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/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:07 AM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:37 AM

This is the only answer that is needed for 99% of these posts. I honestly don't even know why I visit thjs sub, it's the same brain dead questions asked 20 different ways. I guarantee all the marriages and relationships started before dating apps would not be with their current partners . They got with who was in their circle and sometimes the options weren't so good. .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:46 PM
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They never stop wanting chad of course. But they have to make due with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:35 AM
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Be attractive or don't. Or wait till you're age group hits mid 30sish and your looks won't matter as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:45 AM
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Nah, nah this ain't it. I know a female pick me and the shit she says is just regurgitated Kevin Samuels nonsense. I swear she's trying to convince herself of the nonsense she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:47 AM

In my early 20s I was sexually frustrated and confused when it came to women. Plus i started reading redpill stuff and when you don't have any social intelligence, you end up angry at women spouting dumb shit online. Not saying the redpill didn't help me, but ultimately becoming socially aware and skilled is what really payed off. i was already good looking but would turn women off saying dumb shit in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:43 PM

Dude you're nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:37 PM

No idea, but dude just sent me 5 angry paragraphs that describe how I'm full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:25 PM

Yes I spend my free time bragging to women whom I'll never meet, you got me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:59 PM

Dude just told on himself. 2 minutes yeah, I did that when me and my ex use to fuck in alleys. But in a more conventional setting lmao I could last for 20 minutes or more. The key is to take breaks, some foreplay to edge that shit so when you do cum, you fall asleep immediately for two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:22 PM

Speak for yourself man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:17 PM

Contrary to belief just nutting is not good sex for me. Probably because I'm a borderline sex addict. Sometimes you meet someone that brings an energy that makes you wonder where they've been all your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:17 PM

Dude making women cum is far easier then it is to cum as a man. It's taken me 4 minutes maximum to eat a girl out and make her orgasm. My ex would cum from me using my fingers in like 30 seconds. As for me , it takes me 10 minutes of of fucking, and unless your a throat goat, you getting me off with head is gonna take me a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:10 PM

I've had female acquaintances tell me they aren't seeing anybody, that they're just happy by themselves just to magically appear pregnant shortly after. There's always at least one guy in the picture to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:45 AM
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Lmao right . The overwhelming majority of men are clearly not rapist, lmao. Women using manipulative language soesnt make them bad people. For example , women liking dad bads, we all know it's a bunch of BS that's just virtue signalling , does that make them bad people no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:56 PM
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Pretty accurate I'd say. I mean look at all those gym tik toks where the women were manufacturing situations in which men were allegedly creeping on them. It was all a ruse to garner status and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:33 PM
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I'll be sure to coach my son as he gets older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:34 PM
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Whenever I thought I myself first, my decision making was always more logically sound.the times I made the dumbest choices i was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:25 PM
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I agree. I don't understand why marriage is considered a goal. It's just a relationship. Maybe because I'm selfish naturally but relationships just don't seem all that important to me and I'm in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:12 PM
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Women change their dating strategy to finding a long term partner versus one that just turns them on sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:08 PM
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This is just a hypothesis so bare with me. The motive may have been projection. These women may have wanted a black man or so on and did not know how to handle these feelings of attraction and so on obviously because it wasn't ok back then. So to rid oneself of these these feelings they'd prove to themselves they'd accused said men as a ways of justifying to themselves they in fact hate black men as a way of soothing their ego. You see it all the time in politicts where some dude will say make l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:58 PM
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Men tend to behave like men and women tend to behave like women. I don't need to provide citations to prove something that's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:45 PM
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The women aren't a monolith is a stupid way to stifle an argument/discussion. Of course not all women are the same, outliers exists. But in every conversation regarding human behaviours it's implied that we speak in generalities. There are patterns that both men and women tend to follow respective of their gender. Yiu csn say what you want but we are not all that different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:33 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:23 PM
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Thank the internet, at some point you see through the bullshit. Feel sorry for the billions of men prior to the internet that had to figure this shit out on their own , assuming they didn't just resort to what they knew out of fear of being ostracised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:22 PM
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He's not wrong you just don't understand that what he's saying is an abstract concept. In layman's terms women use language to controll narratives to maintain their standing yet influence people's behaviours to suit their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:20 PM
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I feel like being confident and ugly is just setting yourself up for more unwarranted pain. Rather aim to just be secure with yourself and understand things as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:17 PM
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I came to the hypothesis that women use shame based language to create narratives to absolve themselves of certain behaviours that may be perceived as negative ,yet advance their imperative, while also using language to manipulate men into not understanding sexual dynamics and attraction as a means of retaining power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:15 PM
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I feel bad for women to be honest. It seems like every interaction, choice they make is a poorly calculated decision to get the best of everything instead of just appreciating what's in front of you and living for thr moment. They're always calculating what to say, who to chose to get thr best out come but their Achilles heel is their emotion. Sucks for them because I can enjoy what'd in front of me without always feeling like there's better out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:11 PM
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How does one become confident, when they've never had a reason to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:22 PM

You'd be shocked at how unaware most men are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:59 PM

How would he know she settled...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:57 AM

Here comes the " if u look outside normal people are in relationships, including fat and non muscular men". Ok well if women don't want to be alone foe the rest of their lives they are going to have to settle jn that department , doesn't mean they don't prefer having a much more attractive partner , just make do with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:12 AM

Ok your logic makes sense, but choice do they have when thr majority of men are not lean and do not workout. They'd much rather be with a lean muscular dude generally speaking. But will justify their choice in rationale to appease their partners self esteem, their dating option and preserve social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:10 AM
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they aint findin them. As a man it sucks to say, but attractive men are not very common to begin with, and a lot of the ones that were, tend to go to shit when they hit 30 for some rare exceptions. But if you are that rare exception, its like god mode. Im 31 and lift 5 days a week, and do a mile run each session. Dress nice, and probably obsess over my hygiene probably to an unhealthy level and I can see the huge divide already in men who take care of themselves , and the ones that dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:20 PM
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We should have a discussion where everyone posts a picture of themselves. I'm curious to see thr faces of many of these opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:56 PM
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The desirability is a misconception. The appreance of things getting easier in their 30s is because women their age want to get married and are searching for a long term partner. They instinctively know that the men they desire on a sexual level are rare, taken, and out of their league so they drop their looks requirements and raise requirements in other areas such as finances, lifestyle, because if they aren't sexualky attracted to , then their has to be other tangible benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:32 AM

Basically with I had something to.add but yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:10 PM

Dude it's just more cry babies. They should go to the middle east and they'll find their devout wife who won't cheat or somethin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:56 PM

Lame , I enjoy getting laid , just because you csnt doesn't mean apps need to be banned. Women like who they like, if that isn't you, we'll damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:55 PM

Oh christ, so because there are men who can't get laid. This is a societal problem. There have always been men who csnt hey laid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:52 PM
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I personally see it as more of a challenge, I don't challenge myself for women , they are simply the by product of me excelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:29 PM
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Yeah we also don't know what 99% of these dudes look like who complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:14 PM
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What does any of this have to do with men not understanding thst womem aren't something you earn or will be able to attain for many
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:12 PM
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Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:00 PM
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I think Nietzsche is a little irrelevant and more complex then this.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:59 PM
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I don't blame them at all. It sucks ass, especially when everyone gives you unrealistic just plain bad advice that fucks with your perception of what's actually going on around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:53 PM
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I'm legit confused who and what are you referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:52 PM

Not too hard in Europe I moved to Germany from California and German dudes make shit so laughably easy for foreign men to score. Most have beer guts by 30 and flirt like they are reading from a script.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:24 PM

This is when the blue pill dudes on here or women will say ," I see average guys with gf and in marriages all the time". Like no shit. There's mathematically not enough attractive men to get into and ltr with, but there's enough dick to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:23 PM

Go to Iraq then. If you need society to force women to want to stay with you then idk, sounds kinda lame. If my girl wants to bounce, she can bounce I don't need societal shame to force her to stay. Why would I want a partner who's only staying with me because of peer pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:21 PM
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"HEY HUN WOULD YOU LIKE ME TO PLACE MY THROBBING ERECT PENIS INSIDE OF YOUR VAGINA , YA MIGHT LIKE IT ;)". I think some of your are truly lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:29 PM
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Unless you know what's inside of the men's heads how do you know they are pretending not to be desperate. This is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:56 PM
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Friends with benefits, I could care less about what she was doing when i wasn't around. and I also said I "was". Almost like you failed to read an entire sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:40 PM
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Often plain Jane is getting dicked down by the dude they want to be ghosted cause he has options. There'd also that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:49 AM
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Lmao it was the complete opposite. Dudes were desperate as hell. One guy told her he'd uber 3 hours to see her. The messages were just lame as hell, to meet some annoying 19 year old. Sorry man I got your revenge fantasy hopes up, these dudes were sad at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:38 AM
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Both have their unique issues relative to their gender. Women have easier access to men, yes but having a high number of candidates doesn't mean they are good quality. But if you're a man starved of attention and opportunities with women, you don't perceive women's issues with dating as problematic because you only see that they have options where you have none. I get it, I'm 31 and as I get older I'm not lacking any options, but the quality of women in my age range takes a fucking nose dive. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:31 AM
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I asked a girl I was seeing from time to time her tinder just so I could see what it was like . 99% of her messages from dudes were just straight garbage. Having options doesn't mean they are good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:35 AM
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Once again nuances...... Some people are good at dating, but not good at ltr ,marriage. Complete different dynamics when you live with someone , share finances ,have children with. Much different then dating someone who you don't share a home with and might see every other day. They could be good people just not good together. You really lack experience and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:31 AM
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Damnn you really hit them with the "my sweet summer child". Since yiu don't understand nuances in life, there can be toxic situations in any relationship dynamic, whether separated or married, but to subject children to two parents who no longer want to be together is an inherently toxic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:06 AM

Same man once I hit 18 I was seen as just another expense and a few days after I graduated I was kicked out. Became apparent to me that my family didn't want me around for reasons to this day I do not understand. I was fresh out of high school and didn't have a single clue as to how survive in the world as I wasn't taught anything, crazy how that was my fault.It was a horrible feeling to be told I was an extra mouth to feed taking up resources. I felt guilty for eating food out of the fridge,and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:00 AM
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Not seeing everyone as a means to an end. I source my happiness from doing things that I enjoy and being self sufficient. Having principles and understanding nuances. People seem to not hold themselves to a standard and don't take the time to understand the world around them from different perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:14 AM

My curent gf is the one of the few women im actually taller then. My last ex was around 5'9-5'10. About 2 inches taller them me give or take, and most of the others were about the same. I actually had a coworker a few years back tell me I was too short for her and not her type and ended up smashing her a week later, she was taller then me. So idk how much of their self reported preferences are even true or not.The ones that obsess or put height in their bios have always been batshit crazy. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:46 AM

Dude this entire sub exist because people refuse to be honest. I said before in another posts, you're either attractive or you aren't, it's that simple. But people will come up with literally a million reasons to overcomplicate something in an attempt to delude themselves into not facing reality as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:35 AM

The height obsessed girls are nuts anyway. Once they date someone that's tall it becomes their entire personality. I kind don't mind that im slightly below average heigh because if I'm pulling a girl that means in my mind I'm truly attractive. I know a lot of dudes if they were my height wouldn't get any play to speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:28 AM

I feel for them I really do. I was in a club a few years ago when a woman approached me , started dancing whatever. Mind u, she approached me, she then looks me up and down and says wow you're short. She was wearing heels and we were the same height. Spends the next 30 seconds complaining about my height saying she wishes i was taller. I see her outside the club later talking to what appeared to be the tallest guy in the area. Ok cool congrats. Imagine if I walked up to a girl and said hey you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:23 AM

I'm 5'8 , and up until tinder became a thing I didn't even think I was short. I had a complex about beng asked my height because every single woman I have ever talked to online brought this up as if this was the single deciding most important question that was on their mind. Every single one of them asked me this. I like fat asses, but it doesn't even cross my mind to ask any woman online for a booty pic , because that's the dumbest reason to not be interested in dating someone. Your ass is only…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:12 AM
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They aren't attractive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:04 AM
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They won't listen man. They think the app is working against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:35 PM
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Cause people need something to blame . Tinder isn't doing anything. All it does it hosts available people who are seeking another person. Anything other then that is up to the behaviir of the people on there. People can't reconcile that the same people on tinder exists outside of the app , and If they weren't attractive online, then that's just a symptom of the technology instead of their lack of desirability as a person. In my opinion tinder is the ultimate fool proof way of knowing how sexuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:05 PM

I don't have an answer man because we lack the social infrastructure even for attractive men to meet women. The only time people leave their homes is to spend money or make it sadly. I've ran through my share of woman and only one girl I didn't meet at a bar or tinder, she was a coworker.....which I don't recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:46 PM

We truly make the most simplest things and turn them into endless debates , revealing mass delusion and utter insanity. I learned one thing in all my readings, be attractive, or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:30 PM

This is nuts bro. No one deserves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:56 PM
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I really don't even know why i visit this sub anymore tbh. It was more to observe what others were thinking regarding the sexual climate today, but now I see it's just the same old rehashed nonsense everyday. It's simply really, be attractive, and if you're not 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:00 PM
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Dude no one csn take away your preferences. U just aren't entitled to any of them. Both genders attack each other online for having preferences of either person feels excluded from having a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:58 PM
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I think a lot of people because of past societal norms kind of grow up thinking that in time they'll just happen to be matched with someone only to fight the reality that nothing in life is guaranteed . They saw the older generations and assumed that at some point they'd attract someone only to realise some people are just too ugly, too unpleasant for anyone to want them and that's just what it is. A lot of men on here act like they are owed a woman, a d if they can't get one it's women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:46 PM
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Dude you're splitting hairs , I don't even get what you're point is, everything she said was pretty sound logic. People have standards, not depending on what they themselves have to offer is what allows them to obtain such persons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:40 AM
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Like what's the point of debating it , women like attractive men, and men need to understand women are wired to to give answers that preserve their social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:31 AM
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I don't see why this should be a topic of discussion, they are just having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:37 AM

Bro I keep saying this. I'm not gay , but i recognise attractive men and say " damn that dude is good looking". But that shit is like once every blue moon. Most men put absolutely, I mean absolutely no effort in their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:12 AM

I live in germany too man and when I came here ,my God, everything just felt more natural. The women were eager to meet me and shit just flowed right. Stateside ..........jesus christ it was endless games of cat and mouse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:12 AM

You're projecting, I never said men owe women anything. I said u can't expect women to want men who aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:49 PM

It's a two way street cry baby
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:26 PM

My gf has a friend.she only likes black Americans who are 6ft and taller. Mind you we live in germany. She also has two kids in her early 30s. We live near a military base. Most of the black army dudes are in their 20's and most go home to the states. And she's not attractive and refuses to date European men.she has literally disqualified 99.9% of the male population in her area, yeah.......
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:25 PM

Men don't need to be attracted to someone to have sex. Come on man you know how desperate men get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:44 PM

At least you're honest about wanting money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:29 PM

I understand your logic and depending on what u want out of life it makes sense . But you'd pass over a great guy who might have found himself in a rut over , a mediocre relationship with someone who has their shit together. I guess if u want to have financial security, house, vacations the successful guy makes more sense, assuming he's operating under the understanding thst if he were to lose his finances, his relationship would also be at risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:23 PM

I mean it's pretty bad out there for us men too doending onnwhat country you are at.but women put far more effort on average into their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:07 PM

You like what you like, I personally don't see the point of a romantic interests when you'll only date them when they are financially successful , to each his own. Hope none of your future lovers lose their job
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:05 PM

Professional requirements, hmmmm.........
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:57 PM

That's an interesting response , so they basically lack the insight to understand that he isn't sleeping with you because you're special, he has tons of other options he's doing the exact same thing with. So they aren't seeing the grand scheme if things and this inflate their concept of self. I have a suspicion thst this generation of women is in for a rude awakening when they age out of being able to secure a man of a certain calibre yet find themselves being good enough for casual flings....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:54 PM

There's a difference in a 14 year old willingly having sex with a hooker and enjoying it, versus being brutally raped and taken advantage of . U not being able to understand the difference is a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:48 PM

This man wasn't whining about his experience. He literally stated he had a blast fucking a hooker. Trying to project on to him trauma thst doesn't exists and then try and use that to generalise male abuse is peak projection and disengenuinous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:28 PM

The debate isn't about you getting a date we all know this isn't hard for women the question was csn u get the attractive men u want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:24 PM

I've thought about this too, a large population of women are operating under this assumption that this top tier guy is en route. All they have to do is look around, most dudes are not good looking by any stretch of the imagination, so why are they going to be successfull getting the few attractive men that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:22 PM

I mean, I'm as straight as an arrow but in some ways I feel for women.. I would day 80% if not less ,dependent on where you're at of men put not even the slightest bit of effort into being sexually appealing to women. I get the whole 80/20 rule, but man how can we be mad at women , when we don't give em much to work with. The perception that women only go after the hottest dudes is because those dudes were probably the only ones who put in any effort into themselves. U ever walked into a store a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:11 PM
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What if women started wearing only black socks instead of white ones, these questions are getting absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:28 PM

In what world does it make sense that paying to watch other people have sex , someone dance on you is better then having that sexual experience yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:47 AM

He wasn't abused , imagine trying to victimise someone that had a blast doing shwt he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:45 AM

Ain't nothing wrong with living
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:44 AM

Amen brother. Considering 90% of the men on here are probably sex starved you'd think they'd be more open to sex workers but I reckon most are Americans so, yeah go figure.. these fools will spend 10k on a wedding ring, save themselves for marriage(her requests), endless dinner dates and gifts to and the only thing they end up balls deep in, is a 500k mortgage , car payments, to please some cunt that has a headache every time they wanna do the horizontal mambo. A guaranteed nut in germany cost 8…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:44 AM
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Tell me about it, once u become the attractive man that's when average women suddenly become easier in terms of casual sex. Even normal looking women have standards that exceed the qualities that they themselves lack and it can be quite interesting. Like why did I work out , diet, improve upon myself just to even noticed ad a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:49 PM
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Men that make a lot of money Iks what I had in mind but yeah i get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:05 PM
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some are paying chris brown for a photo, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:49 PM
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I wouldn't even these men are even considered more desirable cause of their increased income, if anything they're just basically a means to an end that's being exploited. Yes there are women who mature in their taste and and prefer a higher quality of man, but those men are largely rare in nature, so if you don't want to be alone, u just kinda do what you have to do, and that means date a man you probably wouldnt be so hot for in the past. But men do this to, how many man actually if they had th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:48 PM
1

This is a horrible take man, most men go into a strip club and know they aren't leaving with any of those women. its just entertainment and doesn't affect their perception of themselves and their prospects in dating. I do agree that theres a large portion of women especially online whos ability to have sex with attractive men skews their perception of what they can't attain for long term, but there's no link between this and men paying naked chicks to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:45 PM
-3

Yep definitely got rape on the mind.....do u know what projection means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:33 PM
1

Dude women had very little agency over anything back then. I'd much prefer current dynamics we have now. Why the fuck would I want a wife who's purely with me out of survival. Starting to think some of u would rape your wives onnthe reg so as long aa the government permitted it or turned a blind eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:55 PM
1

yeah man put waaaaaaay too much though into this. she was prodding him, and had he not gone philosophical on us and questioned the meaning of life, he probably could have gotten laid again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:07 PM
3

why does one women's question regarding your your lack of sex for a whole 3 months (oh no) throw you off. maybe shes getting railed every weekend, why does that mean everyone else would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:05 PM
1

Wow such insight
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 09:03 PM
1

I don't think they understand what you're trying to say. This requires a little self reflection and the ability to overcome cognitive dissonance . The redpill in my in opinion touches on self Improvement and sexual dynamics , female behaviour and how to negotiate it. I agree understanding sexual dynamics and self improving is positive,but there's a thin line where your actions become continent upon the approval of what women find attractive. Redpill points out attractive traits in men that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:14 PM
3

They really are once you've spent years dissecting and reading redpill doctrine so to speak you realise it revolves around women just as much while masquerading as being liberated from the stranglehold of modern dating. when in reality they're essentially trying to be nice guys with an edge because they're adjusting their behavior according to what women find pleasing ,instead of being men worth pursuing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:27 PM
4

I mean he low-key has a point. It's a catch 22 Modern men need to understand sexual dynamics and female nature. But the redpill bases itself so much off of what women are doing and how to respond to it, that it low-key kinda comes across as "beta" in its own way because at what point are you just kind of pandering towards what women want in an effort to be attractive to them . So if women decided all of a sudden decide that what's considered beta is now alpha traits are we going to suddenly be t…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 11:04 AM
15

