| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 370 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value. | SHOWER THOUGHT | anonymous55555111 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:33 PM |
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| 1 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.I love your response. I feel the same way. He was just jealous. Anyone who has issues with money has issues with other people who have it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Depends on the context | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Us looking fly as fuck: flips hair "I know. Good things come to those who wait, and anything good worth getting takes time, honey" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.You should have said "I'm not a princess I'm a Queen" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 10 | I screamed lmaooThis is why I will never lower my physical standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 10 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Sorry you went through that but I'm glad you made it out on the other side. I unfortunately have had similar experiences. I once went on a date to Taco Bell in my 20s... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 12 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Right? And these guys always want to put their keys/wallet in your purse, the same purse they gave you shit about bringing lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 3 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Yesss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 11 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.I agree. What guys really mean is they want a woman who they don't have to work for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 7 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Right lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Everyone’s on their phones everyone can shoot you a five second textI often have my phone near me but I don't like being controlled by notifications. It's almost always set to silent. I don't agree with this sentiment because it's perfectly healthy and acceptable to not immediately respond to every message that comes in. I work during the weekdays and my friends know my communication is limited. With that being said I always reply at some point, and if I can't I will let them know that I will when I can. Communication is important but so are boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 14 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Joe Rogan's wife is only one inch shorter than him. He's 5'7". Just one example where height doesn't matter because the man is confident | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 15 | when the wife & husband are both shallow 😄 (23F/31M)Did he ever think that maybe he should lose weight?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:06 AM |
| 23 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!I think it's projection. The ideal woman to a man is a hot tall model. This type of short man is insecure and knows the hot tall model will never go for him. So, rather than simply looking for short women (of whom exist) to date, they criticize women for "only wanting tall men". They are insecure, bitter little men and are more likely to treat you worse than a tall guy. All the tall guys I've met have had confidence, and that matters. These little men act like they're confident but they're actua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Have you had a man who was a complete stranger or you barely knew physically assault you or threaten to?Yes, at least twice if not more times I've had a guy try to force himself on me. The first guy got choked out by me and left with his tail between his legs. The second guy got really weird and started whining about how he just wants a girlfriend, in a suuuuuper depressed way. I had JUST met him. Guys are crazy. I would never for a second think it was okay to do that to someone, let alone someone you just met | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Men know when men doI disagree. Why would someone be randomly filming them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Men know when men doI cannot stand it when people get into my personal space. Global pandemic or not. One time a guy was standing so close behind me in line (with plenty of room behind him) that I could smell is alcohol breath. I was with my son. I turned around and told him to step back. I do not tolerate that at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Saw this yesterday, thought it belonged here.I want to like this but I feel like he's trying to pull in women by making the video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Local man can't handle the fact his girlfriend is smarter than himQuell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...It's fake. They'll say their broke shortly after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSI agree but it's the man who has the affair, therefore he is the slut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSThe difference here is that whores make money. Women who act like having a lot of sex is a power move don't realize that they're actually giving their power away when they do that. Once you realize that you've been having sex for free with men who don't deserve it, you eventually realize you're the lowest of the low: a free prostitute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Wall? What wall?!Yes. I was just talking to someone about this today when they brought up how beautiful Jennifer Anniston is. I was like, "yeah when you can afford the best of everything: food, healthcare, housing and support, you become healthier. The fact that a lot of people don't get this is ridiculous. Also plastic surgery is very common with celebrities whether they admit to it or not. They can afford to and they're in the public eye. Of course they're going to do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Omg both my roommates are alcoholics and they always save their leftover alcohol. I always see a glass of wine or a beer can with plastic over the top. I seriously hate them but I can't leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:42 AM |
| 2 | A cute woman with a bump? Is this man trying to fulfill a pregnant woman fantasy or something?Any mention of a favorite sports team is an immediate "no" for me. Why? Because men who are obsessed with sports tend to not have a lot of substance or depth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women sacrificing their last name and taking husband's last name indirectly treats the wife as a property of the husband. Are the ladies here in FDS still willing to take their husband's last name after marriage or do they consider last names mixing/blending as an option as a sign of equality?I mean, I have my dad's last name. If I keep it, it's his last name. I would rather have the last name of my husband than of my dad. This is one of those things that I think a lot of people tend to overthink. Anyone has the ability to change their name to whatever they want. I don't agree with the tradition of the woman having his last name, but I don't think it's a reason to spend a lot of energy or time wondering about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.The thing about her having brothers that teased her is so he knows she is going to submit to him and put up with the abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Of course they only want this (and a bangmaid) 🙄Pretty sure they must have just moved in and that's why it's so clean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Hello ladies, I read an amazing article today and it