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Discussionkopdjernigan/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:56 AM
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When I was single I usually kept dating someone older than me by 2 years and younger than me by like 3-4 years. But as far as I remember the oldest girl I’ve actually gone on a date with was maybe a month younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:41 AM
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Banned for talking back to a woman 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:39 PM
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Hi daddy! Sorry I’m being a naughty boy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:38 PM
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Justice for /u/IgorXY ✊🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:24 PM
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I’ve read models too and it really is a philosophy that helped me out in dating and credit it a good bit for why I’m in a good relationship today. I do know he says some cringy advice but I think he is great for an average guy really seeking a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:43 PM
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I’m a bit tidier than my fiancee, can’t stand to see dishes pile up nor dust accumulating. And things need a proper place to be in. But then she’s more organized
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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They definitely are on discord we have some on the servers. The issue is that too many people think femcel=incel when they are more like volcels which are also different to incels. Femcels are just a type of volcel. And this is me talking as a former volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:06 PM
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Hi eastuss! And this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:46 PM
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Hello come have fun with me on discord 😚
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:08 PM
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I only like DoorDash because so many restaurants don’t have easy takeout options online. For delivery tho? Fuck that I’m a hater too 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:58 AM
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Are you looking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:05 PM
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Finished all the cherries from cherry picking with my fiancee last weekend. I love cherries
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:46 PM
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Sometimes it can take a few moments to really appreciate someone’s look. She may not have noticed you initially for one reason or another. You approaching her gives you a chance to make them think about it or not. Make her turn her maybe into a yes or no. If she says no you got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:15 PM
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What as someone who participates there every once as a whole to dissuade black and red pillers I’ve never had this happen to me.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 05:10 PM
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Your dms are off but dm me so I can see if it’s the same one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:19 PM
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115 people? Very active with core group who’s known each other at least a year now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:02 PM
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Hello, I’m in a discord server that needs more woman who want attention from incels 🥹. Will you guys help them help. They just have too much attention to give even the woman make up over half of our active users 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:47 AM
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Red pill is way too cynical imo. Blue pill is way too much la la land.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:15 PM
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Curly fries and their gyros are bomb I used to get it like twice a month. Unfortunately I don’t live near one anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:50 PM
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It’s not mask off this person had always been open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:40 PM
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She’s on the discord too and her relationship with the mods is not what I would call a friendship. It’s something but idk what to call it. Shes rather just grandfathered into this PPD. Wonder what the banning reason actually was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:15 PM
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Where did you get banned from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:11 PM
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Man here to rep I agree 100 percent on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:50 PM
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I’ve been too busy to use daily discussion lately. Well busy shitposting maybe I should pick up again. I ran a half marathon recently which was cool now I’m looking for another bucket list to cross off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:38 AM
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I have the opposite problem. Most of my friends and family live in the other side of the country from me and same for my fiancee well hers live 6 hours away. And we are trying to do it local too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:35 PM
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Depends is where I shit myself in public somewhere I frequent or people may recognize me as the guy who shitted all over himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:28 AM
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Actually prefer that to get my info quick and out of the way so I can get back to shitposting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:26 PM
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Hello how are yall so far on day 3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:05 PM
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Do a half marathon, get married, maybe look into cycling to eventually do a triathlon, stay fit,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:15 PM
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Harassment of woman irl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:19 PM
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Idk I know him from the discord and he is pretty bad and hostile I had to mute him a few times. I havnt seen anything he done on here but Apperently he told a friend he trust the truth about his alts and they exposed him. I got some info from them. While they didn’t tell me exact details he did say some bad stuff and exposed his irl history of doing some bad sfuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:51 PM
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What happened m’queen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:58 PM
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As a 5th grader in 2004-2005, plenty of kids talked about MySpace and were on it. I and plenty of my friends made ours around that time. Facebook got popular a couple years later. My older cousin had a MySpace in 2003
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:21 PM
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I’m 31 and MySpace was huge when I was 11, Facebook was big and I think just ipo when I was 13. Iphone came out when I was 13, popular when I was 16 with iPhone 3s. Some of us early 30 year olds defintely had experience with these things as a middle schooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:49 PM
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Yeah this is not to say all woman. I would say being in shape attracts more woman than being in shape on a volume basis. And you are right I have seen those threads of men saying that, and you are right it’s a fair comparison. Fair points I didn’t think of the second one at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:24 AM
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Now I’m not saying every woman is into it. But in a world where the avg dude doesn’t get a lot of attention to begin with, having something that makes him stand out helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:38 AM
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You don’t need abs, but to say abs don’t matter at all is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:19 AM
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Np.reddit.com/r/stupidquestions/s/Esa6MSTowB How we feeling on this thread. Lots of blue pilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:38 AM
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Just be nice guys 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:11 PM
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I guess by strict definition yes you are more “ripped” than me. But the difference isnt much, I guess I value aesthetics than pure bf percentages tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:06 AM
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I used to be a huge mentalcel. Yes I got over it through years of mindfulness and some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:04 AM
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Oh damn bro I thought you were 40 I’m 31
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:19 AM
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That’s fine. I don’t compete and I never found it worthwhile to be lesser body fat percentage than this pic as I have a shirt on 99.9 percent of the time. All I end up feeling is cold and annoyed because I have to no eat good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:24 AM
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<image> Mostly powerlift
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:54 AM
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Idk we have a good bit of gym bros in the discord so I can’t imagine you aren’t anything that different from the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:38 AM
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When I went on a first date with my current fiancee she ordered a dish she didn’t think would be cheesy or at least really Cheesey. As a man who eats basically everything I simply swapped with her and she was like “my white knight” 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:01 PM
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I Voted you most popular on ppd!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:45 PM
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Most popular poster - Lift n lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:56 PM
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Yep you want an invite to waste even more of your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:28 PM
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Okay ladies what’s the popular Christmas gift wants this year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 PM
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I havnt a clue what to buy my fiancee for Christmas. Need to start thinking. But I did buy myself a new monitor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:54 PM
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And we are all fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:58 PM
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Fr guys I didn’t buy Apple stock for yall to not buy a new phone every year or two. Anyways I have an iPhone 13 still battery kind of sucks but a portable charger doing the trick to keep it another year. The new phones just don’t have any new features I’m that interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:18 PM
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Easy day of work today for shitposting and lounging
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:45 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:21 AM
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Tell him about a stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:03 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:14 PM
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Rock climbing is attractive to woman. Well the back gains you get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:00 AM
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7 year anniversary of when I quit hiding myself and actually try to get out of my incel/blackpill mindset. I’m happy where I ended up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:59 AM
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My gains 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:52 PM
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Someone said ppd irl and I was like huh but they meant the skin test for TB smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:28 PM
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Damn they made a new subreddit to be in even more blackpilled than r/short was. I’m a short dude myself and this is just pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:35 PM
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I over trained last week with running and lifting and I’m feeling it badly today at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:33 PM
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You know a woman can see other woman attracted to their man without him actually cheating right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:29 PM
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I have a half marathon to train for now in two months 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:45 AM
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Sakura is the representation of why a woman shouldn’t chase a dude. She got left basically a single mom. Naruto asked hinata out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:02 AM
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Who is on your favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:37 PM
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Sure but I see it can help a lot of them. I talk to various ones on discord and they were just like me. Did I say this would help everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:48 PM
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Sure I can’t really reference the number of gymcels I just know that having a hot body while he’s increased the compliments by a lot it didn’t necessarily lead to dates as I was just passively receiving them to scared to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:10 PM
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I was essentially a gymcel at the time. Still didn’t fix my mental woes. But I do think physical activity helps a lot and it helped me but it wasn’t the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:00 PM
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I get it bro I was once like you so I just hope things in your head change. It’s a hard mindset to get out of. It’s easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:55 PM
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Maybe a good spirit because at the time my mental health was shit but I guess mental health isn’t just one thing per say but multi faceted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:26 PM
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Yeah I was looking at my incel diaries from 7 years ago (I was never woman hating type just the low confidence and passive) and it relates to a lot of what I read of current ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:25 PM
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Still of the opinion that therapy and a strong will can save half the incels alone from inceldom. Along with some social skill improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:38 PM
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I was reminded that 7 years ago I was writing basically my mentalcel diaries on my thoughts on Google calendar and now I’m engaged so that’s neat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:37 AM
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So what about when a redpiller brags about all their dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:35 AM
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It’s my monkey and neurotic brain trying to self sabotage and I practice mindfulness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:33 PM
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Then a shot of it to loosen the nerves and let yourself come out and release some inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:30 PM
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No but it certainly gets yall talking when during the interview she was in that always asks about sex if she had any sexual encounters the past 30 days and she said zero because when she has a high work load she has a low libido essentially and then said it might be picking up because she had a orgasm in her sleep. It wasn’t her trying to be woke acting like she the Virgin Mary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:41 AM
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Why aren’t you banned I saw you had an alt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:32 AM
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Someone: do you think so and so is attractive? Comments: mostly no’s and a few yes’s Someone: no one likes so and so quality smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:53 PM
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Notes app, emailing myself, 80 percent of time just remember it in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:27 PM
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Surprisingly my pee does not smell at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:36 PM
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Couldn’t sleep last night 🥹 but at least I had a good meal made by my fiancée 😘 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:23 PM
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He definitely on something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:14 AM
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Hmmmm I’ve been downvoted a lot from blackpilled people as well so for some takes definitely not just bluepilled people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:26 AM
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Who wants an invite to a purple pill discord server(not the official one) for some real time debates and shitflinging
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:38 PM
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I remember for a bit I was getting Trans dating app on TikTok for like a month. This was just like 2-3 months ago. I’ve been in a relationship for years and am straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:20 PM
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Isn’t that what marriedredpill trying to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:19 PM
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I met faze censor at an airport once when he was popular, a little after he broke up with Yanet Garcia
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:47 PM
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My girl been biting my lips recently and now I got canker sores 😰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:29 PM
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It’s teenage stuff that was on Netflix around 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:15 PM
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They say that you regress when you go back to your parents for a bit. I defintely felt that when I was with them for two weeks. Felt the neuroticism coming back in me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:30 PM
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It’s for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:24 PM
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Sometimes I’m reminded that the subreddit is more dumb than the discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:01 AM
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It’s teaching you the skill of cardio and using your muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:16 AM
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And where is that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:26 PM
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Take advice from guys who were in similar position to you before. Problem is the guy who is currently suffering at the moment is going to see something the guy who fixed himself currently has instead of how they were and then go… “well yeah you have…. And I don’t” or they don’t match 100% same problem and same thing goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:05 PM
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Back to normal life again with vacation being over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:25 PM
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But if I go out i might feel a bit uncomfortable unlike my computer chair and vidya games 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:59 AM
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Okay day finally arrived! I gf has evolved to fiancée
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:25 AM
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Finally got some alone time with the gf. Much needed 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:19 PM
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Ehhh plenty of people use steroids with normal looking muscular apperances. It’s like saying to someone who was really flat what got 32 B boob job that ewww I don’t like boob jobs because you think of some big ass boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:58 PM
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Probably more like using steroids for gains
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:02 AM
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No it’s not typical. Do some end up with them sure. But most single childless people date other single childless people. US TFR is supported by immmiganrs. Someone had to date the childless people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:23 AM
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Asking my gf family for their blessing for engagement wasn’t as bad I thought. I am so lucky my gf has a cousin who frequently visits who speaks decent English to help translate. And then I translate it to my family in Spanish. So then plan is set with them for next week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:22 AM
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Okay proposal trip starts in a few hours. Should I drink like a shot before the big moment to ease the nerves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:19 PM
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It’s cultural just like engagement rings are. I get its usefulness for people who are young tho (under 20).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:34 PM
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Yeah this is basically like going up to sally, asking her out then she says not and then you go right up to heather a few mins later and now asking her out. And you just told woman you do that. You’re basically going down a line. I can see that not going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:03 PM
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I think we need to know what he means by special. I think that’s the problem with his logic. What does “special” mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:31 PM
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Well on a first date from my experience there is sometimes talk about dating app experience and I have personally never met backlash. Dating app wise first dates it’s more about seeing if they’re something special instead of beforehand on the app when yall have never met. But I’m curious what the threshold for “special” is because I can sort of agree if we are talking a shotgun approach to asking woman out without even knowing anything about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:26 PM
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But wouldn’t dating apps counter that. Seeing that your talking to multiple woman and presumably asking them out. In more traditional societies what you are saying may be more the case but in a western society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:17 PM
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So basically if I asked a girl out at 16-17 and got turned down I should never ask one out again? Even if I down the line grow into a chad of sorts and have woman make themselves open to me hitting on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:13 PM
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One woman told you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:11 PM
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Who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:04 PM
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Okay so this is good? I’m so confused as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:01 PM
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Finally!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:45 PM
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Even if most 50 year old men find woman the age 25 the most physically attractive that doesn’t mean they are typically dating them. There’s more to dating than just physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:39 AM
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Text them when you with them if their phone is out and see how you come up on their phone is a big hint. Just like send a pic for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:30 AM
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And in that case for most men dating younger is more than likely a decade younger not half your age younger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:20 AM
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In a way yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah but it’s not exactly own multiple estates in different countries type money if we are talking about 10-20m range. It’s borderline drop everything to take luxury vacations and still not at personal life assistant managing your social life type level. It definitely luxury life to us but the more rich you get or live the more you are connected with people who are even another tier that make you feel beneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:43 PM
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I saw that if I had to guess she comes from a wealthy family as in multimillionaires, but the billionaire guy is another tier or two above that even.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:25 PM
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That’s been my experience as well. But you are correct it could be a survivorship bias going on. But I highly doubt it’s as low as 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:43 PM
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A lot(60-70 percent) of incels are in terms of looks salvagable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah it’s why it’s in quotes. These dudes refer to themselves as “nice guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:50 PM
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Yeah I’m fucked idk where my parents who speak broken English and don’t speak the local language are going to do besides stick with me and my girl 😭. I guess I can cosplay incel here on daily discussion for two wreks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:14 AM
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Mr lift when you were my age what did you do with Mrs lift that you can advise me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:40 AM
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Well i assume both our conservative parents aren’t going to want us sleeping in the same bed together. Nor are we going to attempt it with them a room away with possibly thin walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:40 AM
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Never been on vacation for a long time with both my gf, and our both parents…. I’m assuming this means no vacation sex. I guess I’ll join yall incels for two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:20 AM
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I do agree most people with a lot of sex partners aren’t chad…. They are typically low standards to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:49 PM
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lol I agree. It will be some niche as topic and the article will be like “online users freaking out over….” And they find 3 tweets in some minor niche subgroup of some subject matter 99 percent of people don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:27 PM
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Ppder talking to woman irl? Get out with this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:01 PM
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As a short dude I preferred to date an average height woman to slowly bring my lineage of sons to slowly inch their way to tall or at least average height. The plan is working so far….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:12 AM
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Nothing more funny than on the passportbro subreddit critiquing western woman for viewing traveling as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:31 PM
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Well at least all the comments are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:10 PM
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Movie that came out almost 30 years ago. 1.5 gens ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:50 PM
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So basically like Leo in titanic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:30 PM
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As someone who recently got his girls ring picked up. Most couple look at rings together. Honestly if you want your man to get it right make it known you want to go with him to look at it. I’m glad I just told my gf straight up we will make a date out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:20 PM
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Because the dollar is actually decreasing in value. It’s not the market going up it’s the dollar going down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:18 PM
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I’m Kopdjernigan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:16 AM
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Invite?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:07 AM
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Did what in two houes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:41 PM
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They tmessaged me that they were trying to dox me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:29 PM
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The wall barely exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:13 AM
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Twice a week is pretty normal if both partners are pretty busy during the week after years in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:30 PM
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Invite her out for a treat first or a drink to ease the anxiety. Not saying get her drunk but some just a little social warm up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:27 PM
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That sounds even worse tbh. It’s just going to make my water bitter…. What’s wrong with water just being water 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:02 PM
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What is it about adding fruit to water jugs to make that makes it look fancier but at the same time makes it taste worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:04 PM
