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I don't understand how a group of women who tell half the planet they are rapists feel so smart by surrounding themselves with the portion of that half who enthusiastically agree...
/r/EverydayMisandry24/02/25 03:23 PM
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No, it isn't. After getting your reply I archived it for you. Can you see either https://web.archive.org/web/20250202151310/https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1iemoe3/some_studies_on_female_sexual_aggression/ or https://archive.ph/toLW2 ?
/r/EverydayMisandry02/02/25 03:15 PM
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This thread lists some of them. /r/MensRights/comments/1iemoe3/some_studies_on_female_sexual_aggression/
/r/EverydayMisandry02/02/25 03:09 PM
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Look at Alabama, the first state to put severe restrictions on abortions. The majority of the pro-life voters were women, the author of the bill was a woman who failed to pass such restrictions twice before, the governor who signed the bill that didn't have a veto proof majority was a woman. All the media blamed the male legislators that voted for their constituents, who were pro-life, wishes. Look what happened in Texas, the second state to pass such restrictions. The majority of pro-life voter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:10 PM
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Most of us want EQUALITY of the sexes. Gender neutral laws, public policies, opportunities, etc. If you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation and blocking equal laws. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ Or read this list about feminism misandry for anyone who thinks that feminism fights for men’s rights, for anyone who thinks that feminism was…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 01:22 PM
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Even if a man is physically stronger than his SO 98% of the time, a man isn't stronger 24/7/365.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/24 01:11 AM
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That is kind of misleading. When the sex is not in dispute (only the consent), when the victim refuses to cooperate (support going forward with a case), or when the perpetrator pleads guilty (so there is no need for the evidence) make up the overwhelming majority of the unprocessed rape kits. Any chance one of those was the situation? In these cases the kits are kept on hand for decades in case the situation changes, not hidden so the victim can't seek justice. Sources : https://www.mankatofreep…
/r/MensRights12/10/24 12:39 PM
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There are some evil men and women in the world. Nothing will change that. The bigger problem isn't that evil women exist. In an evil woman vs decent man situation, societal, legal, and support systems are generally against the man. CBT doesn't fix reality.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 12:26 PM
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From 2019 to 2020, the numbers were very different... https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/l2gbb7/large_declines_in_men_going_to_college_since_covid/
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:46 PM
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1 in 6 women wouldn't surprise me. But much of your argument downplays rape of men by women and the rate of false accusations. RAINN is quoting "rape" statistics influenced by feminists. More than 1 in 71 men have had their penis nonconsensually enveloped in a single year. That is not counted as rape. They only count nonconsensual penetration which is overwhelmingly done by the sex with outie genitalia as rape and brush off nonconsensual envelopment which is overwhelmingly done by the sex with i…
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:09 AM
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As soon as the mods approved this comment caught by reddits new harassment filter, the commenter above stopped harassing us. Speechless is an acceptable response. :)
/r/MensRights28/09/24 10:49 AM
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For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is considered the foremost expert on sexual violence in the US. She is the one that star…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 07:49 PM
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Females account for 1% of rape perpetrators. According to feminist "rape" research methods, yes. Yet women perpetrate over 40% of the nonconsensual sex in a typical year in the US. How do YOU define rape?
/r/MensRights27/09/24 06:32 PM
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I'll give you an example. There was a massive increase in FGM in the UK. It was so bad the government allocated millions of pounds to open eight FGM centers around the country. The daily mail was one of the only ones to report the raw data. in the year to March 2017, only 57 were performed in the UK of which 50, or 87 per cent, were in the category for piercings, and all the women whose ages were known were over 18 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5434125/amp/Almost-FGM-cases-Britain-l…
/r/MensRights22/09/24 11:43 AM
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The NY Post and DailyMail are both near tabloid media AND are often the only kinds of news outlets that will publish legitimate information that goes against both the woke left and religious right narratives. Find the source study after you find the articles in them.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 03:49 PM
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UN Women gave Amber Heard an influential voice as violence against women advocate when she was a known domestic abuser of a previous girlfriend. She then used that voice to cancel culture Johnny Depp when she was the one instigating the violence in the relationship. https://www.tmz.com/2016/06/07/amber-heard-domestic-violence-arrest-partner-tasya-van-ree/ https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5d8d58c5e4b0019647a5ebef
/r/MensRights20/09/24 12:48 AM
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Seeking to deflect any male responsibility for sexual violence, MRAs construct men as the true victims of both women and feminism. As we argued above, men are first depicted as the literal victims of sexual violence enacted by women. MRAs contend that feminists have defined the social narrative on rape and erased this widespread victimization (CAFE 2014; Golden 2013; Wallen 2013). As Hannah Wallen argues in an article on AVFM, feminists are complicit in the erasure of men’s victimization in orde…
/r/MensRights18/09/24 11:54 AM
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/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/
/r/MensRights17/09/24 11:56 AM
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1) Just because a man is found Innocent does not mean the woman made a false accusation. It needs to be proven in court. 2) There are more lenient sentences for rape as a juvenile vs an adult. Shouldn't the same apply to a student?
/r/MensRights17/09/24 11:38 AM
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Boys are five times more likely to be told off in a primary school class than girls even though they are just as likely to misbehave, according to new research. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1575971/Bad-girls-less-likely-to-be-told-off-than-boys.html
/r/MensRights13/09/24 02:20 AM
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Adults that had this happen to them are dismissed by feminists. Do we know it's any rarer than women who get pregnant from rape?
/r/MensRights10/09/24 09:21 PM
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It's rare that a woman is impregnated by a child and convicted. ~10% of men are victims of reproductive coercion. I know several guys IRL who had accidental to them but intentional to their wives/girlfriends babies. It's socially acceptable for their SO to do it and admit it for some insane reason. About as many men are "made to penetrate" as women are "raped" in a typical year, I know several guys that were raped by women and know of several that post here that have a child as a result of their…
/r/MensRights10/09/24 08:55 PM
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Reproductive coersion of men is also a big issue leading to unwanted children. approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or tried to stop them from using birth control https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_coercion American talk shows for women encourage women to stop birth control without telling their partner with the applause of their audiences. And despite th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:50 AM
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How about court precedents? If a woman rapes a boy, loses her career and goes on public assistance, social services brings court cases against the boys to get reimbursed through child support payments. Males are forced to pay their rapist under threat of confiscation of travel documents and repeated incarceration until they pay up. Forced labor or forced confinement are not bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:28 AM
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That is free for almost all woman with health insurance in the US. (Exemption available for plans provided by religious organizations only.) Obamacare explicitly excludes vasectomies from free birth control while explicitly providing free tubal ligations. Therefore you cannot get a high deductible plan that covers vasectomies with no deductible while they are required to cover tubal ligations without deductible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:21 AM
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Women can unilaterally abandon a child. Men cannot unless the mother dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:09 AM
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IF the father knows which state she will abandon it AND the state has a putative father registry AND he registered before she abandoned it in that state, what you say is true. That's a lot of ifs that make it easy for a woman to avoid parental responsibilities to a newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:07 AM
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In practice, safe haven laws are paper abortions for women to prevent women from killing their infants due to unwanted parental responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:05 AM
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In practice, safe haven laws are paper abortions for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:03 AM
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A woman cannot relinquish her financial obligations towards her child either, without the father’s consent. In practice, they can and do. A woman can drop an infant at a hospital or fire station and walk away with no responsibilities. A woman can put an infant up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity. Both of those relinquish her financial responsibilities if the father would be willing to raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:01 AM
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Do women kill men at the same rates men kill women? It used to be close, then women got DV resources and the rate they killed men dropped a lot. https://web.archive.org/web/20201112004425/https://imgur.com/a/6Hx9dJt Men should have access to dv help That would probably save a lot of women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:53 AM
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93% of men... that can afford a lawyer after temporary child support, temporary alimony, a criminal lawyer to fight false accusations, and secondary housing with enough bedrooms for the children and the lawyer tells them they have a case can get some percentage of custody not necessarily equal or primary custody
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:50 AM
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Just as there are issue that affect primarily women, there are most definitely issues that affect primarily men The thing is, the overwhelming majority of them are just people issues that should be treated as people issues. Nonconsensual sex is an issue for everyone. We see no reason to differentiate between nonconsensual penetration (rape) and nonconsensual envelopment (made to penetrate, forced to penetrate, unwanted contact, or not measured at all )- which occured at about the same rate in th…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:38 PM
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Women are more likely to experience severe and life-threatening violence, such as strangulation, severe beatings, and the use of weapons, which can lead to higher rates of injury and death. Many because men are desperate and don't have better options. Men kill less than women did before they had DV support. When women were given support they had better options and stopped killing their boyfriends and husbands nearly as much. I wonder if there's any lesson to be learned there. What could we possi…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 04:55 PM
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The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public policy and programs that favored them, etc. Therefore the rate that husbands kill their wives…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 04:53 PM
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I think the court of law agrees... https://www.thestar.com/opinion/star-columnists/court-says-pedophilia-does-not-apply-because-perpetrator-is-a-woman/article_50d93e6e-2af0-5faa-9d9f-cf1dd8425ab6.html
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 12:32 PM
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I am an anti-feminist because I want equal opportunity and equal treatment under the law/public policy for everyone. I used to get frustrated that people would dismiss my arguments with the alt right accusation and it appeared to work on Reddit. This song helped me. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LsbRrTULpgA
/r/EverydayMisandry03/09/24 01:05 PM
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Feminists in the US fought to change the language surrounding rape to be gender neutral. Yet, they only fought for penetrated victims to be counted and fought against the proposal to explicitly include envelopment of a penis as a form of rape.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 12:16 PM
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South Korea is full of spy cams, women can't use public restrooms, hotels,motels or airbns without the fear of getting filmed. That is their narrative. I haven't seen any unbiased stats to back that up. I have however seen feminists in South Korea protest when a woman is arrested for the same crime. That isn't equality. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-44751327 "Those men who film such videos! Those who upload them! Those who watch them! All of them should be punished sternly!" they chanted. …
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:50 PM
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There's been a big anti-India push on reddit this month, so you're seeing a lot of negative news stories. I have no idea why, but it's obvious its happening.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 10:52 AM
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Why was it like this in Obama's second term and Hillary's campaign then?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 02:20 PM
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If you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation and blocking equal laws. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ Or read this list about feminism misandry for anyone who thinks that feminism fights for men’s rights, for anyone who thinks that feminism was only a sexist movement starting from the third wave and for anyone who accuse the MRM of being a…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 04:41 PM
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I’m just not seeing any of the noise those people making translating into real policy. ... because you're sticking your head in the sand and pretending it isn't happening.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 04:23 PM
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The ones with power and influence do promote discrimination against males. The masses don't call them out on their sexism, bias, bigotry, lies, data manipulation, etc.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 04:21 PM
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We aren't talking about "women". We are talking about feminist academics, lobbyists, public policy makers, etc.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 03:57 PM
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Let's take rape as an example, although DV, child custody, education, healthcare, etc could be used as well. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 03:55 PM
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Why not ruin their fun? If we're factual, she's wasting her time because she can't post this on inceltears. Twice over the hundreds of times I've seen this play out I've even seen the troll ask for evidence prominent feminists promote sexism and they couldn't deny the overwhelming evidence. They realized men have issues made worse by feminism and reconsidered calling themselves a feminist.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:25 PM
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Yes. Stupid men don't see ignoring 115 MILLION child grooms as victims of child marriage and trying to pass gendered laws to only prevent child brides is advocating for the same rights. Stupid men don't see feminists protesting against bills to make rape/domestic violence/child custody/etc laws/public policy gender neutral as advocating for the same rights. How dumb of them. It's all about the male ego.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:09 PM
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We as a society recognized that it was unfair in the 1950s. Efforts were made to correct the bias in the 60s and 70s. Education was fairly equal in the 80s and 90s. We're almost back to where it was in the 50s with the sexes reversed and feminists are still full steam ahead on special privileges for females in education. How about equality in opportunity like we had in the 80s and 90s?
/r/MensRights27/08/24 12:59 PM
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I suggest you look at Malala's work. She started by successfully fighting to allow girls to get a decent education. Men's tights doesn't pretend to be equality for all while pushing discrimination against women. Feminism does pretend to be equality for all while pushing discrimination against men. We wouldn't tackle those issues other than advocating for gender neutral universal human rights. People fighting for mens and womens rights don't have the ideological baggage of patriarchy theory, sexi…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 12:48 PM
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1) No. I greatly respect the work of Malala Yousafzai. Almost all the important work was done while she called herself "an advocate for women and girls" and refused to adopt the label feminist. She was bullied about it for years and eventually caved. It's possible to advocate for women and girls without discriminating against boys. 2) Yes, but not for the reasons feminists believe. Study after study shows boys get lower grades for the same work and are discouraged from trying in school. Example:…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 11:50 AM
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I suggest you educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism and we wouldn't have a problem with them. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be …
/r/MensRights27/08/24 11:30 AM
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combs1945a's number is about 2.5x the rate I have seen... Some interesting numbers include... 1 in 8 men in South Carolina jails are there for failure to pay child support. They are not given court appointed lawyers until they are $10k behind and most are arrested and lose their job way before that limit making it extremely difficult to pay. Src: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/20/us/skip-child-support-go-to-jail-lose-job-repeat.html In the US, 66 percent of all child support not paid by fathers…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 04:04 AM
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Based on national data, if incarceration for non-payment of child support occurred at equal rates for men and women who are in arrears, 88% of those incarcerated would be men, not 95% to 98.5%, and 12% would be women (since 12% of those in arrears are women). If, as Brennan’s report shows, as few as 1.5% of those incarcerated for non-payment of child support in Massachusetts are women, instead of the expected 12%, then women in arrears are incarcerated at a rate eight times less than their numbe…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 04:01 AM
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If the father wants the child he looses out on parenting it so the mother can avoid parental responsibilities. It's is an unfair double standard because society protects females from parental responsibilities but not males ... even middle school boys raped by middle aged women.
/r/MensRights23/08/24 07:19 PM
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Are you opposed to safe haven laws and giving a child up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity? Or do you believe women made a choice and should be forced to pay the fathers to raise the children they didn't want but didn't abort?
/r/MensRights23/08/24 02:39 PM
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The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public policy and programs that favored them, etc. Therefore the rate that husbands kill their wives…
/r/MensRights19/08/24 07:53 PM
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IMO, an anti-sexist who is aware of what influential feminists are doing should be calling them out for working against equality. Feminists are like the black panthers. Egalitarians like the ideals of MLK instead.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 12:48 AM
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How are they the biggest obstacle? Can’t there be arguments based on the merits of equality rather than on an “enemy?” If you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation and blocking equal laws. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ Or read this list about feminism misandry for anyone who thinks that feminism fights for men’s rights, for anyone who th…
/r/MensRights15/08/24 12:27 AM
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Erin Pizzey grew up with domestic violence and was an advocate for domestic violence victims. She opened the first DV shelters in the world. Look what happened to her, her dog, and her family when she tried to open one for men after opening several for women.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 04:40 PM
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We go by the layperson's definition of rape (nonconsensual sex) here rather than the feminist definition used in most rape statistics where nonconsensual envelopment of a penis by a mouth, vagina, or anus is not counted at all or counted under "other sexual violence" rather than "rape" or "sexual assault". Under the nonconsensual sex definition, almost 80% of rape of men is done by women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 03:12 PM
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I suggest you educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism and we wouldn't have a problem with them. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be …
/r/MensRights21/07/24 08:53 PM
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Feminist DV advocates, researchers, lobbyists, and event planners did those things directly.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:52 PM
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Feminists - created and pushed the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence Intervention which results in more men being beaten by their wives being removed from their homes than helped when they call the police forced Erin Pizzey to flee the UK for her family's safety after she suggested men needed a DV shelter too, after opening the first several in the world (for women only) create, publish, and use biased rape statistics to erase the overwhelming majority of male victims, erase the overwhelming maj…
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:11 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/afraid-to-try32-comic-qeJY7nR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 09:12 PM
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Thanks for being on top of that thread. It's a shame the comic creator deleted all their reddit content including the comic. His comic blew up on the personal page of the creator who he created this comic in response to and her minions came out... Warning: Reporting misandrist inciteful content a couple months after reporting brigading from a misandrist sub got a mod account of mine temp banned from reddit for abusing the report functionality.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/24 04:21 PM
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She said it in the comments in the post where she posted the comic, so yeah it was related to the comic. The mods nuked a lot of comments in that thread including that one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 02:21 PM
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If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be at odds with them. I would be a feminist. Unfortunately, the ones with a voice hate men and the rest keep quiet, wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 01:29 PM
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Apparently CookerCrisp unblocked me long enough to reply again and then reblock me, so I'll paste my reply to you instead. Powerful feminists hate male victims. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is sayi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 01:00 PM
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want to vilify feminism itself by whining about things that aren't actually related to feminism Denial that males raped by women exist, deserve protection, and deserve support is a big part of feminism. Feminists are responsible for creating and spreading the "99% of rapists are men", "most male victims are raped by other men", and "1 in 5 vs 1 in 71" misinformation. Feminists are blocking attempts to make rape laws gender neutral. Feminists are monopolizing rape support funding and denying rape…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 12:31 PM
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Why is it okay to hate the KKK without being accused hating white people, but not okay to hate a much much much more powerful anti-equality movement without being accused of hating women? Many of us hate a single woman for something she did to us, but hate feminism because of what happened to us when we tried to seek support for what she did to us only to be victimized again by feminists and their sexist ideologies. Go read the cartoon again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:17 AM
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Per capita there is more rape by female inmates and female guards than male ones. It's just there are 10x the male prisoners and 5x the male guards. Think about how much worse a woman needs to be than a man to be sentenced to prison. Think about how many more male guards that didn't take the job to exert power over others there are to water down the ones that did take it for reason ... and how many fewer women there are that don't take the job at least in part for that reason. Suddenly the numbe…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 12:12 PM
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Per capita there is more rape by female inmates and female guards than male ones. It's just there are 10x the male prisoners and 5x the male guards. Think about how much worse a woman needs to be than a man to be sentenced to prison. Think about how many more male guards that didn't take the job to exert power over others there are to water down the ones that did take it for reason ... and how many fewer women there are that don't take the job at least in part for that reason. Suddenly the numbe…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/24 05:07 PM
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I think you misunderstood. Nonconsensual envelopment is still categorized as MTP, a form of "other sexual violence" rather than "rape" or "sexual assault". The part they removed was the percentage of MTP victims that were victimized by men vs women, because it was ~80% women and "misogynists" like us were using the data to show ~40% of nonconsensual sex in the 2010s was perpetrated by women on men, and male victims of heterosexual rape need support rather than hate. Our "blasphemy" against the r…
/r/MensRights30/06/24 02:25 PM
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Go read some bodybuilding forums on coming off steroids. They explain it clearer than medical sites IMO. I was on a low dose of Clomid for about 9 months to recover testosterone levels after years of untreated hypothyroidism. Your pituitary generates luteinizing hormone (LH) in response to the estrogen levels in your blood. LH tells your sex organs (either ovaries or testes) to make their hormone. In men, estrogen is created by converting testosterone, so the higher the levels of testosterone th…
/r/MensRights30/06/24 12:20 PM
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pBut women can abandon their parental responsibilities after birth through safe haven laws and no requirements to disclose the fathers identity when putting a child up for adoption. Men don't get those after birth outs that are not based on biology. They are based on the idea that a mother might kill an infant if she can't walk away and the idea that the father might be abusive and use the baby to control her. Guess what? If men started killing infants laws would be passed for harsher punishment…
/r/MensRights29/06/24 01:53 PM
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It was 8 years, 9 months and 1 week into the marriage when I discovered I was married to a monster. That was 14 years and 11 months into the relationship. People can change drastically, in a matter of months, decades into a relationship. A mental illness, drug addiction, brain injury, permanent illness, etc can totally change someone's personality into someone you don't know in the body of someone you thought you knew well.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 11:21 PM
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So does your typical pro-life argument mean you're pro-life or a typical pro-choicer that only thinks one sex should have a choice? I think you'll find most here support a women's right to choose but also want the right to abandon a baby like women get. I bet the birth rate will drop significantly, but it's unfair to force parenthood on unwilling people of either sex. Yes, men are people too. Condoms fail. Rape, reproductive corrsion, theft, fraud, unethical courts, etc happen.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 09:10 PM
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Woke neolibs are neither conservatives nor socialists. They strive to divide the people for the benefit of the capitalists that fund them.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 09:04 PM
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Please give me more hope here man. This sounds quite sadistic, to have a set amount to pay and be held to even if you end up out of work? A decade ago, liberal media agreed with your thinking. See https://web.archive.org/web/20240527230934/https://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/20/us/skip-child-support-go-to-jail-lose-job-repeat.html and https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-myth-of-the-deadbeat_b_4745118 Now, it's not about class. It is simply "men bad".
/r/MensRights25/06/24 08:40 PM
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Preteen boys matter. Once they turn 13 they are "enemy combatants" when struck by drones and "potential abusers" when seeking help at a domestic violence shelter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/24 08:13 PM
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The dominant parties/media on the left has been moving woke neolib for the last 15+ years, not left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 06:25 PM
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If women will be drafted too, the draft will only be used to defend the homeland rather than sending men to die on foreign soil for political/economic reasons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 12:52 PM
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A) been property for the majority of that time in America That was called slavery and only applied to a small subset of women for a subset of American history. B) Not been allowed to work outside of the house, with few exceptions That's odd. My great-grandmother (born in 1895) used to tell me about going to work with her mother, who ran a business with another woman, when she was a young child. Her mother also worked in Germany before emigrating to the US. From family stories it sounds like of m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 12:48 PM
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I first noticed it in the media shortly after Occupy Wall Street. I saw increasing attempts to divide the people by race, sex, sexuality, and religion. I think it quadrupled in social media as soon as Hillary lost to Trump, and became not only socially acceptable, but for the first time widely socially encouraged. Looking back I think it started from the Democrats in the mid-90s around the time they replaced gender neutral Family Violence Prevention and Services Act with the Violence Against Wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 09:01 PM
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2000 AD
/r/MensRights19/06/24 11:30 PM
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Probably because the patriarchy (government) gives women owned business extra mentoring, grants, subsidized loans, a leg up in winning government contracts, tax incentives to companies that purchase from them, etc to hold them back over men owned businesses that need to toughen up quick and do all that without the special incentives. /s
/r/MensRights19/06/24 11:00 PM
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I don't know. If forced to guess, I would say fewer women probably think they need money and power to get respect and a mate. Most men don't want those jobs despite higher pressure to achieve those things.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 10:09 PM
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Because women don't run for office. They are as likely to win an election as a male candidate but they run less often. Do you suggest we force women to run, or put the women who do run into office automatically because they are women? If not, how do you suggest we solve the problem that this is caused by fewer women choosing to enter politics? Most people (both men and women) don't want to put in the work to rise to the level of CEO. More men than women are willing to put in the time, effort and…
/r/MensRights19/06/24 09:39 PM
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Vicki Bevan guided Paul Rafferty's penis into a girl under 10 while Tony Hutton took pictures. They prosecuted the three after a third guy was arrested with child porn of the incident. Looks like she was the instigator of the child rape, so they locked her up for 10 years and 44 days for it. https://www.cps.gov.uk/mersey-cheshire/news/woman-jailed-life-rape-and-sexual-abuse-young-girl
/r/EverydayMisandry19/06/24 03:40 PM
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A woman was convicted of rape in the UK. It was within the last decade. She used her hand to guide her boyfriend's penis into the victim.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/06/24 01:17 PM
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When it comes to male issues, look for a therapist that got their degree in y2k or earlier. Your odds will be better. Psychology has become anti-male since then. Be prepared to fire several. IMO roughly a third of therapists are terrible and do more harm than good, a third aren't a fit for the problem or personality involved, and a third are life changing forces of good. Keep trying until you get one in the last third. Unfortunately that can take months and thousands of dollars to do.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 12:40 PM
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IME - Therapists who graduated college before y2k (before psychology became so infested with feminist propaganda) have been much more likely to accept the idea that males can be victims. Those people will eventually all retire, but they are out there for a couple more decades.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 10:28 AM
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I know clitoridectomy is a fairly rare form of FGM and the common forms, like female circumcision, are usually less severe than male circumcision. I also know feminists push to count even things like labia piercings on sober consenting adults as FGM and then turn around and pretend FGM = clitoridectomy. If minor forms of FGM are illegal and characterized as mutilation, male circumcision should be the same.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 10:41 PM
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What is completely different? Or do you not know the difference between circumcision and clitoridectomy?
/r/MensRights18/06/24 09:32 PM
3

