverages usable knowledge so that I can resolve, and embrace people to move the world toward the synonyms of G…
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 03:05 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck I appreciate taking the time to dialouge. ​ Mission - Thank you for the encouragement to unpack my mission. The mission was composed of actions I'm already taking. Therefore the decomposition of them is done. I may share in my next OYS. The more siginificant thought I had was how to adjust them to the reading I'm doing. In the post on the SB about mission there was an exercise I intend to do. That may help me pivot my mission. Disciples - I don't really know how to do this and I…
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 02:43 PM
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Regarding Nice Card, I can see how providing comfort is borderline beta but also addresses the 6 month no consequence axiom. Though I feel (yes feelz) this undermines my mission if it means stretching my boundaries to accommodate these tantrums. I made this comment to respect the post shared that I didn't mention earlier. I respect knowledge.
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 02:14 PM
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Hey u/rocknrollchuck, ​ After reflection, lifting and reading SB, here is where I landed: Late and worried : she was informed I'd be late via 'whiteboard' and morning reminder. She was high on meds from the dentist so she felt vulnerable with having me away. Not worried. Should Know what's wrong: I had no clue had to ask. Turns out it was medical drugs. Does he care about me: I see this is a comfort test.. I DGAF, so here I was likely rambo. Even in retrospect though, I would rather manage my re…
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 01:58 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:192# GW: 180# Keto | 19.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [140#/250# @5] OHP [110#/130#@5] Bench[135#/220#@5] Row[115#/200#@5] Read : RpC 100 series & 200-207, The Game, Chapters 1-5 of NMMNG, Mystery Method Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality of life, improve others' qualities of life, and worship regularly. Maybe addendum: Love God, Love Self, Make Disciples. Plan : STFU, Lift, Read, Lead, Pray, and take car…
/r/RPChristians30/01/19 08:29 PM
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I'm replying out of acknowleding that you aren't just a passing poster. I find this advice hard to take, I'll STFU instead of explaining why. I'll reflect on it.
/r/RPChristians30/01/19 07:41 PM
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Hard_Red mentioned it as a scale.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 07:35 PM
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Thanks for the link. I'll research and try it out
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 05:35 PM
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In areas like social, career and even parenting. It sounds like you are doing well. The bar always moves, but are you rating your effort, the ratio of accomplishment to potential, or distance from your goal? I would expect higher numbers based on the success you are seeing in these areas.
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 10:37 AM
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How vital is pine pollen to your quality of life? Highly recommended or like a multivitamin?
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 10:35 AM
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Yes. I've done this.
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 01:04 PM
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Thanks for the intricate post! Diet = keto (20 grams carbs) Framing as caretaker is in line with one of Red-Cautious legal posts on MRP. It really spoke to me. Thanks for advice on initiating appropriately and not relentlessly. Thanks for the push back on guiding her towards her goals. Less for me to worry about. Great feedback thanks!
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 01:00 AM
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that post that changed your life was pretty cool. Hold your frame even if she misbehaves. awesome
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 11:01 PM
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thanks.
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 10:52 PM
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OYS #1 1/21/19 Stats: 6'3" | OW: 220# CW:195# GW: 180# Keto | 19.5% | 7y w/ 3 kids | StrongLifts : (Today/Best) SQ [100#/250# @5] OHP [100#/130#@5] B[100#/220#@5] R[100#/200#@5] Read : RpC 101,102,103, 104, 105 The Game, Chapters 1-3 of NMMNG, Mystery Method *The constant initiation makes her feel sexy. That was new! [~RPC103] *Don't fix, be fixed. I knew "my frame, not about her" but this almost made me cry. [~RPC105] ​ Mission : To lead my house, family, and family members to enjoy our quality…
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 10:35 PM
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After 3.5 years, do you have a recent post of goals and challenges? .. I suppose I can check your history. cheers!
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 09:59 PM
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Thank you sir.
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 09:43 PM
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And read and pray. I get it.
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 08:30 PM
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Hey RP nice to meet ya.. ​ Goal is to OMS . Edit: I forgot the problem. All the bull that comes with not OMS
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 08:29 PM
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A whole year at this huh? And the Mrs. from angry to kitten. Awesome this worked for you and you found a sub that really aligns for you. So I assume you concur that a beginner should STFU, go through 100-400 and figure it out. right?
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 08:22 PM
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hehehe
/r/RPChristians21/01/19 06:44 PM
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