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Advicebinne21/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:12 AM
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Eh just go outside and do something else. That's not good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:03 PM
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Yeah with all due respect this subreddit is stupid. I just engage because I think it's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:51 PM
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Yeah go take the lifepill or something. Online forums suck donkey ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:48 PM
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Well those men are stupid and need a good bro to set them straight. You should stop caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:35 PM
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"Just more curvy" in womanspeak means obese/fat. So, she's fat and she's upset about not getting swiped right on. Lmao. What makes me different is I dieted and got into shape. I "looksmaxxed" and unsurprisingly became attractive. If the fat woman did the same, losing weight and working out, she would get swiped right on because she would look better. Unsurprisingly. What could make someone different is probably genetic ugliness. Someone can be momentarily ugly, such as me before, but one can fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:25 PM
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Understood. Please list the traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:21 PM
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Could you be so kind to list the other traits, thanks. Most of us are not attractive. Most of us are average. If men were as attractive to women as vice versa, the incel thing wouldn't be a problem lol. Blackpill wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:22 PM
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Generally speaking, the more attractive you are, the more women want you. As a young man, you don't really have a career to attract women. So, it leaves personality and attractiveness, and the latter is very important for the first stage of a relationship: the contact. Looks do matter, one can argue how much but they do matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:12 PM
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The age gap gives me the creeps if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:26 PM
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Can men get crushes on older women? Yeah, there's like four billion men on this earth. Personally? Not really, ofc I am a red-blooded male with testosterone and I have sexual attraction, but nothing I will act on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:52 PM
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Well I don't. If a woman keeps choosing bad boyfriends over and over again, well that says something about her doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:27 PM
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What kind of a person isn't nice on a date???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:19 PM
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Nope. Started university after getting dumped by a long term girlfriend since she went crazy, was rejected, rejected, even more rejected, saw my crush kiss my friend on the dance floor while Mr. Brightside was playing, got together with a nice and wholesome girl who ghosted me the day after we agreed to go exclusive, met a nice girl at a club and went home to her but then she kicked me out after the sex. Heartbreak leads to me being sad, leads to me not focusing on diet, studies, working out, fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:17 PM
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Part of what is me is traditionally masculine. I have always loved "my" masculinity because it is me. Just as I like writing and publishing fanfiction, and playing Dwarf Fortress, I love going to the mats and throwing people around. That is the truth of it. While, yes, I do mask when I meet strangers, we all do that. The friends I do find, I don't mask around. I have never felt better in my life. I feel genuinely happy. Please stop trying to psychoanalyze someone you have never met. I'd advise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:12 PM
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I am traditionally masculine because I like it, just as you are feminine because you like it. I do not judge you and I hope you do not judge me. It's not really about toleration. I mean, I FEEL good. I love working out, I love wrestling. I love looking in the mirror and seeing a well-built body. I love being strong, I love being healthy, I love being able to run 5km without issues. Naturally, I started working out because of "le women" but over time as I realised that women weren't all that, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:56 PM
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I was called a creep in high school. I couldn't really blame them since I was a socially awkward loser. I wasn't malicious persay but I gave off bad vibes. I thought I was genuinely ugly and loveless, which at that point if I had continued onwards I would have been. I started working out. I did stair sprints until I puked on the concrete, I lifted weights until I almost collapsed on the floor, I wrestled until my teeth started to feel numb. I ate unseasoned chicken and eggs. I went from fat to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:19 PM
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Young men need guidance in order to become better men and become good men. I was a shitbird until I met my history teacher in middle school. Everyone else in life who had middling father figures turned out bad. I mean, I had to learn everything by myself since I didn't have a dad. And I mean everything. It took me a long while to come to the normie level of others who did have guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:18 AM
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Why look to women for masculinity? Do I know anything about femininity? For what's it worth, I had a long term ex who was "progressive" and I generally agreed with her. She went on about women's rights and men's health and I nodded along. When I finally opened up about my traumatic childhood to her and the issues that I carry with me, she dumped me two weeks after. I grew up with an abusive and later abandoning father and I was a headless chicken in my youth. Thankfully I had a teacher in middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:15 AM
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Women have been interested. There were attractive women but the thought did not cross my mind of cheating. Nope. Nope. Never. Nope. Nope. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:01 AM
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Feminist spaces and MGTOW spaces generally, as a rule, suck donkey balls. Don't take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:44 PM
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No. That's mean. Being mean is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:09 PM