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Don’t let his gf stop you from dating your future husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:12 AM
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Hope for that 1 perfent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:45 AM
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Cope makes us do some desperate things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:07 PM
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Nothing stopping you from using concealer or skincare products dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:15 PM
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Yeah I choose neither. Both just going to make me insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:14 PM
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People bought these? Shit for the longest time my avatar was an Indian man because I didn’t know how to change it nor get the dot off my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:28 PM
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What a good point you make I hope to see further points in future discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:59 PM
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Even sarada was calling her a cuck when she though Karin was her real mom 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:42 PM
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Not anymore than what she already wears tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:19 PM
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I’ve been in both and read similar stuff but yeah shortguys has more bulk of this type of convo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:57 AM
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This sounds like /r/short
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:51 AM
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2.5 years now. Around the same time Taylor and Kelce were a couple 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:02 AM
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Picked up my the engagement ring this past weekend while my girl was asleep. Was sneaky. Hid it well in my computer tower. Came with earrings I’m going to give her at the start of Oct as a hint… but she probably won’t realize the earrings are a hint 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:21 AM
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Damn bro went 5/5 on breaking rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:13 AM
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I think the last part is what usually is common with men who are told “no one told me this growing up”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:32 PM
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That was me!!! But to be fair I was never in ppd when I did this and blackpill wasn’t big in the late 2010s, was mostly forever alone stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:20 PM
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Yeah I never heard holiday dick besides spaces like this. I do hear vacation hook up or fling but that’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:27 PM
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Yeah same. I’m not going to seek out to be in the middle of the drama but don’t drag me in as some witness to defend you knowing I know all the shit you did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:25 PM
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It’s why I’m with another healthcare worker. Easier to relate and we can talk about all the gross shit we want with little disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:24 PM
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I have access to him but he doesn’t know who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:26 AM
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Dude I don’t know these people, they brought their drama to another side server. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:19 PM
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Yeah Apperently a dude is going crazy because he got e rejected by a girl and scared all the e-men of ppd will find out. Except that we all found out because he brought attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:01 PM
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I wonder what he is thinking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:37 PM
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Bad day today eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:32 PM
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No no no, those guys go to magic the gathering night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:46 PM
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There are plenty of men who have sex who don’t contribute to society at all already. Maybe a minority of those people have a change for the better but I would guess that most stay as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah, I was visiting their Spanish section out of curiosity and they were making it seem like being mestizo was over. This was a dude who looked like a young Mario Lopez 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:08 PM
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Man I visited looksmax.org and it’s very sad how half the pasts are like 14-16 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:58 PM
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Just vti and chill dude. I think r/valueinvesting has decent advice for single stocks tho. But you still have to be weary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:25 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:12 PM
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Gbf to lower guard seems like a style that can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:08 PM
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Ehh can’t comment if this is a creative writer type poster it very well might be but that type of guy describes one of my closest friends and like 80 percent how I operate as well and we both had success with woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:47 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/emotionalintelligence/s/q2jlKwVhOu What do yall think, I can already predict some cope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:27 PM
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Just found a subreddit similar to this one lol. Psycheorsike pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:56 AM
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Idc if it’s shaved. I do expect it to be trimmed neat. A maintained bush is okay. A jungle I’m not into
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:52 PM
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I think the social anxiety is a big reason but also signs of autism also makes you act a bit off than someone NT that can make people feel a bit uneasy which does not help. Trying to flirt with woman and escalating requires adjusting and fine tuning how you talk snd portray signs of attraction by reading her movements, body language, tone, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah it’s something I notice with a lot of the blackpillers and incels in here. And it makes it doubly so when I find out they are average looking. But I get it I take things serious and rigid sometimes. It’s fine when it comes to competitive games or working but not for everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:29 PM
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Not OP but I used to terrible with woman even when my looks were fine. Get out of my own head by overthinking stupid scenarios that aren’t happening due to anxiety. Be okay that I might make a woman uncomfortable if I escalate. Obviously give them outs and realize when it’s happening. But be okay that it may happen. Don’t get hung up one girl, move on to the next girl or next thing whatever if it doesn’t work out or I get rejected. So move quick and if it doesn’t work no sweat. None of this crus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:10 PM
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Yes I agree. Don’t wait to ask for number, date, whatever. You can only lose interest. If they are semi interested and you ask them out they have to make the choice. Usually someone who thinks it’s too fast wants to talk over FaceTime or phone. And that’s fine that’s still escalating and it’s basically just a comfort test at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:04 AM
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Do it again your so close to striking rich
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:59 PM
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I agree with your wise take. Dating within your socioeconomic class means that it’s not all about your money. And similar age helps that too. I think AFBB is mostly bs but being a rich dude dating mostly broke woman is a guarantee fornit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:19 PM
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Just say that it’s because you look like my ex wife. She was so pretty and work it from there. Hopefully a year later I’m not bawling my eyes out from the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:14 PM
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This is the same guy who complaining about not enough woman at Oktoberfest of all places lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:48 PM
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This is marriage right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:06 PM
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Because it’s a crab bucket mentality. It feels better when you got other people you can relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:42 PM
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Yeah it will really help your internal game. Sure you can be a looker of a dude but if you can not stop shaking due to anxiety when you are talking to an attractive woman all she will do is lose are attraction at that point. Sure it may not help initial attraction but it will definitely help it from not just going straight to zero asap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:44 PM
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I disagree while it’s not necessarily needed in all cases a lot of average dudes could benefit on working from their anxieties and fear of rejection/intimacy/love. It’s not going to directly benefit but will give you a healthy mindset towards not worrying about a missed text, ghosting, toxic people you encounter and having a backbone for yourself. I talk from my experience of how I was and I do notice that a lot of the men in here suffer a lot from anxieties along with a need to improve themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:28 PM
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At this point just wear air maxes, no one even glances that they give you a nice boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:23 PM
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Make it subtle and no one even going to realize the concealer tbh. I’ve done a bit of touch up concealer to cover up a bad blemish and if I didn’t get the best sleep and have bags. It’s totally doable and not obvious. And nails tidy is definitely normal as far as keeping them short and clean unless you mean something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:18 PM
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Going to get a new set of suits when I go to Vietnam I’m excited!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:50 AM
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With this logic tho sure they both have equal moral standard…. To compared if I were to take two sober people, one with a drinking problem history and one just never drank before….. in your head would you off the bat predict would have a drinking problem in future out of the two? Sure you can say past history shouldn’t matter and people can change but it absolutely does matter to an extent especially in a first impression basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:06 PM
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Are you okay… just chill out man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah I agree lol if everything is equal and I mean everything most people would choose the person who hasn’t cheated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:43 PM
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Hmmm I got a good bit of money I have in a hys account that I may need in two years for a down payment on a house and I don’t want to put it in the market. CDs really less than 1 percent difference in interest than what I got rn smh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:26 AM
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girl probably thought she in the clear now after cleaning you when you shitted yourself. “If I go through these trials I will get to America land 😤” not realizing she just with a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:28 AM
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Lot of blackpillers commenting rn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:16 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen so many posts say that because his partner was trans that he can’t be conservative and this is some leftist trans plot. But from what I also read, groypers aren’t that far off from being exactly what that guy was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:02 PM
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Happy Monday! Let’s get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:01 PM
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Third!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:32 AM
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Class is a big variable for why some people believe the things they do here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:25 PM
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Never gotten past 25k steps. And those were days I was a tourist going out and about. Just want to kick my feet up and sleep agyer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:38 AM
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Well originally I was just talking about being a dude who date a decent amount, not fuckboy stuff but just being a nice and cute dude who goes on a couple first dates a year compared to 0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:13 AM
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Yeah I’m not sure if I would gamble wishing to be a fuckboy back then. What if I end up like with a kid at 22. And marrying just some random I wanted to only be casual with but had to step up for the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:44 PM
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I always wonder if I didn’t have the anxiety and shame that was holding me back in my early 20s from dating and socializing how my life would be different today now 10 years later. Now I have a great paying job and moved across the country. Would I have gotten someone accidentally pregnant, gotten married, addiction to drug or alcohol? Life is great now but I wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:15 PM
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I got nothing to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:10 PM
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It was summer got to be clean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:28 PM
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<image> We been on that knowledge 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:18 PM
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I would reccomend you test it out by growing your hair out first and if it doesn’t suit what you are going for then shave it off. You can definitely pull some Viking max with longer hair And maybe you’ll like it, if not then transition to ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:27 PM
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Second!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:23 PM
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That woman like men in action. This is why I reccomend if you can to put a video of you doing something like the second guy a video of him playing the guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:53 PM
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The line of thinking would be “man to provide for her” no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:00 PM
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Dad owns a trucking business that he is slowly selling off as both kids (me and my sister) are independent and have been. My mom used to be a private housemaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:58 PM
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But that level of thinking at least for your exact example isn’t that great because even as a man having feminine eyes could benefit you with some woman who think you have beautiful eyees
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:42 PM
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Most woman’s height requirement is a few inches taller than themselves. You can go blah blah they prefer taller…. But that’s a preference not a dealbreaker. And being shorter 5’5” reduces your options sure but it doesn’t outright delete all of them. I’m 5’6” myself with plenty of short friends. And idk how it works in Europe but in the US it’s not a game ender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:42 PM
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Those subreddits are pathetic tbh, it’s very insecure men blaming all their problems on something they can’t change. When most of the problems come from their mentality towards their height. (At the very least the 5’5” to 5’8” crowd)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:39 AM
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This sounds written by a man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:37 AM
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Anyways being an asshole doesn’t = attractive bad boy. There is a lot more to being a “bad boy” than your average incel can manage to fake over a short time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:58 PM
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Just put on a leather jacket it and you in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:52 PM
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Some people don’t want all that tbh they just want to go about their day and pay the bills and go home and enjoy life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:29 PM
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New balance fresh foams. I’ve learned to embrace the dad shoes. I’m in my 30s either ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:37 AM
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When I was 8 I saw a tlc show of the ER and they discovered a 16 year old girl was pregnant and the mother of the 16 year was pissed off… I was thinking in my head “why she mad these things just happen”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:59 PM
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Seeking therapy isn’t any much different than seeking a personal trainer. Except one is for getting into shape or staying and the other is for having a healthier mind or maintaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:26 PM
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Yeah woman are excellent for giving advice on how to maintain a relationship or wooing a girl who is already into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:14 PM
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Typically no, I’ve been more surprised when I get overconfident because I thought I sealed the deal and then nope… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:33 PM
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Someone on the discord has talked about this saying that it’s frame what actually matters. So bigger frame is more attractive but still reaches a point where you too much is not attractive. Being tall is one way to hit the bigger frame mark, another one is having broader shoulders, wider/boxier chest, etc. I can’t exactly spell it out for you like the other user discussed but it made sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:16 PM
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Oh yes totally believable story and definitely how women talked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:04 PM
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“We on the same step now, you might have took a step forward but now you back on my step.” “If you want to go up a step I’m down for dinner tho 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:56 AM
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It’s definitely going to be more costly imo especially in 10 years where at best will be initial starts for commercial use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:31 PM
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Man this probably won’t be fully ready nor that affordable for top 5 percent by the time I’m out of normal parenthood age with a small child (15 years). Guess younger gen z will be able to start to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:46 PM
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Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Diversifying decreases the risk of the “gamble”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:07 PM
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Well I’ll just agreee to disagree. I’m also a short dude who doesn’t care that woman have height preferences. I prefer woman a few inches shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:50 PM
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I’ve gone out enough I’m 31 now in a LTR, I have to meet a friend from my home state later today and that will be good enough for my weekend socialization 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:34 PM
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Yeah that’s fine I don’t scoff at it nor am I shaming anyone else for dating them. I would be fine with a 4’11” girl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:59 PM
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I mean I don’t really shout it out I have height a cutoff nor do I really have much of a chance to really think about it as most woman are around my height or a bit shorter. This was just the one time I really thought about it. Well other than when I asked out a girl 3 inches taller than me in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:58 PM
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I’ve defintely not gone after a woman because she was way too short for my hypothetical future son. I’m 5’6” and she was 4’9”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:00 PM
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Okay what happened. Please give context for the class
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 AM
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Then you don’t know what you want? What are you in there for? For the vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:07 AM
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That’s fair that’s similar to me too, my main account is not associated with this place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:11 PM
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Second today I fuess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:28 PM
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No I never seen anything close to what you are describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:33 PM
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So lifting is good for men, who would have thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:57 PM
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It’s chatGPT. I started by asking it “In purplepilldebate, there are multiple pills including red, blue, purple, pink, FDS, RPW, and a few others. Are you able to tell me where I align in this space by asking me questions about my stance?” And then keep asking it to ask me questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:27 PM
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Well I guess I get to be first today!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:21 PM
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An I the proposal guy!! It’s coming up I promise!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:34 PM
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2.5 years almost and have lived together 1.33 years and I’m 30 and she is 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:57 AM
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I think they mean act surprised. I guess it wouldn’t be that much different than someone dating interracially and someone commenting negatively on that such as dilating the race or some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:29 AM
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I’m kind of curious myself what’s going to be debated. I’m not sure where my stance is so I’m here to learn. I do believe many people infantilize grown woman as if they can’t make their own decisions. And like OP says it’s not college aged ones at times which I guess I can at least see as they are fresh adults but they do it to older 20 year old woman as well. But it’s mostly on the internet. But a 29 year old irl who is dating a 40 year old will sometimes get a double glance. Edit: According to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:18 AM
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Now that I mostly got the ring out of the way I need to coordinate the proposal plan in a different language with her family. Thankful for Duolingo for teaching me a bit of viet and Gemini for translate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:41 AM
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Brother I taught myself at 17 calm down. You can teach yourself it’s not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:19 PM
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Yeah we are back to where we were at on August 21st. I think because September is historically a bad month for the market some people are selling a bit. 1 percent drop in a day isn’t anything unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:21 PM
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Stock market downturn? We are less than 2 percent from all time highs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:33 PM
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So he was an incel? Where did he say that? I guess I could see that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:04 PM
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Just talked to ChatGPT and it can confirm I’m very solidly purple pilled <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:18 AM
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Condom broke, sex was shitty, cried after I dropped her off because I thought my life was over because I was going to be a teen dad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:24 AM
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Yosemite was great!! Hiked Mist trail, picnicked by El Capitan, and saw giant sequoias! Short vacation but now I want to visit Mt Zion! The gf also got a lot of good pics 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:23 AM
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Almost 3 day weekend, come on!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:57 PM
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Maybe it’s time to jobmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:55 PM
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My girlfriend my partner my future wife my dream girl, my forever boo….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:48 PM
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He status maxed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:43 PM
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Going to national park with my baby girl this weekend! Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:35 PM
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Looks like girls when they want their breast sucked on tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:49 PM
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We need to get him to learn what benching is to make it look firmer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:34 PM
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I am waiting for him to link me that believing looks, game and status alone makes you red pill. I’m waiting to be corrected with links.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:45 AM
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Well when I was around 12 all the girls were fawning over Jacob and Edward who have nice jawlines. So while I may not have been aware of the exact dimensions of the jawline mattering I did know a nice jaw is attractive to woman. Shit I did know for sure a nice jawline vs chin rolls was attractive or even a smaller jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:43 AM
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Did you not have eyes in middle and high school? I’m nearly 31 and it’s obvious being tall, nice face, nice hair, muscularity was good for attracting woman. One of the biggest reasons teen boys back then and today lift is for attracting woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:20 AM
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It could be a good thing in which the interview was just a formality and your resume won you the job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:39 PM
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Okay I’m willing to change my information that I may be misinformed about. Please link me the source of your more correct information in which only believing that looks, game and status is enough to be considered red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:37 PM
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Where did you get that those are the 3 pillars of red pill and only believing that makes you red pill? Can you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:28 PM
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Wait I like lemon squares but I’m straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:01 PM
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Believing that looks, game and status matter is red pill sure but there is way more to it than that and many people who don’t subscribe to red pill also a knowledge that beautiful people, charismatic people, and popular people do better when it comes to dating. And while my innate personality might not have changed much my timidness and neuroticism are mostly gone along with other negative traits compared to what I was around 19-24. Idk I guess, even if I was red pill I don’t think I would label…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:54 PM
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Yes I’m purple pill. While I don’t fully agree with the beta alpha talk of red pill nor do I fully agree with redpill It’s typically the easiest way to communicate what I mean without spelling every behavior that’s typically under the beta threshold. Red pill has a lot of faults once you get past the dynamics between the sexes (I still don’t fully agree with those as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:10 PM
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I mean similar happened to me except I was average looking went to good looking but still betaish behavior and then finally fixed my behavior and all the pieces aligned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:00 PM
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Well of course the dude is going to be good looking, where in my post did I say I was going to date an ugly man. I’m not expecting chad mcChad but a nice face and a fit body is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:26 PM