Religious tradcons are almost as bad for men as feminist neolibs. Those two groups control the major "rightwing" and "leftwing" parties in most countries today. Reasonable speakers for including men in equality get cancelled as "misogynists" and the only role models left are the ones that are arrogant, uncancellable, and actual misogynists like Tate and Trump. It's a big disaster.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/06/24 05:02 PM
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If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be at odds with them. I would be a feminist.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 10:24 PM
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Men tend to be the perpetrators in both scenarios. Violent criminals are the perpetrators in both scenarios. Those are a tiny fraction of men and an even tinier fraction of women.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 07:53 PM
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I'm guessing violent criminal on victim.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 07:29 PM
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People who abuse their spouse don't also tend to be getting abused by them. It's VERY often a one-sided thing. HALF is mutual abuse and the overwhelming majority where there is serious injury is during mutual abuse. The DV "industry" is infested with feminist propaganda. I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment o…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/24 04:06 PM
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It's also way more likely a man ends up killing or seriously harming a woman in a DV scenario. Do you REALLY care about women? If so, read this and reconsider. The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/24 03:48 PM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20170522220056/https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/NISVS-StateReportBook.pdf ?
/r/MensRights17/06/24 03:23 AM
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Try https://archive.is/oBtE5
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:06 AM
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Two small studies in the UK linked from this BBC article. https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-49057533
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:00 PM
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Because Trump has nothing to do with this at all. Both sides suck for men in most countries. OP is putting all the blame on "Trump", "MAGA", "rightwingers" in this thread where he is the only one bringing them up.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:32 PM
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Maybe because you aren't listening and responding to what they are saying? You are the one bringing up Trump/MAGA no one else. One comment (from a poster with at least -10 karma on this subreddit so their comment was collapsed) to you was rude about leftys, and you responded with "No wonder women hate you." You are suffering from TDS.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:26 PM
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This sub leans left of center. You are suffering from TDS and don't even live in the US. There are good people and bad people in every demographic. One of the biggest supporters in my life right now is a redneck trumpster. We can agree to disagree on politics and help each other.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:19 PM
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Rightwing tradcons are not good for men, but you are dismissing that misandry is a huge part of leftwing neolib rhetoric, policy, and legislation these days. They are promoting it. These aren't the left of the 1900s running the leftwing major parties, media, scholarship, etc today.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:13 PM
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Have you looked at the major leftwing political parties around the globe for the last 20 years? They have been promoting racism, sexism, and division. They used to promote education, healthcare, environment, and generally helping ALL people. I still vote left, but not the major party anymore.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:05 PM
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I use the government data for the made to penetrate vs rape annual numbers in my rape education copypasra. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 04:15 AM
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No problem. I learned my lesson years ago when evidence of feminists blocking a proposal to explicitly include nonconsensual envelopment of a penis, in favor of only mentioning penetration in the FBI definition of rape, vanished from the FBI website. Now I archive the important stuff. You may want to download local copies incase the government goes after the archives.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 04:07 AM
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I previously archived all on archive.is. You can still download them from there.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:51 AM
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You think a government of a tiny fraction of men, because women don't choose to run for office as much, elected mostly by women voters, that has been enacting policy and legislation discriminatory to most men, while empowering women and the elite, is a patriarchy?
/r/MensRights15/06/24 06:06 PM
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Right. You keep calling an oligarchy a patriarchy. That's why I said you don't understand what an oligarchy is...
/r/MensRights15/06/24 04:17 PM
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You seem to not understand what an oligarchy is and have it confused with a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights15/06/24 03:33 PM
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It is a thing under the law in a slight majority of the states now. It was a minority of states a decade ago, so progress is being made. Where it doesn't count is in statistics. That way feminists can erase the overwhelming majority of male victims and female perpetrators. Hence, "99% of rapists are men".
/r/MensRights15/06/24 11:52 AM
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They banned redpill and the subscribers moved to the remaining large mens subreddits. Most of them were banned since.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 09:31 PM
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The only reason it is dehumanizing is because you've been repeatedly told it's dehumanizing for the last decade. It was never an issue before and it still isn't an issue for the people that convinced you it was dehumanizing when using male as a noun. The correct answer is neither are dehumanizing and both are grammatically correct. Why does the dictionary definition only apply to "feminism"?
/r/MensRights14/06/24 07:31 PM
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It's really hard to let a child that is your offspring and you bonded with in their early years just rot, because their other parent suddenly became a monster.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 12:37 PM
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Per capita, female guards and female inmates rape inmates quite a bit more than male ones. There are more male guards that rape and more inmates that rape because there are something like 5x the male guards and 10x the male inmates.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 12:27 PM
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It isn't downplaying women's suffrage. It is downplaying the "men have had the right to vote for millennia while women only got it a few years ago" bullshit we see all the time. The people with the most power were often men, but the average man didn't have power much before the average woman. Once average men got the power, they quickly gave it to women.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 10:21 PM
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This lays it out for all the larger countries. https://wiki4men.com/wiki/Universal_suffrage Expect dismissal of the facts because "4men" means fake and misogynistic, like men have been for all of history... 🙄
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:20 PM
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Prostate cancer kills more than breast cancer in the UK. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/feb/02/prostate-cancer-now-kills-more-people-than-breast-cancer-uk-figures-reveal The narrative is that men die with prostate cancer because men are biologically inferior, but don't die from it. That simply isn't true. In NHS, women are prioritized in cancer screening. Men wait an average of 4x longer to get a diagnosis after reporting symptoms. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5192915/Prost…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:50 AM
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Why do you view this as men vs women vs at the individual level? IMO you are caught up in an identity politics mindset and don't see people as individuals. Even at the individual level, it breaks down further. In some areas of my life I've been very privileged. In other areas of my life I've been very much a victim. Do my areas of privilege erase my victimhood or does my victimhood erase my privilege? I don't think so. I think I've had it good in some areas of life and bad in others through luck…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 01:16 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLibWatch/comments/8c7t6t/frequent_menslib_contributor_takeittorcirclejerk/dxkmuw3/
/r/MensRights10/06/24 07:56 PM
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Is it takingitto...? He's been doing that for years. Somewhere there's even a screenshot of him apologizing to a woman for her traumatic experience when she came to the realization she raped her boyfriend and felt bad about it.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:28 PM
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I think the commenter was trying to say a lot of men's mental health issues are driven by systemic discrimination, family/relationship issues where men have no support, etc. Real problems created the mental health problems and fixing the problems would often make the mental health issues go away. As long as I pay a lot for my wife's therapist, my daughter, son, and I don't need our own anymore... now that she's willing to be honest with her therapist rather than rewrite history to blame us for a…
/r/MensRights10/06/24 01:41 PM
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It's almost like when reddit killed all the other large men's subreddits we absorbed a lot of their subscribers since we were the only large mens subreddit left. It's definitely changed the character of the place. You're looking at former redpill posters and former incel posters. They generally aren't the same people saying both.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 01:34 PM
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Fairly common after she calls the police and says you are doing to her what she is actually doing to you. Your life is endangered, you can't see your kids, you need to come up with tens of thousands of dollars for lawyers.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 03:48 AM
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You’re physically stronger than your wife 24/7/365 including when you're sick, injured, and sleeping?
/r/MensRights10/06/24 03:47 AM
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Sorry I was incorrect, it was large parts of Europe, not all of Europe. I read it a long time ago. I never said Salem. Re-read. I said even in Salem it was 30%. Corey was killed because he refused to confess. If he confessed he would be killed. Since he did not, he was killed. Should we say women's homelessness doesn't matter because women are only a quarter of homeless? Female suicide doesn't matter because they are only a quarter of those that commit suicide? Or do they count as victims too?
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:56 PM
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I've experienced it several times and more than half the times the mods deleted my initial content with data and rebuttal comment that I used male in the same way and they didn't have a problem with that, while leaving the accusations I was a misogynistic for using females.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:45 AM
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problem_redditor usually posts good stuff : https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/hgszcw/im_concerned_about_the_direction_this_subreddit/fw7gn91/ There was a long history of witch hunts before Salem. In the Salem trials, 19 people were ultimately executed for witchcraft, 5 of whom were men. I say it is 6 because I include Giles Corey, who was 'pressed' to death (a torture method) for refusing to plead guilty.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:36 AM
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I think you need to look at history without your ideological bias. In Europe more men were killed for witchcraft and wizardry than women. The majority of accusers and court witnesses were female, usually teenagers or women in their early 20s. Yet, you view this as a gendered killing and place the entire blame on men.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:01 AM
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That I could understand, but it's not. Using males for "men and boys" and females for "women and girls" in the same way in the same paragraph gets called out with character assassinations for using females.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:54 PM
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They are both valid and until the last decade uncontroversial usages and dictionary definitions. No one has a problem with using males inplace of "men and boys", but use females in the same way in the same paragraph and watch the character assignations fly without anyone noticing or mentioning you used male in the same way.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:47 PM
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Read the article. They are switching to cutting the prisoners balls off surgically.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:56 PM
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Neck and throat cancers from HPV are far more common in men than penile cancer from HPV.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 04:31 AM
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They knew it caused throat cancer, anal cancer, and penile cancer in men before they even began testing the vaccines on girls. The UK blocked the vaccine for boys until much much later.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 04:28 AM
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Woman is a subset of female, a noun. female noun Definition of female (Entry 2 of 2) 1a: a female person : a woman or a girl https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/female fe·male n. 1. A female organism. 2. A woman or girl https://www.thefreedictionary.com/female from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition. noun A female organism. noun A woman or girl. https://www.wordnik.com/words/female noun a person who belongs to the sex that can have babies https://www.vo…
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:45 AM
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I personally think the prevalence of people doubting newly hired "diverse" coworkers abilities has dramatically increased since DEI. For example, my employer went from trying to recruit at black colleges and women in tech events to find great candidates that fit those demographics and I never questioned their abilities ... to quotas and now I do. I'm not the only one in tech that feels this way.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:08 PM
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I've had content removed by auto moderator rules (in an anti-censorship subreddit no less) for saying "female perpetrator" and "female victim". That's an adjective use of the word.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 07:11 PM
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Periods, pregnancy, and upper body strength.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 05:31 PM
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Proven perjury resulting in a conviction was involved in 84% of pedo exonerations. https://www.law.umich.edu/special/exoneration/Pages/about.aspx If the effects of chemical castration can't be fully reversed, I'm not okay with it either.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 05:01 PM
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Castration is at a minimum cutting the balls off to remove the ability to create sperm and testosterone, and often removes the whole penis. You googled vasectomy.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:58 AM
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Louisiana is one of a few states that already has laws giving judges power to order chemical castration in some cases, Reuters reported. But if this law is passed, it would make Louisiana the first state to allow judges to impose surgical castration as a penalty. Just waiting on the governor's signature. failure to submit to the court order of castration would carry with it a 3-5 year prison term on top of any other prison sentence imposed. We're just gonna punish you more if you are innocent an…
/r/MensRights05/06/24 01:10 PM
2

Far fewer women are interested in running for public office. In the US at least, women are as likely to win an election as a man IF THEY RUN. What do you suggest, we force women to run for office (misogyny) or we add sexist quotas to force women politicians into office with fewer votes (misandry and done in a couple European countries recently)?
/r/MensRights04/06/24 10:34 AM
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Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, but a man breaking an engagement after having sex with his fiancee is a rape. Explain the patriarchy angle...
/r/MensRights04/06/24 10:10 AM
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My educational copypasta on male reproductive rights - The overwhelming majority of "pro-choicers" that think women should have the right to abortions, safe havens, and adoptions without disclosing the identity of the other parent, tell men they should have kept it in their pants if they didn't want parental responsibilities. After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other pr…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 09:58 AM
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he chose to have unprotected sex so he is at least partly responsible A man's consent to sex, consent to unprotected sex, or even sex at all is not necessary for him to be legally liable to support the mother of his unwanted child. Courts have repeatedly ruled that way.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:46 AM
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That seems pretty easy to me. That ignores rape, fraud, theft, reproductive coercion, etc. There are lots of evil and/or mentally ill people in the world and even when a mother is convicted for the act of conception she still gets custody rights and the victim needs to pay her or lose his travel documents and go to jail
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:41 AM
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It's no better than if a man needed his wife's permission to get snipped. Which happens regularly.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:31 AM
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When you get pregnant you must have had sex. False. A man doesn't have to have sex with a woman at all to create an unwanted child he is legally obligated to support. I can imagine physical cases were the reverse it true, women just have more biological means and legal rights to avoid unwanted parental responsibilities.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:29 AM
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Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, but a man breaking an engagement after having sex with his fiancee is a rape.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:14 PM
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In the US, a male's consent to sex or even sex at all is not required. My educational copypasta on male reproductive rights - The overwhelming majority of "pro-choicers" that think women should have the right to abortions, safe havens, and adoptions without disclosing the identity of the other parent, tell men they should have kept it in their pants if they didn't want parental responsibilities. After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims …
/r/MensRights03/06/24 03:32 PM
1