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Sex. She's using him for sex and will quickly leave as soon as she gets her fill. Attention. She likes to have him as an orbiter, on her "roster", talks but leaves him on delivered for hours. Money. Usually online dates, wants the man to pay for expensive dinners and so on. The signs she is not using a man is genuine interest in the man, actually getting to know him, replying quickly, basically loving him like he loves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:09 PM
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Entertainment!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:22 PM
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Simple: don't take dating advice from women. Problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:18 PM
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I am attractive so I have no problems getting hookups at the club but I am also autistic so I have problems with actual romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:49 PM
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Because we men are taught that complaining makes you a whiner. They probably hate their bodies but don't want to complain in front of others. Women evaluate more than genetics? Sure pal. Women approach me at parties because I like watching mecha anime and not because I am attractive. Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:57 PM
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Because it fucking sucks. Constant pain in your heart, constantly seeing her, having to talk with her and pretend everything is fine. Not getting over her. It will usually never go away. It's always better to cut ties and find someone else. She doesn't have to be his girlfriend, and he doesn't have to be her friend. Why would I prioritise heartbreak over my own mental health? Men who are surrounded by women are always gay or not seen as desirable romantically by the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:52 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:19 AM
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Why? No, seriously? Why? Why not date a bisexual man? I am curious. My ex was a bisexual woman. I knew it. I accepted it. I had no problem with her having kissed girls before. I didn't care much since she was with me and because I do not care about other people's sexual orientation. Why not date a bisexual man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:00 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:51 AM
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I wouldn't care less, but why are you asking? Your life. If you like her then keep dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:27 AM
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I do not want my partner to have an extensive sexual past. For me, hook-ups and casual sex is disgusting. The idea of my partner having participated in it is revolting. Therefore, I have a low n-count, and I want my future girlfriend to have the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:20 AM
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Alright, I think I can chime in. Some men and women sleep around. Some men and women don't sleep around and have sex within relationships. Some men and women want virgins. Some men and women are inbetween. There are a plethora of people that have their own view on sex and intimacy. There are women/men/persons who share your own view. The best bet is to date someone who shares your view on sex and intimacy, in this case body count and hookups. I know I do, I know all of my friends do. I know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:16 AM
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I disagree. I believe the opposite. But you do you and I'll do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:08 AM
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Women can get laid easier than men. Those men who can get hookups are usually attractive and high value. That being said, I understand the standard that it goes both ways. It's why I don't sleep around. I don't want my future partner to sleep around, so why should I? All this about "well he's a KEY that opens many LOCKS" is just bullshit. If you look around on Reddit you will find women complaining and stressing about their husband/boyfriend having slept with a lot of women, just like men compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:57 AM
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Bump.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:43 PM
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Like what things? I'd like to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:05 AM
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English is not my native language so I apologize for any misunderstandings. Yes, there are extremes. They happen. But they are extremes because they do not happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:03 AM
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Okay, what do you disagree with in particular? Why do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:52 AM
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Two versus one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:35 AM
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I've seen women and men be stupid here. The brainrot extends to the woman sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:33 AM
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Because it is simply online. I can confirm what OP is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:30 AM
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Bump. People here need to go outside. TV/Social media has brainrotted this generation into believing bullshit and generalising the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:09 AM
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Rule number one: don't listen to women when it comes to dating. Some women like soft-spoken men. Some women like cocky, confident men. All women do like men who take care of their bodies and are athletic. I can at least testify that women tend to like feminine men more, especially during our youth. I'm twenty years old and I am very masculine, I resemble Dolph Lundgren, I wrestle, follow and talk about sports and so on. At first glance I am your stereotypical high school linebacker. Now, believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 PM
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First and foremost, her past does not make her a bad person. If anything, it is really positive that she has decided to change her life for the better and escaped that hell. Sex work as a teenager is not good. But I would not date her. Broadly speaking, there is a difference between how you are as a person and how you are as a romantic partner. I am casual friends with a few party girls now in university. They are fun to be around, they liven up the party, and they do have fun interests that we …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:57 PM
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I think idiots on both sides generalise. Someone who says "all men are rapists/creeps/whatever" and "all women are whores/cunts/manipulative" is someone you should not take advice from. We're all people in the end with different personalities and so on. Men are not monoliths, same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:45 PM