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Yep, especially men who are in my same tax bracket. So I’m a nurse as a man if I were as a nurse as a woman I would be dating engineers or other medical professionals. Defintely be going for nonfuckboys. People with stable relationships such as friends and family even if they havnt had a LTR before me. Maybe I would have had a bit of a casual phase like I did as a dude but it was short and not much and I didn’t find it fun. Even had a lot of woman slide in my DMs but just didn’t find it entertai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:10 PM
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As someone who has dabbled in the community a bit and traveled solo and came across a few of them. While the men are typically considered mid, I find the woman they end up with are above average looking at best. The ones ending up with the model looking girls were doing fine back home. They are defintely doing better with those woman than with woman on their level back in the US for numerous reasons ($$). And how would you suggest a law gets passed? Especially in a country with a lot of immigrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:51 PM
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Neoteny essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:39 PM
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Cute neotenous face that scream innocent always stole my attention. (I only date woman in my age range)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:24 PM
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I wouldn’t say reject but I’ve definitely self sabotaged myself in a situation looking back woman was into me thinking I wasn’t good enough. But I defintely would not have gone that route of “you are too good for me” type shit. This doesn’t seem to like my case tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:07 AM
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God please let this be me, one of my long term worries is a dead bedroom situation after kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:57 PM
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Yes I went out on a first date with a girl from hinge and she did all that. I literally thought she was not into me and was about to say no hard feelings text until she told me she got nervous and found me cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:59 PM
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Hmmm as a man I rarely saw that type of shit when I used dating apps, I did see the princess thing a few times but I wouldn’t say it was the standard thing a woman uses on her profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:56 PM
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Ahhh lol, this is why I stopped playing fantasy football, I would spend all my free time on football and assembling the best roster from the waiver wire because drafting is always some luck with injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:54 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:36 PM
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I’m glad someone else notices this too. Those type of woman typically have some mental issue. Ending up in one could be bad luck but multiple is a pattern. I don’t like to victim blame but this is where vetting comes in and those woman tend to be the worst vetters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:14 PM
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Isn’t that more because of his status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:09 AM
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I find it’s like 50 percent to 66%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:47 AM
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Oh great! Invite her to PPD she will fit in perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:48 PM
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What isn’t being shared is the threshold to be considered Chad is lower there because of limited Chad supply. True Chad only has so many hours to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:46 PM
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Yosemite, woke up this morning to wait in line for park permit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:43 PM
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Well has her dating history proved at least herself correct. I totally disagree with her but just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:36 PM
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Just booked a last minute trip to a national park with my gf!!! Labor Day weekend going to be packed but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:34 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:24 AM
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Well sometimes it’s just a horrible combo, and that immutable characteristic on its own isn’t he biggest deal. -signed a shorty who talks to shortcels frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:42 AM
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Hit 12k steps here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:30 AM
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Type of girl who spawns at your work the last shift you are there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:31 AM
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Just out in here lurking for good comments to reply to but I guess back to lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:11 AM
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Who’s alt are you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:34 PM
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PPD IS real life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:33 PM
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You know I’ve never heard a lesbian complain on here either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:02 PM
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I like how the one dude they replying to in this that because he hides his post history he has to be a cuck or dead bedroom lol. Yeah that guy is lost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:00 PM
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I tried it a few months ago it just didn’t hit the same as Overwatch sadly. Played as captain America coming in as a Brigette main
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:46 PM
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I was a very anxious individual with a lot of shame and giving too much fucks about things that didn’t matter. Lots of deep seated insecurities or bad defense mechanisms I built up over the years. Really kept me from being vulnerable and made me numb to my emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:46 AM
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I got therapy for about a dozen sessions and it really me realize what I needed to work on through CBT. It’s more like a coach for your mind and thinking deeply enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:14 AM
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Was discussing this was friends on Saturday. One of them was saying a FAANG company I believe Google is buying a nuclear reactor plant or something to power their AI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:10 PM
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That’s good, setting expectations early.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:00 AM
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At the gym??? Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:59 PM
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I wouldn’t call it denial but definitely not thinking about it until the moment hits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:50 PM
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Could be a fear of intimacy or anxiety towards romance. I defintely had this going on in my early 20s. Took years to work through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:22 PM
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Looks like Shakira in a different universe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:24 PM
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They do usually settle because they to have social expectations from friends and family of having a partner. The ones who are still fucking around and not seeking a partner only want casual are rarer. But when top men get partnered easily and off the market it does seem like the casual ones are the only chads. Edit: by settle I mean end up in a LTR relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:25 PM
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And I’m sure some no brained incel will see stuff like that as proof…. See see world is out to get me!!!! Feminism!!!! Chad!!!! Stacy!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:15 PM
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Hate how full of fake news Facebook is. No travis hunter isn’t currently in a 40m divorce settlement whatever thingy majingy. Why do pages say this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:04 PM
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Yes they warned me about woman, especially ones who had potential for being bad for me in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:50 PM
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Compounding interest is wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:58 AM
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I love when Chad goes “it’s chading time” and the he chads all over our woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:42 AM
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Participating in communities with toxic personalities such as this one. But it draws me in…. Do I really need to spend my time arguing with incels….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:24 AM
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Because even then they have to try with those girls and court them… and that leads to possibly rejection….. but then in my head if I have to try with her that means she isn’t a femcel she can reject which means ausinswiisbewjzjs(sperg talking)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:36 PM
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Oh interesting, i guess big car culture heading over there as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:34 PM
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I think this just American culture in general with these big ass trucks for men and big ass suvs for woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:11 PM
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What does that have to do with what you said originally? Even teenage girls prefer you lead. But this is a case of some probably most girls want that for both what you just said and what you said in the main post. I wouldn’t really call teenage love as the truest love tbh tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:36 PM
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The bubble will just have a small leak and then continue to rise. But I’ve seen my net worth go up so much the last year so I’m stoked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:26 PM
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This is typically how people say when the problem begins 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:26 PM
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Second I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:21 PM
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It’s a mix, but tbh your face is average. So your height of being tall will make up for an average face, it’s the opposite of me, I have a good face but I’m short. It’s all pieces of the pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:02 AM
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I agree to be polarized by a huge population of people is scary. And you could be a reasonable person as well but you have one stance that differs from another person and all of a sudden they hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:58 PM
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You sound like someone who was banned before, let me get some cops here real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:56 PM
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Yeah it’s like rapping, 99 percent of it is shit with the top 1 percent making whatever money there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:51 PM
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Is she lying or she just isn’t aware of how it is to not be pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:12 PM
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You are right we should tell them to lifemax!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:51 PM
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Havnt used twitter in years but got a 106
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:45 PM
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What’s quiet confidence? Is that not being flashy? Well if you are only quiet it does appear you aren’t showing interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:41 PM
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What that guy is like the biggest stereotypical blue pill guy on this server lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:38 PM
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Yeah I’ve stated this before that the people who make it irl don’t typically stay on ppd while the the ones stuck stay here. And then the few guys here who have made it even with initial problem are just harassed off, with a few staying. Idk how to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:38 AM
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Is this part of the baby head size filter on adults thing going around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:37 PM
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Sometimes I do, sometimes I just set on a ledge and time it. At least when I solo travel, most pics someone else I was with took it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:44 PM
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When I was single and after I got over my mental problems I made it a goal to take pics when possible. Came in handy when I started using dating apps. Was like 1-2 good pics every other month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:56 PM
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Geomaxxing, there is a reason they typically go to “poorer” nations like Southeast Asia and South America or carribean. They can be too 1 percenters there being from America, and language barriers(yes even if the girl speaks a bit of English) doesn’t show their lack of social skills as well, the types of girls they are going to be dating aren’t the traditional girl types… can go on about this I’m not even against it if you go in with good intentions but the ones off the subreddit make it seem so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:33 PM
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There is a difference between approaching irl for a convo and making it work from that vs the chad who is like a plan who just sits there and gets his dick sucked that some blackpillers think happen. Your example defintely does happen and that’s where “Chad” benefits I won’t lie. But he still has to have the social sense to escalate and progress from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:33 PM
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Yeah idk who these guys are that just sit there and girls just crawl up to them ready to suck their dick. Even the the chadfishing type dudes think Chad will just walk over to a chicks house, she is just ready bent over only waiting for Chad dick. Like it seems so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:41 PM
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Oh you right I forgot that part! Hot, exciting, dependable and stable!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:24 PM
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Be the hot guy who is also stable and dependable (insert Chad emoji)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:16 PM
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As an “ethnic” no this does not have anything to do with the current discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:54 PM
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Well that’s a different game, I can’t spoil the current one 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:03 PM
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I found a game to play in daily discussion. I want to say what it is but it’ll ruin the game 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:54 PM
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I remember in 2016 when trump claimed that 3 million illegal votes where made by illegals immigrants. That shit was such bullshit and the guy who intiallt made the claim said the data would come any time now(it never did). Knowing illegals immigrants they would never do that in large numbers like that. But conservatives maga folks really bought that up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:16 PM
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Bro you got jizz on your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
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Got to be self aware if you got oneitis if so make a move or be fine seeing other girls and hopefully get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:52 AM
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Who says you can’t do both? But tbh I don’t think you should actually be going for the girls in your main circle, should be meeting friends of friends. But do both, don’t get oneitis either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:26 AM
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Sounds like she found another passport bro to fund her lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:16 AM
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You know it’s funny, when I read the “5’2”, Indian bald janitor” meme I always remember from my experience that custodian staff was like 80-90 percent Latino and some aound that height and most of those dudes were men with families. But the blackpillers don’t mention those dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:54 AM
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Basically the embodiment of: How I learned to stop worry and embrace the monkey dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:52 AM
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All it shows is girls paying attention to me, that sounds like a w to me. But seriously from the girls I saw who were on there, nothing much to worry about they looked not my type we will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:50 AM
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Sometimes these blackpillers need to look at some Latinos and their charisma/game. Not being afraid to put effort and embarrass themselves. But we come off as romantics 🔥😤🌹🕺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:28 AM
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It’s a part, but so is luck, game, looks, values… so much more to attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah different side of the same coin tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:19 PM
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lol it does appear that way, interesting enough he didn’t talk to any of the pick me types and girls who love male attention. I know plenty of those
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:18 PM
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A little over 2 years now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:42 PM
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Ring shopping went decent except that it was going to be sent quicker than I wanted which would decrease the window of 60 day warranty as the I’m proposing in Oct. so my girl hears me tell the rep can I delay buying the ring. So she knows the window is somewhere around sept, Oct or Nov now smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:28 PM
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That’s delusional, I’ve been in spaces like this since 2010 which is pre redpill and more PUA times. Being attractive physically as a man was still important. It was rare to find a claim that woman didn’t care about looks. They’ve always have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:15 PM
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I’m even most lost
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:32 AM
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Male scooters?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:47 AM
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I’ve also seen plenty of average looking men think they are below average as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:34 AM
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If you see rule breaking report it, I’ve seen my fair share of black pilled woe is me type posts in daily discussion that flies by all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:32 AM
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It defintely is a big factor in terms of approachability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:52 PM
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So you wanted to find someone faith oriented or get your dick wet? I mean you can defintely find both with some girls but the way you were describing it earlier in other comments you are asexual? Idk your story seems off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:57 AM
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Too formal for a first date especially for a coffee date, nothing wrong with look decent but it probably looked like an interview from outside look in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:58 PM
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Don’t think those were homely ltr woman. Those type of woman just probably see through your bullshit and you aren’t attractive enough for the ones wanting short term shit. Tough luck dide
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:52 PM
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As a guy who grew up religious you do realize that the woman of faith tend to have higher standards such as being fear abiding godly man right and not for short term fun but ltr? Given your age it seems like you tried it for a bit and when the results weren’t immediate you tried the opposite, which I won’t lie will work with girls who are thinking more short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:56 PM
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Takes like two hours on YouTube max tbh. Lighting, angles, setting, and then playing around with editing feature after taking 100 photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:04 PM
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That isn’t empathy causing the problem that’s a lack of backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:46 PM
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This is why I roll my eyes when dudes come up with a reason why an unremarkable dude gets a with a baddie who appears above his league use the “he must have a big dick.” Like sure maybe but he had to do something else beforehand to even get to the point of her seeing his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:24 PM
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Good men who are single and attracted to you are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:59 PM
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And not every good man is going to attracted to you as a specific woman nor may you be attracted back to some of those good men. Good men don’t stay on the market long. That’s what dating is about is finding that specific man and seeing if yall like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:33 PM
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Puppies are too energetic and want to play while cat wants to chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:38 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:39 AM
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I put in around 30k text lines of dialogue well from the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:48 AM
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After uploading a bunch of ppd material to Gemini to analyze I broke it. Even ai can’t take this brainrot without malfunctioning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:11 AM
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Since when does masculinity mean lack of fear and anxiety? Isn’t the trait more of not displaying fear and anxiety that makes it masculine? And if you are touch with your anxiety and fear you are able to control your response. Do not see how this correlates with empathy as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:07 PM
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Yeah I saw plenty of “not good looking” dudes on there. Surely it can’t be Chad that is messing with some of the more “not good looking woman” on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:21 PM
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Running, hiking, calisthenics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:35 PM
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I think being boring is more about how you present yourself vs what you actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:34 PM
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You want a mute girl who never reacts to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:26 PM
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Is this still used? I remember it was cool when I was a college freshman in 2014 then it died
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:52 AM
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Might not matter if she still feels like as a woman she is only wanted for her vagina and not for who she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:20 AM
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It’s defintely not in the 20s or 30s at the very least. There’s always people breaking up, getting divorced or partners dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 AM
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What but chaderfish only had to swim by 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:38 PM
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To manage issues he faces, sometimes talking about the root of the problem and how to manage issues that arise from it and healthy coping mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:46 PM
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1-2 of these types of questions usually on the licensure exam
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:31 PM
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The guy needs therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:29 PM
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This reminds of this lol https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t70asNBsZXo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:55 PM
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It’s for fun, just to confirm how people come across. It’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:24 PM
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What you do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:05 PM
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I’ve been using AI (ChatGPT and Gemini) to analyze people’s personality based on chats on discord. And it seems decently accurate. There are some faults with it but you do get the general gist of a person and how they are perceived by others. It’s best when I copy and paste chat dialogues that the target user is heavily involved in rather than just copying and pasting their chat history that is just them alone. The added context is good of course. Anyone have recommendations for a different AI t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:52 PM
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Reading peole? What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:44 PM
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Yeah what’s happening is that you are now way more stable with what you have and know that makes you more confident and less anxious and willing to make moves and be more direct which in turn is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:15 PM
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So I caved, I asked the gf to look at my designs for the ring she wants me to engage her with. If I’m going to spend thousands on this I want to make sure it’s to her exact liking. I had some ideas and concepts but it may be pictured in my head differently than her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
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You can do that during your convo and gauge response to it to ask her out. Granted I used to be more scaredy cat when I was younger about it but at this point at my age I’m more direct with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:39 PM
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Tbh if your first interaction with a woman is going over 5-10 mins with smiles and good body language it’s probably a good idea. I was more under the impression in the planting your seeds approach were the first interaction may be short and maybe a 3rd interaction is longer. But yeah if you are having a good 5-10 min convo doesn’t hurt to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:35 PM
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Yeah obviously you should try and see signs. But as many men know depending on the woman the signs can be different so it’s best to just be direct and make it as for to know that rejection will not make things awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:42 PM
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The option op suggested is called planting seeds and it works but there is a point that you have to escalate and it may be sooner then a lot of men expect. Here is another thing if you let a woman be passive all she wants she will passive herself out of interest. Sometimes it might be worthwhile to see if she is interested or to start thinking if she is interested in you(start seeing you that way or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:25 PM
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It sounds like you cousin doesn’t give a fuck at all about. I don’t see what the discussion/debate is about. He generally doesn’t even seem interested in these topics is all I got to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:13 AM
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Because a relationship requires work and a good bit of effort at the start to let blossom. You can’t just sit back and relax and expect a relationship to fall in your hands especially as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:17 PM
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Yeah dating in your mid 20s is more about potential in terms of resources rather than what do you currently have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:45 PM
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You know I’ve thought of this before, and in my head they are both usually obese and low class, like rednecks imo. So I’m not picturing Chad, I’m picturing like a duck dynasty type dude but poor and kombucha reaction meme girl. I could be wrong just what’s in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:32 PM
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Incels will join this then get turned into steers while Chad gets to be a breeding bull 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:45 AM
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Yeah this post reads really strange to me, I don’t see the point op is trying to make. Especially with the title I thought it was different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:22 AM
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All woman love hello kitty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:49 PM
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You don’t just go straight into back shots, there is warming up, foreplay, positions before back shots, and then after care of course. That can be about an hour if time is taken carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:07 PM