~5% of every demographic sucks. Racists, sexists, anti-a-religion, heavily political, etc type people that blame or excuse a demographic because it fits their worldview also suck.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 03:06 PM
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Courts have repeatedly ruled a man's consent to sex, consent not to use birth control, or even having sex at all are not required for him to be saddled with 18-21 years of payments to someone he did not want raising his offspring. Preventing sperm from ever leaving his body without his consent would prevent that.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 02:23 PM
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The right not to have children is optional? Does that apply to both sexes in your mind?
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:39 PM
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Abortion is restricted in a few states. It is still legal, but the timelines are VERY short. The first two, Alabama and Texas was done because that is what the majority of the voter's wanted. The majority of the voters that wanted it in those states were women. Males being forced into parenthood has never been a legislative act as wanted by the majority of voters. It is all court precedents that started with statutory rape victims needing to pay the perpetrators. After Hermesmann v Seyer (https:…
/r/MensRights25/05/24 04:21 PM
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I pay attention. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 10:30 AM
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You are very misinformed.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 10:29 AM
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Terrell v Torres set a precedent and invalidated a signed contract to let a woman use embryos created with her ex and have him owe child support. https://www.azcentral.com/story/news/local/arizona/2019/03/18/arizona-court-ruling-use-preserved-embryos-without-ex-husbands-consent-ruby-torres/3205867002/ Courts have ruled the same way in Illinois and the US supreme court agreed. https://web.archive.org/web/20201108105239/http://www.fathers4equality-australia.org/fathers-rights/woman-wins-custody-of…
/r/MensRights25/05/24 03:41 AM
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It’s a horrible website where anyone can put whatever they want. False. The page on misandry has been repeatedly locked so only a select few with the "correct" information can edit it for years at a time and academic research has been repeatedly removed.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:42 AM
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Source? I'd love to see the ratio because I've never seen a study.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 12:23 AM
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Interesting post on the topic from years ago - https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/e6hxvq/battered_husband_syndrome_as_an_explanation_for/
/r/MensRights16/05/24 01:40 PM
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When a man does, he's just a scumbag on his own. If it is a cycle of abuse then feminist programs that build feminist power won't get funding. Empathy for male victims heterosexual child molestation is unacceptable even if it would prevent a lot of future rapes. See : http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993#_Toc498111528
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:01 PM
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only a third of those make it to the lab A third??? Gonna need to see some evidence for that. Which ones weren't tested? When the sex is not in dispute (only the consent), when the victim refuses to cooperate (support going forward with a case), or when the perpetrator pleads guilty (so there is no need for the evidence) make up the overwhelming majority of the unprocessed rape kits. In these cases the kits are kept on hand for decades in case the situation changes for the benefit of these women…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:55 PM
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The issue you are ignoring is people change. In this case she was always a heavy drinker. But what do you do when she becomes a lying abusive alcoholic after you already have kids with them and the system is setup to support them instead of the kids?
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:36 PM
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In the US, a male's consent to sex or even sex at all is not required. My educational copypasta on male reproductive rights - The overwhelming majority of "pro-choicers" that think women should have the right to abortions, safe havens, and adoptions without disclosing the identity of the other parent, tell men they should have kept it in their pants if they didn't want parental responsibilities. After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims …
/r/MensRights09/05/24 12:19 PM
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You're a misandrist who doesn't care about reality.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:33 AM
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Those 89,000 femicides, the motive was their gender. Not true. The majority are simply a deranged man killing a woman. A deranged man killing a man gets no notice. A deranged woman killing a man is usually claimed to be self defence.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:30 AM
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Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male, against both female and male victims. That's what happens when you exclude nonconsensual envelopment of a penis by a mouth, vagina, or anus as a form of rape in order to deny male victims support and spread misandry. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own vo…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:28 AM
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What about the majority of the 89,000 femicides committed per year that have nothing to do with the sex of the victim, but used politically as if it did? Whereas there are zero statistics on androcide outside of war due to it not being measured.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:22 AM
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The good news is that in recent years feminist lobbiests have pushed for laws to prevent rapists from getting child custody. Without custody the child wouldn't be raised by a rapist and the victim wouldn't owe child support. So the day that a male doesn't owe his perpetrator may be coming soon. The less good news is that just over half the states that passed these laws passed them as the feminist lobbiests proposed them - only preventing rapist fathers from getting custody. (https://www.ncsl.org…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 03:55 PM
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But who assaulted the man?! Another bear! Bears are to blame! We need to teach bears not to maul. https://www.nbcboston.com/news/local/bear-dragged-mans-body-from-car-after-fatal-crash-in-western-mass-police-say/3360681/
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:09 AM
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How do you know if rape of men isn't a crime or counted in victimization stats? It pales in comparison to women in the US and UK also ... unless you dare include nonconsensual envelopment of a penis by a vagina, mouth, or anus as a form of rape... Then it's pretty damn close.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 05:26 PM
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These teachers, with masters degrees and two to five times the life experience, are powerless against the suave seduction techniques of the 11 year old pickup artists. /s
/r/MensRights03/05/24 08:58 AM
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I think I'd want to see the same stats when the genders are reversed, what counts in the categories, and how it is measured. E.g. Does playing with toy cars, playing with playdough, painting, reading, or tossing a ball in the yard count as caregiving or leisure? Is commute time measured? Do some people count doing a load of laundry as 2 hours of work while others count it as 15 minutes because over 100 minutes is simply machine time?
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:55 PM
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The mainstream parties on the left should care about economic inequality more than demonizing men. They did a few decades ago.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:18 PM
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Why would they be voted out? They did what their constituents asked and severely restricted abortion rights.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 01:01 AM
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This is how you blame "men" for abortion restrictions in Alabama and Texas isn't it? Sure most of the voters wanted it, most of the voters that wanted it were women, the legislators that proposed the bills were women, but it's all men's fault because male legislators did what the voters wanted and voted for it instead of getting voted out and replaced by other politicians that would. The problem was giving women a voice in politics. The male legislators should have ignored the majority of women …
/r/MensRights08/04/24 12:58 AM
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So you're saying organizations like N.O.W., Ms., and the Feminist Majority Foundation are powerless? Cause they are the ones that blocked the latest update to the FBi definition of rape from explicitly including nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape in crime statistics.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 12:32 AM
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Lobbyists write the laws and get politicians to pass them. Powerful lobbyists make sure politicians get maligned and lose vote if they don't help them. No?
/r/MensRights08/04/24 12:16 AM
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No. The people that authored and lobbied for the gendered laws/public policy and are blocking reforms to make them inclusive are feminists. For example on the first bullet point ... Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, …
/r/MensRights08/04/24 12:09 AM
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I don’t see why there has to be conflict there Let's look at what MRAs want ... Gender neutral rape laws - often blocked by feminists Being counted as victims of heterosexual rape - blocked by feminists State funded help for male victims of heterosexual rape - blocked by feminists Equal laws to prevent female rapists from getting custody of children they conceived in a rape - gendered laws lobbied for by feminists in the first place Gender neutral domestic violence dialogue - blocked by feminist…
/r/MensRights07/04/24 01:59 PM
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Men stay in those relationships in my experience because of the fear of being alone. IME, it is fear of the courts, family services, and DV industry. They don't want to gamble their children and money with the odds against them.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 10:49 AM
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Perhaps you could teach influential feminists how to follow feminism and feminist masses to call them out on their sexism and lies, rather than try to correct non-feminists with eyes and ears? It would be more effective.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 10:41 AM
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Search prison in this article from the Atlantic and quote the relevant parts. https://archive.is/YNP3x You'll get banned from a lot of subreddits for showing DoJ data that female inmates and female guards rape a lot more per-capita than male ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/24 07:35 PM
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I have no problem, but you can also find it on archive.is or web.archive.org if the site is blocked due to your geography.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 08:18 PM
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My great-grandmother (born NYC 1895), had early childhood memories of going to work with her mother who had worked her whole life, first in Germany and then in the US. Yet, I hear women weren't allowed to work outside the home here. As far as I can tell, that was a privilege of the wealthy until WWII. The only women in my family tree that didn't work at least in the family business if not outside the home were one set of wealthy great grandparents. The great grandmother I knew didn't have anythi…
/r/MensRights21/03/24 01:11 PM
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That's why I asked countries. It was not the case in the US, but people routinely claim it anyway. I know Indian women were not allowed to work in factories and then later on the night shift in factories. Do you have evidence they were not allowed to work at all?
/r/MensRights21/03/24 12:35 PM
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In the US, it is explicitly based on your sex at birth. Trans women can be forced to serve, but not trans men.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 11:40 AM
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Being the provider sucks and unlike men they have LOTS of peers that aren't forced into that role in order to reproduce and have unrestricted access to their kids.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 11:25 AM
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Women weren't allowed to work. What time periods and countries did this happen?
/r/MensRights21/03/24 11:22 AM
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NYC has a history of problems with mens shelters but not womens shelters. In 2019 protesters got a mens shelter project converted to a womens shelter. https://www.qchron.com/editions/north/women-not-men-to-live-at-college-point-homeless-shelter/article_e907cfe2-e3b5-11e9-9844-efde95673666.html
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/24 02:25 PM
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Fucking Google the Word feminism and read What its really about Can you get the feminists with power and influence to do that? Most of us would be feminists if the actions matched the dictionary definition.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:52 PM
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Why is Tate even anywhere near to this poll? His pic shouldn’t be here at all. By doing that we loose credibility. That was the point of putting Tate's picture next to the poll when publishing it. Anyone who doesn't like feminism clearly doesn't find them harmful because of their their sexism,, bigotry, lies, etc ... it's because they love Tate ... because feminism is great.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 11:49 AM
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In that case, have you considered staying in menslib where misandry is appreciated rather than exposed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/24 10:50 AM
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Loser virgin. Incel. Never even touched a woman. No woman would go near a creep like you. Hmmm. I wonder why men feel like they need sexual validation to fit in. Puzzling. /s
/r/MensRights18/03/24 01:51 AM
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Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism rather than us. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be at odds with them. I would be a f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 01:11 PM
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Why do you assume we don't know what feminist leaders are doing? If you know, why do you support them? Examples : Feminists in the US block efforts to count nonconsensual envelopment of a penis by a vagina as rape in rape statistics so "99% of rapists are men", while in a typical year women perpetrate over 40% of nonconsensual sex. Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/i…
/r/MensRights17/03/24 11:37 AM
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Don't most men who hate women have similar bad experiences with women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 12:50 AM
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If you are going to make this argument, I find this visual useful. https://web.archive.org/web/20201112004425/https://imgur.com/a/6Hx9dJt
/r/MensRights16/03/24 11:48 AM
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But if we criminalize women for NOT reporting the father, this will result in more dumpster babies. This is what a misogynist looks like folks.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 02:18 AM
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There's been one woman in the history of UK that was found guilty of rape too. She had guided her boyfriends penis into the victim with her hand which counted as her using a penis to penetrate someone. (See. The laws aren't gendered. /s)
/r/MensRights16/03/24 01:07 AM
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No woman will ever be prosecuted for poking holes in a condom A woman was in Germany recently. The law doesn't apply to any form of contraception other than a condom though.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 12:58 AM
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You seem to think men haven't tried those things. Let me give you some background on male reproductive rights and court precedents. The overwhelming majority of "pro-choicers" that think women should have the right to abortions, safe havens, and adoptions without disclosing the identity of the other parent, tell men they should have kept it in their pants if they didn't want parental responsibilities. After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male vi…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 08:27 PM
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It is only a risk because of current laws. An IUD is more effective than a verified vasectomy. I don't see people chastising women who get pregnant after their partner got a vasectomy, waited a month, and tested zero sperm count. I don't see them forcing women into parental responsibilities in those cases either.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 06:37 PM
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Again - this is to protect the child from being a dumpster baby If fathers were killing babies, would laws be passed to let them absolve themselves of all parental responsibilities for any reason? I suspect the men would be treated with no compassion and laws making the penalties higher would be passed instead. it requires the cooperation of the father to prove someone IS the father Not requiring the mother to provide the information means there is no requirement to notify the father which gets …
/r/MensRights15/03/24 04:39 PM
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It's called putting a baby up for adoption. The problem is that giving up your parental rights requires both parents to agree to do it so that the state picks up the costs. Except safe haven laws allow women to drop infants at fire stations and walk away with no responsibility and women can give an infant up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity. When it comes to abandoning infants, possession is 99/100ths of the law. Universal legal parental surrender would equalize rights for me…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:14 PM
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AFAIK there are already laws that cover things like stealthing, poking holes in condoms, coercive sex...and make them sexual assault. None apply to stopping the pill or removing an IUD without telling your partner.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:08 PM
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If you wanted to be a single parent and you could do it for $0 compensation or do it and get paid $735k (35k x 21 years) tax free with no legal repercussions (and few if any moral ones in this society), which makes more economic sense?
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:03 PM
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So you're opposed to morning after pills, abortion pills, surgical abortions, safe haven laws, and the ability to put children up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity when a condom breaks? No I'm not ... Nice job twisting my words, ... BOTH parents are responsible So both are responsible, but you only support holding one responsible???
/r/MensRights15/03/24 02:02 PM
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So you're a sexist who thinks women deserve ways out of parental responsibilities after contraceptive failure or reproductive coercion, but men do not deserve equivalent ways out? This talk show host and audience seems up your alley. https://web.archive.org/web/20211220203706/https://youtube.com/watch?v=5CNHwhHWPoQ
/r/MensRights15/03/24 01:16 PM
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So you're opposed to morning after pills, abortion pills, surgical abortions, safe haven laws, and the ability to put children up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity when a condom breaks?
/r/MensRights15/03/24 12:45 PM
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Why should people, who believe in uplifting average citizens, support racism and sexism?
/r/MensRights15/03/24 10:33 AM
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I don't think I left the left. I think the left left me. My mindset hasn't changed. Theirs has.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 04:54 PM
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This sub has changed over the years as most of the other male centric subreddits have been cancelled (redpill, mgtow, incel), run by misandrists (oney), or gone gender neutral (askmen). We have a lot more diversity of thought than we used to. Not always for the good of men's rights.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 11:26 AM
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Change your mindset. You don't argue to win over the feminist. You argue to win over the bystanders watching that sees who is knowledgeable and civil and who's an ignorant sexist. One in every few arguments you'll win over the feminist, but that should not the goal. That should be a happy surprise.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 02:37 PM
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I don't think feminism is left wing at all, but their ideologies do seem to have infested the major left wing political parties in much of the world. The same can be said of current manifestations of DEI in US/UK/CAN. Blatant sexism and racism have no place in government.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 09:23 AM
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out of hand exposed for the first time
/r/MensRights07/03/24 01:14 PM
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although my rapist was also male). Never had anyone even insinuate I'm an incel. The difference is obvious, no? You didn't expose the fact that most male rape victims are raped by women. It's perfectly acceptable to talk about getting raped by a man.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 06:33 PM
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I am often called an incel on reddit for commenting about male domestic violence victims (about half of DV victims are male with a gender neutral definition of DV), male rape victims (about 40% of rapists are women raping men with a gender neutral definition of rape), female victims that were sex trafficked by women (almost 40% of sex traffickers are women), and groups fighting against shared child custody in a divorce (feminists claiming men are abusers and women are not). All my evidence (gove…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 05:58 PM
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The problem is only trash news is willing to report some of the government statistics that go against the woke narratives anymore. The role of the press has changed significantly over the last 30 years, and its a shame. It's much more about telling you what you should think than the facts these days.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 04:27 PM
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If you include prison rape, there is a higher rate of rape by fellow inmates in womens prisons, but 10x more men in prison so more men are raped than women if we include prisons. My rape of males education copypasta: For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://cl…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:30 PM
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training I've received There's the problem. The DV "industry" is infested with misandry. I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment of women. The violence is pretty equal. The perception and resources are not due to feminists. Reality is women are slightly more likely to initiate physical violence and slightly more…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:24 PM
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NISVS 2010 showed in the past 12 months, 1.1% of men were made to penetrate and 1.1% of women were raped. Table 2.1 & 2.2 on pages 18/19. NISVS 2011 showed in the past 12 months, 1.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.6% of women were raped. Table 1 on page 5. NISVS 2012 showed in the past 12 months, 1.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.0% of women were raped. Table A.1 & A.5 on pages 217/222. NISVS 2015 showed in the past 12 months, 0.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.2% of women were rape…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:50 PM
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MARRIED women couldn’t have credit cards/bank accounts til like 1970 WITHOUT THEIR HUSBANDS CONSENT. You have no idea why, do you? Hint : Research property rights in divorce laws feminists pushed in the late 1800s and how they were fixed in the late 1960s.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 06:49 PM
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It's also a fact that men don't have bodily autonomy in US either. Infant circumcision, selective service, forced parental obligations (even when the mother is convicted for the act of conception), etc are a fact of male life.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 06:47 PM
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It doesn't blame women. It blames sexist bigots - primarily feminists and tradcons.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 06:42 PM
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I don’t think you know what feminism is. Try reading what feminists have actually done rather than what they say they are about.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 06:41 PM
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Right. Silly me. You're right. We should throw away data for the age group committing suicide at the highest rates. /s
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:43 AM
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Actually most suicide victims, at least male ones, never talk about it. Their talking was done before they were victims. They weren't helped. duhhhh Read the studies linked here - https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/11fifo5/the_reason_men_dont_get_therapy_or_talk_to_people/
/r/MensRights27/02/24 02:25 AM
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Sure. The overwhelming majority of "pro-choicers" that think women should have the right to abortions, safe havens, and adoptions without disclosing the identity of the other parent, tell men they should have kept it in their pants if they didn't want parental responsibilities. After [Hermesmann v Seyer] (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hermesmann_v._Seyer) set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while oth…
/r/MensRights27/02/24 12:54 AM
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You think men should get DV screening? You think men should get free vasectomies since women get free tubal ligations? You think men should get free prostate screenings since women get free cervical and breast cancer screenings? Misogynist. /s (On the plus side they evidently added smoking cessation programs to "adults" in the last couple of years, instead of just "women" as it was for the first decade.)
/r/MensRights26/02/24 10:02 PM
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Except a majority of states that passed laws to prevent rapists from getting custody of the product of a rape passed what feminist lobbyists proposed - only keeping rapist fathers from getting custody rights rather than gender neutral laws preventing anyone convicted for the act of conception from having custody rights.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 07:59 PM
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You are a sexist bigot because you blame men for abortion restrictions when opinions are not gendered. The majority of the group that wants abortions mostly available with some restrictions like not in the third trimester without medical need are men. The majority of the groups that want to ban abortions altogether and want abortions legal in the 40th week are women. You blame the severe restrictions on abortion in red states on men when they were mostly wanted by female voters. It isn't "men" w…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:39 PM
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Are you really that ignorant or are you ignoring reality because it contradicts with your sexist bigotry? In Alabama not only are the majority of pro-life voters women, but also the legislator that wrote the bill severely restricting abortions and the governor that signed the law that didn't have a vetoproof majority. All I saw in the press was how "old white men" were restricting women's abortion rights. The voters, bill sponsor, and governor bore no responsibility. The blame was put entirely o…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:25 PM
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If it is true, why do feminists block : counting a penis nonconsensually enveloped by a mouth, vagina, or anus as a form of rape in rape statistics attempts to make rape laws gender neutral
/r/MensRights26/02/24 05:14 PM
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The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public policy and programs that favored them, etc. Therefore the rate that husbands kill their wives…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:21 PM
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Is this in the US? Obamacare laws allow providers to charge insurance for DV screening of women, but not men. See the "adults" vs "women" preventive care coverage under the law. https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage/preventive-care-benefits/
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:19 PM
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This references a bunch of studies in US, UK, and Canada on the topic. http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993#_Toc498111528
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:15 PM
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If a man wants to be a parent, he needs to sacrifice a lot to earn money. That need doesn't go away because he wants to be active in raising his child. If a woman wants to be active in raising her child, it's socially acceptable to push most of the earning work onto her husband. After all, earning money is a privilege and being a mother is the hardest work there is...
/r/MensRights25/02/24 04:50 PM
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Most of the women who are having kids are doing it with men that made the same or more. There is also this concept of the fatherhood pay bonus. Fathers who now need to provide most of the income for the family take bigger risks and work harder to earn more. This is called a privilege. More women in America are going child free, especially college educated women. The birth rate among college educated women is lower than women without a college education across all races.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 03:57 PM
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Where did I say that? Most are marrying level or up. Hence the research and news articles that there is a shortage of "economically attractive" men worthy of marriage. (Usually saying men need to do better, not in a world with equality (or discrimination against men) women need to have more realistic expectations.) The urban educated women who have kids and scale back their careers bring down the average income in older peer groups. https://www.cnbc.com/2022/03/31/16-us-cities-where-women-under-…
/r/MensRights25/02/24 03:41 PM
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Fewer women in Scandinavian countries go into technology and engineering. https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/02/the-more-gender-equality-the-fewer-women-in-stem/553592/ Fewer women in Scandinavian countries go into management im private industry. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190831-the-paradox-of-working-in-the-worlds-most-equal-countries ... because they don't have to. They are wealthy countries and women have lots of options for jobs that pay a livable wage with less st…
/r/MensRights25/02/24 03:28 PM
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Commuting more hours to work more hours in more stressful, dangerous, or unsocial jobs to make more money isn't necessarily a positive thing ... unless family and society punishes you for not doing those things. Retail and janitorial jobs aren't glamorous but are widely available and work gets left at work.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:41 PM
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Yeah. Like the right to vote ... that average men got somewhere between the same year to a generation prior in the overwhelming majority of countries ... I mean that the top 0.5% of men that count to feminists had for 100 years ...
/r/MensRights24/02/24 03:26 PM
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The fear is more than not being believed. Men calling the police because their heterosexual partner is beating them are more likely arrested than the abuser. The physically abused men are usually the one asked to leave the household to prevent more abuse. Most domestic violence hotlines blame the man for abuse and accuse him of being the real abuser. Most men are scared to remove the children from an abusive home because there is no place (like DV shelters) they can go that won't give their abus…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:37 PM
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Some codependency sure, but how can you ignore fear of the family court system?
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:32 PM
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Although official statistics show that men are a majority of offenders, and women are a majority of victims, we should take into consideration that female perpetrators and male victims are severely underreported due to explicitly counting a man's penis nonconsensually enveloped by a mouth, vagina, or anus as "other sexual violence" rather than "rape" or "sexual assault" ... if it is even measured at all ... due to feminists involved in gathering and presenting sexual violence data.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 12:07 AM
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@Blueorange22 used to participate on reddit and seems rational.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 02:45 PM
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Some do more harm than good. I once bought "Love Without Hurt: Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One". The reviews at the time were good. It turns out the author is one of those guys that says "what did you do to make her hit you", "women only abuse when abused", "male anger comes out of nowhere, not being abused". It made me really angry at the world for a good week after reading just the first chapter and skimming the rest.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 02:08 PM
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Laws against genital mutilation Equal rape laws Domestic violence support funding/easy restraining orders/prosecution of our perpetrators Right to walk away from parental responsibilities of unborn/newborn children since women have safe haven laws and can put children up for adoption without disclosing the father's identity
/r/MensRights16/02/24 11:21 PM
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The extreme MRAs are powerless and we don't support them. The extreme feminists have a lot of power and influence in society. Their work is used and celebrated by the (often ignorant of what was done) feminist masses.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:50 PM
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The lies you are posting here and in other subreddits to stop. I and this thread are not sexist against women. I and many of us here have a problem with an ideology that has successfully introduced significant systemic sexism against men.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:48 PM
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That same way I was looking at this subreddit and saw many what appeared to be self loathing men who blame women and hate them Please quote the many responses in this thread that do that.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:35 PM
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Men defending themselves against women are likely to be attacked by a mob or end up in legal trouble. While an individual woman is usually weaker, the social power they have behind them is much much stronger than an individual man.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:45 PM
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But, Australia and the Bahamas are nice safe warm places for women to investigate during a northern hemisphere winter ;) (Or were back then, Bahamas have been having a violent crime problem the last few months.)
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:39 PM
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Blaming feminism is blaming women No. It isn't. Women are fine. Women's rights are good. Sexism is bad ... even if it is against men. Blaming feminism for mens problems is blaming women at its core. No It isn't. It is blaming sexist bigots of both sexes, not women.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:26 PM
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Examples: In the US the ACA (Obamacare) gives women the right to free tubal ligations while explicitly excluding free vasectomies so if states have mandated free vasectomy coverage you cannot get a high deductible plan in compliance with both state and federal law. The ACA also gives free breast and cervical cancer screenings but makes men pay for prostate cancer screening. Lobbying for laws to prevent rapist fathers for getting child custody rights rather than gender neutral anyone convicted fo…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:39 PM
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UN Watch has a good track record of challenging this. My favorite two are : Where and when UN Women goes looking for violations of womens rights - https://youtube.com/watch?v=wZcdRuOVAVc Who UN Women criticizes about women's rights - https://youtube.com/watch?v=xiZ4T_LXOII IMO, UN Watch is excellent.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:17 PM
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People fighting for equal rights? Yes. (Think Malala Yousafzai who did most of her great work while refusing the title feminist. She only adopted it a few years ago after years and years of pressure.) Feminists? No. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follo…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:08 PM
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Forced envelopment of a penis or being forced to penetrate someone else. Forced penetration counts as rape.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:04 PM
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I keep seeing that RETRACTED 2009 study that men leave their partners when they get sick quoted and heavily upvoted on most of reddit. Someone tried to reproduce the study a few years later and couldn't. it turns out the original study was propaganda "flawed". The study recorded any couple that separated or that stopped participating in the study as the husband leaving the wife. Wife died? Husband abandoned her. Focused on her care and stopped answering surveys? Husband abandoned her. Moved away…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:05 AM
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More men in leadership in all field. More men are workaholics. Men are judged harshly for the income and title and therefore have incentives to sacrifice quality of life for work. How do you propose we fix that? More men in politics. When women run for office they win at the same rates as male candidates. Fewer women choose to run. What is your suggestion to fix this? Men kill themselves more BUT MORE WOMEN TRY TO KILL THEMSELVES. Cutting counts as a suicide attempt. This is traditionally a fema…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:51 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 An OECD report on gender in education, across more than 60 countries, found that girls receive higher marks compared with boys of the same ability. And because teachers couldn't fudge the grades in online standardized testing for last year's final exams because of Covid, they programmatically had to lower boys grades so girls maintained the same advantage as historically... https://m.independent.ie/irish-news/education/girls-to-do-better-than-boys-in-c…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 11:56 PM
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It is a movement for equality for women. If you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation and blocking equal laws. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ Or read this list about feminism misandry for anyone who thinks that feminism fights for men’s rights, for anyone who thinks that feminism was only a sexist movement starting from the third wave and…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:20 AM
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Psychologically women present more empathy. Purely based in science. Present? Or report? Women self report more empathy consistently. Most likely due to expected gender roles of being more empathetic. However, tests of empathy are a mixed bag with studies going both ways depending on how the measurement was done. I suggest you read this - https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12144-020-01260-8 TL;DR - There isn't a clear scientific difference between the sexes in giving empathy. However the…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:08 AM
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The feminists making sexist laws and public policy aren't a problem? The academics making biased research of sexual violence, domestic violence, pay gap, etc aren't a problem? The feminists in the media pushing the patriarchy conspiracy theory, fear culture for women, misandry, etc aren't a problem? The feminists in advertising, television, and cinema that present typical men as incompetent oafs or abusers aren't a problem? The feminists in HR and college admissions that prioritize hiring/admitt…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 09:01 PM
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If you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation and blocking equal laws. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data ma…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:17 PM
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I think the problem is many men experience being dumped, cheated on, or abused shortly after they are emotionally vulnerable in a relationship. Can you blame men for seeing the pattern?
/r/MensRights14/02/24 05:46 PM
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https://www.ctvnews.ca/mobile/sci-tech/boys-don-t-cry-study-suggests-mothers-not-fathers-show-gender-bias-towards-sons-1.4693208
/r/MensRights14/02/24 05:43 PM
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The empathy gap enables both feminists (who's sexist ideologies have infected most of the major parties on the left) and tradcons (that make up at least a third of most major parties on the right) to screw over men. Academia has been infected with misandry. Most media is politically correct progressive or the opposite and moderate viewpoints are not presented.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 05:39 PM
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That's what it was like years ago. Then they all got shut down by reddit and this became the only large subreddit for mens issues.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 11:48 AM
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A viewing of Divorce Corp and a presentation on (the lack of) reproductive rights of males.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 01:12 AM
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Most people in here identify as feminists purely by definition. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't be at odds with them. Maybe you should correct feminis…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 12:46 PM
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While large planes and ships are generally safer, if you don't have a wife or kids to support, you can probably afford your own sailboat or private plane. Then you are the captain. You are the one responsible for maintenance. You are responsible for choosing the destination and route. You are the one responsible for tracking the weather. You are the one responsible for keeping watch. You are the that gets to decide when to pop the liferaft/parachute or to go down with the ship instead. I think t…
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:00 PM
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You missed the "him". /s
/r/MensRights09/02/24 12:01 PM
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Just what till you see what happens if you turn down a woman propositioning you for sex... https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7upvc2/how_have_the_women_in_your_life_handled_it_when/ TL;DR More often than not it results in accusations of being gay, accusations of cheating, or abuse. Behavior that is wholly unacceptable when the sexes are reversed.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 07:44 PM
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Press release two days ago with a high level summary of the legislation for those that are interested. https://www.consilium.europa.eu/en/press/press-releases/2024/02/06/violence-against-women-council-and-european-parliament-reach-deal-on-eu-law/
/r/MensRights08/02/24 03:24 PM
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Forced labor is bodily autonomy. Forced confinement is bodily autonomy. Restricted movement is bodily autonomy. Slavery is freedom! /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 01:15 PM
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Didn't divorce. Couldn't risk not seeing my daughter every day to protect her. I'd have to fight to get even 50% custody in my state. Unlikely I'd get more. She had been telling her friends lies about me and I have no doubt she would tell the courts the same. She, who previously loved therapy, refused. I eventually snapped and did 1/10th of one of the traumatic things she did to me back to her, and suddenly she agreed we needed marriage counseling. The marriage counselor helped me convince her w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 01:10 PM
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Looking back I could see one incident for a couple hours in the first 14 years. She was 21 at the time. If we are honest lots of women that age are immature and insecure at that age. After she was rejected by her birth mother, those behaviors averaged an hour a day. I talked to a couple of her childhood friends that became mutual friends. One of them said she was like that at times growing up, but as soon as she left for college and wasn't around her mom all the time it all ended. You are failin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 12:53 PM
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My son was subjected to false accusations by three girls that got in trouble for bullying him and another girl a week before the first allegation. He was out sick from school the day he supposedly groped the ringleader. There was video evidence of the second girl dragging him into the girls bathroom as he resisted and he broke away and was only in there for seconds the day he was supposedly peeping on her. After he was harshly interrogated for the first two and we kindly explained there would be…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:37 PM
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FYI - The link to that pdf is broken. 2023 version is here. https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/keeping-children-safe-in-education--2 Someone saved the 2022 version here - https://d28h14s6iidest.cloudfront.net/uploads/files/KCSIE_2022_revised.pdf
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:25 PM
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My wife was raised by a narcissist mom. She was great until she found and was rejected (a second time) by her birth mother. That was in her mid-30s. She went from being good wife and top mom to controlling, mentally abusive to the children and me, and physically abusive to me over a period of about six months. The change had nothing to do with our daughter or me, but it had a hell of an impact on us. I've seen a bunch of people's personalities drastically change as a result of mental illness, dr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 12:16 PM
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Reread your comment above jackass.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 12:12 PM
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Realistically, if you could've been a fly on the wall since the beginning of the relationship, you would've seen the red flags and recognized that the guy was always abusive, he just hadn't escalated to physical violence until 3 years in. That's an important distinction to make. I don't buy that. My wife was raised by a narcissist mother. In her mid-30s she found and was rejected by her birth mother. Her personality drastically changed. Started acting like she had borderline personality disorder…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 12:02 PM
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Of course this is questionable for a number of reasons but I won't expand here. I will. The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public polic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 11:42 AM
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When I say "bodily autonomy," I mean "the ability to dictate what happens to your body." Then there is a clear bodily autonomy argument for men. What choices do raped men and boys have in the US? forced labor to pay your rapist child support for 18-21 years - probably more than 5 years income that you can't use to better your own life spend your adult life in and out of jail for contempt of court meaning you can't hold a meaningful high paying job leave the US forever and never enter a country t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 11:35 AM
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My wife didn't become abusive until a month shy of 14 years into the relationship. The next seven years were hell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 11:27 AM
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Wives can rape husbands legally in India too. ANY woman can rape a man in India. Doesn't have to be his wife. A woman cannot be prosecuted for rape of a man. Other than blatant sexism, why do you say women can't rape men?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 09:43 PM
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Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, but a man breaking an engagement after having sex with his fiancee is a rape. 🙄
/r/MensRights07/02/24 08:54 PM
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Examples : Feminists in US block efforts to count nonconsensual envelopment of a penis by a vagina as rape in rape statistics. Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, but a man breaking an engagement after having sex with …
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:55 PM
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For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is considered the foremost expert on sexual violence in the US. She is the one that…
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:46 PM
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I would include a penis nonconsensually enveloped by a mouth, vagina, or anus as rape. According to CDC data in a typical year as many men are victims of that as women are victims of nonconsensual penetration.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:45 PM
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Please stop getting your "facts" from feminist propaganda and actually do some research on the things you talk about.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:11 PM
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"The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” The problem is there was a proposal to add explicit verbiage about envelopment of a penis instead of only talking about penetration. It got blocked. So female on male rape is a grey area. Some jurisdictions report nonconsensual envelopment of genitalia as rape and some do not. The most common form of nonconsensual se…
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:08 PM
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Circumcision in the US is done under general anesthesia. This is false information. Newborn circumcision is usually done with sugar water to distract them or if lucky a spray of topical local anesthetic. They aren't putting day old children under general anesthesia. We hear constantly about boys needing to be taught to be respectful and girls needing to be taught independence because that’s how society prioritizes boys and girls today. Boys are have become second class citizens this century.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:47 PM
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If a woman doesn’t contribute anything and you don’t want to tolerate that, then don’t tolerate it. Easy when dating. Easier said than done if you love your kids in a society with sexist divorce and domestic violence laws/policies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/24 03:25 AM
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Ummm. Provide alleged victims with counseling and accomodations. Believe evidence. If the evidence shows one party is guilty of rape or false accusations prosecute them and present the evidence to a jury. PEOPLE lie. PEOPLE rape. Neither are gendered issues. Only the treatment of them is gendered.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 03:10 AM
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If you wanted to study something but know there’s a non-zero chance you’ll be resented and told you’ll never succeed by doing it, would you still feel as eager to enroll? Do you think boys are encouraged to go into engineering and computers nearly as much as girls in the last decade?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 01:31 AM
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Except that isn't true in the overwhelming majority of cases. It is FAR more a lack of interest in a challenging and not social career.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 01:14 AM
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Microaggressions exist because the demand for bigotry far outstrips supply. So they had to keep lowering the bar to find new things to be outraged about.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 01:10 AM
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but think about how males vs females are conditioned during childhood and schools Are you sure that's what you want? Women are way more likely to go into tech and engineering in oppressive countries like Iran or poor countries like China than in wealthy egalitarian countries like Norway. If women have other options they usually take them. When they can't get by on a job they want, they tend to go into engineering. How many of the people pushing more women in engineering are female engineers them…
/r/MensRights07/02/24 01:02 AM
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I don't think only ... just the majority ... and it isn't acknowledged ... in fact it is almost forbidden to mention.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:46 AM
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They are systemically discriminating against people based on a characteristic of birth though. The idiots on forums have no influence. #KillAllMen isn't nearly the problem as the leaders.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:36 AM