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Bump. I think people are online too much and really need to go outside. A lot of the shit I see being spewed on here is false. No, not all women are whores. Both of my exes were virgins when we met. The "party girls" that I know all have body counts less than six. Yes, looks matter, but it is not everything. I recently got outcompeted by a skinny fat balding guy with glasses, and I resemble Dolph Lundgren. I'm 190cm (just above average where I am) and I see guys my age below 170cm getting women …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:03 PM
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Work on finding better men. Stop using the internet as a source of "evidence" for how men are. If I want to understand women then I'll talk to my female peers in real life. Selfishness is not a masculine trait. I am a man. I am a reservist, expected to fight for my nation in war. I will eventually be the provider for my family when I settle down. I am expected to be nice. I don't know what country you live in but I'm Swedish, we are taught in our upbringing to be helpful for no reward. I have go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:30 PM
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Eh, it almost worked for me sometimes. Got their numbers, started chatting, didn't work so I left. Also, is today the first day you realise men have it tough on the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:17 AM
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"If you smell shit all day, check the bottom of your shoes." I mean that's just common sense. Goes for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:14 AM
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🍿 this shit sure is fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:49 AM
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Well... don't get a six pack then? Do down/up to a healthy BF% and stay there. You'll still look great.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:51 PM
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I concede that I don't know much about jobs since I'm still studying; but that doesn't really disqualify me from giving out advice that has worked.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:49 PM
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Any gym newbie will get gains by picking a routine and sticking to it. Yeah, working out the abdominal muscle helps build them. And yes, social skills can be learned. I was bullied for my entire childhood but that didn't stop me from trying to improve my social skills.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:48 PM
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The article claims that some people have an easier time getting defined abs than others. But it's science that you do have abdominal muscles and they will be visble once you reach a low BF%. Will it be bodybuilder abs? Perhaps not, but who cares? You're ripped as fuck anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:40 PM
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I just commented my counterpoints. That is not ignoring.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:33 PM
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Well if I was a "Chad" then why are my friends that are considerably shorter, have worse faces, jaws, much lower on the Decile Scale have had much more success at women than me? And this is not "trivial effort", this is more than appearance. It's about mental health as well. And I haven't "slayed".
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:32 PM
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Abs are attainable by lowering your body fat percentage and training the abdominal once in a while. Every person out there can get abs. That article is implying that some people have a harder time getting that. Doesn't mean it's impossible. Posture means standing up straight and not hunching over unless you're the hunchback of Notre Dame - which I doubt anyone here is. Smiling is better than frowning constantly. Social skills can be learned. It's a skill. I went from being autistic as fuck to be…
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 04:24 PM
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Well, shit. Try looking for new hobbies that can net you a few friends imo.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:40 AM
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Huh, figures. Maybe try cosplay? Look around for other otaku clubs?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:35 AM
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Yeah, that's why I'm bailing after this post. I really want to help you guys but I can't because this place is negative.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:34 AM
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It works for all ages. Please give me an example where adults can't use a piece of my advice.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:33 AM
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What hobbies do you have? Any luck at finding friends in your workplace?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:29 AM
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Well I'm talking offline. Online friends are cool but offline is the real deal.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:24 AM
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Shit man. If you got PTSD from that then have a hug 🫂. Anyway I have no advice on how to get friends if you're 30+. Look around on Reddit and see if there's someone that managed to.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:22 AM
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Who gives a fuck? Seriously. Why should you care if some stranger has an issue with you enjoying a hobby? As long as you're not the stereotypical neckbeard with a loli bodypillow saying that she's "actually two hundred years old" then continue to be yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:29 AM
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All women are different. Some want hookups, some don't. There are absolutely women out there looking for someone to spend their life with.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:06 AM
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Yeah, I get you. I'm a 6'3 218lbs wrestler that likes to talk about anime and punk rock. So, I'm a weird mix of a jock, punk and a nerd. Weird but that's who I am and as such I alternate between the styles. But you're looking for a wife so present yourself as a husband. Illuminate traits such as empathy, your career etc. Put yourself in the shoes of a woman looking for a husband and think about what SHE wants and act accordingly.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah. If you present yourself as a chad fuckboy whatever then women will only use you for sex. Present yourself as husband material and you will get women that like that. Also; you deserve to be loved. Everyone deserves to be loved. Everyone deserves a loving mother. Everyone deserves a caring father. No one deserves bullying or abuse. Don't let anyone make you think otherwise.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:34 PM
