It really breaks my heart to see you guys sad and I want to help you all, however this subreddit is pretty negative and I'm trying to filter out negativity in my life. Unfortunately ALL media that is aimed at helping inc*ls - from the bluepilled female dominated IncelTears to that rat faced Tate dude - is complete dogshit.

So I'm going to write a pretty big post on how I ascended from Inc*ldom and what tricks I used. I'm going to split it up into three parts: self improvement, mindset and afterwards.

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Self Improvement

  • Gymmaxx.
    This should be known to you. Pick a routine - I recommend ICF 5x5 or Starting Strength - and stick with it. If you're underweight then bulk. Overweight then cut. Remember to stick to your diet and to only cheat once a week. Abs are made in the kitchen; not the gym.
    Not only will this make you look better; you'll feel like a fucking Greek god. You'll feel like a fucking marble sculpture. That is good on ALL levels.
  • Looksmaxx.
    Shave your stubble or trim your beard. Posture; stand up straight. Try out perfume. Make sure you have a wardrobe that fits. Get a haircut if needed to. Also shower but you know this already. Look around the internet for fashion tips.
    Small tip: Smile. Everyone likes smiles.
  • Socialmaxx.
    Social skills are skills and can be learned. I went from being autistic as fuck to being somewhat able to hold a conversation with a cute girl. You just talk, talk, talk. You will start out weird but that's part of the process. Keep talking with people and your social skills will improve.
  • Hobbymaxx.
    You play video games? Instead of sitting inside then take your PC out to a LAN party or a convention. You like anime? Try out cosplaying and go to anime conventions. Take the stuff you already do and see if you can make it social.
    Also try out new hobbies if they seem interesting but don't try them out if you're in it for the girls. Don't be that guy that goes to dance class, hates every second and then is rejected by every girl. That's a shit piece of advice that women give. Never try out a hobby just for the girl potential. Try it out because it's fun.
  • Friendmaxx.
    If you have friends then hang out with them. Hug them. Let them know you love them. Friends are precious. If you don't have friends then try reaching out to bros in your workplace or hobbies. I managed to pick up some friends through wrestling for example.
  • Statusmaxx
    You want a traditional wife? Cool, play your part then. Living with your parents is negative. Make plans to either get an education or try to apply for jobs.
    I must admit I am not well versed in this considering I'm still in high school but this is just an educated guess.
  • Mentalhealthmaxx.
    You deserve to be loved. You deserve a caring father. You deserve a loving mother. No one deserves to be bullied, octstraized or abused. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise.
    Love yourself and seek ways to help yourself. Vent to friends or family. Try therapy if you have access to it. Read books on CBT. Remember: you deserve love and happiness.
  • Stop watching porn.
    I can't stress this enough. Porn is a fucking poison that makes you look at women with a very wrong lens. Cut off all porn immediately. Jacking off is okay in moderation, just use your imagination.

Mindset

  • The blackpill is (mostly) right.
    I won't sit here and be some asshole and say that looks don't matter, because they do. Chads do exist. Stacies do exist. There is hookup culture. Girls with a heavy sexual past do settle for "safe" guys. The blackpill is based on truth but...
  • The blackpill is (mostly) false.
    Looks matter up to a point. I'm 6'3 and some say I look like a young Dolph Lundgren and I haven't had any female attention until recently; make of that what you will. Also Chads and Stacies do exist but they're just a type of woman/man. Hookup culture does exist, but it's not consumed all dating. Which leads me to...
  • #NotAllWomen
    Yeah, yeah, I know. But seriously. All women are different individuals. They have their own lives with their own thoughts, needs, wishes, dislikes etc. Talk to women that you don't feel attraction to. Girls out of your league, big age gap etc. You'll stop seeing them as a monolith that hates you but instead as people who happen to share a vagina and some traits built into them because of biology and society.
  • Stop exaggerating.
    The absolutely biggest mistake you guys do is to take the worst of women - the vapid airheads that drink, fuck and party - and drag it over all women. I won't deny they exist, but I will also attest to the fact that there are absolutely women that don't do that shit.
    You hate party sluts? Great! Don't try to date them then. No sane man should. Look for other girls. They exist.
  • Get off the in*elsphere.
    Those places are toxic poison. No matter how much success you achieve those forums will drag your brain down into a pit of negativity. Leave those forums immediately.

Afterwards

  • Online dating sucks because it's vanity.
    You already know why. It's hookups and if you're not 10% in looks then you're fucked. It's a place where NOTHING about you is showcased except for looks. The women on there won't know about your passion for your career or how you plan to travel around the world and enjoy the various cultures. They just see your face/body and decide off that. I can - however - vouch for Hinge since it's a more LTR focused app.
  • Cold approach.
    It fucking sucks but it's how your ancestors used to get girls. Follow these steps.
  1. See cute girl.
  2. Go up to her, strike up a small conversation. Or just be direct and ask for contact.
  3. If yes then hell yeah man! If no then thank her for her time and fuck off quickly.

Follow these steps and you are 100% not a creep. If these girls still think you're a creep then that's on them. You didn't do anything wrong.

  • Mutual friends or hobbies.

Probably THE way to find a good girlfriend. Shared interests usually lead to better compatability. However this doesn't have any advice except for praying to RNGeus to roll a d20 for you.'

  • Respect yourself

Eventually you'll get a girl that likes you. SHIT TEST HER. Do NOT fall for the first sign of pussy. She may be manipulative, she may be toxic as fuck. She may try to get your ass in an unloving marriage to enjoy your betabuxx.
Ask yourself these questions: do I really like her? Does she really like ME as a person? What red flags does she have? and etc.
Fucking respect yourself, okay? I've seen my friends jump headfirst into relationships because it was the first speck of female attention they got and they got fucking ruined. Their mental health went down the shitter because of that.
Remember: it's better to live alone happily than to suffer in an unloving toxic relationship.

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I followed these steps and I went from 0 success with girls to getting two offers of casual sex from attractive women - which I rejected - and I've been getting a lot more smiles from girls on the streets. I've also had a date with a nice girl but it went nowhere afterwards.

I won't lie and say this is GUARANTEED to work for everyone or that it will work quickly. This shit takes time and some people are trucels and too far gone. Those cels, however, are like 1% of the community. You aren't a truecel. Trust me.

That's all. I won't be browsing this subreddit more. If you have anything to add then comment. If you have any questions then comment. If you want to then DM me; I'm here for you.

Godspeed.