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Women still face discrimination in male dominated fields such as engineering and computing A lack of interest isn't discrimination.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:34 AM
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cause what he said indicated that he believes more women are rapists than men WHERE?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:33 AM
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the equivalent group of men’s right believes in raping every women they see and that men should have power over everything. A couple hundred fringe lunatics on internet forums are comparable to thousands of feminists in positions of power and influence within government, education, media, lobbying, etc?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:23 AM
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That isn't what was stated at all. Your dismissive response towards made to penetrate however is directly quoted above.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:20 AM
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Tens of thousands of men won't be robbed of hundreds of thousands of dollars,tens of thousands of hours, and the opportunity to reproduce. Or go read twox. Lots of women seem to justify divorce and cutting the child from the father's life if he dares to verify paternity. If it's standard procedure, he didn't "wrong her" by getting a paternity test.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 09:34 PM
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That solves a lot of problems, but not all of them. Males have no reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 08:06 PM
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they don't care about false accusations anyway (unless they happen to women, of course). Case in point. Israeli feminists were concerned if a woman raping a man was recognized by law, a man could threaten to make false accusations against the woman after the man raped her in order to keep her from reporting. Apparently false accusations are a problem for women, so they fixed this by blocking the legislation that would have made rape a gender neutral crime. https://m.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-group…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:58 PM
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women can be rapists too and it’s important to recognise this as a real issue but to act like it isn’t a significantly less common problem than men raping women is just ignorant Are you a radical feminist or just using the work of radical feminists to eliminate most male victims of rape and dismiss those pointing out the truth?
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:03 PM
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The equivalent groups for men's rights aren't making laws, public policy, publishing in "reputable" news publications, teaching at public universities, dictating HR policies, etc. They are fairly rare We challenge the rhetoric of Tate and Elam all the time. Roy Den Hollander was formally kicked out of NCFM. A Voice For Men (which could at times be pretty crass itself) found him to be too misogynistic and stopped associating with him. Some other group I can't remember asked him to leave because h…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 02:37 PM
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IME the stats I post are regularly dismissed with "if he didn't enjoy it he wouldn't have gotten an erection/cum", "men are stronger, he liked it or he would have just rolled her off and walked away", etc. A human element may work better for some people.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:10 PM
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Is this a trick question? All the inequality stuff feminists push. Propaganda around rape, domestic violence, pay gap, amd discrimination in STEM. Trying to keep evil women out of prison rather than general justice/criminal rehabilitation reform. Dismissal of raped men, abused men, MGM, discrimination against boys in education, the fact that males have no reproductive rights at all, etc. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, p…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:03 PM
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For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is considered the foremost expert on sexual violence in the US. She is the one that…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 12:42 PM
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What English or Spanish speaking countries are not?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:46 PM
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Here's the thing. His wording in the first comment wasn't great, but he is factually correct. Older eggs are less reliable. Chromosomal defects - A 33 year old egg has twice the risk of a chromosomal defect compared to 20 year old egg. Check out this table https://embryology.med.unsw.edu.au/embryology/index.php/Genetic_risk_maternal_age Autism - The authors of the epidemiological study, published February 8 in Autism Research, examined the parental age of more than 12,000 children with autism an…
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:05 PM
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People in prison lose their parental rights. The child could give baby up for adoption. Historically that isn't what happens when a woman rapes a boy. She gets a pass because she's pregnant or has an infant, she gets primary or full custody, she is unemployable, she applies for state aid, and the state goes after the boy victim for reimbursement.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 04:49 PM
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Read the article or read the CPS guidance they quoted. This is very much about the sex of the person bullied into joining a gang. It isn't reasonable. It is sexist.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 04:34 PM
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I'm saying males and females join gangs for similar reasons. Some PEOPLE are abused into it. Other PEOPLE get into it for money and power. The circumstances rather than their race/sex/religion should be the factor in determining who gets prosecuted or imprisoned for it. You are arguing against that.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 04:14 PM
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If that's what you think I was implying or what I think you are very wrong You have twice said women and girls can be forced/abused/beaten/threatened into joining gangs but implied not men and boys. What were you saying?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:45 PM
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Your attribution of hypoagency for women and hyperagency for men is sexist BS. The law should take into consideration the situation, not the race/sex/religion of the offender.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:28 PM
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In the UK, CPS decided we shouldn't even put women on trial for selling drugs in the UK. Not people based on a certain scenario, women. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9059233/Women-girls-groomed-gangs-forced-sell-drugs-NOT-face-criminal-charges-CPS-says.html Judicial guidance was already to not send women to prison after conviction, but now we aren't even prosecuting them for drug dealing. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2018/06/26/justice-secretary-dont-send-women-prison-unless-c…
/r/MensRights05/02/24 01:29 PM
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Never get married. Focus on building and maintaining friendships. If you want kids, earn enough money for a high end surrogate and a high end nanny.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:19 AM
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In those states women can still drop an infant at a hospital or fire station and walk away with no parental responsibilities. Texas was the first state to have such laws. Now all do. There isn't a requirement to disclose the fathers identity.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 02:37 PM
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Start with yesterday's thread... https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1ahbvv1/help_me_understand_what_are_the_lawrelated_issues/
/r/MensRights04/02/24 01:48 PM
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Huh. Apparently the laws have changed in recent years. They have added several to the end of the list. https://www.healthcare.gov/preventive-care-adults/ It was available for women since day 1. https://www.healthcare.gov/preventive-care-women/ Thank you! I'll stop telling people this is a difference. Really appreciate your subreddits. Keep up the good work.
/r/MensRights03/02/24 12:30 PM
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Agreed! The good news is that in recent years feminist lobbyists have pushed for laws to prevent rapists from getting child custody. Without custody the child wouldn't be raised by a rapist and the victim wouldn't owe child support. So the day that a male doesn't owe his perpetrator may be coming soon. The less good news is that just over half the states that passed these laws passed them as the feminist lobbiests proposed them - only preventing rapist fathers from getting custody. (https://www.…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:51 AM
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The law does not care. The state can end up paying, or the state can make the victim pay and get a kickback from the federal government for getting another "deadbeat dad" to pay up. Pretty obvious choice from the courts/states perspective. In most of the cases of middle school boys, the mother's career is ruined by being a statutory rapist so she goes on state aid and the states welfare office brings the child support suit.
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:41 AM
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So what do they consider it then? sexual assault? and what's the sentence? Depends on the country/jurisdiction. In some it's sexual assault with penalties almost as high as rape. In others it isn't a crime. Most are somewhere in-between. Please specify these perks, do you mean like extra financial support? Low interest loans only available to women owned businesses, priority/preference for government contracts by law, extra help/mentoring from the Small Business Administration, etc. Additional h…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:24 AM
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I'm guessing the commenter lives in India. Feminists there have repeatedly blocked attempts to reform rape laws. So a woman violently raping a man is not rape there, but a man breaking off an engagement after having sex with his fiance is assumed to be malicious on the part of the man rather than the relationship not working out and considered a form of rape.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:25 PM
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Obamacare provides contraception including tubal ligation and female condoms for free when prescribed by a women's doctor, vasectomy and other forms of male birth control are explicitly excluded and if states have mandated coverage for free vasectomies you can no longer get a high deductible plan in compliance with both state and federal law. Obamacare also provide smoking cessation programs, domestic violence screening, STD testing, and gender specific cancer screenings (cervical and breast for…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 07:50 PM
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once you categorize nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as "other sexual violence" instead of rape or sexual assault
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:31 AM
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It happens to women disproportionately once you categorize nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as "other sexual violence" instead of rape or sexual assault.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:05 AM
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I can't help it if a high school dropout named duhhhh is better educated. ;-)
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:20 PM
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Feminism glorifies working as a privilege and raising a family as oppression. As a result the workforce grew, pay is lower, and most households require two incomes to afford to raise children. Feminism is supported by the oligarchs because it lowers the cost and negotiating ability of labor so they can get richer.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:47 PM
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In a country where women are the majority of voters when women run for office they have the same odds of winning as a male candidate more women than men wanted these laws I would call male legislators not passing the laws because men know better than women what they really want : 1) A career limiting move 2) An actual patriarchy where men are ruling over women. You're upset we live in a quazi democracy and gave women a voice. lol
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:36 PM
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No. The majority of voters in both states were pro-life. A majority of the pro-life voters in both states were women. The author of the Alabama bill (that was rejected twice prior) was a woman. The Alabama governor that signed the bill that didn't have a vetoproof majority was a woman. The initial sponsor of the Texas House bill was a woman. This is about rural religious Republicans prioritizing the life of the embryo, not men vs women
/r/MensRights01/02/24 12:27 PM
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See https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/phffry/men_are_not_taking_away_womens_abortion_rights/
/r/MensRights01/02/24 11:58 AM
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They want to make laws against their autonomy Is that what you think happened in Alabama and Texas? I think you should research the facts.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 11:56 AM
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It's so funny to me that men want to play oppression olympics at a time when men were never given their bodily autonomy in the first place, but ok.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 11:50 AM
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Single women could. MARRIED women couldn't. I don't think know the history of WHY or you wouldn't phrase it the way you did. There was a relatively short period in history (first half of the 20th century) where married women in the US and UK were not allowed to buy property or have a bank account without their husbands permission. Do you know the sexist history there? It is because divorce laws allowed a woman to keep her own property in a divorce while her husband was responsible for the family…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 10:38 PM
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Physical abuse of children may be a factor. Physical and mental abuse of the father and mental abuse of children isn't a factor. Law enforcement wise - Men calling the police because their heterosexual partner is beating them are more likely arrested than the abuser. The physically abused men are usually the one asked to leave the household to prevent more abuse. Most domestic violence hotlines blame the man for abuse and accuse him of being the real abuser. Most men are scared to remove the chi…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 12:01 PM
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Men can usually escape abusive relationships alone. Men have extreme difficulty getting their children and money out of abusive marriages. You don't think giving men a good way to protect their children physically and mentally from an abusive mother and find a way to financially suppoee their children rather than the family abuser would save lives???
/r/MensRights30/01/24 11:23 AM
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You didn't read that, did you?
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:58 AM
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But women are at much greater risk of serious harm or death when victim hence the urgency in providing alternative accommodation. Clearly you didn't read what I wrote. More domestic violence services for men would be great if u guys need them, in which case men should start them up? Womens services exist bc women created them Clearly you didn't read what I wrote.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:45 AM
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When they are judges that will take away your travel documents and then lock you in a cage, their opinions matter.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:14 AM
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I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment of women. The violence is pretty equal. The perception and resources are not due to feminists. Reality is women are slightly more likely to initiate physical violence and slightly more likely to be significantly injured during physical violence. Almost 24% of all relations…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:07 AM
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I said nonconsensual sex. That includes nonconsensual envelopment of a penis which rape and sexual assault statistics do not. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Thi…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:05 AM
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I personally think a third of therapists suck and do more harm than good, a third aren't a great personality or problem fit, and a third are life changing forces of good. Finding a good therapist that is also good fit for you is costly, time consuming, and frustrating. I've personally had fairly good luck with moderate and conservative women who got their degrees pre-y2k. I have not had luck with men or liberal/younger women.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 11:19 PM
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Baloney. A man with many partners is known as a fuckboi, cad, womanizer, manwhore, player, manslut, lothario, etc. Marriage minded women are avoiding this type of man unless they are exceptionally wealthy or famous.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 07:02 PM
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I don't feel feminists are responsible for calling out misandry from random women not associated with their movement. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, I wouldn't …
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:39 PM
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I am regularly called an incel or misogynist for citing data showing men are victims of nonconsensual sex and domestic violence at about the same rate women are and men need support services. The anti-MRA pick-up artist Roosh V is called our leader despite his messaging that we are a bunch of pansies for trying to fix legal inequalities. Eliot Rodger who never visited an MRA forum/event was supposedly an MRA and typical one at that. The accusations and smears aren't connected with reality alread…
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:30 PM
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How was this "in specific masculine ways"? When women are slut shaming is that "in specific feminine ways"? I'd call it bullying. Masculine and feminine have nothing to do with it IMO. I think a better example is Roy Den Hollander was formally kicked out of NCFM A Voice For Men (which could at times be pretty crass itself) found him to be too misogynistic and stopped associating with him some other group I can't remember asked him to leave because his ideas weren't in line with theirs ... years …
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:14 PM
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Depends how you mean calling it out. Admitting there are some shitty people in the world, roughly half of them are men, pointing out bad behavior behind the scenes, and not associating with people after they demonstrate such behaviors? Absolutely! Calling them out publicly like a John Wayne movie putting our reputations all the way up through lives on the line? Nope. Pull out your phone. Shoot video. Call police if necessary. Chivalry is for suckers.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:00 PM
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The actor playing Phil Donohue was Phil Hartman. On May 28, 1998, Phil Hartman was shot in his sleep by his wife with their children in the home. The man who appeared so happy in public, was being badly abused in private. Ya never know folks.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 11:34 PM
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[–]maxhrlw -7 points 2 months ago This sub is just becoming a place for incels.. Women are not to blame for your lack of finding a partner. Neither are porn or video games in and of themselves. Addiction is bad for everyone, video game and porn addiction included. You are always the master of your own destiny (within limits). Stop wallowing in self pity, spend the porn/video game time upskilling and in the gym, get outside and you'll find a date. [–]maxhrlw -3 points 9 days ago The problem is th…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:08 PM
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Based on sorting your comments by controversial and looking for ones in mensrights, it appears true. I never went through all your comments, but on the surface... So no, I do not know it.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 08:18 PM
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Where's your proof, Proof?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 02:43 PM
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The only comments I came across with a lot of downvotes are the ones where you call us a bunch of incels and tell us to man up. Perhaps folks don't see that as constructive balanced commentary?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 11:25 AM
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All those female teachers abusing underaged pupils are what? See this article for an explanation. https://www.thestar.com/opinion/star-columnists/court-says-pedophilia-does-not-apply-because-perpetrator-is-a-woman/article_50d93e6e-2af0-5faa-9d9f-cf1dd8425ab6.html It is obvious many women like fucking young boys. You don't understand. They are victims of seduction by suave middle school boys. /s
/r/MensRights25/01/24 12:09 PM
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They don't care about you, but they care about their ego. They want to win. They want recognition and validation. That's why so many strive to be CEOs. Being recognized for saving lives, beating cancer, being one of the best is what it is about, not you personally.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 01:26 AM
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When statistically 2/3rds of the men that are child sex offenders have a cluster B personality disorder and 1/3 are childhood victims themselves (yes there is some overlap between the two groups obviously), it seems like studying and educating about cluster B disorders and working to better support victimized children could prevent a lot of future CSA. The tiktoc (and it looks like your) goal is to blame and shame men. Guess what? Sociopaths feel no guilt. A lot of unsupported childhood victims …
/r/MensRights24/01/24 11:10 PM
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Let's say radiation is 85% effective with minimal side effects, but radiation and chemo is 97% effective but I'll lose my hair, vomit, lose 50 lbs, and want to die for months. A doctor that cares about me would just do radiation to spare me the suffering. A sociopath that doesn't care about me and just wants to win against cancer will do both and give me a 14% higher chance of living a long cancer free life.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 10:19 PM
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Basically sociopaths don't have empathy and don't feel guilt. If a lawyer thinks I'm guilty they will likely not put up as good a defense/lawsuit. A sociopath path wants to win and doesn't care about guilt or innocence. Winning is what matters. I want a lawyer that wants to win above all else. An oncologist has some drugs with higher side effects but better outcomes. If the doctor feels badly for their patients that become horribly ill on the drug they don't use it as often. A sociopath path doe…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:31 PM
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There are lots of studies out there. First three from my search engine... https://www.thieme-connect.de/products/ejournals/abstract/10.1055/s-2003-38607?device=mobile&innerWidth=432&offsetWidth=432 72 % of the sex offenders showed at least one personality disorder. The highest prevalence was found for cluster-B disorders, first of all the antisocial personality disorder. Using a PCL-R cut off score of 25 (for europe) 10 of the 47 subjects (21 %) were diagnosed as „psychopaths”, https://onlinelib…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 07:11 PM
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1 in 20 is 5%. That 5% (225ish) of the surveyed (4500ish) was extrapolated to 5% of the total population creating the more dramatic MILLIONS of men. Most people with empathy wouldn't ever consider molesting children. Sociopaths are about 4% of the general population but a much higher percentage of convicted rapists, murders, torturers, etc. Multiple studies in multiple countries show the majority of men convicted of raping adult women were molested by adult women when they were boys. When it com…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 06:40 PM
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Archive of the article - https://archive.is/2qQ03 one in 20 said they would have sexual contact with a child About 4% of the population is sociopaths. A higher percentage than that were sexually abused themselves when they were children and didn't get the help they needed. Anyone else think those two groups are highly represented in the people saying they would if no one would find out? I assume all men will be blamed rather than doing something useful like educating people about cluster B perso…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 04:44 PM
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unless I missed something You've got some learning to do how that is manipulated. Nonconsensual envelopment of a penis is not counted as rape or sexual assault in the NISVS. It is subcategorized as "made to penetrate" a form of the larger category "other sexual violence". If you look at nonconsensual sex rather than only nonconsensual penetration of the victim, the differences aren't that big. NISVS 2010 showed in the past 12 months, 1.1% of men were made to penetrate and 1.1% of women were rape…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 04:13 PM
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Dismissal of MGM as an issue is a big problem. Feminists aren't the only drivers of this, but they certainly participate. I'll agree a clitoridectomy is awful and much worse than a typical circumcision. Feminists like to count FGM using one definition and then imply all FGM is clitoridectomy for political gain. However, FGM also includes a lot of stuff less bad than infant male circumcision and all FGM is bad, ergo MGM is also bad. There is also MGM worse than clitoridectomy as well such as rece…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:51 PM
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My fault not living with him first. Live and learn. I lived with my partner for a decade before she became abusive. No one has any idea what the person they married will become.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:15 PM
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Heart disease is caused by smoking, obesity, alcoholism, genetics, cholesterol, hypertension…All of which men have a higher measure. ok. It certainly isn’t Misandry causing heart disease. So misandry doesn't contribute to any of the above? I bet a lot of folks using drinking and eating as coping mechanics for "something". I bet higher blood pressure and higher cortisol levels are caused by "something". But that something couldn't be misandry, right?
/r/MensRights23/01/24 04:43 PM
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That's the 1.7% you're referring to. No. The 1.7% lifetime and almost all raped men were victimized by men is the bullshit feminists pedal after eliminating nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape. NISVS 2010 showed in the past 12 months, 1.1% of men were made to penetrate and 1.1% of women were raped. Table 2.1 & 2.2 on pages 18/19. NISVS 2011 showed in the past 12 months, 1.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.6% of women were raped. Table 1 on page 5. NISVS 2012 showed in the p…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 11:58 AM
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You asked for us to cite statistics. I did. You ignored them. Who is ignorant? Again, if you want to learn why we are against feminists read my comments in this thread. It starts off with rape and DV statistics manipulation. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights23/01/24 11:17 AM
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Sure. I chase feminists off with that all the time. Read my comments on this thread about why we are against feminists. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:32 AM
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men kill women more often than women kill men in relationships. That's a problem that has largely been caused by feminist domestic violence policy. The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them …
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:27 AM
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The ones who have the skills will be unhappy because they will unfairly be treated with suspicion because of this crap. The ones who suck will simply claim it's racism/sexism. DEI causes more sexism and racism ... and I think that's often a goal.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 05:45 PM
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She was adopted by a cold narcissist woman. I thought she was amazingly well adjusted having grown up with that. We started dating in college when she was 20. When she found and was rejected by her birth mother in her mid-30s, her personality totally changed.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:38 PM
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... and know you are one illness, injury, or job loss away from being worthless dirt?
/r/MensRights22/01/24 02:27 PM
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This will probably help, but no guarantees. I have kids and I'm married. I regret it. My wife was pretty awesome until something totally outside our immediate family changed her personality drastically and the kids and I went through seven years of hell. We dated over six years before marrying. Things were good for over seven after that. Then, bam, abusive wife and mother to our daughter.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 02:25 PM
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You sound like a raving mad man right now. Yes. There is the feminist stance. Men thinking nonconsensual sex is rape is "raving mad". Clearly nonconsensual envelopment of a man's genitals with a woman's genitals is never to be called "rape" or "sexual assault". Only a misogynist trying to detract from men's violence would bring up male victimization of heterosexual nonconsensual sex as a form of rape.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 01:36 PM
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My first two comments on this thread are evidence that the majority of sociological research into rape and domestic violence is sexist and dishonest. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights22/01/24 02:25 AM
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the fact that you unironically think feminists derive joy from boys/men suffering is actually the point of the joke lol Maybe feminists like you should learn about what feminists have done to men and boys and call out their fellow feminists rather than making fun of men well educated about feminism?
/r/MensRights22/01/24 01:40 AM
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"male tears" are often celebrated or mocked in pop feminism.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:48 AM
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What, in your mind, is the reason for this discrepancy? Ideological research is promoted instead of honest science based research. There is plenty of the honest stuff out there too, just not promoted like the sexist stuff.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:40 AM
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Ome victim shouldn't be forced to continue to be victimized in order to protect another victim. That is a choice they get to make. The only one responsible is the one who perpetrated the fraud.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 01:08 AM
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Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. It isn't the victims responsibility to fix the situation. That responsibility should fall on the perpetrator.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:50 AM
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So "your people" are the ones profiting from women in the fashion and cosmetic industry. The gay patriarchy hurting women again. /s
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:05 AM
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The children however don't deserve to be abandoned by the only father they have known because of it. On that we agree. The mother should be shamed for having that happen to the child. The child and father were both innocent victims of her deception.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:02 AM
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What is your native language?
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:37 PM
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Not his kid. He can chose to stay or chose to leave. He didn't conceive them or adopt them. He has no moral responsibility to care for them. Force the responsibility to care for the child on the people who created it, not some man that had nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:13 PM
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It often doesn't matter once he's been duped into signing the birth certificate in the hospital. As a TwoX regular you know about the often conversations about women threatening to dump the guy and do everything they can to prevent him from interacting with the child if he gets a paternity test. So he ends up paying 5-7 years income to pay an abusive woman to raise his child that he can't see ... or go to jail if he cannot afford it. Paternity tests should be routine healthcare.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:09 PM
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Well you said the equivalent is okay when the sexes are reversed. So I guess we've established you are a sexist bigot then.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:06 PM
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He can leave and pay the adulterous fraudster 5-7 years income to raise someone elses child or go to jail he he cannot afford it.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:03 PM
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So women shouldn't be upset if their IVF doctor substitutes their own eggs into her, right?
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:01 PM
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Theft of a million dollars and tens of thousands of hours of labor Denying a person the right to reproduce by fraud Emotional abuse I'm assuming you'd either be ok if the IVF specialist you paid implanted her own eggs fertilized with your husbands sperm into you without telling you she made a swap ... or you're a sexist pig with no empathy for half the species.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:39 PM
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But be prepared for a lot of people to blame it entirely on women to put on clear display that they are just mad at women and blame them when possible. You think women are blamed more for divorce than men in society? On social media? In media? How about a fair share of the blame?
/r/MensRights20/01/24 04:41 PM
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If you are the breadwinner but your wife is abusive, there needs to be a way you can safely leave her without going into poverty. Alimony is a way to ensure men are trapped in relationships where their wives are abusive and they can’t afford to leave them.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 12:16 AM
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Women control reproduction. Since most women will only marry up, men must commute longer to higher skill/stress/danger/off-shift jobs where they work more hours in order to reproduce. When it comes to men, the wage gap between fathers and non-fathers is quite big.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 01:34 PM
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Is there some reason to believe women are less capable at judging based on facts? Because #BelieveWomen is a different philosophy than #InvestigateAllAccusations. Why would a judge be a problem merely because she is a woman? You've got a point here. Men are just as likely to fall for the brain washing that women aren't just as prone to lie as men and women are more likely to get away with calling women out on their shit.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 01:09 PM
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One of over a dozen cases where it came out that CPS tampered with evidence, withheld evidence, or didn't turn over exonerating evidence to the defense until a couple days before trial.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 10:41 PM
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They encouraged the demographics to apply. Anyone could apply and make it through without being filtered out for being the wrong sex/race by HR. They didn't have quotas. They didn't put pressure on the hiring managers or interviewers to hire less qualified people of the "right" demographics. I respect that approach.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:54 PM
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If the workforce isn't diverse enough then how does the company fix that? The company I worked for who's training wasn't racist and sexist went to recruiting events at predominantly black colleges and women in stem conferences and encouraged QUALIFIED candidates to apply to the open job reqs. I respected that approach a lot. They got more women and black stats AND some really good employees out of it too.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:37 PM
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Archive link of article : https://archive.ph/hhfd4
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:26 PM
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While DEI is about lower admissions standards and more aid for women and minorities in things like engineering. It also includes hiring, mentoring, and promoting women and minorities over equally (and often even more) qualified men in the workplace in the name of "equity".
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:48 AM
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I've done DEI training at three companies. Two of the three were blatantly sexist and racist. At one of them there was pushback on an ANONYMOUS corporate feedback portal from enough employees they found a new DEI education vendor the following year. It has been only mildly sexist and racist since. I only got my current position because I am in an extremely niche field and the position was open for a year and they couldn't find a suitable woman or minority candidate, so they opened it up to white…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 10:54 PM
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Stuff like - DEI is politically correct racism and sexism. If you care about my daughter, don't limit my career opportunities that provide for her because I am a white or Asian male. We need to work on providing opportunity to all. Let's fix the education system first and go from there.. Men are abused in heterosexual relationships almost as often as women. The victims are not overwhelmingly women. Most male victims are raped/abused by women, not men. They need government funded resources like w…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 09:02 PM
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It worked the last time. So why wouldn't they try again? https://www.qchron.com/editions/north/women-not-men-to-live-at-college-point-homeless-shelter/article_e907cfe2-e3b5-11e9-9844-efde95673666.html
/r/MensRights15/01/24 12:00 AM
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IIRC, they used to capture such statistics, but it showed female teachers were molesting even more boys than priests so they stopped gathering the data. I've seen the old data linked in comments here before. Perhaps someone has a link handy. /u/FSOexpo is knowledgeable in this area.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 10:00 PM
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It improves your odds, but not foolproof. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5687477/Ex-husband-ordered-pay-child-support-former-wife-forged-signature-undergo-IVF.html
/r/MensRights09/01/24 02:33 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5687477/Ex-husband-ordered-pay-child-support-former-wife-forged-signature-undergo-IVF.html
/r/MensRights09/01/24 02:32 PM
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There are bad people in every demographic. From a society perspective, this is more disturbing. 1) was among the top ‘100 Brilliant Women in AI Ethics for 2021’ We need to stop rewarding dark triad traits by making them CEOs. We need to stop calling manipulating AI to spout misandry but not misogyny "ethical". 2) Other articles indicate the trip to Goa was to prevent her ex-husband from seeing the child. Why don't we take parental interference/parental alienation as dangerous to the children's m…
/r/MensRights09/01/24 02:23 PM
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Morally, the latter situation could be handled by bear hugging the smaller person till they give up. There isn't a reason to knock them out when there are less aggressive means to neutralize the attack. Equality says treat a 120lb woman slapping a 190lb guy like a 120 guy slapping a 190lb guy. Pin them down and hug them till the fight is out of them. The only difference is a guy can't risk calling the police for help if the attacker is a woman.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 05:21 PM
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Way too many variables which is what makes it tough for a jury. What is each persons - strength, weight, fight experience, weapons, mental state, etc. I think its morally acceptable response to a large woman in a rage swinging a frying pan. I think its escalating the violence to a small fairly calm woman slapping.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 05:06 PM
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and, not or. The moral question is, is it self defense to prevent more harm to the man or escalation of the violence. Either way, the man is likely the one arrested.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 04:58 PM
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Female candidates win elections at the same rate male ones do. The majority of voters are women. Fewer women than men choose to run for office. I ask such people if they are suggesting men should force women to run for office or something? I wouldn't want to be a politician. I'd consider it an awful job for me. So forcing women to run sounds awfully misogynistic.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:00 PM
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I bet that neither paternal entrapment ... are crimes in India. Worse than that. It has been court ordered - https://theprint.in/judiciary/court-orders-man-to-donate-sperm-to-estranged-wife-who-says-no-time-for-2nd-marriage/255215/
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:55 PM
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As a gay man, I assume you've never been in a romantic relationship with an irrational or angry woman? The saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" didn't come from nowhere. I also assume you don't need to worry about Australia's almost one sided "violence against women" rhetoric, policy, police, laws, and courts? A man's only power is the power to walk away. Since she is aborting he has no obligation to protect the child from it's mother. IMO, he made the wise move to run fast and far.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:47 PM
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Was it this trial? https://www.self.com/story/male-contraceptive-study-shut-down-gunter
/r/MensRights06/01/24 02:11 PM
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Because men have similar issues means women cant? Sure they can. But it isn't gender based violence since it isn't a very gendered problem. That part is the propaganda. Not the suffering. It's wrong when anybody does it. You finally got the point! (After some racist sexist shit blaming Pakistani men.)
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:38 AM
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An honest conversation is that the attacks are horrible, but it isn't gender based violence against women. Much like rape and domestic violence, the problem isn't very gendered. The narrative, laws, public policy, etc is very gendered, but not the violence. https://avoiceformen.com/featured/acid-attacks-telling-only-half-the-story/
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:20 AM
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Has it ever occurred to you that she made an award winning propaganda piece on it and what I said is very real? What did I say that was incorrect? What percentage of men support acid attacks?
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:02 AM
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Over 40% of the victims are male. MANY of the female victims were wives vs mistress attacks or women trying to disfigure a girlfriend to make the guy lose interest to improve her odds of landing him - the only area the man was involved was romance, not throwing acid. I haven't seen Pakistani men defending this. Do you have any statistics on what percentage of Pakistani men support acid attacks?
/r/MensRights04/01/24 11:56 PM
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I'm in the northeast US. CT, DE, MA, MD, NJ, NY, and RI all offer gender neutral paid parental leave.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 08:26 PM
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IMNSHO, not the majority. But certainly enough that anyone over 25 has encountered at least one that does.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 06:34 PM
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My representatives already passed gender neutral parental leave years ago. Why would I harass them? My male coworker just got back from five weeks off for the birth of his daughter last year.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 04:51 PM
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Over forty percent of the acid attack victims in Pakistan are male. Did her documentary include that info or portray it as an issue of misogyny?
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:37 PM
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So this first one is generic that more resources put into any kind of domestic resource decreases the chance of homicide. > https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/jr000250f.pdf I don't disagree with the statement but would like to add more context to the line graph in that paper. Here is a graph of intimate partner homicides by sex over the years from the study. Notice the trend for women as they got help vs men that didn't? https://web.archive.org/web/20201112004425/https://imgur.com/a/6Hx9dJt When you …
/r/MensRights03/01/24 08:41 PM
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https://www.umass.edu/masculinities/about/leadership Affiliated with the white ribbon campaign, so assuredly toxic.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 04:50 PM
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Keep reading. That section cited 10 studies with names (and hotlinks for at least half).
/r/MensRights01/01/24 06:01 PM
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Because speaking the truth, that most rapists of women were raped by women when they were boys, doesn't advance feminist goals. Reducing rape of boys and give them support when they are raped just reduces future rapes. It doesn't demonize men and make money for feminist programs. http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993#_Toc498111528
/r/MensRights01/01/24 04:55 AM
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It's the UN. THEY are well known for their bias against men.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:45 PM
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Nice Guys are mostly nice people who are male and have been taken advantage of far too much or are very harshly rejected. They then tell the other person to fuck off and don't speak to them anymore. Women who were taking advantage of them or harshly rejected them then claim they were only pretending to be nice so they look good and the man looks bad. There is ALSO a much smaller group of jerks actually just pretending to be nice just to get laid.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:13 PM
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Lol at that table of MRA traits.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:22 AM
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Misandry doesn't perfectly map to the prevalence of feminism. For example feminism is more prevalent in Scandinavian countries, but there seems to be less overt misandry out of the feminists there than in countries like Spain or Australia.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 09:57 PM
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Not from what I've seen. But they do prefer guys who can count their partners on one hand. That's okay when women have that preference though.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:19 PM
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"No uterus, no opinion."
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:15 PM
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I suggest you read the Overview section of Erin Pizzey's wikipedia page or one of her books. She was the founder of Refuge. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey She created the worlds first domestic violence shelters. After opening several for women in the UK, she suggested that men were being abused too (often by women staying in her shelters) and men needed a shelter too. She was then slandered, her kids were threatened, her dog was killed, bricks were thrown through her windows, and she …
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:13 PM
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Men elected by pro-life women. Why are you trying to block the majority of women from getting what they want? Why don't women start their own companies instead of complaining about male dominated ones? That male run government give women owned businesses all kinds of perks men own businesses can't get. Men speak up more than women on what is right for society??? So many of the problems here exist because the opposite is true.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:10 PM
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Go for it. Spread the word. These are people problems, not issues of female victims and male perpetrators as the feminist propaganda paints it.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 06:44 PM
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Not his paper, but my DV reddit copypasta. I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment of women. The violence is pretty equal. The perception and resources are not due to feminists. Reality is women are slightly more likely to initiate physical violence and slightly more likely to be significantly injured during phy…
/r/MensRights28/12/23 06:11 PM
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Read the website, not just the new landing page. It clearly explains PDs, how to identify them, why not get deeply involved with them, how to cope if you can't avoid them (like as a parent, child, parent of your child), and how to leave them if you can. All in plain language kids can understand.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 02:31 PM
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I think the gender ratios are reversed with antisocial personality disorder (aka sociopaths) which is another Cluster B disorder that often causes damage to those around them.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 02:23 PM
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I think an overview of them should be taught in sex ed. But that will never happen. https://outofthefog.website/ is a must read for teenagers starting to date.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 12:50 PM
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You can. You just can't use i.redd.it images. Put them on imgur, lensdump, etc and its fine.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 10:40 PM
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World discussion https://archive.is/EAmCF US pay - https://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug04/standing Australia https://www.livescience.com/5552-taller-people-earn-money.html China https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2020/04/16/your-height-has-a-big-impact-on-your-salary-new-research-seeks-to-understand-why/ US - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1570677X07000676?via%3Dihub& US and UK manager promotions - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.2466/pr0.1992.71.2.587 Connect…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 04:49 PM
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In some areas, absolutely. Being seen as a leader is one. There is also a real component to the "pay gap". It is in the 2-4% range and feminists would rather push propaganda than discuss it. The thing is short men are similarly underpaid, so it looks like a height issue rather than a sex issue there too.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 04:31 PM
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Huh. Apparently they improved things in 2020 or since whenever I last looked. I never read recent versions. Thank you. I wanna say, I disagree with a lot of what you are saying based on my own lived experiences, but I respect you. You are sticking with facts and your personal experiences rather than making personal attacks like most. Kudos!
/r/MensRights24/12/23 03:55 PM
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I thought four loads was low two, but picked the higher of the two numbers she mentioned.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 02:37 PM
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What is counted : https://unstats.un.org/unsd//nationalaccount/aeg/2020/M14_6_7_Unpaid_HH_Service_Work.pdf What comes out of it : https://www.unwomen.org/en/news/in-focus/csw61/redistribute-unpaid-work Counts laundry and PTO. Ignores all the stereotypical male household chores I gave examples of earlier. It ignores longer working hours and commute times. Ignores a lot of things men spend time on for the family. Once you include those the numbers are pretty balanced. Ignore it and men earning mor…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 02:36 PM
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Four loads of laundry is an hour and a half of work spread out over a couple days. It is not a day and a half of household labor in a world with labor saving devices doing most of the work.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 02:22 PM
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Every discussion I've had outside here or AskMen? The UN? Pretty much every study by feminists (guess that covers the UN too)?
/r/MensRights24/12/23 02:18 PM
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I doubt it is only there. IME means that's where my experience lies.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 02:16 PM
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Feminists only see lazy deadbeat men leeching off their partner and pretend lazy deadbeat women leeching off their partner don't exist?