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Not really. I've rejected a few women and I haven't been crucified.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:16 PM
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Try Hinge or traditional dating IRL to find LTRs. Tinder is one big hookup app. This is just off the top of my head but maybe change your style to look more homely and husband material?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:13 PM
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I doubt that women want to date "blackpillers". No offence intended but most people on some form of pill aren't dating material. If women can do anything when it comes to "blackpilled" they can simply leave them alone and sometimes lend an ear. That's the most they can do tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:46 PM
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Uh... nah. No one should be forced to date anyone. Inc*ls shouldn't be forced to date girls they don't like and vice versa. If you want to start dating and "save blackpillers" then improve yourself. Looksmaxx gymmaxx bla bla bla. You already know it. Also encourage your fellow men to do the same. Women can't do much for inc*ls imo. It's a male problem that is solved by lifting each other up and encouraging each other.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:13 PM
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Yeah. It's a shit subreddit. Incels absolutely need to exit but r/IncelExit is the worst place to do so. Also got a name on the IncelExit shooter? I want to read up about it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:04 AM
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IncelExit is a shit place for incels that actually want to exit. It's composed by a majority of women that give bad advice and dislike you from the get go. The overlap between IncelExit and IncelTears is huge. Don't go there.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 10:27 PM
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If this is the tutorial i dont want to know what easy is 😭
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:10 AM
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Nope. I am 6'3 and haven't felt the touch of a woman in years. I have friends that are 5'6 and similar that have girlfriends and generally have more game. That being said; height does matter but not to the extent you think it does.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 01:04 AM
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What vile and horrible comments? Has someone taken to stalking and harrassing you? I also find it funny you're generalising these people same as they generalise you. Not everyone of them want to behead women. Most of them are insecure virgin young men which every man has been at one point. I understand you not wanting to help weirdos. You think they're weird and need professional help; so do I. I would respect that line of thinking and understand it. Leaving these people alone and continuing on …
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:16 PM
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Oh come on. You haven't said it outright but just about every single comment you've made has come with a tone of haughtiness and superiority. Stop kidding yourself. When have these people said disgusting things to you? When? Give me one real life example of a guy going up to you and saying what these people say. I don't go to femcel nests and talk about how they're disgusting, do I? Do you think these people have felt love? You think they've ever felt compassion, companionship, friendship? I'm n…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:07 PM
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I like mine medium rare!
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 12:48 PM
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Hell, I agree that these people have somewhat unrealistic viewpoint of how women are. Guess what? Shouting at them and stomping your feet won't help anyone. Want to help? Talk to these people and try to understand them. Have a soft empathetic tone in your voice when you speak. These people would appreciate being treated like human beings and being understood.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 12:46 PM
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You going on here and yelling at men that you're better than them does nothing. It's like me going to a McDonalds and laughing at all the obese people there. Does it grant me short term satisfaction; knowing I'm "better" than them? Yes. Does it actually help in any way? No. Hell, if you want to actually help these young men then try and do so instead of yelling that they're wrong and that you're right.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 12:41 PM
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Its offensive and triggering because that's what the entire post is. Of course its that. I see no advice in the post; I see only hatred and disgust.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:58 AM
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I haven't said that I know the ins and outs of a woman brain. What I do know is how to date women. How to get their attention, appear more dateable, how to flirt etc. You don't know this because you haven't been in the shoes of a man that has tried to date women. Why are you trying to prove otherwise?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:56 AM
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No, you don't know how women work. Let me ask you this: have you ever been a male that has attempted to date women? No? Then yeah, you don't know the male perspective on the dating scene. You will never understand male dating problems. Same as I don't know the female perspective.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:14 AM
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Yeah, the specific point of view in which you decry and yell at these incels without any actual advice or help. Be real; have you helped in any way or form by coming here and writing an essay about how incels are disgusting and need to grow up? No. No you haven't. Do you seriously think yelling at them will work? Do you not realise these people have already been demonised, insulted, stomped on, bullied and etc a plenty of times? All you're doing is adding more fuel to the fire and accelerating h…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:12 AM
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I suggest you go outside and enjoy the beautiful nature. There's better things to do in life than to yell at people with no chance of a satisfying conclusion.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:14 AM
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It's a US thing because men are short over there. The average height for a Swedish teenage boy is 6'1/185cm while a Swedish teen girl is around 168cm/5'6 I think? This is from personal experience as a Swede. Since every guy is already tall; women don't care about height. Every guy is tall to them. As a guy who is "only" 6'3/190cm my height does not matter here because I am barely above average. If I was in the US? Sure, but not here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:30 AM
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Thanks, I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:13 PM