U just answered 95% of the post ever or will be made on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:52 PM
-3

I'm convinced no one has actually taken the time to read red pill doctrine. So these arguments are already in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:34 AM

As a man I agree , it's just what it's. I don't even understand why you'd want women that aren't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:40 PM
3

Bragging to random men on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/24 08:02 PM
2

Where's the report, you've said absolutely nothing
/r/TheRedPill30/06/24 08:00 PM
-1

The comprehension on here is abysmal as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:23 PM
23

Yeah man i was recently on vacation, and I was in a hostel where I met a girl and two other dudes. One of the guys is drooling over this chick so bad , saying she's perfect gorgeous and so on, but she wasn't feeling him. I exchange numbers with her and we were both working in the same country and area. We head back home and decide to hang out , and I realise she's a horrible emotionally draining person. But then you have guys thst just see her beauty and obsess and project over a person I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:26 PM
4

Everyone gives awful dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:01 PM
0

That's an individual problem for u to decide on. I didn't say I'd want to date and marry a sex worker. My whole point was is they can be ironically be far more straight forward and honest as people about their intentions. Whereas many women utilise their sex appeal and bodies to garner financial means and stability under the pretense of love. I have far more respect for women who speak plainly about their intentions. And no, women don't respect men who do this because it diminishes their sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:57 PM
7

At some point you just get so jaded with people's stupidity at least for me, it kind of began to devalue people in general and their relative worth to me. I have a colleague who's wife fucked a dude in the house while his kids were there. The man blames himself and says he should have been home more so she wouldn't need to drink so much and fuck other guys. At some point u just stop trying to help these people and I don't want to be associated with such weakness .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:50 PM
11

I believe it, I have so many make friends and colleagues who moan to me about their relationships just for me to think, why are u in this. When me and broke up and she left, I was enjoying my peace, in fact I didn't even want a relationship. Relationships are work and can be dtsining and I'm a naturally solitary person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:45 PM
57

As a man once you get over this it's liberating. But it's a catch 22 because, if u aren't getting laid, don't have a satisfying sexual history then it's hard to act like it doesn't bother you. ...do yeah But I remember being in my 20s being an absolute clown to get laid , thinking I needed to be funny, entertaining, successful, jacked, drive a nice car just to fuck someone that doesn't have a semblance of a personality. Fuck about 10 girls and u start to realise it isn't that serious . Most are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:10 PM
0

Soft forms of prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:29 PM
-7

I didn't say marry one, I just offered a different perspective on how to view them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:26 PM
-8

You'd be surprised man. Sex workers are some if the most non bullshit straightforward people you'll ever meet. I get the stigma, but there's tons of women that engage in a soft form of prostitution , it's just socially acceptable to use men as a means to an end if it's wrapped up under the disguise of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:21 PM
1

So what exactly did they lose out on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:15 PM
35

💯 game is is not necessary. Just be normal.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/24 06:18 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:33 PM
2

Lmao I can't tell u how many times I've seen girlz on tinder look amazing and look like potatoes in person. So I would tell a lot of dudes keep in mind she's got on makeup, carefully chose 3 pics out of a few hundred and they are filtered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:33 PM
1

No shit , look outside , there ain't enough of these dudes in existence to go around. I guarantee you 90% of the " need to be 6ft or taller" chicks are going to marry some dude that's 5'9. These insane expectations are going to be interesting to observe when these people get older and have to adjust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:24 PM
1

I wouldn't care, if she's gonna cheat on me, why doess he need to go to another country to do it. Having respect and boundaries is the solution to when someone steps out of line. Like oh u fucked another dude, cool bye. No discussion. But many dudes try and reason with themselves to avoid the loss of someone they love.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 05:59 AM
2

I hate when people do this shit, I dont need to dig up dirt to justify my points.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 06:17 PM
4

exactly man my body count is relatively high and it has not made me happier in the slightest. what makes a man happier is achieving his goals.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 06:09 PM
-1

IDk man cause the way that provides the most peace spells the end of the human race. I spent my entire 20s fucking up a storm until I had my son at 30. But I have control over my situation because I told my gf I dont believe in marriage and I honestly dont care if she leaves or not. So I truly dont have an answer.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 06:07 PM
16

I call it "sleeping awake" .Ive caught myself in this state a few time in my life, where I was just going through the motions putting my passions, ambitions on the backburner because I was worried about some bitch or something frivolous. Glory is for the strong of mind.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 06:03 PM
9

you wouldnt believe how many times my friends asked me when I was going to the gym, just to never show up. how many times they asked me this and that just to never follow through. no one wants the pain that comes with growth , they want the end result.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 06:00 PM
25

Yeah man I have an example. None of my friends travel anywhere or do anything, it that they can't, they just are scared. I just went to barcelona last week by myself. Their response " your gf let u go alone" What do you mean let. You'd think I'm james bond by the way they act when I tell then my travels. All because they need permission to do anything. They gave up.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 01:41 PM
80

I mean this is obviously exagerrated. But I get the principle of this story. We as men are prisoners of our own minds. I'm convinced that marriage is submission. Men who are married give up their autonomy. Their dreams, their existence now is to serve. Hey look " I'm a provider". Not saying don't take care of your kids, but you need to have a life . But no happy wife happy life. The average man especially today marries the first pussy who says hello.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 09:15 AM
6

This. 💯. In addition to this I've been met with out right rage. Had a coworker smash a glass right by me at the bar for not wanting to entertain her advance. Got punched in the face for refusing sex by a rando after the bar closed. Ex would through literal tantrums if I didn't want to fuck her for the third time in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:43 PM
0

Your comment inferred that pretty boys lack substance but men who are less physically blessed have other things to offer of value. Perhaps it's possible that skinny awkward guys can also have shit personalities and that attractive men are also capable of offering other traits of value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:28 PM
10

Because all good looking dudes are dumb.....jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:56 PM
2

Dude you cant expect them to say, " I can't find or attract that men I want to commit with me, so I lessened my standards". Lmao that's never gonna happen. It's the same bullshit that all attractive men are assholes and regular guys have amazing personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:56 PM
1

U understood absolutely nothing I said
/r/TheRedPill16/06/24 09:59 AM
1

I agree. The way society is built now man, when I left my ex it was slim pickings in my day to day interactions. I live in germany and the population is old as fuck. If u don't go to bars and don't live in a big city u could go a week without seeing s cute girl. But thank god for tinder.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/24 06:54 PM
2

Probably just anxiety or something. I use to do this when I wasn't too sure how an Interaction would go
/r/TheRedPill15/06/24 06:49 PM
3

It seems to be an abstract concept for many men to grasps that the women they talk to online are indeed real women that go to bars , dance class, buy tampons on the store. They always say go out and meet real women ...hmm ok.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/24 06:46 PM
1

Demi what,y'all just be making up shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:59 AM
1

This post lacks nuance and draws extreme conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:41 PM
0

Many dudes have no idea the amount of bullshit that can come from fucking the wrong person . Oh she's hot ok, herpes, oh she's hot, she's borderline or a narcissist. Oh she's hot she's emotionally draining, boring. I do agree that men maybe play less games, but we have to wonder why women are less bothered as to jump on every opportunity for sex . Maybe it's for a reason we as men just don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:38 PM
3

Makes sense. Maybe a defence mechanism some people might try and knock you down a peg I'd they perceive they wouldn't stand a chance with you whereas attractive people .ight be confident enough with themselves and their own abilities to not feel threatened by you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:41 PM
3

I dint think they learn from it though. That takes self reflection and "coughs" accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:30 PM
3

Ideal woman. I don't think most people understand what is ideal for them , it's fantasy. What you think you may want may be a nightmare,it's untested. For example I had a boring ex so I wanted to date someone who I could drink and party with and I found it, and it was a fucking nightmare . That's why I laugh when women say 6ft tall as their standard. Ok so he's tall and that translated to what. Or for me I like fat asses, ok her ass is huge, them what. Not saying we can't have preferences, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:43 PM
-1

Are they even aware that they are being settled for or are they just happy they got something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:30 PM
5

What the hell are we competing for. Like what's the prize . So many guys are so inexperienced that they fail to realise once do they manage to get a woman. There's so much more bullshit that goes into maintaining a relationship. Ok you've got her then what. What if she's toxic, talks to her exes, has a gambling problem, what if she's boring. I was on a trip 2 months ago traveling and I met a girl and a guy. The dude was drooling over the girl, saying she was the most gorgeous thing ever......sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:11 PM

Probably lmao. He has a body count of 8 yet claims to be a living Adonis. Ok buddy. I'm 5'7 black , no status to speak of and I've bedded 50 plus women. Something isn't adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:02 AM

I dint believe this self reporting bullshit for one second.until you show pictures , and I have an idea of how u interact with women, then you could be a 15 year year old larping for all I know. I've seen my tall 6 feet and up friends absolutely kill it, and they were also cool dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:41 AM
1

nothing like two men arguing over who is hot and who isnt. you win man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:09 PM
1

U literally just said without their money women wouldn't find them attractive, so are they attractive or not. By your logic every rich man is attractive. I'm only reiterating what you're telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:33 PM
2

Women don't think they're hot. These men have resources. Jeff bozos is a billionaire does his money get women wet no, but he he can probably get just about anyone he wants. That isn't attraction. If u can't get laid with the same chick, broke, no car, , career,she isn't attracted, she's interested in what u can do for her. Not understanding the difference is why dudes go to Thailand and think their elevated social status and money think women want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:06 PM
1

U just answered your question. Attracted to him for his status. That isn't sexual attraction. You have an mba?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:41 PM

I wouldn't go through extremes, but teaching your son basic skills would go a long way. Most men I see can barely groom themselves and have no style, so I wouldn't expect this to be a common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:47 AM
20

Hella based. Wish I learned this at your age. I have a high body count by societal standards and it has done nothing for me . I've been in relationships and they are extremely draining. I have no issues attracting women now, but after witnessing their disgusting behaviour over the past 10 years has left more to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:37 AM
6

U don't seem to understand what attraction actually is. Yes status and money gets far more women then muscles. It's sheer logistics at work. They also don't want you for you, they want your money and that doesn't result in sexual attraction. You think those women want to be with Leonardo di Caprio lmao, no , he's a status symbol and rich. Being in shape and lean triggers actual physical attraction, and yes even being natty without taking tren, your physical silhouette will be obvious, in additio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:57 AM
9

It's a resource grab. Plain and simple. Inexperienced guys rarely get thr opportunity for sex and relationships, found their unicorn and don't want to lose her, so they capitulate and sign away the rights to autonomy over their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:28 PM
1

This our fault though as men. We say oh she's willing to date me, oh good enough. I figured out a long time ago, that half the shit they ask for , they themselves do not possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:05 PM
3

Did u read a single word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:58 PM
1

When did I attack anything u said
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 06:31 AM
5

That shame is good though, sometimes it reminds us to wake up. I call it ",sleeping awake". Where you just go day-to-day with no goals , purpose in mind. Self improvement is hard because it requires honesty and discipline. It's not easy to do these things as we are hard wired for comfort . For example when I joined basic training , I was forced to do shit I didn't want to do everyday for 3 months straight. Run, crawl, ruck and so forth. Had it been an option for me to graduate basic with no phys…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 06:01 AM
6

Tons of people lack self awareness as to many of their own rationale as to why they do things. Both men and women do this in ways unique to their gender and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:31 AM
10

This in a nutshell. Most men have little no consistent dating experience and latch on to the first women for dear life who agrees to a relationship. These men think they are in love, but in reality don't even have any idea of what he want in a partner because they haven't had the opportunities. Go look at the deadbedroom subreddit. It's full of dudes who haven't had sex in 10 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:28 AM
4

Apps didn't do anything but reveal pre existing behaviours and enabled them. Women's standards for men didn't artificially increase. Their options were limited to what was around them locally and who they could meet. So women before apps probably dated and settled for dudes due to lack of availability and ability to perhaps meet someone else. A lot of men are mad now because they think women's pickiness is a result of the internet when they've always been like this, it just was kept controlled i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:16 PM

I gues if the dude just wanted to get it out of the way then sure. But I'd find the experience demoralising. I think your first sexual encounter being spent with an escort could fuck with your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:43 AM

I mean this is just the ugly side of the reality that exists within dating. Both men and women have to delude themselves into certain notions of romantic love and altruism in order to sort of buy into the system we have established. How many men actually would have chosen their girlfriends if they had their pick of the litter, or did they end up choosing the one that was best option of what was readily available. Is that real love, if your partner is defined by your lack of options.......I dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:52 AM

rare based comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:38 AM
3

You're correct, I really do sit here and wonder why the most intelligent thoughtful shit I read on reddit is a far cry from my in person day-to-day interactions. Regardless well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:23 AM
1

Which is basically every human being alive , hence why I don't bother take most people seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:22 AM
1

It's because the one claiming to be great working earnest emotionally engaged are actually the former you've mentioned. Self reporting is not their strength
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:20 AM
8

Facts, once u work in the service industry and and have some social intelligence you can generally pick up on most people's personalities pretty quick through their mannerisms. It's a curse and a blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:12 AM
6

I think what fucks up a lot of men's heads is that they know they aren't entitled to some 10/10 and are cool with that. They understand their level so to speak, and initially many assume that they'll find their match accordingly, only to find that women want the utter apex of men and absolutely nothing less. It's not good enough to be a 6 or even a 7 as a dude, women who are 4s and 5s are getting play dates with "chad" and of course they want this dude, but they confuse him wanting some cheeks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:09 AM
10

They'll settle at some point out of social pressure and the perception of needing to be married. But they'll make sure the dude they marry meets a ton of requirements the dudes they use to sleep with didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:57 AM
1

I thought it was weird that most of the dudes I knew. Mind u I've travelled the world an so on, generally couldn't get laid or attain a relationship at will, besides 1 or 2 outliers. Of these average guys yes they got relationships but it was always like they happened to luck into it after dry spells of God knows how long. I've seen this same pattern play out over years. Then all of a sudden this group winds up married. I asked myself, who are all these women that are marrying these guys when mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:48 PM
4

You're never going to get the truth on this subject. Men in their early adulthood struggle to get a scrap of attention suddenly end up with 3 kids and a wife 10 years later as the majority of adults in their 30s are married. Hmmm seems like some discrepancies in between this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:55 AM
22

You ever hear from guys that dating suddenly got a lot easier once they hit their 30s. That isn't because they suddenly got hot., its because women feel the pressure to settle down and find a partner and have kids that age. Women will gaslight and say their taste mature blah blah blah, even in reality there simply isn't enough men that are physically attractive to go around that pique their interest let alone find one that will commit. So they find a guy , an average dude that probably already h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:37 PM
4

If its creepy and desperate to talk to another human being you find attractive , and do so in a respectful way, then we are truly fucked as a people. Why is getting shit faced at a bar and yelling in someone's ear over the music acceptable over saying hi at the bus stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:29 PM
3

I agree to some extent. It's just a power dynamic really. Like I said I don't blame women for tsking advantage because it isn't morally wrong we'd all do it if we could
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:26 PM
4

Very few people purposely go into a relationship just seeking to manipulate the person. Manipulative people attempt to manipulate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:28 PM
1

Really? I was there for half a year back in 2017 and found the women stunning. So basically the women are turning into Germans lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:22 PM
5

Went to poland for 6 months when I was in the army . Mind we were in some small town no one gave a shit about. The women were absolutely stunning. Like it was mindblowing. In america you might come across a few girls a day u think are cute, more if you're in a city. But my God poland was on a different level. And many of them had multiple kids and still looked awesome. As for the men they all look like shrek so the women are fucked. .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:20 PM
16

At some point we have to blame guys for indulging them. It's not women's fault men have absolutely no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:04 PM
3

With apps there's no tension, there's no arousal, there's nothing to go off but some heavily filtered pictures and women in general aren't funny so it's even worse when it's all text. Plus I hate texting all day especially if I know she's messaging 4 other guys probably at the same time .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:59 PM
7

Women have always valued relationships more then casual sex. They have more to risks. Plus sex on average for women is lacklustre, while most men usually nut
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:13 PM
-1

This is waste if time . U can't force women to be attracted just because they had a pleasant convo with a faceless stranger on the internet. That's not how attraction works. And then u want the punish the user for for not wanting to pursue further conversation after seeing the others photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:50 PM
5

To an extent I agree. I've had female friend show me their tinder and my God, sure u guys have all the options in the world ,but it's like digging through trash , and just maybe you'll find a wrapped big mac, someone didn't have time to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:43 PM
14

I chadfished before just to see It with my own eyes and it will depress the fuck out of you or motivate u beyond all measure. I was saying the exact same shit I normally would and which shows me not only is nothing wrong with my personality but that looks were utterly paramount . Looks matter more for men in their success then women. I was seeing a girl I met off tinder, I'll be honest, she wasn't the most attractive. And she had about 300 plus matches, dudes begging to drive 3 hours to see an m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:39 PM
7

I was just thinking this. Women want to be cold approached ,it's just that probably 99 percent of men don't meet their expectations eith that regard so they formed a bias against it. Which I understand, if only unattractive weird women were hitting on me I'd be irritated by it as well. I'm 31 and an American in Europe in one the most socially cold countries for one. Without tinder I'd be fucked lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:32 PM
23

Ladies night is sausage night. But u can't blame the men either. We have very few socially acceptable places to meet women without being demonised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:29 PM
1

So where do men meet women now, seeing as to how all of but a few third spaces have been destroyed. I live in germany, and my particular city, it's hard to meet women unless u partake in night life. The problem is, is the way everything is designed it's hard to approach when everyone has their own table sectioned off from everyone with their own little table. When i left my ex there were weeks where I wouldn't come across a single attractive woman.. in my day to day life. Might be different if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:27 PM
9

Makes sense, in the past year just I've had about 10 or so women offer to chill through dms. But on tinder it was so much more effort it was mind numbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:23 PM

/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:55 AM

/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:43 AM

Not one woman has ever been called masculine for having a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:26 AM
1

No next kid lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:00 PM
4

Wow u truly don't get sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:17 PM
-1

First intelligent comment. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:15 PM
4

I tell her everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:01 PM
3

If you're half as toxic as she is, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:37 PM
1

I'm typing on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:36 PM
1

Schade
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:32 AM
0

Aha u got me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:30 AM
3

Yes women are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:30 AM
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When did I ever say this was purely an online phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:26 AM
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She dosnt take a hit to her career, we live in germany. Her postion is guaranteed when she comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:25 AM
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Aww yes I see your point. Attractive rich guys can be simps. Having money doesn't mean or even being attractive doesn't mean you game, just makes it easier so, probably even more risky because you have so much more to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:19 AM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:17 AM
2

U implied I'd go after fatter less attractive women because they'd agree with 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:05 AM
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It's a lot of men doing this. More then u imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:00 AM
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U claim to be redpill but think attractive women don't do 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:59 AM
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Because those men aren't doing it because they want to, they are doing it because they think that's how they will get female attention. Being a sugar daddy is a completely different dynamic shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:58 AM
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The women know this.......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:57 AM
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Not one person can tell me what I should be doing. I'm just instantly selfish. Y'all are just angry and hate men just say that. Now the working dad stay at home household is systematic male oppression who knew. Y'all can insult and insinuate , but csnt tell me what I should be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 AM
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Yiu made a reddit to mock Incels. That's something an incel would do. So whatever I say it doesn't matter, it's just fuel for u to say men are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:50 AM
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You'd be surprised man. During covid me and my were broke and unemployed, she'd literally set up dates with dudes and ask them for money to catch a flight . She'd ask for the money to buy thr ticker herself and never go obviously. These dudes would call her, saying they were disappointed she didn't come only to give her more money because she'd make up some stupid lie about her car being broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:49 AM
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Genius, if u saw what I posted, you'd see thet I don't have any issues with women wanting financially based relationships. What I do have an issue with is belittling men who do not want to court women for not wanting to spend their money, there is a difference. How could I want women to live in transactional servitutude when I want dating to be 50/50? Isn't what me and my gf doing a gender norm that's been prscticed for the past 100 years. So now I'm subjugation my gf for being a stay at home mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:47 AM
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Yeah he bought her an iPhone soon after. I wasn't at all threatened by a 60 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:41 AM
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Sometimes I wonder how old the redditors responding to me are u could be 15 for all I know. When I mentioned 50/50 with regards to dating then that's nonsense, within certain contexts it makes sense to have a partner stay at home if a child is involved for some time. Equality within the frame of out relationship is based om an equal share of responsibilities. I take care of thr financial and for most of the household things she has. Is this perfect no. I still come home and help around the house…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:39 AM
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I get your point. As long as they can adult, mentally stable, and have their shit together, I try not to stress about that. I'd be a hypocrite as well because I have a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:34 AM
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So what am I not doing, .....u still haven't explained since u know so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:32 AM
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There's literally no way to know what a high body count women looks like, I've never understood this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:32 AM
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This will never change. I had an ex, and she was as nuts as they come,but she had an army of orbiter who she'd hit up for whatever. I watched her ask a guy if he could buy her some food from a restaurant, just to see me at the door realising he bought me dinner. Not good in principle but you see my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:31 AM
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This is arguing in bad faith because I see now you are resorting to semantics and nit picking. I've seen this narrative before. I'm the lazy entitled dad who thinks his job contributes enough to where he doesn't clean , take care of the children. I'm not going to break down every nuance that explains me and my partners responsibilities because for u dummies 50/50 isn't literally possible. It's a figure of speech implying both partners attempt to share an equal amount of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:28 AM
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I had to re read my own posts to make sure I'm not retarded, just to see y'all don't read. I never writeI'm swapping with her the second year. Once our son is 2 she wants to go back to work...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:22 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:20 AM
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I'm legit confused. So now the man going to work and the woman staying home with the baby constitutes that I'm not doing anything. So come Monday I'll take my son with me on my shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:19 AM
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Then let those guys pay the fuck. If they u ask u to hop on one foot are you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:17 AM
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What am I doing thst isn't equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:12 AM
2