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Was it the Detroit deep dish? I love that one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:59 AM
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Mid iq and mid eq better than low of one and high of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:31 PM
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Never stated he was the problem alone. If he made the girls crazy sure he is the problem, if he constantly had crazy exes even if they were crazy to begin with then he is problem seeking. While first is worse they both are still not good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:10 PM
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Either ways if he isn’t the reason they are crazy he still going after crazy girls. He is the denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:40 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen plenty of college athletes go from 8/10 to 4-5/10 and looking ten years older in 2-3 three years simply from gaining 30-40lbs of fat and losing muscle. Their once sharp face is now looking like a midage chubby dad face. While I’m more in the line that being fit is an amplifier there are gains to be made by being fit. Clothing fits you better is one for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:20 PM
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One crazy ex okay fine I’ll give you benefit of doubt, two-three and I’m sus, four and nah bro you the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:05 PM
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In the US it’s always been like playing ball or ping pong at least since 90s or so. A man would initiate and if the woman is interested she would play ball. So then you have an exchange of man and woman hitting the ball back and forth(flirting,texting, etc) while the man escalates typically. She gives signs that it’s okay to move to the next step. There is rarely a woman who just sits and does nothing. All of this is subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:57 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:50 AM
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Who in particular do you think are larping?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:50 AM
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Hmmmm weird in the pics were personally I think I’m more attractive I come out 6.8-7 but the one pic were I consider myself chubbier and less shape features it gave me a 7.8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:19 AM
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I posted there years ago and damn it got worse. It use to be a meme where only woman would get rated, but it’s even worse now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:29 AM
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It’s called love in the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:33 AM
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Time for some nursemaxxing, let’s just say as a male nurse there’s plenty to learn from the woman I work with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:01 PM
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Well I think soft launch is more of a way to show others your “taken” and more to deter others from attempting to ask you out or something. Now you want to make it known you’re currently taken but…. you don’t want to look stupid if you hard launch and then the relationship doesn’t work out shortly after. At least with the soft launch outside of immediate friend group they don’t know who the guy was. It’s just basically trying to save more embarrassment. Damage control measures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:48 PM
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What my funkopop collectibles are not part of falling into consumerism 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:17 PM
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Yeah same it would be like 2 or 3 kids at most. Same as now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:16 PM
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Yep it was a decent sized deal when those subreddits got banned and many redditors were scared of those people just going to other subreddits. Thats why the mods are semi strict about too much incel or blackpill blabber here to not suffer the same fate, but you can’t catch it all. I’m sure there are more factors but those are the ones that came to mind. I’m sure Covid will play a big factor into many divides we have had lately like politics, wealth, our current topic and so on. Now to say it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:53 PM
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Right now my net worth is pretty high for my age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:48 PM
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Multiple factors imo I think it has to do with incel spaces on reddit being banned compared to back then. So those men spread elsewhere onto other subreddit. I’m sure there are plenty of betas from back then who aren’t beta anymore and I would count me as one of them. But they are less likely to stick around spaces like this vs a beta who turned omega or an always omega but now doesn’t have his incel subreddits anymore and is in this subreddit. Incel and blackpill are also more known terms too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:42 PM
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Yeah as a 30 year old man this has been the experience of me and people I know. Very few people were that serious about their relationships in their teens and around 20 compared to be an adult with a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:20 PM
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Trying to go back to my old hairstyle from right before I met my gf. Damn lot more effort to maintain the hair. But it makes me looker my age instead of 23
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:25 PM
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Trying to connect the dots in this way of thinking and I just cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:24 PM
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<image> At least once a week I read something on ppd related mediums that make me think this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:36 AM
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Damn bro, talk about a subtle reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:31 PM
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I do agree from my time infiltrating the passport bro spaces there is a lot of cope I do agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:05 PM
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I’m not sure you will have to ask the wise passportbros I am for nearly a low life because I love American woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:49 PM
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According to the wise passportbros yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:22 PM
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In the phillipines where woman approach men and jack them off when they act like Chad the Plant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:50 PM
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Assume doggy position
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:25 PM
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Sometimes AI can describe what I’m feeling better than I can and with correct grammar 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:18 AM
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Man I lost my 3 paragraph essay on bad boys as it wasn’t posting. That shit was going to do numbers with 4 upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:53 PM
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Okay so it wasn’t just me where reddit wasn’t working
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:48 PM
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Some animations were just not made to be live adaptions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:18 PM
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OLD is very much like interviewing for jobs in a way from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:16 PM
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Gf and I talked about alternative plans for wedding seeing as we are going to have to compromise for both our parents to be there. I need to get started on buying that ring I’ve seen a few I like so far
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:29 PM
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Depends on the online space she frequents. I say the same thing for men. A lot of social media including reddit, TikTok, insta, fb, etc is so curated these days that you have an interest in a space like this and then all of a sudden your seeing the worst opinions from other people. Your average man or woman isn’t coming on here and spewing their hate towards the opposite sex. But it does make you more aware that there are bad people in the world and to be wary but I think it just causes neurotic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:26 PM
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You really need those notifications but it’s mostly spam
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:18 PM
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He also said he was going to do something ban worthy in the comments towards me at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:03 PM
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I’m not going to act like I don’t frequently comment on his stuff nor that I never tease. You can look through my commments I never degraded him. But commenting on someone who claims it’s his looks when I believe it’s more mental (something I went through before) have similar cultural backgrounds, and similar social circumstances. How could I not Anyways I can’t for sure say that the alt was his or not but I don’t give benefit of doubt when just a few hours earlier he was raging in my DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:01 PM
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Well for some reason he gave me his city as well before. But yeah “another account” did threaten to dox me and play with my life even if it was probably an empty threat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:52 PM
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It’s looking great and healthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:48 PM
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And he had threatened me before publicly in comments before and just did it again via DMs. Then a few hours later “another account” is threatening dox to ruin my life. Claims I always follow him around but I’m just in the daily discussion a lot of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:38 PM
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Yep learning that myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:07 AM
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But god forbid you suggest a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:47 AM
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I read online someone took 4 of those pills and shat all over his partner when he came
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:36 AM
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They spend money like the cash is always going to be flowing in until it doesn’t and it’s quite hard to go from a shit ton of calories to like 2/3 even if you are training they no longer have nor need the intensity they were going at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:28 AM
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I would say physical intimacy is part of romance myself. Also physical intimacy includes hand holding, hugging, cuddling, sex at least to me and I would feel lost people. Really makes you think about how we are really just intelligent animals when you are cuddling naked with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:13 PM
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Only the ones who have to actually carry your genes and suffer pregnancy consequences and all the problems along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:10 PM
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Yep and I prioritize different things in a friendship than a relationship. I can tolerate more indifferences in a friendship than a relationship. You are basically going to spend most of your time with your partner than a friend so it makes sense you have different things you want from them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:39 PM
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I am and my parents were catholic when I was a kid and I even was baptized as such but they converted to a cultish like religion of Christianity. Not willing to go too much into details after getting doxxing threats multiple times tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:20 PM
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I think not having sex the first date or two is fine but you should definitely be upront that you are interested. Woman need desire and if you aren’t giving it to them they will think you are not interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:08 PM
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It’s okay I’ve accepted it for years that my parents wouldn’t attend my wedding I just feel bad for my woman as she just found out we can’t get married in her parents country
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:44 PM
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Religious differences and my parents will not attend a catholic church nor step inside one. And her parents live in another country and due to some legality want to minimize risk of getting in trouble by having the wedding in her home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:38 PM
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Well yesterday was interesting two threats and there is a good possibility neither my nor my gf parents will be attending our future wedding. Shit sucks and my gf was in tears about it but we will have to move on and make the best of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:35 PM
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Here in daily discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:27 PM
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Probably another case of those who are just borderline incel just making the cut with something like drugs making them less inhibited. I blame internet culture more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:23 AM
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Yeah I don’t mind grabbing groceries or picking up my own food. I guess if time is very limited or I could move on my own it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:18 AM
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I think the internet has made a lot of men more neurotic and fine not being social. I think looks is less a problem especially with most people dating and hooking up with their looks match tiers So I’m sure the less neurotic men and standardcels may benefit and make the cut but your average neurotic and passive incel isn’t going to be considered There were incels back then too but it wasn’t internet community
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:49 AM
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Yep your coccyx
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:50 AM
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Hey man just trying to help. I was once in some their shoes with my mentalcel shit. But it’s easier to blame something else. Your mind is hard to battle against
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:36 AM
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We probably would be having more casual sex sure… but I highly doubt today’s incels would be in the group of high n count casual sex people. Maybe higher chance they aren’t virgins. Imo standard would be lower, maybe at best your standardcels would make the cut but a lot of inceldom is mental and neuroticism. You still have to make moves as a man back then. And another thing guys with n counts typically don’t care about n count as much, especially because they are having sex with woman who also …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:23 AM
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Do you think there is some sort of fearful attachment way of thinking you have? This sounds familiar to me when I was in my early to mid 20s. I had a fear of love and intimacy and any possible romantic talk just made my brain get an ick response to avoid it. As much as people hear shit on it, have you tried talking to a therapist about. I remember bawling about it in their office having that feeling and not wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:17 AM
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Why are you scared per say? And how old are you? I get it tho I used to have that fear as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:07 AM
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He threatened me it’s true what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:04 AM
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Me in preschool when the clock hit 4pm and my mom didn’t pick me up yet as scheduled 😢😭😢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:55 PM
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Yes and a bit other things, this was after asking me to “meet him where helm lives”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:44 PM
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Him calling me the f word and an asshole essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:41 PM
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Their reaction, you can go through my comments if I’m wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:36 PM
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I’ve never heard that in my life, is this like a ghetto person sayjng?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:50 PM
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I know who lift is, but who is cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:47 PM
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I just got that for the first time this month lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:46 PM
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No wonder the daily discussion is full of blackpillers, you try to be a bit helpful with some and encouraging a bit even if it’s a bit harsh and they threaten you in DMs for not agreeing with them that it’s truly over unless they like surgerymax. Edit: couple hours later a dox threat from “another account”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:18 PM
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Good if she already attracted bad if not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:52 PM
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He is bitter he didn’t get the chad experience. Thats a common incel/blackpill take. They think Chad is like a plant who puts in little effort to get with a lot of woman but it’s far from true for your typical “chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:38 PM
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🎯 He refuses to beleive. All his post have multiple people saying along similar things. At this point he better off just ppbing in phillipines if that’s what he truly wants is casual sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:23 PM
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Yeah I had a dozen therapy sessions, mindfulness, meditation and actively putting my intentions out there. On paper and word it seems easy but it took a lot of commitment and self reflection to make this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:10 PM
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I learned that stallions are kind of like incels, they get sexually frustrated easily especially if they see another stallion getting some with a mare nearby. Also mares need to be socially acclimated to a stallion before mating. You can’t just throw a stallion at one and expect the mare to be fine. She needs to be friends first. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:49 PM
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When I had trouble around 19-24 my problem was neuroticism and anxiety. Each step towards escalating was so trembling I rather just have left mid sentence than continue. And if that’s how individual interaction felt with a woman why bother trying. Well finally had enough of that at 24 and took after in my own hands. I was just way too passive, anxious and neurotic at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:59 AM
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I’ve always said that attraction is a whole pie that height, face, vibes, style, etc all contribute to it. I think you say you are balding so that might hurt you there but tall height, average face on its own as long as you have average vibes and are social enough means you either aren’t telling us the full story (bad socially, vibes etc) or you don’t recognize IOI which I get I used to be awful at recognizing them. Just from what I’m reading from you I am willing to bet it’s the second one. IOI…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:44 AM
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Yeah I’m aware, I wasn’t talking virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:35 AM
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Same and many people tell him this. It’s mostly in his head as much as he likes to argue it’s not. I’ve seen it before. Can’t really help these types of dudes who don’t want to help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:59 PM
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What did you think Edit: see below, OP downvoting towards any post saying “you are fine it’s not your face bro” Like I said these type of dudes rather just sit in their own tears and piss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:43 PM
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Maybe it’s just looks based matching working your favor. The unattractive girls realize it’s not going anywhere and go somewhere else. The attractive girls on your level are at your level and will got a bit more for you. The attractive girls above you never noticed you to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:42 PM
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I would say half of them men, but also half of the woman as well. But the degrees of variance are huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:43 PM
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Trad wife in the private tard wife at target/costco 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:14 PM
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Yeah there was already a lot of fishy things to make me thing it was a larp. But escorts frequently turning down money like that confirmed it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:11 AM
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Semi stereotypical SEC couple. I feel like they would be looksmatched if the dude lost 30-40 lbs. 4/10 looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:11 AM
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Where did someone say that about boys, let me at them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:09 AM
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<image> Tried snail for the first time but they minced it and died grounded beef, it was okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:00 PM
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Me when I talk to my girl in as normie a way as possible about ppd related topics during our aftercare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:00 PM
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I took years man, too many times I thought “oh rejection therapy would help” and I would have to power through it and 95 percent of the time I chickened out and when it was going good just wanted to leave the situation. So I went to actual therapy just to vent about what’s going on in my head, practiced mindfulness, meditation. Took about 2 years of that to really be myself. Mark mansons book “the subtle art of not giving a fuck” seemed to also help my way of thinking. I think another big factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:57 PM
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Idk what you mean by the single mom thing, but you are right if you take care of yourself the wall thing is very overblown. Granted I live in a major city but even if I were single in my 30s it’s like not a big deal for men or woman. Especially if you take care of yourself. Plenty of hot fit single woman in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:04 AM
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Almost time for the weekend! Going to Costco with my girl after work hopefully they got samples on Friday afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:27 PM
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Op as a frugal guy growing up who has saved up quite a bit of money now at 30. This is one of those some woman care some woman don’t. But tbh having a lambo, flash clothes, or newest shit isn’t going to bring you the type of girls you think. Especially if you come from a lower socioeconomic level. Woman and men will go broke and in debt to appear better than the people next to them. There are plenty of woman who see the fascade of someone but shit like that to impress chicks. If you want to driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:18 PM
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Yep dating got easier for me when i was direct
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:05 PM
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I think few are so suprised. I think with these guys they are made with the positive aspect of being a woman. But minimize the problems that woman face. Same thing goes the other way with a few woman but femcels and other of those types of woman seem to stay in their own communities with the stray coming here. It’s just excuse for for thee, real problems for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:23 PM
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Woman are more likely to get the friend or friends to take a lot of pictures just because than men are. And when woman take pics they take like a hundred per occasion and delete all the bad ones and leave only the good ones from my experience. Thats how I learned to take decent pics. But also from following photographer instagrams, its mostly woman booking with them. If its a man there usually its a couple not a solo man. But most of the dating app pics I see can defintely shot with an iPhone, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:01 AM
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Living like lift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:56 PM
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Don’t pretend, be upfront that you are interested. It gets the ones who just want to play around off your case and only keeps the ones who are also interested. Learning to just be direct is a game changer jmo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:51 PM
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Standards for me superficial for thee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:52 PM
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So if I meet wifey material and we fuck on the second date when I first escalated is it a W?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:57 PM
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During the beginning of my lifemaxxing journey around 23-24 I would get stuff like this happening as well but god damn if I didn’t know how to escalate or I would get so nervous attempting to escalate that I had to walk away from situations like that. So personally I had to get out of my head or learn to control my anxiety before I could actually make use of those opportunities. I would say at least half of current incels are somewhat like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:57 PM
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Yes a smile is enthusiastic consent, or her doing something else such as then touching him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:37 PM
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That is not assault, I’m liberal myself. If Leo did not want that she would have stopped him from touching her when she became uncomfortable. And the context of body language of her and him probably looking at each other signaled that it was okay to proceed. That is basic escalation. Each step is an okay. It’s not like he just ripped her pants off the bat. She had to then choose to go back to their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:21 PM
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This is why I’m always sure we should recommend incels here to just go to bars lol. There’s a lot easier social levels to accomplish fiest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:27 PM
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I agree it’s flawed as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:31 PM
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So did you ask them out or are you just basing this off Instagram followers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:30 PM
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I mean if you want to be seen as the asshole by all the “nice “ guys why not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:42 PM
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It seems to be the wording more than who is saying it based in the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:39 PM
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Then if you also date religious woman with similar mindset I can’t really see them holding that against you. And at 27 your in the age range of dating recent college grads 23-24 who may be in a similar boat as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:39 AM
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Have you at least gone on dates before and had sex? I find people are still forgiving about not finding a relationship yet at that age if you were busy in school and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:23 AM
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Turns out my hero is also an eagles fan. Life is good 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:57 PM
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Damn that YouTuber must have had horrible crippling anxiety, but good for them for actually doing something about it. I would say I put in half the effort he did maybe 1/3rd to be at a higher level today. Some of the things you say he does seems wacky but whatever we all got some weird superstition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:53 PM
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Probably a lot of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:51 PM
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Sure, I think after a certain point of height the percent of woman that you can get is negligible. Just as an example the difference of attraction and number of girls in percent between a 6’ guy vs a 6’2” is what less than 1 percent? Like attraction is hard to quantify like this. Either ways my point is you can only date or fuck one girl at a time. Even if you are like 5’8” and the difference is half that still a lot of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:51 PM
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Well I did say you are average looking face wise for added context. Granted I’m one of those people who says your overall appearance matters and face, height, vibes, etc are all part of the whole pie. And the second part is just an educated guess based of my past experience while having a good face card and other people I talk to today especially on the discord. I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:13 PM
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You are right, it’s don’t be neurotic 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:07 PM