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:57 PM
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Not everyone, but IME a majority in white upper middleclass suburbia. If it wasn't for that Redpill would likely have died many years ago.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:54 PM
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Unfortunately the world does work that way. Redpill may be over the top sexist, but they are right about a lot of things including this.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:50 PM
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Because I was the one doing the overwhelming majority of work inside the home while she was a SAHM. Why should I spend the little time I get with my kids doing chores with them? They started seeing me as the boring parent and I had gotten very resentful at my partner for doing nearly all the work in and out of the household.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:48 PM
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I do them myself. IMO they should count as household labor but they never seem to in the studies by feminists. Once you include them similar amounts of time are spent. This isn't the 1800s. It doesn't take hours to do a load of laundry. Sort by type, zip zippers, put inside or outside out as appropriate for that piece of laundry, toss it in, hit go. Come back an hour or more later, empty lint trap, move to dryer, hit go. Fold sheets/towels/shorts/mini skirts, toss socks/underwear in the persons …
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:41 PM
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After a while the woman starts treating the man like a doormat and walks all over him. When dating the man walks away. After kids, that power is greatly reduced. Leaving her with the impression that other women might steal him away, keeps her on good behavior. IMO, the world shouldn't work that way, but it often does...
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:28 PM
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If you work outside the home and she is a SAHM mom, sure she’ll do most of the domestic labour. IME, it went the other direction. She stopped doing it once a SAHM. Normal married men I speak to believe that. Feminists don't. If you’re both working, you both share the domestic labour. I never hear snow blowing, lawn mowing, yard cleanup, gutter cleaning, trash/recycling cleanup, auto/appliance/plumbing/electric repairs, etc as domestic labor in these arguments. I also don't consider doing a load …
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:24 PM
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My wife flat out told me doing the dishes, laundry, toilets, and showers wasn't cleaning ... when I was the only one doing them while she was a SAHM. I would do them with my toddler after I came home from working all day. It would have been a lot less effort to do those things while not working and having more time with the kid including nap times.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:18 PM
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And yet, statistically women have less sex with men who do traditionally feminine chores and more sex with men who do traditionally masculine chores. Maybe it more nuanced than men forcing women to take care of the inside of the house?
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:15 PM
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I agree, but I've also been in the situation where I ended up working 90% of the job hours and doing 90% of those things which is why I stopped doing most of those things. "I'm lying", "I'm lazy", and "I'm taking advantage of her" (by living in what I consider squalor) is the response I get when I point that out on these arguments. There is no widespread belief among women that the same number of women are slobs as men. I know a bunch of moms that became compulsive cleaners when they had a kid. …
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:07 PM
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It’s saying that, now that abused women have other avenues of escape, they’re less likely to kill their abusive intimate partners. Yes. I am saying why do feminists refuse to do the same for men to save women's lives like they have done to save mens lives.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:59 PM
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Do you care about women? Perhaps you should offer men what you offered women to create that gap. The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention pub…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:43 PM
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Yeah. Society has decided to provide women resources so they have better options. Therefore the rate they kill their partners went way down. Wouldn't want to provide men services to save women's lives though, would we? That would endanger funding for sexist DV programs and reduce violence instead.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:50 PM
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What percentage of men and what percentage of women murder?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 05:07 PM
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A tiny fraction of men are perpetrators, therefore the far larger group of men that are victims don't count. Bringing up female perpetrators or male victims at all is derailing and sexist... /s ~40% of nonconsensual sex in a typical year is female perpetrators victimizing males. Women are more likely to strike first and use weapons in DV. Maybe all men should fear and demonize women???
/r/MensRights22/12/23 05:04 PM
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It isn't none. It is a very small percentage of people claiming to be date rape drugged though. In the 2005 data it was 2% of reports to the police... The conclusion was that only 21 of the 1,014 accounts could be classified as potential DFSA cases. Even in such cases, the authors noted it was “ … not always possible to obtain sufficient information to decide whether or not the complainant had taken the drug voluntarily”. https://www.theguardian.com/science/blog/2014/sep/22/alcohol-date-rape-dru…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 04:55 PM
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The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men should do nothing.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:51 PM
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Look how that turned out for the Jews, Gypsys, gays, physically/mentally challenged, etc. If you're gonna make the "you're acting like Nazis for dehumanizing the dehumanizers" argument, lets at least apply the same standards to them.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:44 PM
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IME, it doesn't win against the feminist (they will just block you and keep making the same arguments you can't see or respond to) but it does win over the bystanders reading the arguments. It doesn't work on most subreddits because mods will remove the mens rights content and leave the feminist content leading people to believe we are the unreasonable ones when they see all the "[removed]". Since we lost all the reddit archive services that save removed comments, we can't expose what is going o…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:39 PM
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I think he was talking about the federal governments incentive to the states to get more men paying child support. That often priorities "bureaucracy empire building" at the taxpayer's and fathers expense more than helping kids. https://www.scribd.com/doc/630611/A-Quick-Summary-of-Title-IV-D-Funding-and-Incentives The whole "deadbeat dads" propaganda that got this passed was a collaboration between radfems and tradcons. Most unpaid child support is because of inability to pay, not unwillingness.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:19 PM
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By the way, where do you Guys keep finding these subs with this feminists? Any subreddit that isn't male centric, stereotypically male hobby centric, or porn centric? I came to reddit like 15 years ago to discuss news and personal finance. I ended up unsubscribing from almost all the news and all of the personal finance subreddits about six years ago.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 02:02 PM
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Have men refuse to date down. Have men force women to be providers if they want to reproduce. If the family breaks up, give women little child custody and a huge burden of child support and alimony. /s Bet the wage gap will be quickly reversed and women will be privileged like feminists want.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:57 AM
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In a typical year just over 40% of nonconsensual sex outside prisons is women perpetrating it on male victims. "Oopsey" babies that were planned by the woman against the man's wishes are common. Giving men access to a male pill/vasogel and equal rights in law/public policy would drastically cut down on those things.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:01 PM
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Are you against women having the rights to abortions, safe haven dropoffs, and adoptions without disclosing the father's identity? Or are you just against males having an out for an unwanted child?
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:42 PM
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After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. E.g. Alabama man - …
/r/MensRights21/12/23 11:12 AM
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... or accused of gay and essentially untouchable by a woman if a straight man is raped by a man.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 11:34 PM
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Would exonerating evidence for men and perpetration evidence for women also be available and used, or would that be destroyed because this is all about violence against women? (Unfortunately in I suspect most of us know the answer in Australia.)
/r/MensRights19/12/23 10:51 PM
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If a man has an unwanted child he was told he should have kept it in his pants, regardless of the circumstances. While the commenter above was a bit blunt with it, why should there be a double standard? Why can't contraception be a personal responsibility for both parties? And why do you assume men weren't held accountable in 1958? You think shotgun weddings weren't a real thing?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 02:21 PM
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As part of the ACA (aka Obamacare) laws, they have been free for any woman with health insurance unless your employer has a religious exemption. Read more @ https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage/birth-control-benefits/ Look at the explicitly included... female condoms, tubal ligation, contraceptive pills. Look at the explicitly excluded ... male condoms, vasectomies, male pills. If you trust Planned Parenthood more than the government website https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/s…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 01:40 PM
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You really don't know any men in long term relationships with "oopsey" babies that weren't an accident on their SOs part? I personally know of three where it was obvious or she confessed and suspect a fourth. I'm talking long term upper middle class folks too, not girls looking to get out of the projects with welfare.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 01:13 PM
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the cost of pregnancy is higher for women than it is for men Highly variable based on the man's income rather than the cost to raise a child. Kanye is now paying Kim K (a billionaire) $200k a month. Brendan Fraser couldn't get his $75k/mo child support reduced after being blackballed in Hollywood for reporting his sexual assault. David Foley can't go back to Canada because child support was determined at this height of his career and his monthly payment is about 4x what he earns these days. At m…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:42 PM
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The only 100% effective means of ensuring you don't have kids until you're ready is to not have sex. That ain't 100% either. The odds get a lot better though.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:06 PM
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You keep saying and implying in this thread it is men that don't like condoms and women love them. I think you lack sexual experience with women using a penis if you believe that. https://blogs.iu.edu/kinseyinstitute/2019/05/04/condom-use-resistance-tactics-women-use-to-avoid-using-condoms/ https://www.verywellhealth.com/safe-sex-tip-women-who-dont-like-condoms-3133078 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/you-it/201511/women-dont-how-condoms-feel-any-more-men-do Some women even refuse to use …
/r/MensRights19/12/23 11:53 AM
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But in reality there are other, easier, ways of achieving the same. Simple condom is 98% effective (female pills are -in practice- 93% effective), super cheap (free is some places) and can be bought and used on-the spot / on the moment (no planning or going to the doctor , prescriptions, etc). You're comparing perfect condom use to typical pill use. How about perfect to perfect or typical to typical so we can have an honest conversation? All types of prescribed female contraceptives and reproduc…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 11:37 AM
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If you were a man, would you trust a woman when she says "yeah, I've taken the pill"? Reproductive coersion of men is an issue that could be drastically reduced with a male pill. approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or tried to stop them from using birth control https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_coercion American talk shows for women encourage women to s…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 11:30 AM
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Behind a paywall I have archived around, but Harvard research that women are more likely than men in starting or escalating domestic violence and those women are by far the women most likely to be injured in DV. That doesn't say all women injured are perpetrators themselves, but it does indicate the problem goes beyond the feminist/pop culture model of "violence against women". It includes: Almost 25% of the people surveyed — 28% of women and 19% of men — said there was some violence in their re…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:16 AM
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A successful reversal in medical terms means the plumbing is reconnected. It doesn't mean your sperm are viable after you've had one for years. Some research says the anti-sperm antibodies the vast majority of men develop after a vasectomy are responsible. Some disagrees. https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/vasectomy-reversal/about/pac-20384537 Pregnancy rates after vasectomy reversal will range from about 30% to over 90%, depending on the type of procedure. ... Almost all vasectomies ca…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:02 AM
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It is not RELIABLY reversible, especially when getting it done early in life and a number of years have passed. Stop spreading misinformation
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:42 AM
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Listen to the testimony from the driver. She hit him and took his phone away. He was trying to get his phone back and walk away from the start.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 01:11 AM
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Do you care about women? Perhaps you should offer men what you offered women to create that gap. The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention pub…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:59 AM
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Gates, Ellison, Bezos, Musk, and Zuckerberg certainly have that reputation and are founders, but IMO not all CEOs. I've known several founder CEOs and heard of many others that genuinely cared about people.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 11:55 PM
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IMO it's more the women are wonderful effect than reality. Lesbians tend to see how nasty relationships with a woman CAN be and how little support there is for people abused or slandered by a female romantic partner. Heterosexual women don't see/believe women do that too and assume it is just men that behave that way.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 06:12 PM
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Non-founder CEOs are more likely than the general public to be entitled assholes. IMO that applies to every person demographic and every industry.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 06:08 PM
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We hate that sub because it was shaped by the moderators to be primarily misandrist content a dozen years ago. Before that there was nothing wrong with the sub.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:37 PM
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The people spreading sexist hate on twox are regular users for years. The people spreading hate here are new accounts that are quickly banned from this subreddit and delete their account and create a new one to repeat, or keep spamming multiple mens subreddits with hate after getting banned here and are removed by admins. See the difference? IF you report hate here, it will get removed and the user banned. IF you report hate there, either nothing will happen or you will be reported for harassmen…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:29 PM
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incels, anti-feminists Maybe shaming virgins and egalitarians doesn't get your intended message heard?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:15 PM
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Left Wing Male Advocates ... and even feminist Mens Lib ... are now called misogynistic these days. Before Tate there was RooshV and Elliot Rodger as the "famous MRAs" the media would talk about. Roosh was a vocal anti-MRA pickup artist and Rodger had no MRA connections at all. The problem isn't the name, it is advocating for equal rights for males.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:32 PM
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Normal MRAs have normal jobs and normal kids they need to support and can't get risk being cancelled from their career. Guys like Tate DGAF. Places like NCFM, ManKind, 1in6, etc exist and do good work. The media ignores them.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:43 PM
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Sometimes a misandrist is right folks! The original pill for women would never be approved today. While it was safer than a lot of the male trials over the last decade it wasn't at all safe by today's standards. Dangerous is probably correct description for the early ones. Modern pills for women that are FAR safer can cause mental or physical problems in some women and it isn't predictable which women will react. I don't know if I'd call them "dangerous" but they do put a woman at some risk. On …
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:41 PM
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Obviously not all women. Pretty obviously that woman if you watch the video. She was irrational. She wouldn't let him go. When he broke free, she almost got hit by cars chasing him. Then, in court, the drivers testimony said it was all her.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:28 PM
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Maybe because we have lived it? Maybe because we are aware of statistics showing in one sided violence women are the majority of perpetrators? Maybe because we are aware of statistics showing that in reciprocal violence women are more likely to strike first? Maybe because of statistics showing when men call the police because they are being beaten by their heterosexual partner they are more likely to be arrested than the perpetrator? Maybe because we watched the whole video and saw how long and …
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:23 PM
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There are hundreds of accounts every month! 99.9% of them are deleted or removed from reddit within 3 days of being created. Report the trolls to the mods with the report button.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 11:16 AM
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First, a fairly large % of women in the US are pro-life. So it's not like it's all women. Statistically that’s not true. 55% of all women in the US are pro choice. How do you define "fairly large" ?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 11:24 PM
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No, no, only the correct half of them.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 11:09 AM
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Did you listen to the testimony of the driver?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:43 AM
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Try EMDR therapy.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 12:07 AM
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Try EMDR therapy.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 12:07 AM
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All different. All US east coast states though.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 08:26 PM
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You jest, but women need testosterone and men need estrogen - just much lower levels. Their problems weren't hormonal. But they all had their doctors ignore health problems telling them they were fine or tell them they had a health problem and suggest aggressive treatment for an issue they didn't have.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 07:53 PM
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Based on my, my wife's, my kid's, my father's, my uncle's, my aunt's, and my grandmother's experiences, I think a slight majority of doctors should not be trusted.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 04:19 PM
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My testosterone levels were low. The root cause was hashimoto disease causing my thyroid to underperform. I listed my symptoms which matched a hormonal problem. I explained my brother has hashimoto and my father has several autoimmune diseases. The tests I requested came back out of range high tsh, high thyroid antibodies, low T4, low T3, and testosterone levels similar to OP ... in range ... for an 80 year old diabetic while I was a non-diabetic in my 30s. My doctor said I was fine but needed t…
/r/MensRights13/12/23 03:56 PM
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Because the state wants the victim to support the unemployable teacher convicted for statutory rape so they don't have to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/23 03:43 AM
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Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with them. Most of us would be feminist…
/r/MensRights13/12/23 03:36 AM
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feminism is nothing more or less than the radical belief that women are people and men are not
/r/MensRights13/12/23 03:23 AM
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Oligarchs are now well represented in all levels of government. If you can't tell the difference between helping oligarchs and men you've got a really warped view of the world.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 03:54 AM
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But I wouldn't want my wife to be treated unjustly by the world or the law Neither do we. We want you to be treated the same as your wife! and I wouldn't want her to struggle I want her to struggle as much as you, so laws and public policies are made to help PEOPLE.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 03:51 AM
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I don't think everyone saw it that way. To me and others viewing this as a hypothetical fantasy world, "no consequences" means to anyone. Seems like it should have been more specific and said "no consequences for the rapist" if that's what they wanted to know and weren't intentionally leaving it vague for propaganda purposes.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 03:45 PM
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No legal/moral consequences for rape by a man isn't plausible either.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 02:18 PM
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all men would rape if there is no legal/moral consequences The survey didn't say legal/moral it said "no consequences" which lots of men assumed included no trauma for the victim. When the scenario is clarified the results are different. duhhhh
/r/MensRights11/12/23 01:30 PM
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Maybe you should read the link before determining there is nothing to criticize here?
/r/MensRights09/12/23 08:06 PM
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Cluster B personality disorders, childhood trauma, fatherlessness poverty , drug addiction, and seem to be pretty big factors. You seem to be focused only on the gender of the murderer. Shall I focus only on the gender of their parental figure?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:46 PM
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The ones that murder.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:35 PM
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What percentage of men and women are violent criminals? What percentage of men and women are victims of violent criminals? Seems like you're blaming an entire gender for something like a small percentage of people of both sexes are responsible for. I reject your sexist framing. Which ant would you consider to be the deadlier of the two? When both men and women are extremely unlikely to kill you in the real world, focusing on men are bad is sexism.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:27 PM
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You're looking at the ~0.1% of men that are CEOs and the ~1.1% of men that are murderers and thinking they represent the typical man. That's a pretty distorted view.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:16 PM
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Unfortunately, they can. I use this link to respond to people spreading the lie a woman can't rape a man because he only gets an erection if its consensual... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_erection
/r/MensRights08/12/23 06:32 PM
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What percentage of men and women are violent criminals? What percentage of men and women are victims of violent criminals? Seems like you're blaming an entire gender for something like a small percentage of people of both sexes are responsible for. I reject your sexist framing.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 05:05 PM
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Can I ask, what data do you think has been manipulated? What or who do you think has lied and what about? Did you read the thread I linked above? Some examples I wrote up when asked a similar question six months ago : https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights08/12/23 02:48 AM
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IMO the literature is part of the problem. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with them. Most of us would be feminists ourselves. The problem…
/r/MensRights08/12/23 01:41 AM
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do you intend for this to be general and define as all feminists empowering abusive women/ dismissing men It is the ones with power and influence. Those are the ones that matter. However, many everyday feminists repeat their talking points, and the rare ones that call them out on it are ostracized or worse.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 01:09 AM
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The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public policy and programs that favored them, etc. Therefore the rate that husbands kill their wives…
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:36 PM
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What are DV rights? Access to domestic violence support resources and protection from domestic violence by law enforcement/the courts. Why aren’t men making homeless shelters for one another? No one is stopping them. False https://www.qchron.com/editions/north/women-not-men-to-live-at-college-point-homeless-shelter/article_e907cfe2-e3b5-11e9-9844-efde95673666.html
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:33 PM
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I wish feminists would listen to why men have become anti-feminist rather than just label anyone who is anti-feminist a misogynist or incel to discredit them. Our problem isn't that we were abused by a woman. Our problem is that feminists empower abusive women and dismiss/disenfranchise abused men. Some examples I wrote up when asked a similar question six months ago : https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:25 PM
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PowerMod of over 1000 subreddits. Attended reddit parties. Pao tweeted about her...
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:51 AM
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Doesn't The Good Men Project promote a lot of toxic masculinity and simping? It's kinda feminist approved mens issues like menslib, no?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 12:42 AM
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IMNSHO, the biggest two advantages are the lack of menstruation and usually far more upper body strength. Waiting for forced blood donations and requirements to wear heavy weights for equality like in "Harrison Bergeron" ...
/r/MensRights05/12/23 02:11 PM
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Thank you, sir!
/r/MensRights04/12/23 11:17 PM
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Tradcons are almost as bad as radfems for men. Unfortunately "none of the above" that would force parties to put forth new candidates/policies isn't a valid ballot option in the primaries.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:19 PM
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Until the two main parties put forth good candidates, vote third party. If enough people do it, maybe the Ds or Rs will be forced to help the overwhelming majority of people to get a win.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:49 PM
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Worldwide, 38% of the suspected perpetrators of human trafficking are female. That comes from UN data. I posted it as a rebuttal to someone saying men did all trafficking on WorldNews. Oddly enough when Ghislaine Maxwell was a moderator there, my short comment with the study was removed while the original comment blaming it all on men remained ... even after I reported that for misinformation after mine was removed. 🤔
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:23 PM
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So focus on manspreading instead of stonings?
/r/MensRights04/12/23 02:04 PM
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Where and when UN Women goes looking for violations of womens rights - https://youtube.com/watch?v=wZcdRuOVAVc Who UN Women criticizes about women's rights - https://youtube.com/watch?v=xiZ4T_LXOII UN Watch is excellent.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 02:03 PM
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It's the UN. The UN hates men. There are countless examples.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 09:03 PM
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US research - Men calling the police because their heterosexual partner is beating them are more likely arrested than the abuser. The physically abused men are usually the one asked to leave the household to prevent more abuse. Most domestic violence hotlines blame the man for abuse and accuse him of being the real abuser. Most men are scared to remove the children from an abusive home because there is no place (like DV shelters) they can go that won't give their abuser an upper hand in custody.…
/r/MensRights02/12/23 08:46 PM
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Women have done this in the past for access to his estate as the mother of his child...
/r/MensRights02/12/23 01:01 PM
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Honestly? Once I saw it, it was 90% of the songs on album for me. All I Really Want Do I wear you out? You must wonder why I'm relentless and all strung out I'm consumed by the chill of solitary I'm like Estella I like to reel it in and then spit it out I'm frustrated by your apathy You Ought To Know and Perfect The whole songs describe some common Borderline / teenage girl actions. Jealousy, stalking, obsession, pushing beyond reasonable limits to get you to prove your love for her. See the boo…
/r/MensRights02/12/23 12:16 PM
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https://news.uchicago.edu/story/study-uncovers-gender-gap-earnings-uber-drivers Gender pay gap in Uber drivers is a great example. Everyone gets paid the same for the same work, yet on average men earn more.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 08:36 PM
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I own Alanis Morissette's Jagged Little Pill album. I bought it new in 1995 when I was first dating my wife. My wife rather suddenly developed a lot of Borderline Personality traits in 2009. Ever since then if I hear one of the songs from that album on the radio I immediately get creeped out and can't change the station fast enough. Then, I was a teenager and saw it as making fun of angsty insecure teenage girls desperately seeking validation. Now see the album normalizing disturbing thoughts an…
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:53 PM
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https://mensrights.com.au/false-allegations/feminist-influence-in-the-courts-the-diabolical-episode-of-the-30-second-rapist
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:02 PM
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Most people are actually raped by someone they know well - SO, relative, coworker, roommate, friend, etc. Not random hookups. Likewise many false accusations happen after a decent consensual relationship has soured.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 02:54 PM
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"I signed because I was afraid of him." "I had a drink before signing." "I didn't consent to him using his thumb, only the other fingers. What kind of monster uses a thumb instead of an index finger?" "I changed my mind."
/r/MensRights01/12/23 02:49 PM
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They will be thrown out as not admissable evidence in court.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 02:10 PM
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I think artificial wombs will bring about universal "legal parental surrender" aka financial abortion laws. Right now women have abortion rights, safe haven laws, and the ability to put infants up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity. If embryos could be removed from a woman and implanted in an artificial womb during an abortion, then women would need LPS to not be forced into parental responsibilities so men might get some rights too
/r/MensRights01/12/23 12:44 AM
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I think many of us are anti-feminist not because we were abused by a women, but rather what happened when we tried to get help as male victims of female abusers/harassers. Feminism has effectively promoted systemic sexism against males.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 10:37 PM
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Seems like it was written by people claiming to know the male experience without having lived it or perhaps lived a very wealthy/privileged/attractive version of it.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 12:27 AM
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Look, I don't care what techniques you use to coerce teenage boys. Get therapy.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:28 PM
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Yes. And he didn't deny the advances of someone who looked and claimed to be 19. So you think it's normal for 35 year men to have 19 year old kids. That's sick. Get help.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:26 PM
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pursue people young enough to be their children
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:23 PM
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But you also found it reasonable for him at 35 to have a 19 year old kid. That means you find it normal to have sex with 15 year olds. It's not. Get help.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:20 PM
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You seem to think it's fine for a 35 year old to have a 19 year old kid, so I assume you're a child molester. Only creeps think that way.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:17 PM
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So you're molesting 15 year olds so they have 19 year old kids at 35?
/r/MensRights28/11/23 11:11 PM
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I think it is because the overwhelming majority of pro-choicers are pro-choice for women and make all the usual pro-life talking points towards men. People being pro-choice for both women AND men is rare on reddit outside this subreddit.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 03:37 AM
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These days? Yes, but only against light skinned or Asian features people. :(
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 09:41 PM
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My rape of males educational copypasta. Read and listen to the links. - For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is consider…
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:57 PM
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Feminists do acknowledge that women can rape Not the ones with influence. The ones with power are blocking our efforts to count victims of female perpetrators, get victims of female perpetrators resources, and reform laws.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:53 PM
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Baloney. There is research. It just isn't politically correct research that is reported on. Repeated studies have shown a sizable percentage of pedophiles, human traffickers, those marrying children, rapists, domestic abusers, conartists, liars, etc are women. Sure there may be a 60/40 split with more being men, but it's a small percentage of men and not much smaller percentage of women. There are shitty people of every demographic, but for some reason its become socially acceptable to demonize …
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:45 PM
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Those "white men" don't represent average white men and I suspect you know that.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:39 PM
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WHEN women run for office they are equally likely to get elected. Are you running for office? Are you suggesting men force women to run for office? Are you suggesting votes for female candidates should get sexist advantages? Or are you just hating on men?
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:28 PM
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Ahhh yes. Because of stuff like ... https://www.thestar.com/opinion/star-columnists/court-says-pedophilia-does-not-apply-because-perpetrator-is-a-woman/article_50d93e6e-2af0-5faa-9d9f-cf1dd8425ab6.html so, lets ignore all the female teachers molesting middle schoolers. And over 96% of rapists are men when you don't count nonconsensual envelopment as a form of rape and only count nonconsensual penetration. Meanwhile 40something% of nonconsensual sex in a typical year is perpetrated by women.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 04:23 PM
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Write similar articles for men. There are places that will publish then. Not any of the mainstream media. That's the point.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 03:28 PM
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"Anyone else hate "socially acceptable" systemic racism/sexism?"
/r/MensRights25/11/23 12:48 PM
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"Wow. You're a sexist piece of shit that doesn't care about anyone born with a penis regardless of who they are as a person."
/r/MensRights24/11/23 03:39 AM
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Reasonable fair people are egalitarian. Sexists, racists, etc are hierarchical.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 03:24 PM
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But when you actually look at the methodology behind this data, it is nonsensical -- with a criteria for "rape" so broad that many men should also fit it NISVS 2010 showed in the past 12 months, 1.1% of men were made to penetrate and 1.1% of women were raped. Table 2.1 & 2.2 on pages 18/19. NISVS 2011 showed in the past 12 months, 1.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.6% of women were raped. Table 1 on page 5. NISVS 2012 showed in the past 12 months, 1.7% of men were made to penetrate & 1.0% of…
/r/MensRights22/11/23 11:28 AM
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Seems like someone should get an education in actual history for average women and men to broaden their narrow world view of "feminist history" which was created to support "patriarchy theory".
/r/MensRights22/11/23 11:22 AM
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I think you missed my point. Some kids are far safer with their father than a mentally ill mother. In this situation, the kids don't get the chance because of sexism against their parents. Is it safer than Hamas hostage, probably. But not necessarily safe.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 11:09 AM
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Sometimes kids aren't safe with their mother when the mother is stressed out.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 11:02 AM
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Well, maybe the user deleted their account and its gone, or maybe someone else reading this has a link to it or an archive of it. shrug
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:04 AM
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No. I can't find it. If I could I would have linked it in the first place because it was a great post.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:00 AM
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The post had actual sources. duhhhh or are you saying we shouldn't believe a thing you say with references either?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:49 AM
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I saw a great post on here years ago talking about the differences between typical male empathy and typical female empathy. IIRC men tend to have more cognitive empathy and women tend to have more affective empathy. If you focus your measurement on one or the other you can effectively manipulate the narrative one way or the other.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:13 AM
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Your information is like 20 years out of date. It is a simple blood draw from the mothers arm in the first trimester.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 04:08 AM
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Absolutely. You can't acknowledge that the majority of pro-life voters in Alabama and Texas are women. Clearly they were forced to vote that way by men ... that are less than half the pro-life voters.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 04:06 AM
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When they run, women have the same odds of winning an election as a man. Do you suggest we force women to run for office?
/r/MensRights19/11/23 04:03 AM
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Nah. Sexism, racism, and religious discrimination is wrong no matter which direction it is aimed at.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:57 AM
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Clearly they have never given male reproductive rights an honest look.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:55 AM
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Nah, people vote for women at the same rate they vote for men. IF a woman runs she has the same odds of winning the election as a man. Should we force women who don't want to run for office to run because men are automatically bad? 🤔 Edit: The dishonest trash below blocked me so I can't reply with evidence they are wrong. For the rest of you... There have been lots of discussion on this. e.g. https://gap.hks.harvard.edu/women-don%E2%80%99t-run-election-aversion-and-candidate-entry https://www.ny…
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:54 AM
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It is far more common than it is politically correct to admit, that is why they stopped measuring it. Do you want to prevent women from getting raped? The majority of men convicted of raping women were molested by adult women when they were boys.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 09:47 PM
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Odd how they don't mention all the women who do earn equally or more than men until they land a provider who then has the "privilege" of working/commuting more hours to more stressful jobs to support others.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 01:45 PM
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Yes but it's been like 2 decades since women could start working for equal pay based on credentials and effort. Credible, non-sexist, source for that?
/r/MensRights16/11/23 07:39 PM
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1) "man victims" and "woman victims" sounds really awkward. It's male victims and female victims. Get over it. 2) If you REALLY care about women, why not give men services? I wish you'd read this whole educational copypasta of mine, but at least read the bold part and think about actually saving women in mutually abusive relationships rather than just demonizing men. I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies …
/r/MensRights15/11/23 11:08 AM
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After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. E.g. Alabama man - …
/r/MensRights15/11/23 02:57 AM
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Women's rights is good. Feminism has always been misandrist.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:30 AM
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Although I haven't read it in many years, this post literally saved my life and salvaged my kids childhood. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2yrxtp/the_three_dysfunctional_captains_and_first/ Men who's wives turn abusive have almost nowhere to turn.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 03:08 AM
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The only people who follow it are insensitive, insecure men who are using it to over compensate for a challenge they don't know how to solve. Yes. The challenge is often an entitled disrespectful wife that threatens or demeans to get her way. Most guys that find the red pill when married don't have an equal relationship. They are disrespected doormats looking for a solution.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 03:01 AM
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Someone on the DataIsBeautiful subreddit graphed it years ago.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:59 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ev373c7wSRg
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:38 PM
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Can you source where he said those things? I didn't see it skimming the links you sent.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:14 PM
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That's naive. My wife didn't become abusive until she found and was rejected by her birth mother 14 years into our relationship. At that point anything was suddenly on the table from her - violence, gaslighting, false accusations, reputation destruction, parental alienation attempts, etc that weren't there before. I've seen issues with life changing illness/injury, drugs, and mental illness drastically change a person's personality in a few months after knowing them many years.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 02:11 PM
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Because it means the parents didn't go through thr courts to make a parenting plan after separtion/divorce. They made a plan between just themselves. A lot of states including mine has a formula the state will follow to determine child support amount. There is no point getting the court to say it. The formula the state uses is widely published.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:51 PM
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Do you have a time machine available so men can see what their partners personality will be like in 10, 20, 30, and 40 years?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:47 PM
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Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbyists, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with them. Most of us would be feminist…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:14 AM
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In my son's case (1st grade) he was out sick the day he supposedly groped the first girl, he was on hallway video resisting being dragged into the girls room and was only in there 10 seconds when he supposedly peeped on the second girl, and after my threats of legal action against the school if they accosted my son without evidence again they actually asked the third girl for details and she admitted she sat on his palm down hand that was already on the floor behind him when she accused him of g…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:00 AM
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Due to biases that falsely assume men are naturally pedophiles and women never are, is usually far far more difficult for a single man to adopt than to find a surrogate. OP also said he wants it to be his genetics with some balancing traits from the egg donor.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 09:35 PM
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If you have high income, a surrogate and a nanny can be far far far cheaper than a wife. The downside is the lack of emotional attachment for all involved. The upside is the drastically reduced risks. If the nanny is neglectful or abusive towards you or the children you can immediately fire them without spending a year in court and then being forced to give up most of your time with the kids and paying millions of dollars in severance pay.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 09:31 PM
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She is a divorce lawyer. The decade could easily been about saving their children and she had to reform once the kids were old enough to have a say.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 11:54 AM
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I laid a lot of my problems with it in this thread where someone asked a similar question six months ago. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights06/11/23 11:14 AM
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In many states, abortions have been banned. The women who live in these states should be afforded the right to opt out of financial responsibility to an already born child. They do. All of the US has safe haven laws that allow women to abandon infants without responsibility to reduce the rate women were throwing babies in dumpsters. Texas was the first place in the world to offer them even.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:09 AM
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Are you against safe haven laws and allowing adoptions without disclosing the father's identity?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:06 AM
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I'm pro-choice in the first two trimesters, but this isn't really related to abortion. Women can abandon their infant in all 50 states (+ DC, PR, and a bunch of other countries) after the child is born through safe haven laws or putting the child up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity. I say men should have some period (30 days?) from when they are first notified they will become or are a father to opt out.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:00 AM
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The difference is we see both rape and false accusations of rape as life changing events that cause trauma. You don't think people who have faced false accusations and are blackballed/kicked out of school as victims.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:17 AM
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Under the rules created by the Obama administration and reinstated under the Biden administration, accused men are kicked out of college without any due processes BECAUSE losing lawsuits is cheaper than losing federal funding. Betsy Devos temporary created rules that allowed the men to see the evidence against them, hire a lawyer, bring forth witnesses/evidence to defend themselves, and submit questions to be asked of the accuser. Biden administration had that thrown out because it was unfair to…
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:14 AM
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Nah. I bet 20% of the people using it will actually be victims that could use the support.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:08 AM
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Then why are feminists blocking efforts to stop sexism and introducing more sexism? I'd really appreciate it if you'd get all the influential feminists to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism. Then we could work together.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:46 PM
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I prefer - "You are a sexist judging people by a characteristic of birth rather than their character."
/r/MensRights02/11/23 06:50 PM
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I guess I kind of assumed that most fathers want their kids to have a reasonable quality of life. Fathers that were raped, victims of fraud, victims of theft, or victims of reproductive coercion, etc to have the child created in the first place often have this crazy idea that the person that unilaterally created the child should take responsibility for it.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 12:38 PM
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‘Who is going to pay for it’. The same people that were paying for it before the divorce. Obviously. But they also have less ability to look after the well-being of their children and since they also need to have secondary housing of their own to have the children spend the night, they have less disposable income than the abusive parent using the courts in their favor to the detriment of the children.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 12:36 PM
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Wouldn’t that lead to men and women staying in abusive relationships so the kids are better off? What happens when the abusive one is the stay at home parent and the loving one is the provider today? The provider is trapped by a lack of equal parenting time and often less disposable income than the abuser after divorce.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 12:32 PM
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The article cites no source either, but I'll play along. It wasn’t until 1974, when the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed, that women in the U.S. were granted the right to open a bank account on their own. Technically, women won the right to open a bank account in the 1960s, but many banks still refused to let women do so without a signature from their husbands. It looks like the author is talking about before the ECOA act was passed... in the 1960s ... when divorce laws still held men respons…
/r/MensRights30/10/23 02:32 PM
2