Please explain how I'm not raising my son that I live with. Am I supposed to be raising him at work.....someone has to pay the bills correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:11 AM
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I literally explained I work and she stays home so my son can be raised by his mother for the first 2 years. I really wish people actually read posts instead of just responding. And while I work 12 hour shifts u ensinuate that I don't do shit around the house for my my kid. What are u talking about. Then I explained I have no issue with women who are upfront about wanting a sugar daddy and not seeing an issue with it. Think that's different then a woman who's demanding financial incentive as a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:05 AM
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Do you guys really need everything spelled out. I live with my son, but someone has to pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:04 AM
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I agree, this should be discussed beforehand. I don't want to be a second child in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:56 AM
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Dudes now constantly complain saying oh dating apps, birth controller, this and that raised women's dating standards . No it didn't, it allowed what already existed to come to light and now so many dudes are caught off guard and unhappy because the reality that exist currently contradicts what they believed. Women don't have to marry and fuck guys out if survival anymore. If u want that paradigm go to the Philippines and use your wallet to attract a mate like yjur grandpa did in the 50s when wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:32 PM

Lmao rright
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:07 PM

I mean she's a supermodel. Unless it involves financial exchange she has the social circle to fuck the most attractive men in existence, so Tom to her is probably average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:52 PM

I come here for the virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:49 PM
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I swear on my life , being horny is so much less of a problem then being in a relationship with the wrong person or dating. It's perception and hormones. I legit do not think having sex or having a partner is worth the bullshit that comprises of today's culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:05 PM
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They give better head
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:00 PM

Basically every thread response here. Everytime I get into a discussion with someone they just flat out don't read what I respond with or put words in my mouth only to essentially respond to their own projections.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:11 PM
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She went on google, grabbed a couple articles and said here, I'm so smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:07 PM
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You used an article correlating drug abuse and narcissism and this somehow applies to redpill ideology. Do you not see the irony in your replies, they are narcissistic in nature . Instead of saying oh shit my bad, you double down and say even stupider shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:06 PM
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I think she just didn't expect anyone to actually fact check her make believe research, and thought people would just take her word as gospel. She just isn't smart. She's trying to day that redpill ideology and those that follow it are narcissist. There's a difference between having narcissist traits and actually being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:48 AM
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This is why I come to this sub to see truly ridiculous people are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:14 PM
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So u attempted to use articles related to narcissism that had no relevance to your point regarding your posts and then when someone calls you out, and u state that u dont any money to actually read the studies. U sure u aren't the narcissist?.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:12 PM
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So because i peruse purple pill debate my opinion on anything isn't valid lmao. I've been here since the og days. I mean I understand constructive criticism being more productive then just calling someone lame, but there's also no quality control here. If I'm stumbling on a sub like this now and I'm 20 years old and I read some of that dumb shit that gets posted on here on the daily , I don't see how any mens moves are being improved.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/24 07:00 PM
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Lmao, she said I cited psychology today.........the jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:07 PM
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This posts is a great example of the internet giving everyone , including the unintelligent, access to vast swaths of information and knowledge without having the ability to truly comprehend what they are reading. There is no such thing as a redpill man. There is a subculture of sexual ideology that is attempting to explain to men the current sexual landscape and how to be successfull in it. Narcissism is a pathological disorder, that is developed usually in your teens. Anyone reading such disco…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:05 PM
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Do u even know what victimisation means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:45 PM
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You have zero idea what narcissism is. It is a pathological disorder that has nothing to do perhaps having less then desirable views in contrasts to another's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:38 PM
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Dude no one has the answer, we don't know what you're good at . If it was clear cut we'd all be rich. Go learn how to invest in high yield bonds and hire an advisor, not reddit specialists.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:33 PM
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This. Some people want to bust a nut without the extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:11 PM
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What a strange way to humble brag. Surely if you're making 150k a year then u must be intelligent and resourceful enough to consult with a financial advisor and not a subreddit full of men struggling to get to first base. Answering OP. Dude we've been through this crisis before and we'll figure it out. It's a new frontier and jobs and opportunities that we never thought existed will come into fruition. 80 years ago the concept of software developer didn't even exists. We don't have the capacity …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 12:10 PM
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Comical truly. Must be some evolutionary survival gene or something lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:18 PM
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Story of my fucking life man. Family is mixed race so I never exactly quite fit in culturally. Black women never, I mean never gave me the time of day. The only women that have shown interest in me is other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:17 PM
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Land whale part I dint get. Maybe a fetishism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:25 PM
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Been overseas 6 years haven't ,been nothing but positivity mainly from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:24 PM
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Yeah true ,I get your point. I just don't think people who are truly happy with something feel the need to tell everyone how much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:22 PM
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Probably treats him like God, and sucks his dick every night. I personally couldn't do it, but I get the dynamic. Some women that are in your league have higher expectations and are aren't worth the headache. So u find someone that's just happy for u to be around and blam.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:59 PM
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I agree 💯. I was in a relationship half my 20s, but I remeber the other half being fucking ass. I get it , everyone wants the best of everything and not to come across as entitled, but I was getting turned down by women who could get fucked by the 6'4 older dude with his shit together, just to see them now with a dude who couldn't be further from that. So here I am in my 30s, best shape of my life, travelling the world , thinking, yiu want me to give you a chance now? Dudes now if they are unawa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:52 PM
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Idk, I think it's sociocultural. When I was in america it felt like I had to outperform other races to even be looked at. But when I lived in Asia and now Europe, women have just been eating me alive. There's negative stigmas surrounding black men in the states, as some women if if they are attracted may not want to deal with the baggage that comes with it from, friends family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:40 PM
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That's just them gaslighting themselves into pretending to like their partner. I'm 31 and I rarely see a guy who doesn't look like a skinny fat slob, especially in my age range. Dudes that actually viscerally peak women's interests just isnt going to be available for women on a large scale. I use to live in poland and was shocked by how many beautiful women were with a dude that looked like shrek. Then I thought , what choice do they have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:10 PM
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I mean what do u want them to do.....depending on where you live you can go weeks,month without seeing an attractive dude, let alone one that is single , Interested and compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:44 PM
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As a black guy, our standards are horrible, I dont know why, but they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:41 PM
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To think when i was 15, when I first started reading this shit, I thought I found holy grail.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/24 03:34 PM
2

"Best version of you". I forgot the special ones among us need everything spelled out.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 08:21 PM
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Yeah endlessly worrying about what women do and being this and that is beyond lame. Women are the real mkdern day alphas, they give no fucks and just live their life ,not worrying about all these minuscule "what ifs". Lift , dress well, be social.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/24 08:51 PM
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Honestly man I'd rather be unapologetically me and thrive then carefully survey my behvaior to be sexually attractive. I get what you're saying. If you're doing the things you should be doing as a man, like lifting, building social skills, then most of the rest will come naturally. I'm not shitting on the redpill, but 99% of guys on here are just larping.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/24 08:05 PM
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Just be you bro. I found the redpill when I was 16ish. I'm now 31 so all this seems redundant to me ,but regardless in my journey pussy just isn't that serious man. Be the best version of you and set boundaries and safeguard your own interests , and learn how to recognise the difference between love and lusts. Everything else is just nuances and endless fluff to grift off of understandably clueless men. Women are narcissist at the core , even the best of them , and if allowed , you'll lose yours…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/24 04:15 PM
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Dude it doesn't fucking matter. You could do everything right snd they'd still be miserable. The key is to know when to cut your losses and respect yourself. Any dude she truly values she doesn't bother with nonsense because she's scared of losing them
/r/TheRedPill20/04/24 06:20 PM
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I use social media to.share my thoughts about things I have on my mind or meme. I have no desire to project to the world that I'm happy as that does nothing for me and I don't need other people to give me a digital thumbs up to feel good. As for positing their new partners constantly, yeah it's annoying , but to each their own. I've never posted any of my partners as it just seems weird to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:22 AM
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Whoooooooooo cares
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:09 PM
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I don't understand these guys. It's one thing to have a discord around social norms and sexuaality, but all its been lately is bitching. I started dressing well, worked out religiously for years and its not that hard to get a date or get laid, dudes just will do anything not to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:26 PM
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Oh gos this shit again. The no one wants to fuck me so women must obviously be less horny logic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:24 PM
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Metaphor dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:27 PM
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To me any man is capable of becoming decent enough to get laid, but it requires effort. Just is what it is. If these dudes don't want to do that, I dint get what the issue is. I want a lamborghini, but I'm not mad because I haven't worked hard enough to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:08 PM
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I agree. I came to this sub for interesting dialogue regarding sexual dynamics ,not to see posts after posts of men wiring about how women shouldn't want to fuck hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:06 PM
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This is the truth and the only real answer anyone will ever need on this sub. Everything else is just circle jerking. And I've think we've circled jerked all we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:05 PM
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Basically........redpill has some good gems. But at some point it's just a bitchfest . I want to live life not look at the other half of the human population with disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:03 PM
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Honestly most of the posts here are mind numbingly repetitive and whiny. Attractive Men get laid and ugly ones not so much, who would have guessed. Rephrasing your disdain for women and the woes of masculine society doesn't change the answer you want. As a guy I seeing other dudes whine this much makes me think why would woman want to fuck them when they think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:02 PM

I mean idc honestly, just set off some alarms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:57 PM

Unfortunately this is my child's mother. I asked her about her past history not to judge I was just curious about her relationships in the past just for a 33 year old woman to tell me she's never been in a relationship, which is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:23 PM
1

I agree
/r/TheRedPill28/03/24 03:42 PM
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Yes absolutely. Myself would get about 5-6 new matches a week. I created a profile with a male model back when I was in my early 20s and the fake profile got about 200 in just one day with women throwing themselves at the supposed profile. I was saying dumb shit too, and the women absolutely didn't care . Kinda made me depressed at first. But opened my eyes as what what reality was. Look are absolutely paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:08 AM
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99% of women go to the gym for attention and between insta ,do exercises that one could consider erotic in another context. I'll could count in my hands the ones that get it in, and they have my respect even more so because I know what their peers are doing If it happens it happens, but out of principle I wouldn't waste my time.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 07:16 PM
3

This is what I live for , pure delusion in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:28 PM
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This is what I live for , pure delusion in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:28 PM
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Allow yourself to feel what you feel , shit sucks. My ex whom I lived with told me she was at her girls place. I called her friend and told me my ex wasn't there. Called my ex and she said she was with another dude in a hotel. From one moment to the next ,my live in partner of 4 years was already in a relationship with another dude getting her cheeks clapped.i didn't even have a second to adjust not being together let alone knowing shes getting railed by another dude.They don't care man. You eve…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 08:59 PM
2

It's only guys that can't get dates that stress about who women choose to give their attention to. I could.care less what bad choices any women are making as it has nothing to do with me. It's not like we neb don't do the same thing just because a woman is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:11 AM
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People didn't virtue signal anywhere near as much as they do now. Its all abkut curating a perception of being a better person now then actually being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:21 PM
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Dude the most dangerous women are the ones that on the surface level seem to have it together. Believe it or not most men have enough common sense to avoid most outwardly toxic women. It's the ones that appear for the most part have their shit together and a year or so later are mentally fucking your head in. Boundaries are what's important. Because once the behavior starts rearing it's head, then you bounce cause you understand your self worth. . Boundaries are hard for men to develop because o…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/24 03:50 PM
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Yeah that threw me off too, but the book delves so much deeper then the typical women are sluts because they have too high standards rhetoric that seems to permeate through a lot of redpill. I do t have an issue with women, they are who they are and they are allowed to like who they want. The book fascinated me because it focuses more so on the social conditioning we are led to believe , and the use of language to obscure and project certain beliefs. It's almost like a sexual matrix
/r/TheRedPill05/03/24 03:42 PM
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There's a good book called the "manipulated man" that delves into how men think by being a provider , getting married and so on, how its used as a means of women securing resources under the disguise of love. Society created certain ideals of masculinity that men should aspire to be, that basically do nothing more then enable men to be walking wallets.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/24 01:16 PM
7

This helps help with dealing with everyone really. If someone doesn't care what you have to say, it doesn't matter if you're right.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 11:18 PM
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Yeah and when u jump on that grenade , that dudes number she has saved as pizza hut is giving her the stuffed crust shortly after.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 08:57 PM
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Hence why im not getting married . Government is too involved, and I don't trust another human being to do the right thing at my expense.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah I have a gf right now and I basically operate under the pretence that I don't need her. This doesn't mean I'm emotionally distant or treat her bad, I just know internally , if shit goes south, it's not the end of the world. I'm my own rock. If anything I don't take the concept of love seriously, cause for me it's just a ruse to get me drugged up and emotionally compromised on an emotion and act against my own better interests.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 08:19 PM
20

Thanks man, I don't wish this hell on anyone
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 07:54 PM
39

Same dude, was gonna marry my ex, life got in the way,thank god .
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 07:42 PM
2

No idea. I can't imagine most dudes being open about visiting a who're house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:02 AM
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Lol come to Germany. Brothels are like 50 euro to fuck some hot chick. Isn't my thing, but it trivialises women using sex as a means of securing a dude when they can get it anytime guaranteed for less then that of a dinner out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:31 PM
1

Sexless bitter western men would be stoning women had they been born in Pakistan . If women paid attention to these angry men they'd feel different. Personally I dint care what women do, I respect everyone's freedom to live their life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:01 AM
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I think a lot of men are just unhinged in general, due to a lack of socialisation. Most of my male coworkers are odd to say the least. So when they shoot their shot it's basically a hail mary of sexual frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:38 AM
3

Let me buy you a drink cause you're spitting facts. Most modern marriages are basically just socially acceptable prostitution because the majority of these guys wouldn't have landed a younger version of their partner . But most men aren't sexually experienced enough to understand the game, so the they get tied down the the first woman that gives them consistent sexual access until it all changes when they get married . Bait and switch. Most guys could give two shits about marriage, women push fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:14 AM
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Yeah man. I had a fwb show me her tinder. I was just curious. And God damn men are weird, like what makes you think women would respond to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:57 AM
2

Lmao 🤣 for real. Shit hurts when the ammo is spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:46 AM
1

It's just cope ,many they will lie to themselves all day. Male and female libidos are not that different. Besides 2 women in my life, every other one had an insatiable desire for sex , more so then me. The low libido narrative makes the men feel better for not getting laid, and allows women to not feel pressured and appear more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:44 AM
1

I agree, a lot of guys grow up thinking we get mated off automatically to someone at some point, like it's just some natural occurrence that's bound to happen as a result of nature instead of understanding you have to provide a reason for someone to want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:34 AM
6

I always tell my fellow dudes, being normal does wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:30 AM

It's not that serious, I lost mine at 21 , I've gone since to have a very active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:25 AM
9

Imagine having to lie to strangers on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/24 11:58 AM
5

I dint believe a fucking thing you typed and even if it was true what does it matter, u wanna compare pee pees?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/24 11:57 AM
2

Dudes think getting laid is a game of elden ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:18 PM
3

I think this is the reality for most they will move mountains to not acknowledge. The average man struggles most of his 20s. So who's fucking all the women then. We know the answer I don't want to get into that. Then out of nowhere these same struggling men hit their 30's and then proclaim dating got easier.mmm yes not because you're more accomplished, desired, it's because the dudes she wants are either gone, or she's too old now. Women become pragmatic when they get older and will 💯 date someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:14 PM
1

Welp , I can feel my pee pee being touched , I can't feel science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:37 PM
2

I look at life , not extrapolated data taken out of context. A lot of statistics is taken at face value because it was a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:01 PM
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Why does their response matter if you know the real world truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:26 PM
1

I'm emotional lmao, I didn't realise it was possible to type that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:54 PM
1

Awww the attractive men are selfish trope........
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:51 PM
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Lonely bitter men and women are just two sides of the same coin. Unattractive men who could often potentially become attractive but are comfortable where they are ,yet want someone to accept regardless Average women who don't lack options but find themselves unable to keep the attractive men they want who may from time to time use them for sex. Both are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:46 PM
2

I mean twice a day is a not extreme but a lot. I did this for a couple years, but now I'm cool with one . Quality over quantity. But yeah your argument makes sense, from what it sounds, many struggle to even get once a week , which is sad. But a lot of men refuse to take action in their own lives . You can't be some fat slob and expect your wife to wanna fuck you throughout the week. Women are visual creatures too despite nsrrstives that say thr opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:29 PM
1

A partner that barely likes them back. If that's what they want , that sounds sad as as fuck and I'd rather be alone tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:22 PM
1

I'm sure men have higher drives, but so many men on here think because their wives don't wanna fuck em anymore or they can't get laid that it's a reflection of the female sex drives. I've slept with close to 80 women and I beg to differ ,unless I've just been only consorting with nymphomaniaca which is improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:18 PM
2

What world do u live in where this would cost hundreds . Idk man I take what other dudes say with a grain of salt, cause I have homies that say the same shit as you, and look like their mom dressed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:16 PM
5

Or maybe u just suck as a person. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:14 PM
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Or maybe the natural order of things is playing out and men refuse to accept it because we pretended it worked for generations before because it was difficult for women to provide on their own. Women like what they like now. You guys act like they aren't their own autonomous beings. Now they make bank and don't have to settle for dudes they don't like. Its a win win in my opinion. There's no way in hell I'm interested in being married purely for my financial ability. If you guys can't hack it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
-2

And cheaper,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:09 PM
0

How is it benefiting men to be married to a women that's ultimately only with the man For financial provisioning. Like did you think about this before you typed it. That's ultimate life long simping to think the ony way the majority of men can get pussy is of they fork over their hard earned cash to a woman that if she had her choice , would be with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:09 PM
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Someone lied to u bro. And yes women can go without sex if they don't meet an attractive guy that meets their standard. I'm not gonna fuck a room full of middle aged women if that's my only option. If yiu guys out this much effort into bring delusional as lifting a weight or two and dieting, you'd be getting laid on the reg. Women aren't that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:07 PM
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I've been with enough women to tell, that their sex drive correlates to how much they are into me. Women just have a higher barrier to entry into whom they give access to. Eventually out of societal pressure and aging she'll marry some dude she doesn't care for and give out some obligatory sex to have kids, snd keep him around long enough. But I'm willing to bet my life that most women would suck meat off of their favourite celebrities dick like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:04 PM
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Lmao cause you never met a woman that really liked you . My ex during the 4 years we were together would fuck 2 times a day, the woman I met before her and so on would call me at 2am when I needed to be at work around 6 to come and fuck and would blow up my phone until I came over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:00 PM
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Most men aren't attractive, like I don't get what so complicated abkut this....... Female sex drives being lower is a myth to make men feel better. Women are absolutely horny, probably more so, for the men they want. You can either cry about it....or put in the effort to be a sexually attractive man, you'd be surprised at what lowbody fat, a nice haircut and decent style can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:18 PM

U wrote this. Proofread it, and this still made sense in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:02 PM
3

Nigga block em..... I get dms all the time on insta . I'm in a relationship right now, I just don't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:58 PM
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I don't see how this sexual revolution is a bad thing. Why the hell would u wanna be married to someone that isnt genuinely attracted to me ,just for the sake of not being alone. My brothers in arms are just as delusional in some regards. They want pussy handed to them like government rations ,but it dint work that way. If you aren't an attractive man, it is what it is, it's not the governmentd fault, or society, women like what the fuck they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:58 PM
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I mean it's facts. I was confused about this too. It didn't make sense to me that so many men in their 20s are si gle and struggling yet magically get married in their 30s, it's cause women will marry men they aren't attracted to, to build families with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:54 PM
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Anyone who knows a thing or two about women had had shitty experiences with them. . U dint get experienced by reading shit online all day.....lmao.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 10:07 PM
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More autistic writing. Dudes who get laid don't think about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 07:45 PM