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But only a small vocal minority of woman do care that much about it? Height is a factor in attraction yes but being 5’6”, there is still plenty of play for yall. Height matters but not to the extent of “im not 5’10” it’s over for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah someone with no experience is going to overthink all of this. I’m sure there’s plenty of us men in here who’s first time involved a good bit of anxiety. I think only having casual sex/ONS (not fwb) style sex like having sex once or twice with a person is not good experience tbh. The best experience comes from LTR situations where you learn the communication aspect of sex verbal and nonverbal where it’s not all about yourself. So the title should be changed to … “Higher N-count does not mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:07 PM
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Yep it’s called nichemaxxing in those cases. Aesthetic and vibes opens doors
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:38 PM
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Is this a girl you are wanting to date? I would take this as a positive and say “thank you find you cute myself…” and lead up to ask her out. Don’t listen to people saying being called cute is bad. Woman tend to use that instead of stronger words like handsome and/or sexy. A woman calling you cute without you prompting it is a good sign
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:31 AM
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Me? No I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:00 AM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:46 AM
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I don’t want to say but he lurks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:16 AM
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Yeah most of these types don’t tend to socialize in the first place and if they do hang out in their own groups of weirdos. Now there are some men who may internalize some of these weird takes in more mild forms. Those are the ones to watch out for but sometimes they know it’s wrong to say out loud. Most men are normal tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:12 AM
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I get to interview my ppd hero tomorrow! I’m excited!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:09 AM
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Why? You can join the discord and I will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:58 PM
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Deload week going great, body needed some resting. July 4th weekend went great with a firework blowing up a few feet in front of my face. And my woman’s home cooked meal <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:46 PM
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Kismet love sounds like something out of a romantic movies. Let’s be honest may it happen irl? Yes but it’s rare, life isn’t a romance movie and they’ll be awkward stuff in between. If you are interested in a woman ask her out and build something from that if she is interested. If you beleive in this kismet thing you are going to be waiting a long time to feel like you found “something”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:26 PM
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And they probably have other matches as well. You can only keep up with so many matches. It’s why if you have one interested get her off the app asap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:11 AM
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Well you can join other purple pill related servers I just don’t think I can post them here because of the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:39 PM
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You left as quickly as came in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:38 PM
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You can join and if you don’t like leave, there is 0 risk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:13 PM
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Join the discord first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:00 PM
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There is a contest on the discord for incels at almost 300 dollars if yall want to take part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:44 PM
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I agree, don’t be a dick about it and you’ll be fjne
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:39 PM
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Imma be honest from what I hear from a lot of woman and my own experiences casual sex such as ONs are probably the worst ways to get an orgasm as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:27 PM
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Sorry, but from my experience dealing with different cultures, the woman dating foreigners don’t tend to be that type of woman. Those type of woman tend to get married young to locals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:55 AM
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Oh yes I’m sure that’s what you will get as a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:42 AM
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That dude is still socially awkward. Sure he may not be a “loser” but he is defintely socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:42 AM
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Yep I say this all the time. Those dudes have good traits that make them attractive and happen to also be shitty, but guess what life is a spectrum in this circumstance. But I do find that woman who tend to get into relationships like that have other problems that cloud their judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:36 PM
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No and those type of men are the type of men that have little play and social experience in the first place. I’m sure there are men who would do this, I’ve seeen Craigslist ads for cheap rooming situations but has to be a woman of a certain age. Those type of men are weirdos and not desirable(yes even average men can be) either ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:32 PM
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And it was! Was small because of last minute coordination but I’ll take it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:39 AM
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Have a small dinner party tonight I’m tired, but the food is looking good rn!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:47 PM
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You’ll have some men who are red pill as fuck who say otherwise that they aren’t insecure or have trouble. I call bullshit, you don’t look for redpill with out some sort of insecurity or missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:31 PM
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I think these are factors that increase your chance of doing fine with woman. But there are other factors that are more key to whether you can get woman or not like you said. The only fault I give is that having this factors don’t decrease volume of sex or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:58 AM
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Sorry bud I’m all these and I get plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:09 AM
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You should be living life at 21 hanging with friends and making mistakes. Most of the marriages of people who got married at 18-21 from my cohort are divorced now. I’m 30
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:55 PM
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I was being judgy about something, a man’s reaction to his divorce by what everyone read as a cuck or open relationship situation, and they used it as an insult back along with my high Fe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:51 PM
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I think the psychical attractive part is important and defintely is a deciding factor at first but many here really downplay how having shitty social skills can fuck up any possibility of dating. Good social skills can make your best features even if you aren’t the most attractive more prominent thus making you appear more attractive. The vibe and aura pill need to be made. A 5/10 with vibes and aura will go further than a 7/10 no vibes and aura.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:49 PM
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Today I am reminded I am ESFJ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:42 AM
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Well this is definitely going to be a shit show of a thread imo. I at least respect the man looksmaxxinf and not just moaning online!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:32 AM
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Is this your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:53 AM
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If your goal is to gain a relationship and it keeps failing through dates playing you but at least you had fun isn’t that still fair to complain about. The goal still isn’t being reached If I get a nice steak dinner every other night, am I never allowed to complain about feeling hungry because the starving African kid has got it way worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:21 PM
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Ehh I’m shorter than you and there is enough. The percent of woman who will be attracted to you does go down. But I wouldn’t call at a min 1/4 woman rare. Now granted idk what numbers are like for sure and they differ depending on location. I’m talking US perspective. Rare to me would be like less than 5/100. This is my personal bias who was short but his reason for shitty dating life was not due to my height it was due to neuroticism and anxiety which are way bigger deals and icks to woman than…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:43 PM
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Can you elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:38 PM
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Yep even so called chads strike out. There numbers are better than average sure. But yeah 1/20 for a good looking guy seems about right. Learning to embrace the rejection and move on is the best thing you can do as man to help your game. I think one thing that happens is men get too in their head and hesitate about what to say. Instead of just enjoying the convo and escalating. Granted easier said than done. But that’s why you embrace the rejection, do what you can to either escalate or get reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:31 PM
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Depends on the user. I’ve seen countless time users will get fixated on one disadvantage/problem they have and their entire gig is “I can’t get woman because I’m (insert disadvantage)” and I know there are some disadvantages some people are born with that can be brutal. But having to hear one more heightcel who is 5’6” act like that’s their entire reason for why they can’t find love is annoying to me. It ends being some fixable problem that they don’t want to fix (neurotic, anxious, etc). Sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:22 PM
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Yep and there is so much confirmation bias that goes on. Especially in this subreddit, they will think anything that goes against their beliefs are the exceptions or fake no matter how radical and the ones that help their beliefs are the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 PM
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What do you mean brother you are red pill, just improve some, grind a bit and that can be yours too 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:45 PM
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Lifting weights right before bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:08 PM
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I feel like half the time sex either wakes me the fuck up or puts me in a slumber. I have a sports watch on and it says my body is not relaxed at least an hour after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:08 PM
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Yes there are some really neurotic men like this, you’ll meet them on the discord. Not much exposure outside of TikTok and reels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:57 PM
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What is yalls remidy if you have to go to sleep soon but you are just not feeling tired or highly anxious about something? Anything besides melatonin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:17 PM
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I told my gf I need 2 years to make my decision. Once 2 years got near started looking at proposal idea nd rings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:38 PM
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Yeah those groups attract a bunch of people who are bitter about their failures when the original premise is to let go of the negativity. It’s not decentering if you keeping thinking of the opposite sex and your problems with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:20 PM
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Those aren’t fwb men lol there is still the friend part of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:24 AM
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If you invite a few friends to a dinner or whatever and one doesn’t respond back to two messages would you call them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:29 AM
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When you finally lose your virginity on someone’s OF page, and someone comments “Where the rest of it” 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:12 PM
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Talk to her like your annoying little sister is the way 😤 Then ask her out after a bit of that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:52 AM
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Since joining the subreddit feel like my terminally online rate went up. Might have to take a few steps back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:30 AM
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I agree especially with how many recipes can be found online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:14 AM
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What hour do you typically go?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:13 AM
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Yeah this is a huge spectrum with so many people in the middle depending on where they are in life. Few people actually do make up the far ends of the spectrum. Even depending on your class you might find more of one side than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:13 AM
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Feel like some people use Chad to describe any man who is slightly attractive at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:41 PM
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lol what, post nut clarity to me I’m just on a nice cloud with nothing going on my head while I cuddle and giver her kisses. Maybe this is different from what most men feel. But all I want is her on my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah that’s why the digital nomad thing a few years back got so popular and then passport bro trend followed right after that. Now both have been things before Covid but Covid really got those groups in front of millions of eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:22 PM
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In this scenario tho we do share hobbies, but also the requirements for a partner are higher than the requirements for a friend to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:56 PM
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A bit smarter than me? Turned on… a good degree smarter than me that we don’t share similar hobbies nor can we have similar level of discussions? Turn off. I prefer a partnership where we are at the same level of smartness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:59 AM
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I agree AI is ruining a lot of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:40 AM
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I would feel betrayed. Because why is my friend fucking me over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:20 AM
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There is a thing as porn addiction. But I wouldnt call the guy who watches it for a few mins at most to get off an addiction. Would the person who is an all day gooner where watching porn interrupts or impedes their life who is an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:45 PM
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Yep a busy work day, some other stresss, little time to think of hobbies. Yep not thinking about sex or relationships at all and probably more about how nice my bed is going to feel when I get home and shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:42 PM
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It’s the casually part. Trying to appear that you are in it for the long term aspect but don’t fault me if this turns into a short term whatever. It’s how I read it…. Didn’t say I was 100 percent correct but I defintely don’t expect much from someone posting that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:51 PM
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That sounds more like being commitmentphobe to me than not appearing desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:28 PM
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So it was just brought out of the blue? Hmmm I feel like I would say “yeah it’s fun and it produces babies!” Idk sounds cringy but it’s what came into my head. Better a bit of cringe then awkward silence What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:09 PM
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Got the car check up on, ate some vermicelli with pork rolls. Grocery shopped for next week dinner party. Got a haircut too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:54 AM
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I was in a very good place when I met my current partner. When I was a teen I had a fwb/situationship just because I had many mental problems when it came to dating and relationships that continued in my 20s. I was anxious and neurotic and slowly took care of that in my mid 20s. I was still dating a tiny bit as I got better but by 28 I was pretty good and dating caused me little anxiety and eventually found my current woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:03 AM
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Nah girl he is defintely daddy and will soon be granddaddy 😋🤤 status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:26 AM
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I would eat all the food listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:24 AM
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First date I always do say what I’m looking for “is to find my future wife.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:43 AM
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Is your bmi between 19 and 21
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:36 PM
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What about a baby shower
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:26 PM
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What’s it entail to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:31 PM
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The dude was seen as a nonoption from the start because of the being gay part. They are fine with them as a best friend. The bisexual surprise might throw them off, “oh is he truly my friend or his the bisexual part to get closer to me.” Is my guess. I’m a man who comes across zesty and some may have called metrosexual at some point. It’s simply one of those cases were some woman like it and some woman don’t. But don’t be throwing them off. You show it from the start. It’s simply some what woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:21 PM
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Uhhh sorry in the ppd discord some of us use moid/foid as a term of endearment for our partners. It worked its way here on accident. Someone else started it and I started doing it ironically and it stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:32 PM
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I don’t care what anyone says, people are notorious for putting on a fascade that they themselves aren’t desperate. I think this goes doubly so for woman when describing an ideal partner. Woman are already the selective sex, they don’t want to feel like they had to do “worse” than other woman especially in hypothetical scenarios where on paper it does feel like you didn’t hit all what you wanted. But irl, we technically all settle even if we don’t view it as settling. It’s rare for someone for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:06 PM
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My woman decided last minute she wants to throw a July 4th party, inviting people last minute is not my cup of tea 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:40 PM
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Think he only poste the stat of female breadwinner or sole only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:01 PM
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Now will they actually do the work of training to become a firefighter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:15 AM
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Sakura in boruto is what happen when woman chase men. Look what happened, sasuke gone she like a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:22 AM
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It takes like 2 if you are consistent and hit your macros. Depends how fat you are to start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:06 AM
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Mark manson says that men are placed into 3 categories No which you can’t do anything about, Yes that you can only fuck up, and Maybes which is how most woman label most men. The goal should be to forget about the No’s as there is no point, straight yes are rare, and polarize the ones who are Maybe until they are either a no and you get to move on or a yes and you continue dating. Really embraces the rejection side of dating where you try to get rejected early to not waste time and to focus on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:33 AM
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I get that there are differences in dating dynamics between the sexes, but red pill takes it too far and it’s way to generalized. And AMALT/AWALT posts sometimes are more like men/woman are more likely to be like that instead of an entire generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:50 AM
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Yeah I’ve ghosted or stopped talking to someone for stupid reason that I’m glad didn’t lead to date. One I remember was “I’m an art major”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:47 AM
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How short we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:40 AM
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Question for shortcels: if you were 3 inches taller do you think that would do the trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:24 AM
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Question for incels… if you were the opposite sex would you give yourself a chance to date the version of you that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:22 AM
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I know a discorder who was having a house party and his friend was messing with his crush(consensual) and were in discorders bed. He got mad and brandished a gun at them to get out. This was in Norwegian I believe or Sweden. Well they called swat on him, now he stuck having to play day trade for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:17 AM
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I have a feeling she didn’t mention that part before they called him a chad. Probably something he did and she still stayed with and someone goes “see if you are Chad they will do anything for you, no effort…”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:37 PM
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There is a reason many of us are purple pill. You get to deep in red pill and you just get lost in the sauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:26 PM
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He has been cringy for a long time in my opinion but it’s part of his brand. He was on shark tank before he blew up and was a bit cringy then too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:01 PM
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If we are calling the left flat ass then serve me up some breakfast because I’m eating pancakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:53 PM
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We have an alpha m fan I see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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Yep, my fade never looks dry and only bad if I didn’t sleep at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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Nice same. SPF30 in the morning sometimes lazy about the retinoid tho. Idk why that’s the one I’m lazy about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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How many of yall men have a skincare routine that’s more than just water on the face? I think my skincare routine is 7 maybe 8 steps. That and good genes and still looking young at 30z
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:04 PM
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Couldn’t sleep well last night but not tired. Well at least I have all weekend to sleep!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:25 PM
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Oh come on now it was funny you even deleted the comment, I’m laughing don’t be sour like a pickle. But if you want to be airtight that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:35 AM
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I don’t think that type of woman would ever like some doormat type guy. From what I read she was texting someone from his phone and he used his Apple Watch to say that “it’s Lisa using the phone”. I’m not condoning anything she did, but this type of woman would not feel satisfied nor be attracted to a complete doormat. The thrill is probably some guy who is in between and turning them into a doormat Lonely men are neurotic and this is too crazy for them to deal with. Take back a few steps and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:16 AM
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Omg fr this user is some sort of jardigger. This is so unfair in 2025 woman expect us men to buy them jars and to open them? Where do they contribute to this jar society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:58 AM
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According to who? And what are the standards? I was in passport bro telegram for a bit and let’s just say the men in there weren’t exactly winners. I met some irl they were mostly fine but usually had some social difficult that the language barrier helped with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:20 AM
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Hmmm maybe the first sentence needs a “/s” I was being sarcastic. I thought the second sentence would help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:11 AM
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Do you have a wok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:50 AM
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Do you have a wok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:50 AM
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Oh Yes, Ive never seen a western woman dated a non-western man. /s Shit even the obese white woman can find a Mexican man who needs papers. Is it ideal? Probably not the options are there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:46 AM
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Let’s go I hear that gets the testosterone flowing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:35 AM
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I have a few times with friends, crashpad collecting dust. She going to get a climbing membership soon. Last time she was with me she complete her first v1.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:13 AM
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How did you improve by a small percent today? Today I am rock climbing to make sure my forearms stay sexy for my woman. Especially when I roll my sleeves up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:10 AM
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4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 AM
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So I am winning 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 AM
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Petty in that I’ll hold a grudge yes. Petty and actively cause you harm no. I’ll just ignore you and any help you need if needed. I’m usually a pretty helpful person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:15 PM
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Did I read this wrong or a misdemeanor is required to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:08 PM
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I can see it. Someone more masculine presenting may come across as threatening. I defintely see that the more feminine looking dudes hang out with ladies in a more social sense than the masculine presenting ones but idk if it’s the cause or the effect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:51 PM
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Is it more about being feminine presenting or less masculine presenting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:45 PM
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Yep nothing like your woman cooking a great meal for you after coming home from work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:18 PM
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Me reading horny posting in main
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:48 PM
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Osprey is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:45 PM
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Same I thought he was from the LA metro region(Inb4 San Bernardino and riverside aren’t LA metro)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:03 PM
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Jesus calm down dude. I was asking what’s wrong this moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:00 PM
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What now, it’s work hours, well guess you could be on lunch break.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:22 PM
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How much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah this proposal does not work out, you can’t change society in this way, the only people are going to win are the ones who don’t listen and still approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:22 PM
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Well that certainly is hyperbole, and it doesn’t exactly take a genius to think people get into relationships without some benefit either being emotional, social, enjoying company, physical, etc. If the only thing one person likes about the other is money and the other person likes is getting their orgasm that may be true what you said but relationships are more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:52 PM
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I think men should have lower disgust levels then woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:15 PM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:12 PM