Which one of those say the banks still refused? Several talk about the Married Women’s Property Act, but none mention that malicious usage of the privileges granted in that act is why wives needed their husbands permission to obtain credit in the early 20th century.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 01:59 PM
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Since you didn't seem to know that single women could or why married women couldn't, I'm skeptical. Source? I generally see bankers as sticklers to the law unless they can make millions or billions by breaking them.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 01:05 PM
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Single women could do all of the above. MARRIED women couldn't. I don't think know the history of WHY or you wouldn't phrase it the way you did. There was a relatively short period in history (first half of the 20th century) where married women in the US and UK were not allowed to buy property or have a bank account without their husbands permission. Do you know the sexist history there? It is because divorce laws allowed a woman to keep her own property in a divorce while her husband was respon…
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:38 AM
1

Obamacare allows billing insurance companies for no-copay "Domestic Violence Screening" for women, but not men and children. It is blatant sexism in federal law.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:34 AM
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I did read the Seneca Falls Declaration. Then you should know feminism was a hate/supremacy movement long before first and second wave.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 01:02 AM
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Please read the Declaration of Sentiments from the Seneca Falls conference and then define modern for us.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 08:23 PM
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I know a bunch of couples where they were in mutual agreement for the woman to stay at home to care for the infant and then her go back to work full time once the kid was in pre-K ... only for the woman to change her mind and never return to work. One year of alimony so she could get back on her feet would be just because those first 4-5 years were by mutual agreement. Decades of alimony because she doesn't want to work anymore (how many people do?) is a huge injustice.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 01:03 PM
8