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Thanks? Not often I get that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:58 PM
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shit man, you need a hug :( Look at it this way. Dating is not a game. It's a journey of finding "the one". If you're not compatible with a girl then that's that. Don't waste your energy on worrying about women that don't like you. You should probably take some time off and chill a bit with dating. Start working on yourself, etc. When you're ready again then download Hinge or whatever and write that you're looking for a serious LTR. Hopefully that'll weed out the "bad" from the good. You'll get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:51 PM
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Then she isn't a keeper. It wasn't meant to be. There's people that take relationships seriously. I think you're taking a vocal minority and dragging it to include everyone. There's absolutely people out there that don't do hookups and take LTRs seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:44 PM
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Eh, so what? Hookup culture exists. You don't have to partake in it. There's a lot of girls that don't partake in hookup culture either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:30 PM
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Casual sex is shit. I don't see the appeal in banging random strangers. Also this will probably get me downvoted but I have as a dealbreaker that my future girlfriend should preferably be a virgin or at least not engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:51 PM
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I'll just say what I said last thread. You either can live with it or you can't. You can't go around changing your innate standards. I wouldn't be able to handle a girl who was a slut back in the day. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife and the same goes for men. I don't know if its true but I have anecdotes and some weird research about the topic. I've had two of my best friends go into their first loving relationship with girls that have had a sexual past. Both got cheated on hard. Then agai…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 01:42 PM
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It's not weird to want to be in a loving relationship where both people lose their virginities to each other. Uncommon? Sure, but it's not weird to want that. Talk to your boyfriend, talk to your friends, hell even talk to a therapist. If you can figure out a way to live with that then that's swell. If you try and you just can't then that's that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 11:54 PM
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You having emotions about your partners past isn't bad. The idea that people having emotion should be shamed for that is completely idiotic. It's human that you're worried. I recommend a conversation with your partner; about the porn and his sexual past. Communication is key. Don't go changing what you can't change though. If you can't accept the hookups then you just can't.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 11:47 PM
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Porn is bad. Very bad. It gives an unhealthy view of relationships and women. Plus: it can fuck with the dick. Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction literally makes your dick stop working. I've been through that myself. Also that's just something you have to think about. I have as a deal breaker that my future girlfriends don't do casual sex. I, myself, don't engage in casual sex for that part either. I do this so I have to avoid overthinking my partners sexual history and the like. I wouldn't say i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 11:43 PM
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Shit man, here's hoping. Girls my age usually don't share my values and ideals. Obviously there's girls that do but they're horribly out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:53 PM
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Had an incel/redpill phase long while ago. Now I don't take any pill - blue or red or purple - but I think that there's some right and wrong with every "pill". I'm an 18 year old boy and I'm looking for a happy monogamous relationship. No casual sex. I've been offered casual sex before and I've turned them down. Not into that stuff and one of my standards is that my girlfriend shares the same value. Marriage isn't something I've considered but I'm barely out of high school lol. If I'm in a stabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:37 PM
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Cut off all contact with him. Full stop. He's a manwhore, plain and simple. So what if he commits to you? With his track record; he'll be off to fuck another girl anyway and leave you in the dust. That's usually how whores operate. Relationships are a two way street and he apparently isn't interested in that life. I know that it probably is hard to cut off people that seem like they are good but make sure to emphazise all his negative traits. Especially if he's a manwhore. He's not good for you …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 10:50 PM
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...I'm also possibly on the spectrum. Guess he and I have something in common then lol- Also: online does not mean real life. There's a lot of difference between people IRL and people online. Using the internet as one's worldview is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:26 PM
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Yeah, I want love. I want to cuddle a girl, kiss her hair and drink hot chocolate with her while we watch Twin Peaks. I think you've accidentally surrounded yourself with asshole men and are basing your view of men on that. Find better men that share your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:56 AM
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Don't really get this whole debate. I'm a semi-voluntarily virgin who is looking for a girl I like and that likes me back that I would lose my virginity too. I also have a standard that she should preferably be a virgin or not engage in casual sex. I've seen first hand what promiscious women do to unassuming men. One of my best bros got cheated on epic style by a girl who's slept around a lot. I've been offered hookups before. I've turned them down. I'm not into that. But the standard goes both …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:54 AM
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I'd say you were an innocent Nice Guy. You didn't do anything bad, just didn't flirt correctly. Nice Guys are usually misled by romcoms and movies to believe in friends to lovers scenarios. Unfortunately; that just doesn't happen, and in the cases where it does happen there's always a level of "tension" beforehand. Whenever you see an attractive girl, flirt early on. That makes your hand clear: you want a relationship. If she says no then you can either move on or keep being friends. If it's a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:39 PM
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