Tinder says differently. I think a large portion of men could look more attractive, but as is ,no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:00 AM
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No one can keep an honest discussion because everyone is too busy trying to rationalise their own delusional bubble to feel better about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:43 AM
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If that's the case why does everyone victimise women in age gaps,.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:10 PM
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Its the chemicals in our brain that make us think somebody is more special then what they are. That's why a lot of dudes, women will meet someone post breakup and swear they found their 10th soul mate. You'd think they'd catch innt this but nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:15 AM
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You do what the fuck you want. If they are attracted to you, they'll respond in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:08 AM
2

Exactly, it's basically a con job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:06 AM
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Why does even getting married matter lmao. Such an odd perspective.iike if y'all are already together what does it change in your day to day lives....... To me it's just an arbitrary life goal that people check ff cause it's a societal expectation. You'll leave a good dude who won't marry u, for a piece of shit that will. If you're enjoying the person you're with who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:50 PM
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It's not that deep, some guys just don't like longer labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:15 PM
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This. You know how many woman I've fucked that told me right off the bat, we weren't going to have sex and we can hang out as friends. I never pushed the issue and just chilled and every single one of them later came on to me. I had a girl tell me I was too short, too young, and not her type. She kissed me while I fell asleep(creepy) and u can connect thr dots after. Another one I met off tinder. I show up, she says u know we aren't having sex. I said cool . 10 minutes later ..... Don't listen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:06 AM
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Depends on what she values more at the time. .my current partner gives peace of mind, is stable , cooperative, and overall a better person. The sex could be better, but that can be learned over time My last partner was more attractive and a sex fiend, but holy shit , that was the only teeming factor. Nit saying you can't have both, but at some point you realise that people who are better sexually more exciting tend to have less conduscive traits for an ltr I imagine it's tiring when you know hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:01 AM
2

Honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:39 AM
0

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:20 AM
5

Honestly idc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:17 AM
2

So you're only able to meet people through others. Sounds like a lifetime of missed opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:13 AM
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Women can be extremely sexual and horny for a man they want. Dudes will fuck anything. It's just a different way of going about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:09 AM
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Bruh, all interests is physical if u don't know someone. Lmao what do you want him to notice if u won't even make conversation, how old are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:55 AM
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Getting to know someone online is boring, tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:50 AM
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Someone still has to approach them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:44 AM
4

Finally a normal human being answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:44 AM
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I'm in my 30s,' circles get small really damn quick after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:42 AM
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Oh you mean the app where you text someone purely based off their looks and nothing else. We live in very strange times, where men approaching someone they find attractive is equated me wanting to use them . This literally use to be the norm, before everyone decided to become a victim..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:41 AM
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How does he get to know you if you write off everybody that approaches you..... Idk what world you live in ,but people generally approach people that they find physically appealing and then after that put in an effort to go to know them . The internet has y'all so messed up you think being physically attracted to one another constitutes shallow intent. .....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:38 AM
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Women are very much just as sexual as men, this is a false idea. The fact that people feel like they don't know how to communicate interests without the internet sounds sad, and sounds like a lot of missed opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:35 AM
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How do you get to know someone if no one approaches you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:25 AM
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This makes nonsense. I don't know anything about anyone before I meet them . So now we demonise finding someone attractive 🙄 because you assume all someone wants to do is extract something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:24 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:58 PM
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Lmao what I've never been who wasnt fucking my brains out on the regular. U sounds like you're projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:50 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:46 PM
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Questions Iike this scare me. Why would a man want to be a relationship, marriage where sex isn't just a natural result of being with someone u are attracted to. When dudes start asking for sex , I think the relationship is either lost and or the dude has no idea how to be sexually attractive. I've never said out of nowhere",hey babe wanna fuck". I read the room, and know how to get her in the mood. And no men aren't entitled to sex in a marriage, find someone who wants to fuck you 🙄. Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:45 PM
1

Well u do that then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:41 PM
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It'd not going to magically get better unless u make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:25 PM
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Good luck I guess. I realised that when it comes to people like you, u spend so much time feeling sorry for yourself u become your own worst enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:20 PM
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Dude I've had heaps of struggle myself , grew up with acne and I'm black so I had blotches of hyperpigmentation , I was overweight as a kid to a early adult. My mom called me ugly blah blah. Fuck that shit......we can all choose to be victims of our past or we can grow past that and be the best version of ourselves. Pick a struggle, it can be a good one or a hard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:45 PM
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Good post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:38 PM
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case and point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:37 AM
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I'll give u that, but if u use your financial means to attract women u aren't reallyy attracting them .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:58 PM
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Exactly 💯. Or when people automatically assume attractive people are shallow and and stupid as a means of attempting to level the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:57 PM
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This entirely hinges on if you actually improved as you got holder. Most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:19 PM
3

U sound hella bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:03 PM
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Good question, there's too many nuances to account for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:24 AM
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Didn't u just say one comment ago " why dont u just answer the question"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:02 AM
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Dude have u seen the matches of an average dude versus a woman. I had a female friend show me her tinder and this woman is by no means not attractive at all. Hundreds of dudes begging to come to see her and hang out. While it'd rare I've met a guy who was getting more than a match or two a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:45 AM
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When u posted your corrected data versus mine and I commented "still rather high", in what way do that mean I was still insinuating most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:38 AM
1

Still rather high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:30 AM
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The average guy can't even get a match on tinder 🙄. And don't say it isn't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:30 AM
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Basically yes. I find interesting how in the comments thr E men are engaging me in meaningful dialogue without insulting women, yet when the women comment its either insults or Strawman arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:28 AM
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Idc what women do honestly . I'm just pointing out the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:24 AM
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Jesus thank you. Based Reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:17 AM

Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:17 AM
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Depends honestly, if you like dating coworkers I'd say it's a horrible route to go, yet many for whatever reason die on that cross. But I've had the ability to date women all over thr world so it can work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:16 AM
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U completely missed what I was even saying. This isn't about who had the most fun and who didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:15 AM
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I ask again what does my sexual preference have to do with my posts. If she doesn't feel any obligation to comment with any relevance to my debate, then why do I owe her the same obligation to her comment. 🤔.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:11 AM
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Nothing is set in stone, she could genuinely be attracted to your friend but his attitude of worshipping her and cutting off his parents sounds like he's dating a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:09 AM
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Her question had nothing to do with my posts She could have just not commented?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:06 AM
1

Most men. 75% of marriages end in divorce right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:02 AM
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Yes I was military., but we had local populations of women to Interact with overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:01 AM
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She's different.. I said this too at one point. This goes for both men and women. No person is that different, our strategies entirely differ based onnthe options presented in front of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:59 AM
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Nothing wrong with having fun and then wanting to have a family. It's the fact that they settle with men they wouldn't have dated previously for a completely different set of reasons that if any man were consciously aware of, would feel insulted. No one liked to feel second rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:58 AM
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Usually when people jump to insulting someone in conversation it indicates a lack of communication skills. I was being contrariness to your comment because it had nothing to do with the posts I made. To answer your question I don't enjoy dating never have, I am sexually attracted to women but don't find their dating strategies in general conducive to a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:56 AM
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I'm not STEM and I've spent my life traveling all around the world , working in various fields. But I do agree there may some cultural differences in certain places to where this may not apply as much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:54 AM
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This is very true, but this is not the norm. Most people sadly do not get better over time and just sort of gradually descend. But the guys who do improve upon themselves are absolutely killing it .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:52 AM
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Your questions pertains under the assumption that I'm even sexually attracted to women. That would require to you change question as it may not even apply to me.. For someone quick to accuse someone of poor comprehension, u seem rather lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:50 AM
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Perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:47 AM
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Who said I'm even straight? What's your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:42 AM
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There's always exceptions to the rule, but when most men get sporadic sex and then suddenly meet someone who appears to be the one at first, it's easy to see how most men don't realise they are being manipulated, because language and gender roles are being used to make them feel like they fulfilling their role as a man, or as I say a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:39 AM
0

But Billy found himself the mature women who now knows what she really wants. Someone who can cover the mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:37 AM
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No it makes you a means to an end. This is how dudes end up in dead bedroom marriages because they don't understand that women will marry and have and have kids with someone they aren't attracted to bankroll their lifestyle and follow social norms. Why do u think so many dudes think they all of a sudden. Find dating easier at 30, when it was difficult in their 20s. Because the women in their dating pool, age range want to settle down and are now at the point to they realised prince charming isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:03 AM
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Evereryone here is lying out their ass ,or still in college. I have no issues meeting women online btw. The problem is there's no healthy medium to meet women organically in modern western culture. When my last relationship ended, I realised I had no dating options. I live in germany where the average median age is mid 40s. I rarely ever saw women my age , let alone attractive , and had zero to no situations in which I could approach . The only time I had options is if I went downtown on the wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:55 AM
2

None of these things make you sexually attractive. They make you an object to be used for what you can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:40 PM
1

Why would I not gree to my wife looking through my laptop for cp if I have nothing to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:54 AM
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You're nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:47 AM
1

Yup went through exactly this as well. Same friends would cry to my ex about how some dude cheated on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:10 PM
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Idk about every, but when I connected the dots of my ex cheating , it was harrowing that she had could be out all night fucking another guy while telling me she was with friends and tell me she loved me with those same lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:01 PM
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I'm from southern California, diversity is the morm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:49 PM
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The fact that there is so much discussion over something that that has absolutely nothing but long term benefits for society shows how deceptive many women are , or intend to be regarding allowing men to know the paternity of their children. If you aren't cheating you have absolutely nothing to hide. It's just that simple. What's the issue. Instead the comments are full of women gaslighting men into being called insecure for wanting to know within a shadow of a doubt their kids is theirs. How ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:23 PM
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Every single person in the military has their DNA on file and it does not affect anyone's life in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:18 PM
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I'm 31 and I assure you my best moments in life did not come from getting my dick sucked or seeing a nice ass jiggle,any relationship, intimacy .It came from achievement, peace. As long as I've been able to date, men spend ungodly amounts of time being clowns to get a scrap of attention from a gender that acts Ike they hate us. Go to any club bar, and women look down on us like absolute peasants who dare to breath air in the same room as them. Of course guys are mad, to even be thought of as an …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:51 AM
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12 reasons u dint know what you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 08:54 AM
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Approaching who, lmao I could go days without seeing an attractive women anywhere near my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:31 PM
2

Do you hear yourself, what does him being settled for have anything to do with what other men do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:14 AM
2

That's pure genetics , aging is gonna hit u like a truck one day. I use to live in south Korea where the women had soft youthful features until 40 hit and they looked live cave trolls. Skin care is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:20 PM
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I dont think its a man/woman thing. I think people in general dont look very great past a certain point. I one time set my tinder to 30's and was appalled that these were the women i was going to have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:24 PM
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I agree with above. Im 30, and in my 20's I was fucking stupid. Your brain when you are 20's is just jacked on testosterone and stupidity. AS you get older provided, you didnt fuck up your life, you can bring perspective into things, and improve on yourself immensely. I gym everyday/run, skin care, experience with women, well traveled, have money. All of these things take time, for some people longer then others, and you have to invest in yourself. you'lll see massive dividends as your average l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 PM
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based, harsh reality. Dating was garbage in my early 20's. It seems like half the girls I talked to had a kid by the time they reached 25. Like its a mad dash as soon as they get 18 to find the nearest bum and get pregnant. Apparently i lost that race, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:19 PM
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A lot of people don't realise this because of generational gaps, and they lack enough dating experience to see things for what they are so they take everything at face value. Of course there are people who like each other , reasonably attracted to each other, get married, relationships and so on. But the over arching trend that plagues a lot of men whether they know it or not, as that many are married, in relationships with women especially late 20's early 30's by women who would not have fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:16 PM
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Well said. A lot of men think their world is opening up on the dating scene only to completely gloss over the fact they're only being considered because the clock is ticking, and thre amount of attractive men isn't enough to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:30 AM
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Such a whiney posts. Please like me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:46 PM
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Any dude that falls for the real man narrative is spineless and can oy blame himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:31 PM

I dont understand why he wants this though. clearly hes never heard of a dead beadroom,.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:01 AM

Im not reading this stupid shit bro, use your hand , buy a fleshlight IDk. There was a good 4 years in my life where my sex life was pretty sporadic and it was honestly really fucking annoying, and not ever once did I blame women for not liking me, as I'm owed absolutely nothing. You're the type of dude that wishes for an Apocalypse thinking the one hot chick you stumble across is gonna fuck you for a can of beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:59 AM
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Same stupid questions everyday. Be good looking, it's thst simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:56 PM
1

Call it fake lonely. It's like when u walk in the store and there's nothing u wanna eat. The food is there unjust don't like what's available to u.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:35 AM

Mandatory testing at birth problem solved. The fact that anyone would even push back at this is narcissism at best, and an attempt to subvert the truth .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:03 PM

I can trust them and they still cheat, what reality do u live in. No I don't trust humans in general ,man or woman. Because people will lie to do what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:01 PM

Her attitude is insane she's will fully ignoring reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:00 PM

You sound like the type the get angry when someone questions your intentions , only to later discover they were doing shady shit the whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:51 PM

Get your finances in order, she isn't mature snd needs to do some soul searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:55 PM

Buying shit alleviates her boredom?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:18 PM

It's mental illness, I have trouble finding anything to buy sometimes I want to cause I have money to spend, but nah it's all just unnecessary juni.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:17 PM

Ok I'll say it. The daily task of maintaining a house is not difficult ,nor take up 8 hours a day. I go to work full time and school part time to finish my second bachleors, and I freelance once ot twice a week. I wash all my dishes. Clean up after myself ,laundry. I take out the trash . I dint leave any messes as any functioning adult should. It takes an hour a week to vacuum. And any other major cleaning tasks take an average of an hour every week or so. Cleaning a household is not a daily tas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:15 PM

Amazon prime
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:12 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:55 PM

its cool having standards, but thinking that simply having a lot of sexual partners equates to a moral failing of sort is flawed thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:48 PM

Ok boomer , what does having a lot of sex translate to cheating. ........u the think puritanical types don't cheat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:03 PM

Exactly, I've slept with inexperienced women, and it's honestly annoying as hell once u reach a certain age and level of experience. I want you to tear my clothes off and ride me like your life depends on it, not lay there and whimper every couple seconds, fuck outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:52 PM

Speak for yourself, I love promiscuous women. U can have the 40 virgin's, boring as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:42 PM
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💯. I go on dated to enjoy someone else's time . I enjoy the conversation and the act of seducing and connecting with someone. The sex js the cherry on top ,but not the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:35 PM
2

How do y'all weirdos jump to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:47 PM
0

For real. I have never had anyone answer me with a logical response as to why any man should get married especially with the laws that are set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:14 PM
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I don't expect women to fuck me because I paid 20 dollars for her chicken Alfredo. I want them to fuck me because they like me. Dudes that expect sex in return could save themselves the trouble financially and just get an escort. Over time it would save them money and be less manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:24 AM
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Why does u guys keep thinking thr government needs to u intervene when U should be asking why women can't be bothered to deal with a large portion of thr male population . Y'all want booty stipends , stimuluses , and handouts. Sex is right now free market capitalism and if u can't compete that's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:12 AM
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So how much of people is actually them........ If I was born in a another culture and liked that music, food, similar thought processes, beliefs, how can I say they are of my own individual choices as a person. Entire populations of people believe in religions simply because they were born in a certain area, how is that truly faith when you'd believe ina different God had u been born somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:53 PM
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U really have no idea what I'm talking abkut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:36 PM
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Based. There is nothing appealing about most men when u engage them peteer pan syndrome.. It's their lack of ability to engage women on level conversationally and emotionally that is sexually appealing. I use to work fast food and I practice running game on women through a fucking speaker. Most men speak with this nasally effeminate auara , massively insecure , it's a wonder birth rates aren't worse. I grew up around men acted like men. Were assertive , stoic, masculine, and didn't walk around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:47 AM
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That has nothing to do with the discussion im having. But yes cool u are content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:41 AM
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But how much music and other experiences could be had that I'm missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:32 AM
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But for example if I'm a black man in america I listen to only rap, only wear clothes associated with black culture, speak in a certain vernacular, date those who only share certain similarities, how much of me is really me. Btw I'm black and i say this because I caught so much shit for not ascribing to be something because of my genetic phenotype. People's entire identities revolve around where they just happened to be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:27 AM
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There's literally no way to even meet anyone organically, unless you're still in school......
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:51 AM
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I wish this got discussed more. How many people are a actually really themselves and not just a compiling of whatever culture, ethnic backgrounds ground, microcosm they inhabited. If thr only reason I like something is because everyone around me does and I grew uo with it, does that really make me, me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:44 AM
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It was depressing when I was in my mid 20s. Having normal pleasant conversations with women were damn near non existent especially on tinder. It felt like 99% of the engagements fell on to me. When I did sleep with them it left me thinking " all that for this". Most had kids, which I would be more accommodating if they took better care of themselves. I know before I start talking to a woman online she's going to bother me about my height as that seems like the end all be all , yet be 100lbs over…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:41 AM
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This, check-list and standards are for ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:44 AM
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That's why I laugh at half the questions on PPD . People will post thr most inane questions and philosophies as if it's gonna change objective reality. Women want hot attractive me. It's that simple . If they can get these men they will........that leaves a lot of men in the dust in their 20s getting sporadic sex perhaps feom women they don't want. Then when the magic 30s hots. Many women realise there isn't enough of those hit dudes to go around to marry so they find someone who is stable and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:42 AM

So you're mad because your ass is small........u can still squat, im nit growing past 5'8 anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:35 AM
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Ive dated and observed enough to see what is what. When I was younger you could have gaslit me into thinking looks dont matter, personality blah blah, is true. I simply see what people post , laugh a little, and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:59 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:46 AM
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First day on earth? Being a sugar daddy is 💯 transactional and any man that has means to do this knows it. What else would it be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:43 AM
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This. If I was wealthy I ld have no hangups about being a sugar daddy because there's transparency about the arrangement. A lot of dudes are sugar daddies in their marriages but don't realise it because they don't have enough experience and insight to perhaps question why their partner is with them. Dating is easier for men in their 30s either for two reasons. 1. They understand how to be attractive and have spent their 20s developing this, which is rare. 2. Women their age want to find a ltr wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:40 AM
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Probably a very small percentage of men will actually take the redpill .....and do anything with it. The rest want to read enough material to manifest pussy out of thin air, then disappoint the broad cause they don't know how to make her cum
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 06:06 PM
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Essentially.......i don't understand these post asking for advice, everything that can be said has been said.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 04:47 PM
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These are the same people that tell you to join a book reading club or wait for a woman to drop and apple so you can pick it up and exchange phone numbers in return. And yes you are correct being above average doesn't mean anything. But rest assured I'm convinced thst a large portion of marriages consist of women being with a guy they wouldn't have dated in their earlier years that's why so many young guys in their 20s are single and dateless and then in their 30s are married with 3 kids. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:28 AM
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Dude if online dating didn't exists I wouldn't get laid. In my day to day life I have absolutely zero interaction with attractive women, it's already rare for me to come across one from one day to the next. The only time is downtown at the bar area and I'm over spending 60 euros a night drinking , listening to music I hate...... Online dating makes women I'd never see available to me and gives me a means of meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:18 AM
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Yeah these comments make no sense. Puritans......probably mostly American. Being promiscuous doesn't have anything to do with the person not being able to fulfill your needs in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:50 PM
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Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:13 PM
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💯, I mean I wouldn't want to date a women who prioritises dick over her kids ,but yeah it isn't much fun to have to deal with someone else's kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:51 AM
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💯. I absolutely hate taking selfies, it's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:57 AM
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Half n half, just being honest. Post but clarity is a hell of a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:27 PM
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This is perfect. I've had fbws and other women me their dating apps and it's a fucking cesspool of nonsense. 80% of the men on there are indeed something to behold and not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:26 PM
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Makes sense. All dating norms are weird to me. It's as if we're all perpetually scared of each other and the only places left to meet are in my opinion the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:04 PM
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Yeah I had just got out the army and needed money asap so I tool what I could till I get get my shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:03 PM
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Same boats as u. If I breathe wrong i know I'm getting ghosted for a dude that can. Shits whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:39 PM
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Big brain here, I've never understood this logic with most women. Having all these parameters for who they want yet passively waiting for it to happen...logically your going to be frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:52 PM
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Facts, there's no third spaces to meet women naturally. The only way it's happening is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:50 PM
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Dude I worked at BK and i was getting ass. I'm definitely far from 20 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:49 PM
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Lmao. Maybe I had a sex addiction. But when I single was bedding 10 women a year on average. That's such a low amount of sex when u think about it. These were one night stands. Sex 10 times a year is nothing. The key for consistent sex is a relationship where I was having sex at least twice a day . That's way more then when I was out on the prowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:48 PM
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So get used by women overseas is the option....women are women .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:45 PM
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This makes you insecure not a narcissist, stay off the internet for a while.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 03:51 PM
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Both genders lack self awareness when presented the allusion of an option. I remeber watching a document where old lonely men would book trips to ukraine with dating agencies and many of these men believed these women actually loved them .......people believe ehat they want to their own detriment. It's just that women have sexual agency. But imagine if things would flip. If a fst hairy dude matched a hot blonde, how many would call into question what thet women really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:49 PM
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He's not a narcissist, he's dark triad larping. No narcissist has the self awareness to ever realise they are one unless they've been clinically diagnosed, which is almost impossible to do.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 11:55 AM
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Please stfu u lost any credibility with this nonsense. Narcissism is perpetual perceived victimhood where everything and nothing is an offence to your ego. They have the emotional level of a vindictive 3 year old. You ever catch a kid doing something bad like drawing in the walls and they blame their teddy bear. That's a narcissist, just with a greater intellectual capacity but lacking the. emotional foundation to guide it. They are through and through horrible people.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 11:54 AM
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If you know anything about narcissist and a psychopath you'd know the last thing they'd do is be on this sub looking to figure out how to talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 07:59 AM