murder or Source?
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:57 PM
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Then what do you mean by "dangerous" if not physical safety?
/r/MensRights26/10/23 11:13 AM
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Rehabilitative alimony has a place. But it should be capped at 1-3 years depending on circumstances, not 40+.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 10:28 AM
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Wouldn't dangerous people hire a hitman rather than a lawyer? Therefore the change in the law has no change for dangerous people. It has a huge impact for non-dangerous people ... and their ex-partners they are giving huge amounts of money to.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 10:25 AM
1

A bunch cited under the STEM heading... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender-equality_paradox
/r/MensRights24/10/23 05:21 PM
5

Males are far more sensitive to estrogen levels than females. Estrogen levels drive LH levels which drive the ovaries/testes to make sex hormones. Males have lower baseline numbers of estrogen, so smaller absolute changes are much larger relative changes.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 03:26 PM
8

You do know that in places like Russia, India, Iran, Eastern Europe, etc women are much more likely to go into high paying tech jobs than in wealthier more egalitarian countries, right?
/r/MensRights24/10/23 01:42 PM
4

Go read "My Secret Garden" about women's fantasies before the dawn of VHS. Not much difference.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 09:56 AM
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Think about how much worse a woman has to be inorder to end up in prison compared to a man. Of course there's more violence per capita in women's prisons...
/r/MensRights21/10/23 06:37 PM
5

Because he isn't interested in girls and wouldn't have slept with her if he didn't have good reason to believe she was over 18.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:33 PM
3

He was required to have a job as a condition of probation. He couldn't get a job. He finally found a job just inside the limit of a school exclusion zone. He posed no risk to children so his probation officer let him keep the job while he appealed. He got 6 years in prison for working (as required) in a school zone (with the permission of his parole officer) when he was no risk to children. So in effect, he went to prison because of the bullshit conviction. Could he have quit his job? Yes ... an…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:15 PM
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It was issued by the Florida DMV. She was never charged for identity theft to obtain it. He is a convicted sex offender because his employer verified the government ID and the government was wrong.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:08 PM
3

A ID issued by the government showing she was over 18 is not admissable evidence for a man duped into having sex with a minor.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:06 PM
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Having copies of government issued IDs showing she is over 18 is no legal defense for a man. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/17b1q5p/an_18yearold_had_consensual_sex_with_a_16yearold/k5izimh/
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:04 PM
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Keep reading
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:43 PM
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... with the permission of his parole officer while the appeal was pending and with employment being a condition of parole and few wanting to hire a sex offender due to the liability.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:42 PM
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Keep reading ...
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:39 PM
1

Actually I'm quite serious. There is a treasure trove of stuff over the years posted here. But you're gonna have to read. For example threads like these. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/oc2yp0/some_sources_on_sexual_abuse_of_men_and_boys_part/
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:26 AM
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Then read the posts containing references to actual research. duhhhh
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:19 AM
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In most states, even if you can prove it, you are still guilty under the law. For example, Florida criminal law decrees that “a minors misrepresentation of his or her age may not be raised as a defense“ in statutory rape prosecution. In one case I still can't get over, a girl in Florida used a fake drivers license issued by a government agency after using a stolen driving permit and social security card. She used the government ID to get a job as a porn actress. Her costar went to prison for it …
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:26 AM
1

Have you tried searching this subreddit or /r/mrref for the topic?
/r/MensRights18/10/23 10:41 PM
4

You lose your driver's license, passport, library card, and then get locked in a cage.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 08:30 PM
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Highly likely. The wage gap (as opposed to the earnings gap) is something around 1-4 cents on the dollar and short men are similarly underpaid. I'd have no problem if feminists talked about this issue but they prefer to talk about the made up "30+ cent wage gap because of misogyny".
/r/MensRights16/10/23 12:27 PM
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I think the ones that got their degrees prior to y2k didn't have nearly as much sexist indoctrination.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 09:27 AM
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There are a bunch of restrictions on mens preventive healthcare in the US because of Obamacare laws. https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage/preventive-care-benefits/ Preventive care coverage has three categories. Adult, women, and children. Domestic violence screening, STD testing, and smoking cessation programs are free for women, not adults. There are free cancer screenings for women (PAP, mammogram), but none for prostate cancer (PSA) when prostate cancer kills about the same number of men as th…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 03:19 AM
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A man with multiple partners is a fuckboi, cad, womanizer, manwhore, manslut, lothario, etc. Marriage minded women are avoiding this type of man unless they are exceptionally wealthy or famous.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 09:34 AM
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I give you a reprint of a famous article about pro-life women often getting abortions (with excerpts from sources added). https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2019/5/15/1857976/--The-Only-Moral-Abortion-is-My-Abortion-an-article-by-Joyce-Arthur
/r/MensRights14/10/23 09:25 AM
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Men calling the police because their heterosexual partner is beating them are more likely arrested than the abuser. The physically abused men are usually the one asked to leave the household to prevent more abuse. Most domestic violence hotlines blame the man for abuse and accuse him of being the real abuser. Most men are scared to remove the children from an abusive home because there is no place (like DV shelters) they can go that won't give their abuser an upper hand in custody... and men fea…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:13 PM
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This is the organization that trains the majority of law enforcement in the western world. https://www.theduluthmodel.org/training/ https://www.theduluthmodel.org/
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:19 PM
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because the bar to get full custody is much higher for men. Unless widowers or abandoned, they have to have significant financial resources and be dedicated parents. The courts require neither of single mothers.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 11:52 AM
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Do you guys believe that men’s rights issues are a direct result of feminism some or did they predate the feminist movement others have no relation to feminism? Almost none, because feminists fight to block most efforts to fix both categories.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 01:06 PM
1

Depends heavily on income disparity and state. Would have been over $3k a month tax free in my case. Celebrities, athletes, and CEOs sometimes owe $100k a month.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 12:56 PM
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Why? Grading, criminal sentencing, hiring, etc disparities between men and women are similar to or greater than racial ones. Feminists are tearing down mens spaces and creating womens only spaces, including on taxpayer funded public transportation and at public universities.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 08:27 PM
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Report the trolls, false flags, misogynists, misandrists, and racists to get them on the mods radar.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 09:38 PM
16

This gender based stupidity needs to end. Easy to get 95%+ of engineers to agree on that. But HR & marketing are dictating engineering hiring practices.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 08:13 PM
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Yes the cost of raising kids is often more than the cost of child support, but if you are living with your kids you not only don't have to pay child support, but you also don't need to pay for a second household with enough bedrooms for the kids to stay with you and all the utilities. That means you need to drastically cut back on the money you spend on the kids directly because you are supporting two households. Kids of divorce usually don't have the opportunities for camps, travel, tutors, nic…
/r/MensRights04/10/23 08:00 PM
3

Newsflash: People change. Sometimes drastically.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:56 PM
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I was thinking your headline was sensational until I got to the second to last sentence of the article. Oye. Good find.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:48 PM
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Men are not welcome to raise gender equality issues for men in feminist circles. Take a look at all the topics that are not allowed to be discussed in menslib - MGM, education discrimination, workplace discrimination, heterosexual rape victimization of males, legal parental surrender, etc.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:47 AM
2

To peak over the wall, try https://archive.ph/BDiKN
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:27 AM
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Feminism is trickle down equality. It doesn't work any better than trickle down economics. Sure, they might help men when there are no areas that womens are at a disadvantage or at least it can no longer be perceived that way with a lot of woe-is-woman propaganda, but that doesn't help the next few generations of men.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:03 AM
9

You don't have kids, do you?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:53 PM
8

... and yet it has infested the major leftwing political parties of almost every western country.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 11:26 PM
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For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is considered the foremost expert on sexual violence in the US. She is the one that…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 01:00 PM
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Try a periscope. :) https://archive.ph/tZn3B
/r/MensRights26/09/23 12:13 PM
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They have been rotten from the beginning. They have been a cancel men they don't like org, not a victim support org since day one. Their finances prove it. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8997707/Times-organization-raised-3-6m-2018-cash-went-salaries-not-victims.html They happen to like this man, so they'll stand against potential victims in this case.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 11:00 AM
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I think my username sums that up.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:51 PM
5

MGTOW's say the game is rigged so I'm not playing. MRA's say the game is rigged so let's draw attention to the ways it is rigged and try to fix them. Both are valid approaches.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 03:31 PM
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Stop promoting programs to keep women (only) out of prisons and look at incarceration issues for all.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 10:55 PM
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The dictionary definition is great. If they'd follow it, we'd get along.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 10:18 PM
1

I mostly agree. However perhaps they assumed the rules would be applied equally and they obviously aren't. There are plenty of subs with far more sexism and brigading activity than they had - just in the approved direction. Reporting blatant brigading from those communities as harassment of a mens subreddit will get your account suspended.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:13 PM
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Maybe reddit shouldn't have banned MGTOW and quarantined redpill while allowing dozens of subreddits for women to vent about men. We're the only big male subreddit left and got an influx of exiles.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 10:07 AM
1

The thing is as you become more involved here, you learn more about what prominent feminists have done to disenfranchise men. People come here all the time telling us to partner with feminists. I don't see a lot of poor inner city black families partnering with the KKK. I don't see a lot of Jewish, Romani, or gay folks partnering with the neo-Nazis. Why should we partner with a movement that dehumanizes men, spreads propaganda against men, and works to pass biased laws against men? Women's right…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:39 AM
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I don’t understand how if you’re presented with factual data you can refute that? Did you just time travel from 25 years ago? 🤣 It happens every minute in the mainstream and social media. You're new here so you probably don't realize most of us were at least feminist leaning if not feminist identifying at one point. Then something traumatic happened to us or a male loved one, we learned, we spoke out, and were ostracized.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:21 AM
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I did it to show you what influential feminists are doing to spread misandry and withhold support services from men. It's nice that you agree. Do you call out the feminists reporting biased data? Do you call out the feminists quoting this biased data? Pretty much every feminist that does finds themselves unwelcome in feminist spaces.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:06 AM
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Feminism is not a hate movement 😂 please search the definition of it. The problem with feminism is not the dictionary definition. Please inform me of the the lies and manipulation the feminist movement promote that haven’t been stained by men to criticise the movement Pretty much all research on rape, domestic violence, genital mutilation, wage gap, parenting, division of household labor, etc. Here are some cited examples I posted a few months back. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 12:39 AM
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Feminism is a hate movement. It's primarily for growing funding/power/influence of feminism, secondarily for demonizing men, and advancing women's rights come third. I'm all for women's rights. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbiests, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary defin…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 12:21 AM
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Nobody is trying to demonise men 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:59 PM
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If this was a men’s study would you throw a fit about it then? I can’t say that I enjoy being stared at or wolf whistled in public so yes I’d say that counts. If it happens to all people and only women are studied and declared victims in an effort to demonize men, that is problematic to me. If I only studied male rape victims and said men are getting raped and women are horrible people because they are raping men and this is only a men's problem, you'd be offended, no?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:31 PM
1

The study ALSO included having someone unwanted LOOK at you at sexual harassment. It included wolf whistling at you. Haven't those happened to most PEOPLE?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:13 PM
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Look at what counted as sexual harassment in that study. I'm shocked it wasn't 100%. No one asked men the same questions about their experiences with women, did they?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:27 PM
2

Clementine Ford is not at all related to the car company. The only thing I can see Ford being boycotted for is because they advertise in some gay and lesbian magazines and some religious right group doesn't like that. I don't care about that. As long as they aren't vilifying straights, they can try to sell their cars to whoever they want.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 02:18 PM
2

Clementine Ford or Ford Motor Company? Haven't heard anything about the car maker.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:26 PM
3

Did you just say the average man should reject promiscuous women as potential partners and date selective ones? 🤣
/r/MensRights13/09/23 12:55 PM
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Sam Adams beer: dedicated a beer to Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg and feminism. [copy and paste from a right-wing reference book] Honestly RBG mostly went by the dictionary definition of feminism. IMO, she and Malala Yousafzai (who got bullied into calling herself a feminist after years of resisting it) are alright.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:25 AM
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Proctor and Gamble 2015 SuperBowl messaging for girls - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=joRjb5WOmbM Message I got: Girls are great the way they are. Boys don't shame them. Girls don't be ashamed. Proctor and Gamble 2019 SuperBowl messaging for boys - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0 Message I got: Some men are okay, but most won't do/say the right things unless we shame them to. Boys need to change now so they don't turn out to be horrible people like most men are today. I've got two ki…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:19 AM
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I keep seeing a retracted 2009 study that men leave their partners when they get sick quoted, golded, heavily upvoted on reddit. Someone tried to reproduce the study a few years later and couldn't. it turns out the original study was propaganda "flawed". The study recorded anyone that stopped participating in the study as the husband leaving the wife. Wife died? Husband abandoned her. Focused on her care and stopped answering surveys? Husband abandoned her. Moved away and stopped getting the let…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:11 AM
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One org can’t solve all the problems I don't think we're asking them to solve the problems. We're asking them to solve the problems they are focusing on, for all people.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:09 AM
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It benefits promiscuous men. How does it benefit men who feel sex is a special connection, men looking to have dedicated relationships, or men looking to start stable families?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:56 AM
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Wow. That's progress!
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:59 AM
2

Yes. Getting food poisoning or the flu the same night your partner goes crazy is because of bad life choices. You should have known not to become weak then and made your immune system react differently.. /s
/r/MensRights12/09/23 05:46 PM
2

Don't eat. You might get food poisoning. Don't ever be around other people. You might get the flu. /s
/r/MensRights12/09/23 03:05 PM
1

I was a strong kid and not even an adult woman could have overpowered me even when I was 13. So my point is exactly how was you overpowered or tricked or drugged, tied up? Many women can overpower you when you're not at your best. If a moment of weakness on your part overlaps with a moment of her wanting sex and not giving a fuck about you, you get raped.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 01:36 PM
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Men are not stronger 24/7/365. Gravity is a strong force. Have you never been taken by surprise, sick, weak, injured, drunk, high, asleep, outweighed, outnumbered, played around with bondage, been afraid to hurt your SO, or been afraid of the police in your life? Have you never seen the power of a social attack by a group of women? Have you never seen how women often react when rejected?
/r/MensRights12/09/23 11:45 AM
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When women run for office, they have the same odds of winning as a man. Do you suggest we force women into politics? You don't know English etymology at all. Are you a moron or just brainwashed by feminist talking points? A supreme court that was 100% men made the Roe v Wade decision. Ruth Bader Ginsburg (one of only two prominent feminists I had respect for, now dead) told Congress it was a shakey ruling legally and they needed to pass an amendment. They didn't listen to her. In Alabama and Tex…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 02:32 AM
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I'd suggest you'd do better to educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism than us. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbiests, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with th…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 02:22 AM
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No court is gonna give custody to a sex offender. Unfortunately, that isn't true if the sex offender is the mother.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 10:46 PM
4

I personally think a lot of "Oopsey. I forgot to tell you I had my IUD removed." or "I'm fucking you no matter what. I need a baby to fill this hole in my soul." babies would never be conceived in the first place if there was not a man on the hook to pay for their decisions. The unbalanced rights we have today are creating family and social disorder already. IMNSHO the world would have a lot more children wanted and nurtured by both parents if both parents took on responsibilities for a child by…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:25 PM
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In the cases that have gone to state supreme courts around the county, the women were convicted of statutory rape, maintained custody of her child, and the state welfare systems demanded child support payments from the victim to reimburse them for money spent on his offspring. I question why these mothers have any custody rights...
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:16 PM
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Have you never looked at the reproductive rights of men? After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:12 PM
2

Safe haven laws were created because women were throwing infants in dumpsters to avoid responsibilities. The laws give women a way out of their responsibilities with as little harm to the infant possible. What do you think would have happened if it were men throwing babies in dumpsters?
/r/MensRights11/09/23 05:38 PM
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from coercion, violence or rape. In those (much more common) cases the woman is the victim. Men are slightly more likely to be victims of coercion. Women are slightly more likely to be victims of heterosexual rape. But whether it is 60/40 (the former) or 40/60 (the latter) you are assigning responsibility 100/0. But the bottom line is, this isn't a race for the sexes to claim a monopoly on victimhood. But you yourself are making it out that men are victims of not using birth control and its thei…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 05:24 PM
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The relevance is both are rare, but you support giving women options for freedom and trapping men to decades of slavery in the same situations. That's called sexism.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:21 PM
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Are you against abortions even in cases of rape or incest, safe haven dropoffs, and the ability to give a child up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity too?
/r/MensRights11/09/23 02:41 PM
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You make your choice when you have sex Males are still liable when the sex was not consensual and when sex never occurred.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 02:04 PM
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That ain't the only time. It's happened a bunch of times.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 02:02 PM
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Consent to have sex on the part of the male isn't required. Having sex at all isn't required. Even if the mother is convicted of a felony for the act of conception, the male still owes.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 10:22 AM
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Many serial killers have abducted women during dates. What percentage of women?
/r/MensRights11/09/23 03:00 AM
3

Your assumptions are wrong. People that were sexually violated as children are most likely to victimize the sex that victimized them. Kids molested by men, are far more likely than the general public to go on to rape men. Kids molested by women are far more likely than the general public to go on and rape women. Read the studies mentioned in KoalaOdd7311's post below.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 03:41 AM
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Read the wording of their other posts.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:55 PM
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In a typical year there are about equal numbers of men and women that are victims of nonconsensual sex. Our premise is the problem is rapists, not men.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:54 PM
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The thing is, it was a woman's decision to stay home and whether or not she cared for the children or home is irrelevant to the courts. Do you think this housewife give up a $2.5m a year (net $1.5m) career under pressure from the husband?
/r/MensRights02/09/23 07:06 PM
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But this isn't "financial freedom", this is leeching off another person with the support of government enforcement. Your odd phrasing in a lot of your comments leads me to believe you are here to stir up trouble and not contribute.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 05:06 PM
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I realize you're a troll and likely reporting these upvotes out of context elsewhere, but why should the provider be required to continue to provide when the other party isn't required to fulfill any of their obligations anymore? If the obligations end for one, why not both?
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:49 PM
1

