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No joke my nephew (when he was about 7 years old) said he wished he had anxiety so he could be like Ironman. Sorta fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:03 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:39 AM
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Usually their hands are a good indicator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:16 AM
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🚩 not respecting my personal space. If I need to be left alone, leave me the fuck alone 🚩 having no hobbies. If they don’t have any hobbies, they’re going to sit on their ass and do nothing but watch tv and play video games. Playing nerdy games with friends doesn’t count as a hobby (in my opinion) 🚩 small girly hands 🚩 men who make literally everything feel awkward. 🚩 beer bellies and dad bods 🤢 🚩 men who are not smart with their finances. If you have an extra $20k in your account and there’s a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:33 AM
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Literally just did this 2 days ago lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:17 AM
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Gross 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:04 AM
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Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:34 AM
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I was the cool wine aunt until I got sober and met a HVM. I think present day wine culture is something younger women might want to be careful about, but I agree with most things on this sub. Leveling up, respecting yourself, and maintaining goals is more important than appearing cool. I say this coming from a family full of women that celebrate “wine o’clock” every day and put their dreams aside to become housewives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:28 PM
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Bahahaha this is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:35 AM
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Now that I’ve finally found myself a HVM it makes me incredibly happy for everyone else who has found one as well. It blows my mind that I settled for less in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:12 PM
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I love everything about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:20 PM
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PREACH 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:16 AM
25

I want this shirt/jacket plz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:08 AM
5

Bahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:12 AM
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I wish my tatas were smaller so I could confidently go bra-less. Just feels wrong for me. I’ve tried a couple times but I always end up covering up with my arms or whatever. Sadgurl here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:01 AM
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Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:57 AM
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Amen 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:16 PM
11

Damn do I need to start doing this too? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:51 AM
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I’ve spent the last 6 or so months teaching myself how to day trade. Currently taking a break as I hit a pretty big loss trading Tesla earnings and want to avoid losing more money by emotional trading, but will probably be ready to dive back in in a couple of weeks. Would love to meet more fellow trader sisters out there. I know of a couple other ladies that I’ve met on various trading subs that would probably be interested as well. Let me know if you come up with something, would be happy to sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:25 PM
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They’re so cheap the fake “silver” spray fades after a little wear and the copper underneath leaves ugly rings around your finger if you wear it for too long. I bought myself one to wear at work so scrotes would leave me alone if they thought I was married. (Turns out it doesn’t really make much of a difference. People will still hit on you and harass you even if you appear to be unavailable)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:13 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:01 PM
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Yes! I love being single honestly. Sure, it was hard at first when the only thing you know is having someone around, but once you really recognize what all you were putting up with, you start to realize how much it was depriving you of true happiness. I will never let another guy take that happiness away from me. So proud of you for realizing you’re worth so much more than that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:30 PM
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In one of my last relationships I put up with a lot of bullshit. He was this star drummer in a semi popular band where he lives and had all these groupies. Obsessed with fame. I personally thought the music was “meh,” so I didn’t treat him like his groupies and I guess he appreciated it in a weird way, but I still put up with his party boy behavior until I had a feeling he was doing fuckboy things. Turned out I was right. He got some random chick knocked up right after I broke it off with him. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:04 PM
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I will never be financially dependent on a guy for this very reason. First guy I dated came from rich parents and never held a job because he could get money from them whenever he wanted, meanwhile I worked 2 jobs just to pay my half. After that I thought long and hard about it. My sister and mother are both 100% dependent on their spouses income. My thought was... what if I just became a housewife like them? Then what if something happened (what if they started cheating or became abusive) and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:53 PM
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Gross. I have a neighbor that has done this to me. I’d be minding my own business on the train ride home from work or listening to my headphones walking home from the grocery store and he’d just hover over me until I paid attention to him. The other day I was walking my dog and he was driving, saw me, literally turned his car around, PULLED OVER AND GOT OUT TO ASK ME IF I WANTED TO GO OUT WITH HIM SOMETIME. Like NO ya fucking creep leave me alone and stop stalking me. I wasn’t interested the fir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:32 PM
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I’m actually a little frustrated with myself because in the past I probably would’ve been irritated by this type of behavior but put up with it. I’ll be paying much more attention to red flags earlier from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:24 PM
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I didn’t really know how common narcissistic behavior in men was until somewhat recently, and once it all hit me, I looked back at failed relationships and was just like... damn... everything makes sense now. Glad you got away from that piece of shit and enjoy NC, you deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:10 PM
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I spend a decent amount of time on trading subs and it just makes life so much easier when everyone thinks I’m a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:13 AM
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Yeah this message made me wanna vom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:32 AM
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I have an app called Migraine Buddy so I track all of my migraines. I actually noticed my migraines increased from 3 a month to about 6-7 a month while dating a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:17 AM
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Lmao I spit out my coffee when I read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:35 PM
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It’s always disappointing to find out someone I thought was a HVM is actually a LVM.. Better to recognize it sooner than later. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:07 AM
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Same lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:01 AM
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Bahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:50 AM
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Damn I have been away from this sub for far too long. I missed you ladies 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:43 AM
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Therapy. He needs a lot of therapy. This is why I don’t even bother with dating apps, this is more or less about 50% of what I’ve encountered. What a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:59 PM
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Omg lol this is too real for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:50 PM
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Same. I don’t get it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:47 PM
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Yeah... and over analyze everything or cut him slack.. “maybe he’s really busy right now, maybe he’s been on the phone with his mom, maybe he’s super busy at work..” except when YOU are TOGETHER he’s playing on his phone the whole damn time. I will never let myself be so completely pathetic ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:46 PM
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Okay, this is all too real. I’m cringing at myself right now because I know I’ve done this shit. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:42 PM
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No thank you. I’m much happier single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:02 PM
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Sadly I’ve come to recognize that this type of male is all too common and it’s really just how much you’re willing to put up with and for how long. We’re free from that now though :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:04 PM
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My ex got fat while we were still dating and that was fine, whatever love is love right? But one day he held me down and farted in my face and smothered my face in it until I started crying and threw up, all the while laughing like a maniac. Then he got the trash stash thing going on thinking it was funny. The drinking got heavier, he got meaner, would say shit like “one day I’m going to leave you for the younger prettier version,” and it just goes on and on. I’ve been free from that for over 4 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:56 PM
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Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:28 AM
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This popped up on my feed at the perfect time. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:33 AM
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So much cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:45 PM
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Hahaha yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:35 AM
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Yep, planning our costumes for next year’s Halloween and shit, having me help him pick out new furniture and paint swatches, talking about a future together... just to realize he liked the attention he was getting from other girls more than he valued what we had started. It started off slowly and I drove myself insane telling myself it was all in my head, but my instincts were right. It was all bullshit. Every fucking word.... He’s just a stranger to me now. I’m getting over it, but I don’t thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:43 AM
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