Tell that to the masses who think tinder doesn't represent reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:18 PM
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This 💯. It's like when people say a becoming rich won't change them . You say this because you don't have the money ,and have absolutely no idea the power,freedom, and pleasure that can be procured from it. I told myself if my gf right now had chris brown show up to the door, I'd expect that she'd fuck him no questions asked. Of course she'd deny it because its never gonna happen. But if it did she'd leave with the kid to never be seen again and I make no delusions about it
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 02:46 PM
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Women allow themselves to be used for sex, just as men allow themselves to pay for dinners. what's your angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:29 AM
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Then adios
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:32 PM
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Ive had girlfriends partners, fuck buddies whatever, literally beg me for dick. My ex gf would literally pout like a child if I didn't fuck her brains out. Why on earth would you want your partner to have sex with you if she doesn't want to. I don't just want sex I want to be desired and I know exactly what bring listed after feels like. If my partner doesn't eat to have sex or shows know sexual desire for me it's time to end things because either know there's someone who will, and if il not mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:31 PM
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To add to your post. I think men who figure out what is attractive to women as opposed to men who coasted off positive reinforcement and peaking in high school genetically have a better means of understanding what they want for themselves and can maintain themselves better in the long run. A guy who understands how to make a million dollars is better then the one who inherits a million in the long run. How many people peak in high school,versus the people through struggle who understood themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:20 PM
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Shit my bad ,you're absolute 100 correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:16 PM
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You left out all the normal kids that had crushes and got rejected repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:59 AM
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Isn't that exactly what I typed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:15 AM
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I have so many opinions on this it'll get me banned . Men just truly cannot have anything.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:10 AM
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Another crazy one...... 1.How does women sleeping with men for money as a profession have anything to do with women in relationships sleeping with their romantic partner. 2.i never mentioned anything about the psychological effects of sex work. You just commented with nonsense that has absolutely nothing to do with what I said. I sincerely weep for your boyfriend. You insult women once again by equating their relationships as sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:00 AM
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This is exactly what I did as a black man, the culture is antagonistic to personal development.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 06:53 AM
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.......your logic prevents u from getting laid. 1. You've clearly never worked with a large group of women, it's exhausting and full of drama. 2. Why on earth would u pick a career to be around women, besides it'd not like college or high school, all your female coworkers might ne in their 40s. 3. You're trying to say that making s mot of money makes you beta..........
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 06:52 AM
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Woman from eastern Europe aren't poor. This is a myth perpetuated from the cold war. Couldn't this same logic be applied to stripper and porn star, this stereotype thst all women in sex work are damaged. It's ironic how your comment demonstrates your actual low opinion of women. To me sex workers in Europe pay taxes have insurance, and happen to have an unconventional job , but nonetheless they are working.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:47 AM
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Power to them....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:11 PM
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No one said it is a woman's purpose to be attractive. But if u don't get anyone because u aren't attractive that's a decision u made as well .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:07 PM
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Groupie 101...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:05 PM
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It's legal where I live in germany. Society is not falling apart. There's literally three 4 brothels 10 minutes from where I live and and a sex shop next to a children's toy store. No one cares. I assume you've in the states. And it's just weird prude attitudes. I'm American as well and having lived in other countries, America is suffocating to live in regarding sex and dating. I remeber struggling to getting dates and just mind numbingly toxic conversations and stress of texting 4-5 girls in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:52 AM
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There's tons of beautiful women yes, no doubt. But for every 10 hot women there's maybe 1 dude that's attractive, so it creates a bottleneck because exceedingly attractive men are hard to find which raises their sexual value far beyond what women could attain . Whereas you put average men and women together, women have hugely disproportionately sexual value in comparison on par with that of a male celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:00 PM
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I think men face an initial entry to barrier regarding sexual value. But i believe men have have s higher threshold in being more desirable as a partner then women due to the rarity and that men's age has less of a hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:53 PM
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Bingo.....they completed fail to realise you're chasing after such a small percentage of men that already have more options then they jnkwnwhat to do with. Not only do they not have a reason to be monogamous, why would they want you.......
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:20 AM
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Bro what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:13 AM
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Why would I care about what another guy does. If she fucks with me , she won't pay him any mind .if she entertains him, once again who cares,he can have her
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 06:48 AM
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Idk , hadn't bothered me. My ex was taller and my ex before her talked shit about my height before we were together and then I started railing her. I think the more u stress abkut its the more it works against u.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:41 AM
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I've been wondering this for years. Being tall has nothing to do with being good-looking.......u just have longer extremities. I think height is just a social status thing for women to show off they have some handbag of a man next to them . But then again I guess if most men are ugly ,height is important because that might be most men's only redeeming feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:39 AM
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Yeah 💯. I was there for training when I was in the army, and holy shit the proportions of the food were insane. The only reason I never gained weight because we exercised half the fucking day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:36 AM
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You're right man I genuinely can't remember the last time I saw a good looking dude thst made me feel insecure. It'd happened before ,but it's very rare.social media creates this illusion lf tons of good looking men existing, but the only reason this perception exists is because there's a concentration of them in your daily feed. We get exposed to thousands of model tier men but how many of these dudes exist in the total population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:33 AM
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Those women don't even want him for who he is, it's his status. If you're cool with being used,hmmm cool.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 05:27 PM
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Lmao this .we have an a huge subculture of people who got rich because they convinced others they knew how to get rich. This isn't making a business and creating a product. It's modern day finance religion, and someone is pretending to be your jesus standing on the corner telling you parables about crypto and and high yield investments.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 04:59 PM
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Working a 9-5 doesn't make u a loser. Someone has to work for someone. Successful business dudes are too busy killing it to be condscending know it all's on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 04:56 PM
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I'm on the purple pill sub , and the mental masturbation on there is unreal. It's like dudes just don't want to accept, being attractive is key and ask the same questions over and over thinking a new solution is gonna spring about. It's insanity. Women are on there too, and anyone with half a brain is going to know women aren't going to be forthright about what they want in a man. I honestly just observe. Because apart from rare life insights i dknt need to read this stuff really, attracting wom…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 07:53 PM
7

U share kids, why wouldn't u be in contact.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 03:48 PM
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I'm out living life. At some point the redpill is just redundant. Be attractive, don't, eat clean, lift, set boundaries, wear a condom, have some principles. Live a life of purpose, it's not that complicated
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 10:42 AM
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Most 30 plus old men have become utter slobs. Has nothing to do with the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:14 PM
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U don't have to know what the redpill is to understand the rarities of dating. Especially now. I was 21 when tinder came out and as much as people will fight tooth and nail to downplay it. Tinder is just a brutal representation of dating for the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:21 AM

Doesn't help if u have to support an extra 3-4people. Where when I was in and single, I could choose to stack my whole paychecks and just eat st the dfac.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:53 PM

Most of the married enlisted had fat unattractive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:30 PM
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I mean how many women are married to a dude they dint want to fuck. Marriage is more of a utility to women then men realise. Preconceived notions regarding society has a way of obscuring the reality of the rationale behind actions and probably for the best. I've realised that men are the real romantics, and women are far more calculating in their actions. Women will fuck, and bare children to a man they don't find remotely attractive. It's all out of utility, a means to an end often. Hence why m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:55 PM
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Twice a month is dead lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:16 AM
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I'm at 60, but it doesn't even feel like s lot because I was in a 4 year relationship not too long ago. I've been aexually active since I was 21 and am now 30. I know it sounds insane, but sporadic one night stands even though the numbers add up, doesn't feel like a lot of sex. Thr most sex I has was with my ex , who wanted to fuck twice sometimes 3 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:09 AM
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No it's not , barely noticeable. If I get 3 one night stands. In 365 days that doesn't even register to me, I wouldn't even call that being sexually active really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:06 AM
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Go to any bar., and no dude is getting laid. Just watch and observe, it's just not happening. For every 2 dude that succeeds, there's a 100 that don't. I was in the army in barracks full of dudes and I could count on my hand. the ones that were getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:26 AM
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This, when u broke up with my ex last year, it's an absolute dessert of u aren't using online dating. I wasn't really in a rush to get anything ,just observing and there's no way to meet women organically. Online I do fine, but it takes away the romance a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:54 AM

Dude in 5'8 if s girl doesn't think I'm tall enough then whatever. I have better things to do then be with a chick thst makes my height her whole identity. My ex was 5'10 with shoes and she wore a top bun so it made me even look shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:32 PM
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Dudes just gotta really stop stressing about this. Any women who chooses her partners arbitrarily based off their height is a hidden iceberg of issues you don't want to deal with. I like a fat ass, but that isn't what makes or breaks who I want in a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:13 AM
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There's some interesting discussions every now and then, but st some point you realise it's just dudes want to attract women while bringing the absolute bare minimum themselves. Then compliance when women do the same thing. Both sexes consists of extremely delusional people its just that women have more sexual agency so men feel slighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:10 AM
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Yeah shit gets mad exhausting at some point. As a man there's things that bug me, but why dwell on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah I ignore that stuff, it's basically the male version of the feminist they claim to hate. When you're winning at life you're having too much fun to have hate in your heart. I wish the same success for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:32 PM
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The only fluid I enjoy is shooting into your mom, Have you ever heard of emotional intelligence, now if I was being truly emotionally intelligent I wouldn't have typed that insult towards you and just ignored your ignorance. Funny right, are your feelings hurt..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:29 PM
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So you basically want to control female sexual choice through various rules on a dating app because u can't get laid ? This wouldn't change anything they'd just use instagram more to get psrtnere they desire. Oh let's ban that too .....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:26 PM
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I try to avoid the redpill because at some point the message became too hostile and obnoxious for me. I wasn't always the type of guy who got women. I improved a lot of areas in my life and now attracting a partner is like breathing for me. Many men would rather just complain and say all women are dumb whores who go for Chad, and long for the days of when women knew their place. Idk go to fucking Iran then. I want women who want to fuck the shit out of me, and I became that man through disciplin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:21 PM
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These dense huh, it's a figure of speech
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:54 PM
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Idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:45 PM
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What mess lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:39 PM
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emotions have nothing to do with intelligence?, sir you have much to learn. There's something called emotional intelligence and it is very key to functioning highly as a person without undermining yourself. your crush doesnt need to find a dude intellectually stimulating to have him blow her back out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:26 PM
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this is stupid , let people be people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:21 PM
2

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:21 PM
2

let me guess you took an online sigma dark triad test, and you scored 150.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:17 PM
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Dating doesnt happen after sex, so when does it happen. And in your many decades of living and observation, how is this generation garbage? I for one appreciate that being a black man I am able to date who i want , eat where I want, and not worry about being hung, bashed over the head for the most part. society has always had its issues, Kind of hard to quantify generations when you havent lived very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:16 PM
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There are different intelligence, someone can know how to program a computer, but not understand how to read social interactions. Someone can build a car, and yet not understand how to change a tire, file their taxes. Someone can build a large corporation and have poor control of their emotions. How does one singular test demonstrate any of this. A low IQ guy is probably banging your crush btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:12 PM
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Not sure what planet you live on, but dating and sex tend to correlate. Good job though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:37 PM
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This is the most self defeating cucked thread of comments I have ever seen on this subreddit. I fucking love competition, and have never once told myself that that dating should be easier and that women's standards should come to "reality. That is their choice to make, and if they don't find you attractive, well fuck, thats on you to work on it. But no amount of mental gymnastics and longing for decades you never existed in , is going to change female nature. They are who they are, and they aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:34 PM
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lame, no amount of good conversation can make me want to have sex with a girl im not physically attracted to , thats called a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:27 PM
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you think a test can quantify intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:25 PM
2

this is literally ok cupid, doesnt make a difference, be attractive or dont
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:24 PM
2

if thats what you think you are truly lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:23 PM
1

We do we need to tell people want relationships they should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:22 PM
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Their very thought processes are the reasons why they dont get laid. They will simply never get it. Instead of learning how be the best man they can, sexually, and emotionally, they'd rather create some weird bullshit to mentally gymnast their way into a relationship with a girl who'd rather use her vibrator. They complain about women not being traditional not seeing with their fucking eyes this is the greatest day and age to be a man. There are no fucking societal rules, you can have sex with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:22 PM
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This all sounds stupid and just seems like a way for sexually unattractive men to control the dating scene. Tinder, hinge, bumble, whatever the fuck are all just tools. If women dont want you on those apps then what makes you think its going to be different on any other app. It just is what it fucking is. And dont say get out and touch grass, the same women outside you see in every day life are the ones swiping for a few minutes when they take a piss. There is no difference. Learn to accept what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:10 PM
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This, i use to work in the ER and the first thing we did in these situations is to tell the victim to come exactly as they are, from the event , so an exam can be performed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:40 AM
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All they are doing is making these men political martyrs without even killing them. Anyone with half a brain can see through the media circus. Idc for conspiracy theories, Russell brand, but these accusations strengthen the idea that there may be truths to what he says if there method of disposing of men with controversial messages is using decades old sexual assault claims. This is just as stupid as putin's political enemies falling out of windows. It becomes absurd and we know what's going on.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:39 AM
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............srsly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:13 AM
1

Lmao in germany if you have a kid even though you aren't married. If the woman decides not to work for whatever reason you can be liable to pay spousal support. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:52 PM
2

Dude was entertaining to listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:36 AM

I can't recall the last time I had a male friend or a new a guy the really seemed to have together in a way that really Impressed me. In old movies like the 20s and the 30s the men seemed rather different. Stoic , well thought, charming and well rounded. Then media began to change and the average man was presented as a man child-lumbering oaf. Media often has a way of of mirroring the society it's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:10 PM

I wouldn't say men are inherently shitty. But if I was a woman I just wouldn't seen the appeal in the average ma .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:51 PM
1

What does me finding sex with virgin lackluster have anything to do with my commentary that there are men out there who may want one out of insecurity. Am I not allowed to make comments on my personal feelings for something and then make a commentary on why other people may feel driven to do something. One things has nothing to do with another. Maybe learn to comprehend ? There are also "gasp" maybe, more then one reason why they'd want a virgin. Religious views, culture , personal beliefs , tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:58 AM
2

Yeah it's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:07 PM
7

I can't think of any normal dude that would want a virgin. Seems like a request stemming from insecurity. You know how annoying it is to wanna fuck and have to explain to someone each and every step how to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:06 PM
1

Yeah because we don't spend every waking moment trying to figure out how to get the best of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:45 PM
1

Right. My ex confided in me how utterly repulsive her current boyfriend is to her. Says he doesn't shower, he isn't cute. And then the next day she telling me I'm a toxic person and that she's in a loving healthy relationship with a man I could never be, only to ask me the toxic guy to get drinks with her ar a bar the following week. I've had enough interactions with the opposite sex not to take things at face value and realised they talk in code. What they are saying isn't really what they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:57 AM
6

Exactly, s lot of guys think of women as video game, if they grind hard enough and invest more then at some point they will unlock her. And then get mad when they've spent 2 months or longer being a weirdo and some dude is banging her in two days. Women are people too believe it or not, and not some object to win over.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 05:46 AM
2

I don't need virtue signalling to prop up my self esteem .that's not how men operate. We don't jerk each other off, living in a bubble deluding each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:35 AM
8

Then women are the last if your worries
/r/TheRedPill17/09/23 06:50 PM
-1

"Should I play the pretty boy archetype or the masculine archetype ". What the fuck are u talking about? So you're creating fake personalities to appeal to women. You deserve your hand for as long as it takes for you to realise how much of a bitch u sound.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/23 06:39 PM
2

Good save
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:34 PM
1

Some aren't , I imagine it's like you have heartfelt good intentions, but don't understand the underlying mechanisms behind your choices. So when being g questioned about it, it's as if their morals are being put on trial. But then there's my ex . We broke up. But I was visiting out cats that she kept. She was telling me about her new dude and how he doesn't shower, this that, whatever. I come over again , and some of her friends are there. She says he's not attractive, smells, blah blah This sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:27 PM
18

I think he needs to get his mental health sorted, this man sounds nuts.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/23 06:20 PM
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Yeah , she mentions how small his arms and physique are in her post history several times, like why.......none of us would ever want to know or need this info. It's like me constantly mentioning how comfortable I am with my height. If i am comfortable i wouldn't feel the need to mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:13 PM
3

I could give two shits if women are shallow. Just stop fucking lying about everything. It's just disingenuous and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:03 PM
0

Exactly. Plausible deniablity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:47 PM
3

Aww the attractive men are dumb trope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:38 PM
2

Never said that it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:37 PM
56

I have second hand embarrassment for any woman that is dumb enough to fall for whatever nonsense that comes out of your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/23 03:41 PM
8

Just chadfish on tinder, and every stupid argument on this subreddit cease to exist. Men keep asking all these banal questions 🙄, which I understand why, and basically receive the equivalent of a mom telling her son that he's handsome in return. Women are hard-wired to give answers that will offer them plausible deniablity to preserve their social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:35 PM
4

Spark is just a term for immediate attraction. Spark is also a word thst gives a certain gender plausible deniablity as to why their partners were picked. It's impossible to argue with those who virtue signal, because they are pathologically driven by preserving their social standing thorough manipulating language in addition to cognitive dissonance bring experienced. Me liking something u do, sharing interests would just make u a friend. Me feeling a Spark means I'm excited and eager to to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:29 PM
1

Not at all. My the quality of partners my ex dated has honestly shocked me. But she's nuts so that has something to do with it. She cheated on me with a balding drunk manchild.next guy kept trying to intimidate me when I wanted nothing to do with him or her. Her current boyfriend she told me stinks and refuses to showr because he plays video games all day.......she's 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:23 PM
2

✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:18 PM
5

Your reddit handle is "my bf is not a chad". Chad isn't a real person. It's a internet based term synonymous with sexually attractive men. No one would question of your boyfriend is such a man or not because no one goes on reddit specifically probing into your life. People develop weird ways of coping with uncomfortable things in their life. Some overweight people will use body positivity, some will make fun of the very things they find insecure about themselves. You are projecting to the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:10 PM
9

There isn't a human alive that hasn't seen someone attractive and hasn't thought about having sex with them.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 02:01 PM
1

We know this. Your post history consists of you insecurely bragging about your objectively unattractive boyfriend. Which is cool maybes he's a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:59 PM
0

I know Whenever I hear someone try and convince others how much they find their partner attractive it's usually them trying to convince themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:55 PM
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90% of the world has dark hair.....and your bf has small arms. Way to fail at virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:50 PM
1

Basically, like thr same teenage girls dating guys in college
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:46 AM

Because it's fucking weird. U and a girl are watching a movie, u pause it and ask to have sex......like what. I have never once outright asked for sex. Read the room , get into the moment snd let nature happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:00 AM

Wow your small circle of friends are the exception to the rule. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:04 AM

Yes genius it did, and did every other person in their 20s use it, no so u completely missed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:02 AM

Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:58 AM

Cool for your dad, that has nothing to do with the overall concept if what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:57 AM