Be calm, be logical, cite your sources and convince the audience watching the argument, not the feminist. Over the years I've convinced two feminists rape of men by women is as important an issue as the reverse. However, the more important lart is I've convinced thousands of bystanders watching me debate other feminists who have no reply but I am a misogynist/rapist/incel.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:53 AM
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Her resume tells a different story... https://publichealth.arizona.edu/sites/publichealth.arizona.edu/files/KOSSCV2015_0.pdf
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:13 AM
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Either way women are still perpetrating over 40% of the nonconsensual sex in a typical year in the US. Why are you guys downplaying the seriousness of that fact? The policy around rape is far far far more gendered than the perpetrators.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:33 PM
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They are different solutions to overlapping problems facing men today. Men's rights focuses on bringing attention to and fixing legal, public policy, and social discrimination. Red pill focuses on the unfortunate realities of dating by spreading awareness, and getting men to turn their lives around so they don't become alone, or worse, doormats in sexless abusive relationships. MGTOW focuses on the unfortunate realities of marriage by spreading awareness and warning men off of government sanctio…
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:25 PM
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That's exactly why men need shelters. Someplace they can take their kids to escape abuse and get legal help without facing kidnapping charges that give the abuser a leg up on custody.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:03 PM
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You are dismissing the lived experiences of the men that did seek help and were told they were the abuser, that there was help for gay men but not fathers and their children abused by mothers, that there was a homeless shelter that would take them, etc.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 02:59 PM
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That sounds like an out of the ordinary gender studies class. Could you tell us the university? Edit: and decade... Toxic masculinity used to mean something different in academia than is typically taught today.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:53 PM
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I think you read the question wrong...
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:50 PM
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Did you cite something from 1990 and then immediately say something from 1993 was too old to count? Did you look at her influence around the world where she is still promoting this? Did you listen to her more recent radio interview? Did you read her CV? Did you not notice I cited years beyond 2012? The report you cited was only released a few months ago and I didn't update my comment with it.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:51 AM
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However, the concept of feminism is about equality Please inform the feminists. If feminists called out the misandrists rather than celebrating and leveraging their work, we wouldn't be at odds with them. not something to be critiqued Equal rights for women, no. A hate movement that purports to be for equality to gain influence and power, yes.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:46 AM
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Summary: You are ignorant, sexist, or both.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:35 AM
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What issues do we talk about here? How does that impact fathers and children?
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:33 AM
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Condom eh? The male doesn't need to have consensual sex or even have sex at all to get unescapable parental responsibilities. Men are blamed for recent reductions in womens abortion rights. That's misandrist propaganda. Pro-life/pro-choice for women is pretty equally divided between the sexes. The disturbing part is most pro-choicers make pro-life arguments towards men - if you didn't want a child you should have kept it in your pants. Have you ever honestly looked at the reproductive rights of …
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:31 AM
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However, in most states, in the form of safe haven laws ALL states and a bunch of other countries. It started in Texas.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:28 AM
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Yes we talk about that all the time We just see impacts that most women and all feminists are blind to...
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:23 AM
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So you support raped men and boys paying their rapist 5-7 years income over 18-21 years and going to jail if they are unable or unwilling because the rapist mother needs compensation from the victim...
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:22 AM
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Rape victims obviously. Couldn't give that responsibility to the state that gave the rapist custody of the child. That would be immoral. /s
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:19 AM
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I don't think that. The courts do if the rapist is a woman.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:14 AM
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Put in jail for contempt of court for failure to pay the woman that raped them child support.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:08 AM
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The right not to be a parent. There are abortion rights, safe haven laws where possession is 9/10ths of the law, the right to give a child up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity, and many states have laws that prevent rapist fathers from having any custody rights rather than something gender neutral like anyone convicted of a felony for the act of conception.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:03 AM
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My "misogynist" copypasta response to "men are rapists" is : For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspective.) She is considered the fore…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:32 PM
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Because I don't see any disagreement that the misandrists representing feminism aren't representing the ideals of feminism. I see nearly all feminists quoting the misandrist"s propaganda. In a typical year, 40% of nonconsensual sex is perpetrated by women - "99% of rapists are men. We need to teach men not to rape.". In a typical year, half of domestic violence is perpetrated by women - "Violence against women is the problem. We need to arrest men."
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:19 PM
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Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbiests, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with them. Most of us would be feminist…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:47 PM
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And if we never passed gender biased legislation against men, women would never have been inconvenienced with needing her husbands permission to take loans. It wasn't a problem before women got the assets she acquired with her husband's credit without his permission and had no accountability for the debt. Perhaps there is a lesson in there about introducing sexist legislation in the first place.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 12:11 AM
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So you didn't learn a thing. Not surprised. I posted it for bystanders reading this to learn rather than you to be honest...
/r/MensRights28/08/23 12:06 AM
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Read what I wrote above. So those biased laws were passed to prevent women from taking credit without her husbands permission. In the 1960s the biased laws against men were removed. Women were no longer entitled to 100% of the assets they acquired during marriage and 0% of the debts. Therefore it became possible to remove the biased laws against women without screwing over men If the assets AND debt are divided in a divorce, then there isn't a need to prevent married women from taking credit. Ye…
/r/MensRights28/08/23 12:03 AM
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Because laws were passed in the late 1800s that said women were entitled to all of the assets she acquired with her husbands credit and none of the debt! Context matters. If the husband is responsible for his wife's debt and suddenly has no right to the assets she purchased in his name, then it's fair she needs his permission to take on debt. Single women could still take on debt on their own, because there wasn't a man to screw. If it weren't for the sexist divorce laws, there wouldn't need to …
/r/MensRights27/08/23 11:56 PM
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and they couldn’t legally get a credit card without their husbands approval You don't know the history of WHY do you? There was a relatively short period in history (first half of the 20th century) where married women in the US and UK were not allowed to buy property or have a bank account without their husbands permission. Do you know the sexist history there?It is because divorce laws allowed a woman to keep her own property in a divorce while her husband was responsible for the family debts. …
/r/MensRights27/08/23 11:48 PM
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False! The police drop the investigations as false or baseless all the time. That happens because there is evidence the guy wasn't there, the sex never happened, what was reported wasn't a crime, etc. The FBI tracks that in the US. The FBI says it falls between 2 and 10% depending on jurisdiction. Other countries do similar.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:09 PM
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In most jurisdictions about the same percentage of rape accusations are proven true and false. In the 1-10% range depending on where. In over 80% of cases there isn't enough evidence to know who is telling the truth. Anyone claiming that entire 80%+ are all true or all false is not arguing in good faith. Rapists and false accusers both get away with it. It beats the alternative of destroying the lives of innocent people. Support, but not "believe", unless the evidence is clear.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:06 PM
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I don’t believe anyone is jailed for looking at a woman. That seems like you exaggerating to prove a point. Here is an example of a man jailed for it... https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/anjynv/four_years_ago_today_mark_pearson_was_arrested_on/ In this case prosecutors slowed down the video try to get a conviction of an innocent man ... https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3437198/Prosecutors-slowed-CCTV-footage-commuter-accused-bizarre-sex-assault-actress-make-look-guilty.html
/r/MensRights27/08/23 04:16 PM
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Considering girls outperform boys in school in Bangladesh (actually pretty much every country) and they only support girls, please do... https://reliefweb.int/report/bangladesh/survey-childrens-education-bangladesh-2021-march-2023-survey-findings-report ... don't forget, boys are people too.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:37 PM
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I did find one case where a woman was found guilty of rape in the UK. She guided her boyfriends penis into the victim. Only one I've ever seen convicted of rape and she got a slap on the wrist.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 01:52 PM
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The numbers for perpetrators vary a little from year to year too. Something like 79-84% of made to penetrate (nonconsensual envelopment) victims are victimized by women. Something like 96-99% of rape (nonconsensual penetration) victims are victimized by men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 01:51 PM
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Let's suppose men were never victims of nonconsensual sex before 2010, the number clearly show they have been in roughly equal numbers to women since 2010. Isn't that therefore an equal problem in today's world?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 01:07 PM
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It is true that the lifetime numbers don't match, but it is more than the 2011 numbers. This trend was repeated during the 2010 surveys These four years alone + the under 18 number add up to the lifetime number for men. I believe men find it easier to convince themselves they weren't victimized than to convince others they were, so they don't admit to it anymore. NISVS 2010 showed in the past 12 months, 1.1% of men were made to penetrate and 1.1% of women were raped. Table 2.1 & 2.2 on pages 18/…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 12:49 PM
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Males 16-60 rank women from 20-25 most physically attractive. The average age of the women's looks preferred goes up about a year for every decade the men age. That upsets the 30+ year olds trying to settle down and bringing nothing but looks to the table. Hence, the "pedophile" comments from shallow women and discussions about "the wall" from shallow men.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 12:40 PM
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According to the CDC, ~80% of people making men penetrate them are female and ~20% of people making men penetrate them are male. A man penetrating another man would be categorized as a rape. That's why after eliminating the far more common male victimization of made-to-penetrate, feminists claim "But who is doing the raping? Other men! We need to teach men not to rape."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 12:28 PM
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You choose who you sleep with. You choose whether or not you wear protection. Does that not equally apply to women too? Are you anti-choice for women too, or just men? Or are you not aware males have essentially no reproductive rights? After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents (Roe v Wade) and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 10:44 AM
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A bunch were talked about in this thread where someone asked why MRAs tend to be antifeminist... https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ In addition there have been fairly recent discussions about feminists lobbying against ending lifetime alimony laws, lobbying against gender neutral rape laws, pushing laws to keep rapist "fathers" from getting custody rights rather than anyone convicted of a felony for the act of conception, etc. Are yo…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 12:53 AM
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I'm largely in agreement about all but this one Poor/very limited understanding of feminism, e.g. feminism is a crazy woman saying "i hate men" on twitter or on a university campus I think this sub exposes a lot of feminist researchers, policymakers, lobbiests, lawmakers, etc who are fighting to dehumanize men. They are not the exceptions, they are the elite of feminism and their work is used by the folks you describe above. Also when the campus sexists are permitted and men fighting for equalit…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:17 PM
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Fellow inmates. You generally need to be a much worse person to be sent to prison if you lack a Y chromosome...
/r/MensRights25/08/23 06:19 PM
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https://www.thestar.com/opinion/star-columnists/court-says-pedophilia-does-not-apply-because-perpetrator-is-a-woman/article_50d93e6e-2af0-5faa-9d9f-cf1dd8425ab6.html
/r/MensRights25/08/23 05:09 PM
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Women’s prisons are much more safe, than men’s prisons. Data tells a different story in the case of rape. Per capita there is more rape by fellow inmates in womens prisons. Per capita there is more rape by female guards than male guards in prisons. Rape by men is seen as one of the most horrific crimes. Rape by women is swept under the rug. To study nonconsensual sex among the incarcerated, the authors draw on data collected by the Bureau of Justice Statistics under the Prison Rape Elimination A…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:53 PM
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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2018/06/26/justice-secretary-dont-send-women-prison-unless-commit-violent/
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:38 PM
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"Even if you only care about women, you should still stop women from raping because the majority of men convicted of raping women were sexually violated by adult women when they were boys. Multiple studies in the US, UK, and Canada have shown this. Around 10 of them cited here. http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993#_Toc498111528 So women not raping, and rape by women being acknowledged as traumatic and treated with compassion, would probably stop a lot of women from getting raped in the future. Do you wa…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:20 PM
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This incident is the UK where the policy is women shouldn't be put in prison because it is hard on them.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:25 PM
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So kids can have absolutely no critical thinking skills whatsoever? In my town the high school eliminated proofs from geometry because it isn't part of standardized testing. When I was in high school that was 3/4ths of the critical thinking skills that were taught. The other quarter were science labs, which are still around but have been cut back a lot. K-12 is not teaching much if any critical thinking skills. Social sciences university education is not teaching much if any critical thinking sk…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:01 PM
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Boys are routinely outperforming girls of the same age in STEM. Once you 1) remove all the STEM fields where western women outperform men like veterinary, medicine, biosciences, psychology, etc from the definition of STEM so they don't count and 2) Ignore that women don't want to be in STEM careers if they have other well paying options. Scandinavian countries which are some of the most egalitarian have some of the lowest rates of women in STEM. Countries where women don't have good career optio…
/r/MensRights22/08/23 07:58 PM
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Hating an entire group of people that share birth characteristics with a small fraction of them are criminals is bigotry, racism, sexism, anti-some-religion, etc. It doesn't matter if you hate men, women, black, white, tan, brown, red, jewish, christian, muslim, buddhist, uyghur, or dalit. It's bigotry based on birth rather than behavior of an individual.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:49 PM
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Violent criminals
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:33 PM
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BoreDominated doesn't read any comments authored by me, even if quoted by someone else. The cited facts don't fit their world view.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:53 AM
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See my comment towards the top of this thread https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/lxl4e8/jail_sentences_should_only_be_for_men_according/ Also, the UN and World Bank literally count women doing better than men as equality and men doing better than women as inequality. We've been discussing this for years around here. e.g. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/678bos/til_that_the_un_gender_equality_index_only/ https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/k4g48n/the_worl…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:29 AM
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If you really want to know the stats and why we are bothered by them read this. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/ Otherwise, go back to your misandrist propaganda subreddits and leave us alone.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 12:46 PM
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Anybody who is working towards equality is a feminist. Don't slander me like that. I'm egalitarian. I believe men are people too
/r/MensRights19/08/23 06:11 PM
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Yes. It is sexist and normal.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 01:30 PM
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I just provided you a mountain of evidence when you claimed I lied on my other comment about rape definitions/statistics and you ignored it all because it didn't fit your sexist world view. Not gonna waste my time on you since you aren't open to learning. If someone else who isn't likely your alt account asks, I'll answer.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 10:14 AM
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Anybody who says that men getting raped by women aren't victims isn't a true feminist. True feminism is about equality for all. Rape by women would still be a rape. Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbiests, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, et…
/r/MensRights19/08/23 10:10 AM
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I am both aware that yelling no doesn't stop the determined. I am saying that yelling no will cut the cases of blurry consent and drunk perpetrators. I also know that people freeze which is why they should be trained not to so yelling is an automatic reaction. I am not saying don't hold perpetrators responsible. I am saying focus rape education on reducing rape. Clearly you don't want to reduce rape. You want to blame "men".
/r/MensRights19/08/23 10:07 AM
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Men's clubs are taken to court and forced to admit women all the time. Only women are allowed sex segregated spaces today in the western world.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:31 PM
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Saying no doesn't prevent rape. You must be delusional. No. You've been brainwashed. Yelling "NO" stops most rapes by most mentally well folks and you aren't gonna stop the not mentally well ones by shaming all males. Making your lack of consent clear and you stop the blurry consent rapes. That isn't victim blaming. That is rape prevention. Of course I agree we should hold PERPETRATORS (not men) accountable. I'm talking about PREVENTING rapes. Your link talks about boys who were penetrated. Boys…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:25 PM
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Per your link: "The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I en…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:20 PM
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I'm actually fine with feminists fighting for the right to go topless everywhere a man can. It's one of the only legal inequalities women face in the western world. It's the new gendered policies/laws they are pushing and blocking efforts to degender existing policies/laws that bother me, not their own efforts to degender laws.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 12:25 PM
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Non-consensual does mean rape. The layperson's definition of rape is nonconsensual sex. Most people don't realize how feminists have twisted the statistical definitions of rape to include consensual activities when the victim is a woman (e.g. after a woman has a single alcoholic beverage) and exclude nonconsensual activities when the victim is a man (e.g. nonconsensual envelopment of a penis).
/r/MensRights17/08/23 11:54 AM
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Statistically women emphatically saying NO is one of the most effective ways to prevent rape. Statistically the majority of men convicted of rape were sexually abused by an adult woman when they were boys. But yes, lets teach girls not to say no and teach only boys not to rape. After all, that promotes more hatred between the sexes and gets feminists more funding which is the goal of these policies. If they wanted to reduce rape they'd teach women to loudly and clearly say no and give some suppo…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 11:49 AM
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If those problems affect men at the same rate, then why wouldn't they want men only spaces to feel more safe. Right here, you have your answer. Men aren't allowed to have men only spaces anymore. We hate double standards. There's your answer.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 11:45 AM
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Maybe it's PEOPLE that aren't trustworthy, but accusations by young women have more POWER, so they can more easily do career damage if they happen to be untrustworthy. Lots of people are assholes, mentally ill, entitled, have skewed perceptions of the world, have a personality disorder, etc. Gender has nothing to do with that part.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 11:27 AM
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Marriage and the state empower toxic women to harm men. Without those, it would be an equal relationship and weak men could easily escape toxic women.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:33 PM
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Nah It wasn't a dozen years ago It has been shaped to be that way. Most of the reasonable women were silenced and left.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:31 PM
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Female Genital Mutilation - Anything from a coming of age ceremonial pin prick, to genital piercing on a sober consenting adult, to labiaplasty, to a circumcision, to a clitoridectomy which is what feminists like to imply all FGM is when in reality it is one of the rareist forms.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 06:43 PM
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Another project manager that didn't read the documentation or understand the business problem trying to be solved. 🙄
/r/MensRights11/08/23 02:05 PM
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Married long ago, but my marriage didn't turn to shit until 8 years in (almost 14 years together). The turning point had nothing to do with me. She found and was rejected by her birth mother and took it out on our daughter and I.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 12:46 PM
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It's stupidity like this that makes it hard doing business for THE MAJORITY of decent honest mechanics. I agree. The 75% make it hard for the decent honest 25%.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 06:51 PM
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The majority of mechanics will genuinely rip people off if they don't think they know anything about cars. I've never seen or heard of any that rip off women, but not men. IMNSHO, women who are ignorant about cars, assume men ignorant about cars are treated differently and tell everyone it was sexism.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 04:03 PM
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I included that because you were initially and continue to be a condescending prick. Lots of people on this subreddit have experienced partners that changed a lot. Yeah, sometimes they were always like that. But sometimes the change in behavior is HUGE. You continue to discount the frequency and magnitude of major personality changes. I hope you never experience it. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 04:08 AM
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This explains it. https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ev373c7wSRg
/r/MensRights07/08/23 03:55 AM
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I hope you never learn how stupid this comment is through personal experience. People do change. A mental illness or drug addiction can totally change someone's personality in a matter of months ... decades into a relationship. In my case, my wife who was raised by a narcissist mom found and was rejected by her birth mom in her mid-30s. We'd been together for 14 years. She lost it and was abusive for seven years. A friend's wife became addicted to opioids after an injury a dozen years into their…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 03:36 AM
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Try to find a compatible therapist that specializes in EMDR. It will probably feel dumb in the moment, emotionally draining afterwards, but after just a few sessions it will help with a lot of those lingering effects.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:26 PM
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I know of a few that are friends of friends. 1) Multiple DUIs with the kids in the car. I think three over two years between alcohol and opioids. 2) Felony conviction with a 5ish year sentence. 3) Abandoned the family and moved across the country and refused to come to three or four court hearings in a row.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:40 PM
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Once upon a time, about 13 years ago, nearly all my karma was from financialindependence and personalfinance. Then two things happened. 1) First FI and then PF got misandrist mods 2) My wife became very abusive and my eyes were opened to statistics commonly seen on men'srights. I was suddenly silenced and downvoted in communities I was a valued contributor in for years, because I dared challenge misandry with cited government data. I eventually left both
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:14 PM
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Guard quickly admitted lying and turned states evidence. Will be interesting to see if/how Jennifer is sentenced.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:58 PM
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Some examples from that misogynistic sub ... https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 11:42 AM
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Both are equally responsible for the outcome of their choices I disagree with that blanket statement. Rape, made to penetrate, reproductive coercion, fraud, unfair laws around ownership of frozen embryos, etc exist. That can make the victim have "legal responsibilities" while bearing no moral responsibilities in my mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 11:33 AM
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Courts have ruled the same way in a very similar situation in Italy in the past https://www.ansa.it/canale_saluteebenessere/notizie/lei_lui/vita_di_coppia/2021/02/25/si-allimpianto-dellembrione-dellex-marito-anche-se-lui-dice-no_05230156-95ea-406a-aa7e-4e90cf2d7c93.html Terrell v Torres recently set a precedent and invalidated a signed contract to let a woman use embryos created with her ex and have him owe child support in Arizona. https://www.azcentral.com/story/news/local/arizona/2019/03/18/a…
/r/MensRights28/07/23 01:42 AM
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I do have to wonder, how the fuck do you not notice this? I wonder if removing an IUD or stopping the pill without consent will ever be considered a crime.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:10 AM
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Lots of idiots think clitoridectomy is the common form of FGM. In the UK the by far most common form of FGM in FGM statistics is genital piercings done on consenting adults, but it sure gets the numbers and propaganda up. Meanwhile these same idiots belittle any criticism of MGM because they have no empathy for boys and their pain.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 12:07 PM
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They are probably close to the truth ... once you exclude nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape ... which IMO is incredibly misleading. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying.…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 01:59 PM
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Because you see what you want to see and ignore the rest.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 10:40 AM
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Paste my copypasta to those that talk down to you. You'll likely be censored and know you won. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice just a few years ago - https://clyp.it/uckbtczn. I encourage you to listen to what she is saying. (Really. Listen to it! Think about it from a man's perspe…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:02 AM
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Feminists lobbied for laws to prevent rapist fathers from getting custody rights rather than anyone convicted for the act of conception. I didn't see other feminists challenging them and speaking out for equality.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 02:51 PM
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Those cases set the precedents that courts still follow today. They were state supreme court cases that the lower courts follow. After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents (Roe v Wade) and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue t…
/r/MensRights19/07/23 10:52 AM
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You know EVERY state has safe haven laws, women can put an infant up for adoption without disclosing the fathers identity, and most states have laws that prevent rapist fathers from getting any custody rights, right sexist bigot?
/r/MensRights19/07/23 10:48 AM
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Highly suggest you read this thread where pretty much the same question was asked a couple months back. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights18/07/23 01:18 AM
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Do you believe women deserve safe haven laws? If so, why shouldn't men also be able to abandon newborns?
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:21 AM
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Do you believe women deserve safe haven laws? If so, why shouldn't men also be able to abandon newborns?
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:19 AM
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If enough people took my attitude rather than yours, the major parties would be forced to start helping PEOPLE again to win elections.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:50 AM
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Or vote Green, Independent, Libertarian, or your country's minority party that most agrees with your viewpoint until the main left/right parties start promoting stuff good for most PEOPLE.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 01:00 PM
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Most men get prostate cancer at a late age and due to it's long development, they die of other causes before prostate cancer starts to manifest. You're just going by the usual feminist talking points and ignoring the data ... 1) The only reason men don't get treated sooner is because men are stubborn and don't go to the doctor - false. The data shows men are not given the screening resources relative to their risk and then don't get diagnosed or treated in a timely manner after reporting the iss…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 07:05 PM
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You're saying a PSA and unnecessary non-ionizing radiation from an MRI if the PSA is a false positive is more harmful than delayed prostate cancer diagnosis? But it's all men's fault because they don't get tested like women do ... who have free screenings.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 06:30 PM
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PSA is an effective prescreening. PSA is not effective, from what you are saying, you clearly have no idea about oncology. prescreen - verb To screen in advance for potential problems. How do you determine who should get a prostate MRI without a PSA? You conviniently ignore the part where the main problem lies in men not caring as much as women about their health. If you read the articles It takes 56 days, on average, from the time a man first reports symptoms to a GP, for him to be confirmed wi…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:30 PM
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The 10 year old survival rate is 98%. The mortality is mostly not due to the aggressiveness of the tumor (of course there is a small percentage of aggressive tumors, but it's way lower than in breast cancer, hence need for more research), Great! Men stuffer longer too. But that doesn't matter. Why bother treating it. but because men don't test themselves until it's too late. Talk to any oncologist, the best way to improve the statistics is to encourage more men to visit a doctor. So why is PSA n…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 01:54 PM
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Did I miss something or is your study only about non-profits and doesn't talk about the largest source of funds, preventive care, screening, and treatment - national governments?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 11:34 AM
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The page is usually locked to prevent edits. When it's not, nearly all positive info gets removed even when cited well.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:01 PM
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It all comes down to the definition of rape. Perpetrators of nonconsensual sex are divided roughly 60/40 between the sexes. 99% of rapists are men. Nonconsensual envelopment of a penis is not counted as rape in nearly all rape statistics and under the law in a lot of jurisdictions including India. Therefore only people who penetrate their victim (often only with a penis) are rapists and only people who are penetrated are victims. There were efforts to make rape laws in India gender neutral, they…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 04:13 PM
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The law wouldn't apply to husbands raped by their wives. Feminists lobbied against gender neutral rape laws in India, so women are not rapists and men victimized by women are not rape victims. https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms So a woman physically forcing sex on a man is not a rape in India, but a man breaking an engagement after having sex with his fiancee is a rape.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:09 PM
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Examples?
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:09 PM
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The article you cited here is locked behind a paywall, so I can't access it. Which is why I also included an archive link... The HuffPo article you cited here sources a men's rights website for its claim, which itself doesn't contain any actual links to any of its sources, we're just supposed to guess that these percentages are accurate because they cited a source. The source was a gao.gov paper. I don't know which one. If you were interested, I bet you could find it. You seem more interested in…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 01:20 AM
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1 in 8 men in South Carolina jails are there for failure to pay child support. They are not given court appointed lawyers until they are $10k behind and most are arrested and lose their job way before that limit making it extremely difficult to pay. Src: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/20/us/skip-child-support-go-to-jail-lose-job-repeat.html (or https://archive.is/UABOC) In the US, 66 percent of all child support not paid by fathers is due to an inability to come up with the money Src: https://w…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 12:29 AM
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I read it thinking it was going to end differently. It correctly identifies many problems of men, identifies that boys grow up being demonized by feminism/leftist media and that's why they turn to the likes of Tate. Then it ended with men don't speak up because of homophobia and feminism is about equality and therefore the solution. WTF.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 01:58 PM
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In my opinion, one can only judge on a case-by-case basis. Opinions like yours aren't welcome on AITA. That's the point. Man wrong Parent wrong. Authority figure wrong. Almost without fail. Break that mantra and you're a "problem".
/r/MensRights01/07/23 11:18 AM
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Avoid SAHM arrangement. In practice this means if your wife becomes unemployed for any reason you have to file for divorce in less than six months. Sucks that there is a strong incentive to do the wrong thing for your family, in order to protect your income/freedom and your ability to provide for your kids in the courts.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:38 AM
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Maybe the UN has conducted the research in Saudi Arabia Only nice climates and pretty views in peak tourist season. NOT Saudia Arabia. https://youtube.com/watch?v=wZcdRuOVAVc
/r/MensRights28/06/23 08:08 AM
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They're old school help people left. Not modern woke neolib left that has taken over leadership of left parties in most western countries.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 08:04 AM
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Thank you. I just looked and it appears my state did add a cap since I last checked. Also as you said, I wouldn't hit them anyway. The maximum child support for two kids is now $1498 per week ($78k/yr) plus medical costs. At least it doesn't destroy pro athletes that can't maintain their super high income for 21 years.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 11:57 AM
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Can you cite a few of them? No place I have lived does.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 11:24 AM
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That is known. But it is cheaper for the schools to lose lawsuits than lose federal funding. The student is inconsequential in comparison to federal funding.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 11:24 AM
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We are shooting to include male victims of heterosexual rape. The statistical definition of rape is controlled by feminists that deny men can be raped by women. Feminists actively block acknowledgment of males being heterosexual rape victims, support services for them, and laws to protect raped men and boys. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman…
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:20 PM
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I had the same experience. She got upset. When I pointed out I was reciprocating what I got, she tried for two years. Then she gave up and doesn't get upset when I don't do anything either.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 07:01 PM
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It's pretty easy. End the double standard. Ignore mothers day too.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:06 AM
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A handy link that summarizes lots of countries : https://wiki4men.com/wiki/Universal_suffrage In most of the world, women got the right to vote within a generation of men getting it. Often in the same year.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 11:32 AM
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... and ya know that accusation that porn is about men degrading women? A quarter of straight porn searches by women are for videos featuring violence against their own sex. Five percent of searches by women are for content portraying nonconsensual sex. While men still search for significantly more porn than women, search rates for these more extreme types of sexual content are at least twice as common among women than men. https://archive.is/LOtvQ
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:33 PM
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Because it is part of the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence Intervention. It isn't intended as perpetrator intervention and victim support. It is intended to help women, even the abusive ones.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:18 PM
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A lot of mods in those subreddits silence and/or ban the women who aren't hateful and bitter. TwoX, AskWomen, etc weren't always like that.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:04 PM
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That sure is a biased article. Could be shortened a lot just by saying "men bad".
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:13 AM
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Not in this sub, where you will have people jumping out telling you that your experiences as a black male are 'distracting the conversation'. I read this sub a lot and don't see that. Can you post some examples that aren't from hours old accounts that get banned from reddit within days?
/r/MensRights13/06/23 07:27 PM
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Trans men face issues because they are trans, which is more trans' rights, and issues because they are men, which is more men's rights. Most of those issues would go away if everyone had human rights.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 02:47 AM
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It was nine years ago. It wasn't all misandry back then.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:20 AM
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I'm sorry. You are not alone. It is infuriating. I hope you get better physically before they take away your driver's license and throw you in jail to destroy you mentally. 66 percent of all child support not paid by fathers is due to an inability to come up with the money Src: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-myth-of-the-deadbeat-_b_4745118
/r/MensRights10/06/23 11:21 AM
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What? Feminists are the most powerful group blocking equal rights for men. Tradcons are second. Everything else is way less influential than those two groups.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 08:16 PM
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I've read accounts of people in some industries that have experienced this after transitioning. I've read accounts of people who have had the opposite experience in other industries after transitioning. The latter never seem to appear in mainstream media. Only the ones that say life is easier as a man.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 08:45 PM
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Someone will find a stat to prove their world voew. The larger problem I have is manufacturing stats to prove their world view. Let's make sure we don't count nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a sexual assault and do count a dodged unwanted kiss attempt at the end of a date as a sexual assault in sexual assault stats. Let's ask only about violence against women when gathering domestic violence stats. Then others can quote these stats and call anyone who calls out the methodology a misogyni…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:39 PM
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You just made the lightened version of her argument. Her being a woman played no role in the criticism of what she said. If criticizing someone's argument is wrong if they are a woman, you are a sexist. Again, society not listening to men expressing themselves is a much larger problem than men not expressing themselves. Stop focusing the blame on severely depressed who did seek help and offer them similar levels of support you'd offer a severely depressed woman. The problem is that often require…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:46 AM
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Please educate feminists on the dictionary definition of feminism. If the influential feminist researchers, professors, lobbiests, public policy makers, journalists, authors, politicians, and protesters (and the "real feminists" using their work rather than calling out their sexism, bias, bigotry, data manipulation, outright lies, etc) were to follow the dictionary definition of feminism rather than the man hating spirit of feminism, we wouldn't be at odds with them. Most of us would be feminist…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 11:19 PM
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So why do you think there is a women's site and not a Man's? And please spare me the obvious "Society doesn't care about men" stance.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 05:07 PM
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So please explain. If it isn't sexism, why were the laws written sexist. It took extra words to exclude men rather than say "All doctor prescribed FDA approved forms of contraception" in the law. Why not make smoking cessation programs preventive care for everyone including children and men instead of putting them under the women only services? What reason is there other than sexism. I haven't seen one, so if you know one, educate me.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:58 PM
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If it isn't because society doesn't care about men, please explain the sexism in US federal law (Obamacare). https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage/preventive-care-benefits/ Preventive care coverage has three categories. Adult, women, and children. Domestic violence screening, STD testing, and smoking cessation programs are free for women, not adults. There are free cancer screenings for women (PAP, mammogram), but none for prostate cancer (PSA) when prostate cancer kills about the same number of m…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:53 PM
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Before or after thalidomide?
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:48 PM
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If there aren't free preventive care services and treatment research for men, there will be less demand to use the nonexistent resources?
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:46 PM
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the people that say the latter will also often bring this up 'They found that the implementation of blind auditions increased the likelihood of women being selected for professional orchestras by 30%.' to give evidence or reasoning to the gender pay gap existing The study was questionable : https://archive.is/rvNlJ Blind auditions didn't end up with equal representation so there has been a push to do away with blind auditions in favor of discrimination against white and Asian males. https://old.…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 11:42 AM
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You are just trying to minimize suicide attempts if they are by a male. Stop the sexism. Men die more from every form of suicide including the "clean" methods because they often feel they have no other options and want to end the suffering. The types of self harm that women often do, like cutting, is categorized as a suicide attempt.The types of self harm that men often do like picking a fight with a larger opponent or drinking to blacking out, is not. Around 80% of men that commit suicide did r…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 03:24 AM
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As an old.reddit.com user, why? I'll admit I'll miss revddit to see comments removed, but not enough to stop sharing information here and certainly not enough to paint a bigger target on this subreddit that is only reluctantly tolerated by reddit.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:33 AM
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IME, a third of therapists are amazing life changing forces of good, a third just aren't a great fit for the personality or issues, and unfortunately a third are awful and do far more harm than good.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:32 AM
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Not a Tate fan, but which of his views? He got popular because he doesn't give a shit and says a lot of things other people won't say because of the repercussions. Many of them are good to be said. Many are horrible but, unlike good people saying the good ones, since he is horrible there isn't a cancelling of him. Maybe if we didn't cancel people saying the more reasonable things he says, he wouldn't be the only one saying them publicly.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 03:38 PM
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I used many of my "evidence for feminists" comments in this thread. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/130eya7/what_problems_bring_out_the_need_for_a_mens/
/r/MensRights02/06/23 11:57 AM
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See my comment from yesterday: https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13wxyzc/i_went_on_rask_feminists_asking_about_if_they/jmej3hl/?context=3
/r/MensRights01/06/23 06:58 PM
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I believe in the ability to get a divorce with no fault. I have a problem that fault doesn't heavily influence child custody and alimony. If you cheat or abuse, you shouldn't be rewarded for it. If your spouse cheated on or abused you, you shouldn't be penalized for it for decades to come.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 03:01 AM
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So do you understand why we want human rights instead of reserving them for women only? Do you want me to go into genital mutilation, preventive healthcare, reproductive rights, prison reform, promotion of sexism in education and hiring, etc where influential feminists seek to make women privileged and shit on men? We don't see why gendered law and public policy for barely or non gendered issues isn't just sexism.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 02:55 AM
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Feminists often claim that when men challenge custody decisions, they get custody rights 60% of the time. That doesn't mean equal custody. To us that means fathers who can afford to lose half their assets and still pay for two divorce lawyers on top of court costs, therapists, temporary alimony, temporary child support, a criminal lawyer for the false accusations, and secondary housing with enough bedrooms for each kid, can usually get up to 50% custody. I'd rather see laws that default to 50% c…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 10:49 PM
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I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment of women. The violence is pretty equal. The perception and resources are not due to feminists. Reality is women are slightly more likely to initiate physical violence and slightly more likely to be significantly injured during physical violence. Almost 24% of all relations…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 10:47 PM
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The statistical definition of rape is controlled by feminists that deny men can be raped by women. Feminists actively block acknowledgment of males being heterosexual rape victims, support services for them, and laws to protect raped men and boys. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping a man isn't rape. Hear her explain in her own voice ju…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 10:45 PM
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Fighting against counting nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape so they can claim "99% of rapists are men" while 50something% of nonconsensual sex is perpetrated by men. Fighting against bills that default to 50/50 shared custody in a divorce. Pushing the false narrative domestic violence is a "violence against women" issue rather than a family issue that impacts everyone and women are very often perpetrators of. Those are people problems impacting men, women, children, and elde…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 10:38 PM
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The problem isn't women's rights. The problem is influential feminist see human rights as women's rights and shit all over men.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 10:30 PM
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Perhaps we should honestly look at why men are killing themselves and make changes to public policy to prevent a lot of deaths rather than just repeating the lie that it's because men don't seek help?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 01:19 PM
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Yes! Let's focus on the one age group that women die more because many men haven't lived that long. That way we can show more women die at that age group and ignore all the reasons men die before 65 and also ignore prostate cancer (which kills more men than breast cancer kills women) some more.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:48 PM
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There are only more men raped in prison because there are 10x more men put in prison. Per Capita there is more rape in women's prison. Think about how much worse a person a woman needs to be to be sent to prison.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 11:01 AM
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I noticed you still haven't named any objective subs. All of the dating subs I've seen on reddit are highly biased for one sex or the other. The dissenting opinions along those lines are usually highly downvoted if not removed.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:41 PM
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If you're asking people to objectively weigh the actions of your date against your desires then you should find a different sub. You told him to go to another subreddit that I don't think exists. If it does exist, I'd enjoy reading it. I said and meant nothing more.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:09 PM
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Please name such a sub that gives gender neutral dating advice.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:32 PM
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Accusations on social media are far more reliable than accusations reported to the police. /s Now you can say : "A high school dropout that goes by the name duhhhh told me that accusations on social media are far more reliable than accusations reported to the police. Are you of the same mindset?"
/r/MensRights27/05/23 10:13 AM
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In most jurisdictions in the world about the same percentage of accusations to the police are proven true and false. In over 80% of cases there isn't enough evidence to know who is telling the truth. Anyone claiming that entire 80%+ are all true or all false is not arguing in good faith.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 09:06 AM
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Even the stats on it are hidden Simple. 1) Block efforts to count nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape in rape statistics. 2) Focus on rape only. Letting people know that men are 50something% of the perpetrators of nonconsensual sex and women are 40something% doesn't have the same propaganda power or get as much funding for misandrists as "99% of rapists are men".
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:13 PM
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Hey now. We can't judge and discriminate against people for their actions. Let's just do the fair thing and judge/discriminate based on physical characteristics of birth. /s
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:06 PM
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Original version for the curious. https://web.archive.org/web/20230525095133/https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/25/opinion/men-in-the-21st-century.html
/r/MensRights25/05/23 05:37 PM
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To your edit: Do feminists oust and denounce the bad seeds or support them? If the former, can you provide examples?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:25 PM
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Roy Den Hollander? The one denounced and kicked out of several men's rights groups years before he did it? Compared to Valerie Solanas or Donna Hylton who are still widely supported after they did it?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:34 PM
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This is a consequence of the tender years doctrine which early feminists pushed 150 years ago.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 01:14 PM
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Have you never heard of "missing white woman syndrome"? Missing white woman syndrome is a term which is used by social scientists and media commentators in reference to the media coverage, especially on television of missing-person cases involving young, attractive, white, upper middle class women or girls. Everyone else is a lessor victim. https://duckduckgo.com/?q=missing+white+woman+syndrome
/r/MensRights22/05/23 12:56 PM
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Nevada is the only state that gives males an out for parental responsibilities without someone else taking them on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 09:15 PM
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Then cite the law or court documents showing this changed in California in the last few years. I've been through this argument many times. I found and cited California laws a few years ago. It's also how I learned about Nevada being an exception, because someone showed me the laws. Until then, I'll assume you are confidently misinformed like everyone else that claims men can just walk away from parental responsibilities when they give up parental rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 09:14 PM
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Terminating parental rights does not terminate parental responsibilities in California.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 08:02 PM
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So you just outed yourself for living in Nevada. All the other states require a step parent to adopt the child and take on financial responsibility for you to also get out of parental responsibilities when giving up parental rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 07:55 PM
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That's great. In my country mens choices are suck it up and stay, suck it up and pay, lose their travel documents and go to jail, flee the country to one that doesn't enforce international child support/contempt of court, or end their lives. Edit: It turns out we both live in the USA. The poster above may live in Nevada where men can get out of parental responsibilities if a judge agrees it is in the best interests of the child or justice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 04:07 PM
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All these resentful parents need to realize *no one, not even their partner, is forcing them to be a parent. What about the ones who became parents unwillingly because of their partners actions?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 03:56 PM
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$1150 total cost with a $1000 deductible on my end.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:04 PM
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Most men who kill themselves did reach out for help, didn't feel helped, and were deemed low risk of suicide. Perhaps modern therapy and helplines need to help men better. Perhaps we should assess some of the gender roles that haven't been erased for men who's equivalents have been erased for women. Perhaps we should at least acknowledge systemic sexism against men. But working on that stuff too wouldn't put all the blame on men now, would it?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 08:51 AM
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Weird. I wouldn't really care the sex of the person who put me in the hospital nearly as much as the fact that someone did...
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:02 AM
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If you won't read and learn, then you will never understand the propaganda you have fallen for and continue to have crippling fear of men and little empathy. Its a shame.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:59 AM
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So if you were victimized by a woman, you wouldn't feel victimized?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:57 AM
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Read your statement above. Read my long response.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:55 AM
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WITH A GENDER NEUTRAL DEFINITION OF RAPE, 40SOMETHING PERCENT OF RAPES ARE WOMEN RAPING MEN. You've bought into the propaganda.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:45 AM
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As I said, almost as much, not more. Please read this. The statistical definition of rape is controlled by feminists that deny men can be raped by women. Feminists actively block acknowledgment of males being heterosexual rape victims, support services for them, and laws to protect raped men and boys. For statistical reporting, rape has been carefully defined as forced penetration of the victim in most of the world. Please listen to this feminist professor Mary P Koss explain that a woman raping…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:41 AM
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"all women are a potential threat though. your level of ignorance is a luxury"
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:34 AM
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Well, I like many men had the urologists office demand my wife come into the office in person and sign a permission form in person for my surgery. Obamacare laws prevent vasectomies from being free without copay unlike tubals and IUDs which must be free under the same laws.The vasectomy cost us $1k. A tubal would have been free. But that isn't what iainmf is talking about. Let's look at a rape victims rights not to be a parent. A conviction of the mother for the act of conception doesn't get a m…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:30 AM
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but women rape men (almost as often) so its reasonable to be fearful of all women but women domestically abuse men (more often) so its reasonable to be fearful of all women sound sexist?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:17 AM
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if you are a man, you will never understand the fear of walking by a suspicious man while alone Why not? Statistically men are far more likely to be a victim of a violent assault by a stranger walking down the street than a woman is. Do you think we are invincible, stupid, or fearless?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:49 AM
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Criminals. It sounds like you're victim blaming the victims if they share a physical characteristic of birth with the perpetrator. In other words you are a sexist/racist piece of trash.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:17 AM
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it’s more likely for a man to be raped by another man than it is for him to be falsely reported as a rapist by a woman About the same percentage of accusations to the police are proven true as are proven false. In over 80% of cases, there isn't enough evidence to know who is telling the truth. Anyone claiming all of that 80%+ are all true or all false isn't arguing in good faith. Men are far far far more likey to be a victim of nonconsensual sex by a female perpetrator than a male one. Quit deny…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:03 AM
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women are often safety oppressed I suggest you look at crime victimization statistics.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:50 AM
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#BelieveEvidence. Provide support to the alleged victim all you want, but don't name or punish the alleged perpetrator without clear untampered evidence.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 11:54 AM
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It's a reporting/measurement issue too. I (and most guys) consider doing a load of laundry 15 minutes of work, even though it takes 2 hours of clock time. The machines do 7/8ths the work. My random sampling shows 2/3rds of women consider it two hours of housework.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 10:23 PM
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Women in gangs (even those running the gangs) were forced to sell drugs. They shouldn't go to jail, men should. This is CPS policy. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9059233/Women-girls-groomed-gangs-forced-sell-drugs-NOT-face-criminal-charges-CPS-says.html
/r/MensRights18/05/23 09:24 PM
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women not caring about the average man is a very valid criticism of women ... I wouldn’t want to date a woman with masculine energy. ... feminism controls the schools, the media, the politicians, the police etc ... Freedom of speech is more important to me than trying to stop misogynistic abuse. Direct quotes from SolidButSturdy. Lock em up and throw away the key.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 02:05 PM
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Once my wife found an appropriate therapist and stopped lying to her, I stopped being a domestic abuser. You see, for several years I was wrapping my foot behind her ankle and shoving her away from me so I could run away while she was getting back up. Once she stopped physically attacking me, I stopped resorting to violence to escape violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/23 02:20 AM
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IIRC, there is one on the south shore that caters to gay men. (GMDVP - GAY MEN'S DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PROJECT maybe?) I think they may help straight men alone. There aren't any in MA to take your kids.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:50 PM
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The rates of partner homicides didn't used to be that far apart. Then women got help and resources and the rate they killed their husbands dropped a lot. Men didn't get DV shelters they could use to protect their kids from their abuser without getting kidnapping charges giving the abuser an upper hand in custody, government funded help to allow them to get easy restraining orders, DV intervention public policy and programs that favored them, etc. Therefore the rate that husbands kill their wives…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 08:27 PM
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Typed assignments with no names visible to the teacher until after the grade was assigned.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:36 PM
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But look at what happened to her career. Despite her extreme talent, it tanked. Ohhh. Oops. I mean despite her lack of talent and publicly sexually assaulting a minor on national television, her career flourished.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:33 PM
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Gotta admit.I had to google Alek, cause I had no idea who he was. Any evidence he was associated with men's rights, or do you just see violent incels, lonely incels, MRAs, redpillers, pickup artists, etc as all the same?
/r/MensRights14/05/23 04:51 PM
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And how many MRAs were sympathetic to Eliot Roger and fantasized about doing the same thing? I saw a fair amount of that online and I bet you did too. I have no idea what MRA circles you were in.The "Maybe if he wasn't bullied so much/so harshly rejected he wouldn't have turned out that way" comments I saw isn't the same as "I fantasize about going on a killing spree." Which feminists are we misquoting?
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:57 PM
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Remember that people could equate MRAs with the worst thing one of them said or did. Would that be reasonable? They have already been equating RooshV (an anti-MRA pickup artist) as the leader of the MRAs and Elliot Rodger as an MRA (mentally ill incel who never had anything to do with mens rights) as the typcial MRA. Meanwhile we shouldn't quote academics, journalists, lobbyists, speakers at national events, etc to expose their bigotry?
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:47 PM
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The rape crisis : https://www.indiatoday.in/india/north/story/false-rape-cases-in-delhi-delhi-commission-of-women-233222-2014-12-29 https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/women-term-consensual-acts-as-rape-after-break-up-delhi-high-court-1730100 https://www.thehindu.com/news/national/delhi-high-court-expresses-worry-over-alarming-increase-of-false-rape-cases/article36042093.ece Real discrimination in the legal system : https://www.timesofindia.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape…
/r/MensRights13/05/23 08:33 PM
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Place the urls into archive.org or archive.today.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 08:16 PM
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Think men will ever hold sit-ins? https://www.history.com/news/greensboro-four-sit-in-civil-rights
/r/MensRights13/05/23 04:30 PM
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... or wife.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/23 01:12 PM
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In over 80% of cases there isn't enough evidence to prove who is telling the truth Anyone claiming that entire 80%+ are all true or all false is not arguing in good faith.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 01:27 PM
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Why does federal law prevent vasectomies from being free without copay while mandating that tubals must be free for almost every person with health insurance in the US? Seems like if the feminist lobbyists that pushed this and the feminist president that signed it (and the laws are named after), actually cared about women, they wouldn't force women in lower income households to be the ones getting the surgery.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 04:33 PM
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The problem is RAINN : presumes all accusations are true when about the same percentage are proven true and proven false. In over 80% of cases there isn't enough evidence to prove who is telling the truth Anyone claiming that entire 80%+ are all true or all false is not arguing in good faith. quotes statistics that exclude nonconsensual envelopment of the penis as a form of rape. In the US, in a typical year, as many men report being nonconsensually enveloped as women report being nonconsensuall…
/r/MensRights11/05/23 03:37 PM
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Say you have taken the kids (5) and gotten an airbnb an hour away. ... All of a sudden my wife went to the pastor and made a ton of accusations against me and I am not sure what to do. Well, I suspect you just added kidnapping to her accusations against you. That eill likely give her an advantage in custody and leave the kids alone most of the time with the now crazy mom. THIS is a big reason men need DV shelters. To protect their children. There aren't programs to force moms like this into ther…
/r/MensRights11/05/23 11:05 AM
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The thing is with the available contraception, especially condoms, sex is probably safer than getting in a car. In terms of what? Death? Odds of a quarter million plus liability not covered by insurance?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:26 PM
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Most would have made good partners, before they were dismissed, taken advantage of, abused by, or made fun of by many women. Now, most of them are bitter and might not.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:41 PM
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Since y2k, gym and recess have been reduced in the name of providing more academic time. According to a 2013 report, 44% of schools have cut back on physical education and recess. https://intellectualtakeout.org/2015/10/why-are-schools-cutting-back-on-pe/ CDC infographic shows 40% of school districts reduced them between between the "mid-2000s" and 2010. https://www.cdc.gov/healthyschools/physicalactivity/pdf/2019_04_25_Recess-Brief_508tagged.pdf Kids, especially boys, with little physical activ…
/r/MensRights10/05/23 12:00 PM
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Yes. In the 50s/60s we recognized boys were outperforming girls. We made education reforms in the 70s and boys and girls performed about the same in the 80s/90s. Then we went through further changes in the 00s. Removing gym/recess/drafting/woodshop/autoshop that tended to let boys get rid of excess energy and creativity, male teachers leaving the industry due to feeling their careers rely on luck of getting no false accusations, lower grading of boys work based on their sex rather than quality o…
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:27 AM
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Mental state not doesn't make a difference. The sperm reaching the egg is what does it. You seem very ignorant about reproduction. If it were, as you said, really as rare as a lightning strike, the human race would have died out by now.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:40 AM
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Have you ever had a LTR? Women are much hornier when they are ovulating. That's when their hormones drive them to have sex. Quite literally, three ejaculations led to two kids for me.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:14 AM
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Conception in the first month occurs for about 30% https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/chances-of-getting-pregnant-first-time-trying 38 percent were pregnant after 1 month. https://www.thebump.com/a/how-long-does-it-take-to-get-pregnant your chances of conceiving each cycle you try are 25 to 30 percent if you’re under 35 https://www.todaysparent.com/getting-pregnant/trying-to-conceive/what-are-your-odds-of-getting-pregnant-each-month/ How many kids do you have? My first was conceived on th…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:02 AM
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That is not how it works. Even people intentionally trying to make a baby need an average of 14 times to succeed. 😲 My you are ignorant. It sometimes happens on the first try.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 01:11 AM
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To prevent cumming inside her you only need to push her off for a few seconds. And all she needs to do is climb back on.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 08:53 PM
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It was common theme in The Honeymooners in the mid-50s.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 05:59 PM
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Are you against safe haven laws?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:45 AM
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"Don't want to get pregnant? Keep your legs closed!" 🙄
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:43 AM
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So you're an anti-choicer?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:40 AM
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After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents (Roe v Wade) and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. E.g. A…
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:38 AM
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Around reddit these days I'd assume you really met less than 10 bad faith women. 3 of them just average 30 accounts each so it seems like their opinions are more popular than they are.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 03:13 PM
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We migrate our homeless in the US. Northern cities offer the homeless free bus tickets to southern cities in fall so they don't have to house them through the winter. Southern cities get sick of them and offers them bus tickets back to northern cities which they take in the spring.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 03:02 PM
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No woman brags about this. Only a Sith deals in absolutes! ... and May the 4th be with you.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:15 PM
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Well, if you don't feel that way please stand up to the women who brag about this and say "my body my choice" about it. Most women seem to support and encourage them.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:04 PM
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Go read anonymous social media. Listen to the applause of the audience https://web.archive.org/web/20211220203706/https://youtube.com/watch?v=5CNHwhHWPoQ approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or tried to stop them from using birth control https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_coercion Those are just the ones that know. I have a neighbor, a friend, and a relat…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:59 PM
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IMNSO, it's a slightly grey area but yes. He violated the conditions they had agreed on for sex. This wasn't a "he didn't know" this was a "he did it anyway". However, most women seem to go to the ends of the earth to defend a woman's right to stop the pill or remove an IUD without telling their partner. So... I don't like double standards.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:54 PM
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The layperson usually defines rape as nonconsensual sex. Although virtually all rape statistics and a sad percentage of rape laws don't count non consensual envelopment of a penis as rape, we crazy MRA types look at it as a form of nonconsensual sex and call it rape. I know ... the audacity to call sex with someone under the age of consent or under the power of the perpetrator (teacher, prison guard, judge, coach, etc) rape even if the victim isn't penetrated when the sex occurs.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:19 PM
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In the US? Libertarian, Green, or Independent. Not D or R. They both actively drag down men.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:28 AM
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Women naturally adjust to schooling quicker In the 50s and 60s boys far outperformed girls in school. It was pretty clear girls were being held back, so efforts were made to fix that in the 70s. Boys and girls performed equally well in the 80s and 90s. Now that schools are setup better for girls, we are hearing that girls are just naturally better and boys should accept that. Screw that bullsbit.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:20 AM
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Reddit was a woke cesspool to begin with It was not 15 years ago. Mass media and major leftwing parties were just starting to go woke back then though. IMO it was an effort to divide the public because occupy wall street was drawing to much attention to the top 0.01%.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:12 AM
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Do you judge women by those shopping at Walmart at 3am?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 03:01 AM
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Police have it drilled into their head by their training that the man is the abuser and the man is the danger. The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence Intervention is used by more law enforcement agencies around the world than any other despite the fact that it has been shown to be inaccurate and ineffective (in addition to sexist). Have you seen the Michael Craig news stories from last year? He was killed by cops when the two 911 calls and his son on the scene all said his wife had a knife to his…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 01:38 AM
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Yes, you don’t have to give me stats. women are more often the victims of domestic abuse. It's pretty damn equal. The victim support and perpetrator intervention programs are not. Giving you the stats you need to cure yourself of years of propaganda influence. I simply wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data and provide gender neutral support instead of studies looking for violence against women only and providing help for women only, even to the detriment of women. Th…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 01:26 AM
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Serious injuries are most often caused by men in mutual violence because men are stronger. Women are more likely to use weapons and cause serious injuries in one sided domestic violence. Either way, when injuries occur, statistics show the woman more often initiated the violence that lead to injuries. So, it depends how you (and the studies you read) look at it and what the goal is ... reduce injuries, or something else?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 08:44 PM
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This is just a follow on to the idea that marriage rates falling is because of a shortage of "economically attractive men". Most women want men who earn more than them, and more than men actually earn. This is, of course, entirely because men are deadbeats and not at all because of systemic sexism against men (largely caused by feminism) and unrealistic expectations of educated women (largely caused by hypergamy).
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:47 PM
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You've never been sick, injured, asleep, drunk, etc in your life?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:58 PM
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Talents and abilities are based on sex organs, skin color, and sexual preferences? Here I thought individual people had different talents and abilities.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:57 PM
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Diversity of thought is not necessarily related to race, sex, or sexuality.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:49 PM
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No man is stronger 24/7/365.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:47 PM
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In countries with more gender equality and more prosperous economics, fewer women CHOOSE to go into physics, engineering, etc. Why punish men for the choices of women? In places like eastern Europe, India, Russia, Iran, etc there are a much higher percentage women in those fields. Do you think those countries are better than the Scandinavian countries, western Europe, US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, etc where women don't feel pressured into STEM fields for economic stability?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:40 PM
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No. 1) Less women choosing to go into STEM shouldn't cause discrimination against the men that do want to go into STEM. 2) If you don't play games and exclude STEM fields where there are far more women than men (like biology, veterinary, and medicine), women are not under represented in STEM.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:27 PM
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Through equal opportunity efforts. That would involve tackling the impacts of bad teachers, bad home lives, and income inequality on children. Much easier to blame straight white men and do nothing to fix the underlying problems.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:07 PM
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... through racism, sexism, sexual identity discrimination, etc.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 07:36 PM
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You obviously don't talk to close male friends.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:58 PM
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So my son should be punished for something that may have happened to his great-great-great-great grandmother? My parents were partners. The women ruled my grandparents households with an iron fist. The great-grandmother I knew was a partner. I don't know what the marriage of her mother was like, but her mom was born after the reforms in the early 1870s. What were the lives of the average men like back then? Most of my great-grandmothers brothers died in WWI. All her sisters lived past 85. How ma…
/r/MensRights02/05/23 02:30 AM
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https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/voices/2018/10/10/grievance-studies-academia-fake-feminist-hypatia-mein-kampf-racism-column/1575219002/
/r/MensRights02/05/23 02:22 AM
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any property that the wife owned would be transferred to the husband's control How many hundred years ago? Source? What was the experience of the average man of the day? Source?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 01:53 AM
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Peer reviewed like the Mein Kampf rewording and the Dog Park rape studies that made it into academic journals? Peer reviewed like the studies that hide male victims of rape and domestic violence? Wouldn't you have to ask men what they fear to know what they fear?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 01:51 AM
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I checked your post history. One hour old account with lots of misandry and little reading comprehension ability.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:28 PM
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In addition to being ignorant, you're also pretty arrogant Smartbrain.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:25 PM
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You provide me with the link and I will read it. Sorry. "duhhhh" isn't stupid enough to believe that "SmartBrain".
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:23 PM
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I did years ago. Did you? In 90 seconds?
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:18 PM
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Actually they were studies, news articles that referenced studies, or news articles that gave facts about discrimination in standardized testing because boys scored higher and that needed to be fixed for social reasons. Your brain ain't all that smart if you didn't realize that.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:13 PM
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You read all those links I posted above in 90 seconds and are implying they weren't scientific? lolz
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:11 PM
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I don't buy that. Facts don't care about your feelings. https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 An OECD report on gender in education, across more than 60 countries, found that girls receive higher marks compared with boys of the same ability. And because teachers couldn't fudge the grades in online standardized testing for last year's final exams because of Covid, they programmatically had to lower boys grades so girls maintained the same advantage as historically... https://m.independent.i…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:08 PM
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Lower grades for the same quality work in the overwhelming majority of countries. Lack of sex specific scholarships because male scholarships are challenged and female specific scholarships are applauded. No "boys in STEM" clubs, contests, encouragement, etc.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:56 PM
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It's not you. It's the people who "stop by" to "educate us" all the time. It was a reasonable question ... a lot of unreasonable people ask in bad faith around here. The follow-up statement after one of us replies is usually "But it's far worse to be penetrated, you misogynist". People were likely making assumptions you were headed that way, because we've seen it 100s of times before.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:50 PM
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Yes. Men are the minority because the stats pretty much only count men raped by men or by women with a strapon. If you count nonconsensual envelopment of a penis, suddenly there isn't a big difference in victimization between the sexes and over 40% of rapists are women.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 08:05 PM
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The common person thinks nonconsensual sex is rape. I hold this viewpoint. Unfortunately many rape laws and virtually all rape statistics only count nonconsensual penetration of the victim as rape and completely ignore nonconsensual envelopment of a penis as a form of rape. This is by far the most common form of rape for male victims and most common form of rape for female perpetrators. It just doesn't count as rape in rape statistics and is many jurisdictions is a lessor crime than nonconsensua…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 07:03 PM
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They aren't having babies because it makes them money. They are having babies because they want a baby and with the way things work they can find someone they can make cover a lot of the cost whether he wants to or not. If the child support system changed they'd have to improve their own economic situation so they could afford a kid on their own or find a man willing to be a father.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 04:41 PM
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Wouldn't that depend on the circumstances, like how she had been treating him as well? IME, most people can only take so much before they start acting the same in return. I have understanding of that. Johnny Depp appears to be a saint and had evidence of her abusive behavior too.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 02:08 PM
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So with the increasing rate of single mothers, what other choise do they got but to force fathers to pay? Stop giving moms incentives for baby trapping and single motherhood would drastically be reduced within a generation?
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:30 PM
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After Hermesmann v Seyer set the precedent, courts around the country have decided that male victims of women owe the perpetrators child support for decades, while other precedents (Roe v Wade) and laws (safe haven laws) generally allow female victims many options to get rid of the product of their rapes. Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. E.g. A…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:27 PM
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Do you have sources for that? 1 in 8 men in South Carolina jails are there for failure to pay child support. They are not given court appointed lawyers until they are $10k behind and most are arrested and lose their job way before that limit making it extremely difficult to pay. Src: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/20/us/skip-child-support-go-to-jail-lose-job-repeat.html (or https://archive.is/UABOC) In the US, 66 percent of all child support not paid by fathers is due to an inability to come up…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:21 PM
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Would you consider this to be sexual harassment? The drain, no. The story, yes.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:45 PM
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TBF it was published a decade ago. They probably just missed scrubbing it for current ideology standards.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 10:35 AM
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https://effectiviology.com/double-standard/
/r/MensRights26/04/23 10:33 AM
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Plenty of lads will screech that tHeRaPy iS mEaNt tO hInDeR mEn, and that’s likely the therapist they had was hindering men. IME one in three therapists is helpful. Be prepared to fire a couple before finding a good match.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:59 PM
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Women literally die because of FGM especially during childbirth. But for male circumcision, what is the downside except for the little pain during the procedure and before healing? What about the boys that die from the procedure? Why don't they matter?
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:26 PM
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Clitoridectomy is awful and much worse than a typical circumcision. Feminists like to count FGM using one definition and then imply all FGM is clitoridectomy for political gain. However, FGM also includes a lot of stuff less bad than infant male circumcision and all FGM is bad, ergo MGM is also bad. For example clit and labia piercings on sober consenting adults.... Women who have genital piercings will be recorded as having suffered female genital mutilation (FGM) under new NHS rules due to com…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 12:04 PM
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The truth is, in cultures that cut girls, FGM is justified in a myriad of ways, often by the women in those cultures. There are also some health benefits: http://scholarworks.gsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1113&context=iph_theses https://www.researchgate.net/publication/265824402_Female_Circumcision_and_HIV_Infection_in_Tanzania_for_Better_or_for_Worse https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(18)31387-0/abstract We could justify FGM fairly easily. All we have to do is disregard a woma…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:40 AM
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