reminded me of traits many men in my life have shown over time. MEN ARE NARCISSISTS.Wow a lot of my exes were like this. Same with my parents, family members and even friends (who I've cut contact with). This list describes both of my roommates. The girl I live with copies everything I do, say, eat, listen to, watch or wear, then when it comes up in conversation she acts like it was her idea. I often have to remind her "I'm the one who told you about that". I've had so many exes do that. They would act like they were teaching me something and I have to remind them that they lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 11 | As a recovering pickme with a habit for manipulative Soft Bois, I’ve learned how to spot the type early.It's also called "narc speak" which is basically talking in a way that is confusing. Confusion can make someone more submissive. That's why if you've ever had a fight with a manipulative man that you often find yourself feeling stupid in some ways. It's horrible and very manipulative. I've encountered men like that a lot. Just today I blocked a man because he kept saying he didn't mean it like that, when the words he used implied exactly that. When he asked me a question about what HE said, I to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 78 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.I have almost no libido and haven't for a while. I'm so disappointed in men and my body is responding to it. I often don't find many men attractive at all. Even if they are attractive I still assume they're a douche canoe. I think the problem is men and the fast food dating culture that we created. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:25 AM |
| 41 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.My sentiment exactly. He targeted a young woman, groomed her, knocked her up, and now he's back to his old ways—looking for another young woman to groom. Next you'll see her post something like "husband of 5 years just left me and our baby for a 19 year old". What a trash human | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSAw I'm sorry that's awful and really mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSThank you. It's still a challenge. Last year a male musician who can't hold a note tell me I needed singing lessons. I know I have a great voice and he reminded me of my brother and also men who were jealous of my talents. The guy just released a new song and he's trying so hard to sing but can't. A lot of men cannot stand a woman who is better at something than they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSThat's amazing! I'm not professionally trained but I can play several instruments, write and produce music now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:59 PM |
| -2 | Check out the comment section of this youtube video. The guy invited her out for drinks but after she said no to a second date, he got mad and demanded that she pay half🙄🙄😡This video was staged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 108 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSMy brother did this to me as a young child. It caused a complex with my music. I was afraid to share. Fuck this guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 10 | How do you respond to an LV ex?Block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?100% Any man would feel embarrassed that they were cheated on, so to say it early on is definitely a lie. Anytime a guy says he was cheated on by his ex and tries to get sympathy, I just say something like "that sucks" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleThis is funny to me because I already do this with a LVM roommate of mine. He's also a narcissist and a control freak. He's always interrupting people's conversations to talk about himself, even if the two people aren't even talking to him. He actually yelled at me one time because I called him out for supporting Trump and being racist. Right before that though, he started voicing his opinion and I just said "nah, I don't care what you have to say" and I left the room. Then I overheard his gf ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 4 | We should all be like this!!!!Right? "B why you calling me at 3am over a damn man" click | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩Wowwwww Yeah so true. I've been "coaching" my friend with the controlling guy and she has picked up some of his narcissistic/passive aggressive behavior patterns as a result and it's just too far gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | He's making ME wait for sex... it's amazing.Sad but highly likely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 5 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.100%. I'm quite spiritual so I avoid men like that, even if they claim to be spiritual — especially if they are poly or "ethically non-monogamous" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 21 | Got pretty angry at the guy trying to mansplain how women feel about sexual assault, and are often afraid to turn men down because we're scared of what they might doI hate the argument "I don't know anyone who has done that so it must not be true" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 12 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.What bothers me about guys with this mentality is that we are NOT apes, we have a conscious mind and the ability to overcome our animal urges and make decisions that don't harm anyone else. I have always called men like that Low Vibrating Men, because their energy just sits in the root chakra which is responsible for sexual urges | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 16 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩Oh wow... this reminds me of my friend who has a controlling boyfriend. She should throw the whole man away at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 35 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩Where's the rest? I want to read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 38 | Riddle me this.Man wrote the Bible so I wouldn't be surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 22 | Riddle me this.I've wondered the same thing. I always thought that was funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Don’t fall for pick-mes pressuring you. Misery loves company, so keep your standards high to avoid the drama.Couldn't agree more. I've avoided so much trouble doing that. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Don’t fall for pick-mes pressuring you. Misery loves company, so keep your standards high to avoid the drama.To add to this, what bothers me about some friends is they tend to nay-say any new love interest I have. Just because I've had bad relationships in the past doesn't mean I'm destined for them, or that I'm choosing wrong. I've learned so much from this group and after a week of applying everything I know I found a HVM who put in a lot of effort to see me. I told some friends and most were happy I was excited but then one of them went on a rant about Ted Bundy. I look for more than just looks and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Make Leveling up your full time jobI always consider what I could be doing rather than being on a date (making money working, working on my own personal art or music projects, or whatever) and then I think about whether or not the guy who's asking me out is worth taking time away from my priorities. If it isn't, I don't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 3 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isIt's because their target market is ballers on a budget lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:17 PM |
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