Touche
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:31 PM

Because dumb shit your mom would have had access to someone more attractive , tons of them too. This isn't some back to the future shit where I jump in my time machine and teach your mom after I finger her and introduce tinder to the world. My point was is that tinder drastically changed people's methods in which who and how they choose their partners. I get it , it's hard to read between the lines and imagine things especially abstract concepts on the internet. In bold letters. WOMEN DID NOT HA…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:31 PM

That doesn't make it any less stupid. I can see the words on my phone if what u wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:19 PM

....sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:18 PM

In the 70s women weren't even allowed to open their own account , what is considered a good amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:18 PM

I think a lot of women wre overlooking reat relationships with men because they perceive them to not be uontontheir standard thst in previous times would have been ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:14 PM

Of course, as I mentioned they have economic freedom now and less stigma associated with not being married and settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:12 PM

Good observation 👍. That wasn't my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:11 PM

You're probably right, I suck at getting my ideas across at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:11 PM

Yeah no shit. We're they actively using OLD at the time they met there partner. If I'm in a store and I grab something to buy and I don't realise there's something better at an online shop that I don't know exists, doesn't mean I wouldn't capitalise on the chance to get something better if I knew it was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:47 PM

Yeah extremely attractive Men are absolutely killing it. If u are not thst man then online dating is damn near pointless .women now have an unlimited amount of options online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:43 PM

Exactly , online dating in the early 2000s was seem as creepy and weird and was not mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:40 PM

Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:36 PM

I didn't even write that.........
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:35 PM

Sex work isn't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:08 PM

💯. I keep saying this. I am not mad at women for dating who they find attractive, and if men fail to live up to that then that's our individual problems as men to assess how we want to go forward . Can't count how many times I see post where men are saying they make this much money, have a house, am a doctor etc.... and then get mad when their partners only see them as wallets and ask resource. Like bro that's what u marketed yourself as, a wallet. Men do not understand how to be sexually attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:07 PM
1

When my son is born, he will absolutely play sports. Professional, that's on him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:43 AM

Wouldn't bother me as long as they are doing it legally. Tons of men by women dinner in the hope of sex, how is thst any different. And if my daughter was a sex worker, at the end of the day she's an adult and if she's doing it legally and understands the consequences of her actions , that's her life to live. Wouldn't be my aspiration, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:33 AM
1

Wtf are u even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:29 AM
2

The usual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:53 PM
8

Shit is straight suicidefuel..I had a friend who would have girls approsch him.every time we went out. He was socially award as fuck, didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:02 PM

We then don't even know the quality of the relationship. It's because as men out experiences our invalidated,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:47 PM
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Trust me bro I know what u mean, hence why I hate virtue signalling with a passion. Millions of men face reality only to get told its their personality. It's like when they say they like short men but their boyfriend is 6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:59 PM
23

Men won't admit this because they look at the past not realising if tinder had existed 2 decades ago most of us wouldn't have been born. Our mom's most likely thought our dads were the best within the context of her vicinity. Maybe she didn't have a Chad like guy in her social circle. Women won't admit to this because their answers are going to be based in preserving their social standing . Most men struggle to get a crumb of pussy , yet at some point will get married, do the math. All women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:53 PM
9

They'll just say dating apps arent real life. They keep leaving out that the women who are on these apps are human beings using a phone ,not digitally activated sentient beings that exists suddenly when you match with them. Chadfishing while I don't recommend as we don't need 10,000 guys fucking up tinder, is the best way to get a gauge of how women react when they truly find a man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:45 PM
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This is gold. I wonder why divorce is so high, hmmmmmmmmmmmm maybe they were never attracted to their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:42 PM
1

If my current relationship fails, I really don't care to date again .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:12 AM
0

I never said you get tired of pussy, I'm just saying it's not as fulfilling as one would think, but as I said also I understand sexual frustration and telling someone who doesn't have actual access that sex isn't all that serious can come scross as insulting. I love sex, but it isn't fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:11 AM
1

Wow you're funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:58 AM
6

This man. I was sleeping with a a chick that i met off tinder who was by no means a looker, just easy ass, and I asked her to show me her tinder and my God. She had hundreds of matches with dudes willing to do anything. You also have to think u aren't the only guy she'd talking to at any given moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:55 AM
7

This bro, he's offering her something that has nothing to do with who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:03 AM
13

If you're a self respecting male , As u get older, u won't even bother with this. I remeber being in my early 20s thinking if I was funny and whatever I'd get her to text me more and it would lead to something. Then I read online about Chadfishing, and I did it myself and holy shit did I become depressed. Male models don't need game..I was saying the most disrespectful dumb shit I could think of and had hordes of women begging for numbers . So when women on here talk about personality and all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:00 AM
2

U can't blame them though, I learned this from having constant sex for the past 6 years. Prior to that sexual frustration was my middle name .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 PM
1

Yeah she's just nuts. U ask any dude off the street anything about the manosphere and they won't know what you're taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:57 PM
10

As a man that was sexless at one point in his life and now have plenty of options. I 💯 say that dating , sex, and love are massively overrated. When it seems unattainable, then your perception of its importance massively inflates itself in your life. I wish I was kidding ,but the sheer massive amount of undateble partners to comb through to find one that's simply ok isn't worth it. You risk so much and there's way more fulfilling things to do with your time, i swear. To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:55 PM
1

Pass ,german cuisine is basic ww2 bunker survival essentials
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:09 PM
2

Lmao come to Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:05 PM
2

I live in Europe, and European are not fit man.gym and health culture is way more prevalent in the states.tons of fat fucking people , especially the men who basically consume beer as half their calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:04 PM
1

If dad bods where a thing, PPD wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:29 AM
2

Don't bother man, when you create a dialogue where people aren't comfortable with their own lack of effort ,yet want to do nothing about it, they get mad and make up excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:28 AM
1

Its definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:27 AM
1

U know how many women marry and have kids with guys they were never attracted to from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:26 AM
1

Dude your just mad because u don't want to put in any work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:25 AM
2

I agree, the average female body , Hence I said average so don't post exceptions to the rule , still are sexually arousing. The reason to this is that fat deposits have the ability to accentuate a woman's figure, be it her ass ,curves, breasts, and even their face to some degree depending on the structure. The average man's body. Is skinny with a gut, tiny army, no chest, hips wider then his shoulders. When we gain fat it does absolutely nothing positive for us because any traits associated with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 AM
8

Any man who's sexually attractive could care less. The ones who do aren't getting any want to control
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:54 PM
1

So basically it's everyone's personal experience being thought of as a generalisation . I just think people want to argue for the sake of arguing because you are defending whatever actions of the respective gender you belong to, which defeats the purpose of being on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:12 AM
1

Hmm not really. I've read some interesting dialogue, but mostly life experience has helped me especially when I was in the army. I found the redpill when I was 18 and reading thst shit when you're 18 and lack romantic experience has the potential to make you act ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:16 PM
2

You have a point ,but I have legitimately received reply from people that didn't seem to understand anything I said, and just inserted their own biases. But yes I agree it becomes the catch-all phrase to discredit someone, and then u run into thos vicious cyle of talking to the wall. That's when you realise it's time to logg off and stop arguing with internet strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:50 PM
1

Beats 4chan. That site makes me feel like I need a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:07 PM
3

Yeah it's just being argumentative because you're already biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:06 PM
3

Yeah but then u get banned lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:40 PM
3

Because they probably think the same way.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:37 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:56 PM
4

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:53 PM
5

We don't even know what qualifies as them asking the guy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:36 PM
3

Makes sense. I mean the data being used in creating a statistic can be taken out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:35 PM
1

This is an intelligent response, yes I like to be right, but not the expense of learning something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:39 PM
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I remeber I made a post about my ex girlfriend being irrational seeking advice and I got banned from another sub because apparently I was being an asshole.but if she had been a women posting me being irrational and unstable they'd applaud her and tell her to get rid of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:28 PM
1

I mean yeah no one likes to be wrong as we have this mental reflex that likes to shift blame as our ego takes it a direct attack on who we are. But once you learn how to take a hit and stop being victimised by your own personal beliefs you can learn so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:21 PM
-1

Dude you're never going to get any honesty from these questions. It's all going to be virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:03 AM
1

The average fat American
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:43 AM
24

Ryan gosling is attractive man, but he ain't no 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:35 AM
1

Power of attorney fool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:17 PM
1

I personally don't get it. There's nothing about marriage that changes anything yet makes you as a man extremely vulnerable, especially, specifically your finances. If anything certain functions can be signed over to someone via power of attorney in emergency situations.But really it's just a power move by women now to basically subjugate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:16 PM
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Yeah I've never been a fan of this. Plus it's just stressful. When you lie and make up shit most likely you aren't going to remember every detail of the bullshit you make up, so it's easy to get caught in when someone remembers something that you don't. Telling the truth about your intentions is freeing. And if you can't get laid through bring yourself then what does that say about how desirable u are as a person. I would like someone to like me for the truth I speak because that means they see …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:28 PM
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Example tinder..........there's nothing wrong with reaching high..but when the average men is utterly dateless because anyone near his range of looks and below Is being scooped up by God tier outlier men , hard to see this as anything but. Comments will say get off online dating blah blah as if , the women in the "real world" are completely different entities then those you see walking around outside. Hmmm no. Tinder just revealed and exposed the ugly dating reality that exists ,and people try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:46 AM
25

America has a schizophrenic approach to everything. Just depends who's benefiting , not is it common sense or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:29 AM
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If that was true then instagram wouldn't exists, because 99% of Of the attention is coming from ugly, old , fat, broke guy. Women want attention from these guys ,they just don't want it to advance any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:17 AM
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As someone who was in the army I wouldn't date anyone innthe military either. Everyone cheats, gone for too long , would have to put your career on hold to travel with them constantly....nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:06 PM
1

Lmao this will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:40 PM
1

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:06 PM
-1

Cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:42 PM
29

I think this is a post mean to invoke a response. He can't be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:25 PM
26

You have to be sexually inept to not understand how to make a woman cum, it's far less effort then fucking . You kiss em while playing with their clit. It's just that simple. Or you can do oral. Most women do not orgasm from penetrative sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:21 PM
1

Your correct 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:19 PM
2

When someone draws conclusions from their own bias , they tend to see what they want snd not actually read or understand. Your a nameless stranger ok ther internet. It's cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:05 PM
1

German women are unattractive, I wish I was kidding. By 30 they look like butch hokey players with fire red hair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:46 AM
3

Playing the victim is getting so old. In my posts I was blaming both men and women. It literally says fathers in the title for their respective roles in failing to raise men who would be capable innthe dating world. Instead as usual with the 50 other comments saying I'm blaming women , yes and so what, critiquing the female gender is not misogyny. Guess what as well, I held men accountable for their failings as well. It's almost impossible to have a discussion here sometimes because reading comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:42 AM
1

This is what tried to explain in my posts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:31 AM
2

Shit it was exhausting when I only had 100 I I get it. Just texting 3 women during the day about inane small talk was mind numbing to me. A girl I was seeing casually showed me her tinder, and she was not a looker by any means , and I was astounded. Hundreds of guys..........willing to drive hours to see her, to see a girl that I tolerated.7
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:36 PM
1

Yeah , my dad still actively washes my balls to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:51 PM
2

I was getting at something deeper. If the porches can't run because it's being ran by a shitty engine . U can develop a nice body in the gym and be a complete artists and fuck everything up. U still have to be social in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:42 PM
1

Seems lazy and pathetic that a parent wouldn't want to develop themselves into a person that would create and nurture intelligent, mentally stable adults and prepare their children the best they can with their past experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:39 PM
1

What's the point of having kids then of u aren't raising them to be better then you and have a easier life. What's the point of not passing on your experienced and growing them......
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:35 PM
1

It's not coddling, it's mentoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:12 PM
2

It's his job to be the man he should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:10 PM
1

.....this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:09 PM
2

It'll be heaven for those that get it and hell for those that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:06 PM
1

Think it's something that gets molded through positive reinforcement over time . At some point it gets too old to teach someone how to be emotionally attractive and seductive. Huge problem with the redpill. A dude can lift all he wants and look amazing but still have the engine of a Hyundai with the body of a porsche, still shitty performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:03 PM
4

With your mom, hello brother
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:00 PM
2

Idk not a german native so I can't speak on those early dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:57 PM
3

Yes , like your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:53 PM
2

Being 15 and reading that pua stuff is pure retardation, in retrospect , it's so easy be misguided especially when you're desperate for answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:52 PM
3

You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:48 PM
5

That's the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:45 PM
3

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:45 PM
1

Yeah as I got older I saw my mom's during habits and christ, lessons to behold
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:44 PM
1

I agree the manosphere a this point is just biased and used to take advantage of the men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:38 PM
3

Accountability sucks i guess. If everyone's parents were so good these pill subs wouldn't even exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:37 PM
1

This is literally my point, but people keep commenting I hate women.......
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:06 PM
2

I like your response. You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders and world experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:39 PM
4

It would seem so. Would explain why every boss I've had is a blow hard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:30 PM
3

Ewwww yeah valuable insight gross..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:28 PM
3

I never said she was wrong to tell me to be nice. But it is horrible advice to tell a boy that's how he's going to get all the ladies. It's like telling someone to be confident. But what are they going to be confident about? And yes i agree we all want to be loved and being abused emotionally for the sake of hot sex doesn't pan out for most as to why different qualities become valued more with age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:23 PM
1

Thanks for being the first person to offer a comprehensive analysis of what I'm trying to say. People turned this into this assumption that I'm.making this out to be women bad blah blah.when what I'm really saying is how he communicate what it is to be successfully to next generation with regard to their romantic life is deeply flawed and hindered by certain issues relegated to the specific genders. I was saying that men lack positive masculine influence in how to navigate today's world, and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:19 PM
2

You're taking this statement too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:10 PM
4

To a degree yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:59 PM
0

No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 PM
7

Didn't say it was women's faults. Many women are doing what they think to believe is the right thing. It's a combination of factors . Perhaps learn to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:56 PM
1

Surely not.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:55 PM
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Yes. Of course. It may be coming from them with good intentions,but it doesn't mean it's good advice. Dudes come on this sub asking for advice and asking the same stupid questions over and over again when their father should've explained these details to them . Just because u had a father, doesn't mean he was a father . I had a dad , he was around ,but taught me little to nothing about dating why not. Why wouldn't you want to breakdown some good advice to your children in the hopes of sending th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:54 PM
3

Then why does the sub even exists. If everybody commenting had got it all figured out, why it is it so hard for today's man to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:50 PM
-1

It's a figure of speech ........................
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:33 PM
1

Do I specifically need her vagina? Or am I desperate, there are other women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:33 PM
1

Wow one exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:31 PM
0

Probably just something you tell yourself to feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:31 PM
2

Observe some traits yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:29 PM
1

Never had an issue getting a girlfriend.. Why would i want someone who's standard for dating is entirely placed on bring taller then everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:28 PM
1

I think my mom drank a glass or two when I was developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:27 PM
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Most women are going to have children.doesn't mean they are attracted to the men they have them with. There is simply not enough of the men they desire to go around, so what are their options...... Hence the notion after women get older they value security more, doesn't mean they find their husband attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:02 PM
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Well women aren't going to raise their son with the intention of the him being a good person. Not bad intentioned,but this doesn't translate later as they get. older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:00 PM
-1

Yeah because women's options were severely limited. Making the best of what they had. Now women have economic opportunity, can get pregnant out of wedlock and won't be a social pariah, and have access to men they wouldn't have known existed prior to technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:58 PM
6

Should tag the millions of redditors being nice to female friends thinking they will eventually get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:56 PM
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If things were as they should be, this sub wouldn't even exists. I swear the matrix makes more and more sense the older I get. You have people fighting tooth and nail to hold on to beliefs that hurt them in the process just to feel like they made a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 PM
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Not to be a dick ,but I live in Germany and I can't count how many time German women have told me how unattractive german men act as a whole. I've been living here as an American for 6 years and these are only my experiences, perhaps these women are crazy but I've heard this when I was living in Amberg, and i here this now that I'm living in mainz.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:53 PM
1

We are fighting in Syria, Iraq, somalia. The main war we are facing now is of the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:50 PM
1

Grasping at straws is the sign of a lack of reasoning skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:48 PM
6

Dumb take 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:47 PM
2

Humans aren't cats..out interactions aren't so straightforward and carry many nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:45 PM
-1

Telling your kid to be confident and to just be himself is bad advice regardless of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:44 PM
2

Relative to the culture . Idk I don't live in america. 29000 is decent in germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:43 PM
2

This post isn't about me btw. The was the point i as making is that young men get to adulthood often without the slightest clue as to what women find attractive. The existence of this sub is living proof of that. Being yourself doesn't work if being you isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:42 PM
10

No genius, no one in history of the world has ever said to be rude to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:39 PM
1

In the past most did. Depending which country most women are now economically stable, at least much more so then in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:38 PM
1

I agree the information was new ,but was lost in translation generationallly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:36 PM
1

Yeah because they treat every interaction like a precursor to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:35 PM
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I swear some of y'all read things too literally. I'm not going to teach my son how to finger a girl in a nightclub. But i sure as hell will give him the tools that will give him the positive reinforcement to become successful in his own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:35 PM
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I didn't say it was bad. Virtue signalling typically isn't bad intentioned, just misguided. Someone's mother can give good intentioned bad advice. You know some narcissist are created by parents that overly attended to their needs, their intent was good, but the methods horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:31 PM
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Depends sometimes on the context. If I'm a boy growing up in a rough area that forces me to be naturally aggressive as a survival instinct then yes I agree. You can have a man in the house and lack a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:29 PM
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I'm not venting. I honestly don't even think you understood what I wrote, if anything I'm blaming men for their lack of guidance in their son's lives. I live in a world where there are only men and women, and each carries out it's roles in child rearing and i don't think it's bad intentioned, but a woman can't teach a man to how to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:27 PM
0

Most issues that cause harm to individuals and society as a collective can be traced back to strong paternal influence. Beta males as they are called and or sexually frustrated males pose certain risks to society, as they typically lack traits of healthy functioning sounded minded men, and that naturally will affect their ability to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:22 PM
2

Where was it written I was looking for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:19 PM
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Yeah 💯. These are subtle skills that one could be learning in your youth that the lack of compounds I to a greater issue into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:18 PM
3

It's the same bullshit my generation was told that they have to be nice ,caring, they just have to wait for the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:49 AM
2

It's just shit people regurgitate as simple responses to complex issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:47 AM
2

Yeah I should have clarified a few rejected ne, but overall it hasn't bothered me too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:44 AM
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I've been with plenty of women but I've had rejection over my height, maybe I should have clarified this better. I had an ex tell me that i was too short and not her type before we started dating two days later I we were smashing. My current gf asked me abkut my height, now she's having my kid. So if anything it's been annoying at best but I'm fairly good looking so that definitely helps. I had one woman in a club a few years ago aggressively pull me towards her and tell me how hot I was and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:42 AM
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Yeah . I want my my partner to not need me. I was with someone who refused to work for a few years, but living in germany the government played half her portion of the rent and gave her money for living costs, not a lot but doable. But basically anytime I wanted to do anything with her, I was basically the de facto atm.so I never really wanted to travel because she'd essentially be bumming off me the whole time, which in principle gets old after a while, especially if they aren't making the effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:01 AM
0

When did I say I get constantly rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:53 PM
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Dude 6'2 is not standard height in the Netherlands. I've been there it's not that serious, coming from a shorter then average American living in germany
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:20 PM
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Exactly, I personally like fat asses, but I'm not going to entirely write someone off as an option because of one physicall attribute when the person could very well still be attractive, all of their attributes into consideration. Before if you're standards for dating are that myopic that being 6ft is the end all be all, what are you really missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:51 PM
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I don't think they actually care about height that much, more of a status thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:41 PM
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The fact that someone whom is 5'11 will get turned down over an inch is indeed a sight to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:41 PM
3

Social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:54 PM
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Dating apps are real life. The same women outside are the ones using their phones on these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:52 PM
1

My last gf was 5'10 , 2 inches on me and height to her seemed trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:59 PM
15

I started to something 12 years ago when I was 18, I just didn't have anyone to bounce ideas off. There's nothing natural about how we live. We've been robbed from the passions of life and instead live out these hollow existences propped up by ridiculous rules. When I broke up with my ex, I realised I had no way of actually meeting women. Every bit of our lives have been so structured that normal human interaction is barely facilitated outside of work banter and drunkenly talking to some bar fly…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 06:09 AM
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Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:14 AM
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How would my ability to attract women have anything to do with me understanding a personality disorder I didn't even know existed. You're an idiot of the highest order
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:03 AM
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I see your point......
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:49 PM
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If women can't be bothered to fulfill such a normal requirement, you're gonna play clown to get the toxic ones.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:31 PM
1