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I just don’t find it manly to not enjoy that is all. But I’ve never been with a woman who didn’t do oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:11 PM
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My dad did not teach me anything about woman besides not to date single moms. Most of what I got from him was work ethic as he was a Hispanic immigrant. I’m purple pill because there isn’t that much wrong with blue pill but some men need more help then others when it comes to dating, or at least need to be more analytical with their approach to social and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:11 PM
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Nothing gives you more sense of control than going down on your woman, and controlling her movements, quivers, moans with your tongue and lips. Idk why dudes are so against this form of treatment for their woman/partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:19 PM
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If it’s consensual and they joined because they wanted to fine do what you want. But im sure we can get in a huge semantics debate on what counts as voluntarily joining vs economics/hardships/noothercareeroptions. There is line and people’s opinion on where the line is different. But I would never date anyone who has been in that industry. Not my jam. My friends aren’t typically sexual deviants, but I don’t see why I wouldn’t be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:18 PM
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Yeah I guess it’s hard to explain algebra to someone who cannot pass the times tables. Maybe one day you will get it. Took me a few years but eventually I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:05 PM
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You should also be exploring things you may enjoy you’ve never done before if possible. Don’t let your comfort zone keep you back from finding out who you are. It’s rare that the only thing you enjoy is play video games. Also pretending to be someone you aren’t only leads to resentment later on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:43 PM
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That’s why you should polarize as much as possible. Gets you quicker to either moving on to the next step or rejection, which is the goal. Don’t waste your time on someone who is probably going to reject you. Might as welll get it done ewrly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:35 PM
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Some sort of accidental castration, not doing this voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:26 PM
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Well I don’t watch hentai for one and that’s where my mind goes when I hear it and because your average woman if they even know what hentaii is going to think tentacles. I just asked a few on the discord and this includes woman highly representing online users outside of normie spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:49 AM
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Look I’m an RN, I’m well aware of the difference between a period and ovulation. Usually 5 days after period ends and then add around 2 weeks is the period of time for ovulation if you want to play it safe. I’m not like talking precision accuracy Again I never said it was smart but my estimates aren’t far off since I’m pretty conservative with my timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 AM
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I don’t want to get all autistic about how many days her cycle is but I’m pretty precise by 2 days or so when her period starts. I didn’t say I get it on the dot but it’s good enough that I know around when her period starts and around when her ovulation is. Yes it’s an educated guess but a decent enough one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:09 AM
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I start off having sex with my LTR partner without a condom and then put one on when I start feeling urges that I might cum soon as crazy as that sound. Yes I know it’s stupid. I do track her ovulation cycle myself and I’m pretty good at it. I even tell her she should be starting her period soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:44 AM
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You’re making a blanket statement because what is attractive? Many woman have different things they find attractive. When I lived in Georgia in the country rural side I wasn’t found that attractive to the southern redneck woman compared to in California to Latinas, Asians and white woman here in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:20 AM
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What do you count as attractive. Like I said there are numerous ways to appear more attractive, shit I think some singers like rauw Alejandro, bad bunny and even Pedro pascal are average looking men that have vibes that make them be perceived as sexier than they actually are. Woman around me talk about them all the time. But you’ll probably say something about status, but I never hear anyone call Ed Sheeran hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:18 AM
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Yes woman are the reactive sex for numerous reason biological, sociological, yada yada. Until you as a men present(ask her out, flirt, ask for number) yourself as a sexual option to a woman. You are not in her space as a sexual option. She then decides if she likes the option or not The number of woman willing to do that first are too low for 99 percent of men to just wait around for it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:10 AM
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The guys like OP described might ask woman out but they are red pill and whining for a reason, bitterness about something they are doing wrong or not wanting to do gender traditional things for some reason or another. Like paying for a first date or so. It’s one of those things we’re focus on yourself and improve yourself and youlll be fine. Don’t show bitterness and you’ll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:05 AM
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well it depends. Saying not attractive in spaces like his is so subjective. I’ve seen average looking dudes in spaces like thissay they are not attractive shit I used to be one and many people here say I have chadlite features. If you are average looking then personality and charisma can defintely improve your vibe and aura to attractive levels. If you aré ugly you can improve your average levels and so forth. Unless you are deformed there is much you can improve to reach those levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:01 AM
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Charisma and personality elevate your attractiveness, like a multiplier. If you are a 1 you can only raise your attractiveness so much being the most charismatic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:57 AM
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Edit: sorry was speaking in another thread thought this was the same one, Ultra feminist like support feminism? Or you mean like feminine brained men? I don’t see how that ties into the convo. I’m a feminine brained man but I’m still active and intentional with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:45 AM
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This is what I always tell dudes in here complaining and given up. Typically they are average looking dudes who don’t try to improve or ask woman out. Just by trying to improve yourself and actually being intentional in dating you are going to beat out 20 percent of dudes. Nonetheless whatever quality traits you already possess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:35 AM
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Yeah one of the things many guys got wrong who I assume have social problems is assuming the dude who got girls is an asshole. He may or may not have been but for sure he had a backbone and was decisive, qualities that are attractive. But if girls had to choose they would choose the guy who is nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:32 AM
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Controversial with some people in PPD: Being nice and kind is an attractive quality to have when you are appropriately able to stop being nice and kind, for example someone about to take advantage of your kindness or cause you harm. The trait is attractive as long as you have a backbone not to be taken advantage of and stand up for your values. “Nice guys” aren’t nice they are passive and have no backbone typically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:19 AM
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Your argument in the title isn’t, “men too were shamed or repressed.” I too suffered from sexual shame early in my adulthood and teens. Your argument is “no evidence of woman being more repressed…” when all the evidence, you even include it in your OP post, says other wise. Men still suffered from it and they still do today as well as woman. But historically woman were given less leeway like you said, and any fuck up from sex they are usually left with the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:05 AM
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Let’s be honest anyone who isn’t some online shut in is going to say regular person porn. At least it indicates you are a human who you know gets off regular sex vs fucking tentacles. Idc what anyone says watching hentaii is weirder in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:01 AM
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So then having a bit of a feminine face is good for a man rofht
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:51 PM
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Dont give the incels here hope. You going have them saying “it’s all luck”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:51 PM
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Are you a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:48 PM
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You have to be in her sexual radar to even be lusted for. Most woman are reactive vs proactive when it comes to sexual relationships. You have to present yourself first as an option and then she decides to proceed or not. If you pass that then you will feel the lust. Especially during ovulation, woman will have a similar desire that men have. Trust me man I’m 5’6”, I’ve been desired before multiple times and my woman always tries to seduce me. You can be desired for many things despite your heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:17 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the rest says if your title is “there is no real evidence” then proceed to present evidence that they were indeed more repressed in your opening paragraph. It’s a horrible execution of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:21 PM
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You know you literally countered your own statement in the first paragraph right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:45 PM
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I work with kids in a hospital setting and to calm them down we put in YouTube clips of their favorite show and I can’t use that on the hospital computer nor on my phone. It’s only 11 a minth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:43 PM
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I pay for it (insert Chad emoji)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:34 PM
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I don’t think you actually have to have sexual and dating success to be perceived as higher status. As long as the perception is there that you do have success then it will build upon itself, (ex: popular high schooler who doesnt date but woman like and desire him and THINK he dating other woman but is humble about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:33 PM
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Yeah this is one of those the problem feeds itself kind of things. Those woman or men tend to already have a negative view for one reason or skother and constantly end up with people who confirm their views and ignore everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:29 PM
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There are woman manipulators out there for sure that aren’t on onlyfans but to constantly being meeting them and dating them? That typically signifies a vetting issue on OPs part. What’s the average male PPDers wage? Like 70k? No one gold digging is going after your average wage. Not saying manipulators don’t exist but if you are confusing them with gold diggers idk what to tell you. It’s a vetting problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:26 PM
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I remember I used to think like this until I took the green pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:36 PM
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Hmm maybe I am green, white and purple pilled did you make these up or did you get it from someone else? I assumed green pill was money lol and white pill is just the white
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:30 PM
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Okay I can mostly agree with it but I do find that looks do make life easier the better looking you are with halo effect and all that. But I never argue against seeking inner peace, bettering your mental health and being fit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:09 PM
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What is the green pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:36 PM
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Today is a good day so far, my garmin watch says my sleep was a bit shitty, but I feel great, ready for a good gym workout and run to keep me looking sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:21 PM
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People will often exaggerate shit online especially through text.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:39 PM
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Sex can be a resource one can exchange for money. Yes that’s prostitution and some people have morals against it. Love on the other hand, maybe money can at best influence it but you can’t buy love. You can use money to make your self attractive and what not and maybe indirectly buy it but you can’t outright pay someone for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:37 PM
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Well it’s called a “delulu” list for a reason. I know couple of these girls who made lists like these. I think one actually ended up with a dude taller than that the rest were average height dudes. It’s a preference, I’ve always said people have all these requirements when dating someone but when they meet the right person that person can break many rules and still get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:54 PM
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I mean he has been a lot of acting roles that he has done really good in. He is popular for a reason and keeps coming back. He stood out in his break out role in Game of thrones. He was so memorable I think he is a great example of being close average looking but having aura and vibe that raises your attractiveness. Another example is bad bunny. Yeah say this is status also you want but no one is giving sexy awards to Ed Sheeran nor to Jay z
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:40 PM
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I used to be like “why would I do that she doesn’t need to know where I’m at” before getting into a ltr . But one of us shared our location(want to say her first), for one reason then the other did it as well. And now we been sharing our location for about a year. I check it to see when she gets home when I’m at work and stuff like that not really that involved with the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:36 PM
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The guest has a likeable personality least it gets you through the front door. Honestly I don’t think there is anything wrong with going the sweet innocent approach it works for some people if you have a good job and your life is in order but probably not going to work in your 30s .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:22 AM
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I think beta bux does exists but it’s not common. And it’s not some woman who is in her late 20s still hot marrying a scrub with money. I’ve said it before but the only instance I commonly see beta bux enough to not call it an exception is hot single moms dating dudes they wouldn’t have dated if they didn’t have kids. I’m sure we’ve all seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:10 AM
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I’m a dude who has hit on woman. If a woman you are hitting/convoing on whatever, says no to whatever form of contact you are asking for and gives not other alternative it means she isn’t Interested 99.9 percent of the time. I’ve defintely got a, “oh I’m not on Instagram but here is my snap,number, etc.” before
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:42 AM
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I do like the ASBB better than AFBB I agree that way more. From my life on earth the only place I’ve seen AFBB be more than just exceptions, maybe not the standard but happening commonly enough, is hot single moms dating some dude she wouldn’t be with if she didn’t have kids. Everything else has been so few in numbers it’s the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:57 AM
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Ahh yes you too can have the “Chad Experience” TM just be willing to live life in a whole new nation, trick woman, and use your American status as bait on a fishing pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:51 AM
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God, that in order to get what you want your going to have to active about. Sometimes you have to ask awkward questions or statements to get what you want or have some failures. And that’s okay failures teach us lessons and help us learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:48 AM
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Oh lol, typically I think high school sweethearts marry young like 20. And yeah our vacation is probably going to cost 10k or so as well when we go. So this is like a 13-15k trip
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:46 AM
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Well you probably got married young. She is lates 27 and im 30 so you know can afford better vs younger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:30 AM
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He is like a 3.5-4
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:27 AM
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Ooh I’m seeing it now, some look eccentric but some look perfect!! Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:19 PM
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Yeah this is a woman trying to be nice and doesn’t mind the convo but doesn’t want anything out of it. It’s like small talk with the cashier essentially at a grocery store. And some people too awkward to end the convo properly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:13 PM
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Lol he probably in the 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:11 PM
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I have 4 months to get an engagement ring before my trip to Vietnam. Any ladies want to help me find somewhere I can get a ring with two round gems in the band one on each side. Budget probably around 3-5k nothing too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:07 PM
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Wait is he fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:03 PM
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This body not hard to find in California at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 PM
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You aren’t American at all are tou
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 PM
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I agree with you. Someone in the emotional labor thread said we should be helping our family members. But if you are having mental health problems multiple times a week or severe crisises and you don’t even want to seek help besides burdening your loved ones with it then you aren’t even helping yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:14 PM
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Peeping different from staring, even at my most si fake and cel era I was never this bad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:30 PM
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Why is this channel treated like a comment section to an onlyfans page. Do some of yall stare at woman in public with no shame as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:18 PM
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Can’t you use red pill to help you date woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:12 PM
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Damn porn really rotting brains these days
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:08 PM
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Mfer went ppb route then suprised he is footing the bill. But mondo is mostly correct, most woman want you to pay for everything. You need to stand up for yourself, but with the income disparity between the two I can see why she wants you to pay for everythjng
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:58 PM
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I agree, there is a thread recently posted about “strategically bitching,” but I find it more that woman have to nag with most men in order for things to get done or their way of communication. The woman who don’t nag? Passive and unsatisfied and can’t communicate what they want to set boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:49 PM
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Yeah this is one of those ones where I think it’s fine if she it’s standard pic she just happens to be with and you crop her out. Shit I even had two shirtless selfies and did fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:45 PM
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She isn’t as strong and popular anymore because they have added a lot of new supports recently. She is hard to kill. But she does get banned semi frequently on competitive due to people not liking mercy olayser 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:25 PM
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Raw sexual attraction I think I can agree, willing-fullness to commit increases imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:34 AM
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I think it’s better than ever now. After getting use to 5v5 I think they made more improvements due to have to compete with marvel rivals. They unlaunched new game modes but they aren’t my favorite. Regular comp is a lot faster than Overwatch 1 which had a lot of shields.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:33 AM
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After years of being hard stuck platinum with a few stints of gold I have finally reach diamond in Overwatch in ranked role queue. Except for season 1 where I was rank 60 before converting to metal ranks. Now I can finally play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:07 AM
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Depends on the man I see plenty of chubby chasers in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:40 AM
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16 and already has more wisdom than many poster in their 20s in this subreddit. But dude get off this place, probably not the best for teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:06 AM
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No because we all know McDonald girls end with up with upper class men who only care about looks and introduce them to his parents. Parents going to be defintely proud that she has a min wage job at McDonald’s because “she has a cute face”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:50 AM
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Could you not have stated it more like if woman don’t want men to be promiscuous then they won’t sleep with him until he shows some sort of commitment? I don’t see how the rape thing ties into promiscuity shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:48 AM
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So you have not one good thing about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:45 AM
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lol no. So many regular looking dudes here blaming their looks when it’s their neuroticism and/or passitivity fucking them over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:23 AM
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Do you have any hobbies? Even free ones like running?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 AM
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No I think they just got him 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:57 AM
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Damn the mods really didn’t like how much truth and conspiracy he was dead on about. It’s so serious they didn’t even let it on for 2 mins. He really has it going on the point about what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:35 AM
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Did they fix or shred of the meniscus? Either ways lcl repairs makes your recovery long af 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:45 AM
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Nothing wrong with spoiling my girl she deserves it I also get benefits😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:39 AM
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Work and lifting, my gf working 48 hours this week so won’t really see her much until Friday. I finished my work portfolio for promotion was 60 something pages I will turn in after I get my signatures. Probably going to be a quiet weekend. Probably find something bigger to do on July 4th weekend. Spent 300 on a date two weekends ago and 150 this past weekend on another date so I can use a cheap weekend 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:32 AM
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I’m not saying it doesn’t matter, I’m just think this is more a mental block on your case than your location not suiting you. But personally? A location change was probably the biggest bump to my mental change. But tbf I didn’t really have as much friends to hang with when I moved to California so I dated instead 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:29 AM
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I’m not sure I’m over in the Bay Area 6 hours north. But I’m almost positive this is more of “you are going to be who you are no matter where you go” then the location problem. But who knows sometimes a location change can do you good and makes you want to actually seek friends and relationships when you no longer have the comfort of who you currently hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:22 AM
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He live in LA, his tortas are right there ready for chorizo. He just needs to get rid of the mental block.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:19 AM
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Oh yeah sometimes my woman will be screaming and I’m like damn I want what she having. Then I be thinking “oh that means I want to dick myself down huh”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:58 PM
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What do you call him tho? Is he an average looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:58 PM
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So essentially woman’s peak is highest, but in average their libido is lower than a man’s. On average over the course of a month the man’s libido is at a 6-7 while for a woman it’s at around a 4 until she is ovulating then it’s a 9-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:53 PM
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I’m telling you it’s anxiety around escalating and intimate convos involving having to escalate. I get it, that was once me. His friends tell him that is all but confirmation his looks aren’t his problem. I have plenty of friends who look just like him(Mexican-American that look like him are common) and they do fine. It’s a confidence anxiety thing. There is no stakes when he is talking to coworkers or friends with no intentions of trying to flirt or escalate, that’s why he does fine there. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:49 PM
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<image> Here is one, he looks a bit tall but let’s be honest none of yall would call him Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:46 PM
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Well yeah superficially you have no problem. It’s the escalations and trying to show interest that you have trouble with. People telling you what you just said proves that physically you are fine. Essentially trying to have intimate convos is wheee it falls apart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:37 PM
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Yep, one thing that got me better about that is working at hospital, realizing they aren’t any cleaner than I am. I don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:32 PM
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Yeah if people are telling you this irl then yes your looks aren’t the problem lol. He definitely has some sort of anxiety when talking to chicks 1 on 1. I was the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:26 PM
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What do they want then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:23 PM
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That sounds like intensity of orgasm rather than libido. When someone says they have lower libido I typically think their sex drive over a period of a week is like maybe having sex or master bating once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:18 PM
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This is one of those takes that only people who spend their time online typically say. Most people are well aware men have higher sex drives on average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:49 PM
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How do you usually approach these woman at church?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:30 PM
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You do realize even if you “interact” with people of different social classes, you spend the most time with people of your socioeconomic circle. The people you spend the most time with are usually qualities you look for in your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:25 PM
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I’m taken but thank you sis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:19 PM
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Yeah it ain’t happening in medicine. I’m not sure about other fields
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:47 PM
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I work with a lot of female doctors. It’s pretty rare to meet one who is single unless they are in residency but yeah they typically married to other doctors. I have met a few married to lawyers, nurses, mid levels, tech workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:15 PM
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The more traits you have that OP has the more attractive your personality is to woman for a LTR and the easier it is to get into a happy relationship. I think the one thing you really can’t be as the standard(sure there are exceptions) is being passive and neurotic. You have those traits? The amount of woman youll will be with or meet is very little. They’re countless examples of men with negative traits who still get into relationships. But the rare ones are those who never make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:10 PM
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Yeah there is something else OP isn’t telling us with that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:32 PM
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I think you can survive 6 months off if you have 5 years saved. The only thing is the market I feel is going to be chaotic this year but it’s the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:27 PM
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Yeah I’m similar but idk how I will feel in35 years time, life gets in the way sometimes. But that’s good it means you don’t dread work. Better that than burning out constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:17 PM
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I think it’s less about traveling and more about not having to work when your are old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:12 PM
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You never made a move on these woman until months into meeting off a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:56 PM
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I live in a tech area city and it’s because of the stereotype that tech workers have of being socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:13 AM
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Most stupid thing I’ve heard from this space is someone saying that his knowledge of social interactions, dilemmas, treatments by the sexes is above people who actually interact socially irl as he is free from bias…. Where does he get his information from? Reddit, TikTok, Instagram…. Does he socially interact with anyone irl? No really I wish I was making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:26 AM
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Cool but if you aren’t tall might as well have a good build. I’m the same height as you so you can do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:03 AM
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A man with a good dating history and two beach pics on dating app profile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:56 PM
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How tall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:55 PM
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Liar, a lot of woman do. Example: me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:55 PM
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Realize your rejection rate will be higher but not zero but the more attractive you are the better your chances. Better to be a good looking short man than ugly looking short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:45 PM
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I’m a 5’6” dude who lookedmaxxed since 20, at 23-24 realized I was too passive/neurotic as well and fixed that. Your height isn’t that bad, sure some woman will disqualify you solely based on that but there’s plenty of woman who height requirement is “be a few inches taller than me”. If you can improve your attractiveness do it. But realize that you also need to improve your qualities such as passiveness if you have that. Being active as a man dating is what will really improve your dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:36 PM
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Oh okay I can see that working but I already reached my limit for 4 hours 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/4uryaldpmj8f1.jpeg?width=1652&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=047f3323ed5fa9d95f8012025bda927d8103526e Nope asked twice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:04 PM
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Weird how did you do that I just tried it myself and it wouldn’t give me a number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:58 PM
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Even then when you start a relationship with someone they don’t really show their true colors until months in. Sure you might get a clean version of their colors at first but we aren’t showing everything right away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:07 PM
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Well that’s why you approach a “get to know this person” manner not a “I love you based on how I assume you are” manner I’m basing what I’m saying on you thinking it’s love. It’s a crush at best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:54 PM
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Some things sure. But I could be wrong about my assumptions. If you are in love with them, you are more in love with the idea of them not who they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:35 PM
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Maybe you are confused with the English language but loving the way someone looks or dresses is not equal to “loving someone”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:26 PM
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Hey now I got it easily and have known it for years. I just need to TLDR it the dummies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:46 PM
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If that’s what you are getting at all from this then something is wrong with you or you are purposefully bad faith discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:46 PM
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Bought my girl a nice skillet for her to cook her eggs on. We been looking for a high quality one! I been spoiling her so much 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:44 PM
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Call it what you want but there move is typically to make it as easy as possible for the men to make his move. And then there are woman who do make first moves. And false, dressing well and caring for your looks increases the chances of producing the halo effect. Even men in sales tend to improve their looks as well as social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:03 PM
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False, it’s and eye catcher. And the way woman approach men is subtle and it increases the chances of them giving subtle IOI. I wouldn’t even say you need to go extreme with the fashion choices. Clothes that fit and match with each other, good pair of shoes, and a good haircut will do the trick on its own. This just sounds like you are mad about male and female dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:28 PM
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Ahhh what is your song of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:49 AM
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How was the pillow fight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:44 AM
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Sorry sorry I meant that I saw unattractive woman with normal looking guys and unattractive guys with normal looking girls but they aren’t the standard. But the typical couple is looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:14 AM
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Beer of choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:03 AM
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Saw one dude who looks just like you just a bit shorter and longer hair. Holding hands with a baby doll faced gueritta slim thick too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:49 AM
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I saw it went both ways, love is complex but typically most couples looks matched. There’s typically some catch or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:48 AM
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At my the county fair and again just stepping out I see couples of different shapes and sizes holding hands like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:44 AM
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This is one of those things that when it works it works but when it doesn’t it doesn’t. Some people do mind but others don’t. Can’t read minds and perfect scenarios to ask for a number rarely are there. Up to you really. Got to just make it as casual as possible and that there are no hard feelings about rejection or make it as open as possible that a no is okay. I would say headphone in tho is a bad call.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:16 PM
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This is more about self control really, your average man might view a few mins of porn at most a day and it doesn’t interfere with any of his daily activities or way of living. The ones fucked by it have little self control and have addicted to dopamine from it like any other addiction. Essentially the difference between someone who does drugs recreationally vs an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:48 PM
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Overwatch competitive drive this weekend, my woman saw me playing for 2 hours and needed her attention. I love her but sometimes I just want to rot for a day and have an 8 hour session of annoyances and being so close to diamond 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:03 PM
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If you are against high n count woman due to thinking they are unfaithful that’s fair but I wouldn’t mess with them even casually. One wrong nut and now you stuck for 18 years with them even if you aren’t in a relationship. And being a single dad with a mom like that ain’t exactly a panty water for faithful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:32 PM
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Someone was tough on me when I was like him in my early 20s. Eventually I got out of it after a few years of get the mentalcel shit out of my head and I thank them for it, if I stayed passive like that I would be just like him today. Too many of us have the internet as a comfort zone and it makes us too scared to get out of it. Should we coddle them like every other black piller with their bucket in a crab mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:14 PM
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I guess depends what you consider it then. Is missionary only under the covers lights off count? I don’t think so but I would garner a majority of couples are in pound town. Young not religious people for sure… do you have a crush on anyone? If so she been to pound town already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:49 PM
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Depends what your major is, if it’s not stem and more health science or liberal arts then pre-calc sounds right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:46 PM
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He doesn’t want to initiate is the thing he already failed before he started
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:44 PM
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That’s everyone who is married essentially… that old cute couple you see sometimes? You bet that dude took Granny to pound town
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:43 PM
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Pre calc easy. Don’t sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
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Except Brian Scalabrine is closer to LeBron than any of us will ever be to Brian scalbrine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
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I don’t get the abused dog part. This is more like me walking by the homeless guy asking for change when he is capable of working a job on my way to buy a newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:15 PM
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Is this just going to be your life, doom posting everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:10 PM
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What works for one group of woman isn’t going to work on another. It’s simply reading the room and accepting that if you get it wrong you get it wrong sometimes. I tell my girl that part of being a man is making a decision and accepting when it doesn’t pan out. If you just overthink all this you’ll never make a decision and just be passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:42 PM
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It’s kind of hard to say, I already have a flirty tone to the way I talk and I work in a field with mostly woman. So it could just about everyday but none of it is serious at least from my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:34 PM
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So then not going to the gym due to financial reasons seems to be more out of choice of following your nascar dreams rather than not possible at all. It is a choice you, you made your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:55 PM
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No I’m the 5’6 dude who doesn’t have trouble once I figured it out with the ladies and he is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:42 PM
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OP I’m being kind of serious but no one is stopping you from not being heterosexual if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:35 AM
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I’m sorry bro where did you pull that it costs 120 a week for that. I live in one of the most expensive areas in the country, eat high protein and calorie requirement, and a power lifter who at one point was benching double his bw, and I run. And my grocery bill comes out to 500-600 a month. Oh did I mention this is also including my GF, who also lifts and eats a lot of protein. And we buy nice cuts of beef. If we wanted to go cheaper we absolutely could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:44 AM
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I think it’s more of a confidence thing. It’s one less thing to worry about, sure if you are super cool with your roommate you don’t worry but now imagine if you just didn’t have one? It’s never even in your mind that your roommate is sitting on the couch when you walk in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:33 AM
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Who takes a travel working job making min wage as well? No per diem? I’ve never heard of a travel worker making min wage unless they are making a per diem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:32 AM
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Yep I assume you’re reading and following the thread. I havnt been broke for a while and I’m older but there was always a way and time especially when you are a young dude without kids or a partner. While food has increased in price due to inflation I won’t deny that, gym memberships havnt really gone that up much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:27 AM
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You are literally making excuses. If you are lazy I can’t help you. I made calisthenics work with water bottles, my backpack, textbooks and whatever else I could manage. I’m not disagreeing that you need to get your money up. But I refuse to believe the people making excuses in here don’t have any free time to commit to a basic routine even if it’s not at a gym. Especially if you are single without kids. I’ve done it while working 60-70 hour weeks and still making time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:24 AM
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It seems I’m lost in the semantics of this convo because to me “costs money” and “hella money” implies that it’s expensive thing that only middle class-upper class people can afford or do. But it seems to be “this thing costs some amount of money” from this convo. Which is almost everything in a capitalistic environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:19 AM
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Bro you are a dude making min wage and saying that a gym membership is “hella money” dude everything is hella money to you. This isn’t exclusive to gym membership at this point for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:15 AM
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Have you tried calisthenics, running, kettlebell workouts, I’m sure I could keep going? You know there was this thing called covid 5 years ago in a lot of areas gyms closed for months to up to a year and a lot of gym regulars managed. And im sorry but if you can’t afford a 40 dollar monthly membership nor you want to do any of the other activities that don’t require a membership and are cheaper idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:12 AM
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I will call that survivorship bias haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:07 AM
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We need foreign pill at this point because tired of arguing with dudes who are not western trying to talk about western dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:05 AM
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I don’t remember the convo but I think we were just talking to pass the time as we worked front desk at a hotel. There was no attempt to insult me there imo just her attempt at banter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:04 AM
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Oh perfect get a Costco membership and your protein just got extremely cheap for 60 bucks a year you can get 2 rotisserie chickens for 10 bucks total and that will mostly hit your protein requirement for most of the week. Rice, sweet potato’s are cheap. They seek rice you can just microwave and frozen veggies you can microwave as well. I lived for 16 months without access to cooking besides a microwave. Also Trader Joe’s sells chicken breast that is already precooked, doesn’t taste the best but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:02 AM
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You can get a planet fitness membership for 15 a month. Are you guys like dead broke or just not making a very good salary? A decent diet just requires mostly upping your protein requirement. Gym memberships especially basic ones are pretty cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:58 AM
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Rotisserie chicken for dinner. They are cheap and full of protein and every supermarket sells them. I used to be a travel worker with only a microwave. Frozen veggies that can be microwaved. Chicken isn’t that expensive…. Protein shakes are cheap. I literally built muscles as a broke teen and so do every other teen. Do you think they are living in money? But before I keep going on are you American….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:56 AM
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Yeah and unless you are like some charismatic specimen of a man a girl isn’t going to pursue a man who her close friend has a crush on. Especially if he hasn’t made a move on that guel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:51 AM
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I remember when I was 21 during my “-cel era” a girl asked me if I were to go on a date where I would go. I said to the trampoline park. She laughed and said it was innocent but cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:47 AM
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Muscles don’t take money just decent diet and a gym routine. Tattoos not sure about, a lot of poor people have them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:44 AM
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The real pill is not having to penny pinch, having your own spot without having to worry about roommates or parents getting in the way of any fun, and being more independent imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:43 AM
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Muscle don’t take that much money. Not sure about tattoos tho I do see a lot of poor people with them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:42 AM
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And pre selection isn’t a guarantee that other girls will like you. Just increases your chances of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:41 AM
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What? No way it’s billions of other people’s fault. They should change, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:19 AM
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Yeah those frat boys seems to do fine with the ladies. Seems like one of those things that have their own group of people that prefer one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:00 AM
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Probably just be smith-Jones. Yeah my partner doesn’t have a hyphenated last names. It seems to be one of those things that neither of us are that strong about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:55 PM
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Yep my jam, a bit upscale cocktail with dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:51 PM
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Do you have any preplanned topics you would discuss or an idea of where exactly you are walking too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:24 PM
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For those who have never gone on a date, say you have someone willing to go on one with you. Where would you take that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:06 PM
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They don’t date extremely up either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:42 PM
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Idc if my girlfriend wants to take my last name. My parents did not, my last name is hyphenated. I want our kids at least to have hyphenated last names. Thing is we come from two different cultures and I wouldn’t like losing that sense of culture myself. I’m a bit unique yere
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:40 PM
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My gf doesn’t work today and had to go to downtown and is going to get lunch there and pick up an entree for my dinner after I come home from the work and gym 😁 let’s go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:36 PM
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They don’t date extremely up as well I’m not arguing g that they don’t date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:33 PM
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Yeah used to be a thing when woman didn’t really have much financial options back in the day. Not as much these days especially since both partners work at least in the US. Typically in marriages where the man has most of the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:02 PM
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I would view not paying child support as morally wrong. But either ways OP says I’m being too technically but generally anyone gambling for this money would be typically doing so legally or receiving a bonus would be a work bonus put on your w2 and/or 1099. I’m sure there are numerous exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:57 PM
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I would view it as wrong. Why are you hiding something like that? But I’m someone who believes in financial transparency. I assume most people here are American.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:55 PM
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Because if you divorce, your marriage partner is entitled to half of any assets. You can hide it all you want but you have to claim it on your taxes, not doing so is tax fraud. So there is a paper trail somewhere if someone wants to dig
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:40 PM
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Yes and surprised you have a red pill flair if you can’t accept that? Isn’t one of the pillars of red pill accepting female dating nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:25 PM
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Pretty sure accepting the situation even if it isn’t the “fairest” is that, is it easier me to change a whole other sexes dating dynamic or me to change my approach and be more passive and more risk taking in asking woman out? The difference between me being passive vs active in dating was huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:48 PM
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Problem is at least early dating typically the man puts in more initiative then the woman then it flips at some point during a relationship. Typically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:26 AM
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Your problem is you don’t show interest nor ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:42 AM
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It seems like monkey dancing to a lot of people is just showing interest in general and the daring and texting that comes with it. Most of the dudes at least in here already complain about monkey dancing before even having asked girls out. I know I’ve seen a few
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:32 AM
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I enjoy nonpassive woman but chasing to me implies no reciprocation so I wouldn’t like that to begin. But I don’t chase I simply play ball, if a woman wants to play ball back I escalate. It’s a dance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:21 AM
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They make me…. Ask her out on a date and then omg I can’t even get this out easily it was so traumatic take her to a meal that I have to think of the location…. I even have to have a conversation with her that I may or may not have to lead 😢 what horror
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:44 AM
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Then we are an agreement in what dumpster diving is for us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:20 AM
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Not saying they are making much money off of it more like a side thing. You know for the betterment of woman or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:15 AM
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Yes I’ve seen it. Woman approach good looking dudes. But you know the dudes are typically interacting in someway wherever they are. Not sitting in the corner with an unemotional face like in the image below . And before someone says “well this one time I saw…” I’m talking generalizations not exceptions. At this point we have to come up with mega-god level Chad who just sits there like a plant and the woman pull his pants off because a regular Chad is pulling good vibes and interacting, escalatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:12 AM
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Well yeah I do agree couples tend to be looks matched, have seen a few in like hmmm, good looking woman are with men that have good qualities. I tend so similar things as you Michelin star dinners, expensive climbing gym, etc. I do still see unattractive people just a lot less than when I lived in rural Georgia but the mid women were typically with mid men And maybe our definitions of dumpster diving is circumstantial, if your a mid man dating mid woman that isn’t dumpster diving for you compare…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:07 AM
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Similar to my experience from the man’s side when I’ve been having a bad day or hear some bad news or face an anxiety. Many people take being “emotional” as being a crying baby who breaks down at the sign of any resistance or fear. I’m just in tune with my emotions. When I’m happy I’m smiling laughing really good mood, sad I’m stating why I’m sad, angry I’m stating I’m angry not punching walls, annoyed maybe my face is a bit annoyed looking but I’m not doing anything stupid to make it obvious. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:02 AM
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Well then he must have god level looks then and tall what can I say. At this point. Is wife hot or looks matched with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:56 PM
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I’ve never stated that looks don’t matter at all. That’s ridiculous they do matter. The better you look the easier it gets, but most men are you know average looking at best or slightly above it and then below. The men who can do nothing but just be hot are so few in numbers, they are the exception. And even then they still have to do something. And for all you know he has 1 on 1 rizz. Even if it’s nothing flashy looking. That dude autistic unemployed whatever, I’ve always stayed you can’t be bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:13 PM
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I’m pretty sure there are plenty of niche dating coaches like this for woman. I doubt they are getting as much bites as rage bait videos like redpilled ones are getting. Edit: Matthew Hussey exists, my gf listens to him, I always heard her listening to someone thought he was more niche but he has over 1 million YouTube subscribers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:53 PM
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Same as me. It took trial and error and it pays off. Some people are able to do this earlier in life in their teens, others in their 20(probably a lot of us here) the rest give up before truly trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:52 PM
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When I was like you in my early 20s I thought a bit similar. But my friends that were more like me than they were to a perfect man still got girls. What what gives? Oh they aren’t in their head worrying about making any wrong move…. They simply lived life and if a mistake was made what can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:51 PM
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See at least with these types and are self aware about I can respect. But there are plenty others that will blame it on say their looks for example or that everyone is against them. Or that the other gender isn’t catering to them. And plenty of these people can’t hear otherwise or look past social media brain rot .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:52 PM
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Come on bro there is not such thing as rizz calm down. Chad just sits there and woman crawl up on him -a man who can’t look a woman in the eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:40 PM
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Infamous user sharp engineer went bezerk and tried to dox me after going through my profile and claiming I larped about going on a cherry date. Only thing is she claimed I’m a south asian man in Nepal or at least stealing his pics. The photo wasn’t even close to the video she posted. And other users know me decent enough to call out the bullshit. She deleted her account shortly after
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:33 PM
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I do not get how some people in here get this mindset in here that you have to some perfect specimen of a man to get into a relationship or have good dates. Do these people not step outside? I see so many types of different people in relationships of different shapes, race, size, etc. Even at my lowest point I saw this and knew looks is at best a percent of the pie even with the social media rage baits going on. What do you think it is? Is internet culture getting this worse and worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:24 PM
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Well one maybe I got good genes but I’m short so then…. I guess it doesn’t entirely mean you need all these. And I dated plenty even when I was broke And you do care because then you wouldn’t be in a subreddit about relationship dynamics between the sexes to begin with complaining about them. Personally idc about drinking and you don’t see me in alcoholic subreddits about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:00 PM