.......u literally just contradicted yourself, with your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:04 PM
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If you're scared of complimenting a woman, then in my book you're still a simp because you are basing your actions based on what you can do impress her instead of just being the best version of you. Find mentally healthy women that enjoy compliments, if the others don't, that's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:03 PM
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Did you even understand his comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:00 PM
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There is no authentic self......what the fuck are u talking about. So you sat down and decided to base your personality around what women find attractive 🤔, seems kind of lame tbh. And bpd isn't obvious 🙄 when you're first meeting someone, I didn't even know what it was until I was already in a relationship and read about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:57 PM
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That's the issue for a lot of people. There is no shortcut or cheat codes to this. It's like when you give someone advice and they still end up doing the same dumb shit because they don't want to face the reality of what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:21 PM
1

True, guess I was just projecting my own perspective. If I see something on reddit that has already been answered as a general question i wouldnt waste my time asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:20 PM
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My past posts regarding my bpd ex oh wow. What about the other 60 I've been with. If you can't be your authentic self then the real you isn't worth getting to know, enjoying playing games forever, constantly trying to figure out women .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:18 PM
1

You have a point, starting to notice on this Sub its literally the same questions being asked everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:08 PM
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Theres no hint I need to take. I have literally no issues attracting women , the thought of them dating down doesnt even cross my mind when interacting with them. If she doesnt find you attractive, she doesnt find you attractive, complimenting women doesnt make them any less so if she likes you. If you have to play weird mind games to get a woman to stay attracted to you, shes probably fucked in the head in some way and not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:07 PM
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hes just making up shit, theres tons of people on here that have zero to minimal dating success yet feel as though they are qualified to give out advice. wilkommen to ze internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:41 PM
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I am 100 percent confident that you are talking out of your ass. What do they say nowadays," go touch grass"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:40 PM
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its stupid and redundant. , its just guys looking for an alternative to what they already perceive to be true to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:32 PM
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This questions gets asked literally everyday, why not just read past posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:53 PM
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Not reading all this ,but I agree with you. Everyone always has a bunch of excuses. But the answers are easily found.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 02:48 PM
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💯 I've thought about this for a while. I don't think people really understood what dating apps did. 90% of the women I've slept with I wouldn't have even known existed without it. Yet I remeber being 25 , low bodyfat, lifted, blah blah blah feeling slighted by women that were waaaay below me in terms of attractiveness ,yet these women had access to men more attractive to me. In the past people had limited dating pools, Chad didn't exactly abundantly exist in most women's worlds, until dating mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:53 PM
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Started to realise this sort of. I'm 30 and all my gfs friends are 2-3 years older then me, and my God I can see signs of aging. I legit thought one of them was late 30s 40 when I saw her, but she's only 2 years older. But wt the end of the day ,I think it boils down to consistent self care. I've been using retinol, anti aging products since my mid 20s and workout quite often
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:01 AM

There are no rules, do what the fuck you want. I'd have respect for someone trying an failing then not doing anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:48 PM
7

I heard wearing your sisters panties helps as it produces a pheromone signalling that you're safe.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/23 07:15 AM
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...........if u were truly a dude capable of doing this, u wouldn't be asking internet strangers if it's ok
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:26 PM
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There's nothing to educate her on, she knows what she's doing , she doesn't care because consequences have never mattered to her. Guys do the same thing when they catch their gf talking to another dude. There's nothing to discuss and work on, she knows wtf she was doing so why fix it. And I hate the term high value. You can be a billionaire and still act like a fucking loser. If I became rich tomorrow who am I valuable to, a woman who wants to use me, so where's the value in that, seems more lik…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 04:33 PM
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I agree, that's 90% of my motivation to be rich is just streamlining my life in a more convenient manner. I'm a simple dude and don't enjoy jumping through hoops , and would prefer to just throw a little money at shit, get the results I want and be on my way. Idc id you're 6'4 ripped, jawline of a God, still going to bars and hitting on chick's u gotta be a dancing monkey to some extent and I just don't have the energy for such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:41 AM
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Dumb. He could have just game to Germany. And with 200k fucked 4,000 girls. 50 euro a pop......I mean idk how much money he has snd I'm not judging him for paying, but that seems really excessive considering the alternatives. Perhaps if I had 100 million sure. But 200k , just doesn't seen sustainable and he's eating through his money that could go to more lucrative purchases....idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:35 AM
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I mean his username , he obviously isn't exactly someone I'd probably hang with.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 01:15 PM
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Ghetto monkeys,....... really son
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 12:36 PM
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She's an adult she can do whatever she wants. Not my job to consult Sun Tzu over some ass. She wants to sit with a rapper and enjoy his 20g bottle service cool. Well when him and his boys are done running their train on her at his hotel , her number is gonna be blocked and deleted out of my phone. Just that simple. Even reacting to it means you lost the game. She made a choice , and that was to disrespect you, don't make a scene over it, it just makes you look like a bitch crying over her, and i…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 12:31 PM
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What's your point. There's good women, there's bad women. Don't get sucked into the rhetoric thst back in the day women were like this. Everyone lives in their own microcosm of experiences with different context and perspectives . The redpill can be toxic af if u can't read between the lines and take everything as law.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 04:09 AM
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Yeah, but this takes work, and this is the essential problem of both men and women. Everyone wants something with the least amount of work on their part, and get mad when it doesn't work in their favour. Chad wasn't born he was worked hard u just missed the work involved and only saw the end result. Stacy watches her diet does, hella cardio , and learned over years how to dress and apply make up. Wasn't easy for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:07 PM
1

I was kind of replying to the other person as to how they were using circular arguments in male responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:00 PM
1

redpill really only works if you are attractive to begin with. If you dont know how to establish boundaries and frame in a relationship then yeah despite being attractive your relationship will suffer. But if you cant even establish attraction on a visceral level to even engage with a woman romantically then all the so called knowledge doesnt really do anything and is just mental masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:54 PM
1

So what I'm hearing is fathers abandon their kids and let the mothers medicate and deride their sons masculinity? Where's the fathers responsibility?? so are you saying women are incapable of making sound decisions without a man around. like wtf do you want. stupid circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:37 AM
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every man that has tried to do the right thing by his family is miserable and gets fucked over royally. women did this to themselves. why on earth would a man put his entire financial , mental, health, relationship to possible kids in the hands of someone that can change everything as soon as they want new dick, tired, blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:34 AM
2

This is an insult to so many guys struggling right now. ✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:32 PM
3

I think people forget that women are ultimately women anywhere. There may be some certain cultural aspects that are slightly different , but the inherent behavior associate with the gender is going to be there regardless of nationality and phenotype.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 03:30 PM
0

💯 couldn't have said it better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:27 PM
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Never been to UK ,but yeah man in Germany it's like they aren't even trying. The best looking ones are usually mixed with turkish or something.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 11:59 AM

bro what. the fact the you even have to ask this means you are in for a world of hell awaiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:29 AM
1

Feel like the redpill should have evolved past this content by this point. I mean everything regarding stories like this, has been written ad nauseam.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 10:24 AM
1

I dont see how this is humanly possible. you are older then my parents and im 30. I would have just gotten an escort 30 years ago at this point.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 10:23 AM
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shit im germany now, seems like they all look like lesbians by age 30. Not the greatest here, but as usual if you go to bigger cities there's potential. Told myself if i retire it will definitely be in eastern europe.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 10:16 AM
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Beautiful for sure, never got to know anyone long enough to see the mental issues.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 09:16 AM
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I lived in poland for 5 months and i swear u guys are spoiled. I lived jn a small city and in every corner there was nothing but gorgeous women. Absolutely stunning, and I've been to 15 countries. To be fair regarding your post , theres always going to be a subset of overweight women in their 50's with short hair looking for a man. At the same time theres no shortage of men like this either. But I will definitely say that the wall seems to be more delayed over there, as i saw plenty of women wit…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 09:16 AM

I agree 💯. The dynamics have changed and men have failed to change with it. They don't understand that women in the past weren't dating men because of attraction it was more so survival . They blame modern culture and say women are this and that not understanding that women now can stand financially on their own and can now pick a suitor whom they actually want to sleep with and choose as a partner. It's like when people say oh marriages lasted longer in the past, yeah no shit, women couldn't op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:03 PM

Lmao if I was a sugar daddy then sure i wouldn't care. But dating someone who's not very bright is a massive annoyance, and invalidates their looks. You can't fuck someone all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:58 PM
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Depends on what u want. Easy to lose yourself to a relationship because they tend to not have interests of their own so they latch on to you. Personally I think u should just get your own spot.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 01:13 AM
10

I agree to this. Lived with a few women, their goal is to subconsciously weaken u. They complain when u work too long, complain when you're at the gym, get jealous when u lose weight. Their goal is to make u the very thing they don't want to be with.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 05:38 PM
3

This could be cool duscussion if people didn't talk out their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:42 PM
1

To be fair I agree. Have you ever attempted to get good at something, and along the way as you got better you reflected on past difficulty and of former task or skills seems foreign to you. I remember being in my 20s where women were offering themselves to me, only for me to fuck it up, because I had no concept of just being the best authentic version of myself. I would attempt to formulate a redpill response to these women and end up being weird and fucking things up, when I could have just sai…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 07:23 AM
1

This takes self awareness though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:58 AM
5

Exactly, but these guys are truly rare when u really step outside. Most men can't even do one strict pullup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:36 PM
2

Honor And principles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:03 PM
1

Ons as in I fucked them the same day/ night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:35 PM
9

Have u known women to not virtue signalling at every opportunity. You're never going to get a real response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:15 PM

I agree 💯. I've realised up to a certain it's not that complicated. Be attractive, be social competent. It's literally that simple. But for some people these concepts seem to be so out of range thst they have made a whole lifestyle out of trying to get laid. It's like when I try to learn something snd then I finally understand it, it would me me wonder what was so hard to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:41 AM
9

Facts, seen it in my own family, truly a sight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:25 AM
18

This
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:24 AM
14

Idk every single one night stand I've had, the girl asked " what are we" , and if I wanted something more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:22 AM
22

Well said. There just isn't enough sexually attractive men for every woman to have as an option for commitment. But at some point these women still want companionship. The thing that sucks is that a lot of these guys who are married their wives wouldn't have even looked their direction 5-15 years back, so they kind of are getting a raw deal in my opinion. Kinda of a bitter pillow to swallow knowing that that when most men are young and struggling now for just a response in tinder, these same wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:20 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:56 AM
2

Yes, but most guys don't see that, they just see the finished product ad if they were born that way and that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:56 AM
1

I agree, wee are stuck in this world regardless, I intend to do what I can, and I fail then that's just what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:54 PM
1

Hard pass, I just hear excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:29 PM
2

Wtf are u even talking about my guy. U skipped your meds this past hour. I'm not trapped in a relationship lmao, and u don't anything about my ex . My ex loves in a single bedroom apartment living off 400 euros a month dating a dude that doesn't shower lmao. You're mad and making 🤪 weird personal attacks on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:27 PM
1

Wtf.....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:42 PM
1

Welp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:41 PM
1

I can speak on my desires. For commitment you need to obviously be attractive, not compliment my life not drain it. If a relationship is causing me stress I don't see a point of it when I can be single and get the same affection and sex without the baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
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I'm 5,8 man and yeah when I was younger I found the height thing to be annoying as hell cause it came up in every convo. At 30 I just ignore it, opinions don't seem to bother me as much it seems.. but I get your point , to what end do u need to be this demigod of a man when the opposite sex doesn't put forth a 10th of the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:17 PM
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How are women controlling me if I choose who I want to date and who I don't. My choice to make drastic lifestyle choices was my own freewill. So now I'm the clown dancing because I got what u cant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:15 PM
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The latter I agree ,because I think because they still always have sexual access it clouds their perception. Perhaps the men understand where they fall, but don't feel the fire to change, I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:11 PM
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How do u know if u haven't tried. So many excuses on this post I swear I'd think u guys were neutered. You'd be absolute floored if u took someone off the street , got them to 15% bodyfat and gave em a nice haircut but instead u look at the world through the lens of defeat and just accept what is. If u fail cool, but still try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:10 PM
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I agree, when I moved to Europe I realised my pool of woman in day to day interactions was abysmal. Had zero idea how to meet, to this day I still don't know , because I don't enjoy bars anymore. 90% of my interactions with women have been facilitated online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:07 PM
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I see your point,but i work with so many guys who seem absolutely clueless when it comes to women. Literally had to have an intervention with one because he smelled. This sub wouldn't exist if more men were self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:04 PM
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Chance this, chance that, what are u guys goals if u just arent attractive. Every single comment on here has done nothing but moan and make excuses yet wonder why can't can't get laid .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:57 PM
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I wish I saved some of my screenshots. 90% of the sexual encounters I've had have been from tinder. I don't meet enough women day to day and have the time to meet as women as I could without tinder. Most of the women I've slept with I wouldn't have even known existed....if it wasn't for tinder. You guys will look for anything to just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:35 PM
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I have no issue with the dating world . I'm one person , what impact am i going to have changing women's sexual preferences. I think they're fine and have no complaints. I like being ripped as fuck, I like working hard to be attractive for myself as well. Not saying I don't understand the plight of men, but complaining doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:23 PM
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College has more women currently. Still the same sexual dynamics , most of those women are still sleeping with a small percentage of guys. People blame tinder and blame this, 🙄, keeping looking for excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:05 PM
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Control over what myself.....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:03 PM
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So then what's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:02 PM
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How is this any different from tinder....have u seen a woman's inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:00 PM
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Thee coping is real in the comments. Online dating, a male fantasy ........
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:59 PM
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Genetic lottery doesn't do shit if u are 50 lbs overweight, more excuses. "Chad's" jawline genetics done mean shit if it's covered by chipmunk cheeks from eating a bag of dorritos a day. There's a lot of potentially good looking dudes walking around who's looks are obscured by a lack of exercise and good eating habits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:56 PM
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Lmao you can't make yourself attractive? I was 20 190lbs of flab, horrible haircuts acne, no girl wouldn't even talk to me. 2 years later I'm 160lbs, gym everyday, haircut every 5 days or so, even got my eyebrows done, and I wasn't going a month without sex. I know what its like to be sexless and unattractive. So lie to yourself , that's damn near the whole premise of this post, your excuses hold you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:47 PM
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This why I became jaded with the redpill after a while. Realised half the time it was gaslighting women into being "traditional " because now women no longer need men logistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:38 PM
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Once I achievd this, I found it kinda of depressing and insanely time consuming. Like I just simply don't enjoy entertaining multiple women and I'm introverted .... a huge energy drain. Sex is cool ,but honestly it's all perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:37 PM
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Idk if you've been to most bars ,but they are utter sausage fest most of the time. Like I said I chadfished 10 years ago and the amount I received in just an hours before the depression hit was staggering. I'm talking women proposing sex and getting fucked off the bat within a few messages, being absolute thirsty. No shortage of women, they find few men attractive on this visceral level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:26 PM
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I'll not blaming women. I'm blaming individuals who lack the will to make themselves attractive but expect attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:23 PM
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I'm not insecure so u don't give two fucks about a woman's height preference. If that's their end all be all hard-line for what they'll even co soder before dating a man then they are kinda lacking as a person to begin with in my opinion. How many good looking perfectly normal 5 10 dudes are they passing up....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:35 AM
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Seriously yo, every relationship has been a massive headache
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:35 PM

Pua is a scam u can't joke your way into some ass. She was either gonna fuck u already or you're providing her some cheap dopamine fixes a la carte attention. Women don't find funny sexy, it's just attention and attention is their drug. U wanna a clown for hoes , she'll keep you on an iv drip thinking you're one call away from some cheeks , but in reality she's just using u like a netflix documentary having u play in thr background while she's bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:04 PM

This is the problem on the internet, y'all say shit that sounds good on paper but some of u goons gotta be mad fuckjng weird or have the game of a pubescent boy. Had a friend that was 5'5, good looking sure , nothing insane, got mad women. Not u telling me your boy has 25 mil, something ain't adding up. I'm only 3 inches taller and I've stacked enough bodied to fill a russian trench.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:00 PM
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Honestly you if my relationship with my gf ends, I'll just stay single. These broads have introduced nothing but headaches. Ain't enough ball draining sex for me to nor have my peace and live life in my terms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:57 PM
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There's no skill to get women. Be attractive, don't.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 11:56 AM
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I've never felt like I needed to sit down and have a psychoanalysis of an interaction with a woman .
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 11:33 AM
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Nah forreal it really is. You can read thr comments in there and there's so many dudes thet don't know how read between the lines. The unhave someone that's already struggling to understand social cues and present them controversial and potentially harmful views and many run with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:49 AM
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We just need to close this sub snd outsource the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 08:42 AM
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thats just life in general. whats the most popular always appeals to the lowest common denominator, and probably going to be more prevalent in a sub that consists of men having issues getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 05:58 PM
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bro, i appreciate the effort to provide content that isnt another dumbass field report of a "how to dark triad your female friend by wearing her besties panties", but this reads like one of those crazy dudes on the corner preaching about the coming of christ.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 05:54 PM
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Lmao, as usual some people don't even read what is bring stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:29 AM
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Have u seen what dudes look like....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:58 PM
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Yeah my man's post history is concerning , he legit seems to not have a grasp on normal human interaction.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 07:26 AM
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If I was a girl I wouldn't go anywhere near u if this is how u act and think.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 07:12 AM
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In fact always wear a condom so she knows u stay ready. Have your sister calls mid brunch and she can pretend to be your side chick , now if your from the Appalachian mountains that won't work cause most likely she'll be your actuall side chick. Wear some nice panties so she knows you're in touch with what she wants, a man that knows her inside and out......wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 06:46 PM
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Jesus christ my guy, stop looking for cheat codes to pretend to be the dude u want to be instead of putting in the work to be him. Just by asking this shows u don't got the rizz.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 06:43 PM
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why the fuck would i be stressin. Its all positive if thats what she wants to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:44 PM
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lmao I was literally about to recommend the "manipulated man" once I saw this post, until I read a few lines down. Good shit man. Its very hard to digest cause the writing hits you in the balls and really forces you to look at yourself in the mirror as a man. Shit is mad brutal, but worth a read. If i was a woman, i wouldnt read it , but to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:42 PM
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I have no understanding of posting a field report. U struck out with a woman ok...... U got laid ok....... Dudes want cheat codes that's it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:28 PM
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Nothing remarkable, 5'8 and black. Currently dating a german as I moved to Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 PM
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If you can't get ass on a dating app, it's not gonna be easier in the real world. Y'all act as if it's an entirely different set of human beings on this app versus in person. In fact if you're an good looking dude, it's actually easier to date because you now have access to woman you wouldn't have even known existed. There's no way I can organically have the ability to get in contact with 100 plus women especially in other cities and our various lived and schedules. Either tinder voila. It fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:10 AM
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Yeah, i never cared about what other guys might be in the picture with the girls I was seeing as it was none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:11 AM
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Because their grasping at every straw to not look at themselves and realise life is a brutal competition. Not a fairy tale where everyone gets mated off with their dream partner. Loads of people will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:07 AM
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I've had multiple girls ask me to "hang out" late at night , and I was a broke soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:06 AM
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The comments are straight bs. Most men have trouble getting any female interests. Yet most people end up at some point getting married, you do the math.These women wil eventually realise the dude they want ain't going to commit ,nowhere to be found and voila......she finds guy she kinda sorta can tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:56 AM
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I'm mediocre over a comment on the internet. Go touch some grass edgelord. Even if I misinterpreted , your point, that would open up an opportunity for me to learn something, relax.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 02:27 PM
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Constantly refers to women by numerical values. Deduces simple interactions and makes a science out of it. This is just more redpill porn.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:16 AM
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Per usual all the truly insightful post on here barely get a glance. But make a post how to be a dark triad sigma alpha pussy slayer with these 10 steps and you'll have 100 comments. Dudes don't want to do better , they want cheat codes. They deserve their lives.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:10 AM
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So everyone should just give up and be mediocre. I've been progressing every year of my life.....
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 08:31 PM

Who hurt u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:01 PM
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I tried, I barely read redpill stuff anymore. I have no issues getting laid and honestly after 10 years of constant sex it won't make you happy. Fun but not happy. The redpill is going to naturally draw in frustrated horny disenfranchised men, and these men are going to tend to be lacking in the characteristics that would be conducive picking up women , having social ,and emotional skills to understand sexual cues , nuances , situations. That's why it's much easier to be a grifter, and bash wome…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 07:43 AM
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Read this back to yourself and ask is this a statement made by a man you'd have any respect for. "How to exploit emotional trauma and manipulate women into sleeping with you". I read the title and did read a single line after that. Y'all are weird.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 07:35 AM
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The fact that this is still a discussion is mindblowing.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 07:32 AM
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Idk 90%of them aren't even working out. The gym hands down is the easiest form of getting attention and validation possible. But to the other 10% mad respect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:22 PM
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It's called a debate, calm down. How would an emotionally intelligent woman be redpill if it's a niche subculture Two different things . A man can be emotional intelligent, absolute killing it in life and not know wtf the manosphere is.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:35 PM
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I never said anything about not trying. I sabotaged myself so many times thinking I had to say something "redpill " to get a girl who already said she wants to go home with me to do it. My point is thet you can get caught up in being so redpill and lack a true understanding of yourself and how people actually work.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:28 PM
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None of those things mean anything if you can't control your emotions and aren't self aware. Tons of talented amazing people who actively undermine themselves and everything they built , achieved.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:11 PM
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How can you be a leader if you lack emotional intelligence, that's a key element in the role.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:07 PM
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Seems to be the norm honestly. I'm convinced that 99% of men today ages 45 and up , if tinder had existed , most of us wouldn't have been born. I probably exist because my father was the best option within that small circle of men my mom had access to at the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 01:35 PM
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Depends, i remeber being 18 and seeing nerdy indian dudes on YouTube doing 100 cold approaches humiliating themselves, thinking that their effort would eventually reward them. When in reality they were essentially trying to fit a square peg in a whole. Doing something 100 times wrong doesn't translate to success. You have to have the right tools, and having man tits, unkempt and dressing badly doesn't do u any service.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 12:48 PM
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Most will never get it , and that's OK. There's few that will, and it will impact their lives greatly. But let's not discount the huge impact having low bodyfat has, and some muscle mass and a nice haircut. You can be the most motivated dude on the planet with a nice vibe and such and still fall flat because u aren't attractive. Gotta find that balance.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 12:45 PM
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Being alone as a man in my opinion results in a peace and freedom that can't compare.lonely at times yes, but pick your poison. Knowing that you can get women is a cool feeling. Spending your energy towards attaining them is a fools errand. For me personally, talking to multiple women is a headache, and if u are living a life worth a damn you won't want to.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 10:21 AM
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Clearly you've never been to a good party. I've been to raves and the last thing I wanted to do was hook up. If you're actively scouting for ass at a party you aren't having enough fun. If it happens it happens, but not as a main goal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:21 AM
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Exactly this. Apparently every guy with a niche according to this post is a deadbeat loser. Seems to be a lack of understanding of how people progress in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:19 AM
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The archetypes you mention are just hobbies thst a lot of guys fit into. You don't realise you can be a skater,jock,pothead, etc....and find a good job right as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:17 AM

Yeah basically, at least quick time in video games shows u what button to press.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:29 PM

I've slept with most of the women I've met the first date, meet kr whatever. I never once brought up sex, never said anything sexual to anyone. I personally don't like talking sexual, and find it to be in bad taste to be vulgar. I allowed for their to be tension, went for a kiss, and one thing leads ro blah blah blah. Unfortunately most men seem retarded. I'm convinced that women in reality choose their partners and manipulate the situation in such a way to where it appears the man is doing all …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:12 PM

💯 I don't believe in usless texting or getting to know each other on an app. She's just milking you for validation because useless attention is still attention to them, don't think it's because it will lead to something because it won't, and of it does it will feel half asked, they're probably bored or wanted a free meal. Once you meet, women are very forward if they are attracted to you. Extremely forward. Most of the women I've met for the first time, I've had sex with that day. If she starts …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:06 PM
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Hmmm my ex was pretty cool at first when I met her, but man........ the sex doesn't mean shit when they are driving you insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:36 AM
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I'm being serious, this is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:27 AM
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Isn't it implied on planet earth if someone wants to have sex with you generally speaking its because they are attracted. So dudes think spending money will make them .more attractive. Are u ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:20 AM
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Genius your fucking post says that's exactly what men are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:07 AM
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You paying for dinner doesn't make her any more attracted then before. You can't as a man complain about using your resources to get laid and then expect thst to not be the foundation of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:45 AM
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Yessir
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:35 AM
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I'll take the 3.ive had sex with boring beautiful women. It was annoying. If the 3 can suck the soul out of me, we'll damn shit...... Half the dudes commenting are full of shit. Most of you aren't even getting laid or ar in fact married, with 3's, hence the very existence of this sub and the same inane questions posted every day, but you'll jump on boring sex with a 10 over a three as if you even knew the difference........
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:32 AM

It's fucking depressing because you we were lied to about what women found attractive. Then you see that they are even horner then us, just for thr right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:42 AM

Yes the classic insult and claim to intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:53 AM
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How do you know that dudes that look like hemsworth have no personality....... That's like me saying ugly women have better personalities, on what basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:57 AM
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How do you know hemsworth doesn't have a personality? Cause muscles......
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:19 AM
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Lmao, u can't make this shit up, where's my popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:18 AM
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Clever guys? How do you know Hemsworth is less clever then middleston? You're saying we don't live in the marvel universe, but you're literally using their characters as a basis for how you perceive them when in real life it could be the complete opposite for all you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:15 AM
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Men aren't thicc, we just get fat. When women gain weight it has the possibility of accentuating certain characteristics, for us we just grow a gut and man tits. We don't get curves lmao and fat asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:12 AM
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I did it when I was in my early 20s. I thought that my profile on tinder was broken or some shit. I'm not ugly I just had no concept of how to take a good picture, which is night and day in getting matches. Used a model and my self esteem had taken a complete nose dive. 400 matches in day. With my profile I would be funny say ll sorts of witty shit thinking it would get me laid. Lmao. With the "Chad profile", I was as bland as can be and even rude and got more attention then I knew what to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:09 AM
1

People tend to do what they think is right according to society and not themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:25 AM
1

My ex is dating a guy that she told me doesn't shower and is absolutely repulsive. She says she doesn't enjoy sleeping with him. Her husband before she met , she said she wasn't interested in sex with him at some point and obviously their marriage failed. With me she was an utter nymphomaniac, tbh it was exhausting. She wanted to fuck as soon as I got off from work, getting laid to me was like going to get a drink of water from the faucet. Women will absolutely marry a man, have his kids and wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:09 AM
1

10-20% depending on the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:01 AM
1

Not enough good looking dudes quite honestly. No one wants to be alone, do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:37 AM
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" I like my hubby and his adorable little belly".......I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:35 AM
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Jesus christ , the question was can they find men like this, not , do they want to. Quick to throw the phrase misogyny around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:26 AM
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Makes sense , I've had girls show me their tinder. And both genders experience the hell hole that is online dating in their own unique way. Men can't get matches. Women do get matches but it's all shit so 🤷 If you walk into a store and the entire store sells moldy pizza, u may be hungry, but u aren't gonna eat that shit. Just finding someone somewhat decent seems to be a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:22 AM
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It's a cool discussion to be had, but is what it is, gonna get hit with " beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Which u can't refute, but we also know it's Bologna.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:14 AM
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This post is exactly why posts on ppd just turn into circular discussions. The women on here can't even answer the question. The picture was just an example , use some imagination, all of you are adults and know what an attractive man is, and yet u get the same dumbass responses about "personality " and blah blah. I can see why this makes guys irritated because they have enough experience and insight to realise most of you are just virtue signalling . Go on tinder use a stereotypical picture of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:09 AM
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Probably just pre-emptive rejection . Guys do the same. Can't tell u how many guys will say"she ain't all that", and then when the chance presents itself be all over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:01 AM
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Lmao no they aren't, this is sexist as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:59 AM
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Lmao now the male gaze is directed towards men that we find as an example of attractiveness, we just can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:58 AM
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This is some pure delusion of the highest order. Sees man that would not look her direction and states that he appeals to gay men. Nah fam he's just an exceptionally good looking man and writing this off an Incel porn is disingenuous and hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:56 AM
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I admire women for being generally socially intelligent. I the older I get the more I see how weird men can be , and how off-putting it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:35 AM
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Man kind always seems to find increasingly complicated ways to everything harder then what it should be. We could ne handed paradise and we make it hell. Be attractive don't be attractive, it's literally that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:15 PM
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Every single woman I have ever met is from the internet. I do not have issues meeting women using this.now if tinder didn't exist is be fucked,because inhale absolutely no idea how to meet women otherwise. Of I go outside and walk around whatever, there rarely is ever anyone even attractive, then are they single, will they find me attractive, how do I even facilitate the ability to even talk to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:37 PM

Nah I remember telling my gf I don't want the kid and how much she thinks it will change me. Dumb af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:17 AM
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I never said anything antagonistic towards women, I said both genders enact the same behaviour in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:30 AM

Ye old victimhood. I say date who you want. An adult is an adult, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:01 AM
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Did I not say in my first statement 🤔 men feel more justified in their behavior. That's would imply I agree with your statement. You're literally arguing with me as I agree with you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:59 AM
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Yes I agree, not sure what your argument is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:49 PM
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Life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:49 PM
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No they aren't. Women will marry a dude have his kids and not be attracted to him in the slightest. Hence dead beadrooms. Dudes will settle for whatever sometimes because that's the only opportunity they've ever had. These situations are extremely common yet taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:35 PM
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Both sides do this. Women use shaming tactics often to get men to accept them for who they are and men will complain about women only going for the top guys. Guys just feel more justified because we naturally have less options so it feels easier to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:07 AM
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If you had an abundance of options your taste would be different too. I bet 90% of people marries now wouldn't be with their current partner had they had the options they desired. Makes you really question what is "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:05 AM
1

My happiest was single, I have low empathy so thst makes it hard for me to not be self centred.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:04 PM
1

Lifting is the easiest most brain dead activity one can do that has benefits beyond what most people expect. There's no losing, there's nothing to figure out. U fucking watch some tutorials or others at the gym and lift. And yet the average man......but good I enjoy looking better then others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:46 AM
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Just be confident.....confident of what The positive side to this , is that we can build confidence from actually completing tangible goals. Women's self esteem is all smoke and mirrors and they hit a certain age and it fucking disappears. For example go on insta. Women realised all they have to do is put on a pair of gym tights , do squats with a 5 lb kettle , take some ass , and booom validation forever regardless of her actual physical abilities. For dudes, if u aren't at the very apex of phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:42 AM
2

How did women joining the job market decrease wages?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:05 AM
2

I like your response, if I had a daughter I'd like her to think of things the same way. Women don't exist be be paired off with a man and I think men today had this notion that at some point they'd naturally meet their mate when in reality all life is competition. Annoying ,but is such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:04 AM
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This is why I never got the Kevin Samuels hype. I dont want to watch women get told they arent shit for 3 hours straight. I like women, every gender has its generalized faults and you recognize shit for what it is and do what you need to do to meet your needs in a constructive manner. I dont need to watch youtubers call women hypergamous whores, just doesnt seem like a productive use of my time.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:03 PM
2

Morning olay cleanser, plus olay micro sculpt cream sculpt 30, then revitalift eye cream. Night I use the olay cleanser, then retinol, then ,olay night cream and revitalift eye cream. If I'm about for extended periods in the day I'll add on some spf 50 and so.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 02:35 PM
3

I remeber my entire dsring life 90% of the women I came across had kids, and were just in no way shape or form remotely meeting the bare minimum standards. I remeber meeting my current gf who has no kids her own job, her own place and feeling like I won the lottery to realise she's doing thr bare minimum and in today's society that puts her so much further then 90% of the women I've met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:30 AM
1

Idk I left America when I was 21 for Korea blah blah. I've spent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
2

I was 21 when I got sent to south Korea. Imagine what happens , not the best on both sides, but it was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:01 PM
14

I was massively redpilled until I realised the average guy is neither remotely attractive nor pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:42 AM

These are the same men that say," I'm 35 ,fit, make 100k, drive a bmw, and have a stable career". My guy everything you listed is financial in nature , this doesn't make you sexually attractive, it makes you out to be the very same beta bux dude that you make fun cause you're so alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:43 PM

Ive been asking myself this lately. So women now due to economic and societal freedom.coupled with birth control are now free to to choose whom they spend their time with. Even having a kid out of wedlock isn't the death knell it used to be. So having read the redpill for a decade it seems that men seem to lament that women are going for whi they truly find attractive and to be quite honest even though I'm straight, most men are quite fucking ugly. So the ones that are attractive are going to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:38 PM
2

I'm starting to understand more and more from these new posts why women are the way they are.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 12:05 PM
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A woman's sexual past doesn't matter. Yes it's a prediction of behavior to an extent , but people are people
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:58 AM
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One I read "hb6 at best"I stopped reading. You think you crushed a hoes ego. If this is how you perceive the world you're probably being laughed at.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:38 AM
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At 30 I'm not jealous of any dude that can "steal " a cheater.if it wasn't him, it was gonna be someone else .either way calling me from her phone mid sleep is beyond pussy 😴.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:25 AM
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So now you're another account to troll your own post?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 04:08 PM
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This dude is wild, lmao shooting Muslims?bro the only thing I shot is my load on broads around gods green earth, by the way you act it should have been your mom, but I'm going to italy this weekend so I'll make a detour. And idk man, maybe during an acid trip GLO will appear and give you some pointers.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 04:05 PM
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Crazy , you sound like my ex the way you type. You have this smug delusional sense of conflating your own intelligence without actually saying anything. Instead of addressing specifically what the hell it is you are talking about, you toss out word salads and then use subtle insults and deflection until the person communicating with you is so confused they just say , "fuck it". Been there done that, dealing with your type now is like walking into a room and seeing a child color on the wall and t…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:58 PM
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I've never had to manipulate a girl to have sex with me, they did it because they wanted to. I got hired because i fulfilled their requirements and then some. I doubt you're even smart enough manipulate someone.....
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:52 PM
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I didn't realise you were a time traveller, where were you a year ago when I left her?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:48 PM
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This bitch ass dude went on my post history to throw dirt because I called out his lame post. Bro we all have a past, I'm not ashamed of me having a crazy ex, u live and learn. You did what females do, toss up irrelevant dirt and deflect when you looked stupid. Lmao
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:33 PM
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Either this is a really bad attempt at sucking GlO's dick, or this is real, and if this is real I shutter to think what kind of retard women fall for your nonsense if this is the shit that takes up space in your head. Feel sorry for your wife too, cheating on her isn't a flex weirdo, if u wanted to spin plates u should have stayed and spared her feelings in the process.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:07 PM

When a woman gives up her child for adoption, does she pay chuld support to the parents that take them, why can't a man be absolved of financial liability if he states before birth he doesn't want rights to the kid. If a man after birth decides this then I believe that it's too late and he will be liable, but before no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:16 AM

It's still financial autonomy , that money he earned is his, just as her body is hers. She has a choice to keep the child regardless of what he wants, so a man should have the choice to not be financially responsible. I never said abortions should be forced, but if he explicitly states he doesn't want the child and she continues on with it, why is that his problem when she is aware of his desire to not be involved. BTW resorting to calling me immature in a discussion ironically shows a lack of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:00 AM
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Yes u are correct , so it's his money, if he doesn't want the kid, he shouldn't have to pay a dime towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:10 PM
3

Why isn't that he can't wash his hands of the fact, but if roles were reversed and she says she doesn't want the kid when he wants it she's not forced to keep it by your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:16 PM
1

So the women they sleep with aren't any less careless? Perhaps women would be more careful knowing if they choose to have a kid with a guy, the father isn't obligated if he doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:13 PM
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I don't think a man should have a say on abortion because it is her body. But if he decides he wants nothing to do with the kid, then he should be able to forfeit all rights to see the kid and financial obligation. That would change a lot of dynamics real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:52 PM
5

I consider it a blessing . I do not want society to guilt my partner into being a decent person, it's its in her hearts desire to fuck that dude, then so be it. How many dudes get woken up to "I love u" only to have the neighbours balls deep in her the following day. Let's just lay reality out on the table.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 07:10 AM
5

Funny i had just been thinking about this for a while. Humans actively make life more complicated and ridiculous then it should ever be. We could be given a utopia one free of disease and plenty for everyone, and we'd find a way to fuck it up and then some. If everyone on this planet was white, people would find some way to discriminate. Just the fact that the redpill even exists Indicates something is wrong.that a large segment of men are failing to attract women who largely aren't even worth t…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 04:09 AM
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I know exactly what u mean, my ex at some point supported me for 3 months while I was broke and unemployed , helped me out with quite a but, so reconciling reality with what she eventually did and her behaviour afterwards was a mindfuck. I was literally paranoid and scared to leave my apartment at dome point figuratively because if the person I had known for 4 years did this to me, why wouldn't anyone else. Plus how fast it happens. We didn't just breakup, the literal day I found out mine cheate…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 03:56 AM
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I dint think women have insane standards, most men are just ugly as shit and dint bother to out in remotely any effort to looking physically appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:55 PM
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there's some weird people out there . Before I knew and she was still my girlfriend at, the dude she left me before called me at 6am with her phone to tell me it was over and that I was a pussy, and to ask if we were still fucking. The guy she cheated on me with continued to harass me for some time, for reasons I dont really get. I got a good laugh of it because It donned on my that my ex cheated on me with a guy that became obsessed with me.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 06:36 PM
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Dude be happy. I know you dont see it now, because its a lot of emotion to process, but I was in your situation about a year ago. The usual shenanigans, i started to see signs of my ex cheating, and she swore to the gods, and blah blah, she was lying. Dont make any concessions and try to appeal in anyway to get her back. She wants another dude , for the time being until something maybe happens in their relationship. If by some chance she got back with you, you'd look in the mirror everyday and s…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 06:33 PM
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wtf, if my girl wants to fuck someone else , shit she can go. She's a grown ass women, who knows what she is doing, and she knows the consequences. If she meets some dude at work and forms an emotional connection and starts texting him often and I find out and she cuts it off, you dont think theres another guy around the corner? Not my job to police a woman and her actions, its my job to serve my interest and act within my power safeguard myself from anothers person's nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 11:49 AM

Op is insane, she creates circular arguments and contradicts herself with every statement. At no point does she explain what cheating does to justify willingly being ina relationship with a man who supports her..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:47 PM

College age students don't know better. They are literally grown men and women getting an education..........
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:45 PM

So these woman who out of their own free will according to your logic don't want to pursue degrees with high paying jobs because they don't want money, yet choose to be financially dependant on someone who makes this sort of money. You not oy contradict yourself, but choose to insult women by creating silly arguments that they are helpless and can't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:44 PM

Why would this guy be any different. Your argument make no sense. If her being financially dependant keeps placing her in these problems, why is she does she continue to allow this to happen.what does this have to do with her cheating , is this post a confession 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:41 PM

Please don't have kids, u can't possible think like this. Why is she financially dependant upon her boyfriend . Plus why would she move into a place where her name isn't on the lease with no finances to fall on. What if my ass explodes tomorrow on my way to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:38 PM

U think men don't get raped, how the hell did we go from women being financially dependent them being raped on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:34 PM

So like a lot of men...... what makes her special
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:09 PM

It's scary u aren't trolling, umm the woman has a choice to not be financially dependent, we are all responsible for our choice , man or woman or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:09 PM

..........sometimes it seems like people choose when they want to be empowered and when they want to be a victim. Being financially dependant is a choice, u weren't sold into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:53 PM

Why are they getting married? This post makes no sense. Would he marry her knowing she's not attracted to him, would he be ok with her cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:43 PM

Then if my or gf gets fat and cuts off her hair can I cheat by this same logic.......?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah it taught me a lot. There are people out there who will try to destroy you because they can. No reason at all. I will not hangout with any female coworkers, I will not be alone in a room with them.........
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:36 AM
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I got accused of sexual harassment in the army by a woman I had only engaged with on a professional level. In fact I was the screener for the doctor , asked basic questions to free-up the doctors talked to the woman for all of 10 minutes and 6 months later I'm.being told i harassed her. I had to ask who it was and the date to figure out who the fuck they were even talking about. My name dragged through the mud by a woman and still to this day 10 years later I have no idea what I did. No men shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:32 AM
1

Nothing would change, our standards would adjust accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:14 AM
3

Who knows, I dint really need trp anymore, but occasionally I like to hear a good discussion or hear an interesting perspective, but that's been rare on here lately.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/23 04:03 AM
3

So you tell yourself that hot men are dumb to feel better, which isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:57 AM
1

No this is over thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:39 AM

Can't believe I used to read that shit when I was 18,19.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:38 AM
1

I live in Europe and trust me I know, it's quite unnerving because even though I'm black myself.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 12:47 PM
1

I have 4 female best friends... that say........, bro stfu How the hell do u even have 4 female best friends . I've never as an adult interacted with a woman that at some point wasn't down to fuck and u want to tell me none of these women see u as an option?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 11:44 AM
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