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Congrats 3 of those things out of the 5 are within your control 😁 you’re telling me it’s possible. And 1 of those things the financial one doesn’t matter as much because it’s common knowledge that the poorest people have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:52 PM
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Congrats 3 of those things out of the 5 are within your control 😁 you’re telling me you can do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:51 PM
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Cool similar as same woman, doesn’t mean we don’t have the stuff I just explained hardwired in the monkey side of our brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:50 PM
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Nope because the way the game works is you as a man show effort making the first move. She then shows a bit of interest back. It’s a dance that creates tension until eventually you make another move that escalates the relationship. If you aren’t getting the interest or reciprocated effort back then you got your answer and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:47 PM
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That’s even worse tho to compare. Because biologically you don’t face the consequences of sex that woman face such as pregnancy and how vulnerable that leaves you. The effort you put in is essentially showing the investment you are willing to put into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:44 PM
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Life isn’t fair, some people are born millionaires through their parents. You have to deal the card your dealt with. 99 percent of us have to put in effort for what we want such as relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:33 PM
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You need to have more self respect of knowing when to walk away even it hurts you more in the short term. Long term it’s only going to hurt you more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:27 PM
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These same guys think “Chad” just sits back and doesn’t do any “monkey dancing”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:15 PM
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I wish, i completely forgot the cherries set off my bowels 😩. But they are so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:53 PM
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If you are using the Reddit app it’s been acting funny the past few days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:14 PM
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Life is good, almost the weekend, I almost finished all my cherries. Coworker bought me lunch. My body isn’t sore. And I havnt actually gained weight like I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:09 PM
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I notice with a lot of incel/blackpill posters there’s this idea where if a woman doesn’t only desire you when you put in as min effort then it’s not real as someone else probably didn’t need to do that. But it’s all cope at the end of the day to justify why they are what they
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:50 PM
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Did you have any holes to fill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:42 PM
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Yes even if people are wanting kids less especially woman. Stuff like this is still hardwired into us and reinforced as we grow up . Granted I think societal expectations are decreasing as you can be a weirdo looking person and find your polycule if that’s what you want. But what I’m saying is a general premise for heterosexual monogamous relationships. Of course exceptions are there but it’s much easier to be the norm than try and be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:33 PM
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Yep as an ex neurotic and passive man, I accepted that if I want to do good with woman I have to be active about dating. I don’t care about putting effort or being a dancing monkey. Guess what those chads you see and talk about they don’t care about being a dancing monkey either as much as yall think he doesn’t put in effort. He does put in effort, he doesn’t care and seems effortless to him. All these things made me realize that being passive and neurotic are the worst things you can be to woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:30 PM
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I agreed it’s just social media brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:27 PM
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It’s simple biology, of course the woman chooses, for reproductive purposes sperm is plentiful. She has one egg then has to devote 9 months to pregnancy in bringing the baby to the world. You know who end up single mothers typically? Woman who don’t let men invest in them. Smarter woman know a man’s investment increases the chance he is involved in providing and protecting her when she is most vulnerable. That is life and how humans evolved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:25 PM
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IMO that’s not how it works, you still have to have the sense of it reality tracking. If some hot dude is hitting up a very unattractive girl there would be some sense of “what’s the catch?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:14 PM
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I’m a man and same. Me and my woman have no problem stating if someone is attractive or not to each other. There is a bit of jealousy at time but it’s more banter because we are both adults and looks isn’t everything at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:33 PM
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Damn bro idk what woman you attract but I’ve always had woman cook stuff for me. I think n it’s one of those things where if you aren’t it you aren’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:23 PM
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The only place I hear these level of standards are TikTok/insta reel compilations for rage bait views.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:51 PM
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Yes leg day and rocking climbing yesterday 💪🏼 Yes right now I have a betta fish Yes I have a couple. My virginity was lost in a 18-wheeler cabin bed. The condom broke, wasn’t sure if I came in her or not, cried on the drive home 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:49 PM
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I can tell you as a dude who gets a good bit of matches, compliments from people you aren’t attracted to especially when you know you are hot/pretty/beautiful don’t matter. Woman aren’t dumb they know what men are in there for a lot of them just trying to fuck and some date Unless your goal is strictly to be on the app for validation then typically your goal is go on dates or talk to people you are actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:45 PM
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Could be something off with the dudes vibe. Vibes are very important when persuing anyone. You make the vibe seem like you are way better than her and it turns the woman off for example
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:31 PM
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These guys who do chadfishing and Stacy fishing shit usually lost in the sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:25 PM
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I didn’t realize that dating apps were only for getting the biggest quantity of compliments. Could it be these woman are actually looking for a quality and compatible partner with similar life views and goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:24 PM
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Good job man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:22 PM
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Let me guess all the men that are not that are in relationships with woman…. She doesn’t truly desire them… Such a black pill cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:19 PM
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Sounds like they aren’t your friend, your just a pair of ears to them tbh. If that’s literally the only thing they speak to you about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:48 PM
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So this is multiple woman who do this? I don’t know what you are doing to end up in that situation. At most I get are my woman friends talking about a date or to vet a guy but never anything in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:03 AM
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I mean nothing wrong with shooting your shot if you think there is something there. But don’t get highly upset if it doesn’t turn out how you expect. It’s okay to be a bit bummed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:44 AM
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Doesn’t sound like she your friend if that’s what you are to her only and you gain no benefit from her. Don’t know what to tell you. I’ve seen plenty of dudes I wouldn’t call good looking who have woman friends like I do and it’s easy way to meet other woman that they date. Don’t know what to tell you, but if she telling you about her fuck buddy boy toy you went in too homosexual pilled and your one of the girls. And this is coming from someone who is a bit woman brained myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:38 AM
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Yes, there is nothing wrong with having woman friends. Guess who has good ideas that other woman enjoy? Yes woman! Guess who gives you social proof that you interact with woman so you may not be a total weirdo? You guessed it. Guess who can give you a different perspective on situations your guy friends might not?…. Look I’m not here to say this is going to solve all your issues but there are benefits many don’t see. I’m even one who says don’t get too much dating advice on how to date woman fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:12 AM
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Oh I’ve seen the US version but never the UK. So I can’t compare the two
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:07 AM
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I know the show I’m just not sure what it has to do with the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:00 AM
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I’m sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:22 AM
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I’ll name a non-physical one the ability to banter I just cannot live without banter and I’ve gone on dates with women who cannot banter and it’s not something I want to do again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:16 AM
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Looks at post history Yes bro whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:40 AM
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I love when my woman pays for my meal 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:17 AM
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I don’t dislike you for that more pity you for it. I dislike you because who your favorite user tho it reinforces some of my beliefs about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:57 AM
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This is the answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:35 AM
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Thinks their height is the reason for the celibacy. Found in men of up to average heights
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:34 AM
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This seems to be some foreign take because this doesn’t happen with most American woman. I’m a Latino and totally live up for Latino lover stereotype and giving her pleasure is part of the game and keeps the ladies cumming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:33 AM
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Wait are the heightcels wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:08 AM
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I have not met this person yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:53 PM
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I agree passion is sexy no matter what you do!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:53 PM
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Yep in my experience a lot of kisses and enthusiasm does the trick. Looking in your partners eyes, heavy breathing…. Listening to be receptive to moans and whimpers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:48 PM
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Okay I got in trouble for the last one! Let’s spread positivity! Who is your favorite ppd user?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:44 PM
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So essentially being good is being receptive, paying attention to partner, and enthusiasm!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:43 PM
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This is one of those things that’s a definite power thing. Essentially saying look I’m such high status or whatever that I can get girls without trying to look good. We have a guy in ppd here who does it with poor Filipinas even tho he is 300lbs close to and on disability. But it’s US disability but he in phillipines so he is essentially rich over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:01 PM
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Who is the saddest person on ppd in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:47 PM
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Did your sidekick die after saving your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:41 PM
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Yeah Komodo seems like the easiest to evade out of the other 3, maybe if I can keep the rhino in one room I can hide in the other room as I doubt it can fit through the doorframe and it doesn’t have a running start. The ape and cat are gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:06 PM
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Wow what a chad already has girls throwing themselves at him. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:55 PM
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Maximizing one’s life through growth, learning, and embracing life in general with your loved ones to the best of your ability 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:29 PM
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The more I lifemax the better quality woman I have as a partner 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:42 PM
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Something has been wrong with the Reddit as well the last two days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:54 PM
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Most people are regular people, yes even regular people have sex and get into relationships is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:29 PM
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Could be two different groups of people tbf, woman not talking praise about their partners for example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:36 PM
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Just getting to a relationship means your chad to a few people here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:32 PM
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They would excel in sales and marketing. Edit: I’ll also add in the medical field. Good beside manners can greatly increase your patient’s satisfaction and also makeup for lesser clinical skills to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:22 PM
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Brother was committed to the gooning. Kind of sad sounds like a porn addiction there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:12 PM
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No, stuff like this seems to be directed at a crush the person currently has or their current romantic partner. But no desired and having my desire for her reciprocated. I’ve had a woman from the other side of the country somehow get my phone number, Snapchat, insta from a TikTok video that had none of those that I posted that she got obsessed with me for like two weeks and was calling me. Let’s just say after the first day I was done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:26 PM
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Beat it chick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:40 PM
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Yess I’m aware of that but there is some anonymity here that I would hope bring some responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:01 AM
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I would argue many on this sub are terrible daters. Some of it may not be their fault tho. I don’t think you end up on this space without having some sort of social difficulty. People in this space are what imagine a group of people who have difficulty with the nuances of escalating and progressing social relationships whether romantic or friendly. I’ll leave it at romantic as I would it’s harder from a social standpoint to form a romantic relationship than a friendly one especially with courtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:50 AM
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Oh I misread that as Ex bf and not that she is your ex friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:46 AM
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How much do you pay for this type of content
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:31 AM
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Let me take a guess you are passive and neurotic 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:11 AM
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How much are we talking on a monthly basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:06 AM
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Hmmm I did not think about that, I would imagine there is still porn being produced on the free sites maybe not of the same quality it once was now with onlyfans. Would you say the quality of onlyfans is dollar per dollar than say a subscription to one of the paid sites that give you a collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:06 AM
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Interesting was the cause of the relationship to end or at least one of the reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:04 AM
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Is lore Olympus smut? I just quickly googled it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:03 AM
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Tell me about this app? How did you find out about it, and is it mostly like an AI voice and text thing or does it have more video features as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:02 AM
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You are too broke to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:31 AM
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You are too broke to know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:31 AM
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Case is in point ^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:45 PM
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If they really want to they can, at best I can only make them think about it for minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:48 PM
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I’ve defintely stopped my drunk friend from continuing to engage with the tortas or go home with them. It’s more protecting your friends even at the other persons expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:45 PM
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I agree, it’s like complaining about the complexities of calculus while you have an F in algebra. A therapist is needed and what’s going on with your basic social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:07 PM
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Most people your age are. I would definitely learn at least finance 101s, compound interest and investing into index funds
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:00 PM
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Oh my bad, are you in college or any form of training? What are your hobbies? I think this is the best time to find out what you actually like to do and dedicate your free time to learning them to grow your self and what you like out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:59 PM
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I think I had a top reply in that thread , and the only caveat is that there was no indication who the thread was made for. It seemed like it was made for the crowd who doesn’t have friends to begin with but it wasn’t…. It was for the crowd who does have friends who probably don’t need that advice as they probably always go to friends parties. I more commented for the sake of the first crowd who needs help on how to be socially likeablle in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:57 PM
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Make your moves early, learn what doesn’t work with woman while young. You can afford to get plenty of tries now as man woman your age are single. You’ll more than likely not see these woman when you are in your late 20s. It gets easier the older you get, but only if you actually put in the effort. Don’t let these “if it didn’t happen in school don’t even try bro” it’s a toxic mindset of crabs in a bucket mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:47 PM
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I can eat a lot of cherrys but pineapples are good too. Banana is my favorite it goes with peanut butter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:37 PM
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Yeah I’ve been complimented by woman plenty for my physique but no one is saying shit like “fuck me” because of my build. That’s man porn fantasy. They are more subtle about it, but it’s way easier to play off that than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:15 PM
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He went from mommy’s sweet boy to girls calling him daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:12 PM
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I agree a lot of men don’t even try to pursue these days. They got rejected in their teens at worst and then made it their whole schtick that why even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:31 PM
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I’ve hardly seen people that proclaim being leftist also be the same people who love traveling. Maybe 1 or 2 from my recollection. But those two things are two different types of woman. I went on dates with multiple woman who traveled a lot. Wasn’t going to work with my schedule so it wasn’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:24 PM
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You know I think with woman you are correct but they are much more subtle with their words. When they say stuff like that it’s already implied by them that they find the man physically attractive or at the very least not ugly. You are correct tho they are less likely to openly state it. But that seems to be an older woman thing as I find woman in their 20s are defintely not shy to say they want a cute man or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:47 PM
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Yep, it’s why I role my eyes when some willl say “all that matters is that she is pretty and not fat” as if nothing else matters for men. It’s BS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:30 PM
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Yeah I’m not a huge black pill fan but there are some men who will be unluckily born with defects or deformity. But there is a sizable amount (at least half) of them that can absolutely improve their profile, looks, value, etc. to get matches and messages and even dates. Granted they would have to learn the song and dance part of acquiring the date but a lot of us have learned it as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:26 PM
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There’s a lot of not wanting to actually form a friendship with your partner going on this subreddit. Being in a relationship with someone is the ultimate form of friendship where you are in a deep connection with someone which includes physical and sexual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:22 PM
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It’s a multiplier, like think a rpg, improves your whatever state by like 10-20 percent, obviously imif your match or message back rate is low or zero at all it’s not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:19 PM
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Rest day for me today 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:35 PM
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A good and witty bio can have woman messaging you first more likely to message you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:34 PM
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I see couples like this all the time. They are attractive yes but not far off from typical good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:32 PM
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I imagine you can also call “stood up” as flakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:31 PM
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A lot of people can’t view past their own problems and highly minimize others problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:30 PM
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Oh well then do what works for you. Tbh the ignore move worked for me once without meaning too but most woman tend to just move on from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:47 PM
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I do think op might use flaking and ghosting as the same. Flaking defintely did happen. But I do agree ghosting is a much numerous phenomenon today due to dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:44 PM
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Thank you. I have a very similar experience as you. I will add that another area where I see this happen is with single moms, if they end up dating a man without kids he is usually someone they would not have looked at if she didn’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:37 PM
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Yeah agreed idk what people think was going on that asking out a girl even if you were a shy neurotic dummy never lead to a rejection or a ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:32 PM
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How do you know if you actually landed the date or if she was going to flake this entire time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:28 PM
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Yeah some blue pill advice sucks but honestly what did you think was going to happen after she already flaked once. This is why I’m purple pilled. Don’t try to friend a woman first if you want to date them. It’s terrible advice, unless you are already in her social group it’s futile. The best interactions I can say to talk to woman if wanting to flirt or casually interact is to treat her like your annoying little sister. It makes you not treat the convo as serious. And don’t try to hang out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:25 AM
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What was the blue pill advice in this? Ask her out again after she flaked on you once already?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:16 AM
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Yep, I’m also proof the other way around that being short isn’t a blockade. It really is in the vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:14 AM
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Similar to me always interests me especially as a man who use to “not get it” but now I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:13 AM
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Crazies typically he has gone a bit toward the weird side
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:12 AM
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Aaron Rodgers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:33 AM
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Depends where you live but number obesity rates are pretty similar between man and woman in the US under 40. Is there a reason you aren’t meeting fit or normal bmi woman? Do you live rural?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:33 AM
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Because biologically the woman does the pregnancy part
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:30 AM
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What more specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:04 AM
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Sometimes there isn’t an answer for things and you have to learn to move forward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:01 AM
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I do feel like so many here have their brain rotted from too much internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:00 AM
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Man I’ve seen some posts on there where they havnt even met the man in person yet but matched on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:37 AM
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I like to think reading anything on Reddit is better for my brain than sitting watching tv, my vocab gets better. I get better at processing. Granted maybe not ppd stuff but it’s too juicy not too read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:34 AM
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Doesn’t seem pro woman tbh, seems more overrun with neurotic people. And the takes are pretty varied but a lot of blackpilled people come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:22 AM
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Similarly I have simple for the more anxious youths. I was very anxious and neurotic when I was younger and all the things that happen in hindsight are so minuscule when not listenjng to social media clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:20 AM
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Why are you guys on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:02 AM
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Most men are normal and get rejected then move on to the next woman. I’m sure there is one or two that took your rejection to heart that made then jaded tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:37 AM
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It’s kind of weird he is doing this in front of his wife. Like I get it attractive people are out there and it’s hard to not see them…. But does he really have to stare at his daughter’s friends and look at pics of them in front of his wife? But I will add something, older woman do make inappropriate comments towards younger men as well. I work in healthcare so a majority of my coworkers are woman. Let’s just say I’ve heard some stuff towards others and me and have been touched inappropriately. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:33 AM
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Basically it’s “I still want to see you but I also want to see others as well” in a nicer way it’s not a flat out rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:23 AM
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